So happy to see you. I regret for what I said before, I sounded angry. I apologize. I'm an engineer too and it can be hefty work. So i understand you. Too little time so much to do. Like I said before I haven't been my self lately. Apologies. I send you a big hug n kisses. Wish you well always. Thanks for your channel. It's the best. Have you thought about helping young people become what they want in life? You are a natural at helping others. You bring the good in others. It's just a thought to let your mind wonder. Maybe you can become a great psicologist or something like that in the future. You are young and with a full future ahead. Waiting to see your next vid. Peace my man. You are The Best 😊 Carlos
@Michael David Dixon cool beans the ironic thing is god didn't write the Bible neither did Jesus but people act as if they did it all about interpretation
25k! Happy for you, dude! You’ve definitely helped me along in my journey of being an openly bisexual male. Also, CJ? Not sure if I’ve heard you say that before haha
Interesting responses to questions. You have come a long way. You are at 25 K! I remember when you were at 8,000 and things like that. I watched you go through school, deal with so much change. You grew too. The important thing is what you have learned about life and yourself. You take care Courtney.
I haven’t been here since the beginning, but I’ve been watching you for a few years now, and I’ve always enjoyed the videos you put out. You’re a very likable, very real guy. And I thought your idea of what you would do for your mother if you were rich was truly touching and lovely.
Hi Courtney, I told you I am very proud of you on another video. I want to also say that your role model is very helpful for many people who might find confused on their sexualities. And give them some positive enegies to lead a happy life as yours. Congrats once again from a (assured) gay guy from Hong Kong 😊😊
Many congratulations Courtney! I'm a new subscriber after having seen several of your videos recommended by TH-cam. You're a truly amazing and wonderful person. All that you think, feel, speak and share is helpful, honest and evolved and appreciated.
So I have a request for a video covering a pair of topics: you mentioned in a video that you liked being in a relationship with only one other individual, that you liked someone belonging to you and belonging to someone else, and went as far as to say that it was actually “selfish”. I’d like to know why you consider that sort of selfishness acceptable(if you do), when selfishness is generally considered unacceptable; and perhaps a more general topic: to the extent that you consider sexuality important, why is that so? You’ve said that you like conversation; to that end, I hope this starts one-though I could envision it getting quite lengthy! (Please forgive me if these are redundant topics, as I have only watched a few vlogs.) Unrelated, I just wanted to say that how you interact with the folks who watch your vlogs is admirable; I respect immensely that you are not simply talking to people, but rather talking with them.
Courtney-Jai Yeah, I was thinking about that myself-how to structure a conceivable response to what are tantamount to philosophical questions. Maybe it’s more simple(the structure) than we think. Maybe they are simply “why?” questions. In any event, thank you kindly for at least considering it. Stay well.
I feel people should have an experience at least once with the same sex so they can understand others who choose to live how they wish with open an mind .
I just want to share this. Here in the Philippines if you have girlfriend, you're no longer treated as gay or bisexual (Based on my observation). And they said "Thank God, We thought you wouldn't change. Congrats" 😌 they'll accept who we are but they are also hoping that we will change (into straight one) someday. ☹️
I don't like label words like "gay", "straight" and "bisexual". People should just be themselves without having to use labels on themselves or each other.
Hey Courtney, congratz on 25k! I know you mentioned in some older vids about rejection. I went through this about 8 months ago with someone and it was such an utterly complicated situation. He was asexual and I am bi. Long ass story like something out of a fucked up novel 😂, not gonna put it here but it was an emotional clusterfuck for both of us 😞. Anyway, I've moved forward since then but still having issues with having them stuck in my head. I feel like I've created a false version of them in my mind that only possesses their good traits 🙄. So, I am wondering if you've ever been in love previously and had to deal with the constant thinking about them? And if so how did you overcome it? Or just your thoughts in general on unrequited love especially among LGBT people. Much love, Dan
Well I wasn't in love but I did have a massive crush once and it broke my heart , the way I got over it is one they were never going to be the one for you , two I'm young enough to know that life goes on and thirdly everything happens for a reason I would have never met April and I wouldn't be as happy as I am now if it's wasn't for that rejection
@@Courtney-Jai These are all good points, I know this too deep down but somehow it's still hard to shake the thoughts. Maybe it's gonna take falling in love again with someone else to fully recover I guess 🤷♂️
I can see some of that but I think blank statements like that can insult alot of openly gay people who have gone through serious struggles to be who they are
I kinda lost interest in him I used to love him like 5 years ago but like most TH-camrs these days he seems I bit fake like there's no passion in what they do anymore
Yeay, angel, best or one of the best series, with at least on bisexual character.and lorne is underrated. And donttry to be cool, you lookcool when you dont try to be cool.
Just a thought here, you don't get grief for being bi, BUT, you have a girlfriend not a boyfriend. Have you talked to bi guys with boy friends how they get treated.
The problem with bisexuality is if you date a man you're seen as gay if you date a women you're as straight there's no winning really no matter who your happy with people just see you as fraud even though if I was to compare to anything I would say just because someone's straight doesn't mean their attracted to every women they meet same for if someone's gay. The advice I'd give is don't care about other people's opinions just people happy living your life.
And I do get grief all you have to do is scroll through the comments someone on this very video has called my girlfriend a bitch when all she does is love me for me
@@Courtney-Jai Those people I pay no mind to, and guys who do the when are you going to chose, I stop talking to. My oddest moments come up when I'm in a group of gay men and they find out I'm bi.
I'm a massive gamer got a degree in it , also own about 20 different consoles got my first playstation at 4 and haven't looked back I still own my first ever game
@@Courtney-Jai He said "bro, you talk too fast, my God" 😂 So I said that I subcribed to your channel because I liked your accent (and you're cute) hahahaha Kisses from Brazil! ❤
Hey everyone justed wanted to say thank you for all the support you give me it means alot
Congratulations!
Congrats CJ
So happy to see you. I regret for what I said before, I sounded angry. I apologize. I'm an engineer too and it can be hefty work. So i understand you. Too little time so much to do. Like I said before I haven't been my self lately. Apologies. I send you a big hug n kisses. Wish you well always. Thanks for your channel. It's the best.
Have you thought about helping young people become what they want in life? You are a natural at helping others. You bring the good in others. It's just a thought to let your mind wonder. Maybe you can become a great psicologist or something like that in the future. You are young and with a full future ahead.
Waiting to see your next vid. Peace my man. You are The Best 😊
Carlos
Awww but your watching ever video and really helping the channel out so I thank you especially for the support
@Michael David Dixon cool beans the ironic thing is god didn't write the Bible neither did Jesus but people act as if they did it all about interpretation
25k! Happy for you, dude! You’ve definitely helped me along in my journey of being an openly bisexual male.
Also, CJ? Not sure if I’ve heard you say that before haha
Somthing I used to say a long time ago you could also call me cockney that was my nickname at work
Courtney-Jai Oh sweet, a response! CJ sounds good, I like it 👌
Interesting responses to questions. You have come a long way. You are at 25 K! I remember when you were at 8,000 and things like that. I watched you go through school, deal with so much change. You grew too. The important thing is what you have learned about life and yourself. You take care Courtney.
I haven’t been here since the beginning, but I’ve been watching you for a few years now, and I’ve always enjoyed the videos you put out. You’re a very likable, very real guy. And I thought your idea of what you would do for your mother if you were rich was truly touching and lovely.
Thank you it's just something I think about from time to time
Love watching your videos. You help inspire me. Keep up the good work. 25 k is great. You will continue to see more people view I know.
Well thank you I'm happy you like the channel
After your tweeted about the umbrella academy I decided to give it ago and I'm enjoying it a lot, thanks for the recommendation 😁
Awesome it's also written by the lead singer of my chemical romance which is pretty cool
I'm a new subscriber and I love your channel! Thank you from a fellow bisexual
Hi Courtney, I told you I am very proud of you on another video. I want to also say that your role model is very helpful for many people who might find confused on their sexualities. And give them some positive enegies to lead a happy life as yours.
Congrats once again from a (assured) gay guy from Hong Kong 😊😊
Many congratulations Courtney! I'm a new subscriber after having seen several of your videos recommended by TH-cam. You're a truly amazing and wonderful person. All that you think, feel, speak and share is helpful, honest and evolved and appreciated.
That's really cool of you to say thank you
Im so happy for u ive warched u since the beginning ty so much
Love what you’re doing! keep going. Doing good in le youtube world
Congrats Mr Jai🎆🎇 here's to 25,000 more. ♥️♥️Ello to April
So I have a request for a video covering a pair of topics: you mentioned in a video that you liked being in a relationship with only one other individual, that you liked someone belonging to you and belonging to someone else, and went as far as to say that it was actually “selfish”. I’d like to know why you consider that sort of selfishness acceptable(if you do), when selfishness is generally considered unacceptable; and perhaps a more general topic: to the extent that you consider sexuality important, why is that so? You’ve said that you like conversation; to that end, I hope this starts one-though I could envision it getting quite lengthy!
(Please forgive me if these are redundant topics, as I have only watched a few vlogs.)
Unrelated, I just wanted to say that how you interact with the folks who watch your vlogs is admirable; I respect immensely that you are not simply talking to people, but rather talking with them.
Well thank you I will try my best to do something along those lines as videos just got to figure out how to structure it
Courtney-Jai Yeah, I was thinking about that myself-how to structure a conceivable response to what are tantamount to philosophical questions. Maybe it’s more simple(the structure) than we think. Maybe they are simply “why?” questions.
In any event, thank you kindly for at least considering it. Stay well.
Well thank you for suggesting it
Enjoyed the video! You talk fast. So do I so I can understand you lol! Congrats on 25k!
Yeah sometimes I talk to fast for my brain. And my mouth lol
CONGRATS!!!! Love it :)
Love you!!
I clicked sooo fast , love ur vids
Love ya Courtney!! Congrats on 25k 😀
Thanks man I know you've been watching for a while now
Congrats man. 25k x 👍
Yay, thanks for answering my question
No problem thanks for watching the video
Btw congrats for hitting 25000!!!
Thank you 😋
Congrats!!
Congrats to 25k 🎉
You're so cute and inspiring at the same time hahaha
Well thank you 😋
I feel people should have an experience at least once with the same sex so they can understand others who choose to live how they wish with open an mind .
I think people should just open minded
I just want to share this. Here in the Philippines if you have girlfriend, you're no longer treated as gay or bisexual (Based on my observation). And they said "Thank God, We thought you wouldn't change. Congrats" 😌 they'll accept who we are but they are also hoping that we will change (into straight one) someday. ☹️
Yeah alot of people think that I've had people tell me well you have a girlfriend so you've made your choice
I don't like label words like "gay", "straight" and "bisexual". People should just be themselves without having to use labels on themselves or each other.
I'm not a big fan of labels myself I only use them to try address people who might be having a hard time with sexuality
Great face, deep thoughts, kind heart.
Thank you , kind words (thought I'd carry it on)
Hey Courtney, congratz on 25k!
I know you mentioned in some older vids about rejection. I went through this about 8 months ago with someone and it was such an utterly complicated situation. He was asexual and I am bi. Long ass story like something out of a fucked up novel 😂, not gonna put it here but it was an emotional clusterfuck for both of us 😞.
Anyway, I've moved forward since then but still having issues with having them stuck in my head. I feel like I've created a false version of them in my mind that only possesses their good traits 🙄.
So, I am wondering if you've ever been in love previously and had to deal with the constant thinking about them? And if so how did you overcome it? Or just your thoughts in general on unrequited love especially among LGBT people.
Much love, Dan
Well I wasn't in love but I did have a massive crush once and it broke my heart , the way I got over it is one they were never going to be the one for you , two I'm young enough to know that life goes on and thirdly everything happens for a reason I would have never met April and I wouldn't be as happy as I am now if it's wasn't for that rejection
@@Courtney-Jai These are all good points, I know this too deep down but somehow it's still hard to shake the thoughts. Maybe it's gonna take falling in love again with someone else to fully recover I guess 🤷♂️
Just takes time but you will get there
I reckon that all men have homosexual impulses. Some men have strong impulses, some have weak impulses. Some show them, most hide them.
I can see some of that but I think blank statements like that can insult alot of openly gay people who have gone through serious struggles to be who they are
quick question are you a dog or cat person
Cat or dog but mainly cat
Dog , dog
I’m pretty much both. We had both dogs and cats growing up, and I always got along with both.
I'm a both person, I can't get enough of either
Dogs, obviously. I have 3 dachshunds. 🐕🐕🐕
I feel like I know you more that I use to now after this video haha
Haha fair enough bro I guess I did talk about some stuff I never mentioned before
Yay, you like Buffy 😍 it's my all time favourite show 😄
I literally finished watching the whole series again with April like last week she had never seen it before
@@Courtney-Jai And I just started re-watching it 😊 I hope April liked it as well 😅
Oh she loved it her favourite character was spike mines Xander
@@Courtney-Jai I'm glad ^^ mine is Spike, too 😅
You and her would get on well then
another buffy fan!!!
Of course I still remember the order it was on TV when I was a kid fresh prince , Simpsons then buff
Joey Graceffa I'm obsessed with his stuff at the moment, just got into his music/channel recently
I kinda lost interest in him I used to love him like 5 years ago but like most TH-camrs these days he seems I bit fake like there's no passion in what they do anymore
@@Courtney-Jai ah it's grand
You should checkout the Doom Patrol. It’s about Damaged heroes trying to find their place in the world
I've heard its good
No hate, you look like you have black n blue around your eye. Speaking of eyes, fantastically beautiful
Probably from tireness I've been working alot
I love your accent 😍😍😍 which accent is urs???
I'm from the west midlands I don't really have an accent per say
If you like games so much, why not stream on twitch?
And, have you decided to get VR? Just saying because it's an EXPERIENCE
And i'm surprised that's its only 25k, should be 7 billion
That's very sweet of you I like playing games and maybe one day I'll make a twitch
I was thinking of getting vr for my playstation
Not sure about anyone else, but I'd tune in 24/7. @@Courtney-Jai
Yeay, angel, best or one of the best series, with at least on bisexual character.and lorne is underrated.
And donttry to be cool, you lookcool when you dont try to be cool.
Exactly yeah I like him also like gun he's pretty cool
Courtney Jai and I have a lot in common especially music
That's really cool as I get older I start to appreciate a more varied choice in music
@@Courtney-Jai I agree
@@Courtney-Jai I personally think it's great to be open minded, Actually do you take any questions from G-mail? Just asking
@@niamhbarrett7973 yeah I do I prefer being contacted through Instagram it's just easier saves my emails getting clogged up
@@Courtney-Jai ya makes sense,say if I followed you can you follow me,
Just a thought here, you don't get grief for being bi, BUT, you have a girlfriend not a boyfriend. Have you talked to bi guys with boy friends how they get treated.
The problem with bisexuality is if you date a man you're seen as gay if you date a women you're as straight there's no winning really no matter who your happy with people just see you as fraud even though if I was to compare to anything I would say just because someone's straight doesn't mean their attracted to every women they meet same for if someone's gay. The advice I'd give is don't care about other people's opinions just people happy living your life.
And I do get grief all you have to do is scroll through the comments someone on this very video has called my girlfriend a bitch when all she does is love me for me
@@Courtney-Jai Those people I pay no mind to, and guys who do the when are you going to chose, I stop talking to. My oddest moments come up when I'm in a group of gay men and they find out I'm bi.
wait youre a gamer too holy shit
I'm a massive gamer got a degree in it , also own about 20 different consoles got my first playstation at 4 and haven't looked back I still own my first ever game
Courtney-Jai nice! I’m a huge gamer myself
Can someone help me come out. Please reply and please tell me too cuz I don’t want my mom or dad to hate me
You can always chat to me on my Instagram
I AM IN LOVE WITH YOU COURTNEY _JAI
Mano tu fala muito rápido, my God
Vei, eu me inscrevi nesse canal só por causa do sotaque desse cara KKKKKKK
E ele é lindinho tb xD
É verdade
Is there an English translation to this the only bit I understand is my god haha
@@Courtney-Jai
He said "bro, you talk too fast, my God" 😂
So I said that I subcribed to your channel because I liked your accent (and you're cute) hahahaha
Kisses from Brazil! ❤
I said: man, you speak so fast.
You can get this bbc bro hit me up
Oooo---this is for---like and subaribe------sad
Hello