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To all the ladies out there: let men speak freely. The more they talk, the more they reveal their true nature, often hidden beneath the surface, leaving little room for misplaced hope. Itâs wise advice that could protect you from disappointment. And remember, adopt a dog-they are far more loyal, protective, and faithful than most men
Actually thatâs a really great advice. I definitely ganna use it. Thank you girl ððð
Agreed but I feel like this goes both ways.
Men are deceptive, saying whatever it takes to impress or manipulate just to gain attention on a date, hiding their true intentions beneath a charming facade, but once theyâre in especially after marriage , their true colors-often deceptive and self-centered-start to show,leaving partners feeling trapped and disillusioned.
Men are deceptive, saying whatever it takes to impress or manipulate just to gain attention on a date, hiding their true intentions beneath a charming facade, but once theyâre in, their true colors-often deceptive and self-centered-start to show, leaving partners feeling trapped and disillusioned.
Men are* deceptive, saying whatever it takes to impress or manipulate just to gain attention on a date, hiding their true intentions beneath a charming facade, but once theyâre in, their true colors-often deceptive and self-centered*-start to show, leaving partners feeling trapped and disillusioned.
And some people wonder why most korean women dont want to get married.
Most?? you believe what every TH-cam video tell into real life??
â@@yusrilyusril2381 you still have a doubt ?? Korean birth rate is already near 0%......
That's because of economy fool!
@@yusrilyusril2381A simple google search would tell you thereâs data supporting this claim.
Its just drama or movie
It s fantadyð
this group are just the tip of the iceberg, iâm sure so many of our favorite actors have the same beliefs but they just werenât dumb enough to get caught..
Exactly. When it comes to korean celebs, I like looking at their faces and that's it. Because there are too many instances of misogyny within the society that it's hard for me to believe that most of them do not think this way as well. When i see people say "my fav could never" or "he raised the standard" i felt like laughing because those celebs are most probably performing for the camera.
â@@asmrlowkey5043I mean, they are performers after all. Can't be hard for them to fool us.
@@mabuixa
If one has life experience and knowledge of human nature, it should not be a problem to recognize âThe red Flagâ.
A healthy distrust is also important. If men over the age of 35 are neither married nor have a girlfriend, there may be reasons for this.
If he has had various girlfriends up to this age and the relationship has never lasted long, absolute caution is advised. Men over 40 OR 40+ are difficult.
Either in character or simply too old. When I was 27, I would never have married a man who was 40 or over 40+. That would be an age difference of over 10 years.
It goes in the direction of âsugar daddyâ and I don't like that. Besides, I don't have a father complex that would make me want to marry an old man.
Their attitude to life, tastes and circle of friends are completely different.
If there is such a big age difference, the husband or sugar daddy won't like it if the wife has a circle of friends.
He sees competition or danger in EVERYTHING and EVERYONE. This is not a marriage but rather a hell.
The wives are not allowed to have friends and hobbies either, they only have to look after sugar daddy. Just thinking about it makes me depressed.
That's why depression and suicides are so common in SK.
@@asmrlowkey5043 All of them are just actors, portraying characters & I'm sure their offscreen persona is totally different from what they keep showing on screen lol. Luckily I'm not one of those girls who keeps mentioning their Oppas as if those Oppas will look at them in real life
no such thing would happen nowadays, they recieve thorough PR training now ð nobody's allowed to run their mouths free like that anymore
Average Korean male's behaviour ð
Fr
True
As if only male koreans, all Human guys wants a reliable and resilient wife
How many Korean males do you know? That's as dismissive as comments you consider sexist or mysogynist
â@@yelmanangan949 many guys don't want to get married and some guys want to marry other men
Some men shouldn't be opening their mouths tbh
May be are geys
Lmao ð
Itâs better for them to open their mouths, so the women can stay away from men that have these opinions.
@@jacquelineg9112 Right. Reveal yourself, so we don't waste our time.
You should close both you upper lips nd lower lips bcoz too much po**n ruined your life
That's your "Oppa" everyone.
Yes, that's exactly why I am like oppa very much ð
Americans and British are the worst
Hope you meant them so you can get shamed in person ðĪļâšïļâ@@emmasharna7708
â@@emmasharna7708I see....so desperate to get picked up by your opparsð
Not everyone are same bt many are like this
This does not surprise me as it is expected of an average Korean man with a typical patriarchal perspective. But what baffles me is that they have the confidence to say such remarks in a public space where they know that they have considerable influence. I'd like to believe that k-dramas are just fantasy and it would be lucky to come across such men in real life that too in a country like South Korea
They have such confidence because their society and the law backs them up. They feel entitled and the patriarchal hierarchical structure allows it. The Koreans have a particular hatred for women.
But park seojun is right. You dont know how difficult mom feels to manage house kids and job. And seojun said only house first preference. Whats wrong inthat he respected house wife how many men does this. Ive seem men complainkng abusing eofe to do job and take care lf house.
@@anita2053-r1f Whether to be a housewife if possible should be a choice, not to be forced on a women.
Can you similar thing to a man...to sit in house 24X7 and take care of children?
typical haters judging a country based on what some problematic channels as this one tell you, while everyone who was there even once already said something else.
@@mohini2701 no one is forcing anything, there is nothing wrong with saying what kind of woman you like and want you haters just love to missinterpret things just to cry around.
"she should leave her job to take care of HER family" why don't you pursue a non working women instead of an working one then? and "her family" ?? is it only her responsibility tf?
Majority of men in the world expect their wife to take over the role of mom = do all the hard work for free
Statically, housewifes suffer domestic violence the most. An abused victim is not a better mother than a working mother
The significance a woman plays in raising her children has been downplayed. Children raised in a 2 parent household, where one stays home & cares for the children, are more stable & successful in life. Kids raised by single moms are less successful & more likely to get into crime. Do some research!! Kids raised in 2 parent families will do better in life!
â@@rmartinez4165 This discussion is not about single mothers, though. It's about a household with both parents working. And the point still stands... why doesn't he just find an unemployed woman? Or a woman who doesn't want to work?
Sometimes people who like their wife to leave their job are those who finds people with no job lazy and are not fit to stay with them.
They just want to see powerful women to bow to them and submit to their wishes.
Now i know why park seo jun never passed the vibe check for me...gut feeling was right
RightâĶI thought it was just me..
Same!!!!!!!! He never gave me the vibe i like from k male lead. Didn't know why. But now seems right
@@oishy6609 right? Such a misogynist
Park Seo Joon also made weird comments about kissing actresses in a show.. I forget it, but since then I have always thought he's a perv
I used to feel bad to had that feeling but now i don't
The whole korean society is obsessed with beauty standards. But when someone shares their ideals as a reflection of those standards, suddenly the society acts offended. Pretty hypocritical and projecting on the actors to above norms.
I'm sorry! Mostly Koreans don't have fully rights to comment when it comes to physical appearance! Most especially when you're not that good looking ððð and as well as mostly in general, undergoes/underwent plastic and cosmetic surgery ððð Rhinoplasty is soooooooo common because you can only count Koreans with n8ce bridge nose! Mostly they'll make it so pointy and mostly looking not so good ð
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NO KIDDING!!!
true they like drama
fr
in korea , you are subjected to violence if you are openly described yourself feminist . In comment section, many people are dellusionally supporting park seo joon statements as "preference " . In a society , where women are criticsed and degraded or humiliated for going beyond tradional roles , for a successful man easily stating his mysogynist instance as preference shows his man's priviledge and mindset. First perosnal preferences can be criticised . If personal preference supporting conservative and sexist attitude then , it will recieve criticism ..criticising also a personal preference . Second seeing woman fit for tradtional role is supporting the patrirachal mindset ..
Couldn't agree more ðŊðŊðŊ
Sadly it's common in south asian countries.
Statically, housewifes suffer domestic violence the most. An abused victim is not a better mother than a working mother
That is so true! Housewives and househusbands do a lot of work for free and still get abused.
â@@TrinhNguyen-sh4fjhousehusbands doesn't exist ððð
@@TrinhNguyen-sh4fjyou do it not for money but because of love. Not everything must be transaction in life. You can create good relationships that based on money
I didnât know women were the only victim of domestic violences
@atiblink Most victims are women.that's the sad truth.
So disappointed to see people defending Park Seo Joon's statements. Having a preference for a stay-at-home wife is one thing, but saying that children should be raised entirely by the moms and ones who're raised by working moms turn out problematic isn't a harmless opinion- that's a comment made on thousands (if not millions) of families, which he is not entitled to.
If he is entitled to making such comments, then the audience is also entitled to their reactions of criticizing him.
EXACTLY. These women really be willing to leave their dignity out the door for a f*cking man
Someone remind Park Seo about Barrack Obama
nothing wrong with it its his opinion he didnt insult anyone like you haters try to do and always get riled up over nothing just to blame famous people for your own lifes.
@@pruitv4 He did not insult anyone? He said people who didnât grow up with a mother end up becoming delinquents. WTF
@@pruitv4 LMAO, I literally explained in my comment what the difference between an opinion and judgement is and you still went ahead and commented this.
The plural for 'life' is 'lives', btw.
So proud of the 4B movement in South Korea 100000000% support the women
What's 4B movement by the way??
â@@taniabhattacharjee69204B movement is a radical feminist movement that originated in South Korea. Its proponents do not date men, marry men, have sex with men, or have children with men.
@@taniabhattacharjee6920 Google it for more information :) In short, it's the "4 no", so women saying no to sex with men, no to marrying men, no to dating men and no to having children.
These men sound like US men of the 1950's.
No, US men are still that bad and even worse, trying to strip women of all rights. ð
Exactly, Korea is living like on the 50s
Thanks for timeline
So true
Socially, SK will never overcome this outdated way of thinking. These standards of society that SK upholds are really 70 years old.
In the long run, such things are never successful and are doomed to fail.
This also deters tourists who do not like this way of thinking. For modern thinking tourists, SK is not worth the trip.
I feel bad for laughing. I cackled during this whole segment. Who even thinks of sh*t like that? I can't believe these grown men think that way. These are all actors I love. Now I am truly annoyed. UGH
This is exactly why i stopped liking male celebs.
Yeah, at the end of the day they are just men
The Reason why I stop watching K-drama .... Also I stop listening kpop too ....
OK but yalll gotta think not all male idols are like that. You stop liking k-pop/K dramas because of 10+ stupid immature idols.They are literally thousands of other idols.... Like I know we don't know what they are like off camera but I know there are nice idols.. Just like not everyone on this earth is rude. There are some rude idols and nice ones. Just like people on earth. There are mean people on earth . My opinion though. I respect us. Sorry for my rambling ð
â@@OliviaJones-kt8im stop defending man
Most man especially in Korea are like that
There's several cases
Korean women have been screaming their lungs out on average man
Korean man nowdays are same as Indian man
So many misogynist in the comments.
Fr... And i think they are women ðĨī
can you be a misogynist woman?
As long it's their oppa, these betches would even justify killing babiesðĪ·ðĪ·
â@@bitchesassproductions5308 Ofc, women can be misogynist falling for a$$es, like u, maybe? Lol. Shut it, wh0re.
*misogynists
I just noticed that some of them are not good looking at all..
Especially those who comment negatively to a woman.
All butterface agree lmao lame ass losers hope they never get kids
I'm sorry but this is so funny ð
Same for Park Hae Jin, I didn't like him in Doctor Stranger... Not for the negative role but he is not good looking, he is just tall and white....
I see so many comments on Park Seo Joon, but almost no one commented on Yoo Yoon Seok, I feel like what he is said was one of the worst things he could say to a woman. And to his co-star at the top of that. That level of disrespect!!
Btw, turtlenecks are very elegant if styled properly, actually many women I know who wear turtlenecks have a great sense of style. I don't think you have to wear revealing clothing to look beautiful and if he wants so see skin so much he should date a striptizer. Or better, not date at all as striptizers also deserve respect as human beings.
Agree!!
Glad never liked Yoo Yoon Seok! His comment was the worst!
Finally someone said it ððŧ
I feel like it's good they opedly bad mouth or discriminate about women. It better to know them now than later. It could be too late. Many evil are good at wearing mask. That will be more scary
True let them show their true colors so you know immediately if you like it or not.
Yoo Ah In accusing someone of being an addict while he himself is one is insane ð
almost as insane as han seo hee trying to call someone out for being a fake feminist, because she is such a voice for women for womenâs issues ð
but technically it doesnât have to mean he call her an addict so much as taking a dig at her being caught, because she is more known for being a dealer than a user. on top of that, sheâs infamous for always getting away with it by dragging random peopleâs names in with hers and using her family connections.
LIKE???? Crackheads are so funny I swearð
He wasnât wrong tho. Sheâs been in jail multiple times for drugs, both possessing them and selling them.
Lol I can't believe Stephanie Soo tricked me into having empathy for him. He's a POS and can go to hell
Well he wasnât wrong.
If you want a housewife who doesn't do a job then he should learn to respect his wife. How many people insult the housewife or make her a toy to vent out their stress Because they cannot pay. If anyone sees a housewife in a video, people start commenting that she is a gold digger. I have always seen people making fun of housewives. Because of this, many women do not want to become housewives because people do not respect them.
*"Because of this, many women do not want to become housewives because people do not respect them â* true words.
The MaDAME above us doesn't get any respect on the street because she doesn't want to work. She is also extremely lazy.
Now I'm over 10 years older than this MaDAME and I rock the place. I'm respected by the residents in our street, but not by the lazy and bad mother/MADAM above us.
MaDAME above us tends to be jealous and shows me no respect. She is not only lazy but a very bad mother and not a role model.
The residents know this and show me respect as a working wife. One politician said to us:
*âThose unwilling to work should have respect for the working people and the better off (MONY,MONEY)!â*
In our country, the lazy are not only too lazy, but have no respect for people who work hard.
Their own husband don't even respect them.
That's true. Society supports men for wanting "non-working wives who will stay at home" in the disguise of "preference", yet shame women for stating that we want a financially stable man. If you're gonna cut off a woman's source of income to provide for her needs and leisure, you bet your ahh she'll look for someone who can and will do that for her. It's the most basic logic.
@@MINOUTFTABOU I think that your reasoning has a twist only directed to one side... Yes, it is true that a "housewife" has no respect or recognition, but that is due to the confinement to which a sexist vision condemned her, because culturally any woman who wanting to aspire to something else was frowned upon and condemned by an entire society since the rest of the tasks and professions were monopolized by a man... The problem is not that a woman wants to stay at home, if that is her will. The problem has been that for many centuries women were not allowed to play another character, much less if the idea was raised that that character was above a man. I was never interested in staying as a "housewife", nor was having children an event that made me feel fulfilled... since I was very little, art has been my passion and not because of the respect I obtained in this profession (like you are saying) it is because I love this profession and it is simply because, as happens with men, not everyone wants to be engineers, lawyers, fathers of families... etc. and currently that is the door that has opened for women... DECIDE WHAT YOU WANT TO BE BECAUSE IT IS WHAT YOU LIKE MOST IN LIFE... not what a sexist society imposes on you... So if a woman does not choosing to be a housewife is not simply because she does not find respect in it, it is because her aspirations in life are different as every human being.
the amount of people (esp women themselves) defending Park Seo's misogynyst beliefs are sickening. I loved him so much as an actor and just came to know about this. No matter how much good of an actor he is, it doesnt change the fact that he has ugly and unjust beliefs. It's not preference, it's called a stereotype. And the way he said that to the public...the audacity...
nothing wrong with it its his opinion he didnt insult anyone like you haters try to do and always get riled up over nothing just to blame famous people for your own lifes.
@@pruitv4 he won't marry you lol
@@aornivamasood9606 typical haters who dont know what else to say when confronted with the truth.
@@pruitv4 bruh, why do you keep copy- pasting the same thing? acting like a bot...
@@pruitv4 wdym "haters"?? why would you think I'll hate someone for no reason lmao?? as I mentioned in my comment, I really loved his acting and enjoyed watching his kdramas but after I came to know about this (which was through this video, literally yesterday), I got totally turned down. also wdym by riled up over nothing? he's clearly being misogynstic and even added that his view won't change.
I'm amazed that so many Korean men comment so much about women's appearance when they had to undergo several plastic surgeries to even look half decent.
Your right.
Many of yâallâs âoPparâ think exactly the same way as these dudes. Itâs a common mentally among patriarchal men, especially in a patriarchal society like S.Korea.
So many women defending misogynist!!! ðĪĶðŧðĪĶðŧ That's why we live in a sickining society
Probably because it's normalized and they don't know any better. Not a excuse but I can see sadly where they coming from.
dont see any misogynist here only haters missinterpreting things on purpose to cry around as you always do.
Yeah... just because they are handsome and girls are obsessed with them
@@pruitv4 ðð
Cuz these women are too blinded by the soft kidols and actors which media represents. It's such a trap for women honestly to portray Korean men on media like this which majority of them are not behind the camera. I feel so scared for the female staff actresses and female idols.
Average male behavior be like:-âââðĪĄ
Imagine literally hating on someone for their born with looks and bashing them for it and then say IT WAS A JOKE when you're held accountable
Who does he think he's clowning
Funny how most foreigner want korean husband or settle down in korea while actual korean women aren't marrying any and trying to get out of the country.
Good for Jisoo she break up ð
I remmember very clear how korean getting mad when they know she dating him and how she deserve someone better they even choose leejehoon for her ððð
@@annag9931 Lee min ho and seo in guk will be misogyny for jisoo. And misogynists will make by blink. ðĪĢðĪĢðĪĢðĪĢðĪĢðĪĢðĪĢðĪĢðĪĢðĪĢðĪĢðĪĢðĪĢNow it's time to be a misogynist lee min ho and seo in guk by blink ðĪĢðĪĢðĪĢðĪĢðĪĢðĪĢðĪĢðĪĢðĪĢðĪĢðĪĢðĪĢðĪĢðĪĢðĪĢðĪĢðĪĢ like jisoo ex ððĪĢðĪĢðĪĢ
He doesn't deserves her
It was media play
â@@agustdrip1960yes he deserves 100 time better than jisoo
Korea can be economic superpower and developed nation but it's society surely is evolving backward
Devolving is more like it!
I'm so glad that Jisoo broke up with him. Wouldn't want her to be with a misogynistic person.
What if she the bad one?
@@TrinhNguyen-sh4fjso you think a misogynistic guy is a good person lmao?
â@@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj yeah sure blame on the women where there's literally no proof ð
â@@TrinhNguyen-sh4fjYep, Jisoo a misogynist women.
It's crazy how these people have perfectly fine careers after making such statements
Ahh, the benefits of
âĻmale privilegeâĻ
Yoo Yeon Suk has crossed some boundaries here. It's not respectful to judge someone based on what they wear or to think a woman's clothing shows her feelings. This is actually a red flag because it reduces a person to their appearance instead of seeing them as a whole. If he keeps expressing these views, oh dear... you might want to think about whether you want to continue engaging with him... wow... also it feels like, his partner would be obligated to wear sexy clothes, even if she doesn't feel to and be sexy all the time. And what if a woman on a date with him doesn't actually likes him but she's wearing see-through because it's her personality, then he would think she likes him... ?
It's also very ironic because women get derogatory remarks for wearing provocative/sexy in misogynistic societies, yet also women need to wear them for the sake of men? Damned if you do, damned if you don't. Ahh, i love to be a woman.
@user-nz8gr7em6o Yes... very true... don't know where to stand anymore tbh ðĪ§ both option got issue depending on the person. ( yes person... ðŠðŠðŠðŠ )
As a tall women i heard this comment a few times before. It does sting a little. I remember i was about to walk down the stairs to a subway station and this shorter guy showed up next to me asking me how tall i am. I told him and he went: ''Wow you are super tall, i wish i had your height. But with a tall women i could never, i prefer short you know... they are better to control'' I wanted to kick him down so bad. People these days just piss me off.
Trust me some men aren't even worth looking at talk more of waiting for them to open their mouths
Tell him you like short men for the same reason ð
@@spring7643ðð
Short woman are better to control? What does that even mean? ðŪ
I'm tall and I don't let their little selves get to me.
They're too insignificant to be bothered about.
you wanna family but you dont want to get married ð
no he said he wanted to get married but after jisoo and his breakup he does not want to marry anymore jisoo did not want to get married pretty sure thats why they broke up now
I wonder why Jisoo from blackpink broke up with ahn bo hyun he is a such a Red flag ðĐ
@@AfrinJahan-i6d l think jisoo is a red flag not ahn bo hyun
@@AfrinJahan-i6d ahn bo hyun is very amazing gentleman. He is not red flag.
â@@emmasharna7708wake upð
@@emmasharna7708 girl clean the shit from your head because I am not a toxic fan and one more thing why you defending him when you know he is a toxic and misogynistic and one more thing jisoo is not a Red flag and not a lesbian and one more thing do you have a proof that she is a Red flag or a lesbian idiot
If he is not a Red flag then why is subscribe those TH-cam channels that disrespect women in every way possible don't reply that maybe he subscribe those channels mistakely because this is the worst excuse we can ever give in order to save your favs reputation
I bet the Korean celebs we love be it actor or idols have the same old mindset ð They are just concealing with their handsome face behind.
Handsome plastic face*
LOL.. it's their life, they have their own free will. Park Seo-joon can choose that idea though. Even women, they have their own standards. It's a harsh world after all
Call me crazy but I don't fully disagree with Park Seo Joon. As a female I actually understand his point. In some countries and religion this is totally normal and the ideal life. Many females wish for a life where they get to stay home and spend time with their children. I understand that not everyone want's this live and that's okay that's your opinion. And he is aloud to have his, I am sure his future wife wants what he wants. But people being mad for him having a type and being mad that you don't fit into it sounds like a you problem.
I donât know why people are surprised by this? Just because these men are actors/celebrities it does not mean they are well educated. It is clear that they have had their egoâs stroked for far too long which is why they think they can get away with this kind of ignorance.
I think it's a beautiful thing for a woman to stay at home and dedicate herself to raising kids. But why do so many of the men who demand for this also go around sleeping with young single women? That's the obnoxius part. If they stayed true to their wives then I don't see anything wrong with this set up.
Ooooh the number of times I've seen this EXACT SAME scenario with celebrities and in real life. They wanted the devoted virgin-before-marriage housewife who will love them unconditionally and raise their kids, then destroys that same "perfect" marriage by cheating. YOU HIT THE NAIL ON THE FKN HEAD. ðŊ The standard they have for a wife while being an irresponsible husband who sleeps around. Love the audacity.
What if he cheats or abuses his housewife, she'll have no income to escape from him, while he always have money for himself and control all the money, he can financially abuse her too
my father, so a man, always told me and my sisters that money is the only thing that won't betray a woman.
Exactly
i think it's their point
Thanks for ending my all crushes in one go ð
Wellcome to Real Wold...
It's funny how the people judging the looks of women are the same ones covered in makeup and overly expensive clothing. I would like to see them with NO makeup and in regular clothes.
Oh I didnât have Ahn Bo Hyun as misogynistic âðū I just added him to my list of actors I wonât check their jobs anymore.
Oohh that's why park seo joon doesn't give me good vibes ððð my sixth sense working so wellðð
8:49 I also think this can be the reason. As long as I slightly know Jisoo even we all BLINKs she is a family person. The way she loves and supports her members even how she cherishes us BLINKs she might want a family. Just assumption
Park seo joon should find a women who dont work and marry her why marry a working womenð
That comment about mothers rubbed me up the wrong way because having an absent father does damage as well so both parents are needed, a mothers love and a fathers discipline balances the child.
Seojoon should marry a maid ,they will leave their job to be mother of his child.
Right ðŊ
so all stay at home mothers are just maids?
@bitchesassproductions5308 is that what you think ?how crazy is that,I mean, a lot of stay at home mother do claim they feel like maids when they do all the labour work in the family by themselves with no help provided from the man of the house even when they are financially binded.looked down on if uneducated but the mothers are willing to co-operate to keep the family together, and they are the ones most of times cheated on by their educated husbands. If educated they want a career and want to have kids and a man that they can rely on with actions not words or claims of lies because they are on the same level of education there so they can discuss and come to a conclusion with finance related fights happening on a daily basis .educated men do not discuss their finances with uneducated women .The mother's viewing themselve as well as in laws and husband see them as necessary labourers of the family do justify how you phrase a. Situation like that I am curious.
@@bitchesassproductions5308 cheating husband don't discuss their finances because they need to save up money for their mistresses no other reason why husband's hide finances logic behind this.
@@bitchesassproductions5308 cheating husbands hide their finances to spend on their mistresses.
Most Korean men are like this. They are very traditional regarding the roles of women & men in relationships. Thats just how it is there. There is absolutely nothing wrong with wanting a traditional family dynamic. I dont agree with bodyshaming though. Everyone is free to have their relationships the way they see fit. I'm a traditional stay-home wife & mom. Its works very well for our family. If it doesnt work for others, thats fine too.
Who's here after
When the phone rings
me, I didn't like that nigga at the very beginning ð
True example of "Don't judge a book by its cover."
Sorry, I refuse to be jobless and i don't believe that my kids need me 24/7. Kids should have their own life like playing with peers and learning new skills, not just sitting by mom's side
Some celebs pretend to be nice and thoughtful but deep down they are not,so when they reveal who they really are by unintentionally/mistake etc.,it is a blessing.Good people shld have the fame and love of the fans,others do not deserve to be in the industry.
To be fair, they can have their own preferences. Just dont judge others just because they are not suit your taste.
I hate it when celebrities put clear remark of hate on something that opposite to their preferences
I was bit surprised how many are still such popular actors
That's why I stopped caring about male actors and idols, I have no trust on them knowing how misogynistic they might be
Some k drama actors dont deserve the fame and love from fans
Not only k drama actor but also k pop male singers
The worst thing is, that the Korean/Asian culture itself creates bodyshaming beauty standards. It's not changing, everything they compliment each other for is loosing weight, getting something done on their body, making money and other things like that. As much as i love asian countries, especially Korea, most of them don't respect each other for being themselves the way they are. They prefer people to look unnatural perfect. Thats one of the dark sides. But on the other hand, we all have different pteferences but when someone is saying it out loud, it gets controversal. So, what is right or wrong is not that easy, i think growing up in this culture makes it hard to really be yourself ðĒ
My only problem with this video is that the creator is not directly reading the quotes. She will put a quote up that reads nothing like what she is saying. She is often interpreting the quotes meaning and not saying the direct quote itself. For example the quote from the first guy say "children without love" but she somehow interpreted this as "children without mothers" which does change the severity of his opinion. Cause it is true children without love do tend to become troubled adults.
Thank you for revealing this, kdramas oppas are not the same oppas in real life
Im sure 80% of actors have one of these groups' views. They are just not naive enough to jeopardize their career by being truthful and either evade the question when asked or make up an answer that sounds pleasing to the public's ear.
Jisoo is so smart
Isn't yoon yeon suk the one play the role in 'when the phone rings'? Wow.. Just wow
That 2nd actor is not even that handsomeð
The comments from Hae Jin were from a variety show that was meant to find fault with each other. Look at the context people..
Quitting your job is way more dangerous, risky and harder for women's life. What if he cheats or abuse her, she'll have no income to escape from him, while he always have money for himself and control all the money, he can financially abuse her too.
Lol female staff holding his script ..that's too much! Honestly he is below Jisoo in terms of popularity and wealth. I still couldn't understand why Jisoo has so low standards...
I was very disappointed when i saw park seo jun their. He was was one of my favorite actorsðĒ. I didn't know that he was like thatðð
I had to go back to work when I had both my sons. Everyone has a right to their opinions but these celebrities should realise that social media will always resurface. Unfortunately Netizens think they own them.
Many women make difficult and hard decisions like you did. Hope you raise your sons to appreciate what you did for them and not turn out to be entitled and judgemental of women 20+ years younger than you living in different times and circumstances
@@walan31 I think I was fortunate to have had my 20âs back in the 1980s.
@walan31 It's men who make everything difficult. Men cheat and abuse their housewife alot. Statically, housewifes suffer domestic violence the most. An abused victim is not a better mother than a working mother
@walan31 What if he cheats or abuses the housewife, she'll have no income to escape from him, even if she escapes, she'll have no right to custody the child because she doesn't have income, while he always have money for himself to do whatever he want and rob the child from her.
Well based off of their statements & judgement, apparently these males think they own women too. They chose to confidently make these criticisms in public, so the public is also free to criticize their statements too. They got a taste of their own words.
I would never have babies with someone who says "I want a family but I don't want to marry you."
They aren't the real handsome leading men anyway. They are lukevthe second or third string kdrama actors.
I'm an "old fashioned woman" but I believe men and women are equal
If you meet someone who shares your beliefs, then it's not a problem. The problem comes when you share your beliefs and the other person thinks they can change your beliefs over time. There is a woman out there who wants the same thing he does. I don't think there's anything archaic about it. That's just what you want. There are women out there who want to be a stay at home mom and don't want a career. Do we criticize them for that? Or do we respect what they want? And there are women out there who don't want to be a stay at home mom and want a career. We can't help who we are attracted to. I don't think there's anything wrong with being honest about that. All he's done was be honest with his answers. It's up to us to either judge the hell out of him or respect his preferences and opinion.
Oh, god... And there are still so called fans trying to pretect them at this point...
I know right!
About Yoo Ah In imo the zucchini scandal comes from a big misunderstanding because initially he responded to a very mean comment and his answer was either light humor or passive-agressive which in any case was appropriate considering the unprovocked attack and the fact that it's the OP who brought the zucchini in the first place. Him being accused to be a misoginist for that seems like a stretch.
I'm sorry but saying "ever been beaten up by a d*ck" is a very violent statement. Men use it as a euphemism when threatening a woman with r@pe. Who even thinks to say something like that? Plus he mocked tf out of women who called him out for it. He brought it on himself.
â@@ami-el7dg So you're just ignoring the comment he responded to? That's one of the most vicious comments I've ever seen, and it came out of nowhere. It's literally the other person who was threatening... But because of his gender he should just take it? I believe in fairness regardless of people's gender. When I read the initial comment I understand that his answer is not a provocation but the reaction of someone who is stunned and disturbed by the attack and asks something along the line of "who traumatized you to attack me like that?". I see it as a light self defense and would have reacted in a similar way myself.
Good to know that you would threaten someone with r@pe if they were to provoke youððū But do tell me what the comment he responded to said so I can see if I'm as f**ked up in the head as you and your buddy.
Good to know that you'd threaten someone with r@pe if provoked! But do tell me what the comment he responded to was so I can see if I'm as f-ked up in the head like the both of yall.
@@ami-el7dg So you reacted without even reading both sides? Go search it up yourself. And don't insult me, like I said I don't see his response as a threat like you see it.
Jisoo and bo huun never dated it's the korean stun that they do that time in highschool teacher were getting bullied amd to shift the attention of people they make thes false dating things they have did it before also if they were really dating then why there are no photo of them together by dispatch like they have photos if Jennie and kai and suddenly they broke up after 2 months this doesn't make sense
brahh... yg confirmed it... they gave a clear statement on 3rd august that jisoo and bo hyun r getting to know each other and even bo hyun's entertainment gave a clear statement... seriously!!!
Even the gov want to cover that caseð bohyun n jisoo dont have time to prepare a stun just for that, dispatch already got their pics in their disk and just release it in instant
K drama makes the younger generation delulu.
Everyone have to understand that they have their own ideal type like us and we don't have to be disappointed because less or more, men want to see her woman like a housewife.
As a die hard feminist - I find the comments section intolerant and reeking of lack of awareness. I believe it is ok if a man wants a stay at home wife - who shares the same dream and values. It is a problem only if there is a difference in their understanding of an ideal marriage. I have highly qualified friends who have chosen to stay at home. They are happy, their family life is great and their children are now successful, happy and incredibly well-behaved.
There is so much focus on appearances in SK, it's apparent in their drama. The drama Cupid's Love was so so disgusting, I can't believe they actually decided to use that script.
They act as if they are the most handsome man in this world..glad i don't have any crush on them .
it's red flag if you're trying to date them. Oh, wait..
That what goes on in Korea that what men really fill
Lots of Asia has had this mindset for a long time. I didnât grow up in that culture. Itâs easy to judge as an outsider, but we should recognize that there are cultural differences that play a role.
Not happens in Thailand. In Asia we rank second after Singapore for the numbers of female in high ranking positions. And we are open to genders of choices. LGBTQ can become Professor or teachers. Any career. I've heard from a LGBT Taiwanese professor who teaches Chinese in a University in Thailand that he can't open his gender preferences in Taiwan, otherwise he might lose his job. That's why he chooses to live in Thailand.
That culture is called âpatriarchy' ðĪ·ââïļ
That's why I don't feel like watching kdrama anymore ð
Along with them, these magazines can also be called worst, who ask such silly questions..
Good jisoo broke up with him
@@Sona_317 same as bo hyun.
Good for Jisoo they're broken up
During the Tommy Hilfger event, it looked like Lee Know and Felix didn't barely talk to jisoo. I felt bad for her. Felix looks so sweet, but he seems sus!
Also Kim soo hyun
What was wrong with what park so jeung's idea of having his kids should be raised by their mom's? Most of everything he said are correct. The reason the world is in turmoil is because of the west people introduction of equality.
Whatever those "netizens" believe, he was spot on with his "misoginystic remaks".
And THAT is coming from a two time mother and wife of twenty years, happily married I might add!
My opinions about situations is the mothers of male actors mostly women needs see how they work Sacrificing own careers to raise their children right paths in life and learning cultures having deals, including opinions why people donât want dating someone in their relationships within and over nature of situations. For All Koreans women in their cultures, itâs actually hurting, upset for allowing people in field own cultures as well too.
These videos are the reason there's so much hatred in the industry. Where's the source? where's the citation for these statements? All lies and rumours for content, nothing more.
Right!!
no except for starting three actors i think all are rumors since there is no source but the guy who explicitly hated a women celebs his articles were there still
Find their interviews baby
Park seo jun being friend with V, must be the same mindset as him
I hope not
right thats disgusting tbh
This got me thinking. i hope is not
I kind of feel like all BTS members also hold similar beliefs, like when they were asked about their ideal types, the vibe was just off. I became a BTS army in 2021 and they helped me a lot with my mental health but every now and then I come across certain videos that idk why have a very weird vibe (bad weird).
@@tiyasaguha5413 for me they use you Army as a money machine but if tomorrow there is an event about a female getting assault for no reason like what happened many times or even about R. Case... They never talk about it and I remember their misogynistic song about female. They only apologize because of the backlash and were afraid to lose fans = ð°.. V from bts is acting entitled every time with fans but when he's in foreign country, he is weirdly friendly with others. They tend to forget where they were from...
While i agree a child with less attention will be problematic in the future, i think it work both ways. If a woman chose to work after marriage it shows that she feels insecure to fully be dependent of his spouse.
Both parents shouldnt be too busy to take care of their child. A mother is surely gas more nurturing ability to take care of them in early age. Sk if a woman become a full time mother it would be best. But she doing that by her own initiative and a husband demanding it from her without considering what she will lost while doing that is very red flag
Okay so currently watching "when the phone rings" and listening to this video.ðððð thank god that i do not blindly love these actors or idols. Just watch the show and move on. I rhink people should understand that anyone would only show rheir good side on camera so trust no one. NO ONE AT ALL. âĪ
But I don't understand the last one about Bo Hyun. If he doesn't wanna get married that his choice. How did it become a red flag?
Right, i dont see how bo hyun's one fitted in this vid tbh. His stylist said it was a misunderstanding, following channels on yt, who goes and unfollow? Like i still follow people from 2015.. lowkey kinda weird
Korean society is like that but they show other things in kdramas. Is a a society very evolved technologically but not socially. Is like they are living on the 50s. And then european girls dreaming of marrying a korean manð.
idiots lol
do you watch friends and think everyone in new York is white and live in million dollar lofts lol?
Technologically, Yes But Socially : WTF!ðĪĻðĪĻðĪĻ