People Read The Last Texts From Their Exes

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  • @blaynekelley9506
    @blaynekelley9506 5 ปีที่แล้ว +22292

    “If you can’t be a good partner, at least be a good ex”

    • @BrittanyJay
      @BrittanyJay 5 ปีที่แล้ว +97

      Blayne Kelley I feel that

    • @breeannabelle954
      @breeannabelle954 5 ปีที่แล้ว +140

      Literally your profile pic was my reaction as I read that while the sound of all those guys shouting “ooooooooooh” was playing in my head

    • @lpscoconutstar6614
      @lpscoconutstar6614 4 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      "If you can't be original, at least try not to copy others"

    • @hopefulbloom
      @hopefulbloom 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      coincidentally i read this and felt it as soon as he said it

    • @hoasam372
      @hoasam372 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      My ex's boyfriend youssef eltouby sent me friend request he wants us be friends after I dump him? I ain't going be his friend period I ain't going be giving them,him my blessing or supportive friend or be shoulder cry on their fighting or breaking up no I ain't going do that. I'm done I'm done with him 💯for him cheating on me with his 2 bisexual lover's. I'm just done I ain't going check see he texts me. He ghosted me too to be with them too. I'm just done. Crying over him. I'm confident enough say I'm moving on with my life 2ithout him .I had met someone else who value me,our time together.he is faithful and loyal asf so yea that's all I got say.

  • @user-ky7of3tz1x
    @user-ky7of3tz1x 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16518

    seeing the hurt in everyone’s eyes.. sucks

    • @johnmorrison3565
      @johnmorrison3565 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Lauren Alvarez let me introduce you to someone who can bring your ex back to you

    • @jvthegreat4497
      @jvthegreat4497 4 ปีที่แล้ว +85

      @@johnmorrison3565 😐

    • @Luminous.Dynamics
      @Luminous.Dynamics 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I know. I know what they mighta been feeling, sucks

    • @joeysalinas4987
      @joeysalinas4987 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yea :(

    • @mateoslab
      @mateoslab 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      can't relate, i got no ex

  • @ReZounds
    @ReZounds 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19017

    Some say its painful to wait for someone, some say it's painful to forget someone. But the worst pain comes when you dont know whether to wait or forget.

    • @babypurple347
      @babypurple347 5 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      ReZounds ameeeeen

    • @AntonioRodriguezSRX
      @AntonioRodriguezSRX 5 ปีที่แล้ว +66

      poetry..

    • @Omangozika
      @Omangozika 5 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      This is it!

    • @ritachege893
      @ritachege893 5 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      I feel you

    • @Smokeyyy337
      @Smokeyyy337 5 ปีที่แล้ว +159

      That is when you choose to forget someone, if they don't make space for you in their life, you will again be cut off. Wait one week max, after that deciede to move on.

  • @Naniurca
    @Naniurca 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3322

    Its crazy how we feel during the first date compared to when we break up

    • @mayliang2865
      @mayliang2865 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Everything was still vivid!

    • @soccer4231
      @soccer4231 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      ow

    • @aishwariyaraikar5376
      @aishwariyaraikar5376 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Break*

    • @mo2wavy414
      @mo2wavy414 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@aishwariyaraikar5376 stfu

    • @ChemistTea
      @ChemistTea 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Just like when hitting gas vs breaking up with your so

  • @XIAOO0713
    @XIAOO0713 5 ปีที่แล้ว +38045

    exes are like,your most familiar, strangers.

    • @안수현-t1z
      @안수현-t1z 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      I’m a Whamen no sTrAnGeRs

    • @aguywhocouldfly
      @aguywhocouldfly 5 ปีที่แล้ว +100

      The Strangest Stranger

    • @leahtamar4042
      @leahtamar4042 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      how does this only have 161 likes

    • @opnode9962
      @opnode9962 5 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      That’s meaningful 🤔

    • @fatsanii
      @fatsanii 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Omg trueee

  • @EhyWisdom
    @EhyWisdom 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5526

    "If you can't be a good partner in a relationship at least be a good ex."

    • @kaylenejantjes8113
      @kaylenejantjes8113 5 ปีที่แล้ว +76

      Been pondering on this. It's possibly why too optimistic.

    • @EhyWisdom
      @EhyWisdom 5 ปีที่แล้ว +150

      @@kaylenejantjes8113 I guess it depends. Yeah, it's not that easy, but still, being a good ex could even mean being someone who doesn't bother the other one's current life, couldn't it be? I think "Being a good ex" is being someone who do what's good for the other one, could either be having a chat from time to time or giving total space!

    • @thegreenrocket
      @thegreenrocket 5 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      If you really love someone, and they don’t love you, then you’d be willing to leave them be and cease communications with them because you want what’s best for them. That’s what I got from this. That’s what it means to be a good ex
      However much it may hurt to love them, but have to do the very thing which you don’t want to do, and that’s moving on.

    • @ramranchlover5374
      @ramranchlover5374 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I’m the one k like

    • @rusdimaulana1706
      @rusdimaulana1706 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      glad that my ex has become my bestfriend now

  • @kimberlyguzman6713
    @kimberlyguzman6713 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12212

    The asian dude looked so heartbroken, poor thing 😔

    • @Thatcloudyea
      @Thatcloudyea 5 ปีที่แล้ว +187

      That's how I feel see I just broke up 4 days ago. All those memories you made with your partner are tugging to your heart. It's so hard there so many things that rush through your head. I don't know whether we should talk or not

    • @kimberlyguzman6713
      @kimberlyguzman6713 5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      @@Thatcloudyea I'm so sorry I can't believe how you're feeling right now but know that some people just come and go and that doesn't mean you should give up on love.I promise your going to find your true love some day, it's going to take time but have hope 😥 best of luck and I hope you can get through this heart break 💞

    • @Thatcloudyea
      @Thatcloudyea 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      The thing is I left her and I miss her so much but I recall arguing a lot and insults most.the time and it makes me cry because all the memories we formed together

    • @me0101001000
      @me0101001000 5 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      It's almost been two years for me. I absolutely feel the first guy. But I gotta say, I kinda envy the terms they ended on.
      There are some people who you just can't get over. If the times were great, if you changed each other for the better, or in my case, they hit me where it hurts over and over again. My most recent ex girlfriend broke me hard, sent me a list of things she disliked about me, made me believe that the whole thing was my fault (and I still kinda believe it is), and her last words to me were "We can't be friends, and I hate you." It broke me, and pushed me to go into a massive reflection and reformation. I've been tackling everything bad about myself, and making myself a better man than I could have imagined myself being. I met my current closest friends, made connections with people who helped me excel in everything I do, and best of all, I'm feeling good again.
      I'm still not ready to date, I'm not healed, and I'm still afraid of getting close with someone in that way, but I'm definitely in a better place than I was. So, to my ex, if you read this, thanks for breaking my heart. It's the best thing, and the only good thing, you ever did to me.

    • @eringilbert3734
      @eringilbert3734 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      THING?

  • @JJ-dz3xj
    @JJ-dz3xj 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4143

    "I care too much that's the kind of person I am" I felt that

    • @johnmorrison3565
      @johnmorrison3565 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      JJ do you need help to get your ex back? I have someone who can help you get your ex back

    • @HackersSun
      @HackersSun 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I am the same way :(

    • @JJ-dz3xj
      @JJ-dz3xj 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@johnmorrison3565 lol I don't want my ex back, i broke up with her but thank you

    • @jessicazaragoza4185
      @jessicazaragoza4185 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same here..I care too much😔

    • @ijustwanttosleepnow
      @ijustwanttosleepnow 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Until he blocks them which is greatly childish.

  • @Foxy-fs6qs
    @Foxy-fs6qs 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9651

    "It's funny how we adjust.."

  • @fawadqureshi3498
    @fawadqureshi3498 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7870

    To my Ex
    "Now you're just a stranger with all my secrets"

    • @discogirl1386
      @discogirl1386 5 ปีที่แล้ว +186

      Soulmates who weren't meant to be

    • @Kid98.
      @Kid98. 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@discogirl1386 a nice song indeed

    • @griselalmanza738
      @griselalmanza738 5 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Damn that hit me.

    • @karisma2157
      @karisma2157 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Like this so I can cone back please

    • @jerrnii_
      @jerrnii_ 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      TATE MCRAEEEE

  • @3MZFE
    @3MZFE 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4208

    This was more depressing than I thought it would be.

  • @TinkDoesMakeup
    @TinkDoesMakeup 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3095

    The nicest thing my ex has ever done is never contact me again

    • @laquinn-qd5lc
      @laquinn-qd5lc 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Fvck. Yes definitely

    • @emoemu9845
      @emoemu9845 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Maidens And Monsters My ex just didn’t understand why I couldn’t handle talking to him or why I never sent him pictures. He just didn’t get my anxiety or depression and he wanted to talk every day, he was so naggy and clueless. Acted like he cares then yelled at me for being sad.

    • @DragonSkaterrr
      @DragonSkaterrr 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      my ex just added me on facebook, my last message was, i hope it never gets well between us!, i blocked her after, but that comment arrived as soon as i accepted her friend request

    • @blacklyfe5543
      @blacklyfe5543 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Facts

  • @wendygonzalez4716
    @wendygonzalez4716 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4031

    'It's okay to let go of things in your life, because there's better things ahead'

    • @johnclhugyugihjbvgbkj9729
      @johnclhugyugihjbvgbkj9729 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Wendy Gonzalez Read yours as he said it. 👻

    • @KCWwarrior
      @KCWwarrior 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Gives me hope..

    • @nimco84
      @nimco84 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      True and much better and healthier relationships out there

    • @danielk246
      @danielk246 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      then why should u ever settle, if theres always sth better ahead?

    • @dee-jay45
      @dee-jay45 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      It's a good attitude to have but unfortunately untrue.

  • @JB_lifestyle_cars
    @JB_lifestyle_cars 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9681

    I feel the Asian guy. Especially when he said “there are better things ahead.” And how he didn’t believe it.

    • @frenchvanilla7109
      @frenchvanilla7109 5 ปีที่แล้ว +229

      Ha you can tell he didn't believe it 😢

    • @smileyfacewithsunglasses7613
      @smileyfacewithsunglasses7613 4 ปีที่แล้ว +195

      He was the saddest one!

    • @mistuhe4778
      @mistuhe4778 4 ปีที่แล้ว +95

      @@smileyfacewithsunglasses7613 I'm really feeling it for him, you can tell he still loves her and wants to be with her again😔😥🙏

    • @Luminous.Dynamics
      @Luminous.Dynamics 4 ปีที่แล้ว +88

      Fr. He looked sad as fuck, god damm

    • @beautifullove2394
      @beautifullove2394 4 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      he's still hurting

  • @tristanneal9552
    @tristanneal9552 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11732

    Oof. The “stop texting me” ones are the worst. Physically hurts to read.

    • @Chocolatepain
      @Chocolatepain 5 ปีที่แล้ว +256

      The word oof grinds my gear

    • @sallymallyy
      @sallymallyy 5 ปีที่แล้ว +247

      Yeah and worst way to break up with someone but people don't know how to talk to each other anymore so they just use it to cut them out.

    • @KYRA_FX
      @KYRA_FX 5 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      I love sending those

    • @metaldiabolos86
      @metaldiabolos86 5 ปีที่แล้ว +74

      yup, it hurts. Specially if you still love the person who sent it.

    • @OhtheSuffering
      @OhtheSuffering 5 ปีที่แล้ว +95

      What if they say that because you texting them brings back painful memories?

  • @gugulethumpofu9953
    @gugulethumpofu9953 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4314

    The guy who cheated, on her birthday, a day that was her day is asking to go for coffee and explain. Wrong timing, wrong day. Wayyyy too manipulative.

    • @MN-gg5qk
      @MN-gg5qk 3 ปีที่แล้ว +309

      He reminded me of my ex. He texted me a similar thing, asking me to go visit him. He lives in another country. I don’t understand what makes him think I’ll go buy an airplane ticket during a pandemic ( or any time) to go see him after he cheated on me 🤯

    • @sergiosanjuan1166
      @sergiosanjuan1166 3 ปีที่แล้ว +128

      I mean at least he came clean, i respect that 🤷🏾‍♂️ and if he respected her wish of not talking to her than he is already a better man than he was when he cheated 🤔.

    • @ashiesty7140
      @ashiesty7140 3 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      thats not manipulating

    • @XercasPathology
      @XercasPathology 3 ปีที่แล้ว +74

      he has like a sly guilt trippy kinda look. idek. i don't trust him lol

    • @valerijajovanovic2020
      @valerijajovanovic2020 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@XercasPathology idk he just looks guiltridden to me

  • @KaylaGraceL
    @KaylaGraceL 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13881

    “If you can’t be a good partner in your relationship, at least be a good ex.”

    • @qtmhell
      @qtmhell 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Kayla Grace true..i agree.

    • @misticall
      @misticall 5 ปีที่แล้ว +281

      can exes be ever good? I don't know. Even if you break up in a peaceful way, they hurt you in a way.

    • @isaacruiz4789
      @isaacruiz4789 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Fr tho huh🤔😕

    • @liyanibernier5720
      @liyanibernier5720 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Kayla Grace why if they decide to
      Move on why should be obligated to have any sort of relationship tied to you 🙄

    • @dmofighterbatman4317
      @dmofighterbatman4317 5 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      How can someone be a good ex?

  • @Laurenjoinsyoutube
    @Laurenjoinsyoutube 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20900

    how selfish is it to text someone on their birthday that you cheated on

    • @crazyarmy8826
      @crazyarmy8826 5 ปีที่แล้ว +327

      Yeah

    • @andrewosei328
      @andrewosei328 5 ปีที่แล้ว +111

      So we're enemies now huh.

    • @mahihosein8514
      @mahihosein8514 5 ปีที่แล้ว +260

      selfish?

    • @joeyaikman9736
      @joeyaikman9736 5 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      What?

    • @bomoore5170
      @bomoore5170 5 ปีที่แล้ว +622

      @@joeyaikman9736 they're saying not to text the person you cheated on, on their birthday

  • @anushgopalakrishnan
    @anushgopalakrishnan 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5727

    "it's funny how we adjust"
    Damn bruh

    • @astwas
      @astwas 4 ปีที่แล้ว +318

      That was cooold but also so perfect to convey the message across

    • @logercoo9202
      @logercoo9202 4 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      I felt that

    • @simangelemilicentkatsande7359
      @simangelemilicentkatsande7359 4 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      That hit me hard

    • @GabiN64
      @GabiN64 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Ouch.

    • @elbertcolon8457
      @elbertcolon8457 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      She was adjusted all right

  • @RashaudMonroe
    @RashaudMonroe 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3261

    Moral of the story... leave your ex alone 😂

  • @Nutelladueno
    @Nutelladueno 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2432

    Asian dudes heart is broken... it’s breaking me and idek him

  • @yzwme586
    @yzwme586 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5638

    My last text to my ex was simply, "stfu". It's crazy how it can go from amazing euphoria and happiness to absolutely nothing.

    • @yeehawhomie5749
      @yeehawhomie5749 5 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      It is crazy man, that's what I question myself all the time..

    • @jade4897
      @jade4897 5 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      Consistency loosing the honeymoon phase and straight to breakups.... Do that 15 more times and you turn into a tinder date with no honesty. Learn what you did wrong and don't pigeon hole a sex(man=don't hate women/woman=don't hate men) ... Your salvation rests with you. Happy trails :)

    • @salmasoekardi2639
      @salmasoekardi2639 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      adrenaline same

    • @janakiramana3050
      @janakiramana3050 5 ปีที่แล้ว +80

      Love is an illusion.. and doesn't and won't last forever. Very very lucky souls get to have together forever fairy tales... People change.. like emotions. Like weather. It's sad but that's the truth. Hard pill to swallow

    • @jade4897
      @jade4897 5 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      @@janakiramana3050 people live the longest if they know they have people they trust in their lives. Love isn't an illusion but a bi-product of trust. It does come and go but its always there in some form when there's trust.

  • @CuriosityCulture
    @CuriosityCulture 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2985

    You can see the pain in their face.. 😔

    • @xzclaire
      @xzclaire 5 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      Shouldn't of cheated!! Imagine the pain they put on the other person

    • @phugh3878
      @phugh3878 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Harshil Patel well he cheated on her so who cares

    • @carriehenson259
      @carriehenson259 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      🥺

    • @MaayanLovesUnicorns1
      @MaayanLovesUnicorns1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      clare x exactly! When I saw his face after he read her response, I thought “you don’t feel bad for what you did. You feel bad that she found out and doesn’t want to talk to you or see you again and you miss her company”

    • @Resaaboo
      @Resaaboo 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      And you can hear it in their voices

  • @TimothyRichard12345
    @TimothyRichard12345 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1450

    I deleted all conversations with my exes. It’s too painful for me to read

  • @adrianrodriguez1178
    @adrianrodriguez1178 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11527

    The Asian dude u can see the pain in his eyes

    • @ruycesar1303
      @ruycesar1303 5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Adrian Rodriguez exactly...

    • @Onedollarbeer
      @Onedollarbeer 5 ปีที่แล้ว +238

      Adrian Rodriguez you can’t see his eyes

    • @crystaly7159
      @crystaly7159 5 ปีที่แล้ว +277

      @@Onedollarbeer racist af. Hes hotter than you tho

    • @crystaly7159
      @crystaly7159 5 ปีที่แล้ว +74

      @Hope Less cuz the asian dude is hot lol racists are usually not that hot hon both in and out😉

    • @Alexander-ur1tr
      @Alexander-ur1tr 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      but he's genuinely sorry

  • @rafavisualz
    @rafavisualz 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1931

    "It's funny how we adjust.."
    That was deep.

    • @amirahflowers7885
      @amirahflowers7885 4 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      it really was and i don't think people caught on.

    • @ameyaaa9260
      @ameyaaa9260 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I didn’t really understand . Explain ?

    • @himani_gosain
      @himani_gosain 3 ปีที่แล้ว +83

      @@ameyaaa9260 adjusting to new things (indirectly she spoke about not being in a relationship anymore with the person and adjusting living with out them)

    • @sweetbunny3334
      @sweetbunny3334 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yeah....💔

  • @aziz99
    @aziz99 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4957

    jokes on you i got no exes

    • @jackdueck665
      @jackdueck665 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      bakoupin my man ahhahaha

    • @saumaki716
      @saumaki716 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      hahahahaha same

    • @aoi5170
      @aoi5170 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Thats because all 3 of you never had a girl friend yet. Now thats sad. Sorry?

    • @Manic_Panic
      @Manic_Panic 5 ปีที่แล้ว +100

      @@aoi5170 How's that sad? Look how broken the people in the video look. Relationships don't last nowadays and people end up being hurt. Might as well not be in a relationship at all. Improve yourself in terms of health and wealth and you'll be much happier.
      Edit: I know a girl who is just like these people in the video, she constantly suffers but doesn't give up. At a point, I wonder if it's just delusion or resilience to keep it going. Though if it's resilience, I admire that.

    • @aoi5170
      @aoi5170 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sorry i couldn't help my self.

  • @heatherfrench2033
    @heatherfrench2033 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2062

    "I'll love you forever"
    He passed away that night

    • @shekinahmba3991
      @shekinahmba3991 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      ❤❤❤

    • @emittlame8095
      @emittlame8095 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Damn

    • @teoa.9338
      @teoa.9338 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      I felt the pain ma'am

    • @akura2772
      @akura2772 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      Alexandra Mendes the person means that his/her ex text her and died that night .

    • @amah9372
      @amah9372 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      I’m sorry. I hope that you’re doing okay and that your partner is at peace.

  • @trill4MJ
    @trill4MJ 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3569

    Exes don't realize how much they hurt people and it makes people so toxic.

    • @TriniLush7
      @TriniLush7 4 ปีที่แล้ว +174

      No, people make their self toxic. I've been cheated on and beat. I don't go around cheating on my mate and I def don't physically harm them. You can't blame people for your actions.

    • @TriniLush7
      @TriniLush7 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Satanist you need a hug and we hate you too 🤦🏿‍♀️😂😂

    • @TriniLush7
      @TriniLush7 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @Satanist dude, no you don't. In all seriousness, we don't hate you. I don't hate you. And PS, I think it's cool to be open about who and what you are. I'm straight and I envy you lol

    • @SC-sn3xs
      @SC-sn3xs 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @Satanist I hope you find Jesus someday and he heals all your hurt

    • @Zen-gk9ft
      @Zen-gk9ft 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Some Exes do realize how much they hurt you... just like my ex.. and they have fun with hurting you. It's extremely toxic.

  • @qelvch400
    @qelvch400 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1203

    it’s so crazy how you can love someone so much and then just lose them. wth?..

    • @KLew94
      @KLew94 5 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      emma ccp one of the craziest things you can go through. It’s close to death of you truly loved them.

    • @rafaelcarmo5562
      @rafaelcarmo5562 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@KLew94 it is a competely different style of pain but still very equal at the same time, weird and not weird

    • @FatihErdemKzlkaya
      @FatihErdemKzlkaya 5 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      I used to think like that but I realised that love is overrated. It is so easy to fall in love with someone but building and maintaning a relationship is much harder. Most of us fail eventually...

    • @megamixeren6283
      @megamixeren6283 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Love is just a word until someone gives it a meaning. We never know what will happend when we accept the fact that we love someone, in the end love always makes us cry either in the happy way or in the bad way. It will hurt no matter what

    • @Idontknow-ed9mh
      @Idontknow-ed9mh 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah especially a friend... who you don’t even know who is alive

  • @AseaMae
    @AseaMae 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13786

    I deleted every text thread and moved on with life 👌🏾

  • @joy844
    @joy844 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4903

    The guy who cheated is so disgustingly manipulative. Reminds me of a lot of toxic people I’ve dated. I hope you never txt that girl again.

    • @asha_vere
      @asha_vere 4 ปีที่แล้ว +182

      Same. The ex who cheated on me probably thinks the same way the guy in the video does.

    • @Luminous.Dynamics
      @Luminous.Dynamics 4 ปีที่แล้ว +333

      Might be a narcissist. He seemed unashamed aswell

    • @ventaga7478
      @ventaga7478 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      W8 who cheated though?

    • @asha_vere
      @asha_vere 4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      @@ventaga7478 the dude with the red hair

    • @1_swada
      @1_swada 4 ปีที่แล้ว +173

      Bruh, imagine thinking that was manipulative.

  • @peepoSad_
    @peepoSad_ 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1914

    Around 3:11 after he says "it's okay to let things go in your life. Because there are better things ahead." You can tell he was feeling so many different emotions. We've all be there before. The feeling of regret, sadness, pain, and knowing you hurt someone else and yourself. Not knowing if you did the right thing or if the future holds better things ahead, like he said.

    • @larasantos2066
      @larasantos2066 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      That just hit rock bottom 💔 I couldn't relate more... even 4 months later I'm still insecure about my decision.

    • @tinagarcia7837
      @tinagarcia7837 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      wow preach tf huch

    • @roninbushida1180
      @roninbushida1180 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Not gonna lie. I had a break up a while back that was both great and horrible. It turned my life around (mostly) but it also led to so many insecurities and lots of sadness and depression. I’ll never be whole, but it doesn’t mean I have to be broken.

    • @anditsreyna020
      @anditsreyna020 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Basically described my love life. Felt it in my soul

    • @carekkbear
      @carekkbear 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I felt that too

  • @tonikb
    @tonikb 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4845

    “I block everyone that does me wrong.” saaaaaame 🤣 my block game on 1,000

    • @mzbee2683
      @mzbee2683 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Toni B me too on my phone my block list is long.

    • @tonikb
      @tonikb 5 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      MadDilla ATCQstarr you sound like a misogynistic prick AND to top it all off you’re ignorant and judgmental

    • @damaralexander1982
      @damaralexander1982 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @MadDilla ATCQstarr lmao, everything okay at home?

    • @suzannefigueroa9797
      @suzannefigueroa9797 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Toni B i wish i was strong and wise enough to do that. My problem is that i hold on to hope 😞

    • @suzannefigueroa9797
      @suzannefigueroa9797 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @MadDilla ATCQstarr 😂good one

  • @instakittylover3706
    @instakittylover3706 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5206

    Well the cheater deserved that. Atleast he apologized and she forgave him and moved on.

    • @TokaroGmbH
      @TokaroGmbH 5 ปีที่แล้ว +69

      What does forgiving even mean in this context, if you still want to avoid any contact with the other person, where's the difference in not forgiving.

    • @Sigyd
      @Sigyd 5 ปีที่แล้ว +371

      @@TokaroGmbH People don't forgive for the sake of the other person. People forgive for themselves, for the stability of their mental health and their overall outlook.

    • @TokaroGmbH
      @TokaroGmbH 5 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      ​@@Sigyd I think you interpreted my sentence wrong. It does not matter for whose sake is forgiven, the act of forgiving in my understanding is to accept and forget what has happened and to not bear any kind of grudge or other negative feelings towards the forgiven person, whoever's sake the act of forgiveness does not matter at all (might be both or just one side).
      But in this case, forgiving but still not wanting to stay in contact with a person does not reflect in any kind of way what I understand of forgiveness.

    • @madelineyoung9280
      @madelineyoung9280 5 ปีที่แล้ว +141

      TokaroGmbH you can forgive someone and still think you guys aren’t compatible enough to keep a friendship going.

    • @dawnschoonover662
      @dawnschoonover662 5 ปีที่แล้ว +76

      @@TokaroGmbH The phrase forgive and forget has them as different phases. I understand forgiveness to be not being angry any more, not holding on to the emotions anymore. But it doesn't mean that goodwill is restored or that trust is regained.

  • @ac12304
    @ac12304 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1090

    Wow. The black girl is gorgeous. Her hair, her skin, her eyes. 🦋🦋🦋

    • @ALeedersWay
      @ALeedersWay 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Asha Bryant thank you. I thought I was the only one.

    • @whitneypaige2038
      @whitneypaige2038 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Meh

    • @whitneypaige2038
      @whitneypaige2038 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Meh

    • @richtofen4888
      @richtofen4888 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Antoinette Williams It isn’t racist to say a black girl is unattractive, lmao.

    • @ZuckerfreiTV
      @ZuckerfreiTV 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Thats she broke up via text makes her so unattractive lol

  • @queencyrachel2769
    @queencyrachel2769 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5825

    It's funny how we adjust....... 🙃

    • @tristanneal9552
      @tristanneal9552 5 ปีที่แล้ว +700

      Queency Rachel Yeah, she was talking about more than just the weather with that one.

    • @simbast9726
      @simbast9726 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      I don't get it 🤔

    • @dragoncrystal24
      @dragoncrystal24 5 ปีที่แล้ว +555

      That was a brutal one liner. So much in five words

    • @dragoncrystal24
      @dragoncrystal24 5 ปีที่แล้ว +488

      @@simbast9726 on the surface she's saying "it's funny how we adjust to the weather" but reading between the lines she's clearly talking about how she's already moved on and adjusted to her new life while the ex bf clearly has not adjusted well.

    • @bree3669
      @bree3669 5 ปีที่แล้ว +132

      i felt that

  • @laila3076
    @laila3076 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3941

    The guy with the olive green tshirt (asian guy) seems reaally heartbroken 💔💔💔

  • @littleheart7158
    @littleheart7158 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10035

    *I block everyone who does me wrong*
    This is me literally ;)

    • @deem.4527
      @deem.4527 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Pawan Sharma sameeee

    • @miablack0831
      @miablack0831 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Me too-he's my hero!

    • @gabrialblast2007
      @gabrialblast2007 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Unfortunately I learned this a little too late.

    • @MaskedViolinist07
      @MaskedViolinist07 5 ปีที่แล้ว +68

      I block everyone before they even have the chance to do me wrong.

    • @littleheart7158
      @littleheart7158 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@MaskedViolinist07 That's DOPE😂

  • @Selena-kq8pm
    @Selena-kq8pm 4 ปีที่แล้ว +827

    My ex broke up with me saying "we need to split. I'm a loser and deserve the worst and you are way too good for me." In reality, he left me for a girl he was dating months before breaking up with me. He left me so he can make her public. She cheated on him and he called crying to me but I told him I would never take a guy back because that just tells me he's a joke.

    • @ijustwanttosleepnow
      @ijustwanttosleepnow 4 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      Selena He’s deeply insecure. It’s better to let him sort that out for himself.

    • @anikapatel810
      @anikapatel810 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @Sarita Hsa agreed 100%

    • @senorfootball2460
      @senorfootball2460 3 ปีที่แล้ว +70

      at least you got the satisfaction of seeing your toxic ex suffer the consequences of their actions

    • @anjalinetragaonkar3738
      @anjalinetragaonkar3738 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      I'm literally going through this rn, idk if you'll see this but it feels comforting to know I'm not alone in this.

    • @mariasal8793
      @mariasal8793 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      The audacity right.

  • @jemimahndi2589
    @jemimahndi2589 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1725

    "it's funny how we adjust"
    Let that sit

    • @SuperSweetup
      @SuperSweetup 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Jemimah Ndi I loved that one too

    • @tayyabakhan671
      @tayyabakhan671 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Jemimah Ndi my heart sank at that.

    • @HelloMyFavoriteVids
      @HelloMyFavoriteVids 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Right 😥

    • @Guest2O11
      @Guest2O11 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I thought I was the only one tat catches that

    • @topbeatmusic3968
      @topbeatmusic3968 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Jemimah Ndi can someone explain this i don’t get it.

  • @PauloOliveira-zh7pl
    @PauloOliveira-zh7pl 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2355

    The death of a relationship is just that, a death. All the same emotions, just the death of a relationship is a voluntary one. That person has chosen to be dead to you, my God how it aches

    • @adamchapman3358
      @adamchapman3358 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Made me fall in love with sunsets. The poetic changing of colors in the sky as the Sun hits the horizon. Within a few moments the sun is out of sight on the horizon and the sky changes colors once again. Then the slow Fade Into Darkness.
      🌄💕👀

    • @ughnotuagainughnotuagain4275
      @ughnotuagainughnotuagain4275 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @H Flores no no this is actually true! See when someone dies physically, they go into ground and you can actually put it behind you and move on. When a relationship that actually meant something to you, doesn't work out, it's like death, only worse. They don't go into the ground, you bump into them again and the pain and the hurt come right back up. Try your best to heal from the pain and the hurt, it's possible! :)

    • @THOMASCOLTON1
      @THOMASCOLTON1 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      No, you get over it

    • @blackspiderman1887
      @blackspiderman1887 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@adamchapman3358 but if you keep waiting eventually another sunrise begins

    • @adamchapman3358
      @adamchapman3358 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@blackspiderman1887 my man, you know it) The sunrise is the opening of a new chapter. Infinite possibilities 🏔🌄👣🐣🐦

  • @shamimaakter7897
    @shamimaakter7897 5 ปีที่แล้ว +814

    "If you can't be a good partner in a relationship, at least be a good ex."
    I loved what he said at 04:35

    • @regandahm2006
      @regandahm2006 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Shamima Akter me too, it felt really raw and beautiful, and it’s very true

    • @XilinGaming
      @XilinGaming 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol I read your comment exactly when he said it

  • @monoo_2159
    @monoo_2159 4 ปีที่แล้ว +276

    It’s crazy how it can go from having immense feelings for each other, to strangers with a part of each other.

  • @hellomeloO
    @hellomeloO 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2076

    Break ups suck so much

    • @yugrévelitani
      @yugrévelitani 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      When you are emotionally attached to the person, yes it does. Luckily for me, I’m not like that.

    • @avamasquerade
      @avamasquerade 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Toxic relationships suck so much more.

    • @seti6272
      @seti6272 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@avamasquerade it sucks even more when you know you should end it but you're in love with your toxic partner

    • @vincegonzalez7772
      @vincegonzalez7772 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      honestly they do .

    • @ntinoskost8424
      @ntinoskost8424 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I know the braike ups will always be bad will always hurt some people get hurt more than others but you still have to look on the bright side and try to move on even if it's very difficult

  • @Skripturz
    @Skripturz 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5073

    i wanna give that Asian guy a hug

    • @heymodathird7121
      @heymodathird7121 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Rohit Kumar legit

    • @heymodathird7121
      @heymodathird7121 5 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Keeper Of The Reaper no U

    • @memyselfnaye8282
      @memyselfnaye8282 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      me to

    • @cybhers
      @cybhers 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Rohit Kumar me too

    • @jael8283
      @jael8283 5 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      @Keeper Of The Reaper Hugging someone that has the same gender as you is gay now? Wow I didn't know that...

  • @DetrickROS
    @DetrickROS 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2983

    I cant even listen to some songs now because of exes😭

    • @n.sprungg7087
      @n.sprungg7087 5 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      same sad times bro

    • @allenmoffat9357
      @allenmoffat9357 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I can't watch the Notebook

    • @SundaeKongoKingdom
      @SundaeKongoKingdom 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      same here

    • @tma78
      @tma78 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      It'll pass eventually. I never thought i could listen to artists again, but it's all good now. More the nostalgic good time memories, its weird i forgot any of the bad time memories which where the ones that led to breaking up.

    • @natashar9531
      @natashar9531 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Lmao my bf cant even listen to songs that we used to hear before our first break up it was like 6 months we didnt contact each other and now we are here almost 4 years and he still is hurt because of the first break up and hate those songs i mean why? I AM HERE lmao it makes me laugh but at the same time is kinda sad

  • @captainsteve7817
    @captainsteve7817 4 ปีที่แล้ว +374

    Being friends with your ex is highly overrated. Move forward and never look back.

    • @blacklyfe5543
      @blacklyfe5543 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Its impossible to be friends with someone who did you wrong

    • @markobalazevic9057
      @markobalazevic9057 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      @@blacklyfe5543 im best friends with my ex, while we are both in a relationships of our own, nobody did each other wrong, and we talk very often, you can be friends with anyone if you are emotionally mature...

    • @Ljounieh
      @Ljounieh ปีที่แล้ว +6

      ​@@markobalazevic9057 if you're not in love with them

    • @judyc6820
      @judyc6820 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      They're called an 'EX' for a reason.....there's no grey area. I don't get people sometimes.

  • @rj7704
    @rj7704 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4088

    Much RESPECT to the woman who actually left when her herboyfriebd cheated. So many women forgive AND take guys back while guys hardly ever do if the scenario was reversed

    • @asha_vere
      @asha_vere 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      This..

    • @phoebesanchez8915
      @phoebesanchez8915 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      @@asha_vere is true

    • @lucar6897
      @lucar6897 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      R J why are do you want women to become less forgiving, and not men to be more forgiving?

    • @phoebesanchez8915
      @phoebesanchez8915 4 ปีที่แล้ว +113

      @@lucar6897 plus you're twisting the person's words.

    • @lucar6897
      @lucar6897 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Phoebe Sanchez what did they mean?

  • @Youtubing5999
    @Youtubing5999 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5341

    This dude really wrote her a poem and she broke up with him over text...

    • @tjszuch
      @tjszuch 5 ปีที่แล้ว +67

      its sad

    • @aberdeen0107
      @aberdeen0107 5 ปีที่แล้ว +779

      Just because he wrote a poem doesn’t mean she owes him anything.

    • @jakecruz2515
      @jakecruz2515 5 ปีที่แล้ว +409

      aberdeen but that fact that she did it over text

    • @di7787
      @di7787 5 ปีที่แล้ว +283

      This is discussible, you don't know how he was in the relationship, maybe he deserved it, you know, might have been someone who makes a positive gesture after a really bad one

    • @vito7361
      @vito7361 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Hypergamy in a nutshell.

  • @abzyaplayz5800
    @abzyaplayz5800 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1656

    “It’s okay to let things go in your life, because there are better things ahead”
    🙌🏾💯

    • @ShinkuGouki
      @ShinkuGouki 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Don't you ever feel like going back?

    • @gabrialblast2007
      @gabrialblast2007 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@ShinkuGouki sometimes I do. But I learned to appreciate the memories, but move forward. People have to grasp the concept of "there are better things out there." There really are. We get so stuck on our exs and some of us think that we will never find someone better, but there really is somethibg better, much better

    • @ShinkuGouki
      @ShinkuGouki 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Remember back in your good times how you thought you couldn't experience better, and then you happen to experience better. You're right, looking forward to the future

    • @itzdat.kim_9240
      @itzdat.kim_9240 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      True

  • @KhidJ1
    @KhidJ1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +253

    “When a good thing goes bad , it’s not the end of a world, just the end of a world, that you had with one girl....”

    • @Belz123
      @Belz123 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Drake

    • @hms___
      @hms___ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Did you date drake?

    • @sweetbunny3334
      @sweetbunny3334 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@hms___ 😭

  • @audrey1116
    @audrey1116 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1979

    The black girl is soo pretty

    • @benjaminprince6424
      @benjaminprince6424 5 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      She has a lovely smile

    • @opnode9962
      @opnode9962 5 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      Just like you😄

    • @taylo652
      @taylo652 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      MadDilla ATCQstarr ?

    • @linoshkamariel2645
      @linoshkamariel2645 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @MadDilla ATCQstarr why

    • @Hannah-pj5og
      @Hannah-pj5og 5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      MadDilla ATCQstarr you are disgusting

  • @princesscherry171
    @princesscherry171 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1158

    Don’t you ever have that feeling, when you go back and read your old messages with your ex and you get that anxious feeling for some reason?
    Edit: oh wow.. I thought I was the only one.. my ex broke up with me the day before thanksgiving.. I’ve been so distant, and pushing people away, i feel so numb. I miss him.. but he seems happy without me 💔

    • @reettahanninen6589
      @reettahanninen6589 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Yes... I sometimes start overthinking things and get very anxious bc I just never really replied back. I saw no point to reply. I just hope I am not remembered in a bad way. This person wanted me to go away and as hard it was I just had to accept it. I guess I did the right thing. It still makes me anxious to think what if I could have done something differently. I have stopped myself from reading old messages. It hurts too much. Based on how the last convos were, you could tell he didn't want to talk to me anymore... So I guess he is happier now that I am gone. But yeah... the last texts still haunt me to this day and give bad anxiety.

    • @fatimaarroyo3190
      @fatimaarroyo3190 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Princess Cherry1 I get really anxious when I’m about to read there messages, idk I just feel like there response will be like “leave me alone” or “don’t talk to me anymore”

    • @woahsarah
      @woahsarah 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Princess Cherry1 i just delete the messages so i can move on. it’s hard to move on when you keep dwelling on the past, reading those old messages.

    • @mjaynganga327
      @mjaynganga327 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Which is why you clear the messages and delete the number!!!!!

    • @eddietxr3542
      @eddietxr3542 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      You're not alone on that cause I recently had a break up and Every time and I know shouldn't be doing this but I reread our older conversations and start thinking about her a lot but I catch myself and just have that anxious feeling and then cry at times

  • @brittneysmith3065
    @brittneysmith3065 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1166

    They should do a video about people who cheat/are cheating on their partners and their reasons behind it. It would be interesting.

    • @ijustwannacommentnotmyreal9814
      @ijustwannacommentnotmyreal9814 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      YES

    • @jarod2263
      @jarod2263 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      They did. It’s called Hurt Bae but it’s on a channel called Iris.

    • @afalenangel1
      @afalenangel1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      No one knows why they cheat tho..they don’t even have a reason behind it they just do it..assholes being assholes

    • @arancienne
      @arancienne 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      There is only one reason people cheat, so it would be a very boring video.

    • @anxkait
      @anxkait 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      There's no reason to cheat... so... 🤷‍♀️😂 There's your video. People like this shouldn't get the chance to explain themselves

  • @FannyGSX
    @FannyGSX 4 ปีที่แล้ว +501

    "Sorry for the long text, I won't bother you anymore." following a long, heartbreaking text full of love and pain. I loved him so much, but we weren't made for each other. He was my first "real" relationship, the first person I said "I love you" to and really meaning it every single time, and that's why it kills me to let it go. I know it was the best decision, but deep down a part of me will always be wondering what could have been if we only tried a little harder... the same part of me that will forever belong to him.

    • @FannyGSX
      @FannyGSX 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Ruffles729 I'm so sorry 😞 hope it will get better soon!

    • @FannyGSX
      @FannyGSX 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@Ruffles729 oh gosh. Girl you're strong, and definitely worth way more than this. I can tell you're hurt, but you really don't deserve this pain. Keep going because amazing things are on their way to you, I'm sure 💙

    • @thomasengel9802
      @thomasengel9802 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      How can you be so Sure you werent made for each other? Dont go swimming if you are too afraid of water...

    • @FannyGSX
      @FannyGSX 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@thomasengel9802 after one year and many nights where you don't have much to say something just starts to peek out you know...

    • @thomasengel9802
      @thomasengel9802 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      No old couple in a hanhing swing talkes there all day. The couple has much nights of endless talking in memory, also of argueing but most oft love. They have earnt much more than that. As long as the Interest in each other is the highest, everything can be repaired. More than showing this highest interest can nobody do. But a relationship contains of two persons.
      Sorry for Bad english
      Best luck. Hope you find what you search.

  • @allertfuton5135
    @allertfuton5135 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1824

    I just don’t understand how it’s so easy for people just to cut ties with someone you were so in love with. And the worst part is knowing that nothing will ever be the same with them no matter how hard you try.

    • @notoriousalien
      @notoriousalien 5 ปีที่แล้ว +139

      because staying will only make it worse

    • @nicolea8205
      @nicolea8205 5 ปีที่แล้ว +114

      Allert Futon it’s not easy to cut ties but it’s necessary for a lot of people to move on with no contact.

    • @jaykr3450
      @jaykr3450 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      because they who cut ties don't actualy understand what love is in the first place, they just ask someone out without commitment, and they always broke up in the end

    • @kaylee2cold190
      @kaylee2cold190 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Dimas January very true. I agree. If someone was truly in love with you they wouldn’t put themselves in a position as to where they lose you.

    • @AzerBall223
      @AzerBall223 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Well that's the point. Once a person realises they R not in love ofc they will cut Ties to not waste their time and to not waste their partners time Bcuz ya know, self respect

  • @ESGxFear
    @ESGxFear 5 ปีที่แล้ว +954

    Funny how there was this person you’d tell everything to. How you’d go to them for comfort. Can simply just change. And become this person who you can’t even recognize anymore. They’ve become this model of the person they promised they’d never become ..

    • @audreyhatten4338
      @audreyhatten4338 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Riley and Megan this is spot on man

    • @i.8885
      @i.8885 4 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      When they promise they'll never leave you and do that exact opposite

    • @TessaYoung33
      @TessaYoung33 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yepp

    • @TessaYoung33
      @TessaYoung33 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@i.8885 omg yes

    • @i.8885
      @i.8885 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @2ne1 Queens No because I said the same thing but actually meant it

  • @followMichelleto
    @followMichelleto 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8357

    The guy that cheated, it’s heartbroken to see the regret on his face but we all learn from our own mistakes right!?

    • @Jobe-13
      @Jobe-13 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      follow Michelle to Yeah

    • @alireyes4219
      @alireyes4219 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1265

      I strongly disagree, cheaters have a tendency to repeat their behavior.

    • @OhJesseee
      @OhJesseee 5 ปีที่แล้ว +524

      Ali Reyes : not entirely true but to an extent yes.. some cheaters learn some don’t.. I know a handful of people who have cheated and learned from their mistakes and have never wanted to feel that guilt and regret ever again, I know some who didn’t care.. I guess it varies but not all cheaters go back to their ways :3

    • @harrypotter7945
      @harrypotter7945 5 ปีที่แล้ว +400

      Not everyone does.. do you even how it feels to be cheated on ? His ex must feel terrible and insecure now so really the best she could do is cut off ties with him , he fucked up and I hope that he learned to never do that again

    • @Lizestechreviews
      @Lizestechreviews 5 ปีที่แล้ว +271

      Lol I love how your feeling bad for a man that cheated on a women on her birthday. Seriously, f you too. You obviously have no clue what that feeling is like to be cheated on, let alone on your special day.

  • @ammabdull
    @ammabdull 4 ปีที่แล้ว +275

    My ex: i know it hurts but i cant do this anymore.
    Me: (didnt reply)
    I walked away and never look back. No point of forcing. Thats how the 10 years of relationship ends. Im in the healing process now. It hurts like hell.

    • @alissaj8975
      @alissaj8975 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Stay strong.

    • @ammabdull
      @ammabdull 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@alissaj8975 😔 thnks.

    • @sunetrakundu1081
      @sunetrakundu1081 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Stay strong dear

    • @lilliespianoprog
      @lilliespianoprog 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      You are so much more, x I hope you find somebody else and live a happy life, focus on what makes you happy at the moment and spend a lot of time with your family

    • @mayliang2865
      @mayliang2865 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same as mine.but I didn’t walk away till today

  • @KaWiReloaded
    @KaWiReloaded 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1341

    I cant stay friends with an ex. I don’t think it’s healthy in any way, at least for me. One of my 2 exes did try to remain friends, but I couldn’t do it. And I’m the one that broke it off, he did nothing wrong. My 2nd ex did everything wrong, absolutely horrible cheating boyfriend, he broke it off and blocked ME. I’m glad he did. For me, zero contact is best. It’s absolute torture at first, like withdrawals from a person, it was horrible for like 3-4 months. Then every day it got easier. 1 year later I met my now husband and we have been together for 10 years 💜

    • @entity.r.a2777
      @entity.r.a2777 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      KaWi I’m very happy for you❤️ I hope you have a good life ❤️

    • @haitianbeautee7692
      @haitianbeautee7692 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      KaWi love the ending!!💞💞

    • @Flemulina
      @Flemulina 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      My boyfriend is still pretty good friends with his ex girlfriend (who btw cheated on him) , and I totally hate it. Even though she lives in another city (4 hours away from us) I still hate it when she asks him how he's doing on snapchat... 😐They talk on snapchat often and just asking how life is going etc. How can you still be friends/keep in contact with an ex like that? Keep in mind she cheated on him and broke his heart. I find it weird.

    • @imsippinteainyohoodie
      @imsippinteainyohoodie 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@Flemulina I'm friends with my ex who cheated on me and lied to me. I guess the reason why is bcuz I actually cared a lot about her and I still do also I forgave her. She's a good person just made bad decisions in our relationship.

    • @olayinkaadeyemi6389
      @olayinkaadeyemi6389 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yay congrats!!!😍

  • @zulyreyes01
    @zulyreyes01 5 ปีที่แล้ว +534

    I just deleted everything yesterday after holding on for 7 months! Deleted all the pics, messages, voicemails EVERYTHING! After a conversation with my cousin who happens to be his barber. Praying to God for healing and the strength to move forward!

    • @emilia3310
      @emilia3310 5 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      @MadDilla ATCQstarr You're probably ugly

    • @natalie.leclerc
      @natalie.leclerc 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Hope you're doing better! I went through the same process. Took months before I was able to send back all the things he gave me. Some days he still pops up in my head and it still hurts. But I learned that if the other person isn't missing me, I shouldn't be missing them. Wishing us both luck girl!

    • @user-wp8vr7vh7k
      @user-wp8vr7vh7k 5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @MadDilla ATCQstarr okay, I saw you on another comment telling someone that they're ugly, so I hope that you get through whatever you're going through.

    • @sofiaobadic
      @sofiaobadic 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I hope you are doing better❤️

    • @anjumallah12345
      @anjumallah12345 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Girl you'll be fine... My ex stopped talking to me tried to reconnect but got blocked so I thought it's just normal break up patch thing he does... He will be back.. and after a week gets to hear he's engaged.. getting married.. hehe lol I just wanted him to tell me that on my face I deserved it.. but it's okay I'm so much more to what I was... You will also be just hang in there it's not the end of the world make urself better invest in yourself.. laugh giggle.. go out.

  • @amyduong9423
    @amyduong9423 5 ปีที่แล้ว +725

    Breaking up through text is so cowardly.

    • @tinny6720
      @tinny6720 5 ปีที่แล้ว +78

      Amy Duong but some how it hurts the most. The fact that they don’t even care enough to talk in person or even just call is what breaks people the most.

    • @kae-xf3hm
      @kae-xf3hm 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Facts bro facts

    • @fir212
      @fir212 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Amy Duong I always thought that, one of my exes did that

    • @bbeell2975
      @bbeell2975 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hec the mother heccing wheat for me idk but breaking up face to face is more hurtful..

    • @nobody-mw7hq
      @nobody-mw7hq 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I cant do it in any other way as my bf lives across the ocean so i gotta text him dat.....

  • @ijustwanttosleepnow
    @ijustwanttosleepnow 4 ปีที่แล้ว +123

    This was really sad. You can see how technology doesn’t allow for us to see the person we’re speaking to and know the kind of impact we’re making. There’s a lot of unresolved pain here. If you work through your pain, you can come out of the other side understanding your ex, you don’t have to be with them, but you can speak to them and be a good ex, regardless of what happened. Just lots of inner work that everyone avoids.

  • @ATrueLoveOfficial
    @ATrueLoveOfficial 5 ปีที่แล้ว +717

    I prefer to delete all our messages with my ex and I never talk to him anymore. Keeping his messages will make you sad and would make it hard for you to move on.

    • @noicesis8165
      @noicesis8165 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      A True Love Official or she.

    • @mjesc353
      @mjesc353 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      When it comes to a hard breakup, it’s always best to not look back especially if it hurts you every time

    • @brandondenver4331
      @brandondenver4331 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You're wise. Remain so, for your own sake.

    • @junepaulosubang395
      @junepaulosubang395 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      A True Love Official It's almost been 2years since the day my 1st girlfriend dumped me! And i really thought she was the one like we have the same interest and hobbies! Anime, games, Sports and etc. but we are kind of polar opposite when it comes to personality while i'm sensitive she's quite insensitive also i'm a extrovert while she's a introvert but still she lied to me :/ and you knoe whats funny? damn i still miss her even though i know she used me i still can't hate her and still love her up until now! :( my minds keep telling me i dont want to see her but my stubborn heart misses her damn it! Now i'm quite scared to engage for a new relationship because i'm still not over her i don't want someone to exp the same thing that happen to me tsk! :((((( i really hate my clingy emotional side of mine while my looks is kinda opposite lol.

    • @Mia-ek1jp
      @Mia-ek1jp 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      yesssssssss

  • @gloriaregali9090
    @gloriaregali9090 5 ปีที่แล้ว +441

    Isn't it just... crazy? One day you are so close. The person means everything to you. And then maybe a year after you barely think about them. Sometimes it may be very painful to have a future which never happened in the heart, but also these rare thoughts about that person are sad in a light, beautiful way. What a world we live in!

    • @Crystalbomb321
      @Crystalbomb321 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      It took me wayyy longer than a year lol. I think it depends on how serious the relationship was.

    • @gloriaregali9090
      @gloriaregali9090 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Crystalbomb321 it was just an example, I said "maybe".

    • @Amatersuful
      @Amatersuful 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@gloriaregali9090 When she broke up with me. She told me that I think we should remain friends, cuz i still care about u, i dont wanna waste our 2 years of friendship, I still wanna protect each other even if we r not a couple.

    • @gloriaregali9090
      @gloriaregali9090 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Amatersuful oh. My comment was just an example of really common scenario. Most of people cannot be friends with exes. I can't, too.

    • @what-lq2pg
      @what-lq2pg 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Kösem Sultan your comments seem passive aggressive lmao

  • @jenellebader3313
    @jenellebader3313 5 ปีที่แล้ว +651

    The Asian dudes emotions seemed so raw oml

  • @nina-angelinaperez8579
    @nina-angelinaperez8579 4 ปีที่แล้ว +96

    The last text I got from my ex was, “Take care in life, bye.” Made me feel hundreds of emotions at one but in shock for the most part. How someone could be that way.

    • @creativemindsintp297
      @creativemindsintp297 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I understand, I just broke up with my bf yesterday, we both at the same time, decided it wasn't working anymore, the last thing he said to me was, I said "I hope your life is filled with happiness and joy" his last words to me was "I hope you love yourself more" it hit me hard but I knew he was right, it's hard to move on but it's possible, love and light to you freind

  • @DeadManRising36
    @DeadManRising36 5 ปีที่แล้ว +738

    for those heartbroken people who broke up:
    1. delete all chats and photos of your ex
    2. break up
    3. its okay to cry
    4. keep telling yourself "you broke up because you wanted this! otherwise you wouldn't have done it"
    5. do things with other people
    6. move on...

    • @katniss132
      @katniss132 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      DeadManRising thanks i’m cured

    • @neuzavaz2845
      @neuzavaz2845 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Things ain't easy when you have a child with your ex. Life can be hard 😒😒

    • @sirius9108
      @sirius9108 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Neuza Vaz your fault for being careless

    • @neuzavaz2845
      @neuzavaz2845 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      @@sirius9108 who told you take I have a child because I was careless? Smh I guess your mom was careless too 🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @vminhope3040
      @vminhope3040 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      DeadManRising My mom still has all pics of her ex husband’s. That was almost a year ago

  • @Alicia-cp4yw
    @Alicia-cp4yw 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3161

    I like texts from my exes when they want a second chance

    • @imsippinteainyohoodie
      @imsippinteainyohoodie 5 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      Cold. but yeah lowkey 😂

    • @cagoddess1001
      @cagoddess1001 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Best comment yet

    • @Chamchameow
      @Chamchameow 5 ปีที่แล้ว +125

      I think that's a lyric from Cardi's song "I like it like that" 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @lilybee24
      @lilybee24 5 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      Yep, received one about two months ago. I'm in a new relationship. I pretty much screenshot it. It was pretty pathetic. He said that he needed to talk to me and that he hasn't been able to stop thinking about me after we broken up and that he misses my kisses and me. I show it to my now boyfriend. We just posted pictures kissing each other. I know that's cruel but this dude cheated on me. It seems that he have me on his phone cause I can see him checking out my pics.

    • @Alicia-cp4yw
      @Alicia-cp4yw 5 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      hop out the stu, jump in the coupe, big dipper on top of the roof

  • @coughdrop650
    @coughdrop650 5 ปีที่แล้ว +827

    "if you can't be a good partner in a relationship at least be a good ex"
    That was really nice actually 🌼

    • @junksterdiving
      @junksterdiving 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Agreed. That was a very mature response.

    • @Ljounieh
      @Ljounieh ปีที่แล้ว

      I find it the opposite. He's still trying

  • @Iwish387
    @Iwish387 4 ปีที่แล้ว +528

    The guy who says “ I blocked everyone.”
    Is literally me. You have to blocked those from your past just for you to grow and not to fall into their toxicities sometimes.

    • @evagacha9808
      @evagacha9808 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I'm still friends wiht my ex thzo he wanted to stay friends so yeah
      Deep inside I htink of him as a friend but somehow hate him

    • @egieoruyi7579
      @egieoruyi7579 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Its to simple to always blame your ex maybe you were also a bit toxic.

    • @apala09
      @apala09 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      That is me tbh

    • @Digital111
      @Digital111 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Not everyone ends their relationships in toxicity.
      A lot of exes remain friends...

    • @MrsNanaBlue
      @MrsNanaBlue 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      As I spoke to my Ex, and split up with him, I let him time to message me again. But after that message and my respond, I blocked him. But only on the main messenger. It's a kind of self protecting. He had my phone numbers and could message through fb. But I'm glad he didn't, because I don't want to be his friend. There happened to much stuff that still triggers my anxiety and causes bad memories. Still trying to let go of these, after now almost two years.

  • @thesoft3956
    @thesoft3956 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1416

    I been single for 18 years. I'm 18 btw

    • @db9478
      @db9478 5 ปีที่แล้ว +81

      The Soft I’ve been single for 19 years, I’m 19

    • @kylet6715
      @kylet6715 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Good luck! in the same boat

    • @AhmedMohamed-ko2mb
      @AhmedMohamed-ko2mb 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You being single for 3 years

    • @nitezade
      @nitezade 5 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      almost 30 years here, dont worry :)

    • @camymaegeorge5233
      @camymaegeorge5233 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      goshh i love this comment of alll of them 💖😂

  • @nooktah
    @nooktah 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1157

    "I block everyone that does me wrong" me too sis, me too

    • @idleheart8600
      @idleheart8600 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @Zephyr "sis" has become a gender-neutral term these days. Same with "bro". I'm a girl, but people call me "bro" all the time.

    • @nooktah
      @nooktah 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Professional Blackpink and Little Mix enthusiast Thank you, was gonna say the exact same thing x

    • @nooktah
      @nooktah 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Zephyr oh I call everyone sis, didn't mean anything by it :)

    • @Itslanii
      @Itslanii 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Zephyr ok sis

    • @nooktah
      @nooktah 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Person we've already discussed this sis 🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @feebeci
    @feebeci 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3853

    I block everyone who does me wrong . Can relate !

    • @TripleSixxxRonin
      @TripleSixxxRonin 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Weakling

    • @FnVir
      @FnVir 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Weak pussy

    • @DubstepCity7
      @DubstepCity7 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      *blocks everyone* lol

    • @Bellecinno
      @Bellecinno 5 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      Me too! It’s not weak like these idiots are saying. It’s healthy to block people because they are in the past, they’ve done us wrong, we forgive but that doesnt mean what they did was erased, it doesnt mean someone is not toxic anymore, we can forgive knowing this person is toxic but we move on with our lives meeting new and better people and leaving who wronged us in the past were they belong.

    • @nessaanderson4759
      @nessaanderson4759 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      feebeci same

  • @crystallineleaf
    @crystallineleaf 4 ปีที่แล้ว +86

    Everybody affected me except for that cheater.

  • @jacintarene_
    @jacintarene_ 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1302

    I’m literally dealing with trying to move on right now and I just can’t seem to let go and it hurts so much

    • @paranoidcutie9371
      @paranoidcutie9371 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      You ok?

    • @ChikiruMEL
      @ChikiruMEL 5 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      I feel you it's been nearly two weeks and I always have moments when I think of him and I get sad 😔

    • @shadowofthemoon9195
      @shadowofthemoon9195 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      i know how you feel... you're not alone in this sh*t, sister!

    • @em5506
      @em5506 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Me too girl

    • @noahberman5663
      @noahberman5663 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      I know what you mean. It’s been two week and every social media post of hers, reminds me of how things used to be and that’s it’s really over :/

  • @joruckus
    @joruckus 5 ปีที่แล้ว +439

    I always found it interesting that it takes so much time and energy to build a relationship but less than a second for all of it to go away. I think about all the moments that an ex "cuts all ties".... This video brought me back to all that hurt... I hate the last text moment....

    • @taylor_br0wn_0
      @taylor_br0wn_0 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Joseph Naguit
      It’s not because they decide to break up that everything « go away »😔 I feel like *a **_real_** love* never ends on a break up... the heartbreak is still there after years
      It’s like the feelings are still there, so the relationship continues but it’s only built on -painful- memories

    • @jameshuang2677
      @jameshuang2677 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Generally it's gone or going away for some time for one person before they end it, shocking for the other person though if they never saw it coming.

    • @leemahay6742
      @leemahay6742 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Joseph Naguit if you think about it relationships don’t just end in a second, there are always red flag and little things that happens during the relationship that pull people apart.

    • @joruckus
      @joruckus 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@leemahay6742 I generally agree with that... but having constant communication with someone to nothing at all is what I'm mostly referring to. Regardless if that communication is good or bad, that moment when u stop, and the silence sets in... it's the worst feeling. Like mourning for someone who's still alive.

    • @xxxmochibaby
      @xxxmochibaby 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Joseph Naguit totally agree. Got goosebumps when I read “that last text moment” such a real moment when you know it’s the last time you’re going to talk and it’s so hard to say the last word. Such an anxious scary feeling to know that that person will never be in your life again.

  • @bee-zr6os
    @bee-zr6os 5 ปีที่แล้ว +335

    mine was a couple days ago, 3.5yr together and i broke it off in April, he texted to let me know his new gf is pregnant and he is going to be a papa.... followed by “i miss you, will always be in love with you and still think of you all the time”
    destroyed me honestly. still recovering lol.

    • @collettegeorge5844
      @collettegeorge5844 5 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      Ouch.... for you and the girl he is having a baby with 😯

    • @bee-zr6os
      @bee-zr6os 5 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      right... i feel bad for her, but also she is kind of crazy too... they both kind of deserve each other.... i don’t want in their mess...... she use to msg me when they first got together in June and would say “how can i keep him, he keeps cheating on me, did he do this to you, i love him so much” they are both wack jobs lmao.

    • @sarahrose4828
      @sarahrose4828 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Rebecca Fair-Lien if they're both like that i feel bad for the poor child. hopefully theyll be good parents even though they arent good people.

    • @bee-zr6os
      @bee-zr6os 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      same here... i really hope they can get their act together for the sake of a baby.

    • @judithgamez3967
      @judithgamez3967 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Omggg. I'm literally going through the same situation, my ex broke up with me like two or three months ago and his baby mama is one month pregnant, he visited me last saturday just to talk, and he told me that she is a really toxic person
      We were together for 3 years

  • @wakawakachuchu9353
    @wakawakachuchu9353 4 ปีที่แล้ว +256

    "Did you change the netflix password?"

  • @thedogthatcandraw
    @thedogthatcandraw 5 ปีที่แล้ว +277

    Man, I think the worst thing is a dating a good friend after you start to have feelings for them and then breaking up. It’s losing somebody that used to make you so happy and somebody that you used to look forward to seeing every day. Now they’re like a bad stain in your memories, ruining the good things.

    • @moniapolo8591
      @moniapolo8591 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      WoofieArtsAlot I can relate so much to this that it actually hearts my heart. Don't date the friends you really wanna keep, either of you is gonna get tired and that "going back to being friends" it's surprisingly painful and almost never works. Done it 3 times and im still alone😂

    • @thedogthatcandraw
      @thedogthatcandraw 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@moniapolo8591 I can relate to that. I hope you're feeling better.

    • @myraalugo
      @myraalugo 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      WoofieArtsAlot it’s exactly what happened with me... I dated my best friend of 5 years (at the time) and then two weeks later, it ended cause he emotionally cheated on me pretty much (started liking someone else and putting her first instead of me when I told him something wasn’t right about her) and yeah... the day after he broke up with me, he immediately started dating her when he knew I was very emotional about everything and tried to force me to be friends with her when I never liked her in the first place. In the end, he called me a manipulator just because I said my truth to what happened, and he eventually started cutting off ties with me and just never wanted to talk to me again... I still had happy pictures of us on my laptop and seeing them made me feel empty so yeah... 😪 either way, I lost about five of my (ex) best friends over the same thing which hurt so much more even tho I expected it to happen with it but yeah. 😒

    • @KimJisooyaaaaaa
      @KimJisooyaaaaaa 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      i can relate so bad to my girlfriend. She's my best friend and I loved her for 10 years but still we broke up. 😧

    • @triveni4357
      @triveni4357 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Totally relate to this one.

  • @Heritagepostfarms
    @Heritagepostfarms 5 ปีที่แล้ว +434

    Just remember...no matter how shitty you feel, you WILL feel better. You may think the pain will last forever, but it wont. You will feel yourself again. It may take months or even years, but it will happen. Trust me

    • @mbateeka9089
      @mbateeka9089 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Farmer Nate just wanna say thanks for wrote this comment. U really made my day.

    • @hazeylulu
      @hazeylulu 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      💗

    • @pinkbunny59
      @pinkbunny59 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      You don’t know how much I needed to read that thank you 🙏🏾

    • @kayla4732
      @kayla4732 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Farmer Nate i needed it.thanks❤️🙏🏼

    • @aladyknight1314
      @aladyknight1314 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you

  • @Makasituation
    @Makasituation 5 ปีที่แล้ว +642

    You cheat on her then ask her if she wants to meet up for coffee on her birthday? I would've kept it at 'stop texting me'.

    • @joelmiller2601
      @joelmiller2601 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Mak@5 thats assuming youve had a relationship yes?

    • @Mel-rt9pm
      @Mel-rt9pm 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Damn, you make it sound bad. It’s obvious he’s a good guy with a regret.

    • @joelmiller2601
      @joelmiller2601 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      MelMSP facts.

    • @idleheart8600
      @idleheart8600 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@Mel-rt9pm "It's obvious he's a good guy with a regret" is it though? I mean, you can't really judge a person's character based on a 5 minute video. Who knows, he's probably a jackass in real life 😕 (I mean, texting your gf after you cheated on her on her BIRTHDAY definitely seems like what a jackass would do, but that's just my opinion)

    • @Mel-rt9pm
      @Mel-rt9pm 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Professional Blackpink and Little Mix enthusiast well he remembered her birthday and cared so much bout her to actually make a fool of him self and put himself out there just to be rejected that seems good to me🙂

  • @prettykush7924
    @prettykush7924 4 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    “I actually block everyone that does me wrong “
    Felt that

  • @fatimaahmad5798
    @fatimaahmad5798 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1953

    This needs to be a series

    • @okaton6559
      @okaton6559 5 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Welllllll considering it IS hence the S1:E1

    • @GotStones1
      @GotStones1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Okaton Laughed out loud in public

    • @Xscape128
      @Xscape128 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I swear

    • @serigotskrila6712
      @serigotskrila6712 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      هلا تحية من البحرين

    • @wut462
      @wut462 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Madara Who only wanted peace انا بعد من البحرين ههههه

  • @honestlyme7927
    @honestlyme7927 5 ปีที่แล้ว +591

    I’m surprised he was willing to admit to cheating. Lesson learned hopefully?

    • @jade4897
      @jade4897 5 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      Who are we kidding? .. Once a cheater.. Always a cheater.. Or until certain parts become useless

    • @yoloyenzo7851
      @yoloyenzo7851 5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      I personally think he is admitting it because he thinks its giving him attention. I see no remorse at all.

    • @irishcheerios8748
      @irishcheerios8748 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@yoloyenzo7851 I dont know about that, I know I'm answering this 2 months late but I've done something pretty bad in my life and sometimes you just dont think in the moment and when you realise the consequences, you never want to do it again cause you know it's bad and dont want it to happen again

    • @mimi-zu3sy
      @mimi-zu3sy 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Irish Cheerios That’s true

    • @DrNiloufarhayath
      @DrNiloufarhayath 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Honestly Me at least the man looked sorry , my ex cheated , blamed me for it and blocked me

  • @bryanfurious6100
    @bryanfurious6100 5 ปีที่แล้ว +890

    I deleted my text messages, it was very painful everytime I opened the messages and was reading over and over so I deleted the texts and blocked her. and we were together for three years

    • @dimebagdarrel00
      @dimebagdarrel00 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Same here dude, I deleted all the pictures and text threads and cut all ties. I don't regret it all, there are better things ahead for you and me 😎

    • @armankirakosyan5278
      @armankirakosyan5278 5 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      So hard to do when you're still both in love with each other. There's that little tiny bit of hope in the back of your mind that a miracle could happen. It's soooo hard to let go.

    • @bryanfurious6100
      @bryanfurious6100 5 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Arman Kirakosyan yeah I loved her soo much and not gonna lie I still do becz she changed me as a person and made me a better person.
      we argued too much and my mind was telling me to let her go but my heart was in real pain and didn’t know how to react. I could talk for hours about her but let’s just say I hope she’s doing great, she was my first love and it still hurts letting her go like that. first love always hurts.

    • @armankirakosyan5278
      @armankirakosyan5278 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@bryanfurious6100
      I feel ya brother, recently broke up so I'm in the same situation here, it's the suckiest feeling ever. Wouldnt wish that on my worst enemies.

    • @tamaraf49
      @tamaraf49 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same here, me and my boyfriend are in the middle of like being in a relationship and breaking up. We had a big fight but every time you want to end it there’s just that hope that it could get better... it’s so hard... we still Love each other but there are just to many things that happened in the past and we have different goals in life overall... :(

  • @CrazyKeven3000
    @CrazyKeven3000 4 ปีที่แล้ว +221

    "I text my ex whom I cheated on, on her Birthday"
    me: "Yiiiikes dude"

    • @zombiedietitian
      @zombiedietitian 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      He texted her on her birthday, didn't cheat on her on her birthday

    • @shirin8609
      @shirin8609 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@zombiedietitian Yeah pretty sure OP got that, but that's still shitty talking to someone on their birthday when they clearly have no reason to want to hear from you.

  • @iThiink
    @iThiink 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1156

    It's better to just delete their number and block them. A destroyed relationship is the hardest thing to fix, and even if you do there will still be cracks. Sometomes its just better to appreciate the experience and learn from mistakes. Nothing lasts forever.

    • @uifyujkftgvujvhn
      @uifyujkftgvujvhn 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Reo Rose currently dealing w an on and off relationship. Rn we decided to try one more time to work things out but I’m having my doubts that it isn’t gonna go like I’m hoping. I’m praying for the best bc he’s my first real relationship and I love him so much regardless of our ugly moments. Just want things to get better. What sucks more is we have kids together so I can’t exactly forget about him at all if we don’t fix things for good.

    • @meinctutw8261
      @meinctutw8261 5 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      in my personal opinion, no relationship will ever be perfect, but you also shouldnt just cut off all ties once you are fighting. i feel like you should try to fix it instead of just throwing it away.

    • @acreshome3549
      @acreshome3549 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Couldn't have said it better. Tried multiple times trying to make a toxic relationship work and finally ended things fir good yesterday. I was given a million reason to stay and work things out but I should have seen that it was just a lesson for me to learn. Some things aren't meant to be forever and that's okay. Take your L, move on and focus on bettering you.

    • @XilinGaming
      @XilinGaming 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      ...We can change the future

    • @ShinkuGouki
      @ShinkuGouki 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      But the beautiful feelings you obtained, you will always look back and hope that the next person makes you feel loved like that and they never do. It's always a different kind of love.

  • @simonem.7385
    @simonem.7385 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1677

    The black girl at 2:01 is absolutely beautiful!! 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽❤❤

    • @stellas9787
      @stellas9787 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Simone M. she issssss

    • @vloggetts
      @vloggetts 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      yessssss

    • @jailanrayvon434
      @jailanrayvon434 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Simone M. Why can’t she just be a girl.. damn why does race matter so much to yall

    • @vloggetts
      @vloggetts 5 ปีที่แล้ว +146

      @@jailanrayvon434 Why can't she just be black... damn why does gender matter so much to yall

    • @simonem.7385
      @simonem.7385 5 ปีที่แล้ว +105

      @@jailanrayvon434 She is a girl lol.. the adjective "black" was used to described the female I was referring to. Black girl or just girl she's beautiful either way 🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @sagebreezy
    @sagebreezy 5 ปีที่แล้ว +300

    My opinion: Very selfish to want to be in your exes life and they want to move on with theirs. why i talk to NONE of my exes. Leave me alone. Plus 95% dont change they just miss abusing you. catch me dead entertaing this busllhit. we are 8 billion on earth!!!

    • @illeanacopper
      @illeanacopper 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Just Rose i left my ex boyfriend because he sexually assaulted me and he tried to keep in touch

    • @MsChantae
      @MsChantae 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      factssss

    • @MsChantae
      @MsChantae 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@illeanacopper :'( sorry

    • @criskp6861
      @criskp6861 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@illeanacopper I hope he is in jail

    • @sagebreezy
      @sagebreezy 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@illeanacopper really sorry

  • @alittleredpepper768
    @alittleredpepper768 4 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    if you break up through text the relationship ain't worth it.

    • @crittertails7536
      @crittertails7536 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That's what most people do nowadays. Technology... 🥀

    • @honeywest39j95
      @honeywest39j95 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Agreed. That’s very cowardly. But life has a way of paying us back when we least expect it though….

  • @nae25..40
    @nae25..40 5 ปีที่แล้ว +273

    He wasn't an "ex" in my case . just someone that I had a deep connections with , but we tried being friends didn't work at all. But still feels like a break up. I wish him well with a smile on my face.

    • @heymodathird7121
      @heymodathird7121 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      BeforeTheOne Her exactly i had a girl like this once we chated fir hours and talked and hanged out we stayed talking till like 3 am but i never had the nerve to tell her that i love her although i was sure that she did too I would sacrifice myself for her but right now i dont know how but we just stoped talking for no reason its been 1 year and i cant forget her

    • @nae25..40
      @nae25..40 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thank you for sharing that. But my case was a little tuff he suffers from manic depression so it was hard for him to keep people around.

    • @jaysan3004
      @jaysan3004 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Heymodathird Same thing for me, but I did tell her how I felt.

    • @fetchstixRHD
      @fetchstixRHD 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah had something like that, it can be just as bad as a break up.

    • @arif5873
      @arif5873 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      This is my situation. Its been a year and i still cant forget about her

  • @deemaawad8431
    @deemaawad8431 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3522

    You guys should do last text from a loved one you lost.
    10 HOURS LATER
    hey everyone I just wanna quickly say reading all your different stories and experiences is so touching please feel free to share it’s inspiring and sort of comforting to know your not alone 💙💙

    • @aliasanew3398
      @aliasanew3398 5 ปีที่แล้ว +478

      that might be too painful :/

    • @juniorrosario9275
      @juniorrosario9275 5 ปีที่แล้ว +123

      Deema Awad chill lol

    • @michaelb.tysonson3375
      @michaelb.tysonson3375 5 ปีที่แล้ว +274

      Deema Awad
      “Going to Kroger to get some yogurt, want anything”

    • @deemaawad8431
      @deemaawad8431 5 ปีที่แล้ว +83

      YuniorMvp those videos are really emotionally and help people appreciate the ones around them. I think it could connect with many especially myself

    • @elasunset8662
      @elasunset8662 5 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Thats good idea ^^

  • @seanporcelli3965
    @seanporcelli3965 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1932

    If you cheat you totally deserve that. How do you even have the gaul to talk to them after?

    • @xoz--
      @xoz-- 5 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      ikr wtf

    • @Lizzz682
      @Lizzz682 5 ปีที่แล้ว +116

      Agreed. That guy should be ashamed, I can't believe he even attempted to talk to them.

    • @valentinac8594
      @valentinac8594 5 ปีที่แล้ว +69

      Exactly... my ex cheated on me a few times and all he does it text me back to back and I don’t even respond 🤷🏻‍♀️ I have nothing else to say to him

    • @nikoa4460
      @nikoa4460 5 ปีที่แล้ว +96

      Ikr on her birthday too?

    • @nataliahall236
      @nataliahall236 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Sean Porcelli exactly.

  • @heythere9273
    @heythere9273 4 ปีที่แล้ว +97

    The pain in everyones eyes… crazy how love fucks everyone up

    • @Ljounieh
      @Ljounieh ปีที่แล้ว

      I hate it

    • @Duck72432
      @Duck72432 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Without the risk of pain it would have no meaning or value. That’s really what love is giving someone the power to hurt you if you knew they couldn’t that what be control

  • @victorkronbaek5230
    @victorkronbaek5230 5 ปีที่แล้ว +326

    You can't get a ex if you never get in a relationship....

    • @adaorao3117
      @adaorao3117 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Then what would you call them?

    • @victorkronbaek5230
      @victorkronbaek5230 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Damn, I got 50 likes, I made this to see if people would react, and they did, damn

    • @luutas
      @luutas 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@adaorao3117, "NonExistent"

    • @kayla2150
      @kayla2150 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I kinda want a ex

  • @its1meh1xD
    @its1meh1xD 5 ปีที่แล้ว +189

    The green shirt guy seems so heartbroken... it makes me so sad

  • @QueenZsWorld
    @QueenZsWorld 5 ปีที่แล้ว +164

    I used to keep old numbers and texts but I learned there's no point. things will never and should never go back to how they used to be. I'm learning to let go. everyone is in your life for a reason, season, or a lifetime. if someone has exited my life I won't make an attempt to try and hold on to them cause I trust that it was time to let go. their time is over. and that's okay. there's no need to fight for relevance in someone's life.

    • @laraking804
      @laraking804 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Queen Zey Woke! You got it girl 👊

    • @jessicaco9146
      @jessicaco9146 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Amen sis 👌💅✨✨

    • @nunya257
      @nunya257 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      That is how I usually feel until this last breakup. I can’t move on. Being stuck in misery for five months is just insanity!!

  • @aben4628
    @aben4628 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    I'm so proud of people who can chose themeselves and not fall back into a toxic person