be confident and be yourself, don't try to act like somebody that you are not just because of videos like this. If your a simple guy and she's looking for someone more exciting then so be it, she missed out on a great guy and trust me you are worth it! Just be confident on who you are and who you will become in the future.
Ikrr!! Like I mean if they ever start liking you, they at least need to know who u actually are. I mean how are they supposed to like a person who literally changed their personality cuz of youtube videos 🤷🏻♀️
Yeah, as a guy, id ask you to NOT do these things the way she said. First of all, keep saying just "hi" to girls, the ones who think youre "boring" because of a simple "hi" definitely arent for you, so you will filter out the filth, those are the girls that are the "complicated" type. The ones that respond normally and or show interest, well shoot your shot mate and good luck. The other things she mentioned, dont work at all if you arent generally attractive. Just so you know. If an attractive guy sends her a video or voice mail, it will be cute...if an unattractive guy does the same, she will see it as creepy. Point is, dont deal with these 304s. You will have better luck and chance doing it in person than over text. If youre a guy thats self concious, just work on how you carry yourself a little bit, work on your body a little bit and trust me, you will have no problems.
I was scared to ask my crush out but the second I did I just closed the Messages app and I waited for the response and to my surprise she said yes and I was absolutely in shock.
Alright, this is actually good advice, just gonna add something on top of it. If you guys are acting kinky together, get possessive, if you wanna see what I mean by possessive, read any romance novel that includes a woman thinking a guy is hot, for example something like Twisted Games or Fifty Shades Of Grey (don’t actually be THAT abusive but yk what I mean) or Hunting Adeline. (This is extra effective if your girl reads romance novels, you’ll be a living dream, trust me). STILL BE NICE, NEVER SAID DONT BE NICE!!
Trust me I used to send such boring snaps like what would one do of em? But then i showed more of my life maybe when I am travelling and my cute doggo, and stuff and he legit sent me a snap, and that was his way of telling me that he wants to create a streak with me , after sometime I just stopped for sec cuz I thought why am I only keeping the streak alive , and trust me the other day he sent me the snap to keep the streak alive and going on.
So basically the man has to do everything, be talented funny confident and the woman does nothing. Maybe it's you who needs to give the man a reason to be interested
Don't say hi, you're boring - will be ignored and girls deserve better than that. You could also say hi back and not ignore that, guys deserve better than that.
Just wanna clarify that this is good advice for boys as well as girls. Can't count the amount of "don't be boring" bio's that I matched with and got a hi from 😂
@@edenbos6976 maybe but my point being that you shouldn't listen to an 18 year old about things like this. She's not a professional and Frankly 18 year olds don't know anything😂 if you want dating advice or whatever then go check out appolonia ponti. Shes like 35 and is a relationship psychologist that gets payed to give advice like this as her job and she gives much better advice on every facet of dating and relationships👍 sorry for the rant!
I am being true girl. I love your attitude and you always make me smile every day. I always used to be insecure about my body now I’m not because of you!! Love u x
I really don't get why so many people think they could get an actually good advice from her 😂 Guys, don't do any of these. I tried it, didn't work. A simple hi/hey as an opener works just as good and is a lot less effort. The girls that want you to do something "special" just after you first saw a picture of her are really not worth your time anyways and would never give you any effort. So just relax. Or as an old German saying goes: you are always best when you really don't care ;)
But when a girl likes you, the best they will do is to say Hi, that's it. When it's their turn,they'll say just Hi,but when we have to start,we need to write a love novel.
Bro “you get what you give” bro all I give is love and helpfulness and all I get it bullshit and hate like I get that it’s out there and your gonna get it but THATS ALL I GOT
Same, but not because I’m afraid of rejection. I’m afraid of them telling their friends “(blank) sent me a snap asking how are you” and then they gon be giggling at you for the rest of the semester.
Dude, we want men with personalities and that are able to start a convo. If you’re trying to win a girl like this: ‘Hi’ ‘Hi’ ‘Wyd’ *what the girl is doing* ‘Cool’ Then ur probably not getting the girl. Sorry. It works the other way too, if a girl is trying to win you like this probably run the other way
Are you serious saying that? Girls want a guy who actually engages in a conversation with them and doesn't just say the same thing every time they talk. Geez.
Omg I just searched up on Famous birthdays my birthdays the 29th of October and So is your omg I’m matching with my ONE of my fave TH-camrs who gives great advice EEEEEK
The advice is don’t do it. Most likely you are talking to somebody you know. The best types of interactions that we remember happen in person. A boring conversation in person is still better than a great one over text.
The only thing I agree with is the hi thing. When I used to be on dating apps so many guys would just start with a hi and it's just an instant no. Solely for lack of effort. It doesn't take much to think of something a bit more interesting to say to get my attention if you're actually interested you know? Most people that I've pursued something with have started a conversation about what I'd written in my bio. It's not that hard lol And yes I am kind of traditional and I will wait for the guy to message me first, UNLESS it's someone Im really into.
I def agree 100% however on chat sites like kik and meet me they don't have anything in the profile to icebreak but ur right when they have an actual profile u can say something witty or ask her about something that caught ur eye. But she's 100% right, a simple hi it is boring. Cuz there is lack of effort. Witty or joke is what gets then started. Girls love a guy with humor and confidence.
I do what you guys say here, in fact I take the best input from people so I can properly navigate the social and dating life because I'm an introvert. I put a lot of effort, mention something from their profile that I share interest with and be authentic as much as possible and some humor when I try to talk to someone but no one seems to respond. It bothers me even more if they say they want deep connection with someone and yet practice such toxic trait like ghosting. For someone who is painfully average, I feel like it all comes down to looks. Like I understand you guys have standards but damn.. I think you know that the ball is always in your court. For the record, I'm just stating the harsh reality for us guys. I'm not an incel but I kinda sound like one rn. Hahaha. Definitely not a misogynist, In fact I love women, sometimes a little too much but not in a creepy way, more like a respectful appreciation 👍🏼 (cookies if you know where this is from)
@@edwardy.4603 especially online looks are a big factor. But it goes both ways as well. You're not gonna be interested in a girl that you think is unattractive. Of course looks plays a role. We all judge people by their looks even if we try to deny it. Looks aside what I just mentioned is gonna repel you even more. Even if you're a good looking guy, if the conversion is dull it's a no. For me anyway, I can't speak for every woman..
@@Becksnnc I'm not disagreeing with you on that. but in my case, as much as it pains me to say it, even the not conventionally good looking ones who seem to have a nice personality and same interests as mine tends to be choosy as well. it sucks that it has to be this way. I admit I may not be the best talker out there but I'm trying to learn. no one even bother to get to know someone anymore
for guys, whoever it is your approaching, be polite. say hi, tell them your reason for messaging, funny enough, thinking they are a cool person and wanting to get to know them more, is a very OK thing to say. just be honest with yourself. if the person your aproaching is shy, be sure to end on a question, so they have a easier time continuing the conversation if your remessaging someone, say hi, be polite, feel free to be a bit more playish, so the other person know ur not bloody serious about everything, definetly LISTEN to what the other person has to say, and keep in mind, they would always know something you dont, from which u can learn something about. if ur just trying to get bitches in bed, dont do that, not a good goal, and actually worthwhile people would just avoid you, if they see you have such a goal when trying to strike up a conversation.
Oh my god. I do need this video!! I just met a guy while on a chess tournament and we clicked. We can't meetup cuz our parents won't let us leave our cities to meet. Thank you so much girl. Can you tell me how to get him to start the convo?
Got it. I'll send her my Sonic and Tails hentai and my epic memes. Then, after all of that, I'll tell her about my extreme political views.
i'm extremely curious about her reaction
XD
Yes, I like to get the conversation started by saying, "How do you feel about Trump?"
you definitely got her fam
@@kommisar. HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAH😂😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
be confident and be yourself, don't try to act like somebody that you are not just because of videos like this.
If your a simple guy and she's looking for someone more exciting then so be it, she missed out on a great guy and trust me you are worth it! Just be confident on who you are and who you will become in the future.
Thanks bruhh👍🤝
Yes. This is right. She sucks. She tells these things cause she's needy.
Ikrr!! Like I mean if they ever start liking you, they at least need to know who u actually are. I mean how are they supposed to like a person who literally changed their personality cuz of youtube videos 🤷🏻♀️
Ok
I’m going to ask her out
"Hi"
Instead say
"Greetings my fellow human, what will thou be doing on the fine evening"
Im texting this to my crush rn.
Edit:I DID IT
@@Cris_tiano865 oh dear. Did it work?
@@laryok9408 YEAH IT DID HE ASKED TO VIDEO CALL
This girl is a legend rly like those shorts and the advice
Trash
Bro she's 18. Don't take advice from 18 year olds👍
@@HorseyPorsey most of the viewers are even younger-
@@nikkisumesh That makes things even worse...because thay might actually believe what shes saying.
@@uber1ns4n1ty8 they already are
FYI this is only for attractive guys. So she forgot to mention that
Most would be branded as incels for doing exactly these things.
Maybe they’re attractive because they do this
@@jake5403 phsycially attractive. If you aren't that then doing this will brand you as a creep
@@arjunarun3033 literally smh
So take this as advice for after you've hit the gym hard for 6 months, overhauled your wardrobe, and learned an interesting hobby.
If I’ve got to be ‘hot’ over text to get someone to like me instead of acting like myself, I don’t want it.
What i think is when the person is really into you she will exert effort on messages.
WAIT A DAMM MINNM✨✨✨✨ok this is how too
Yeah, as a guy, id ask you to NOT do these things the way she said.
First of all, keep saying just "hi" to girls, the ones who think youre "boring" because of a simple "hi" definitely arent for you, so you will filter out the filth, those are the girls that are the "complicated" type.
The ones that respond normally and or show interest, well shoot your shot mate and good luck.
The other things she mentioned, dont work at all if you arent generally attractive. Just so you know. If an attractive guy sends her a video or voice mail, it will be cute...if an unattractive guy does the same, she will see it as creepy. Point is, dont deal with these 304s.
You will have better luck and chance doing it in person than over text.
If youre a guy thats self concious, just work on how you carry yourself a little bit, work on your body a little bit and trust me, you will have no problems.
Yeah yeah. I just want a guy with a d and a pulse
@@nikkisumesh That can be arranged
@@transparentcd hi bae
True mate
@@nikkisumesh Yeah yeah. We both know that aint true.
Girl, you don’t know how much that helped me my crush just texted me and I was so freaking awkward
I was scared to ask my crush out but the second I did I just closed the Messages app and I waited for the response and to my surprise she said yes and I was absolutely in shock.
.. it was on my fyp… AND YES I DO NEED IT SO THANK YOU FOR THE BLESSING 🙏🙏
It's far better chasing excellency and greatness rather than girls
This girl always giving me the best advice 😩 like idk what to do
For me, recently started talking with my crush, needed it.
So happy to see that this was not another "play hard to get, reply after 6 hours" type of video
loving the shorts!
Alright, this is actually good advice, just gonna add something on top of it.
If you guys are acting kinky together, get possessive, if you wanna see what I mean by possessive, read any romance novel that includes a woman thinking a guy is hot, for example something like Twisted Games or Fifty Shades Of Grey (don’t actually be THAT abusive but yk what I mean) or Hunting Adeline.
(This is extra effective if your girl reads romance novels, you’ll be a living dream, trust me).
STILL BE NICE, NEVER SAID DONT BE NICE!!
Is anyone else going to talk about how good her singing voice is?!??!
me watching this over for the wait a damn min bc i luv her voice
She will never make it as a guy
is no one gonna talk about how good her “wait a damn min” at the start was?! girl you should be a professional singer!
Trust me I used to send such boring snaps like what would one do of em? But then i showed more of my life maybe when I am travelling and my cute doggo, and stuff and he legit sent me a snap, and that was his way of telling me that he wants to create a streak with me , after sometime I just stopped for sec cuz I thought why am I only keeping the streak alive , and trust me the other day he sent me the snap to keep the streak alive and going on.
I needed this…
God I struggle in making out what part of the video is sarcasm and what isnt
So basically the man has to do everything, be talented funny confident and the woman does nothing. Maybe it's you who needs to give the man a reason to be interested
Such a toxic game. It's easier to just ignore them at that point.
Lol don't even say hi, just start slangin washed up pickup lines used 1000s of times.
She didn't mention gender. Stop complaining
@@bobsaget338 😂😂😂 exactly
Holy words!
“If you want to catch fish, you don’t ask the fish. You ask the fisherman”
Facts…don’t ever take a woman’s advice on how to text women.
This is on my FYP because I Freaking love you!
Here’s a better one. Drop all forms of social media and texts and actually call the person. Old school never fails.
Any conversation tips?
I suck at calls, I have nothing to talk about usually
Don't say hi, you're boring - will be ignored and girls deserve better than that.
You could also say hi back and not ignore that, guys deserve better than that.
Just wanna clarify that this is good advice for boys as well as girls. Can't count the amount of "don't be boring" bio's that I matched with and got a hi from 😂
Your advice is the best , I hope you make it 1 mil some day , remember us people when ur a big youtuber 👍🙂
This advice is trash
Dude shes 18. Stop taking advice from 18 year olds😂
@@HorseyPorsey she would know more about this stuff than you?
@@edenbos6976 maybe but my point being that you shouldn't listen to an 18 year old about things like this. She's not a professional and Frankly 18 year olds don't know anything😂 if you want dating advice or whatever then go check out appolonia ponti. Shes like 35 and is a relationship psychologist that gets payed to give advice like this as her job and she gives much better advice on every facet of dating and relationships👍 sorry for the rant!
POV: your crush doesnt have a phone yet.
Welcome to my world!
Her advice is amazing plus she's really pretty too what an individual
Lesson learned; saying 'hi' is bad and if I do it again, everyone I know will leave me for being boring.
Shes such a good singer
I freaking love her!!! Like fr 🥰
Your so sweet n that’s the truth
I am being true girl. I love your attitude and you always make me smile every day. I always used to be insecure about my body now I’m not because of you!! Love u x
“✨YAH, they SUCK✨” is that just me who found that iconic.
Also i know this is over a year ago, but I love Spencer!💗
Ik someone who needs this video
Need another one like this
“Snap like these”
Me: “get you in the friendzone” 🗿
never ask a fish how to get trapped..
Can you make a short how you made a start and acting and what you used
"How to be more attractive over text"
"Send a video or voicemail"
Umm...those aren't text.
I really don't get why so many people think they could get an actually good advice from her 😂
Guys, don't do any of these. I tried it, didn't work. A simple hi/hey as an opener works just as good and is a lot less effort. The girls that want you to do something "special" just after you first saw a picture of her are really not worth your time anyways and would never give you any effort. So just relax.
Or as an old German saying goes: you are always best when you really don't care ;)
I don’t think you understand her advice..,
Can we just appreciate her singing like brooouuuu 🎉❤
Your smile and the way you look so attractive
I need more of this
But when a girl likes you, the best they will do is to say Hi, that's it. When it's their turn,they'll say just Hi,but when we have to start,we need to write a love novel.
I love how perfectly inaccurate this is😂
Never sending him a boring snap.
Yeah I needed this video
I like your picture video thank you💕
This actually worked now I am dating my crush ty
Wow. Gee. Thanks Spence. Needed these tips.
Right when you said if you come in worth a hi.. my friend literally just sent me hii 😂
Lol I love how this girl thinks she knows it all
@@bobsaget338 Yeah that’s what I was thinking. Although, that could just be how she acts infront of a camera. At the end of the day we don’t know her
@@bobsaget338 there’s a difference between being narcissistic and loving yourself
@@timtoot3314 her mom is a psychologist, she knows a lot😂
@@edenbos6976 Oh yeah I’m sure her Mom learns about attractive texting, and what every single guy on this earth likes
Hon, don't be jealous just cause you're not confident.
bro when he said bye for the first time i died idk why (btw it was the first guy i actually ever likes and texted)
Omg spencer u are gorg!! Pls pls pls reply it would make my year!! Liv u
Dude you're the best
Bro “you get what you give” bro all I give is love and helpfulness and all I get it bullshit and hate like I get that it’s out there and your gonna get it but THATS ALL I GOT
One of my girl friends just got a new puppy and posted it on her IG. I commented "Who doesn't love a little doggy?" 😁
True 🦋
Yea I don’t know about anyone else, but I don’t have the confidence or courage to do any of that…
Same, but not because I’m afraid of rejection.
I’m afraid of them telling their friends “(blank) sent me a snap asking how are you” and then they gon be giggling at you for the rest of the semester.
@@2RayMakavelli fr me too please help me out
Mridul in foreign version 🤣
So saying "hi" just isn't enough anymore, girls and their expectations I swear
Dude, we want men with personalities and that are able to start a convo. If you’re trying to win a girl like this:
‘Hi’
‘Hi’
‘Wyd’
*what the girl is doing*
‘Cool’
Then ur probably not getting the girl. Sorry. It works the other way too, if a girl is trying to win you like this probably run the other way
@@madiiii_0327 itsa joke...
Are you serious saying that? Girls want a guy who actually engages in a conversation with them and doesn't just say the same thing every time they talk. Geez.
@@ayanna3895 they’re being sarcastic 😂
Ok who wanna date a boring man who cannot even start a conversation
boys these are the fundamentals of a *SIMP*
I feel sorry for myself watching this 😆
12 hours timezones gonna laugh at this
Omg I just searched up on Famous birthdays my birthdays the 29th of October and So is your omg I’m matching with my ONE of my fave TH-camrs who gives great advice EEEEEK
The Snaps!! 😂
Basically all she taught was how to keep funnelling women more attention💀
The advice is don’t do it. Most likely you are talking to somebody you know. The best types of interactions that we remember happen in person. A boring conversation in person is still better than a great one over text.
Don't just say bye, say goodbye.
I hit up my gf of 3 years randomly on a ig post and introduced myself just straight up and asked her if she wanted to see my cat and it worked 😁
Honestly it would be more attractive if we just didnt text. Creates unnecessary problems
chick's got a point
I am severely envious of all those confident and extroverted people 🫠
I cannot say a word, Nevermind send a video of me dancing 😭😭😭
Proud to say I looked this up 😃
I just send "bread" instead of "hi" and they fall in love with me
I swear exactly when u said "snaps like these" someone sent a snap
Wait a damn minute... The way it sound so good
(Not meant to be rude 😊)
I liked the beginning
Notes lads, send brave prequel memes
You be telling : All the keys for impress a girl in a girl way .
Me a boy : didn't understand anything . 🤣
The only thing I agree with is the hi thing. When I used to be on dating apps so many guys would just start with a hi and it's just an instant no. Solely for lack of effort. It doesn't take much to think of something a bit more interesting to say to get my attention if you're actually interested you know? Most people that I've pursued something with have started a conversation about what I'd written in my bio. It's not that hard lol
And yes I am kind of traditional and I will wait for the guy to message me first, UNLESS it's someone Im really into.
I def agree 100% however on chat sites like kik and meet me they don't have anything in the profile to icebreak but ur right when they have an actual profile u can say something witty or ask her about something that caught ur eye. But she's 100% right, a simple hi it is boring. Cuz there is lack of effort. Witty or joke is what gets then started. Girls love a guy with humor and confidence.
I do what you guys say here, in fact I take the best input from people so I can properly navigate the social and dating life because I'm an introvert. I put a lot of effort, mention something from their profile that I share interest with and be authentic as much as possible and some humor when I try to talk to someone but no one seems to respond. It bothers me even more if they say they want deep connection with someone and yet practice such toxic trait like ghosting. For someone who is painfully average, I feel like it all comes down to looks.
Like I understand you guys have standards but damn.. I think you know that the ball is always in your court.
For the record, I'm just stating the harsh reality for us guys. I'm not an incel but I kinda sound like one rn. Hahaha. Definitely not a misogynist, In fact I love women, sometimes a little too much but not in a creepy way, more like a respectful appreciation 👍🏼 (cookies if you know where this is from)
The reason u guys let him text first is because u guys say basic things like
"Hey :)" 💀😭
@@edwardy.4603 especially online looks are a big factor. But it goes both ways as well. You're not gonna be interested in a girl that you think is unattractive. Of course looks plays a role. We all judge people by their looks even if we try to deny it. Looks aside what I just mentioned is gonna repel you even more. Even if you're a good looking guy, if the conversion is dull it's a no. For me anyway, I can't speak for every woman..
@@Becksnnc I'm not disagreeing with you on that. but in my case, as much as it pains me to say it, even the not conventionally good looking ones who seem to have a nice personality and same interests as mine tends to be choosy as well. it sucks that it has to be this way. I admit I may not be the best talker out there but I'm trying to learn. no one even bother to get to know someone anymore
NEVER TAKE ADVICE FROM WOMEN
That vid was on my fyp
Do I need to use all of these just to mess with you??? 🙆
I change my mind she got the maturity of a 12 year old girl
Looks like I’m too socially awkward for a girlfriend 😂
for guys, whoever it is your approaching, be polite. say hi, tell them your reason for messaging, funny enough, thinking they are a cool person and wanting to get to know them more, is a very OK thing to say. just be honest with yourself. if the person your aproaching is shy, be sure to end on a question, so they have a easier time continuing the conversation
if your remessaging someone, say hi, be polite, feel free to be a bit more playish, so the other person know ur not bloody serious about everything, definetly LISTEN to what the other person has to say, and keep in mind, they would always know something you dont, from which u can learn something about.
if ur just trying to get bitches in bed, dont do that, not a good goal, and actually worthwhile people would just avoid you, if they see you have such a goal when trying to strike up a conversation.
Yeah I need this video lol I suck so bad at texting cuz I dunno how much is too much so I hold back 🤦♀️
Today basically got dumped over text
You got the crazy eyes
I give effort, I get nothing back.
Then he's/she's not for you
just dont overthink it
Oh my god. I do need this video!!
I just met a guy while on a chess tournament and we clicked. We can't meetup cuz our parents won't let us leave our cities to meet. Thank you so much girl.
Can you tell me how to get him to start the convo?
Im not nad at the hi, I can have interesting conversations with a hi at the beginning but if someone is dry after that then IT is an issue