LGBTQ+ Tik Toks for the queer tea party
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 15 ก.ย. 2024
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I love how the author of lord of the rings’s way of saying that those 2 characters aren’t gay is because he had no idea what a gay person was until 19 years old 💀
im rocking with the alterous/qpr interpretation cuz things are dire for us out here 😔
@@kordeliiius9821 honestly yeah that would make sense
16:19 I want to bring up a misconception.
Yes, the brown stripe DOES represent the queer POC that are even more marginalized in society and even within the community, and absolutely deserves to be there. HOWEVER the black stripe does not stand for "black queers". It means "Victory over AIDS" and builds on the rainbow flag with a black stripe at the bottom. It shows we make progress on the backs of those we've lost to one of the most devastating things to the queer community.
I was thinking the same thing, thank you!
Shout out to trans guys!! There's a lot we go through that just is never discussed, and we're so strong for persevering. Keep at it kings
5:18 100% agree with this. "We don't identify, we just are"
i cant wait to get top surgery and someone be like "are you a boy or a girl?" and i say "boy" and they say "you look like a girl" and i say "i get that a lot-"
i have always loved confusing cis people even before i knew i was trans 🤣
Thank you once again Andromeda for doing this. I know that queer compilations may not seem like much but... it really makes me feel seen. Makes me feel like there's people who understand me.
Intersectionality is extremely important
14:34 i always hear about people saying that transmascs have it easier than transfems but this is the first time i've actually seen it. considering the fact that im not transfem, never have been, and never will be, i can never understand how difficult it is to be transfem. but, as a transmasc, i know that being trans is hard in general. you shouldn't have to say oen thing is harder than the other. they're both difficult, everyone experiences it differently. for some transfems, they just grow out their hair and pass perfectly. some will never pass. some don't want to pass. same for transmascs; some of us cut our hair short and pass perfectly, some of us have never passed, and some also don't want to pass. we don't need to argue over who has it worse because not only does it make some people feel invalid for struggling when everyone's telling them that it's so much easier to be them, but it's also just not true. everybody is different with their experiences and trans journey, and that doesn't get respected enough.
I agree. I also am not transfem and have no experience with it so I can't speak for how difficult it is, but being transmasc i know just being trans is hard. passing is harder or easier for different people regardless of if they're transmasc or transfem, and for people who want to pass having to constantly conform to society's gender expectations is the worst. and yes, there are parts of being transfem that are harder than being transmasc, but theres also some parts of being transmasc that are harder than being transfem, and saying that one is harder than the other doesn't accomplish anything and can make some people feel so much worse. instead of comparing one to the other we should be focusing on our own journeys and supporting each other, and we should be able to complain about parts of being trans without having to put down or be put down by others. every person goes through their own struggles and experiences, and its good to acknowledge and respect that that, and they should never be compared as easier or harder than others
Yeah, I'm transfem, I have a transmasc boyfriend, and despite being on hormones longer, having top surgery and even having a BEARD, he still gets misgendered considerably more often than me. Neither of us understand it honestly but it's something that affects him every day. For me, I wouldn't say I pass perfectly, but I get gendered correctly more often than not without using makeup or anything.
Society is weird, and cisnormativity hurts all of us. I don't see a point in trying to analyze who has it harder
What I find strange is that people (if they deserve such a title) justify their own bigotry, especially transphobia, by saying that queerness a new thing. Point 1: so the hell what? The Internet’s a new thing and you’re not saying that’s unnatural. Point 2: there have been trans rights groups since 1897. You can’t ignore something and then claim that it’s not real. It’s like a toddler thinking that covering their eyes makes them invisible.
you are absolutely right and make incredibly strong points that are correct, but always remember, those people are the ones that try to gate keep what being a person is, and through history, bogoted groups of people and oppressive groups of people have always used that as their defense and starting point; that the people they're attacking are not actually people. we shouldn't take a page out of their book and try to define what a person is, after all, this community is ambiguous by nature and we should always try to be kind to those who need it. and some of those who dont deserve it. or just ignore those dumb idiots when we can
shoutout transfems and trans women, as a trans guy, you prolly have it harder than me so sending love to y'all ‼️🏳️⚧️💖
The work you do is so important to me
1:08 I love it when you can see the women beneath the surface based on face shape, eyes, nose etc that its so obvious you wanna squeal❤
Okay so im a trans male, i use he/it/fae pronouns.
I wanna be a mother, but not in the feminine way in the way a ghost cares for the lost dead children in a forest or how cult leaders call their followers their children and I dont know if this is a weird hot take
Honestly based
Lets go 🔥🔥
I understood the first exemple you used, but the second is...scary to say the least, hope it's just a joke.
Its not a joke ? Sorry if thats bad/concerning lmao
@@CorvineCadaver Well I don't think a parent should act like a cult leader to their child, because I don't think cults are good for children (or anyone else for that matter), and that it inherently creates a hierachy between the parent and the child, and I'm against it because I'm childist, it's the equivalent of being a feminist but for children/fighting for children rights.
0:38 I have that same Spider-Punk poster.🤯🤯🤯
4:15 I did not need to be called out like this guys PLZ
Sometimes the best callouts are the most direct ones /light-hearted :P
How are you doing today? :)
Would be nice to tag the youtube channels of the creators whose content your using, since many of us are on youtube too. Might have to move your merch link down though
10:13 the cat shake 😂
14:22 very veryyyy true, ive always thought that and never knew how to put it
No one ever told me 100 was their biggest number?????
Is this yet another common lie told to children that I am somehow just now hearing about?
The one that really blew my mind is it is apparently a thing that a lot of kids believe that cats are girls and dogs are boys rather than these animals being totally different species.
And like, how can kids even think that? Have they never met a cat or a dog? Have they never watched a cartoon?
Excellent explanation of the Progress Flag!
6:36 U-Haul's like: "Hold my Stanley"
14:38 always remember that all of this being true does not mean people can be mean to trans masc people. it does not look like thats what this video was promoting, but remember to listen, be nice, and to suport everyone, even when they are angry and loud because we've all been a bit angry and loud now and then. love your community and others and love yourself
what's up with the vid going black sometimes
I have no idea what’s going on and I made it 😭 I’m pretty sure it wasn’t in the video like that when I finished editing it, something must have gone along the saving/uploading process
Hello there, how are you doing today? :)
@@gremlinsunited2433 Also, how are you doing today? :)
@@gremlinsunited2433 it's ok, i just finished the video and it happens just a few times but I don't even know why i wrote this it's like a few seconds
@@Putting_the_Bi_in_Big_Nerd i'm fine i've been listening to music almost all day aha what about you? so nice from you to ask
1:22 will wood reference spotted
YO HELLO WILL WOOD FAN
Hi y'all! It's your local (digitally-so) bi demi dad/friend; how are you all doing this day/night? \(^w^)/
I think I’m the Ace of Spades because in card decks that’s always the card that has all the special designs on it and I really like dressing up and being over the top!
@@jayinatophat Very cool :D
How are you doing today? (^^)
I'm gonna say ace of spades because of the ace card terminology :] as for how I've been doing, well, I've been doing alright. I'm hoping to get a binder soon, though I'm still deciding between that and using trans tape to bind
@@maryterribilini6520 Very cool :D (also, that's a very cute flareon art in your PFP :P)
Glad to hear you're doing alright :) (also, as I personally have no experience with using either, I would not feel comfortable giving advice/pointers on the pros and cons of those options but maybe other people in this reply chain will be able to help you out with deciding which is best for you)
@@maryterribilini6520 TWINSSSSSS
4:23 correct! I am-
4:17 close! Im a bisexual
Nice
1:27 Exactly the same as me.
0:07 it's literally illegal in my country pls don't curse me to do that i cannnttt
Sooo, Russia?
@@olisa_hehe don't call me out like that... but yeah
@@tristenouvelle I mean same... that's why I assumed so, haha
@@olisa_hehe 😞🤝
We'll get through 🤝
3:33 What game is this? I feel like I've seen it before but I can't quite put my finger on it
I was wondering the same thing! I did some digging and it looks like it's Fields of Mistria. 😄
0:38 i hoped it was a furry thing, now I'm sad
I love these vid but why is it only trans and why not trans,gay,lesbian,agender,non-binary,pansexual,omnisexual etc.