@@ilfautdanser9121 No, it's not unique. We know that "reality" tv cast members are set up to be pitted against each other, ever since The Real World producers showed us their behind the scenes tricks, on their anniversary documentary. It's not clever or funny, what they do to people for ratings is outright disgusting.
Right. I know there's people in the comments saying that she judged him too quickly, but to give her a man that young? She's at an age where a lot of people settle down and he's at an age to have fun. A bit much there.
Beggars can't be choosers 🤣. Sorry but you set me up for that one. Seriously though what did she/you expect? not like there are many dudes 6ft plus, in their 30s, living near her, who are also into trans women.
Y'all did this man dirty. The fact he went on camera comfortable blind dating a trans woman (& the producers knew she didn't like shorter/younger men)... was duplicitous to say the least when he was so chill and open-minded
Miss Missy well she’s not going to find one who would be seen with her in public. If she wants to be accepted, she needs to pick from the people who accept her, not force someone else to.
To be fair, she asked for a specific type of date and they gave her the opposite. The height thing is superficial, but they could've put her with someone her age at least
It’s funny how the people who ask others to accept them the way they are and claim to be open mind are quick to judged. He deserves better in my opinion🤷🏽♀️
How is masculinity toxic though? We need men and to be honest the only issue with masculinity is when it is coupled with misogyny; and then its an issue, but other than that, this person is wrong.
nothing about this dude was even toxic in any way. toxic masculinity for example is being ashamed to buy ur gf tampons. a guy shouldnt feel silly buying them cuz we know its not for them. or say liking britney spears music simply cuz its 'girly' despite that plenty of women listen to 'manly' music like snoop dog or something and no one cares. Being a traditional masculine male isnt toxic masculinity. its being so obsessed with appearing manly that every little thing is a threat to your masculinity. itd be different if someone asked a dude to put on a pretty pink tutu with sparkly heels. but thinking it's bad to express you are sad and crying infront of someone you're close to? that would be toxic masculinity. that being said we live in a society that still tells men theyre punks for being sad. like no, u are a human. its ok to cry sometimes.
@Ich Will I noticed that he gulped whe she made that statement about "toxic masculinity" and I think it spelt disaster right there, but he wasn't going to challenge and she was entitled to her belief, wrong or right. But honestly having 5 brothers and a father whom I adore but also can get on my last nerves. I embrace what they bring to the table as men and if something is wrong and I'm not OK with it. My brothers will welcome a discussion even if we all don't agree and I am heard. Even if I have to challenge them in love. So this is a very difficult concept for me. Unless it involves abuse or neglect in any way.
@Talsong Kingslayer Absolutely and some of us women NEED and DESIRE that masculinity., especially when we are resting in our feminity and are raising families. Not that we can't role reverse when needed too, but I'm not a man and having masculine tendencies is not an attractive trait, unless its life, death or ruin and we got no choice but to fight. But we need both equally.
@Ich Will Yeah, that did tick me off a bit and she came across as a bit arrogant. Before even really allowing the guy to show who he was and what he is about, and I almost wish that he'd have asked her what kind of man does she want then, as the opposite of that is a simp that will go along with everything she says. So it left me wanting to know more about her thought process.
No it’s not wrong to be trans I not my self but I like to look like a boy but I’m a girl and I’m lesbian but people can be what they really want to be plus most of the time people who are trans don’t like being called their old gender SO SAY HER 😑 ( I said this a long ago I’m actually non binary now and still say HER)
@@jonathanandy1302 I live in the UK excuse me but why are you talking to me? I said hello to be polite, But I've never known anyone start a conversation with me on here. No offence
Not all masculinity is toxic. Just because I prefer to date cis men, doesn’t mean I have a ‘hang up’ about trans men. I want to be a good ally, but those sentiments bothered me.
you're not being transphobic. im straight and like cismen. ik i wouldnt want to date someone that was originally a woman. its not the same. its also pretty entitled for a transperson to think that dating them is no big deal for many people. its wishful thinking to think ppl will see u the same as a cisperson and they know they are being unreasonable.
being a friend will not include some butt tonite or ever from this transwoman.....there was zero physical chemstry....she didn't see him as nothing but a little kid...no butt ever for him...boy has no game; he needs to learn pump up his resume; he probably don't get any butt from cis women either....
@@Djstalker89 your point? 😹 lol What does that have to do with anything? Genitals do not define one’s gender. If you were educated and smart, you’d know that by now, Sherlock. 🏳️⚧️❤️
She said men have an issue dating a trans woman…ummm so first let them know your are trans so they can choose. You can’t blind side a man who thinks you are a woman, not a trans woman.
She is competing…in freaking New York City. With other trans women and cis women. Have you not seen the hot girls in that city. She is competing for a small pool of men compared to the large pool of available women.
He seems open to the situation. She seems very picky. I feel bad for her because it will make things hard when finding a mate. Trans or not it makes things harder.
She doesn’t seem picky at all. Why should anyone settle for the sake of settling ?! That’s ludicrous! If you know what you’re looking for, you know what you’re looking for & there isn’t anything wrong with that. Especially if you’ve dated men / women & know what you DON’T want in someone.
@@LauraBidingCitizen she is picky as hell. but that doesn't really matter as it's something natural, not like she can go home and turn the wheel of picky to the left to reduce her pickiness to find love. But really for blind dates such people aren't suitable at all because they are naturally not open for surprises.
If you are passable; men will attract to you; just tell them before kissing and sex play; I met a ladyboy in Manila; she told me before we ordered lunch; I paid for lunch and dinner; we dated several more times.... she was great...and I will always love transwomen...
Don't be ridiculous. Ive met a few 21 year olds with jobs, houses and married. Ive also met some 50yr old men that are divorced and act like kids. Don't be that easily fooled
@@Areyousayingidontknowmyname yup, age is no definition of maturity nor a measure of the open/closed mindedness of that individual. Mixed bag to say the least.
Lol she acts like the only reason a guy doesn’t want a trans woman is cuz of there friends.. Well maybe a little but the main reason most guys don’t want a trans woman is cuz we want a woman.. No offense but let’s keep it one hunna.
I meen, if the dude is looking for a girlfriend...he's looking for a GIRL. Not a dude that dresses as a woman, cuz when the clothes come off, it's no longer a guy that dresses like a lady, its just a guy.
@@nwdrew im not a transphobe. People can do whatever they want that makes them happy. Including not dating a trans. I sub to this page cuz theirs stories of people with real disabilities and overcoming them.
@@nwdrew How are any of those above statements transphobic? I don’t hate trans people. Everyone deserves to feel ok. But it’s personal preference to want someone who is cis gendered.
To be honest, I don't think she judged him harshly or she was quick to judge him. We all judge people whether consciously or subconsciously. But for all the traits she said she wanted, they gave her the total opposite so... But they're both great people who are self aware and confident so that's awesome
For her to say, "I do not know what the big deal is". Ma'am, it is, and always in the back of peoples minds. I was born woman, and trust me, that in itself being a 6ft Amazon is hard as well. So I am glad she has that posivitiy, but has to understand that not a lot of people open to people outside the status quo.
Question: why if I'm not open minded to the entire LGBT community I'm a bigot? I don't believe in violence or exclusion, I'm just not on board with "everything's good" mentality. I believe in coexistence, but that doesn't mean I embrace everything. The truth is that most of the time i’m called names because of my opinion, and that strikes me as odd, because I hear you can be as you please, accept if you are not aligned with the LGBT community 🤷🏼 ♀️
Complicated one. Maybe if you are accepting but not agreeable to it you don't wander around looking at these types of clips. Or get into discussions about it because a lot of people get fired up and don't see the other side regardless of how tolerant they might preach.
@@AreyousayingidontknowmynameThe truth is, I watch these things because I want to understand what motivated this person. And wants to understand why I'm experiencing it as so negative. And it really touches me when injustice or violence is used against the LGBT community. I feel their pain, and yet it doesn't feel okay
You can have your own opinions. But if you express those opinions in an offensive manner, I think that's where you become a bigot. You can have your own opinions but if you don't have anything nice to say to a person or in this case, the Lgbt community, then you should just keep those opinions to yourself. 🤷
@@XpurlX Well i am sort of similar. I watch. Interesting. I learn things. I also live by the ideal of i don't pay their bills and i wouldn't like someone to tell me who i am or who i should love. Sad you get stick though for it.
@@ed299 I'm never offensive but i'm not on board with the LGBT community And if I share that then I'm a bigot. Again I don't believe you should be rude or aggressive against the LGBT community. Live and let live. But I am being gagged because I am seen as intolerant. More times i keep my thoughts to myself. Because I don't want to provoke a big discussion. Where I have to defend myself and my integrity.
I think she needs to open herself up a little more, I don’t think she was really feeling it tbh. I totally would have just went for it. She’s gorgeous and seemed to be real easy to talk too....
@@jeremycephus1799 i honestly dont see the big deal about the age gap. There are people in their 20s dating 50 and 60 years olds and dont care what people think. Its not like you're a minor. I dont think 1 date was enough to get a feel for each other. No one puts a ring on it over night. Plus she is way too picky, with a limited dating pool she should be more open minded
@@heartdragoonamv5553 love your comment. i think people are too eager for microwave connections these days. its a bit shallow...real connections can definitely take time. why rush it?
Just because she's a transwoman she has to go out with WHOEVER truly sets her up with?? she met only 1 guy guys. 1. why are you guys calling her picky? She said upfront how she doesn't want someone younger. So much hate i see in the comments you all need to find happiness, guys. the hatred is ugly
It does kind of confuse me as to why trans women prefer straight men. If a man is straight...why would he want a man that transitioned to a woman? it's almost like an oxymoron. It seems it would be easier to just date bisexual men, but for some reason most trans do not prefer bisexual men. I wonder why not 🤔
True but look at how lesbians date lesbian woman dating a woman who dresses and completely acts like a man. And that person doesn't like there breast to be touched and uses a strap on why not just date a man
Why would they not give her ANY of her checklist wishes for a date/partner????? Like NONE. I get that people need to get out of their box but come on, give her SOMETHING to like about him. Damn
let's see ... Guys who doesn't desire biological kids? -95% odds Guy that doesn't mind dating a trans person? -95% odds Wants an attractive man? -95% odds Likes tall men? (aka taller than her? 5'10) that's only 2% of the population ... so let's go easy and add another -95% probability there. Let's see ... the probability of math dictates that there's a 0.00000652% chance of finding an appropriate partner that fills her list AND wants to date a trans. Or a chance of one in a 153,374. So basically she wants that one guy in a million ... well not quite a million but you get the point. It's not easy to find a person who wants to date a trans. Let alone someone who is also attractive AND tall ... and they got to have chemistry ... it's like finding a needle in a haystack ... Got to work with what God gave you ... and she took a different route. They gave her checks on her list ... someone who is willing to date her ... you're just doing wishful thinking at this point.
@@BrutusAlbion You put in the work to do all that "math" only to be wildly off with your speculative odds lmao. Just so you know, 25% of the population is taller than 5'11... and "-95% odds/probability" isn't a thing, probability is always positive.
@@juliawhite3014 You are indeed right, 14.5% of the population in the united states is 6'0 or above. NOT 25% as you just claimed. Get your facts straight if you're going to correct someone. However, only 2.4% of the population is 6'2 or taller. You're forgetting to add the heels she wants to wear (she has massive heels if you look in the video). So she probably wants a guy that's around 6'2. Which there is only a 2.4% chance at finding one. I think my math was quite accurate in that regard. Finally -95% odds IS a thing. It's just the reverse of having 5% chance of success. But whatever floats your boat girl.
@@BrutusAlbion Sweetie since when does 5'11 equal 6'0? Which was being generous because in your first comment you're saying only 2% of the population is over 5'10. So what exactly are you talking about? And no. What you're *trying* to say is 5% odds. -95% odds is not a thing.
@@juliawhite3014 Baby cakes, I said taller THAN her height, I didn't specify what exact height she desired which in general tends to be at least the 6'0 height. Considering her heels as well, that's going up to 6'2 until she is satisfied with the height as being desirable. And you also have a -95% odds of being pleasant it seems. Cut out the patronizing element and you might be tolerable. You're suffering from a toxic personality worse than toxic masculinity.
I really didn’t think she was judging him per say! I think it was more or less his age. She is a beautiful woman of a particular age and she knows exactly what she’s looking for but I wouldn’t say she was judging him, though.
She’s absolutely gorgeous! Also side note, why the hell would y’all set her up with someone with 2 factors she said she didn’t want. I swear y’all keep playing black women 😒
Everyone keeps saying that she judged him from the moment he walked in, but that's what people do.... people judge people..... why should a trans person be any different?
I am well bored with how women think older men are mature. Ive dated more mature guys in their 20s. The guys in their 50s are usually divorced and unmarried for a reason. They hit a age and just want to act like a kid again. I know guys in their 20s with houses, jobs and a couple on the way to marrying long time loves. This all stems from lazy women wanting men with money.
@@Areyousayingidontknowmyname I mean, I was thinking of someone around her age, but go off, I guess. Like, who in their right mind in their twenties would actually want a 40+ and 50+ year old men if his pockets are not LINED to the Gods?
Cisgender basically means that a person accept the sex they were born with and is comfortable with it. Cisgender is simple? It's honestly not that offensive compared to what other people in the lgbtqa+ community go through. I think it's very ignorant to say "keep it simple" when life is anything but that.
@@MelaniaRose Okay? Cis isn't even a slur compared to the long list of offensive terms trans people are called. There's a whole history behind the meaning of Cis. You could even use non-trans if you would like. Are you talking about cisphobia? Because that doesn't exist.
1:58 the reason why most men don’t want to date a trans women isn’t because they fear of being judged. It’s just that most men don’t want to date someone who is biologically the same gender as them and this goes for both genders.
Can't help but think there's ulterior motives from whoever picked the bind dater, she's allowed to have standards, why he miss the mark on every one of them? 😭😭
Toxic masculinity involving "the need to aggressively compete and dominate others" and as "the constellation of socially regressive male traits that serve to foster domination, the devaluation of women, homophobia and wanton violence.
@international authsoc The concept of toxic masculinity is used in academic and media discussions masculinity refer to certain cultural norms that are associated with harm to society and to men themselves. Traditional stereotypes of men as socially dominant, along with related traits such as misogyny and homophobia can be considered "toxic" due in part to their promotion of violence, including sexual assault and domestic violence. The socialization of boys in patriarchal societies often normalizes violence, such as in the saying "boys will be boys" with regard to bullying aggression. Self-reliance and emotional repression are correlated with increased psychological problems in men such as depression increased stress and substance abuse. Toxic masculine traits are characteristic of the unspoken code of behavior among men in prisons, where they exist in part as a response to the harsh conditions of prison life. Other traditionally masculine traits such as devotion to work, pride in excelling at sports, and providing for one's family, are not considered to be "toxic". The concept was originally used by authors associated with the mythopoetic mens such as Shepherd Bliss to contrast stereotypical notions of masculinity with a "real" or "deep" masculinity that they say men have lost touch with in modern society. Critics of the term argue that its meaning incorrectly implies gender-related issues are caused by inherent male traits.
who is setting up these blind dates? some of them are just a no no, and im sure they knew it..I mean 21 yrs old really? That might be good for a man but most women dont want to raise a baby...
First of all...she's beautiful!...AND he resembles Lil Jon! BUT the "men have this hang up about dating trans women" comment took me for a loop. It's not a hang up...it's a sexual preference! One should be able to choose who they want to be with...PERIOD!
... gotta say, on a personal level, totally refuse & refute the term 'cis woman'.. I'm a woman...period - no 'cis' required or desired. If I was to go a step further - 100% accepting of transgendered folks, but for me a 'trans woman' (or 'trans man') is exactly that, transgendered - not a 'woman' or a 'man', they are a transgendered person...
Wait, did he say he knows she's trans when he told what he knows about his date? Okay so it was no surprise, so he's open to it so there shouldn't be a problem
I don't know if she wants a relationship or just to tell people about her black transniss. She is so blocked off to him. Only on occasions does she remind me of a guy. She actually reminds me of a friend of mine. haha
@@scl3261 Always hard when you only see parts of a date. But she is sitting back. Very straight almost imposing . Just shy of crossing her arms in front of her. Its only when they really get chatting and she is leaving forward she is more open. She also had a rather tut tut face. I have a friend who does the same thing. Total wall block.
How many friends do you even have. 😂 I see you everywhere on this video saying, "oh I have this friend.." Also thanks for clearing that up. Didn't look much into the date itself.
@@scl3261 Its called using a life experience as a example. Maybe you should get one. Oh and i have rather a lot of friends. I have gathered them over time
A person like you seems like you wouldn't have much friends. Your on this video everywhere just over analyzing this short video. You are just comparing your "friends" to her. Just move on.. 😂
To find love, love yourself first. Also, there are Trans Men who are most likely to understand your situation and get you, as a suggestion, maybe just don't pursue straight men?
exactly there are no such thing as “cis” genders...you are either MALE OR FEMALE. Transgender woman are NOT real woman. They weren’t born as a woman, therefore they are biological men.
@@patrickm3750 My moral compass comes from an open, understanding, compassionate, and loving heart. Any preacher suggesting the opposite is not someone I would listen to or take guidance from. It is lame and lazy to suggest that people are following mainstream propaganda. People can and do think for themselves. Listening and following judging preachers is not thinking for one's self. We do not need lessons from you, Luca.
🥂✨ She is the one who wasn’t Open, was very judgemental, her Energy was soooo OFF! She has a chip on her shoulder and needs to look at this video. Also her fashion wasn’t feminine, for someone who wants to be viewed as a Woman on a first date! She needs therapy and a stylist! ✨ everything about her said defensive!
Thats a dude smh shouldnt shame people but wanna shame a straight man for not wanting to get into anything with a man who wants to be a woman or vice versa
Real judgmental to not wanna be judged. And you can be pretty but if someone doesn’t wanna date a trans person they dont have to long as they aren’t violent or rude
What I don't get is the people commenting transphobic things misgendering her caking her a dude in a dress...(she had on jeans) is mad disgusting. If you're against trans people why watch
She's absolutely stunning! And her blind date is cute too. I'm single if either are still looking LOL I sincerely hope the best for her though, she deserves the world like anyone else.
He looks like a disappointment, a man who, instead of embracing the fact that he is a man and empowering other men of low self confidence to love themselves,he takes the easy way out and just becomes a woman and also a minority group so that he gets the attention fix he needs. Truly sad
@@_jord.n_3970 Your argument is beyond absurd. There's nothing "easy" about being a black transwoman. I hope you find the strength and empathy to do some research into the violence against transwomen (particularly black transwomen) and listen to people about their experiences. The OP is 100% right - you'll either join the 21st century with the rest of us, or you'll die as the miserable hate-filled person you are. I truly hope you'll choose the former. This woman isn't hurting anyone - there's no reason for you to hurt her. I hope you seek therapy for the misery and hate that seems to dictate how you treat others - I promise you don't have to be so unhappy.
This video was strictly a social experiment, set up to entertain the audience. These two were intentionally mismatched for drama purposes.
Exactly they gave her the opposite of what she asked for
you think this is unique? it's television, producers are there to make money and melodrama sells.
@@ilfautdanser9121 No, it's not unique. We know that "reality" tv cast members are set up to be pitted against each other, ever since The Real World producers showed us their behind the scenes tricks, on their anniversary documentary. It's not clever or funny, what they do to people for ratings is outright disgusting.
They were just being so messy
Hey....
They gave her the opposite of what she asked for
You have to realize finding her perfect match is almost literally 1 in a million?
Right. I know there's people in the comments saying that she judged him too quickly, but to give her a man that young? She's at an age where a lot of people settle down and he's at an age to have fun. A bit much there.
Beggars can't be choosers 🤣. Sorry but you set me up for that one.
Seriously though what did she/you expect? not like there are many dudes 6ft plus, in their 30s, living near her, who are also into trans women.
Lol
@@liverpooljft9623 facts
She judged him the second he took his face mask off. Not cool.
@@lekokobloomberg-brin6576 god when will people like you finally shut up and crawl back into the dark and damp corner they belong?
@@lekokobloomberg-brin6576 She is a trans women.
@@kokichioma377 He is trans something
Ironic that she doesn't want the "toxic" male judgement but she was doing some judgey "himself"
@@greendalek1 She
Y'all did this man dirty. The fact he went on camera comfortable blind dating a trans woman (& the producers knew she didn't like shorter/younger men)... was duplicitous to say the least when he was so chill and open-minded
The guy was 5"8-he wasn't that "short" really was he. I agree with anything you said
@@heatheralice89 they said “shorter” not short. As in shorter than her.
@@heatheralice89 well one one of the criteria was the date being taller.
She is a biological man probably 6'0 tall lucky anybody even showed up. I wouldn't have it was a clowning session 🤣
Because no man was coming in there to date another man
She didn't want to be judged but yet she judges him.
I'd already judge 'her' for arriving with a peen
I think she wants more of a dominant man lol like a hood guy
Miss Missy well she’s not going to find one who would be seen with her in public. If she wants to be accepted, she needs to pick from the people who accept her, not force someone else to.
You mean he judges him
@@robert7879 Nope we mean she judges him.
Lord just because she’s trans why you gotta put her with a 21y/o student... she’s 30+ and has her career already. This was so unnecessary
His identity is unnecessary
They don’t have many options 😭
30+ prolly wouldn't be down
Grown straight men that have actually accomplished something don't want men
@@XixiSplash Why is that??
I don’t know... but I felt like she was more judgmental than he was?
Yeah she is, but she's obviously in a lot of pain.
They both seemed fine
All feminine people are.
2 man talking😁
To be fair, she asked for a specific type of date and they gave her the opposite. The height thing is superficial, but they could've put her with someone her age at least
It’s funny how the people who ask others to accept them the way they are and claim to be open mind are quick to judged. He deserves better in my opinion🤷🏽♀️
@Layla Cartelina Hi Sweet lady, you look so gorgeous. Can we be friends?
@@sanusirazaq9635 not the place my friend..
@@goodbye6676 how? I don’t understand
@@sanusirazaq9635 well it's a yt comment section it's higher chances she won't reply but nvm man go for it 🏀
@@goodbye6676 okay now I gori it. Thanks
Why can't she just respect the fact that most people don't want to date trans people? just like she turned him down because of his age
+1
She seems very blocked off. Bit bitter actually. Needs to tone that down.
Well she's specifically talking about how people turn her down only because she's trans.
@@scl3261 and black. Don't forget that
I respect this comment
“There’s barely any alcohol in there” 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
yea not now... that u drank it all 🤣🤣🤣
Lol. 😂
@@AndruVoss 😂😂😂😂
Lol...man was thirsty...he must have walked a long way to get there..🤣
That's what every alcoholic says 😆
Why did they set her up like this?
They should have paired her with someone older
My thoughts exactly
😂😂😂
@international authsoc you really went out of your way to be ignorant
The normal guy had it worse. I'd ahte to be set up with a cross dresser 🤮🤮
Dude actually set himself up to go on a blind date with a trans and then looked like he was tryna drink himself out of the reality. One more drink!!!
😂😂😂
😭😭
Hahhahaha i don’t blame him
You could tell with the face and the voice, when that person laughed, you could hear a man laughing lol
@@6sixtysix That's a man Murray lol...
How is masculinity toxic though? We need men and to be honest the only issue with masculinity is when it is coupled with misogyny; and then its an issue, but other than that, this person is wrong.
nothing about this dude was even toxic in any way. toxic masculinity for example is being ashamed to buy ur gf tampons. a guy shouldnt feel silly buying them cuz we know its not for them. or say liking britney spears music simply cuz its 'girly' despite that plenty of women listen to 'manly' music like snoop dog or something and no one cares. Being a traditional masculine male isnt toxic masculinity. its being so obsessed with appearing manly that every little thing is a threat to your masculinity.
itd be different if someone asked a dude to put on a pretty pink tutu with sparkly heels. but thinking it's bad to express you are sad and crying infront of someone you're close to? that would be toxic masculinity. that being said we live in a society that still tells men theyre punks for being sad. like no, u are a human. its ok to cry sometimes.
@Ich Will I see here we got the king of psychology and sociology.
@Ich Will I noticed that he gulped whe she made that statement about "toxic masculinity" and I think it spelt disaster right there, but he wasn't going to challenge and she was entitled to her belief, wrong or right. But honestly having 5 brothers and a father whom I adore but also can get on my last nerves. I embrace what they bring to the table as men and if something is wrong and I'm not OK with it. My brothers will welcome a discussion even if we all don't agree and I am heard. Even if I have to challenge them in love. So this is a very difficult concept for me. Unless it involves abuse or neglect in any way.
@Talsong Kingslayer Absolutely and some of us women NEED and DESIRE that masculinity., especially when we are resting in our feminity and are raising families. Not that we can't role reverse when needed too, but I'm not a man and having masculine tendencies is not an attractive trait, unless its life, death or ruin and we got no choice but to fight. But we need both equally.
@Ich Will Yeah, that did tick me off a bit and she came across as a bit arrogant. Before even really allowing the guy to show who he was and what he is about, and I almost wish that he'd have asked her what kind of man does she want then, as the opposite of that is a simp that will go along with everything she says. So it left me wanting to know more about her thought process.
I don't understand why men are judged for not wanting to date a person who isn't A biological woman. Its not a "hang up" its a reality.
People have preferences, some people don't want to be with a trans women. Her preference is that she wants someone tall.
Lol “some people”. Yeah like 99.9% of straight men don’t want to date a cross-dressing man.
Agreed 👍🏼
@@alexblaze8878 she's not a man. or a cross dresser
@@majordelilah what is she then? Isn’t she a biological man that dresses like a woman?
@@alexblaze8878 She's a transgender woman that dresses like a woman! That's what she is
“Going with an open mind,” that’s a positive start from him. Yah, I did not think they would work. Good luck to her!
*him
Nah he need luck changing back to what he was born as and learning to accept himself, live with the fact that he is a man
Exactly
No it snot positive at all
No it’s not wrong to be trans I not my self but I like to look like a boy but I’m a girl and I’m lesbian but people can be what they really want to be plus most of the time people who are trans don’t like being called their old gender SO SAY HER 😑 ( I said this a long ago I’m actually non binary now and still say HER)
she didn't seem interested at all, in my opinion soon as he said his age. Game over! But good luck to both of them.
Hello Sam
@@jonathanandy1302 Hi
@@samneves1637 Where are you originally from?.
@@jonathanandy1302 I live in the UK excuse me but why are you talking to me? I said hello to be polite, But I've never known anyone start a conversation with me on here. No offence
@@samneves1637 I'm from Log Angeles, but currently on deployment to Syria and I will really to know you
She's too old for him. All men are not toxic.
Well aren't you just a peach 🙄
He .. born a man die a man
Agreed
@international authsoc 🤣🤣🤣🤣
I think 'she' may also be a tad too manly...just a feeling
Not all masculinity is toxic. Just because I prefer to date cis men, doesn’t mean I have a ‘hang up’ about trans men. I want to be a good ally, but those sentiments bothered me.
you're not being transphobic. im straight and like cismen. ik i wouldnt want to date someone that was originally a woman. its not the same. its also pretty entitled for a transperson to think that dating them is no big deal for many people. its wishful thinking to think ppl will see u the same as a cisperson and they know they are being unreasonable.
Wow sweetheart. I like your thoughts ♥️♥️♥️
Sweetheart
He's a gentleman. Very humble and respectful. They should be friends. There is a huge age difference.
being a friend will not include some butt tonite or ever from this transwoman.....there was zero physical chemstry....she didn't see him as nothing but a little kid...no butt ever for him...boy has no game; he needs to learn pump up his resume; he probably don't get any butt from cis women either....
It's not the age. They just want different things.
Such a gentleman
@@Djstalker89 your point? 😹 lol What does that have to do with anything? Genitals do not define one’s gender. If you were educated and smart, you’d know that by now, Sherlock. 🏳️⚧️❤️
She said men have an issue dating a trans woman…ummm so first let them know your are trans so they can choose. You can’t blind side a man who thinks you are a woman, not a trans woman.
Absolutely, I agree! Not everyone is open to that lifestyle.
THE ISSUE IS NOT A "HANG UP" THAT MEN HAVE!!! THE HANG UP/ISSUE IS TRANS DATING STRAIGHT MEN!!!! STRAIGHT MEN WANT BIOLOGICAL WOMEN.
Truth
Exactly
@S R THAT MAKES NO SENSE, IF YOU ARE A STRAIGHT MALE, YOUR DATING BIO WOMEN!!! IF A MALE IS ATTRACTED TO TRANS HE IS NOT STRAIGHT, MAYBE BI!!!
@S R identify not ARE
@S R key word. “Identify”
"I'm tired of bring in a relationship where I want the person more than they want me'" OHHH girl I felt this so much. Ugh
Omg I felt that statement deep in my soul too
I can relate to this and it sucks. I'm good now. But when it kept happening, I almost gave up on dating period
She is competing…in freaking New York City. With other trans women and cis women. Have you not seen the hot girls in that city. She is competing for a small pool of men compared to the large pool of available women.
It’s a man people like you who feed into this LIE are part of the problem.
He seems open to the situation. She seems very picky. I feel bad for her because it will make things hard when finding a mate. Trans or not it makes things harder.
She doesn’t seem picky at all. Why should anyone settle for the sake of settling ?! That’s ludicrous! If you know what you’re looking for, you know what you’re looking for & there isn’t anything wrong with that. Especially if you’ve dated men / women & know what you DON’T want in someone.
@@LauraBidingCitizen she is picky as hell. but that doesn't really matter as it's something natural, not like she can go home and turn the wheel of picky to the left to reduce her pickiness to find love. But really for blind dates such people aren't suitable at all because they are naturally not open for surprises.
@@LauraBidingCitizen why is he allowed to be picky whilst shaming straight men for not entertaining his kind? Stop being a hypocrite
@@Es3iya she’s not picky for wanting a tall guy her age. That’s two things. Two things she asked for and it’s “too picky”
Girl it is hard for a non trans female to find someone. So I can only imagine your struggle...its hard in these streets...good luck!
If you are passable; men will attract to you; just tell them before kissing and sex play; I met a ladyboy in Manila; she told me before we ordered lunch; I paid for lunch and dinner; we dated several more times.... she was great...and I will always love transwomen...
Very well said.
Gross 🤢
Awkward 😬 but I hope they both find the ones for them!
Okay well if she don’t want him, can I get him cause he seems really nice 😭
Hello 😍
Hes 21 put that back on the shelf until he matures
🤣🤣🤣 back on the shelf you gooo 🤣🤣
Don't be ridiculous. Ive met a few 21 year olds with jobs, houses and married. Ive also met some 50yr old men that are divorced and act like kids. Don't be that easily fooled
@@Areyousayingidontknowmyname yup, age is no definition of maturity nor a measure of the open/closed mindedness of that individual. Mixed bag to say the least.
@@Socially-Distance-Deez-Nutz Absolutely
He seems pretty mature to me. Respectful, kind, and introspective. Stop being an ageist.
“We live in a world where masculinity is toxic”... a.k.a. the heterosexual men that this person is attracted to are not reciprocating.
Yup.
They can't stand that heterosexual men only eat organic.
He was so sweet. He was drinking because he was nervous. She was judgemental
I applaud them both for trying something outside of their comfort zone. Blind dates can be so nerve wracking.
just because she’s trans; doesn’t mean she doesn’t have a preference, she for sure mentioned that.
JADE - thank you for saying that I was getting tired of reading the darn 'she judged him' comments. It's called a 'preference' people. Geeesh!!
@Gi Gi Saucy lmao not all love.
Ok and do you feel the same way about straight men who have a preference for biological women and aren't attracted to transwomen?
@@DarthSion6987 of course why wouldn’t I?
A man judging another man why don’t transgender date other transgender ppl I don’t understand that
Lol she acts like the only reason a guy doesn’t want a trans woman is cuz of there friends.. Well maybe a little but the main reason most guys don’t want a trans woman is cuz we want a woman.. No offense but let’s keep it one hunna.
Absolutely. Thats the whole truth.
I meen, if the dude is looking for a girlfriend...he's looking for a GIRL. Not a dude that dresses as a woman, cuz when the clothes come off, it's no longer a guy that dresses like a lady, its just a guy.
@@undeadend why are you even here then?? i don’t understand transphobes obsession with trans people 🤔.
@@nwdrew im not a transphobe. People can do whatever they want that makes them happy. Including not dating a trans. I sub to this page cuz theirs stories of people with real disabilities and overcoming them.
@@nwdrew How are any of those above statements transphobic? I don’t hate trans people. Everyone deserves to feel ok. But it’s personal preference to want someone who is cis gendered.
To be honest, I don't think she judged him harshly or she was quick to judge him. We all judge people whether consciously or subconsciously. But for all the traits she said she wanted, they gave her the total opposite so...
But they're both great people who are self aware and confident so that's awesome
Oh judge him harshly
Now yall making excuses but yall want us not to judge trans ppl with entitlement
This dude is wrong for saying guys SHOULD date Trans women as well. People have the right to chose.
For her to say, "I do not know what the big deal is". Ma'am, it is, and always in the back of peoples minds. I was born woman, and trust me, that in itself being a 6ft Amazon is hard as well. So I am glad she has that posivitiy, but has to understand that not a lot of people open to people outside the status quo.
Right. The whole process of transitioning is a big deal. Why would anybody think it's not a big deal. It's not like I used to be a red hair right
Question: why if I'm not open minded to the entire LGBT community I'm a bigot? I don't believe in violence or exclusion, I'm just not on board with "everything's good" mentality. I believe in coexistence, but that doesn't mean I embrace everything. The truth is that most of the time i’m called names because of my opinion, and that strikes me as odd, because I hear you can be as you please, accept if you are not aligned with the LGBT community 🤷🏼 ♀️
Complicated one. Maybe if you are accepting but not agreeable to it you don't wander around looking at these types of clips. Or get into discussions about it because a lot of people get fired up and don't see the other side regardless of how tolerant they might preach.
@@AreyousayingidontknowmynameThe truth is, I watch these things because I want to understand what motivated this person. And wants to understand why I'm experiencing it as so negative. And it really touches me when injustice or violence is used against the LGBT community. I feel their pain, and yet it doesn't feel okay
You can have your own opinions. But if you express those opinions in an offensive manner, I think that's where you become a bigot. You can have your own opinions but if you don't have anything nice to say to a person or in this case, the Lgbt community, then you should just keep those opinions to yourself. 🤷
@@XpurlX Well i am sort of similar. I watch. Interesting. I learn things. I also live by the ideal of i don't pay their bills and i wouldn't like someone to tell me who i am or who i should love. Sad you get stick though for it.
@@ed299 I'm never offensive but i'm not on board with the LGBT community And if I share that then I'm a bigot. Again I don't believe you should be rude or aggressive against the LGBT community. Live and let live. But I am being gagged because I am seen as intolerant. More times i keep my thoughts to myself. Because I don't want to provoke a big discussion. Where I have to defend myself and my integrity.
Although I don't think they will necessarily have a love connection, I think a really good friendship could develop.
Why bother when people think that masculinity is toxic 🤔
She wanted nothing to do with him at all.
He's cute and seems sweet
You so beautiful either
Yes he was nice but no azz for him...nice dude lololololo
I think she needs to open herself up a little more, I don’t think she was really feeling it tbh. I totally would have just went for it. She’s gorgeous and seemed to be real easy to talk too....
Thank you so much I’m the guy in the video and I just think the age gap was a big issue
@Mrs. G yeah we’re at 2 different stages of our life and I looking for two different things. That’s just life sometimes not everything works out
@@jeremycephus1799 right on! I’m sure you’ll find someone soon! Best of luck and this was a great video🙌🏻
@@jeremycephus1799 i honestly dont see the big deal about the age gap. There are people in their 20s dating 50 and 60 years olds and dont care what people think. Its not like you're a minor. I dont think 1 date was enough to get a feel for each other. No one puts a ring on it over night. Plus she is way too picky, with a limited dating pool she should be more open minded
@@heartdragoonamv5553 love your comment. i think people are too eager for microwave connections these days. its a bit shallow...real connections can definitely take time. why rush it?
Men refuse to date me because I'm trans, but I only want a tall man. Sees no hypocrisy.
Just because she's a transwoman she has to go out with WHOEVER truly sets her up with?? she met only 1 guy guys. 1. why are you guys calling her picky? She said upfront how she doesn't want someone younger. So much hate i see in the comments you all need to find happiness, guys. the hatred is ugly
I love how "she" had the nerve to judge him hes way outta her league and "shes" ugly inside and out.
It does kind of confuse me as to why trans women prefer straight men. If a man is straight...why would he want a man that transitioned to a woman? it's almost like an oxymoron. It seems it would be easier to just date bisexual men, but for some reason most trans do not prefer bisexual men. I wonder why not 🤔
Confusion and self hate
Because they want to compete with women and are in denial that they are better than a real women
True but look at how lesbians date lesbian woman dating a woman who dresses and completely acts like a man. And that person doesn't like there breast to be touched and uses a strap on why not just date a man
Exactly. Straight men want WOMEN.
@@cj8803 yup great point
God, his parents must be so ashamed. The guy with glasses must also have horrified parents too.
Why is masculinity always "toxic"?
I find it masculine, lol.
yes you are right. Booth Genders have bad and good sides to them. It depends on what you are looking at.
STRAIGHT Men don't have a hang up STRAIGHT want to date BIOLOGICALLY BORN WOMEN I don't know why that's so damn difficult to understand
Jeremy is really adorable though
Aww everyone can find love if you don't give up! Love yourself first before you decide to share your love. :3
So true. Words of wisdom.
@@bricac21 Positive thoughts go a long way
Very true
@@cassw197 So true Ive been working on positive thoughts myself for awhile now its not the easiest but its the smartest.
@@bricac21 I believe in you😄
Why would they not give her ANY of her checklist wishes for a date/partner????? Like NONE. I get that people need to get out of their box but come on, give her SOMETHING to like about him. Damn
let's see ...
Guys who doesn't desire biological kids? -95% odds
Guy that doesn't mind dating a trans person? -95% odds
Wants an attractive man? -95% odds
Likes tall men? (aka taller than her? 5'10) that's only 2% of the population ... so let's go easy and add another -95% probability there.
Let's see ... the probability of math dictates that there's a 0.00000652% chance of finding an appropriate partner that fills her list AND wants to date a trans. Or a chance of one in a 153,374.
So basically she wants that one guy in a million ... well not quite a million but you get the point.
It's not easy to find a person who wants to date a trans. Let alone someone who is also attractive AND tall ... and they got to have chemistry ... it's like finding a needle in a haystack ...
Got to work with what God gave you ... and she took a different route.
They gave her checks on her list ... someone who is willing to date her ... you're just doing wishful thinking at this point.
@@BrutusAlbion You put in the work to do all that "math" only to be wildly off with your speculative odds lmao. Just so you know, 25% of the population is taller than 5'11... and "-95% odds/probability" isn't a thing, probability is always positive.
@@juliawhite3014 You are indeed right, 14.5% of the population in the united states is 6'0 or above. NOT 25% as you just claimed. Get your facts straight if you're going to correct someone.
However, only 2.4% of the population is 6'2 or taller.
You're forgetting to add the heels she wants to wear (she has massive heels if you look in the video). So she probably wants a guy that's around 6'2. Which there is only a 2.4% chance at finding one. I think my math was quite accurate in that regard.
Finally -95% odds IS a thing. It's just the reverse of having 5% chance of success. But whatever floats your boat girl.
@@BrutusAlbion Sweetie since when does 5'11 equal 6'0? Which was being generous because in your first comment you're saying only 2% of the population is over 5'10. So what exactly are you talking about?
And no. What you're *trying* to say is 5% odds. -95% odds is not a thing.
@@juliawhite3014 Baby cakes, I said taller THAN her height, I didn't specify what exact height she desired which in general tends to be at least the 6'0 height. Considering her heels as well, that's going up to 6'2 until she is satisfied with the height as being desirable.
And you also have a -95% odds of being pleasant it seems. Cut out the patronizing element and you might be tolerable. You're suffering from a toxic personality worse than toxic masculinity.
Two men on a date. Real nice Truly. I saw no woman here
I really didn’t think she was judging him per say! I think it was more or less his age. She is a beautiful woman of a particular age and she knows exactly what she’s looking for but I wouldn’t say she was judging him, though.
Your right people need to calm down 🤣
@Chris Jones 🤣🤣🤣 okay Chris you are correct “HE” 😁
@@lynnshaffer5997 You so beautiful
@@lynnshaffer5997 where are you originally from?
Dude has to keep drinking to get himself through the moment...and honestly looks like he'll take anything he can get.
She’s absolutely gorgeous! Also side note, why the hell would y’all set her up with someone with 2 factors she said she didn’t want. I swear y’all keep playing black women 😒
Yea there both dudes
She played herself going on a blind date; but that how y'all roll today..Kitty and azz so easy to get now; damn make a bonded man wish he was single..
*black men...
Everyone keeps saying that she judged him from the moment he walked in, but that's what people do.... people judge people..... why should a trans person be any different?
Exactly some people in these comments are too entitled and dumb 😂
Because the trans people cry when others judge them
Trans: I’m a woman 👩🏽🦱
Me: I’m a dolphin 🐬
?? literally what was the point of commenting that
🤣😂
"we live in a world where masculinity is toxic. It's just a fact."
What in hell...
It is also toxic to claim things that are untrue.
It’s alwayssss the voice that gives it away. She’s pretty though.
@Mrs. G Blair white is not pretty 🤢
He*
Well, she’s gorgeous❤️🥰 I love when Black women🥺
But, baby, 30ish and dating men in their early 20s is a solid no. They ain’t it, sis. They’re not.
Try being 50 and single.
That is not a black woman that’s a black man🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@MsSweeterthanhoney1 lmao😂😂 fr. Just cuz u say ur a woman don't mean u are💀💀
I am well bored with how women think older men are mature. Ive dated more mature guys in their 20s. The guys in their 50s are usually divorced and unmarried for a reason. They hit a age and just want to act like a kid again. I know guys in their 20s with houses, jobs and a couple on the way to marrying long time loves. This all stems from lazy women wanting men with money.
@@Areyousayingidontknowmyname I mean, I was thinking of someone around her age, but go off, I guess.
Like, who in their right mind in their twenties would actually want a 40+ and 50+ year old men if his pockets are not LINED to the Gods?
I've been a straight women my whole life. What in the hell is a Cis women?? I don't get it. Let's keep it simple.
Cisgender basically means that a person accept the sex they were born with and is comfortable with it. Cisgender is simple? It's honestly not that offensive compared to what other people in the lgbtqa+ community go through. I think it's very ignorant to say "keep it simple" when life is anything but that.
@@minichou Most people reject the term Cis. The word Cis has been used to slander straight women and men for some time by the trans community too !
@@MelaniaRose Okay? Cis isn't even a slur compared to the long list of offensive terms trans people are called. There's a whole history behind the meaning of Cis. You could even use non-trans if you would like. Are you talking about cisphobia? Because that doesn't exist.
Its crazy how they don't wanna be judged but so quick to judge they really have the worse attitudes
1:58 the reason why most men don’t want to date a trans women isn’t because they fear of being judged. It’s just that most men don’t want to date someone who is biologically the same gender as them and this goes for both genders.
That’s narcissistic thinking if you’re shaming others into dating you
You can't force your your lifestyle on people. Some men Love The Real McCoy
Can't help but think there's ulterior motives from whoever picked the bind dater, she's allowed to have standards, why he miss the mark on every one of them? 😭😭
"men have this hang up about dating trans women"... pretty sure its the hang down they have the problem with.
🤣💯💯💯
They’re so fun together. He made her laugh a lot. He’s such a cool dude.
He's a 21 year old kid, why would the producers hook a kid with a full grownup?
How about men wanting actually date women, not a man who became a woman?
Too controversial in 2020
Exactly!
Yesssss !!
How is this man gonna find love when he doesn’t even love himself?? He can’t even accept who he is!! 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
You tell them sis👏🏽👏🏽
💯💯💯
Did you see how many drinks he had to put down for that date?
Because that was probably the first biological man that he dated....
The man in that dress sounds like and is a man. Hate to break it to yall.
Brandi is gorgeous 🤩 I wish her good luck.
Surprised some edgelord 12 year old hasn’t replied “Him*” yet
@Right Wing Media yes
@@dandamanatee9023 Him. What else do you want besides the truth????
No he's not
*Him
Transwomen’s logic for cis heterosexual men not dating them is so wrong… it pisses me off.
Masculinity isn't toxic. Toxic masculinity now that's different if that makes sense? LOL
Toxic masculinity involving "the need to aggressively compete and dominate others" and as "the constellation of socially regressive male traits that serve to foster domination, the devaluation of women, homophobia and wanton violence.
@international authsoc wanna bet?
@international authsoc The concept of toxic masculinity is used in academic and media discussions masculinity refer to certain cultural norms that are associated with harm to society and to men themselves. Traditional stereotypes of men as socially dominant, along with related traits such as misogyny and homophobia can be considered "toxic" due in part to their promotion of violence, including sexual assault and domestic violence. The socialization of boys in patriarchal societies often normalizes violence, such as in the saying "boys will be boys" with regard to bullying aggression. Self-reliance and emotional repression are correlated with increased psychological problems in men such as depression increased stress and substance abuse. Toxic masculine traits are characteristic of the unspoken code of behavior among men in prisons, where they exist in part as a response to the harsh conditions of prison life. Other traditionally masculine traits such as devotion to work, pride in excelling at sports, and providing for one's family, are not considered to be "toxic". The concept was originally used by authors associated with the mythopoetic mens such as Shepherd Bliss to contrast stereotypical notions of masculinity with a "real" or "deep" masculinity that they say men have lost touch with in modern society. Critics of the term argue that its meaning incorrectly implies gender-related issues are caused by inherent male traits.
who is setting up these blind dates? some of them are just a no no, and im sure they knew it..I mean 21 yrs old really? That might be good for a man but most women dont want to raise a baby...
First of all...she's beautiful!...AND he resembles Lil Jon! BUT the "men have this hang up about dating trans women" comment took me for a loop. It's not a hang up...it's a sexual preference! One should be able to choose who they want to be with...PERIOD!
He. And no. He's not beautiful.
@@Raven7400 💯💯💯
Don’t waste your time all these videos are scripted.
... gotta say, on a personal level, totally refuse & refute the term 'cis woman'.. I'm a woman...period - no 'cis' required or desired.
If I was to go a step further - 100% accepting of transgendered folks, but for me a 'trans woman' (or 'trans man') is exactly that, transgendered - not a 'woman' or a 'man', they are a transgendered person...
Exactly, dont think it should be.. I'm a woman, rather I'm a trans woman.
We live in a world where masculinity is toxic? Coming from a man dressed like a woman is hilarious
Lmao
Wait, did he say he knows she's trans when he told what he knows about his date? Okay so it was no surprise, so he's open to it so there shouldn't be a problem
It’s seems he knows during introduction on their first meeting.
I don't know if she wants a relationship or just to tell people about her black transniss. She is so blocked off to him. Only on occasions does she remind me of a guy. She actually reminds me of a friend of mine. haha
Wait how exactly is she blocked off? Like she's a bit bitter and all but she wasn't blocked off..
@@scl3261 Always hard when you only see parts of a date. But she is sitting back. Very straight almost imposing . Just shy of crossing her arms in front of her. Its only when they really get chatting and she is leaving forward she is more open. She also had a rather tut tut face. I have a friend who does the same thing. Total wall block.
How many friends do you even have. 😂 I see you everywhere on this video saying, "oh I have this friend.." Also thanks for clearing that up. Didn't look much into the date itself.
@@scl3261 Its called using a life experience as a example. Maybe you should get one. Oh and i have rather a lot of friends. I have gathered them over time
A person like you seems like you wouldn't have much friends. Your on this video everywhere just over analyzing this short video. You are just comparing your "friends" to her. Just move on.. 😂
She's so pretty, I'm sure she'll find love
To find love, love yourself first. Also, there are Trans Men who are most likely to understand your situation and get you, as a suggestion, maybe just don't pursue straight men?
Okay, this is not fair. They really set her up. Redo, please
I. Wish trans women would stop giving me a PREFIX.. I am a WOMAN not a Cis woman
exactly there are no such thing as “cis” genders...you are either MALE OR FEMALE. Transgender woman are NOT real woman. They weren’t born as a woman, therefore they are biological men.
What a beautiful woman inside and out. I hope she finds her man.
Man **
*"She" is a man* people stop following secular mainstream-propaganda and start watchting *conservative Muslim preachers* on TH-cam.
@@patrickm3750 My moral compass comes from an open, understanding, compassionate, and loving heart. Any preacher suggesting the opposite is not someone I would listen to or take guidance from.
It is lame and lazy to suggest that people are following mainstream propaganda. People can and do think for themselves.
Listening and following judging preachers is not thinking for one's self.
We do not need lessons from you, Luca.
That's a man.
“Masculinity is toxic”…”I want a tall man”.
🥂✨ She is the one who wasn’t Open, was very judgemental, her Energy was soooo OFF! She has a chip on her shoulder and needs to look at this video. Also her fashion wasn’t feminine, for someone who wants to be viewed as a Woman on a first date! She needs therapy and a stylist! ✨ everything about her said defensive!
Men don’t have a hung up - they just don’t want to date men. It’s really that simple
@Lisa Shipley you keep telling yourself that Lisa
Then she wonders why she still single 🤷♀️
Thats a dude smh shouldnt shame people but wanna shame a straight man for not wanting to get into anything with a man who wants to be a woman or vice versa
Awkward
The title read “trans woman on a blind date” I started laughing out loud I had to watch😂😂🤯
To the 0.5 % people like this May your parents live for 💯 years 💗☺️🤣
Real judgmental to not wanna be judged. And you can be pretty but if someone doesn’t wanna date a trans person they dont have to long as they aren’t violent or rude
she is not even that cute for a trans to be acting like that.
What I don't get is the people commenting transphobic things misgendering her caking her a dude in a dress...(she had on jeans) is mad disgusting. If you're against trans people why watch
What the hell. they set her up for failure. He’s everything she doesn’t want. She’s beautiful she’s so sweet. She’ll find someone in no time.
Cyka, She is no beautiful, she is handsome :D
That's a man and he's the one who was set up for failure.
@@tankiesbot6578 if she wants to be called a woman I’m going to call her a woman. You ding dongs better shut up.
Why are you so triggered. Also he’s not beautiful or handsome. People call men that look like shim ugly everyday.
@@mrmanoriginaltakes how am I triggered. You’re commenting on something I wrote a year ago ya ding dong.
She's absolutely stunning! And her blind date is cute too. I'm single if either are still looking LOL
I sincerely hope the best for her though, she deserves the world like anyone else.
He looks like a disappointment, a man who, instead of embracing the fact that he is a man and empowering other men of low self confidence to love themselves,he takes the easy way out and just becomes a woman and also a minority group so that he gets the attention fix he needs. Truly sad
@@_jord.n_3970 Your argument is beyond absurd. There's nothing "easy" about being a black transwoman. I hope you find the strength and empathy to do some research into the violence against transwomen (particularly black transwomen) and listen to people about their experiences. The OP is 100% right - you'll either join the 21st century with the rest of us, or you'll die as the miserable hate-filled person you are. I truly hope you'll choose the former. This woman isn't hurting anyone - there's no reason for you to hurt her. I hope you seek therapy for the misery and hate that seems to dictate how you treat others - I promise you don't have to be so unhappy.
No she's not it looks like a man it is a man
@@Tom-uv7ry u seem open minded 😂, there are trans that actually look like women and u can't tell so your game? 🤔
@@snap_drama346 clown I can tell you silly little div kid and that thing looks like a man not a woman