feeling lost in my 20s

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 9 ม.ค. 2025

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  • @beatrizxa
    @beatrizxa 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    be kind to yourself, forgave yourself, I started to have mercy with me because Jesus forgave me first, i found His love and now i'm no longer incapable, and my future is Him. i was dealing with really bad mental issues, feeling lost, but when i found Him, everything started to be better.

    • @hanschapters
      @hanschapters  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you for this, God is always listening and help ease the journey.

  • @beatrizxa
    @beatrizxa 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I agree with you about the baby step thing, healing is a journey, not a day to night task.

  • @kireiTVstudio
    @kireiTVstudio 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    damn this hits hard. i am feeling the exact same way, it sucks. i hope we overcome this feeling of lost one day. it won't be easy, but taking small steps will get us there. thank you for making this video! sometimes these kind of videos are what we need to hear. ❤

    • @hanschapters
      @hanschapters  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I'm glad you loved it! Best wishes to all of us who are dealing with the feeling of being lost. We'll get to where we want to be in life, just trust the process 🙏

  • @joelstazFTW
    @joelstazFTW 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    27 here and going through the same struggles & sentiments as you. It is indeed a never ending cycle. It’s oddly comforting to know others are struggling with the same thing I am as sad as that sounds. I’ve been like this for a while and there are moments where I break out of the rut just to fall back into the pit eventually. But I do learn a lil more each time. I just got out of one a few days ago and things have been good. I’m optimistic about life despite my failures to act, and you seem to have a good head on your shoulders as well as great wisdom. May we both achieve what we want in our time, because it’s our journey. God bless

    • @hanschapters
      @hanschapters  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much 💓 I hope we get out of anything that holds us back from who we want to be and be more patient with our growth. ✨️

  • @stalkermin
    @stalkermin 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hey Hana! the exact same was happening with me, but my life has changed so much in the last 3 months. Look Hana, let the bygones be bygones, try to escape this mental block with ease and by not over pressuring yourself too much. Make a good friend, who understands you genuinely. Try spirituality, that's literally the best thing that ever worked for me. I had no friends, no family support, no money, was in p*rn, slept all day, but after finding religion and adhering to it, I am so better and motivated. I have left every bad habit, and I'm growing gradually. Look, the place where you wanna be requires effort and TIME, you won't there quick if you want to achieve something big. Start small, do a little daily, BE POSITIVE, don't overthink, find spirituality and practice gratitude daily. Believe me you'll be changed in the next 3 months.
    Ibrahim.

    • @hanschapters
      @hanschapters  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@stalkermin thank you so much for sharing your story and for your words, truly inspiring! 💗

  • @postmeridiemm
    @postmeridiemm 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hey! I hope you find hope. Not just happiness but pure unshakable hope and contentment. Only through this hope will you find your place. For me that hope is found in the freedom of God. ❤

    • @hanschapters
      @hanschapters  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much! Sending love! 💓

  • @Phanniesays..
    @Phanniesays.. 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    We have our own paces, but still feels like I have to win the race
    And i'm just in my first year of my 20s, feel you. uu
    Send u love

    • @hanschapters
      @hanschapters  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I know exactly how you feel. I can't help but compare myself to peers who I think are doing well in life but again, we have our own paces and we should focus on our journey instead. Don't pressure yourself, you're doing well! 💓💓💓

  • @famaniang5579
    @famaniang5579 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You got this, babe. I was feeling the same way but through patience and faith it all gets better. Just stick it out for your future self. You got this!

    • @hanschapters
      @hanschapters  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@famaniang5579 Thank you so much! It does get better in time 💗

  • @kilpyy
    @kilpyy 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    2am algorithm got me here lmao

    • @kilpyy
      @kilpyy 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      im 24 and resonate with A LOT of your topics. im at the age where the default question is “hows work?”. ive always struggled with getting that entry level tech job to BEGIN, nonetheless GROW. a few months ago by complete luck i found an hourly “job” training AI, but its completely dry now. i had to sign an NDA and i have no ties to a supervisor to list as a reference. im struggling to override the feeling that im right back where i started. this upcoming week is pivotal for me applying for a masters program in AI for the fall.

    • @kilpyy
      @kilpyy 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      BUT what gives me solace: trust in the hana who wants you to be a better woman. a lot of my discomfort is i wish i didnt take so long and make so little progress. as much as i wish my progress came in a big, lifestyle changing leap that gave me the different days i look forward to, youre right, the only failure is to fail getting back up. im finding that after those 2 years and 2000+ job apps, “putting yourself out there” revolves more around luck than discipline. my years and applications are just numbers, but they’re also experiences and emotions that i just had to go through to be closer to who i want myself to be. ive had to accept that the job i had was temporary and only a stepping stone. growth is being purposeful in how you spend time with yourself, for yourself, to better be yourself. im not who i want to be yet, but the keyword is yet. i cant wait for the end of this week. then i cant wait for september when classes start. sure, i might get denied, but ive gotta atleast try my best for the me i want myself to be. and i guess a part of being youthful is continuing to aspire to building better days, even if the path isnt so straight forward, theres a little bit of wisdom in everything. give yourself credit for making the most out of the brain youve developed so far, you show a lot of depth.

    • @kilpyy
      @kilpyy 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      BUT what gives me solace: trust in the hana who wants you to be a better woman. as much as i wish my progress came in a big, lifestyle changing leap that gave me the different days i look forward to, youre right, the only failure is to fail getting back up. im finding that after those 2 years, 2000+ job apps and 20 interviews, those are just numbers to a lot of ppl, but they’re also experiences and emotions that i just had to go through to be closer to who i want myself to be. ive had to accept that the job was much more temporary than i hoped and treat it like a stepping stone, not the leap i crave. growth is being purposeful in how you spend time with yourself, for yourself, to better be yourself. im not who i want to be yet, but the keyword is yet. i cant wait for the end of this week. then i cant wait for september when classes start. sure, i might get denied, but ive gotta atleast try my best for the me i want myself to be. and i guess a part of being youthful is continuing to aspire to building better days, even if the path isnt so straight forward; theres a little bit of wisdom in everything. give yourself credit for making the most out of the brain youve developed so far, you show a lot of depth. trust yourself in carving out who you want to be!

    • @kilpyy
      @kilpyy 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      BUT what gives me solace: trust in the hana who wants you to be a better woman. as much as i wish my progress came in a big, lifestyle changing leap that gave me the different days i look forward to, youre right, the only failure is to fail getting back up. im finding that after those 2 years, 2000+ job apps and 20 or so interviews, those are just numbers. but they’re also experiences and emotions that i just had to go through to be closer to who i want myself to be. im not where i want to be or who i want to be yet, but the keyword is yet. i cant wait for the end of this week. then i cant wait for september when classes start. sure, i might get denied, but ive gotta atleast try my best for the me i want myself to be. and i guess a part of being youthful is continuing to aspire to building better days, even if the path isnt so straight forward; theres a little bit of wisdom in everything. give yourself credit for making the most out of the brain youve developed so far, you show a lot of depth. progress will come no matter what you do when you spend time with yourself, for yourself, to better be yourself. trust yourself incarving out only who you can be

    • @hanschapters
      @hanschapters  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I wish you well on your journey and thank you for sharing it here. It takes courage and willpower to keep pushing oneself despite the struggles and the delays. I hope you are proud of your persistence, it will all be paid off 🏆

  • @rlam86
    @rlam86 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hi mom! OK, I'll get moving... 😮‍💨

    • @hanschapters
      @hanschapters  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      That's more like it!

  • @ereh25
    @ereh25 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    She cute