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Good Job young lady there's nothing wrong with dating outside of your race❤️...We need to see more Black Women and White Men together. I encourage young black women everyday to date outside of their race Enjoy your day!
Doesn't seem like she is not confident in her black skin. That you can't be attracted to someone of your own race. That is sad, but we will leave her to her own ideas.
I'm agreed because I lowkey never understand why some (not all) people feel some type of way of a black person (or any race) especially a female who have a racial preference of what they like. Plus, I'm don't care what people's racial preference is, as long as you not talking or putting down on your own race that all its matters.
If you actually got specific preference you uh should be married to that preference by now and not sleeping with the entire race of that preference and still single. It means that preference don’t want you long term.
That makes no sense…just bc you have a preference, you should be married? Does that apply to the bm who worship non bw ? Shouldn’t they all be married to that race?
@ exactly 👍 this apply to everyone or anyone who worshipped and preferred other race. What’s the point of dating multiple preferences and still not committed to any of them?. It’s like dating non-preferences as well. Dating your preference should have an end goal. For example I am a black man, who preferred a younger, respectful, submissive perfect weight, light skin, educated black woman who is a virgin, guess what, I got her and now she is my wife.
@ but you chose a preference that also chose YOU…that’s the only way it works If they keep dating who doesn’t want what they want (race aside), they’ll never get what they want imo
To each is own and I can tell she likes white guys she has that look if you know u know I can spot them a mile away I know who likes BM and who are divestor it's easy to point out little signs u pick up on 😂😂
You don't have to settle. You could just continue to be used by the ones who are willing to even use you, but it seems like you want people who don't want you, so basically, you want them to settle. 🤷🏾
I think most of these issues are self inflicted. I can honestly say that I do not care who likes who. Shes makeing this out to be way bigger than what it is. She has her preference and no one cares.
Everyone has the right to fall in love with whomsoever he/she wants to. My first puppy love was an Ebony Black Boy that Hue, still my favourite shade for a man..The Blacker the better...
She’s just being honest it’s nbd. Most white guys prefer white girls so good luck with all that. Leonardo DiCaprio has never dated anyone who looks like you & I doubt he ever will. Having personal Preference is fine, but you should also ask yourself do those you prefer… prefer YOU?
Leonardo DiCaprio since she was 6 years old....and this is why they don't want certain people for certain roles..... Imagine Idris Elba as James Bond. 🎤
If you prefer something that's ,like say I like grape soda as my favorite ,but I can drink orange soda, and other,but when you make it exclusive only then it's not a preference.
Interesting that much of this colorism, featurism, texturism, etc. has to do with subliminal indoctrination of Eurocentric ideology beauty standards throughout many centuries via magazines, signs, billboards, radio, television, commercials, beauty supplies, school, society and now social media. Many black people (both bm and bw) still have attraction and prefer European facial features on their own people even though they say they don't. That's why many times you'll hear both bm and bw say that attractive White and European, non-black Latinos, and biracials are "fine" or "drop dead gorgeous", etc. even more than they would think or say about their own.
Everybody has their own preference she should sound more confident in hers . I love me some black women but my girl is black , my mom is black , and my sisters are black I’ve been around them since birth.
She said it’s mostly black as you contact her, so I would say that they are the ones who are showing her the most love and who appreciate her the most.
“ are we supposed to settle for what we’re not attracted to?” Yes, 80 to 90% of us do that. Only the top 10 or 20% get to date who they want. I’m attracted to women who look like Halle Berry; but they are not attracted to me. So, I settle🤷🏾
Everyone has the right to be attracted to whatever they’re attracted to but is it me or does someone else hear the contradiction in her words and the discomfort in her speech. She’s not comfortable with her preferences so she should find some help talking through her feelings. Who a person is on the inside should supersede any superficial preference. I’m. Immediately turned off when someone tells me that they are turned on by my appearance and not the total me inside and out.
Good Job young lady there's nothing wrong with dating outside of your race❤️...We need to see more Black Women and White Men together. Why do black men love to bash black women appearance when they don't want to date them? She's beautiful,I encourage young black women everyday to date outside of their race Enjoy your day!
@mcbthird This is 2024 your hatred will not stop black women from finding happiness...Just because you see one thing doesn't mean that it's actual facts.
Date who you want, but I’m allowed to think you are weird for rejecting your own race. And this goes from men and women of all races. If you don’t date your own race, something is wrong with you. That’s my opinion.
Theres nothing wrong with having a preference. You cant help what you like. People feel offended that you dont want them or want what they want. Its weird. My wife and I are different races. I heard from my own race i should be with our own. Stop being so sensitive.
Echo chamber: BM have been making songs about their preference for lighter women for so long. So I think it’s OK for her to do whatever she thinks is fine. I have had to be OK with BM and their love for their preferences for so many years. 🤷🏿♀️ And honestly, I have come across so many black women who just prefer dealing with non-black men. Two of my former acquaintances who are darker skinned black women both married Hispanic men. They’re happy. Some women are just over trying to live up to BM’s standards. They have lived the majority of their lives getting passed over by BM. People don’t even know how much non-black men like black women. I think this new generation is waking up to that fact. Interesting video though. And to add to this, she appears to be introverted and quirky. A regular BM probably wouldn’t be interested in her outside of her complexion. So I think white men might be more accepting of her quirkiness. IJS
I believe bw and BM who prefer to date out suffer from the same kind of selfhate and you can’t convince me otherwise. Y’all can always bring up individuals for our race that do things but make up excuses for other races. This is primarily a one sided love and BM and bw who date out date the bottom of the dating pool when doing so. That makes a difference in the kind of people you deal with.
@ It depends on the person and the situation. I’ve been seeing black women from other countries, especially African black women, marry millionaire white men. It’s not happening with everyone who dates out, but a lot of them are starting to get wifed up by really rich white guys from Europe. I used to think that European men liking black women was just something for TV but it’s true, It could be some fetishising involved with that, but they will try to holler at BW over there. And they are not broke at all. 🤷🏿♀️
@SimplisticallyDigital It's mostly a fetish. White men from European countries have a serious fetish for dark skin black women. The same way some white women have a fetish for dark skin men. But is a fetish the same as having love and appreciation for a person? I think you know the answer to that?
What I don't get and it's probably my age is. Why do people put their business out there and get surprised by the response? What attention are you seeking? before social media you didn't know so and so was a freak until you found out in person Or your homeboy or girl told you. I don't know this woman but before this video or even after this. I don't care who you date or marry. None of my business.
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Good Job young lady there's nothing wrong with dating outside of your race❤️...We need to see more Black Women and White Men together. I encourage young black women everyday to date outside of their race Enjoy your day!
No black guys feelings were hurt during this video 🤣
NONE😭😭😭
Somebody need to take her phone she just wasted her time telling us that
@@1nite1989 no frfr🤦🏾♀️
AT ALL!! 🤣
Please take her
It’s crazy how she will only date white guys, but she’s only been dumped by white guys
she is doing us a huge favor! No ❤ lost!
Facts
Right! No love lost. Huge favor for us.
I'm sure she'll make some yt guy happy. No loss for us.
@@ericbrown275 💯
She definitely has the right to choose and it's no hate from me😅😅😅 Time for the whyte dudes to take one for the team🤣🤣🤣🤦🏾♂️
Brothers not losing sleep over that. 😂
Neither are the white boys. That's why she's talking about one instead of having one.
🤣🤌🏾
Not at all.
Exactly 💯 lmfao most black guys ain't trying too smash her anyways she's trying too low-key diss black guys
😭😭😭
YEA ITS ALL GOOD,THATS HER PREFERENCE.SHE DOING WHAT WORKS FOR HER💯
🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️ somebody take her phone.
Doesn't seem like she is not confident in her black skin. That you can't be attracted to someone of your own race. That is sad, but we will leave her to her own ideas.
She is a Divestor
Her skin ain’t Black, but I hear what u sayin.
I'm agreed because I lowkey never understand why some (not all) people feel some type of way of a black person (or any race) especially a female who have a racial preference of what they like.
Plus, I'm don't care what people's racial preference is, as long as you not talking or putting down on your own race that all its matters.
If you actually got specific preference you uh should be married to that preference by now and not sleeping with the entire race of that preference and still single. It means that preference don’t want you long term.
That part
That makes no sense…just bc you have a preference, you should be married? Does that apply to the bm who worship non bw ? Shouldn’t they all be married to that race?
@ exactly 👍 this apply to everyone or anyone who worshipped and preferred other race. What’s the point of dating multiple preferences and still not committed to any of them?. It’s like dating non-preferences as well. Dating your preference should have an end goal. For example I am a black man, who preferred a younger, respectful, submissive perfect weight, light skin, educated black woman who is a virgin, guess what, I got her and now she is my wife.
@ but you chose a preference that also chose YOU…that’s the only way it works
If they keep dating who doesn’t want what they want (race aside), they’ll never get what they want imo
You do you girl.....More Men for the rest of us out here!
To each is own and I can tell she likes white guys she has that look if you know u know I can spot them a mile away I know who likes BM and who are divestor it's easy to point out little signs u pick up on 😂😂
Facts… she’s nerdy
Facts 💯 percent
You know we can go ahead and let this one go.
You better love who loves you
You don't have to settle. You could just continue to be used by the ones who are willing to even use you, but it seems like you want people who don't want you, so basically, you want them to settle. 🤷🏾
My wife is Spanish & Black this is my preference fellas don't be scared to voice that to these modern day women 🤯🤦🏽😭🤫💯
Why? Out of bitterness? Nothing wrong with a preference but to go out of your way about it is weird, regardless of who’s doing it
Gotta give her props for using the word PREFERENCE in the correct context. 👏🏾
I think most of these issues are self inflicted. I can honestly say that I do not care who likes who. Shes makeing this out to be way bigger than what it is. She has her preference and no one cares.
Salute J. R.
Everyone has the right to fall in love with whomsoever he/she wants to. My first puppy love was an Ebony Black Boy that Hue, still my favourite shade for a man..The Blacker the better...
She’s just being honest it’s nbd. Most white guys prefer white girls so good luck with all that. Leonardo DiCaprio has never dated anyone who looks like you & I doubt he ever will. Having personal Preference is fine, but you should also ask yourself do those you prefer… prefer YOU?
Leonardo DiCaprio since she was 6 years old....and this is why they don't want certain people for certain roles..... Imagine Idris Elba as James Bond. 🎤
If you prefer something that's ,like say I like grape soda as my favorite ,but I can drink orange soda, and other,but when you make it exclusive only then it's not a preference.
7:25 J.R. Smiling because he got a chance
I’m, I don’t think so.
BLACK MEN ROCK, inspite of the generational run down they went through, they are still the strongest we have 💪🏽❤️‼️
If only they felt the same about y’all 😢
Interesting that much of this colorism, featurism, texturism, etc. has to do with subliminal indoctrination of Eurocentric ideology beauty standards throughout many centuries via magazines, signs, billboards, radio, television, commercials, beauty supplies, school, society and now social media. Many black people (both bm and bw) still have attraction and prefer European facial features on their own people even though they say they don't. That's why many times you'll hear both bm and bw say that attractive White and European, non-black Latinos, and biracials are "fine" or "drop dead gorgeous", etc. even more than they would think or say about their own.
It's ok. Just don't make disparaging remarks about who you don't prefer . It is okaaaayyy!
Exactly
Everybody has their own preference she should sound more confident in hers . I love me some black women but my girl is black , my mom is black , and my sisters are black I’ve been around them since birth.
Why would you wanna date some one that resembles your family members thats weird and strange
@@cmack3795😂😂
@@cmack3795I guess all black women resemble each other your the only weird person here 🤦🏾♂️
It's a genetic thing @@cmack3795
@@cmack3795 resemblance and race are two different things your very weird and you know it 💯
She's All Over the Place🤔😳😬
I thought it was just me. She sounds delusional.
Shout out to the yt boys! As a black man I’m all for it!
Right!
I can't believe she took time to say this ish like brothers are in a uproar behind her preference. Go ahead and do yo thang nobody gon bother you 👍
I am heartbroken Qbert don't want to date me 💔💔💔😭😭😭😭😂😂😂😂
Lol 😂😂😂
OK you be along 1st you have to pick yourself up....I love dark skin woman
Dark skin and brown skin monoracial black women are the FINEST and enigmatic!
As long as they are attracted to you who cares?
Shouldn’t matter what you like who you like or who you are in love with as long as you love that person and I love you too
Not offended or shamed on behalf of grateful black men
I think it’s great that she has her preference. At least she is honest with herself. I don’t know why people would be upset at it.
I can say to the depth of my soul, "I don't care." 😂😂😂
She said it’s mostly black as you contact her, so I would say that they are the ones who are showing her the most love and who appreciate her the most.
She sounds 14 years old.
It's nothing wrong with dating other races, but are they interested in YOU?? That's my question. Just by looking at her..I can say they are Not.
Never be ashamed, like whoever you like. Never settle
Leave her alone wish her the best let's help her to find Leonardo
WHY UPLOAD THIS ? WHY?
im with her....everyone can have their preferences imo.....
“ are we supposed to settle for what we’re not attracted to?”
Yes, 80 to 90% of us do that. Only the top 10 or 20% get to date who they want.
I’m attracted to women who look like Halle Berry; but they are not attracted to me. So, I settle🤷🏾
Everyone has the right to be attracted to whatever they’re attracted to but is it me or does someone else hear the contradiction in her words and the discomfort in her speech. She’s not comfortable with her preferences so she should find some help talking through her feelings. Who a person is on the inside should supersede any superficial preference. I’m. Immediately turned off when someone tells me that they are turned on by my appearance and not the total me inside and out.
Good Job young lady there's nothing wrong with dating outside of your race❤️...We need to see more Black Women and White Men together. Why do black men love to bash black women appearance when they don't want to date them? She's beautiful,I encourage young black women everyday to date outside of their race Enjoy your day!
Sounds like desperation and one sided love but to each their own
@mcbthird This is 2024 your hatred will not stop black women from finding happiness...Just because you see one thing doesn't mean that it's actual facts.
Please white man, take one for the team😅
BELOW AVERAGE OBESE HAIRLINE WAY WAY BACK😅😅
You're one in 30M honey,
So yeah, i think you remain up there with them folks.
Date who you want, but I’m allowed to think you are weird for rejecting your own race. And this goes from men and women of all races. If you don’t date your own race, something is wrong with you. That’s my opinion.
It’s almost 2025.. it’s crazy how people are still talking about this.🤦🏾♂️
Good for her wish her the best
She can't be serious
Theres nothing wrong with having a preference. You cant help what you like. People feel offended that you dont want them or want what they want. Its weird. My wife and I are different races. I heard from my own race i should be with our own. Stop being so sensitive.
Echo chamber: BM have been making songs about their preference for lighter women for so long. So I think it’s OK for her to do whatever she thinks is fine. I have had to be OK with BM and their love for their preferences for so many years. 🤷🏿♀️
And honestly, I have come across so many black women who just prefer dealing with non-black men. Two of my former acquaintances who are darker skinned black women both married Hispanic men. They’re happy. Some women are just over trying to live up to BM’s standards. They have lived the majority of their lives getting passed over by BM. People don’t even know how much non-black men like black women. I think this new generation is waking up to that fact. Interesting video though.
And to add to this, she appears to be introverted and quirky. A regular BM probably wouldn’t be interested in her outside of her complexion. So I think white men might be more accepting of her quirkiness. IJS
I believe bw and BM who prefer to date out suffer from the same kind of selfhate and you can’t convince me otherwise. Y’all can always bring up individuals for our race that do things but make up excuses for other races. This is primarily a one sided love and BM and bw who date out date the bottom of the dating pool when doing so. That makes a difference in the kind of people you deal with.
@ It depends on the person and the situation. I’ve been seeing black women from other countries, especially African black women, marry millionaire white men. It’s not happening with everyone who dates out, but a lot of them are starting to get wifed up by really rich white guys from Europe. I used to think that European men liking black women was just something for TV but it’s true, It could be some fetishising involved with that, but they will try to holler at BW over there. And they are not broke at all. 🤷🏿♀️
@SimplisticallyDigital It's mostly a fetish. White men from European countries have a serious fetish for dark skin black women. The same way some white women have a fetish for dark skin men. But is a fetish the same as having love and appreciation for a person? I think you know the answer to that?
I respect her preference
I really don’t think 💭 they care, I’m just saying.
I think people should date who ever they want gust leave black men alone 🤔
No disrespect to this female, I love my sistas. However she lacks leverage to mandate who she wants to date
What I don't get and it's probably my age is. Why do people put their business out there and get surprised by the response? What attention are you seeking? before social media you didn't know so and so was a freak until you found out in person Or your homeboy or girl told you. I don't know this woman but before this video or even after this. I don't care who you date or marry. None of my business.
I don't think anyone cares.
It don't bother me neither but where your results 🤔
Why is there racism within our own culture. What's the difference what shade you are. Your still black. Can someone break it down to me.
@byronharmon5355 You a suburban
What does suburban mean. And how you know i am suburban. I grew up in the hood.@@cmack3795
Blk men don't care 😂 move on
I think it's something really wrong with them why come on the internet crazy.
She is single mom
Why do I see Stephen A. Smith?
Buggin
SO😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅