So true, this is what happens when a whole society throws morals and ethics down the drain for liberalism. Ideals are there for a rrason. We can't all be the ideal, but we can keep trying!
@@Opal5674 Traditional wives are very loyal so even if the husband has an affair she will still love him and stay with him and work to make the marriage stronger.
That’s why even when the husband is abusive and has an affair, traditional wives are very submissive and will always love him regardless. That’s why trad families never divorce and are always happy.
I'm so sorry for your loss, if you are religious pls look to God to help you walk there this valley of darkness. He has help me when I was there and sout him out, he will do it for you to.
I had a girl i worked with tell me I looked like a trad wife and she was shocked when I said "thank you." and asked me if i knew it was an insult and i replied "id rather be remembered as wife material they missed out on than forgotten as someones last hook up" she wont speak to me after that lol
Over the past year while I battled cancer, I was "red pilled" and began acting more like traditional Christian wife. My husband and I are closer than ever. Faith stronger. And I'm cancer free!
I am a trad wife who homeschools and homesteads. I don't wear dresses because they aren't practical for me and I don't like the way I look in them. I take care of chickens, goats, dogs, cats, and a garden. I live in Oklahoma, and I refuse to get eaten up by bugs or snakes, so I wear jeans, even when it's well over 100° here. I am also far too accident prone to wear dresses or shorts. I get scratched and cut enough through jeans.
Trad homeschooling wife, here too! Got the chickens and the garden as well. (Wish i had goats) I agree. I don't wear dresses outside either. Mostly wear a dress indoors when its hot, and I'm too pregnant for pants. 😂
Went to our daughters year 6 graduation (into high school) ceremony. And while all the kids got up on stage and told the audience what they wanted for their future, one young girl stood in front of all the parents, all her peers, and all the school staff and declared she would like to raise a family and be a mother. I’ve never felt sadder than listening to the whole crowd laugh out loud after cheering and clapping for everyone else’s dreams.
I have seem occasions when people laughed more out of surprise and some kind of sudden release of stress when another says something like that, that some unspoken taboo had been breached. Usually, though, said laughs are then followed by a more "situation appropriate" response. In this case, that should have been a lot of applause and cheering. I'm guessing that didn't happen?
I’m an untraditional traditional wife… tattooed, ride motorcycles, wear Daisy Dukes around the house. But I maintain the home, homeschool, and make sure my husband doesn’t have to worry or think of anything when he gets home. He never calls me up to say he’s working late and always greets me and the girls with hugs and kisses when he gets home. Can we say… we are happy?
Yes! There are so many variations of style and hobbies and passions. The frilly dresses are just super popular right now (probably because it is a stark contrast to third wave feminism:)
I find it oppressive that we live a society where so many couples are under such great financial pressure that wives are forced to work when many working moms would love the opportunity to stay home with their kids if they could.
Same thing they said during the suffrage movement but the government and Rockefeller pushed it to separate kids into public schools for dumbed down obedient workers and double the tax base from working women. Moms hated the idea, but propaganda won the day.
I’m trying to enable my wife to stay home with the kids, but the extra money she brings in definitely helps. Still, there’s no sub for her being at home with the kids.
I 100% agree. I stay home but it has been hard at times and we sacrifice alot to make that possible. I believe in my heart that it has been by design to remove the mom and put her to work to keep the trad family at bay and to make it easier to create a separation between parents and children. That way the schools actually raise the kids into what we see predominantly today and raise kids to not have a relationship or trust their parents. Parents need to stand firm and fight for their children. They need to take back their role to be there, and be part of their lives and take a strong role in their moral, ethical, and behavioral development because what I've seen developing over the years is the opposite and the outcome is disheartening and scary.
Ever since I met my wife, she has yearned to be a SAHM. She and I both worked before we had children, and she continued working part-time after having our two children. But the goal for both of us was to gradually get to a point financially where we could rely on my income alone. That finally happened about two years ago. In addition, we are also able to homeschool our children. My wife loves, loves, LOVES kids, and it makes me happy to see her purchasing school materials, taking our children on nature walks, and doing all kinds of arts-and-crafts projects with them. We don't have much disposable income, but we have a blessed life and our children are smart, talented, and happy. Let me add that my wife is by no means a slouch or pushover. In fact, I have more feminine personality traits than she does. I'm agreeable, noncombative, low in assertiveness, and unfortunately, struggle with neurotic withdrawal tendencies like anxiety and depression. My wife, on the other hand, is bold, confident, highly assertive, and free of neurotic tendencies to such a degree that it never ceases to amaze me. I mention this because many of the more militant feminists seem to think being a SAHM and housewife is necessarily a subordinate or subservient position. It emphatically is not. Even women who possess typically feminine personality traits can and should help to rule and maintain the home like a miniature castle. And I don't mean "rule" in a dictatorial way, but simply in the way it's been used by philosophers in the past: to oversee, to manage, to steer, to plan, to organize. I'm fond of saying that, despite all our friends and colleagues, in the end all we have is family. When the father is the sole breadwinner, the mother becomes the essential keystone in the entire system. It is taxing work, but also vital to the health and happiness of the home. That responsibility needs to be acknowledged and praised in our society, not in a smarmy "awareness" kind of way, but seriously whenever the need arises. And husbands- that means your responsibility is to be thankful for your wife, because without her the household will be proportionately less lovely, less comfy, and less happy.
I was fed into extreme feminism and my goal was to split EVERYTHING 50/50 with my husband. To the point that it became an obsessive competition in my head. I worked myself into a burnout and deep depression… After being so sick I realized that’s not for me. My body physically cannot take it. Now I’m bringing more of a traditional spin onto our marriage and we’re both very happy. I fell in love with housework all over again, cooking, cleaning and organizing. I don’t look at it as “oppression” anymore. More of loving care of my home I do plan on working though but not as much as I tried before and career is not my main priority, my family and my health are
How could you ever think cleaning your home is opression? We are adults and I'm pretty sure cleaning our homes is a adult responsibility. My husband cleans and cooks. But me doing so you considered oppression? I don't get it.
All the best to you and your husband ❤ Hope you're feeling better. I think one of the toughest things is that modern technology and the modern economy HAVE changed some things in a practical sense, and shouldn't be politicized. Unless you live on a farm, some 'traditional' things don't really work anymore; and it's absolutely okay and sensible to update for the modern world! But a lot of things in reality and human nature don't change with society but transcend it, so there's no point in replacing something traditional that still WORKS just because it's 'old.' I like to be practical about it 😁
As an aspiring trad wife, this is amazing 😂😂.. recently posted on whatsapp how being a trad wife is beneficial to women and one feminist guy almost went crazy 😂😂 funny part is that all the ladies agreed with me
That’s why I tell men that marriage is a great benefit and it’s a must. All men who are single and choose not to get married are not really choosing to not to marry, it’s just their way of coping because they know that no woman will ever be with them. I think marriage needs to be required so that men can be a lot happier and not be so lonely.
I wasn’t called a trad wife; I was called a stay at home mom. Loved it. Raised our 5 kids. Now they are parents and I have a job. Hubby still says I don’t need to work, I do it out of boredom and to maybe make friends.
Please make sure you take time for yourself to be able to recharge. I work part time & am with my kids the rest of the time. Do not feel bad if you need an hour to yourself or want to buy yourself something. Your kids are so blessed to have you.
I had no clue it was even another name but homemaker lol now it’s called trad wife.. so stupid.. sorry I’m with you I raised 5 children whom I homeschooled and still have 2 at home and wouldn’t change anything about it.. atleast my kids aren’t learning about sex or whether to choose to be a girl or boy not what they were created at bring at birth.. but anyway I love staying home and teaching my kiddos.. maybe after they are all gone I’ll get a job again but for now I’m Happy being a trad wife if that is what it’s called.. 😂😂
When my ex and I split, this is what I wanted. Traditional marriage roles. She tried to tell me I was sexist and that kind of life doesn't exist anymore. She even went as far as to tell me I would never find someone because of it. I'm a patient man, so we'll see. Thanks Brett, for always being a beacon of hope for young men like me. Keep up the great work, and may God bless you
Lead with it! My husband told me very early on that's what he wanted and I didn't even know I wanted this because I didn't know it was an option! I'm at home with our three boys, we've been together since 2010!
As a man with a trad wife i can not express how amazing my wife is and how well she takes care of me. Our marriage works amazingly well and we honestly never fight. She’s submissive (by choice not forced) but gives her opinion to try and help. Her being submissive forces me to be a better man and husband, the man and husband God intended me to be
I was chatting with a friend and her husband about how my ultimate goal is to become a SAHM as soon as possible, and it was actually the husband who was the one who seemingly couldn’t wrap his head around it. He said “but you’re clearly intelligent and a good worker.” I told him (respectfully) that I personally believe raising children well is the most important job in the world and that unless it were absolutely necessary to survive, I wouldn’t want to put my kids in day care or public school.
@@doctordetroit4339 facts! You said it a little mean maybe, but it’s true. It’s very true. Men are great with logic and logistics and women are great with planning and caring. It’s literally the PERFECT match.
I used to be so opposed to getting married, having children, being a stay-at-home mom, etc. A huge part of me changing my mind was meeting the right person. I didn't have anyone in my life that I desired to care for so I was bitter about doing anything of the sort entirely. After being in such a healthy and loving relationship with my boyfriend, having kids and getting married is something that I look forward to every day. I can't wait to raise our kids and have a home together. I love him so much
Same reasons why some women are scared of marriage because they fear finding wrong men in their life. I've seen relationships being destroyed because of cheating. It is wrong to assume only men cheat but there is also some women who cheats as well.
cheating is normal for men, is part of nature! men can effectively procreate with several partners at the same time women need to wait at least 9 months to be able to reproduce with another partner.....#is just nature@@connordrake5713
See, that's what many of those trad wife influencers are missing in their messaging. It's not just women who have changed; it's men as well, becoming more reactive, more indifferent to the idea of having a family. Some men outright refuse marriage, after internalizing the divorce stats. Finding a family oriented, devoted man is huge luck, and if those ladies were blessed with the right man, they are within their right to cherish their blessing! However, those men are harder to come across today. So, those women influencing young *wives* is awesome, but single women need a pathway too!
@@LadyMontane Men haven't changed; divorce laws and family courts have changed. If the divorce laws and family courts were to go back to what they were 100 years ago, you would quickly discover a flood of men who instantly want to get married and care for a wife and children.
I’m a liberal and most of my friends are leftist and I have never heard anyone care if someone’s a mom lol I think people only care if someone’s husband is forcing their wife into that decision if she would rather be working
I recently got married at age 25 and throughout our engagement season it seemed like all we heard from complete strangers was “marriage sucks, don’t do it.” And I was often made to feel like something was wrong with me for marrying “so young” as if I can’t still be my own person in a marriage. Though I by no means am a Trad Wife, as I will graduate next July with my Doctorate in Physical Therapy, my husband and I share very traditional values when it comes to our marriage, as we are both Christians, and strangers and acquaintances love to tell us their opinions about why those values are oppressive to women without even bothering to ask what those values really mean and how they play out in our home. Thank you for this video!!!
I wish young women would not be so easily influenced by negative peer pressure anymore, but it will probably never stop. You dodged that bullet, but many end up ruining their lives like that and then nobody actually cares about them.
Hey girl! I was married at 25 too nd I felt like you said, many people around telling that I shouldn't married, just because or because my age, but I married anyway too. I have no regrets, none, two and a half years have passed, we have our first daughter, expecting the second and I'm stray at home mom, even when my education was feminist and as a result, my life change has been the most difficult thing I have done, it's still the best and I have never been happier.
Yeah… if the jedis produced more kids than they could often handle and bred before they had the wisdom to even share with their kids. Women should not be career crazy, but a lot of these 19 twats who marry the first person they date just divorce and raise kids that can’t shut up who ultimately get diagnosed with ADHD or some other bullshit.
My mom hates that I'm a trad wife. My in-laws love it and help with homeschooling, gardening, and childcare. They helped us buy the house across the street to be closer to them and know that this trad wife is who will care for them when they are really old.
My father really wants me to be a CPA and is pushing me to climb the corporate ladder because he says there is no guarantee a husband won’t leave you. While my only dream is to be a trad wife on a farm far away from to city
@@julianagarces2389 my dad was just like yours, he always encouaraged me to study hard, get a good job and be financially independent. I think this stems from an innate fear that dads have - what will happen to my little girl once am gone? I myself was determined to get financially stable myself and before i got married i made sure my partner was not expecting a traditional/ SAH. Luckily i have been blessed with a very supportive husband and this dynamic works great for us.
If you are going to school, research potential degrees and how they would be in demand in the work-marketplace. Go into a field that has a good potential, that you want to be in, and will pay off IF you do not get married, OR if you have a bad marriage and have to return to work. The degree is an insurance policy for you and your future. No one is guaranteed to find the absolutely perfect mate/spouse, but get out and date often, and hopefully you'll be able to find someone with similar ideals that you can spend your life with.
The "feminist" disdain comes from the thought of inevitably having to compete with these women and the value they bring to a relationship/marriage if this catches on.
Not really because being with someone isn’t about competing with anyone. It’s just finding the person you end up vibing with and enjoy sharing time with. It rather comes from the trauma of parents expecting that and society expecting that and not seeing you beyond being a mother and being your own person.
Actually I think it's when they use the word "submit" that triggers feminists. It bothers me because that's not how you use the word submit if it's actually a traditional marriage. This is the definition of submit "accept or yield to a superior force or to the authority or will of another person", that is NOT how a traditional marriage works and it triggers people by saying/implying the wife does everything and anything the husband tells her to do.
“Maybe staying home and making sourdough bread is actually like the pinnacle of happiness.” This spoke to my soul 🤣Listening to this while I make sourdough bread at home as the babies are sleeping- this gave me a good laugh. Absolutely love being a SAHM at 26. There is nothing else I’d rather do with my youth!
What do you plan to do in your middle age when your husband dumps you for someone younger hotter and more interesting? Make more sourdough bread? Do you eat it? Its probably loaded with carbs and you will weigh 390 lbs by age 30 which is when you will be discarded for a younger hotter body. Then what will you do? Your youth and your looks will be long gone. Your husband will dump you for a new model.
We manage to make sourdough bread while working full time outside the home, and it is marvelous. Kids, hubby, and I all enjoy the hobby. But yeah, I guess I'm living in a feminist nightmare 😆😆😆😆
The trad wife movement on social media has helped me more than I’d like to admit. I became a sahm almost 8 years ago. I felt so much guilt for quitting my job and staying home. The feminist moment made me feel like a failure. But staying home has been so amazing for my family. It’s made my kids and my husband happier. I even felt so much happier but there was a lingering shadow of guilt that I wasn’t working. The trad wife movement has helped remove that guilt. I love my life, me being home has been such a wonderful gift to my family. We’re all healthier and happier because of it.
This reminds me of something Andrew Yang said, paraphrasing, "Being a mom is the most important job in the world, but the economy values it at zero." Just because the market doesn't pay you to be a mom doesn't mean it doesn't matter. Bravo to you!
I am experiencing this process as a new SAHM. I’m still working out the emotions for quitting a 6 figure job (I was also the primary breadwinner) but have no regrets. Something isn’t right with our society when both spouses need to work so hard just have strangers (nanny, daycare, etc) primarily raise our children. I saved enough money over the years to quit and take a sabbatical (maybe quit altogether?) and 💯 focus on being a better wife and mother. Mentally I feel more well balanced and will not trade that for anything
This! So much this! I have hated myself for 17 years for being a SAHM because of the new movement telling me that I am lazy and the reason why we aren’t millionaires. No. Women are the reason we aren’t. Because now my husband can’t make the money he would be making if women just stayed home. Now the money gets split up and people work twice as much and everyone is twice as poor.
If if both sides minded their own business it's not like these trad women and right wingers don't criticize liberal women. Why care what others are doing
“No woman should be authorized to stay home to raise her children. Women should not have that choice, because if there is such a choice, too many women will make that one” - Simone de Beauvoir (early feminist activist/philosopher) Classic feminist moment.
I wanted to be a trad wife when I was 15. I'm now 28 with a loving husband and raising my first child. I remember being nervous to tell him while we were dating that I wanted to be a stay at home mom. But the look of elation on his face when I said that made me realize right away that he supported my dreams and choice in life. Now, I couldn't be happier. Edit: I feel I should clarify a few things. I don't have a million dollar husband nor do I live a luxurious life. He works a 9-5 and we barely make ends meet but I meet him halfway with everything. He works and I take care of our son and house. We work as a team. If you don't believe me, that's ok. We both agreed that we didn't want strangers raising our children not to mention daycares and babysitters can be expensive. Sorry if I mislead anyone with my comment, but I am still living my dream and I wouldn't change it for anything.
@@davidz3879well duh she can organize her life and elect that option because obviously her husband has the capability to provide . Not to mention money saved from paying daycare or hiring outside help to maintain home . Guess what those in poverty are all working or trying their best to achieve some financial freedom to create options such as having a stay at home wife
@@antoniotrivelloni8191 I'm making an important point. Her choice replies heavily on her having the luxury of a high-earning husband. Millions of woman can't get one.
It's so nice to see and know that there are women who are willing and wishing to have a traditional values relationship, one thing I'd like to add is: We as men who want this type of relations, we have to make SURE that we are completely competent and financially and mentally stable to fulfill our end of the relationship.
Exactly! It's all about working together and doing what it takes so we can live the kind of life we want. Radical responsibility from men empowers women to be able to choose this life.
Thank you for this comment. It is good to know that good men exist out there, trad women exist too and I guess we all wait patiently to find each other in the right spaces.
I love the phrase word homemaker and am sad that it’s called being a “trad wife.” I am the maker of our home. I am the one that creates the atmosphere, the routines, helps foster the relationships, provides the meals… I’m not a housekeeper, and I’m more than a wife- I’m also a mother and woman. I’m a homemaker.
@@therookie5714 Dude, if I was a homemaker dad, I would likely find a way to kit out the house and make it extremely efficient. Pre-plan cooked meals, almost like with a weekly menu, buy those ingredients. I'll likely also plan out vacations and kid events in advance. I would make/find things so cost effective (whilst maintaining quality), that there is a heap of an emergency fund stack.
@@resphantom not at all what I meant but my dad used to aways help make dinner they would do it together even though he worked crazy long hours in the oil field
I love being a traditional homemaker. I was always a high achiever in school, and I was raised to believe that intelligent women go pursue big, fancy careers and only less intelligent women would ever choose to stay home. My family was/is so disappointed that I chose the stay at home mom and wife life instead. I have never felt more fulfilled.
I mean if teachers need to be intelligent enough to teach other people's children shouldnt we the parents be intelligent enough to raise them? That way of thinking just doesn't make any logical sense to me. If you want smart children you gotta have smart parents. People still ask me if I'm going to go to college and get me a fancy degree. I'm 26 if it's gonna happen it's gonna happen because I want to learn more not because I want a career. My career is raising my kids. Its lifelong.
Your family is stupid, you running the home and taking care of the kids is CEO level as a traditional family and husband I salute you and all women who know what is more important than any stupid career, keep up the great work!
@@davidz3879Majority of people don’t get a job because they want to, they get it because they have to. It’s like chores; you don’t want to do them but you have to do them. Life is like that where to get what you want, you have to do what you don’t want
In a way I think the newer trad women who turned from a radically different lifestyle are SO inspiring and I love hearing their stories. If they were so deep in that life, I want to hear all about what changed for them, what that shift was like, and how they are doing now. It’s one thing to go with the flow of the culture or even how you were raised, but challenging that for good is something on another level.
This kind of happened to me :) I moved from being a high achieving entrepreneur (making 5 figures a month) and living in one of the biggest, most exciting cities in the world for 15yrs to finally open my eyes, see how burned out I was by ideas that made me believe that was the ONLY way. 3yrs ago I met my now fiancé, moved to another country, moved to the countryside and LOVING this new trad lifestyle while learning to work the land 🥹🥹🥹🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
I'm a teen male and I stumbled to this video and my dream is to be able to take care of my wife and kids but I am so scared that I WIll not be able to with this feminist society but seeing MOTHER'S online who fight the narrative gives me some hope.
work hard, get a good career as men, then have courage to travel the world. The world are really more than meets the eyes. There will be great women out there who also strive to be a great wife and mother. I wish you all the best to the great future ahead of you.
I'm a woman in my early 20s and I have the same fear - of not being able to find a man who wants to spend all his money feeding a family instead of partying. Based on the experiences of the people around me, I rather not have any children, although that will be a great regret, if I most likely will end up being a single mother. Motherhood are only truly enjoyable if you don't also have to be the Dad, but it's also the most rewarding and meaningful experience of a woman's life - based on my observations and conversations with my mom, both grandmas, my aunts and my mom's friends I've spoken to. Scared and excited
The traditional housewives are out there hoss. I don’t know where your personal beliefs lean to but wherever they are go to a place where you’ll meet others who believe the same thing. If you’re Christian, going to church to meet a traditional housewife is a likely solution. If you’re neopagan, a local chapter of whatever group you adhere to could help you meet someone. Just make sure you are the person that a traditional woman will want. Stable job, dress well, have traditional values, have manners (treat her like a man would treat a woman he is courting for marriage) and don’t play games. Say what you mean, mean what you say. Make a promise to her and keep it. Also, communicate. Can’t stress that enough. And be upfront about what you’re looking for. Don’t just look for “works in progress” but a woman who has all the qualities you’re looking for with a traditional foundation. God bless.
@@lilywater753don’t have kids just to have kids. If you feel pulled in that direction, of course, do what you think is best but my two cents is, find the man who will be a husband and a father with you. Not everyone is able to have kids but can still be married and have a traditional lifestyle. A family is made of a husband and a spouse, not a single parent and kids. Those kids will need a good man in their lives otherwise you bear the burden of both roles and it just doesn’t work out for anyone in the end. I respect your concerns, I was there too looking for a wife and found my forever wife after a damaging divorce. Go to church and start by asking God to help make you into the partner you want to be so you can have the partner He wants for you. Faith is a cornerstone of a marriage. Without it, it’s just a social contract you’re allowing yourself an out in.
@@wyleecoyotee4252 they definitely, definitely are. I’m a “trad wife” technically. I don’t identify as one necessarily, but it’s what I do, and let me tell youuuuu- when you are young and beautiful and have a baby on your hip you can feel the HATE GLARE from other women from a thousands yards away. The hate is POTENT rn. I wish you knew a sliver of the vibes lol because it’s brutal.
My hubby and I saved ourselves for marriage. Great decision. My friend who slutted it up in her youth and I were talking about it today and she's now happily married but we talked about the pros of waiting she told me that I was right , It gave me evidence that being a prude isnt really the insult people think it is.
Or a woman can work part time outside the house, and still be a traditional wife, I think. I don't think it Hass to be absolutely all or none. One way or the other. I think the combination works quite well for many women that I know. They seem to like it anyway.
I have a 2-month old & just quit my job of 5 yrs to take care of my baby. The fact that I get to care for him every day during this time that he is changing & growing exponentially each day is a blessing I couldn’t be more grateful for. Before finding out I was pregnant I was on a very different path, focused on my job (was offered a promotion RIGHT after discovering there was a bun in the oven) as well as my growing career in modeling. Motherhood completely changed my priorities & focus. I cannot imagine going through all this pregnancy & birth business just to return to the office 6 weeks or so later. I would have had to put a tiny 2-month-old in daycare to be cared for by strangers. Not to mention giving them half of my monthly income to do so 😳 I am truly grateful to have a husband that supports me being a homemaker
Congratulations on recognizing the reality and importance of raising the next generation! I’m a grandmother now and so glad that even as a single mother with 2 small children I did everything I could to spend as much time with my children instead of chasing a career. It paid off. I may not have ever had a huge income but I didn’t lose time with my children and now blessed with spending time with the grands. It was hard at times, the judgment from others, living a simple life but satisfying.
I think it depends on location. In my area, you'd have multiple guys fighting to get a woman with trad views, since it's the women with those views in low quantities.
@@Joshua.zero29 IDK here in the Islamic world all women have very traditional values. I can't even imagine a society where these values are questioned, let alone seen as bad or negative or "freighting" every society has had these same values for centuries, yet some people are entitlted enough to challenge them.
Same here. Nowadays it seems impossible to find a guy who's even willing to take you out on a date and cover the 2$ bill. They all want a traditional woman until it requires them to be traditional men. And I'm talking from an Eastern European perspective.
That’s not true, men are fighting for the few traditional women that are left, they are even traveling around the world to find them. But if they are not truly traditional, they will not do it. I’m glad I have a traditional wife and we both love each other and help each other in this crazy world.
As a little kid I was asked what I wanted to be when I grew up, I said I wanted to be a stay at home mom and a wife. I always got funny looks when I answered the question this way. I kept getting told I should find a career that I wanted to pursue. After years of confusion and difficulty I gained an education and multiple degrees. Still being pushed by society and other opinions to "focus on myself/enjoy my youth and be crazy". I felt like I wasn't allowed to have my dream of serving those I love. But thankfully God sent me my husband. He never pressured me to work a 9-5 or tell me my dream was just a kids dumb dream. Here I now stand at 25 a stay at home mom of two, feeding chickens in a robe, gardening, cleaning and maintaining my home whilst dancing around with my one year old, lovingly cooking from scratch "most of the time 😝 I have never felt so at peace as I do in the little moments with my children. I would never trade this life. I only pray that other women out there will find there way back to this simply beautiful lifestyle ❤️
And I pray other women will never be like that. I really don't understand this thing of judging a woman whatever she chooses. You don't like when you're judged for staying at home but you do the same thing to women that don't want to stay at home. Objectively speaking, that's the easiest thing someone could do. Almost a lazy thing. It's for those that don't want to struggle at all and to only enjoy. Some of us love to be hardworkers. Every person has different fulfillments. You do you.
@@sofistacy4176You are saying waking up early, making food for hubby & kids, cleaning the whole house, washing & drying clothes, taking kids to school, grocery shopping, watering plants, feeding the pets, preparing lunch & dinner, making bed, pumping milk if you have a newborn, working out to be fit & wearing makeup to look appealing to your husband & kids are all the easiest tasks ever❓
@@pearleunjoo5439 Yes. Stop trying to make it as it's so difficult when it's not. Making food, making bad, cleaning the house and washing clothes, taking the kids to school and shopping, feeding pets and watering plants is *not hard.* That's something that *we all do.* Did you hurt your nails because you just threw food in pet's bowl or for picking up the bucket to water the plants? And average families don't eat 3 different meals every day. And they don't clean the house every day, they don't wash clothes every day, and most femilies don't dry clothes they put clothes to dry on it's own and they use washing machines to wash them not hands. Taking kids to school... that must be so hard to sit in a car and to drive to the school. And even if it's walking big deal, is it hard to move legs? That could be your way of activity to stay fit too you know. Working out and wearing makeup to be more appealing to your husband - well choose better husband. Pumping milk while doing all that, umm as far as I know that's temporary, but tell me what they teach you in USA school? For real, it's becoming so annoying to praise the bare minimum work that actually most people do and have a job in addition. People that have an actual jobs also do all those things and they still do the parenting and they are involved with their children. You can't expect to be seen as a hard worker if you are not. Being SAHM isn't hard and that's a fact.
can we just take a second to thank god for this woman’s existence? BRETT FREAKING COOPER. you are so inspiring. i just turned 25 and feel like i didn’t grow up in the best circumstances. i definitely don’t have the same personality/character as you but i’m so happy i found your content. i’m eating it up girl. i would love to know what a daily routine is like for you or if you have any advice for this (and other) young adult women who just feel emotionally stuck/can’t let go of their past stories/keep punishing themselves? not everyday is like this mental jail but what keeps you going?? you have such clear passion/drive and aren’t afraid to just put stuff out there… so jealous tbh. i know God has His plan for me but damn man i feel like i’m wasting my life. i just don’t know what to do with it. slightly depressing rant over, sorry if that was a down but i really would love to know like what your thoughts are. i know hard truth is “life’s tough get a helmet man” -candace owens hahah but what would you say is something that helps you if you ever feel down. i know you said you feel the emotions but don’t stay there in your enneagram video but how do you help yourself work past it?? ps im so happy for you. and early congratulations on 4 million, i see your numbers girl. so inspiring 🥺💕
One thing I love about Trad girls is that they don’t ask too much, they just needed a strong man to be their companion. I met one this year, we both go to the same church and she’s also the prettiest I’ve met too
If all men married trad women then the world will have less problems. I really think marriage should be required because marriage equals happiness and less angry men who are bitter because they are single.
@@excripto1 I agree with you. To get a trad wife, you must work on yourself and make yourself stronger, be presentable so you could be approachable. To be honest, it’s not hard to find one, you just have to take things slowly and get to know her first. That’s how I started
@@excripto1 I wouldn't call myself bitter. I am single and concentrating on my writing aspirations, all the while taking it easy as I've lived with Cerebral Palsy since birth and in my mid-40s, the "check engine" light has already turned on for me. If I had married in my mid-20s and had slaved to work while my wife stayed at home, I would have already burned out and probably need a walker to help with my mobility. That's why I would want my wife to agree to work while I stayed at home with the children, but there doesn't seem to be many woman who would agree with that.
as a 15 year old girl, i would love to be a trad wife. i want to find a loving husband who will support me and our children, i love kids :) a lot of my peers are so judgmental and snarky about these things because of the environment my generation is growing up in. it’s really sad honestly.
They only say "do what you want" to encourage women to leave their traditional roles. The hardcore feminist leaders have always had deep animus towards traditional family and child rearing.
Well yes that's how the left is in most cases, but honestly I'm not a feminist and some of these videos still rub me a little bit the wrong way, especially when they say stuff like "the feminine urge to do so and so" it makes it sound like if you don't conform to that your not feminine and that all women should think like this. Feminists sure aren't letting people do whatever they please, but some trad wives are also kinda gaslighting anyone that doesn't agree with them. Also the 1950s aesthetic is a little crippy ngl, cz they have the luxury today of pretending to be a 1950s wife without the actual negative sides of being a women in the 1950s, with a lot less rights then today.
@@aidasaneh8869Nobody questions when women like the aesthetic of upper-class regency era (pride and prejudice). Feminists are cool with that😅 it's sort of like people who hate vegetarians like to point out that Hitler was one.
@@ojyochan no it's fine to like it, it's a whole other thing to try to live it, the aesthetic alone is fine, and i don't wanna hate for no reason, but honestly it's such an american thing to have so little problems you want to pretend to live in the 1950s, knowing it wasn't such a good time for women back then, or change your gender, or act like you having a gay thought is a life crisis, I mean feminism is bad, but the other conservative extreme isn't much better, and feminism is only the product of wrongs in the past, you don't see that crazy extreme feminism in, say, the middle east which for some people is the hallmark of patriarchy (lol) because in reality there had never been nearly as much gender injustice there as there had been in europe and usa, middle eastern countries are predominantly islamic countries and they've abolished gender inequality centuries before people on the west did, contrary to common belief and the narrative that media tries to paint of islam. In fact when you compare christianity and islam, you'll notice christianity is the one in fact setting women back not the other way around Sorry for rent lol
Im a feminist and I really couldn't care less about someone being a "trad" wife. Its your life, not mine, and feminism is about women doing what they want
Steve’s wife- I am a trad wife. I had no idea that this was a thing. I was first a stay at home mom now I homeschooling my four children. Yes, there is hard things about being home but it is also so rewarding! I don’t really dress like a trad wife but I am one. I also still cultivate my interests. This really isn’t new we just keep serving regardless if it is “cool” bc it is first serving God then my family to the best ability!
I’ve always leaned more towards the traditional life style, and I was always so scared to admit that to myself or to my friends. I remember being in school and everybody asking me what I wanted to go to college for and I never had a straight answer, because I honestly didn’t want to go into any career path. The thing that mattered most to me was family. I struggled for a long time to realize that all I wanted was to be home and take care of a family. Now that my husband and I have our first son, we are trying to adjust our lives to make it possible for me to be a stay at home mom and I’m so excited. I still think that getting an education is important, but it’s not what I wanted to base my life around.
I get hate for being a trad wife. I take care of my family. My family is mexican and live by a old traditions. But one thing I grew up was to be a wife/ mom. I rejected that idea for years until i got married then i picked up the trad lifestyle. I dont need to prove my worth to anyone.
As a homesteader and mother of 4, I can legit tell you, the gender roles are so important. I don't do my hair or makeup, but I do (usually) try to have dinner ready by the time my husband is home from work, I educate our kids at home, and I try to keep the home clean for us.
@@jellyo6605 I didn't watched the video fully to be honest, but gender roles shouldn't be pushed down upon one's throat just look at India Pakistan and the Middle Eastern countries. Women are heavily financially dependent on the male guardians and have barely any access to economic opportunities leading to heavy preference of sons over daughters. Women and men MUST have equal rights and opportunities even practically not just in theory.
Honestly, now that I’m a mom, I would love a traditional role. I would love to just focus on my kids and not stress over figuring out expenses and work.
That, unfortunately, is the problem with trad wife influencers; they neglect the idea that everybody's life story is different. It's like those rich influencers who post world travel reels and caption them with "The world is a book and those who do not travel read only one page.". It feels somewhat condescending towards people who didn't have the same luck and opportunities those influencers did. Your story is your own, sister; please stop comparing, count your own blessings, and make the best out of what you possess! It may be not picture perfect, but picture perfect life requires scripting, which takes time out of your life that could be spent just... living it. However, if He is willing, the Lord will provide you with the fulfilling, traditional lifestyle, so please don't stop preparing for it. Praying for you :)
@@LadyMontane you are very right! We all have our own blessings and although my life hasn’t been the easiest, God has been by my side helping me walk on my path and fulfill my goals. I have two beautiful kids and I am very lucky to have found my dream job that I get to do from home so that I can be with them. I’m very fortunate and very grateful for it. Thank you for your words and perspective.
Being a housewife and a SAHM is the best thing I've ever done with my life. My husband and I wouldn't have it any other way. I'd rather stay home and raise my babies and taking care of the home, than be trapped in an office bored out of my mind. Also, making sourdough bread is totally the pinnacle of happiness 😂 I love bread making, I made bagels from scratch on Friday and they're amazing.
But its okay with you if your husband is trapped in an office cubicle for 9+ hours a day bored out of his mind, slowly losing his soul as the years go by? Wow, lady. That's cold as hell.
@@CheerfullyCynical829 exactly feminist often look at stay at home duties are like they are being subjugated to a German concentration camp . They act like it is o glamorous for a man to go work hours whether in heat or cold or in office and some days taking shot from a boss only because he has to pay bills . He also comes home to help and take care of my manual fix ups or moving of heavy items and will take the kids to play baseball, ride a bike or any extracurriculars. Before modern technology the world ms infrastructure was built on hard manual labor I’m not always favorable weather conditions this why women stayed home to care for house me kids while hubby worked at a coal mine or steel mill for example . Mostly men have built the technology that makes living in present day so much more convenient ms what allows women themselves to work in a nice air conditioned building with a Starbucks and all types of dining within proximity . Women can now make money doing content or build business from home . Show some appreciation
This was my “What do you want to be when you grow up?” I’ve always wanted to be a wife and mother. I’m getting married to the man of my dreams in October and we want to start a family pretty soon after that (God willing). He was looking for a “traditional values” women to marry when we met. I feel valued by my fiancé and I want to do things for him. Why is that so bad? We both want a “traditional” marriage that is still equal. We both contribute to the home, just in different ways.
I'm a man. I work from home currently. Many days (not all, but more than half) I wear a suit into my home office. 90% of my meetings don't require me to turn on my video. It just helps me feel focused on what I'm doing. I feel good. I feel the need to act like I'm at work and making money for my family. My wife recently got her hair done and has been making an effort to dress up more on days she's just working around the house (she's a homemaker). She looks great when she does it. I notice, and I notice how it makes her feel. I never pressured her to do anything different, we've just both come to the conclusion that when you take care of yourself, you feel better. In the 20th Century men didn't wear suits to work because of the Patriarchy. Women didn't dress nicely at home because of mysoginy. It feels good to look respectable. While sweat pants feel nice, a suit makes you feel good.
I loved being a trad wife.. what a blessing to be able to raise my kids and have a clean house without worrying about a 40 hour work week too! My kids and my husband were well taken care of and so was I. I even had time to make our clothes and garden!! What a wonderful life. And so easy to know what our roles were.
But its okay with you if your husband is trapped in an office cubicle for 9+ hours a day bored out of his mind, losing his soul as the years tick by? Wow, lady. That's cold as hell.
I don’t find anything wrong with the trad wife lifestyle, as long as women are voluntarily choosing to be so and could afford it. I wasn’t brought up to be that way by my own stay-at-home mom who taught me the importance of being financially independent from a guy. Doesn’t mean I wasn’t able to find a good husband who supports my career goals as much as I support his.
I think that’s why this new age feminist are so intense bc they focus on the women who were being homemakers & couldn’t get property in their own name or had to rely on they husband for money, but in reality the second wave feminist were literally just bored privileged housewives who wanted to go out & work like a “man” & feminism wasn’t even created to divide both sexes or be so angry towards men or women who choose to live the traditional life. It’s like the new age feminist are mad bc they “fought” so hard for “us” to not have to live a traditional life. So when someone chooses a traditional life.. it’s like why? Why would u do that bccc dummy I wanna be a wife & mother and have a home. U wanna be a workaholic and have Nannie’s take care of your kids then yo kids hate u bc u don’t have a good bond or relationship with them. Sorry I made this long but im happy you chose the life u wanted to live and not feel pressured to live a life u did not even wanna sign up for lol
I was a stay at home mom for 7 years. Before kids I thought I would hate it but when me and my husband starting having kids we both didn't want our kids in daycare. I ended up loving it. Only some what down part is I hate to cook but for my family I have worked hard to be a good cook. My husband also knows this so once a week we will order in. I'm grateful for that. I went back to work when all our kids were in school to help my mom and help with some bills but we have talked about me going back to a stay at home mom when my mom retires. Me and my husband have been happily married for 18 years and I think tradition has helped with that. All my friends that are feminist have divorced at less once.
Same, I help out my husband with administration and stuff in our business, but I can do that from home and in the evenings when the kids are asleep. I feel so blessed to be able to raise my kids my self and keep a clean and smooth running home/household. Would never trade it for anything else.
I am a Trad wife. I definitely don’t wear frilly cotton dresses and put on make up and do my hair on the daily. My husband understands that we have 2 neurodivergent children and most days, getting them fed, bathed and in bed without loosing my damn mind! I am thankful that we are in a situation that I can stay home The judgement I get from it is outrageous!
Cooking for my loved ones and taking care of them is literally my love language. Seeing them happy because of something I did for them brings me so much joy I can't even explain it. How can they demonize this too like fr, let me love people 😂
When all the tradwife stuff blew up, I thought it was hilarious. I’ve been a housewife, homemaker, and stay-at-home-mom to my two boys since before they were born. I felt very odd and out of place, as a woman living in areas with mostly dual income families, full time nannies, and ambitious career women. It’s always been my dream to stay home and care for my family and house. My husband and I communicated about it and agreed in our first six months of dating because I wanted to express that desire early to make sure we were compatible, and he eagerly agreed since he was raised by a SAHM and wanted that experience for his kids (although he never thought it was something you could or should mention while dating at the risk of sounding sexist). I am one of those wives who wears pretty dresses every day, make sourdough bread, intends to homeschool all my kids, and rolls around barefoot with my kids in our yard. I didn’t realize that it was an aesthetic until the Internet told me so lol. I am so grateful to the women putting their traditional home lives online for those of us who really don’t have any other like-minded ladies in our lives. I’m sure I’m not the only one who feels less alone and less weird because of these “tradwife influencers”. I’ve been living this way for years! And it wasn’t to make a political statement or for the likes… Most of us are just living this way because it’s what makes us and our families the most happy ❤️
The world would have less problems if all men got married because much of society’s problems are caused by angry men who won’t improve their lives and can’t find a good woman.
"Trad wives" aren't triggering feminists, rich influencers cosplaying actual people are offending real homemakers. It's immature for anyone to claim they just "don't wanna work," even if that person's a girl.
If it's not broken, don't fix it. In this situation, one side has the urge to fix something, while the other side doesn't. I wonder which side is broken?
As a woman who has been living this way for decades and now homeschooling and homesteading and homemaker it blows my mind how its even a thing. Im retired military and have my medical doctorate degree and retired in 30s(now 40) and raising 4 sons 15 to 22. I was raised by traditional conservative women my grandparents and great grandparents. The wearing of the clothes and astetics are just to feel good and have your home and family also enjoy visually the time and care you put into it and not in pjs or sweats all day. As there is different stay at home women and usually you can see visually the difference in traditional women. I dont put it online or do it for show and have had comments out that its what I do or going for when just always been this way. It does make me upset for those just doing it for clout or clicks.
Sharing with strangers is the norm for Gen Z and common for many millennials. It's the world we grew up in. What we share (and want likes from and for) is the difference. In a way, being connected to the virtual world is far from traditional - should be easy to admit - but no matter how many traditions we take on, we'll never be in the past. It's a matter of balancing modernity and tradition. The tradlife just leans more towards the past.
I loved being a SAHM/homeschooling mom. I got to pursue my interests while nurturing my children, developing my cooking skills and learning about how to naturally heal, etc. The list goes on! Had I been at a job all that time I wouldn’t have been able to be such a well developed person in the ways that I want to be. Children, how children learn, healthy living, art(I ran classes for homeschooled kids) energy healing(I became certified) and freedom. It all has been amazing! I even did all of this as an eventual single mom.
As a 68 yr. old woman (not a feminist), I have a different take. My grandmothers and women before them stayed home because someone had to. There were no washing machines and dryers, every item of clothing had to be ironed (no wrinkle free fabrics), no vacuum cleaners, no disposable diapers, canned their own vegetables, baked their own bread, killed their own chickens (there were no grocery stores right down the road), they had no cars AND at one time it was illegal for a married woman to work unless they were in a field such as nursing or teaching. I was raised by 2 parents in the 1950's who BOTH worked full-time...we had home cooked meals every night, never had a housekeeper and my Mom baked her own bread every week. I learned so much from her and, in turn, did the same when I started my family way back. It's everyone's personal choice to stay home or not but PLEASE don't insinuate that those of us who CHOSE to work have neglected our families. I would love to know if Brett intends to give up what she's doing now when she has a family. Because what she does is a job and I'm willing to bet she won't.
Lisa from Farmhouse on Boone is an amazing example of a “traditional” homemaker. She has learned and implemented skills over the years that I can’t imagine doing (like milking cows, making cheese etc). But, she’s real and you see her working hard. No frills. I follow MANY homemakers on TH-cam. Denise Jordan, The Secret Slob, Clutterbug, Jamerrill Stewart, That Awkward Mom, to name a few. I love how they’re using social media to inspire others and provide for their families.
"maybe staying home and baking sourdough bread is the pinnacle of happiness" yes Brett!!!!! it is!!!! I bake sourdough for my family and it brings such peace to my life, I love it.
I love this because growing up, I never really felt drawn to any career- the only thing I knew I wanted to do when I grew up was be a mom & take care of my home. I tried to feel driven towards a career (everyone else wanted to be a nurse or join the navy, etc) but I never felt that. And being a homemaker since becoming a mom, it’s not the beautiful aesthetic that’s being portrayed- it’s HARD (especially since I did it backwards and had babies before learning to cook) but I don’t want to do anything else and the thought of working outside the home literally makes me nauseous. We live with the basics and I think it’s been a much richer life. We used to only have a couple channels on an antenna for TV and I miss those days. I find a simple life so much more fulfilling. My dream now is to grow my own food and enough to sustain our family. We have chickens and a small garden but I’d love to expand on that. I think every family could benefit from slowing down and making a simpler life. But it all starts with marriage. You have to have a good partner to make it work.
As a man, a career is not part of my identity. It is a means to an end. It's something I need to pay bills and take care of my family but not really part of who I am. I'm good at what I do and I do it diligently but not just for that sake of it.
@@obviouslyasockpuppetI agree. I kinda wish being stay-at-home dad/househusband wasn’t that controversial though. I wouldn’t mind spending more time with my future children than in a job.
I married at 19..I’m 36 now.. I chose family over “carrier” I was the most talented “art major” in my class… I don’t regretted a bit… I gave it all (marriage).. I teach my kids morals , values, creativity.. way of living and how to be happy.. my kids love me, appreciates me,,, marriage is hard ,, don’t get me wrong… I would totally do it all over again
one of my biggest dreams is to be a tradwife for a very special traditional/conservative man but unfortunately i've met men with strong feminine energy and its like dating a woman instead :( . It doesnt work relationships that way and still people get mad when your preferences are to be femenine, a housewife, a mother and living a healthy relationship loving and caring to their man.
@@Xaforn thanks for the advice, i actually have family at mountains too, but all the zone these are few families and the men are all married or are children😳 , but still mountain men are good options!
@@mikuuxp4770 Network with your mountain folk. They know good masculine men that have their nose to the grindstone and you arent going to find them without their help. It will take some time because they are not players and need to hear about you a few times before they will be interested. Be patient once you are introduced.
Good for these Trad wives. Honestly, I think we need more of them well within some reason. I'm not opposed to wives going out and working but I feel like we need to bring back some the old traditions that wives brought into a marriage.
I'm just glad I had my mom to look up to growing up. She is a SAHM who even as an empty nester volunteers for the community and creates a fulfilling life for herself and the world around her. She is traditional in the sense of gender norms, but she isn't one to bake homemade bread unless it's for baking bonding time that I loved growing up (and now my kids love to do with her). She is an educated woman too who stands up for herself when needed. Her and my dad are truly partners in marriage. Because of her, I knew I always wanted to be a SAHM because of how valuable I saw my mom was in my life. These are cute videos but it's important for people to understand that being a "tradwife" isn't just aesthetics. (Heck, I'm a very non aesthetic, Tshirt wearing sahm 😆)
Since I starterd to change my focus to my family and home in a more "traditional" way (instead of my full-time profesion) I feel happy and wholesome. I can finaly enjoy every aspect of being a wife and a mother. It's crazy how society and the work force try to force you to prioritize a way of life far from home and your family.
Hey Brett! I am 67 years old and grew up in a household that was just about as "traditional" as you can imagine. My parents were great people, loved each other and their kids, and seemed like they wouldn't want to trade places with anybody. That said - my mom's daily life was nothing like these "trad wife" TikToks!! It's like these young women got their ideas from binge-watching old episodes of "Leave It To Beaver" - a show that my own family ridiculed even back in the 1960's! These "trad wife" TikToks resemble real 1960's life about as much as Renaissance Faire resembles real medieval life. 😅 (Back then, we all ate Wonder Bread, not home-baked sourdough.) But still, if that's what they want to do, I say go for it. I mean, who doesn't love Renaissance Faire, right??😊
Back when? This "traditional" aesthetic is really a mashup of eras - indeed, it was Wonderbread in the 60s, but most people weren't homesteading or living off the land in that time either! What about 50-100 years before that? People are really just trying to take old wisdom, from across the ages, to create an ideal lifestyle. And our idea of that is still shaped by what we know in the modern era (like, Wonderbread was never healthy. 😅)
Of course, I also don't watch TikTok, so I haven't seen what's represented there. I definitely watch more homesteading content than aesthetic content. I'm already a dress-wearing housewife and mom of 3; I don't need aesthetics; I need lifestyle tips 😂
Omg I just did the same comment above. Tik Tok wives are not a thing thing to aspire to. My mother baked everything from scratch including bread but the bread came in when we were all older and she had an entire day for bread and rolls. She Also had a huge garden in summer. I didn't bake bread or have a garden but I did stay home for 9 years.
Trad wives aren’t just about cooking bread tho. And I’m sure som women did make bread form scratch, just bcuz you didn’t doenst mean others didn’t. Also this aesthetic is more 1940s - 1950s anyway
I never knew I was radical. 😄 I hadn’t heard of "trad wife" until this episode. I left my career as a nurse to stay home and care for my kids in 2008. I homeschool them (15 years going strong), love Jesus, attend church, love my husband, cook from scratch (because we have food allergies) and wear 50s style dresses and aprons. I've been married to the same man for 20+ years and we love each other fiercely. I have always dressed in "pin-up" type clothing. I didn’t think anything of it, it's was just a style that I liked and looked good on my body. Plus, it's comfortable. I've never considered myself anti-culture or radical, I just like making cinnamon rolls and teaching my kids. LOL
I honestly believe that marriage should be a partnership - leaning into your strengths and dividing labor accordingly. There should be respect on both sides, decisions should be made together. There's nothing wrong with a woman staying home. There's also nothing wrong with a man staying home - I know a few guys with disabilities that are fantastic stay at home dads.
Same! I know several couples where the wife goes and works and the dad stays home, and they are perfectly happy! And honestly, just from a personality standpoint, the dads are the parent best suited to staying home.
@@mobetterbobb What if the wife's career earns a greater wage than the husbands and they need to save money on childcare? It's easy to judge when we don't understand people's struggles or circumstances. The role of a Father being a provider is not just about money- providing is the heart in how he loves, supports and sacrifices for the greater good of his family.
Someone looking to have trad lifestyle is actually something that would be so good for our society. Feminism and all of the gender movements will lead to a worse society. We work together in a traditional husband/wife relationship and it goes well.
If it work for you guys thats great but it doesnt mean it would work for everyone. Just give people freedom they deserve. I think thats the way to make society better. Who would like to be trad wife should be abe to be (my mother was and it literally destroyed her life, for sure opposite cases exist but I dont know any like that) but dont force others to live this way. Same for other side of the conflict
@@homococo yes, it won’t work for everyone, so you could do other arrangements, but just in general, it’s a good start. The feminists saying men are trash, f*ck all men, k1ll all men thing is getting out of hand, same for them men saying things about women. We are codependent. We need each other to keep our species alive.
It would be great for society if we went back to traditional values but unfortunately I think the trad lifestyle has become a luxury for the more wealthy. Today, households are expected to have duel incomes. So to have a tradwife, you'd need a husband who can solely provide for the family, something the average man cannot do (especially with women now outperforming and out earning men).
I feel like most women actually want this kind of life style but are lead to believe by the media that it's bad. And as a man it's weird to be agaisnt trad wives if you think about it like you don't want a wife that loves the home?
My wife has been trad wifeing since before it was cool. Trad wivng since 2006 and couldn't be a happier stronger more impressive woman. The influence she will have on the world through the raising of our two sons will far outshine anything I will ever do in my life.
Thanks Brett, for being a role model for me. What you said about feeling weird only seeing trad/conservative women in linen dresses resonated with me. To me YOU are the conservative woman inspiration which does not frolick in a skirt but absolutely walks the talk. Again, thank you so much!
What's crazy is that as a married woman and stay-at-home mother, I am less dependent on a man than women who do only fans and porn to get by. A marriage is a team. My husband relies on me just as much as I rely on him. But do you know what those loyal OF customers will do when you get old or less appealing or stop putting out content? They'll just click the next video
As a trad wife, I love raising my son, making all the sourdough things and raising chickens. This is all I've ever wanted and my husband likes our situation.
I love trad roles. I remember being so mad when someone told me if I was going to cook for my bf (I was a big feminist before) but the thing is…I loved doing it. I was getting mad for nothing. I love taking care of the home, kids, I want to be a mom SO MUCH. I want to rely on my bf and possibly future husband (we have a really great relationship). I know he’ll have a better job than me because I aspire to become a teacher and the pay is bad + we’ll have to fight our battles in the teaching communities against the whole indoctrination and people concentrating more on their “identity” than being a damn teacher to kids. We share the same values regarding education, avoiding indoctrination on children (y’all adults can do want you want but don’t touch kids for god’s sake) and he helps me in day to day tasks because a strong couple helps each other, or else it breaks at some point.
Right? And it's such a dumb thing to say too. 1950s were bad, therefore, we are to not take anything from that time and apply that now. Even if it's a good thing with a few changes. Noooooope. Just shame and ridicule people who think there was some good during that period.
I am a young women who is not yet if marriage age, and I ASPIRE to this lifestyle. I spend my time baking bread and looking over my livestock! This is my dream! And the fact that women want to snatch that away from me and tell me how much of a bad thing it is saddens me. We should be lifting each other up, not down!
I LOVE this "movement". I have always wanted to be a mom and stay at home but I never expressed them because of the world around me. Now I feel so much more confident expressing my dreams that I've had since i was a child! Also, thank God for my extremely supporting fiancée ❤
I’m from India and my mom and grandmom were basically trad wives. If it’s so beautiful how come they always told me that you need to have your own money and you need to be independent? The thing is if that’s what you want to do then, of course you can. To each their own. But to be a trad wife, you need a trad husband too. Trad husband meaning a man who provides and respects you for what you do at home too. Both roles are equally important in a traditional marriage. But my dad and grandpa felt like they were superior just because they are bringing the money in, completely invalidating the work at home. When men start treating their trad wives like unpaid workers, being a trad wife wouldn’t be so fun. My dad always said “it’s my money” so my mom was forced to work and also do all the house work and so she was always overworked and stressed. I think when you find the right man, being a trad wife is great.
Happy trad wife here 🙋🏼♀️ married 8 years, 4 kids, I haven’t worked since 2014. I def have the pretty hand made 1950’s dresses but they only get worn on occasion unfortunately. Currently wearing yoga pants and a tshirt feeding my toddler apple slices and folding laundry real quick before I run out to pick up 2 of my other kids from school and start dinner. I’ve been told I’ve internalized my misogyny lol but I wouldn’t have it any other way ❤
I totally agree with the trad wife aesthetic, I feel like it’s been really sexualized. That’s what I feel about this movement, I follow other mothers who don’t put up a show like these girls and portray motherhood and the trad lifestyle in a very different yet beautiful way, without making themselves look ridiculous.
OMG THIS IS EXACTLYYYYY WHAT IM SAYINGGGGGGGGGGG and sometimes it seems like the wives are babying their husbands like "I need to cut up this steak for timmy or else he won't eat it" like come on and it's either that or "women must submit to their-" NO STFU anyway I'd totally love never having to work and being able to care for a husband but everyone should do what makes them happy so slay
I am getting married in May and I have become more and more excited about the potential of being a mom (God willing) and being able to stay home. Being in the working world has not been fun. I have worked in good environments with good people, but just find that I want to be home, taking care of my home, and haven’t been able to do that to this point because I had to support myself. I wouldn’t say I ever had any outlandish feminist ‘values’, but I have only had one job that I really enjoyed, and it was a service job, half days, that allowed me to spend time at home and get things done. We will see where this road goes, but I hope and pray that I’m able to get out of the working world asap! So glad to see tradwives being supported. Very hopeful content!
I have had many stages/roles in my married life. I started off as a working woman with a husband and no kids, then a stay at home mom for 7 years, and now a working mom for the last 6 years because my kids are in full time school. I have an amazing husband who isn't ashamed to clean, do laundry, do dishes, etc. But I still try to take on the majority of household responsibilities, plus work, plus coach the kids sports, plus do all our bills/finances. And I do it because I love my family and want to do my best for them. Taking care of one's family shouldn't be "traditional".
I was a full time stay at home Mom while my daughter was small and have always made being there for her, my focus. For me, the missing piece to this conversation is that a woman wanting to raise her children and maintain the foundation of the home as their focus is not ‘letting their husband lead’, or being submissive in any way. It’s what women have been doing mainly and are hardwired to do, if they so choose it, and it’s the equal half to what men bring to the table on a fundamental level. Men and women are the two halves of the whole of humanity; built to complement each other with their different strengths. That’s the conversation we need to be having IMO 🌻 We’ve denigrated women staying home and raising children when it’s the foundation from which we all spring, and it’s a necessary facet to raising healthy, productive humans. 😊
I respect you SO much right now for being able to voice your opinion without a filter!! I got married 4 months ago and became a Housewife (or trad wife I guess) right away. No regrets 😌
Keep doing the good work. Remember, there will be times when you won't be happy, just stick together and you will be more than happy forever. Love your man, your family over any feelings.
I came across the term "Trad Wife" recently and I like it but I'm totally with you. Not a dress person. I've always used the term homemaker for myself because it's my job to create the atmosphere in my home. I got married young and now have 4 little girls. I am a stay at home mom and homeschool. Life is not perfect frilly dresses or bread baking for me. Sometimes, I feed my kids boxed Mac and Cheese, and the house is messy, but I'm still a Trad Wife. When I got married, my husband told me that he never wanted me to ever have to go to work. Obviously, I could if I wanted to, but the truth is that I'm living my dream at home. He works so hard for our family, and I love and respect him. I love my life ❤ Such a sad oppressed life... 😂
We are in an age where a young women gets cheered and supported for being an only fans worker and attacked for wanting to be a stay at home wife. 🤡
Bonkers. Just bonkers.
Only fans whore you meant to say lol, not worker. Nobody needs to be a whore even though it's the "world's oldest profession"
Truly a clown world we live in
So true, this is what happens when a whole society throws morals and ethics down the drain for liberalism. Ideals are there for a rrason. We can't all be the ideal, but we can keep trying!
Yeah, but only by certain people, and they're not people any self-respecting person would want to emulate.
As a trad wife who wear frilly dresses and bakes bread while raising our 2, soon to be 3, children....I approve this message.
I aspire to be you 🥺🥺🥺
Awww yay Mama! Congrats btw!
What would you do if you found out he has an affair?
@@Opal5674 Traditional wives are very loyal so even if the husband has an affair she will still love him and stay with him and work to make the marriage stronger.
That’s why even when the husband is abusive and has an affair, traditional wives are very submissive and will always love him regardless. That’s why trad families never divorce and are always happy.
Your worldview is incredibly weak if you are threatened by strangers online who CHOSE to live differently than you.
It goes against the narrative. Quick call them an ism of some kind.
Not particularly. If you have a tranny drag queen twerking for kids on a TikTok video, then everyone SHOULD BE offended by that.
They don't like the idea of competing with these women and the value they bring to a relationship/marriage.
One word: Propaganda.
100% agree with you @MasterOfNinjas16. The whole point is to have a choice.
I was married to a wonderful traditional wife for 23 years until cancer took her from me. Best years of my life. :(
I hope things get better for you, brother.
I'm so sorry for your loss, if you are religious pls look to God to help you walk there this valley of darkness. He has help me when I was there and sout him out, he will do it for you to.
I'm sorry for your loss man, no one should get cancer, I hope you're doing better, stay strong!
I’m so sorry brother
RIP
I had a girl i worked with tell me I looked like a trad wife and she was shocked when I said "thank you." and asked me if i knew it was an insult and i replied "id rather be remembered as wife material they missed out on than forgotten as someones last hook up" she wont speak to me after that lol
👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏 Well done, I salute you
Hahaaaaa! Got em!!
Thats awesome!!
What a gotcha moment 😂😂😂😂😂😂
💪
Over the past year while I battled cancer, I was "red pilled" and began acting more like traditional Christian wife. My husband and I are closer than ever. Faith stronger. And I'm cancer free!
Miracles happen 🙏 congrats for your incredible choices to join the "bigot" side:) May God be with you, Always😊
Congratulations on being cancer free!!! Here's to many more years for you guys!!
Praise the Lord!
🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
gross Christianity god is not real the people in charge of the church are groomers but I am glad you are cancer free
Feminists: “Women should do what they want to do!!”
*Trad wives existing*
Feminists: “No, not that way!!”
Seriously 😆 💯
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"Don't raise a family and be in a committed relationship! Sell your body online instead, it's ✨empowering✨"
@@eve3p0Or choose a committed relationship without a family. It's a good middle ground.
Seriously!!
I am a trad wife who homeschools and homesteads. I don't wear dresses because they aren't practical for me and I don't like the way I look in them. I take care of chickens, goats, dogs, cats, and a garden. I live in Oklahoma, and I refuse to get eaten up by bugs or snakes, so I wear jeans, even when it's well over 100° here. I am also far too accident prone to wear dresses or shorts. I get scratched and cut enough through jeans.
Trad homeschooling wife, here too! Got the chickens and the garden as well. (Wish i had goats) I agree. I don't wear dresses outside either. Mostly wear a dress indoors when its hot, and I'm too pregnant for pants. 😂
Just a genuinely curious question. Are you like an 1800’s style trad wife? Do you fix the home too? Like broken doors, windows, etc?
I am a traditional housewife, but I don't take any notice of these women, but I am very happy been traditional housewife
Same here in Ohio!!! We homestead and have homeschooled, and I bake/cook and keep our home. I save dresses/dress clothes for when I go to town. ☺️
Went to our daughters year 6 graduation (into high school) ceremony. And while all the kids got up on stage and told the audience what they wanted for their future, one young girl stood in front of all the parents, all her peers, and all the school staff and declared she would like to raise a family and be a mother. I’ve never felt sadder than listening to the whole crowd laugh out loud after cheering and clapping for everyone else’s dreams.
And that poor girl is probably receiving extra "Councling" (pronounced indoctrination) to change her views. So sad for the little girl.
That breaks my heart 💔🥺 that poor sweet girl, I hope she gets everything she wants in life ❤❤❤
She may be laughed at, but we'll see who's laughing when she achieves her goal and lives a life of fullness and contentment.
I have seem occasions when people laughed more out of surprise and some kind of sudden release of stress when another says something like that, that some unspoken taboo had been breached. Usually, though, said laughs are then followed by a more "situation appropriate" response. In this case, that should have been a lot of applause and cheering. I'm guessing that didn't happen?
I mean if those types don't want kids...
I see this as an absolute win
I’m an untraditional traditional wife… tattooed, ride motorcycles, wear Daisy Dukes around the house. But I maintain the home, homeschool, and make sure my husband doesn’t have to worry or think of anything when he gets home. He never calls me up to say he’s working late and always greets me and the girls with hugs and kisses when he gets home. Can we say… we are happy?
I love this. You go Mama!
Yes! There are so many variations of style and hobbies and passions. The frilly dresses are just super popular right now (probably because it is a stark contrast to third wave feminism:)
@@joannaholden943 “(probably because it is a stark contrast to third wave feminism)” you’re smart, ily.
@@joannaholden943 yeah, we live in Hawaii.
That is exactly what being a traditional wife means 😅
I find it oppressive that we live a society where so many couples are under such great financial pressure that wives are forced to work when many working moms would love the opportunity to stay home with their kids if they could.
Same thing they said during the suffrage movement but the government and Rockefeller pushed it to separate kids into public schools for dumbed down obedient workers and double the tax base from working women. Moms hated the idea, but propaganda won the day.
Totally agree! I would have loved to have been a trad wife but couldn’t. Now I have grandkids but still working at 62 and not by choice. 😢
I’m trying to enable my wife to stay home with the kids, but the extra money she brings in definitely helps. Still, there’s no sub for her being at home with the kids.
I 100% agree. I stay home but it has been hard at times and we sacrifice alot to make that possible. I believe in my heart that it has been by design to remove the mom and put her to work to keep the trad family at bay and to make it easier to create a separation between parents and children. That way the schools actually raise the kids into what we see predominantly today and raise kids to not have a relationship or trust their parents. Parents need to stand firm and fight for their children. They need to take back their role to be there, and be part of their lives and take a strong role in their moral, ethical, and behavioral development because what I've seen developing over the years is the opposite and the outcome is disheartening and scary.
Ever since I met my wife, she has yearned to be a SAHM. She and I both worked before we had children, and she continued working part-time after having our two children. But the goal for both of us was to gradually get to a point financially where we could rely on my income alone. That finally happened about two years ago. In addition, we are also able to homeschool our children. My wife loves, loves, LOVES kids, and it makes me happy to see her purchasing school materials, taking our children on nature walks, and doing all kinds of arts-and-crafts projects with them. We don't have much disposable income, but we have a blessed life and our children are smart, talented, and happy.
Let me add that my wife is by no means a slouch or pushover. In fact, I have more feminine personality traits than she does. I'm agreeable, noncombative, low in assertiveness, and unfortunately, struggle with neurotic withdrawal tendencies like anxiety and depression. My wife, on the other hand, is bold, confident, highly assertive, and free of neurotic tendencies to such a degree that it never ceases to amaze me.
I mention this because many of the more militant feminists seem to think being a SAHM and housewife is necessarily a subordinate or subservient position. It emphatically is not. Even women who possess typically feminine personality traits can and should help to rule and maintain the home like a miniature castle. And I don't mean "rule" in a dictatorial way, but simply in the way it's been used by philosophers in the past: to oversee, to manage, to steer, to plan, to organize. I'm fond of saying that, despite all our friends and colleagues, in the end all we have is family. When the father is the sole breadwinner, the mother becomes the essential keystone in the entire system. It is taxing work, but also vital to the health and happiness of the home. That responsibility needs to be acknowledged and praised in our society, not in a smarmy "awareness" kind of way, but seriously whenever the need arises. And husbands- that means your responsibility is to be thankful for your wife, because without her the household will be proportionately less lovely, less comfy, and less happy.
I was fed into extreme feminism and my goal was to split EVERYTHING 50/50 with my husband. To the point that it became an obsessive competition in my head. I worked myself into a burnout and deep depression…
After being so sick I realized that’s not for me. My body physically cannot take it.
Now I’m bringing more of a traditional spin onto our marriage and we’re both very happy. I fell in love with housework all over again, cooking, cleaning and organizing. I don’t look at it as “oppression” anymore. More of loving care of my home
I do plan on working though but not as much as I tried before and career is not my main priority, my family and my health are
How could you ever think cleaning your home is opression?
We are adults and I'm pretty sure cleaning our homes is a adult responsibility.
My husband cleans and cooks.
But me doing so you considered oppression?
I don't get it.
Go girl! Sounds like you got the right idea 💛
All the best to you and your husband ❤ Hope you're feeling better.
I think one of the toughest things is that modern technology and the modern economy HAVE changed some things in a practical sense, and shouldn't be politicized. Unless you live on a farm, some 'traditional' things don't really work anymore; and it's absolutely okay and sensible to update for the modern world! But a lot of things in reality and human nature don't change with society but transcend it, so there's no point in replacing something traditional that still WORKS just because it's 'old.'
I like to be practical about it 😁
good for you! me and my man don’t plan on having kids so the 50/50 works for us
Have kids. That will erase all interest in “career.”
As an aspiring trad wife, this is amazing 😂😂.. recently posted on whatsapp how being a trad wife is beneficial to women and one feminist guy almost went crazy 😂😂 funny part is that all the ladies agreed with me
That's so interesting! I'm also an aspiring trad wife 😊
That's so ironic 😭🤦♀️
That’s why I tell men that marriage is a great benefit and it’s a must. All men who are single and choose not to get married are not really choosing to not to marry, it’s just their way of coping because they know that no woman will ever be with them. I think marriage needs to be required so that men can be a lot happier and not be so lonely.
@@excripto1100% agree with you
Same girl, trad is the life
I wasn’t called a trad wife; I was called a stay at home mom. Loved it. Raised our 5 kids. Now they are parents and I have a job. Hubby still says I don’t need to work, I do it out of boredom and to maybe make friends.
That's my life right now 😊 we have 5 kids ages 1 to 11 and I love being home with them.
we appreciate you a lot
I keep saying this. When my kids are grown, maybe I’ll work then. Maybe I’ll finally go to college. I won’t be old yet. I had my kids far too young.
Please make sure you take time for yourself to be able to recharge. I work part time & am with my kids the rest of the time. Do not feel bad if you need an hour to yourself or want to buy yourself something. Your kids are so blessed to have you.
I had no clue it was even another name but homemaker lol now it’s called trad wife.. so stupid.. sorry I’m with you I raised 5 children whom I homeschooled and still have 2 at home and wouldn’t change anything about it.. atleast my kids aren’t learning about sex or whether to choose to be a girl or boy not what they were created at bring at birth.. but anyway I love staying home and teaching my kiddos.. maybe after they are all gone I’ll get a job again but for now I’m
Happy being a trad wife if that is what it’s called.. 😂😂
When my ex and I split, this is what I wanted. Traditional marriage roles. She tried to tell me I was sexist and that kind of life doesn't exist anymore. She even went as far as to tell me I would never find someone because of it. I'm a patient man, so we'll see. Thanks Brett, for always being a beacon of hope for young men like me. Keep up the great work, and may God bless you
Aww I hope you find the right woman for you soon! God bless you too
You’ll find her!❤
Honestly, you wont have an issue finding a woman who is interested!
You can do it, buddy! Your match is out there!
Lead with it! My husband told me very early on that's what he wanted and I didn't even know I wanted this because I didn't know it was an option! I'm at home with our three boys, we've been together since 2010!
As a man with a trad wife i can not express how amazing my wife is and how well she takes care of me. Our marriage works amazingly well and we honestly never fight. She’s submissive (by choice not forced) but gives her opinion to try and help. Her being submissive forces me to be a better man and husband, the man and husband God intended me to be
YES we love a man of God who actually does his role well🙏🏽
Bro,
You are living the life.
Plz, share my honourable greetings to your wife.
God bless your family.
Agreed!!! As my wife (and I) have both said, "submissive doesn't mean doormat!"
Submissive?, i think correct word would be understandable!
Amen. Respect.
I was chatting with a friend and her husband about how my ultimate goal is to become a SAHM as soon as possible, and it was actually the husband who was the one who seemingly couldn’t wrap his head around it. He said “but you’re clearly intelligent and a good worker.” I told him (respectfully) that I personally believe raising children well is the most important job in the world and that unless it were absolutely necessary to survive, I wouldn’t want to put my kids in day care or public school.
Very well said. Thank you for restoring my hope in the next generations
Way to say something. That’s not always easy to do, especially doing it respectfully haha
SAHM is one thing. But a ship can only have one captain. It aint you.
@@doctordetroit4339 facts! You said it a little mean maybe, but it’s true. It’s very true. Men are great with logic and logistics and women are great with planning and caring. It’s literally the PERFECT match.
Smart woman
I used to be so opposed to getting married, having children, being a stay-at-home mom, etc. A huge part of me changing my mind was meeting the right person. I didn't have anyone in my life that I desired to care for so I was bitter about doing anything of the sort entirely. After being in such a healthy and loving relationship with my boyfriend, having kids and getting married is something that I look forward to every day. I can't wait to raise our kids and have a home together. I love him so much
Same reasons why some women are scared of marriage because they fear finding wrong men in their life.
I've seen relationships being destroyed because of cheating. It is wrong to assume only men cheat but there is also some women who cheats as well.
cheating is normal for men, is part of nature! men can effectively procreate with several partners at the same time women need to wait at least 9 months to be able to reproduce with another partner.....#is just nature@@connordrake5713
See, that's what many of those trad wife influencers are missing in their messaging. It's not just women who have changed; it's men as well, becoming more reactive, more indifferent to the idea of having a family. Some men outright refuse marriage, after internalizing the divorce stats. Finding a family oriented, devoted man is huge luck, and if those ladies were blessed with the right man, they are within their right to cherish their blessing! However, those men are harder to come across today. So, those women influencing young *wives* is awesome, but single women need a pathway too!
personally, i believe in the old values, if you deserve a good smack I would give you one@@LadyMontane
@@LadyMontane Men haven't changed; divorce laws and family courts have changed. If the divorce laws and family courts were to go back to what they were 100 years ago, you would quickly discover a flood of men who instantly want to get married and care for a wife and children.
"Women have the right to choose how they live"
"I choose to live in a traditional role"
"No, that's the wrong choice"
I’m a liberal and most of my friends are leftist and I have never heard anyone care if someone’s a mom lol I think people only care if someone’s husband is forcing their wife into that decision if she would rather be working
THIS
@@chelseythompson5167 no one says this lol
@@cucumber790she just did 😂
@@human-blend but in reality this isn’t a real thing people are talking about
I recently got married at age 25 and throughout our engagement season it seemed like all we heard from complete strangers was “marriage sucks, don’t do it.” And I was often made to feel like something was wrong with me for marrying “so young” as if I can’t still be my own person in a marriage. Though I by no means am a Trad Wife, as I will graduate next July with my Doctorate in Physical Therapy, my husband and I share very traditional values when it comes to our marriage, as we are both Christians, and strangers and acquaintances love to tell us their opinions about why those values are oppressive to women without even bothering to ask what those values really mean and how they play out in our home. Thank you for this video!!!
I wish young women would not be so easily influenced by negative peer pressure anymore, but it will probably never stop. You dodged that bullet, but many end up ruining their lives like that and then nobody actually cares about them.
Hi,
Just stay true and live and work for your husband and family. Every thing will work for you and you will have a happy wholesome life
Just Live and Honour your husband and family. Everything will be a dream come true.
Greetings.
MRriage is the best communion ever, 25 is not to young, you go girl
Hey girl! I was married at 25 too nd I felt like you said, many people around telling that I shouldn't married, just because or because my age, but I married anyway too. I have no regrets, none, two and a half years have passed, we have our first daughter, expecting the second and I'm stray at home mom, even when my education was feminist and as a result, my life change has been the most difficult thing I have done, it's still the best and I have never been happier.
This war between trad wives and feminists is like the Jedi vs The Empire😂.
Or like Bloods vs Crips
In that the Trad wives are all amazing badasses and the Feminists are just a bunch of Stormtroopers controlled by like one or two overlords? 😅
I approve of this analogy.
Yeah feminists can't aim either
Yeah… if the jedis produced more kids than they could often handle and bred before they had the wisdom to even share with their kids. Women should not be career crazy, but a lot of these 19 twats who marry the first person they date just divorce and raise kids that can’t shut up who ultimately get diagnosed with ADHD or some other bullshit.
My mom hates that I'm a trad wife. My in-laws love it and help with homeschooling, gardening, and childcare. They helped us buy the house across the street to be closer to them and know that this trad wife is who will care for them when they are really old.
You're mother is masking her jealousy with hate. 😉
My father really wants me to be a CPA and is pushing me to climb the corporate ladder because he says there is no guarantee a husband won’t leave you. While my only dream is to be a trad wife on a farm far away from to city
@@julianagarces2389 my dad was just like yours, he always encouaraged me to study hard, get a good job and be financially independent. I think this stems from an innate fear that dads have - what will happen to my little girl once am gone? I myself was determined to get financially stable myself and before i got married i made sure my partner was not expecting a traditional/ SAH. Luckily i have been blessed with a very supportive husband and this dynamic works great for us.
Didn’t you watch Everybody Loves Raymond? 😂
If you are going to school, research potential degrees and how they would be in demand in the work-marketplace. Go into a field that has a good potential, that you want to be in, and will pay off IF you do not get married, OR if you have a bad marriage and have to return to work. The degree is an insurance policy for you and your future.
No one is guaranteed to find the absolutely perfect mate/spouse, but get out and date often, and hopefully you'll be able to find someone with similar ideals that you can spend your life with.
The "feminist" disdain comes from the thought of inevitably having to compete with these women and the value they bring to a relationship/marriage if this catches on.
Someone has to let them know this has never stopped going on. They just didn't realize it.
Not really because being with someone isn’t about competing with anyone. It’s just finding the person you end up vibing with and enjoy sharing time with. It rather comes from the trauma of parents expecting that and society expecting that and not seeing you beyond being a mother and being your own person.
Actually I think it's when they use the word "submit" that triggers feminists. It bothers me because that's not how you use the word submit if it's actually a traditional marriage. This is the definition of submit "accept or yield to a superior force or to the authority or will of another person", that is NOT how a traditional marriage works and it triggers people by saying/implying the wife does everything and anything the husband tells her to do.
trauma 🤣🤣🤣the left exposes kids to more trauma than people wanting you to be a traditional mother.. @@Blackcrow48 🤣🤣🤣
Interesting point
“Maybe staying home and making sourdough bread is actually like the pinnacle of happiness.”
This spoke to my soul 🤣Listening to this while I make sourdough bread at home as
the babies are sleeping- this gave me a good laugh. Absolutely love being a SAHM at 26. There is nothing else I’d rather do with my youth!
Well for me, an aspiring traditional wife, it’s making pies. But to each their own 😂😂😂
Sahm?
Sad-ass house maid?
What do you plan to do in your middle age when your husband dumps you for someone younger hotter and more interesting? Make more sourdough bread? Do you eat it? Its probably loaded with carbs and you will weigh 390 lbs by age 30 which is when you will be discarded for a younger hotter body. Then what will you do? Your youth and your looks will be long gone. Your husband will dump you for a new model.
We manage to make sourdough bread while working full time outside the home, and it is marvelous. Kids, hubby, and I all enjoy the hobby. But yeah, I guess I'm living in a feminist nightmare 😆😆😆😆
@@kamwickw933 Oh the Horrors of having to work. Lol.
The trad wife movement on social media has helped me more than I’d like to admit. I became a sahm almost 8 years ago. I felt so much guilt for quitting my job and staying home. The feminist moment made me feel like a failure. But staying home has been so amazing for my family. It’s made my kids and my husband happier. I even felt so much happier but there was a lingering shadow of guilt that I wasn’t working. The trad wife movement has helped remove that guilt. I love my life, me being home has been such a wonderful gift to my family. We’re all healthier and happier because of it.
This reminds me of something Andrew Yang said, paraphrasing, "Being a mom is the most important job in the world, but the economy values it at zero." Just because the market doesn't pay you to be a mom doesn't mean it doesn't matter. Bravo to you!
I am experiencing this process as a new SAHM. I’m still working out the emotions for quitting a 6 figure job (I was also the primary breadwinner) but have no regrets. Something isn’t right with our society when both spouses need to work so hard just have strangers (nanny, daycare, etc) primarily raise our children. I saved enough money over the years to quit and take a sabbatical (maybe quit altogether?) and 💯 focus on being a better wife and mother. Mentally I feel more well balanced and will not trade that for anything
This! So much this! I have hated myself for 17 years for being a SAHM because of the new movement telling me that I am lazy and the reason why we aren’t millionaires. No. Women are the reason we aren’t. Because now my husband can’t make the money he would be making if women just stayed home. Now the money gets split up and people work twice as much and everyone is twice as poor.
Hi, I do not mean to sound offensive as I am mearly curious, but what is a sahm?
just googled it, Stay At Home Mum@@antagonizingprotagonist8721
Feminists: We support women choosing whatever they want to get out of life.
Woman: I want to be a trad wife.
Feminists: Kill it! KILL IT!!!
I love this 😂
They really took after the O’hare guy…
“Let it die, let it die”
If if both sides minded their own business it's not like these trad women and right wingers don't criticize liberal women. Why care what others are doing
“No woman should be authorized to stay home to raise her children. Women should not have that choice, because if there is such a choice, too many women will make that one” - Simone de Beauvoir (early feminist activist/philosopher)
Classic feminist moment.
I have to say that if feminism does show this attitude, it is not empowering women. I am not sure if I should call myself a feminist then....
I wanted to be a trad wife when I was 15. I'm now 28 with a loving husband and raising my first child. I remember being nervous to tell him while we were dating that I wanted to be a stay at home mom. But the look of elation on his face when I said that made me realize right away that he supported my dreams and choice in life. Now, I couldn't be happier.
Edit: I feel I should clarify a few things. I don't have a million dollar husband nor do I live a luxurious life. He works a 9-5 and we barely make ends meet but I meet him halfway with everything. He works and I take care of our son and house. We work as a team. If you don't believe me, that's ok. We both agreed that we didn't want strangers raising our children not to mention daycares and babysitters can be expensive. Sorry if I mislead anyone with my comment, but I am still living my dream and I wouldn't change it for anything.
Imagine you were living in severe poverty; you'd feel very differently.
did i ask
@@davidz3879well duh she can organize her life and elect that option because obviously her husband has the capability to provide . Not to mention money saved from paying daycare or hiring outside help to maintain home . Guess what those in poverty are all working or trying their best to achieve some financial freedom to create options such as having a stay at home wife
@@davidz3879 Imagine if my aunt had balls. She'd be my uncle
@@antoniotrivelloni8191 I'm making an important point. Her choice replies heavily on her having the luxury of a high-earning husband. Millions of woman can't get one.
It's so nice to see and know that there are women who are willing and wishing to have a traditional values relationship, one thing I'd like to add is: We as men who want this type of relations, we have to make SURE that we are completely competent and financially and mentally stable to fulfill our end of the relationship.
This. it's absolutely a 2 way street.
You. You sir. Have summed it up perfectly. Thank you.
Exactly! It's all about working together and doing what it takes so we can live the kind of life we want. Radical responsibility from men empowers women to be able to choose this life.
Thank you for this comment. It is good to know that good men exist out there, trad women exist too and I guess we all wait patiently to find each other in the right spaces.
I love the phrase word homemaker and am sad that it’s called being a “trad wife.” I am the maker of our home. I am the one that creates the atmosphere, the routines, helps foster the relationships, provides the meals… I’m not a housekeeper, and I’m more than a wife- I’m also a mother and woman. I’m a homemaker.
Yes! Homemaker for 44 years!
was it your own choice or not
Issue is home maker could be applied to a dad too
@@therookie5714 Dude, if I was a homemaker dad, I would likely find a way to kit out the house and make it extremely efficient. Pre-plan cooked meals, almost like with a weekly menu, buy those ingredients. I'll likely also plan out vacations and kid events in advance. I would make/find things so cost effective (whilst maintaining quality), that there is a heap of an emergency fund stack.
@@resphantom not at all what I meant but my dad used to aways help make dinner they would do it together even though he worked crazy long hours in the oil field
I love being a traditional homemaker. I was always a high achiever in school, and I was raised to believe that intelligent women go pursue big, fancy careers and only less intelligent women would ever choose to stay home. My family was/is so disappointed that I chose the stay at home mom and wife life instead. I have never felt more fulfilled.
I mean if teachers need to be intelligent enough to teach other people's children shouldnt we the parents be intelligent enough to raise them? That way of thinking just doesn't make any logical sense to me. If you want smart children you gotta have smart parents. People still ask me if I'm going to go to college and get me a fancy degree. I'm 26 if it's gonna happen it's gonna happen because I want to learn more not because I want a career. My career is raising my kids. Its lifelong.
Your family is stupid, you running the home and taking care of the kids is CEO level as a traditional family and husband I salute you and all women who know what is more important than any stupid career, keep up the great work!
You don't like having a job?
Pretty sure having an intelligent mom doing HS is a good thing :)
@@davidz3879Majority of people don’t get a job because they want to, they get it because they have to. It’s like chores; you don’t want to do them but you have to do them.
Life is like that where to get what you want, you have to do what you don’t want
In a way I think the newer trad women who turned from a radically different lifestyle are SO inspiring and I love hearing their stories. If they were so deep in that life, I want to hear all about what changed for them, what that shift was like, and how they are doing now. It’s one thing to go with the flow of the culture or even how you were raised, but challenging that for good is something on another level.
This kind of happened to me :) I moved from being a high achieving entrepreneur (making 5 figures a month) and living in one of the biggest, most exciting cities in the world for 15yrs to finally open my eyes, see how burned out I was by ideas that made me believe that was the ONLY way. 3yrs ago I met my now fiancé, moved to another country, moved to the countryside and LOVING this new trad lifestyle while learning to work the land 🥹🥹🥹🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
I'm a teen male and I stumbled to this video and my dream is to be able to take care of my wife and kids but I am so scared that I WIll not be able to with this feminist society but seeing MOTHER'S online who fight the narrative gives me some hope.
work hard, get a good career as men, then have courage to travel the world. The world are really more than meets the eyes. There will be great women out there who also strive to be a great wife and mother. I wish you all the best to the great future ahead of you.
Same bro
I'm a woman in my early 20s and I have the same fear - of not being able to find a man who wants to spend all his money feeding a family instead of partying. Based on the experiences of the people around me, I rather not have any children, although that will be a great regret, if I most likely will end up being a single mother. Motherhood are only truly enjoyable if you don't also have to be the Dad, but it's also the most rewarding and meaningful experience of a woman's life - based on my observations and conversations with my mom, both grandmas, my aunts and my mom's friends I've spoken to. Scared and excited
The traditional housewives are out there hoss. I don’t know where your personal beliefs lean to but wherever they are go to a place where you’ll meet others who believe the same thing. If you’re Christian, going to church to meet a traditional housewife is a likely solution. If you’re neopagan, a local chapter of whatever group you adhere to could help you meet someone. Just make sure you are the person that a traditional woman will want. Stable job, dress well, have traditional values, have manners (treat her like a man would treat a woman he is courting for marriage) and don’t play games. Say what you mean, mean what you say. Make a promise to her and keep it. Also, communicate. Can’t stress that enough. And be upfront about what you’re looking for. Don’t just look for “works in progress” but a woman who has all the qualities you’re looking for with a traditional foundation. God bless.
@@lilywater753don’t have kids just to have kids. If you feel pulled in that direction, of course, do what you think is best but my two cents is, find the man who will be a husband and a father with you. Not everyone is able to have kids but can still be married and have a traditional lifestyle. A family is made of a husband and a spouse, not a single parent and kids. Those kids will need a good man in their lives otherwise you bear the burden of both roles and it just doesn’t work out for anyone in the end. I respect your concerns, I was there too looking for a wife and found my forever wife after a damaging divorce. Go to church and start by asking God to help make you into the partner you want to be so you can have the partner He wants for you. Faith is a cornerstone of a marriage. Without it, it’s just a social contract you’re allowing yourself an out in.
I think it's hilarious that trad wives are pissing feminists off.
You can feel the tension in the air.
They're actually not
Well that's one of the main things feminism has always been about.
@@williamturner6192 lmao, facts
@@wyleecoyotee4252 they definitely, definitely are. I’m a “trad wife” technically. I don’t identify as one necessarily, but it’s what I do, and let me tell youuuuu- when you are young and beautiful and have a baby on your hip you can feel the HATE GLARE from other women from a thousands yards away.
The hate is POTENT rn. I wish you knew a sliver of the vibes lol because it’s brutal.
As someone who’s saving themselves for marriage I see this as more than an absolute win
My hubby and I saved ourselves for marriage. Great decision. My friend who slutted it up in her youth and I were talking about it today and she's now happily married but we talked about the pros of waiting she told me that I was right , It gave me evidence that being a prude isnt really the insult people think it is.
@@HalfInsaneJaneInteresting. What did she said?
You could still be waiting when you're old & can't walk any more.
@@HalfInsaneJane You don't know if you have a mediocre love life; you have no-one else to compare to.
@@davidz3879Why do you care about when other people have sex or not? Mind your own business
Some women want to be a stay at home wife. Some women want to work. Nothing wrong with either one.
Say👏it👏louder👏for👏the👏people👏in👏the👏back!👏
Exactly, this divide needs to STOP!
Its literally that simple, its about choice not about one being the correct option
Ppl just need to stop forcing their ideals on others just because they’re different.
Or a woman can work part time outside the house, and still be a traditional wife, I think. I don't think it Hass to be absolutely all or none. One way or the other. I think the combination works quite well for many women that I know. They seem to like it anyway.
I have a 2-month old & just quit my job of 5 yrs to take care of my baby. The fact that I get to care for him every day during this time that he is changing & growing exponentially each day is a blessing I couldn’t be more grateful for. Before finding out I was pregnant I was on a very different path, focused on my job (was offered a promotion RIGHT after discovering there was a bun in the oven) as well as my growing career in modeling. Motherhood completely changed my priorities & focus. I cannot imagine going through all this pregnancy & birth business just to return to the office 6 weeks or so later. I would have had to put a tiny 2-month-old in daycare to be cared for by strangers. Not to mention giving them half of my monthly income to do so 😳 I am truly grateful to have a husband that supports me being a homemaker
Congratulations on recognizing the reality and importance of raising the next generation! I’m a grandmother now and so glad that even as a single mother with 2 small children I did everything I could to spend as much time with my children instead of chasing a career. It paid off. I may not have ever had a huge income but I didn’t lose time with my children and now blessed with spending time with the grands. It was hard at times, the judgment from others, living a simple life but satisfying.
I'm a traditional women and finding this kind of relationship these days is difficult. I'm glad you're talking about this! ❤
I think it depends on location. In my area, you'd have multiple guys fighting to get a woman with trad views, since it's the women with those views in low quantities.
@@Joshua.zero29
IDK here in the Islamic world all women have very traditional values. I can't even imagine a society where these values are questioned, let alone seen as bad or negative or "freighting" every society has had these same values for centuries, yet some people are entitlted enough to challenge them.
Same here. Nowadays it seems impossible to find a guy who's even willing to take you out on a date and cover the 2$ bill. They all want a traditional woman until it requires them to be traditional men. And I'm talking from an Eastern European perspective.
That’s not true, men are fighting for the few traditional women that are left, they are even traveling around the world to find them. But if they are not truly traditional, they will not do it. I’m glad I have a traditional wife and we both love each other and help each other in this crazy world.
You're lazy in other words
As a little kid I was asked what I wanted to be when I grew up, I said I wanted to be a stay at home mom and a wife. I always got funny looks when I answered the question this way. I kept getting told I should find a career that I wanted to pursue. After years of confusion and difficulty I gained an education and multiple degrees. Still being pushed by society and other opinions to "focus on myself/enjoy my youth and be crazy". I felt like I wasn't allowed to have my dream of serving those I love. But thankfully God sent me my husband. He never pressured me to work a 9-5 or tell me my dream was just a kids dumb dream. Here I now stand at 25 a stay at home mom of two, feeding chickens in a robe, gardening, cleaning and maintaining my home whilst dancing around with my one year old, lovingly cooking from scratch "most of the time 😝 I have never felt so at peace as I do in the little moments with my children. I would never trade this life. I only pray that other women out there will find there way back to this simply beautiful lifestyle ❤️
Wish you nothing but continued happiness
I truly wish to live a life like yours someday. Taking care of my family and home is the one and only job I would be happy to do for all my life.
And I pray other women will never be like that. I really don't understand this thing of judging a woman whatever she chooses. You don't like when you're judged for staying at home but you do the same thing to women that don't want to stay at home.
Objectively speaking, that's the easiest thing someone could do. Almost a lazy thing. It's for those that don't want to struggle at all and to only enjoy. Some of us love to be hardworkers. Every person has different fulfillments. You do you.
@@sofistacy4176You are saying waking up early, making food for hubby & kids, cleaning the whole house, washing & drying clothes, taking kids to school, grocery shopping, watering plants, feeding the pets, preparing lunch & dinner, making bed, pumping milk if you have a newborn, working out to be fit & wearing makeup to look appealing to your husband & kids are all the easiest tasks ever❓
@@pearleunjoo5439 Yes. Stop trying to make it as it's so difficult when it's not.
Making food, making bad, cleaning the house and washing clothes, taking the kids to school and shopping, feeding pets and watering plants is *not hard.*
That's something that *we all do.*
Did you hurt your nails because you just threw food in pet's bowl or for picking up the bucket to water the plants?
And average families don't eat 3 different meals every day. And they don't clean the house every day, they don't wash clothes every day, and most femilies don't dry clothes they put clothes to dry on it's own and they use washing machines to wash them not hands. Taking kids to school... that must be so hard to sit in a car and to drive to the school. And even if it's walking big deal, is it hard to move legs? That could be your way of activity to stay fit too you know.
Working out and wearing makeup to be more appealing to your husband - well choose better husband.
Pumping milk while doing all that, umm as far as I know that's temporary, but tell me what they teach you in USA school?
For real, it's becoming so annoying to praise the bare minimum work that actually most people do and have a job in addition.
People that have an actual jobs also do all those things and they still do the parenting and they are involved with their children.
You can't expect to be seen as a hard worker if you are not. Being SAHM isn't hard and that's a fact.
I like to tell my woke coworker, “I can’t wait until I have a husband to domesticate me” 😂😂😂 I lowkey get a kick out of the reaction
can we just take a second to thank god for this woman’s existence? BRETT FREAKING COOPER. you are so inspiring. i just turned 25 and feel like i didn’t grow up in the best circumstances. i definitely don’t have the same personality/character as you but i’m so happy i found your content. i’m eating it up girl. i would love to know what a daily routine is like for you or if you have any advice for this (and other) young adult women who just feel emotionally stuck/can’t let go of their past stories/keep punishing themselves? not everyday is like this mental jail but what keeps you going?? you have such clear passion/drive and aren’t afraid to just put stuff out there… so jealous tbh. i know God has His plan for me but damn man i feel like i’m wasting my life. i just don’t know what to do with it. slightly depressing rant over, sorry if that was a down but i really would love to know like what your thoughts are. i know hard truth is “life’s tough get a helmet man” -candace owens hahah but what would you say is something that helps you if you ever feel down. i know you said you feel the emotions but don’t stay there in your enneagram video but how do you help yourself work past it?? ps im so happy for you. and early congratulations on 4 million, i see your numbers girl. so inspiring 🥺💕
One thing I love about Trad girls is that they don’t ask too much, they just needed a strong man to be their companion. I met one this year, we both go to the same church and she’s also the prettiest I’ve met too
If all men married trad women then the world will have less problems. I really think marriage should be required because marriage equals happiness and less angry men who are bitter because they are single.
@@excripto1
I agree with you. To get a trad wife, you must work on yourself and make yourself stronger, be presentable so you could be approachable. To be honest, it’s not hard to find one, you just have to take things slowly and get to know her first. That’s how I started
@@excripto1there are very few trad women.
@@excripto1 I wouldn't call myself bitter. I am single and concentrating on my writing aspirations, all the while taking it easy as I've lived with Cerebral Palsy since birth and in my mid-40s, the "check engine" light has already turned on for me. If I had married in my mid-20s and had slaved to work while my wife stayed at home, I would have already burned out and probably need a walker to help with my mobility. That's why I would want my wife to agree to work while I stayed at home with the children, but there doesn't seem to be many woman who would agree with that.
as a 15 year old girl, i would love to be a trad wife. i want to find a loving husband who will support me and our children, i love kids :) a lot of my peers are so judgmental and snarky about these things because of the environment my generation is growing up in. it’s really sad honestly.
You're in the right. But do learn about finances, and be ready to support yourself while you're single, or in case of trouble.
A trad wife's husband owns her. He's a slavedriver, not loving.
feminists be like “women should do whatever they want!” then get mad when they do this 💀
They’re phony.
They only say "do what you want" to encourage women to leave their traditional roles. The hardcore feminist leaders have always had deep animus towards traditional family and child rearing.
Well yes that's how the left is in most cases, but honestly I'm not a feminist and some of these videos still rub me a little bit the wrong way, especially when they say stuff like "the feminine urge to do so and so" it makes it sound like if you don't conform to that your not feminine and that all women should think like this.
Feminists sure aren't letting people do whatever they please, but some trad wives are also kinda gaslighting anyone that doesn't agree with them. Also the 1950s aesthetic is a little crippy ngl, cz they have the luxury today of pretending to be a 1950s wife without the actual negative sides of being a women in the 1950s, with a lot less rights then today.
@@aidasaneh8869Nobody questions when women like the aesthetic of upper-class regency era (pride and prejudice). Feminists are cool with that😅 it's sort of like people who hate vegetarians like to point out that Hitler was one.
@@ojyochan no it's fine to like it, it's a whole other thing to try to live it, the aesthetic alone is fine, and i don't wanna hate for no reason, but honestly it's such an american thing to have so little problems you want to pretend to live in the 1950s, knowing it wasn't such a good time for women back then, or change your gender, or act like you having a gay thought is a life crisis, I mean feminism is bad, but the other conservative extreme isn't much better, and feminism is only the product of wrongs in the past, you don't see that crazy extreme feminism in, say, the middle east which for some people is the hallmark of patriarchy (lol) because in reality there had never been nearly as much gender injustice there as there had been in europe and usa, middle eastern countries are predominantly islamic countries and they've abolished gender inequality centuries before people on the west did, contrary to common belief and the narrative that media tries to paint of islam. In fact when you compare christianity and islam, you'll notice christianity is the one in fact setting women back not the other way around
Sorry for rent lol
Im a feminist and I really couldn't care less about someone being a "trad" wife. Its your life, not mine, and feminism is about women doing what they want
Steve’s wife- I am a trad wife. I had no idea that this was a thing. I was first a stay at home mom now I homeschooling my four children. Yes, there is hard things about being home but it is also so rewarding! I don’t really dress like a trad wife but I am one. I also still cultivate my interests. This really isn’t new we just keep serving regardless if it is “cool” bc it is first serving God then my family to the best ability!
Imagine you're living in severe poverty. It wouldn't be rewarding then.
I’ve always leaned more towards the traditional life style, and I was always so scared to admit that to myself or to my friends. I remember being in school and everybody asking me what I wanted to go to college for and I never had a straight answer, because I honestly didn’t want to go into any career path. The thing that mattered most to me was family. I struggled for a long time to realize that all I wanted was to be home and take care of a family. Now that my husband and I have our first son, we are trying to adjust our lives to make it possible for me to be a stay at home mom and I’m so excited. I still think that getting an education is important, but it’s not what I wanted to base my life around.
I get hate for being a trad wife. I take care of my family. My family is mexican and live by a old traditions. But one thing I grew up was to be a wife/ mom. I rejected that idea for years until i got married then i picked up the trad lifestyle. I dont need to prove my worth to anyone.
As a homesteader and mother of 4, I can legit tell you, the gender roles are so important.
I don't do my hair or makeup, but I do (usually) try to have dinner ready by the time my husband is home from work, I educate our kids at home, and I try to keep the home clean for us.
Oh my God not every woman wants to be a housewife and not every woman is heterosexual even.
@frenzybuzz3703 lol thanks for confirming that Brett titled this video perfectly
@@jellyo6605 I didn't watched the video fully to be honest, but gender roles shouldn't be pushed down upon one's throat just look at India Pakistan and the Middle Eastern countries. Women are heavily financially dependent on the male guardians and have barely any access to economic opportunities leading to heavy preference of sons over daughters. Women and men MUST have equal rights and opportunities even practically not just in theory.
It sounds like you're doing really well, your children are lucky to have such a mother 🩷
Honestly, now that I’m a mom, I would love a traditional role. I would love to just focus on my kids and not stress over figuring out expenses and work.
That, unfortunately, is the problem with trad wife influencers; they neglect the idea that everybody's life story is different. It's like those rich influencers who post world travel reels and caption them with "The world is a book and those who do not travel read only one page.". It feels somewhat condescending towards people who didn't have the same luck and opportunities those influencers did.
Your story is your own, sister; please stop comparing, count your own blessings, and make the best out of what you possess! It may be not picture perfect, but picture perfect life requires scripting, which takes time out of your life that could be spent just... living it. However, if He is willing, the Lord will provide you with the fulfilling, traditional lifestyle, so please don't stop preparing for it. Praying for you :)
@@LadyMontane you are very right! We all have our own blessings and although my life hasn’t been the easiest, God has been by my side helping me walk on my path and fulfill my goals. I have two beautiful kids and I am very lucky to have found my dream job that I get to do from home so that I can be with them. I’m very fortunate and very grateful for it. Thank you for your words and perspective.
Being a housewife and a SAHM is the best thing I've ever done with my life. My husband and I wouldn't have it any other way. I'd rather stay home and raise my babies and taking care of the home, than be trapped in an office bored out of my mind. Also, making sourdough bread is totally the pinnacle of happiness 😂 I love bread making, I made bagels from scratch on Friday and they're amazing.
I want some bread 🙏🏿
hope u r not trapped at home instead
But its okay with you if your husband is trapped in an office cubicle for 9+ hours a day bored out of his mind, slowly losing his soul as the years go by? Wow, lady. That's cold as hell.
Hmm I love sourdough bread, especially fresh out of the oven.
@@CheerfullyCynical829 exactly feminist often look at stay at home duties are like they are being subjugated to a German concentration camp . They act like it is o glamorous for a man to go work hours whether in heat or cold or in office and some days taking shot from a boss only because he has to pay bills . He also comes home to help and take care of my manual fix ups or moving of heavy items and will take the kids to play baseball, ride a bike or any extracurriculars. Before modern technology the world ms infrastructure was built on hard manual labor I’m not always favorable weather conditions this why women stayed home to care for house me kids while hubby worked at a coal mine or steel mill for example . Mostly men have built the technology that makes living in present day so much more convenient ms what allows women themselves to work in a nice air conditioned building with a Starbucks and all types of dining within proximity . Women can now make money doing content or build business from home . Show some appreciation
This was my “What do you want to be when you grow up?” I’ve always wanted to be a wife and mother. I’m getting married to the man of my dreams in October and we want to start a family pretty soon after that (God willing). He was looking for a “traditional values” women to marry when we met. I feel valued by my fiancé and I want to do things for him. Why is that so bad? We both want a “traditional” marriage that is still equal. We both contribute to the home, just in different ways.
I'm a man. I work from home currently. Many days (not all, but more than half) I wear a suit into my home office. 90% of my meetings don't require me to turn on my video. It just helps me feel focused on what I'm doing. I feel good. I feel the need to act like I'm at work and making money for my family.
My wife recently got her hair done and has been making an effort to dress up more on days she's just working around the house (she's a homemaker). She looks great when she does it. I notice, and I notice how it makes her feel. I never pressured her to do anything different, we've just both come to the conclusion that when you take care of yourself, you feel better.
In the 20th Century men didn't wear suits to work because of the Patriarchy. Women didn't dress nicely at home because of mysoginy. It feels good to look respectable. While sweat pants feel nice, a suit makes you feel good.
I loved being a trad wife.. what a blessing to be able to raise my kids and have a clean house without worrying about a 40 hour work week too! My kids and my husband were well taken care of and so was I. I even had time to make our clothes and garden!! What a wonderful life. And so easy to know what our roles were.
But its okay with you if your husband is trapped in an office cubicle for 9+ hours a day bored out of his mind, losing his soul as the years tick by? Wow, lady. That's cold as hell.
I’m a man and always wanted to achieve financial freedom. It’s hard to comprehend why women want to work.
I don’t find anything wrong with the trad wife lifestyle, as long as women are voluntarily choosing to be so and could afford it. I wasn’t brought up to be that way by my own stay-at-home mom who taught me the importance of being financially independent from a guy. Doesn’t mean I wasn’t able to find a good husband who supports my career goals as much as I support his.
This ❤
I think that’s why this new age feminist are so intense bc they focus on the women who were being homemakers & couldn’t get property in their own name or had to rely on they husband for money, but in reality the second wave feminist were literally just bored privileged housewives who wanted to go out & work like a “man” & feminism wasn’t even created to divide both sexes or be so angry towards men or women who choose to live the traditional life. It’s like the new age feminist are mad bc they “fought” so hard for “us” to not have to live a traditional life. So when someone chooses a traditional life.. it’s like why? Why would u do that bccc dummy I wanna be a wife & mother and have a home. U wanna be a workaholic and have Nannie’s take care of your kids then yo kids hate u bc u don’t have a good bond or relationship with them. Sorry I made this long but im happy you chose the life u wanted to live and not feel pressured to live a life u did not even wanna sign up for lol
Good for you. Raised the same way.
Where’s your kids while you work?
I was a stay at home mom for 7 years. Before kids I thought I would hate it but when me and my husband starting having kids we both didn't want our kids in daycare. I ended up loving it. Only some what down part is I hate to cook but for my family I have worked hard to be a good cook. My husband also knows this so once a week we will order in. I'm grateful for that. I went back to work when all our kids were in school to help my mom and help with some bills but we have talked about me going back to a stay at home mom when my mom retires. Me and my husband have been happily married for 18 years and I think tradition has helped with that. All my friends that are feminist have divorced at less once.
Same, I help out my husband with administration and stuff in our business, but I can do that from home and in the evenings when the kids are asleep. I feel so blessed to be able to raise my kids my self and keep a clean and smooth running home/household. Would never trade it for anything else.
I am a Trad wife. I definitely don’t wear frilly cotton dresses and put on make up and do my hair on the daily. My husband understands that we have 2 neurodivergent children and most days, getting them fed, bathed and in bed without loosing my damn mind! I am thankful that we are in a situation that I can stay home The judgement I get from it is outrageous!
Cooking for my loved ones and taking care of them is literally my love language. Seeing them happy because of something I did for them brings me so much joy I can't even explain it. How can they demonize this too like fr, let me love people 😂
When all the tradwife stuff blew up, I thought it was hilarious. I’ve been a housewife, homemaker, and stay-at-home-mom to my two boys since before they were born. I felt very odd and out of place, as a woman living in areas with mostly dual income families, full time nannies, and ambitious career women. It’s always been my dream to stay home and care for my family and house. My husband and I communicated about it and agreed in our first six months of dating because I wanted to express that desire early to make sure we were compatible, and he eagerly agreed since he was raised by a SAHM and wanted that experience for his kids (although he never thought it was something you could or should mention while dating at the risk of sounding sexist). I am one of those wives who wears pretty dresses every day, make sourdough bread, intends to homeschool all my kids, and rolls around barefoot with my kids in our yard. I didn’t realize that it was an aesthetic until the Internet told me so lol. I am so grateful to the women putting their traditional home lives online for those of us who really don’t have any other like-minded ladies in our lives. I’m sure I’m not the only one who feels less alone and less weird because of these “tradwife influencers”. I’ve been living this way for years! And it wasn’t to make a political statement or for the likes… Most of us are just living this way because it’s what makes us and our families the most happy ❤️
Watching these red pill videos over the summer are the reason i have a 107% in my debate class so thank you guys 😂❤
what was your fav debate topic?
After watching black pill videos you will improve to 207%
@@1libra. ironically enough it was about trans men playing in women’s sports. I was sent home after 💀
The world would have less problems if all men got married because much of society’s problems are caused by angry men who won’t improve their lives and can’t find a good woman.
@@ToBeHonestWitchuthey only sent you home because they knew you had a point and they were offended! go get em
"Trad wives" aren't triggering feminists, rich influencers cosplaying actual people are offending real homemakers. It's immature for anyone to claim they just "don't wanna work," even if that person's a girl.
Ironic that hot chicks are never feminists 💀 God bless traditional wives
Because God does not love feminists.
If it's not broken, don't fix it. In this situation, one side has the urge to fix something, while the other side doesn't. I wonder which side is broken?
It's due to the estrogen flowing through them.
Tell that to Monica Bellucci
@@NarutoUzumaki-ky5jn Who in the Hell is this Bellucci woman, and why should anyone give a flying fuck at a rolling donut about her?
As a woman who has been living this way for decades and now homeschooling and homesteading and homemaker it blows my mind how its even a thing. Im retired military and have my medical doctorate degree and retired in 30s(now 40) and raising 4 sons 15 to 22. I was raised by traditional conservative women my grandparents and great grandparents. The wearing of the clothes and astetics are just to feel good and have your home and family also enjoy visually the time and care you put into it and not in pjs or sweats all day. As there is different stay at home women and usually you can see visually the difference in traditional women. I dont put it online or do it for show and have had comments out that its what I do or going for when just always been this way. It does make me upset for those just doing it for clout or clicks.
Sharing with strangers is the norm for Gen Z and common for many millennials. It's the world we grew up in. What we share (and want likes from and for) is the difference. In a way, being connected to the virtual world is far from traditional - should be easy to admit - but no matter how many traditions we take on, we'll never be in the past. It's a matter of balancing modernity and tradition. The tradlife just leans more towards the past.
I loved being a SAHM/homeschooling mom. I got to pursue my interests while nurturing my children, developing my cooking skills and learning about how to naturally heal, etc. The list goes on! Had I been at a job all that time I wouldn’t have been able to be such a well developed person in the ways that I want to be. Children, how children learn, healthy living, art(I ran classes for homeschooled kids) energy healing(I became certified) and freedom. It all has been amazing! I even did all of this as an eventual single mom.
AWaW
I love not being a mom
As a 68 yr. old woman (not a feminist), I have a different take. My grandmothers and women before them stayed home because someone had to. There were no washing machines and dryers, every item of clothing had to be ironed (no wrinkle free fabrics), no vacuum cleaners, no disposable diapers, canned their own vegetables, baked their own bread, killed their own chickens (there were no grocery stores right down the road), they had no cars AND at one time it was illegal for a married woman to work unless they were in a field such as nursing or teaching. I was raised by 2 parents in the 1950's who BOTH worked full-time...we had home cooked meals every night, never had a housekeeper and my Mom baked her own bread every week. I learned so much from her and, in turn, did the same when I started my family way back. It's everyone's personal choice to stay home or not but PLEASE don't insinuate that those of us who CHOSE to work have neglected our families. I would love to know if Brett intends to give up what she's doing now when she has a family. Because what she does is a job and I'm willing to bet she won't.
Lisa from Farmhouse on Boone is an amazing example of a “traditional” homemaker. She has learned and implemented skills over the years that I can’t imagine doing (like milking cows, making cheese etc). But, she’s real and you see her working hard. No frills. I follow MANY homemakers on TH-cam. Denise Jordan, The Secret Slob, Clutterbug, Jamerrill Stewart, That Awkward Mom, to name a few. I love how they’re using social media to inspire others and provide for their families.
"maybe staying home and baking sourdough bread is the pinnacle of happiness" yes Brett!!!!! it is!!!! I bake sourdough for my family and it brings such peace to my life, I love it.
I love this because growing up, I never really felt drawn to any career- the only thing I knew I wanted to do when I grew up was be a mom & take care of my home. I tried to feel driven towards a career (everyone else wanted to be a nurse or join the navy, etc) but I never felt that. And being a homemaker since becoming a mom, it’s not the beautiful aesthetic that’s being portrayed- it’s HARD (especially since I did it backwards and had babies before learning to cook) but I don’t want to do anything else and the thought of working outside the home literally makes me nauseous. We live with the basics and I think it’s been a much richer life. We used to only have a couple channels on an antenna for TV and I miss those days. I find a simple life so much more fulfilling. My dream now is to grow my own food and enough to sustain our family. We have chickens and a small garden but I’d love to expand on that. I think every family could benefit from slowing down and making a simpler life. But it all starts with marriage. You have to have a good partner to make it work.
As a man, a career is not part of my identity. It is a means to an end. It's something I need to pay bills and take care of my family but not really part of who I am. I'm good at what I do and I do it diligently but not just for that sake of it.
@@obviouslyasockpuppetI agree. I kinda wish being stay-at-home dad/househusband wasn’t that controversial though. I wouldn’t mind spending more time with my future children than in a job.
Amen sister🙏🏿
I married at 19..I’m 36 now.. I chose family over “carrier” I was the most talented “art major” in my class… I don’t regretted a bit… I gave it all (marriage).. I teach my kids morals , values, creativity.. way of living and how to be happy.. my kids love me, appreciates me,,, marriage is hard ,, don’t get me wrong… I would totally do it all over again
choosing family over carrier is all fun and games until you don't know how to spell because you sacrificed your own life
one of my biggest dreams is to be a tradwife for a very special traditional/conservative man but unfortunately i've met men with strong feminine energy and its like dating a woman instead :( . It doesnt work relationships that way and still people get mad when your preferences are to be femenine, a housewife, a mother and living a healthy relationship loving and caring to their man.
Look in the rural area, I found me a good mountain man!
@@Xaforn thanks for the advice, i actually have family at mountains too, but all the zone these are few families and the men are all married or are children😳 , but still mountain men are good options!
@@mikuuxp4770
Network with your mountain folk. They know good masculine men that have their nose to the grindstone and you arent going to find them without their help. It will take some time because they are not players and need to hear about you a few times before they will be interested. Be patient once you are introduced.
Good for these Trad wives. Honestly, I think we need more of them well within some reason. I'm not opposed to wives going out and working but I feel like we need to bring back some the old traditions that wives brought into a marriage.
I'm just glad I had my mom to look up to growing up. She is a SAHM who even as an empty nester volunteers for the community and creates a fulfilling life for herself and the world around her. She is traditional in the sense of gender norms, but she isn't one to bake homemade bread unless it's for baking bonding time that I loved growing up (and now my kids love to do with her). She is an educated woman too who stands up for herself when needed. Her and my dad are truly partners in marriage.
Because of her, I knew I always wanted to be a SAHM because of how valuable I saw my mom was in my life. These are cute videos but it's important for people to understand that being a "tradwife" isn't just aesthetics. (Heck, I'm a very non aesthetic, Tshirt wearing sahm 😆)
Being a mom is hard it’s a job that never ends but being a stay at home mom is also a privilege you barley miss anything on your child
"It's so oppressive to let people choose want they want to do"
Woman logic
Since I starterd to change my focus to my family and home in a more "traditional" way (instead of my full-time profesion) I feel happy and wholesome. I can finaly enjoy every aspect of being a wife and a mother. It's crazy how society and the work force try to force you to prioritize a way of life far from home and your family.
Hey Brett! I am 67 years old and grew up in a household that was just about as "traditional" as you can imagine. My parents were great people, loved each other and their kids, and seemed like they wouldn't want to trade places with anybody. That said - my mom's daily life was nothing like these "trad wife" TikToks!! It's like these young women got their ideas from binge-watching old episodes of "Leave It To Beaver" - a show that my own family ridiculed even back in the 1960's! These "trad wife" TikToks resemble real 1960's life about as much as Renaissance Faire resembles real medieval life. 😅 (Back then, we all ate Wonder Bread, not home-baked sourdough.) But still, if that's what they want to do, I say go for it. I mean, who doesn't love Renaissance Faire, right??😊
Back when? This "traditional" aesthetic is really a mashup of eras - indeed, it was Wonderbread in the 60s, but most people weren't homesteading or living off the land in that time either! What about 50-100 years before that? People are really just trying to take old wisdom, from across the ages, to create an ideal lifestyle. And our idea of that is still shaped by what we know in the modern era (like, Wonderbread was never healthy. 😅)
Of course, I also don't watch TikTok, so I haven't seen what's represented there. I definitely watch more homesteading content than aesthetic content. I'm already a dress-wearing housewife and mom of 3; I don't need aesthetics; I need lifestyle tips 😂
Omg I just did the same comment above. Tik Tok wives are not a thing thing to aspire to. My mother baked everything from scratch including bread but the bread came in when we were all older and she had an entire day for bread and rolls. She Also had a huge garden in summer. I didn't bake bread or have a garden but I did stay home for 9 years.
Trad wives aren’t just about cooking bread tho. And I’m sure som women did make bread form scratch, just bcuz you didn’t doenst mean others didn’t. Also this aesthetic is more 1940s - 1950s anyway
I never knew I was radical. 😄 I hadn’t heard of "trad wife" until this episode. I left my career as a nurse to stay home and care for my kids in 2008. I homeschool them (15 years going strong), love Jesus, attend church, love my husband, cook from scratch (because we have food allergies) and wear 50s style dresses and aprons. I've been married to the same man for 20+ years and we love each other fiercely. I have always dressed in "pin-up" type clothing. I didn’t think anything of it, it's was just a style that I liked and looked good on my body. Plus, it's comfortable. I've never considered myself anti-culture or radical, I just like making cinnamon rolls and teaching my kids. LOL
You are a role model!
I honestly believe that marriage should be a partnership - leaning into your strengths and dividing labor accordingly. There should be respect on both sides, decisions should be made together. There's nothing wrong with a woman staying home. There's also nothing wrong with a man staying home - I know a few guys with disabilities that are fantastic stay at home dads.
A disability I understand,
An able bodied man shouldn't be at home.
Same! I know several couples where the wife goes and works and the dad stays home, and they are perfectly happy! And honestly, just from a personality standpoint, the dads are the parent best suited to staying home.
Unfortunately our biological urges, on average, are contrary to this belief.
Yes a PARTNERSHIP
@@mobetterbobb What if the wife's career earns a greater wage than the husbands and they need to save money on childcare? It's easy to judge when we don't understand people's struggles or circumstances. The role of a Father being a provider is not just about money- providing is the heart in how he loves, supports and sacrifices for the greater good of his family.
Someone looking to have trad lifestyle is actually something that would be so good for our society. Feminism and all of the gender movements will lead to a worse society. We work together in a traditional husband/wife relationship and it goes well.
If it work for you guys thats great but it doesnt mean it would work for everyone. Just give people freedom they deserve. I think thats the way to make society better. Who would like to be trad wife should be abe to be (my mother was and it literally destroyed her life, for sure opposite cases exist but I dont know any like that) but dont force others to live this way. Same for other side of the conflict
@@homococo yes, it won’t work for everyone, so you could do other arrangements, but just in general, it’s a good start. The feminists saying men are trash, f*ck all men, k1ll all men thing is getting out of hand, same for them men saying things about women. We are codependent. We need each other to keep our species alive.
It would be great for society if we went back to traditional values but unfortunately I think the trad lifestyle has become a luxury for the more wealthy. Today, households are expected to have duel incomes. So to have a tradwife, you'd need a husband who can solely provide for the family, something the average man cannot do (especially with women now outperforming and out earning men).
@@zacar0ni yeah, times have changed, I understand ur point
I feel like most women actually want this kind of life style but are lead to believe by the media that it's bad. And as a man it's weird to be agaisnt trad wives if you think about it like you don't want a wife that loves the home?
No, most women much prefer to have careers.
@@davidz3879не говори за всех женщин
My wife has been trad wifeing since before it was cool. Trad wivng since 2006 and couldn't be a happier stronger more impressive woman. The influence she will have on the world through the raising of our two sons will far outshine anything I will ever do in my life.
My wife may be a goth girl with pink hair this week, but she's traditional, which is why we've been married for over ten years.
Thanks Brett, for being a role model for me. What you said about feeling weird only seeing trad/conservative women in linen dresses resonated with me. To me YOU are the conservative woman inspiration which does not frolick in a skirt but absolutely walks the talk. Again, thank you so much!
We’re doing it guys! We’re making being trad cool again!
Wait…holy shit I think you’re right!!! I never would have believed that 10 years ago..
🤭👍
It'll never be cool.
The best way to reinforce traditional roles was to try to get rid of it.
@@davidz3879 it will always be cool. Being a respectful, traditional man or woman is amazing
What's crazy is that as a married woman and stay-at-home mother, I am less dependent on a man than women who do only fans and porn to get by. A marriage is a team. My husband relies on me just as much as I rely on him. But do you know what those loyal OF customers will do when you get old or less appealing or stop putting out content? They'll just click the next video
lol not all independent women do only fans some are engineers and doctors also
Self-respecting women doing the right things, it makes me wanna be a better man. Thank you girls
Ding ding ding!
facts
Almost makes me want to give a damn
As a trad wife, I love raising my son, making all the sourdough things and raising chickens. This is all I've ever wanted and my husband likes our situation.
I hope this trad stuff catches on. The world needs it.
I love trad roles. I remember being so mad when someone told me if I was going to cook for my bf (I was a big feminist before) but the thing is…I loved doing it. I was getting mad for nothing. I love taking care of the home, kids, I want to be a mom SO MUCH. I want to rely on my bf and possibly future husband (we have a really great relationship). I know he’ll have a better job than me because I aspire to become a teacher and the pay is bad + we’ll have to fight our battles in the teaching communities against the whole indoctrination and people concentrating more on their “identity” than being a damn teacher to kids.
We share the same values regarding education, avoiding indoctrination on children (y’all adults can do want you want but don’t touch kids for god’s sake) and he helps me in day to day tasks because a strong couple helps each other, or else it breaks at some point.
“An era where sexism and racism ruled.” Yet somehow they’re angrier now more than ever about racism and sexism.
Right? And it's such a dumb thing to say too. 1950s were bad, therefore, we are to not take anything from that time and apply that now. Even if it's a good thing with a few changes. Noooooope. Just shame and ridicule people who think there was some good during that period.
Heaven forbid that children have their father in the home 🤯
Feminists trying oppress and ridicule other women.
Being a trad wife is being his property.
@@davidz3879no not at all. If i wanted to go back to work he'd be all for it but why would i want to when i can stay home and raise our babies
I am a young women who is not yet if marriage age, and I ASPIRE to this lifestyle. I spend my time baking bread and looking over my livestock! This is my dream! And the fact that women want to snatch that away from me and tell me how much of a bad thing it is saddens me. We should be lifting each other up, not down!
I LOVE this "movement". I have always wanted to be a mom and stay at home but I never expressed them because of the world around me. Now I feel so much more confident expressing my dreams that I've had since i was a child! Also, thank God for my extremely supporting fiancée ❤
I’m from India and my mom and grandmom were basically trad wives. If it’s so beautiful how come they always told me that you need to have your own money and you need to be independent? The thing is if that’s what you want to do then, of course you can. To each their own. But to be a trad wife, you need a trad husband too. Trad husband meaning a man who provides and respects you for what you do at home too. Both roles are equally important in a traditional marriage. But my dad and grandpa felt like they were superior just because they are bringing the money in, completely invalidating the work at home. When men start treating their trad wives like unpaid workers, being a trad wife wouldn’t be so fun. My dad always said “it’s my money” so my mom was forced to work and also do all the house work and so she was always overworked and stressed. I think when you find the right man, being a trad wife is great.
Happy trad wife here 🙋🏼♀️ married 8 years, 4 kids, I haven’t worked since 2014. I def have the pretty hand made 1950’s dresses but they only get worn on occasion unfortunately. Currently wearing yoga pants and a tshirt feeding my toddler apple slices and folding laundry real quick before I run out to pick up 2 of my other kids from school and start dinner. I’ve been told I’ve internalized my misogyny lol but I wouldn’t have it any other way ❤
By no means is it misogyny, it’s simply just a beautiful thing
Taking care of 4 children is not misogyny 🩷
I totally agree with the trad wife aesthetic, I feel like it’s been really sexualized. That’s what I feel about this movement, I follow other mothers who don’t put up a show like these girls and portray motherhood and the trad lifestyle in a very different yet beautiful way, without making themselves look ridiculous.
Exactly. I am a sahm, but the trad wife movement seems fetishized.
OMG THIS IS EXACTLYYYYY WHAT IM SAYINGGGGGGGGGGG and sometimes it seems like the wives are babying their husbands like "I need to cut up this steak for timmy or else he won't eat it" like come on and it's either that or "women must submit to their-" NO STFU anyway I'd totally love never having to work and being able to care for a husband but everyone should do what makes them happy so slay
Glad I’m not the only one 😅 definitely super fetish-y. Gave me the ick.
I am getting married in May and I have become more and more excited about the potential of being a mom (God willing) and being able to stay home. Being in the working world has not been fun. I have worked in good environments with good people, but just find that I want to be home, taking care of my home, and haven’t been able to do that to this point because I had to support myself. I wouldn’t say I ever had any outlandish feminist ‘values’, but I have only had one job that I really enjoyed, and it was a service job, half days, that allowed me to spend time at home and get things done. We will see where this road goes, but I hope and pray that I’m able to get out of the working world asap! So glad to see tradwives being supported. Very hopeful content!
I have had many stages/roles in my married life. I started off as a working woman with a husband and no kids, then a stay at home mom for 7 years, and now a working mom for the last 6 years because my kids are in full time school. I have an amazing husband who isn't ashamed to clean, do laundry, do dishes, etc. But I still try to take on the majority of household responsibilities, plus work, plus coach the kids sports, plus do all our bills/finances. And I do it because I love my family and want to do my best for them. Taking care of one's family shouldn't be "traditional".
I was a full time stay at home Mom while my daughter was small and have always made being there for her, my focus. For me, the missing piece to this conversation is that a woman wanting to raise her children and maintain the foundation of the home as their focus is not ‘letting their husband lead’, or being submissive in any way. It’s what women have been doing mainly and are hardwired to do, if they so choose it, and it’s the equal half to what men bring to the table on a fundamental level. Men and women are the two halves of the whole of humanity; built to complement each other with their different strengths. That’s the conversation we need to be having IMO 🌻 We’ve denigrated women staying home and raising children when it’s the foundation from which we all spring, and it’s a necessary facet to raising healthy, productive humans. 😊
I respect you SO much right now for being able to voice your opinion without a filter!! I got married 4 months ago and became a Housewife (or trad wife I guess) right away. No regrets 😌
Keep doing the good work.
Remember, there will be times when you won't be happy, just stick together and you will be more than happy forever.
Love your man, your family over any feelings.
I came across the term "Trad Wife" recently and I like it but I'm totally with you. Not a dress person. I've always used the term homemaker for myself because it's my job to create the atmosphere in my home. I got married young and now have 4 little girls. I am a stay at home mom and homeschool. Life is not perfect frilly dresses or bread baking for me. Sometimes, I feed my kids boxed Mac and Cheese, and the house is messy, but I'm still a Trad Wife. When I got married, my husband told me that he never wanted me to ever have to go to work. Obviously, I could if I wanted to, but the truth is that I'm living my dream at home. He works so hard for our family, and I love and respect him. I love my life ❤
Such a sad oppressed life... 😂