Mental health challenges manifest themselves in many different forms. I repeat : mental illness manifests itself in different ways. Just because you speak well, out loud and seemingly confident doesn’t mean awusangani ekhanda. Okay sharpu ke. 👍🏾
@@khetimthembu8465 he went on a podcast recently. Forgot the name of the guy but he is still lying and I still finished the video knowing very well he is lying😭😂
I see trauma here and she is trying to suppress it with her behaviour...going out seeking for love and attention that she might have been deprived of when growing up. She says she is happy but the windows to the soul (eyes) say something different. May you find healing sisi.
You're right, she is traumatised about something and she is trying to run away from it, also, I take that if you are okay with being a second preference, it says a lot about you. If you do not want to get married that's fine but don't think being a side is a cool thing because it's not, it will finish you inside.
Relebogile I like your other new podcast but unpacked is number 1 for me🎉,i have re-watched so many episodes and still enjoy them as if its my first time seeing them❤
Respect has no grey areas, we can't define it in a way that suit our ways. The whole narrative of as a side chick i don't owe the wife loyalty as i didn't make any commitment to her, or because she doesn't know of me than I'm respecting the wife.
When they say, the karma doesn’t come how we want it, it’s things like this! She was pained and hurt for the loss she experienced but went back to pain and hurt others! You didn’t learn your lesson!
@@theromadziba huge difference between hurting someone intentionally and unknowingly. People go through life playing stupid games and get surprised when they win stupid prizes! No one’s gonna stop you, but when it comes back to bite you, don’t cry about it, stand on that very same pedestal you thought was so high and mighty. “I’m helping marriages” I guess in the same sentiment God helped that baby from having such an immoral mother? People are just weird!
Sis,you’re speaking out of ignorance….one day you’ll regret all these decisions. Once upon a time,I was like you! Even more confident in this regard than you’re. I’m old now 55yrs and above,so I’ve seen it all.
I don't think she is really coping well with this complicated setup of which she pretends to be a great thing. Honestly speaking, this messes up your spirituality a lot as there is no solace but just confusion with your innerself, I am not judging but praying that she revises the way she is doing things and move to a place of tranquility and bliss.
TBH, I'm glad she knows who she is a d found out early enough. It takes almost a lifetime for some people and they are scared to make the move due to comfort, fear of change etc.
If one identifies as a Christian then one is prone and subjected to some level of scrutiny as per the bible and expectations as a child of God especially if one is exposing their lifestyle on a public platform, worse when the lifestyle is questionable. That being said, I pray that she gets the right help and counselling and divine intervention that she needs. 💙
I beg to differ. Being a side chick is where he goes to not be real. You create a world that doesn't exist. Stress free but should the main leave you won't be the main even if you want to because you lack the qualities he is looking for in a wife. Ay kabi but if he wanted to make you a main he would he just doesn't want to. Just as if he wanted to stop seeing a side and focus on his wife he would. Both of you are being played because he is selfishly serving himself.
Pinky girl 🎉😂, own your iiisshhh😂😂baby girl. Wena you are a professional 👏 🤣 mistress, you know your place and respect the wife, entlek is not your duties to be respectful, that mgodoyi of a man is more responsible. Well, basadi a ba ratane.hauweee
Once you are done judging and attacking this girl for being 'relevant' in her space,we will address your men who entertain them. They need counselling too? Or it's just a Pinky solution coz she is the one misleading them? The way this society absolves men from their shenanigans and would crucify women.... And mostly it's wives really fighting the side chick in their lives, not so much Pinky! One day we will address your men's behaviours coz the cut is evidently too deep...
To what age do these chicks grow? Once you over 21, you’re a side hen. You have seen it all and you meddling in someone’s marriage. What God has put together, let no man put asunder. Sad we live in a society that embraces adultery.
Death by "side hen"😂😂😂. The whole side thing is an ongoing pandemic from back in the days. Maybe a bigger conversation between sides and mains must happen with the other counterparts as the audience watching online.
This lady scares me, I hope she goes for therapy…this is coming from a place of concern. If a good man comes and gives her the love she needs, she will stop this nonsense in a heartbeat 😅😅😅
if she did not like the idea of being a main she would have ended it mos ne, No?🤔 to a point of falling pregnant pho....I am not qualified but should we always hide trauma with polished english just to look like we are the strongest ever🤔also, as a side chick why would you be happy for having someone who is so emotionally invested and even fall in love with him like that married man? I thought such attachments was off brand from her last interview. Bet if that man asked her to be the second wife she will not hesitate considering she loves him. I`m not judging her dating married men(i too have my own issues) but sis sounds so "eloquently" in denial
As she teaches others how to side chick, how does she teach them how to avoid the transfer of evil spirits and curses? Does she even know that sex is not just physical but spiritual too?😢😢
Men will be lovers of themselves. May the Lord deliver you spiritual blindness my beautiful sister. She working against God and his intentions. May you be convicted.
And she’s proud of it. You can’t be a Christian and still go against what the word says. She may have challenges with adultery,though she needs to surrender that to God and repent.Other Christians are judging her not because they don’t sin or have their own struggles;they are judging her because she’s proud of what she does and has made a brand out it,and she has not repented of her ways. Her and the married men she mingles with are bringing dishonour to marriage.
If she was a match maker maybe I would understand. Child please there is really nothing glamorous about being a side chick. Too many red flags and cringe moments with what she's pushing. 👎👎👎👎👎👎 Please heal people and please find healthy relationships.
She has got loads of negative energy. She is a disgruntled woman, she has been looking for love but failing, and now she has resorted to being a marriage destroyer. Shame on you 😢
What's with this negative energy ish if you've got more than 20 body counts and wena you decided to merry when it suited you or done playing even fucking around?? Shame in you judging her, then the boys"married man" must not pursue any woman after commitment then
@theromadziba because i trust relebogile so much, but pinky 🤮🤮🤮 what a waste... i kept thinking maybe because it's relebogile, there is something worth listening to
As a man who does dark money rituals...I'm happy there's women like these,we need more of them. I get to provide very comfortably for my housewife while keeping her safe from my rituals at the expense of the side chicks...WE NEED MORE SIDE CHICKS PLS💯
Mental health challenges manifest themselves in many different forms. I repeat : mental illness manifests itself in different ways.
Just because you speak well, out loud and seemingly confident doesn’t mean awusangani ekhanda.
Okay sharpu ke. 👍🏾
ngiyakuzwa mina😂😂
Yazi hear you so well
I hear you well 😂😂😂
Diagnosis 😮 if you listen to part one it will make things easy for you
We listen we don't judge 😢
😂😂😂 men don’t even test their wives well with respect and honour what could you possibly be judging anyway
😂😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣
@@Vv-fl2rm exactly.. being a side or wife is just the same thing these days.. no reward of any
😂😂😂
😂 Let's normalize therapy guys... This mediocre life can't be it man.
Thanks for being honest Moleboheng, this is mediocrity at its best, no sane woman would stoop so low if they truly love themselves.
Zero ounce of judgement detected from Relebogile, I commend you for your professionalism 👌
Lets gather here to adore Kelebogile's beauty❤
We missed you sis!Please don't forget dr Matthew 😅😅😅
you know what, i second you 🤣🤣🤣
Definitely 😂
Yohh nooo😂😂😭i am tired of that liar yohhh
@@khetimthembu8465 he went on a podcast recently. Forgot the name of the guy but he is still lying and I still finished the video knowing very well he is lying😭😂
Getting married to take care of a man! that's not in my caliber.I rather live life to the fullest while being cautious.
I see trauma here and she is trying to suppress it with her behaviour...going out seeking for love and attention that she might have been deprived of when growing up. She says she is happy but the windows to the soul (eyes) say something different.
May you find healing sisi.
The eyes never lie.
Watch part 1
You're right, she is traumatised about something and she is trying to run away from it, also, I take that if you are okay with being a second preference, it says a lot about you. If you do not want to get married that's fine but don't think being a side is a cool thing because it's not, it will finish you inside.
Relebogile I like your other new podcast but unpacked is number 1 for me🎉,i have re-watched so many episodes and still enjoy them as if its my first time seeing them❤
Respect has no grey areas, we can't define it in a way that suit our ways.
The whole narrative of as a side chick i don't owe the wife loyalty as i didn't make any commitment to her, or because she doesn't know of me than I'm respecting the wife.
Thank you for bringing back the Unpacked. The podcast doesn't have that thing🙈🙈
I love the podcast, it’s different to unpacked, in a very good way
@@zoephilile2274 I love both of them too
This time, we listen and judge… ngeke phela. Amasimba lawa.😂😂
lol people out here judging her while they love married men
😂😂😂
Precisely 🤣🤣
Louder please
Thank you for Bringing back unpacked, and We miss the in studio Interviews 😉😍😍
Thanks Relebogile for bringing back your channel.. hoping to get more interesting episodes.. ❤❤
When they say, the karma doesn’t come how we want it, it’s things like this! She was pained and hurt for the loss she experienced but went back to pain and hurt others! You didn’t learn your lesson!
I actually see her coming to some podcast ka di chubaba and a phuza face at 50, telling us how life is bad and she needs donations...
If karma worked like that guess what, its coming for all of us because we are not saints. We have hurt people and people have hurt us
Losing a baby can happen to anyone, even good people...she's just going through life like everyone really, I don't think it's karma...
@@theromadziba huge difference between hurting someone intentionally and unknowingly. People go through life playing stupid games and get surprised when they win stupid prizes! No one’s gonna stop you, but when it comes back to bite you, don’t cry about it, stand on that very same pedestal you thought was so high and mighty. “I’m helping marriages” I guess in the same sentiment God helped that baby from having such an immoral mother? People are just weird!
Love your show. I'm glad you back Rele 🥰..I remember her episode very well.
Good thing unpack is back! Hey Pinky 😂❤
Sis,you’re speaking out of ignorance….one day you’ll regret all these decisions.
Once upon a time,I was like you! Even more confident in this regard than you’re.
I’m old now 55yrs and above,so I’ve seen it all.
Please share with me what you have seen. Just interested to know if karma really does remember.
@ what I have seen is
Everything you do in darkness comes to light,
and secondly,
There’s no shortcuts in life…Never
I don't think she is really coping well with this complicated setup of which she pretends to be a great thing. Honestly speaking, this messes up your spirituality a lot as there is no solace but just confusion with your innerself, I am not judging but praying that she revises the way she is doing things and move to a place of tranquility and bliss.
TBH, I'm glad she knows who she is a d found out early enough. It takes almost a lifetime for some people and they are scared to make the move due to comfort, fear of change etc.
If one identifies as a Christian then one is prone and subjected to some level of scrutiny as per the bible and expectations as a child of God especially if one is exposing their lifestyle on a public platform, worse when the lifestyle is questionable. That being said, I pray that she gets the right help and counselling and divine intervention that she needs. 💙
I read an article that said when you're a mistress, you're most likely the love of his life
😂Lol its sad but probable.
I beg to differ. Being a side chick is where he goes to not be real. You create a world that doesn't exist. Stress free but should the main leave you won't be the main even if you want to because you lack the qualities he is looking for in a wife. Ay kabi but if he wanted to make you a main he would he just doesn't want to. Just as if he wanted to stop seeing a side and focus on his wife he would. Both of you are being played because he is selfishly serving himself.
That article pushes a narrative...
To think I was thinking about this lady today and that episode. Glad there’s a follow up
What I love about Sis Relebogile is she asked difficult questions 😅
Pinky girl 🎉😂, own your iiisshhh😂😂baby girl. Wena you are a professional 👏 🤣 mistress, you know your place and respect the wife, entlek is not your duties to be respectful, that mgodoyi of a man is more responsible. Well, basadi a ba ratane.hauweee
Once you are done judging and attacking this girl for being 'relevant' in her space,we will address your men who entertain them. They need counselling too? Or it's just a Pinky solution coz she is the one misleading them?
The way this society absolves men from their shenanigans and would crucify women.... And mostly it's wives really fighting the side chick in their lives, not so much Pinky!
One day we will address your men's behaviours coz the cut is evidently too deep...
To what age do these chicks grow? Once you over 21, you’re a side hen. You have seen it all and you meddling in someone’s marriage. What God has put together, let no man put asunder. Sad we live in a society that embraces adultery.
lol
Seen it all at 21 really??? Old hen at 22😂?? Njani mntase
Death by "side hen"😂😂😂. The whole side thing is an ongoing pandemic from back in the days. Maybe a bigger conversation between sides and mains must happen with the other counterparts as the audience watching online.
Pinky is very broken, She can't sit still even , very very sick Shame. Wishing her healing 😂
😂😂😂
If you know her from back in the day, you'd know this is her. Sitting still is not equal healed 😂😂😂😂
I feel sorry for the guy’s wife. She will be affected by all these negative spirits that you come with
Which negative spirit?
Spirits? Wow! Okay.
looool they asking , i would like to see the people asking. How in world does a mentally okay human would ask that. they need help
@@LM-he7ebanimboni uba lomntu walks with all sorts of bad spirits from sleeping with people’s husbands. She has bad energies that she walks with.
@@LM-he7ebyou need to be spiritually woke!
Ke bofebe fela side chick my foot if you respect a wife why are dating her husband mm !
😂😂 can only be a man who comments like this.
This lady scares me, I hope she goes for therapy…this is coming from a place of concern. If a good man comes and gives her the love she needs, she will stop this nonsense in a heartbeat 😅😅😅
Exactly my thought...She's speaking from a place of fear and brokenness.
if she did not like the idea of being a main she would have ended it mos ne, No?🤔 to a point of falling pregnant pho....I am not qualified but should we always hide trauma with polished english just to look like we are the strongest ever🤔also, as a side chick why would you be happy for having someone who is so emotionally invested and even fall in love with him like that married man? I thought such attachments was off brand from her last interview. Bet if that man asked her to be the second wife she will not hesitate considering she loves him. I`m not judging her dating married men(i too have my own issues) but sis sounds so "eloquently" in denial
Yes,you have very good points my sista❤...there's a lot going on.
As she teaches others how to side chick, how does she teach them how to avoid the transfer of evil spirits and curses? Does she even know that sex is not just physical but spiritual too?😢😢
Men will be lovers of themselves. May the Lord deliver you spiritual blindness my beautiful sister. She working against God and his intentions. May you be convicted.
And she’s proud of it. You can’t be a Christian and still go against what the word says. She may have challenges with adultery,though she needs to surrender that to God and repent.Other Christians are judging her not because they don’t sin or have their own struggles;they are judging her because she’s proud of what she does and has made a brand out it,and she has not repented of her ways. Her and the married men she mingles with are bringing dishonour to marriage.
Wait, didn’t we have season 2 already?
Pinky? 😂😂😂 haiibo she never left this life? 😂😂😂
How did we get here as black people?
The baby would have brought her fulfillment and healing...😢
Please invite Xolile Gcabashe 🙏🙏
A proud 304!!
O meme nga eli nawa momutse nguno?
I remember her on Vuzu tv's pastor kids from 14 years ago around 2011-2013, she can't still be a side chick even now, bandla...
@ Ey there is a lot that is going on with this girl. I guess because a side chick is her brand.
we listen, we don;t judge
If she was a match maker maybe I would understand. Child please there is really nothing glamorous about being a side chick. Too many red flags and cringe moments with what she's pushing. 👎👎👎👎👎👎 Please heal people and please find healthy relationships.
wait isn’t she from that show, preacher’s kids?
She has got loads of negative energy. She is a disgruntled woman, she has been looking for love but failing, and now she has resorted to being a marriage destroyer. Shame on you 😢
What's with this negative energy ish if you've got more than 20 body counts and wena you decided to merry when it suited you or done playing even fucking around?? Shame in you judging her, then the boys"married man" must not pursue any woman after commitment then
Now lets talk about the men who cheat on their wives
Yho!!!!
Is there an Unpacked episode with a man living with HIV? GPS please and thank you. #NotTheDrMatthewEpisode
Pinky is not right in her mind. You can come for me 😂
I agree
Also she wouldn’t have fallen for a dude whom she was a “main” for if inherently she does not want to be “the one”. Delusions delusions hunay…
You were missed 🎉🎉🎉🎉❤
She needs help, and she is going to be worse day by day.
What a waste of my hour, i will never recover in my life listening to this girl 😩😩
Why did you keep watching 😅😅😅
@theromadziba because i trust relebogile so much, but pinky 🤮🤮🤮 what a waste... i kept thinking maybe because it's relebogile, there is something worth listening to
Why not address this issue with the people involved.
Trauma
Pinky Shem..😌
Principal🎉🎉🎉🎉❤
💃💃💃💃
🎉🎉🎉🎉
As a man who does dark money rituals...I'm happy there's women like these,we need more of them. I get to provide very comfortably for my housewife while keeping her safe from my rituals at the expense of the side chicks...WE NEED MORE SIDE CHICKS PLS💯
Blame your husbands & leave pinky alone🫵🏾
So, she is being paid?
This woman is wise, intelligent and awesome.
Ses'la🎉🎉🎉
Deep down you know kuthi what you are doing is not right.
I agree with the topic 😊😅
Please bring back Thato (now Meletse) who had an accident on her wedding day.🤍🖤💛
Pinky is very broken, She can't sit still even , very very sick Shame. Wishing her healing 😂
Yeah almost like she’s anxious. Akahlaliseki.
@@BlackRose-rk7zsshe's always been like this
Pinky is very broken, She can't sit still even , very very sick Shame. Wishing her healing 😂
Pinky is very broken, She can't sit still even , very very sick Shame. Wishing her healing 😂