Mental health challenges manifest themselves in many different forms. I repeat : mental illness manifests itself in different ways. Just because you speak well, out loud and seemingly confident doesn’t mean awusangani ekhanda. Okay sharpu ke. 👍🏾
I see trauma here and she is trying to suppress it with her behaviour...going out seeking for love and attention that she might have been deprived of when growing up. She says she is happy but the windows to the soul (eyes) say something different. May you find healing sisi.
You're right, she is traumatised about something and she is trying to run away from it, also, I take that if you are okay with being a second preference, it says a lot about you. If you do not want to get married that's fine but don't think being a side is a cool thing because it's not, it will finish you inside.
I don't think she is really coping well with this complicated setup of which she pretends to be a great thing. Honestly speaking, this messes up your spirituality a lot as there is no solace but just confusion with your innerself, I am not judging but praying that she revises the way she is doing things and move to a place of tranquility and bliss.
Relebogile I like your other new podcast but unpacked is number 1 for me🎉,i have re-watched so many episodes and still enjoy them as if its my first time seeing them❤
@@khetimthembu8465 he went on a podcast recently. Forgot the name of the guy but he is still lying and I still finished the video knowing very well he is lying😭😂
Respect has no grey areas, we can't define it in a way that suit our ways. The whole narrative of as a side chick i don't owe the wife loyalty as i didn't make any commitment to her, or because she doesn't know of me than I'm respecting the wife.
Sis, I pray that you be a honourable sister's keeper who honours and respects God's covenant that is marriage. I wish you complete healing, you deserve to be loved and are worthy of having it all and your spirit deserves less burden and heaviness that comes with being with people's husbands.
Sis,you’re speaking out of ignorance….one day you’ll regret all these decisions. Once upon a time,I was like you! Even more confident in this regard than you’re. I’m old now 55yrs and above,so I’ve seen it all.
@@babeskjo When are you starting your podcast? We need our bigger sisters to guide us. Your experience could be inspiring and valuable . Pray you’re well Sis !!
As she teaches others how to side chick, how does she teach them how to avoid the transfer of evil spirits and curses? Does she even know that sex is not just physical but spiritual too?😢😢
Even wives and husbands are victim to spirits and curses coz of their cheating spouses so lets start by realistically preparing people about the dangers in worldly marriages because marriage is full of risks and problems its definitely not a safe haven.
Once you are done judging and attacking this girl for being 'relevant' in her space,we will address your men who entertain them. They need counselling too? Or it's just a Pinky solution coz she is the one misleading them? The way this society absolves men from their shenanigans and would crucify women.... And mostly it's wives really fighting the side chick in their lives, not so much Pinky! One day we will address your men's behaviours coz the cut is evidently too deep...
When they say, the karma doesn’t come how we want it, it’s things like this! She was pained and hurt for the loss she experienced but went back to pain and hurt others! You didn’t learn your lesson!
@@theromadziba huge difference between hurting someone intentionally and unknowingly. People go through life playing stupid games and get surprised when they win stupid prizes! No one’s gonna stop you, but when it comes back to bite you, don’t cry about it, stand on that very same pedestal you thought was so high and mighty. “I’m helping marriages” I guess in the same sentiment God helped that baby from having such an immoral mother? People are just weird!
If one identifies as a Christian then one is prone and subjected to some level of scrutiny as per the bible and expectations as a child of God especially if one is exposing their lifestyle on a public platform, worse when the lifestyle is questionable. That being said, I pray that she gets the right help and counselling and divine intervention that she needs. 💙
All I hear is a broken woman who needs and wants love and kids but is so terrified of being rejected and hurt for being rejected in previous relationships. The only excuse she has is uku vilapha house duties. Get the flip out of here. Seek help my dear we know it sucks to be so gorgeous and experience rejection but it happens my dear put some pride next to your name and get your own husband or stay single. You are just hurting yourself more for falling in love with a married person. For you to develop feelings for a person shows you want to be loved back, for you to admit there is no end game is just sad. What a waist of feelings. You are wounded emotionally. Spend that money on therapy. Then who knows you might turn up with a school on how to stay married or sidechick proof your marriage. The devil always likes to use you for the opposite of what God has blessed you with. Because you are promoting adultery. Whereas you are supposed to be promoting marriage and holiness for young women. Being a sidechick means your life is standing still you are just keeping company to married people who are busy living their lives. Overcome rejection and prioritize your emotional well-being.
TBH, I'm glad she knows who she is a d found out early enough. It takes almost a lifetime for some people and they are scared to make the move due to comfort, fear of change etc.
if she did not like the idea of being a main she would have ended it mos ne, No?🤔 to a point of falling pregnant pho....I am not qualified but should we always hide trauma with polished english just to look like we are the strongest ever🤔also, as a side chick why would you be happy for having someone who is so emotionally invested and even fall in love with him like that married man? I thought such attachments was off brand from her last interview. Bet if that man asked her to be the second wife she will not hesitate considering she loves him. I`m not judging her dating married men(i too have my own issues) but sis sounds so "eloquently" in denial
To what age do these chicks grow? Once you over 21, you’re a side hen. You have seen it all and you meddling in someone’s marriage. What God has put together, let no man put asunder. Sad we live in a society that embraces adultery.
Death by "side hen"😂😂😂. The whole side thing is an ongoing pandemic from back in the days. Maybe a bigger conversation between sides and mains must happen with the other counterparts as the audience watching online.
I beg to differ. Being a side chick is where he goes to not be real. You create a world that doesn't exist. Stress free but should the main leave you won't be the main even if you want to because you lack the qualities he is looking for in a wife. Ay kabi but if he wanted to make you a main he would he just doesn't want to. Just as if he wanted to stop seeing a side and focus on his wife he would. Both of you are being played because he is selfishly serving himself.
This is somehow a core of GBV encouraging status to lower women. Amasimba lawa, it's about sinner, but it's about being a professional demon. African respect, and value women, but here it's opposite.
Why not just date a single dude and keep it real: "I’m modern, and this ain’t that old-school setup where wifey’s stuck doing all the ‘traditional duties.’" Times have changed, my guy. Women are out here hustling 9 to 5, same as us, and it’s straight-up unfair to expect them to juggle that and play homemaker like it’s the 1950s. Their predecessors fought hard for those rights, and we gotta give them their flowers. The roles? They’ve evolved, my dude. Men ain’t the sole providers anymore. And for the cats still stuck in the Stone Age? Fred Flintstone called-he wants his life back. Now, about that “proud homewrecker” badge? That’s a whole different story. If you’re out here acting like the wife’s opinion don’t even count, that’s straight-up disrespectful. And let’s keep it a buck-it’s crazy how some women think this game has no downsides. I’ve seen side chicks get played by dudes cheating on them with other side chicks. She thinks being in a committed relationship is drama? Try being the side chick to another side chick, and that dude’s been hitting all three of y’all raw bone. Now you’re catching diseases from people you don’t even know. I digress-maybe she thinks being the side chick is the lesser evil for now. But trust, she has no clue how deep that rabbit hole can go.
This lady scares me, I hope she goes for therapy…this is coming from a place of concern. If a good man comes and gives her the love she needs, she will stop this nonsense in a heartbeat 😅😅😅
This is interesting. I don't have to understand the psych ya Pinky but I have to say that bo Pinky wouldn't exist is they where not wanted by these men.
I remember her from ' Preacher's Kids' on Vuzu back in 2015..Well, I must say she looks gorgeous almost 10 years later😍.. She's always had a rebellious streak in her I just didn't see her as a certified side chick though,so I'm surprised.. She loved entertainment(partying/clubbing) and wanted to be in the limelight back then..
Men will be lovers of themselves. May the Lord deliver you spiritual blindness my beautiful sister. She working against God and his intentions. May you be convicted.
And she’s proud of it. You can’t be a Christian and still go against what the word says. She may have challenges with adultery,though she needs to surrender that to God and repent.Other Christians are judging her not because they don’t sin or have their own struggles;they are judging her because she’s proud of what she does and has made a brand out it,and she has not repented of her ways. Her and the married men she mingles with are bringing dishonour to marriage.
If she was a match maker maybe I would understand. Child please there is really nothing glamorous about being a side chick. Too many red flags and cringe moments with what she's pushing. 👎👎👎👎👎👎 Please heal people and please find healthy relationships.
Pinky girl 🎉😂, own your iiisshhh😂😂baby girl. Wena you are a professional 👏 🤣 mistress, you know your place and respect the wife, entlek is not your duties to be respectful, that mgodoyi of a man is more responsible. Well, basadi a ba ratane.hauweee
She has got loads of negative energy. She is a disgruntled woman, she has been looking for love but failing, and now she has resorted to being a marriage destroyer. Shame on you 😢
What's with this negative energy ish if you've got more than 20 body counts and wena you decided to merry when it suited you or done playing even fucking around?? Shame in you judging her, then the boys"married man" must not pursue any woman after commitment then
“I don’t wanna cook for him”……but you cook for yourself?? What I mean is that I stopped feeling like I’m serving a man the day I realised that he’s literally just benefiting from MY self care? ….you’re eating something I made FOR MYSELF .. I’d still cook even in your absence 🧚🏾♂️🧚🏾♂️🥲 .. and if I don’t feel like it, I communicate- if you can’t understand then you not the one. Ladies please let’s not change anything about ourselves even when we meet the most handsome/providing🙈 it can be tricky but that’s why we need counselling, social workers, therapists at least once a year💓
Although it might give you a sense of adrenaline rush these relationships seldom end well. What begins as a pleasurable distraction may quickly turn into emotional trauma for you and your married partner. Don’t you get tired of being hidden? What does that do to your self esteem?
As a man who does dark money rituals...I'm happy there's women like these,we need more of them. I get to provide very comfortably for my housewife while keeping her safe from my rituals at the expense of the side chicks...WE NEED MORE SIDE CHICKS PLS💯
My issue is, why drag God into living a lifestyle that goes against His Word? Leave Christianity out of it, especially as an ambassador or "representative" of a lifestyle that dishonours God 😭
Being a side chick is more about being in control. You being a side chick gives you the control he took and it was never for him to take. Rape is evil.I'm really sorry baby girl.
@theromadziba because i trust relebogile so much, but pinky 🤮🤮🤮 what a waste... i kept thinking maybe because it's relebogile, there is something worth listening to
I feel like the space of one week per episode of The Second Chapter is far too long. Please reconsider 2-3 episodes per week. One episode per week is spaced too far apart in my opinion.
The host is exceptionally skilled at her craft. Her expertise in questioning guests is truly outstanding.
Shes the best honestly
Lets gather here to adore Kelebogile's beauty❤
Bruh..this woman is beautiful, periodt! ❤
Zero ounce of judgement detected from Relebogile, I commend you for your professionalism 👌
@@HlengiweDube-Bookkeeper Deep inside she wants to tell her "girl, you're not okay, you're trippin'...go get help
@@gotdamnimin If that's true I commend her for not showing it
😂 Let's normalize therapy guys... This mediocre life can't be it man.
Thanks for being honest Moleboheng, this is mediocrity at its best, no sane woman would stoop so low if they truly love themselves.
@@gotdamniminI agree with you. I miss the days when we couldn't display our brokenness before the world.
We listen we don't judge 😢
😂😂😂 men don’t even test their wives well with respect and honour what could you possibly be judging anyway
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@@Vv-fl2rm exactly.. being a side or wife is just the same thing these days.. no reward of any
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May she heal quicker, and may the grace of God relocate her.... such a beautiful woman 💔
Mental health challenges manifest themselves in many different forms. I repeat : mental illness manifests itself in different ways.
Just because you speak well, out loud and seemingly confident doesn’t mean awusangani ekhanda.
Okay sharpu ke. 👍🏾
ngiyakuzwa mina😂😂
Yazi hear you so well
I hear you well 😂😂😂
Diagnosis 😮 if you listen to part one it will make things easy for you
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The fact that she stopped being a side chick and became a main and also got pregnant deep down she has hope of getting her own man
I see trauma here and she is trying to suppress it with her behaviour...going out seeking for love and attention that she might have been deprived of when growing up. She says she is happy but the windows to the soul (eyes) say something different.
May you find healing sisi.
The eyes never lie.
Watch part 1
You're right, she is traumatised about something and she is trying to run away from it, also, I take that if you are okay with being a second preference, it says a lot about you. If you do not want to get married that's fine but don't think being a side is a cool thing because it's not, it will finish you inside.
@@theromadzibais there a link sis?
I don't think she is really coping well with this complicated setup of which she pretends to be a great thing. Honestly speaking, this messes up your spirituality a lot as there is no solace but just confusion with your innerself, I am not judging but praying that she revises the way she is doing things and move to a place of tranquility and bliss.
Relebogile I like your other new podcast but unpacked is number 1 for me🎉,i have re-watched so many episodes and still enjoy them as if its my first time seeing them❤
Same here, i watch them again and again🥰
We missed you sis!Please don't forget dr Matthew 😅😅😅
you know what, i second you 🤣🤣🤣
Definitely 😂
Yohh nooo😂😂😭i am tired of that liar yohhh
@@khetimthembu8465 he went on a podcast recently. Forgot the name of the guy but he is still lying and I still finished the video knowing very well he is lying😭😂
Respect has no grey areas, we can't define it in a way that suit our ways.
The whole narrative of as a side chick i don't owe the wife loyalty as i didn't make any commitment to her, or because she doesn't know of me than I'm respecting the wife.
This time, we listen and judge… ngeke phela. Amasimba lawa.😂😂
Getting married to take care of a man! that's not in my caliber.I rather live life to the fullest while being cautious.
Thank you for Bringing back unpacked, and We miss the in studio Interviews 😉😍😍
Sis, I pray that you be a honourable sister's keeper who honours and respects God's covenant that is marriage. I wish you complete healing, you deserve to be loved and are worthy of having it all and your spirit deserves less burden and heaviness that comes with being with people's husbands.
Sis,you’re speaking out of ignorance….one day you’ll regret all these decisions.
Once upon a time,I was like you! Even more confident in this regard than you’re.
I’m old now 55yrs and above,so I’ve seen it all.
Please share with me what you have seen. Just interested to know if karma really does remember.
@ what I have seen is
Everything you do in darkness comes to light,
and secondly,
There’s no shortcuts in life…Never
@@babeskjo When are you starting your podcast? We need our bigger sisters to guide us. Your experience could be inspiring and valuable . Pray you’re well Sis !!
@ I’m very well dear. God has been good to me. I’m too shy to start a podcast,but I always try to share my experiences when a chance comes.
Thanks Relebogile for bringing back your channel.. hoping to get more interesting episodes.. ❤❤
As she teaches others how to side chick, how does she teach them how to avoid the transfer of evil spirits and curses? Does she even know that sex is not just physical but spiritual too?😢😢
Even wives and husbands are victim to spirits and curses coz of their cheating spouses so lets start by realistically preparing people about the dangers in worldly marriages because marriage is full of risks and problems its definitely not a safe haven.
Thank you for bringing back the Unpacked. The podcast doesn't have that thing🙈🙈
I love the podcast, it’s different to unpacked, in a very good way
@@zoephilile2274 I love both of them too
@@zoephilile2274what’s the name?
Good thing unpack is back! Hey Pinky 😂❤
Love your show. I'm glad you back Rele 🥰..I remember her episode very well.
Once you are done judging and attacking this girl for being 'relevant' in her space,we will address your men who entertain them. They need counselling too? Or it's just a Pinky solution coz she is the one misleading them?
The way this society absolves men from their shenanigans and would crucify women.... And mostly it's wives really fighting the side chick in their lives, not so much Pinky!
One day we will address your men's behaviours coz the cut is evidently too deep...
Amen to that!
True story💯
First comment that is actually making a lot of sense, it takes 2 to tango people needs to remember that.... Thank you for this truth❤
Coming from someone who's not married, I'd say both are wrong. The men are the issue for initiating these affairs.
When they say, the karma doesn’t come how we want it, it’s things like this! She was pained and hurt for the loss she experienced but went back to pain and hurt others! You didn’t learn your lesson!
I actually see her coming to some podcast ka di chubaba and a phuza face at 50, telling us how life is bad and she needs donations...
If karma worked like that guess what, its coming for all of us because we are not saints. We have hurt people and people have hurt us
Losing a baby can happen to anyone, even good people...she's just going through life like everyone really, I don't think it's karma...
@@theromadziba huge difference between hurting someone intentionally and unknowingly. People go through life playing stupid games and get surprised when they win stupid prizes! No one’s gonna stop you, but when it comes back to bite you, don’t cry about it, stand on that very same pedestal you thought was so high and mighty. “I’m helping marriages” I guess in the same sentiment God helped that baby from having such an immoral mother? People are just weird!
Theres a difference between deliberately hurting people and doing so by mistake @theromadziba
To think I was thinking about this lady today and that episode. Glad there’s a follow up
lol people out here judging her while they love married men
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Precisely 🤣🤣
Louder please
I dont see judgements in the comment section, I see empathy and understanding of the why. Judgement would be calling her out of name and character
Not everyone is into married men dear
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If one identifies as a Christian then one is prone and subjected to some level of scrutiny as per the bible and expectations as a child of God especially if one is exposing their lifestyle on a public platform, worse when the lifestyle is questionable. That being said, I pray that she gets the right help and counselling and divine intervention that she needs. 💙
All I hear is a broken woman who needs and wants love and kids but is so terrified of being rejected and hurt for being rejected in previous relationships. The only excuse she has is uku vilapha house duties. Get the flip out of here. Seek help my dear we know it sucks to be so gorgeous and experience rejection but it happens my dear put some pride next to your name and get your own husband or stay single. You are just hurting yourself more for falling in love with a married person. For you to develop feelings for a person shows you want to be loved back, for you to admit there is no end game is just sad. What a waist of feelings. You are wounded emotionally. Spend that money on therapy. Then who knows you might turn up with a school on how to stay married or sidechick proof your marriage. The devil always likes to use you for the opposite of what God has blessed you with. Because you are promoting adultery. Whereas you are supposed to be promoting marriage and holiness for young women. Being a sidechick means your life is standing still you are just keeping company to married people who are busy living their lives. Overcome rejection and prioritize your emotional well-being.
@@sibongilengini4623 This is Beautifully written, couldn't agree with you more.
@@thandomanzini it's very sad to see the devil playing with God's children like this and using their past traumas. I pray she gets help.
TBH, I'm glad she knows who she is a d found out early enough. It takes almost a lifetime for some people and they are scared to make the move due to comfort, fear of change etc.
Ke bofebe fela side chick my foot if you respect a wife why are dating her husband mm !
😂😂 can only be a man who comments like this.
Pinky is very broken, She can't sit still even , very very sick Shame. Wishing her healing 😂
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If you know her from back in the day, you'd know this is her. Sitting still is not equal healed 😂😂😂😂
if she did not like the idea of being a main she would have ended it mos ne, No?🤔 to a point of falling pregnant pho....I am not qualified but should we always hide trauma with polished english just to look like we are the strongest ever🤔also, as a side chick why would you be happy for having someone who is so emotionally invested and even fall in love with him like that married man? I thought such attachments was off brand from her last interview. Bet if that man asked her to be the second wife she will not hesitate considering she loves him. I`m not judging her dating married men(i too have my own issues) but sis sounds so "eloquently" in denial
Yes,you have very good points my sista❤...there's a lot going on.
To what age do these chicks grow? Once you over 21, you’re a side hen. You have seen it all and you meddling in someone’s marriage. What God has put together, let no man put asunder. Sad we live in a society that embraces adultery.
lol
Seen it all at 21 really??? Old hen at 22😂?? Njani mntase
Death by "side hen"😂😂😂. The whole side thing is an ongoing pandemic from back in the days. Maybe a bigger conversation between sides and mains must happen with the other counterparts as the audience watching online.
S.A. is rotten dear. There's nothing that isn't falling apart in this society because of the rotten characters of this nation, men and women.
I read an article that said when you're a mistress, you're most likely the love of his life
😂Lol its sad but probable.
I beg to differ. Being a side chick is where he goes to not be real. You create a world that doesn't exist. Stress free but should the main leave you won't be the main even if you want to because you lack the qualities he is looking for in a wife. Ay kabi but if he wanted to make you a main he would he just doesn't want to. Just as if he wanted to stop seeing a side and focus on his wife he would. Both of you are being played because he is selfishly serving himself.
That article pushes a narrative...
Only confused people
@@mabiyela429let the wife go , u will see the man doesn't love u
Relebogile you're looking so pretty. Your skin is skinning ❤
I feel sorry for the guy’s wife. She will be affected by all these negative spirits that you come with
Which negative spirit?
Spirits? Wow! Okay.
looool they asking , i would like to see the people asking. How in world does a mentally okay human would ask that. they need help
@@LM-he7ebanimboni uba lomntu walks with all sorts of bad spirits from sleeping with people’s husbands. She has bad energies that she walks with.
@@LM-he7ebyou need to be spiritually woke!
She was once interviewed
She is a sad damaged soul
Her past defined her😢
What I love about Sis Relebogile is she asked difficult questions 😅
Side chick lifestyle gets tiring when you are 50...
How did we get here as black people?
@motlokwa we walked away from God
@@sisterneo4018 True. No fear of the Lord. Some are cheering her on and celebrating this.
Childhood sexual trauma manifesting later on in adulthood plus daddy issues. Hopefully in her later years, healing will begin.
This is somehow a core of GBV encouraging status to lower women. Amasimba lawa, it's about sinner, but it's about being a professional demon. African respect, and value women, but here it's opposite.
The funny part she says she doesn't want be judged
Gal your acts judge u
She is telling the truth....I became a side chick to my husband ....can I come to your show n explain
The definition of respect wow, yah neh.
Why not just date a single dude and keep it real: "I’m modern, and this ain’t that old-school setup where wifey’s stuck doing all the ‘traditional duties.’" Times have changed, my guy. Women are out here hustling 9 to 5, same as us, and it’s straight-up unfair to expect them to juggle that and play homemaker like it’s the 1950s. Their predecessors fought hard for those rights, and we gotta give them their flowers.
The roles? They’ve evolved, my dude. Men ain’t the sole providers anymore. And for the cats still stuck in the Stone Age? Fred Flintstone called-he wants his life back.
Now, about that “proud homewrecker” badge? That’s a whole different story. If you’re out here acting like the wife’s opinion don’t even count, that’s straight-up disrespectful. And let’s keep it a buck-it’s crazy how some women think this game has no downsides. I’ve seen side chicks get played by dudes cheating on them with other side chicks.
She thinks being in a committed relationship is drama? Try being the side chick to another side chick, and that dude’s been hitting all three of y’all raw bone. Now you’re catching diseases from people you don’t even know. I digress-maybe she thinks being the side chick is the lesser evil for now. But trust, she has no clue how deep that rabbit hole can go.
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This lady scares me, I hope she goes for therapy…this is coming from a place of concern. If a good man comes and gives her the love she needs, she will stop this nonsense in a heartbeat 😅😅😅
Exactly my thought...She's speaking from a place of fear and brokenness.
This is interesting. I don't have to understand the psych ya Pinky but I have to say that bo Pinky wouldn't exist is they where not wanted by these men.
Willing seller, willing buyer kinda situation😂😂.
@MommaBear52 Exactly 😂
I weep for the world😢. May she and all who think this is "problem-solving" find Christ before its too late
I remember her from ' Preacher's Kids' on Vuzu back in 2015..Well, I must say she looks gorgeous almost 10 years later😍.. She's always had a rebellious streak in her I just didn't see her as a certified side chick though,so I'm surprised.. She loved entertainment(partying/clubbing) and wanted to be in the limelight back then..
She was truly the funny one of all of them. Looking at it, she's never changed, her behavior is still the same
Professional sidechick?! When did we stoop so low as a society and start embracing such weird titles😢 Its not right and she knows it💔
Please bring back Mpho Ngwenya would love to hear from her
Men will be lovers of themselves. May the Lord deliver you spiritual blindness my beautiful sister. She working against God and his intentions. May you be convicted.
And she’s proud of it. You can’t be a Christian and still go against what the word says. She may have challenges with adultery,though she needs to surrender that to God and repent.Other Christians are judging her not because they don’t sin or have their own struggles;they are judging her because she’s proud of what she does and has made a brand out it,and she has not repented of her ways. Her and the married men she mingles with are bringing dishonour to marriage.
I doubt she's truly a Christian.
If she was a match maker maybe I would understand. Child please there is really nothing glamorous about being a side chick. Too many red flags and cringe moments with what she's pushing. 👎👎👎👎👎👎 Please heal people and please find healthy relationships.
Relebogile is gorgeous 😢
Pinky girl 🎉😂, own your iiisshhh😂😂baby girl. Wena you are a professional 👏 🤣 mistress, you know your place and respect the wife, entlek is not your duties to be respectful, that mgodoyi of a man is more responsible. Well, basadi a ba ratane.hauweee
Trauma
She needs help, and she is going to be worse day by day.
You were missed 🎉🎉🎉🎉❤
She has got loads of negative energy. She is a disgruntled woman, she has been looking for love but failing, and now she has resorted to being a marriage destroyer. Shame on you 😢
What's with this negative energy ish if you've got more than 20 body counts and wena you decided to merry when it suited you or done playing even fucking around?? Shame in you judging her, then the boys"married man" must not pursue any woman after commitment then
Now lets talk about the men who cheat on their wives
The baby would have brought her fulfillment and healing...😢
“I don’t wanna cook for him”……but you cook for yourself?? What I mean is that I stopped feeling like I’m serving a man the day I realised that he’s literally just benefiting from MY self care? ….you’re eating something I made FOR MYSELF .. I’d still cook even in your absence 🧚🏾♂️🧚🏾♂️🥲 .. and if I don’t feel like it, I communicate- if you can’t understand then you not the one. Ladies please let’s not change anything about ourselves even when we meet the most handsome/providing🙈 it can be tricky but that’s why we need counselling, social workers, therapists at least once a year💓
Only Jezebel would start talking such utter nonsense. It’s not only disgusting but disrespectful to God . But good luck though
This woman is wise, intelligent and awesome.
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suspect is hidden, and proud of it
Pinky? 😂😂😂 haiibo she never left this life? 😂😂😂
Wait, didn’t we have season 2 already?
Although it might give you a sense of adrenaline rush these relationships seldom end well. What begins as a pleasurable distraction may quickly turn into emotional trauma for you and your married partner. Don’t you get tired of being hidden? What does that do to your self esteem?
Please invite Xolile Gcabashe 🙏🙏
As a man who does dark money rituals...I'm happy there's women like these,we need more of them. I get to provide very comfortably for my housewife while keeping her safe from my rituals at the expense of the side chicks...WE NEED MORE SIDE CHICKS PLS💯
A proud 304!!
Pinky is not right in her mind. You can come for me 😂
I agree
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You're right.
My issue is, why drag God into living a lifestyle that goes against His Word? Leave Christianity out of it, especially as an ambassador or "representative" of a lifestyle that dishonours God 😭
Nonsense. You cant love a man and be happy with him being with another woman. Quit this side chick nonsense, its not working
Also she wouldn’t have fallen for a dude whom she was a “main” for if inherently she does not want to be “the one”. Delusions delusions hunay…
Principal🎉🎉🎉🎉❤
Being a side chick is more about being in control. You being a side chick gives you the control he took and it was never for him to take. Rape is evil.I'm really sorry baby girl.
What a waste of my hour, i will never recover in my life listening to this girl 😩😩
Why did you keep watching 😅😅😅
@theromadziba because i trust relebogile so much, but pinky 🤮🤮🤮 what a waste... i kept thinking maybe because it's relebogile, there is something worth listening to
Shes the South African Ashley Madison😂
I remember her on Vuzu tv's pastor kids from 14 years ago around 2011-2013, she can't still be a side chick even now, bandla...
@ Ey there is a lot that is going on with this girl. I guess because a side chick is her brand.
we listen, we don;t judge
Polygamy Wins - Isithembu all the way
Haaai I’m too broke to judge 😢😢😢😂😂😂😂
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O meme nga eli nawa momutse nguno?
I feel like the space of one week per episode of The Second Chapter is far too long. Please reconsider 2-3 episodes per week. One episode per week is spaced too far apart in my opinion.
wait isn’t she from that show, preacher’s kids?
Deep down you know kuthi what you are doing is not right.
Why not address this issue with the people involved.
So, she is being paid?
I agree with the topic 😊😅
Yho!!!!
Is there an Unpacked episode with a man living with HIV? GPS please and thank you. #NotTheDrMatthewEpisode
And I wrote a book about it
Pinky Shem..😌
Haike qal'uyiva...
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🎉🎉🎉🎉
Ses'la🎉🎉🎉
Aikhona
Blame your husbands & leave pinky alone🫵🏾
Please bring back Thato (now Meletse) who had an accident on her wedding day.🤍🖤💛