Hey Beautiful People, you can check out the Part 1 to this video "5 Simple Words Intentional Men LOVE to Hear" here: th-cam.com/video/OrRXxvvgSak/w-d-xo.html Peace & Blessings 👑
5 words.. or 5 attitudes. Lol(aka the dismissive comment) = whatever Nah (aka IDGAF) 😅 = don't care But (aka let's fight) = you wrong Okay (aka maybe) = let's see what happens Nevermind (aka not worth it) = Nah. 😂😂😂😂😂
THANK YOU SOOOOO MUCH!!! When you verbalized that you'll say "Never-mind" to someone that you know is argumentative and takes no accountability. I can't put into words how it pieced me back together in some small way. I thought and am told that I was/ being horrible by saying "never-mind" in certain situations. However, in certain situations, I'll want to converse about something on a tougher subject, and I'll play that tape out and in an effort to not do the same thing over and over I'll say never-mind and attempt to adjust my attitude rather than open up about a subject he's proven in past conversations not capable of approaching. Am I crazy for staying with this man? There's so much more to he and I's relationship and interactions so I'm so thankful you're on here and I was lead to your channel. Deep appreciation and many blessings to you and yours for I truly impactful youtube channel.
This was FANTASTIC !!!! Thank you Sealz i enjoyed this video from start to finish Only DECENT men can identify and understand theese unhealthy And loaded statements God bless you Sealz keep them coming
Truly grateful for your videos!!! Helped me realize a lot of things. Pray the Countless Blessings of God will flow freely in you & your family lives! Peace & blessings 🙏🏾💜
That “okay” shit triggering for me. I try not to read too far into it cause it ain’t that deep MOST of the time…but I can tell when it’s a good time or a bad time, and if okay is even the right response in the conversation
What about using the word okay during a discussion where compromise is needed? I tend to use it when I bow to my man's point of view or decision when I feel he is in the right, such as "okay baby I understand what your saying and agree that's the best course of action."
People who talk in these weak non- committal ways are undecided, non-committal people who can't put themselves fully into anything or are clinically depressed.
My goodness am guilty point #5 Told my ex this and walked off his car 😳 and believe me he was Not only furious but was so so dissappointed Ah swear never to repeat this again ive lesrnt my lesson
Children need father as well as mother. Experts explain that some men were in childhood raised by mom, this way dont jump,dont walk, dont play with toys, dont talk be still, dont be loud, dont say a word etc. Boys couldn´t play as boys do and be themselves. Many mothers admit they said this type of "commands" 50 times a day. Maybe she didnt have ahelp of other partner to raise the kids. 1500 times a month, 18 000 times a year. In 18 years of life it is 324 000 times. Especially if men heard it multiple times in school, or other institutions, mostly from female authorities Which means experts say these boys never had a chance to be a boys, or a real man. This kind of parenting where mother or father dont talk to a boy in a normal fashion with empathy, and let him play, and be "himself", be a boy. causes the men learn in childhood to ignore "female" authorities, to maintain little bit of his freedom and nervous system of his brain starts to be defensive... because he heard 324 000 times from mom and other female authorities "dont" Dont" Dont Dont Dont Dont Dont play, dont speak dont be a loud which in tranlstion means dont be yourself dont be a boy dont be a man dont find your own masculinity and creativity and he learned to ignore every other female in his life or his future partners, he lost empathy or feeling of undserstanding for women....... because it was his only way to maintain little bit of freedom, and to maintain a little bit of masculinity in his own body unless he gets some therapy, learning how to love a woman. Women also couldnt find a confidence for the same reason, but thye are forced to be perfecta nd masculine etc.
So, basically, women have to walk on eggshells for a man?!? I've enjoyed your videos; however, I think this one is ridiculous. I refuse to be anything other than myself. Have a nice day.
Hey Beautiful People, you can check out the Part 1 to this video "5 Simple Words Intentional Men LOVE to Hear" here: th-cam.com/video/OrRXxvvgSak/w-d-xo.html
Peace & Blessings 👑
I cant stand someone that doesn't hold themselves accountable! Great content!
This can definitely go both ways for intentional women too 💯🎯…..and to add on “you good??” 😖😅
5 words.. or 5 attitudes.
Lol(aka the dismissive comment) = whatever
Nah (aka IDGAF) 😅 = don't care
But (aka let's fight) = you wrong
Okay (aka maybe) = let's see what happens
Nevermind (aka not worth it) = Nah. 😂😂😂😂😂
THANK YOU SOOOOO MUCH!!! When you verbalized that you'll say "Never-mind" to someone that you know is argumentative and takes no accountability. I can't put into words how it pieced me back together in some small way. I thought and am told that I was/ being horrible by saying "never-mind" in certain situations. However, in certain situations, I'll want to converse about something on a tougher subject, and I'll play that tape out and in an effort to not do the same thing over and over I'll say never-mind and attempt to adjust my attitude rather than open up about a subject he's proven in past conversations not capable of approaching. Am I crazy for staying with this man? There's so much more to he and I's relationship and interactions so I'm so thankful you're on here and I was lead to your channel. Deep appreciation and many blessings to you and yours for I truly impactful youtube channel.
This was FANTASTIC !!!!
Thank you Sealz i enjoyed this video from start to finish
Only DECENT men can identify and understand theese unhealthy
And loaded statements
God bless you Sealz keep them coming
Yesssss!!!👏🏽🙏🏽
Trueeee!!!🙏🏽👏🏽
Truly grateful for your videos!!! Helped me realize a lot of things. Pray the Countless Blessings of God will flow freely in you & your family lives! Peace & blessings 🙏🏾💜
Another great video. Thanks Sealz! You been on it lately.🙂 Loving the consistency.💜
Peace and blessings 🙌🏾
You are a very Smart man, we need more of men like you❤❤
How about "I'm sorry, but I'd rather say it in person"...no one really wants to apologize over text...it needs to be said in person.
That “okay” shit triggering for me. I try not to read too far into it cause it ain’t that deep MOST of the time…but I can tell when it’s a good time or a bad time, and if okay is even the right response in the conversation
What about using the word okay during a discussion where compromise is needed? I tend to use it when I bow to my man's point of view or decision when I feel he is in the right, such as "okay baby I understand what your saying and agree that's the best course of action."
People who talk in these weak non- committal ways are undecided, non-committal people who can't put themselves fully into anything or are clinically depressed.
My goodness am guilty point #5
Told my ex this and walked off his car 😳 and believe me he was
Not only furious but was so so dissappointed
Ah swear never to repeat this again ive lesrnt my lesson
Lol
But
Nah (No’s cousin)
Okay
Nvm
Good video.
😂😂😂😂😂 right bro 😂👍🏾
Children need father as well as mother.
Experts explain that some men were in childhood raised by mom, this way
dont jump,dont walk, dont play with toys, dont talk
be still, dont be loud, dont say a word etc.
Boys couldn´t play as boys do and be themselves.
Many mothers admit they said this type of "commands" 50 times a day. Maybe she didnt have ahelp of other partner to raise the kids.
1500 times a month, 18 000 times a year.
In 18 years of life it is 324 000 times.
Especially if men heard it multiple times in school, or other institutions, mostly from female authorities
Which means experts say these boys never had a chance to be a boys, or a real man.
This kind of parenting where mother or father dont talk to a boy in a normal fashion with empathy,
and let him play, and be "himself", be a boy.
causes the men learn in childhood to ignore "female" authorities, to maintain little bit of his freedom and nervous system of his brain starts to be defensive...
because he heard 324 000 times from mom and other female authorities
"dont" Dont" Dont Dont Dont Dont
Dont play,
dont speak
dont be a loud
which in tranlstion means
dont be yourself
dont be a boy
dont be a man
dont find your own masculinity and creativity
and he learned to ignore every other female in his life
or his future partners, he lost empathy or feeling of undserstanding for women.......
because it was his only way to maintain
little bit of freedom, and to maintain a little bit of masculinity in his own body
unless he gets some therapy, learning how to love a woman.
Women also couldnt find a confidence for the same reason, but thye are forced to be perfecta nd masculine etc.
he has to clean his mind first before to come to another woumen bcz it confusing
thanks a lot now my vision is clear
Yes i would love to 💌🤐😅
😂😂😂 5:13
How about “fine……”?
So, basically, women have to walk on eggshells for a man?!? I've enjoyed your videos; however, I think this one is ridiculous. I refuse to be anything other than myself. Have a nice day.
Nah and naw os very disrespectful to me
Umm, you should change the MEN in this title to WOMEN because most men do this. These things irritate the heck outta me. 🤷🏽♀️😂
You forgot the word yeah big no
You need to erase but from your vocabulary when communicating, it's negative
My man always tells me that when he tells me something and I say, but 😅