Hey everyone!! We’ve been gone but we’re back for a packed season!! In August we always take a few weeks off to rest, but since we got back we’ve been scheming, filming and editing non-stop. We’ve got several episodes in the can and many more coming. A lot of surprises in the coming months.. much to look forward to. We’re so excited to be back!! Can anyone guess which countries we’ll travel to this season? 🤓 - Thomas
Better research Better Help before using them. Sad that all these TH-camrs promote such a shady company. Way worse than established titles. Disappointed that he either doesn't research his sponsor or worse... he just doesn't care.
I agree Steffan, thank you for sharing about your friend. I missed my uncle's cry for help, and a couple of days later, he committed suicide. I promised myself that I would never miss the signs again, so I'm constantly being attentive to people's words and asking them how they're doing. Helping those that are struggling get connected to our counselor at work. I work in q hospital so you can imagine the state of burnout a lot of our staff have been experiencing.
Gospel of Jesus Christ. John 3:16 For God So loved the world that he gave his only Begotten Son that whosoever believes in Him should not Perish but have Everlasting Life. Jesus Christ Died on the Cross for all the sin of the World, and now we can be Forgiven of all of our sins and be washed clean by the Blood of Jesus Christ for our iniquities trespasses... now all you need to do is Repent of all of ur sins (Repent means Change ur Mind turning away from sinful things and being truly sorry with all ur heart, and if you Repent and still go back to sinful things nothing will happend but if you are truly serious Lord will change ur life forever) (example of repenting Father God I ask in Jesus Name please forgive me of all my Sins I acknowledge that im a sinful man/woman I am truly sorry and trust in Jesus that he lived suffered and died on the cross for me and my sins so I can be Forgiven was barried and that you rised him on the 3th day please wash me clean with the blood of Christ make in me a new heart that can love and forgive Lord change my desires change me Lord Jesus come into my life change everything about me make me a new creation fill me with ur HolySpirit...)is what sin is Romans 6:23 For the wages of sin is death, but the gift of eternal life in our Lord Jesus Christ. and the only way to heaven is Trough Jesus Christ there is no other way! John 14:6 I Am The Way The Truth And The Life No Man cometh to the Father Except Trough Me. and you are saved by Grace Trough Faith not by works, we cannot save urselfs from sin we don't get to go to heaven because we don't get to go to heaven because we are a Good People we are not!, we cannot earn ur salvation it is given to us as a Free Gift all we need to do is receive it! Romans 3:23 For All have sinned and Felt Short of the Glory of God. There is none Good but God!, 1 Corinthians 6:9-10: Or do you not know that wrongdoers will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: Neither the sexually immoral nor idolaters nor adulterers nor men who have sex with men nor thieves nor the greedy nor drunkards nor slanderers nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God. But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death. Revelation 21:8 KJV.
staffan is genuinely one of the best people i have ever seen in real life or online. he lives for other people and the joy that comes out of love, respect, and openness. every time i see him talk he impacts my life positively
@@tzuyology I have Asperger's. I was arrested and spent 6 months in solitary confinement, with no outside time. I had several meltdowns which led to staff beatings daily for two weeks until it was confirmed I have Asperger's. Finally released after it was found that I committed no crime. Later diagnosed with MDD, SAD, and PTSD. Worst experience of my life.
Exact same thought crossed my mind during this video. Also made me think about how prisons in the USA tend to have no windows in the inmate cell which would make someone just go crazy
Stef your words really ressonate with me as I sit here crying. I lost my 16 year old son to suicide due to mental health issues due to the pressures of society. You are so right when we find the circle of people that makes us grow and allow us to be ourselves. Big love and keep giving hearts Barnabe (Portugal.France.UK)
This channel is the reason I left the comfort of staying with my parents to move to a state I had never visited (New Hampshire) to take a new addition to my career path (teaching financial literacy in addition to financial advising) to interact with people in a culture I have not had much of any experience before (a semi-rural area instead of the cities I grew up in). I cannot say if this position was the smartest choice financially. Nor has it been easy so far. But it is in part due to the messages of this channel that I have continued to push myself further. Better. My first experience with this channel was back when I was 17 (I am now 24), where I decided to strike up a conversation with the people in the 3 hour line with me at the DMV in Pasadena, California. This channel is why I try to talk to my neighbors on any flight. Allowing me to feel comfortable with interacting with the world. Thank you to the Yes Theory team.
Good for you!. The world was very different when I was your age no cell phones & no internet, I'm on the spectrum, I had to watch my mother to learn the benefits of talking to people but there are many. I had to push myself to do new things but now I am so glad I did. Best of luck to you, your quiet kind of bravery does not get enough credit.
Thank you Staffan for being so vulnerable. I am Ethan from Birmingham, Alabama, USA and I definitely am not good at asking for help. Your vulnerability gave me a lot to reflect on.
Staffan, if the moment when you met Thomas and Tommy in Sweden is your best day ever in your life, that moment was also my best experience as a YES Theory audience. I love every episode you're in, your words always and always enlighten me. Thank you Staffan, and this ❣️ for you :)
been crying for 3 days straight as ive felt a sense of lonliness thats never been this strong before. I desparately needed this. We love you so much Staffan
Find love within you and you will understand that you are never alone and you are the love. 3 is powerful number and seems to resonate with you. You are supporting so many organisms living within you and for them you are the God so if you can't feel it then feel unconditional love and gratitude to your beautiful creatures which loves you and support you every day. Once you love yourself you will find the love you are seeking 🙏🦋🦋🦋
@@agmag9970 that is such a beautiful way to look at it 🥺. Thank you so much, it touches me you took time out of your day to write that. Hope your having a wonderful day 💗
Only yes theory can make a video about going to a prison to do absolutely nothing and still tell a beautiful story, make me cry, laugh, and smile all at the same time ❤ love you guys and everyone who reads this comment.
I just wanted to thank Staffan very much for opening up about such a tough subject... Thank you for sharing Tim's story❤ He's proud of you Staffan! Tim is definitely watching over every time you see those lovely hearts❤
I definitely relate with what Staffan said about wanting to help people but being unable to ask for help myself. I haven't used betterhelp but I have used free therapy sessions my workplace provided me and they helped me a lot. Thank you for bringing that into topic! ❤ Greetings from Estonia! 🇪🇪
Every time Staffan opens up about something I feel a connection to him. I'd love to meet him in person someday. He's got truly compassionate and kind energy
This is so touching. Actual tears. Been struggling so much with mental health and finally starting to see the light all around me again. Thank you for this focus and your words in this - and to the family behind it. In awe. Blessing from Denmark.
Thank you for this. I’m a hospital worker in Japan and was part of a covid cluster, we were immediately whisked to a locked quarantine facility for 8 days with only the possessions we had taken to work that day. I forgot my phone charger:-/ 3 bento boxes a day, basically it was a nice hotel and we were locked alone in our room with the only personal contact a 2 minute check in phone call with a nurse every morning at 7am. It’s amazing how quickly your priorities change, looking forward to seeing what piece of fruit you will get with each meal and cherishing each tiny bite. We’re amazing, each and every one of us, we can do things, we can survive things that we cannot even imagine. Be well everyone.
The quote about the circle hit me hard, There are people in my life now that I feel I am just an option for them or just there for when they are bored, the backup person if that makes sense. It's hard to find people who genuinely have your back and treat you as part of the circle rather than the replacement
Know that you are worth more than a backup. Leave. You will find people who sees you as their person rather than some person to fill in. Remain Strong. Keep Kindness In Your Heart.
know that there are amazingly beautiful souls out there, just waiting to be met. You will find your tribe. Your vibe will attract them, trust. And don't settle for less. Sending love your way
it’s much easier said than done, but i was in your shoes just in March. I was around people who i wasn’t sure if they wanted to hang out, be my friend, etc. YOU SHOULD NEVER feel that way around people who truly care. it took a few months of reflecting and going on my own journey without any friends, but i eventually found some pretty frickin cool people that make such an effort to include me and make me feel wanted in the friend group. There are people out there that will appreciate you. A bottle of water can be free somewhere. it costs about $2 at shoprite. $.30 at costco. $10 at the airport. It’s not you, it’s the people and places around you that make you feel priceless or worthless. it’s your job to shift yourself out of a bad situation. I hope you can find better people to be your friends, i think you deserve it :)
The people of SK are some of the hardest working, KINDEST people on the planet. Truly a very special thing to see you filming there! it’s a country full to the brim with experiences that can refine you as a person and teach you so much. Endless things to do, see & eat lol. Please do more videos in SK, I miss that beautiful countryside. 💜
here's my own experience of what staffan was talking about. I think it all began when pandemic first came in to our country, which really changed me who i am now. i started to think more about myself, it turned into self-awareness and then into insecurities. i broke up with my girlfriend who i was with for almost 1 year and a half for personal reasons, and around the same time, my father died, because of cancer. i had problems with my friend, school, with the place i was staying. my mom was working abroad and i had no one to lean on. it lead me into thinking "suicide" as days went by. i was alone, i was scared, i was overthinking, the me from before wouldn't even care how he looks like whenever he goes outside. the me now will always care what the people around him think of him. i became someone who i never wanted to become. suicide thoughts was always on my mind. it never left me. up until now, im still struggling and still hoping that one day, i will be okay. yes theory, you may not read this or even see this, but i just want to let you know, you guys were one of the reasons why im still here.
I can't begin to express how badly i wished to be able to do the thing you guys do, the friendship, the adventures, the exploring of uncharted waters. Keep up the good work, Staffan du är en underbar människa
Thank you Staffan for being you. I know your friend Tim is really proud of you! I've been battling with the darkness myself and thank you for giving me a glimpse of light during this though times. I hope I can share more lights to the rest of the world one day again.
That was amazing staffan, so meaningful and made me cry. I’m from Sydney Australia and am currently travelling Europe and then moving to England. I have had many days of loneliness and know the struggles. These videos are so meaningful to me and love your guys work
Melbourne Australia I never ask for help. And I need it more than ever. But I feel weak if I admit I can't cope. Meanwhile, I love the idea of this 'prison'. No tech for 48 hours would be bliss. Love you guys and this channel. The work you do and the awareness, kindness and gentleness you bring is phenomenial. ❤
Moving to melbourne for uni soon, would like to make a friend because ive never moved countries let alone being all by myself and for education, im here if u wanna be friends and a support ❤️🥰
Dear brother. Thank you. I resonate so deeply with your message. My best friend of mine also took his life, 23 years ago. I wish he had that circle you described, rather than a cage.
Gospel of Jesus Christ. John 3:16 For God So loved the world that he gave his only Begotten Son that whosoever believes in Him should not Perish but have Everlasting Life. Jesus Christ Died on the Cross for all the sin of the World, and now we can be Forgiven of all of our sins and be washed clean by the Blood of Jesus Christ for our iniquities trespasses... now all you need to do is Repent of all of ur sins (Repent means Change ur Mind turning away from sinful things and being truly sorry with all ur heart, and if you Repent and still go back to sinful things nothing will happend but if you are truly serious Lord will change ur life forever) (example of repenting Father God I ask in Jesus Name please forgive me of all my Sins I acknowledge that im a sinful man/woman I am truly sorry and trust in Jesus that he lived suffered and died on the cross for me and my sins so I can be Forgiven was barried and that you rised him on the 3th day please wash me clean with the blood of Christ make in me a new heart that can love and forgive Lord change my desires change me Lord Jesus come into my life change everything about me make me a new creation fill me with ur HolySpirit...)is what sin is Romans 6:23 For the wages of sin is death, but the gift of eternal life in our Lord Jesus Christ. and the only way to heaven is Trough Jesus Christ there is no other way! John 14:6 I Am The Way The Truth And The Life No Man cometh to the Father Except Trough Me. and you are saved by Grace Trough Faith not by works, we cannot save urselfs from sin we don't get to go to heaven because we don't get to go to heaven because we are a Good People we are not!, we cannot earn ur salvation it is given to us as a Free Gift all we need to do is receive it! Romans 3:23 For All have sinned and Felt Short of the Glory of God. There is none Good but God!, 1 Corinthians 6:9-10: Or do you not know that wrongdoers will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: Neither the sexually immoral nor idolaters nor adulterers nor men who have sex with men nor thieves nor the greedy nor drunkards nor slanderers nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God. But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death. Revelation 21:8 KJV.
It's been a few years since I've watched the Yes Theory videos, but I'm so glad I came back to this one. Such a great perspective of living in the moment and finding clarity in oneself. 감사합니다 Thomas and the Yes Theory Fam.
Stefan, you are such a beautiful soul and opening up, being vulnerable is a gift, many people are missing these days. Here is a ♥ for you from Austria. I hope our paths cross at some point in this lifetime, I owe you a hug 😊
This video is everything to me today. The message of making time for yourself away from distractions, to your sponsor of better help, who I am hoping to become a therapist for when I finish my degree in a year and a half. Thank you for being my sign I am on the right track.
Stefan sharing his story about hearts is so awesome and heart wrenching. It’s so true and it sucks so bad to be lonely. For those who aren’t lonely, you’ll never know the torture of loneliness. It really is bad.
You have been missed fam! 🙌🏼 Thank you for coming back this strong! And thank you for the reminder Stefan, “if your circle of people is not lifting you up, it is not a circle it is a cage” ♥️
althogh it is unlikely anyy of you will see this, your videos never fail to spark hope in me, no matter what im feeling at the time. your story telling and your messages just fuel me with hope. These videos really help me to look at the positives in life, and as winter is around the corner and the seasonal depression is kicking in, these videos keep me going. There are going to be difficult times and you wont always be happy, but there is light at the end of a very dark tunnel. This channel saved me in a way i wouldnt imagine a youtube channel could. i am forever greatful for what you promote, and the amount of people you have saved. Thank you.
Hey Stephan, I loved hearing you talk about helping others and asking for help. I have been the recipient and the giver of help. It gets easier to ask when you practice and it makes giving help seem effortless. Volunteering is a wonderful way to find community if you feel lonely, great way to make friends. I found out I had cancer that was thankfully treatable. I invited 10 friends to a circle to talk about it and drink tea. We shared stories and set up a group text. Whenever I had a need, ride back from treatment, a pot of soup, walk for my dog, someone always picked up the slack. Now that text thread is still used for others who need support and I can give back! How cool is that?! Oh, I live in Colorado.
I have been watching youtube since 2014, found Yes Theory in June this year, around when I had a tough choice to make, binged watched their video, resonated with "Seek Discomfort" and made the decision to move back to my home country of India after growing up out of the country for 16 years and even more to the southern part of the country (place I have never been and it has a different culture, language and even weather). ALL ALONE. I am currently sitting in my hotel room, teared up because of steffan, alone and lonely, I wish i had someone to just hang out with. Steffan is right, I love to help but i guess this is the first time I am indirectly asking for help.
I have been in a similar situation to you. I moved to a completely new country by myself, I knew nobody. At one point, around Christmas by myself, I felt really low. I put in an active effort to speak to people and find friends and then I very quickly found kindness and offers. The next important thing I had to do was - in the spirit of this TH-cam channel actually - was say yes. Yes, I’ll go to your friend’s party. Yes, I’ll help at your charity this week. Yes, I’d love to come to Christmas dinner with your family. My life went from 0 to 100 and now I have a big and reliable friend network. And if I feel low, I know to reach out to them. Good luck in the future my friend, it’ll get better!
At the start of 2022, I decided I was too comfortable. I imagined later in life, looking back and regretting that I didn't take more risks when I was younger. After that, it's hard to describe what an adventure I went on. It's difficult, but as long as I remember why I'm doing it, I will keep going. I'm doing it so that I don't look back on my life and think "I played it safe. I wonder what an adventure it could've been." I hope this helps. Good luck on your adventure! Sending love ❤ from South Africa.
As an autistic person, I can firsthand understand the struggle of never truly feeling connected to other people and the loneliness and isolation that come along with it. Thank you, Staffan, for opening up and for looking out for those who feel alone in this world. 💜
I really needed to hear Staffan’s quote about having a circle of people you love. I currently am struggling finding friends or even being social in public. I’ve been working on life recently and being open is the hardest things. Thank you for this video. I’m over in Idaho, USA❤️
Hi Caylee! I’m actually experiencing such a similar situation to yours. Seeing it being written out by someone else makes me feel a lot less alone. Know that you should be proud of yourself for putting yourself out there because it can be really difficult. ❤ I’m also from the US a few states over in Minnesota!
I started on this journey with YesTheory several years ago. Every time I watch one of your videos it never fails to lift my spirits and keep me focused on how we as humans can get the most out of life 🥰Connection with ourselves and connection with others is the key to a happy life. Thank you for setting a great example and for challenging us to step out of our comfort zones to reap the rewards that are waiting us if we only dare to try something new. I am forever grateful! 🙏❤
Shout out to Stefan, I had a friend in high school who also took his own life, he was a very happy outward guy, I guess he hid something on the inside and never let it out, thanks for your story Stefan really helped. ❤❤❤
There are a lot of Tims out there. Be kind to one another. Some of us are feeling the deepest form of loneliness and don’t know how to get out. Staffan gave us a beautiful vulnerable moment. Thanks
Yes, Theory, I would like to thank you for everything you do. You are the best find in the pandemic for me. I lived vicariously through all of you. As someone who has lost her little brother at 28 my sister at 51 and unfortunately my nephew 26 to a self deletion. I can not tell you how much I appreciate this content, I have said it many times to my friends how lonely I am, and they just don't understand. I'm so glad you guys are addressing all the issues that are swept under the rug. This includes working too hard for too many hours not having time for your family. Not having time for yourself will destroy you. The line about if your circle is not a circle it's a cage hit home for me.
I miss you guys. It's been so long. Next year, I will be on a backpacking trip across South east Asia, and you all become my inspiration..... Love you❤
This channel is a very profound channel in the way you guys live life. You open up about your struggles and you find ways to overcome them, while bringing people in with you.
I normally don't do this, as it never gets me anywhere when I do. I'm in a really hard place right now, going through the hardest part of my life at 25 and I have nobody. Would just be nice to have a friend. Hope you have a good day
25 was a hard time for me, too. Just trying to figure out how to be an adult while in an abusive relationship that I fell into at 19. I felt so alone during those years. At 28, I finally met the person I would go on to marry and got the courage to get out of the "relationship" I was in. My husband and I met during each of our darkest times. We had both thought of ending ourselves during those difficult years. Fortunately we hung on. I sometimes look back on my twenties and feel angry, but then I remember I had to go through the storm before I could see the sun and the rainbow. You are not alone. Your feelings are valid. You are valuable. ❤
Find that friend in yourself, overcome your own mind and take each step closer to happiness, mindfully. Make a gratitude list and read it out loud each day, adding to it as you go through life.
After losing my mother at a young age due to the same circumstances Stephan was talking about it actually made me really happy to hear his thoughts about it and what he does to help other people, how sometimes the loss of loved ones can inspire us to help others and help ourselves, it is such a great and depressing moment for a person, but at the same time it is a great gift if you just look in the right spots, my mother loved birds, so I always think of her when birds land close to me, I have gotten way more aware of it afterwards. thank you for that Stephan, you're great guy and I am sure your friend would be proud too
Wow guys … this video had it all. The depth, the reflection, the goofyness and silliness, the inspiration. I am so glad that you got to have this profound experience, in a place where you may have least expected it. I once got locked up in a Thai field-hospital for 8 days (involuntarily) and ended up having a similar experience. In retrospect it was the best thing that could have happened to me at the time, and I am so grateful that it happened. Thank you for reminding us to slow down and go phoneless ever so often. To go inward and reflect. Thank you for being so open and vulnerable. Staffan, sending a massive hug your way ❤🤗. I am so happy that you found your tribe and that you get to notice and embrace the magic and miracles all around you ✨. To anyone reading this … whatever you are going through. Know that you are not alone. Know that you matter. Know that you are worthy. Know that you are enough. And know that you are loved. Sending you so much love
The irony of calling themselves Happiness Factory and they lock you in a cell, love it! I find sometimes the lack of options is actually a form of freedom :P
I realized near the end that this actually something similar to what I've envisioned having. A retreat in the country, with lots of silence, community time and no phones. I just don't know if I can ever do it
@@sackettfamily4685 There are actually many such retreats and are growing in popularity. If it's too much to create on your own, you can always collaborate with others
I'm watching from St Francis Co Arkansas. Reaching out for help does not come easy at all! I'm blessed to have really good, supportive friends. I love watching y'all's videos!!❤
From Tennessee USA, I could be having the worst day buy when I watch these amazing guys it goes away very quick. Thank you guys for the videos and uplifting stories. PEACE AND LOVE to you all and all the amazing fans.
Damn Staffan, stop speaking to me so directly! I never ask for help, even though I need a lot of it, while helping my friends as much as I can. To me I only exist to bring joy to others, as otherwise I don't have a purpose. I'm unable to work because of my autism. I became a shut-in because I have such a hard time with people. I tried to "game over" myself years ago, but someone brought joy into my life a little bit every day. And that's when I realized that being that someone for somebody else is my life's purpose. Through the internet I can help people let go of their struggles for a short moment. That's all I need to be happy, or at least I think so. Hi from Switzerland btw~
Yea their lives are miserable for sure. Not the way to live at all, but I can see why they once acted this way to lift their country and culture out of the 3rd world and into the industrial age. HUGE props to them for doing that, but now its past time they back off and calm down and relax a lot more, after we help them annihilate N Korea that is. Then again they should not be resting when they could be killed any day at any time as they are still technically at war yet often don't act like it. Asians in general work way to hard that's why most asian countries have very high suicide rates in the cities, to the point that factories have had to put fences and nets around the roofs and lock windows because people where jumping to their deaths constantly, like weekly in some places. Asian cultures are both amazing and honorable, and twisted, slave like, and broken at the same time.
I am deeply grateful that I found you guys, this channel. I feel like every journey, you took me with you and gave me something beautiful to cherish. Fills my heart with butterflies.
I’m going with my wife to Mauritius from 20 oct till 17th of Nov. I noticed that you guys have never recorded anything there before. So ehm will you join us there for a couple of days? You know there is this philosophy called yes theory which encourages you to do crazy things and say yes to strangers 😄 so I’m counting on you seeking a new discomfort in the Indian Ocean🙃 We’ve been binge watching all of your videos for the last week because of all the great energy you give in the videos. It’s just crazy how you manage to find the right person every time. Great work you’re doing and we hope that you can achieve more. We share Ammar’s past with him since we come from the same country ;) and I really think Staffan is an amazing addition to the channel. Here is a ❤ for you my friend. As for this video, I used to do this in the past. Might end up doing it soon and turn off the phone. Used to do it for months at a time hahaha. Anyways, this trip for Mauritius is technically our real honeymoon (been married for a year) but it’s a very special trip for us as it is the first time ever that we both travel and pay for our trip ourselves! I know it’s a long shot but come to Mauritius. It’s gonna be cyclone season you will love it! 😇
Those words resonated with me Stephan. Just lost one of my best friends the same way weeks ago. Four days before his funeral I asked him how he was in life, he said he was doing good, getting along well. It breaks my heart and soul that some people just feel like they can’t reach out even when there’s a hand reaching for them. To anyone reading this, please reach out to someone if you don’t know where to turn. I know it’s hard, didn’t even want to reach out in my past but I’m glad I did. Much love
I am incredibly envious of the friendship you all share. The fact that you do actually lift each other up and encourage each other to be your whole true selves. My life situation has isolated me and made it very hard for me break free of isolation.
You guys are awesome, wholehearted and pure🙏🏻thank you for your service to this planet and for inspiring millions to join forces and make it easier for everyone to have a good experience while on earth❤
Staffan you are such a truly beautiful human being. Thomas, without you and your curious nature, none of this would have ever happened or been possible. Thank you for another wonderfully inspirational experience. Much love 💜
I feel bad to say this but had no choice.. So yes need help right now.. Lost my home and everything I had recently and now got my hand injured and doc say need to get a surgery but the cost is too high so.. Had to cancel it.. Being injured and not having the money to get treatment is one worst had to face in this life..🙂 I hope everyone's doesn't go through the same.. Take care❤❤❤❤
Hi I’m from Virginia I’m 16 and I found in this video, that I do help more people then ask people to help me. I’ve been watching yes theory for around 3 years and your channel has always and will find me comfort for the things I go through I love you guys and always will
Stefan is finally a part of Yes Theory for me, been sorta awkward about it but after this vid I will not. Welcome to Yes Theory Stefan. Keep doing your thing. Cheers! 💯
Beautiful words from Thomas and Staffan as always! Thank you Yes Theory team! As Staffan suggested, messaging here to find my people: hey guys, I'm Jon! I used to be a corporate lawyer but I quit to pursue my true calling of going on adventures and helping others through video storytelling. I'm currently completing a bucket list in the UK/Europe, reach out if you want to go on an adventure together! :) Sending love to you all!
Hey Staffan & Thomas, I am from New Delhi, India I have been following yes theory since last year and I really appreciate your vlogs and efforts you guys put on, I would like to be the part of your community because I would be honest to you guys I really love communicate and talk to people. I would be glad to be the part of your team and community. I hope one day I could meet you one days. I would like to share you my story, when I was going through tough times and feeling stressed I found your page in TH-cam and trust me, some of your stories are so inspiring I felt so positive since then I am watching you guys. Thanks for creating such a good vlogs and videos. Thanks and Regards Arnav Sen I hope you guys acknowledge it 💙✨
Not a video goes by you guys where I just don't get emotionally moved, I live in Iowa of the US and sometimes it's hard to feel connected to people when living in a small town area in Iowa. Steffan opening up this episode really got to me this time and just makes me want to find others around me. One day I hope to be able to go on journeys across the world like y'all, it just really motivates me when I see all the genuine and real people you come across over the years. I've yet to even travel on a plan, but the day I get to finally make that leap I know the ones who helped me find my path was Yes! Theory. Legit just tearing up writing this, the genuine emotions you guys display just serious have a way of moving not just me but people across the world. Thank you for being such a shining beacon of light for people across the globe!
This is a good idea. I did a few years in the feds and got sent to the SHU (the hole) for a couple weeks. It was intense. Regular time is kinda easy depending on the facility your in but the SHU is a whole (pardon the pun) different story. I learnt a lot about myself. And now back in the real world, I have become more of a recluse. But for those that have to do a real amount time in there, I feel for them. You’re never the same. Some people have done years. It’s cruel.
I hope you guys do more videos in Korea! I cannot afford to travel there (its my dream destination), so i hope to live vicariously through you guys! Also Staffan is my idol. He is such a pure soul. I manifest only good things for him and the rest of the YesTheory family
If you have enough money for a flight ticket you can stay at my place for free! I have an Airbnb that is usually fully booked but I can afford to let someone stay for free for a week or two 🤗
Hi. I'm Twaambo from Zambia.This was so touching.... Steffan you are brave for talking about your friend and the topic about asking for help. I tried taking my life a month and 2 weeks ago. Not asking for help is my biggest demon. And Im no where near recovered but I am on my way. It's been super super hard. I have been hit with challenge after challenge and just 2 days ago i was involved in a car accident which has mentally set me back a couple of steps. I have a New trauma for cars that i didnt have 48hrs ago. But i chose to click on this video and honestly i have cried so much. This video is so timely for me. Thank you both ❤
Stopping midway to just Thankyou Stefan for opening up, sharing your experience and thoughts which is so relatable. - the circle being a circle that’s uplifting or a cage as well as the irony of feeling alone when we are a world of millions of people and easier to help vs asking for help. Thankyou!!💗for you!
When I was 16, I spent almost 2 months in 23 hour a day lockdown while waiting for trial. I read books for days straight and had the craziest lucid dreaming where I was in the setting of the books I was reading. It really does something to your mind, and it made me realize I did not want to spend another minute being incarcerated. This Korean prison doesn't seem so bad though! At the very least you have privacy on the toilet! 😂
Thank you yea theory for changing my life. Ive been a fan of your channel for a long time now. And everytime the term “seek discomfort” is said, it as motivated me more and more too get out there and live. My adhd and depression have really effected my mental health and even my will to live. I have thought of suicide many times in my past. Over the past 6 months i have been trying to figure out myself and learn about my mind and how i work. I always have been a shy quiet kid and i would always hide my fave or blush when i would see a pretty girl. Ive wanted to ask this girl out for so long but i could never get to it. I always thought i looked ugly or that no one liked me. But thats not true. Ive been battling myself this whole time and i just never knew it. Your videos truly made me change my perspective on life. So i decided to “seek discomfort” and try and ask out this girl. And we have been in a happy relationship for like 8 months. Thank you yes theory for helping me overcome depression and anxiety. You will always be my favorite youtubers. Keep up the great work. I love you all.
Never have I ever asked anyone for help. I'm a man. Asian man. Never will. Never can. It's stressful. It's even kinda depressing at times, but it is what it is. And ive accepted it.
Thanks Staffan, for the words i often find myself in the dilemma of asking for help. I find myself alone amidst all the people around me. I help everyone motivate them for when they are low or i sense a negative energy in them but when i am at my worst i feels so isolated and crumbling within myself , my anxiety starts to kick in my breath feels heavy i want to shout or talk but i can't. There is only silence, watching yes theory makes me feel a bit more relaxed.
Everytime Staffan opens up or talks about his past experiences and relationships with others, I can relate. Let's appreciate the good people around us and let them know that we love them. Life is short we should learn to live it in the most healthy way from all aspects with the most loved ones.
Hey everyone!! We’ve been gone but we’re back for a packed season!! In August we always take a few weeks off to rest, but since we got back we’ve been scheming, filming and editing non-stop. We’ve got several episodes in the can and many more coming. A lot of surprises in the coming months.. much to look forward to. We’re so excited to be back!! Can anyone guess which countries we’ll travel to this season? 🤓
- Thomas
North Korea, Kenya, Austria, Mexico and China
Come to Kenya please 🇰🇪
Better research Better Help before using them. Sad that all these TH-camrs promote such a shady company. Way worse than established titles. Disappointed that he either doesn't research his sponsor or worse... he just doesn't care.
Kenya , South Africa
G'morning
Thanks Staffan for opening up and being vulnerable. Here's one for you ❤
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As someone who also lost someone too young, here’s one for you Stephen (sorry if I spelled your name wrong) ❤ ❤
@@spulwasser very kind of you
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I agree Steffan, thank you for sharing about your friend. I missed my uncle's cry for help, and a couple of days later, he committed suicide. I promised myself that I would never miss the signs again, so I'm constantly being attentive to people's words and asking them how they're doing. Helping those that are struggling get connected to our counselor at work. I work in q hospital so you can imagine the state of burnout a lot of our staff have been experiencing.
"If your circle of people is not lifting you up, it is not a circle it is a cage" ~ Stefan 2023
@@mostpplarezombies Staffan*
Great quote! That hit me hard as well!
Nipsey Hussle* the late rapper 1985-2019 created this saying
When i heard him say that I was mind blown 🤯 he’s so inspirational ❤
@@srirachaaaathey listen to rap over there and their stars get their inspiration from it too.
It’s beautiful how Stephan said:
“People tend to want to help but are not willing to ask for help”
💙💙
Thank You
sometimes we should ask for help❤
I am seriously in awe of Staffan’s spirit. Whoever gets to cross his path is a very lucky person.
Gospel of Jesus Christ. John 3:16 For God So loved the world that he gave his only Begotten Son that whosoever believes in Him should not Perish but have Everlasting Life. Jesus Christ Died on the Cross for all the sin of the World, and now we can be Forgiven of all of our sins and be washed clean by the Blood of Jesus Christ for our iniquities trespasses... now all you need to do is Repent of all of ur sins (Repent means Change ur Mind turning away from sinful things and being truly sorry with all ur heart, and if you Repent and still go back to sinful things nothing will happend but if you are truly serious Lord will change ur life forever) (example of repenting Father God I ask in Jesus Name please forgive me of all my Sins I acknowledge that im a sinful man/woman I am truly sorry and trust in Jesus that he lived suffered and died on the cross for me and my sins so I can be Forgiven was barried and that you rised him on the 3th day please wash me clean with the blood of Christ make in me a new heart that can love and forgive Lord change my desires change me Lord Jesus come into my life change everything about me make me a new creation fill me with ur HolySpirit...)is what sin is Romans 6:23 For the wages of sin is death, but the gift of eternal life in our Lord Jesus Christ. and the only way to heaven is Trough Jesus Christ there is no other way! John 14:6 I Am The Way The Truth And The Life No Man cometh to the Father Except Trough Me. and you are saved by Grace Trough Faith not by works, we cannot save urselfs from sin we don't get to go to heaven because
we don't get to go to heaven because we are a Good People we are not!, we cannot earn ur salvation it is given to us as a Free Gift all we need to do is receive it! Romans 3:23 For All have sinned and Felt Short of the Glory of God. There is none Good but God!, 1 Corinthians 6:9-10: Or do you not know that wrongdoers will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: Neither the sexually immoral nor idolaters nor adulterers nor men who have sex with men nor thieves nor the greedy nor drunkards nor slanderers nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God. But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.
Revelation 21:8 KJV.
The glazing is crazy
The heads poking out just to chat was the cutest moment ever. What a beautiful, individual experience for two friends to be able to share in a way.
Stefan is such a good guy, I adore his energy and that he sees hearts everywhere and hands out hearts 😢
staffan is genuinely one of the best people i have ever seen in real life or online. he lives for other people and the joy that comes out of love, respect, and openness. every time i see him talk he impacts my life positively
Now imagine what a real, lengthy prison sentence will do to your mind.
it is a bit different cause you do get time outside the cell a lot
@@tzuyology I have Asperger's. I was arrested and spent 6 months in solitary confinement, with no outside time. I had several meltdowns which led to staff beatings daily for two weeks until it was confirmed I have Asperger's. Finally released after it was found that I committed no crime. Later diagnosed with MDD, SAD, and PTSD.
Worst experience of my life.
@@jc71480 that’s insane, so so sorry you had to experience that.
Exact same thought crossed my mind during this video. Also made me think about how prisons in the USA tend to have no windows in the inmate cell which would make someone just go crazy
@@tzuyology Also you don't need to be a clown for your youtube audience 😂
Stef your words really ressonate with me as I sit here crying. I lost my 16 year old son to suicide due to mental health issues due to the pressures of society. You are so right when we find the circle of people that makes us grow and allow us to be ourselves. Big love and keep giving hearts
Barnabe (Portugal.France.UK)
Hi, did they delete that part of the video? Checking the comments I find that many are referring to Steffan opening up, yet, didnt see any of that
Honestly Stefan has been such a great addition to yes theory from day 1 hes so open and always willing to try new things
This channel is the reason I left the comfort of staying with my parents to move to a state I had never visited (New Hampshire) to take a new addition to my career path (teaching financial literacy in addition to financial advising) to interact with people in a culture I have not had much of any experience before (a semi-rural area instead of the cities I grew up in).
I cannot say if this position was the smartest choice financially. Nor has it been easy so far. But it is in part due to the messages of this channel that I have continued to push myself further. Better.
My first experience with this channel was back when I was 17 (I am now 24), where I decided to strike up a conversation with the people in the 3 hour line with me at the DMV in Pasadena, California. This channel is why I try to talk to my neighbors on any flight. Allowing me to feel comfortable with interacting with the world.
Thank you to the Yes Theory team.
Good for you!. The world was very different when I was your age no cell phones & no internet, I'm on the spectrum, I had to watch my mother to learn the benefits of talking to people but there are many. I had to push myself to do new things but now I am so glad I did. Best of luck to you, your quiet kind of bravery does not get enough credit.
Thank you Staffan for being so vulnerable. I am Ethan from Birmingham, Alabama, USA and I definitely am not good at asking for help. Your vulnerability gave me a lot to reflect on.
Staffan, if the moment when you met Thomas and Tommy in Sweden is your best day ever in your life, that moment was also my best experience as a YES Theory audience. I love every episode you're in, your words always and always enlighten me. Thank you Staffan, and this ❣️ for you :)
been crying for 3 days straight as ive felt a sense of lonliness thats never been this strong before. I desparately needed this. We love you so much Staffan
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Find love within you and you will understand that you are never alone and you are the love. 3 is powerful number and seems to resonate with you. You are supporting so many organisms living within you and for them you are the God so if you can't feel it then feel unconditional love and gratitude to your beautiful creatures which loves you and support you every day. Once you love yourself you will find the love you are seeking 🙏🦋🦋🦋
@@agmag9970 that is such a beautiful way to look at it 🥺. Thank you so much, it touches me you took time out of your day to write that. Hope your having a wonderful day 💗
Only yes theory can make a video about going to a prison to do absolutely nothing and still tell a beautiful story, make me cry, laugh, and smile all at the same time ❤ love you guys and everyone who reads this comment.
I just wanted to thank Staffan very much for opening up about such a tough subject... Thank you for sharing Tim's story❤ He's proud of you Staffan! Tim is definitely watching over every time you see those lovely hearts❤
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Did they delete that part of the video?
I definitely relate with what Staffan said about wanting to help people but being unable to ask for help myself. I haven't used betterhelp but I have used free therapy sessions my workplace provided me and they helped me a lot. Thank you for bringing that into topic! ❤
Greetings from Estonia! 🇪🇪
I'd love to go to Estonia soon, such a neat looking country. Hello from Wales 🏴
I loved being in Estonia last year such a beautiful, old and at the same time modern country with a huge history ❤
Be careful with betterhelp they have really weird practices.
Alati küsi abi , isegi kui sa ei julge , sest kunagi sa ei tea kes sult abi vajab , sest samamoodi ei julge sinult seda küsida.
Every time Staffan opens up about something I feel a connection to him. I'd love to meet him in person someday. He's got truly compassionate and kind energy
This is so touching. Actual tears. Been struggling so much with mental health and finally starting to see the light all around me again. Thank you for this focus and your words in this - and to the family behind it. In awe. Blessing from Denmark.
Thank you for this. I’m a hospital worker in Japan and was part of a covid cluster, we were immediately whisked to a locked quarantine facility for 8 days with only the possessions we had taken to work that day. I forgot my phone charger:-/ 3 bento boxes a day, basically it was a nice hotel and we were locked alone in our room with the only personal contact a 2 minute check in phone call with a nurse every morning at 7am. It’s amazing how quickly your priorities change, looking forward to seeing what piece of fruit you will get with each meal and cherishing each tiny bite. We’re amazing, each and every one of us, we can do things, we can survive things that we cannot even imagine. Be well everyone.
Is this kind of prison volunteer available in Japan?
The quote about the circle hit me hard, There are people in my life now that I feel I am just an option for them or just there for when they are bored, the backup person if that makes sense. It's hard to find people who genuinely have your back and treat you as part of the circle rather than the replacement
Leave them
Know that you are worth more than a backup. Leave. You will find people who sees you as their person rather than some person to fill in.
Remain Strong. Keep Kindness In Your Heart.
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know that there are amazingly beautiful souls out there, just waiting to be met. You will find your tribe. Your vibe will attract them, trust. And don't settle for less. Sending love your way
it’s much easier said than done, but i was in your shoes just in March. I was around people who i wasn’t sure if they wanted to hang out, be my friend, etc. YOU SHOULD NEVER feel that way around people who truly care. it took a few months of reflecting and going on my own journey without any friends, but i eventually found some pretty frickin cool people that make such an effort to include me and make me feel wanted in the friend group. There are people out there that will appreciate you. A bottle of water can be free somewhere. it costs about $2 at shoprite. $.30 at costco. $10 at the airport. It’s not you, it’s the people and places around you that make you feel priceless or worthless. it’s your job to shift yourself out of a bad situation. I hope you can find better people to be your friends, i think you deserve it :)
The people of SK are some of the hardest working, KINDEST people on the planet. Truly a very special thing to see you filming there! it’s a country full to the brim with experiences that can refine you as a person and teach you so much. Endless things to do, see & eat lol. Please do more videos in SK, I miss that beautiful countryside. 💜
here's my own experience of what staffan was talking about.
I think it all began when pandemic first came in to our country, which really changed me who i am now. i started to think more about myself, it turned into self-awareness and then into insecurities. i broke up with my girlfriend who i was with for almost 1 year and a half for personal reasons, and around the same time, my father died, because of cancer. i had problems with my friend, school, with the place i was staying. my mom was working abroad and i had no one to lean on. it lead me into thinking "suicide" as days went by. i was alone, i was scared, i was overthinking, the me from before wouldn't even care how he looks like whenever he goes outside. the me now will always care what the people around him think of him. i became someone who i never wanted to become. suicide thoughts was always on my mind. it never left me. up until now, im still struggling and still hoping that one day, i will be okay. yes theory, you may not read this or even see this, but i just want to let you know, you guys were one of the reasons why im still here.
I'm glad you're alive bro. Never give up
if you'd like to talk about it then you can talk to me bro
Keep on fighting and don't ever give up❤
Hello! I see you and I'm just like you. We'll get through this, i know we can.
Staffan you made me cry, but all in good note.😭 Thomas pushing his head through the door to call he bff is the cutest thing ever.😂😂❤❤
I can't begin to express how badly i wished to be able to do the thing you guys do, the friendship, the adventures, the exploring of uncharted waters. Keep up the good work, Staffan du är en underbar människa
You can do it
You're making good video's, keep up the good work, so here's a bonus🎉
Give this comment a heart
you could have bought me cheetos with that
@@NaritesAre they that expensive
Thx for all the great videos 👍
Thank you Staffan for being you. I know your friend Tim is really proud of you! I've been battling with the darkness myself and thank you for giving me a glimpse of light during this though times. I hope I can share more lights to the rest of the world one day again.
That was amazing staffan, so meaningful and made me cry. I’m from Sydney Australia and am currently travelling Europe and then moving to England. I have had many days of loneliness and know the struggles. These videos are so meaningful to me and love your guys work
Melbourne Australia
I never ask for help. And I need it more than ever. But I feel weak if I admit I can't cope.
Meanwhile, I love the idea of this 'prison'. No tech for 48 hours would be bliss.
Love you guys and this channel.
The work you do and the awareness, kindness and gentleness you bring is phenomenial.
❤
you need a heart 🤲♥
A fellow Aussie!
Sending you hugs 🫂 you’re not alone.
Moving to melbourne for uni soon, would like to make a friend because ive never moved countries let alone being all by myself and for education, im here if u wanna be friends and a support ❤️🥰
Dear brother. Thank you. I resonate so deeply with your message. My best friend of mine also took his life, 23 years ago. I wish he had that circle you described, rather than a cage.
❤
Gospel of Jesus Christ. John 3:16 For God So loved the world that he gave his only Begotten Son that whosoever believes in Him should not Perish but have Everlasting Life. Jesus Christ Died on the Cross for all the sin of the World, and now we can be Forgiven of all of our sins and be washed clean by the Blood of Jesus Christ for our iniquities trespasses... now all you need to do is Repent of all of ur sins (Repent means Change ur Mind turning away from sinful things and being truly sorry with all ur heart, and if you Repent and still go back to sinful things nothing will happend but if you are truly serious Lord will change ur life forever) (example of repenting Father God I ask in Jesus Name please forgive me of all my Sins I acknowledge that im a sinful man/woman I am truly sorry and trust in Jesus that he lived suffered and died on the cross for me and my sins so I can be Forgiven was barried and that you rised him on the 3th day please wash me clean with the blood of Christ make in me a new heart that can love and forgive Lord change my desires change me Lord Jesus come into my life change everything about me make me a new creation fill me with ur HolySpirit...)is what sin is Romans 6:23 For the wages of sin is death, but the gift of eternal life in our Lord Jesus Christ. and the only way to heaven is Trough Jesus Christ there is no other way! John 14:6 I Am The Way The Truth And The Life No Man cometh to the Father Except Trough Me. and you are saved by Grace Trough Faith not by works, we cannot save urselfs from sin we don't get to go to heaven because
we don't get to go to heaven because we are a Good People we are not!, we cannot earn ur salvation it is given to us as a Free Gift all we need to do is receive it! Romans 3:23 For All have sinned and Felt Short of the Glory of God. There is none Good but God!, 1 Corinthians 6:9-10: Or do you not know that wrongdoers will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: Neither the sexually immoral nor idolaters nor adulterers nor men who have sex with men nor thieves nor the greedy nor drunkards nor slanderers nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God. But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.
Revelation 21:8 KJV.
It's been a few years since I've watched the Yes Theory videos, but I'm so glad I came back to this one. Such a great perspective of living in the moment and finding clarity in oneself. 감사합니다 Thomas and the Yes Theory Fam.
Stefan, you are such a beautiful soul and opening up, being vulnerable is a gift, many people are missing these days. Here is a ♥ for you from Austria. I hope our paths cross at some point in this lifetime, I owe you a hug 😊
This video is everything to me today. The message of making time for yourself away from distractions, to your sponsor of better help, who I am hoping to become a therapist for when I finish my degree in a year and a half. Thank you for being my sign I am on the right track.
Stefan sharing his story about hearts is so awesome and heart wrenching. It’s so true and it sucks so bad to be lonely. For those who aren’t lonely, you’ll never know the torture of loneliness. It really is bad.
You have been missed fam! 🙌🏼 Thank you for coming back this strong!
And thank you for the reminder Stefan, “if your circle of people is not lifting you up, it is not a circle it is a cage” ♥️
althogh it is unlikely anyy of you will see this, your videos never fail to spark hope in me, no matter what im feeling at the time. your story telling and your messages just fuel me with hope. These videos really help me to look at the positives in life, and as winter is around the corner and the seasonal depression is kicking in, these videos keep me going. There are going to be difficult times and you wont always be happy, but there is light at the end of a very dark tunnel. This channel saved me in a way i wouldnt imagine a youtube channel could. i am forever greatful for what you promote, and the amount of people you have saved. Thank you.
Hey Stephan, I loved hearing you talk about helping others and asking for help. I have been the recipient and the giver of help. It gets easier to ask when you practice and it makes giving help seem effortless. Volunteering is a wonderful way to find community if you feel lonely, great way to make friends.
I found out I had cancer that was thankfully treatable. I invited 10 friends to a circle to talk about it and drink tea. We shared stories and set up a group text. Whenever I had a need, ride back from treatment, a pot of soup, walk for my dog, someone always picked up the slack. Now that text thread is still used for others who need support and I can give back! How cool is that?! Oh, I live in Colorado.
I love my state.
I have been watching youtube since 2014, found Yes Theory in June this year, around when I had a tough choice to make, binged watched their video, resonated with "Seek Discomfort" and made the decision to move back to my home country of India after growing up out of the country for 16 years and even more to the southern part of the country (place I have never been and it has a different culture, language and even weather). ALL ALONE. I am currently sitting in my hotel room, teared up because of steffan, alone and lonely, I wish i had someone to just hang out with. Steffan is right, I love to help but i guess this is the first time I am indirectly asking for help.
Damn
What have you been up to today? And is there anyone that you met today that you’d want to get to know?
I have been in a similar situation to you. I moved to a completely new country by myself, I knew nobody. At one point, around Christmas by myself, I felt really low. I put in an active effort to speak to people and find friends and then I very quickly found kindness and offers. The next important thing I had to do was - in the spirit of this TH-cam channel actually - was say yes. Yes, I’ll go to your friend’s party. Yes, I’ll help at your charity this week. Yes, I’d love to come to Christmas dinner with your family. My life went from 0 to 100 and now I have a big and reliable friend network. And if I feel low, I know to reach out to them. Good luck in the future my friend, it’ll get better!
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At the start of 2022, I decided I was too comfortable. I imagined later in life, looking back and regretting that I didn't take more risks when I was younger.
After that, it's hard to describe what an adventure I went on. It's difficult, but as long as I remember why I'm doing it, I will keep going. I'm doing it so that I don't look back on my life and think "I played it safe. I wonder what an adventure it could've been."
I hope this helps. Good luck on your adventure! Sending love ❤ from South Africa.
this video was so wholesome, we are so glad you guys found Steffan and welcomed him in bc now I couldn’t imagine Yes Theory without him ❤️
Beautiful words Staffan, really happy you found YesTheory and big props to them for being so great!
Such an inspirational vid. Loved every aspect about it. It changed my vision about certain things. Thanks, for real.
As an autistic person, I can firsthand understand the struggle of never truly feeling connected to other people and the loneliness and isolation that come along with it. Thank you, Staffan, for opening up and for looking out for those who feel alone in this world. 💜
I really needed to hear Staffan’s quote about having a circle of people you love. I currently am struggling finding friends or even being social in public. I’ve been working on life recently and being open is the hardest things. Thank you for this video. I’m over in Idaho, USA❤️
Start a gratitude list and be happy for life. 🎉
Hi Caylee! I’m actually experiencing such a similar situation to yours. Seeing it being written out by someone else makes me feel a lot less alone. Know that you should be proud of yourself for putting yourself out there because it can be really difficult. ❤ I’m also from the US a few states over in Minnesota!
stefan just continues to impress me with his insight and wisdom. so thankful he is part of the yes fam!
Staffan, that was a beautiful message and moment we all get to witness. Thank you for being you. I got nothing but ❤ for you
I started on this journey with YesTheory several years ago. Every time I watch one of your videos it never fails to lift my spirits and keep me focused on how we as humans can get the most out of life 🥰Connection with ourselves and connection with others is the key to a happy life. Thank you for setting a great example and for challenging us to step out of our comfort zones to reap the rewards that are waiting us if we only dare to try something new. I am forever grateful! 🙏❤
Shout out to Stefan, I had a friend in high school who also took his own life, he was a very happy outward guy, I guess he hid something on the inside and never let it out, thanks for your story Stefan really helped. ❤❤❤
There are a lot of Tims out there. Be kind to one another. Some of us are feeling the deepest form of loneliness and don’t know how to get out. Staffan gave us a beautiful vulnerable moment. Thanks
Yes, Theory, I would like to thank you for everything you do. You are the best find in the pandemic for me. I lived vicariously through all of you.
As someone who has lost her little brother at 28 my sister at 51 and unfortunately my nephew 26 to a self deletion. I can not tell you how much I appreciate this content, I have said it many times to my friends how lonely I am, and they just don't understand. I'm so glad you guys are addressing all the issues that are swept under the rug. This includes working too hard for too many hours not having time for your family. Not having time for yourself will destroy you.
The line about if your circle is not a circle it's a cage hit home for me.
It’s been a month without a video from you guys. This feels like a breath of fresh air after a whole month😭. Thankkk youuuuu🥺❤️
Love watching them
Nice Stephan, really hits home. Come by if you are ever just north of Nashville.
Staffan, det är fint att se fragment av din personliga utveckling från den första videon som du medverkade i till idag och framåt. Njut av resan!
I miss you guys. It's been so long. Next year, I will be on a backpacking trip across South east Asia, and you all become my inspiration..... Love you❤
Don't break the law or you will find a different prison
Safe trip bro.
@joel144 Thank you bro...
This channel is a very profound channel in the way you guys live life. You open up about your struggles and you find ways to overcome them, while bringing people in with you.
I normally don't do this, as it never gets me anywhere when I do. I'm in a really hard place right now, going through the hardest part of my life at 25 and I have nobody. Would just be nice to have a friend. Hope you have a good day
25 was a hard time for me, too. Just trying to figure out how to be an adult while in an abusive relationship that I fell into at 19. I felt so alone during those years. At 28, I finally met the person I would go on to marry and got the courage to get out of the "relationship" I was in. My husband and I met during each of our darkest times. We had both thought of ending ourselves during those difficult years. Fortunately we hung on. I sometimes look back on my twenties and feel angry, but then I remember I had to go through the storm before I could see the sun and the rainbow. You are not alone. Your feelings are valid. You are valuable. ❤
Find that friend in yourself, overcome your own mind and take each step closer to happiness, mindfully. Make a gratitude list and read it out loud each day, adding to it as you go through life.
After losing my mother at a young age due to the same circumstances Stephan was talking about it actually made me really happy to hear his thoughts about it and what he does to help other people, how sometimes the loss of loved ones can inspire us to help others and help ourselves, it is such a great and depressing moment for a person, but at the same time it is a great gift if you just look in the right spots, my mother loved birds, so I always think of her when birds land close to me, I have gotten way more aware of it afterwards.
thank you for that Stephan, you're great guy and I am sure your friend would be proud too
Wisconsin USA over here. I agree with Staffan 100%. What the world needs right now is more heart to heart connections.
Wow guys … this video had it all. The depth, the reflection, the goofyness and silliness, the inspiration. I am so glad that you got to have this profound experience, in a place where you may have least expected it. I once got locked up in a Thai field-hospital for 8 days (involuntarily) and ended up having a similar experience. In retrospect it was the best thing that could have happened to me at the time, and I am so grateful that it happened.
Thank you for reminding us to slow down and go phoneless ever so often. To go inward and reflect.
Thank you for being so open and vulnerable. Staffan, sending a massive hug your way ❤🤗. I am so happy that you found your tribe and that you get to notice and embrace the magic and miracles all around you ✨.
To anyone reading this … whatever you are going through. Know that you are not alone. Know that you matter. Know that you are worthy. Know that you are enough. And know that you are loved. Sending you so much love
The irony of calling themselves Happiness Factory and they lock you in a cell, love it! I find sometimes the lack of options is actually a form of freedom :P
I realized near the end that this actually something similar to what I've envisioned having. A retreat in the country, with lots of silence, community time and no phones. I just don't know if I can ever do it
@@sackettfamily4685 There are actually many such retreats and are growing in popularity. If it's too much to create on your own, you can always collaborate with others
Why not just do a vipassana retreat? 😂 or just practice more conscious phone use?
that was THE BEST VIDEO I`VE EVER SEEN IN MY LIFE, made the most change in my mind immediately.
Yes People need to open their hearts more, we all need it.
I'm watching from St Francis Co Arkansas. Reaching out for help does not come easy at all! I'm blessed to have really good, supportive friends. I love watching y'all's videos!!❤
From Tennessee USA, I could be having the worst day buy when I watch these amazing guys it goes away very quick. Thank you guys for the videos and uplifting stories. PEACE AND LOVE to you all and all the amazing fans.
Damn Staffan, stop speaking to me so directly!
I never ask for help, even though I need a lot of it, while helping my friends as much as I can. To me I only exist to bring joy to others, as otherwise I don't have a purpose. I'm unable to work because of my autism. I became a shut-in because I have such a hard time with people. I tried to "game over" myself years ago, but someone brought joy into my life a little bit every day. And that's when I realized that being that someone for somebody else is my life's purpose. Through the internet I can help people let go of their struggles for a short moment. That's all I need to be happy, or at least I think so.
Hi from Switzerland btw~
Bless you! Keep your head up and just keep going. Everyone is unique and has a purpose here.
Where in Switzerland? I'm planning on moving there.
I don't think I could take the hours of silence, how difficult the Korean work culture must be if this was created as a way to get away from it
Yea their lives are miserable for sure.
Not the way to live at all, but I can see why they once acted this way to lift their country and culture out of the 3rd world and into the industrial age.
HUGE props to them for doing that, but now its past time they back off and calm down and relax a lot more, after we help them annihilate N Korea that is.
Then again they should not be resting when they could be killed any day at any time as they are still technically at war yet often don't act like it.
Asians in general work way to hard that's why most asian countries have very high suicide rates in the cities, to the point that factories have had to put fences and nets around the roofs and lock windows because people where jumping to their deaths constantly, like weekly in some places.
Asian cultures are both amazing and honorable, and twisted, slave like, and broken at the same time.
Johnny Somali be like:
lol my thoughts exactly.
I came here for perspective
Literally
Same... Hello from Serb
Staffan is such a kind soul I love him
I'm so grateful for Staffan every time I hear him speak 🙏 I'm from South Africa 🇿🇦
I am deeply grateful that I found you guys, this channel. I feel like every journey, you took me with you and gave me something beautiful to cherish. Fills my heart with butterflies.
I’m going with my wife to Mauritius from 20 oct till 17th of Nov.
I noticed that you guys have never recorded anything there before. So ehm will you join us there for a couple of days?
You know there is this philosophy called yes theory which encourages you to do crazy things and say yes to strangers 😄 so I’m counting on you seeking a new discomfort in the Indian Ocean🙃
We’ve been binge watching all of your videos for the last week because of all the great energy you give in the videos.
It’s just crazy how you manage to find the right person every time.
Great work you’re doing and we hope that you can achieve more. We share Ammar’s past with him since we come from the same country ;) and I really think Staffan is an amazing addition to the channel. Here is a ❤ for you my friend.
As for this video, I used to do this in the past. Might end up doing it soon and turn off the phone. Used to do it for months at a time hahaha.
Anyways, this trip for Mauritius is technically our real honeymoon (been married for a year) but it’s a very special trip for us as it is the first time ever that we both travel and pay for our trip ourselves!
I know it’s a long shot but come to Mauritius. It’s gonna be cyclone season you will love it! 😇
Can I come
What's ur tag on Zonder?
Those words resonated with me Stephan. Just lost one of my best friends the same way weeks ago. Four days before his funeral I asked him how he was in life, he said he was doing good, getting along well. It breaks my heart and soul that some people just feel like they can’t reach out even when there’s a hand reaching for them. To anyone reading this, please reach out to someone if you don’t know where to turn. I know it’s hard, didn’t even want to reach out in my past but I’m glad I did. Much love
I am incredibly envious of the friendship you all share. The fact that you do actually lift each other up and encourage each other to be your whole true selves. My life situation has isolated me and made it very hard for me break free of isolation.
You guys are awesome, wholehearted and pure🙏🏻thank you for your service to this planet and for inspiring millions to join forces and make it easier for everyone to have a good experience while on earth❤
Staffan you are such a truly beautiful human being. Thomas, without you and your curious nature, none of this would have ever happened or been possible. Thank you for another wonderfully inspirational experience. Much love 💜
I feel bad to say this but had no choice.. So yes need help right now.. Lost my home and everything I had recently and now got my hand injured and doc say need to get a surgery but the cost is too high so.. Had to cancel it.. Being injured and not having the money to get treatment is one worst had to face in this life..🙂 I hope everyone's doesn't go through the same.. Take care❤❤❤❤
Hi I’m from Virginia I’m 16 and I found in this video, that I do help more people then ask people to help me. I’ve been watching yes theory for around 3 years and your channel has always and will find me comfort for the things I go through I love you guys and always will
Stefan is finally a part of Yes Theory for me, been sorta awkward about it but after this vid I will not. Welcome to Yes Theory Stefan. Keep doing your thing. Cheers! 💯
Who’s here to see Jonny Samoli’s prison cell?
Beautiful words from Thomas and Staffan as always! Thank you Yes Theory team! As Staffan suggested, messaging here to find my people: hey guys, I'm Jon! I used to be a corporate lawyer but I quit to pursue my true calling of going on adventures and helping others through video storytelling. I'm currently completing a bucket list in the UK/Europe, reach out if you want to go on an adventure together! :) Sending love to you all!
Best of luck on your adventuring journey! 🌳
Thank you!!! @@TheScarletteWhisper
@@JonWhiteVlogs you’re very welcome!!!
Hey Staffan & Thomas,
I am from New Delhi, India
I have been following yes theory since last year and I really appreciate your vlogs and efforts you guys put on, I would like to be the part of your community because I would be honest to you guys I really love communicate and talk to people.
I would be glad to be the part of your team and community.
I hope one day I could meet you one days.
I would like to share you my story, when I was going through tough times and feeling stressed I found your page in TH-cam and trust me, some of your stories are so inspiring I felt so positive since then I am watching you guys.
Thanks for creating such a good vlogs and videos.
Thanks and Regards
Arnav Sen
I hope you guys acknowledge it 💙✨
16:29 it should be a Viral Giff from now on! this is just perfect with the zoom in
Not a video goes by you guys where I just don't get emotionally moved, I live in Iowa of the US and sometimes it's hard to feel connected to people when living in a small town area in Iowa. Steffan opening up this episode really got to me this time and just makes me want to find others around me. One day I hope to be able to go on journeys across the world like y'all, it just really motivates me when I see all the genuine and real people you come across over the years. I've yet to even travel on a plan, but the day I get to finally make that leap I know the ones who helped me find my path was Yes! Theory. Legit just tearing up writing this, the genuine
emotions you guys display just serious have a way of moving not just me but people across the world. Thank you for being such a shining beacon of light for people across the globe!
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This is a good idea. I did a few years in the feds and got sent to the SHU (the hole) for a couple weeks. It was intense. Regular time is kinda easy depending on the facility your in but the SHU is a whole (pardon the pun) different story. I learnt a lot about myself. And now back in the real world, I have become more of a recluse. But for those that have to do a real amount time in there, I feel for them. You’re never the same. Some people have done years. It’s cruel.
I hope you guys do more videos in Korea! I cannot afford to travel there (its my dream destination), so i hope to live vicariously through you guys! Also Staffan is my idol. He is such a pure soul. I manifest only good things for him and the rest of the YesTheory family
If you have enough money for a flight ticket you can stay at my place for free! I have an Airbnb that is usually fully booked but I can afford to let someone stay for free for a week or two 🤗
Hi. I'm Twaambo from Zambia.This was so touching.... Steffan you are brave for talking about your friend and the topic about asking for help. I tried taking my life a month and 2 weeks ago. Not asking for help is my biggest demon. And Im no where near recovered but I am on my way. It's been super super hard. I have been hit with challenge after challenge and just 2 days ago i was involved in a car accident which has mentally set me back a couple of steps. I have a New trauma for cars that i didnt have 48hrs ago. But i chose to click on this video and honestly i have cried so much. This video is so timely for me. Thank you both ❤
Love you guys from Ethiopia 🇪🇹 ❤😍 Stfefan n Thomas 😍♥️♥️
Stopping midway to just Thankyou Stefan for opening up, sharing your experience and thoughts which is so relatable. - the circle being a circle that’s uplifting or a cage as well as the irony of feeling alone when we are a world of millions of people and easier to help vs asking for help. Thankyou!!💗for you!
When I was 16, I spent almost 2 months in 23 hour a day lockdown while waiting for trial. I read books for days straight and had the craziest lucid dreaming where I was in the setting of the books I was reading. It really does something to your mind, and it made me realize I did not want to spend another minute being incarcerated. This Korean prison doesn't seem so bad though! At the very least you have privacy on the toilet! 😂
Thank you yea theory for changing my life. Ive been a fan of your channel for a long time now. And everytime the term “seek discomfort” is said, it as motivated me more and more too get out there and live. My adhd and depression have really effected my mental health and even my will to live. I have thought of suicide many times in my past. Over the past 6 months i have been trying to figure out myself and learn about my mind and how i work. I always have been a shy quiet kid and i would always hide my fave or blush when i would see a pretty girl. Ive wanted to ask this girl out for so long but i could never get to it. I always thought i looked ugly or that no one liked me. But thats not true. Ive been battling myself this whole time and i just never knew it. Your videos truly made me change my perspective on life. So i decided to “seek discomfort” and try and ask out this girl. And we have been in a happy relationship for like 8 months. Thank you yes theory for helping me overcome depression and anxiety. You will always be my favorite youtubers. Keep up the great work. I love you all.
so happy for you :)
yes thomasss the information overload we get from our phones. i always wondered what the long terms effects would be, genuinely.
Been depressed af, this video couldn't have come at a better time 💛
Mad respect to bro for willingly going to jail just for the video, thats dedication
Never have I ever asked anyone for help. I'm a man. Asian man. Never will. Never can. It's stressful. It's even kinda depressing at times, but it is what it is. And ive accepted it.
Bad choice, you are missing out on so much. I’m sure you can do it, try it
I actually did the same thing last I was in Korea, I don’t remember having to pay though 🤔
Thanks Staffan, for the words i often find myself in the dilemma of asking for help. I find myself alone amidst all the people around me. I help everyone motivate them for when they are low or i sense a negative energy in them but when i am at my worst i feels so isolated and crumbling within myself , my anxiety starts to kick in my breath feels heavy i want to shout or talk but i can't. There is only silence, watching yes theory makes me feel a bit more relaxed.
Everytime Staffan opens up or talks about his past experiences and relationships with others, I can relate. Let's appreciate the good people around us and let them know that we love them. Life is short we should learn to live it in the most healthy way from all aspects with the most loved ones.