@@brooklynshowdown9103 what’s your point. It seems like she grew up with discipline,boundaries and standards. My point, she’s settling for less in life with her decision making.
@@tjbooker9948.. if a man or woman does not treat you right, does not work, their no good for you! Stop using that narc word! And if you like BUMS just say that
This girl is ungrateful . Her mama knows it too, thats why she wasn't so willing to assist. Pops has a soft heart....hope he doesn't lose that cause of this situation.
He sold her a shitty car tho, he should've set her up with a newer car. That has me questioning him 🤔 they could've got in an accident and died. He knew that car wasn't operable to drive
@@rondaallen7211 Exactly!! It was dismissed that he sold them a lemon. They should've sued him and probably could have. And $2500 for a 95 seems way too much, if he's selling the car for more than the blue Kelly book value then they have a case.
No matter what age you’re supposed to give your child all your money why thru hell should anyone pay their parent money when they know their child is in need
Is he… sitting… down? Him referring to her as his daughter, and her referring to him as her step-dad says a lot. I wonder was he “dad” when he gave her this car and let her move back home. I believe the defendants did fight for her to have to move back in with her parents
Not all of us are like that. I call my "step-father" dad. He's the only man I have ever had to look up to. He went beyond measures for me & still do. I'll forever be grateful for the heart he has to accept me as his own. I call my bio father by his name. For a long time I referred to him as sperm donor or nothing at all.
@@trollmanable people lie. Even in court. He makes them laugh for two reasons, so they aren’t too nerved up and to make them slip on their lies. There was one case where he was laughing with the defendant and joking about the defendant being a playa that the defendant felt so comfortable he told on himself.
@@dennyishajohnson7826 Well, if it's that simple, then why bother placing people under oath? The judge should just come out, tell a few jokes, and then start asking questions.
Trust me, that father is not lying. When, we as men reach a certain age, we know another man like a woman knows another woman. That sorry dude can't buy a car for his woman? He can't fix the Step Dad's car? They borrowed his car.
I was thinking the same thing, probably don't get the man nothing for Father's Day either, not even a hug. And this man sitting up here doing the most for her, her own mama didn't believe her b.s. story about her man hitting her but stepdaddy did and look how she do him. 6k in refunds and didn't lie about it and give the man something on the loan, smh.
@@prettyperfectpagne6226 her baby daddy trifling too, riding around in stepdaddy in-law's Cutless like it's his. Probably went full Babyboy Jodi on it, put rims on it and everything, knowing they aint paid this man for it. Couldn't stop driving it long enough to take it to the shop to get it fixed😆. If I was stepdad I would have been hot too, about income tax refund time the whole family hop out of my Cutless, with new rims on it and everybody in new Pelle Pelle jackets and Jordans....🔥🔥
Notice how he refers to her as his “ daughter” and she refers to him as her “Stepdad “ and by his name Alvin. They lying like hell! Edit: I’m speaking on behalf of her and how messed up she’s treated him. For 16 years, he’s treated her like his own daughter and she has the audacity to put an asterisk on her relationship with him. If he isn’t good enough to be her dad, he shouldn’t be good enough to ask for stuff.
My stepdad calls me his daughter and I call him by his name. I love him dearly but I have a father and I wouldn’t be comfortable calling another man Dad.
The thing is, they drove it from point A to point B for a few months so that's all that matters. Stack ya money during the process and HURRY and get a new one.
Pop was definitely telling the truth and I don't understand why people think if they leave their belongings at a home and they're not there physically, that they don't have to pay rent. If your things are there then you are considered there. Second, the defendant is playing house and I believe she lied about him coming up to her job. Trust me, if a fat black man is standing on the corner asking everyone who goes by if they know so-and-so because they owe him money the police would have shown up. The mama know the daughter is full of it and that's why she did not want to help her
If he say “baby daddy one more time” The defendants boyfriend looks sorry. I hope she stops covering for him and get back into the good graces with her family.
I had a friend that paid her boyfriend to watch his kids while she worked. That's why the mom told her no. She's a grown woman with 2 children and man. Grow Up!
😂😂 whew. Someone's angry he ain't even stepdad no more started calling him by his first name. He probably did come up there to that job, but i know for a fact that bf ain't no good I can see the bum juice leaking out of him 😂
I like this episode because he sold her a CUTLASS SUPREME. I had 2 of them my first car was the 88 Ciera & the 2nd one was a 95 cutlass SUPREME convertible. I missed those cars
@@deetheefoodie he sold it to her at that price because he probably knows she was buying for ole buddy and he already said him and his wife doesn't like him
Y’all the daddy was right I went snooping and found both of them that man had kids on her and everything 😢… so sad! She is now engaged to a different man she’s been with for 4.5 years..
It’s so sad she came from and two parent household and seen how beneficial it was and turned around to be someone baby mama of 2 and can’t even get a car on your own living in your parents house because they can’t even get it together it’s really sad!
IN MY VIEW It may be the daughter is the problem. She is the common denominator in problems with her dad, mom and boyfriend. I am glad Judge Mathis told her dad to leave the boyfriend alone and mind his own business in the couples relationship.
The daughter got sad look !! She knows she owes !! I'm sorry but moving your grown kids with there partners into your house may not be a good decision !
I believe that bcz my daughter's car was like that to were the car goes dead & had to unplug a big wire in her truck to get it to start....🙏🏾THANKS TO THE HOLY SPIRITS SHE DIDN'T DIE EITHER BECAUSE IT WAS STOPPING ON HER WHILE IN TRAFFIC....Lil ma'am if you owe pay & Lil Sir learn how to provide for your FAMILY👫🏾👶🏾👧🏾....
Yea u can’t live with ppls like plaintiff even if u paying rent they still consider the room that’s being rented theirs and they will invade ya privacy because it’s “ their “ house
I do believe he would have given her the car and fixed it without charging her if she did not live with her kids father. He treated her firmly because he does not like the boyfriend.
Step Daddy had ABSOLUTELY No Business at that Young Ladies JOB talking to her Co-workers and She should have been Complicated for that. That MAN doesn't care anything about that Young Lady. She really needs to STAY Away from Him' PERIOD! Young Lady, You'll NEVER get ahead hanging around people always worried about What You've got.
It is a common problem. There is a sensor that tells the engine to open the air idle control valve more when there is an extra load on the power steering pump. Mathis is wrong. I am a mechanic and I have seen this before on older cars. Especially GM
@@daniellem.6794you’re right but it’s such a headache smh my car was stolen so I had to buy a used one from a private owner & it’s been giving me issues that I’m sure they knew were there before but didn’t disclose the info. It seems like even dealing with family, that buying used cars is so damn shady
She wanted the car, you’re grown w a whole man( as kids call it) get your own car, get your own place. I don’t see having a man and you don’t have nothing. What’s the dingdong hot to do with it. I worked with a girl, started working s much overtime, after she got married, really? What’s the purpose of having a mate?
Judge Mathis problem is that he doesn't know shit about cars and he don't have to buy old cars. He gets his new. I believe that he forgets about the side of the railroad track he came from just like most of the rich who came out the hood. I take my hat off to all of the NFL players and NBA players that come from the hood because they never forgotten where they came from. I must say I know a bunch of people in the comments section are going to say that Judge Mathis does things in the black communities but when he does he makes damn sue he let's the world know he did it while the Pro Athletes never broadcast it and we have to find out by some nosy reporter.
How come the wonderful boyfriend didn't check the car out before she purchased it. Specially if they children gonna be in the car. Yeap. #1 dad. 🤦🏽🤦🏽🤦🏽🤡🤡🤡
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That boyfriend don’t work.
Seems like the girl had good parents. Just shows you never know how things will turn out! Love this show and I learn a lot
That's her step father
@@brooklynshowdown9103 what’s your point. It seems like she grew up with discipline,boundaries and standards. My point, she’s settling for less in life with her decision making.
Right what was the point
@@MutedSins26 Who determines what's less for another person? Besides a narcissist or control freak who can't even solve their own problems.
@@tjbooker9948.. if a man or woman does not treat you right, does not work, their no good for you! Stop using that narc word! And if you like BUMS just say that
I bet she calls him daddy when she needs money.
My daughter does me the same way
I know I would.
This girl is ungrateful . Her mama knows it too, thats why she wasn't so willing to assist. Pops has a soft heart....hope he doesn't lose that cause of this situation.
Pops is also full of crap.
He sold her a shitty car tho, he should've set her up with a newer car. That has me questioning him 🤔 they could've got in an accident and died. He knew that car wasn't operable to drive
@@mscece1900 i don't know why the judge was so unwilling to believe them. i've been in cars like that.
@@rondaallen7211 Exactly!! It was dismissed that he sold them a lemon. They should've sued him and probably could have. And $2500 for a 95 seems way too much, if he's selling the car for more than the blue Kelly book value then they have a case.
No matter what age you’re supposed to give your child all your money why thru hell should anyone pay their parent money when they know their child is in need
Yeah the boyfriend beats her she's just embarrassed
That caught me off guard when she called him “Alan.” You may have a father but this is the one you run to when you need help!
Facts
I called my stepfather by his first name…more common than many think…!
Where I live it's normal to call step parents by their first name
Is he… sitting… down? Him referring to her as his daughter, and her referring to him as her step-dad says a lot. I wonder was he “dad” when he gave her this car and let her move back home. I believe the defendants did fight for her to have to move back in with her parents
I just love Alvin 💖😍😍💖 Alvin continue to put your foot down with these children 🤣 they too like slackness!!
Yessssss
People don't understand, when you move, if you leave items behind, you are still obligated to pay.
Yep.. don't think the judge caught that part when she said it either
If your things are still there, you are still there, obligated to pay.
I mean, you don't have to pay unless you want your stuff thrown out on the street.
Yeah but there should be a little grace if u leave items at your mother's house
True
I hope he makes boundaries now . They aren’t his obligation. So ungrateful
True
This girl really needs to ask herself "why her man can't afford a 2300 dollar car?" In general, if you can't afford a car don't have a child
That dad not lying about that dude. Lol
Thank you sir for being a wonderful father i wish i would have had a dad like you❤❤
Yesssssd
I noticed, he said my daughter and she said my stepfather. Being a stepfather is a hard life.
I would never do it..EVER!
Yes. Unfortunately she does not seem to value her parenting blessings.
Not all of us are like that. I call my "step-father" dad. He's the only man I have ever had to look up to. He went beyond measures for me & still do. I'll forever be grateful for the heart he has to accept me as his own. I call my bio father by his name. For a long time I referred to him as sperm donor or nothing at all.
Yup. My step dad when he was living told me to never call him step dad.
Don't ever marry single mothers
Step dad dont play no games wit these chiren
Lol, not at all! 🤣 He is hilarious
@@randommusings4957 Lol!! Yes indeed he is
🤣🤣🤣🤣
She should be really thankful, grateful, and blessed to have a Stepdad such as the plaintiff.
True that
Her dad not lying! She pay him to watch the kids
Hell yeah u right. I believe that .
I get it. Judge Mathis jokes around at times, cause in order to get the truth out you must make people comfortable.
Bingo!!
No, it's court. You're supposed to tell the truth, because you're under oath; Not because you're comfortable!
@@trollmanable people lie. Even in court. He makes them laugh for two reasons, so they aren’t too nerved up and to make them slip on their lies. There was one case where he was laughing with the defendant and joking about the defendant being a playa that the defendant felt so comfortable he told on himself.
@@dennyishajohnson7826 Well, if it's that simple, then why bother placing people under oath? The judge should just come out, tell a few jokes, and then start asking questions.
@@dennyishajohnson7826 Glad you understood what I was saying.
Them Pelle jackets definitely had folks in a chokehold 😂
Trust me, that father is not lying. When, we as men reach a certain age, we know another man like a woman knows another woman. That sorry dude can't buy a car for his woman? He can't fix the Step Dad's car? They borrowed his car.
Facts
When humans think they’re grown just because they’re older than the age of 18 🤦🏽♂️. Turning 18 is not how you become a responsible adult. 🤷🏾♂️
You made 2 statements and combined them “grown” is 18 legal age by the law “responsible adult” is a mindset too different principles
Facts
After raising her and 16 years later she calls him by his first name 🤨
Being a step father is a thankless job
Wow mmmm
Your 100% correct
It was only 100 but refused to pay her father 200 🥴
Exactly
Stepdad get no love she is his daughter but he Alvin to her 😂‼️🤦🏾♀️
I was thinking the same thing, probably don't get the man nothing for Father's Day either, not even a hug. And this man sitting up here doing the most for her, her own mama didn't believe her b.s. story about her man hitting her but stepdaddy did and look how she do him. 6k in refunds and didn't lie about it and give the man something on the loan, smh.
@@audenharper3014 just trifling 😂😭
@@prettyperfectpagne6226 her baby daddy trifling too, riding around in stepdaddy in-law's Cutless like it's his. Probably went full Babyboy Jodi on it, put rims on it and everything, knowing they aint paid this man for it. Couldn't stop driving it long enough to take it to the shop to get it fixed😆. If I was stepdad I would have been hot too, about income tax refund time the whole family hop out of my Cutless, with new rims on it and everybody in new Pelle Pelle jackets and Jordans....🔥🔥
She cannot be helped because she isn’t ready for it. Let her be the adult she is and find her way on her own. Ungrateful
I love this old school man. My Dad And great Uncles. We're the same.
Notice how he refers to her as his “ daughter” and she refers to him as her “Stepdad “ and by his name Alvin. They lying like hell!
Edit: I’m speaking on behalf of her and how messed up she’s treated him. For 16 years, he’s treated her like his own daughter and she has the audacity to put an asterisk on her relationship with him. If he isn’t good enough to be her dad, he shouldn’t be good enough to ask for stuff.
My stepdad calls me his daughter and I call him by his name. I love him dearly but I have a father and I wouldn’t be comfortable calling another man Dad.
My stepdad, we called him Big daddy, like the grands, I think he was married to my mom, 30 something yrs , when she died 2002, he called us his kids
We don't know if her biological father is in her life or not. If he is then I don't see the issue.
Nigga cus that’s not her dad
It’s highly disrespectful to call your stepdad by his first name. Your mother should have stopped you from doing that early on
If mom said she couldn’t move back home stepdad should have followed suit and left her ungrateful ass where she was
Hell yeah. If the Moma said it
Her man can't do nothing? Can't provide a car or money, just nothing.
Right. But he can get her pregnant twice and not provide. What a keeper 🙄🥴🥴🥴
No, if you have a boyfriend that lays up with you and you still calling your parents asking for money then yes the boyfriend is a bum .
Or maybe the person asking for money is a bum. Boyfriends are not husbands.
@@jennevamadison3803 he should pay where he lay .
She's ungrateful and the boyfriend should gain Dad's leadership to become a better man , problem solved
The boyfriend has a stupid look on his face, boy close your mouth 🤣🤣🤣🤣
I can see right through the boyfriend that he's SORRY and BUM Certified, she has definitely paid him to watch their child.
I believe this dad when he said he is from Missouri 😂😂😂
I would be damned if I had a kid by someone I had to pay to babeseat
0hhh, babysit. Got it.
@@missbradicah 😂😂
@@missbradicahLmaooooooo
People who want their money back aren’t money hungry 😌
She ungrateful & her bd definitely influences her. She gone wish she had listened one day.
I can't IMAGINE why he doesn't like that guy!!!🙄🙄🙄
The thing is, they drove it from point A to point B for a few months so that's all that matters. Stack ya money during the process and HURRY and get a new one.
I believe step pops; she’s ungrateful. she doesn’t realize how blessed she is to even have him. and i believe baby daddy is a bum and has hit her
Jiggle not "jingle" the cord, lol!
Pop was definitely telling the truth and I don't understand why people think if they leave their belongings at a home and they're not there physically, that they don't have to pay rent. If your things are there then you are considered there. Second, the defendant is playing house and I believe she lied about him coming up to her job. Trust me, if a fat black man is standing on the corner asking everyone who goes by if they know so-and-so because they owe him money the police would have shown up. The mama know the daughter is full of it and that's why she did not want to help her
She is so ungrateful
I bet the boy friend driving that car
That’s why we say being a step daddy has no benefits nor does the kids pose as an asset to the step daddy.
It's alot of truth in that.
Get ‘em Judge Mathis!!!!!😊😂
The white woman in the hot pink shirt cutting her eyes to the Defendant when Plaintiff said she made over $6k for taxes. 😂😂
@9:37 “so, uh people were comin to me tellin me, hey there’s a guy, a big fat guy sittin outside do you know him in a red pickup truck” 😂
If he say “baby daddy one more time”
The defendants boyfriend looks sorry. I hope she stops covering for him and get back into the good graces with her family.
Stepdad 👏
You cannot afford 240 dollars 🤨. Sounds like someone should’ve thought of that before having children
I had a friend that paid her boyfriend to watch his kids while she worked. That's why the mom told her no. She's a grown woman with 2 children and man. Grow Up!
so her boyfriend beats her and and charges for babysitting ?!!
Step Fathers are never appreciated
No, not at all.
The daughter using her step-dads first name like he didnt provide for her for YEARS when she couldnt provuide for herself. Like he was a neighbor
I appreciate mines
😂😂 whew. Someone's angry he ain't even stepdad no more started calling him by his first name. He probably did come up there to that job, but i know for a fact that bf ain't no good I can see the bum juice leaking out of him 😂
I am too outdone with "bum juice" 🤣
@@mzfancy4767 😂😂😂 i know y'all see it
I like this episode because he sold her a CUTLASS SUPREME. I had 2 of them my first car was the 88 Ciera & the 2nd one was a 95 cutlass SUPREME convertible. I missed those cars
I likes daddy, ole school!
U a grown woman I’m out of it take care now
Show me them check stubs I’m from Missouri 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I like that!!!!!!
Lmao two leaches!!!!
Who calls their father by their first name?? Major red flag 🚩🚩🚩
He charged her the strength for that old a** car but he's still a good father
I agree, I think he’s a good dad but he definitely sold her a lemon & he knew it 🤦🏾♀️
Being a stepfather is a thankless job, fellas take notes...big man is a old time simp
That's the same for step mother...moral of the story is people should stay with their baby mama's and daddy's..shotgun wedding should make a comeback.
2,300 for a 95 Cutless is he crazy?!?
I know right, 500 maybe LOL
Y'all must don't know nothing about oldskool cutless , caprices, crown Vic's, and grand marquis they're definitely those prices and even more
Those are considered classic cars and if it in good condition it could run for that much and sometimes more
@@constancewilliams760 oh I know my daddy had a 87 Cutless Supreme we called it the Grey Ghost. Classic car yes, but that’s his daughter.
@@deetheefoodie he sold it to her at that price because he probably knows she was buying for ole buddy and he already said him and his wife doesn't like him
Ungrateful, disrespectful, and despicable.
That boyfriend dont work in a Pie Shop...and Judge Mathis needs to stop that bulls**t!!
Y’all the daddy was right I went snooping and found both of them that man had kids on her and everything 😢… so sad! She is now engaged to a different man she’s been with for 4.5 years..
Step-dad handling that incorrectly.
It’s so sad she came from and two parent household and seen how beneficial it was and turned around to be someone baby mama of 2 and can’t even get a car on your own living in your parents house because they can’t even get it together it’s really sad!
BF talking "we" but pays for nothing. He said he counted the 🤑. Oh, he counted her money that her stepfather gave her.
IN MY VIEW
It may be the daughter is the problem. She is the common denominator in problems with her dad, mom and boyfriend.
I am glad Judge Mathis told her dad to leave the boyfriend alone and mind his own business in the couples relationship.
Did he say they had Pelle Pelle jackets?? This episode had to be in the early 2000’s.
😂
She gone regret treating her daddy like this. The boyfriend definitely a bum.
The daughter got sad look !! She knows she owes !! I'm sorry but moving your grown kids with there partners into your house may not be a good decision !
That’s a good side hustle charge your bm to watch your kids why didn’t I think of that 😂😂🤔🤔
shidddd idgaf who it is I need all my money up front first!!! family be the first ones to play with you
If her things were there then she was there
None of them were on the same page. Like I’m so confused lOl
WHAT ? YOU SOLD YOUR DAUGHTER A 95 CUTLESS AND WE IN A WHOLE NEW CENTURY WHOOW
I love this Stepdad....
Missouri😊 Show-Me State
Everything in this family is about money…..but you keep talking it !
I believe that bcz my daughter's car was like that to were the car goes dead & had to unplug a big wire in her truck to get it to start....🙏🏾THANKS TO THE HOLY SPIRITS SHE DIDN'T DIE EITHER BECAUSE IT WAS STOPPING ON HER WHILE IN TRAFFIC....Lil ma'am if you owe pay & Lil Sir learn how to provide for your FAMILY👫🏾👶🏾👧🏾....
“Plaintiff, Alvin White, says the defendant is his step daughter
They were not lying about the car shutting off... I have had a few cars in life that did that lol
2300 for a 95 Cutlass? Dam she had to be in a desperate situation
Yea u can’t live with ppls like plaintiff even if u paying rent they still consider the room that’s being rented theirs and they will invade ya privacy because it’s “ their “ house
Lol hes not a land lord #1. #2 if you miss payments in HIS HOUSE he can do whatever he wants. If you dont like the rules...LEAVE
@@nawgee facts
"Ppls like the plaintiff" aka Parents.
@@nawgee the definition of someone getting paid to let another live in their house is a landlord
I do believe he would have given her the car and fixed it without charging her if she did not live with her kids father. He treated her firmly because he does not like the boyfriend.
Shouldn't have let the boyfriend speak. People gotta stop bringing their lovers to lie for them
Step Daddy had ABSOLUTELY No Business at that Young Ladies JOB talking to her Co-workers and She should have been Complicated for that.
That MAN doesn't care anything about that Young Lady. She really needs to STAY Away from Him' PERIOD!
Young Lady, You'll NEVER get ahead hanging around people always worried about What You've got.
He charges her to watch his own kids. 🤦🏽♀️ yea I’ve heard enough
It is a common problem. There is a sensor that tells the engine to open the air idle control valve more when there is an extra load on the power steering pump. Mathis is wrong. I am a mechanic and I have seen this before on older cars. Especially GM
Ok fair enough. So give the car back and then sue him for down payment if he sold them a lemon
@@daniellem.6794you’re right but it’s such a headache smh my car was stolen so I had to buy a used one from a private owner & it’s been giving me issues that I’m sure they knew were there before but didn’t disclose the info. It seems like even dealing with family, that buying used cars is so damn shady
She wanted the car, you’re grown w a whole man( as kids call it) get your own car, get your own place. I don’t see having a man and you don’t have nothing. What’s the dingdong hot to do with it. I worked with a girl, started working s much overtime, after she got married, really? What’s the purpose of having a mate?
Judge Mathis problem is that he doesn't know shit about cars and he don't have to buy old cars. He gets his new. I believe that he forgets about the side of the railroad track he came from just like most of the rich who came out the hood. I take my hat off to all of the NFL players and NBA players that come from the hood because they never forgotten where they came from. I must say I know a bunch of people in the comments section are going to say that Judge Mathis does things in the black communities but when he does he makes damn sue he let's the world know he did it while the Pro Athletes never broadcast it and we have to find out by some nosy reporter.
@@cheryljohnson1632Right I hear you but that fat stepdaddy was desperate to take down his daughter because of his jealousy of her boyfriend.
Everytime !!! oh but you didn’t believe her about the car issue and now he confirms something was wrong with the car. SMH
She calling him Alvin I bet he was dad when she needed money
How come the wonderful boyfriend didn't check the car out before she purchased it. Specially if they children gonna be in the car. Yeap. #1 dad. 🤦🏽🤦🏽🤦🏽🤡🤡🤡
He only sold her that car cause he knew her baby daddy was gonna be the main one in it
she can't hold a job then she can't with a career
Boyfriend looks like he has no future. I am sorry for her life .... youth is wasted on the young.
This is why I will never will raise another man child