Don’t Fall For This Scam

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  • A common customer scam in the pressure washing business. This scam is also common in the influencer world. Follow my page to keep up with all sides of pressure washing!

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  • @MilkCrateGarage
    @MilkCrateGarage ปีที่แล้ว +33322

    Ah, the ol' "Pay you with exposure" line.

    • @robw9852
      @robw9852 ปีที่แล้ว +269

      Basically, what the IG influences think they are.

    • @werelemur1138
      @werelemur1138 ปีที่แล้ว +154

      Sorry, the landlord doesn't accept exposure for rent!

    • @WithmeVerissimusWhostoned
      @WithmeVerissimusWhostoned ปีที่แล้ว +33

      I'd give him a choice,... pay me now or make at least 5 of your friends book a cleaning appointment with me within the next 3 months,.. failing to do so will cost you more than you'd ever wanna pay, so choose wisely. \o/

    • @Bryan-wo6gx
      @Bryan-wo6gx ปีที่แล้ว +35

      The easiest way to deal with is say sure, let me call and see if my landlord, bank, credit card company etc will let me pay my bills in "exposure bucks", that usually shuts them up.

    • @Largepro21
      @Largepro21 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      💯

  • @lostpuppy8847
    @lostpuppy8847 ปีที่แล้ว +5301

    "do it for free and I'll let everyone know you do free work"

  • @everestfalls
    @everestfalls ปีที่แล้ว +7141

    One thing I learned growing up. Promises don't pay the bills.

    • @ashfordj81
      @ashfordj81 ปีที่แล้ว +75

      Another old saying: money talks, BS walks

    • @ashfordj81
      @ashfordj81 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      @@_Washing_Machine_ What a sassy appliance you are.

    • @jamesdemus1498
      @jamesdemus1498 ปีที่แล้ว

      right thank you

    • @M23js
      @M23js ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Neither does "thank you".

    • @JoeMac1983
      @JoeMac1983 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Yep. Told my last boss that "atta boys" don't pay my mortgage. So glad I walked off the job lol.

  • @RameoMTL
    @RameoMTL ปีที่แล้ว +2350

    You should flip it on them. Offer to clean their drive way after you receive 2 jobs referred by them

    • @samisaleh6479
      @samisaleh6479 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +112

      Honestly that's the best way of saying it

    • @user-cu1uj6bl3r
      @user-cu1uj6bl3r 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +89

      that's a good counter, worst case scenario u owe someone a free cleaning, after 2 jobs. Best case you avoid wasting your time entirely.

    • @MrSdragon197
      @MrSdragon197 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Get a sign contract from their friends and family referral and then give them the free driveway wash.

    • @kris8263
      @kris8263 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

      There is a better way. Charge them and promise them a 10% cut of every customer referred by them.

    • @imToniQX
      @imToniQX 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@kris826330% more fair

  • @dougdennis3681
    @dougdennis3681 ปีที่แล้ว +62729

    Here's what you do. You give your quote for the driveway, and if 10 of his friends/family come to you, saying he referred them, give him a very generous discount or free driveway on his next appointment.

    • @abumansaray7
      @abumansaray7 ปีที่แล้ว +1875

      Nope! One can easily get 10 people to agree to their bs scam. Everyone gets a discount after 4 or 5 friends and family agree to a contract for your service. The initial person gets it free-something like that. Otherwise, they can kick rocks.

    • @dougdennis3681
      @dougdennis3681 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@abumansaray7 that's exactly what I mean. I've been doing this with "influencers" for years. They come to me thinking they can get free stuff. They pay up front and I give them their own 10% ish coupon code for my business. If I get 10 or more orders using that particular coupon code, I refund the "influencer's " order. Six years and over 100 coupons issued, I have yet to pay out one refund.

    • @fluffytail6355
      @fluffytail6355 ปีที่แล้ว +1442

      Exactly. Reward action, not words.

    • @emann715
      @emann715 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@abumansaray7no no, if you give the stipulation that 10 contracted/completed jobs will award them a free driveway certificate you can guarantee 10 extra jobs for 1 free… who cares if they are just trying to scam, it still gives you business in the long run

    • @319speed
      @319speed ปีที่แล้ว +483

      What you do is if you get me 10 more jobs at normal cost then I'll give you a discount on your driveway.

  • @juliahinez
    @juliahinez ปีที่แล้ว +4694

    Usually, free work leads to free work. Friends would want the same deal!

    • @gunsizey
      @gunsizey ปีที่แล้ว

      @@penelopepitstop13huh

    • @ellingtonlover7319
      @ellingtonlover7319 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      From no pay, the very, very best you can expect is very, very low pay. Your time = their money.

    • @Giiiiiiiiiirrrrrrrrrrrrrrf
      @Giiiiiiiiiirrrrrrrrrrrrrrf ปีที่แล้ว +43

      Exactly.
      “How much did he charge you?”
      “Nothing!”
      “That’s a great price I’ll definitely call him…”

    • @ra15899550
      @ra15899550 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      No doubt!!

    • @MySisterandBro
      @MySisterandBro ปีที่แล้ว +5

      soon as a customer offers me that I just packed my s*** up and f****** leave

  • @realfakearchitect
    @realfakearchitect ปีที่แล้ว +1580

    Offer them a free driveway wash on the next appointment, after you get work from their friends and family.

    • @john9972
      @john9972 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      When I had an HVAC business thats exactly how I played it. If I actually got refered business I did give them a credit next time. Though that very seldom happened.

    • @ChefWreps
      @ChefWreps ปีที่แล้ว

      Not true

    • @ChefWreps
      @ChefWreps ปีที่แล้ว +7

      It's a scam and most of the time you'll never get referrals from them

    • @BouncyBrown
      @BouncyBrown ปีที่แล้ว +42

      ​@@ChefWrepsThat's the point-- they'll decline this offer because they know their friends won't give him that much business if any at all.

    • @xondeez757
      @xondeez757 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@BouncyBrownyup. It’s basic referral system. You make the customer work for you by promoting you. In their head they’re thinking that they will get free wash but the business owner gets free promotion rather than paying for it himself.

  • @walterpearlman143
    @walterpearlman143 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +434

    Call their bluff - Offer them a referral gift for each completed and paid in full jobs - if they don’t immediately agree , you know they had no faith that they could get you additional business !

  • @chrispruittt
    @chrispruittt ปีที่แล้ว +3280

    So true, tell them no and they will leave a negative review.

    • @VewySiwwyWabbit
      @VewySiwwyWabbit ปีที่แล้ว +66

      The only way not to get a negative review is not to be online period,its how I do it.

    • @alphzoup
      @alphzoup ปีที่แล้ว +166

      Take before and after pictures and then respond to the negative review with them, asking what specifically they had an issue with.

    • @soniateresagonzaleznieda3223
      @soniateresagonzaleznieda3223 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      ​@@alphzoupThats a great advice.

    • @charanteja5285
      @charanteja5285 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      ​@@alphzoupthat's a good advice.

    • @yorp.
      @yorp. ปีที่แล้ว +6

      ​@@alphzoupwhat a good advice.

  • @jimtalor7971
    @jimtalor7971 ปีที่แล้ว +3106

    But if you do it for free, someone is bound to call and tell you
    "But you gave Karen a free service why not me?"

    • @OptimalOwl
      @OptimalOwl ปีที่แล้ว +124

      This ^ was my first thought as well. I'd be worried that the cheapskate's friends and family might be cheapskates too, especially if they heard you're a pushover.

    • @DankestNumber
      @DankestNumber ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Thank you for clarifying billy.

    • @sophiagraff4263
      @sophiagraff4263 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Yep!

    • @diondrakesims2830
      @diondrakesims2830 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      OMG U ARE SO RIGHT.

    • @ddthewolf
      @ddthewolf ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Bingo!

  • @darthbubba866
    @darthbubba866 ปีที่แล้ว +493

    Don't assume that the customer actually has any family or friends.

    • @billolsen4360
      @billolsen4360 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Yeah, Daddy used to scam his kids out of their allowance to bet on horses. "I'll invest this for you, little Bobby."

    • @LEFT4BASS
      @LEFT4BASS ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Plus, even if he does, do you want the cheapskate who’s trying to milk you for free work telling all his cheapskate friends and cheapskate family about you giving him free service? Even if he does give referrals, it’s probably just gonna be more people who want free work

    • @adrianojames8388
      @adrianojames8388 ปีที่แล้ว

      Now THAT , not only being True , is FUNNNNNNY !

    • @victoriamakapugay8887
      @victoriamakapugay8887 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      True. Especially not people who are that cheap.

    • @Vaginasaurus-Lix
      @Vaginasaurus-Lix 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Don't assume -that the customer actually has any family or friends- (period)
      [fixed it for you]

  • @chuckcoats1515
    @chuckcoats1515 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +37

    I owned an automotive repair business for 18 years and i heard this all the time. " Ive been sending a lot of people up here to get their cars fixed ..so i need a discount ". I told them, thank you and I'm sure your friends are grateful for being referred to an honest and competent mechanic.

  • @cecilwells9786
    @cecilwells9786 ปีที่แล้ว +5690

    This is just common sense.

    • @gerardbraxtor4137
      @gerardbraxtor4137 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Yep.you will never hear from them

    • @shellshockedbros4458
      @shellshockedbros4458 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      ​@@Good-VS-Evil777 Who raised them?

    • @rjthomasindyusa
      @rjthomasindyusa ปีที่แล้ว +34

      Many people including my self started businesses when we were young. Hungry people fall into poor buisness practices.

    • @shellshockedbros4458
      @shellshockedbros4458 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Good-VS-Evil777 Honestly, nope. I don't understand your ideology because I think you're wrong. The average Gen Z child had a cell phone in their hand at age 8. Raising your children on an iPad makes them into crazy people who constantly need validation and attention. Kids who aren't raised like that don't turn out like TikTok attention whores(MOST aren't. Some are.)
      Secondly, more and more children are being raised in poverty. This leads to violent crime and gang violence. Hence why crime rates have only gone up since the 2008 market crash. Poverty also causes children to lack higher education, which leads to worse job equality and income. It's also easier than ever to get a gun, even if you're a minor(just ask Kyle Rittenhouse how he got his gun).
      Lastly, Gen Z hasn't "destroyed the country." If anything, they're trying to save it. The middle class Gen-Z is moving away from age-old tradition in order to appeal to ALL of our futures. Tradition keeps things the same. Innovation is void in a traditional society. They're fighting for OUR rights instead for multi-billion dollar corporations that want to bleed this world dry of all natural resources in order to make a quick buck. Also, there's nothing wrong with being gay. I'm sorry if you disagree with that, but it's really none of my business either way. I'm not going to tell you how you should live your life, however: personally, I would suggest you take a step back and try to view the younger generation with a bit more empathy. They are our future. While I do agree that many are troubled, cringe, jaded, and even monsters; here's just a quick reminder that the VAST majority of Gen-Z are just normal people doing normal things with normal lives. The few have never spoken for the many.
      P.S. Wouldn't you hate it if your parents told all of their friends that you were going to disappoint them and ruin the world? You're essentially doing that with an entire generation. That's not very Christian of you.

    • @ata864
      @ata864 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@@Good-VS-Evil777lol, tru

  • @thomascolbert2687
    @thomascolbert2687 ปีที่แล้ว +754

    Their friends and family will all expect free work from you, too.

    • @K0bbii
      @K0bbii ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Yeah lol

    • @jayymorris5285
      @jayymorris5285 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Right! "Well you did John's driveway for free, why not mine?"

    • @JokingAroundInternet
      @JokingAroundInternet ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah even if they call you at all.

    • @throatpunch4789
      @throatpunch4789 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      this is what instantly popped in my head!
      "is your family going to want free work too"💩

    • @LighthouseHorror
      @LighthouseHorror ปีที่แล้ว +1

      exactly what I was thinking hah

  • @cassandrafiscus9192
    @cassandrafiscus9192 ปีที่แล้ว +2247

    Artists have a phrase for this: "exposure kills"

    • @fomoran
      @fomoran ปีที่แล้ว +68

      So do mountaineering nudists

    • @crankfastle3061
      @crankfastle3061 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      @@fomoranso do the ten people that died in the Bronx due to a fire that was burning that night that killed ten people during a fire and fire officials said that all ten people died from the fire which was burning and too hot for their bodies.

    • @S_W_
      @S_W_ ปีที่แล้ว

      @@crankfastle3061what??

    • @natashaestes154
      @natashaestes154 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Was just gonna say something like this.

    • @neu_dae
      @neu_dae ปีที่แล้ว +13

      right, "exposure" is never worth the money you didn't make.

  • @colterbanks
    @colterbanks ปีที่แล้ว +139

    Correct. Do not fall for the more work carrot. It never comes…. Ever

  • @gbooblue
    @gbooblue ปีที่แล้ว +778

    “Why would they be willing to pay me when you aren’t?” would be my response.

    • @elisemiller13
      @elisemiller13 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @gbooblue They did pay to have the house washed. One is advised to take the high road when dealing with customers.

    • @recPokerFish
      @recPokerFish ปีที่แล้ว +6

      tell him you are running a business not a charity

    • @gbooblue
      @gbooblue ปีที่แล้ว

      @@elisemiller13 so, to my point, they did NOT want to pay for the driveway but if the business did it for free, they get a long list of cold call customers who are probably just like their “gimmie” friend. OR would they want to NOT give private information and “give EVERYONE the business number” instead? I’ve worked in customer service for a very long time. It’s a very valid question to ask a client. If you won’t pay me except in friends names, what are they going to pay me with…friends names? On the other hand, do all your friends buy everything you tell them to? I damn sure don’t. So, if you feel that the “high road” is needed in this case and free services are needed to soothe a customer’s feathers after quoting what the owner seems a fair price for service, customer service may be a bit much for you. The customer is not always right and in these cases, if he got ONE linked client from this, it would be amazing because it normally doesn’t happen at all.

    • @thomascolbert2687
      @thomascolbert2687 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@@elisemiller13It's over your head, bud.

    • @LUCKI_111
      @LUCKI_111 ปีที่แล้ว

      because im cheap 😏

  • @mariolowman3564
    @mariolowman3564 ปีที่แล้ว +2947

    I hate that response from my clients🤦🏻‍♂️😤
    Even worst when it’s a “influencer” saying they’ll tag me in their social media instead of offering a tip

    • @Thawhid
      @Thawhid ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Ooh

    • @PTUS44
      @PTUS44 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      If they are actually popular a shoutout is way more valuable than money as long as u know what to do with it

    • @ucdeBZ
      @ucdeBZ ปีที่แล้ว +56

      Why do i have to give you a tip when the paid you to do a job?

    • @redux467
      @redux467 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@PTUS44no it’s not

    • @slyfox8953
      @slyfox8953 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      Why on earth would they offer you a tip???? THIS IS THE PROBLEM BUD… everyone and their grandmas are asking for tips when you have NO BUSINESS doing so for you’re like or work… at least I GUARANTEE you’ll be out of business in 3 years 💀🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @joshmedici
    @joshmedici ปีที่แล้ว +1550

    Always go for the money, never for the promises.

    • @sergeant64
      @sergeant64 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Please inform the customer that for every neighbour who orders your service, he will receive a 20 percent refund.

    • @ylstorage7085
      @ylstorage7085 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      that's why you remain a small buisiness ran by nobody. never say never.

    • @rickymartin5115
      @rickymartin5115 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      even for super models😅

    • @quantum3406
      @quantum3406 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      What's a promise? (Sarcasm)

    • @thehindenburg3402
      @thehindenburg3402 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@ylstorage7085Big businesses didn't make it big by doing labor for no money and instead just taking promises of riches.

  • @nitsej16
    @nitsej16 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    When you get a call from their friends or family, expect that some of them will expect a work from you for free too.

    • @ButteredToits-
      @ButteredToits- 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Immediately what I thought
      no thank you

  • @paulashe61
    @paulashe61 ปีที่แล้ว +607

    People always love your work until they have to pay for it.

  • @SnakeWasRight
    @SnakeWasRight ปีที่แล้ว +1068

    Never worry about seeming "rude" to a rude person who's trying to get you to work for free.

    • @aprilwilson1260
      @aprilwilson1260 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Amen

    • @brad9529
      @brad9529 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah its tough to change to that stance, it goes against my grain, but I've learnt to be a prick.

  • @markthomas9462
    @markthomas9462 ปีที่แล้ว +574

    Trust me customers like that , you don't want to do business with their friends and family either

    • @brianduca2958
      @brianduca2958 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Because everybody wants the free deal

    • @RandomPerson-nd2ey
      @RandomPerson-nd2ey ปีที่แล้ว +11

      ​@@brianduca2958 Yep. "What?! You charge for driveways? I heard it was included when you pay to get the house done. What a rip off!". Hmm, I wonder where they heard that...

    • @niece585
      @niece585 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Deadbeats

    • @vcommandarv5916
      @vcommandarv5916 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@RandomPerson-nd2eyi mean a driveway is a part of the house, maybe they just thought that it will be included 🤔

  • @williamcorreas
    @williamcorreas 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    As a business owner I heard this a hundred times over. And your right I never heard back from anyone. Lol

  • @Soundscapemind
    @Soundscapemind ปีที่แล้ว +637

    "I'm not willing to pay you for your services, but I have friends that will."
    Yeah that makes total sense 😳

    • @stixoimatizontas
      @stixoimatizontas ปีที่แล้ว +15

      There is that Greek proverb that goes like this "show me your friend and I'll tell you who you are". If you aren't willing to pay, why would your friends be?

    • @user-vw6ym1ix9h
      @user-vw6ym1ix9h ปีที่แล้ว +1

      👍

    • @user-vw6ym1ix9h
      @user-vw6ym1ix9h ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@stixoimatizontas that's right 👈🏻

    • @mato9684
      @mato9684 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      same phrases his friends gonna say, boom, he's in a loop of working for free

    • @OhNotThat
      @OhNotThat ปีที่แล้ว +2

      "I heard good things about you, like you work for free!"

  • @Quinn37
    @Quinn37 ปีที่แล้ว +613

    Absolutely true. I do not want work from people who don't want to pay me.

    • @commenter621
      @commenter621 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      What does work from people mean?

    • @arek3866
      @arek3866 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@commenter621Not complain here!
      BBB instead

    • @juncearyoutube3336
      @juncearyoutube3336 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Exactly, every service has a price, demanding simething for free is just an abuse.

    • @patriciodaniels7168
      @patriciodaniels7168 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@@commenter621
      "I don't want work 'given to me' from people who don't pay."
      It's a little more awkward in this sentence, since 'by people' would be better here, but in the original sentence, this is what they meant by 'from people'.

    • @billybatts9491
      @billybatts9491 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@commenter621 jes talking about jooz. Only jooz try this scam.

  • @picashlio3361
    @picashlio3361 ปีที่แล้ว +365

    A business is a business, you never work for free unless you're volunteering.

  • @jeremycaudill8383
    @jeremycaudill8383 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I’m a general contractor and here this all the time. Customers seem to think that their “referrals” are worth so much.

  • @juliai3956
    @juliai3956 ปีที่แล้ว +360

    Same in the art field, and mechanics. Once people know you have a skill, they will try and take advantage of you because "it's easy for you" or because they'll "give you customers". Never under sell your services.

    • @Dijitz23
      @Dijitz23 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hate those types of people so much. They feel that because you are able to fix something quick and efficiently and make it look easy that they shouldn't have to pay you what your price was. Like the reason I can do it so quick is because of the years I've spent learning those skills. If it's easy then how about they do it.
      I had a lady want me to maintenance on her AC, so I told her I'd do it for $60 she got upset and said this other guy always did it for $40. So I said whatever took $20 off. After I was done she said wow you did way more than what the other guy does and she gave me a $5 tip. Absolute slap in the face.

    • @nashooo5903
      @nashooo5903 ปีที่แล้ว

      You would be absolutely right, if it were in those fields you just talked about, you know, fields that require ACTUAL SKILL and training. But this guy's services aren't precisely valuable. He just owns a pressure washer.

    • @whatthefuckallhandlesaretaken
      @whatthefuckallhandlesaretaken ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This is in all the fields.

    • @juliai3956
      @juliai3956 ปีที่แล้ว

      @whatthefuckallhandlesaretaken I'm an artist and my husband is a mechanic, and I only like speaking to what I know about. But I'm sure you're right.

  • @Icalasari
    @Icalasari ปีที่แล้ว +1144

    Even if you do hear from them, the reason they are calling is because they see you as an easy mark

    • @HolywaffleMC
      @HolywaffleMC ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It's not that deep

    • @bingonamo9716
      @bingonamo9716 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@HolywaffleMC if they tell their friends and family they got it for free for referring now the friends and family expect a free price too

    • @You-are-definitely-right-but
      @You-are-definitely-right-but ปีที่แล้ว +30

      @@HolywaffleMCthis isnt even deep, it’s just common sense and completely normal to assume. Someone scammed you so their friends, if the customer called them, prob want a free job too

    • @TUKByV
      @TUKByV ปีที่แล้ว

      You'll find out eventually. LOL @@HolywaffleMC

    • @mynamegeoff7135
      @mynamegeoff7135 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂😂 easy mark
      We all in oceans 11 now 😂😂😂

  • @T_Money1
    @T_Money1 ปีที่แล้ว +570

    It's always the ones that have the finances that try to beat you. I've had other customers jump in and try to help me and I've had to tell them that they were paying me already. Goes to show you someone's true character.

    • @Beatles0223
      @Beatles0223 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Ain't that the truth! 💯

    • @henseleric
      @henseleric ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Tells you a lot about how they got that money, too.

    • @el.pincheguero
      @el.pincheguero 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Every single time. It's always the ones with money who will barter the hell out of you, or ask for free work. I've had customers on both ends, ones with 6 figure salaries and those with A LOT less and live in the poorer side of town, those are the ones who were always the most generous, never bartered and even gave gifts for Xmas etc

    • @I-Am-Beerus
      @I-Am-Beerus 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@el.pincheguerorich people tend to be greedy, that’s how they got rich is by scamming and tricking people

    • @basedchad6035
      @basedchad6035 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@el.pincheguero just be my slave ffs.
      Im with the costumers.

  • @filipebernardino2152
    @filipebernardino2152 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I always say that I don't need the work, I need the money.

  • @OS-yf3ko
    @OS-yf3ko ปีที่แล้ว +1093

    Yes. 100% true. Never fall for this. It’s literally a miracle if they even pass your name on twice lol

    • @AlanAlan-jc9sf
      @AlanAlan-jc9sf ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Wasting water😅

    • @OryXity
      @OryXity ปีที่แล้ว

      What is there to fall for? They asked for free services... Thats not a scam, its entitled, but not something you can "fall for"... Its not a fucking trick of the light or slight of hand, its asking for free stuff

    • @riverstone9005
      @riverstone9005 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      ​@@OryXityIt's a scam because they very rarely hold up their part in the deal. Chances are they are going to brag about it. "Hey I got this sucker to do my driveway for free!"

    • @grizzlygrizzle
      @grizzlygrizzle ปีที่แล้ว +2

      The kind of people who appreciate your service enough to make a point of mentioning your name aren't the kind of people who make bogus promises to you.

    • @bobxyzp
      @bobxyzp ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Or they pass their name on but how many people you know want their driveways cleaned at any given time?

  • @benztech2262
    @benztech2262 ปีที่แล้ว +1152

    If you cleaned it for free, their friends and family would expect their driveway cleaned for free too.

    • @Professor-Scientist
      @Professor-Scientist ปีที่แล้ว +8

      ALL PRESSURE WASHING SHOULD BE CARRIED OUT FOR FREE

    • @lv7pieromancer779
      @lv7pieromancer779 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@Professor-Scientist haha

    • @whitepaws60
      @whitepaws60 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      @@Professor-Scientist If you do it yourself Yes Its free! Make sure you plumb into your neighbours water line though. Then its truly free

    • @TheSiprianus
      @TheSiprianus ปีที่แล้ว

      Just make it universal driveway cleaning care. The government's monopoly on private spending has been proven to reduce prices, increase quality, and provide an overall positive net to society.
      At least that's what people with zero economic knowledge said.

    • @Matthewgb204
      @Matthewgb204 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@Professor-Scientistno it shouldn’t, hiring a pressure washer is a privilege for those who can afford it, you don’t need pressure washing to survive

  • @kalebpiper8107
    @kalebpiper8107 ปีที่แล้ว +558

    Anytime a customer tells me they're going to have a ton of work I know instantly that they're a one timer.

    • @NikiSells
      @NikiSells ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Not always true. I used to tell upfront to car shops that I drove a ton, and honestly after the shit service from many of them, now I just go to the dealership only cause fuck em small shops. I drive like 40-50k miles a year, so that's me in the shop every 2 months or less.

    • @nanook6620
      @nanook6620 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Even if they did tell others i guarantee they would tell them about the deal they got and thats how you set a precedent of getting cheated.

    • @Apolloneek
      @Apolloneek ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly cause they have a grievance or grudge to not use you now because you didn’t do what was asked 🤦

    • @Razzy1312
      @Razzy1312 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yep, usually the case. Same with folks who call in to complain about something - the ones who mention how they've "spent thousands with you" and so deserve special treatment almost always only have a handful of orders on file rarely even breaking $1000 in total sales.

  • @davcar23
    @davcar23 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I used to own a small home studio where I would make musical arrangements for people who wanted their lyrics put to music. I'd give them a price per song and they would haggle under the promise they would bring lots more songs to work on down the road. I would then tell them that for every 3 songs they payed at my regular price the next two would have a discount, never free. Some would not come back because they wanted my work for free.

    • @mikemurphy5898
      @mikemurphy5898 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I'm a landlord and occasionally I'll get a comment that almost always starts like this..."hey, so...I'm pretty handy. Would you be interested in me doing work around the apartment and then I could take the money off the rent?"
      I always say, "no." Literally, just "no." I'm not rude about it, but the last thing I need is an unlicensed and uninsured "contractor" doing unpermitted work that I didnt want done in the first place without the benefit of getting multiple bids, and them then thinking it's worth 5x the actual market value, for inferior work and/or materials that takes 3x longer than it should to be completed.
      You would not believe the number of people (actually you might, lol) who are offended or act like I'm an @$$h0le for not considerilng this offer.
      My other favorite is the people who don't qualify, typically for not one, but several metrics, who tell me they plan on making more money IN THE FUTURE and that there's a good chance they'd be willing to pay EVEN MORE than the rent I'm asking...because you know how people always start making more money and then decide to gift it to their landlord when they most likely already lack fiscal responsibility and/or competency. I say most likely because it's possible for anyone to fall on hard times but the people who do, and are responsible typically aren't shopping for apartments they can't afford and promising future income to 3rd parties.

  • @DK-vx5co
    @DK-vx5co ปีที่แล้ว +342

    And if they DO bring you friends & family work, it will all be the same penny-pinching sort of clients. Best to avoid this trap.

    • @alankluttz4400
      @alankluttz4400 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Yep, they'll all want a free something lol

    • @rrth556
      @rrth556 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Excellent point

    • @yaoibabe
      @yaoibabe ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You're exactly right

  • @mrturnbull9504
    @mrturnbull9504 ปีที่แล้ว +720

    They acting like you should be grateful for work! 😂

    • @St.CrimsonTweets
      @St.CrimsonTweets ปีที่แล้ว +24

      People do that. I had a lawn care client legit tell me that everyone compliments his yard so I should be willing to do the extras, as if it wasn't my work they were complimentary of. He was off my schedule shortly after that conversation. He has yet to find an adequate replacement 😂😂

    • @jack-vi6rg
      @jack-vi6rg ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Good I love that. You deserve respect for your work

    • @mediokay508
      @mediokay508 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I'd rather be grateful for having the cash to pay my next bill.

    • @Lilbro42069
      @Lilbro42069 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      You should be great full for work. But only the work where you get paid full price and the customer ain't trtna scam you

    • @rickwilliams967
      @rickwilliams967 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Naw dude, he's just kinda dumb and fell for it. This is how he's trying to save face.

  • @avationmusic
    @avationmusic ปีที่แล้ว +384

    As a DJ I'm very used to getting told "we'll pay you with exposure". So annoying 😂

    • @ofkgjsl
      @ofkgjsl ปีที่แล้ว +25

      basically the entire creative industry 😂 they always want the latest shit, cool looking stuff, the WOW effect and not paying a dime for it

    • @craigbrewer2879
      @craigbrewer2879 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Just say no❤

    • @delsings
      @delsings ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Same here as an artist. Definitely keep up the healthy boundaries because nobody is entitled to your labor for free.

    • @BungieStudios
      @BungieStudios ปีที่แล้ว

      @@PotatobrianbrainSpfft. DJs will be using AI and machine learning. AI is a tool to bolster their jobs.
      It’s like when people were saying Zbrush was going to replace Stan Winston Studios. Hahaha. They started using Zbrush in their workflow to make their projects even better. It never replaced them. It became a part of their toolset.
      Adapt or die.

    • @finonevado8891
      @finonevado8891 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      take your meds

  • @JaiShreeRam_901
    @JaiShreeRam_901 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Im a Visual artist and Clients often say the same thing. If you agree with customer's words, youre only degrading your time and value in front of a person whos just scamming you

  • @TheCrystalGlow
    @TheCrystalGlow ปีที่แล้ว +6459

    Remember kids- nice doesn’t pay the bills. 😊
    Edit: holy crap! 6.5k likes?? I definitely wasn’t expecting that much attention lol.

    • @jasondyrkacz8270
      @jasondyrkacz8270 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      The conversion rate for exposure is the same as Confederate money.

    • @tanmav8846
      @tanmav8846 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      I have to remind that to my brother every time he finishes the job with pennies in his pocket and extremely happy customer added to the list.

    • @KasparOnTube
      @KasparOnTube ปีที่แล้ว +10

      and if you are not nice I will sure enough find another person for your job for a next time.

    • @romix6427
      @romix6427 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Fr

    • @tanmav8846
      @tanmav8846 ปีที่แล้ว +64

      @@KasparOnTube being nice and being taken advantage of are two different things.

  • @Linda-sh8ds
    @Linda-sh8ds ปีที่แล้ว +123

    Self employed for 30 years in construction. Heard that many times. Also heard they could find someone cheaper. I thanked them for their time and said bye.

    • @_ABDUL-RAHIM.
      @_ABDUL-RAHIM. ปีที่แล้ว

      How many times did it happen? I mean at the part where they claimed they can find someone cheaper and real ?

    • @1claytoncampbell
      @1claytoncampbell ปีที่แล้ว

      As you struggle to feed your family I bet.

    • @scottyellis3442
      @scottyellis3442 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      If they could find someone cheaper then that's who would be there to start with.
      I was self employed myself for many many years & my price is my price.

    • @ArtjomKoslow
      @ArtjomKoslow ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@1claytoncampbellAt this Type of Business? In these Times? In this Part of the World?😂 Bro, Reality called. Plumbers, Welders, Electricians- Its like printing Money.

  • @Helicard
    @Helicard ปีที่แล้ว +239

    Let the work speak for itself. If they have friends, they will find you

    • @ParkerBG
      @ParkerBG ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You live in a fantasy land.. you must’ve been watching too many Alex Hormozi videos.

    • @TheDemoman873
      @TheDemoman873 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ​@@ParkerBGtf is a Alex Hormozi

    • @alankatsiyev3249
      @alankatsiyev3249 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Its a driveaway cleaning service, aint nobody gonna get amazed and spread ads for you what are you 12

    • @bruh_moment2833
      @bruh_moment2833 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@alankatsiyev3249jeez why you gotta be so negative

  • @jamespham2895
    @jamespham2895 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Very true, there's no shortage of scam artists out there, especially with the new generation

  • @WootTootZoot
    @WootTootZoot ปีที่แล้ว +6

    As a musician, I get the exact same thing. "We thought you could do it for the exposure, and we'll tell other people about you." Yea, that trick really gets old. I make sure I get every detail in writing and include they pay half up front and half when I get there, not after the performance. It also seems like the richer the person, the more they'll try to scam you.

    • @sauronthegreat5799
      @sauronthegreat5799 ปีที่แล้ว

      Th rich people are the cheapest. The average Joe is probably the most generous

  • @904C5ZOSIX
    @904C5ZOSIX ปีที่แล้ว +422

    It happens to me too. I paint, I try to keep my prices competitive. But I stand by all my work and will return if something needs attention. Customer service is most important!!

    • @nevrbdwnruby7484
      @nevrbdwnruby7484 ปีที่แล้ว

      I like that. "I stand behind my work.."

  • @IrishAmericanGenXer
    @IrishAmericanGenXer ปีที่แล้ว +305

    This dude speaks truth! Im a bathroom/kitchen remodeler and if I had a nickel for every customer who asked for a freebie in exchange for "spreading my name around" I would have a literal ton of nickels lol. People are cheap! 😂

    • @chimno3512
      @chimno3512 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I read this as "I'm a bathroom/kitchen model" 💀😂😅

    • @andrewferguson8032
      @andrewferguson8032 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Some people have no shame

    • @tcda6ix361
      @tcda6ix361 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yeah i hear it all the time from usually the cheaper customers, some say they are in real estate and they know alot of people

    • @buyerenogurlfwendo2106
      @buyerenogurlfwendo2106 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Most people who offer to spread your name don’t even bother. And if they do you get similar cheapskate customers who want freebies.

  • @Azeltix
    @Azeltix 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    True with every business. Exposure don’t give you more clients most of the time.

  • @lavellweathersby985
    @lavellweathersby985 ปีที่แล้ว +121

    As a plumber, I've met many customers like this, & they're generally, very cheap. They'll just refer you to more like minded cheapskates.

    • @erik-benz
      @erik-benz ปีที่แล้ว +1

      same in Germany

    • @lavellweathersby985
      @lavellweathersby985 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@erik-benz 👍

    • @lavellweathersby985
      @lavellweathersby985 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@erik-benz Chicago, Illinois

    • @gavindy_Sv2
      @gavindy_Sv2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah this isn’t a scam, he just got screwed over by somebody and now he’s mad. This is actually a very legitimate way for a business to grow and well worth a few minutes of your time if possible.

    • @emperor8716
      @emperor8716 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@gavindy_Sv2 ok cheapskate.

  • @user-ex2yt1pl6u
    @user-ex2yt1pl6u ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Promises mean nothing in the business world. Anybody that has ever worked for themselves know that fact.

    • @welcom3779
      @welcom3779 ปีที่แล้ว

      Only in usa this story. Pepol my contry work by promesse.❤

    • @captainsunbear5472
      @captainsunbear5472 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ha, same goes for working for a company. Boss man has been give me empty promise for a long time.

  • @kriskquinn.68
    @kriskquinn.68 ปีที่แล้ว +604

    Exactly. Never take anything on a promise, it has to be of real tangible value.

    • @KennTollens
      @KennTollens ปีที่แล้ว

      On a promise or payments.

    • @mkvector9539
      @mkvector9539 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Also a written contract and with receipts.

  • @vivianlawrence778
    @vivianlawrence778 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Good for you for having enough honor for yourself to stick to you convictions!

  • @Mordraneth
    @Mordraneth ปีที่แล้ว +65

    As a former web designer and gfx designer, I feel you. If I had a dollar for every potential client that wanted to pay me in "exposure" and "referrals" I'd be rich af...

  • @easyhomelife1076
    @easyhomelife1076 ปีที่แล้ว +258

    he's just described the business model of social media influencers

    • @ZaeOSWS
      @ZaeOSWS ปีที่แล้ว

      😂

  • @milkywayranchsc
    @milkywayranchsc ปีที่แล้ว +76

    That is a good example of maintaining healthy boundaries.

  • @BrianEthridge-wk6hz
    @BrianEthridge-wk6hz 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Good advice I've used it myself. I'm glad you didn't get swindled my friend I got into sales when I was young and did not approve of their tactics in any way shape or form. I don't like the customer screwing over people like you and I don't like company is screwing over the customer.. more power to you keep up the good work

  • @ThePanda6996
    @ThePanda6996 ปีที่แล้ว +192

    As someone just starting a small business, I appreciate this type of insight.
    Keep on keepin on!

    • @zack.dar40
      @zack.dar40 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Better to offer them a partial refund for every customer you get from them.

  • @pdiz
    @pdiz ปีที่แล้ว +252

    This guy is legit. Most people don't own a 30" surface cleaner. Definitely commercial stuff there. Pay this man and pay him well.

    • @Ranger346
      @Ranger346 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Pay him well because he goes out and buys an oversized second hand buffer? Not gonna happen lol

    • @francislutz8027
      @francislutz8027 ปีที่แล้ว

      He has no idea what he's doing.
      He just overlapped 8" of asphalt on the street when surface cleaning the rain gutter.
      So, neither you nor him know what you're doing clearly.

    • @pdiz
      @pdiz ปีที่แล้ว

      @@francislutz8027 Yes, you are right. My bad.

    • @amateur_football9751
      @amateur_football9751 ปีที่แล้ว

      Na, I will pay an ilegal for less and perhaps a better quality of work

    • @pdiz
      @pdiz ปีที่แล้ว

      Everyone’s so nice here on the inter webs…

  • @SheruMuko
    @SheruMuko ปีที่แล้ว +260

    My grandmother had to deal with that for years in the cleaning industry.
    She still does.

    • @ragini-vo8vk
      @ragini-vo8vk ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Sad 😢

    • @melizhamdan3411
      @melizhamdan3411 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That’s sad:(. She shouldn’t even be working at her age 😢😢😢😢😢💔💔💔. Please take care of her

    • @johnreed9050
      @johnreed9050 ปีที่แล้ว

      No Tikky no washy. Oriental cleaners

  • @KierStarmerIsEvil
    @KierStarmerIsEvil ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I know times are tough but to purposely mug someone off is disgusting. Your workmanship is 2nd to none. I hope your business continues to be successful. 🇬🇧👍🇺🇸

  • @SG-wp6sg
    @SG-wp6sg ปีที่แล้ว +78

    Your work will speak for itself.
    No need referrals.

    • @Timoteusmusik
      @Timoteusmusik ปีที่แล้ว

      yeah sure the clean driveway is shouting out the guys number clownnn

    • @specimenx4139
      @specimenx4139 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Timoteusmusik does him a lot better than some guy just saying he'll tell people about him

  • @this_is_patrick
    @this_is_patrick ปีที่แล้ว +421

    Damn, "I'll pay you in exposure" is leaking from the art community.

    • @s_1408
      @s_1408 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I blame it on the "influencer" trend

    • @alexwasthere1
      @alexwasthere1 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@s_1408that’s what he’s talking about. Influencers try to get free art and crap saying they will give you tons of exposure

    • @sunilj2608
      @sunilj2608 ปีที่แล้ว

      It existed way before influencers, or even the internet existed. @@s_1408

    • @katherinedelacruz9876
      @katherinedelacruz9876 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      😂for real I used to think they just did this shit to dancers not I’m seeing people don’t want to pay for ANYTHING

  • @TheBenzdad
    @TheBenzdad ปีที่แล้ว +235

    Have him pay full price and give him a referral kickback when he does give you work

    • @minmo2288
      @minmo2288 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Seen a company do this with influencers and despite saying they will bring thousands of customers they almost always back out 😂 they only needed like 12 referrals to get a full refund on the product too. Just after free stuff 🤷🏻‍♂️

    • @jdpalmer1
      @jdpalmer1 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bird Dog fee.

    • @daviddonahoe1303
      @daviddonahoe1303 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@minmo2288 this works if the kickback occurs after the referred customer pays in full.

  • @andrewgeddes8904
    @andrewgeddes8904 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    What I do is simple. When a customer ask for free or discounted work for the promise of a lot of future work, I tell them "I have to charge you full price now, but if you continue to give us work I will give you a discounted rate in the future." They never call back. But it does shut them up

  • @guderian7795
    @guderian7795 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    Here is a lesson I learned in life. If someone ever says, "I will take care of you" they are lying and are going to cheat you. Don't believe them.

    • @carpathianken
      @carpathianken ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That's exactly what my Ford dealership said to me when I inquired about buying a Ranger. They then proceeded to only offer me a $9,000 trade in & General Motors Holden offered me $15,000 trade in, so of course I went with Holden & I've been driving their car since 2014 & it's been the most reliable & trouble free car I've ever owned.

    • @bunnyboonot4u
      @bunnyboonot4u ปีที่แล้ว +2

      And never trust someone that says, "trust me".

  • @thecommentguy9380
    @thecommentguy9380 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    rule #1 of business: never do it for favors or promises, especially when there's nothing to guarantee that they will keep their word

  • @rj-zz8im
    @rj-zz8im ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I am self-employed and I get this all the time as well. I have found that the lower middle class pay the most and refer the most. The upper classes are the worst when it comes to paying for services they request.

    • @erik-benz
      @erik-benz ปีที่แล้ว

      same in Germany !

  • @vspec17
    @vspec17 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Well done young man. I'm sorry you had to learn that by experience.

  • @adri1leusha
    @adri1leusha ปีที่แล้ว +391

    Even if their friends/familly call you, You'd still have to work... Nothing's free

    • @FredrikSkievan
      @FredrikSkievan ปีที่แล้ว +10

      What? Work is what he wants. But he wont do it for free

    • @specimenx4139
      @specimenx4139 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Even if their friends/family call him, that wouldn't eliminate the fact that he'd have worked for no pay. Nothing's free.

    • @colecampbell1906
      @colecampbell1906 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nah he would likely be down to do it if he KNEW he was going to get alot of extra business for it.
      No shit he still has to do that work too, but it's more paying customers that he likely wouldn't have had. It's not like the "pressure washing driveways" business is in high demand... he probably barely has any customers as it is.
      Only problem was, like he said, they're probably full of shit and just want a free cleaning.

  • @Capttainn
    @Capttainn ปีที่แล้ว +269

    I used to own a weight loss facility. We used to hear this all the time. "I know a lot of people, give me a discount and I'll refer them". We fell for it a couple times then never did it again. I 100% agree with you!

    • @killiancarolan4781
      @killiancarolan4781 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Not surprised you fell for that.
      Oh and “weight loss facility”
      Probably explains why you’re not in the fitness industry anymore 😂

    • @Capttainn
      @Capttainn ปีที่แล้ว

      @@killiancarolan4781 🤣😂

  • @DesignWho
    @DesignWho ปีที่แล้ว +150

    I design websites and have been hearing the same thing for over 15 years. Not sure why they think I would do free work

    • @alcinnovations
      @alcinnovations ปีที่แล้ว

      Similar line of work here, but let me advice you to not make it an ego issue and instead see it as marketing cost - and a real opportunity to get easy work.
      I've been at it for 20 years and doing quite well because of the same clients I met decades ago. Zero need for marketing - most work comes from word of mouth. Freebies can make first-time clients feel like they are getting a great deal... and when they come back, they are more likely to pay full price without hesitation.

    • @DesignWho
      @DesignWho ปีที่แล้ว

      @@alcinnovations I couldn't care less if free work can make first-time clients feel like they are getting a great deal. You ask what they want, give them a price and make sure you get paid half of that before you start and half at the end before you deliver. And always with a contract no matter who it is. That way I make sure I don't do a second of free work. They don't have to agree. They can always find someone on fiverr, or someone that likes doing free work, as long as it isn't me

  • @rodneywilliams6000
    @rodneywilliams6000 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Youre ABSOLUTELY RIGHT!!! I had a schoolmate and his wife tell me that they would have ALL of their co-workers call me.

  • @brettrhoades1202
    @brettrhoades1202 ปีที่แล้ว +290

    “You can’t run a business on a gamble”

    • @lem2004
      @lem2004 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Casino :

    • @thefiendish186
      @thefiendish186 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@lem2004 But for the Casions its not a gamble, its calculated.

    • @Jake-by9ly
      @Jake-by9ly ปีที่แล้ว

      Starting a business is ALWAYS a gamble! DUH!

    • @aightofficial7911
      @aightofficial7911 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@Jake-by9ly Technically yes, but it's more effort, work and consistency than luck.

  • @StuartBrown-h4s
    @StuartBrown-h4s ปีที่แล้ว +221

    100% agree, it happens in all trades. Your exactly right, you never hear from them again.

    • @thomasjoseph5876
      @thomasjoseph5876 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That's why you tell them to give you the names of these friends and family that will be calling you and IF they all call and set up service, you will refund their money for the driveway wash. That way, it gives them an incentive and turns them into one of your salespeople. You can even tell them if they get you xxx amount of other people to sign u for service, you will give them a discount on pressure washing the following year.
      Work smarter, not harder.

    • @RcPlayer-tt2vw
      @RcPlayer-tt2vw ปีที่แล้ว

      At what point are we merely salesman and not just honest work for honest $ might as well pick something more profitable if your good at sales

    • @thomasjoseph5876
      @thomasjoseph5876 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@RcPlayer-tt2vw You won't find a better advocate or "salesperson" for your business than a happy and satisfied customer. They will sing your praises anytime the need for your business arises.

  • @shabinashabbir3379
    @shabinashabbir3379 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    As a graphic designer, I’ve had so many clients say the same thing when they wanted a discount from my end. And those are the ones who end up never referring you to anyone.

    • @somefrigginguy2844
      @somefrigginguy2844 ปีที่แล้ว

      You gotta tie in the work to an effort. Referral programs work, always have

  • @miguelmontero7569
    @miguelmontero7569 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    “Never let someone promise you a job.”
    One of the best pieces of advice a former boss gave me.

  • @noobx0452
    @noobx0452 ปีที่แล้ว +471

    I tell them that I will either give them a discount next time or a referral fee.

  • @huntakilla1234
    @huntakilla1234 ปีที่แล้ว +89

    ''Sorry, I can't pay my rent in exposure''

    • @wynoglia
      @wynoglia ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Wym bro??? I exposed myself to my landlord and I got a month free
      Skill issue

    • @shervonri
      @shervonri ปีที่แล้ว

      @@wynoglia😂😂😂😂😂 lmfao

    • @tammyhayes6920
      @tammyhayes6920 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@wynoglia🤦

  • @eddieknight8392
    @eddieknight8392 ปีที่แล้ว +167

    NEVER TELL THEM THAT YOU OWN IT...JUST SAY ITS AGAINST COMPANY POLICY..

    • @zyanidwarfare5634
      @zyanidwarfare5634 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Yup, you could be just a dude working on his own with a pressure washer like a teen mowing lawns in the summer and still say ‘it’s company policy’
      Mostly because it’s kinda funny in that context, especially if they live a few houses down from you and know you do this yourself but it’s still true because it’s _your_ company policy
      Also as I type this I realize how much I overthought this

    • @kzoll3546
      @kzoll3546 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Never a lie for a lie, always tell the truth and be honest. All you have in this life is your integrity, never lose it.

    • @ronj9933
      @ronj9933 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@kzoll3546If it’s your company just put a policy in place, then it wouldn’t be a lie 🤷‍♂️

    • @GEN47-27
      @GEN47-27 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@kzoll3546 it doesnt have to be a lie. it can actually be in the company policy, and sole proprietorships are also companies

    • @tuliplite
      @tuliplite ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Clever

  • @josephb613
    @josephb613 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Because the customer is NOT always right! In fact, after 20 years in grocery retail, I have concluded that the customer is almost NEVER right!

    • @buyerenogurlfwendo2106
      @buyerenogurlfwendo2106 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The customer is always right in matter of taste. That’s the full quote. It means even if you find something unappealing (look wise/taste wise/etc) you don’t say anything because the customer likes it that way. Let them buy it that way and get the sale.
      Now if they’re trying to cheat the system and get extra value or breaking some sort of policy you can absolutely tell them they’re wrong and handle them accordingly.

  • @jayv9286
    @jayv9286 ปีที่แล้ว +273

    Tell them you’re working on a timeline and didn’t have time to do the driveway, but if a relative or friend hires you you’ll come back and do the driveway.

  • @ifinicle
    @ifinicle ปีที่แล้ว +12

    In the service industry like this, the most horrible customers are always the cheapest.

    • @Cjohn31
      @Cjohn31 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      yep

  • @Honda-4-life
    @Honda-4-life ปีที่แล้ว +10

    You are absolutely correct. I’ve fallen for this atleast a hundred times and guess what? None of there friends or family called me for more work

    • @user-cg7dg7uv8f
      @user-cg7dg7uv8f ปีที่แล้ว +1

      "If you are going to be dumb, you better be tough." I hope you are tough......

    • @riverstone9005
      @riverstone9005 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@user-cg7dg7uv8fSome people are just too nice.

  • @justinhand4518
    @justinhand4518 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Back in the 80's, had a friend who had a lawn care business. Anyone who tried bargaining or wanted large discounts such as above, he walked away from the customer. If he took on that customer, he only be a continuous problem child, always wanting more, just complaining about everything and/or not paying.

  • @cherveny
    @cherveny ปีที่แล้ว +16

    musicians and artists know this feeling well. "we can't Pay you, but think of the exposure you'll get"

    • @marktyler3381
      @marktyler3381 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ain't that the truth. Kudos, they say.

  • @Yemto
    @Yemto ปีที่แล้ว +13

    One of my favorite responses to this sort of thing, "So you're willing to write a contract, guaranteeing me a certain numbers of new customers?"

  • @dylan_1884
    @dylan_1884 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    It’s so hard to not lose faith in humanity when you run your own business. I’m learning this right now in life.

    • @AJourneyOfYourSoul
      @AJourneyOfYourSoul ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Between that and the internet and social media, it is now obvious how messed up so many people are.

  • @willwhite2271
    @willwhite2271 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    EXACTLY!!!! When they tell me that I politely explain to them if i would have done that for the 30 people ahead of them, that I’d be out of business. Hence NOT BEING AVAILABLE to do their job today. No one goes to the grocery store asking for free eggs, they PAY for what they want

  • @KajiinSkyrim
    @KajiinSkyrim ปีที่แล้ว +205

    Basically the artist industry in a nutshell

    • @Idontwant1
      @Idontwant1 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Not only artists. But restaurants, hotels, nail techs, hairdressers, makeup artists. Influencers always want free services for shoutouts. But the influencer has less subscribers than any of the people and businesses that they are trying to scam. A cousin of mine has a beautiful little French cuisine restaurant. And these 3 girls came in and ordered a bunch of food. And someone told my cousin in law to ask before she put the order in. You have money to pay for all this food correct? And the influencers lied and said yes. They did. As she was getting ready to put the order in. One of the girls snuck up to the server window and said don’t bother they don’t have money to pay they were going to try and get you to do it for exposure. Before she went back to her friends. She asked them not to tell them she told the truth. So she brought out the bowl of salad. And she then told them that the owner won’t drop the order until they have the proof that they will get paid for the food. So they have to pay first then he will start cooking. They flipped out and said they were going to pay the main girl said she was disgusted by the insult. Then the 3 girls all pooled their money together and they were able to afford the big salad and appetizer and their coffees. They had $25 between the 3 girls. My cousin made that the house rule. You pay for your tab then he will cook for you. He got stiffed by customers until he realized that they would pay first if he refused to cook until the money was in his hand first. Influencers are the worst.

    • @bustergundo516
      @bustergundo516 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@Idontwant1 agreed

    • @renel7303
      @renel7303 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      "Influencers" are the scourge of the internet age.

    • @BlaacHollow
      @BlaacHollow ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Indeed, Exposure dollars. This also goes with photographers, web and graphic designers as well.

    • @billolsen4360
      @billolsen4360 ปีที่แล้ว

      Never knew that.

  • @SeanAlexanderThirtyEight
    @SeanAlexanderThirtyEight ปีที่แล้ว +41

    People do this in every business. Stand your ground and hopefully you’ll never have to deal with that person as a client. You don’t want to deal with them AT ALL.

    • @nerys71
      @nerys71 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It's kind of a catch-22 because in some businesses it does actually work I'm a professional reviewer all the time I get requests to review stuff because I have a decent following and I do a good job My cost is the item I don't take payments I don't take commissions I don't charge for it you get the item to me and no cost to me if you want the item back that's fine as well as long as you pay to get it back no cost to me
      And it works both ways many many times I have to turn down a review item that I really want but their conditions are onerous and would compromise my integrity I'd like to be doing this 10 years from now if I compromise my integrity I'll be done in a year

    • @nerys71
      @nerys71 ปีที่แล้ว

      People try to do that with things like this services where it doesn't quite work that way :-) so in this context he is correct stand your ground politely tell them what it costs because they're not going to be able to bring you enough business with any kind of assurance to recoup your loss if they have any intention of doing so at all

    • @RcPlayer-tt2vw
      @RcPlayer-tt2vw ปีที่แล้ว

      @@nerys71what do you mean? A product that may be produced or a brand item like a new phone ☎️ and your pay would be that phone your reviewing?

    • @nerys71
      @nerys71 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@RcPlayer-tt2vw I'm sorry I don't understand what you're trying to say I read it many times I tried to figure out which words might be in the wrong place or could be using different words? But I can't understand what you're trying to say can you rephrase it?

  • @rumbelboss9467
    @rumbelboss9467 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Here in Mexico we have a saying: "To trust is good, but not to trust is even better".
    Don't believe any promises, especially from people you just met, even worse, from clients that are (sometimes on bad faith) procuring for their interests.

    • @Keo
      @Keo ปีที่แล้ว

      same thing in italy, "fidarsi è bene, ma non fidarsi è meglio",
      "to trust is good, to not trust is better"

  • @AbyaaJones
    @AbyaaJones 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Kudos to you for sticking to your standards 💯

  • @505Hockey
    @505Hockey ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Artists are asked to work for "exposure" all the time; good to see they aren't the only ones it happens to. Good on you for holding your ground.

    • @stixoimatizontas
      @stixoimatizontas ปีที่แล้ว +1

      If I wanted exposure, there are traditional and modern social media :P

  • @Meadowwing
    @Meadowwing ปีที่แล้ว +470

    You're so right and it's so sad that we take advantage of each other ...just shows how we have given up our self respect as a society

    • @Genesis8629
      @Genesis8629 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Demons lie to get ahead.

    • @anthonyxuereb792
      @anthonyxuereb792 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      We?

    • @Mandorle21
      @Mandorle21 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Bro we're like this since 300.000 years ago when humans were born. It's literally just how humans are. Self respect as a society? What are you talking about? What society? American society?

    • @dakmycat3688
      @dakmycat3688 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Not we. I’m not in that percentage 🤨

    • @krisanthony5228
      @krisanthony5228 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Wild assumption to draw after listening to a guy with a pressure washer for 20 seconds

  • @booliev3275
    @booliev3275 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Been there. When I started my business I was naive enough to believe in customer's promises... then I learnt.

  • @shannonchavez3420
    @shannonchavez3420 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    You are exactly right! You wont get any calls from friends n family. Thats bullshit!!

  • @KillyDS
    @KillyDS ปีที่แล้ว +144

    That's when you tell them you'll give them credit for each new customer toward future services.

    • @MOZAHABI
      @MOZAHABI ปีที่แล้ว

      Amen

    • @tomtomirvin
      @tomtomirvin ปีที่แล้ว

      ^ this! 100%

    • @duMaurier15
      @duMaurier15 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Exactly or just a straight up 3-5% referral fee.

  • @caidalee1994
    @caidalee1994 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Even if you do hear from their referrals, it’s only gonna be “They said you did their driveway for free, so that’s what I want.”

  • @anniehoe-k1b
    @anniehoe-k1b ปีที่แล้ว +261

    So true. Greedy customers only want free

    • @russellprice808
      @russellprice808 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I've heard this so many times. I don't need your exposure. My art is already known.

    • @buabua-uf5jn
      @buabua-uf5jn ปีที่แล้ว +4

      So you’re saying you wouldn’t want a clean driveway for free?

    • @buabua-uf5jn
      @buabua-uf5jn ปีที่แล้ว

      Can’t blame them

    • @russellprice808
      @russellprice808 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @buabua-uf5jn nope I pay people for their services

    • @jessicaseet8289
      @jessicaseet8289 ปีที่แล้ว

      Corrrect..
      N selfish bullying..

  • @iamextremest
    @iamextremest ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yup. People are complete scumbags and liars. Good for you for standing your ground and not being a sucker. Always disappointing when I hear some poor soul. Paid up front for something and then got ripped off. People, yall have got to be smarter and see the world for the shit hole it is...