Love is a combination of Trust, Care, Secure, Understanding, Respect with a sweet feeling of emotions with the significant other. If you're not experiencing these completely don't get into a commitment too fast. It will drain your energy to an unwanted person. Think about it.. it's your life. It applicable to guys also while choosing a girl for him. Also view them from your parents/God point of view whether they are good match or not.
Mam nowdays girls are so intelligent in choosing her boy yes. But at the same time there are also girls who choose a wrong boy by just have physical attractions they give there whole life to him and then they come to know all about the dark side of the boy. So please give speech about how to choose boy like not only based physical attractions. Also based his family, age, job, responsible and all other thing.. Bcs life of a girl and boys is only abt sex na... Yes sex life is sooo important i agree that but also other things are also important for todays practical life... Sooo pls pls make video on how to choose a boy based on all aspects not based on sex. Pls save grls life
Not just girls life but both the person's life.. true.. what you have said.. it will be very useful if she consider your request.. for many unmarried girls as well as guys.. wishing every singles in the world to get a happy and healthy life..🙏🙏🙏 God bless everyone... Stay positive
Am always believe ur speech.... now am going to getting married...I search my partner like ur idea...Am forward thinking.....How i convince my parents...mam
@@dashavanisri5511 pls never do that mistake of blindly following horoscope. It has nothing to do with understanding.. who ever you chooses take good time before marriage.. that's why they keep a gap between engagement and marriage. Understand a lot about the guy.. don't come to a conclusion with just one or two meets.. I mean bcz initial meets la both will be focusing of impressing each other and tend to act very smart and artificial and very ADJUSTING.. but never go with that opinion.. take some time try to become frnds.. you be urself in all the meets and don't change any of your habits. The same should be with the guy. If both of you like the same then you can choose that guy. Need not be like both should have same thought process or similar taste.. but both should understand and respect each other's that's what is required in a long term commitment. Most importantly speak out loud about whats your opinion about marriage truly and again not with the Moto of impressing the guy. Get to know his opinion also. What you want from marriage life.. how you going to plan your personal Carrier life.. both of you should discuss. In that way you both will get to know each other better and it won't be a surprise later.. all I learnt from my life.. thought of sharing. Pls give more care while choosing. No one else will do that for you. You have to dutiful and careful while choosing.
Naa love pannen... Enga parents ta sollitum...they too accept us.. But epa enga family LA Konjam financial problem ah eruku... So marriage ku dowry Paiyan Vetula expect pandra level ku panna mudila... So Naa love panna Paiyan "epa Epdi soldriga..before eh sollalam LA...ennaku life support ku dowry Venum" nu Opeb ah enta soldraga..dowry illama marriage panna matigala nu etharthama Keten...athu Kastam..money ready agura vara wait Pandren.. Apa marriage pannikalam nu Paiyan soldraga...i don't know what to do..😔love pandra Paiyan 35k salary vaaguraga.. Own house property onnum illa... But naa nalla Paiyan.. Enna happy ah vaichita podhum... Avaga kudukura money LA ennala family run panna mudium nu soldren... He is not hearing that...pls anyone guide 🙁😞
Don't marry this type of waste boy Akka. He respects money more than you. In future also he will expect a lot from your family which will give you a lot of stress. So it's better to leave him in my opinion. He feels entitlement to your family money despite your family problems. You deserve a boy who respects and takes care of you
Marriage pannina piragu future nalla irukkanumnu money expect pandraanga ithu Ellarukkum irukkura problem correct. But Oru side mattum ( Ponnu veedu ) dowry expect pandrathu thavaraana vishayam wrong system that are following. Future nalla irukkanumnu niraiya pasanga money serthu vachirttu dowry ethuvum ethir paarkkama ponna kalyanam pannikkiraanga . Marriage na ponnu thaan dowry kudukknumnu ethavathu fate ah ? So , leave that kind of person permanently . Because he always consider money first not you .
26.4.20 Government and Company CSR funding should support people who want to remain unmarried and are not interested in marriage and wish not to increase the Indian population which results in environmental degradation such as spoiling of rivers, lakes, ponds, groundwater sucking, spoiling of agricultural lands by concrete buildings. There should be some mechanism or Programme for such Support. By this we may get, some times, self- less, service-minded people, for public activities, like Vivekanandar, Kamaraj, etc without family bondages.. At least the religious Mutts should evolve some programmes. They should not live in Mutts but in society. Just like the family pensioners from Govt. their unmarried status can be confirmed periodically and some may help REALLY in Nation building without corruption. We should try.
Madam nanum en hus check pana sonen because didn't satisfy me he also know that he had not interested in sex... But atha oru periya issue aaikitaru husband
கருப்பா, அழகில்லா பெண்களுக்கு வரன் கிடைக்கிறதுஇல்லை. அப்பெண்கள் குடிகாரன், சோப்லாங்கி, வெட்டி இந்த மாதிரி ஆட்களை வேறு வழியின்றி மணந்துகொள்கின்றனர். பெரும்பாலும் ஆண்கள் அழகான பெண்களையே விரும்புகின்றறனர் மனதை பார்ப்பதில்லை.
ஆமா நீங்க மட்டும் என்ன கேரக்டர் பாத்தா கல்யாணம் பண்ணுறீங்க? வசதி, பாக்குற வேலை இதெல்லாம் பாத்து தானே மாப்பிள்ளை பாக்குறீங்க. பெண்களுக்கு வந்தா ரத்தம், ஆண்களுக்கு வந்தா தக்காளி சட்டினியா
முட்டாள்கள் தான் அதிகம் பெண் பெண் ...உசத்தியா பேசி பேசி ஆண்களை அடக்கி ஒடுக்கி அவன கொன்னுட்ட அவன் குடுகாரன வீழ்ந்தூ போவான்.பெண் இருக்கும் அதே சதை மனசு தான் ஆண்களுக்கும் இருக்கு பெண் அடிமை போய் இன்று ஆண் அடிமை கொத்தடிமைகளாக குடிகாரர்கள் சாகிறான் இதுக்கு உங்க மட்டம் தட்டும் முட்டாள்கள் தான்
26.4.2020 It sometimes looks like that women are comparable to a nuclear power plant. That is why they are called as Sakthi, I think so. If gives power to the surrounding. If the control rods are removed in the nuclear power plant, there is uncontrollable nuclear chain reaction and it ends like a Chernobyl nuclear accident. Here, it ends in family disputes. How? If the man is very good with no controls on his wife with all freedom, we see, in most of the cases, the wife gradually gets disinterested in him. Slowly she thinks that THE fellow has no brains and is an idiot. Even the children are reared by her telling them about their father on those lines. She may even worry about the traffic police but not the husband. As time goes on, the wife will not tell her husband even if she plans a long tour with somebody else or any major purchases, Chit Fund, etc. She may not consult him, even for name-sake, and everything will be taken as granted. This is happening in so many families now-a-days, as there is no joint family set up now. For example, if there is a ferocious bull-dog manager in Office, he would get the beautiful current New Year Diary or calendar and a smooth butter-manager would get only a 10 years old diary (imagine it as Service), because he is a Good Harmless Man with no nuisance-value, no shouting, whereas the bull-dog manager will create problems for survival in office and his target dates are honoured. Good husbands are made as Sombu-managers by wives. I lived a happy married life till date(65 years). But I see lot of unhappiness among youngsters. The present culture is that the husband should honour all the wishes of his wife without any constraints. As a doctor you have to tell why this is happening in families.
Pariyarist, why u adding that word of people there is no pannadmii ok there is equality only ok u destroing our culture, iam watch ur vedio but now i fell so sad
டாக்டர், எனக்கு உங்கள் உதவி மிகவும் தேவை படுகிறது.. நான் எப்படி உங்களை கான்டக்ட் பண்ணுறது? இது மிக அவசரம்
Makes perfect sense Mam,,... Thanks a lot for being a role model and a Mentor... :)
Very good doctor. Your speech is very knowledgeable for women and men. Thank you very much doctor 🙏💐💕
Love is a combination of Trust, Care, Secure, Understanding, Respect with a sweet feeling of emotions with the significant other.
If you're not experiencing these completely don't get into a commitment too fast. It will drain your energy to an unwanted person.
Think about it.. it's your life. It applicable to guys also while choosing a girl for him.
Also view them from your parents/God point of view whether they are good match or not.
Right
You are my inspiration..i have great respect for you mam..love you mam💐💐😊☺️
😋😋😋😋😋😋😋
You never prevaricate. You are always to the point. A great guide to youngsters.
Friend daa erukkanum , solemate ta erukkanum correct taana point mam.
Correct ma’am you are best
🙏சுப்பர் அம்மா👍👌
Valuable one🔥
Much needed video for me now ... 🙏
Mam nowdays girls are so intelligent in choosing her boy yes. But at the same time there are also girls who choose a wrong boy by just have physical attractions they give there whole life to him and then they come to know all about the dark side of the boy. So please give speech about how to choose boy like not only based physical attractions. Also based his family, age, job, responsible and all other thing.. Bcs life of a girl and boys is only abt sex na... Yes sex life is sooo important i agree that but also other things are also important for todays practical life... Sooo pls pls make video on how to choose a boy based on all aspects not based on sex. Pls save grls life
Not just girls life but both the person's life.. true.. what you have said.. it will be very useful if she consider your request.. for many unmarried girls as well as guys.. wishing every singles in the world to get a happy and healthy life..🙏🙏🙏 God bless everyone... Stay positive
சிறப்பு..
Am always believe ur speech.... now am going to getting married...I search my partner like ur idea...Am forward thinking.....How i convince my parents...mam
same happening in my family...
Friendly ya ethir pakura 😍
Divya neeya?
Neenga dhan madam nalla irukkum pengalayum kedukuradhu....
😂
Good speech 👍
100% correct
Varee nise
Family life is adevil
Love u mam💕
Thank you madam
Boy bestie patthi passunga maam
Poda poriki
Podi baadu
@@divyapriyachennai2356 avar ena thappa sonnaru
GOOD SPEECH MAM
Nandri nandri nandri nandri nandri nandri nandri nandri nandri nandri nandri nandri nandri nandri nandri nandri nandri nandri nandri mam
How men should choose women
Mam please 2nd marriage and how to select pathi sollunga Mam
Mamiyar marumagal uravu epdi irrukanum and marumagal epdi irrukanumnu sollunga mam
Fact.... Mam
How to contact shalini mam to ask queries.
Super speech medam
Sound clarity is very low
Nice
Perfect madam
பணம்தான் தேர்வு
How to choose right person in arrange marriage plz tell me. I'm a girl. Currently I'm having this situation
Enna choose panringla?? ... Me too waiting for a good one with confused situation.....
@@MrTransporter5 ha ha 😂
Unga jathagam parunga first..athil epadiepatta husband varum nu irukkum..unga jathagam good ah irunthal good husband varum
@@dashavanisri5511 pls never do that mistake of blindly following horoscope. It has nothing to do with understanding.. who ever you chooses take good time before marriage.. that's why they keep a gap between engagement and marriage. Understand a lot about the guy.. don't come to a conclusion with just one or two meets.. I mean bcz initial meets la both will be focusing of impressing each other and tend to act very smart and artificial and very ADJUSTING.. but never go with that opinion.. take some time try to become frnds.. you be urself in all the meets and don't change any of your habits. The same should be with the guy. If both of you like the same then you can choose that guy. Need not be like both should have same thought process or similar taste.. but both should understand and respect each other's that's what is required in a long term commitment. Most importantly speak out loud about whats your opinion about marriage truly and again not with the Moto of impressing the guy. Get to know his opinion also. What you want from marriage life.. how you going to plan your personal Carrier life.. both of you should discuss. In that way you both will get to know each other better and it won't be a surprise later.. all I learnt from my life.. thought of sharing. Pls give more care while choosing. No one else will do that for you. You have to dutiful and careful while choosing.
Just a sec.. I just saw the reply was added 8 months back.. are you already married?
Semma mam...my parents are over protective tho😧
Me too sis😢
Mee too
அது தான் உண்மை
Naga pavam ilaiya 🤗🤗🤗🤗
Super
Super sir
Nice Mam
Ippavum apdi tan irukanga some...for their mom and dad
Because all in all amma appa
இவர் சொல்வதுதான் வாழ்க்கைத்துணை தேடலின் அறிவுப்பூர்வமான அணுகுமுறை.
All points correct but Over Feminism irukkuravanga enna sollurathu .
Madam,,, appearance wise attraction important na inga nerya boysku marriage agaathu!!!!
Naa love pannen... Enga parents ta sollitum...they too accept us.. But epa enga family LA Konjam financial problem ah eruku... So marriage ku dowry Paiyan Vetula expect pandra level ku panna mudila... So Naa love panna Paiyan "epa Epdi soldriga..before eh sollalam LA...ennaku life support ku dowry Venum" nu Opeb ah enta soldraga..dowry illama marriage panna matigala nu etharthama Keten...athu Kastam..money ready agura vara wait Pandren.. Apa marriage pannikalam nu Paiyan soldraga...i don't know what to do..😔love pandra Paiyan 35k salary vaaguraga.. Own house property onnum illa... But naa nalla Paiyan.. Enna happy ah vaichita podhum... Avaga kudukura money LA ennala family run panna mudium nu soldren... He is not hearing that...pls anyone guide 🙁😞
Don't marry this type of waste boy Akka. He respects money more than you. In future also he will expect a lot from your family which will give you a lot of stress. So it's better to leave him in my opinion. He feels entitlement to your family money despite your family problems. You deserve a boy who respects and takes care of you
😂😂 Nadar caste ah?
Marriage pannina piragu future nalla irukkanumnu money expect pandraanga ithu Ellarukkum irukkura problem correct. But Oru side mattum ( Ponnu veedu ) dowry expect pandrathu thavaraana vishayam wrong system that are following. Future nalla irukkanumnu niraiya pasanga money serthu vachirttu dowry ethuvum ethir paarkkama ponna kalyanam pannikkiraanga . Marriage na ponnu thaan dowry kudukknumnu ethavathu fate ah ? So , leave that kind of person permanently . Because he always consider money first not you .
சொந்தத்தில் சில வேளைகளில் இப்படியான ஈர்ப்பு வருகிறது இல்லையா? ஆனால் தேர்வு என்பது மரபணு மாற்றத்தின் தேவை இல்லையா இது எப்படி எடுத்துக்கொள்ள
சொந்தத்தில் திருமணம் செய்வது நல்லதா? கூடாதா?
ஆண்களுக்கும் மனசு இருக்கு கனவுகள் இருக்கிறது
Use full and required information mam it happens in. Many home @🙈🙉🙊
Why girls are traveling only a save zone
26.4.20 Government and Company CSR funding should support people who want to remain unmarried and are not interested in marriage and wish not to increase the Indian population which results in environmental degradation such as spoiling of rivers, lakes, ponds, groundwater sucking, spoiling of agricultural lands by concrete buildings. There should be some mechanism or Programme for such Support. By this we may get, some times, self- less, service-minded people, for public activities, like Vivekanandar, Kamaraj, etc without family bondages.. At least the religious Mutts should evolve some programmes. They should not live in Mutts but in society. Just like the family pensioners from Govt. their unmarried status can be confirmed periodically and some may help REALLY in Nation building without corruption. We should try.
பணம் தான் பெரியது என்று கருதுகிறார்கள்.
I think girls expectation is more and girls can't find a person with that characters.
That's why many men are left single
Sound low low
Madam nanum en hus check pana sonen because didn't satisfy me he also know that he had not interested in sex... But atha oru periya issue aaikitaru husband
Hi
Adhela edhum paka vidradhilla ipa ela...
Mam highly educated male 10th qualified female'a marriage panalama
If he treats her equally irrespective of education status, it would be good.
If he degrade her, it would not be good option.
Ipti tha ponungala ethivituranga.... Athanala tha helicopter a kekuranga
hindhu kovil la sami aadurathu patri solluga please mam
Nice question sir...
Ama sollunga mam
Sani aadurathu is just depressed feeling bursting out and seeking others attention.
So late... for me .... iam Raman
Ninga soldradhellam engaluku puriyudhu...aana parents ku purilaye☹️
Aaamaam bro 😥😥😥😥
கருப்பா, அழகில்லா பெண்களுக்கு வரன் கிடைக்கிறதுஇல்லை. அப்பெண்கள் குடிகாரன், சோப்லாங்கி, வெட்டி இந்த மாதிரி ஆட்களை வேறு வழியின்றி மணந்துகொள்கின்றனர். பெரும்பாலும் ஆண்கள் அழகான பெண்களையே விரும்புகின்றறனர் மனதை பார்ப்பதில்லை.
100%sathavitham unmaiiiii
@@simpleartandcraft274 100 % ஆண்களை படித்த மாதிரி உங்க விருப்பத்துக்கு சொல்றிங்க
@@simpleartandcraft274 எனக்கு கருப்பா இருக்குற பொண்ணு தான் புடிக்கும் ...
ஆமா நீங்க மட்டும் என்ன கேரக்டர் பாத்தா கல்யாணம் பண்ணுறீங்க? வசதி, பாக்குற வேலை இதெல்லாம் பாத்து தானே மாப்பிள்ளை பாக்குறீங்க. பெண்களுக்கு வந்தா ரத்தம், ஆண்களுக்கு வந்தா தக்காளி சட்டினியா
முட்டாள்கள் தான் அதிகம் பெண் பெண் ...உசத்தியா பேசி பேசி ஆண்களை அடக்கி ஒடுக்கி அவன கொன்னுட்ட அவன் குடுகாரன வீழ்ந்தூ போவான்.பெண் இருக்கும் அதே சதை மனசு தான் ஆண்களுக்கும் இருக்கு பெண் அடிமை போய் இன்று ஆண் அடிமை கொத்தடிமைகளாக குடிகாரர்கள் சாகிறான் இதுக்கு உங்க மட்டம் தட்டும் முட்டாள்கள் தான்
Appo ellarum love marriage panna soldrimgala
All , money eruintha ok ya, girl 90 % accept......
Karthi Thangavel wrong
True money is main
ethuthaga meadam eannga appa Amma up date hagala meadamm
Palaiya murai vara vendum pennin arumai purium
26.4.2020 It sometimes looks like that women are comparable to a nuclear power plant. That is why they are called as Sakthi, I think so. If gives power to the surrounding. If the control rods are removed in the nuclear power plant, there is uncontrollable nuclear chain reaction and it ends like a Chernobyl nuclear accident. Here, it ends in family disputes. How? If the man is very good with no controls on his wife with all freedom, we see, in most of the cases, the wife gradually gets disinterested in him. Slowly she thinks that THE fellow has no brains and is an idiot. Even the children are reared by her telling them about their father on those lines. She may even worry about the traffic police but not the husband. As time goes on, the wife will not tell her husband even if she plans a long tour with somebody else or any major purchases, Chit Fund, etc. She may not consult him, even for name-sake, and everything will be taken as granted. This is happening in so many families now-a-days, as there is no joint family set up now. For example, if there is a ferocious bull-dog manager in Office, he would get the beautiful current New Year Diary or calendar and a smooth butter-manager would get only a 10 years old diary (imagine it as Service), because he is a Good Harmless Man with no nuisance-value, no shouting, whereas the bull-dog manager will create problems for survival in office and his target dates are honoured. Good husbands are made as Sombu-managers by wives. I lived a happy married life till date(65 years). But I see lot of unhappiness among youngsters. The present culture is that the husband should honour all the wishes of his wife without any constraints. As a doctor you have to tell why this is happening in families.
Ladies Nala ketukonga
@poula doss 😂😂😂
Ponnunga friend mari payyanah theda matanga..kaasu irukanu papanga..naanga pasanga kaasu vandha apram,ponnungala kaasuku velaiku vanga arambichitom.oneday onegirl apdinnu.Ithu therinjum ponunga accept panikuranga marriage la❤
பாதிநேரம்தெரடர்களைபார்த்துதேர்வுசெய்யகிறேரம்சரியா
Naanga relationship illa but chemistry wrok ahamattuthu medam
பொண்ணு பாக்க போனா புடிக்குதா இல்லையானு சொல்லவே மாட்டராளுங்க
Therinja solluva ga bro
Neega ponnu alaga eruntha ok solluringa
AMA deepa ponnu ku alagu venum
Ethana ponnu pathinga romba feel panuringa
@@DeepaDeepa-oz4qm athu oru ponnu
Neega soldrathula OK dhan but intha generation girls love la over advantage eduthukuranga madam
சாதகத்தில் சில உண்மைகள் உள்ளது அது அனுபவபூர்வமான கணிதம்
அதான் 2020 இந்தாண்டு பாத்தோமே
Periyaarisam pesurinka pesunka pesunka...
Biased comments. She is speaking more biased towards females!
Good marketing 😂
🙈🙊🙉
Your method big flop in western society
Neenga. Liifela romba kasta pattiruppinganu ninaikiren.....
*இவளுக என்ன நம்ம சூசு பன்னறது*
இப்படி மானம் கெட்டு கமிட் ஆகுறத விட...
மொறட்டு சிங்கிளா இருக்குறதே கெத்து...
இவன்
காட்டுமொறட்டு சிங்கிள்
நேர பாய்ண்ட் சொல்லுக சும்மா வள வள நூ
varalaru theriyama analyze pana mudiyathu
Du
zero information and totally irrelevant to the topic. In short ivanga video poruththa varaikkum pengal lam geththu aangal lam veththu
First nengaa mudhalla unga husbanda nalla parthukkuringala
அதற்க்காக பெற்றோர் பேச்சைக் கேட்க கூடாதா
Looking for only branded imaginary mind set.
Pariyarist, why u adding that word of people there is no pannadmii ok there is equality only ok u destroing our culture, iam watch ur vedio but now i fell so sad
Destroy culture ah🤣🤣🤣 fool
ஜனங்களை கெடுக்காதிங்க ஏதாவது சொல்லி !!!🙄🙄
Curt bro
Blaa bla bla blaa blaaaaa.... Again bla bla bla
Why did you even click the video on 1st place?
பாஸ்கர்பாஸ்கரன்நலம்சரியாபாஸ்கர்குழுநலம்சரியா
Nice speech doctor