I feel like someone abused by a narcissist would say something similar though. You miss them when they're gone but when they're back and start treating you like crap again you remember all the hurtful things they've done to you.
But the difference is, the victim doesn't forget the bad things. Instead, they find ways to justify the narc's bad behavior. "They've lived a tough life" or "They're ill and don't really know what they're doing" or "Maybe I'm just overreacting and they aren't that bad". This kind of reasoning is part of the game. Narc's manipulate people to believe that the NARC is the victim.
People with CPTSD or a trauma bond are so disregulated they can look worse than the narcissist but the difference is that the narcissist is playing a game and needs power and control while the victim wants reciprocation and can't understand the perversive dynamic.
Yes, but the difference is that they actually have said and done hurtful abusive things. They BELIEVE they are the victims because you accidentally spilled a little milk once. But they expect the partner to tolerate not only their abuse but also their partner isn't allowed needs,wants, or to be less than perfect. The person with npd, is who I am referring to. They don't have reasonable expectations of the other person. But they don't just do this to the intimate partner, but to anyone they feel threatened by, or anyone they devalue. Most people have to have good reasons to be upset with someone or at least circumstances that are explainable causes. Narcs do not. They'll devalue over petty things or nothing at all in some cases.
Disagree.. and agree. Lol i believe they actually really like total phycopates ect. ( Boss ) .. i hear... And i see it.. theyll despise you as a empath!...( Get pissed off with all yur petty, stupid, sad, weak love/care. The exact opposite way we grow to despise them for being petty, stupid, sad weak using/ slavery.. Covert preditors dress as peacefull, loving, funny, silly , ( anything that covers the preditor evils )
What I meant was they are literally wired that way so to them they dont feel they're doing anything wrong. I'm sure many of them have sought help but just as many simply dont care. @@michaeljackson7361
He missed the fuel, not her. Some narcissists can kill their partners and then kill themselves in some kind of psychotic rage. I think narcissists are constantly battling against psychosis and the power, control and abuse sometimes are the only thing that keeps them alive. We forget they don't have a real self. They are arrogance in an empty shell.
I knew this Hispanic man that was emotional horrible to his daughter and wife, he felt he was a good man because they had nice apartment and food on the table for them. The daughter moved out when she was an adult and only maintained a relationship with the mother. He continued to treat the wife horribly and she died of a stoke. The daughter was distraught and guilt ridden to have had moved out and left her mother with him. She’s outraged he continues to act as if he was a very good husband/father to her and her mother. She keeps extremely minimal contact with her father. His side of the family act like she’s ungrateful. If you can, run away from these Narcissist. They ruin people’s lives and health…
Right, because there is no actual love from the narcissist, Just the desire to be loved, Cared for, adored, prioritized. Isn’t capable of, or doesn’t want to reciprocate.
yeah, when my husband was at work, in town but especially out, he would text, text text . . . so "sweet" hearing a song that made him 'miss me', shared title and artist so i could listen. BUT, when he got home . . rage, criticism, gaslighting, physical abuse etc. i caught on 3~4 years before i walked away. i did not respond, did not comment. he would ask if i got his messages, i responded with a bland yes. again with the rage, hatred and assults. the most bewildering relationship ever. none of it made sense.
We are even as I never loved the narc eighter. I was gaslighted, manipulated, kidnapped, stalked, framed into ”relationship” that didn’t really exist. I loved someone else but the narc didn’t let me go. 😢😢😢 For me the vibe, they way I feel in someome’s presence means a lot. And it tells a lot if I feel relaxed, like I can be myself and trust, then it’s a good person. But I NEVER feeled this way with the two narcs! They just create confushion and keep pushing themselves into the life of their victim. It just confusion, not love. So have zero care about what they feel. These men can rotten in hell, I don’t care. And I say that with love, my heart feeling like it could have love again inside. Love is gentle and patient. Something the narcs always lack.
Can’t someone who is being abused by the narcissist feel the same way? Missing them when they are not around, ruminating over good times but when they are with the narcissist they remember why ghey tried to get away?
came to the comments for this. It could also be an expression of borderline tendencies for the same reason basically. They (the partner) idolized themselves in the beginning and then after the mask came off you wonder what the hell you are doing with that person. Like, I don't know them, they are not what they said they were etc. But now you've invested so much of yourself and are afraid to be alone again, because it took you so long to find this one. Do I really deserve more? Etc. Is this love? Baby don't hurt me ;)
@@TheDavveponken There are also many hormones and neurotransmitters that keep the victim hooked. It's like an addiction, similar to when someone has a physical trauma, the body starts pumping natural opiates. Oxitocine is also produced and don't forget that narcissists are hooked with adrenaline too and they get a fix when they rage at someone. The difference is that the narcissist wants to manipulate and destroy the person they are with but the victim doesn't want to cause any harm but be loved. I think there's a huge gap in terms of intentions and values.
The funny thing is this is exactly how I feel about my narcissist now we are in the devaluation stage I hate him and the more I stay the more I despise him
Right now he hates me because I’m always available to him. He usually gets back and send his photos to get back all the love and compliments from me when I start isolating myself. This is oscillation we have with each other. I hate it!!!!! They won’t change unless God himself intervenes.
Yes this is EXACTLY how I feel in the presence AND absence of a Narcissist. When gone they are thinking of me-missing (control) of me. When they are with me and satisfied I will engage with them, they quickly lose interest and Cannot Wait to leave-get away from me. A painful emotional See-Saw. I’ve made efforts to distance myself from people exhibiting this pattern BUT they often become agitated by absence and frankly pretty aggressive-showing up uninvited-angrily demanding to know what I have been doing. Mostly i am hanging out myself - feeling isolated but safer not exposing myself to others who behave this way. Worry about just stating directly for them to stay away. I’m fearful of the inevitable smear campaign to follow. It’s not my first Narcissistic Disorder rodeo unfortunately. Family was as well. I’m done with it all. Just a little hard to extricate oneself without more damage.
I tried and yep, got more damaged. Maybe I'd still be trying to go back, otherwise. I think sometimes we don't learn big important truths until they are sizzled into our heart mind and gut with a big branding iron. I'll never go back, I cut the bridges as much as possible so I couldn't even think about it.
@@lizh1988 yes it takes what it takes to be aware of the patterns and how they affect us…then up to us to make choices for ourselves. Hard work 😓 sometimes…but necessary
They miss what you do for them and how you make them feel superior to you (because when you're with them, remember? They despise you and see all your flaws and only your bad habits). Trust me, they will drop you like a hot potatoe as soon as they find someone "better", in their submissiveness and beauty.
DANISH- I find it so interesting, no matter what culture, language or nation... in the entire world...ALL the narcissists behave the same. Mindblowing...
Jeremiah 17:9 - The heart is deceitful above all things, And desperately wicked; Who can know it? To become wise; you must first become a fool! I was a fool for 44 years and then God gave me His glasses- Read the Word and you will SEE! Danish- you have been given the gift of healing the traumatized by God Above! HalleluYah!
No they really just like toying with their supplies mind until it breaks or they get fed up enough to leave the toxic person completely, they are insane.
So true no shock what they are like after another no contact with my narc mother she messaged “can you ever forgive me my beautiful daughter ? That cos she’s not to control no supply and I’ve got nothing to say Said it all done it all and I do forgive her but I’m done
Omgah!!!!!!!!!!!! My Sep husband who I believe is a narc, told me this almost verbatim!!! This makes me want to sob. He said when he isn’t with me he misses me and wants to be with me but when we are together he just remembers all the bad and then doesn’t want the marriage. It’s the scenario of being all good or all bad. When we are apart, he sees the good. When together, he only sees the bad. Makes so much sense now. But is there any hope. No. Still damaging and abusive. 16 times he’s told me he does or doesn’t want marriage. I am exhausted.
Honestly as someone who has had family members who are narcs it makes sense that theyre trying not to lose control but they dont realize theyre doing that....thry mask it from themselves as well as others to be what thryve learned to be love. Sick but sad ...they have to have had some intense trauma or abuse to think that way and by tbe time they get labeled, it almost too late for them to reverse the damage inside of them let alone the damage done outside of them. Ive heard of narcs being able to recover but it takes alot of courage on their part to face themselves....
I thought the same thing too. Except I realize I don't really get much attention in my relationship, and while I miss my partner, I notice the pattern that when we are together, I'm on eggshells all the time, worried about what flaws of mine are going to be made fun of, used against me as weapons, and that and my character, values and self-esteem attacked and degraded. And that's when I realize the it's all about the other person wanting control. Yes, we miss the narc, but that's because we just want things to be normal again - like they were during the love bombing & sex bombing face. We're left like addicts, picking up scraps wherever we can. So yes we may say similar things, but actions and behaviours are the true telltale story here.
If a narcissist confess the truth. They'll have to repent, feel conviction, change and see themselves for who they are and that would probably kill them. They're demons! They have to live with their selves. They are dying inside. So heal people, they are suffering! Pray move on love on YOU!!!
Narcissists love to give you an illusion of safety only to take It back and feed on your pain. They're incapable of loving unconditionally, It's always a game.
I don I guy, I feel that about my ex and just hooked back up only to leave her again when I remembered why I left the first time. I think this isn’t a narcissistic thing at all, I’m as much an empathy as you’ll ever meet.
They have the nerve to be jealous after all the dirt they do in the streets or actually in their own home if you are on business travel or not watching, it’s even difficult for a PI to get dirt on these scumbags
This is because they only see the introject, so when theyre face to face, the actual person cant possibly match the idealized internal object and the narc cant stand it
As i didn't went in my life ontime, or " whan i can"... I was told i manipulate my family just to stay in control. For my discusting lazy wrong... benefit.?!?. Well, through time, its true, better to mind my own bizz.
Narcissists feel the same way about themselves. Human beings tend to evaluate and measure others against their own personal judgement. So if they feel a certain way about you it’s because that same thing bothers them about themselves so they are repulsed by it. It must be really hellish to have that disorder. I’m guessing it’s from years of criticism by a parent figure. They are on a never ending quest for perfection to please and get approval from anyone.
His father passed away yesterday and he not redy giving me divorces 2 yrs i am no contact,now as his father passed away he called me suborn in my spam mail. He tried to say we are still connectes and bounded😮
This tendency is described in many books about attachment theory. Given the information you provided, this could be a narcissist, or it could just be someone with an avoidant attachment style and very unhealthy coping mechanisms. Not sure I’m buying your level of certainty at all here…
They are quick to tell everyone else how good you are, how good they have it
But they have to be completely desperate to say that to you
This is soon true! Then everything is like "huh? He speaks so good about you though?"
You put it out there perfectly
I feel like someone abused by a narcissist would say something similar though. You miss them when they're gone but when they're back and start treating you like crap again you remember all the hurtful things they've done to you.
I had the same thought.
But the difference is, the victim doesn't forget the bad things. Instead, they find ways to justify the narc's bad behavior. "They've lived a tough life" or "They're ill and don't really know what they're doing" or "Maybe I'm just overreacting and they aren't that bad". This kind of reasoning is part of the game. Narc's manipulate people to believe that the NARC is the victim.
People with CPTSD or a trauma bond are so disregulated they can look worse than the narcissist but the difference is that the narcissist is playing a game and needs power and control while the victim wants reciprocation and can't understand the perversive dynamic.
exactly!
Yes, but the difference is that they actually have said and done hurtful abusive things. They BELIEVE they are the victims because you accidentally spilled a little milk once. But they expect the partner to tolerate not only their abuse but also their partner isn't allowed needs,wants, or to be less than perfect. The person with npd, is who I am referring to. They don't have reasonable expectations of the other person. But they don't just do this to the intimate partner, but to anyone they feel threatened by, or anyone they devalue. Most people have to have good reasons to be upset with someone or at least circumstances that are explainable causes. Narcs do not. They'll devalue over petty things or nothing at all in some cases.
That is why, no matter how hard I tried, nothing was ever enough. So glad I am gone.
i just can’t believe they don’t take any accountability for their actions. it’s so awful and hurtful.
I SOOOOOOOOO agree 💯💯💯🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼⚖⚖⚖
What? Never 👎 unless it’s part of some boomerang that’s coming around or just another pack of lies to see what we do
They just cant be happy with anyone at all.
Agree!
They always have “the grass is greener” mentality.
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Disagree.. and agree. Lol i believe they actually really like total phycopates ect. ( Boss ) .. i hear... And i see it.. theyll despise you as a empath!...( Get pissed off with all yur petty, stupid, sad, weak love/care. The exact opposite way we grow to despise them for being petty, stupid, sad weak using/ slavery..
Covert preditors dress as peacefull, loving, funny, silly , ( anything that covers the preditor evils )
They are sick
Sadly it's built in, they don't know any better.
@@iamaduckquack bull shit , they know
What I meant was they are literally wired that way so to them they dont feel they're doing anything wrong. I'm sure many of them have sought help but just as many simply dont care. @@michaeljackson7361
That’s what I just told someone a few weeks ago after they told me he’s a piece of sh**
Maybe but everyone has it and they just have it a little more
This explains why someone I know was so mean to his wife until she passed and then he missed her so much...
Yup exactly. And I'm sure he treated her badly while she was alive. I know because when I was severely sick he wasn't around.
He missed the fuel, not her. Some narcissists can kill their partners and then kill themselves in some kind of psychotic rage.
I think narcissists are constantly battling against psychosis and the power, control and abuse sometimes are the only thing that keeps them alive. We forget they don't have a real self. They are arrogance in an empty shell.
They miss their punching bag
I knew this Hispanic man that was emotional horrible to his daughter and wife, he felt he was a good man because they had nice apartment and food on the table for them. The daughter moved out when she was an adult and only maintained a relationship with the mother. He continued to treat the wife horribly and she died of a stoke. The daughter was distraught and guilt ridden to have had moved out and left her mother with him. She’s outraged he continues to act as if he was a very good husband/father to her and her mother. She keeps extremely minimal contact with her father. His side of the family act like she’s ungrateful. If you can, run away from these Narcissist. They ruin people’s lives and health…
Right, because there is no actual love from the narcissist, Just the desire to be loved, Cared for, adored, prioritized. Isn’t capable of, or doesn’t want to reciprocate.
You are correct, can't be love👏
yeah, when my husband was at work, in town but especially out, he would text, text text . . . so "sweet"
hearing a song that made him 'miss me', shared title and artist so i could listen.
BUT, when he got home . .
rage, criticism, gaslighting, physical abuse etc.
i caught on 3~4 years before i walked away. i did not respond, did not comment.
he would ask if i got his messages, i responded with a bland yes. again with the rage, hatred and assults.
the most bewildering relationship ever. none of it made sense.
We are even as I never loved the narc eighter. I was gaslighted, manipulated, kidnapped, stalked, framed into ”relationship” that didn’t really exist. I loved someone else but the narc didn’t let me go. 😢😢😢
For me the vibe, they way I feel in someome’s presence means a lot. And it tells a lot if I feel relaxed, like I can be myself and trust, then it’s a good person. But I NEVER feeled this way with the two narcs! They just create confushion and keep pushing themselves into the life of their victim. It just confusion, not love.
So have zero care about what they feel. These men can rotten in hell, I don’t care. And I say that with love, my heart feeling like it could have love again inside.
Love is gentle and patient. Something the narcs always lack.
This love / hate thing has been romantized a lot though. 😢 When it’s not love.
Yes... this is how exactly they are
It was always weird. They will say how much they love you, yet when they are in your presence, it's totally contradictory.
Crazy narc ~ run run don’t look back even ❤ is blind
Stop saying run …you can very quietly walk away and never look back
Yes and in a not crazy desperate sounding verb like running
Can’t someone who is being abused by the narcissist feel the same way? Missing them when they are not around, ruminating over good times but when they are with the narcissist they remember why ghey tried to get away?
Yep
I was thinking the same exact thing
Fucking sad
@@jonathonmullis4653 it is :/
@@aprilmurch1054 scarily accurate. Like an inevitable forever vhanging experience. I view life completely different now
Narcissistic abuse victims often experience similar things before the trauma bond is broken....
came to the comments for this. It could also be an expression of borderline tendencies for the same reason basically. They (the partner) idolized themselves in the beginning and then after the mask came off you wonder what the hell you are doing with that person. Like, I don't know them, they are not what they said they were etc. But now you've invested so much of yourself and are afraid to be alone again, because it took you so long to find this one. Do I really deserve more? Etc. Is this love? Baby don't hurt me ;)
@@TheDavveponken
There are also many hormones and neurotransmitters that keep the victim hooked. It's like an addiction, similar to when someone has a physical trauma, the body starts pumping natural opiates.
Oxitocine is also produced and don't forget that narcissists are hooked with adrenaline too and they get a fix when they rage at someone.
The difference is that the narcissist wants to manipulate and destroy the person they are with but the victim doesn't want to cause any harm but be loved.
I think there's a huge gap in terms of intentions and values.
They are really freaking crazy
The funny thing is this is exactly how I feel about my narcissist now we are in the devaluation stage I hate him and the more I stay the more I despise him
Get out
Right now he hates me because I’m always available to him. He usually gets back and send his photos to get back all the love and compliments from me when I start isolating myself.
This is oscillation we have with each other.
I hate it!!!!!
They won’t change unless God himself intervenes.
Please get out of this toxic dynamic.
You will wish someday that you should have left sooner.
@@thesilentkiller3320 yes I have disappeared altogether. Thankyou!
Yes this is EXACTLY how I feel in the presence AND absence of a Narcissist. When gone they are thinking of me-missing (control) of me. When they are with me and satisfied I will engage with them, they quickly lose interest and Cannot Wait to leave-get away from me. A painful emotional See-Saw. I’ve made efforts to distance myself from people exhibiting this pattern BUT they often become agitated by absence and frankly pretty aggressive-showing up uninvited-angrily demanding to know what I have been doing. Mostly i am hanging out myself - feeling isolated but safer not exposing myself to others who behave this way.
Worry about just stating directly for them to stay away. I’m fearful of the inevitable smear campaign to follow. It’s not my first Narcissistic Disorder rodeo unfortunately. Family was as well. I’m done with it all. Just a little hard to extricate oneself without more damage.
I tried and yep, got more damaged. Maybe I'd still be trying to go back, otherwise. I think sometimes we don't learn big important truths until they are sizzled into our heart mind and gut with a big branding iron.
I'll never go back, I cut the bridges as much as possible so I couldn't even think about it.
@@lizh1988 yes it takes what it takes to be aware of the patterns and how they affect us…then up to us to make choices for ourselves. Hard work 😓 sometimes…but necessary
They miss what you do for them and how you make them feel superior to you (because when you're with them, remember? They despise you and see all your flaws and only your bad habits).
Trust me, they will drop you like a hot potatoe as soon as they find someone "better", in their submissiveness and beauty.
Powerful. Thank you
don't want to lose the supply the individual offers them
DANISH- I find it so interesting, no matter what culture, language or nation... in the entire world...ALL the narcissists behave the same. Mindblowing...
Same evil energy and intent at work.
Perfect example of how they will intentionally harm you WORSE if you ever go back!
Jeremiah 17:9 - The heart is deceitful above all things, And desperately wicked; Who can know it?
To become wise; you must first become a fool! I was a fool for 44 years and then God gave me His glasses- Read the Word and you will SEE!
Danish- you have been given the gift of healing the traumatized by God Above!
HalleluYah!
Exactly!
THEY ARE BS
YES 💕💕💕💕
Amen to that dear Darnish.
True and sad .
From JANESVILLE, WISCONSIN USA
That’s exactly what I realised my N was thinking about me- it was very heartbreaking. ❤from Australia 🇦🇺 and thank you so much!
Makes sense. That’s why when my narc is away he’s always sugar sweet nice to me on the phone. He comes home and I’m lucky to get a hello from him.
Because they don't give they contine to propetuate there lack of self esteem
Exactly true😢
100% true Danish 👍
My God you are so really right my friend very good 🇬🇧🙏🙄
This was exactly much experience in my marriage. It was torture. Coparenting with him is the same..
“It’s fun. It’s funny. It feels good.”
Well... This explains a LOT 😢
Forbid that they ever get a compliment, as they may feel good.
It’s deeper than that it’s a way to make sure they don’t get hurt
That’s the perfect explanation of what my mother does to me. She Loves me so much she hates me
No they really just like toying with their supplies mind until it breaks or they get fed up enough to leave the toxic person completely, they are insane.
Yes! This is it! Lived it
....
A narcissist actually went to a therapist ? Nope
Its the old push-pull!
That’s the avatar in their mind that is always idealized. Thus the Hoover.
this is what i was starting to feel. He would pressure me into seeing him, then he'd show up being all miserable and angry
Yes and they deserve better HOW?! Wow. They expect insane things, not even reasonable.
Thank you for all you do with your content and teaching it has helped me tremendously in my awareness of myself and the narcissist in my life .
So true no shock what they are like after another no contact with my narc mother she messaged “can you ever forgive me my beautiful daughter ? That cos she’s not to control no supply and I’ve got nothing to say
Said it all done it all and I do forgive her but I’m done
They miss acts of service NOT the actual person just what they could GAIN with that person being around.
Omgah!!!!!!!!!!!! My Sep husband who I believe is a narc, told me this almost verbatim!!! This makes me want to sob. He said when he isn’t with me he misses me and wants to be with me but when we are together he just remembers all the bad and then doesn’t want the marriage. It’s the scenario of being all good or all bad. When we are apart, he sees the good. When together, he only sees the bad. Makes so much sense now. But is there any hope. No. Still damaging and abusive. 16 times he’s told me he does or doesn’t want marriage. I am exhausted.
Honestly as someone who has had family members who are narcs it makes sense that theyre trying not to lose control but they dont realize theyre doing that....thry mask it from themselves as well as others to be what thryve learned to be love. Sick but sad ...they have to have had some intense trauma or abuse to think that way and by tbe time they get labeled, it almost too late for them to reverse the damage inside of them let alone the damage done outside of them. Ive heard of narcs being able to recover but it takes alot of courage on their part to face themselves....
It's true what you saying thanks 🇬🇧🙏
Yet they don’t realize THEY too are DEEPLY FLAWED????
This is how as a Victim, I saw my Narc Ex.
Indeed revealing 👍
I feel this for my narcissist ex, am I being a narcissist?
No. You just have actual feelings.
I thought the same thing too. Except I realize I don't really get much attention in my relationship, and while I miss my partner, I notice the pattern that when we are together, I'm on eggshells all the time, worried about what flaws of mine are going to be made fun of, used against me as weapons, and that and my character, values and self-esteem attacked and degraded. And that's when I realize the it's all about the other person wanting control. Yes, we miss the narc, but that's because we just want things to be normal again - like they were during the love bombing & sex bombing face. We're left like addicts, picking up scraps wherever we can. So yes we may say similar things, but actions and behaviours are the true telltale story here.
Really!!!!!
The nurses say when they passing away they loud and all alone. No one can take in for any abuser.
If a narcissist confess the truth. They'll have to repent, feel conviction, change and see themselves for who they are and that would probably kill them. They're demons! They have to live with their selves. They are dying inside. So heal people, they are suffering! Pray move on love on YOU!!!
Don't send me!!!! Turned out to be: what's the next ("" my""step) to do," to live"...no please -will not ever please them. Just scared. Mybe a lot.
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Fascinating!
The MOST CONFUSING THING IS I WILL NEVER KNOW IF I AM A NARC
Narcissists love to give you an illusion of safety only to take It back and feed on your pain. They're incapable of loving unconditionally, It's always a game.
"A narcissist recently told me" sure dude 😂
Energy vampires
They are ACTORS. HEARTLESS, but they act big hearted, with fake words. No actions. Empty promises. Lies.
A big thunderclap...😮😮...
I don I guy, I feel that about my ex and just hooked back up only to leave her again when I remembered why I left the first time. I think this isn’t a narcissistic thing at all, I’m as much an empathy as you’ll ever meet.
Giver versus taker
They have the nerve to be jealous after all the dirt they do in the streets or actually in their own home if you are on business travel or not watching, it’s even difficult for a PI to get dirt on these scumbags
Thats shokingly nice jacket sweater
So true
This is because they only see the introject, so when theyre face to face, the actual person cant possibly match the idealized internal object and the narc cant stand it
As i didn't went in my life ontime, or " whan i can"... I was told i manipulate my family just to stay in control. For my discusting lazy wrong... benefit.?!?. Well, through time, its true, better to mind my own bizz.
Yeah. That's messed up.
Narcissists feel the same way about themselves. Human beings tend to evaluate and measure others against their own personal judgement. So if they feel a certain way about you it’s because that same thing bothers them about themselves so they are repulsed by it. It must be really hellish to have that disorder. I’m guessing it’s from years of criticism by a parent figure. They are on a never ending quest for perfection to please and get approval from anyone.
So true Danish
Be careful they will slip something in your drink too
I'm so curious to know what the narcissist's reaction was to what you said!! Presumably defensive.
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woow.. A Narcopath confession! Did you just talk with my ex bf? cause that really sounds like him😂😂
If you are physically sick around another person then I would think it is likely they are a narcissist and you can and should get away from them.
I do that 😅
His father passed away yesterday and he not redy giving me divorces 2 yrs i am no contact,now as his father passed away he called me suborn in my spam mail. He tried to say we are still connectes and bounded😮
They don't know love or have a soul. Technically a psychopath .
Nice top !!
so true
This tendency is described in many books about attachment theory. Given the information you provided, this could be a narcissist, or it could just be someone with an avoidant attachment style and very unhealthy coping mechanisms. Not sure I’m buying your level of certainty at all here…
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Wow
Woooow
Wondering what the narcissist said after receiving insight to his idealization/devaluation dilemma. Let me guess: It is her fault..