Why Black Women Are So Loud And Angry. 😡 Are They Really That Loud?
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 12 ก.ย. 2024
- This video provides education of perceptions and misunderstanding of African-American women and the pressures that they face in society, careers and as a culture.
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i agree they .. WE .. are loud .. it’s cringy and sad depending on the setting .. other settings it’s fine .. i personally speak with a higher octave.. angry.. i don’t think we are angry but we definitely talk to mf much .. need to learn to listen
Good thing you looked yourself in the mirror. Now we know to avoid you XD
its just a ofturn to be honest not to be insulting i cant stand it no other black man probally too
I think it's the history in the genes inside the person.
Some of em have histrionic personality disorder. Look up & read the Wikipedia article on it. Many employers do NOT want a black RoseAnne character in their office. What some black women view as flamboyant & charismatic? Some employers view as crass, fake & rude. It’s a balance. But it’s probably just plain HARDER… to BE… a black woman in a mostly white society.
@@Opa_Joke A Black spouse indicates consciousness, racial pride, strength, and a high self-image
A non-Black spouse indicates isolation, shame, weakness, and a poor self-image
Never excuse bad behaviour.
Exactly!!
Damn right!!!
Same applies to latinos, natives, hindis, and arabs.
@@gerrekurquidez3044 it applies to ever race u clown
@@gojo9141 Thanks
I am a Black woman and I wonder myself why black women always on edge and want to fight all time. I witness the attitudes in my neighborhood, stores, and outing. I have had encounter with other black women being loud, offensive, and so quick to want to fight.
this is extremely embarrassing for you. if you have any black friends that are women, i want you to read this to them
And this is why I avoid most "black spaces". I'm a quiet introvert who is happy serving her family and playing video games. I have zero in common with loud, obnoxious women who just want to yell, play Russian roulette with their wombs, and fight all the time.
@@Theescapist_87 EXACTLY!!! Why other races FLEE the hell away when them invade the neighborhoods that OBAMA is paying their mortgages so they can invade! I heard a black woman even admit this.
Don't tell white lizards that the legacy of being an aunt Tom
Lib fibs I mean sorry
I’m Hispanic and every time I have an interaction with a black woman i feel I have to be extra polite so they don’t get triggered, if I just talk to them like I do with any other person they immediately give me an attitude. They easily blow up on other women that are not black. That’s my experience.
Sophia ... that is so sad and I wish I like apologize for them but I’m afraid it’d never finish. No one should have to tip toe around someone’s feelings to simply communicate
Oh honey, DO NOT ever be overly polite !! They surely don’t deserve it !!!!
I've had that experience, too. I requested calmly and tastefully by saying, "Ladies, please your volume is loud." I was told, "Shut up cracker."
"You could always leave."
@@brianpearson3540 that’s just sad and pathetic!! Makes me ashamed 😔
I don't hold a grudge. Myself being a nurse, I'm used to disrespect. Not that I welcome it or to say that I'm a doormat. I do defend my principle of respect when necessary.
I also think that some black women have been raised by mothers who were angry and yelling at them as a child so they literary don’t know what or how to love others since from childhood, all they ever got was yelling, hate and cursed at.
Spot on!!!
th-cam.com/video/LuvdhrjQMv0/w-d-xo.html Like the poor children here that were most certainly affected by the way the women acted in this video, by the end the kids were scared to death and crying, poor kids. But, because of this, they will be doing it themselves one day to their kids. It's a vicious cycle.
@@privatename2648 Lack of personal responsibility and just stupidly thinking that it's normal is the reason why the cycle won't end.
@@KingPrime they don’t have Dads in their lives. That’s the Women’s fault gotta learn to make better decisions on learning how to keep a Man.
That's a very good point.
I'm a 39 yo black man and I learned in my early twenties to leave BW the **** alone. I've been married to my Chinese wife now for 8 years.
Smart move my guy.
very smart move
Good step forward away from hell
At every job I’ve had I’ve had black women have issues and drama with people less than half their age. They have beef with everybody, doesn’t matter who.
True and they always treat you like shit no matter how good you are
@@ExploreWithYasaa black women ? You mean Africans Americans ?? Also why you gee genera king them
And then they wonder why aint nobody wants em
@@OzPozzy278 who said nobody wants them ??? At least they pay attention to their studies and all that nowadays , . Their education , wealth and ect are ten times higher then black men . Also nowadays they going to where they loved meaning other races guys loved them more then y’all brokies could
oh well! sucks for you lol
It is embarrassing as a black person myself, but yes allot ALLOT of black people are absurdly loud. I have a problem in every American apartment/home & hotel I’ve ever been in I have had problems with black people being too loud, and inconsiderate.
We are given more and more chances as the decades go by, but I’m just not seeing that much progress from us, It’s disheartening.
Definitely get your point!! You want people to respect you, yet you don’t give the respect that you desire. Truly disheartening
@@KingPrime Black people are way too loud. Really annoying!
it seem to to be getting worse as the millenials blacks start to troop in. i was at a fucntion and i saw this black boy of maybe 7 years old being twerking on a middle school girl
@@osazuwaogbeide1540 the younger generation of all races are very different and loud
I bet you wont say the same when Ronnie Coleman gets loud
Respect comes from taking responsibility for your actions, not making excuses.
Facts!!
I don't like speaking to black women.
I can get yelled at for just doing nothing.
As a black man in my sixties, I’m always amazed as to how many angry black women I come across. I work in hospice care facility, and I can tell you all other races of people even under the conditions for them being their are always cordial and in a good place. But when it comes to some of our women they most often time give out the most negative vibe without even speaking. Never a smile or kind word. It’s almost like they hate me as a black man. But yet again others are always for the most art hospitable and welcoming.
Those are facts!! And the nonverbal queues are just as impactful. But let them tell it, they’re not mad 😡😅🤷🏽♂️
have you met every single black woman in the world or sum?💀
@@STARGRLS90% of them act the same so basically yeah. I dated 2 black women… never again.
@@STARGRLShe never said everyone. Just a whole lot of people
@@nickcanon 90%? my love, youre delusional. just because you dated 2 black women did something doesnt make every single one of them bad LMAO
I am latina and lived on the border my life and was not raised with racist beliefs so when I moved to Houston, I thought of everyone as equal. I will say that white people are racist but non threatening whereas my experience with black, especially women, is borderline abusive. I remember having to leave to a different dentist bc the black ladies there didn't know how to do their job and were rude and gossipy. I learned only about the angry black woman stereotype LATER and I think stereotypes are based in truth
I’m so sorry that you’ve dealt with this. I hate when people live up to the stereotype because it not true for all. At the same time, we must preserve ourselves to be in a healthy, loving, supportive environment. Thanks for sharing and I hope you can give another chance and perhaps gain a positive experience. 🙂🙏🏾
this.
How did you know the white women were racist, if they weren’t aggressive? Could it be your own assumptions?
That’s sad, but remember it was in the backs of Blaxk women that even allowed you to come to the country and be given privileges that even “ black women themselves still don’t have . If you want to know why black women are so angry , open up your history books, take a look at this thread - the answers are there , everyone just seems to overlooked them and gaslight
@@jpark7271What
God I'm so sick and tired of the black woman is a queen crap, for god's sake give me a break !!!!. How about a black woman is a woman , now did that hurt ? And as far as the black woman being the most disrespected , I find I get that whine whenever you don't do what they say , or let them have there way. Not to mention when you don't entertain there head movement, and hands on the hips talking foolishness trying to scare you .
Yes, some seem to argue just for the sake of arguing. On the “Kings and Queens” intro, it’s just my way of addressing the audience at a higher level
I saw a I’m a queen set of pajamas I did NOT buy them no thanks 🙏🏽
@@nikicarrie4071 "I saw a I'm a queen set of pajamas" What in the world are you talking about ?
@@maduro169 pajamas that said I’m a queen did you not understand my sentence?
@@KingPrimeIt’s just cringeworthy, it’s the way we talk to toddlers. Is that how black people think of themselves?
Being loud has no excuse. If you are loud and angry, then you need to stop....period. If you dont and continue then you are ignorant and will be called names. This is what the black woman wants.
Definitely agree that there are no excuses… I think people that act this way should have a special place for all of the loud people to occupy 😂😂😂… let them torchere one another🤣
Same goes to anybody respect others how you want to be treated period
They can be angry just not a bitch to people.
I could bring up Black Women who buy expensive weaves when they struggle to buy food and keep the lights on, but that's a whole other topic...
I have been dealing with black women since the fourth grade, And they have put me through so much shit that I’ve gotten to the point where I just don’t want to deal with them anymore. I was talking to this one black girl and I said to myself, I’m gonna give them one last chance. Once she discovered that I don’t listen to rap music she treated me like shit...Just like all of the black women I’ve dated before her.
That’s a you problem 😺your generalizing then lmaooo
@@ilikebread7052 Exactly
I’ve been mistreated for not wanting to dance, but now that I don’t listen to rap anymore I’m pretty sure I’ll be restricted to bad-attitude Christian blacks.
@@ilikebread7052 people that choose not to generalize usually talk loud and make exceptions for bad behavior.
@@3amMONDAY bro what 💀worry about getting a job 🥰
I'm black and it annoys the f*** out of me when Africans are loud with other people around.
Yessssss...... it’s embarrassing
That’s how my dad is on the phone. 🤦🏾♂️
Depends for me. If they are laughing and enjoying themselves, I’m not bothered. If they are expressing bad behavior and profanity is over the top, then yes, it can be bothersome. However, I refrain from judging and allowing myself to come out of my happy place.
This comment is riddled with ignorance,
The fact that you can group an entire continent of people altogether is absolutely ridiculous like I said in the previous comment some peoples language and culture requires them to project.
@@KingPrime you were agreeing to this is crazy unwashed in racism you have to completely understand other cultures, Russians English and Irish are just as loud I live in the UK and I can tell you that wholeheartedly however, it doesn’t embarrass me. It doesn’t personally affect my image. I think you are completely whitewashed and you don’t understand cultures some cultures naturally speak faster and have a loud tone to the accent if somebody is lying, if you don’t like it simply move away and move on by trying to understand other peoples culture all people allowed not just black women depending on where they are if there’s a celebration or whatever people do not have to conform to make you comfortable because you are uncomfortable in blackness, that’s not to say that blackness is loud that used to say that people should be able to express themselves without your level of ignorance.
I sit here at an upscale fitness center in the pool and hot tub area. Everyone else save for children are speaking quietly or saying nothing. Who else but two 300lb black women have to be holding a conversation loud enough to be heard by all. From past experience, I'm assuming they are trying to get my attention, as they left one hot tub to come to the one I'm in. I give them zero attention. Headphones on meditation to drown out the chatter about "he don't" and "dey better". Interestingly, I know they ride from the gym will be silent. Nothing to say.
They are also playing loud music on their phone with the speaker instead of headphones like everybody else.
Even I as a black man I dare not say anything. Certainly screams of "discrimination" would be sure to follow. The cowardly club workers, most 20 something white kids, wanting to avoid "any problems" would take their side.
I leave it to you to determine if they are loud or not. I know the answer.
See..... that’s that bull right there!!! Hilarious with your description 🤣🤣🤣, and embarrassing to hear that they validated what many think. Bro, I with you on this one. And why do they think the world owes them something. The entitlement is ridiculous sometimes. No excuse for it.
I love the way you write. You’re magnificent.
I hear you loud and clear. I avoid many but there are some very classy sisters too.
great post!
Exactly. ZERO EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE. Period.
“Avoid loud and aggressive persons; they are vexatious to the spirit.”
-Desiderata
I am Puerto Rican and have taught race relations in my 20’s in the Army. I am more familiar with “black culture” than most Americans. I am concerned that you are “politely” making excuses for what most of us know is bad behavior.
There is really good reason for it, Puerto Rican. Read my above to Alexis. When the stock market crashed, the Great Crash, it is my understanding there were people that flung themselves out windows. My point is...people cope with trauma in different ways, and blacks aren't supposed to have reaction. They're simply expected to be abused and to shut up and take it. Now, I don't condone bad behavior. My goal here is not to make excuses for bad behavior. However, show some blankin' respect for the trauma that black people have had and continue to experience!!!!!!!!! You think you are the expert on black culture!!!! YOU DON'T HAVE A CLUE UNTIL YOU ARE A BLACK PERSON, PUERTO RICAN!!!!!!!!!!!
Hi Nelson!! I love the fact that you have so much awareness on this and as a veteran myself, I know how much this matters. I was attempting to cover both sides of the coin and be somewhat diplomatic and informative. I can totally see your point and there’s definitely no excuse for the rachet behavior that is sometimes given.
Great point! I hate the loudness and not being self aware. Nightmare partner….
King Prime never made any excuses! He was giving you insight of which you apparently are not aware of. In addition, your comment blanketed every Black Woman. Now that is disturbing!!
@@mon2863Hamilton How about believe in your self and quit the victim mentality?! You are responsible for every choice you make. Independent but all black women were blanketed by a comment? The dissonance is crazy!
I searched for this because I have noticed something,I'm a black girl myself (18),but I'm Caribbean not African American, today a guy told me he likes they way I talk, and most black women are loud, I felt kind of insulted as a black person myself but I realized it's true
I work at a fastfood restaurant most disrespectful and loud person are my fellow black sisters, once you find one that is polite eventho there's a problem with their foods it's like gold,like unusual
But I have noticed it's mostly African American, us Africans and Caribbeans have been raised completely differently,but let's not judge them
Here in the US, the society is responsible for this,its like they always have to be defensive u know ,but anyways those words are just my opinions and how perceive the society here
It’s quite shameful that the loud ones spoil it for the few sisters are that so behave in a respectable manner. There are so many factors that influence this behavior… including the ones that you mentioned.
Sooo true!!!
Lol those Caribbean women and African women especially have passive aggressive attitudes just as rude
@@underconstruction6432 I don’t really know what you are talking about, maybe the ones you have encountered, y’all are trying so hard to emasculate black woman lol
Pick one yuh either African or Carribean? 🤨 Yuh cant say your carribean then say "Us Africans" as if AA arent African aswell.. 🤔 Uneducated carribeans have a bad habit of doing that
As a black man I ask the same damn thing! They also listen to their single black lonely girlfriends over their own husband if their married.
Them lonely skanks will ruin your marriage.
you making a comment like this but then wondering why we dont fw yall. cuz yall say shit like this
@@STARGRLS No correction….We don’t Fw yall
@@ReconExpert52Who
The sisterhood is toxic among our community my brotha. The husband or male head is no longer respected.
My peers have called me out of my name of how I carry myself. I have been bombarded incessantly by other black folks with why I speak the way I do. All because I refuse to perpetuate the stereotype of a "black woman".
If you want to receive respect, you have to give respect....
Bingo!!!
So if you don't receive respect you just disrespected...modern women
💯% yes.
Amen baby girl
exactly!
I'm a black woman. But mixed. I live with a black woman who is dark. We are roommates living in a house. When she talks, she's loud. And sometimes she yells. I'm a very quiet person. It bothers me. I'm a broken INFJ and I hate confrontation and conflict, because of my past bad experiences. I did tell her that one time to be quiet. And oh boy, she exploded. See, that's why I don't like confrontation. It got worse. So I told the landlord about her. He said that he can't throw her out. Have to wait till two or three months to evict someone. So I have to wait till June or July. Lol. I can't move out because I don't have enough money to do that. I also found out recently the reasons why people talk so loud is because they were once silenced and abused and never had a voice before or they have control issues and can be very bossy. Another reason why is because they need to feel superior. That's a sign of narcissism. Some people do it. Black women do it more. It depends on how everyone was raised.
My family seems to be the same way; they are extremely loud, disrespectful, and careless about a lot of things. I share a house with my mother and brother, and they just care about themselves. Whenever something breaks in the house, they refuse to replace it and begin acting like victims by denying that they broke it. Or we’ll be having pointless arguments over something so unecessary. Additionally, I haven't had a positive experience with black people in general, they’re so toxic and full of drama. It’s sad.
@@rebs114Do you live with them?
I am a dark skinned INFJ too this has nothing to do with her skin…I’ve lived with roommates like this college …it equally annoying I just wanted quiet time and they were loud and if I would report their behavior to the campus dorm manager they would cry as if I was rude or bullying them…they would be believed because of this very stereotype. Is it easier to believe the black girl was rude and disrespectful or is it easier to believe the white girls are innocent because they can shed a tear. I learned very quickly how to be an Oscar winning actor and got very far at college and in my professional life because of it. Either play the game or get played…
I was getting a pedicure once & there were two black women getting them as well. They were talking loud & laughing. I can’t speak for everyone but I like to go to the salon to get away from my kids & to relax.
When asked to lower their voices, the response was, “ MY MONEY IS GREEN TOO AND IT SPENDS LIKE EVERYONE ELSES.” I don’t think the workers were being disrespectful, but trying to accommodate everyone in the place. I think their response was childish. It’s a matter of respect for everyone around you. I suffer from severe anxiety so I take my relax time very seriously lol. Also, the salon is upper and charged big bucks. That’s all I mean, just be considerate to everyone around you.
Space girl… That is so disrespectful of them. Particularly knowing that it is a common/public space that all must share. It’s simply respectful!!! And I totally get your perspective, when you have an opportunity to get pampered, it should be the most relaxing experience possible. Then some kind of way they find a way to “F” it up for you 😡. See, people like that shouldn’t be allowed to come out of the house during business hours 🤣🤣
Well see this is an example of bad behavior then black women wonder why the stereo type and profile exist I witness this behavior frequently I also see it with other races not as much but it exist
Should’ve thought about that before having kids. Is the father in their lives?
So you never saw non-black women being loud at a salon?
And I as a non-black male would of taken their side over yours. Who are you to tell other people to lower their volume? Mind your own business and yes their money is green too.
Racism is applied to all races. The Victimhood mentality is the reason for their behavior not oppression. Insecurities also
Two big issues for sure!!!
Conservative veteran you are wrong there is racism out there there is victim mentality also you got to be kidding me it's sad that a lot of conservatives try to not look at why black people act the way they act there has to be a pass or a chapter history that created this behavior and unless you can explain that why you making these statements follow the stuff you saying is true but I don't think it's all a victim mentality and until we do stuff to stop promoting violence in our community the media and television viewing black males as animals like first 48 entertainment industry marketing us like we're criminals people continue looking at this this way yes I do believe in self responsibility if that is what you are saying I do agree with you on that but we need to ask ourselves what got this the males to be where they are at why is society why is there so many of us in prison so the statement you made Mr veteran is a two-way street answer self responsibility of your actions which is true but there is a lot of racism out of fear some of it is ignorant but it is there I'm sorry racism is a serious disease
And you are a doctor of psychology
People like to be racist towards white people because they assume they have an excuse since white people are accused of being “oppressive” and “racist.” But I’m sure some people are that way, I know there’s bad people everywhere but it’s wrong to assume someone’s race makes them act a certain way. As a white woman, I love all people until a person gives me a reason to not. I give everyone the benefit of the doubt until they give me a reason to dislike them. But most of the people who complain about racism are white liberal women. Almost every person I’ve met who had dark skin was very humble and understanding (excluding a few) so I think it’s wrong to assume things or assume that people want or need your help just because you’re a white liberal. Let them help themselves. They’re just as capable if not more capable.
They say the racism comes from Republicans, but Republicans like things to be fair. The Liberal Democrat handouts are the racist things because black people are small and helpless to them.
As this man says, love has no color.
Be nice to people!
Spectacularly untrue. Black women over the years have had to endure some of the most horrendous indignities and maltreatment ever meted towards human beings. This type of treatment commenced in West Africa and to a limited extent in Central Africa where the enslaved were packed like sardines crammed ships with little or no ventilation, no sanitation, little access to water and food and had to travel for months whilst men of the European origin raped and abused them in those poor conditions. Several died en route to the new world and for those who survived, their trauma had only just begun when they arrived in the new world. So, In contemporary times, what you see is what we call Transgenerational Trauma.
The shit I witnessed in elementary and middle school, really impacted me. I got the impression that these women are loud, aggressive, violent, rude, abusive. Not all of them of course, but it's hard to ignore it when it's the norm.
How
As a white older man from the island of Bermuda, raised with 93% island black people, I've found it very difficult in most every way to deal with an American black lady. And I disagree blacks by nature would violate another's space with obnoxious actions. It's mostly American black women. My mixed daughter says she can't tell other black women that she's half black. Let's be honest, if they were so downed by society, wouldn't society yell at them and make laws to shut them up. Let's stop this chitty race card, it never ever ends. Opera didn't have any issues. But you've got an excuse for that... Stop saying, utterances of race stuff. I could go on listing the other side of that coin all day. Black president, black vice president, bla bla bla. You just keep spreading the hate narrative.
And YES!!; If you go on an interview you act and show your best. That goes for everyone. Stop this jailed black thing now. So stop having 5 kids out from marriage as a single black women. Just stop. You changed from the title to the race card. Bla
For someone who says they have a biracial black daughter, you say the typical suspected white supremacist rhetoric.
I don’t understand why they are always saying they are disrespected, but think it’s ok to disrespect others to elevate themselves with no consequence? You don’t even have to disrespect them to set them off? I’ve never experienced anything like it by any other race? This is only some, not all. I feel bad for all of the good hearted, sweet black woman. I wish there were more black woman that were like Queen Latifa, Keke Palmer, and Ashanti. These are the real queens 🎎.
I couldn’t agree more with your statements! It reminds me of a phrase that I sometimes use. There’s only 4 to 5 bad people in the entire world, they just move around a lot. 🤣
@@KingPrime shitin me
@@leolloydcalhounjr.8048 It’s all about perspective my man..... if you think the world has mostly good people, that’s what you’re gonna get. And the same with negative people and thoughts.
@@KingPrime it more about facts & truths for me. Perspective is another's opinion. Facts & truths that's it
Bish, stfu.
It's really embarrassing, I stopped talking to them, don't even look their way!
Love black women, but my experiences with them is the majority are mean. If you are kind it means nothing or makes you a instant target to them. Not all but most
Look I'm a Hispanic male and i literally googled, why are black women so angry? lol. Sad, but a bunch of stuff popped up, so I'm like damn i guess it's not a stereotype, it's true. I'm sure these women who the shoe fits will go off on me, it's cool, i expect it. But really, i just wanted to literally know why? I don't know if i agree with everything you say, but its still interesting. I'd like to hear from a black women who agrees with this stereotype and then gives her opinion on why she thinks it is, and not make excuses for it. I have seen it, many times in public, i live in Houston. It's almost like they have a bad day everyday and they don't want anyone to even look in their direction. Things that another person would think nothing of, triggeres their attitude. I hear a lot of men say "i would never date a Black woman" for that reason. Sad, cause i don't think they will ever change.
What’s going on my Hispanic brother?!! Thanks for chiming in and I must say I love the fact that you don’t necessarily agree with everything that I say in this video. To me, it means that you are an awesome and critical thinker, so thanks for that. And I must say I’ve experienced what you’re speaking of with respect to looking at certain ethnic groups and speaking to them. The engagements and reactions can have a night and day difference sometimes. I was actually telling a friend of mine about a pass incident with me and a black woman, he jokingly told me that’s black women have giving me PTSD and I should stay away for mental health reasons. 🤣🤣🤣🤣.. again, I appreciate you!!
I mean just looking at the comments, people are usually wired up to believe the negative things about us so a lot of black women feel like why try? We’re always told we’re ugly, loud, masculine, and a bunch of other disparaging things. We kind of just internalize our pain and have a tendency to take it out on others. I say “we” because I am a black woman but I’ve never been ghetto, mean or masculine and I can still tell you from experience it’s a vast difference how I’m treated in contrast to other races of women, no matter how nice I am. It just feels like we’re not viewed as women sometimes.
@@KingPrime Thanks for responding. Let me ask you a question. You're an intelligent Black man, i would love to know your opinion. Why do statistics say so many Black men leave their kids or why are so many black men raised by their grandmothers and mothers but hardly ever by their fathers. That topic seems to come up over and over again. Is this a myth or is it real like statistics say it is?? I would like to know. I just like knowledge on history and certain topics.
@@chrislyn1868 i dont see anything on tv saying bad things about bw all this is an excuse for bad behavior my people are always portrayed as norcos or sicarios but im not gonna go around disrespecting others because im mad
I had a woman yell at me when I was helping her at work…for looking at her. I didn’t even say anything. She was ghetto and extremely volatile. :/ spent 2 hours helping her and didn’t even get a Ty.
I am a 44 yr old black woman. My father was retired Air Force. He was patient,
descipline, articulate, intelligent, and spent the time on family and community. My point is, my personal experience tells me, regardless of what's "out there" your environment in growth and development years will be the most influential on the molding of your character and how you carry yourself. Sadly, people I run into in life always seem surprised by my character or nature. They are expecting something they do not receive (good or bad connotation). I have never quite felt accepted. I have my core people, and kindness rules my day. There is something happening though.. as I am feeling a more gentle camaradery amongst my female brethren. Feeling good and recognizing our beauty, and worth ❤️
You had a strong, stern, and sensible black father who asserted himself with patriarchal leadership. His leadership and authority is an extreme threat to the system and culture of white supremacy. Unfortunately, too many of us black women, and black men too, have become bafoons, bootlicks, bedwrenches, beta male simps, and black LGTBQ+ under the system and culture of white supremacy which is why we see so much chaos, confusion, and corruption within the black race and among us black women. Feminism, mass media, public education, and the welfare system played a significant role in the destruction of us black women and the black community.
God forbid you hold BW accountable for anything. Just post a video of "splaining".
th-cam.com/video/LuvdhrjQMv0/w-d-xo.html
i’ve dated several black girls and they made my life a living nightmare. Had to walk on eggshells the whole relationship and was constantly yelled at for small shit like a restaurant being booked or I didn’t laugh at her joke or got her the wrong colored shirt for Christmas. They both were so rude, loud and physically and verbally abusive that I had to leave. Currently dating a puerto rica and she is amazing. She is calm and respectful and very family oriented
I had a black woman threaten me over a shopping cart. Just laughed at her and took the cart. Everyone needs to remember they may be loud and ignorant but they are still women and can’t hurt you.
Big facts
Nahh that ain't it! I'm black, and in my opinion its a few things. Some of it is ignorance, up bringing, a lack of culture, disrespectful, the idea of no one can correct me...
I work with lot of africans. They’re so rude, I honestly hate my work just because of them. And they’re very loud i think I’ll go deaf every time. I find it very funny how they speak rudely and expect others to be nice to them. As an Indian I’m calm and avoid arguments. But they get on my nerves all the time. Can’t wait to get outta this job.
Give them The same energy they soo "victimized"
I feel you man. Just make sure you have a plan b before you leave the main job
U lost me with that bw not protected they literally cause drama and chaos where ever they go
*Wherever* they go
I mean no disrespect but whenever I’m out in public running errands I will HEAR a black lady from across the store talking on her phone on speaker spilling all her business out there! Every single time! Why! Every single time I don’t get it. It’s funny I just don’t think they’re aware? I’m Asian & idk it’s just not like that in my culture we’re more reserved & quiet in public.
There are definitely a few lessons that can be taken from your playbook!! I don’t get it either. I want to interrupt them and say “you are aware that this is a common/shared space right” 🤷🏽♂️.
ALWAYS LOUD, always rude….I work in grocery, the only people that NEVER say excuse me and thank you are black women….if someone yells at me “where this at”, not excuse me or could you help me….just yell at me “where this at”….I don’t work for the stores, I will always try to help ANY polite customers.
Its only the young black women the older black women are always so friendly
No accountability for black woman.? They need to change, some self awareness and therapy .
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We all do , look at what this world as gone through . Are we going to continue to use black peoples as a scapegoat everytime ?
I've noticed that black women are not very feminine. This is a reason why a lot of black men migrate to other races. They see asian girls and white girls, for example, who look more feminine and they are attracted to that. I think just based on gender norms American black women are the most masculine females out of any race. However, you mentioned societal pressures which are a burden on American black women. So it's this cycle where they're treated very poorly and they get angry and there has always been the angry stereotype so the ball keeps rolling. I'm not sure what the fix is. Maybe black women here can take pointers from their African sisters. African women are very pretty and they make it a priority to dress up nicely. Perhaps if black women wore more jewelry and grew their hair out, they would be perceived as being more feminine. Again, this is subjective and I am 100% against stereotypes. This is just what I've seen.
Bran.. this good insight and I love it that you have given this thought 💭 for possible solutions. As you so eloquently stated, this will definitely continue from one generation to the next without change if it is not properly identified. Answers would be good to know, and the best place that they can come from is from black women. But the one thing that can start right away is fair treatment.
I used to be all about asian women...until I knew some. Nope. Not me.
@@dragoninwinter lol.. live and learn right
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@@carl-dy1fe I don't think black women are ugly at all. I think many are beautiful. It hurts that European beauty standards have dominated the West. My dad is African-American and he keeps his hair short too because growing an Afro wouldn't look "professional" I think as America gets more progressive, and as socio-cultural norms change, African-Americans will simply get noticed more.
Just be nice, it will gain you respect, love and admiration from all race of people.. by the way I am not White, I am a minority. I just wish Black women knew that we love them but they have very tough personalities and make it hard for people to enjoy their presence. Whenever I see a Black women who is polite or nice I am so happy, it makes me realize there are good women after all. So please always be nice because people are watching your every behavior and it does make a difference believe it or not.
OMG so true!!! Eyes and ears are always non receive mode. It becomes disheartening when you see power in others that they don’t see in themselves . And many times they will never see it because of the mindset that they carry or the environment they are surrounded by.
@@KingPrime You're correct my friend :)
Respectability politics didn't work in the days of W.E.B Dubois or James Baldwin, and those were the days of the Black Renaissance. Ask yourself this question, if it was as simple as being nice and respectful, would there be as much social unrest in the country?
@@stormx2591 The problem my friend is that many African Americans are not showing respect to others, they seem to come out of an ideology that it is only about them, that life only revolves around their sorrows and woes. Life is more than crying, complaining and fighting.. We are better. Now that we move into 2021 we don't need to fight as hard using violence and anger to get our point across. There is Social Media, TH-cam, Twitter, Instagram, Facebook.. Show your kindness and let people see it, especially if you are a minority. Trust me during the Black Renaissance I understand they had to fight but now we have cameras, social media to record evil acts like George Floyd, we don't need to fight like we use to. Your voice is more powerful than you think.
@@KickingIt-In-the-Kitchen I agree and given that much of the wealth that this country enjoys stemmed from black excellence in spite of the country's gaslighting: the 1619 Project and Zora Neale Huston's Barracoon offer a good start to counter the narrative pressed by those individuals in power who stands to loss the most. Citigroup definitely agrees with you given that they concluded the US economy loss 16 trillion dollars over the last two decades bc of policies that robbed the black community access to wealth building; to put that in perspective, the current deceit is 27 trillion, you do the math. So we about the business in the harshest of environments. But compliance and passivity doesn't offer the desired outcome.
One thing that bothers me about dealing with SOME black women is the sense of not being able to address things to them without feeling like there will be or knowing there will be a confrontation. Whether you come to them nicely, and get an attitude or you have to come to them to check them just as you would with someone who is behaving in a way that needs to be addressed, it seems to always have this undertone of a possible escalated argument or what have you. This applies to the specific type of black woman that is like this and no this is not only black woman that I have had this issue with but it seems to happen most often with the black women that fit into this criteria. I’m not a confrontational person truly if anything I have been the one people try to test cuz I’m too nice or I don’t speak loudly or whatever the case is so it’s upsetting how I have had to come out of character when dealing with these type of women cuz they don’t know or refuse to resolve things without an attitude or dang near always being ready to fight. “It be ya own people”
What you say!!!! Definitely your own people that you often have to walk on eggshells for. It’s almost like some people choose when to be attentive, aggressive, defensive, offended… I just stopped trying to manage all of the personalities. 😅 Great points that you’ve laid out above.
@@KingPrime it really makes the work place uncomfortable! There are many examples I can expound upon when dealing with certain character of black people not just black women but imma reserve that for discussion sake. Definitely feels like egg shells and it’s either they don’t care or are unaware I’m like are you that myopic to your own behavior that you rather create this dynamic than to simply conduct yourself with some couthe. But I get that it’s layers to the reason so I soften my heart and understanding for the sake of not allowing myself to come to work (or other settings) just to be angry all the time lbs
thank you for saying 'some'. 😌
@@indigobeauty1I can tell by your pfp you’re not some uncouth beast, we never talking about women with class this way lmaoo
@@chdh6556 You hate blacks you self hater
My teacher in middle school told me not to hang around those type because I was quiet and those types always had their clicks and never included me any way
Very wise words from your teacher. I'm sure when you fast forward to present day, you consider that advice "golden"!!!!
(Black male here )I had a black women make me drive all the way to pick her up at 2am just to bail (and mind you there’s like no black people in our state ) then proceeded to blame me and blocked my number like wtf why so rude
Mannnnnnn!! 😡…. I’d be hot as gosh grease!! 😂😂😂😂 that right there would make me be ALL THE WAY DONE ✅
Biology dictates Black woman and Asian men as being the least sought after by the opposite sex in the sexual marketplace. Therefore, this has nothing to do with racism at all as it is no different than a woman’s preference for a tall strong looking man over a short stocky bald one. Or a man’s preference for a slender woman with her curves in all the right places as opposed to plus sized. However, the one major difference between these two genders is that the Asian man will put in the work necessary in order to get what he wants. Whereas Black women on the other hand refuse to change and are likely to advocate for affirmative action instead.
Wow 😯... I never looked at the scientific approach regarding the least two sought after genders and ethnic backgrounds. Preference is definitely key. We have the freedom of choice of who we want to be with. And even in that, many will often have something to say. This is why it’s so important to protect your energy.
@@KingPrime: I failed to address earlier that as men we have long term advantages such as our utility and the burden of performance. For example, outside of a man’s desire to start a traditional nuclear family, what other incentive do women provide that can’t be achieved outside of marriage? Nothing. Especially in today’s westernized hook-up culture environment.
This is why Asian men don’t suffer from low sexual marketplace value the way way Black women do. Because burden of performance alone gives them the upper hand. Please note that while women are the gatekeepers of both sex and reproduction. It is men who are the gatekeepers of both relationships and status.
@Shimohira Reika: Exceptions to the rule don’t dismiss the rule. Also you’re talking about the unity of the two least desired groups in the sexual marketplace getting together.
@@MrNckissfan hey just fyi only the top 20% of men are gatekeepers of relationship. No average men is gatekeeping relationships.
And one more thing most black men 80% in america marry black women. Same is not true for the asian community. 50% of asian women outmarry. So which community is suffering more? Most black women are with black men. Most asian men dont even get the chance with asian women let alone any women. Do u even go outside!
I mean, media constantly portrays white women with black men, and white men with asian women. Blame it on them, they're subversive.
As a black man there is absolutely no excuse for an agree person period especially if your a so called grown. You should be able to carry yourself in a certain way. I'm sorry but I'm just feed up with the excuses. And trust they could careless about a black man in jail they don't know.
How about just a lack of home training.
That’s a big part of it too!!
Headline Correction: “Why are SOME Black Women Loud and Angry “. There are many of us who are just the opposite.
THANK YOU!!! Great Insight!!❤️❤️❤️
Well-said/ The key word is "SOME." Most black women I know are not loud and angry because people attract who they are.
Majority of them a loud/ aggressively hostel for no reason .
Many? Nah. The market is tight 😂.
Heading is correct. Majority are loud and angry
This comment is loud
As a Latino man I've had my fair share of interactions with both peaceful and angry black women. I've lived up north and in the South. I so enjoy the love and warmth you feel from a black woman at peace in her heart, her insight and kindness is incredible. We need much more of that. However, it's all the same for the angry black women, they yell, curse and get in your face in an extremely aggressive manner and will fight you just to get you to back down it seems even if they're wrong. There's very little humility or grace on their part and even worse if they have their children with them those children are watching and learning that same disrespectful behavior and so the cycle is reborn in a new generation. In my opinion regardless of skin color human behavior is mainly learned from the environments we are in and we are hard wired from our childhood experiences. We can and should redefine ourselves to improve but that is a huge conscious choice and one that requires a lot of self reflection. I love and admire the black culture, like any other culture here in the USA or around the world there's areas where we can improve. For me the biggest is ending financial inequality everywhere. That type of oppression always breeds poverty and seems to go hand in hand with low education rates of all peoples in every country as Charles Booker says' "From the hood to the hollar!" Redistribution of wealth and open hearts and minds can fix everything. Peace and love.
David!!! I promise you you are my brother from another mother 😎. I absolutely love your comments and perspective on this topic. It’s almost like you are/have been an invisible person on my shoulder. And I say this because I’ve seen all that we were speaking of firsthand and know for a fact that it is cyclical. We must be on our best behavior at all times, especially knowing that our next generation is watching and is being taught by our examples. Again, I appreciate your wise words. Blessing to you!!!! 🙏🏽
@@KingPrime glad I could contribute a verse in this long and beautifully complex struggle called life. Honored to be considered your brother, back at you. Peace.
yep
Thank you for such a warm and beautiful comment.
interesting take, but redistribution of wealth has never helped any person or group, it has instead caused nothing but problems.
I feel very embarrassed by other black women with the loudness as well as the assumption they are being racially discriminated against.
I was in the thrift store & this black woman was putting her hands on folks (especially white women). She was begging for money & accused them of racism. We all wanted them gone
I despise young black women. I love old black women, because they are great storytellers.
Agreed !!! 😁
In my opinion as an African, black women are fiery by nature. I have heard black American women make reference to African women as being too submissive or subservient to their men, but that has something to do with culture. Culture is a very important aspect of human society, cultural values exist for a reason, some of which can be good, some of which can bad. One example of good culture is the grooming of an African woman, which in my opinion makes a great distinction between African women and Black American women. African women who display loud and angry traits are considered to be "ungroomed" in most African societies.
It’s ironic. Black women are bitter and angry and always saying there isn’t enough good black men. And I’m the same conversation they are angry and yelling that they are strong and they don’t need no man! Blah blah blah. But they try to control who the black men want to spend their life with. I’m a white woman and my spouse is a black man. We are very happy and I’m very submissive to him. Black women could learn something about being submissive. And that is so right. Black women around the world are totally different. There was an interview about an African black woman saying that they are embarrassed by American black women. They rudeness, anger, thinking they have control over black men and calling them “their men”.
But, you will wind up in a family, with a husband, and respected. They, will wind up on the streets, with children from many men, and disrespected. You stick to your culture. Don't be like those black women.
They are so rude and have such a huge attitude.I don't know how they ever get hired because it seems like whenever I encounter one at a place of business they act like they are being put out by having to work. So angry and hostile for no reason
That is no excuse for been arrogant
Agreed!!
Black women. The "Karen's",before there were Karen's . None of them will have mates when
they get older.
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The first step is to recognize the issues. The next step is to find the true reasons. The third step is to provide solutions that can actually help.
You've identified the first step. But society refuses to contemplate the second step, because it hurts too much to think about it. That is why society refuses to help black women, or black people, in general.
And so, this charade continues.
It’s definitely much deeper and requires attention on many levels.
Black people have had all the help anyone could want and more for the last 50 years.
It's not my job to find their problems and issues. If they got a loud mouth they learn one way or another.
It's not society's job to do the inner work of an individual. That's our job as individual people to fix our inner turmoil.
Maybe they're disrespected because of their s***** attitudes. I mean when you hold a door open in public for a total stranger, a black woman, and she puts her nose up in the air and just walks right by without saying a word, that's one thing that makes people disrespect them. And every time it happens, and yes it's happened more than once, I tell myself I'm not opening the door for any more black women, but then I forget because I'm a nice guy and then it happens again.
Why
Good talk.
I enjoyed, and you are very much on point.
I’m not loud, angry, or bitter.
I am kind, compassionate, loving.
I am worthy.
That’s awesome and I’m happy that you embrace your power and virtue.
Your in the minority of black people that have respect and manners good for you girl
There should be more women like you darlin. The world would be more kinder place.
@@michaeljohnson-thiman4975 if the majority of black women were good there wouldn't be a need for this type of video the fact is that there are very little black women out there representing the black community in a positive way thats why we have ask why they act this way its because its become a real problem dealing with bws in any aspect of life as a grown-up
When you wake up in the morning and you're already pissed off because you're not happy about anything
I suspect black women think they are not being heard enough , that is why they are loud when talking .
That could very well be the case. but I still don’t give them an out for the nonsense. 😄
I mean when it comes to being victims of racism they are the loudest...native americans are ignored.
I'm a black man, and it's so TRUE. I stay far away from all of them. There's no excuse for a bad nasty attitude. APTTMHG-YAHUSHUA 🙏🏾
Agreed
i just don’t see how you can say you understand someone’s pain but don’t understand their reactions to that pain. that just sounds emotionally unintelligent to me. black woman are the only ones that have to conform to this made up society to be positively received. remember that you don’t know every black woman in the world and we come in so many different personalities, ethnicities, and cultures. you say spanish, asian, australian etc. as if none of those can be black?
and while i can agree that there’s times where a black woman is just simply “doing too much”, i can also say that i’ve seen every other race “doing too much”. especially white women when they don’t get their way. but with them it’s cute or feisty.
it’s tiring. as a mellow tempered black woman myself, anything that comes out of my mouth is taken as attitude even when i had no intentions of being rude :/ so how many of these “in my experience” stories can i really believe?
It’s really not up tosomeone else to believe another person‘s experience. I think people just speak what they’ve dealt with and make the choice to not deal with it anymore. I certainly I’m at the point in my life where I will avoid what I know and have experienced as drama. I also agree that yes every race has its own version of drama.
Thank you for being one of the few, the proud, the mild-mannered black woman.
The victim card needs to be thrown away.
@@KingPrime makes sense. but i think you can avoid something without treating other people who have nothing to do with your experience differently.
@@bluejay9968 there’s no victim card. if you don’t understand that’s fine but don’t down play how someone feels. if we were making this up, there wouldn’t be people on the internet getting dressed up and making videos about the woman they supposedly don’t like.
Best comment I’ve seen under this video! 👏🏾👏🏾
Black women have not always been that way. I'm black and dark skinned, I was taught by my grandma not to be that way. I think black women who are that way are rebellious. They want to act that way and no one should be able to correct them.
It’s sad
If what you say is true I don't understand why to black women the challenge to represent themselves is considered a burden
I think it probably becomes exhaustive when being consistently misunderstood
I try my best to limit interactions or keep it short and quick. The sweet ones are a treasure 😊
I actively avoid any and all interaction if possible. It's easier. The entitlement demands are bizarre, as is the paranoia. When you start to act like a creep, people treat you like one.
😂😂... there’s definitely a sense of entitlement for some due to what they see and expect with reality TV 📺
Me too
As a black women I think we are fine. Your making fun of us. This is hate speech!
It easily to express loud & angry (all negative emotional) like a child, it hard to express righteousness (be kind, submission, humble). Thats why.
Asians are disrespected but the females don't scream about everything.
Yesss.. agreed
and most of the time it’s bc english is their second language so they can’t. im sure if they spoke fluent english they would curse some people out too. no ones deserves disrespect and you don’t get to choose how someone reacts to your disrespect towards them.
Bru you can't even speak to a black woman without them thinking you trying to holla that instantly get mad ain't no excuse for it 😂😂😂😂😂
Bro I’m dying 💀🤣🤣.... that’s a shame! I totally get it. When you’re being a genuine nice guy and someone that you are not remotely giving a double take to is feeling herself to the level of confusing the entire encounter. 🧐
Also they working 2 jobs and many of them living below the poverty line. And are stuck raising kids alone and being underpaid at their jobs. That level of stress can make any woman go crazy. Not to mention having no car adds to it
Riding the bus is not easy with kids or to go to a job daily it takes long hours. My favorite Tupac song why do we hate our women.
Why
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True story: I was in San Francisco for a bachelorette party. Us ladies were staying in a very nice hotel. I get off the elevator and here a group of people loud or women talking. It sound like a group of females about to fight but I could not tell. I hit the corner and saw no one. I continued walking down the hall to reach my room and I can still hear the loud heyenas, I mean females talking loudly. I kept looking around to see if I saw anyone. I finally walked past a room next to our, and realized the chicks are in their own room talking extremely loud. They were so loud I heard these heffas from the elevator. I told my cousin about how loud the folks next to us were and she told me those were her brides maid in the other room.
She was embarrassed of how loud they were and told me that's how they are. I was shocked because their voices echoed down the hall ways.
Angela …. I was done at heffas and hyenas 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣💀. Such an embarrassment 😩
@@KingPrime Lol... It was insane. I've never witnessed nothing like that in my life
I am a black woman and was at a tavern and in come these decent looking young black women and they were so loud it was disgusting to me. A woman is suppose to carry herself with some kind of decorum. My daughter would never because I raised her to carry herself like a lady. I swear this behavior is attention seeking. These young ladies had to wait until they got into the tavern to tell their funny stories not in the car on their way to the tavern to crack up and be loud.
Bottom line its unattractive in a woman being loud tbh its a turn off. I hate a loud talking woman like why do you have to be so loud and wanna be seen. Its sad and tbh alot of women that are loud and ratchet and angry you notice they are single and unmarried. Bottom line its just a turn off being loud frfr💯
I have seen black women with good manners , etiquette & well maintained . They have a soft personality . This made me think we all have bad qualities but if we try , we can be anything.
"Emotional maturity" is very important in any adult and not to get triggered.
Manners is something everyone should cultivate. There's no excuse for bad manners.
After you've become an adult , you don't blame instead take responsibilities.
Victimhood can't help anyone , acceptance and working on oneself to be even better helps.
Thats the reality of life.
Like me
Typically, well-educated Black Women are like this
Nobody suffered more than the black man but he still able to strive in society.
You sir nailed it. “Theatrical” is the perfect word. Not all, but most i have been around are like this with every emotion. I always thought it was a cultural thing & for attention. They seem to want their emotion for any circumstance to be taken acknowledged important. I suppose to your point of being marginalized as “black women” for having an attitude this is the result. We know the reason for this. When our government made the “black family unit” ( all for that matter later) a target of destruction ie with abortion & welfare, divorce court.
They (black women) have been for the most part left to fend for themselves. It’s shameful. But i think focusing more on the correction for that root cause, & solving that issue amongst Americans in general is what we in our communities should be working on. Getting everyone off the government teat, restoring the family nucleus dynamic, by encouraging growth in faith based values that we live by. Principles our for fathers for generations lived & raised healthy families, functional children that became productive, rational adults with. Restoration of a 2 parent house hold, mom & dad, under Gods rule, (not government or anything else) is in my opinion & scientific study proven, the only way that seems to work. This has been a problem for all of every ethnicity. I would say though “black community” have suffered the most & longest of this problem. However, focusing on whos more the “victim” is keeping anyone from working of the answer. & more government, emotion justification & retaliation (social justice) is worsening the situation!
May I suggest we all personally focus on solutions that are fruitful? Character, integrity, personal responsibility, & faith based principles we ourselves live by, not just claim to have. God bless every body.
Totally agree with you Bruce.. SOLUTIONS is the answer!! ❤️🙏🏾
I have no idea why TH-cam put this in my recommendations because this is not the type of content I seek, but curiosity got the best of me. I am a black woman and it's always disheartening to see how many gleefully have negative stereotypes of me. It doesn't make me angry, but certainly makes me distrust people and not want to interact with them at all. To the black women out there reading comments from strangers about how they hate all women like you or describe you all as the same, i would say best thing to do is avoid much of the internet. It's filled with hate speech that will only hurt you. Be well and live the life you want black women ❤
It's how a person is brought up. If your not taught from a young age, how to use your inside voice, then it's harder to know how to act in public.
Exactly!! Now all because someone didn’t do their job, we have to teach grown people how to use the inside voice 🤣🤣
I’ve had quite a few negative interactions with loud BW but just when I find myself accepting this stereotype I run into some who are the nicest women I’ve ever met.
The very few kind ones just aren't enough to make up for the large number of unkind.
What are the kind ones alike@@Jeremy_the_bot
*The fact that you as a man are talking in a normal, even tone voice and not animated or theatrical as you put it, while making excuses for black women, you sound like a parent making excuses for an unruly child.*
*The child is in the store throwing a tantrum and the parent who should discipline that child is just standing their making excuses or ignoring them while other folk look in horror or back away and wait for them to leave before venturing in that aisle.*
*So what you are saying is black women are like children, you and I can talk softly and firmly without yelling, and clap our hands and be animated but it is OK for them, because they just don't know better and it is OK that they are sitting there eating paint chips and throwing their pudding against the wall, we just gotta let them be, don't say anything because you might get a face full of pudding and make it worse.*
*Making excuses and not criticizing or shaming them is what is really hurting them.*
Definitely can understand your point of view in many areas of your response. What I’d like to know is your perspective on how I am making excuses for black women and how they are treated, stereotyped and judged by many. Many times we don’t understand the whole perspective until we are in that position. Not sure what race or gender you are, but I’m sure there are some things that you deal with and that you face on a regular basis that I am not able to relate to in a manner that you can. What is definitely obvious though is that you’re not black, which wouldn’t allow you to fully identify. And that was the point of the entire video… To educate and enlighten. So in the end, I do not support nor make excuses for people acting in a less than mature and respectable way.
I also want to add that your similarities to children on the floor throwing fits and definitely relatable to many spoiled adults, but just black women. Some grown AF white men do are this way as well 😉
AMEN.
@@KingPrime beautiful response here. Its not about making excuses, its about eightenment. We all have to take responsibility for our behaviors, but the sad truth is, people dont want to acknowledge what makes people act a certain way!! Sometimes straightening up a child strictly works, sometines it requires understanding and talking to. I can truly tell you a fact that other races may be the way they are because of how they are raised and approached by their parents. As black people, its always about being strict blah blah blah...and you want to apply that approach here. Its that doesnt always work, its all about a healthy balance.
Paint chips and pudding? Lol 😎
When I meet someone that I connect to, I can be animated but I know how to behave and do not give an attitude if I am politely told to be quiet in theatre, store etc. Sadly this can happen with loud black women. Not all but quite a few.
I completely understand that. It's more of a mutual energy, and excitement can be quite contageous
Yu guys do realize that our culture is emotional?? unfortunately ppl feel comfortable judging and providing a negative lens to this cultural difference. Others benefit from being labeled spicy, tough, etc. but out label like all black black people tends towards negativity. I am a black woman who lives in silicon valley and have far surpassed making 6 figures and I recognize that no matter how socially savvy, some people will always label black people are some negative stereotype. I'm glad that I am confident, happy and free and no one can affect my beautiful internal peace. :) I shine.
Your message is refreshing to read and to know that are on the opposite of the negativity. Truth is experiences are memorable be it good or bad. When it's bad, people are quickly reminded of that. It only takes a few people to change the atmospherics be it for better or worse. That said, I applaud you for being the exception and I hope that your interactions, internal peace and confidence will continue to be a change agent in this area.
Road Carver thank you for your comment. Yes I think I did read her comment prior to responding. I specifically wanted to highlight her positive attitude by commenting on her positivity and inner peace. I then went on to say that for some people.... once they get a taste of something (negative or positive), it affects their perspective and what their reality is. Hope this clear it up for you 😉🙏🏽
@@KingPrime I like how you responded, you chose to respond and focus on the positive instead of reacting... I don't think the person before realised what you was doing
@@TheSomaliHorizon Thank you brother!! Yeah, i think it went over their head 😅. At least it made sense to someone. I appreciate ya!! ✊🏽
I totally agree with everything said here!
Sir, I wasn't sure how this video was going to actually go based on the title, but you articulated this very well. I sincerely appreciate your commentary. I had a situation recently which I got angry because of the double standard and not being the "dainty white women" around me. I'm not treated the same as they are when they are loud, angry and cursing around open areas of business. If I do the very same thing as my white counterparts I'm treated totally different (this goes for gender as well not just race).
For sure! Double standards are a very real thing and it is incredibly frustrating. Thank you for having the patience to watch and understand my perspective on this. There are many that see this title and go into the video already upset and pre-judging. Thanks for watching and please do have a wonderful day.
Thanks my brother for such a great, well spoken and presented video! You make a lot of valid points and I will take your wisdom to heart next time I see loud black women.
The sad truth is a great many angry Black women have been impregnated as teens and abandoned by Black men. Its much less about racism and more about dysfunctional Balck culture in America. Invariably the most successful Black people are those raised in stable 2 parent homes. That's the ticket to fix all these issues
How@@Chasstful
That's what me and my daughter is wondering. I don't dare go near!
There are a few "Black" women I know that blame their anger and loudness on their failed relationships with other "Black" men in their past.
I would like to add to this. I have a brother, and he has a friend. We all recently became roommates. I have a car, and I would take them to work whenever they needed but I told them to help pay gas and tolls down here in Florida. However, they started taking advantage of me and I'll admit I let it, but when I tried to tell them I'm too tired or that they got to start using public transportation, or if I curse them out because they tell me to come pick them up but they take an hour to come they start making jokes calling me angry black woman and because I have a car independent woman. I told them if they think I'm so angry disregarding the years I would help them out when they were homeless or by me letting them share my sister and I rented house they want to start taking advantage and being rude.
To be honest, some black women are loud and rude because they always get the grunt of everyone BS. However, there is a way to be diplomat. I also never used to curse until I started dealing with my brother and his friend where they both say the N-word a lot and call all women B-words even though I have countless times told them to watch their language around me. Most black women have to deal with weak Black Men. No all black men, but a good percentage of weak Black men. Thus, I advocate for Black women to remove toxic people out of your life who make you angry because i have met beautiful black delicate women, like myself before I entertained my brother and his friend. Remove toxic people out your life and for the percentage of Black men just because a women don't want to work for you and stress themselves out, don't mean you should call them independent black women.
I have spent 29 years of my life and had never heard this phrase or been call angry until I moved in with those two lazy men.
I like this guy's voice...he can talk all day im all ears...
I love honest people, Thanks!
One time I went to McDonald's and a black girl took my order. I told her 3 McChicken sandwiches with cheese and fries. When I got my order, she gave me Big Macs, nuggets, and fries. I got mad and told her. She gave me an attitude.
See…. even the simple stuff gets out of hand 🤨
All black women are not angry so don’t put all black women in one basket
It’s about 80%
@@ThaaaOneXoxobasically 😂
When your not wanted anything you do is loud
I can see your point. I’d also say that everyone has someone that is tailor made just for them. If that comment was about you, know that “YOU ARE WANTED!!!!” ... if it was about someone else, please pass that along to that person that “HE/SHE IS WANTED!!!” ..there’s a lid for every pot. 😉
Why not self reflection and self improvement. Children throwing tantrums never get rewarded.
@@LexRuger718 In our modern culture they ALWAYS get rewarded
What do you mean?
@Emil when I was quiet I was abused
No kings and queens, just regular god feeling people
Yes they really are that loud