Every straight guy I've come across I got in their pants and what I wanted.. I always put ethicical iny relationship so no lol... as a gay man who studies phycology I say this.. I treat straight guys like a straight guy would treat a girl they just want to fuck. And it works lol... straight guys should be a sport to gays lol
Austin " if you're going to be nice be gay " words of wisdom from one of the nicest gays on the planet:-):-) you guys deserve the highest awards for your creativity and entertainment value.
Oh honey.. I am the king of falling for straight guys. It's so dang sad. It's worse if you happen to have an "encounter" with a straight guy because that gives you that terrible glimmer of hope. That happened a few times and it was always heartbreaking because you either end up seeing them with their girlfriends or worse, like having to hear them have sex in the next room. Yeesh. Glad those days are over. Considering where I live tho, I think that falling for the wrong guy is almost inevitable. For the longest time I thought I was the only gay guy in town. I guess they were here all along but I was looking in the wrong places...go figure. So has my luck changed since the local gay community became a bit more visible?...Well...no. In fact, I may be to late. I hate to think I had my shot but falling for straight guys is one thing...being older and gay is a whole other wall to climb. Take care...thanks for the video!!
Brent Braniff I know your comment was a year ago but even tho I am young, I can so relate to you. I either fall for a straight guy or a guy in the closet but guy in the closet have to come in conclusion by himself. I’m a college student and I fell in love with my straight friend in the same major. It’s a tough time for me and it’s good that I’m trying not to go deep into those feelings, because he has a crush on one girl lol. Anyway, I wish you like and hope you’ll meet a real love some day😁
Don't even get me started on falling for straight boys 😂 I once fell so hard for this straight boy who basically started flirting with me jokingly, except that didn't help, like we'd see movies together and all that cause we were good friends anyway.... Except that one day, he suddenly snapped and got mad at me, saying I was manipulating him into doing all that stuff, and basically shit went down, punches happened, and I spent the next 4 months getting over him 😅 EITHER WAY, love you both, and thank you for putting a huge smile on my face!!! LOVE FROM THE AUSTIN IN NEW ZEALAND 😁
Austin And Patrick Haha yeah things are okay, definitely grown since then, but elephants never forget 😁 Moral of the story: don't fall for straight boys, and remember that you will always move forward and grow if you allow yourself to do so! (Also did I just call myself fat)..... 😮
I currently really like another boy in my class but I honestly can’t tell if he’s gay or not. He is really nice to everyone and we have recently started becoming better friends. JAKE PEACH if you are ready this, I really like you, I need to here it from YOU that you are straight so I can get over you... PLEASE! 😕 -Frankie
i still fall for straight guys. and its worse when its ur friends. because u already spend a lot of time with them and then when ur also attracted to them it just hurts even more... when they do nice things for u ur just like omg what if he really is gay but hes not and then u end up thinking oh wait maybe hes faking it and then u keep going in and out of wondering if hes straight or gay when really hes just straight and if he was gay he would have come out by now and then u go right back to thinking oh wait maybe theres something thats stopping him from coming out and then u try to figure it out and then u realize ITS NOTHING HES STRAIGHT RELAX GO FIND A REAL GAY GUY... recently i had a break up with my first relationship... the guy was an asshole so i had to dump him... then sometimes my straight friends try to help me cope with the break up and stuff like that and then im like omg wait what if hes going to save me from this heartbreak by becoming my new boyfriend and nooooo i was bamboozled again so now i gotta sit around at work and look at all this valentines day shit while i suffer yet again in the gay single life..... SOMEBODY BE MY FUCKING VALENTINE PLEASE!!! :(
It’s definitely not easy! It can be a natural thing to have feelings for your friends. But don’t worry, there are tons of people out there and you will absolutely find someone. ❤️
omg u guys responded lol yea ur right there r plenty of fish in the sea as they always say lol thank u so much :) ... WAIT WHICH ONE OF YOU WROTE THAT COMMENT? or do u both co-author comments? or is it left up to mystery??? hahaha
It never stops. 34 and still happens. Damn nice straight guys. On a side note, Austin, you are looking pretty studly. Broader in the shoulders. New workout routine?
My first love was my neighbor, he was straight and after my friends told him that I was in love with him he was nice, but even with this he destroyed my 14y-old heart... And now, after 4 years without being attracted to anyone, I met a new guy and, well, you can bet what's going on... I'm very sensitive and sentimental, I've noticed that I care too much about him even though its clearly that he's straight, these last two weeks were very hard because I'm struggling to get him outta my head, and the worst is that I can't avoid or ignore him because we get along very well and i'm a very lonely person (you can already imagine how many mental breakdowns i've had this year because of this), I'm just hoping that I will stop liking him but I have to make sure that he will not have any feelings for me, I just don't know how to do it. My life is too hard, help.
What a story, well you kind of know my story. I fell in love with my best friend. He was and still is my everything. He has the looks, the personality, the charisma really the whole package deal. And it was never obvious to no one, not to me, not to his family, his friends and not really to himself if he is gay straight or curious. We lived together for a bit and he used to ask me a lot of questions about my process of coming out, he as well been so pumped for me to come out to my parents to the point he wanted to do. His field of work has also doubted people due to social constructs, he's in fashion. He shows his sweet shy and sometimes flamboyant side, and would not be gender blocked by some clothing pieces. He also shows a fetish towards pretty boys. Lived in the gay neighborhood for a long time. But has always told me he was straight and i respect that and would never push him to do something he does not feel ready or comfortable. He can simply also just be 100% straight but just human. I respect him all the way. With time we have grown feeling to one another but have not got physical at all. We now admit to each other we love each other, and show feelings more but we just get blocked due to sexual preference (more him obviously). He is really the sweetest man I've met in my entire life, he always cares about me and makes sure I'm good. He would do the cutest things like cover me with the blanket when I do sleepover there and fall asleep unexpected. Basically, we have the friendship you two have, and are super close, too bad we can't be together because of SEX... but, we can always be like brothers and still remain in each other's lives. Kinda makes you think, straight guys can really be the bestest of friends for gay guys, because they won't try to steal your man and be by your side. (not saying this is a real case obviously XD)
Most relationships end. Your friendship with him is forever. I’m a straight woman and straight men usually aren’t friends with straight women. Gay men get to be in much closer contact with straight men. You’re in his circle. I’ve never been in a man’s circle unless I was his girlfriend. And that never lasted.
I went to a school, where I found out I was bisexual, and it seemed like there were no straight people. I saw one straight couple, but that was it. And I even had a female friend who had a male friend. Despite that she was all over him and seemed to like him, she never said anything about liking him. I was her only friend besides him and it made me think that they either did like each other but didn't want to get hurt or they didn't like each other and just seemed like it *EDIT* Now, I'm at a school where there's like three or four gays/lesbians, half the people are bisexual or, if your straight, they have screwed up their lives. Three people at my school have already gotten pregnant. And this is a MIDDLE school!!!!!! Imagine when I go to high school... I have no hope for this generation
I didn't see my story in the comments (I have posted it so often), so here you go... I was just coming out after many years in the closet. I was friendly with a guy who I believed was gay WAY before I resolved it myself (although I first bottomed at age 12, but anyway...). I came out to him earlier in the year. When I did, he gave me a supportive hug. I held on to that hug long enough to show it was not intended to be "just friendly". I had been hanging out with him at the gym and sauna for a while including showering in open showers at the same time. One day we were in the gym and he asked me to spot him on the overhead press. He asked me to stand behind him and reach up and help his arms if he struggled. He is taller than me so I needed to stand VERY close. I helped him once, which required me to be close enough that our bodies touched. He then changed to doing some floor exercises. He crossed the gym, laid on the floor and told me to "come over here and grab my legs". He didn't respond well to my "OH, MY!" response Though George Takei would have been proud of my impersonation. Up in the sauna we wore shorts. He never indicated anything more than friendship while in the sauna or shower. He had a habit of telling me that I am too reserved and that I need to loosen up socially. He urged me to get out and have some drinks (though I am not a drinker). One day I was at his office and I told him that I was planning on going somewhere to just kick back and have some fun. I stated I may even have some alcohol. He asked where, and I stated Pride Portland (Maine). He looked at the calendar and invited himself to join me. Later that day he texted me telling me that he was going to bring his girlfriend (hmmm). In the planning process, he learned that she would not be out of work in time to accompany us if we were to be there in tiume for the parade. He told me she couldn't come and we headed on our way. Halfway down the road, his phone rang and I could hear her ask where we were and when we would pick her up. He notified her that we couldn't wait and she could drive down and meet us if she wanted. When we arrived, he walked with a gait that would make anyone think he was a proud gay man. I told him he was going to get an award for being the gayest "straight" guy at the parade (we weren't in the parade). After the parade, we went to lunch at a local restaurant. During the meal, he asked me whether my dominant personality would carry forth into a relationship. I told him that such a discussion would be between myself and the other person. He then dropped the subject. During the performances at the festival, he danced a little on his own and then napped the remainder of the time. After the festival, we split a pizza for supper. THEN... He had offered to help me pick out some new clothes because he thought I looked terrible in my daily attire. We went to the mall and as we entered, He held the door for me (but ignored the woman passing through the doors). he helped me to select a number of pants and shirts and a new belt. When the selection was done, he carried the selection to the register for me. As the cashier rang up the selections, HE folded them neatly and placed them in the bags (I paid). Then he carried the bags to my car for me. Over the next couple of months, he would say things that were flirty. One time I was in the (small co-ed) sauna alone with the door locked so that I didn't have to worry about someone coming in. He knocked on the door to use the sauna, I wrapped a towel around myself and went to unlocked the door. Expecting it to be him, I said in a falsetto voice "who is it?" to which he replied in a falsetto voice "your girlfriend". Another time He was in a dinner theater play as a lawman. It was a whodunnit. Despite my having VERY disparate views with his parents about politics, he decided to seat me with them. I refused to get into a political discussion with them, so his mother said to me "Well if we can't talk about politics, what can we talk about?". So, I came out to them. They are VERY conservative, so they weren't impressed. Luckily the play started just then. Later, the characters came to the tables to permit us to guess whodunnit. As he approached the table, he (in character) tried to be funny by saying "I've had my eye on you for some time, young man". Which may have been interpreted differently than he intended, given my recent revelation to his parents. Luckily, he approached from behind me, so I was looking away from his parents across the table from me. I could hardly contain my laughter. He continued to flirt with me over time but I knew it wasn't going anywhere.I eventually told him that his behavior was coming off as flirting, and he needed to either stop it or mean it. He stopped. We don't hang out anymore, which is good because he is really struggling with life events right now, and he has burned his bridges with me as a freind through other behavior.
It ain't just straight guys that do this guys. A friend introduced me to a gay friend, who started calling me all the time. Would ask me to get together every weekend. Flirt with me like crazy. And I fell head over heals in love with him, even our friend thought we were going to be a couple. So one night while we were at her house, I told him how I felt about him. Even brought him a single rose to show him I was in love with him. Only to hear him say:. Oh well your nice and all, but not what I am looking for. Which totally not only broke my heart, it made me feel uglier than dirt and I just wanted to crawl into a dark corner and hide. So holding back tears, I just said oh ok I understand. Well I need to get going I have clothes for work that need washed before tomorrow, and I managed to hold back the tears till I got in my car. Then I drove home, totally sobbing, crawled into my bed and cried myself to sleep. So it ain't just straight guys who you can fall in love with, and yet get totally rejected by.
Yeah, I agree with the heartbreak part of it. Like I was MADLY in love with my best friend in 8th grade and it was SO hard becuase I saw him literally everyday. It was exhausting to pretend to be straight in front of him. The weird thing about it though is that he was always sending mixed signals at me, which threw me off. He was always touching me and making gay jokes it was......odd. Anyways, now we're still grear best friends and he knows I'm gay. He's super supportive. I also don't have feelings for him anymore so that's splendid. Sorry for that! Love you guys!
Hey, guys! I absolutely love these "sit down" videos. Actually the subject matter never is as much fun as the interaction between the two of you. And, do I have stories? Call me sometime when you have a couple of hours! LOL! Keep up the good work! 💝 💝
Dear God, the description of these straight boys you guys talked about sounds a lot like the guy I like, who is straight. It's like the personality attracts us more than the looks.
I think I’m having a crush on a gay guy we been a friend forever and sometimes I feel he like me but sometimes I feel like I’m imagining it all.He is nice and sensitive and he is all the things that a straight man is not 💔😂
Haha don’t worry plenty of people have been there. My friend Monica had a crush on me for a year until I came out of the closet - we’re still best friends!
I hope that most gay men grow out of this forbidden fruit phase. There’s too many amazing gay men in the world to spend your time obsessing over heterosexuals.
Been there, done that a ton ton of times so far :( I totally feel you. Some guys just make their sexuality so ambiguous and it would be nice if they at least were mindful that they could be giving out mixed signals.
Some guys fall on a spectrum of what their sexuality means to them. And they probably have no idea what effect they have on you. But don’t worry it’ll get clearer
My very first real gay crush was my freshman year of high school; I was on the track team and this new guy showed up who was older than me and boy was he dreamy. And for a while I kinda just admired from afar and like we would catch each other’s gaze and he would just smile at me. A few weeks of this and then we have a track meet and I’m sitting alone waiting for my events and he walks up to me and asked if I wanted to go grab some food from concessions. I flipped the hell out and said yes and we walked around and ate and talked for the whole night (there was this whole thing with a pickle that I was sure was a sign he was gay), and eventually the meet was over and we were getting onto the bus to go home and I was too chicken to ask if he wanted to sit with me so he went and sat with another friend and I sat all alone and regretted it all. I get so excited for practice the next week to find out that he had quit track for the rest of the year and I had no classes with him so I commenced to stalk him online (as you do) for months until I find that he started dating a girl who was one of my friends.... fun time
musicartsmaniac I know its almost been a year but have you ever tried talking to him again? Maybe he is gay or bi and did like you but was unsure of telling you because he was afraid or not ready to come out
Again you guys talk about something important that's a significant issue for many of us men who love men. As a straight (lol!) up manly gentleman who is a member of the men only club it can be difficult with men whose boundaries are questionable. It's interesting for me to be involved with a bisexual man but even that can be emotionally rough. What's really interesting is that I'm not the one seeking them out they are usually the one initiating contact. Sometimes I feel like a magnet for men who are either in the closet , bisexual, questioning or sometimes just curious. Word.
I've got kind of a different twist on this. A few years ago, I found myself falling for a guy who was in fact openly gay. However, he was committed to staying single and celibate because of his religious convictions. It's fine, because I believe in being understanding of other people's beliefs, and I respect his decisions. I have never been able to shake the thoughts of what could have been, though.
Same thing happend to me just like Austin. I meet this guy through a friend at the hotel I was staying at. I was working out of town. Long story short we started talking, and hanging out alot. Almost everyday. Um he would even drive to Minneapolis where I live to visit. Well we he was curious of you k ow what I mean, so we tried something's, and next thing you know he got all weird on me, and went back to his ex girls friend. Witch I might add cheated on him. Next thing you know we stopped talking, and now he's engaged to the girl that cheated on him haha. Best of luck to you buddy hope all goes well aka meaning him!!
I've had a crush on a couple guys, but with me i always give the benefit of doubt so im not butthurt and i'm like "they're probably bi" but in my gut im like "they're straight or gay" the 2 crushes i had both turned out to be gay when i didnt have a crush on them anymore and when i find that out i jsut say i knew it and then get over it XD
I fell for my girl best friend and when I confessed to her shê accepted so we dated for a few weeks but since my ex wanted me back I never said no to someone before so I had to brake up with my best friend but we are still best friends and now my ex that I got back together with cheated on me so he broke up with me and my best friend is now dating her other friend so now I'm a single Pringle sadly :')
Falling for straight girls is the death of me. Like i have this huge ass crush on my best friend. She does all the romantic things. She told me a year ago she thinks she's bi, but whenever she talks to me around other people she talks about how straight she is. I just want her to love me. ahhhhhhhhhhhhh
every guy I've like previously has been straight . the guy I like now is in the closet and trying to "fix it" . crushes are called that bc you always end up crushed
Don’t give up hope! I’ve definitely felt like there we no options before. There are people out there and you will find someone ❤️ I hope your crush finds his way
There’s a boy In my neighborhood and we don’t go to the same school but we play soccer together and he’s friends with my brother and he’s so hot and I can’t stop thinking about him sometimes when I look at him like peeking he’s not looking and it’s like I’m nothing to him but today I’ve looked him in the eyes cuz he was talking to me and he was lookin in my eyes and I was blushing what do I do I’m obsessed with him
All the time. When I was in 8th grade thru HS, I had a crush on Bobby. He is straight. The closest I got was in gym class, got to see him in his underwear as we changed clothes. Only got to see the backside. But hey, he was cute. I saw was cause a recent Facebook photo he was seriously obese. Too bad.
but theirs always the striaght ones that are kinda hard to tell mostly their just joking i usually don't tell them bc i am scared for my friendship w/them
I have been out of the closet for roughly, 2 years or so. The only dudes I have liked have been straight. It's not fun, i have yet to have a boyfriend and the only thing life throws at me is straight dudes 😂
OK...so...I'd say I have a crush on a straight boy but...he ain't straight...I've always known my friends sexualities just by studying them extremely closely and I'm tellin ya dis boy ain't straight...he's at least bi...he just needs to get over his bicurious stage to realise it...he knows he's bicurious but he doesn't know he's at least bi...everyday when he talks to me I give him a look that pretty much says "BOY YOU AINT ANY STRAIGHTER THAN A CIRCLE!" It honestly annoys me how he doesn't even see the look as that look though...he knows I've got a crush on him too...honestly he's just kind of behind on figuring himself out bc if the signs are there for others to see and he doesn't recognize that....he has no fuckin clue
Wtf somehow this title and the description was automatically translated to my native language (Dutch, which they are clearly not) is anyone else having this weird thing? (just happened to this vid)
TO BE HONEST ARE YOU GUYS OUT OF CONTENT ALREADY THIS IS VERY NOT APPEALING. ITS NOT POSITIVE. YOU SHOULD DELETE THIS BECAUSE IT CAN GIVE US GAYS HERE TO HATE STRAIGHT GUYS FOR BREAKING YOU GUYS HEART.
Have you been in love with someone who didn't feel the same way?
Austin And Patrick yes it's the most painful think evee
Every straight guy I've come across I got in their pants and what I wanted.. I always put ethicical iny relationship so no lol... as a gay man who studies phycology I say this.. I treat straight guys like a straight guy would treat a girl they just want to fuck. And it works lol... straight guys should be a sport to gays lol
Yes. Three times that come to mind. :(
i have been in love with my best friend for 3 years but i am afraid to tell her because it might ruin my friendship plz help me!
@ Austin and Patrick, You guys are ADORABLE!!!
*"If you're gonna be nice, be gay..."*
😂😂😂😂
Agreed. Too many straight guys
Austin " if you're going to be nice be gay " words of wisdom from one of the nicest gays on the planet:-):-) you guys deserve the highest awards for your creativity and entertainment value.
Haha! AW! Thank you
Oh honey.. I am the king of falling for straight guys. It's so dang sad. It's worse if you happen to have an "encounter" with a straight guy because that gives you that terrible glimmer of hope. That happened a few times and it was always heartbreaking because you either end up seeing them with their girlfriends or worse, like having to hear them have sex in the next room. Yeesh. Glad those days are over. Considering where I live tho, I think that falling for the wrong guy is almost inevitable. For the longest time I thought I was the only gay guy in town. I guess they were here all along but I was looking in the wrong places...go figure. So has my luck changed since the local gay community became a bit more visible?...Well...no. In fact, I may be to late. I hate to think I had my shot but falling for straight guys is one thing...being older and gay is a whole other wall to climb. Take care...thanks for the video!!
Brent Braniff I know your comment was a year ago but even tho I am young, I can so relate to you. I either fall for a straight guy or a guy in the closet but guy in the closet have to come in conclusion by himself. I’m a college student and I fell in love with my straight friend in the same major. It’s a tough time for me and it’s good that I’m trying not to go deep into those feelings, because he has a crush on one girl lol. Anyway, I wish you like and hope you’ll meet a real love some day😁
I think its kinda hard to not fall for a straight guy . for gay men because they give mixed signals sometimes. And then it becomes awkward.
So true! I think it's just part of life.
But also I don't think it has to be awkward! Having feelings is a natural part of life and it doesn't need to be uncomfortable
Also straight men out number gay men so simple maths will tell you your more likely to fall for a straight guy than a gay one.
Don't even get me started on falling for straight boys 😂 I once fell so hard for this straight boy who basically started flirting with me jokingly, except that didn't help, like we'd see movies together and all that cause we were good friends anyway.... Except that one day, he suddenly snapped and got mad at me, saying I was manipulating him into doing all that stuff, and basically shit went down, punches happened, and I spent the next 4 months getting over him 😅 EITHER WAY, love you both, and thank you for putting a huge smile on my face!!! LOVE FROM THE AUSTIN IN NEW ZEALAND 😁
Oh no! Haha... yikes. Hope you are okay after all of that! We love you!
Austin And Patrick Haha yeah things are okay, definitely grown since then, but elephants never forget 😁 Moral of the story: don't fall for straight boys, and remember that you will always move forward and grow if you allow yourself to do so!
(Also did I just call myself fat)..... 😮
Hellooooooo , where in nz are u from?
FIND ME IF YOU CAN. You are omnipresent. What are you Chuck or Amara?
Ankit Mahilary what?
This makes me so happy. I thought I was the only gay who feel for a straight person 😂😭
Haha nope you’re definitely not alone there 😂❤️
I currently really like another boy in my class but I honestly can’t tell if he’s gay or not. He is really nice to everyone and we have recently started becoming better friends. JAKE PEACH if you are ready this, I really like you, I need to here it from YOU that you are straight so I can get over you... PLEASE! 😕
-Frankie
You look hot
update?
i still fall for straight guys. and its worse when its ur friends. because u already spend a lot of time with them and then when ur also attracted to them it just hurts even more... when they do nice things for u ur just like omg what if he really is gay but hes not and then u end up thinking oh wait maybe hes faking it and then u keep going in and out of wondering if hes straight or gay when really hes just straight and if he was gay he would have come out by now and then u go right back to thinking oh wait maybe theres something thats stopping him from coming out and then u try to figure it out and then u realize ITS NOTHING HES STRAIGHT RELAX GO FIND A REAL GAY GUY... recently i had a break up with my first relationship... the guy was an asshole so i had to dump him... then sometimes my straight friends try to help me cope with the break up and stuff like that and then im like omg wait what if hes going to save me from this heartbreak by becoming my new boyfriend and nooooo i was bamboozled again so now i gotta sit around at work and look at all this valentines day shit while i suffer yet again in the gay single life..... SOMEBODY BE MY FUCKING VALENTINE PLEASE!!! :(
It’s definitely not easy! It can be a natural thing to have feelings for your friends. But don’t worry, there are tons of people out there and you will absolutely find someone. ❤️
omg u guys responded lol yea ur right there r plenty of fish in the sea as they always say lol thank u so much :) ... WAIT WHICH ONE OF YOU WROTE THAT COMMENT? or do u both co-author comments? or is it left up to mystery??? hahaha
I know valentines is long blown over, but maybe next year we can all collectively be each other's valentine!
It never stops. 34 and still happens. Damn nice straight guys. On a side note, Austin, you are looking pretty studly. Broader in the shoulders. New workout routine?
Austin is hot!
They both r
My first love was my neighbor, he was straight and after my friends told him that I was in love with him he was nice, but even with this he destroyed my 14y-old heart...
And now, after 4 years without being attracted to anyone, I met a new guy and, well, you can bet what's going on...
I'm very sensitive and sentimental, I've noticed that I care too much about him even though its clearly that he's straight, these last two weeks were very hard because I'm struggling to get him outta my head, and the worst is that I can't avoid or ignore him because we get along very well and i'm a very lonely person (you can already imagine how many mental breakdowns i've had this year because of this), I'm just hoping that I will stop liking him but I have to make sure that he will not have any feelings for me, I just don't know how to do it.
My life is too hard, help.
i think i've had more crushes on straight guys than on gay guys #reasonsimgonnabesingleforever
You will definitely find someone ❤️ haha don’t give up hope!
What a story, well you kind of know my story. I fell in love with my best friend. He was and still is my everything. He has the looks, the personality, the charisma really the whole package deal. And it was never obvious to no one, not to me, not to his family, his friends and not really to himself if he is gay straight or curious. We lived together for a bit and he used to ask me a lot of questions about my process of coming out, he as well been so pumped for me to come out to my parents to the point he wanted to do. His field of work has also doubted people due to social constructs, he's in fashion. He shows his sweet shy and sometimes flamboyant side, and would not be gender blocked by some clothing pieces. He also shows a fetish towards pretty boys. Lived in the gay neighborhood for a long time. But has always told me he was straight and i respect that and would never push him to do something he does not feel ready or comfortable. He can simply also just be 100% straight but just human. I respect him all the way. With time we have grown feeling to one another but have not got physical at all. We now admit to each other we love each other, and show feelings more but we just get blocked due to sexual preference (more him obviously). He is really the sweetest man I've met in my entire life, he always cares about me and makes sure I'm good. He would do the cutest things like cover me with the blanket when I do sleepover there and fall asleep unexpected. Basically, we have the friendship you two have, and are super close, too bad we can't be together because of SEX... but, we can always be like brothers and still remain in each other's lives. Kinda makes you think, straight guys can really be the bestest of friends for gay guys, because they won't try to steal your man and be by your side. (not saying this is a real case obviously XD)
Most relationships end. Your friendship with him is forever. I’m a straight woman and straight men usually aren’t friends with straight women. Gay men get to be in much closer contact with straight men. You’re in his circle. I’ve never been in a man’s circle unless I was his girlfriend. And that never lasted.
I went to a school, where I found out I was bisexual, and it seemed like there were no straight people. I saw one straight couple, but that was it. And I even had a female friend who had a male friend. Despite that she was all over him and seemed to like him, she never said anything about liking him. I was her only friend besides him and it made me think that they either did like each other but didn't want to get hurt or they didn't like each other and just seemed like it
*EDIT* Now, I'm at a school where there's like three or four gays/lesbians, half the people are bisexual or, if your straight, they have screwed up their lives. Three people at my school have already gotten pregnant. And this is a MIDDLE school!!!!!! Imagine when I go to high school...
I have no hope for this generation
I didn't see my story in the comments (I have posted it so often), so here you go...
I was just coming out after many years in the closet. I was friendly with a guy who I believed was gay WAY before I resolved it myself (although I first bottomed at age 12, but anyway...).
I came out to him earlier in the year. When I did, he gave me a supportive hug. I held on to that hug long enough to show it was not intended to be "just friendly". I had been hanging out with him at the gym and sauna for a while including showering in open showers at the same time.
One day we were in the gym and he asked me to spot him on the overhead press. He asked me to stand behind him and reach up and help his arms if he struggled. He is taller than me so I needed to stand VERY close. I helped him once, which required me to be close enough that our bodies touched. He then changed to doing some floor exercises. He crossed the gym, laid on the floor and told me to "come over here and grab my legs". He didn't respond well to my "OH, MY!" response Though George Takei would have been proud of my impersonation. Up in the sauna we wore shorts. He never indicated anything more than friendship while in the sauna or shower.
He had a habit of telling me that I am too reserved and that I need to loosen up socially. He urged me to get out and have some drinks (though I am not a drinker). One day I was at his office and I told him that I was planning on going somewhere to just kick back and have some fun. I stated I may even have some alcohol. He asked where, and I stated Pride Portland (Maine). He looked at the calendar and invited himself to join me. Later that day he texted me telling me that he was going to bring his girlfriend (hmmm). In the planning process, he learned that she would not be out of work in time to accompany us if we were to be there in tiume for the parade. He told me she couldn't come and we headed on our way. Halfway down the road, his phone rang and I could hear her ask where we were and when we would pick her up. He notified her that we couldn't wait and she could drive down and meet us if she wanted.
When we arrived, he walked with a gait that would make anyone think he was a proud gay man. I told him he was going to get an award for being the gayest "straight" guy at the parade (we weren't in the parade). After the parade, we went to lunch at a local restaurant. During the meal, he asked me whether my dominant personality would carry forth into a relationship. I told him that such a discussion would be between myself and the other person. He then dropped the subject. During the performances at the festival, he danced a little on his own and then napped the remainder of the time. After the festival, we split a pizza for supper. THEN...
He had offered to help me pick out some new clothes because he thought I looked terrible in my daily attire. We went to the mall and as we entered, He held the door for me (but ignored the woman passing through the doors). he helped me to select a number of pants and shirts and a new belt. When the selection was done, he carried the selection to the register for me. As the cashier rang up the selections, HE folded them neatly and placed them in the bags (I paid). Then he carried the bags to my car for me.
Over the next couple of months, he would say things that were flirty. One time I was in the (small co-ed) sauna alone with the door locked so that I didn't have to worry about someone coming in. He knocked on the door to use the sauna, I wrapped a towel around myself and went to unlocked the door. Expecting it to be him, I said in a falsetto voice "who is it?" to which he replied in a falsetto voice "your girlfriend".
Another time He was in a dinner theater play as a lawman. It was a whodunnit. Despite my having VERY disparate views with his parents about politics, he decided to seat me with them. I refused to get into a political discussion with them, so his mother said to me "Well if we can't talk about politics, what can we talk about?". So, I came out to them. They are VERY conservative, so they weren't impressed. Luckily the play started just then. Later, the characters came to the tables to permit us to guess whodunnit. As he approached the table, he (in character) tried to be funny by saying "I've had my eye on you for some time, young man". Which may have been interpreted differently than he intended, given my recent revelation to his parents. Luckily, he approached from behind me, so I was looking away from his parents across the table from me. I could hardly contain my laughter.
He continued to flirt with me over time but I knew it wasn't going anywhere.I eventually told him that his behavior was coming off as flirting, and he needed to either stop it or mean it. He stopped. We don't hang out anymore, which is good because he is really struggling with life events right now, and he has burned his bridges with me as a freind through other behavior.
It ain't just straight guys that do this guys. A friend introduced me to a gay friend, who started calling me all the time. Would ask me to get together every weekend. Flirt with me like crazy. And I fell head over heals in love with him, even our friend thought we were going to be a couple. So one night while we were at her house, I told him how I felt about him. Even brought him a single rose to show him I was in love with him. Only to hear him say:. Oh well your nice and all, but not what I am looking for. Which totally not only broke my heart, it made me feel uglier than dirt and I just wanted to crawl into a dark corner and hide. So holding back tears, I just said oh ok I understand. Well I need to get going I have clothes for work that need washed before tomorrow, and I managed to hold back the tears till I got in my car. Then I drove home, totally sobbing, crawled into my bed and cried myself to sleep. So it ain't just straight guys who you can fall in love with, and yet get totally rejected by.
That’s awful. So sorry. Hope you’ve recovered.
Yeah, I agree with the heartbreak part of it. Like I was MADLY in love with my best friend in 8th grade and it was SO hard becuase I saw him literally everyday. It was exhausting to pretend to be straight in front of him. The weird thing about it though is that he was always sending mixed signals at me, which threw me off. He was always touching me and making gay jokes it was......odd. Anyways, now we're still grear best friends and he knows I'm gay. He's super supportive. I also don't have feelings for him anymore so that's splendid.
Sorry for that! Love you guys!
Hey, guys! I absolutely love these "sit down" videos. Actually the subject matter never is as much fun as the interaction between the two of you. And, do I have stories? Call me sometime when you have a couple of hours! LOL!
Keep up the good work! 💝 💝
Thank you!!!!
Dear God, the description of these straight boys you guys talked about sounds a lot like the guy I like, who is straight. It's like the personality attracts us more than the looks.
I think I’m having a crush on a gay guy we been a friend forever and sometimes I feel he like me but sometimes I feel like I’m imagining it all.He is nice and sensitive and he is all the things that a straight man is not 💔😂
Haha don’t worry plenty of people have been there. My friend Monica had a crush on me for a year until I came out of the closet - we’re still best friends!
I hope that most gay men grow out of this forbidden fruit phase.
There’s too many amazing gay men in the world to spend your time obsessing over heterosexuals.
Agreed, but sometimes we can’t help our attraction! I mostly felt this way in high school. Not so much anymore.
@@AustinAndPatrick
*This video gave me flashbacks*
Manifesting
Been there, done that a ton ton of times so far :( I totally feel you. Some guys just make their sexuality so ambiguous and it would be nice if they at least were mindful that they could be giving out mixed signals.
Some guys fall on a spectrum of what their sexuality means to them. And they probably have no idea what effect they have on you. But don’t worry it’ll get clearer
Austin And Patrick thanks guys. It means a lot
I just think to myself he doesn't know what he's missing out on,😂
All straight people are gay,they just don't know the joys of being gay yet
My very first real gay crush was my freshman year of high school; I was on the track team and this new guy showed up who was older than me and boy was he dreamy. And for a while I kinda just admired from afar and like we would catch each other’s gaze and he would just smile at me. A few weeks of this and then we have a track meet and I’m sitting alone waiting for my events and he walks up to me and asked if I wanted to go grab some food from concessions. I flipped the hell out and said yes and we walked around and ate and talked for the whole night (there was this whole thing with a pickle that I was sure was a sign he was gay), and eventually the meet was over and we were getting onto the bus to go home and I was too chicken to ask if he wanted to sit with me so he went and sat with another friend and I sat all alone and regretted it all. I get so excited for practice the next week to find out that he had quit track for the rest of the year and I had no classes with him so I commenced to stalk him online (as you do) for months until I find that he started dating a girl who was one of my friends.... fun time
musicartsmaniac I know its almost been a year but have you ever tried talking to him again? Maybe he is gay or bi and did like you but was unsure of telling you because he was afraid or not ready to come out
Yes, updates please?
I super adore you two. I really enjoy most of your videos, and you guys are doing amazingly great!!! Keep up the good work! (:
Been there and STILL doing that LOL...Damn the str8 men...
Lol same
Again you guys talk about something important that's a significant issue for many of us men who love men. As a straight (lol!) up manly gentleman who is a member of the men only club it can be difficult with men whose boundaries are questionable. It's interesting for me to be involved with a bisexual man but even that can be emotionally rough. What's really interesting is that I'm not the one seeking them out they are usually the one initiating contact. Sometimes I feel like a magnet for men who are either in the closet , bisexual, questioning or sometimes just curious. Word.
🙋🏼♂️ Austin and Patrick 🙋🏼♂️
Sheddah!
Yasss! More videos like this!
Ugh, I love yall a lot, its crazy
Oh lord. Patrick and I are literally twins when it comes to the straight boy crushes
**Laughs an aromantic laughter**
These jokes killed me!
Yup. One way road... His words. Do it to me so you do it to someone else
Austin your boy sounds a less 'straight' than Patricks... I personally have a story very very similar to Patricks...
*This video gave me flashbacks*
I've got kind of a different twist on this. A few years ago, I found myself falling for a guy who was in fact openly gay. However, he was committed to staying single and celibate because of his religious convictions. It's fine, because I believe in being understanding of other people's beliefs, and I respect his decisions. I have never been able to shake the thoughts of what could have been, though.
That’s good that you respected him! Too bad the timing didn’t work out ❤️
Straight men fall in love with me, because I am such awesome GAY man.
Same thing happend to me just like Austin. I meet this guy through a friend at the hotel I was staying at. I was working out of town. Long story short we started talking, and hanging out alot. Almost everyday. Um he would even drive to Minneapolis where I live to visit. Well we he was curious of you k ow what I mean, so we tried something's, and next thing you know he got all weird on me, and went back to his ex girls friend. Witch I might add cheated on him. Next thing you know we stopped talking, and now he's engaged to the girl that cheated on him haha. Best of luck to you buddy hope all goes well aka meaning him!!
Patrick's making me feel stuff. 👀
I've had a crush on a couple guys, but with me i always give the benefit of doubt so im not butthurt and i'm like "they're probably bi" but in my gut im like "they're straight or gay" the 2 crushes i had both turned out to be gay when i didnt have a crush on them anymore and when i find that out i jsut say i knew it and then get over it XD
Hahah aw dang. Sometimes timing doesn't work out
Yes I have and I'm currently head over heels madly in love with a co-worker
I love you guys so much. 🙃
Is it just me or does Patrick remind me of Kenny (Noah Galvin) from the T.V
Show The Real O'Neals?
Oh. Yes. We. Have.
I just want too have brunch with them they are hilarious 😂
I wish someone would wake me up at 11:00💥
omg i can totally relate
honestley u guys r sooo cute
i have problem cause all my crushes are gay!! AAAHHHH!!
story of my life
I fell for my girl best friend and when I confessed to her shê accepted so we dated for a few weeks but since my ex wanted me back I never said no to someone before so I had to brake up with my best friend but we are still best friends and now my ex that I got back together with cheated on me so he broke up with me and my best friend is now dating her other friend so now I'm a single Pringle sadly :')
I feel the damn struggle!!! Urghhhhhh
I love you guys so much😍❤ You are so cute😍
Falling for straight girls is the death of me. Like i have this huge ass crush on my best friend. She does all the romantic things. She told me a year ago she thinks she's bi, but whenever she talks to me around other people she talks about how straight she is. I just want her to love me. ahhhhhhhhhhhhh
Falling for a straight guy is like us (gays) falling for a women. It just won’t happen...Save your heart from the PAIN.⚠️💔❗️🍰🍦🍩🍔🌮🍕🥺
i love u guys. your the best. you guys should talk about how straight guys aare cruel to us females n what we should do.
every guy I've like previously has been straight . the guy I like now is in the closet and trying to "fix it" . crushes are called that bc you always end up crushed
Don’t give up hope! I’ve definitely felt like there we no options before. There are people out there and you will find someone ❤️ I hope your crush finds his way
U2 are so fun and yes that’s happened to me also a few years back👍🏻🌈
You guys are so cute 😁😁
Love it
"ok, but where did u hide his body?"
💔
There’s a boy In my neighborhood and we don’t go to the same school but we play soccer together and he’s friends with my brother and he’s so hot and I can’t stop thinking about him sometimes when I look at him like peeking he’s not looking and it’s like I’m nothing to him but today I’ve looked him in the eyes cuz he was talking to me and he was lookin in my eyes and I was blushing what do I do I’m obsessed with him
Updates?
IN MY SCHOOL THERE ISN'T ANYONE GAY I'M THE ONLY GAY BLONDE BIMBO KID WHO WON'T HAVE A BF so I fell in love with 2 people WHO ARE STRAIGHT *dead*
All the time. When I was in 8th grade thru HS, I had a crush on Bobby. He is straight. The closest I got was in gym class, got to see him in his underwear as we changed clothes. Only got to see the backside. But hey, he was cute. I saw was cause a recent Facebook photo he was seriously obese. Too bad.
but theirs always the striaght ones that are kinda hard to tell mostly their just joking i usually don't tell them bc i am scared for my friendship w/them
I have been out of the closet for roughly, 2 years or so. The only dudes I have liked have been straight. It's not fun, i have yet to have a boyfriend and the only thing life throws at me is straight dudes 😂
Hahaha we’ve been there. We made a video about it!
Bitch! 😍 I really like you guys OMG.I wish i could also have a gay close friend 😭😭😭
I think i m falling for a bi and i dont know why but how
OK...so...I'd say I have a crush on a straight boy but...he ain't straight...I've always known my friends sexualities just by studying them extremely closely and I'm tellin ya dis boy ain't straight...he's at least bi...he just needs to get over his bicurious stage to realise it...he knows he's bicurious but he doesn't know he's at least bi...everyday when he talks to me I give him a look that pretty much says "BOY YOU AINT ANY STRAIGHTER THAN A CIRCLE!" It honestly annoys me how he doesn't even see the look as that look though...he knows I've got a crush on him too...honestly he's just kind of behind on figuring himself out bc if the signs are there for others to see and he doesn't recognize that....he has no fuckin clue
Wtf somehow this title and the description was automatically translated to my native language (Dutch, which they are clearly not) is anyone else having this weird thing? (just happened to this vid)
They look like Ken dolls.
💐😛😝💐
Its boring...
TO BE HONEST ARE YOU GUYS OUT OF CONTENT ALREADY THIS IS VERY NOT APPEALING. ITS NOT POSITIVE. YOU SHOULD DELETE THIS BECAUSE IT CAN GIVE US GAYS HERE TO HATE STRAIGHT GUYS FOR BREAKING YOU GUYS HEART.
Bitch! 😍 I really like you guys OMG.I wish i could also have a gay close friend 😭😭😭
Bitch! 😍 I really like you guys OMG.I wish i could also have a gay close friend 😭😭😭