When A Man And Woman Do Not Contact Each Other
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 6 ต.ค. 2024
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Yes, sad but true. Sometimes it's the best thing to walk away when someone is silent.
I agree. I did that but my mistake was to second guess it years later giving the person the benefit of the doubt. Turns out they were never who I thought they were. It's sad. There's no trust worthy friends. They're left with prayer.
@@ForeverXO i agree too . Even to walk away silently too helps. Also forgiving but don’t give too many chances. I had to learn that I can’t give people chances at all anymore
@MichaelBeck-uf6ek ,
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@MichaelBeck-uf6ek ,
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Or maybe he is waiting for you to break the silence, and you left him waiting 😳🤸
Yes thanks for clarifying it isn't they are hiding their feelings they don't F-ing care💯
And the sooner you know, the better. That way, you can find people who DO care. Goood luuck! It's a tough world out there. Bad people don't have signs on their head saying they are! ..
We live in a world where people don't care. Don't take it personally. In the end your character is way too valuable for theirs.
I do care, but I'm f-ing good at hiding it
EXACTLY!! NOBODY'S GOT TIME FOR NO F...KIN GAMES. EITHER YOU DO OR YOU DONT!!! YOU CAN SHOW ME BETTER THAN U CAN TELL ME!!
Caring &NSA are 2different things
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?
Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
why did she leave u after 5 years?
Biggest lesson of my life learnt. Don't accept hurtful behavior from someone just because you love them, when you wouldn't accept it from anyone else. I know it's not easy to let go but all one can do is to just pray for them and leave them to God. 🌸
It's hard to fucking let go never had help or fucking support before grew up rough high crime neighborhoods how the fuck I suppose to know what fucking love is about damn why can't nobody fucking help me
No one wants to be around your foul mouth! Clean it up! Work on your vocabulary. Ask God, all can improve!
Don’t waste time on the wrong people. Focus on the people who brings you love and joy.
It's easier said than done.When there were signs and life brought us a separate way.I'm sure about my feelings but not more sure about the other person
I Don't agree with video no body know what is there in anyone's heart just pray and rest live it to GOD
@@KSRSANTOSHCHOWDARY maybe one is shy and introverted
I just posed someone I trusted most and cheated with another guy and they slept with in a month now she want us to fix thing😢😢😢
Exactly 💯 i put my efforts on wrong person now i am suffering 😢😢😢😢😢 unable to forget him... he is being very happy in his life
He rejected me, lied, and was carrying on with his ex, so my silence is not because I don't care. I still love him, but I must love myself more. My silence is self respect.
Well done girl.
Finally someone with common sense thank you.
Good for you. But the video isn't about that particular situation. I still support you tho.
If someone cares for you
Regardless of what happened, that person will contact you
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yeah i hope you know God enough well? God is always there for us and never leave us no matter what we do. as long as you still keep breathing, you can always have a new chance.
If both person follow your idea, it will leads to deadlock. 😂. Both will keep waiting for each other endlessly. I would say, if you care, talk to the person without making too much delays.
@MichaelBeck-uf6ek ,
Thank you. 🌸
@MichaelBeck-uf6ek ,
The trick to that is to take the needed breaks from it and give to yourself, treat yourself with the kindness you deserve. Plus someone up there is taking note and appreciates you. 🌸
You can’t know people truly even if you think you do, they always have a side you didn’t see
Its better to keep your sharp teeth hidden till they reveal their true nature. Wait for the right time and orchestrate the right scenario to give a final blow. 🥰 The last scorpio chick i dealt with will forever be conscious of respecting other's dark side because of what i did to her. Lesson taught and lesson learnt. 🤗
@@poetictriangle1037 Scorpios are known for their devotion. It’s the Pisces that you have to watch out for.
@@Rebelmusedesign Pisces are known for their big hearts and loving nature , its scorpio's toxic hateful side that needs to be watched out.
True
Ok enough astrology lectures
Go where you're celebrated not where you're tolerated. 💯% Fact (Definitely a game changer).
Narsisistic trap. Been there done that. After some months it was the complete opposite. Would prefer a woman that you grow closer together with over time.
I agree. No calls, no feelings. The end.
I dont chase, I attract. But believed me what is meant for u is meant to be. U can control only yourself , but u cannot control out there, its about waisting energy. Be calm and concentrate to love yourself more😊
❤❤❤
Amen
Absolutely....without the shadow of a doubt. I gave up a long time ago. Will never chase a shadow!!!
Even if they reach out, it don’t mean nothing. They can still careless
Facts!!! Sometimes they'll do that cuz they feel sorry for you play with you or just bored because they have nothing else to do happend to me a while ago women are just weird these days straight up
@@christianhaynes4927 RIGHT!
Sister, This is Soooooo #TRUE🎉@@Jac735
AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN,Sister 🎉🎉🎉
Temperature checking 😅.
Once upon a time I was stupid enough to chase and kept asking why everything changed just overnight after a couple of years of mutual affection. The more I pushed the colder she became. Then one day I thought, damn, I bet the She I
dream about well might be just round the corner. And so it happened even quicker than I thought.
And I learned one more lesson: if you love, it may be a blessing. But if you ARE LOVED it is a real happiness. Do not underestimate those who love you, for it is a very rare thing in this universe.
Thank you for this video!
If one chases someone, they'll run. It might have worked out if one would simply sit back and chill. Don't put others on a pedistal. Remember, YOU are the star of your life. Let others be your fans.
@@mgtow6450 👍🤝
My case also same , we are in relationship for more than 1 1/2 year now my bf doing different... We are in long distance relationship from beginning we didn't met also so he want my presence so he saying not feeling excited all the day ... I'm giving all my love and support him but even though I lose my consciousness some times I get more angry on his behaviour and not time giving and asking made him cold on that moment... I'm pressing him more with my love and my expectations... I itself said break and I went again and now he is saying let's not contact for somedays so we will be okay and get time to focus on ourselves... I agreed but still I'm thinking him daily and I'm afraid what if he forget me fully... But I don't want to force my going again within one or two days... But I want to go 😔... I don't know what to do
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I'll give you an answer and you won't like it, he doesn't love you anymore, but i don't think he ever did,forget about him,don't text or call him,throw everything of his that remind you of him,yes even photos
he's not worth it and never was, he's not your Knight in shining armour, now concentrate on your life now and pick yourself up and dust yourself down , and find yourself once again, time on your own will be good, go out with friends and set your goals of things you want to achieve, that is the real you,then one day when the pain has gone and your living your best life possible, you maybe shopping in tesco or out somewhere and you will meet your mr right ❤. @@Taehyng145
Life is shorter than you think ,don't waste time with the toxic and negative..🙏♥️
He ignored me, I pinged. He ignored again this time for a month. I apologised not understanding what went wrong.
He still didn't ping me back for a month.
After 2 months I Said he could reach back when his anger is over for whatever reason.
It's been 3 months, he didn't message me back.
I stopped messaging.
How ever , I do look at my last 3 message with mixed emotion.
A part of me grieve for the self respect I lost . A part of me proud that I loved him whole heartedly.
Btw, it was a 1.5 year long relationship wher he often said he would love to make me his wife.
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So ladies and guys, if they love, they will reach out.
If you were put in no contact, you didn’t qualify for the person that put you there.
My heart goes out to females for the delusion created by social media. Apps provide under qualified females access to men they’d otherwise not have.
These men are never seen in public with them, use them, & discard them.
Sorry - It wasn’t a relationship. You weren’t dating. You allowed yourself to be used. There are a limited number of “10’s” in the world. Both male & female. Eat the ego cookie, get your ass off the couch, hit the gym, and appreciate someone that’s kind and reciprocal.
He sounds like an Avoidant. There's a lot of videos on here about that. I suggest you look them up and watch. They'll blow your mind. Good luck 👍🏾
Why's this sooo relatable. It was for like a good 6 months. All of sudden he ghosted me. I didn't texted thinking may be he wants space. After a few days I reacted to one of his blogs n he blocks me after that. I really don't know when everything was fine what went wrong but now instead of guessing I say their loss n move on.
Same story is happening with me🥺
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What a quote that can be applied to almost anything we are trying to fight: “In world where everyone’s value is on the rise, make sure you are not selling yourself short”
I prayed to Allah about this situation...I kept feeling she felt something for me so I couldn't move on and I was shown this..thank you sir for making this video,everything u said matches with my situation.
Ameen, i am feeling same right now, I will pray for you, pray for me too
You lost at allah 🤷🏽♂️ Why do you Abrahamists believe Yahweh the Destroyer is going to give you some 🍑? 😂
Not necessarily.
These issues are very culture sensitive.
She might indeed have feelings for you but is waiting for you to make the move.
Do it anyway so you won't regret it later.
You can be tactful.. and respectful. She'll appreciate that.
The man who is too scared to take risks will be deprived of the most beautiful things in life.
And this also applies to religion by the way.
Try talking to the Lord Jesus .
they're not a great loss in your life if they don't contact you.😅
I needed to hear this thank you
Me too😥
Single men out there, always initiate, reach out and be decisive with your intentions. Masculinity is all about persuit and persistence, so don't give up and go after the woman of your dreams.
The woman who builds feelings for you will eventually stick around. Just don't give up until you know for sure it's over.
This is good advice. Even if the woman builds feelings, she may leave if she doesn't feel confident in the relationship and doesn't receive clear intentions from you. Women need to know that you won't give up on them
This is horrible advice. Of course, it depends on what happened, but if she pulled away, do not chase.
@@TheDevilsInterval Mate, the pull away rule only applies if you're in a relationship. Don't be doing that at the beginning. If you've reached out and she's flaking or acting cold, yes then you can pull away, in fact call it quits. I said "decisive with your intentions" for a reason.
Well said 👍
I have just said in another comment that the man who is too scared to take risks will be deprived of the best things in life!
Thanks Lord single no kids
Thanks Lord for bible study class
Thanks Lord for your salvation
Someone always gets hurt & someone always regrets...
One more comment for I read a couple that reaching to each other and clearing up should happen from both ends:
Please note that there are some who would not willing to love you any longer but would not willing to lose you at the same time. Such persons would never give you any clear answers, just holding you on like a dog pet. No way to clear up anything with them.
Yes absolutely agree
They are definitely living there best life😢
But no one has a perfect life. Things can fuck up any minute. No one's life is perfect. Problems can arise at anytime. Accidents, illness, job loss, etc. !
the fact that them reaching out doesn't always mean they care. sometimes they just want to abuse you more. so my point is.. never trust a person who abused you once.. they never change and will more likely end up hurting you again.
Communication is so important!! Honesty !!!❤❤
#Absolutely 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
I'm not confused here. Me , my time, my money, my energy, my concern, my dignity, my worth, my value , if I had to heal from you personally STAY THE HELL AWAY from me, I dont want you back!! TIME WAITS FOR NO ONE. Nuff said!
I needed to hear this so bad. Thank you.
"In a world where everyone's value is on the rise, make sure you're not selling yourself short" Damn good one.
sO True! It hurts! let it hurt all it has to hurt! let arrogant or Indifferent person go! so a better person can arrive to heal & lOve our broken 💔 hearts!
Praise God that I am living my best life❤🎉😊
Be with the ones who want more FOR you, not the ones who want more FROM you.
Thank u for saying this I needed to read this today 😢
@@ysl23addidasq
Hold your head up. Don’t judge yourself by anybody, male or female. If you do, you’re not being your own man. You’re being their ‘idea’ of what a man they ‘think’ should be.
Not what a man truly is.
Be your own man. Not anybody else’s, ever.
Here’s something else to not only consider, but realize.
You’re a big fish in a small pond. Big fish don’t make small ponds. The little fish do.
Females have made their pond small, intentionally. You just happen to still be in it.
Stay there.
Being the big fish in a small pond doesn’t mean you have to swim/compete with/win over the small fish.
Be the ONLY independent big fish-only fish in that small pond. Set boundaries and never change them.
Think with the head on your shoulders first and always.
Focus on you and your career without considering what the small fish think, say or do.
Just stay independent of those small fish and observe how they can’t even stand each other.
Thats your proof they are the common denominator. Not you.
Your first boundary is:Never be with people, make or female but especially female, who want more FROM you than they want more FOR you.
Every other boundary is designed and built off that first boundary.
And in doing so, self confidence is natural. Not faked and inconsistent.
Focus on stoicism. It does wonders concerning what life throws at those who adopt it as their next boundary.
Study it. Adapt it. Never lose it.
Ever.
You never know. You might meet the right one.
Even in that small pond where you’re the big fish. Ultimately, you’ll be the prize. Not the small fish.
And you may very well find that fish who genuinely wants more FOR you than FROM you.
Think about this human nature fact.
When two fish come together and want more FOR the other than FROM the other, they BOTH get what they want, need and desire.
You’ll BOTH be the supplier of what the other wants, needs and desires.
A win-win.
Remember. Female fish EARN the label of a woman.
Also, females think in terms of emotion and all their actions, decisions, and choice come from emotions.
On the other hand, we men think critically and analytically. In one word, practicality.
If each way of thinking clash, the reason the small fish made the big pond small, intentionally, neither is right for or will be the right one for the other.
However, practicality and emotional thinking CAN work if there’s mature, calm, honest and sincere communication from both with no competition from either side as to who’s right or wrong.
Used together in the right way, those two fish can build their own big pond, together, and be the only occupants, regardless of what life throws their way.
It’s called teamwork. This two are truly teammates in this game we call life.
And, life is hard. Nothing we can do about that, even with the right fish. But, when falls happen, learn from them and move forward, never backward.
That’s called falling forward.
Marinate on that. Use critical and analytical thinking to see the benefits for both.
Keep your head up, your emotions, regardless of what they are, to yourself. Take time out to think about how to successfully operate in this game we call life, independently, figure out what you can control and accept the things you cannot control. The phrase-It is what it is, is key and very helpful to let go of what you can’t control.
Courage is moving forward regardless of fear, doubt and discomfort.
Be courageous. You’ll be surprised at what you can accomplish.
Not everyone is willing to do that, even though everyone can.
Be the fish willing to be courageous.
One thing you can control is you. No one else can you control or control you.
Also, you can’t change anybody, male or female. Only they can.
You can change yourself, but only in the right way and for the right reasons.
And those reasons are explained above.
Read this whole thing again.
Marinate on each point individually. Remember them.
You’ll soon realize how one can’t work without the other.
Replace a negative thought with two positive thoughts.
Start easy.
Two positive thoughts are, you saw the sun set and the sun rise again.
There’s a lot of info here. Save it. Take as many screenshots as you need to, to get it all. Refer back to it.
You’re young (I’m 60). You’re closer to when you were born than when you will die.
It’s easy to feel sorry for one’s self. It’s hard to be courageous and experience the benefit of courage.
Nothing worth having is easy.
You’re equipped to succeed.
And because of that, you WILL succeed.
Dude. You 🫵 got this!
Yessss, no truer words were spoken
Yes this is true. They have stopped to care. And you cannot trust them to take care of you in anyway. Be careful
We’re all so good at making things up in our heads, things we wanted but we’re never, ever there. It seems to just be a part of the human condition. I guess live with it for a while, but notice every day the complete lack of action on their part. Be honest with yourself, let reality sink in, and the truth will set you free.
Just want to be free from the motherfucking bullshit azz luv shit trap
Definitely can see no interest. I knew it all along. That's why he discarded me despite proposing to me. 10 years of my life down the drain. I'm going to be 27 soon, the best years of my life were robbed from me. But life moves on, and I know I have to, too.
Your best years are to come…and now you’ve learned some lessons so you’re ready for whoever comes next.
And whoever comes next will be there because the last 10 years have led you to that point. Good luck, it’s going to be okay!
"In a world where everyone's value is on the rise , don't sell yourself short"
AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN 🎉
Yes I agree with you because he has not been contacting me for over a week and I am worried
If a person "who cares, reach out first". Then why don't reach out first? Why are you waiting passively?
It becomes clear when u always reach out, getting blocked, then reach out again using different number, then blocked again. ITS OBVIOUS.
Amen!! You are exactly right!! Thank you for sharing this amazing message with us!! God Bless everyone!! I really needed to hear this message!! I completely agree with you!! 🙏🙏🙏💜💜💜💜❣️❣️❣️❣️♥️♥️♥️♥️💙💙💙💙💙💙🙌🙌🙌🙌👏👏👏👏👏⭐⭐⭐⭐👍👍👍👍
I agree, no one is that busy where they cant contact you its all about priorities. There are some exemptions though such as if they are in military or doctors such professions where they have to prioritise someone❤😊
Yes. I think writing him after all these years, might’ve confirmed there was nothing really there, in the first place. That, perhaps, I may have saved myself problems, too.
I have ignored him....not because i dont care but because i want an apology
😂 if both waited for each other to contact first 😢 and the whole life passed in waiting ...😂
Haha yeah you' re right
I was no contact for 4 months with the person to whom I have had super strong feelings because I knew that I have to work on myself
So it’s not always true, especially when you wanna build the family and when you know that you need to heal yourself and change yourself
Pride or ego will stop a person to contact you even they want you back
If you were put in no contact, you didn’t qualify for the person that put you there.
My heart goes out to females for the delusion created by social media. Apps provide under qualified females access to men they’d otherwise not have.
These men are never seen in public with them, use them, & discard them.
Sorry - It wasn’t a relationship. You weren’t dating. You allowed yourself to be used. There are a limited number of “10’s” in the world. Both male & female. Eat the ego cookie, get your ass off the couch, hit the gym, and appreciate someone that’s kind and reciprocal.
Then which this person priority/most important..
I don't be that no one never fucking tell me this bullshit before at young age who will fit in my shoes of what I had to put up with at young age
Going through a lotta shii, then TH-cam recommend this. It's a sign, thank you❤
Wow. I swear I know I was meant to see this. 😢
I’m going through that right now. I always seem to be the first to respond
😢 same
All my questions answered , I'll stop being a fool now...... thank you so mucĥ for this video....... God bless you always
At to some extent yes I agree. But sometimes you still care, but you know they best thing to do is to stay silent, some times the other person is in another relationship already, sometimes the other person is stuck on drugs, sometimes the other person is abusive. Sometimes it's just best to stay away, even if you still care for the person.
I cared but I did not reach out!!!!! I was protecting my feelings !!!
I think my guy and I are both there right now. It's a stalemate
Same here! I haven’t reached out. I am not out here living my best life. I am just trying to figure my life out and sitting back waiting figuring out how long this will go on. However, if I happen to meet someone else in the meantime, I will just meet someone else and move on.
@@DeNyce-how if you are waiting? For them?
@@FavDogBisquit I am not waiting for them. I am trying to figure my life out in all aspects. If they act right and do right that’s cool. If not, I am definitely open to meeting someone else. My main focus right now is me, myself and I.
Deep precious words.... Nature made me to hear this.... Somehow it got my sight that too early morning.... As a recommendation
The Best Thing Is To Walk Away
True. People should not sell themselves short, but, not everyones values is on the rise.
Thanks for this clarification.. it’s been 7 years that I have been waiting for someone for nothing. If they care they would have reached out. I have been put in this situation forcefully. No more waiting.. Now it’s time to raise..
Ofcourse.....why u wasted 7 yrs of ur life
@@anamikayadav7442 coz it was true love for me at least. It was true hence it was painful
I agree with God's closed doors that open doors for who I am to Him
It hurts…. I still care so much and to him I’m just nothing now 😔
This video is spot on but it's a cruel thing for a person to just stop contacting you when they used to smh we have to let it go it's hard
😢 same
Yes, In such a situation at the moment , we stare, feel each others energy , then , back off! Crossed lines of communication? Dont know!❤
Make sure you truly reaching out, there's a difference in talking at someone and talking to them. I like to assure people what you are hearing is coming from me and not my representitive that way we both can clear up any misunderstanding and decide where do we go from here...
I know everyone's situation isn't the same but for my particular situation, I was shown a few nights ago as God revealed why my person chose to go silent and ignore instead of actually communicating. That person doesn't have to worry about my msgs anymore because my questions about why everything having happened as it did, were answered by God. I know the truth. 🌸
I want you to understand just how profoundly I love this man. He occupies a special place in my heart, and he could have been my everything if circumstances had been different. Even now, if he were to return, he would still be my top priority. Yet, despite these overwhelming feelings, I find myself unable to reach out. It’s not because I’m blocked; it’s a matter of self-respect. I fear he might think I don’t care, even though my heart aches to hear from him. The silence is unbearable, and it breaks my heart to think he might believe I’ve moved on when, in truth, I’m still holding onto hope for us.
Yeah, my ex came back to me and told me to wait for him for future. But actually, he don't care about me. He didn't called all days and night. So I need to neglect him. Thank you for your advice.
Yes I totally agree damn I'm a dumb ass. And thank you for making this clear as glass now.
They are still watching me praying to come back reason is money. Ahaha
He's right. I may be sad about it, but it is what it is, and it's time to move on . That's the reality of things as much as I wish I could let everything go, which I'm doing, but sometimes those random feels pop up every now and then, and I wish for it to stop caz they are not the one and they never will be
The truth we don't want to accept but we NEED to accept...
And what if both people have this mindset? They could both want each other but they're just waiting on the other person lol.
😂😂
True
Yup, I'm pretty sure that's true for me and my guy. It sucks because I keep interpreting his not reaching out as not caring about me or being interested but my intiution tells me that's not the case, yet the deep feelings I have are still so raw even a year later that I get panic attacks when I think about reaching out in any meaningful way... and I'm an extrovert. He's the most introverted person I know. If I feel this way there's no hope for him lol
Soo true 👍
U can analyze the chat history if u send something the other side replies dry formal no interest in asking about it like before
Its a hint You aren't interest for her/he
You're very correct 💯
Thanks for the guidance, one day we'll be gathering I told her that it's a God approved and soulmate connection, God tells me in prayer but she is still quiet and I'm waiting if she doesn't come, no issues God is with me every moment every time in Jesus mighty and loving name. Amen 🙏🙏❤️❤️💜💜
Not necessarily. This could work both ways if neither contacts. There can be many reasons why someone doesn’t contact, things you might know nothing about. Some people have dark days, feel unworthy, can’t resolve a problem. Not everyone is living their best life. Obviously it could be that they are totally fine without you, but there are other signs that go hand in hand with the non contact. I think that you need to think of their reactions when they see you, what you talk about together, how they were when they left you, how the vibes felt when you were together. Nothing is as black and white as stated.
Communication? That’s why you split up! Ask the ?’s why? If you can’t answer or they narced you. They won’t give you answer. Move on as you can’t fix them!
He didnt love me and thats the reality I accepted and i chose to move on.
He walked away and never showed any interest once, i wasnt going to beg i woke up fast and moved on.
The worst part is he waited three years until i had to discuss selling the house, i knew hed checked out in all ways and emotionally long before he walked out, 3 yrs later he came clean he wanted out to move on, and by then id moved on and rebuilt a new successful life for myself and was over him I had moved on and didn't look back.
I needed to hear this so bad but it's just too hard I don't know I am just lost but thank you very much for posting this video it means alot.
I’m not sure why I have received this video BUT I WILL SAY. I have blocked and or changed my phone number to eliminate the possibility of contact from all trouble making exes…So we’ll never know if there has been any attempts made to contact, and I am totally awesome & OK with that!
Being glued to my phone has more to do with a tech addiction.
I didn’t contact. He did 😅 why with these games. I mean I’ve reached out 1st in the past. But it gets exhausting so I just stopped. And here he comes
But he’s not coming wat can I do
Change your belifs that you already have it@@vishuchinu536
Finally blocked him. I wasn’t in danger of him contacting me. I was in danger of my hope, that he would. Initially he did text a few times… Appologized for texting, but not for leaving or saying he felt differently, (When he left, he told me he couldn’t be with me… ) He didn’t want me, just access, to return. He at no point picked up the phone to actually speak, or actually come over. When he was love bombing me, he gave me flowers… maybe too many. His… Hoover attempt, did not include any lovely poseys. He would fake smile at me. … The look did leave me perplexed. Initially, I thought he was autistic because of his blank look.
I'd rather loose a lover, than love a looser. Life is too short... ❤
Yes, I totally agree. Thank you for this message. Blessed Be Brother 🌈
Absolutely its a no brainer. Sometimes we just don't like to know certain truth but it doesn't make it less true
What if he's super introverted and embarrassed about something he did? I don't think he'll ever reach out lol. It took him 3 years to ask me out, and our first 2 dates were so confusing. I didn't even know if they were dates because he was painfully shy even though we'd known each other for years at that point. I finally had to make a not so subtle move and then that broke the ice but when we faced some stress he pulled away and I panicked and left. Now we're both stuck in our feelings and I've been thinking I'll probably have to be the one to make a not so subtle move again
Agreed , my best value is dedicated for God, not men . Never sell ourselves short ! It’s not worth it to obsess over someone not worth our time . We can give back to ourselves and those that truly love and care about us, only thise that see our best interest without motives , using us , and-or abuse . No to narcissists
can’t reach out BLOCKED from everything I’m sure not reaching out I’m too busy reaching out to Yah/God I love it here💯♥️🙏🏾🙌🏾🔐
Communication sustains a relationship. No communication, no relationship. Also, If you are the only one in your relationship making all the effort to make it a success while the other person is doing nothing or next to nothing, that relationship is a failure
I actually needed this right now
I agree, I totally get it now after I read this.. I have been doing it all wrong. I think it's time to let her go and move on and be happy somewhere else
A woman was interested in me, at least that's what she said. I wasn't interested in a relationship. In fact, I let her know that, politely. She continued to pursue me. Her reason was that she gets hit on every day, everywhere she goes. She was aggravated because she said that I "acted like I didn't care." I told her I had news for her, I'm not an actor. Seems like the ones we want never want us, and the ones we don't won't leave us alone.
My dad told me once, the only thing worse than the one that got away, is the one that won't GO away.
Its their pride. No one wants to give in.
This was a short & sweet video a reminder why I'm single and saving my energy 💯
God Says Be Happy For them☺️
I agree. They probably just don't care about me....
This is what exactly happened to me 23years ago you are more Than 100percent correct.
If you've been blindsided by an unexpected break up, you know everything about that person that you need to know. And you also know why you need to move on and never take them back no matter what happens.
Your absolutely rite, and here i am second guessing, stressing, not knowing wht to dew. Feeln lost@ this moment. Its not the fact the person doesnt care, maybe thr goin through smethn.
Don’t be 2nd guessing yourself. Let them go
Yes thank you it's true ❤
True. I needed this.
Agree with you 💯
Yes but I used to get signs about him only. I am so confused and broken now. Inspite of signs still i am suffering. He is dating someone. But I always used to prayed whoever is mine please send him only. Lord Jesus i am lost again and again. I really don't want this life now. Please bless me with death now Amen🙏
Don’t b so hard on yourself there’s someone out there for you
You can learn to be happy on your own. Trust me - it's possible. There is so much more to life than just romantic love.
Power is in the tongue. Be careful what you pray for.
@@DeNyce- RIGHT! AND QUIT LETTN A PERSON DETERMINE YOUR SELF WORTH!!. NOT EVEN THAT SERIOUS. IF U GIVIN UP BECAUSE OF A MAN. I PRAY FOR YOU IF A REAL LIFE CRISIS HIT..BEYOND YOUR CONTROL.
If you were put in no contact, you didn’t qualify for the person that put you there.
My heart goes out to females for the delusion created by social media. Apps provide under qualified females access to men they’d otherwise not have.
These men are never seen in public with them, use them, & discard them.
Sorry - It wasn’t a relationship. You weren’t dating. You allowed yourself to be used. There are a limited number of “10’s” in the world. Both male & female.
Eat the ego cookie, get your ass off the couch, hit the gym, and appreciate someone that’s kind and reciprocal. Get yourself together woman!
I tried first to contact him.... He just ignored and taunting me about other guys. His thinking like I will show my anger to him, I am overthinking....
Every person has limit to digest someone's behavior.But now
I always praying for him 🤲❤and no expectations that he will contact me & even I am not trying to disturbing aur forcing him for anything... I think life became easy😊
Very easy- We human can speak. Clear things out. If other person really doesn't want you, you hear them and let them swear n they mean it. Then just tell your closure and walk away. This is it. No drama.
Yes I agreed with you 💯
I address the statements and prosperity to all who are under the gleaming radiance of the divine.Godspeed and prosperity to all!
Well, I think this is just growing up and thinking rationally