Tommi Leaves LeToya In Atlanta | T.I. & Tiny: Friends & Family Hustle
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- After a hard counseling session, Tommi heads to the airport at the last minute, leaving LeToya in the dark and with NO resolution on their problems. Was Tommi being unfair?
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I would rather be alone. It’s lonely at times but peaceful... I can’t deal with no emotionally abusive, manipulative, angry, narcissistic ass man. I don’t have the patience.
Girl this comment a million times! Nothing is worth my peace!
This comment just makes me wanna scream. This was once who was dealing with this. Not Anymore! And I feel GREAT.
YO I was like WHAT? And he said " I'll holla at ya" like damn 🙄😒🤣
I just came out of a 9 year marriage with a man like you just described, it was a nightmare. I rather be alone as well. He acts just like my ex, girl run he will not change no matter what you do... big mistake is adding another child in the mix. He is not going to change.
Whooooo, girl! I thought the same thing! Master manipulator! How does one even have a conversation with someone like that? I’d take my baby and roll...I’m not for the drama. Now they’re having yet another baby!
This man is not worthy of a woman such as Latoya, she deserves so much better
He is sooo trash. She needs to leave immediately
Yes she does
And I pray she finds it...God help her find him. AMEN! Cause THIS AIN'T IT!
@ Npangea . I’m a fair ADULT, but when you get caught in the hotel room with the stripper and you sleep in yo drawers. And yo pregnant wife and daughter at home. Yes I blame the dude..
@Npangea Now you lying on God. Thou shalt not commit adultery. Go sit down devil.
His bags were already packed? He planned this argument just to have a reason to leave.
I SAID THAT TOO!!
Exactly
That's what BOYS do.
My thing is why did she not notice the bag. They both have issues.
He is definitely cheating. So unfortunate that she is having another kid.
If “toxic” was a person.
Why can't she see he is trash.. Jeez
@@Deanna942 because he guilt tripped her into thinking she was doing something to him.
Unfortunately, toxic is MANY persons.
It seems like he's starting arguments to go to the other woman. You never leave your wife after a disagreement to go where bruh?... If you're not happy, ask for a divorce. Tricks are for kids.
YUP
Classic
I was thinking the exact same thing! He's acting like he has someone else.
That's the classic coward move
Yup
He's just not on her LEVEL of Maturity...
Love you Ateya!
Tax bracket either #tuh
Most narcs aren't. Unfortunately, many talented, smart, and attractive women who seem like everything would be "great" and "all together" can sometimes have codependency issues and lack real deep internal esteem. And, even though people on the outside see their worth. Unfortunately, they do not use those same high standards that they put on themselves in going after their external goals toward choosing a man romantically. It is these women that a narc prefers to target. Empathic women like this make a great supply for narcissists and help their public image.
@@hopesdaughter5947 very true. Can relate
Exactly they aren't equally yoked at all
Who’s here after the cheating accusations and divorce announcement?👀
We here girl. Lol but honestly, this is so sad
I commented on this video 2 months ago saying he's a narcissist and likely cheating. I come back because I got a comment on that post and I see this. Wow. Well, as the saying goes..."what is done in the dark will come to the light". God sees all and will reveal in His time. If true, I pray she has the courage to take her babies and walk.
🙋♀️
Yeah If the cheating is true, I don’t think this is gonna last. I feel bad for Letoya, she doesn’t deserve this.
I'm so disappointed
This is why it’s so important to be with a man that has a kind heart and a kind spirit 🙏🏾 praying on that
At one point, she thought she was with that kind of man
Cobi Y agreed. They have a way of pulling you in with a facade, sadly.
I was just thinking this I pray I find a man with a gentle soul
That's why it's so important we pray for God to open our eyes and show us what is hidden. Because sometime true colors don't show while dating
Amen to that. That’s a priority. 🙏🏾 People really down play kindness.
I can already feel the pain and tears she cries when she goes home by herself. She deserves better!! 🙏🏽😔
Latoya Jackson cause we’ve felt it
Going to bed at night is the worst. All the distractions and the purposeful movements of the day go away.
I was her in my last marriage. It really hurts to see the loneliness and pain in Latoya. I send her and those beautiful babies prayers - living with a Narcissistic spouse is HELL!!
Right
Like! My heart is actually aching! 😭
This man really fooled this woman to thinking he was a good man and he is not
Not only her but all of us
Snake in grass🤮🐍🐍🐍🐍
Thought he was a God fearing guy
@@lihlejadezweni2071 yeah he was throwing God in everything to gaslight her.
He is full of sh*t
Projecting, gaslighting, mirroring, manipulating..... silent treatment... this is emotional abuse. These scars are real and they take time to heal. Letoya you will be just fine. God’s got you 💕
I agree. My ex-husband would do this to me, silent treatment and was a pro at the silent treatment, among other things. I wrote and published a book about my experiences with him and his family. My book is called, "A Jealous Person Will Kill You, Literally!"
Narc abuse at its finest
@@Iridescent602 where can I find the book?
Still healing ❤️🩹
As a man this hurts watching this. Nobody should be treated like this.
Husbands let’s do better and love and protect our wives.
💯💯💗💗
Michael are you single, over 30 and would you move to London? Appreciate you brother ☺️❤️
But the thing is a lot of women don’t appreciate when they do have a good guy not perfect but good that tries and put forth an effort ... but they go for what they think is Perfect only to end up in situations like this ... I don’t like it for Toya but it’s the truth on how most women are
@@spritedeon9362 facts
@@spritedeon9362 True, but many have learned their lesson. You have to test the spirit and discern the spirit.
Taking a step back looking in, I saw that I need to learn how to communicate effectively, practicing self-control, & being slow to anger. Many of my sisters in Christ have asked God if they are blessed to have real love find them again, they will not take it for granted.
This whole video made me very uncomfortable. We shouldn’t be privy to this, they need to get off tv and focus on each other . They said some really heavy stuff
Agreed! It’s very uncomfortable, they need time to heal
Agree
Exactly
Ladies, this is a blessing. This is what Abuse looks like in the 20th century.
This is what we should runaway from!
@@elizabethjones4325 U preaching sis!
He’s such a narcissist. I do not like him. At all.
It's sad that they always seems to get a hold of good people!
@B.S. MBA Wow, this was my 14 year marriage. This was me until several months ago. I finally had enough and asked for a divorce. We got married after 8months of dating in my 20s. Met him in church, they are in the church for sure. Great hiding space, lots of naivety and daddy issues. I put marriage before my relationship with God so that's on me. But just putting that out there because , they are notorious for wanting to look like the quintessential good guy but it's all an act. They for sure live two lives and have two faces.
@B.S. MBA she was married before...
I have twins by a narcissist guy and im fighting for my liffffe this is so hard he plays and played the good guy role and shuts down completely wen he is wrong. HE makes me feel crazy 4 years of this and wayyyy worse after Twins
I didn't have my real dad growing up but i had a stepfather, so i dont kno wats wrong with me or why i made these choices just pray for me💔
AT ALL. He is such a narcissistic @$$#0!3
Begged her for kids just to cheat in return. He shoulda left this woman alone
That was to keep her occupied, and probably also to insure she would not leave him easily. He wants to stay connected to her fame
Too many Woman Allow men to talk them into this And Leave!!! Some do the wife/girlfriend and children a lifetime favor by leaving.
@@veronicaveronica4946 and Money
@@veronicaveronica4946 Same game, new dumb, looking Stupid player
Hes trying to put her in a bad predicament...Pregnant she not doing nothing BUT taking care of kids all day...
1. There’s definitely another woman
2. Get off tv!!
3. There’s definitely another woman!!!
You called it 2 months ago. His secret is out now.
My goodness you were ACCURATE!
On point!
I mean.. everyone who watched this knows that. Anytime Man acts funny, it's a Ho somewhere around.
D. Accurate on ALL the above
He has checked out ..... She should work on loving herself more now.
Agreed!
Now that's real talk
Nah, he is very immature.
Maybe he has checked out...and if so he should just LEAVE or she should give him permission to LEAVE.
Yes that's a good way to put it. Checked out is accurate!!
I can’t stand a man who won’t listen to his woman! Smh talking over her is a no no🤦🏽♀️
Females talk over men more than anything 🤦♂️
Smh
@@illbaby86 exactly
I hate seeing couples argue, and it’s usually over something petty. Keep it a buck and take care of your queen. Listen to what she’s saying. Happy wife, happy life.
Male vs Man. Men don't act this way. A man cares, listens, respects and loves you. He is lacking in these areas.
Letoya am sorry. This man...is just not into the marriage. Please find the courage to move on. You're too precious for this. You were in Destiny's Child!!! Girl you are magic and stardust. You don't need this
& she’s so much more than that! She’s killing the acting thing right now too! I hope she sees the light soon ❤️
@@Denailacole right they are all successful and moved on to create their own paths.
@@Denailacole he has been married before hmmm.
What does destiny’s child have to do with this? She’s had a successful career on her own without them
@@ceeceedior21 I think she meant that her legacy is too great for her to still be in such an effed up situation. She's not saying that DC was the pinnacle of her career but it *_was_* a huge highlight. She isn't dissing her post-DC career.
God I cried watching this. The ending where she said have a safe flight and love u and NO acknowledgement is so sad. Omg women go through so much.
@Zoe 1221 yep and she wanted the marriage and family 2 badly and she rushed everything and I knew it would end bad off
Or do they put themself, Through so Much
Yessssssssss
@@krystingrant6292 she wanted kids so bad I cried when he left her in the hospital bed pregnant and alone letoya told him she was hurt by that later on.
@@krystingrant6292 he should have been there when she was having pregnancy complications the first time but no he rushed into the second baby too quickly.
When men get to this point it is over... he has mentally left the relationship.
Seems so, he was cheating on her the whole time she was pregnant
He never left the relationship, he just thought she would stay. He thought he had a keep no matter what he done.
@@natt1777 that’s probably why he rushed to get her pregnant, so she could be his “forever”
I totally agree!
He was never IN IT, he used her
They won’t last long, she can do better. That’s not a marriage, that’s a woman and a man who have a child together and live together.
I could always see how it seems she has to compete with his daughter for attention. It's his daughter then his wife. He shouldn't had gotten married if he wasn't ready for his wife to be a priority.
This is old...she is already pregnant with their second child....a boy. Im rooting for the union. A successful marriage takes work. As long as they are willing to put it in...they will make it. We can not keep seeing snippets of people's lives and determine from that, it's a fail. Instead encourage positive reinforcement. There are a lot of loving memories to match the few negative videos that surface on TH-cam. Toya and Tommy....here is to many more happy years as you fight to get back to the happiness that brought you together before God.
Yup
olivia edwards lies
I hate that she have to go through this with him. She is such a calm , and sweet person. It’s sad to say , but these days you can’t expect for a couple / man to really love his woman like we are with them. We do a lot to try and keep our man happy, but US. Pssst wait on it. Men ain’t ISH.. Until I see one that’s really trying to be with that 1 girl. Then I will change that quote.😆
"I'll holler at you!"
Who says that to their wife?
SMH!
Right
He acts like he's Married to Madison
Bridgee Bridge 🤬😡I know that’s right. These broke guys are idiots and stupid. They same ones that end up with women , who will cheat on them after having broken up with someone good for them. Fools.
I was just thinking that. Glad someone said it
@Bridgee Bridge So true, That's like the black doctor I met, who was really foolish. I Immediately let him operate somewhere else!!!
He sure knows how to gaslight, and turn everything around on her. Men like this are sick. Run girl he is a full blown narcissist.
He can have a suitcase packed like no one I've ever seen
@@smithsonna035 it wouldn't be Louie though I would pack it in a Walmart suitcase.
Blame shifting
How you gonna get to the airport and your wife tells you she loves you and you don't even kiss/hug her. He acts like a spoiled little boy. C'mon Tommie damn.
Omgawd🙍🏿♀️
Yeah she needs a divorce.
Cause he goin hop on a plan to Dallas with his other family.
Yeah he acts like an emotional toddler😂😂😂 folding his arms, pouting, not wanting to answer the therapist questions 😭😭😭
@@nytrigger3324 Agreed!
I think his ego is a little threatened by how successful and famous she is, so he mentally and emotionally abuses her to gain some power/control so that she'll chase him a bit.
Narcissism
How df did yall get to that? We all know the reason why he is acting this way, HIS MOM DIED! That's a legit reason, just not an excuse to his behavior. He is most likely acting this way because he doesn't know how to handle his emotions regarding his mothers death. Some people don't know how to act after something so traumatising, and he just seems lost. Success and fame probably isn't something he is worried about right now, the closest thing to him died and he is still processing it but he just doesnt know how. He needs to heal by himself
Diana Salvatore He had those same vibes last season. Toya has mentioned got two seasons that she feels she’s last in his life.
@Alexis N
....exactly
Exactly
My ex use to say these same statements. "Do you feel like you take me for granted?"
He would talk over me.
Talk at me. Dehumanize me mentally and emotionally. He would never acknowledge my feelings until I blew up. I finally broke up with him. He stalked me. Harrassed me with emails and phonecalls, had someone look at my social media, drive to my state and stake out my house. His mother passed away and he used her death to manipulate our broken relationship. I never fell for it. Ladies if you are dating a narcissist RUN because this is how your marriage will end up.
Yea i know that what happen me he cheated i left became he told me move on i did n he was stalking me i didnt know until i was getting off a date n saw him he had multiple women n turned us against eachother after we all found out about eachother
This is me, I had to leave. These men are crazy
Girl they are crazy!!! My ex was the same... just the other day AFTER 2 FULL YEARS of me not speaking to him, he sends an emails talking about “ can my heart forgive him” and “ id have u give birth to my first son if you gave me another chance” 🤣🤣😫😫 whewww chile... the devil is in that man ON GOD!!
@@HoneyBunRoad same here the duration of time, emails, etc. All narcs have similar behaviors. Scary as hell. Smh... this is like an epidemic. Too many women have these same stories. Too many unhealed-childhood trauma-filled men out here. And hurt people hurt other people.
@@HoneyBunRoad say whet nah
"He ran away when I was pregnant. He been running away since we got married." She should have left then.
Fact!!!!!!
She should have never married him. smh
marriage is holy before God you people give horrible advice..
@@FlawlesZMa not when infidelity is involved... especially during a pandemic and during her pregnancy while she runs after a toddler....... God isnt in that.... he let the devil in so she can walk away... IF she chooses
@@FlawlesZMa god said don’t do adultery and he did actually that lmao
I hope he sees how mean spirited he is towards her. This is disgusting, I know couples argue but he is beyond rude to her.
Hurt people hurt people
@@UriyahMommy So is this a pass for him & others to continue this behavior because of a saying that was created based off of a feeling or emotion? Whoever made this saying up piss me off everytime I hear it. It's not an excuse! She insinuated counseling as a good woman or wife with sense should seeing how hurt her partner is. & he still manage to treat her wrong. While she wants to fix it. It's like a punch in the face. He just not even trying at this point shutting dwn consistently, his head is not focused on fixing them. Fck that ppl need to take accountability for what they are doing. It's so hard & disturbing to watch but yet very informative for young women & grown ass women to see this. This is not ok AT ALL nor is that saying.
@@UriyahMommy Not being rude nylea, I'm just not ok with that concept that ppl accepted. It's like saying it's ok to be abused emotionally & mentally in my opinion.
Forever Evolving I totally agree with you, the death of his mother doesn’t give him the excuse to treat toya that way, however he isn’t letting himself grieve and channeling it on his marriage.
@@UriyahMommy Yea & he seems to be ok with it or very comfortable with treating her this way. Seems like some of this behavior he may have been doing. But I wish them the best & or for them to part ways if within some time this doesn't change😊.
He is going to his other woman! Not his other child.
I know this is a JOKE right just for t.v. ratings.
They still together they are having a boy
I Agree!
He Didn't even Kiss His Wife Good Bye.
He is definitely going to see The Other Woman!
Fast forward today his side chick ready to expose everything
#FACTS. The side chick spilled the tea. You called it!
Sooo that’s why you wanted to run to Dallas so you can spend time with your ig model. 🙄🙄🙄 Poor Letoya
Exactly
SHIREE ASIA just pathetic 🙄
Melanated Bliss they haven’t posted any pics yet. But she claims to have pics and videos of them together in a hotel
@@nofacenocase866 apparently something did happen Letoya no longer has her name hypenated on her Instagram profile plus she removed wife from her page and whenever he has the kids he appears to be in a hotel or maybe his job requires him to travel but why would she remove wife from her page though?.🤔.
Who is here after the shade room reported Tommy has a side chick?
Me
no such thing as a side chic with a married man. understand that.
I’m going to spend time with my other daughter! That statement there in its self says a lot!!
Toya said earlier in their relationship when she was pregnant that she didn't feel like a priority when it came to his daughter. I haven't followed them but I'm surprised. Is this the same man that she said was sent by God as her mate?
@@JP-sg1xb Women rush during the infatuation phase. We need to take our time and look out for their reaction.
He meant "other woman" side chick recently came out to expose him
Even the tone he says it is telling
@@JP-sg1xb I don't like how he left her at the hospital when she was in pain he left her she cried about it later when she told him she was lonely and she needed him to be by her side.
This looks like Tommi started a fight so he could storm out and be alone or go see his sidekick..
Have you seen the headline I guess you was right.
Gal..you were right his behaviour was out of order then, he is nasty and it's not going to work..I hope she doesn't forgive him!!he was going to be with his side chick..now he is calling God and jesus ..
That's exactly what is was to take the focus off him up and leaving without talking to her about it. He get her in her feelings
Exactly what it is
That part!
I think this beautiful woman knows her abilities and is secure but is humbling herself to babysit his feelings. She’s very empathetic and that is her weakness because he can easily manipulate her , probably hiding behind this whole Godly man facade
Straight Narcissist 👏🏿👏🏿💯Absolutely sis
@@dotchrenee right she is downplaying her success to make him feel secure and she shouldn't have to he accused her of getting into character like an actress during an argument.
@@musiclover-cn7tb just like Whitney did
Wait y’all, this man is a Christian? I could not have guessed that from this clip of him treating his wife so poorly🤦🏾♀️
Kaz kazzie girl Whitney ain’t got nun to do with this... Bobby Brown was a CHILD and ADULT superstar 😂
I don't like him at all. Listen to how he talk to her, she's his WIFE and she's CLEARLY emotional about everything they've been through. He's cheating, she deserves better than him.
Girl 👧🏾 I never liked him at alllllll
He Living another life ! Start a fight to leave 👀 It in the old play book 📖
So true...but I hope not...they look good together.
I always said that
Oh noooo!!!! Are they having problems?💔💔😢
Omg yes I'm sure he still dealing with his daughter's mother they have along history
Sadly u might be true.
What man says "ill holler at you?" she needs to leave him. And he didn't say I love you or anything.
A statement you say to your boys...not your wife before getting on a flight. All I could think was sir that could be your last flight anywhere and your last words to your life partner is "I'll holla at you" as if she were his homeboy dropping him off. He lacks emotinal maturity and LeToya as well as their marital union are feeling the pain of it.
@@LondonKLuv I agree, it's sad...
And he did it in spite. A man’s job is to take the lead and he definitely doesn’t. His wife clearly wants love and to work on things and he’s adamant at destroying it. Whew! The toxicity levels are off the charts
@@LondonKLuv so true you right wow
Dude I thought he was God fearing person
He's disrespectful and dismissive. Yikes
“I’ll holler at you” .. He’s so disrespectful.
I’m soooooooooooo glad Letoya has decided to divorce this boy. She’s waaaayyyy too good for him.
CAN’T RAISE A MAN SISS!!!!! He already grown
She's Not Trying To Raise Him She Just Want Him To Communicate And Consider Her Feelings
ShaSha Jones i know and I feel bad cause he acting like a child
Facts!
His Mother raised him, toya is portraying this relationship, I here him saying, shes being an actress in there relationship and his oldest daughter.
Kasey moore All men do, the sooner some women know this, they won’t be lost when they get married. Not saying it’s right, but listen, there’s certain things that’s just a certain way. If you have a son, start teaching him now to be a better communicator and to take his wife feelings into consideration and seriously.
He has WAAAY too many walls up and is super defensive. Dude you were at a counseling session and don't wanna talk and open up? Good luck Letoya.
@D Blake you have made similar responses under a few other comments. I'm convinced either you're gay or you really hate black women. You're wife is probably light skinned or white passing because you're hatred goes deep.
Men don’t easily open up. Women should NEVER take advice from women about men.
@@lcjones4682 Yep!!It's certain men's don't open up!But a lot of good men's out here opens up that wanna be kept!Hello!😉🕵
@@---456 I wasn't even gonna respond to him, you better than me. I'm a gay man but I'm not gonna be ignorant and cosign on Tommie's behavior nor other men who support that BS.
@@---456 I doubt he's married. If he is, his wife isn't happy.
I’ll never forget I saw them give an interview about how they met. They met on a blind date and I remember him saying he told his daughter “I’m cashing in on this!” after discovering his date was Letoya Luckett. He had ill intentions from the beginning. Let’s not forget he left Letoya in the hospital when she almost had a miscarriage to take his first daughter school shopping. Like really?? That couldn’t have waited or someone else couldn’t have taken her? I feel bad for Letoya but she needs to become more aware
(He’s not that cute to me)
Wow smh he said that to his daughter smh yea he is totally narcissistic smh
What is that to Tell Your daughter?
Not at all
LeToya should have known that he wasn't that into her. After their wedding reception he put his daughter in the front seat leaving LeToya to find where to sit in the car she was probably paying for. She had to tell him to find someone to take his daughter out of his many relatives that attended the wedding. The man is so inconsiderate and doesn't respect her, but it may have to do with her probably coming off as desperate to get married when they were dating...
@@susanmajek Beautifully stated!!!
It’s crazy how everyone was saying he had someone in Dallas then low & behold the gf has come out with receipts, that’s crazy!
That is crazy ain’t it ? and you know that’s because a lot of us women been there before so we see the signs of it all clear as day so sad
@Amor Ankh yep
Ashanti Stewart TV dammm so sad spending Latoya’s money on several hood property kitty cats pray for that brother an also for letoya❤️🙏🏾
That "my other daughter comment" whew.. toxic
Yeah I def cringed when he was making those comments about his first child...not cool and some things can't be unsaid. Not to mention how complicated it is to foster a healthy step parent/co-parent relationship. It may be for the best that he walks away, seems like his earlier comments are just the tip of tge iceberg. I wish the best for their family
Yes, I’m like, “Where did that come from?” That gives me the same feeling like saying “My other woman”🤬
He trying to gaslight her and make her feel like she doing something wrong because she used a.word he didn't use.
Hes trying to make his wife jealous of his daughter....he's trash!
Exactly that's why idk why they having a 2nd child they had a gender reveal during quarantine I was like ,toya so stupid babies dont change those typ of men it's not his first rodeo .. they will not last ,
He deserves to be single until he can grow up. He is dealing with himself. My husband did the same thing when he lost his brother. I packed up and gave him his space. It took 2 years for him to fix it. My husband used those same words (you do you). When I got those divorce papers bay bay he wanted to work on it. Trust and believe he will miss you when your gone.
Or,...when you threaten to (or actually) leave...
Well said. Glad you stood up for yourself.
Girl, check the news he was cheating. Hope your husband wasn't doing that too
How long do they need to grow up?
@Elyse George or he tells me he will holla at me and I'm his WIFE okay .
He treated her terribly. Never let a man tell you more than once that he doesn’t want you.
When she said “have a safe flight! Love you” my heart just shattered into pieces😫😭😭😭 Poor Letoya! you deserve better baby!
Letoya is in love with love and the narrative she believes in...but she's not gonna have that happy story with this miserable, narcissistic, lying, double minded man she calls a husband.
He is so inmature! Period!
Facts!
🤣🤣🤣🤣 miserable 😝😝😝
“Imma holler at you” she has so much patience ! I would’ve came across the car!
Babbbyyyy you hear me...he got life mixed up
I just KNOWWWWW she was embarrassed, because wtf
Listen I would of went off. We would of been done right after that! Marriage should be given a try but when a man is outright disrespectful and talking to you like girls he messed over in his teens! Bay bay he coming back to papers and he could fine his clothes at the airport!!!! No need to come back home, you like to run there now stay there! Most of the women they go to cheat with they won't marry, live with, or trust. That's why he goes back and forth between her and Latoya!!! This angered me!!!!!
@@mightypiscean8599 no the airport is too damn good his house would be looking like the man's house in the back to life video with nothing left but a tv antenna.
V_N He sure does🤦🏾♀️
That whole exchange in the car was a trigger for me. The whole reason why I'm still single 8 years later. The thought of being with someone like this...again! No thanks!
I’ve been through the gaslighting and I believe I have ptsd. And I’ve been divorced 10 years after a 26 year marriage. I just can’t commit
@@LisaLisaCJ god bless you so sorry to hear that 💖
She seems very level headed and sweet. I hope she finds someone who treats her with the respect she deserves.
What makes Tommie think Toya wants alone time when he talks to her like a child and disrespectfully like that? Who does he think he is?!
Exactly.
*Facts 💯*
Wow!!! He's not nice to her. His tone and body language says alot.
He's being a jerk! Period!
Michael Williams you betta preach!!!!!!
Who says " I'll holler at you" when going on a flight! Like, so disrespectful and
mean! Toya definitely deserves better than that! We're with you girl♥️
Right, like he talking to one of his boy
Yeah he walked right passed her with no hesitation like huh,really? That's what we doing?
@D Blake Well if he's the HEAD then shouldn't he be modeling what he wants to see instead of being petty. If he's going to do everything she does just to go tit for tat then he's not the head. Leaders don't go tit for that, they try to solve problems.
@@filmadcamp1512 Exactly! And at least she gave him a church hug! He didn't even look her way!
@@filmadcamp1512 That's Right!
I would have went straight to a Divorce Attorney after leaving the airport. All the signs of him cheating was there. He leaves saying I'll Holler at you? Oh No... I would have been laughed and got in my car. I have had my heart broken this same way. I will never let a person allow me to forget my worth. Praying for her because I know the feeling.
💯
She’s so beautiful, inside and out. Prayers for her and her children.
I feel like... he's abusing her not physically but mentally and he's going to push her to a point where there's no coming back from#SMH
@D Blake So you mean to tell me, you watched this whole clip and your conclusion is black women not having enough respect for black men??...when a BLACK MAN blatantly disrespected and disregarded his BLACK wife's feelings on national tv?? And when black women have been holding down every black man AND their children in their absence since the beginning of time?? Get yo head up out yo ass!
@D Blake Hold up mane I'm a Black man and it's obvious that you can't see how he just responds to her let alone talk to her..YES HE'S ABUSING HER... VERBALLY!!!
@D Blake it's what you say and how you say it...words hurt you just like they do anybody else
D Blake He disrespected her by going to Dallas and telling her at the very last minute! She even asked him to stay and he didn’t. I’m married and that is a no no! You’re supposed to discuss travel plans ahead of time.
@D Blake why do black american men whine so much....all the shows i watch just proves to me that mayb there is a reason why thw white man does not like yall
I hate that he was trying to imply Toya didn’t want him to see his daughter. He tried to make it seem she trip whenever he goes to see her! *Ion like dat*
He is a douch bag to the 100th power. He jealous of her She is sleeping with the enemy.
He’s jealous of her!!! And he’s clearly emotional abusive
Now that makes it even more F up because we all know (now) that it was just to deflect her detection of him cheating ....had NOTHING to do with him seeing his daughter. This jack ass was cheating AND still wanted her to get pregnant 🤰🏽 again, all to continue cheating. Foul. I know she is pissed and wish she would’ve held her ground and not have another child with this man. Now she got Two. 🤦🏾♀️
Gaslighting, my soon to be ex is just like this. Your wife comes first, this is why women shouldn't get married to a man that doesn't lnow decency and order, dont get married.
And u can tell that she loves that lil girl 2 death...like her own
Miss this show and I'm so glad Toya is out of that toxic relationship. She deserves to be loved and respected.
Too bad she has to be a single mom of two
@@stacyr4768 better than being single woman of 3
@@stacyr4768 yes but she will find someone to accept them at one time he was trying to get her back.
He don't want to be married..set him free honey..
Thats why u never should rush to get married...They got married after knowing each other for a couple of months...And low key I think his ass cheating but thats just me...
Yooooo I have been saying the same thing he acts like he doesn't wanna be with her
im getting the same feeling
You know what?I said the same thing. I think he's cheating because he doesn't want to cooperate, he always irritated and angry. Also,he always want to jump up and leave when he can't take what she saying in the argument. Also I wonder if you making making up argument or something about the relationship to be able to jump up and leave like he does. All what I'm seeing is a sign of a man that's cheating and his heart to somewhere else. Latoya did not date this man long enough to see who he really is. Now a days you need to date people more than two years. Because with all these things going on in the world it ain't like back when our parents was coming up you can marry that quick . But nowadays dudes be up on a whole nother agenda and be unrealistic about marriage.
When he go visit his other daughter where do he sleep. He's cheating that's my opinion!
Same here!
Don't chase the WRONG ONE!!!! The RIGHT ONE will not run
"Ima holler at you" wtf is that how you talk to your wife? Im a Man and I get what Letoya is saying no Woman will become comfortable in laying with a Man she feels doesn't talk to her right. Homie allow her to feel safe, empowered, respect her and when you see her pain lift that! Smh.
Trust me I hurt for her... horrible man
Well said coming from a man!
These black women wanna hold there men down but man ain’t fighting to do the same.. it is really sad seeing this because Toya seems more understanding in the marriage more than Tommi
He is abusing her with his words
Truly
The way he looked at her in that session.....seem like he might be physically abusive too
Jacovb Tarver Yeah And They She Back At Him Looks Like Letoya Would Lock Horns With Tommy Ass too lol this Slim thug Ex Wife Too
Exactly what I was going to say.
i've never watched this before, but WOW he is very mean to her. yikes.
Wow
Yeah divorce.
Im just at a lost how he play innocent in front of the Grays
NARCISSISTIC Behaviour at its BEST ! Been here before. 😷 he's disgusting
Wow this my first time seeing this .. is this forreal?! If so the future of that marriage not looking to good🤔🧐😳 I hope they work it out.
The disrespect, I felt that "have a safe flight, I love you" sigh, it's funny how you can be so high and mighty and then humble in a second🇯🇲🇬🇧
He seemed to have been packed and booked before the councilors.
*He acts like he's the victim 😤he's only there to hurt her feelings, I thing letoya deserves better*
Bro he out of line for real you dont do your wife like that
Right!
She need to send him back to his first wife and keep it moving
Right so true
Thank you brotha for recognizing that. You are a real man
❤
Ladies please stop dating men with children when you don’t have any. They use the child as an excuse all the time. These men aren’t that into their children. If that was the case he would’ve loved the mother correctly to sacrifice for the child. But they don’t. Make these men be different and set better standards for yourself.
Beautifully stated
Well said💯
Preach....
Lawd, you wouldn't have known this based on their IG life. See why we shouldn't envy others relationship 🙄 😒
I liked how they seek counseling and pointed out some real things that couples go through. I think Latoya handles herself in a very mature way. manner. Such a lady an example to her family.
Liz Nicholas Agreed
She needs to be a lady and walk away! That's how she can be an example to her family. He's absolutely disgusting and abusive!! When a man is abusive, mean and disrespects you, no counseling WALK AWAY!!! This is why self love is important! No one should put up with any kind of abuse!!
Well the marriage is fresh and dude Is grieving so I’ll give him that but it takes one not to blow up and keep it at a level where they can discuss the situation. I commend her patience. Yes he’s stubborn but I don’t see where he out right disrespects her. Give it time and if it don’t work it don’t work.
Lol at him saying summarize then trying to correct it 🤣.
@@liznicholas6369 he was doing it from the beginning of the marriage being mean to her and losing his mom was no excuse for him.
Girl Tommie got someone in Dallas. Its apparent and the fact that he keeps doing it.......... Signs Toya
They all do that! Leave
Yeah he did before his mom passed away
I hope she lives and don't look back. No more babies!!!!
was this before she got preggo again?
They actually live in Dallas he's from there but when they start filming the show they go back and forth from Dallas to Atlanta and sometimes they stay in Atlanta for days
Letoya!!! He is a narcissist!!! The only way to be happy is to LET HIM GOOOOOOOO!
She too smart for him. You can just tell, she is like this guy is so dumb. I have to break everything down.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣lol right.
Wowwwwww, she doesn’t deserve to be treated this way... this is so sad
I really hate that they are exploiting their relationship for TV. I thought they had something good. I’m so sad to see their relationship diminishing. :(
Do you think their drama is made for TV? I thought so too but man he sure is dismissive and disrespectful to her. I hope she's not putting up with that ish for $$## bc she doesn't need to.
I know.. hate 2 see this. I was/am rooting for them.
Exactly
I don’t know their hearts but I wouldn’t call it exploitation. I think she’s trying to be transparent. Everything that glitter ain’t gold.
I was really hoping this worked out especially for her. I always thought they got married too soon but hopefully they can work it out
He going to see that baby momma ! Men love to pick a fight before they do dirt. It helps them feel better about it .
He never said much until now but he’s kinda giving me Tyler Perry vibes. A lot of men with women and don’t even like them!
What do you mean ?
Tyler Perry ain't gay
Ha haha
@@nicoleosby2336 yes he is
@@nicoleosby2336 yeah he is you'll see
"I'll holler at you." He talked to her like she was his homeboy... That hurt me!
Brought me to tears in this clinic
And Letoya just Taught him again, how to Disrespect Her!!
oretta smith: a person like that doesn’t need teachings. Only the Lord can fix him
It hurt me too.
Me too
Her face tells it all! She’s trying to be patient with him but she looks annoyed!
LeToya deserves so much better than this kinda treatment. When someone is this comfortable at disrespect, it's time to accept it or bounce.
"I'll holler at you". Said as if he were talking to one of his male friends. No man gets to treat me or speak to me the way this "man" spoke to his wife.
ever since his momma died, i feel like he’s been using that as a reason to act they way he’s acting & i don’t like that
It is a reason for him to act the way he does, however it doesn't excuse his behavior. He is going through something, and he doesn't know how to deal with it. Hopefully he will soon
Most people rather lick their wounds in private. He doesn't want to be bothered while grieving.
Does anyone see similarities to Kanye after his mom died or is it just me? Dangerous
A son lost his mother, he has all rights to his grief.
Toya drop this country ass bum, he will never be on your level, don’t let this turn into the IKE AND TINA show. Let him go he looks like if I can’t have you no one can, please let this fool go He is going to hurt you, you can see it in his face he is going to hurt her.
I believe he is jealous of her career and know how far she can go. He needs to find himself and what he is good at and stop the temper tantrums, acting like a little boy.
It’s terrible to see Women allowing themselves to be treated so poorly. I don’t know what it is about love that seems to confuse women into believing that there aren’t Billions of other people out there to share life with.
My ex disrespected me in the past but to be honest I was in a low place in my life that until today I don't understand how i let the verbal disrespect slide. I met his representative, what he wanted me to think he was, with time the mask fell off.. I told him that I was greatful to God for giving me the Spirit of discernment, i could see right through him. I was done. I can't even believe i dated someone like that. Thank God i had no kids with him. YUCK!!! Self Value and self worth is essential Ladies.
When she said "I don't think you should get out of the car" and he did and walked out I FELT THAT HURT
He treated her badly BEFORE his mother passed away.
Why is she fighting for a man and a marriage, but he is not!! Never do that, because your fighting alone, that's sad! He just walked away from her her no kiss, no nothing!!
@joshua19942 It is my understanding he worked for ups. Latoya afforded him a lifestyle, a level of comfort, security he didn't have delivering packages 😐!! Which gave him the opportunity to help his daughter and her mother ( his baby mama)!! It was NEVER about Latoya it was about him, baby mama, and their daughter!! He played Latoya......
Any woman who’s been married and or divorced can see the writing on the wall. Once they start disrespecting you, that’s the first sign of trouble❤️
For Truth FACTS! It will only get worse, dump him Letoya, you are too beautiful.
@@anngreen9772 🤯
Marriage is not a competition between the couple. He needs to stop trying to compete with her. She doesn't need him she wants him and is fighting for them.
Hes a jealous clown!
Right! Know the difference!
BINGO!!!! He's a NARCISSIST
Him leaving her at the airport is so heartbreaking I really hope she leave him 🙏🏾😔
Woooooow. I've never seen this. This is so sad and heartbreaking. Not even a hug or kiss goodbye. Poor Letoya looks so vulnerable and insecure. I would've been embarrassed after this episode.
Yes, very embarrassing! I felt so sorry for her.
So this is gaslighting. She can’t even address the issue that’s TRULY affecting her without him being defensive. Then to begin arguing about something that doesn’t make sense or matter.. to throw you off.. like the “summary” thing.. it’s all a tool sis. To deflect, to devalue, to make you question yourself.. now you have to defend your “summary”.. still NOT talking about the issue at hand. Listen.. been there.. getting out of it. It’s hard to watch bc I know this feeling. I actually has an “I miss him” moment today.. but this was a reminder of what it’s like to fight for someone who is determined to fault you.. so they can feel better about their demons. DAMN! It’s emotional abuse. I heard that it can turn physical after a while. I let it go before it got that far. But Prayers Up. This is tough. And I can’t help but think.. damn.. that was me.. and would still be me .. BUT, GOD
He's definitely a narcissist and they do not get better!
That’s it!
Definitely TRUE I went through all types of abuse with a person like that for 6years 🙄such a NARCISSIST & we have a child but since this pandemic I went no contact at all
@@blckqueen6002 it's sad because with a personality defect like that, you don't even realize what/who you're dealing with until you're in the thick of it and the only way to deal with them is to cut them off. Hope all is going well for you sis.
@@blckqueen6002 I have experienced that also, narcissist do not I repeat don't not what to change! Period all they want is supply and it doesn't matter what type good or bad there take it!!! They feed off us and will make everything your fault....! Run 🏃 🏃
This dude is a clown and he is jealous of her
Facts
Insecure men are the worst
Totally. Sad but true.
It seems like that’s the problem with all the men she ends up with. The guy she was married to for like a month had the same issue. They don’t like her spotlight! Poor Toya😩
This is what men do when they want out and dont have the balls to leave, they abuse until the woman can take no more. The object is to push to a point that she leaves . How ars you married and tell your wife as you get in the care, I'm flying to another state to see my other daughter. She needs to leave. Whats going on with him has nothing to do with her.
To him he thinks he did her a favor by marrying her and wants to be connected to her fame and money.... he’s full of himself
I’m certain he portrayed himself to be someone he wasn’t and that’s who she fell in love with. As time went by he could no longer hide his jealousy and the person he really is behind the mask.
No matter how mad you are. He could have still hug and kissed her. She need to let him go.
That last scene with him treating her like that broke my heart. She does not deserve that
He is going to lose her if he continues this way.
I’m over him already daamn she’s so nice😱 my patience could never
This just tells me nothing changes after marriage. She raised the fact he didn’t prioritise her before they married and ain’t ish changed. So sad 😞 don’t ignore the red flags
JinJin..I had to learn that.. red 🚩s are REAL...I immediately leave at the first sign now.
In the words of Maya
When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time.
She ignored and hoped she could change him. She was desperate