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  • To remember her husband’s late mother and help him cope with the loss, Letoya gives Tommi a thoughtful gift to keep her in his memory.
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  • @gallerieaa
    @gallerieaa 4 ปีที่แล้ว +687

    I love how she wasn’t sure wat to do to help him but doing something so small like tht made the biggest difference to him. Thts what a wife does.

  • @Syl182
    @Syl182 4 ปีที่แล้ว +322

    This girl is just SOLID, i love her desire to check in on his emotional well-being, respect his grieving process and at the same time be a very present emotional support. Love her!

    • @egyptscott4801
      @egyptscott4801 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yes exactly 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

    • @Syl182
      @Syl182 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@rdns263 yes, there's this forthrightness about her that is so refreshing especially for a celebrity. God bless them

    • @SweetestGyrl
      @SweetestGyrl 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Very solid

    • @indy_442
      @indy_442 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes but dont forget to check in with self first. People tend to give too much of themselves away and become codependent.

    • @arnoldnicholson2165
      @arnoldnicholson2165 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@indy_442 True 💯🙏🏾

  • @srideout91
    @srideout91 4 ปีที่แล้ว +573

    A true man isn’t afraid to show his emotions.

    • @KayAintPressed
      @KayAintPressed 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      How did he lose his mom if u guys don't mind me asking

    • @alicetetterton9643
      @alicetetterton9643 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@KayAintPressed CANCER..🙏

    • @KayAintPressed
      @KayAintPressed 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@alicetetterton9643 omg. I lost my mom to the same thing smh

    • @24sunny1
      @24sunny1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Amen to that sista

    • @1BeautifullyBlessed
      @1BeautifullyBlessed 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      But he cheating on her allegedly. That is not a true man

  • @Saran2701
    @Saran2701 4 ปีที่แล้ว +187

    When you lose somone you love, the pain never goes away

    • @KaneshiaHMusicTV
      @KaneshiaHMusicTV 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I understand his pain! I felt this exact way when my father died unexpectedly 10 years ago. And it doesn't get easier. You just end up accepting it slowly over time.Praying for them❤️❤️❤️

    • @ashleymiddleton147
      @ashleymiddleton147 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      i totally agree and understand

    • @traquilasmith831
      @traquilasmith831 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So true i understand my dad and grandma passed away and i still cry sometimes its hard and its hurts deeply i love and miss them so much im about to cry now. Thank you God for blessing me with my dad and grandma who raised me and my sister the beautiful and strong and intelligent woman we are. Thank you dad and grandma for everything. Im crying.RIP my dad and grandma.😥🙏🙏

  • @AshMcMiller
    @AshMcMiller 4 ปีที่แล้ว +285

    LeToya is a good woman! Sad time right here.... God bless their family🙏🏿💕

    • @musiclover-cn7tb
      @musiclover-cn7tb 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @bass reemer she married him so she loves him she chose to have children with him she will be having his son soon.

  • @malloylouanna6027
    @malloylouanna6027 4 ปีที่แล้ว +95

    That was a very kind gesture on her part, very kind. I think that was just lovely. I didn't hear a " Thank you Baby".

    • @Aliforthewin
      @Aliforthewin 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      He definitely said it tho

    • @morganstigall8283
      @morganstigall8283 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      He said thank you babe after shaking the box

    • @TheRealHeavenlyHands
      @TheRealHeavenlyHands 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@morganstigall8283 yep , I rewinded it.
      I just think it wasn’t the best time to give it.

  • @datswassup07
    @datswassup07 4 ปีที่แล้ว +238

    Ive never lost a parent but this made me tear up...

    • @shawnawallace4582
      @shawnawallace4582 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Its gut wrenching

    • @jarethiafalkner5747
      @jarethiafalkner5747 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      datswassup07
      Yes me too

    • @drj1466
      @drj1466 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The worst 😪

    • @ayonnazglam9050
      @ayonnazglam9050 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Right 😢

    • @lagirl9440
      @lagirl9440 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes!!! Gut Wrenching for sure. It's like a sick, painful, hurt, it's soooo hard to explain.

  • @jacobTheeCreole
    @jacobTheeCreole 4 ปีที่แล้ว +107

    She’s a great wife ! I love it ! Emotion is cool plus it’s his mother of course he’s emotional ! I’ll cry like a baby bout mine

    • @ttp436
      @ttp436 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hello Big man! 😍

  • @bplatonova
    @bplatonova 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I feel she loves and respects him more than he loves and respects her. Latoya, please leave him ASAP

  • @mikewatts9421
    @mikewatts9421 4 ปีที่แล้ว +144

    My grown self cried with you bro, it still takes a village, Time doesn't heal all pain but GOD Does! Talk to GOD he'll help you through this remember there's nothings to big for GOD. ✌n❤

    • @MarieA1
      @MarieA1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hallelujah 🙏🏽

    • @cocochanel1541
      @cocochanel1541 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I did too. I just lost my mother on July 18, 2019. God is why I’m still alive today. I was ready to die when I saw my mom laying there lifeless.

    • @debrajames6316
      @debrajames6316 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@cocochanel1541 wow that's heartbreaking. Best wishes to you.

    • @mariemarlene7658
      @mariemarlene7658 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@cocochanel1541 My condolences so sorry you lost your Mommy.🙏❣

    • @shanequaaustin8908
      @shanequaaustin8908 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I cried this is hard for him I feel sorry for him even though I never loved my mother the fact he knows how it feels to have a good mother it still made me cry

  • @stardustxx278
    @stardustxx278 4 ปีที่แล้ว +100

    Damn hopefully he can just be the good man every mother wants their son's to be. That's the best way to help yourself through that kind of pain

  • @sweetsmiles2156
    @sweetsmiles2156 4 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    He seems so cold towards her and she seems to be tiptoeing idk maybe it's the grief

    • @jmcharles75
      @jmcharles75 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Yes he is he is narcissistic! And
      I’m glad she left him

    • @ZfenProductions
      @ZfenProductions 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@jmcharles75 this is what narc do, use they pain to hurt others

  • @SimplyQuintessa
    @SimplyQuintessa 3 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    He didn’t even hug her or connect with her after she gave him the gift. Literally he is not emotionally available for her but he got to be for another woman. This is sad

    • @tessagodsAsset3N21
      @tessagodsAsset3N21 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Truth!!! I just said the same thing! Hug ur wife for "Trying" to give a One of a Kind gift celebrating his relationship with his mother!!!

    • @monalysamakeup849
      @monalysamakeup849 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Exactly

  • @renettegreggs2651
    @renettegreggs2651 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I aint see no appreciation for such a 💞🙏🏽heartfelt gift🙏🏽💞

  • @TorontoChick25
    @TorontoChick25 4 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    My husband lost his Dad a few years ago. It's heart breaking to see someone you love so much, being in so much pain. Today is my FIL's birthday. We miss him so much.

  • @cherylharlin3986
    @cherylharlin3986 4 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    RIH TO HIS MOM Condolences to his Family

  • @Erica_Love_Love
    @Erica_Love_Love 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    He's blessed to have siblings, a wife and child at this sensitive time in his life. . I know the feeling of losing a mother. May his mom rest in peace

  • @labellefemme886
    @labellefemme886 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    This man is broken. This more than the passing of his mother

  • @Tittiesatthetop
    @Tittiesatthetop 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I can feel his pain radiating through the screen. Lord please heal all the broken pieces

  • @DIrizarry07
    @DIrizarry07 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Wow, he really loved his mom.

  • @misscarter8799
    @misscarter8799 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Wow...that moment deserved him giving her a heartfelt hug

  • @dierr9971
    @dierr9971 4 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    This video has me in tears. Life is so fragile..

  • @claudine5386
    @claudine5386 4 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    Why am I crying 😭🤧

    • @srideout91
      @srideout91 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Because you are a caring person. And you have a big ❤️

  • @diasypipin8095
    @diasypipin8095 4 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    I lost my mom this year January 30,2020 I know how he feel.its hard losing a mom cause she your backbone your queen your shoulder to cry on I wish my queen was still here God bless yall

    • @chick-fil-agal2264
      @chick-fil-agal2264 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Sorry for ur loss,I know the pain,lost mines also.

    • @tanishadavis9152
      @tanishadavis9152 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So sorry for your loss just remember she is heavens gain watching over you every step of the way

    • @MarieA1
      @MarieA1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      My condolences to you🙏🏽

    • @MarieA1
      @MarieA1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Tanisha Davis oh yes that’s for sure

    • @glowingmyway
      @glowingmyway 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      My condolences to you❤️🌷

  • @ladyjaygee9166
    @ladyjaygee9166 4 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    They got me over here crying 😢

  • @MarieA1
    @MarieA1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Tommy is surrounded around love and that’s what he needs through the process of his loss. God will give him strength 🙏🏽

  • @queensmith8265
    @queensmith8265 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Toya is So Sweet💖

    • @BriaBarrows
      @BriaBarrows 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Such a sweetheart

  • @bestkksser
    @bestkksser 4 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    Dear Person That's Reading This You May Be Goin Through Something But God Got U He Didn’t Bring You This Far To Quit.We Don’t Know Each Other But I Wish U All The Best In Life 2020 And Beyond.🇧🇸❤️
    ~Sharel Sweetz~

    • @avronroberts
      @avronroberts 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      God bless you...thank you

    • @pinkdiamonddynasty7917
      @pinkdiamonddynasty7917 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You posted this 4 months ago but I definitely needed to read this today... Thank you

    • @gl3771
      @gl3771 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Amen 🙏

    • @ebonywilson2410
      @ebonywilson2410 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Amen... 🙏🏼🙏🏼I needed this

    • @powerinthekk8988
      @powerinthekk8988 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you

  • @keitalattimore7984
    @keitalattimore7984 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    She deserves better

  • @moejoe5090
    @moejoe5090 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    He looks at her with contention

  • @angelahunter5954
    @angelahunter5954 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Awkward marriage she's afraid to show him love for fear of rejection

  • @24sunny1
    @24sunny1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    She was so sweet to give him that very beautiful

  • @iwant2encourageu2lovelive7
    @iwant2encourageu2lovelive7 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    They are such a beautiful couple ❤

  • @minlyn4336
    @minlyn4336 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    🙏🙏🙏♥️ Unfortunately i know the feeling of losing a parent lost My Father to Cancer😓Worst feeling in the world to lose a parent🙏🙏♥️♥️Rip to All Real Parents that have passed away😭😭😭♥️♥️♥️♥️

  • @therealvsop294
    @therealvsop294 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This marriage is in duress. Let's all pray for them to make it..

  • @donnarriajones-green7644
    @donnarriajones-green7644 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Such a beautiful family

  • @tuensyvilaykham3450
    @tuensyvilaykham3450 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    That's so sweet. Watching him open the gift, made me cry too. Rest in peace Ruby Walker. ❤

  • @jwh648
    @jwh648 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I feel Tommie..I lost my mom October 22, 2016..I still hurt, cry and remember her in my heart...There is nothing his wife can say do to make him understand...He just miss his mom...My wife do not discuss my mom with me...I like that....Some things are left alone...All Tommie needs from his wife is a hug....Tears are falling down my eyes...

    • @eyt1985
      @eyt1985 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      John Hull I’m sorry

    • @jwh648
      @jwh648 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@eyt1985
      Thnx...Hurts....Mommy told me life don't stop SON...you got keep moving

  • @themessengacross1581
    @themessengacross1581 4 ปีที่แล้ว +194

    Latoya has to let her husband go through his changes and that even means taking the back seat and not to take his anger personal. Sons are closer to their Mothers. His heart is hurting and with hurt there is pain then anger. Only God can heal that hurt. Because it can affect the relationship. Prayer is definitely good for your relationship. God Bless you

    • @nishashawn2021
      @nishashawn2021 4 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      Sons are no closer to mothers than a daughter. Every relationship is different, also everyone reacts to sadness different. But he does need the skills to understand how to redirect that energy and not take it out on his family. Or harbor it. And counseling would help with that.

    • @lcjones4682
      @lcjones4682 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Vanisha Neal Grief affects people in different ways. She needs to allow him to grief in his way. He obviously was very close to his mom. You don’t know how it feels until it happens to you. It just takes time and in the beginning your emotions are all over the place. His emotions will stabilize in time. Sometimes you just need to bestow mercy to a person as they process the loss.

    • @themessengacross1581
      @themessengacross1581 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      God Bless You

    • @MarieA1
      @MarieA1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So true

    • @MarieA1
      @MarieA1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      LC Jones Amen

  • @vickiehurt2665
    @vickiehurt2665 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I ❤ LeToya!! She is so warm, funny, down to earth, and a great mom!! Keep your head up Boo!! I got you!!❤❤❤❤❤

  • @rayshipooki
    @rayshipooki 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I really feel she have herself a good man. It took a long time but it is the right time

    • @Lise01
      @Lise01 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I agree he’s going through a rough time in his life. He love his mom and wife he just need some time to grieve and grief counseling is perfect

    • @muncherclay8760
      @muncherclay8760 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      O ok 🥴

  • @Nique1986
    @Nique1986 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This moment was so touching losing someone u love is never easy and that was a beautiful gift preying god continues to cover there family through this ruff time🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @reject_racism.rft_tvownedb340
    @reject_racism.rft_tvownedb340 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    What Latoya did show her love for her husband and it took great COURAGE.

  • @bjsmith4310
    @bjsmith4310 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Letoya, gave him the greatest gift of all his children and the beautiful necklace with the picture with some special wording. Letoya is a special kind of woman and she's beautiful.

  • @shunrichardson4931
    @shunrichardson4931 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm crying also!! This was just too sweet and touching, I love the support and love she gives him!!!!

  • @allthingshome6953
    @allthingshome6953 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’m m so very sorry. I can see where all his heart is from he misses his beautiful mother.

  • @changingfaces29
    @changingfaces29 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    She's too good for him...point blank

  • @tiffanijordan45
    @tiffanijordan45 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Beautiful god continue to u an ur family!!!

  • @deenicole4951
    @deenicole4951 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    TOYA.. YOU ARE GRAND.. ( RE- FINED)..HE WILL ALWAYS APPRECIATE AND REMEMBER THAT SPECIAL MOMENT.. LUV Y'ALL STAY SAFE

  • @sunshinejohnson4095
    @sunshinejohnson4095 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Watching this brought some emotions that I feel from losing my mother almost 7 months ago and I will have to celebrate my 1st bday without her in 15 days not looking forward to it. Sending my prayers to this family. #motherlesschild

    • @mariemarlene7658
      @mariemarlene7658 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I lost my Mom over 20 years ago and I can tell you it will not be easy, However try to remember all the funny and good times with her. It also helps to cry and let it all out, just know that she is watching over you guiding and protecting you ALWAYS‼🙏💝

    • @collegegrad2955
      @collegegrad2955 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sending you lots of prayers and sunshine!!!

    • @musiclover-cn7tb
      @musiclover-cn7tb 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@mariemarlene7658 I lost mine in 2011 that's how I cope I remember the happy moments from my childhood and the news that I was giving her a grand 👶 when I used to tell her I wasn't having any babies lol she has 7 grandkids total from all of her kids.

    • @ladyyaya78
      @ladyyaya78 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I understand that pain. I just got through the first birthday of my mom's without her alive and I spent it paying my respects to her at the gravesite. It was surreal. I miss my bestie. But I feel like she's watching over me now. Love that woman with all of my heart ❤ until I see her again. If you're a believer, just remember we will see them again. Stay blessed. God will take care of you.

    • @musiclover-cn7tb
      @musiclover-cn7tb 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@mariemarlene7658 my mom predicted the first grand baby I gave her would be a girl she was spot on what a beautiful memory I will treasure forever.

  • @carliselakes
    @carliselakes 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Yes, she did her best to uplift her hubby and she is on it about grief counseling. Some men find it hard to express themselves emotionally they in turn may act out or look for a release elsewhere which could bring problems into their marrying. Wives can be there in many ways, but in areas like these it will take a professional to help him through these feelings so he can better learn how to cope. That is what their profession is grief counselor to aid one through the grief. Keep praying and supporting your man Letoya.

  • @Tony44468
    @Tony44468 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    That was a beautiful gift and I like how the men surrounded him when he was starting to break down.shes a wonderful wife to him

  • @darleenmcclung9615
    @darleenmcclung9615 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    That’s beautiful! Made me cry. The love of a mother is deep💕

  • @youme6968
    @youme6968 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    He’s so strong! God blessed him with an amazing women!! 🙏🏾

  • @loveislife314
    @loveislife314 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sending my Condolences to Tommy and his family on the loss of his mother Mrs. Ruby may R.I.P.🕊 On another hand I felt like although he is grieving he still could've showed how thankful he was for everything Latoya has done for him the birthday gathering, the gift etc. Sometimes people don't appreciate you until your gone.

  • @angie1299
    @angie1299 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I can't imagine that pain, my prayers goes out to the family.

  • @amandafails7267
    @amandafails7267 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Losing your mother is a pain so deep in your heart ,that is so hard to get pass ,it's still in my heart and it been fourteen year's.

  • @karinlawson8829
    @karinlawson8829 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I felt his pain. I cried with him.

  • @CourtneyJasmine07062
    @CourtneyJasmine07062 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Letoya ❤ 🙏🏾 for you & your new bundle. I can't imagine how YOU feel right now!! Stay Strong

  • @cazrobinson3962
    @cazrobinson3962 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    T be of courage and stand strong. Losing you’re parents is one of the hardest think in life. If you need to cry you let it out. You’ll be ok.

  • @rasheedaparker987
    @rasheedaparker987 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Aww I shed a tear

    • @biancajones850
      @biancajones850 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      th-cam.com/video/lHrFGjeRiiE/w-d-xo.html
      🔥🔥🔥🔥💯

  • @ms.310
    @ms.310 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Losing a mom...will never be ok!. Mom's are EVERYTHING

  • @keishajay389
    @keishajay389 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    He has a really good wife. Appreciate that.

  • @dariansmith4043
    @dariansmith4043 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Tommi just release it bro let you wife witness the true nature of your grief cry and let her rub your back, your rub hers as she cries assists you with consoling your pain . She is in essence your partner in life. As men we think we shouldn't show pain but that's why GOD gifted you Letoya so you can bare your soul to her.

  • @taneshiabutts4689
    @taneshiabutts4689 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    That's special! RIP MAMA

  • @rosestephen6789
    @rosestephen6789 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Awww Beautiful Black family! Build families ❤🇺🇸

  • @trustori5790
    @trustori5790 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jesus...this made me tear up. I love my mama

  • @MsLacy707
    @MsLacy707 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    He ain't reach out or nothing. Just stage left. He don't wanna be there.

  • @humbled4200
    @humbled4200 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Aww that was beautiful

  • @nettaboo8626
    @nettaboo8626 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Sometimes you gotta know when to apply pressure. The gift was beautiful but talking about counseling during the gathering was extra! Enjoy the day 1st...feel me?

  • @tynkabellbass6466
    @tynkabellbass6466 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I do apologize for ur loses, u and ur family is in my family prayers for u all

  • @tankwilliams317
    @tankwilliams317 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Tommi is fine

  • @allthingshome6953
    @allthingshome6953 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your mom will always be with you. I really feel when he loss his mom it hurt a part of his heart that just couldn't be mended. I know how strong my love is as a mom but not even the death of my physical body will keep me from my child. I know his mom will always be with him.

  • @mickeyfletcher1630
    @mickeyfletcher1630 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    A beautiful gift.

  • @tiffanyc8307
    @tiffanyc8307 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Let the man grieve Letoya just need to be there when he needs and keep up the spirits in the house. I big no do not force the man to go to counseling

    • @ohshucks30
      @ohshucks30 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      It’s easier said than done tbh when you’re in this situation you don’t really know what to do but you can tell she’s doing the best she can

    • @ronasia9323
      @ronasia9323 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      She not forcing him but it's a suggestion because most man don't feel that counseling is not right and that they have to do it alone

  • @tessagodsAsset3N21
    @tessagodsAsset3N21 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    OK, I know I'm late w/this comment BUT could he Not even say: "Thank You Baby???" Letoya was Trying. Dang!!!

  • @mrs.williams9314
    @mrs.williams9314 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Can I just say, Tommie and his brothers are handsome men

  • @sweetlistenings3324
    @sweetlistenings3324 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I teared up watching this.

  • @Mstisha80
    @Mstisha80 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Tommi you will get through but your mother will always be in your heart trust i kno the feeling

  • @jarethiafalkner5747
    @jarethiafalkner5747 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Tommy so cute😍

  • @angelwowangelwithoutwings4093
    @angelwowangelwithoutwings4093 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    There's really not much to say. I just felt it 💞💞💞💞💞💞💞😌💫#muchlove

  • @whittastic
    @whittastic 3 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    Sucks watching this and seeing what he's doing to Toya while she's pregnant. 🙄

  • @evetterumph9194
    @evetterumph9194 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    That is a beautiful gift

  • @becoming8797
    @becoming8797 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Sorry to hear about his lost. I am going through the same situation in my marriage. My husband lost his mother a month ago now. I don't know how to care for him in this situation. I'm not sure if I'm doing to little or just enough. I know that I can't tell him how to grief because, deaf takes time and people grief differently. It's a bumpy road this year so far for us. So I can relate to how she feels. Just keep praying and asking God to direct your steps. Peace

  • @galaxyangel9128
    @galaxyangel9128 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    He didn't express his emotions very loudly like she does towards him, toya didn't even get a kiss lmao

  • @thatgworl2504
    @thatgworl2504 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Poor baby 😢 Toya please leave him alone. Let him grieve

  • @kenya88831
    @kenya88831 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Losing a parent is a hurt that will never heal unfortunately. But it will get better with time. I lost my mom 18 years ago to Breast Cancer and it still hurts. Although it hurt me and my sisters, my eldest brother took it way harder than any of and shut down completely for weeks. His wife just loved him through it. I can see that Toya is doing that. 💕💕💕

  • @tns9802
    @tns9802 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    He did not thank her in any way, or did I miss that.....😳

    • @ladyyaya78
      @ladyyaya78 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      He did, 1:39 right after they showed him getting ready to open the box with the pendant.

    • @misscarter8799
      @misscarter8799 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      TN S....I said the SAME thing. Where is the thank you? I was waiting for a hug, a kiss, a fist bump or something

  • @squishiesfunny263
    @squishiesfunny263 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    happy birthday tommi

  • @kingkrixx
    @kingkrixx ปีที่แล้ว

    She was a great wife.

  • @johnnyboyce8847
    @johnnyboyce8847 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    R.I.P to tommi mom

  • @soulm9917
    @soulm9917 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    God bless so beautiful

  • @shawrong8116
    @shawrong8116 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    That’s rite girl have you hubby’s back 💯❤️✅

  • @Jjley2715
    @Jjley2715 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    A precious and most beautiful gift, of memory for him, death is something that we all have to go through something that God allow us to go through, it alright for him to grieve with out paying someone. Just love him.

  • @lastdayz1396
    @lastdayz1396 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    He crying because it hurt to do somebody bad knowing they Love you for real.

  • @damirifahim5204
    @damirifahim5204 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    A solid woman.fo real....

  • @sugarbaby547
    @sugarbaby547 4 ปีที่แล้ว +81

    I like LeToya but she needs to stop trying to insert herself in his pain. She means well and I get it but sometimes people need space to process things on their own.

    • @crownedmelaninqueen
      @crownedmelaninqueen 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      sugar baby Yeah some people like to process alone. But everybody griefs differently!!!!

    • @ohshucks30
      @ohshucks30 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      It’s easier said then done

    • @neshie200
      @neshie200 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Its their grief. He may have lost his mother but she lost her mother in law and has to see her husband in pain daily. Its a conjoined grief

    • @GoogleAccount00
      @GoogleAccount00 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      They are married!

    • @mariemarlene7658
      @mariemarlene7658 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@neshie200 Facts‼🎯🎯

  • @marygrant198
    @marygrant198 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Man deal with there emotions different an just cause he not all out there with it doesn’t mean he don’t show them earlier in the show he said he still cries every night

    • @SpecialKRNB
      @SpecialKRNB 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That's a myth. Men deal with the same type of stress, sadness, anger, and the sort but yes it does varies from person to person. It's definitely not a man vs. woman unless it's hormones then yes men take the backseat on that against a woman because they have none.

  • @GoogleAccount00
    @GoogleAccount00 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Poor Letoya. You can tell she's trying everything she can to support her husband and keep him engaged so that he doesn't check out. And poor Tommi. Its hard to lose a loved one. Praying for them and their family.

  • @khemetsmom713
    @khemetsmom713 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sometimes you can over help..grief is such a personal and individual thing. He may be snappy because she might be in the way with help. Let him ask you for help.