If A Woman DEEPLY LOVES YOU, She Will DO THESE 3 Things!

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    If A Woman DEEPLY LOVES YOU, She Will DO THESE 3 Things!.. In this dating advice video, I will be talking about when a woman deeply loves you and share with you the things she will do. You may hear a man say these things on first dates, online dating, or somewhere in the dating process. Take heed to these dating tips and be sure to watch the entire video.
    I don’t want you to think that a woman does not love you if she doesn’t do all 3 things I mention in this relationship advice video. I want you to be able to understand women so that you can tell when a woman deeply loves you and when she’s going to play around with your feelings and waste your time.
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  • @StephanSpeaksforMen
    @StephanSpeaksforMen  ปีที่แล้ว +11

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  • @BklynBabe
    @BklynBabe ปีที่แล้ว +41

    I remember once, being with a man i deeply loved, we were driving and his car caught a flat. We had to stop and get a tire. He didn't have enough money so I paid for it, no big deal. First off I didn't have a car and he would take me places and even let me practice driving his. He was so appreciative that I did that for him with no hesitation and didn't make him feel like less. But I was so grateful for him being in my life and treating me right. He knew he could be open with me and trust me to have his back.

    • @StephanSpeaksforMen
      @StephanSpeaksforMen  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for sharing your experience. I appreciate that ?

    • @frankiegunnz8066
      @frankiegunnz8066 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      So what happened to that relationship?

    • @alkhan27
      @alkhan27 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@frankiegunnz8066haha

    • @henriquebraga5266
      @henriquebraga5266 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Then why are you no longer with him?

  • @zeal4god402
    @zeal4god402 ปีที่แล้ว +358

    She deeply loves him when she talks sweetly to the man, calls him sweety, apologizes when she is wrong, enjoys massaging him, enjoys rubbing his shoulders and chest from behind, asks him about his emotional state, and asks what she can do to add value to his life

    • @sonyaellis2059
      @sonyaellis2059 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Yes true and hopefully he's doing it for her too. 👍🙏❤️🌞🌈

    • @zeal4god402
      @zeal4god402 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@sonyaellis2059 Oh yahhh I endorse reciprocal love

    • @ericbush6124
      @ericbush6124 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      That is a Truly Beautiful Woman to find and we must Protect honor and cherish her

    • @zeal4god402
      @zeal4god402 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@ericbush6124 Real talk, women like that, my God, you on the road constantly checking the time highly anticipating to get back to her thinking "Man I've been cussed out today, the client didn't get to the venue in time which interfered with my other appointments, the car got a flat tire, the pick up order for the food turned out to be the wrong order when I opened it later, I'm ready to go hooooome and chill with my soothing queen, to my safe place." 😃

    • @etcwhatever
      @etcwhatever ปีที่แล้ว +9

      After marriage.

  • @youtubemaster4282
    @youtubemaster4282 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    Definitely 100%. From my own experience at being a woman in love. I melted in love into my most feminine self with my man, very naturally and unconsciously. And I love it

  • @Autumn-zd9nq
    @Autumn-zd9nq ปีที่แล้ว +78

    So true Steph. I’m with the women that don’t mind if I guy cries in front of me when he’s hurting. I’ll run towards him more to help him. Fellas, don’t let people tell you that you can’t cry in front of women. If you can’t grieve or be emotional vulnerable around her then she ain’t it for you. A real woman will still respect and love you for you.

    • @joelitos2000
      @joelitos2000 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Awww thanks for this affirmation

    • @Tokomi
      @Tokomi 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Don't tell men false things because you're a small minority of woman that think that way

  • @Kiki-jx6by
    @Kiki-jx6by ปีที่แล้ว +64

    About to break off a relationship with a man who speaks harshly when uncomfortable subjects come up. I don’t like feeling intimidated. It’s scary

    • @natasha2877
      @natasha2877 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sadly, with a person like this it's impossible to resolve misunderstandings/arguments everything gets pushed under the rug. @user_km2kr2su3e

    • @MarjyGTV
      @MarjyGTV ปีที่แล้ว +10

      This happened to me but only with someone I was getting to know. On only WEEK 2, we were talking bout the Bible and he got super angry, his voice kinda changed over the phone. He had already started showing other red flags before this. I immediately said I gotta go and hung up. When I immediately broke it off , I had to go to lengths to block . Fucking psycho. But I’m glad my discernment was up . Kiki your gut is screaming at you “GIRL LEAVE” . I know it’s harder said than done. And yes it’s going to hurt badly after , but the peace starts to come back . You got this boo

    • @katherinesworld2717
      @katherinesworld2717 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Uncomfortable subjects like the "M" word ? "Marriage"

    • @etcwhatever
      @etcwhatever ปีที่แล้ว

      I was with one like that. He was ready to criticisize me and i changed for him. He couldnt even be bothered to shower or take care of his pet. When remembered that change goes both ways, he threw fits and turned his back on me. I said him to leave when he least expected. Thats what you get.

    • @rabbiehossain7938
      @rabbiehossain7938 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      If he's response is not reasonable than what makes you think that one day he won't put hands on you, man who are extremely emotional are like a ticking time bomb. Better stay away, men can be violent at times,better to play safe

  • @antonglas7488
    @antonglas7488 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    A man will instinctively know very quickly when a woman is really into him.
    Body language, what she says, how she looks at him and intimacy.
    He will feel the vibes and chemistry between him and the woman.
    Back in your younger days I had a few girls place me in friend mode only I didn`t have enough life experience to realise that and wasted a lot of time trying to appease girls that would lead nowhere.

    • @frankiegunnz8066
      @frankiegunnz8066 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Its friends zone, not mode. But we get what you saying brother. I think 85% of us men have been through that. Painful life lessons.

  • @tishaadams2366
    @tishaadams2366 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    This is so true. I told my son 23 and my friend guy not all women have a problem with men showing their emotional side. I feel that's a release button men shouldn't hold it in. My friend said he was raised without emotion and showing it is weakness. I just hope men understand not all women look down on them for showing emotions 💯

    • @hoo_jii
      @hoo_jii ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Most do though

    • @c.c.me0n253
      @c.c.me0n253 ปีที่แล้ว

      The women you soak off are RARE but exist none the less

    • @noneofyourbuizness
      @noneofyourbuizness ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@hoo_jii do you know the majority of women ?

    • @Gintoki_Madao
      @Gintoki_Madao ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Not all women, but enough women have proved that crying as a man is a turn off

    • @erinsylv2098
      @erinsylv2098 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Don’t show it too early. Makes sure she loves you before doing all that.

  • @flowerlife9347
    @flowerlife9347 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Stephan, when a woman is deeply in love and she cannot get more into the feminine energie and she has been healing on past trauma then the problem is that the men does not open his vulnerability to her. She feels a kind of a wall. She has to leave him because there is no way to go. She loves the man but cannot go into the depth with him.
    Thank you Stephan for everything you bring to the world.
    Much love.

    • @elizabethwilliams8664
      @elizabethwilliams8664 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I agree with your comments
      Dating relationships are difficult for ppl over 55, LOVE is a beautiful thing when God is the glue.

  • @Big_Sierra
    @Big_Sierra ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Bro finally someone preaching positivity. You’ve got a new subscriber right here.

  • @pastorcedrichawkins1685
    @pastorcedrichawkins1685 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    It’s a great feeling knowing my wife passed all three signs with flying colors and more. Thanks Stephen!

    • @theman2017inc
      @theman2017inc 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      then sounds like you are TRULY BLESSED… PROVERBS 18:22
      All the best sir and Merry Christmas from London:UK

  • @macoute100
    @macoute100 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I long for simpler times when a man was a leader, protecting, providing for, and developing his woman and children… If he’s fully engaged in that role, he will not concern himself with self pity and will never feel vulnerable! A good woman is a happy woman with a “leading” man. Man up bro!

    • @frankiegunnz8066
      @frankiegunnz8066 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      True. But what happens when that said woman Is not being taught to act like that or be In her role?
      She Is being taught to be your equal.

  • @audreybuchman1972
    @audreybuchman1972 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    We ALL make mistakes 😊
    We HAVE TO be able to HONESTLY, OPENLY talk to each other & TRULY WORK through the issue.❤

  • @ssiegreen5292
    @ssiegreen5292 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    ... if she's emotionally healthy - BUT doesn't show up in her feminine way in your relationship - it's because you DO NOT MAKE HER FEEL SAFE!!! She does not believe you are truthful, honest and/or faithful.
    She doesn't trust you with her body, her money, her kids, her home, etc etc - - - because you either have already proven that you are not going to, or you have failed to proof to her that you are capable and willing to keep her safe.

    • @squeezodadon3269
      @squeezodadon3269 ปีที่แล้ว

      Then why she beg me to stay when I leave😭😂 trust is a whole relationship that’s her fault if she don’t feel safe tbh if I was a girl if I didn’t feel safe around a man that’s immediate red flag bc he’s not protective

    • @ssiegreen5292
      @ssiegreen5292 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@squeezodadon3269 I said if she's emotionally healthy!!!
      Clearly she is not, or she has never experienced a healthy relationship model to learn what's acceptable and what is not. Everybody's boundaries are their own. Unfortunately, we tend to duplicate what we experience in our childhood and upbringing - and it takes a mature person to first recognize it for what it is and then leave that kind of sh*t behind.
      Or if we don't experience this type of mistreatment in our childhood or via our parents relationship/marriage examples, and we first get exposed to it during our own dating/relationships - and if we don't have healthy boundaries and expectations and a way to communicate them, we sometimes get lost in the emotional devastation when something like mental, verbal or emotional [never mind physical] abuse happens on a regular basis.

    • @MD-xb1qw
      @MD-xb1qw ปีที่แล้ว

      Nonsense. That immatury on her part not a man’s fault. FOH😂

  • @FreeYourHand
    @FreeYourHand ปีที่แล้ว +8

    FACTS 💯
    Vulnerable vs emotionally unstable 🎯

  • @mrhoopfan1
    @mrhoopfan1 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Good vid! When you get a compatible one that deeply loves you, DO NOT take her for granted ❤❤

  • @lukas4016
    @lukas4016 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    So much wisdom! Thanks Stephan!

  • @VentiColdbrew_
    @VentiColdbrew_ ปีที่แล้ว +11

    The third one is sooooo true. (So the first and second one is true for any guy tbh) but I told the guy that god sent to me that he brings out a different softer side in me. Immediately. I let him lead more. And even though I’m not getting exactly what I want like in past relationships where I was more vocal about certain things (like FaceTiming over texting for example) it doesn’t even matter bc I’m 10x happier texting the guy I’m so in love with than FaceTiming a meh guy ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @marcodorianalers
    @marcodorianalers ปีที่แล้ว +28

    I feel like you understand me and my values as a man. Love your content keep it up!

  • @sbrooks904
    @sbrooks904 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    bro is absolutely right about all of these points and just about every point is the reason i’m really ok being by myself for the foreseeable future.

  • @BeeJay0206
    @BeeJay0206 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Stephan, Your 2nd point is absolutely right and 💯 % correct. It's d major reason I walked out of d relationship. Initially, she wasn't into my finances and cautious, after abt 6 months together she started acting funny and yells, go cold and gives attitude when her financial expectations are not met. No longer giving out feminine energy. So. I just let her go.

  • @edjohn5114
    @edjohn5114 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This video is so true. If you plan on dating intentionally, you have to show moments of vulnerability to see how segue reacts. When I met my girl, I was unemployed. She was super beautiful but from our conversations, I could tell she was a keeper too. Instead of trying to keep my pride and look good to get in her good graces, I told her straight up, on our very first date, that I was unemployed in between jobs and if she’s expecting a bunch of dates and such, then she should probably leave me alone. She reassured me she doesn’t care about money and that meant so much to me. It’s only been a month but she hasn’t shown me yet that she can’t see me vulnerable. I think I found a really good one.

    • @joshtuk
      @joshtuk 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      How’s it going now?

    • @edjohn5114
      @edjohn5114 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@joshtuk Thanks for asking. We’re still going strong. A couple petty arguments here and there but nothing that isn’t fixed with a little communication. We love each other very much.

    • @WesternDesensitizer
      @WesternDesensitizer 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Where we at now bro ​@@edjohn5114

  • @justme37928
    @justme37928 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Stephan Spoken like a True 👑 Thank you for always knowing what to say and when to say Glory Be To GOD 🙏🏼🤍💯 Extremely Gifted 💎

  • @dw5035
    @dw5035 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I had a situation similar, I guess yu can say (vulnerable) my house burned down I had a lot & lost everything had to start from 0 with no money saved up,….I shook back quick because I was so numb to the pain but in that first few days she pulled up never looked down on me & we was figuring this situation out together but I left to rebuild my life because i didn’t want to put my situation on her being she has a son & is struggling to make it herself, I no if I would have stayed she would have help me rebuild but I left to go figure it out for myself as a man & bounced back rather quickly

  • @dustinquinton
    @dustinquinton ปีที่แล้ว +7

    My ex wife looked at me as weak because I was vulnerable. The problem was, she was not vulnerable with me. The only time I would get upset pertained to our relationship. She lost respect. And like I said, she is an ex. And yes, I was the one who ended it.

    • @StephanSpeaksforMen
      @StephanSpeaksforMen  ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏🏼

    • @dustinquinton
      @dustinquinton ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@StephanSpeaksforMen thank you

  • @shantakoa8596
    @shantakoa8596 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I have been following Stephan for awhile. I agree with a lot of his logics.

    • @StephanSpeaksforMen
      @StephanSpeaksforMen  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

  • @julz7753
    @julz7753 วันที่ผ่านมา

    what he said about feminine energy is so true. I’ve hung out with guys over the years that I didn’t like more than friendship so I would act very masculine with them. Treat them as homeboy to them now, with my boyfriend. Right now. I am a girly girl woman.

  • @RhondaR4
    @RhondaR4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    “I can give you everything you thought you weren’t worthy of having. I am your best!”🔥🙏🏽❤️🌟👑

  • @karinesavard2016
    @karinesavard2016 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Love and respect her, then you'll be surprised what you can achieve. 🙏❤ Stop seeing her as your enemy, it's your teammate!!!

  • @anthonylair27
    @anthonylair27 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Last point hit me hard. Listened to it a few times...exactly what I've been going through with a woman who is damaged. I feel someone has to love her, but i must let her go so she can participate in her own rescue. I pray for her everyday.she was in her feminine in the beginning but I broke her heart. Now she's been with several men in our no contact period and she's very angry. I pray she finds her healing and i become the man i need to be to keep her if i ever get another chance.

    • @craigrichardson3566
      @craigrichardson3566 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Several men 😂 Juvenile - Let Her Go Dawg That Ain't Ya Hoe Dawg

    • @Thiccythiccreads
      @Thiccythiccreads ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Wait, so you’re praying for her because you damaged her and she’s not forgiving you fast enough?

    • @anthonylair27
      @anthonylair27 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Thiccythiccreads she was damaged before I met her. I was the only man that actually cared about her. A d yes, I did hurt her. And I've asked her to forgive me, bcse i really care for her.

    • @boomerak4774
      @boomerak4774 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Why would you want another chance after she's been with several different men

    • @kristina812
      @kristina812 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@anthonylair27 well what did you do to hurt her?

  • @cruzidora
    @cruzidora ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I hope the guy that I love who have left me crying that night for misunderstanding know that I still not changing him in my heart and I did what I told him that loosing him will close my heart for any man

    • @ivyofori1548
      @ivyofori1548 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I thought this place was for men to express their experiences with women not the other way round 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @shinecam1
    @shinecam1 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    True.
    Most women are capable of building men up when they have vulnerable moments. Women have to be careful with their trust and hearts when they share. I messed up with my Husband and Son, being harsh. It took my Husband years before he she'd a tear in front of me. I find myself asking him if he's OK and when I sense he's in deep thought, I just sit next to him. My Son hasn't come around to trust me hearing his heart because it involves his fiance. It'll take prayer, time and him understanding how I see into their superficial relationship and he's being used. I wasn't handed a manual, but the strong woman pattern.

  • @smith899
    @smith899 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    12:36 Yep! My husband was broke coming out of college! Even though I am younger, I graduated two years before him (he went military first), so I did not have any debt. He would NEVER have allowed me to pay for dinner at a restaurant. So, I constantly would offer to cook when he asked me on a date. That way, he wasn’t having to spend money he truly dis not have but we could still have a nice meal together! He picked up a movie on the way to my apartment so we had dinner and a movie that cost him $5.
    We have been married 31 years and he only recently found out THAT was why I always offered to cook. 😂

    • @julz7753
      @julz7753 วันที่ผ่านมา

      love this story❤😊

  • @p.o.a.2209
    @p.o.a.2209 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I'm the first to comment. Getting you clearly from Kenya

    • @StephanSpeaksforMen
      @StephanSpeaksforMen  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ❤ 🙌

    • @Christy-he6ry
      @Christy-he6ry ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Love it , Kenya too ❤️

    • @jefrokatai5418
      @jefrokatai5418 ปีที่แล้ว

      Stephan; seems like you have got a wide fan base in Kenya. I am Kenyan too.

    • @p.o.a.2209
      @p.o.a.2209 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jefrokatai5418 Mungu akubariki kaka

  • @saltanatabzhaparova4470
    @saltanatabzhaparova4470 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I’m improving my English with you, and everything you saying is interesting for me💝

  • @frankiegunnz8066
    @frankiegunnz8066 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    #3 really explained my current situation. Thank you!

  • @angiemenapa
    @angiemenapa ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Stephan, I'm watching your men's channel co's men come to me for emotional support in their abusive relationships.
    Thank you for being there for all of us.
    Sending love and good vibes! 🤗

  • @JS_FX
    @JS_FX หลายเดือนก่อน

    Bruh I think I’m experiencing this for the first time in life at 35 with the woman I’m dealing with now 💯💯

  • @KristofferFrey
    @KristofferFrey ปีที่แล้ว +8

    ❤️ So much wisdom

  • @anishsam-qt6pp
    @anishsam-qt6pp ปีที่แล้ว +3

    That's it my man... That's it... Thanks a lot for this video tt made me come out of my tough situation. Thanks brother

    • @StephanSpeaksforMen
      @StephanSpeaksforMen  ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm happy this has been helpful to you, don't forget to share so that others can receive love, healing, and clarity ❤ 🙏

  • @cindyvazquez4333
    @cindyvazquez4333 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Vulnerability is a good thing in a relationship on either side!🙏🙏❤

  • @julieannepeter7324
    @julieannepeter7324 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I love your views!!!

  • @rogerplazaola8915
    @rogerplazaola8915 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    you make a lot of sense my brother.. I had to subscribe :)

  • @lexusrcf2441
    @lexusrcf2441 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    More teachings brethren bless up to the mos high 🙌🏽💯

  • @funkmonster
    @funkmonster 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    My man, I have listened to Jordan Peterson, Joe Rogan, Fresh and Fit, @Whatever, David Goggins, etc. and honestly, I mean this from my heart - this is the best lecture regarding emotional help for men that made sense in a clear and concise way. Most other podcasts had me thinking I could never, ever show any emotion whatsoever, a true stoic and honestly it made me feel hopeless. You helped me understand how to stay in frame when dealing with the small stuff, vs. being able to cry because my father died. Just wanted to say thank you.

  • @karincarozza381
    @karincarozza381 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Being protected and secure lessens the fear of being vulnerable, as she can trust him and be sure he is faithful, if she loves him deeply.

  • @sheena8542
    @sheena8542 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    A man being vulnerable adds to me feeling mentally and emotionally connected as well as safe. I think that if a man shares that part of him, it's major. I always embrace that. I believe that it shows a good level of mental and emotional healthiness. Men that suppress and act all hard like they have it all figured out, are so tough and have no feelings about almost everything are a red flag for me. There's no way that he can make me truly feel cared about, loved and safe if he can't be vulnerable at times.

  • @ericbush6124
    @ericbush6124 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Even if we fail do something don't mope real long get going she needs to know you're vulnerable bu not emotionally fall apart because we lose a job of get a flat tire.A good Woman will always appreciate a Good Man. Men give Women recieve a Good woman will temper her wants and they'll be more emotional spiand intellectual Money is for needs spending time more important than spending money All really good Points my Brother Stephen

  • @christiectherapy
    @christiectherapy 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Definitely!!! Well explained 🎉

  • @alisaben1
    @alisaben1 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    The sexiest thing I've ever seen a man do is cry in a moment of vulnerability.....it says a LOT about the condition of his heart and his emotional confidence. It causes me to respect him even more and become quite protective of his heart.

    • @KeitraBriSings
      @KeitraBriSings ปีที่แล้ว

      First time I saw my man cry, I was more compelled to let him lead. I because so protective of his feelings and what he needed from me as his woman. He needed to know that I believed in him and that I was confident in who he is as a man. I quickly made sure I let him be my King and listened. It’s not about being harsh. The most masculine thing is being able to be gentle with his woman.

  • @WayneMiller-e6c
    @WayneMiller-e6c ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What if you have a woman whom you have a great relationship with but has kids that make it hard to cope and or disrespectful to the point where it affects your overall happiness no matter how much you are there for them and no matter how much support you give to them

  • @lindaevans8446
    @lindaevans8446 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ok, I fell in live with a man who misrepresented himself to me! We could talk about anything anything and he was vulnerable.....exactly what you said, he held so much in that I wasn't aware of about his ex, he drinks, but said he didn't and he showed his anger issues, of which I had no idea about, so now what????

  • @johannzaroli6301
    @johannzaroli6301 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Such wholesome content! Thank you Stephan

  • @dianedorney5147
    @dianedorney5147 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    It's really nice to have a man help you with your coat, or hold doors....or remind you to pick up your sunglasses from the table...looking out for you it's nice!

  • @carguysunite1288
    @carguysunite1288 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I totally agree with the vulnerability point. I think the main reason for the people to not be is more around hookup culture and or like you said not being overly emotional and unstable most of the time.

  • @ninamkillings2702
    @ninamkillings2702 ปีที่แล้ว

    PERSONALLY I Want To Be ABLE To Be Their I want to know all That’s Not Saying He Is Less Of A MAN Their was a Situation with me I Was Really Sick And My Son He Had To Grow Up Fast And He Felt he had To Be Strong He Felt he had Too I told my son It’s okay to cry Because he had one more year high school and He Was Going Off to school with that being said yes connection is involved and their heart is More with the man and he loved me Back Exactly I care nothing about that money Because I want the man no every woman I Care Nothing Now I Will Walk Away If You Are ignoring the real me then I Will remove my self I have no time for game play No arguing no fussing I Will Exit Out , Thank You Mr. Stephan As Always for your sit down Blessings be with you always 🙏🏽✝️🕊

  • @insights3140
    @insights3140 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yes. I agree with this.

  • @maryanndiamond1690
    @maryanndiamond1690 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Spot on.

  • @TheJackiboy123
    @TheJackiboy123 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Hey Stephan, I love your videos, I am currently going through a break up with a girl that I truly loved. I would like your advice on how to let it go. I value your opinion, since you bring a certain balance to the manosphere. Thank you and keep doing up the good work💯

    • @lukas4016
      @lukas4016 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Go read Stephan's book "Love after heartbreak". Really good!

    • @beefaye6861
      @beefaye6861 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Im so sorry..... 💔

    • @TheJackiboy123
      @TheJackiboy123 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@beefaye6861 thank you I appreciate it

    • @ansah43
      @ansah43 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Take a minute and enjoy being single. Learn something new, treat yourself to something you want as you definitely won't be spending your money on her, show yourself some love and build yourself back up.

  • @GLeon-ov9yu
    @GLeon-ov9yu ปีที่แล้ว +7

    That’s if we as women can find a quality man to begin with. With the internet the majority are ALWAYS on the look out for what they think is better. There is no better out there! Only the commitment you are willing to make as a Man to the relationship and the women who loves you.

  • @anikaelizabeth
    @anikaelizabeth ปีที่แล้ว

    That last one is so true!

  • @bigjaywestlife
    @bigjaywestlife ปีที่แล้ว +4

    On point

  • @orarichman9948
    @orarichman9948 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I will accept you as a broke man, but at the same time, I want to see self improvement and growth and the fact that you are trying. I will stick by a broke man that is at least making efforts to get out of the rut he is in.💯

  • @princessleai
    @princessleai ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I grew up collecting ammo for my father… I tend to remember all the unpleasant things… also my father is a crier but he’s been crying all my life but whEn my significant other does it .. I think it’s an *ick* especially if it’s over something small that doesn’t include death. Just don’t cry in front of me…

  • @roneenewton5901
    @roneenewton5901 ปีที่แล้ว

    ALL FACTS ! 👊🏾 Appreciate you bruh.

  • @davidsisson2026
    @davidsisson2026 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My first wife demanded i had to change. Or she was gone. I'm sure gonna miss her

  • @sugerlipsxjamiewright4170
    @sugerlipsxjamiewright4170 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I Don't believe that one should look for happiness in The Next person in the sense That you should be happy Anyway in your self and then I feel other Little irritations that may come about bother you less ! as you know yourself and them too . That confidence is enough I think! If someone likes being in your company then Cool an if you feel like minded then Greater Still I feel it doesn't Need a word.

  • @daryusi9347
    @daryusi9347 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    AMAZING VIDEO, SIR!

  • @louisnathaniel5424
    @louisnathaniel5424 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great content bro.

  • @janicel2658
    @janicel2658 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I am not into a mans financial status, if i love a man its true. It is him, who he is as a person and what he brings to the relationship, by way of his roles and responsibilities as a man. He doesnt have to be rich, or have many material possessions. He just has to be hard working, responsible, kind, loving, gentle, understanding, and a loyal God fearing man. ❤❤🎉🎉🎉😊😊😊 I was out with a group of friends, and an older gentleman complimented me while i was getting my food. Well, he was sitting accross the room from our table. When our group, got up to go for a walk, he caught up to me and asked if i would like to join him and his group. I declined, not because i didnt know who he was. But because i was just not into him. ❤🎉😊

  • @franchyluxuriouslifestyle9848
    @franchyluxuriouslifestyle9848 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Story of my life.

  • @abigalestoll
    @abigalestoll ปีที่แล้ว +2

    💯 agree ❤️.

  • @Goodtime-vf2cs
    @Goodtime-vf2cs 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Preach brother preach

  • @kingbreeze972
    @kingbreeze972 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My woman’s does these things but then has moments of serious toxicity and takes her frustrations out on me and makes it about her, shaming me for doing things women look for men to do. She totally blacks out and then comes back and apologizes. It turns me all the way off and makes me wonder what did I get myself into. How did I meet an Angel and a Devil in one person, no bullshit. Can somebody help?

    • @KeitraBriSings
      @KeitraBriSings ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I think she loves you and knows that she has a good man but there is something from the outside influencing her and making her believe that you’re not doing enough. Most likely, it’s social media. It could also be some guy who likes her, a family member or friend who is always telling her what she should want in a man and hinting to the insecurity in her that says maybe she made the wrong decision in choosing you. That doesn’t mean SHE thinks choosing you was wrong, it just means someone or something that she sees, in constantly manipulating the situation and playing on her insecurities about your relationship. Sounds to be like whatever that shit is, needs to be eliminated. If it never stops, you will have to leave to make her understand and appreciate you as her man. Ask her what she wants and tell her to be VERY SPECIFIC. I mean VERY SPECIFIC and tell her she doesn’t have to remember all at once and that she can tell you at any time what else she needs. Just make sure that in the midst of that though that YOU are still being appreciated and valued for your efforts. If you are not and she refuses to tell you what she needs, she may not be healed yet or she may just need a lesson on appreciating a good man.

    • @KeitraBriSings
      @KeitraBriSings ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Also, don’t just flat out leave. Just make sure that she knows that this behavior is pushing you to detach emotionally. If she understands, wants to change and makes an effort, just make sure you tell her what the effects of her blacking out are doing to you.

    • @FIREGOD333
      @FIREGOD333 ปีที่แล้ว

      sound like mental illness maybe bpd or bipolar u gotta decide if u can handle ppl w mental illness sometimes they might not even know they have it

    • @TerrySmith-ov6ei
      @TerrySmith-ov6ei 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      She is not healed from something in her past and until she acknowledges that and gets help and heals from it then she is not ready for a relationship with you or anyone else. For your own sanity and emotional health you need to talk to her and encourage her to get the help that she needs. If she refuses and goes into toxic mode and attacks you verbally then you need to end the relationship. Pray for her that God will lead her to the help that she needs. This will be very hard to do but necessary for your happiness and mental health. God bless.

  • @eltigredetejas2328
    @eltigredetejas2328 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My Stacie does all this and more ❤

  • @miss_glowgetter
    @miss_glowgetter ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I wish I could like this video a billion times!!!!!

  • @digthewarmth
    @digthewarmth ปีที่แล้ว

    Facts!

  • @SamanthaSmith-u1v
    @SamanthaSmith-u1v ปีที่แล้ว

    can you pray for me, Mr. Stephan? I am too deeply emotionally involved (although he does not know it) into a man that is not convenient for me because he deceived me by hiding from me that he is married. Everyday I see him , I mean, every single day, and I cannot embrace him, I cannot speak to him ( dont want him to get any ideas of me at all), but I am dying for me, wanting to talk to him and ask him how is he?, I want SO MUCH TO JUST HUG HIM but I cannot. I want to prepare him meals and prepare him his clothes, his house, make him feel so relaxed and so much loved and pampered by me but I have to limit myself from these devastating feelings for that .....and I really need higher intervention. If you could join me in prayer not this minute but when you can, to unite yourself with me in prayer for me so that I may pass this phase. I am trying to pray for myself every single day and so if when you have time to pray for me, I'll be praying as well. help me and keep me in your prayer , at least just once. :/ -thank you :(

    • @pmscalisi
      @pmscalisi 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      He is making a fool of you, like it or not!
      In his mind you’re a side chick. Stop it.

  • @nicolemaxey5801
    @nicolemaxey5801 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    True

  • @neshacummings1666
    @neshacummings1666 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Facts,Lol Tell them Again

  • @tanjeetstephens5730
    @tanjeetstephens5730 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Jay...Kim Dale... Lyle McDonald... just to start naming a few of this dudes aliases 😂

  • @Thephotosnatcher_
    @Thephotosnatcher_ ปีที่แล้ว

    I like this guys talks

  • @thehumblehygienist2805
    @thehumblehygienist2805 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yea…great video however, I definitely loved my husband 23 years in June but sadly it is over.

    • @StephanSpeaksforMen
      @StephanSpeaksforMen  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'm sorry to hear about that. I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️

  • @daryusi9347
    @daryusi9347 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    i no longer look up to the man who can sleep with a lot of women ... i now look up to the man who found ONE good woman who loves TRULY loves him and that relationship will last.
    it took me getting my heartbroken to finally take on this mindset.

  • @artbyphobia
    @artbyphobia 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I’m a woman, and I clicked on this video half expecting some type of “your woman will do everything you say and cook and clean” stereotype 😭, but the first one made me realize otherwise. Yes, *lots of men are taught as young children that crying is a sign of weakness* But as a lady, trust me, if we really love you we do not care, get it out. It’s better to release than bottle.

    • @StephanSpeaksforMen
      @StephanSpeaksforMen  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

  • @kennethyoung4892
    @kennethyoung4892 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good content 👌

  • @JoJoInHouston1982
    @JoJoInHouston1982 ปีที่แล้ว

    We sure do Stephan😂💯👍🏾

  • @HCP-ux9ej
    @HCP-ux9ej ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Women ask for Cashapp while dating these days?? Wow WTH 😳

  • @VentiColdbrew_
    @VentiColdbrew_ ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Haha I’m a girl look to see if these r true I’ll update u guys once I watch 😂

  • @ChiakiNanami736
    @ChiakiNanami736 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    3 can actually be quite subconscious on the part of the woman.

  • @nati.natula
    @nati.natula ปีที่แล้ว +4

    🎯

  • @sessyperry8741
    @sessyperry8741 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I want true love best friend a balance in each other life good mentally physically emotionally spiritually financial blessings over both of us be respectful to each other God fearing man God bless me to be a great wife loving caring respectful wife to my husband amen 💯💯💯💯💯🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰💙💙💙

  • @katehogarth5054
    @katehogarth5054 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Please men… be vulnerable with quality women! Drop your guard and let that women in!

  • @narviaflournoy3869
    @narviaflournoy3869 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    👋🏽🛎🙏🏼 Yes Lord, hallelujah !!

  • @WOMPITUS
    @WOMPITUS ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Well…that settles it. No woman has ever deeply loved me lol.

  • @user-sz6vy7xt6j
    @user-sz6vy7xt6j 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    💯 Truth..... From a woman peeking over to see what you're saying to the men folk! 😂😂😂😂

  • @Touchedmymouthministriesint
    @Touchedmymouthministriesint ปีที่แล้ว

    😂Car broke down 😅

  • @wandafossett846
    @wandafossett846 ปีที่แล้ว

    😃🌈💎💜😍🙏
    🤗💯 Hey Stephan The Mens
    Channel Rock 🎸 👌

  • @dianasleja5474
    @dianasleja5474 ปีที่แล้ว

    I can't iven understand what I want eat the dinner no talk to understand if I'm in love , (Love)🤣

  • @orarichman9948
    @orarichman9948 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    If I am deeply in love, no matter how many scars that I have on my heart or past trauma, I will not walk away from the man I am crazy about. If anything it will be hard for him to get rid of my AZZ!😆