AITA for liking dad over my stepfather

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[@HarpytheHaradeyrus]

Nta, they shouldn't force op to spend time with step father

[@Killian749]

When my mum got a new boyfriend. My sister and I made it clear to him that he will never be our father but we will treat him as a friend. I was 22 when he and mum started dating and my sister was 16 so its not like he was part of our lives growing up.

[@shmoopyroo2650]

NTA. Nobody is entitled to the title of mom or dad not even blood related parents. The only people who have any say in the matter is the kid themself. They award people that title so if step dad is only moms husband then he’s only moms husband. He isn’t entitled to be considered op’s dad or to have a father child bond with op. Op decides not only who their dad is but what they do with their time so if they say they are spending Father’s Day with their father then that’s final. It may hurt to have your step kid not accept you as a parent but you cannot ever try to force that relationship cause that will only make your bond worst.

[@wisteria3032]

oh yeah, the grown up man, the supposed father figure.
guess why OP only considers him mom's husband

[@Andy01833]

It’s never nice to feel manipulated by others. But you must go with your heart! However buy your step dad a card and nice gift just because!! Sometimes being a jerk isn’t a good fit and being kind is..

[@a35362]

Why is your presence so important to the stepfather, especially if other siblings will be there? I really like the "You ARE just my mother's husband." Stop pretending like we're one big happy family -- I hardly know you!

[@HarryHarding-rt8so]

You are doing the right thing

[@RandomCheeseFiend]

I feel like what she said was a bit harsh and she could’ve said it better but what I will say is that if she doesn’t see you as a father in her life and doesn’t want to spend time with you then that is her choice and it can’t be Changed unless you decide to

[@Tristan-qq7ud]

NTA but could have let him down easier

[@Urfavdancer.kayleigh-kl2el]

Ur not the ah they can celebrate his Father’s Day on a different day but wouldn’t recommend being so mean

[@Elephintina]

You should get him a card at least and Mabye a gift,the tone that I understood from this post was not the best but also why didn’t your step dad want to spend any other smear with you besides Father’s Day?

[@Graphgaming]

sort of, could have spent father's day with both dads

[@AyaanAl-Islam]

No he can't the step dad said don't do it with your dad and only with him so the kid said no ima do it with my dad

[@christhody7112]

I think you could have compromised for this one year. Depends on context. Step dad certainly seemed like he really wanted you there.

[@darlingdybbuk]

I want a million dollars in small unmarked bills. We can’t always have what we want. The kid shouldn’t be guilt tripped into spending a holiday with someone he’s not close to as if that person IS close

[@user-ms2zq4gc8e]

No

[@user-kh9be8hr1j]

At least you have a dad😢

[@raymondmatthews7746]

Yes

[@IamAHumanTrust]

??? He definitely isn't what makes you think that