8 Psychological Tips On How To See Through People

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  • You don’t need to be a psychic in order to read people’s minds. Those around you constantly give away their thoughts, feelings, and intentions without even realizing it. You just need to be really attentive to see right through them.
    Obviously, everybody’s different, each with their own mannerisms and peculiarities. That's why it's so important to understand what behavior is normal for a particular individual. Slight changes in their behavior or body language can speak volumes and allow you to read them like an open book. Analyzing all the information you have, you'll be able to understand someone’s personality a lot better without even spending that much time with them.
    In different cultures, there can be different rules. For example, in some countries, people look away to show their respect, not because they’re hiding something or feeling uncomfortable. They say you should never judge a book by its cover. That’s good advice and all, but a person’s appearance really can tell a lot about them.
    We like to spend more time with people who share our interests and personality traits. Watch who someone spends most their time with and how they treat other people. See if this person tries to make others comfortable or rudely annoys people without even noticing it.
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    TIMESTAMPS
    Define the norm 0:20
    Observe and compare 1:05
    Always mind the context 1:43
    Check out how someone is dressed 2:19
    What's with the face? 3:26
    Watch their behavior in a group 5:12
    Listen to how they articulate their thoughts 6:07
    Trust your intuition 7:02
    SUMMARY
    -Try to understand what behavior is normal for a particular individual, and then pay attention to anything the person does differently.
    -Pay attention to the details: how they carry themselves, how they communicate with other people, what secrets their body language reveals.
    -Always keep in mind the context of the situation: in different cultures, there can be different rules.
    -People, either willingly or subconsciously, show their true selves through their clothing choices.
    -Facial expressions can reveal a lot of things people would rather keep hidden. For example, when someone likes you, their facial muscles relax, the head tilts a bit to the side, and blood rushes to their lips, making them slightly plumper and brighter.
    -Watch who someone spends most their time with and how they treat other people.
    -Don’t just listen to what a person says, pay attention to how they say it.
    -Intuition can let you down from time to time, but the longer you keep listening to it and observing people, the better it’ll work.
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  • @BRIGHTSIDEOFFICIAL
    @BRIGHTSIDEOFFICIAL  5 ปีที่แล้ว +194

    TIMESTAMPS
    Define the norm 0:20
    Observe and compare 1:05
    Always mind the context 1:43
    Check out how someone is dressed 2:19
    What's with the face? 3:26
    Watch their behavior in a group 5:12
    Listen to how they articulate their thoughts 6:07
    Trust your intuition 7:02

    • @fduff1985
      @fduff1985 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This is not soo this channels behaviour hmm something is wrong :/

  • @witchofravens22
    @witchofravens22 6 ปีที่แล้ว +594

    It sucks to see through people tho. I have this habit of observing people's smile and body languages until I know who dislikes me and annoyed by me. Then I will feel bad for myself😑 It can make you lose confidence of yourself

    • @mylovesongs2429
      @mylovesongs2429 6 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      Little Miss Introvert what about the flipside to that coin, knowing who likes you and is a good friend?

    • @MistyNights35
      @MistyNights35 6 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Cik Pessimist Introvert-Nah....That's just you, you have serious issues. You feel bad about yourself and want to see if people feel about you the way you feel about yourself, so you look for that in others. That can really blur what you're seeing when talking to other people and cause you to gain a faulty perception of how others view you. You need to get yourself some help.....

    • @witchofravens22
      @witchofravens22 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Misty Nights maybe...Sometimes I am thinking to stop my habit so I don't overthink but it will lead to the anxiety

    • @MistyNights35
      @MistyNights35 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Cik Pessimist Introvert-Not overthinking things is hard because I do that a lot. I'm starting to learn to just ignore the negative thoughts unless something more substantial comes to play(concrete evidence) other then my own negative thoughts. Because a lot of times when I'm overthinking it distorts the way people look to me as in whether they are sincere or not. I can sense when people are being genuine but that overthinking side of my brain tells me they are still hiding something. I'm trying to get rid of the anxiety because it's annoying AF. And I'm only dealing with "mild" anxiety. smh

    • @dirtcykoz
      @dirtcykoz 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I do this as well, but it's not always bad. It also is kind of cool depending on who you are with. I surprise some friends with it sometimes. it's really dependent on how you look at it. It can only get better, but people that do these things are mostly looked at as understanding, so there's a plus.

  • @Riox147
    @Riox147 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    intuition NEVER lets us down. It always leads us exactly where we need to go if we only listen. We betray ourselves when we don't listen or we believe the ego out of fear.

  • @AirElegant
    @AirElegant 6 ปีที่แล้ว +254

    No matter someone like or hate you, stay happy 😁

  • @lisadeee1343
    @lisadeee1343 6 ปีที่แล้ว +186

    Intuition yes! If something ‘feels off’ with someone it most probably is, believe it, it could save you from a nightmare.

    • @amandae.6948
      @amandae.6948 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Definitely, follow your gut! I almost got close to being manipulated by a psychopath in the music business because i didn't listen to my intuition, very creepy situation.

    • @lisadeee1343
      @lisadeee1343 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Amanda E. I was in a relationship with one. I learnt the hard way because my intuition was telling me something wasn’t right with him! He put me through so much abuse but I finally got away. I’ll never ignore my ‘gut’ ever again! Yes it’s creepy but I’m so relieved for you that it was an almost situation!

    • @jilliansmith7123
      @jilliansmith7123 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Lisa Davut: I just hate & suspect everyone to start with and wait to see if they're worth getting to know. Oddly, I have almost zero friends. Wonder why? (I'm kidding--I don't wonder why!)

    • @ginnyjollykidd
      @ginnyjollykidd 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lisa Davut
      Use more than intuition, but if the situation is iffy at best, yes, excuse yourself and leave. And don't be obliged to be polite. Running is always an option.

    • @jennytaylor4165
      @jennytaylor4165 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You're right! And I think this vibe hits your gut about 3 seconds after meeting a new person, and tends, as you say, to bear out - even if you feel guilty about judging them harshly.

  • @blameitonablackstar
    @blameitonablackstar 6 ปีที่แล้ว +431

    Maybe they're relieved to be done talking to you because they have social anxiety.

    • @firestar1215
      @firestar1215 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      blameitonablackstar exactly

    • @dirtcykoz
      @dirtcykoz 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      me.

    • @hornetbrown
      @hornetbrown 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Mostly it's like that.

    • @PO-co7qy
      @PO-co7qy 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      This is me

    • @davidnance9257
      @davidnance9257 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      That's me all the way, I'm fine chatting online or video chat/phone, but talking in person I get nervous and sometimes jittery. It is a relief when the conversation is over, because then I can calm down and feel at ease again. Something tells me the maker of this video doesn't understand anxiety at all.

  • @GlobalAdventurer
    @GlobalAdventurer 6 ปีที่แล้ว +292

    To sum all this up, ALWAYS go with your first thought. It's usually always right. That's with everything from jobs, marriage, multiple choice questions on exams, meeting new people and anything else.

    • @magnuschristianssen8999
      @magnuschristianssen8999 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Global Adventurer Bad idea actually. If you are not a good judge of people then your "first instinict" is always going to be off by a mile.

    • @m.n.d5949
      @m.n.d5949 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Global Adventurer true. Although i have multiple thoughts for a first impression . So i really cant decide what to beleive as i see 2 perspectives in the same analysis of thr person . Which one to go by .and btw this happens simultaneously in my brain while deciding what the person is like.

    • @GlobalAdventurer
      @GlobalAdventurer 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      minoshka dsouza You will have that gut feeling something isn't right, that will make you go....hmm? And dismiss it as over thinking on your part, but it will come full circle (as what happens to most people), but then it's too late. There's always a major warning in the beginning, and most people dismiss it. That's how people end up killed....not going by their gut feeling.

    • @m.n.d5949
      @m.n.d5949 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Global Adventurer hmm . A vry gud point there. Yr right. Reason i said so is i found certain people suspicious initially without reason but later found no reason to feel that way as they ended up normal so i dismissed it. And its been years. But they didnt slip . So i was like probably my initial judgement was too soon and i was being over cautious. And i can tend toward paranoia at times so i give that a benifit of doubt clouding my judgement. Im an over thinker by nature so u can assume my predicament . But i have been right about many too. However ive been wrong about some.... until date. Whose to say it could be proven right in thr future. But i think yr rule applies only to those of a sound and stable mind unaffected by paranoia. Eg: assuming yr bf will cheat on u for no given reason after being with him for many yrs and hes been faithful throughout but due to insecurities u just assume hes a cheat. This is one senario many people fall into a trap of assuming paranoia is intuition and getting into a mess coz of it. U get what im saying right?

    • @GlobalAdventurer
      @GlobalAdventurer 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      minoshka dsouza I get what you're saying. But, I'm speaking of dangerous people. Anyone can lie or cheat on you at anytime, even the people with the best intentions, but I'm speaking about dangerous people and dangerous circumstances they could put you in physically and mentally. It's like all those mass murderers and serial killers. There is ALWAYS a subtle warning light and that "gut feeling". People just ignore.
      But, for over thinkers like yourself, it may be difficult right now, but that will change with time and more experience.

  • @janetbabatunde7049
    @janetbabatunde7049 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1191

    Who else clicked so fast to learn some new things

    • @AJ-xm4xc
      @AJ-xm4xc 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Janet Babatunde Yups.

    • @just_average4666
      @just_average4666 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I want to learn what the comment was before it was edited

    • @shev8513
      @shev8513 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I did I didn't even see what it was about but because it bright side😁😊

    • @wandag20
      @wandag20 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Janet Babatunde MEH NOTICE ME!!!!!!

    • @Mia-wh9gd
      @Mia-wh9gd 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yep

  • @asmrnovoice5008
    @asmrnovoice5008 6 ปีที่แล้ว +223

    Umm just because I want to be comfortable doesn't mean I don't care about life.

    • @989787777778787
      @989787777778787 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      In some cases if the person wears comfortable or bland clothing, they are either genius or a true christian, also some are lazy self centered and or undeciding.

    • @dirtcykoz
      @dirtcykoz 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      none of these things are correct. stereotyping isn't the greatest things to do. generalization isn't either. i can tell you right now that i am not a genius, or a Christian. I can say i'm lazy, and undeciding, but self centered doesn't fit. what's the problem with just wearing something that doesn't constrict movement?

    • @asmrnovoice5008
      @asmrnovoice5008 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I do it cause it's cheap, and I don't care about what others think negatively about me.

    • @Evievaluv
      @Evievaluv 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      ASMR no voice exactly. As a psychology student (also common sense ) it’s not that they don’t care about life, they don’t care about people’s opinions

    • @tiffanyprospert8457
      @tiffanyprospert8457 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I agree, same here. I prefer to dress comfortably, but it doesn't mean I don't care about life

  • @anabautista8071
    @anabautista8071 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    1. Define the norm. 2. Observe and compare. 3. Always mind the context. 4. Check out how someone is dressed. 5. What's with the face? 6. Watch their behaviour in a group. 7. Listen to how they articulate their thoughts. 8. Trust your intuition.

  • @janetbabatunde7049
    @janetbabatunde7049 6 ปีที่แล้ว +548

    Who came to check if their crush or boyfriend really like them so as to be able to read their mind

    • @jamij2745
      @jamij2745 6 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Janet Babatunde I did to see if somebody likes me tbh

    • @julieedenfield511
      @julieedenfield511 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Janet Babatunde me

    • @julieedenfield511
      @julieedenfield511 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Janet Babatunde 😂 😅😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣

    • @Nobl.3229
      @Nobl.3229 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Janet Babatunde meeeee

    • @meghasheikh9426
      @meghasheikh9426 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Janet Babatunde mee

  • @waltertomaszewski1083
    @waltertomaszewski1083 6 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    1). What about people who don't have the money to buy the clothes that will impress the 'right' people?
    2). What about people who have the money, but choose to spend it elsewhere on other things they consider to be more important?
    3). What about people who dress sharply to conceal their lack of knowledge on things and try to bluff their way through life?

    • @Xoxo-cg7kr
      @Xoxo-cg7kr 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Genius questions ;)

    • @anony761
      @anony761 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Well said Walter

    • @an6357
      @an6357 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      why would you have to impress themnby buying expensive clothes?I wouldn't like to be a friend with a person that values you for what you're wearing

    • @TheConservativeHippie
      @TheConservativeHippie 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You can always buy brand name clothes from a thrift shop

    • @lemonade2649
      @lemonade2649 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Then don't..?

  • @AshishKumar-qg3db
    @AshishKumar-qg3db 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It is really interesting to observe people around you. Its more like a game that you play in real life. The best part is - when you predict something about someone and it turns out to be true.

  • @TheMABExperience
    @TheMABExperience 6 ปีที่แล้ว +81

    Some people love to complain about being misunderstood, but once you finally figure them out they don't like it. 👂🏾💯💪🏾

  • @BRIGHTSIDEOFFICIAL
    @BRIGHTSIDEOFFICIAL  6 ปีที่แล้ว +93

    5:12 This hack always works wonders.

  • @kim_taetae1909
    @kim_taetae1909 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    The next time I create a conversation with my crush I gotta see when he smile if there’s a wrinkle

  • @xxgamermaykittygamesxx9205
    @xxgamermaykittygamesxx9205 6 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    5:07
    I never knew this was a horror movie! What's with the creepy music?

  • @polduseri909
    @polduseri909 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    The concept of “first” have been distorted with time because in today’s days means “you are first” while in the past and for more of the human history was “you serve others first”. If you apply that principle in been first by been the last, then you have learn how to treat others. Never try to have friends by pleased them but by just be a friend. The results will amazed you and you will find out that you may have one or two real friends. I prefer to have at least one than a bunch who pretend to be friends.

  • @suhkawnit
    @suhkawnit 6 ปีที่แล้ว +133

    3:03 um...what? That girl looks really fun to be around. People who choose comfort over style tend to be the MOST open minded. They judge themselves and others by their character, not superficial things like the clothes they wear

    • @jgw5491
      @jgw5491 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      I think a lot of the examples are focused on jobs, not personal relationships.

    • @yokedswole
      @yokedswole 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Laurence Nguyen Ive known girls who dress like that and they themselves have been superficial. To me the people who wear that type of clothing are the party girls who just want to have fun and disregard the consequences (from what I've seen. Could be different depending on location/ethnicity/just in general).Im taking this video with a grain of salt though.

    • @suhkawnit
      @suhkawnit 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Phantom Mercedes wow. it’s almost as if we shouldn’t assume things about people based on the clothes they wear, right?

    • @yokedswole
      @yokedswole 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Laurence Nguyen Im late because YT doesn't really notify too much on replies, but the way you take care of your outer appearance does in a way reflect your character. Tell me a guy wearing a tanktop and sagging shorts with a large chain necklace doesn't reflect his character. It's not hard to read a person's character by their body language and the way they dress. The girl in the timestamp for example. Her clothes are extremely loose. The way she's dressed and posing for the camera is asking for attention or trying to stand out by "doing something different" or looking different than the "normal average" thing to do for a picture (which can be considered boring or dull for someone who likes to party and please people). Same goes for something like a duck face pose when taking a selfie. People do that because they want to do something to make them stand out and to be different from the norm.
      I have no idea if you're reply is genuine or sarcasm, but my reply still stands either way.

    • @jennylousiegrant4897
      @jennylousiegrant4897 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Laurence Nguyen totally agree, my partner dresses like this alot as well as others I know. It's all advice but you can't judge someone totally by how they dress or accessorise

  • @shreyahedau
    @shreyahedau 6 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    Haha.. who avoids groups.. are
    Shy
    Unconfident
    Self critical
    Hard working
    Yeah.. it's me.

    • @chibee4l
      @chibee4l 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Me2 and 5:58 my friend 😀😀

    • @N1SPECIAL
      @N1SPECIAL 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Isn’t it pretty much everyone on the internet

    • @whippingcrram
      @whippingcrram 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@N1SPECIAL "everyone else"

  • @emmaw2672
    @emmaw2672 6 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    it's amazing how so many people can be 'first' in the comments.

  • @LaszloPanaflex
    @LaszloPanaflex 6 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Some people wear gray and black a lot because they are color blind and cannot match outfits easily.

    • @dirtcykoz
      @dirtcykoz 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm just lazy and don't care. Also i'm quite fare-skinned, so in contrasts pretty well with my skin. :)

    • @GreedAndSelfishness
      @GreedAndSelfishness 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Is it possible we just like the simple elegance of the black color?

  • @cindyle4258
    @cindyle4258 6 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    IMO I think people CAN hide their true personality, by creating a fake persona. They could forget themselves behind the mask,and not be able to be their true selves

  • @SureshKumar-bi6kv
    @SureshKumar-bi6kv 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    1. Define the Norm.
    2. Observe and Compare.
    3. Always Mind the Context.
    4. Check out the way someone is dressed.
    5. What's with the Face?
    6. Watch their behaviour in groups.
    7. Listen to how they articulate their thoughts.
    8. Trust your intuition.
    ................Have a nice day :)

  • @randomdudeyoumightlike9912
    @randomdudeyoumightlike9912 6 ปีที่แล้ว +168

    The clothes one is wrong. I wear anything.

    • @ThePayola123
      @ThePayola123 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Random Dude You Might Like
      Such a bad idea...!!!

    • @jesustenas4297
      @jesustenas4297 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Random Dude You Might Like its right what u say u wear anything means you dont really care about what others think wich is good

    • @randomdudeyoumightlike9912
      @randomdudeyoumightlike9912 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Payhole Everdouche how?

    • @hiteshmaster4607
      @hiteshmaster4607 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Random Dude You Might Like 🤣🤣🤣😀😀😀 me 2

    • @melaningamer_
      @melaningamer_ 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That the part disagree with on the color clothes

  • @amandae.6948
    @amandae.6948 6 ปีที่แล้ว +102

    The eye thing doesn't really apply to all, many people have Asperger's syndrome and prefer not to look people straight in the eyes.

    • @nativewildman9335
      @nativewildman9335 6 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      Amanda E. I don't I like to look people in the eyes untill i get to know them and then some times I still don't look them in the eyes. Looking people in the eyes kinda creeps me out sometimes.

    • @magenstaffarts
      @magenstaffarts 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Precisely. Though I'm glad they bring up that sometimes the fidgeting is normal behavior because that would include stimming.

    • @magnuschristianssen8999
      @magnuschristianssen8999 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Amanda E. Many? Aspbergers is actually pretty rare.

    • @amandae.6948
      @amandae.6948 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      It's not rare. Here are some statistics: aspergersmn.org/history-traits-answer-mn/statistics-answer-mn/
      It's spelled Asperger's. And the number of people with the diagnosis keeps increasing.
      I know MANY people with the diagnosis as well.

    • @falteringnews
      @falteringnews 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      No it's not, it's just that not everyone with it gets diagnosed and not everyone is willing to tell the world about it.

  • @morrigan909
    @morrigan909 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm doing everything right to keep people away.

  • @Dubois_tada
    @Dubois_tada 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Idk about #2. I will always be relieved to stop not talking, not because I dislike the person but because I have anxiety

  • @brookejabour4515
    @brookejabour4515 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    People can hide their emotions. I've done it thousand times.

  • @bhawnakasanyal5182
    @bhawnakasanyal5182 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks again for all your help and supportive advice thanks.

  • @FamieLoveHealthWealth
    @FamieLoveHealthWealth 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My curiosity gets me every time. Awesome video, thanks

  • @tubetintuc9309
    @tubetintuc9309 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    This video is very helpful thank you for sharing

  • @madhavrajkondawar8242
    @madhavrajkondawar8242 6 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    3:15 , when he talks about income and ur like "but I'm just a kid finding out about my crush"!!!

    • @graceg8824
      @graceg8824 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Haha lol!

    • @diamond-vm5sl
      @diamond-vm5sl 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Madhav Rajkondawar Right.....

  • @RedRoy
    @RedRoy 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    These are INCREDIBLE I pranked my family! Thanks for the facts, BRIGHT SIDE!!

  • @SpiritedDancer17
    @SpiritedDancer17 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’ve *always* been able to read just seconds after meeting them; even when I was little. My parents have said I’ve always been very discerning about people. One of my friends in middle school asked me what I thought about her friend and I didn’t know why she was asking me. She said I’ve always been right about people but never payed attention to what I said and ended up getting hurt several times. My brother always has me meet girls he’s interested in because he knows I can tell in an instant if someone gives me a bad feeling or if someone is complete genuine. There’s times he thought I was just being over sensitive and wouldn’t listen to a word I would say and ended up getting his heart broken by a girl he dated for 3 years and wanted to marry. (So thankful he didn’t end up marrying her. She was horrible)

  • @sjmmty
    @sjmmty 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    There are too many more factors for this to be actually accurate, I won't say much but I want the facts. The numbers, the actual research. Great video, "personally" I would enjoy more background information.

  • @kulturfreund6631
    @kulturfreund6631 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    One of the things I don´t like is when people wear sun glasses all the time and don´t even lift them for the moment they exchange hellos with you. Or if people you´re formal with wear gloves, like in winter, and keep wearing them when shaking hands. In Germany average people and of younger age often weren´t taught fine manners. In France for instance they always take off the glove.

  • @debrahuddleston1310
    @debrahuddleston1310 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes, this was good enough to watch twice! I had hopes to make friends with a gal who cut my hair in a salon once about 6 yrs ago then I recently moved to her town, ran into her shopping when she handed me one of her biz cards and I wanted to chat when she turned to speak to someone else, telling me to call her sometime for coffee. I won't call her for anything.

  • @david-fx7ov
    @david-fx7ov 6 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Wow this sounds interesting 🤔

  • @andrinaaldape9978
    @andrinaaldape9978 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    #4 was sort of a diss to someone who likes comfort over style: we don't "not care about much in life" Sheesh!😒

  • @dabeast1800
    @dabeast1800 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love the vids so much keep 'emm coming

  • @DrumWild
    @DrumWild 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This list was not as helpful as I had hoped. It was also very overwhelming. Thanks, Asperger’s.

  • @heatherh7946
    @heatherh7946 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very interesting.
    I want to point out though that soft spoken and quiet people are often quietly confident introverts- *not* shy, insecure or self critical!

  • @johnnykriston5164
    @johnnykriston5164 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    People can hide their true intentions, feelings and personalities but if they do it constantly or for a long period of time, they might develop mental illnesses.
    The knowledge of observing others by their body language, facial expressions and voice tone might help us to understand their attitude at that moment but not to understand a person's true character base on what we have learnt from these knowledge

  • @dencandela
    @dencandela 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Elegance and modesty, how funny. I have some chatty friends that swear they are quite but i don't mind listening, it gives me a chance to analyze and help, appreciate or understand the person.

  • @TheHolyEclipse
    @TheHolyEclipse 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I also noticed that people twitch and fidget when they are scared or anxious but the two emotions are so close together with the body language that its hard to tell them apart. And I noticed some people when they are guilty, ashamed, being shady or disbelief sometimes they will raise their eyebrows.

  • @mbbloom7799
    @mbbloom7799 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    My friend said she hates her life I think I will show this vid to her

  • @heidi681
    @heidi681 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    🌿👀 thank you 🐐 much appreciated

  • @MichaelSHartman
    @MichaelSHartman 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Being relieved when the conversation is over means the person is an introvert who prefer their isolation to people. Other people exhaust introverts.

  • @xxworldwar2soldierxxjk277
    @xxworldwar2soldierxxjk277 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thanks

  • @itz.eva1227
    @itz.eva1227 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I feel like I am much meaner and criticize people a lot in my head, but I have the self control to not say any of it… I wonder if people know that or not??

  • @alexafernandez5893
    @alexafernandez5893 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Other's opinions don't matter. Don't let what they say change the way you think about yourself

  • @jillneverumind7229
    @jillneverumind7229 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was good. I like the part about the position of the eyes. I always get the left; right eye positions mixed up. Now I know. I can remember, MY RIGHT, is "right" = truthful, otherwise, MY LEFT is wrong = NOT right = lying. O.K. Got it!

  • @mworx6446
    @mworx6446 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have found the way to read body language is to look for the changes to each situation and how much they change when they are approached by other people

  • @keerthanaachar6497
    @keerthanaachar6497 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Awesome! Loved it!

  • @hyperexplorer5355
    @hyperexplorer5355 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Bright Side!

  • @shuggieb7974
    @shuggieb7974 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Early!!!!💙

  • @airabb
    @airabb 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bright side makes my bright side come out!

  • @poonamsrivastava9520
    @poonamsrivastava9520 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow! That's amazing.

  • @Jasmine.999_
    @Jasmine.999_ 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    These hacks are really very helpful and useful 👍🏻

  • @tal9106
    @tal9106 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What's wrong with me? I know my crush logically doesn't likes me back, but I still clicking these type of videos every times they pop up on my recommendation 😒

  • @jenniferschwarzenberg9713
    @jenniferschwarzenberg9713 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have noticed that one of the secretaries in an office I used alot at school tends to say when she sees me "We haven't heard from you in a while." Like she is answering for the whole office and I always think to myself "How do you know ? Do you go around checking other people's email?" It feels like she is trying to dominant the whole office.

  • @opti6019
    @opti6019 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    He sounds like Alejandro from Total Drama.

  • @PopCapMusicTrending
    @PopCapMusicTrending 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I know what you're thinking!!!

  • @mawab1508
    @mawab1508 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This is cool 👍🏾

  • @SRWill64
    @SRWill64 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes, there are people who try to hide what they are truly like. I was married to one for 23 years before I learned I was being lied to and disrespected.

  • @Hoktoooey
    @Hoktoooey 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Lefty’s like myself- dart my eyes, and people thought I wasn’t paying attention, not true, I’m just a lefty....

  • @sakshamsood7480
    @sakshamsood7480 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    7:03 when u see a monster !!!

    • @Wildcat8111
      @Wildcat8111 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Genius Jaguar Definitely a monster...

  • @ari3lz3pp3lin
    @ari3lz3pp3lin 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I actually do agree with many of these, but of course as in the beginning you need to realise these don't work all the time for everyone. The eye contact thing upset me as someone who has studied ASD; people with said disorder have terrible eye contact. Either too much or too little usually, but they tend to also be the most honest individuals! At least until society teaches them not to be.

  • @sarahdavies445
    @sarahdavies445 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Well I love smart clothes but I do also wear comfy outdoor clothes when life gets hectic. They say you can tell a lot from a person by looking at their shoes. I feel this is true for me as my taste in shoes has changed since undertaking therapy

  • @pinkfleur3721
    @pinkfleur3721 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is really true !!!

  • @alexandram2486
    @alexandram2486 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    dark and comfort over style... that is literally my wardrobe.

  • @moeenuddin6756
    @moeenuddin6756 6 ปีที่แล้ว +192

    We got hacks

  • @lilmyst6710
    @lilmyst6710 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I say people can hide their personality because i do that with my "friends" i can act all happy but in the inside I know I am someone who is shy .

  • @Logan-vi7hv
    @Logan-vi7hv 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I matched the first 4 things said 🤣 in the nervous distrustful or stressed thing at the beginning of the video

  • @ElMonoloco7890
    @ElMonoloco7890 6 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    What about people who have some kind of mental disorder. Such as ADHD or Bipolar.

    • @dirtcykoz
      @dirtcykoz 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      or ADD, even social anxiety.
      hehe.. i got both, ;-;

  • @askmeanything2239
    @askmeanything2239 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow nice work bright side

  • @xiomaragarcia2287
    @xiomaragarcia2287 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love your videosss❤❤❤❤❤

  • @bruhchild8159
    @bruhchild8159 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have Asperger's and you guys help me a lot understanding humans.thnks nice Chennel by the way.

  • @marcusdonelson8888
    @marcusdonelson8888 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I think it's important to try and look past people's personalities.

  • @graceg8824
    @graceg8824 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    The best part about this video is that classical violin in the background
    Viva la violín!!!

  • @therantchannel7412
    @therantchannel7412 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    6:55 😂 one day you will become an idol

  • @ericgreen4610
    @ericgreen4610 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    It depends on the person who you are talking to. Usually when someone is talking or sharing something with me I act very attentive just to understand what that person is saying. I make various faces based on the topics and subject matter during the conversation. Most times I either squint or raise an eyebrow.

  • @HeofonumArt
    @HeofonumArt 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    This music..starting somewhere from 4 : 44... can anyone tell me the name/ title so I can find it? Thank you

  • @senio3489
    @senio3489 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I've been doing this since I was five picking people apart

  • @emmie6896
    @emmie6896 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Life hacks!!! Without this I was like is she lying is he lying? But now I know!!! This helped me soo much!!
    Who agrees?!?!😘😍😘😍
    I'm going to share this right now!!!😂😂😂😂😂

  • @estoyl0ca
    @estoyl0ca 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Thx

    • @Alina-cg8fv
      @Alina-cg8fv 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Natalie Matos lol Cuba

  • @TheStacyFosterChannel
    @TheStacyFosterChannel 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Awesome!

  • @jevan027
    @jevan027 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    People that dress comfortable should be revisited. There were some hard labels assigned to the comfy class.

  • @torglesnarfprime
    @torglesnarfprime 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    what if you like someone so much you're afraid to talk to them?

    • @Wildcat8111
      @Wildcat8111 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ashley Pachkoski I know what that's like.

    • @alil3231
      @alil3231 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Exactly! I HATE that! I wish I could just "man up" but he is the same way.

    • @mylovesongs2429
      @mylovesongs2429 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      I have a coworker, female, who likes this other coworker, male, sooo much that she won't smile back when he smiles at her. When he tried to help her at work the other day, by carrying heavy things, she freaked out and walked so fast ahead of him, it was like, "Where's the fire?" She didn't thank him. He was like disturbed at her.

    • @blackswan4486
      @blackswan4486 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Or if someone likes you and acts like they dont because theyre afraid of relationships, or dont realize they like you and its subconscious

    • @barbarawalker7176
      @barbarawalker7176 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Countdown 5-1 then ask an open ended question. Or talk about something you both have in common.

  • @Turigemo
    @Turigemo 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm almost always with uncomfortable facial expression, not because I don't enjoy talking to certain people, but because I have terrible social skills and I'm struggling with what to say or do!

  • @ok-qr8ke
    @ok-qr8ke 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Teach us how to read a youtubers feeling via online

  • @clrought
    @clrought 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes people can hide their feelings &intention. However if their are it legendary. Sooner or later what they really want & feel will come out of you give it time

  • @noureenmasood
    @noureenmasood 6 ปีที่แล้ว +96

    Isn't this Amazing that all of them in the comment section are first😂😂

    • @rgrubbs_
      @rgrubbs_ 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😂😂

    • @ctln7524
      @ctln7524 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Just A Ravenclaw Hello fellow Ravenclaw

    • @rgrubbs_
      @rgrubbs_ 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      CTLN 752 Haiii

    • @danielmclaughlin3526
      @danielmclaughlin3526 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      VIDEOS TO WATCH

    • @ddm1912
      @ddm1912 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Just A Ravenclaw I'm a Slytherin

  • @krllt937
    @krllt937 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Obsessed!

  • @motivatedlemonadeRider33939
    @motivatedlemonadeRider33939 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Through Years of observing, only I knew the friends once I considered my best friend are fake

  • @countacymathematics
    @countacymathematics 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    >Bright Side; if you found this interesting, please share it with your friends.
    >My mind; lol, I want to know this trick so that I can use it on them

  • @lilm57
    @lilm57 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I was hoping this would help me read the thoughts of people I’m technically close to.. but alas.. I guess now I might be able to judge strangers better.. (since I don’t pass enough judgements on them unconsciously lol)

  • @envised8883
    @envised8883 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    These tips and methods seem great, however they are all time intensive and require periodic lengths of time with the subject. Are there any quicker tips for us ?

    • @envised8883
      @envised8883 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sarpant that's specific .

  • @amazingturtle5075
    @amazingturtle5075 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Knowledge on how to better hide true self and become more unreadable
    +100