Your strength is admirable. I lost my infant son unexpectedly shortly before birth, and lost my 18 year old daughter in a car accident. I have no other children. Never forget your babies. Blessings.💕🙏💕
A big hug . Pls don’t stop living your life. They will wait to meet you in the heaven... all the mothers that live this experience,deserve the heaven 🥰🥰🥰🥰
I was 3 weeks before my daughter was due and I was told she had it . They wanted to take her by c section that night but I waited till the next day . She was borne by c section . She lived 2 hours. I was only 18 . It’s now been 44 years , I still miss her and love her. Her name is April Ann . I hated God for years but later I know He never left me . I had three healthy children . God has blessed me beyound measure
I love that you say her name IS April Ann. My youngest son died suddenly and in later years people have asked me, "What was your son's name?" It has always annoyed me, I answer, "My son's name IS Marcus." The same is true of my sister who died in 1972 at the age of 20 (leaving two babies behind) - she is not a "was" but an "is" that has moved on.
I really like this interviewer .. she asks questions and lets this woman speak and doesn’t interrupt and hurry her .. such a sad sad story ... I can’t even imagine what this poor mom went through... the pain of losing two babies had to be crushingly heartbreaking... ....
@@meshellmyabell7466 I agree. The Markle interview felt like it was all about me, me, me. There was a lot of blame and self-pity. These two ladies shone a light on incredible suffering but also magnificent insight. The mom has a great story to tell, but the interviewer was instrumental in teasing it out.
One day while in nursing school, I was doing my clinical studies in labor & delivery when our teacher told us a baby with anencephaly was just delivered & had died & asked if we wanted to see a child with anencephaly. Curious, all 8 students said yes. The 8 of us stood before this baby boy who laid naked on a cold metal table. Several students made horrible remarks about him. One student got mad that the teacher would show us this "monster." As I stood and stared at him and said, "I think he's a beautiful boy." The students were repelled by my statement. They couldn't see him as a person, only as a thing with anencephaly. Every life is precious!
So one got mad because they where shown this "monster" when everyone had been asked if they wanted to see? The teacher should immidiatly told these nasty students that no matter how they feel seeing the baby to respect the dead and that the baby had people who loved and wanted him and are grieving.
@@teijaflink2226 I agree. Unfortunately, the teacher said nothing. These days so many women have little compassion for babies as it's so common to abort them.
@@Angel_Billy4-30-23 thank you for your reply. Their day is always hard, but I go to their memorial site at the cemetery and place pinwheels or flowers every Spring. I go as much as I can during the year also.
I lost two in the second trimester with two different pregnancies. A boy named Tyler, and a girl we named Lindsay. Both of them would be in their late twenties today. Although we really loved those lost babies, our love is not perfect or pure. The silver lining is that they know nothing but pure and perfect love from the Heavenly Father. You’re right, we will meet them one day in heaven. I’m sorry for you loss. Blessings to you!🥰
That’s so beautiful and so true . I do believe she has a very strong spiritual walk .. In trauma people can make choices they regret later . Her strength and resolve brought comfort . The thought of any baby going through the horrific procedure of abortion( literally torn apart )is incomprehensible . Being in the loving arms is incredible
But the reality is far from that . Sick babies are put on a ventilator , given tests, and undergo medical procedures. If you want your baby to die in your arms painlessly, and peacefully, then , deliver your baby very early by medical inducement. It’s heartbreaking but you can cuddle and love your baby right up to the end without medical intervention to squeeze another hour out of its life, which everyone really knows is only prolonging the agony.
My daughter was born prematurely when I was 30 weeks pregnant in 1996. She had deformed lungs and heart. My doctor told me when I came in that because of this they belived that I was having a very late miscarrige. I couldnt understand that because her heart was still beating but my doctor said that even if it was beating it wasnt beating the way it should and it could stop beating at any moment. He said that she might survive the delivery but even then she would probably die within minutes. But my babygirl with deformed lungs, a brokeb heart and mild brain damage wouldnt have it. She stayed with me for 5 days before passing away. I think she knew I needed thoose days to be with her before saying goodbye.
My friend was born very premature. Her siblings didn't survive. Its very sad. But that one girl who survived is the greatest friend you could ask for. I believe her siblings watch over her. I'm so sorry for your loss, that child was a fighter.
My first child also had anencephaly. I've never met anyone personally that has gone thru this so I appreciate you telling everyone about your experience. It helps me more than I could ever say. Thank you so much. Rest in Heaven Kayla Elizabeth 11-27-01
I love the interviewer!! She speaks with so much serenity and compassion. She also showed that she read and understood her story but she was also not assuming things. The way she was asking questions gently made the person share her story openly. I'm not religious but I really enjoyed listening to their interaction and the story was so intense yet hopeful. Shes one strong momma and full of love and wisdom. It must have taken so much to go thru all this twice yet she did it with grace!!!
💔 I was told the same thing 42 years ago, 2 days before my daughter 💖 was born. She not only lived through birth, she blessed our lives with 12 years of PURE joy‼️
@@nonirosie It's very possible she has the same condition. There's a baby named Sebastian that has the same condition and he is 6 now. He is on a ventilator and can't do anything on his own, but he's still alive.
What cruel thing to have to endure. There are so many people that mistreat and abuse their children when people like her would be such great parents. So heart breaking.
Amen. Thankyou for stating the truth. I was writing the identical reply, until l saw yours! Mine was getting too wordy, as l am very tired! God bless. ❤🫂✝️@@ruthfreeman864
So you are saying every normal healthy birth is a miracle. The abnormal births are not miracles. So miracles are only for the accepted normal. Why? Are they both not just life happening?
@@toforgetisagem8145 if you have an abnormal child you pray for a miracle. It's only when you dont have a healthy baby you know what you're missing. I've met people who are a miracle just by surviving. And downs syndrome babies are often a blessing. Many types of miracles but everyone Hope's for a healthy baby, no?
@@lagatita1623Does everyone who prays get a miracle? Or do those whose babies die not pray hard enough? What distinguishes a miracle from life happening?
I found out that one of my fraternal twins had anencephaly when I was 14 weeks pregnant. I birthed them and my daughter lived for 8 hours after that. I donated her organs. Her twin has almost 9 years old now and only a year later I birthed another daughter. I know what she went through. I miss my baby every day but I don't regret what I did and I feel so blessed that I had the chance to meet her and hold her and treasured her for a little while.
Such an amazing gift to another family that you donated your daughter’s organs. You no doubt gave life to another child that would have otherwise died.
I remember my best friend doing that. A normal healthy baby, kicking and rolling like any normal baby. They didn't catch that the umbilical cord was wrapped around his neck until it was too late. I was heartbroken for her. She passed last year and is finally reunited with Bobby.
@@bearball49 How heartbreaking for her and of course for you. Losing your best friend yet having the grace and presence of mind to know that she would be reunited, makes you a hero in my eyes and ❤. Bless you Brenda.
I had 7 miscarriages before I was able to have my two sons, I grew up a lot during those miscarriages, I would not have been able to be the mother I have been without it
I also had 8 miscarriages before being wonderfully blessed with a healthy son and daughter 💕🙏 they are my life and I can't believe how our story turned out so happy when it easily might've been different. I'm glad you have your boys 💕
What beautiful comments from both of you. My friend just lost a baby at 30 weeks and it has been so hard to see her go through this, and to find the words to say. Mainly I just listen. Thank you for sharing ❤️
your babies... from conception... i believe are living souls... and no matter when death comes at such a young age... they are in heaven... save in the saviors arms.... i pray you are 'born again Christian' and you will spend eternity with a very large family
Your testimony is so strong . My son was diagnosed with lobar holoprosencephaly, and severe hydrocephalus. I was told he wasn’t suppose to make past his birth . I knew God didn’t make a mistake and felt privileged to be Matthew’s mom. He was such an active baby. I held on to the hope, that no matter what Matthew was going home , no matter what God chose for me . If his life brought someone to Christ then it wasn’t in vain. I was told the church has never prayed so hard before for anybody . It’s really a testament of your faith and makes you question many things, more than we could comprehend. It was our first baby after both me and my husband dedicated our lives to Christ, there was so many feelings . He was born 9/8, screaming, crying and moving . He was born at 32 weeks and 6 days . His diagnosis changed after his MRI being born, and he had shunt surgery. Today will mark almost two months being home . Don’t let go of your faith . I have a photo journey on my channel if anyone wants to look. Peace be with you . ❤
Oh you dear godly woman. What a testimony. What a blessing it was to listen to you even in the moments when the heartbreak of those times came through. May the Lord so bless you and keep you and your family.
Le vie di Dio non sono le nostre vie, i Suoi pensieri non sono i nostri pensieri. È facile dirlo , ma difficilissimo applicarlo Anche Gesù sulla Croce ha gridato Mio dio, mio Dio, perché mi hai abbandonato...
In 1979, I did not know my baby would die until the full term delivery and when they cut the cord, he passed. I got pregnant again and they wanted me to be tested and I refused and said I will just keep rolling with the pregnancy and expect the best. I had another son who was normal
This is heartbreaking. I'm over here crying just thinking of all the moms that went thru a loss of a child. My heart feels for you. I couldn't even imagine the pain you dealt with.
Lindsey you ask why this happened to you and your husband and my answer is: look around. How many families would have made your choice? God entrusted both of you with 2 gifts of perfectly short lives, because you would have given those two souls the opportunity to experience this. You will meet them again and have the opportunity to be parents for them too. Be greatly blessed
@@theeggtimertictic1136 I have zero doubt that the precious babies that are aborted are immediately carried to Heaven and are loved and cared for in ways that we cannot even fathom.
95% of parents who get this prenatal diagnosis terminate their pregnancies. These babies are deaf, blind & are never conscious & that’s a fact. The movements they make are simple involuntary reflexes coming from the brainstem. They feel nothing; think nothing. If a woman wants to carry the baby to full term that should be her choice but it doesn’t make her a hero. Women who terminate have absolutely nothing to feel guilty about. Projecting your own adult thinking onto an anencephalic baby seems to cause so much more pain than just accepting the truth. They’ll be whole in Heaven but there’s nothing for them here on Earth.
This young woman is precious and her Faith in Jesus is what gets her through. My son was born with medical problems that they couldn’t really explain. Then, 33 years later he got cancer and now it has spread to his lungs. I trust in God to see us through this every day. I relate to her and her pain and her joy. Bless you.
While this story is very sad there is beauty in her resilience and willingness to lean not to her own understanding but still trust in God. Many read about it but she is living out faith. May God continue to bless her and her family.
What a beautiful story! I love Lindsey's honesty, & how she recognizes God's sovereignty, testifies of His goodness, & senses His love! I listened to this in the midst of a cancer journey...God is with me in all the unknowns, & He is good, whatever the outcome!
You're such a faithful daughter of God! I have a similar story in that I lost a baby to Edwards Syndrome. We found out in the 4th month and he died in my womb 38 weeks gestation. I had to give birth to a dead baby. It was hard. I questioned God but knew He was the one who gave life and we weren't to take it. But to have this happen twice in a row !- I can't imagine! You were so strong! and you described your wrestling with God so well! Look at your family today! I give thanks to God! I have also adopted a Chinese boy after Nathaniel's death. After that God gave us 3 more boys so now I'm a proud mum of 4 healthy boys this side of heaven, and one waiting for me the other side. Encouragement to those who might be going through something similar. God will come through with you if you don't give up on Him. Run to Him and not away from Him. Blessings.
My granddaughter McKenna Dawn died from this condition 7/6/19. My youngest son and daughter in love were devastated. We all were. She is in heaven waiting on us. She was perfect in every way she just did not develop her skull. It is a heartbreaking condition.
@@kathybrem880 that’s extremely sad. Both her babies were people, and they got to spend hours with their mom and dad. Those babies probably felt so loved and safe during that time before their Father called them home. They certainly weren’t hopeless.
I cried after watching this testimony. I suffered two miscarriages: one around 20 weeks. God has blessed me with two daughters today, but I still miss the others. This woman is an inspiration and those children deserved to be born, even if only to live for a few hours. Every life is infinitely valuable.
My mother lost three babies before me and my two younger sisters. She mourned for them all her life. A wonderful mother who loved us so much. We miss her but my brothers are enjoying her company now!
@@zoe_dawg my brothers have a grave. My sister and I just cleaned off the graves and decorated for spring. Our brothers have a bunny and little cousin has a dinosaur.
After all her sadness and struggles with her first two, I’m so glad she still got to have children! Bless you! I couldn’t have mentally endured what you did!
@@animeaunty agreed.... Too much agricultural farming and poisoning of the very earth that grows our crops... What did people expect.... Sadly, unless we grow our own veg and meat, we cannot control this part of life.... Buying organic may help I guess if u can afford it ....
I am crying , this is so heartbreaking. You are such a strong woman. Those precious babies are waiting for you in Heaven and they are happy and healthy
Those precious daughters will have each other in heaven and they will be there waiting to greet you at heavens door on that glorious day when the Lord returns to bring us home! God bless you woman of God for your great courage, wisdom and strength! may the Lord bless you with many beautiful children here in this life!
God bless you all that have tasted death and returned. God bless you all that are just hanging on by a thread. God bless you all that have gotten so used to pain that life without it seems odd. God bless you all that have gotten so close to ending your life but chose the pain of living instead. God bless you all that willingly give. God bless you all that smile back at strangers. God bless you all that will take time out of your lives to enrich somebody else's. God bless you ALL!
I read a book by one of my favorite authors who had a daughter born with anencephaly. She defied a lot of odds. She smiled, gave hugs, and loved her siblings and parents. She survived for 7 years. They felt she was an angel in their home.
Last year I had a baby with anencephaly , got diagnosed at 20 weeks.. I too loved watching my baby through ultrasounds and regret terminating my pregnancy .. there’s no “easy” way to handle the situation but I’m so glad to overcome it and hope anyone currently going through it heals, mentally , as well.
Please don't feel guilty about choosing to terminate, I'm sure you didn't do it lightly. I have never had a termination but I have never been in the situation where I needed to make that decision. I respect your decision and it's nobody else's business but yours so don't let anyone make you feel bad. In Northern Ireland we don't have the right to terminate in our own country and women have go on airplane or boats to England, making it even more difficult as it already is. Take care and l hope you go on to have healthy babies.
My daughter was born with Cornelia De Lange syndrome. She is 37 years old. She is on life support, in a coma, with no hope of recovery. A week ago, she was fine. She had a major heart attack and stopped breathing for 10 minutes. I have to decide what to do. I truly don't know how. I wholly believe in God, but..right now I am scared, heartbroken, Angry ..all of those emotions. All I can do is pray. I just want my little girl back. God bless this woman and her husband and her beautiful girls.❤
Dear @jewelhaines8842, my heart breaks to hear about what you’re going through. It’s clear how much love you have for your daughter. In these moments, when words fall short, we hold onto the truth that God is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit (Psalm 34:18). I pray for peace in your heart, and for wisdom in the decisions you face. It’s okay to feel scared and angry; these are natural responses to the pain you’re enduring. Cling to your faith, and remember that you’re never alone. God is with you, and so are we. If you need someone to talk to, don’t hesitate to reach out to our toll-free prayer line at 1-866-273-4444.
My heart. I couldn’t imagine the pain this mama and daddy feels. I’m so happy she decided to not abort but if she did, I wouldn’t blame her. I love that she was blessed with two living children. I wish her and her family didn’t have to go through that kind of pain. No one deserves that kind of pain.
Oh my😢 that’s a strong foundation in Jesus. I lost one baby by miscarriage I can’t imagine looking my baby in the eyes, before saying goodbye.. watching them breathe, & struggle, knowing loss was coming 🥴 That’s a whole new strength
BUT ... choosing not to meet the life God gave you... no matter how brief... to hold... to kiss... to say goodbye... i will see you soon again...i have 2 miscarriages...and a abortion... i struggles with it for years... i cried at night wanting to hold my child...took years and meeting Jesus as my savior to know He forgave me and more years to forgive myself.... i will see him/her again... i will meet them in heaven... cant wait
Bless her🙏 I lost my first child to anencephaly and it broke me. But-there’s that word-but, it was my beginning in truly seeking God and Jesus for the first time in my life and I see now God had a purpose in putting me through that loss and pain and questioning and I know I’ll see my beautiful son again in heaven one day with my savior, Jesus💗 Thank you for sharing her and her daughters’ story💗
As heartbreaking as your testimony is it's that much more an encouragement and it speaks volumes in the life of a believer. We don't get to make the decision and I'm glad you decided to accept God's calling to be a good steward of the life you were interested with.
Honestly this is sad, but there are already too many kids that need a home. I wish people were more open to adopting and not just adopting a baby or infant but older kids who have no one no guidance or anyone to look up to before they are just tossed into the real world to not succeed like they should be.
Not everyone can afford adopting a child :( . I think theres a lot of people Open to adopt but this country wants way too much from people who want to become parents
It’s not easy to result to abortions. Once you get that motherly bond with the baby in your womb, you want to continue with the birth no matter what. Kudos to you and your husband for having Sophie for ten hours. Don’t give up on God, he’s always with you. Stay blessed 🧐🥺🙏🏾🙏🏾
I don't judge what anyone does. If a woman believes her fetus is suffering, aborting it may be the best thing. Contrastly, If she thinks her fetus would be safer in her womb she will carry full term. Both scenarios are emotionally draining.
It is much-less traumatic to abort when one realises exactly what these horrifying conditions entail. Her babies had no brains. They were aware of nothing. There was zero chance they’d survive. She was older and risked her own life and health to carry two non-viable fetuses. This is no hero.
i lost a daughter and then had a miscarriage on attempt two. i now have healthy twins and just got surprised by a baby on the way. ❤️ for some ppl the right choice is to terminate and that’s ok too because that is their journey and story.
We are all different, I couldn’t do it. Not that I couldn’t go through carrying the child, I couldn’t bear the thought of once the child was born it suffering for any amount of time until it passed. I couldn’t bear that.
I ofcourse don't know but the death process is going to happen either naturally or forced through abortion, I'm sure no one knows which is easier and I imagine they had options if the baby seemed uncomfortable to ease any pain just as in all end of life care in the United States.
@@jblocker01 Just because someone has not had the experience of this sort of choice, does not mean that they can not say much. I was in a similar situation with my son while expecting him. They found growths on his brain. They gave us all sorts of scenerios until they got to the worst case one. My own doctor said if things looked to be very bad, I would have the choice to end the pregnancy. I never would have been able to do that. I decided to carry through no matter that outcome. I give thanks everday now, my son did turn out to be fine. But it is just the thought of this situation that makes people think what would they do? I could never abort any child I might have. Its against my beliefs. Not when there is the possible chance of even a bit of time like this mother had. And you also have to think about the rest of the family. While this mom did not already have children, I did and my daughter was waiting with high expectations for a baby sister. I could not imagine telling her that I allowed them to take her brother because of a possible health issue we were not really sure of. I knew in my heart if I had and he would have been fine, she would maybe hate me the rest of my life. Just The Real Tea, I do not know your experiences with this but there is so much more going on that just the decision of aborting the baby or not. But each person does have their own thoughts on this and choices to make.
@@evelynwitt2529 You proved the exact point that I’m trying to make Evelyn. Every situation is different, I just find it interesting that people always have an opinion on other peoples choices and decisions but weren’t in that situation. Clearly the mother and her husband were hoping for the best case scenario, sadly that wasn’t their reality. They still took the shot and held on to hope which is what I find admirable.
I’ve been blessed with 3 lovely daughters, five grands. They were all born healthy. I worried myself sick with each pregnancy at all the things that could go wrong. This dear woman is such a beacon of faith and hope! Jesus, please bless her beyond measure - what a testimony! ❤🙏🏼
This is so heartbreaking 💔 I'm glad she has been able to make peace with what has happened and was able to celebrate the time she had with her babies. There's a baby in Japan right now that is living without most of his skull. He is about 8 months old right now. He has a lot of special needs, but is still fighting!
Would be nice to have had the Father’s perspective included also. This woman’s faith is amazing. Wow. Prayers for continued love and comfort from the Heavenly Father. 💙😇
Yes, Daddies have feelings too. Then the father has to deal with the loss but also help the mother through, It is like carrying two people on your back but you have your own feelings and who is going to care for dad if he is taking care of everybody else. Men Love and Hurt just as hard, if not the hardest.
@@susieballard4957 pretty sure the mother is helping the father through it, too. Her way of dealing with it is public. Apparently his is private. But that doesn’t mean his feelings aren't being tended to.
I had an anencephaly baby girl we named Sarah 50 years ago. As she was born she was whisked away. In those days I was not allowed to see her and my heart still breaks that I never even got to hold her. I feel for every couple who lose a baby it's the worst thing ever. 😢😢
Those of us who chose to abort rather than bring a child with severe disabilities into this world are deserving of praise for a very difficult decision. Hubby is a special needs teacher and has seen his fair share of children who are totally dependent upon others for absolutely everything. What kind of life are they living, and what if the parents both die, as happened with one of his students. The child was placed in a mediocre care home and passed two years later from abscess infections.
Your message speaks to the depth of your experience and the difficult decisions that have weighed on your heart. It is evident that you and your husband, who has such an important role in special needs education, have witnessed firsthand the challenges and dependencies that can come with severe disabilities. In these delicate situations, the choices made are often done so with heavy hearts and after much contemplation. It’s a time when compassion and empathy are needed most. While we hold to the sanctity of life, we also extend grace and understanding to those who are facing such personal and complex decisions. The Bible teaches us that every life has purpose and that God’s love is unfathomable (Psalm 139:16). But it also teaches us to be kind and compassionate to one another (Ephesians 4:32). No matter where we stand on these issues, it’s important to support each other in love and respect, as each person’s journey is unique. If you’re seeking a space to talk, reflect, or find comfort, remember that we’re here to listen and walk with you through life’s challenges.
A heart transforming testimony! The Lord's works are marvelous and He only knows how He brings into existence those that shall exist for His Glory and these parents are a true example of His instruments of honor. 💜
Some peoples genetics are sketchy. It's very sad when one has to experience these events. My response is to respond as she did, take in a child that can blossom from your care. We now see the beautiful blessings that have come to pass.
Those 2 little girls are waiting for you inside Heavens Gate. You can count on seeing them again, perfect and whole, and very happy. They are watching over you everyday. God Blesses us so much. You my friend were chosen to bring these 2 little girls to term regardless of their physical condition. CHOSEN, God will reward you!!
I think that it’s beautiful that this momma made this choice and was allowed to choose for her baby and herself. I’m also hopeful that others would recognize that there are other parents that may choose another course of action for what is best for them personally, their futures, and possibly even the ability to assure that those parents would have an opportunity to have a viable child. God Bless you, and remember that our choice is personal….. and it should be
I really felt the love of Christ radiating from this women. I could see the depth in her eyes as she was talking. What a blessing this video has been to me. Thank you.
Thank you for sharing your daughters stories with us. Lots of judgement in the comments, some people don’t understand. Thank you for choosing adoption to build upon your family.
My Mother's first baby, a girl was born with this. Her name was Erin. She lived for 3 hrs. As the Doctor told my Mom. He would nothing to hurt her, but nothing to help her.
Precious little girls. ❤️ Many years ago I was a paediatric nurse. We had a darling little baby girl named Mandy who was born with anencephaly, and her Mum was not able to cope with caring for her, so we cared for her in the children's ward. We nurses fed her and bathed her, cuddled her and loved her so much! She lived for ten days before she passed peacefully. ❤️
What an amazing brave strong LOVING woman!!! She loves her children so much she was willing to suffer personal heartache to prevent them from being torn apart in her womb.😭Unbelievable strength
Her strength to carry both her babies to full term is remarkable. Her story is a sacrifice and obedience to God by not having an abortion. Abortion is treated like birth control.
I would be walking around with intense depression after such experience, but thank God for the love and support that surrroinded them then and now. This woman's faith speaks volumes. God bless her forever.
I don’t understand bringing a baby into the world who is just going to suffer for a few hours. I feel like it was more for the parents just wanting to be able to hold them for a little while and take pics, etc. It’s not fair to the baby. It’s just my opinion so I won’t be responding to negative comments.
This is strength beyond wisdom..... strength even beyond hope.... STRENGTH in the Love of GOD only. Period. This is a woman who has proven truth in HIM. May she find rest and joy with all of her children in eternity.
@@lynnmartinez800 as God is long suffering with us.... he seeks us always to come to faith in what His Son Jesus has done for us on the cross...and for most of us... He (through the Holy Spirit) will seek us till our dying breath...His word says... that He (Jesus) came that no man should perish... but we must choose Jesus and the gift of salvation...God will not drag you kicking & screaming into a place you dont want to be... we choose... heaven or hell... but God is calling us to faith every day....today is the day of salvation... we are not sure of tomorrow...today may be your day...
Hi Carol, in the context of an anencephaly diagnosis, where a baby is expected to live only a few hours after birth, the decision to carry the pregnancy to term and allow for a natural passing can be incredibly heart-wrenching. For many Christians who face this difficult situation, their decision is deeply rooted in their faith and belief in the sanctity of life. They may view every moment of life, no matter how brief, as valuable and meaningful, believing that each life, including one that is profoundly short and lived entirely within the womb or in a brief time after birth, has purpose and dignity. This perspective is often accompanied by a belief that love, care, and respect should be extended to all lives, including those that are known to be fleeting. The choice to allow a child with anencephaly to live naturally until death is seen by some as a way to affirm the child's inherent worth and to embrace fully the brief time they have with their child, however painful it might be. In these moments, families often turn to their faith for comfort and strength, finding solace in scriptures that speak to God's love and care for all His creation, and the hope of eternal life. Verses such as Psalm 34:18, "The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit," can offer comfort, reminding them that they are not alone in their sorrow. Supporting the mother and family in these situations means offering compassionate care, understanding, and respecting their decision. It's about providing a space where their grief and love can be expressed fully, and where they can say goodbye to their child in a way that is meaningful to them.
God didn’t choose you as parents of this special baby. These things just happen. You are so faithful, why wouldn’t he choose a healthy baby for you? It would be cruel to do otherwise.
It's natural to question why difficult things happen, especially when they seem to contradict our understanding of a loving and powerful God. When faced with the pain of a situation like having a baby with health issues, it's common to wonder why God would allow such a thing, especially for faithful believers. Christianity teaches that we live in a world affected by sin, which leads to suffering, disease, and death-not as direct punishment or choices made by God, but as part of the brokenness of the world. God's ways and reasons often go beyond our understanding, and His plans are not always clear to us. However, Christianity also teaches that God is compassionate and loving, walking with us through our struggles rather than causing them. The Bible offers comfort in knowing that God is close to the brokenhearted (Psalm 34:18) and works in all situations for the good of those who love Him (Romans 8:28), even when it's hard for us to see or understand how. In the midst of pain and questioning, the Christian faith holds onto the hope that God's love and presence provide strength and comfort. It encourages believers to trust in God's overarching goodness, even when faced with challenging circumstances, and to lean on their faith community for support and understanding.
Just seeing this story now. I thank God that You didn’t turn away from Him through this greatest pain you endured. One I cannot even fathom. I will pray the Lord will continue to heal your hearts and I know you will meet and love your first two daughters one day in Heaven. God bless you and your husband….He will use your story.❤❤❤. My heart aches for you so much hearing all you went through
Your strength is admirable. I lost my infant son unexpectedly shortly before birth, and lost my 18 year old daughter in a car accident. I have no other children. Never forget your babies. Blessings.💕🙏💕
I am so sorry :(
A big hug . Pls don’t stop living your life. They will wait to meet you in the heaven... all the mothers that live this experience,deserve the heaven 🥰🥰🥰🥰
Your a strong momma ! Your babies will be with you forever, never forget that ❤️❤️
Dear i request you to read Bhagwat Geeta... You will find peace nd purpose of your life.
The person above me meant The Bhagavad Gita and I second that message! Everybody should read it.
I was 3 weeks before my daughter was due and I was told she had it . They wanted to take her by c section that night but I waited till the next day . She was borne by c section . She lived 2 hours. I was only 18 . It’s now been 44 years , I still miss her and love her. Her name is April Ann . I hated God for years but later I know He never left me . I had three healthy children . God has blessed me beyound measure
Oh, Pamela - understand your April Ann has touched my heart today...❤️
I love that you say her name IS April Ann. My youngest son died suddenly and in later years people have asked me, "What was your son's name?" It has always annoyed me, I answer, "My son's name IS Marcus." The same is true of my sister who died in 1972 at the age of 20 (leaving two babies behind) - she is not a "was" but an "is" that has moved on.
I love this 😞💜
You touched me.
What a beautiful name.
I really like this interviewer .. she asks questions and lets this woman speak and doesn’t interrupt and hurry her .. such a sad sad story ... I can’t even imagine what this poor mom went through... the pain of losing two babies had to be crushingly heartbreaking... ....
after watching oprah & meghan interview... this is so much more refreshing. so much grace in these two women. I am so impressed.
Yes, the interveiwer was very empathetic... she teared up because her soul is Love.
This was tough but it was handled so gracefully by both.
@@meshellmyabell7466 I agree. The Markle interview felt like it was all about me, me, me. There was a lot of blame and self-pity. These two ladies shone a light on incredible suffering but also magnificent insight. The mom has a great story to tell, but the interviewer was instrumental in teasing it out.
I agree!!! So empathetic and attentive not asking generic bull
Oprah needs to take notes lol
One day while in nursing school, I was doing my clinical studies in labor & delivery when our teacher told us a baby with anencephaly was just delivered & had died & asked if we wanted to see a child with anencephaly. Curious, all 8 students said yes. The 8 of us stood before this baby boy who laid naked on a cold metal table. Several students made horrible remarks about him. One student got mad that the teacher would show us this "monster." As I stood and stared at him and said, "I think he's a beautiful boy." The students were repelled by my statement. They couldn't see him as a person, only as a thing with anencephaly. Every life is precious!
They were the monster in the room. Sadly a lot of 'care' givers are.
You have blessed eyes to see what the depraved cannot see
You are exactly what a nurse should be.... kind, compassionate and a true healer. Thank you 🙏
So one got mad because they where shown this "monster" when everyone had been asked if they wanted to see? The teacher should immidiatly told these nasty students that no matter how they feel seeing the baby to respect the dead and that the baby had people who loved and wanted him and are grieving.
@@teijaflink2226 I agree. Unfortunately, the teacher said nothing. These days so many women have little compassion for babies as it's so common to abort them.
I lost my twins today 22 years ago in miscarriage. Zephyr and Gabriel are in Heaven and I know I will one day meet them.
Wow, I'm so sorry to hear that. I hope you're doing well and wish you the best.
@@Angel_Billy4-30-23 thank you for your reply. Their day is always hard, but I go to their memorial site at the cemetery and place pinwheels or flowers every Spring. I go as much as I can during the year also.
I lost two in the second trimester with two different pregnancies. A boy named Tyler, and a girl we named Lindsay. Both of them would be in their late twenties today. Although we really loved those lost babies, our love is not perfect or pure. The silver lining is that they know nothing but pure and perfect love from the Heavenly Father. You’re right, we will meet them one day in heaven. I’m sorry for you loss. Blessings to you!🥰
(Hugs)
I love those names. They seem angelic. So sorry for your loss and pain. I'm CERTAIN your babies will greet you when you get there🙏🙏.
Dying in the loving arms of parents, being hugged and kissed goodbye. Your baby is truely deserving of this loving goodbye
That’s so beautiful and so true .
I do believe she has a very strong spiritual walk ..
In trauma people can make choices they regret later .
Her strength and resolve brought comfort .
The thought of any baby going through the horrific procedure of abortion( literally torn apart )is incomprehensible .
Being in the loving arms is incredible
Beautiful.
@@lindajakub624 yes!🕊💕🕊
But the reality is far from that . Sick babies are put on a ventilator , given tests, and undergo medical procedures. If you want your baby to die in your arms painlessly, and peacefully, then , deliver your baby very early by medical inducement. It’s heartbreaking but you can cuddle and love your baby right up to the end without medical intervention to squeeze another hour out of its life, which everyone really knows is only prolonging the agony.
@@Lakeslover1 don’t be so negative in an already sad situation it’s uncalled for
My daughter was born prematurely when I was 30 weeks pregnant in 1996. She had deformed lungs and heart. My doctor told me when I came in that because of this they belived that I was having a very late miscarrige. I couldnt understand that because her heart was still beating but my doctor said that even if it was beating it wasnt beating the way it should and it could stop beating at any moment. He said that she might survive the delivery but even then she would probably die within minutes. But my babygirl with deformed lungs, a brokeb heart and mild brain damage wouldnt have it. She stayed with me for 5 days before passing away. I think she knew I needed thoose days to be with her before saying goodbye.
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Tragic yet beautiful at the same time.
Thank you for sharing your pain.
Probably lessened by time but never forgotten.
All my ❤
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My friend was born very premature. Her siblings didn't survive. Its very sad. But that one girl who survived is the greatest friend you could ask for. I believe her siblings watch over her. I'm so sorry for your loss, that child was a fighter.
My first child also had anencephaly. I've never met anyone personally that has gone thru this so I appreciate you telling everyone about your experience. It helps me more than I could ever say. Thank you so much.
Rest in Heaven Kayla Elizabeth 11-27-01
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Im going through this now. Im 28 weeks. I have good days and bad days.
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I love the interviewer!! She speaks with so much serenity and compassion. She also showed that she read and understood her story but she was also not assuming things. The way she was asking questions gently made the person share her story openly. I'm not religious but I really enjoyed listening to their interaction and the story was so intense yet hopeful. Shes one strong momma and full of love and wisdom. It must have taken so much to go thru all this twice yet she did it with grace!!!
She also is empathetic ❤️❤️
We have relationship with Jesus, He is not religion.
💔 I was told the same thing 42 years ago, 2 days before my daughter 💖 was born. She not only lived through birth, she blessed our lives with 12 years of PURE joy‼️
The same condition?
That is wonderful
@@nonirosie It's very possible she has the same condition. There's a baby named Sebastian that has the same condition and he is 6 now. He is on a ventilator and can't do anything on his own, but he's still alive.
@@healedbyhiswounds without medical intervention he would not be
@nako I believe that it's wrong too. I chose not to carry my child with the same condition.
What cruel thing to have to endure. There are so many people that mistreat and abuse their children when people like her would be such great parents. So heart breaking.
Ur mom
not cruel... but hard... but faith brings us through it... her babies are waiting for her in heaven....as i breath... i believe it
Amen. Thankyou for stating the truth. I was writing the identical reply, until l saw yours! Mine was getting too wordy, as l am very tired! God bless. ❤🫂✝️@@ruthfreeman864
My sympathy for anyone dealing with this. Every normal healthy birth is a miracle.
Yes ma’am. Millions of things can go wrong. We need to be grateful when things go right. 😇
Amen 🙏
So you are saying every normal healthy birth is a miracle. The abnormal births are not miracles. So miracles are only for the accepted normal. Why? Are they both not just life happening?
@@toforgetisagem8145 if you have an abnormal child you pray for a miracle. It's only when you dont have a healthy baby you know what you're missing. I've met people who are a miracle just by surviving. And downs syndrome babies are often a blessing. Many types of miracles but everyone Hope's for a healthy baby, no?
@@lagatita1623Does everyone who prays get a miracle? Or do those whose babies die not pray hard enough? What distinguishes a miracle from life happening?
This woman has such a tender, living faith. What a testimony of love, humility and faith. Much love 🙏❤🙏
Amen
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I found out that one of my fraternal twins had anencephaly when I was 14 weeks pregnant. I birthed them and my daughter lived for 8 hours after that. I donated her organs. Her twin has almost 9 years old now and only a year later I birthed another daughter. I know what she went through. I miss my baby every day but I don't regret what I did and I feel so blessed that I had the chance to meet her and hold her and treasured her for a little while.
Such an amazing gift to another family that you donated your daughter’s organs. You no doubt gave life to another child that would have otherwise died.
I couldn’t imagine going to give birth at the hospital and not packing your babies bag to come home 😢 so heartbreaking
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I remember my best friend doing that. A normal healthy baby, kicking and rolling like any normal baby. They didn't catch that the umbilical cord was wrapped around his neck until it was too late. I was heartbroken for her. She passed last year and is finally reunited with Bobby.
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How heartbreaking for her and of course for you.
Losing your best friend yet having the grace and presence of mind to know that she would be reunited, makes you a hero in my eyes and ❤.
Bless you Brenda.
@@bearball49 aww 😢
It hurts.
I had 7 miscarriages before I was able to have my two sons, I grew up a lot during those miscarriages, I would not have been able to be the mother I have been without it
I also had 8 miscarriages before being wonderfully blessed with a healthy son and daughter 💕🙏 they are my life and I can't believe how our story turned out so happy when it easily might've been different. I'm glad you have your boys 💕
What beautiful comments from both of you. My friend just lost a baby at 30 weeks and it has been so hard to see her go through this, and to find the words to say. Mainly I just listen. Thank you for sharing ❤️
@@DandyBeingTandi I think that’s probably what she needs. ❤️
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your babies... from conception... i believe are living souls... and no matter when death comes at such a young age... they are in heaven... save in the saviors arms.... i pray you are 'born again Christian' and you will spend eternity with a very large family
Your testimony is so strong . My son was diagnosed with lobar holoprosencephaly, and severe hydrocephalus. I was told he wasn’t suppose to make past his birth . I knew God didn’t make a mistake and felt privileged to be Matthew’s mom. He was such an active baby. I held on to the hope, that no matter what Matthew was going home , no matter what God chose for me . If his life brought someone to Christ then it wasn’t in vain. I was told the church has never prayed so hard before for anybody . It’s really a testament of your faith and makes you question many things, more than we could comprehend. It was our first baby after both me and my husband dedicated our lives to Christ, there was so many feelings .
He was born 9/8, screaming, crying and moving .
He was born at 32 weeks and 6 days .
His diagnosis changed after his MRI being born, and he had shunt surgery.
Today will mark almost two months being home .
Don’t let go of your faith .
I have a photo journey on my channel if anyone wants to look.
Peace be with you . ❤
He's so cute!!!
@@PrincessDie187 thank you . All babies are so precious. I’m thankful to be his mommy. He is such a handsome boy. ❤️
@michellekrieger2057 he certainly is
Oh you dear godly woman. What a testimony. What a blessing it was to listen to you even in the moments when the heartbreak of those times came through. May the Lord so bless you and keep you and your family.
“She was entrusted to us...” Beautiful words!
Yes!💗
Exactly..so it's truly sad for many other could be mothers,who abuse that,by killing their child..
Amen!
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Women who have abortions don't call it killing a baby.
They call it saving a life.
This abortion issue is gonna go on til Jesus comes back.
@@eyemnew2991 lol,doesn't matter What delusion they believe in trying to justify killing the babie's life by force..it's still MURDER..🤷🏻♀️
I love the fact that you remain faithful to God and trusting Him even when you didn''t understand
You mean you love the fact that she stayed stupid and delusional? That's sick .
Le vie di Dio non sono le nostre vie, i Suoi pensieri non sono i nostri pensieri.
È facile dirlo , ma difficilissimo applicarlo
Anche Gesù sulla Croce ha gridato
Mio dio, mio Dio, perché mi hai abbandonato...
In 1979, I did not know my baby would die until the full term delivery and when they cut the cord, he passed. I got pregnant again and they wanted me to be tested and I refused and said I will just keep rolling with the pregnancy and expect the best. I had another son who was normal
How beautiful!! :) Such a strong woman thank you for telling us your story
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What a strong, amazing and compassionate woman. My heart breaks for her.
This is heartbreaking. I'm over here crying just thinking of all the moms that went thru a loss of a child. My heart feels for you. I couldn't even imagine the pain you dealt with.
A great interviewer, not bold or brash or Oprah.
To funny!!!!
I like Oprah!! 😁
@@crg5460Oprah does wonderful interviews,and she's very compassionate
Lindsey you ask why this happened to you and your husband and my answer is: look around. How many families would have made your choice? God entrusted both of you with 2 gifts of perfectly short lives, because you would have given those two souls the opportunity to experience this. You will meet them again and have the opportunity to be parents for them too.
Be greatly blessed
Im sure if mothers abort their babies ... the babies would end up in Heaven too. It wouldn't be fair if they didn't!
@@theeggtimertictic1136 I have zero doubt that the precious babies that are aborted are immediately carried to Heaven and are loved and cared for in ways that we cannot even fathom.
95% of parents who get this prenatal diagnosis terminate their pregnancies. These babies are deaf, blind & are never conscious & that’s a fact. The movements they make are simple involuntary reflexes coming from the brainstem. They feel nothing; think nothing. If a woman wants to carry the baby to full term that should be her choice but it doesn’t make her a hero. Women who terminate have absolutely nothing to feel guilty about. Projecting your own adult thinking onto an anencephalic baby seems to cause so much more pain than just accepting the truth. They’ll be whole in Heaven but there’s nothing for them here on Earth.
This young woman is precious and her Faith in Jesus is what gets her through. My son was born with medical problems that they couldn’t really explain. Then, 33 years later he got cancer and now it has spread to his lungs. I trust in God to see us through this every day.
I relate to her and her pain and her joy. Bless you.
I haven’t finished the video yet but her first born only 10 hours was such A BEAUTIFUL BABY 😍😍🥰🥰 and the woman is such A BEAUTIFUL SOUL
While this story is very sad there is beauty in her resilience and willingness to lean not to her own understanding but still trust in God. Many read about it but she is living out faith. May God continue to bless her and her family.
What a beautiful story! I love Lindsey's honesty, & how she recognizes God's sovereignty, testifies of His goodness, & senses His love! I listened to this in the midst of a cancer journey...God is with me in all the unknowns, & He is good, whatever the outcome!
Thanks for putting my thoughts into words! Blessings for you....🕯✝️🙏
Before I got to the end, I was thinking they would be great adoptive parents. And sure enough, they are! What a powerful testimony.
The reunion that awaits you in Heaven... The best is yet to come, and you'll never have to part again❤️
Amen
Amen
Amen! She felt her daughter had a right to live and I would, too!
Amen
Amen ✝️❤️🙏
You're such a faithful daughter of God! I have a similar story in that I lost a baby to Edwards Syndrome. We found out in the 4th month and he died in my womb 38 weeks gestation. I had to give birth to a dead baby. It was hard. I questioned God but knew He was the one who gave life and we weren't to take it. But to have this happen twice in a row !- I can't imagine! You were so strong! and you described your wrestling with God so well! Look at your family today! I give thanks to God! I have also adopted a Chinese boy after Nathaniel's death. After that God gave us 3 more boys so now I'm a proud mum of 4 healthy boys this side of heaven, and one waiting for me the other side. Encouragement to those who might be going through something similar. God will come through with you if you don't give up on Him. Run to Him and not away from Him. Blessings.
Amen I’m happy for you 🙏🏽❤️
Full of tears for this beautiful soul...she is so strong. I hope she stays beautiful and strong in Jesus´ name.
@Sonya Yesssss.. such a beautiful spirit Such a wonderful mother and such beautiful babies. ❤️❤️🥰💐
Took the words right out of my mouth ❤️❤️❤️
I love that we will have Eternity to enjoy the babies we have lost here on Earth, who have gone Home to Heaven too soon for us. ❤️
My granddaughter McKenna Dawn died from this condition 7/6/19. My youngest son and daughter in love were devastated. We all were. She is in heaven waiting on us. She was perfect in every way she just did not develop her skull. It is a heartbreaking condition.
"I would let God write her story" --- Perfect words and the perfect guide for all our lives.
Just a way to cope, I’d abort this hopeless pregnancy
@@kathybrem880 that’s extremely sad. Both her babies were people, and they got to spend hours with their mom and dad. Those babies probably felt so loved and safe during that time before their Father called them home. They certainly weren’t hopeless.
So this couple lost 2 babies back to back for same reason? Oh WOW I am in shock, I can't even imagine their pain...
That’s insane.
Who celebrates having a baby that has no brain?
I cried after watching this testimony. I suffered two miscarriages: one around 20 weeks. God has blessed me with two daughters today, but I still miss the others. This woman is an inspiration and those children deserved to be born, even if only to live for a few hours. Every life is infinitely valuable.
Count the others with that number for god has blessed U with those children as well x
My mother lost three babies before me and my two younger sisters. She mourned for them all her life. A wonderful mother who loved us so much. We miss her but my brothers are enjoying her company now!
Infinitely valuable.
Some people have given their dead babies graves. I imagine that might bring people closer to them
@@zoe_dawg my brothers have a grave. My sister and I just cleaned off the graves and decorated for spring. Our brothers have a bunny and little cousin has a dinosaur.
After all her sadness and struggles with her first two, I’m so glad she still got to have children! Bless you! I couldn’t have mentally endured what you did!
What’s sad is when people refuse to accept that some babies will just have genetic abnormalities and it’s nothing to do with God choosing or allowing.
Amen. Man is reaping what we have sown. Our very DNA is corrupted at this point....
Oh my gawd thank you for saying that it needed to be expressed
So true!
@@animeaunty agreed.... Too much agricultural farming and poisoning of the very earth that grows our crops... What did people expect.... Sadly, unless we grow our own veg and meat, we cannot control this part of life.... Buying organic may help I guess if u can afford it ....
@@ilovecreepyclowns this sounds like a genetic issue.
I am crying , this is so heartbreaking. You are such a strong woman. Those precious babies are waiting for you in Heaven and they are happy and healthy
Those precious daughters will have each other in heaven and they will be there waiting to greet you at heavens door on that glorious day when the Lord returns to bring us home! God bless you woman of God for your great courage, wisdom and strength! may the Lord bless you with many beautiful children here in this life!
Amen 💯 💖
These parents are incredible people, devoted to their children
they are normal, its those others who aren't
The Interviewer is excellent. Most interviewers are bad. But this one is very good.
Painful, gut wrenching stuff here. Thank God for giving “peace beyond understanding”!
God bless you all that have tasted death and returned. God bless you all that are just hanging on by a thread. God bless you all that have gotten so used to pain that life without it seems odd. God bless you all that have gotten so close to ending your life but chose the pain of living instead. God bless you all that willingly give. God bless you all that smile back at strangers. God bless you all that will take time out of your lives to enrich somebody else's. God bless you ALL!
Jesus Christ Richly Bless you as well
Godbless you too!
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Thank you, ❤️ I needed that blessing.
May He bless you too. Such a beautiful message
I read a book by one of my favorite authors who had a daughter born with anencephaly. She defied a lot of odds. She smiled, gave hugs, and loved her siblings and parents. She survived for 7 years. They felt she was an angel in their home.
I am so sorry for everyone here who has suffered loss. You have such strength and love. It is not for us earthly people to judge others.
You gave them as long of a life as you could. That's a mom.
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And DAD.
You are an amazing woman. Praise God for giving you the strength to get through these incredibly difficult times.
Last year I had a baby with anencephaly , got diagnosed at 20 weeks.. I too loved watching my baby through ultrasounds and regret terminating my pregnancy .. there’s no “easy” way to handle the situation but I’m so glad to overcome it and hope anyone currently going through it heals, mentally , as well.
Please don't feel guilty about choosing to terminate, I'm sure you didn't do it lightly. I have never had a termination but I have never been in the situation where I needed to make that decision. I respect your decision and it's nobody else's business but yours so don't let anyone make you feel bad. In Northern Ireland we don't have the right to terminate in our own country and women have go on airplane or boats to England, making it even more difficult as it already is. Take care and l hope you go on to have healthy babies.
@@kerryquinn7188 thanks for those kind words 💕
QueenOfTexasss your so brave beloved to even share your story and your baby's story too. Shalom Shalom
@@makebacunningham6795 thank you!
@@JustBeingShi I'm a dude so I can't understand what you felt but it must have been a very hard experience. Take care 🖤
My daughter was born with Cornelia De Lange syndrome. She is 37 years old. She is on life support, in a coma, with no hope of recovery. A week ago, she was fine. She had a major heart attack and stopped breathing for 10 minutes. I have to decide what to do. I truly don't know how. I wholly believe in God, but..right now I am scared, heartbroken, Angry ..all of those emotions. All I can do is pray. I just want my little girl back.
God bless this woman and her husband and her beautiful girls.❤
Dear @jewelhaines8842, my heart breaks to hear about what you’re going through. It’s clear how much love you have for your daughter. In these moments, when words fall short, we hold onto the truth that God is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit (Psalm 34:18). I pray for peace in your heart, and for wisdom in the decisions you face. It’s okay to feel scared and angry; these are natural responses to the pain you’re enduring. Cling to your faith, and remember that you’re never alone. God is with you, and so are we. If you need someone to talk to, don’t hesitate to reach out to our toll-free prayer line at 1-866-273-4444.
@@100huntley
Thank you so much 💓
How did it go? Are you ok? How is your daughter. God is Good. Death is but a translation.
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Hi..yes, I'm ok. Thank you for your kind words!! 🙏 I believe she's with God, and I will see her again.
I just want to say that right now right this moment I really needed to hear this. This story gave me peace in my heart in the middle of a battle.
I’ll pray to our father to give you strength. I’ll be thinking of you. Life can be so hard at times but God can see your pain.
duet 30:19 choose life... that you and your children may live...i PRAY YOU CHOSE LIFE
My heart. I couldn’t imagine the pain this mama and daddy feels. I’m so happy she decided to not abort but if she did, I wouldn’t blame her. I love that she was blessed with two living children. I wish her and her family didn’t have to go through that kind of pain. No one deserves that kind of pain.
Wow! FAITH, HOPE, AND LOVE! and the greatest of these is LOVE. What a testimony. I gotta pass this along.
My 12 year old daughters name is Briella! I'm so sorry for your losses. And what a strong woman you are.
Oh my😢 that’s a strong foundation in Jesus.
I lost one baby by miscarriage I can’t imagine looking my baby in the eyes, before saying goodbye.. watching them breathe, & struggle, knowing loss was coming 🥴
That’s a whole new strength
BUT ... choosing not to meet the life God gave you... no matter how brief... to hold... to kiss... to say goodbye... i will see you soon again...i have 2 miscarriages...and a abortion... i struggles with it for years... i cried at night wanting to hold my child...took years and meeting Jesus as my savior to know He forgave me and more years to forgive myself.... i will see him/her again... i will meet them in heaven... cant wait
Bless her🙏 I lost my first child to anencephaly and it broke me. But-there’s that word-but, it was my beginning in truly seeking God and Jesus for the first time in my life and I see now God had a purpose in putting me through that loss and pain and questioning and I know I’ll see my beautiful son again in heaven one day with my savior, Jesus💗
Thank you for sharing her and her daughters’ story💗
Try again...
Thank you for sharing your beautiful testimony. I’m glad I get to meet you one day, sister.
Tears are falling. Beautiful writing. Thank you.
Thank you for sharing that testimony, Sister.
💔😢.....
As heartbreaking as your testimony is it's that much more an encouragement and it speaks volumes in the life of a believer. We don't get to make the decision and I'm glad you decided to accept God's calling to be a good steward of the life you were interested with.
I can't imagine what you went through. Sending you lots of love from a distance.
Honestly this is sad, but there are already too many kids that need a home. I wish people were more open to adopting and not just adopting a baby or infant but older kids who have no one no guidance or anyone to look up to before they are just tossed into the real world to not succeed like they should be.
She did adopt if u watch till the end u will see the photo of her and her 2 living children one whom is African American.
Not everyone can afford adopting a child :( . I think theres a lot of people Open to adopt but this country wants way too much from people who want to become parents
Adoption doesn't always end up with a happy ending.
@@gabrielleperson4794Having a biological child doesn't always end up with a happy ending either.....
It’s not easy to result to abortions. Once you get that motherly bond with the baby in your womb, you want to continue with the birth no matter what. Kudos to you and your husband for having Sophie for ten hours. Don’t give up on God, he’s always with you. Stay blessed 🧐🥺🙏🏾🙏🏾
I don't judge what anyone does. If a woman believes her fetus is suffering, aborting it may be the best thing. Contrastly, If she thinks her fetus would be safer in her womb she will carry full term. Both scenarios are emotionally draining.
It is much-less traumatic to abort when one realises exactly what these horrifying conditions entail.
Her babies had no brains.
They were aware of nothing.
There was zero chance they’d survive.
She was older and risked her own life and health to carry two non-viable fetuses.
This is no hero.
i lost a daughter and then had a miscarriage on attempt two. i now have healthy twins and just got surprised by a baby on the way. ❤️ for some ppl the right choice is to terminate and that’s ok too because that is their journey and story.
What about the baby's journey and story?
Duet 30:19 choose life... so that yo and your children my live... all live is precious to God... no matter how short
Those babies only knew love. They never knew pain or heartache. How sweet
Amen.... And now eternal love in Heaven
We are all different, I couldn’t do it. Not that I couldn’t go through carrying the child, I couldn’t bear the thought of once the child was born it suffering for any amount of time until it passed. I couldn’t bear that.
You weren’t there. You can’t really say much.
I ofcourse don't know but the death process is going to happen either naturally or forced through abortion, I'm sure no one knows which is easier and I imagine they had options if the baby seemed uncomfortable to ease any pain just as in all end of life care in the United States.
It’s a very personal decision absolutely.
@@jblocker01 Just because someone has not had the experience of this sort of choice, does not mean that they can not say much. I was in a similar situation with my son while expecting him. They found growths on his brain. They gave us all sorts of scenerios until they got to the worst case one. My own doctor said if things looked to be very bad, I would have the choice to end the pregnancy. I never would have been able to do that. I decided to carry through no matter that outcome. I give thanks everday now, my son did turn out to be fine. But it is just the thought of this situation that makes people think what would they do? I could never abort any child I might have. Its against my beliefs. Not when there is the possible chance of even a bit of time like this mother had. And you also have to think about the rest of the family. While this mom did not already have children, I did and my daughter was waiting with high expectations for a baby sister. I could not imagine telling her that I allowed them to take her brother because of a possible health issue we were not really sure of. I knew in my heart if I had and he would have been fine, she would maybe hate me the rest of my life. Just The Real Tea, I do not know your experiences with this but there is so much more going on that just the decision of aborting the baby or not. But each person does have their own thoughts on this and choices to make.
@@evelynwitt2529 You proved the exact point that I’m trying to make Evelyn. Every situation is different, I just find it interesting that people always have an opinion on other peoples choices and decisions but weren’t in that situation. Clearly the mother and her husband were hoping for the best case scenario, sadly that wasn’t their reality. They still took the shot and held on to hope which is what I find admirable.
This womans unbelievable faith is beyond admirable!!
I’ve been blessed with 3 lovely daughters, five grands. They were all born healthy. I worried myself sick with each pregnancy at all the things that could go wrong. This dear woman is such a beacon of faith and hope! Jesus, please bless her beyond measure - what a testimony! ❤🙏🏼
All glory to God...
She will be reunited with her children our treasures are in heaven...
He chooses his strongest soldiers for the hardest battles...
Amen! That’s true! This is hard. God bless her.
This is so heartbreaking 💔 I'm glad she has been able to make peace with what has happened and was able to celebrate the time she had with her babies.
There's a baby in Japan right now that is living without most of his skull. He is about 8 months old right now. He has a lot of special needs, but is still fighting!
A wonderfully strong woman who may not have survived these tragedies without her deep faith.
This interviewer exemplifies compassion !
Would be nice to have had the Father’s perspective included also. This woman’s faith is amazing. Wow. Prayers for continued love and comfort from the Heavenly Father. 💙😇
Yes, Daddies have feelings too.
Then the father has to deal with the loss but also help the mother through, It is like carrying two people on your back but you have your own feelings and who is going to care for dad if he is taking care of everybody else.
Men Love and Hurt just as hard, if not the hardest.
@@susieballard4957 pretty sure the mother is helping the father through it, too. Her way of dealing with it is public. Apparently his is private. But that doesn’t mean his feelings aren't being tended to.
I had an anencephaly baby girl we named Sarah 50 years ago. As she was born she was whisked away. In those days I was not allowed to see her and my heart still breaks that I never even got to hold her. I feel for every couple who lose a baby it's the worst thing ever. 😢😢
💔 😢......
I am so grateful for her honesty
Those of us who chose to abort rather than bring a child with severe disabilities into this world are deserving of praise for a very difficult decision.
Hubby is a special needs teacher and has seen his fair share of children who are totally dependent upon others for absolutely everything. What kind of life are they living, and what if the parents both die, as happened with one of his students. The child was placed in a mediocre care home and passed two years later from abscess infections.
I don't think this woman's motivation for sharing her story is to obtain praise for herself.
Your message speaks to the depth of your experience and the difficult decisions that have weighed on your heart. It is evident that you and your husband, who has such an important role in special needs education, have witnessed firsthand the challenges and dependencies that can come with severe disabilities.
In these delicate situations, the choices made are often done so with heavy hearts and after much contemplation. It’s a time when compassion and empathy are needed most. While we hold to the sanctity of life, we also extend grace and understanding to those who are facing such personal and complex decisions.
The Bible teaches us that every life has purpose and that God’s love is unfathomable (Psalm 139:16). But it also teaches us to be kind and compassionate to one another (Ephesians 4:32). No matter where we stand on these issues, it’s important to support each other in love and respect, as each person’s journey is unique.
If you’re seeking a space to talk, reflect, or find comfort, remember that we’re here to listen and walk with you through life’s challenges.
Wow, such heartbreak. What a strong women.
A heart transforming testimony! The Lord's works are marvelous and He only knows how He brings into existence those that shall exist for His Glory and these parents are a true example of His instruments of honor. 💜
Some peoples genetics are sketchy. It's very sad when one has to experience these events. My response is to respond as she did, take in a child that can blossom from your care. We now see the beautiful blessings that have come to pass.
Heartbreaking loss. The interviewer is amazing... such a gentle soul.
Those 2 little girls are waiting for you inside Heavens Gate. You can count on seeing them again, perfect and whole, and very happy. They are watching over you everyday.
God Blesses us so much. You my friend were chosen to bring these 2 little girls to term regardless of their physical condition.
CHOSEN,
God will reward you!!
I think that it’s beautiful that this momma made this choice and was allowed to choose for her baby and herself. I’m also hopeful that others would recognize that there are other parents that may choose another course of action for what is best for them personally, their futures, and possibly even the ability to assure that those parents would have an opportunity to have a viable child. God Bless you, and remember that our choice is personal….. and it should be
I really felt the love of Christ radiating from this women. I could see the depth in her eyes as she was talking. What a blessing this video has been to me. Thank you.
Life always prevails! Love never fails. And these beautiful little girls are now living because of the Giver of life itself.
This was a really beautiful story of faith. I found myself wanting to hear more about her journey with her two living children.
I personally would have to accept not having a child rather than risking putting another child in that situation
Thank you for sharing your daughters stories with us. Lots of judgement in the comments, some people don’t understand. Thank you for choosing adoption to build upon your family.
I love this interviewer
My Mother's first baby, a girl was born with this. Her name was Erin. She lived for 3 hrs. As the Doctor told my Mom. He would nothing to hurt her, but nothing to help her.
My daughter is called Erin!💕 She lived for 37 hours and would have been 1 on the 8th of March
Precious little girls. ❤️
Many years ago I was a paediatric nurse. We had a darling little baby girl named Mandy who was born with anencephaly, and her Mum was not able to cope with caring for her, so we cared for her in the children's ward. We nurses fed her and bathed her, cuddled her and loved her so much! She lived for ten days before she passed peacefully. ❤️
@@GypsyGirl317 😥💕
What an amazing brave strong LOVING woman!!! She loves her children so much she was willing to suffer personal heartache to prevent them from being torn apart in her womb.😭Unbelievable strength
A precious testimony! Your children's souls are whole! All four are beautiful and have the best parents in this world!
Her strength to carry both her babies to full term is remarkable. Her story is a sacrifice and obedience to God by not having an abortion. Abortion is treated like birth control.
We are promised beauty for ashes, there will be something beautiful that comes from this.
I would be walking around with intense depression after such experience, but thank God for the love and support that surrroinded them then and now. This woman's faith speaks volumes. God bless her forever.
I don’t understand bringing a baby into the world who is just going to suffer for a few hours. I feel like it was more for the parents just wanting to be able to hold them for a little while and take pics, etc. It’s not fair to the baby. It’s just my opinion so I won’t be responding to negative comments.
Maybe the baby wasn't suffering after the birth, as they were able to hold her and interact with her.
@@karenrussell8704she would have been suffering cuz she was dying
I will say that I think it’s great that they adopted a child who needed a home ❤️
I'm also confused. Why would you prolongate the suffering ?
@@goodmarine Exactly. I have no idea.
This is strength beyond wisdom..... strength even beyond hope.... STRENGTH in the Love of GOD only. Period. This is a woman who has proven truth in HIM. May she find rest and joy with all of her children in eternity.
Long-suffering is the fruit of the Spirit. One of the hardest to accept but it does humble you a lot. May Jesus be with your family.
What does that mean?
@@lynnmartinez800 Galatians 5:22-23 KJV, John 3:16-18, All of the Book of Acts, All of Job. Long-suffering.
@@lynnmartinez800 as God is long suffering with us.... he seeks us always to come to faith in what His Son Jesus has done for us on the cross...and for most of us... He (through the Holy Spirit) will seek us till our dying breath...His word says... that He (Jesus) came that no man should perish... but we must choose Jesus and the gift of salvation...God will not drag you kicking & screaming into a place you dont want to be... we choose... heaven or hell... but God is calling us to faith every day....today is the day of salvation... we are not sure of tomorrow...today may be your day...
Just because you were okay with bringing a child with major issues, doesn’t mean that all women should. Support the mother, her physician and abortion
Hi Carol, in the context of an anencephaly diagnosis, where a baby is expected to live only a few hours after birth, the decision to carry the pregnancy to term and allow for a natural passing can be incredibly heart-wrenching. For many Christians who face this difficult situation, their decision is deeply rooted in their faith and belief in the sanctity of life. They may view every moment of life, no matter how brief, as valuable and meaningful, believing that each life, including one that is profoundly short and lived entirely within the womb or in a brief time after birth, has purpose and dignity.
This perspective is often accompanied by a belief that love, care, and respect should be extended to all lives, including those that are known to be fleeting. The choice to allow a child with anencephaly to live naturally until death is seen by some as a way to affirm the child's inherent worth and to embrace fully the brief time they have with their child, however painful it might be.
In these moments, families often turn to their faith for comfort and strength, finding solace in scriptures that speak to God's love and care for all His creation, and the hope of eternal life. Verses such as Psalm 34:18, "The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit," can offer comfort, reminding them that they are not alone in their sorrow.
Supporting the mother and family in these situations means offering compassionate care, understanding, and respecting their decision. It's about providing a space where their grief and love can be expressed fully, and where they can say goodbye to their child in a way that is meaningful to them.
Wow. Just wow. What an awe inspiring woman of God.
One of my beloved students went through this twice. There was an issue with her folic acid. I am so sorry for her and for you.
God didn’t choose you as parents of this special baby. These things just happen. You are so faithful, why wouldn’t he choose a healthy baby for you? It would be cruel to do otherwise.
It's natural to question why difficult things happen, especially when they seem to contradict our understanding of a loving and powerful God. When faced with the pain of a situation like having a baby with health issues, it's common to wonder why God would allow such a thing, especially for faithful believers.
Christianity teaches that we live in a world affected by sin, which leads to suffering, disease, and death-not as direct punishment or choices made by God, but as part of the brokenness of the world. God's ways and reasons often go beyond our understanding, and His plans are not always clear to us.
However, Christianity also teaches that God is compassionate and loving, walking with us through our struggles rather than causing them. The Bible offers comfort in knowing that God is close to the brokenhearted (Psalm 34:18) and works in all situations for the good of those who love Him (Romans 8:28), even when it's hard for us to see or understand how.
In the midst of pain and questioning, the Christian faith holds onto the hope that God's love and presence provide strength and comfort. It encourages believers to trust in God's overarching goodness, even when faced with challenging circumstances, and to lean on their faith community for support and understanding.
Just seeing this story now. I thank God that You didn’t turn away from Him through this greatest pain you endured. One I cannot even fathom. I will pray the Lord will continue to heal your hearts and I know you will meet and love your first two daughters one day in Heaven. God bless you and your husband….He will use your story.❤❤❤. My heart aches for you so much hearing all you went through