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The problem with the whole "red pill" and "manosphere" is the obnoxious generalization of the 2 genders. Women like cheaters? Do you mean Ratchet ghetto ass miami treeshes? Then yeah sure, but they only make about 10% of all women.
proposal to destiny and dgg destiny reacts to anime chainsawman OP "kickback". the fullsong has amazing structure. since destiny is a musician he is positioned to reach a new anime audience/ music.
whats you problem destiny, you keep dissing his dead mom. you dont have any empathy. and you got the audacity to diss the hole no jumper crew except Adam22. you are probably a racist
She would wait until the person you are trying to date has just walked up to you both too. Then she would do that silly giggle when you gave her 'the look'.
@@Goddess_Infinity that's what I am saying....why does she look 39 years old. And she kept calling fat women whales, meanwhile she is quite hefty herself. What a trash human.
Totally agree! I usually hate the term "pick me" cuz a lot of people use it wrong but damn is she an actual pick me She unironically said she believes women like being cheated on because they didn't immediately leave the guy 🤦🏼♀️
Pearl is everything she hates about "modern women" late 20s and single, career driven would let a man cheat on her, has no idea what she wants in a relationship. AMAZIN
That’s why destiny said “oh I believe you think you can do it” referencing her growing up a rich kid who never had to work or want for anything, and was told she could do anything. OR she could do anything because she had the means to do it at the drop of a hat without having to work or save for it. Or wanting to follow her dreams but didn’t have them income to do it.
Pearl always likes to keep her personal desires/requirements and dating history to herself because she KNOWS she'll sound JUST like all the women she likes to blame for men's problems.
well, any person, specially women, that makes red pill content, will get some clout. If you can get some women to join a panel and debate even better. It does not matter if you walk the walk
@@Spartan69117 hypocrite and giving a bad message on top of that original sin of being dumb and spreading stupidity and wildly misogynistic bias, she's not a effing demon she's just bad. I don't know if you thought you had some sort of Point by just putting one word but it didn't make the point you thought it did
There should definitely always be a British woman sensually whispering sensible things in-between Pearl's nonsensical rants. Make that a permanent part of her show.
I could do without Pearl’s vocal fry and opposite Valley Girl accent (where instead of going up at the end, she lets her sentences drop down) That she makes a living speaking when she’s an incoherent person whose voice is deeply unpleasant to listen to is a travesty.
Pearl needs to grasp that “I don’t know” is an honest, acceptable answer. I hate when people feel like they have to have an answer to a question on the spot if they are unsure.
Seriously dopy people who have the brain of a Jack Russell can never see when they’re wrong, they have an answer for everything. They have that vacant look in their eyes and a dopy smile whilst their dog brain spurts out the next line of unbelievable stupidness. Destiny comes across as sharp and fully there where as pear comes across as someone who is half in the convo and half daydreaming about unicorns
@Lukas The Dark Same take on certain. Aspects. Not on the things Pearl is saying. I've dated upper middle class to semi wealthy females. They were both sheltered in their bubble growing up in that area. Both sounded similar to pearl. You class def plays prob the biggest role. Anything can "sometimes" happen.
@Lukas The Dark Sheltered means not experiencing the real world. Being sheltered from reality. For ex, kids that don't know a bad word exists because their parents hide everything from them. So all they do is grow up thinking what they hear from inside their circle is the truth. It does happen in other classes. But no to the extent. Lower classes tend to not be able to shelter their kids from reality. Because reality lives in their back yard. They also tend to interact with more classes of pple. Lower working class tend to live and go to schools with actual Lower class and middle class. Where as upper class go to private schools that only have other upper class kids. Lower classes tend to walk more places ect.
It’s actually crazy that Pearl would defend married men for gaining weight at the same rate as women without acknowledging that women are the ones GIVING BIRTH and also dealing with POSTPARTUM DEPRESSION. Like I EXPECT married women on average to be heavier than they were, especially if they’re birthing children.
@@Trashley_ while I’ll never demean a women for being a “childless spinster” Pearl is the exception because she’s so willfully misogynistic and hypocritical.
Exactly, especially since most women at least in the states are having children and going back to work only a few weeks later, which would make it a lot harder to loose the weight
Both "I have friends that" AND personal experience are two things that are 100% completely meaningless in any debate or when you're actually trying to figure out trends or really just figure out anything. What matters is statistics, if I live in a small town and all of my friends and family are in the KKK, that doesn't mean that the majority of people in the world are members of the KKK even if it feels that way to me. This is why personal experience means absolutely nothing.
Pearl can sound somewhat educated against off the street chicks when she's prepared for a debate. But when she goes against destiny she reverts to "this is just what I think" statements, talking over him, and joking. Frankly he makes her sound dumber.
I love how Pearl can't provide any commentary on literally any issue and everything she says is just surface level "woman bad". Glad to see the other ladies push back.
@@CP-ir3ft women majority of the time Kno God dam well what guys cheat & what guys don't. I've seen women have to pick between a guy who everybody's knows for a FACT this dude cheated in every relationship he's been in vs a "nice guy" who's never cheated on a girl in life. In my experience 99% of time the girls pick the dude who cheated. The guys who don't get friend zone 🤷🏿♂️
From experience I can say my ex didn’t like being cheated on. After she found out we ended up staying together for 2 more weeks. And I thought everything was going to be ok and that we were gonna to be able to stay together. We were still going out on dates together, going dancing, beach dates exc like everything went back to normal. But one day she said she just can’t do it anymore because she’s now just always panicking that i may cheat again. So no I don’t think they girls are leaving because he stopped cheating they are leaving cuz they don’t trust that he stopped cheating
Exactly. She might love you and want to be able to forgive it, but it's a lot harder to move past it than people hope. You think about it all the time, and everytime they go out, you worry, and when they reassure you, it's hard to believe, because they lied before. Sometimes it takes trying to get past it to realise you can't, and that this can never be what it was before.
Men and women are exactly the same here. No one LIKES being cheated on. Some are able to forgive and move past, some aren't and that's totally up to the individual, they shouldn't be judged.
@@Nikifuj908 I disagree. Lav was/is naive and easily manipulated into having really ignorant views. Pearl seems like shes either zero IQ or actively being disingenuous.
RIGHT?? I could be reading too much into two friends of opposite sex, but ever since their first 'reaction' stream I felt there was a lot of sexual tension between the two. He's in an open relationship so that adds to it.(heck, calling them friends might be much, I think it's the fact they seem to almost hate each other, which- that hate/opposition+friendliness/cheekiness is probably why it gives that tension.)
It seemed pretty one sided to me. Pearl was being overly giggly, largely ignored her female guest, and weirdly kept trying to use her trad-wife/pick-me lines as flirt/bait (probably cas it works with red 💊 guys). And Destiny deff notices the behavior, but is not responding outside of guest politeness and mirroring some of her attn by using her in examples. If he was actually feeling it, he would have shown at least some slight distraction from the debate points. And perhaps showed some rizz, flirt, and show body behavior that reflects interest.
Scratch that, I just got to 38:33. Omg. She's obsessed. From what I've seen of Pearl's rhetoric, she has stated she would never go for someone shorter than her. And now when asked to describe what she's looking for, she drops her height requirement to what she guesses Destiny's is: "Uhmm 5'11 5'10... um well, I could include 5'9 teehee" She's _Ob-sessed_
@@HaraQuinn Oh yeah I agree, I rather listen to him talk to Aella or well anyone whom comes with a well researched, good faith argument that's already been bounced against some Socratic evals. It's annoying to see ppl that promote these (Peal) types of interactions bc it feeds their parasocial appetite. Now that I've finished it, I was bummed that when Kelly finally was able to get a few words in, they were either worse examples of the same ideas Destiny was getting at or slightly better ideas that Pearl was already squawking. I had thought Kelly would be a more reserved version of the night prior's guest Esther, who was citing articles outside of D's and bringing up new ideas from a female perspective to the table. Do you know of any other political streamers like Destiny that also game and have humor worked into their content (doesn't have to be edgey humor).
i don't think so. she seems absolutely clueless and it makes sense because she is spoiled and seems to have even less life experience than the average 19 year old.
I find it really strange that Pearl says the female panelists are worse than their male counterparts, with zero recognition for the fact that the female panelists are entering an incredibly hostile environment, in which their moral caliber, life ambitions, and personal choices will be scrutinised and rebuked - whereas the men are entering a space of complete support and empathy.
Also, Pearl is the one choosing who gets to be on the panel! She could easily just invite calm and articulate women who don't act like children to converse with.
@@WillSmith63957 do you think that women don't show men empathy on the day-to-day? Do you also think that empathy is lacking from male spheres because of women?
@@pomegranates-yum391 1. I think generally women want men to be in action/working toward something/strong willed etc 2. My point here with women that walk into these types of panels is that for many of them its the first time that they are being “held accountable” for the decisions that they make in life. Having said that I would push back on pearls exaggerated blame she places on women for absolutely everything.
@@WillSmith63957 Could you explain more about how women wanting men who take action, or are working towards an ambition, relates to whether or not they show empathy towards men's issues? A study published in April 2023 (by William Costello Vania Rolon Andrew G. Thomas David P. Schmitt) shows us that men overestimate the importance of financial stability (which is inextricably linked to working towards something) when it comes to women's dating choices. That in fact the top traits for women, and this is backed up by a long body of evidence not this singular paper, are: kindness, loyalty, dependability, emotional maturity and sense of humour. These are aspects that are intrinsically linked to connection and empathy. Of course drive is important, but the data shows that men overestimate the importance of this in relation to more emotive, empathic factors. The societal accountability argument is something I find interesting. For the most part I see this as valid, in that women are afforded a softer approach by society in many aspects. Though, when it comes to accountability, I think women take the brunt of one of (if not the) most crucial examples of accountability - and that is having and caring for a child, if she falls pregnant and takes that child to term. Sacrificing your freedom to care for another life is the most severe form of accountability for your actions there is, and women bear the brunt of that the majority of the time. Returning to the softer approach women are afforded by society more generally, I think we might gain a more useful perspective if we look at why that might be. Humans are an incredibly risk averse species of animal; even though human males are less risk averse than human females, they are far more risk averse than males from our closest primate relatives, for instance. We have formed complex societal frameworks which we use to structure our lives. When we brought women into the work force, in the modern day, less than 100-years-ago, that was a huge risk. It makes sense to approach an influx of that scale with caution and to recognise the potential fallout of such a huge shift. When we consider the complexity of our societies the need for caution is amplified. It makes sense to have this leniency, as it mitigates potential problems from arising while we work to accommodate this change. Naturally we might think "why have women in the workforce then?" and aside from the obvious arguments of human autonomy and agency over one's life, we could also look to humanities amazing proclivity to chase progress. By assimilating women into the workforce we double our potential brain power expenditure, and therefore double our potential to overcome challenges. Then we also should consider that men and women approach challenges in different ways, and this lateral cognitive perspective further multiplies the potential for progress and for finding solutions.
@@Andrew-yd9bp that's cope! (although I do admit destiny talks over people less then others do. Like with mrgirl or Sam seder he's sometimes overly let the other person talk)
The look on pearls face when destiny said "your future husband could be watching right now", tells me she would not date anyone who buys into what she says
RIGHT!!! The only one with a talent/hobby (whatever the socially accepted/politically correct term for cosplayers is) that's WAY outside the visual norm. Increasingly refreshing to hear a level-headed young lady on a podcast.
@@estherbjerga523 The problem with that is that there could be young women subscribing to her ideology because she knows no better . And she is here just making money
What I hate about Pearl is she just constantly contradicts herself, a lot of the times in the same sentence. She says 'we're not talking about the exceptions, we're talking about the rule', and then the very next sentence Destiny will bring up a statistic, and she'll go....well idk because I know two girls in high school who got fat. Like..........has she never heard of the word anecdote?
I think it’s kinda funny that when Destiny enters the chat, Pearl’s true views come to light. She doesn’t actually believe in what she argues for, she’s just playing devils advocate. Faaaaaaake
Pearl constantly side eyeing the calm speaking woman but laughing, joking and smiling at Destiny says everything about how much her masculine mentality makes her unattractive. “What if your wife gets 300 lbs” like?? Then screaming “HE AGREES WITH ME” There’s so many more facets to a person like destiny said. Pearl is so obsessed about such superficial things in life and putting women down it’s disgusting.
"I think we should probably teach people to swim." 1:11:40 That was such an important point. It physically pained me when Destiny was forced to explain it further when it went right over Pearly's head
From what I've seen, Pearl is deeply insecure (Picks on "whales" at every given opportunity likely because her not being overweight is probably one of the only things she feels confident in,) I get the sense that she's, and I don't mean this super offensively, pretty desperate for a man. The whole channel seems like an attempt at garnering brownie points by saying things that she thinks most men want to hear (which tends to just be shitting on women for no reason), really big "pick me" energy. Hope she gets some confidence one day before she ends up in a really fucked up situation with a really fucked up toxic guy (because that's the only kind of dude she's going to attract with this type of mindset)
Lmao this is such a funny dynamic. Pearl is so literal about everything, it’s impossible for her to see a connection between A and C because the points aren’t right next to each other. You can never make an abstract or analogous point, or trace the downstream trends/logic of something, because it’s “pulling in a random point” or “going to the extreme” or a “debate tactic” lol. Meanwhile Destiny genuinely does speak in a lot of analogies to try to demonstrate his points so I can see why someone more concrete would have a hard time. But the conversation is definitely fun.
I wish Destiny would try to explain that connection that you mentioned to Pearl and the audience. Because there was a super chat at the end that agreed with Pearl and it pains me to think that there are people out there who are incapable of understanding analogies.
@@kashifsingh791 true. I struggle with these types of people lol but I will say, people on the other extreme are annoying, too. Cuz they can load a lot into a statement by abstracting it beyond the point of reasonable application, allowing for a lot of unrealistic possibilities to get tied in. I imagine this is what Pearl thinks is happening, but really Destiny is just taking the reasoning to its natural conclusion lmao.
@@sophc8599 that’s how I win alot of arguments or a “debate” I have irl, with that exact tactic, maybe it’s bad faith but idc tbh I just don’t wanna lose once I’m engaged bc something internal won’t let me, but afterwards I’m like meh idrc either way, I just want to win when I’m in the heat of the moment😂
@Rj its a grift for sure, she turns it on and off depending on when she wants to get specific answer. When she wants a gotcha she only accepts yes or no without nuance, but she needs to explain and bring up magical anecdotal evidence to explain her opinions.
You can tell Destiny is a good dad. The patience he has with an idiot is saint level. I think the other girl was a bit shocked at how dumb this is... or is pretending to be.
I guess I just need to meet more people. Because I am blown away that people like Pearly can exist. She's allowed to hold these incredibly stupid ideas that she can't defend, then she just goes right on believing. And when called out on a stupid idea, she drops it and throws up her hands; "I don't know, I feel like..." and just makes an argument from her feelings. AND SHE KEEPS GETTING AWAY WITH IT!
So pearl won't get a divorce if her future husband cheats because of the kids. But she will divorce her husband if he becomes hugely obese and say screw the kids...
"But she will divorce her husband if he becomes hugely obese and say screw the kids..." You misunderstand. _He'll_ divorce _her_ if she becomes hugely obese, and according to her, she'll deserve it. In her mind, it's only unacceptable when a woman gets fat. Also, she clearly doesn't give a shit about her hypothetical children if she would intentionally force them to grow up in an unhappy and likely hostile household with two parents who obviously resent one another. Furthermore, sticking around after being cheated on just teaches the kids that it's okay and what they should expect in their own relationships when they grow up. Parents teach their kids what to tolerate by what _they_ tolerate.
Dgg chat saying “I hope Pearl marries a domestic abuser” had my dying😂. While I disagree and hope she never has to experience that. I feel like her opinions would DRAMATICALLY change if she did. Edit: 1:13:05 dgg chat is way too funny man 🤣
Yeah shes extremely naive, inexperienced, and unsympathetic. After experiencing an abusive long-term relationship, I would not want her to go through that but she may be one of those people who really wont get it until it happens to them.
I used to think that there was... - Genius people - Smart people - Above average people - Average people - Stupid people - Profoundly idiotic people - Bat shit crazy people But I have now discovered a hidden, missing category at the very bottom: Pearl-like people. Thank you Pearl for helping me discover this. It means there's still hope for bat shit crazy people. They're not the worst.
"Why do they break up after they stopped cheating" JustPearlyThings answer to this just demonstrated how incredibly naive and sheltered she probably was. Her lack of people and life experience is showing (it doesn't matter how many people you meet if you've always closed your mind to see things from their pov) 1. Why do people stop cheating? Usually because they're now unable to cheat anymore because they're lacking in value or they're coming back to the relationship with the tail between their legs. So the women might now see no value in the guy anymore not because he stopped cheating but because there's nothing going on for him anymore and the pain of the cheating is still there. 2. People sometimes don't break up while the cheating is happening because they don't want to "lose" the person they have to the other person. When the cheating ends they sort of see how stupid that was and have the realization of "wtf was I fighting for"
I agree, I mean cheating could totally be considered a form of emotional abuse. I don’t know why she finds it so unreasonable to suggest that those scenarios are analogous with other types of abusive relationships.
My thing is, where does personal responsibility come in? Cause everyone seems to just use “emotional abuse” as the go answer so that the victim of cheating gets sympathy. If something does not feel good, why stay? It just never made sense to me
@@kant5696 So do you think women who stay with men who are violently abusive are partly responsible for getting punched in the face because they don't leave?
What's most depressing about all of this is when Pearl says Destiny is bringing up "random things" that "have nothing to do with the conversation" by coming up with very clear (and extreme, but that's the point) examples of analogous situations that she treats differently. Like women in abusive relationships vs cheating.
it is because she can't articulate her points like samuels did and myron does.. and destiny ignores biology and thins everything is equal... they both agreed that in general men value looks and women resources at 33:50 and then cosplayer said resources to a certain extent and that not all women want millionaires.. lol that is cap.. just like if women could, they would pick the 1% guys, most men, if they could, would bang the hottest chicks on earth.. thing is.. usually destiny describes a lot of other traits and this and that but forgets that if the woman looks good and is not annoying, the dude is happy and for the woman, the dude has go meet a lot of demands: height, the money, fit etc in order to show his personality and charisma... it doesnt matter if the dude has a heart of gold and a caring and loving man that protects animals... if she is 5'5 and broke, cosplayer girl would never look his way
@@Deimonos85 I don't think Destiny "ignores biology", but okay. I think Pearl's problem is just a lack of analysis-synthesis skills, or identification of comparison-abstraction processes. Sadly, those are some of the most important traits of great conversations.
@@Deimonos85 i disagree ive had the chance to go for richer guys but if theyre cocky and mentally immature women will genuinely stay far away. it might work for someone who want fun short term but if someone is insufferable theyre insufferable its that simple and alot of men are these days.
the problem is the examples destiny bring up is very extreme. like they are talking about playing games but he brings up sexual assault. it would be more fair if he brins up something that has same level of severity. playing games with a man or woman does not have same level of severity as sexual crimes because they are talking about dating games. thats like you talking about child predators when the original convo is about thieves.
@@forproject1666 It's supposed to be extreme, so you can see where your principles lead if if they're followed consistently. That is not a flaw -- it's a feature.
My favorite part is when she says “I’ve been on more panels than anyone here” as if destiny wasn’t doing panels before this girl even learned what the internet is lolol
Time to play the JustPearlyThings drinking game, take a shot every time Pearl says "accountability" :P Pearl: I think women like to be cheated on. Well I hope you get cheated on in your next relationship because you apparently like it.
@@seanjenkins5505 it's not just that she's confusing not liking something to automatically breaking up, you can do things that cause great rifts in a relationship without leaving. How many couples put up with an alcoholic partner for years, just because they didn't break up over doesn't mean they like it or enjoy the experience.
She just seems genuinely dumb or the most emotionally stunted person in existence. I could think of multiple reasons instantly why you wouldn't immediately leave. If its a long term relationship you probably don't want to torpedo it instantly. That person might still have feelings for them. I don't know how pearle can have this opinion that women and emotional and dumb and then she thinks they should also be perfect rational actors "if A happens then i do B." Gee its almost like people in general don't behave like computers
@@thomaswalmsley8959 that's exactly point. I don't know what universe she occupies where just because you don't do the exact opposite extreme therefore you enjoy it
I believe she’s never lived with a male & she worships her Dad… never talks about her mum, but her dad is the conservative family oriented male that she wants to marry 😬 she has heaps of brothers, including adopted brothers
She had one relationship with a "rich millionaire" who was homeless at the time, she let him move into her parents house until he got back on his feet, and then he left her for a hotter athletic redhead 💀💀 She's also obsessed with her dad and romanticizes his role, but always refers to her mom as a whale because she gained weight after having kids 🙃 with how often she says that men need to leave the whales behind, I'm curious if her parents are still together
38:10 Perfection. Sheer perfection. Steven was asked, on the spot, what his standards were. He gave a thoughtful, engaging, substantive response. Steven then asked Pearl the same question. She bided time and accused Steven of “being ready.” Then Pearl gave the most shallow, least engaging list of standards only to awkwardly stamper off.
Agreed. Pearl thinks Destiny is always defending women, when all he's doing is trying to put equal honus on both men and women when it comes to dating and relationships. Pearl's default is always blame the woman, so to her to it looks like all Destiny is doing is just defending women.
@@atypicalambience3487 I don't get that feeling too much. There's definitely times where it is dead obvious that Destiny has her cornered on a topic, and he politely lets her move onto the next thing instead of holding her to it, but I think 99% of us are aware of what has happened. I think that's just social and entertainment etiquette. It's a pretty big ask to have her constantly be biting bullets in front of all of her viewers.
@@GR33TINGSEARTHL1NGS If you think she is just stupid I totally see where you are coming from. There is a horrible trend of these preachy manosphere type people that I just can't stop obsessing over. Every statement they make only needs to sound rhetorically correct to a persons literal previous sentence. It does not matter if the person they are listening to is building to a wider argument, or if the manosphere influencer's statement, which is mindless and catering, has anything to do with what their guest has said. They will reach for whatever will help them emotionally cope with a linear argument. It's only genuine or endearing in the sense that she needs to say these stupid things to protect her ego. She believes stupid things because she has to protect her image and job. It is all so dismissive to the person she are talking to.
I like Kelly Jean, she had a lot of good comments. I still think Pearl must be trolling and saying the dumbest possible take she can think of. Entertaining as always, though. GJ everyone.
Pearly does the classic thing where instead of engaging with the comparative argument (ie do girls like being abused because they don’t leave?) they act like you’re trying to say it’s the same and it’s so absurd to even ask that. She doesn’t understand that you can use another argument to test the consistency of your opinions
51:42 - 52:18 Destiny makes an argument for holding men accountable for their actions 52:18 - 52:30 Pearl proceeds to ask where the accountability is I rest my case
Destiny out here confirming how pearl is completely clueless on so many of these topics. The amount of times she says something and stumbles straight after destiny responds to her questions. The part when destiny asks why pearl is still single was comedy gold 😂😂
I would love to be in a discussion like this as a woman who has been in a very happy healthy relationship for 10 years with a man who was not rich, had very little experience, who has loved me through weight loss/gain, and I had a child when we got together. I have so many things that I wish I could say to this woman. She goes on to these podcasts with very specific types of women and then makes really stupid assumptions based on certain things they say.
She would just say your man isn’t “masculine”. She’s done something similar before with a 15 year married woman who refuted her bullshit, and Pearl just plucked out a photo with her and her husband and said (paraphrasing) that “he doesn’t exactly look masculine, does he?”
The important part about the "if she got fat" idea is that after getting fat she has given up completely on who she was before and refuses to do anything. Just like how the guy who hasn't had a job in 2 years has given up and became a slob.
people also forget that women gain a lot of weight during childbirth that is really difficult to remove because of time, motherhood, work, age and hormones actively fighting against it.
The more I watch pearl the less I can tolerate her. She’s argumentative just for the sake of being argumentative. She interrupts all the time and I’ve seen her on some podcast, explained a man’s point of view, while interrupting a man trying to explain a man’s point of view. She can barely speak a sentence without laughing through the sentence. I don’t know. I just find her on the annoying side.
Jury is in, pearl isn't a grifter, just infinitely stupid. Completely oblivious to how much she interrupts and can't follow half of destiny's arguments.
Almost everything she says seems anecdotal with no actual examples, and the way she speaks about things is childish. I don't believe she has any real-world experience
*Destiny:* *makes the most flawless argument of all time (very strong man punching girl is possibly attempted murder vs 16 yo girl slapping man is not). *Pearl:* *brushes the argument off by calling it an excuse. Me: *makes this comment.
Now imagine if we switched the roles & Destiny was all like, “I’m gonna read off all the super-chats that are roasting Pearl, but not the ones that are mean to me…” and proceeded to do just that. Pearl CLAIMS to be all about women being seen as equal to men in the eyes of the law when they hit a man vs when a man hits a woman, but when it comes down to how she treats Destiny in this video, her actions completely contradict what she claims to believe. At the very end, she couldn’t be more eager to roast Destiny in front of hundreds of thousands of viewers- and despite there obv being plenty of super-chats also roasting her, she purposefully ignores them because “tehe, I just can’t take it.” Idk man, I’m not sayin that Pearly is like this in general, but what she did at the end of the video just seemed pretty disingenuous and crappy.
I don't think it's a man vs woman thing. I think she's just genuinely insecure and can't really handle criticism. This was pretty apparent when Destiny was making fun of her for being single, despite her stated standards (which were very low). She immediately tried to change the topic away from herself
Pearl is 100% like this in general. All of her videos and clips and podcasts are of her hating and degrading women and they can't say much back because it's her platform.
I just want one of these times that Pearl does the "youre telling me water isnt wet," and just go into the arguement that water isnt wet. Water is a liquid that makes dry objects wet. Water itself is not wet.
Even if you weren’t wrong about water not being wet, which you are, that would be a complete waste of time to go through and not really help Destiny’s position.
@@ChipCheerio arguable. People would say it’s the saturation of water on something that qualifies being wet. In which case water would be wet due to it saturating itself provided there is at least 2 molecules to saturate itself. However there’s still the argument of a single water molecule by itself perhaps not being wet as it isn’t being saturated by anything else.
@@questionablecarnage1469 It’s actually 6 water molecules that you’d need in order for it to be wet. Once you get below six they stop functioning like a liquid. However nothing would be “wet” if we dropped six molecules of water on it. Water is wet because it’s constantly saturated with itself, and will only not be wet if there’s so little of it that it becomes literally imperceptible to humans.
@@ChipCheerio sooo wait. The answer is no until you add enough it becomes yes? In which case the actual answer should be no, right? Due to the fact water, as far as I am aware, is defined by the bonding of 2 hydrogen and 1 oxygen. Not by the quantity of H2O present. Am I missing something or have I got something wrong?
@@questionablecarnage1469 If you were hit by one singular raindrop, are you wet? No, you’re not. If, however, I threw a bucket of water at you, then we probably would consider you wet. There is a threshold for everything, including water. You will never find 5 molecules of water alone, you will only ever find it present by the millions or billions of molecules. So for all intents and purposes it is wet all the time in any place it can be found.
Saying that a woman leaving a man because he has no job for two years is not an example of women loving men less. Why can't it just mean that the woman needs to survive and she can love him but love herself more?
Occasionally, I wonder whether or not Pearl is just consistently playing a character for the audience. I am aware that I've mentioned this before in recent videos, but currently, I've grown far more confused. Sincerely, she appears quite unintelligent, and I mean this as a clear clinical description of how she behaves and responds to a number of arguments.
Oh my god 🙄 Pearl’s surface level analysis is super annoying. “Girls like being cheated on” is one the dumbest unexamined takes she has and she says it so often.
Lmao as I’m watching this and thinking about the man I’m crazy about….a 36 year old living with his parents haha. He’s absolutely precious though and such a kind, giving human being. Sometimes ppl just fall into a bad spot and they can’t help it. I see how hard he works to be a better person and to fix his mistakes. Love should be unconditional, I know as humans we are just naturally flawed but if you truly love a person then you will love them at their lowest because they will give you the world at their best.
But aren't the conditions here "precious", "kind", "giving", and someone who wants to better himself? If he didn't have these 'conditions' anymore, then you wouldn't unconditionally love him anymore
people that date for personality definitely have the healthiest sturdiest relationships. they have to clear some small bars (take some amount of care for themselves, have some ambitions, have some kind of interesting hobby that they care about) and the rest is just vibing with humour and being aligned in problemsolving. its sooo fulfilling
@@GG-vl9xq that’s why I worded…love should be unconditional…but I know as humans we are flawed…so we just do the best we can. I know it’s pretty hard to actually love someone unconditionally…but we should at least try 🤷🏼♀️
@Anna I just think there is this weird negative connotation for the word 'conditional'. Maybe because when people hear it, they automatically think about superficial things. But non superficial conditions (like the things you mentioned) are actually great. Because no matter how you look at it, people have a mix of different norms, values, beliefs, dislikes, and likes, which makes them different from each other. So people will love a person that aligns at least somewhat with those things. But if those things turned out not be true, and you realize that the person you loved doesn't have the qualities what made you fall in love with them, then I don't find it weird to stop the love. Or if they all of a sudden change and lose the qualities that made you fall in love with them, I would actually find it bad if you don't try to stop loving them. Because that's just smells like a recipe for disaster where you start to slowly lose your own sense of self (your own values, likes, beliefs...) That's why I think love will always be conditional and why I think that conditional love is actually good. It's just different when you base it on superficial things. Then it's bad, yes. Of course change over years in those things is bound to happen naturally, but that's why I think it's important to figure out for yourself what is fundamentally important to you. The changes outside those fundamentals are still oke, but you will be able to detect it faster when the core of the relationship is beginning to rot so that you can get out of it faster before it starts to rot your own core.
@@GG-vl9xq we dont even love our family unconditionally, if they treat you like shit for years we cut ties, so why would we love anybody without conditions.
Sometimes when Pearly makes a statement my eyes just roll. It's like she barely thinks through stuff before she just says it. Why? Also Kelly Jean is boss energy LOL
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I think women stay with cheaters because being a victim gives them power and moral high ground on the relationship.
The problem with the whole "red pill" and "manosphere" is the obnoxious generalization of the 2 genders. Women like cheaters? Do you mean Ratchet ghetto ass miami treeshes? Then yeah sure, but they only make about 10% of all women.
proposal to destiny and dgg
destiny reacts to anime chainsawman OP "kickback". the fullsong has amazing structure. since destiny is a musician he is positioned to reach a new anime audience/ music.
im a fan of react content though i never seen a person react to his own content. lol.
whats you problem destiny, you keep dissing his dead mom. you dont have any empathy. and you got the audacity to diss the hole no jumper crew except Adam22. you are probably a racist
Pearl is the type of girl that would loudly say “did you fart?” to embarrass you in public
She would wait until the person you are trying to date has just walked up to you both too. Then she would do that silly giggle when you gave her 'the look'.
So accurate!
Lol….absolutely true!!
Yes!!!
“Omg Jessica did you just fart.”
I'm actually a fan of this girl. Something about her blue hair...
had me there for a sec
I blue myself.
@Mustafa Khan they are way too edgy
michwoodleyael
@Mustafa Khan stop being miserable
The more I hear pearl speak... The more I can't help but agree with Destiny calling her a Pick Me girl, like holy shit.
And she still hasn't been picked 😅
@@PeanutFairy THAT PART!
@@PeanutFairy that part ! and looks strong in the face for someone who is only 26 years old .
@@Goddess_Infinity that's what I am saying....why does she look 39 years old. And she kept calling fat women whales, meanwhile she is quite hefty herself. What a trash human.
Totally agree! I usually hate the term "pick me" cuz a lot of people use it wrong but damn is she an actual pick me
She unironically said she believes women like being cheated on because they didn't immediately leave the guy 🤦🏼♀️
Pearl is everything she hates about "modern women" late 20s and single, career driven would let a man cheat on her, has no idea what she wants in a relationship. AMAZIN
Lol true
What? Late 20s? I thought se was late 30s
Yet ironically she proves her own point
@@DAAllan82 this just went kinda meta dude. Shit. 🙃I might have to sit and think about this
at least she isn't boring.
Pearl : I feel like anyone can do it. I believe I can do anything.
Also Pearl : Growing up we had nice house and we’re rich.
Ah. There it is 😂😂
Thank you. The contradicting she always does.
That’s why destiny said “oh I believe you think you can do it” referencing her growing up a rich kid who never had to work or want for anything, and was told she could do anything. OR she could do anything because she had the means to do it at the drop of a hat without having to work or save for it. Or wanting to follow her dreams but didn’t have them income to do it.
Pearl always likes to keep her personal desires/requirements and dating history to herself because she KNOWS she'll sound JUST like all the women she likes to blame for men's problems.
She exposed lot of it .
well, any person, specially women, that makes red pill content, will get some clout. If you can get some women to join a panel and debate even better. It does not matter if you walk the walk
Her self loathing is palpable lol
And?
@@Spartan69117 hypocrite and giving a bad message on top of that original sin of being dumb and spreading stupidity and wildly misogynistic bias, she's not a effing demon she's just bad.
I don't know if you thought you had some sort of Point by just putting one word but it didn't make the point you thought it did
There should definitely always be a British woman sensually whispering sensible things in-between Pearl's nonsensical rants. Make that a permanent part of her show.
I liked this too lol
sensible things in a sensual way
I could do without Pearl’s vocal fry and opposite Valley Girl accent (where instead of going up at the end, she lets her sentences drop down)
That she makes a living speaking when she’s an incoherent person whose voice is deeply unpleasant to listen to is a travesty.
@@derrickscott6795 that's a good podcast name
I might watch her show if she was a permanent counter balance to Pearl. And who knows maybe she could kick people out for Pearl
Pearl needs to grasp that “I don’t know” is an honest, acceptable answer. I hate when people feel like they have to have an answer to a question on the spot if they are unsure.
Yeah especially when she uses it so much as a cop out when facts dismantling her points are brought up.
@@c.v.3025 Exactly.
Seriously dopy people who have the brain of a Jack Russell can never see when they’re wrong, they have an answer for everything. They have that vacant look in their eyes and a dopy smile whilst their dog brain spurts out the next line of unbelievable stupidness. Destiny comes across as sharp and fully there where as pear comes across as someone who is half in the convo and half daydreaming about unicorns
You can tell Pearl was sheltered most her life in a upper middle class family.
Probably just upper class
Broke girls can and do sometimes have the same take, let’s not play the class game
@Lukas The Dark Same take on certain. Aspects. Not on the things Pearl is saying. I've dated upper middle class to semi wealthy females. They were both sheltered in their bubble growing up in that area. Both sounded similar to pearl. You class def plays prob the biggest role. Anything can "sometimes" happen.
@@cjstats1514 if sheltered means growing up in a bubble then almost everyone is sheltered regardless of class.
@Lukas The Dark Sheltered means not experiencing the real world. Being sheltered from reality. For ex, kids that don't know a bad word exists because their parents hide everything from them. So all they do is grow up thinking what they hear from inside their circle is the truth. It does happen in other classes. But no to the extent. Lower classes tend to not be able to shelter their kids from reality. Because reality lives in their back yard. They also tend to interact with more classes of pple. Lower working class tend to live and go to schools with actual Lower class and middle class. Where as upper class go to private schools that only have other upper class kids. Lower classes tend to walk more places ect.
It’s actually crazy that Pearl would defend married men for gaining weight at the same rate as women without acknowledging that women are the ones GIVING BIRTH and also dealing with POSTPARTUM DEPRESSION. Like I EXPECT married women on average to be heavier than they were, especially if they’re birthing children.
She’s unable to think about those kinds of things because she is a childless spinster, ranting about relationship issues whilst single and alone.
@@Trashley_ while I’ll never demean a women for being a “childless spinster” Pearl is the exception because she’s so willfully misogynistic and hypocritical.
All this to say “laziness”
Exactly, especially since most women at least in the states are having children and going back to work only a few weeks later, which would make it a lot harder to loose the weight
*Pearl is full of “I have friends that” and hardly any experiences of her own*
She's a bunch of anecdotes in a trench coat
Both "I have friends that" AND personal experience are two things that are 100% completely meaningless in any debate or when you're actually trying to figure out trends or really just figure out anything.
What matters is statistics, if I live in a small town and all of my friends and family are in the KKK, that doesn't mean that the majority of people in the world are members of the KKK even if it feels that way to me. This is why personal experience means absolutely nothing.
@@reddillon8425 u wrote all of that and missed the point I was making…
Pearl can sound somewhat educated against off the street chicks when she's prepared for a debate. But when she goes against destiny she reverts to "this is just what I think" statements, talking over him, and joking. Frankly he makes her sound dumber.
She is dumb. She just repeats Incel logic
You really don’t like her
@@AQS521 Noone likes a pickme
@@AQS521 I don't hate her. But the hypocrisy makes her claims not as strong.
@@damnkevindeaderthanamf3297 the issue I have with that word is it’s so overused. My wife has been called a pick me for talking about being a tradwife
I love how Pearl can't provide any commentary on literally any issue and everything she says is just surface level "woman bad". Glad to see the other ladies push back.
Crazy how both the stripper and the cosplayer were more rational than her
the other ladies lol
Pearl is a rage baiting grifter.
pearl is factual
@@etragun pearl is factual
Pearls lack of relationship experience is showing again. No one LIKES being cheated on
Then why do women keep picking the cheaters?
@@504gucci4 do you think women have crystal balls?
@@CP-ir3ft women majority of the time Kno God dam well what guys cheat & what guys don't. I've seen women have to pick between a guy who everybody's knows for a FACT this dude cheated in every relationship he's been in vs a "nice guy" who's never cheated on a girl in life. In my experience 99% of time the girls pick the dude who cheated. The guys who don't get friend zone 🤷🏿♂️
@@CP-ir3ft obviously, thats why no woman ever dies in an accident; they're able to see the future smh
pearl is factual
From experience I can say my ex didn’t like being cheated on. After she found out we ended up staying together for 2 more weeks. And I thought everything was going to be ok and that we were gonna to be able to stay together. We were still going out on dates together, going dancing, beach dates exc like everything went back to normal. But one day she said she just can’t do it anymore because she’s now just always panicking that i may cheat again. So no I don’t think they girls are leaving because he stopped cheating they are leaving cuz they don’t trust that he stopped cheating
Exactly. She might love you and want to be able to forgive it, but it's a lot harder to move past it than people hope. You think about it all the time, and everytime they go out, you worry, and when they reassure you, it's hard to believe, because they lied before. Sometimes it takes trying to get past it to realise you can't, and that this can never be what it was before.
Men and women are exactly the same here. No one LIKES being cheated on. Some are able to forgive and move past, some aren't and that's totally up to the individual, they shouldn't be judged.
Why’d you cheat on her
There are so many cringe people that Destiny interacts with but the more I see Pearl the more I think she takes the absolutely entire cake.
She's better than Lav
@@Nikifuj908 I disagree. Lav was/is naive and easily manipulated into having really ignorant views. Pearl seems like shes either zero IQ or actively being disingenuous.
I feel bad for Kelly Jean. She didn't know she would be invited to third wheel on a date.
That’s what happens when you’re a boring UN-charismatic chick
RIGHT?? I could be reading too much into two friends of opposite sex, but ever since their first 'reaction' stream I felt there was a lot of sexual tension between the two. He's in an open relationship so that adds to it.(heck, calling them friends might be much, I think it's the fact they seem to almost hate each other, which- that hate/opposition+friendliness/cheekiness is probably why it gives that tension.)
It seemed pretty one sided to me. Pearl was being overly giggly, largely ignored her female guest, and weirdly kept trying to use her trad-wife/pick-me lines as flirt/bait (probably cas it works with red 💊 guys). And Destiny deff notices the behavior, but is not responding outside of guest politeness and mirroring some of her attn by using her in examples.
If he was actually feeling it, he would have shown at least some slight distraction from the debate points. And perhaps showed some rizz, flirt, and show body behavior that reflects interest.
Scratch that, I just got to 38:33. Omg. She's obsessed. From what I've seen of Pearl's rhetoric, she has stated she would never go for someone shorter than her. And now when asked to describe what she's looking for, she drops her height requirement to what she guesses Destiny's is: "Uhmm 5'11 5'10... um well, I could include 5'9 teehee"
She's _Ob-sessed_
@@HaraQuinn Oh yeah I agree, I rather listen to him talk to Aella or well anyone whom comes with a well researched, good faith argument that's already been bounced against some Socratic evals.
It's annoying to see ppl that promote these (Peal) types of interactions bc it feeds their parasocial appetite.
Now that I've finished it, I was bummed that when Kelly finally was able to get a few words in, they were either worse examples of the same ideas Destiny was getting at or slightly better ideas that Pearl was already squawking. I had thought Kelly would be a more reserved version of the night prior's guest Esther, who was citing articles outside of D's and bringing up new ideas from a female perspective to the table.
Do you know of any other political streamers like Destiny that also game and have humor worked into their content (doesn't have to be edgey humor).
My theory is pearl doesnt believe any of her views, she just says the most ridiculous statements because it gives views. Its a troll
I dunno, she might just be "special" because she really has a hard time entertaining hypotheticals. 😂
Dude same, I literally just commented this too
@@thamarash i think shes just seriously stupid
It’s disappointing in a way. Her fans defend her bc they believe she’s on their side, but she’s really not *finger 🎻*
i don't think so. she seems absolutely clueless and it makes sense because she is spoiled and seems to have even less life experience than the average 19 year old.
If a person like Pearl can make it, YOU definitely can
Nah she made it cause she started rich
@@vjforsythe2198 Also true
Bout to start videos reacting to her idiocies
What’s wrong with her?
@@michealdominic7788 w h i t e
I find it really strange that Pearl says the female panelists are worse than their male counterparts, with zero recognition for the fact that the female panelists are entering an incredibly hostile environment, in which their moral caliber, life ambitions, and personal choices will be scrutinised and rebuked - whereas the men are entering a space of complete support and empathy.
“… many of them, for the first time in their lives.” Fixed it for ya!
Also, Pearl is the one choosing who gets to be on the panel! She could easily just invite calm and articulate women who don't act like children to converse with.
@@WillSmith63957 do you think that women don't show men empathy on the day-to-day?
Do you also think that empathy is lacking from male spheres because of women?
@@pomegranates-yum391 1. I think generally women want men to be in action/working toward something/strong willed etc 2. My point here with women that walk into these types of panels is that for many of them its the first time that they are being “held accountable” for the decisions that they make in life. Having said that I would push back on pearls exaggerated blame she places on women for absolutely everything.
@@WillSmith63957 Could you explain more about how women wanting men who take action, or are working towards an ambition, relates to whether or not they show empathy towards men's issues?
A study published in April 2023 (by William Costello Vania Rolon Andrew G. Thomas David P. Schmitt) shows us that men overestimate the importance of financial stability (which is inextricably linked to working towards something) when it comes to women's dating choices. That in fact the top traits for women, and this is backed up by a long body of evidence not this singular paper, are: kindness, loyalty, dependability, emotional maturity and sense of humour. These are aspects that are intrinsically linked to connection and empathy. Of course drive is important, but the data shows that men overestimate the importance of this in relation to more emotive, empathic factors.
The societal accountability argument is something I find interesting. For the most part I see this as valid, in that women are afforded a softer approach by society in many aspects. Though, when it comes to accountability, I think women take the brunt of one of (if not the) most crucial examples of accountability - and that is having and caring for a child, if she falls pregnant and takes that child to term. Sacrificing your freedom to care for another life is the most severe form of accountability for your actions there is, and women bear the brunt of that the majority of the time.
Returning to the softer approach women are afforded by society more generally, I think we might gain a more useful perspective if we look at why that might be. Humans are an incredibly risk averse species of animal; even though human males are less risk averse than human females, they are far more risk averse than males from our closest primate relatives, for instance. We have formed complex societal frameworks which we use to structure our lives. When we brought women into the work force, in the modern day, less than 100-years-ago, that was a huge risk. It makes sense to approach an influx of that scale with caution and to recognise the potential fallout of such a huge shift. When we consider the complexity of our societies the need for caution is amplified. It makes sense to have this leniency, as it mitigates potential problems from arising while we work to accommodate this change.
Naturally we might think "why have women in the workforce then?" and aside from the obvious arguments of human autonomy and agency over one's life, we could also look to humanities amazing proclivity to chase progress. By assimilating women into the workforce we double our potential brain power expenditure, and therefore double our potential to overcome challenges. Then we also should consider that men and women approach challenges in different ways, and this lateral cognitive perspective further multiplies the potential for progress and for finding solutions.
God, Pearl loves the sound of her own voice. She talks over everyone.
I mean so does destiny. Its kind of part of their energy.
Ironic
@@yautjacetanu he only talks over people when they interrupt him lmao
@@Andrew-yd9bp Not true, he talks over people even when they're making their point, go dickride somewhere else.
@@Andrew-yd9bp that's cope!
(although I do admit destiny talks over people less then others do. Like with mrgirl or Sam seder he's sometimes overly let the other person talk)
The look on pearls face when destiny said "your future husband could be watching right now", tells me she would not date anyone who buys into what she says
Could also just be that the idea of partnering with a fan is repulsive to a lot of people with fandom.
@@codyb.3015 I'm not buying that one chief.
She basically said she would be ok to be with a guy who cheats. Lol 🤒
When did he say that ? Cus I didnt watch it all please tell me
@@codyb.3015 Well, who are they supposed to partner up with? Their haters?
The cosplayer is genuinely the most grounded normal person I've seen on a Destiny video ever.
RIGHT!!! The only one with a talent/hobby (whatever the socially accepted/politically correct term for cosplayers is) that's WAY outside the visual norm. Increasingly refreshing to hear a level-headed young lady on a podcast.
It's almost jarring to see normal people on podcast nowadays. She was refreshing
Pearl keeps trying to get the girl to agree with her and she doesn't give in once. Love to see it.
Pearl cant even describe what she wants in a relationship. Height, political belief, family oriented. How is she so opinionated.
She probably does have an idea of what she wants, but feels insecure in voicing it bc it’s contradictory and/or unrealistic.
@@estherbjerga523 Which makes her a walking contradiction given that she makes a living out of telling women that they're being unrealistic.
@@estherbjerga523 The problem with that is that there could be young women subscribing to her ideology because she knows no better . And she is here just making money
@@sakuraesther6309 I agree that she sucks and is putting out shitty rhetoric. My comment wasn’t a justification for her, just an explanation.
@@tatianadaniel3569 the fact that she never said they mutes your argument. Why are you watching her?
What I hate about Pearl is she just constantly contradicts herself, a lot of the times in the same sentence. She says 'we're not talking about the exceptions, we're talking about the rule', and then the very next sentence Destiny will bring up a statistic, and she'll go....well idk because I know two girls in high school who got fat.
Like..........has she never heard of the word anecdote?
Remember, her grandma is the official spokeswoman on these issues.
pearl's voice is so grating i don't understand how she managed to get successful at talking.
Ikr, she talks so slow and her tooone ughh 😭
I think her limp hands are weird.
@@jennybtx her hands are weird to me too! I keep seeing playdoh in my head.
I like her voice 😐 but not 99% of what she actually says
Oh gosh she has an awful whining voice.
I think it’s kinda funny that when Destiny enters the chat, Pearl’s true views come to light. She doesn’t actually believe in what she argues for, she’s just playing devils advocate. Faaaaaaake
So catty lol
@@ElChuntyCabra I don't think Pearl is catty. More like grifty
The toss up of whether she's a fake monster or real monster has a similar outcome and when she's grown should lead her to deep therapy.
@@autumnburton2091 I had to look up the definition of grifty lol, but it makes sense
I agree. I dont think she has nearly any investment in anything she's saying. She doesnt have real opinions because she doesnt actually care.
1:26:00 Pearl can confirm that women are not being catfished on Instagram because her little sister isn’t being catfished on Instagram. Genius.
Well, both sides use arguments based on some exception they know.
Pearl constantly side eyeing the calm speaking woman but laughing, joking and smiling at Destiny says everything about how much her masculine mentality makes her unattractive. “What if your wife gets 300 lbs” like?? Then screaming “HE AGREES WITH ME” There’s so many more facets to a person like destiny said. Pearl is so obsessed about such superficial things in life and putting women down it’s disgusting.
Pearl is just obnoxious and ugly as a human being.
yeah, the side eye ...😅
She's like the right wing Hasan, all her positions are glaringly obvious before she states them.
She makes me want to turn into a man hating far lefty just to say talking points to trigger her.
Except Hasan can actually back his positions, this bitch just cray
Hasan but a lot less condescending
Hasan is very very dumb and misinformed, but Pearl is substantially dumber and more misinformed
@@feelingevaporated2912 could you give me an example where Hasan was misinformed?
Kelly was impressively chill considering she was the 3rd wheel to Pearl and Destiny's romantic stream.
pearl is factual
@@RR-et6zp oh look, there's a pearl bot 😂😂😂
@@kittykat3778 Not true
@@RR-et6zpoh i see its pearl herseld
@@alexwillsuffice not true
"I think we should probably teach people to swim." 1:11:40
That was such an important point.
It physically pained me when Destiny was forced to explain it further when it went right over Pearly's head
Really says a lot about how dumb Pearl is. How can some be that dumb??
Teach them to swim.. so they have time to suffer before dying of hypothermia.
a lot flies over her head
It didn’t fly over her head she just plays dumb sometimes.
@@estherbjerga523 I thought so before but I've been starting to think she actually is dumb 😅
"I have relatives who are addicts, they just keep doing the same thing over and over again..."
Yes, Pearl, that is an addict.
Kelly's voice is the audio equivalent of me running my hands over velvet. Just so lovely.
Pearl will marry the most toxic man and end up eating her words
Can't wait. She will be in abusive relationship for a bit before she realises she's miserable
And then she says dumb stuff like "women should've picked better men" until she regrets it
From what I've seen, Pearl is deeply insecure (Picks on "whales" at every given opportunity likely because her not being overweight is probably one of the only things she feels confident in,) I get the sense that she's, and I don't mean this super offensively, pretty desperate for a man.
The whole channel seems like an attempt at garnering brownie points by saying things that she thinks most men want to hear (which tends to just be shitting on women for no reason), really big "pick me" energy. Hope she gets some confidence one day before she ends up in a really fucked up situation with a really fucked up toxic guy (because that's the only kind of dude she's going to attract with this type of mindset)
I think she'll end up with someone extremely boring, no risk
And no fun obviously
+ no experience
I think she actually won’t end up with anyone
It's crazy that pearl can't just engage with a point that isn't her own
Because they're not her own, she's just plappering after some men's opinions, hearing some words then WOOOSH
1 man for every 17 women passed on his gene women have always shared high value men
Lmao this is such a funny dynamic. Pearl is so literal about everything, it’s impossible for her to see a connection between A and C because the points aren’t right next to each other. You can never make an abstract or analogous point, or trace the downstream trends/logic of something, because it’s “pulling in a random point” or “going to the extreme” or a “debate tactic” lol. Meanwhile Destiny genuinely does speak in a lot of analogies to try to demonstrate his points so I can see why someone more concrete would have a hard time. But the conversation is definitely fun.
she's slow.
I wish Destiny would try to explain that connection that you mentioned to Pearl and the audience. Because there was a super chat at the end that agreed with Pearl and it pains me to think that there are people out there who are incapable of understanding analogies.
@@kashifsingh791 true. I struggle with these types of people lol but I will say, people on the other extreme are annoying, too. Cuz they can load a lot into a statement by abstracting it beyond the point of reasonable application, allowing for a lot of unrealistic possibilities to get tied in. I imagine this is what Pearl thinks is happening, but really Destiny is just taking the reasoning to its natural conclusion lmao.
@@sophc8599 that’s how I win alot of arguments or a “debate” I have irl, with that exact tactic, maybe it’s bad faith but idc tbh I just don’t wanna lose once I’m engaged bc something internal won’t let me, but afterwards I’m like meh idrc either way, I just want to win when I’m in the heat of the moment😂
@Rj its a grift for sure, she turns it on and off depending on when she wants to get specific answer. When she wants a gotcha she only accepts yes or no without nuance, but she needs to explain and bring up magical anecdotal evidence to explain her opinions.
You can tell Destiny is a good dad. The patience he has with an idiot is saint level. I think the other girl was a bit shocked at how dumb this is... or is pretending to be.
I guess I just need to meet more people. Because I am blown away that people like Pearly can exist. She's allowed to hold these incredibly stupid ideas that she can't defend, then she just goes right on believing.
And when called out on a stupid idea, she drops it and throws up her hands; "I don't know, I feel like..." and just makes an argument from her feelings. AND SHE KEEPS GETTING AWAY WITH IT!
not everything has to be a debate , its her show she can talk about what she feels like.
@@forproject1666nobody has a problem with her talking about what she wants. It’s the fact that she knows absolutely nothing about those topics
In a world in which billions believe in imaginary beings that exist beyond natural laws, it's really not surprising.
So pearl won't get a divorce if her future husband cheats because of the kids. But she will divorce her husband if he becomes hugely obese and say screw the kids...
that is cap.. she is a woman after all and has the incentive to divorce the guy, take the money and the kids.. the motive is irrelevant
@@Deimonos85 u met all women to conclude such?
@Deimonos85 women don't get divorced for some sort of imaginary incentive 😂😂, half of everything isn't even guaranteed 🙄.
@@itsmexena4727 This. And alimony is only paid out in about 15% of divorces.
"But she will divorce her husband if he becomes hugely obese and say screw the kids..."
You misunderstand. _He'll_ divorce _her_ if she becomes hugely obese, and according to her, she'll deserve it. In her mind, it's only unacceptable when a woman gets fat.
Also, she clearly doesn't give a shit about her hypothetical children if she would intentionally force them to grow up in an unhappy and likely hostile household with two parents who obviously resent one another. Furthermore, sticking around after being cheated on just teaches the kids that it's okay and what they should expect in their own relationships when they grow up. Parents teach their kids what to tolerate by what _they_ tolerate.
"Why don't you ever answer the question?" Meanwhile every opinion Pearl gives ends in a question mark 💀
1 man for every 17 women passed on his gene women have always shared high value men
@@RR-et6zpliar with no proof spewing rp talking points
nope@@eavesdropper0
Kelly is way more chill than I thought she might be. Destiny should have more convo's with her.
Yessssss
I'm just still blown away Pearl is still somehow single with all of her deadly accurate takes about women enjoying being cheated on and abused.
that intro already wins her all the dggLs
Agreed, shes very reasonable.
Agreed. Wish she got more spotlight, she seems super insightful but she's soft spoken so they cut her off and talk over her lol
Pearl: men act like women
Other chick: in what way
Pearl: Ummm.. idk like how they talk and stuff.
😂🤣🤣
She's so vacuous and superficial. It's like she doesn't put any real thought into anything she says.
Dgg chat saying “I hope Pearl marries a domestic abuser” had my dying😂. While I disagree and hope she never has to experience that. I feel like her opinions would DRAMATICALLY change if she did.
Edit: 1:13:05 dgg chat is way too funny man 🤣
Also I agree with a comment I saw. Pearl is VERY surface level lol.
Yeah shes extremely naive, inexperienced, and unsympathetic. After experiencing an abusive long-term relationship, I would not want her to go through that but she may be one of those people who really wont get it until it happens to them.
I used to think that there was...
- Genius people
- Smart people
- Above average people
- Average people
- Stupid people
- Profoundly idiotic people
- Bat shit crazy people
But I have now discovered a hidden, missing category at the very bottom: Pearl-like people.
Thank you Pearl for helping me discover this. It means there's still hope for bat shit crazy people. They're not the worst.
Have you not met her type before? They’re literally everywhere in country-suburbia Texas near me, it’s incredibly disheartening 😅
@@cambienvenu They can't be at that level!
She’s what people call an “airhead” full of gas but nothing of substance when she’s done venting. Just an empty rubber sack.
This comment made me feel good 😆
Pretty sure pearls name is reference to the smoothness of her brain
"Why do they break up after they stopped cheating"
JustPearlyThings answer to this just demonstrated how incredibly naive and sheltered she probably was. Her lack of people and life experience is showing (it doesn't matter how many people you meet if you've always closed your mind to see things from their pov)
1. Why do people stop cheating? Usually because they're now unable to cheat anymore because they're lacking in value or they're coming back to the relationship with the tail between their legs. So the women might now see no value in the guy anymore not because he stopped cheating but because there's nothing going on for him anymore and the pain of the cheating is still there.
2. People sometimes don't break up while the cheating is happening because they don't want to "lose" the person they have to the other person. When the cheating ends they sort of see how stupid that was and have the realization of "wtf was I fighting for"
I agree, I mean cheating could totally be considered a form of emotional abuse. I don’t know why she finds it so unreasonable to suggest that those scenarios are analogous with other types of abusive relationships.
So basically because their stupid. Yeah
@@_dillon_7489 The reason she rejected the analogy is because, on some level, she realises it demonstrates how stupidly ridiculous her position is...
My thing is, where does personal responsibility come in? Cause everyone seems to just use “emotional abuse” as the go answer so that the victim of cheating gets sympathy. If something does not feel good, why stay? It just never made sense to me
@@kant5696 So do you think women who stay with men who are violently abusive are partly responsible for getting punched in the face because they don't leave?
Pearl has once again killed more of my braincells
At this point, I'm convinced that a severe alcohol problem would destroy fewer of my brain cells than listening to Pearl.
the look on pearls face as if shes realizing she spouts all this redpill sh*t & considers herself is a “high value woman” but nobody’s wifing her up 😂
pearl is factual
Are you married?
I agree. Definitely not wife material.
@@RR-et6zp do you write this on every comment pearl bot?
@@matthewv4170 No
What's most depressing about all of this is when Pearl says Destiny is bringing up "random things" that "have nothing to do with the conversation" by coming up with very clear (and extreme, but that's the point) examples of analogous situations that she treats differently. Like women in abusive relationships vs cheating.
it is because she can't articulate her points like samuels did and myron does.. and destiny ignores biology and thins everything is equal...
they both agreed that in general men value looks and women resources at 33:50 and then cosplayer said resources to a certain extent and that not all women want millionaires.. lol
that is cap.. just like if women could, they would pick the 1% guys, most men, if they could, would bang the hottest chicks on earth..
thing is.. usually destiny describes a lot of other traits and this and that but forgets that if the woman looks good and is not annoying, the dude is happy and for the woman, the dude has go meet a lot of demands: height, the money, fit etc in order to show his personality and charisma... it doesnt matter if the dude has a heart of gold and a caring and loving man that protects animals... if she is 5'5 and broke, cosplayer girl would never look his way
@@Deimonos85 I don't think Destiny "ignores biology", but okay. I think Pearl's problem is just a lack of analysis-synthesis skills, or identification of comparison-abstraction processes. Sadly, those are some of the most important traits of great conversations.
@@Deimonos85 i disagree ive had the chance to go for richer guys but if theyre cocky and mentally immature women will genuinely stay far away. it might work for someone who want fun short term but if someone is insufferable theyre insufferable its that simple and alot of men are these days.
the problem is the examples destiny bring up is very extreme. like they are talking about playing games but he brings up sexual assault. it would be more fair if he brins up something that has same level of severity. playing games with a man or woman does not have same level of severity as sexual crimes because they are talking about dating games.
thats like you talking about child predators when the original convo is about thieves.
@@forproject1666 It's supposed to be extreme, so you can see where your principles lead if if they're followed consistently. That is not a flaw -- it's a feature.
Dear God, Pearl always sounds like she's about to sneeze.
😆
So damn true 😂😂
Lol
1 man for every 17 women passed on his gene women have always shared high value men
@@RR-et6zp you got kids
My favorite part is when she says “I’ve been on more panels than anyone here” as if destiny wasn’t doing panels before this girl even learned what the internet is lolol
The sitting right next to each other but not making any eye contact setup is so awkward
The way they’re all just side eyeing each other while speaking Is hysterical, it’s like a BioWare game.
I'm genuinely enjoying Kelly's energy as this goes on lol.
There's no way Pearl has ever been in a relationship and experienced feelings.... The things she says....
She said she had, but not clear for how long
@@oneextra8659 He was a fat, homeless black man who left her for a fat chick. I suspect that's where a great deal of her current mindset comes from.
How can middle girl speak so much and be so wrong it hurts my entire body. Also love how she smiles in the meantime
Everytime I see her now...I can't get MeatCanyons drawing of her out of my head....
Time to play the JustPearlyThings drinking game, take a shot every time Pearl says "accountability" :P
Pearl: I think women like to be cheated on.
Well I hope you get cheated on in your next relationship because you apparently like it.
The real kicker is that if you actually told her you hope she gets cheated on, she'd get upset for wishing something bad on her.
Cheat on your gf guys! She’ll love it, I promise.
okay!
Yea i talked to random e celebs on my shitty podcast. Definitely represents the general populace
@@seanjenkins5505 it's not just that she's confusing not liking something to automatically breaking up, you can do things that cause great rifts in a relationship without leaving. How many couples put up with an alcoholic partner for years, just because they didn't break up over doesn't mean they like it or enjoy the experience.
She just seems genuinely dumb or the most emotionally stunted person in existence. I could think of multiple reasons instantly why you wouldn't immediately leave. If its a long term relationship you probably don't want to torpedo it instantly. That person might still have feelings for them. I don't know how pearle can have this opinion that women and emotional and dumb and then she thinks they should also be perfect rational actors "if A happens then i do B." Gee its almost like people in general don't behave like computers
@@thomaswalmsley8959 that's exactly point. I don't know what universe she occupies where just because you don't do the exact opposite extreme therefore you enjoy it
Has Pearl ever been in a relationship… ever? Also, would love to know what her relationship with her father was like…
You’re asking the real questions.
Well, she adores her father and she has been in 1 relationship as far as I know
I believe she’s never lived with a male & she worships her Dad… never talks about her mum, but her dad is the conservative family oriented male that she wants to marry 😬 she has heaps of brothers, including adopted brothers
She had one relationship with a "rich millionaire" who was homeless at the time, she let him move into her parents house until he got back on his feet, and then he left her for a hotter athletic redhead 💀💀
She's also obsessed with her dad and romanticizes his role, but always refers to her mom as a whale because she gained weight after having kids 🙃 with how often she says that men need to leave the whales behind, I'm curious if her parents are still together
@@animeFAN1743 All of this just confirms to me that Pearl (like most woman-hating redpillers) has mommy issues.
38:10 Perfection. Sheer perfection. Steven was asked, on the spot, what his standards were. He gave a thoughtful, engaging, substantive response. Steven then asked Pearl the same question. She bided time and accused Steven of “being ready.” Then Pearl gave the most shallow, least engaging list of standards only to awkwardly stamper off.
women moment
I simultaneously love and hate this Pearl arc. She says the most wonderfully stupid things, in the most honest and genuine ways. Great chemistry.
Agreed. Pearl thinks Destiny is always defending women, when all he's doing is trying to put equal honus on both men and women when it comes to dating and relationships. Pearl's default is always blame the woman, so to her to it looks like all Destiny is doing is just defending women.
She feels horrible and fake and cowardly
@@atypicalambience3487 I don't get that feeling too much. There's definitely times where it is dead obvious that Destiny has her cornered on a topic, and he politely lets her move onto the next thing instead of holding her to it, but I think 99% of us are aware of what has happened.
I think that's just social and entertainment etiquette. It's a pretty big ask to have her constantly be biting bullets in front of all of her viewers.
@@GR33TINGSEARTHL1NGS
If you think she is just stupid I totally see where you are coming from.
There is a horrible trend of these preachy manosphere type people that I just can't stop obsessing over. Every statement they make only needs to sound rhetorically correct to a persons literal previous sentence. It does not matter if the person they are listening to is building to a wider argument, or if the manosphere influencer's statement, which is mindless and catering, has anything to do with what their guest has said. They will reach for whatever will help them emotionally cope with a linear argument. It's only genuine or endearing in the sense that she needs to say these stupid things to protect her ego. She believes stupid things because she has to protect her image and job.
It is all so dismissive to the person she are talking to.
@GB the problem is her viewers don't see it, they think Destiny is making shit up.
the red pill conent is being infinitely milked
I like Kelly Jean, she had a lot of good comments. I still think Pearl must be trolling and saying the dumbest possible take she can think of. Entertaining as always, though. GJ everyone.
Pearly does the classic thing where instead of engaging with the comparative argument (ie do girls like being abused because they don’t leave?) they act like you’re trying to say it’s the same and it’s so absurd to even ask that. She doesn’t understand that you can use another argument to test the consistency of your opinions
Every time Pearl opens her mouth, the average IQ in the studio drops.
51:42 - 52:18 Destiny makes an argument for holding men accountable for their actions
52:18 - 52:30 Pearl proceeds to ask where the accountability is
I rest my case
Pearl is definitely Destiny’s kid sister. Nobody can tell me otherwise 😂😂😂
Stepsister 😳
@@HAHAd2 who just so happens to get stuck
@@lavellelee5734 What are you doing Step-Destiny?
One couch, 3 women.
Destiny out here confirming how pearl is completely clueless on so many of these topics. The amount of times she says something and stumbles straight after destiny responds to her questions. The part when destiny asks why pearl is still single was comedy gold 😂😂
I would love to be in a discussion like this as a woman who has been in a very happy healthy relationship for 10 years with a man who was not rich, had very little experience, who has loved me through weight loss/gain, and I had a child when we got together. I have so many things that I wish I could say to this woman. She goes on to these podcasts with very specific types of women and then makes really stupid assumptions based on certain things they say.
totally they talk about women I do not relate to..
She would just say your man isn’t “masculine”. She’s done something similar before with a 15 year married woman who refuted her bullshit, and Pearl just plucked out a photo with her and her husband and said (paraphrasing) that “he doesn’t exactly look masculine, does he?”
Kelly spoke the least but said the most. Would love to hear from her more.
Agreed she has really cool vibes
The important part about the "if she got fat" idea is that after getting fat she has given up completely on who she was before and refuses to do anything.
Just like how the guy who hasn't had a job in 2 years has given up and became a slob.
people also forget that women gain a lot of weight during childbirth that is really difficult to remove because of time, motherhood, work, age and hormones actively fighting against it.
@@xlretard what she said is true
@@xlretard and you know this because you’re a woman right?
Not even 5 seconds in and Pearl is already wild.
The more I watch pearl the less I can tolerate her. She’s argumentative just for the sake of being argumentative. She interrupts all the time and I’ve seen her on some podcast, explained a man’s point of view, while interrupting a man trying to explain a man’s point of view. She can barely speak a sentence without laughing through the sentence. I don’t know. I just find her on the annoying side.
Jury is in, pearl isn't a grifter, just infinitely stupid. Completely oblivious to how much she interrupts and can't follow half of destiny's arguments.
I’m so excited for pearl to grow up. Any day now she’ll stop being 16.
Pearl Harbour two nights ago was the most chaotic podcast. Pearl runs an interesting new format, with hunger games style kick outs.
It legit gave me Raj Royale flashbacks, ah the old days.
@null_sector True, I was gonna say that Pearl was the surprise feminist in out-royaling Raj!
pearl harbor lmfao
don't disrespect the hunger games like that
Almost everything she says seems anecdotal with no actual examples, and the way she speaks about things is childish. I don't believe she has any real-world experience
*Destiny:* *makes the most flawless argument of all time (very strong man punching girl is possibly attempted murder vs 16 yo girl slapping man is not).
*Pearl:* *brushes the argument off by calling it an excuse.
Me: *makes this comment.
I have a genuine fucking question man. Is Pearl under the influence? Because jesus christ
Now imagine if we switched the roles & Destiny was all like, “I’m gonna read off all the super-chats that are roasting Pearl, but not the ones that are mean to me…” and proceeded to do just that.
Pearl CLAIMS to be all about women being seen as equal to men in the eyes of the law when they hit a man vs when a man hits a woman, but when it comes down to how she treats Destiny in this video, her actions completely contradict what she claims to believe. At the very end, she couldn’t be more eager to roast Destiny in front of hundreds of thousands of viewers- and despite there obv being plenty of super-chats also roasting her, she purposefully ignores them because “tehe, I just can’t take it.”
Idk man, I’m not sayin that Pearly is like this in general, but what she did at the end of the video just seemed pretty disingenuous and crappy.
I don't think it's a man vs woman thing. I think she's just genuinely insecure and can't really handle criticism. This was pretty apparent when Destiny was making fun of her for being single, despite her stated standards (which were very low). She immediately tried to change the topic away from herself
She hates that she loves him 😂
Pearl is 100% like this in general. All of her videos and clips and podcasts are of her hating and degrading women and they can't say much back because it's her platform.
I'm sure all of these psychopaths have normal, healthy, functional relationships, and we should totally take their advice on dating.
such a weird comment
Besides Kelly, of course as we all know she's always the most based.
/S
Bro, you've been attempting this for the past several uploads. Get better material.
Pretty loose use of psychopath don’t you think?
Psychopaths give good as on getting laid
The cosplayer girl actually seems really cool to hang out with.
4:00 rose was engaged to cal because her family was broke.... she actually fell in love with jack
her analogy sucks
Oh my Gosh how you describe what a woman is looking for is ridiculous Pearl, the first thing is chemistry remember chemistry.
Pearl is low-key into Destiny, future taint tickling endeavors
You can cut the sexual tension between pearl and the blue-haired girl with a knife
I ship it
I just want one of these times that Pearl does the "youre telling me water isnt wet," and just go into the arguement that water isnt wet. Water is a liquid that makes dry objects wet. Water itself is not wet.
Even if you weren’t wrong about water not being wet, which you are, that would be a complete waste of time to go through and not really help Destiny’s position.
@@ChipCheerio arguable. People would say it’s the saturation of water on something that qualifies being wet. In which case water would be wet due to it saturating itself provided there is at least 2 molecules to saturate itself. However there’s still the argument of a single water molecule by itself perhaps not being wet as it isn’t being saturated by anything else.
@@questionablecarnage1469 It’s actually 6 water molecules that you’d need in order for it to be wet. Once you get below six they stop functioning like a liquid. However nothing would be “wet” if we dropped six molecules of water on it.
Water is wet because it’s constantly saturated with itself, and will only not be wet if there’s so little of it that it becomes literally imperceptible to humans.
@@ChipCheerio sooo wait. The answer is no until you add enough it becomes yes? In which case the actual answer should be no, right? Due to the fact water, as far as I am aware, is defined by the bonding of 2 hydrogen and 1 oxygen. Not by the quantity of H2O present. Am I missing something or have I got something wrong?
@@questionablecarnage1469 If you were hit by one singular raindrop, are you wet? No, you’re not. If, however, I threw a bucket of water at you, then we probably would consider you wet.
There is a threshold for everything, including water. You will never find 5 molecules of water alone, you will only ever find it present by the millions or billions of molecules. So for all intents and purposes it is wet all the time in any place it can be found.
Saying that a woman leaving a man because he has no job for two years is not an example of women loving men less. Why can't it just mean that the woman needs to survive and she can love him but love herself more?
The way Pearl gets this, "drunken swagger", before she says something she knows is absolutely false/ridiculous is so entertaining
1 man for every 17 women passed on his gene women have always shared high value men
What’s wrong with what she said?
Omg, I noticed that but couldn't put into words what she was doing. She stares off to space when shes getting owned
Occasionally, I wonder whether or not Pearl is just consistently playing a character for the audience. I am aware that I've mentioned this before in recent videos, but currently, I've grown far more confused. Sincerely, she appears quite unintelligent, and I mean this as a clear clinical description of how she behaves and responds to a number of arguments.
Whenever a super chat is roasting destiny i always get the impression that it's a Destiny fan trolling him
Oh my god 🙄 Pearl’s surface level analysis is super annoying.
“Girls like being cheated on” is one the dumbest unexamined takes she has and she says it so often.
He’s savagely chopping down every single point she’s trying to make ! It’s brutal
And I love it ❤️🔥
it seems like pearl is desperate for a relationship the way she talks
She certainly is lonely and still hasn't figured out why LMAO 💯
bro fr she a soft 3 talmbout all this relationship shit like she got dudes lining up to hit smfh
@@IJohnSmith LMAO exactly 💯
@@franklingoodwin that's what he's saying
Lmao as I’m watching this and thinking about the man I’m crazy about….a 36 year old living with his parents haha. He’s absolutely precious though and such a kind, giving human being. Sometimes ppl just fall into a bad spot and they can’t help it. I see how hard he works to be a better person and to fix his mistakes. Love should be unconditional, I know as humans we are just naturally flawed but if you truly love a person then you will love them at their lowest because they will give you the world at their best.
But aren't the conditions here "precious", "kind", "giving", and someone who wants to better himself? If he didn't have these 'conditions' anymore, then you wouldn't unconditionally love him anymore
people that date for personality definitely have the healthiest sturdiest relationships. they have to clear some small bars (take some amount of care for themselves, have some ambitions, have some kind of interesting hobby that they care about) and the rest is just vibing with humour and being aligned in problemsolving. its sooo fulfilling
@@GG-vl9xq that’s why I worded…love should be unconditional…but I know as humans we are flawed…so we just do the best we can. I know it’s pretty hard to actually love someone unconditionally…but we should at least try 🤷🏼♀️
@Anna I just think there is this weird negative connotation for the word 'conditional'. Maybe because when people hear it, they automatically think about superficial things. But non superficial conditions (like the things you mentioned) are actually great. Because no matter how you look at it, people have a mix of different norms, values, beliefs, dislikes, and likes, which makes them different from each other. So people will love a person that aligns at least somewhat with those things. But if those things turned out not be true, and you realize that the person you loved doesn't have the qualities what made you fall in love with them, then I don't find it weird to stop the love. Or if they all of a sudden change and lose the qualities that made you fall in love with them, I would actually find it bad if you don't try to stop loving them. Because that's just smells like a recipe for disaster where you start to slowly lose your own sense of self (your own values, likes, beliefs...) That's why I think love will always be conditional and why I think that conditional love is actually good. It's just different when you base it on superficial things. Then it's bad, yes.
Of course change over years in those things is bound to happen naturally, but that's why I think it's important to figure out for yourself what is fundamentally important to you. The changes outside those fundamentals are still oke, but you will be able to detect it faster when the core of the relationship is beginning to rot so that you can get out of it faster before it starts to rot your own core.
@@GG-vl9xq we dont even love our family unconditionally, if they treat you like shit for years we cut ties, so why would we love anybody without conditions.
Sometimes when Pearly makes a statement my eyes just roll. It's like she barely thinks through stuff before she just says it. Why?
Also Kelly Jean is boss energy LOL
She also interrupts just because she doesn't understand what the person is saying
I feel like it’s every time….. She just says what a misogynistic man would say. She hates women
This pearl girl is so unequipped for these topics.
he's literally writing a book called " why women deserve less" lol