If I'm being real, as a 25 yr old woman who has grown up on the interent, IF YOUR MAN CAN BE TAKEN OFF SOME INTERNET FOOD, ima hold your hand so tightly when I tell you THAT'S NOT YOUR MAN, AND HE DOESN'T LIKE YOU. Don't blame "cooking wit Kya" 😭😭😭😭😭😭
No fr. If y’all picking problems w Kya bc your man EASY & wanna go after some girl online who he prolly would’ve never met irl?? Your problem is right there
Right I disagree with the “pick me” comments bc she is playing into the male gaze but not in the worse way I’ve seen women play into it. What’s truly happening is she’s making content to boost her emotional state from losing her sister and the men using her as a weapon… when did she specifically reply to a female or actual go after someone’s man???The men see her joking about taking them (which to me is a means to get the girls in the kitchen and out the bedroom) and they are going after her. My girl letting yall know the real key to a man’s heart is his stomach, not being the wastebasket that had his children without him committing. The women mad about this when they need to step their cookies up. After generations of being ACTUAL pickmes by laying up and allowing men to impregnate them. Now you in a nasty house and always buying take out for you and your umpteen kids. Don’t even mention them being out of shape. Lemme find out Chioma a lil salty cuz ole girl blew up. Meanwhile, you’re thinking about quitting YT to get a 9-5. Let somebody else have a turn… dang! We know Kya will fizzle out in a bit. Let her have fun and make a lil money, SHEESH!
my problem isnt with Kya, its how men jump and down and clap their hands for the most random basic shit. Its nothing wrong with what she does at all but the way her videos and all these think pieces have been forced on my screen has been annoying ASF. this whole topic just adds on to the gender wars im over it
Honestly the women that are mad are because she triggers something in them from a local girl they know and are projecting. As for her, rule number 1, if you lead with something like "I can steal your man" you are inviting negative energy even if she is just saying it to say it, but words have power.
I agree, but my thing is, no one has ever said Trey Songz was inviting negative energy by calling himself 'Mr. Steal Yo Girl.' I also don't recall anybody saying that to the dozens of male entertainers who have talked about stealing somebody's girl. Actually, the most popular female rappers have gotten clout off these types of lyrics. If she sees it works, why wouldn't she do it?
@@nbanks9489Trey gets talked about all the time and that was a different time when he was saying that lol no one cared because of how fine he was and the other people get mentioned a lot about what they say wdym
@@nbanks9489 his behavior is excused because it is not his entire brand. that’s not something he just said in every song in the beginning of his career. and not that people like what he’s saying, but it’s not what they like him for. through-out a successful artist’s entire discography, that is not all you are hearing from them, majority of the time. the average person can cook what she’s cooking. the average person can twerk. she’s not doing anything extraordinary, so she’s making saying those things her gimmick. but just saying those things is not something that’s going to appeal to the majority.
Men literally pit cookingwitkya against other women. The moment a woman calls what Kya does the bare minimum (which it literally is)!, men accuse them of being jealous of her. Women have been cooking for thousands of years and the moment one starts to wiggle with her plate, men suddenly care about the intricacies of cooking and female envy? Please.
Omg this is soo scary because my sister said this same thing last week. She said there's literally professional woman cooks who do this for a living. None of them are half naked and shaking their behind and men don't bat an eye. The minute they see a black girl doing something while shaking her behind, all the other black girls are jealous when they're called out for it
I’m tired of everything being over sexualized. Theres no care for talent anymore, just who has the best body or can take somebody’s “man”. I haven’t even kept up with this story because I knew it was some bs lol. I also learned that in college as well that a lot of men can’t or don’t cook.
*My issue is the older women 40+ getting upset. Listen if a man has you competing with a 20 yr, that is not a man for you. I’m 33 & couldn’t imagine talking to anyone under the age of 29.*
@@goldengirl7625 veteran boyfriends they've been waiting on marriage from for 10 years lol whew fix it. I'm 39 and happy for her, there's enough room for us all.
this the one‼️‼️‼️💯💯💯💯💯💯grown ass women making “think pieces” on twitter about this 22 year old young woman. Mind you all this over some dusty man they laid up with and are projectinggggggggg and hatinggggggggg
@@goldengirl7625 That says a lot about the women too since they like those types of guys. Even if you give someone like that a chance that says a lot about the woman also. Actions speak louder than words.
They're entertainers and famous. They don't want the average man. Lil Uzi is worth a lot of money and is paying some of JT bills. She don't want no man that can't do that for her. CookingwithKya is an average woman catering to average men.
I feel like Kya Hyped will die down by next year right now people are only talking about her she is overly sexual herself for attention once someone is new comes along her 5 mins will go away
In my opinion, if my man can be taken by a girl who can cook, then if I cook and still watches her, then girl, he’s all yours! If a man can be taken that easy then take him. I’m happy she’s getting her bag though!!! Go Kya!!!!!!!! (Thank you for the likes💝)
SOMEHOW You're CHANGING THE SUBJECT From You YOURSELF COOKING For Your MEN TO HER COMING THROUGH THE SCREEN AND STEALING Your MAN? PALEEEEEZE STOP THE CAP
@ there are other comment like this too, so if you’re going to say that to my comment, why not say it to the others? Please be fair. Sir, why are you yelling in a caps? It’s not that serious! 😊✨
Idk about that. Hopefully, she can make this work for her, but she needs a long-term marketing plan. Rage-bait works, but it is very short term, and if you always rely on rage bait, you will always have to up the anti for shock value. If her target audience is women, then she's going to have to learn to be more likable, relatable, and inspirational WITHOUT off-putting her target demographic. If her target is men, then she will always have to resort to doing something sexual (which she doesn't seem to mind doing) in a shocking way to maintain the momentum and income.
Every month there’s a new viral story. Right now, it’s her and I don’t see anything wrong with capitalizing off of the moment but it’s just that, a moment. What I find interesting is the amount of men pretending as if she’s doing something that’s hard for to come by. As if cooking and being sexy for a man protects you from being dogged out. They associate cooking with the responsibility of a woman but I promise you, if a man went viral for being the sole provider of a woman, upholding the gender expectation of being a provider, and said his money can take their girl, they’d be bleeding all over the internet complaining about gold diggers and simps..
I don’t get why ppl get jealous when the type of men she is attacking are ones that we shouldn’t even want. The guys are strictly attracted bc of the sexual elements and her willingness to cater to their needs. I thought we were tired of those kinda men.
When i see cooking with kya, i see a jezebel. She is a gorgeous and pretty girl i want to start this off because I’m not a hater for 1. 2. I have a loyal God fearing man that doesnt struggle with looking to other women besides me 3. I can cook also. But she literally talks about stealing someone man in majority of her videos. I could support her if she didnt include taking people man that gives mean girl and 304 vibes. She does not give girls girl. Lets be honest. She can say “let me show you how to cook for your man” instead of trying to take people men… jezebel 304 behavior literally.
Being confident doesn’t mean provoking people by saying you can take their men, twerking and sexualising cooking…that to me is the opposite of being confident
@@lovelygirl7123if you’re threatened by a random girl you don’t know joking about taking your man, then you are a low excuse of a woman for dating such dusty. How about you do better as a woman and find a better quality man so you wont be threatened by the bare minimum lmfao
Me personally, I say good on her for making a hustle on the internet; however I just don’t respect the way she went about it. Like the fact that she’s capitalizing off of the insecurities of other women and the fact that she’s playing into the whole “pick me” role. I think that’s especially dangerous rn since men and women are already so divided and this gives men even more ammo to look down & compare ladies against each other
Regardless the insecurities of other women is not her responsibility and as a content creator she’s allowed to cultivate an audience or engagement however she sees fit
@@tsuu1517 Nah, because no one claims Nicki, Megan, or Cardi are capitalizing off of other women's insecurities when they talk about taking people's man. Crazy how they want already rich women to 'get that bag' but when a girl who actually might need it is tryna get it morality comes into the picture
Makes me feel even more confident in my decision to leave men, romantic, relationship, relationships, sexual relationship, relationships, or anything of that nature behind me. It’s all toxic. It’s all transactional. I get the night. Everybody can do something with their lives. We definitely reward terrible behavior. But I’m not about to let my blood pressure be affected by ANYONE EVER.
@@alkahinat4558exactly! I find more peace not being intimate with a man. No arguing, lack of sex aftercare, and having my ph balance altered feels more securing
@@hellosunshinek6883 oh my God, the Internet is not ruining relationships. It’s people oh my goodness it’s like people look to blame everything y’all are blaming objects now for people being stupid? This is why the world needs to end. Everybody has completely lost their mind. Everybody’s looking to blame everything non-breathing things instead of the people.. The Internet is not forcing people to do anything. A lot of of ppl are just followers.
@xojoyceeeee nope her success did die down lol haven't heard about her in a minute. She was slowwwwww and at her big age smh. I couldn't believe how naive she was.
I just posted a comment saying this. This can only get her but so far. She could’ve made it much more lucrative if she did it from the women’s gaze. How is she going to pivot and sell merchandise? Men watch for a cute face and rump shaking. The others hate watch. Both demographics aren’t going to pay for a product.
@@KAye633 But she would get a nicer/less nasty response if she doesn't try to be a mean girl and stops making rage-bait comments towards women for views. Nastiness towards Kya is definitely uncalled for, but at the same time, common sense dictates that she can't say things for shock value and attention while also being shocked that some people are paying her attention.
Girl.... Just go into business for yourself as a private chef and get a bag.... To do it for someone else's man (drama, STDs, giving the man an inflated ego, and/or worse) just to get "rewarded" with being a full time servant..... Is not a prize to me.
Well cooking didnt make Clarence marry Queen Naija so how strong is cooking.Lets be honest actual good men are not on the internet trolling women like the male fans of this lady are.None of those men are high value because the high value men are not looking to antagonize women on the internet
8:14 I agree. Please learn how to cook it's an essential life skill not just to do for others but for your overall well-being. I hope to learn how to cook more dishes in the future. ❤️
The problem is not Kya. She's pretty, young and making money as she should. It's the men using her as a "see that's what women are supposed to do to have/keep a man". Kya is just playing along with it. If a man can leave his gf/wife because of a meal, he was never hers to begin with 😹. I also know if a man was doing stuff like providing and protecting his women, the same men that are praising Kya for a skill every adult should have would be in a uproar 💀
I agree! It’s crazy how far it went, I’ve seen comments of dudes saying they’ll leave their girlfriends for her, people comparing their gf’s to her, then girls getting mad at her bc of their bf lusting over her, when in reality if a woman on social media causes your man to disrespect you or ur relationship, then thay person isn’t for you, no reason to hate Kya at all.
As much as black women complain about white women getting famous for doing the bare minimum, sisters should be happy this girl is going viral for not doing much. And it’s ridiculous for women to get upset over the “take your man” angle when every other female rapper has been doing that for the past 8 years. She’s likely playing a character but for some reason has people pressed. Also, death threats should never be taken as just playing into something. That’s simply unacceptable. Hell, even the white girl who made the Mac n cheese was getting attacked for “stealing our culture” and she’s a respected and talented chef. She didn’t play into the male gaze. She just cooked
This is what I'm saying- the ONE time the 'preference' isn't being put on a pedestal and it's someone who looks like them and they hate her? I'm honestly shocked and disappointed. Even we don't want ourselves to have anything nice.
A lot of women are unfortunately. A good game is talked but validation is a big deal for a lot people. I just appreciate those who have learned to live without it, or the ones who don’t sell themselves just to get it. Humans are crazy like that!
Men are being disingenuous. Some of the same men defending her would NEVER want their girlfriends/wives making the same content she's making. And let's be real here: The men who are giving Kya a pass are only doing so because her sexuality and labor are in servitude to them. Had Kya done the same twerking in those same outfits while doing make-up or hair tutorials for women instead of cooking for men, they would dog her like they do OF models. Men are NOT mad about Kya's weave, tattoos, twerking, or provocative outfits so long as she's performing labor that is in service to them and not herself or other women...👀🫠🙃
I do understand why people are upset. Kya is encouraging being a home wrecker or wtv but if y’all’s men are falling for her Literally, then you needa leave him😭
Honestly, I don’t think this was a smart business move at all. She chose her audience they’re not gonna buy no cookware,etc in turn I don’t see brands wanting to work with her unless their audience is also the male gaze. I wouldn’t be surprised if in a year from now she’s saying how she regrets it bc she’s being sexualixed constantly
Sisterhood does exist. The problem is you guys think being a girls girl mean supporting ALL women. It doesn't mean that. It's about not dragging women when the patriarchy already does that.
What’s funny for me is that I came across a reel of a collab she did with somebody and dude said the food tastes AWFUL, 😂😂 girl had the nerve to ask “What’s wrong? Is it edible?” MAAM YOURE THE COOK!!!!😂😂😂😂
Even tho I side with Kya in this topic..you did just lay out the starter package for internet fame. But it applies to almost 85% of women online these days, not just Kya. It was funny af and true tho 😂
Girl, me and my husband have been following this silly story, we dont understand it, just laugh as we make dinner together. He now does the dance she does at the end " cooking with kya, cooking with kya". Lol
Men are the easiest bag and women’s anger is the next one up. She’s smart, this might not be what a lot of women want for their image, but I’m not mad at her AT ALL. I love food and cooking! And there’s a ton of ways to get creative with it. Then there’s this, which is very profitable.
Mine too. I can’t exactly put my finger on it. And it’s not regarding the Halle situation, because ppl break up all the time. I disliked him before that
She’s got this cuteness about her that I love! Now she knew what she was doing by trolling her way into going viral. It’s called rage bait for a reason! I love to cook from scratch and definitely throw a little ass for my husband’s entertainment while I’m cooking. Like that saying, “a key to a man’s heart is through his stomach”. Men can be so simple, they really are suckers for what should be a basic life skill. But women definitely caused Kya to go as viral as she did, by being bothered!
I have nothing against Kya,she really beautiful & could cook. But what's up with all these " steal your boyfriend " content? Didn't she know the men she charade ,for will be the first to drop her when a better one comes along? That's what pickmees get for ages. She will regret plotting herself against her own gender & all these men pitting women against eachother saying we're jealous are just pathetic. Like we aren't jealous of her,beauty ain't an achievement & cooking is a basic skill ,most of the women are just worried how we oversexualize ourselves especially as POC's.
If my man can be taken please please please make sure to collect ALL his belongings (because he WON'T be able to come back and anything not taken the first and only time will be sold or thrown away). Also, please make sure he doesn't send me ANYTHING not flowers trying to get back, text trying to get back and definitely not popping up. Make sure you keep him happy and occupied so I don't have to ever experience him or his shenanigans ever again and I'll definitely do my part to stay away as well. I hope she reaches the level of success she aspires to have and more.
The problem with Kya girl is the taunting. Anytime a woman is attractive it's like she should get away with EVERYTHING. No one has an issue with her looks or beauty. It's the men degrading their girls on her behalf. It's also taunting THE TAUNTING. No one cares about the girl getting her bag. She's not the only pretty girl cooking. It's intentionally using something to have women against you. 😂😂😂all entertainment and men wanting a cooking woman don't provide ANYTHING
Always here for Chioma 💯 Her jingle is catchy. Food is basic kitchen know how but looks good and some ppl just can’t or don’t cook. Do your thing girlie, she’s young.
@@barb-bi good home cooking is a fave for a reason, it’s great, but the way everyone was carrying on, I did think there’d be some fine dining plates being served up 😭
Honestly I love that she is cooking as a young lady . That’s something you should know how to do its apart of taking care of yourself. But I definitely agree with you saying everything being sexual right now . Definitely makes me feel like im a grandma and im very young but im not really into showing off every part of my body . You definitely attract all types of people while doing that and that’s what scares me the most .
I don't understand why people are mad at her? If you have a low vibrational man who likes disrespectful content or lusts after women that's a you and your man problem! Why are people acting so dunce??
@@RockyR 👏🏾! Those low vibrational, disrespectful and thirsty men are the problem! But people always have to blame the woman, when it’s not her fault the man doesn’t have self control or integrity. That’s a him problem! We even call the women men stray with homewreckers, hello? HE’S the one who wrecked the home, yeah the other women helped, but it’s mostly on him. Just too much dunce behaviour going on 💆🏾♀️
I like this chick she is getting paid exposing peoples insecurities not on purpose. She is getting engagement from men and women it’s a win for her with out doing anything strange for change 🎉
We also have to look into the demographics of people or women that are hating on her. I feel like everyone has some sort of insecurities but the women hating on her are probably not secure in themselves or their relationships. This is why before you get into a relationship you need to establish some sort of understanding and values with yourself. You need to build that confidence and trust with God and with yourself. Evaluate yourself and understand your triggers and strengths. For anything that may trigger you, uncover it and look for the root of it. Search for healing. Kya is a beautiful girl and she can cook. She is very skilled and talented but also seems to have a great energy and isn’t afraid to be herself. I could see how a lot of women can feel intimidated by that but just because I can understand doesn’t mean that it is right. If you’re intimidated by Kya, who doesn’t even know you or your man, that is your sign that something isn’t good within. And most likely it is jealousy. How can you be jealous about a girl who doesn’t even know you exist? And I see a lot of boyfriends using Kya to get their girlfriends upset and it’s childish. Everyone is just hopping on the bandwagon. The same way love can be contagious so can hate and y’all need to clean whatever it is that is in your hearts that may be toxic. It’s pathetic and sad and you are doing yourself a disservice by coming after a girl that is still young and I’m sure trying to find her way in this world. Being jealous is one thing but takin the time to threaten her or send hate is some sociopath behavior. Just calm down learn to love you. Secure you. Be ok with you and if you’re not satisfied with who you are then learn and grow. If you’re afraid that your boyfriend is going to leave you for Kya, then you’re not ready for a relationship. That is an immature mindset and shows that there is no trust. An in a relationship after God, trust is one of the key elements you need for a healthy relationship. I also wanted to bring another point that this often happens a lot especially within the black community. You will see aunties be jealous of nieces and even mothers be jealous of their own daughter because of youthfulness or even because of things like body shape or things that are out of the girls control. I’ve seen girls hate other girls because another girl developed faster during puberty. Girls need to do better. And that will only start once you stop making a man and the opinion of men, your whole identity. Not everything is based around a man, sex, being picked etc. There’s more to life than these things. Your identity shouldn’t be centered around the male gaze. If it is then there’s a lot of work that needs to be done and you need to break that mindset because it is toxic. The same way Kya learned how to cook, you can learn to and just be happy for the girl that she is stable and safe. I don’t agree with the whole twerking thing but it’s her choice and it is what it is. Maybe one day she’ll change up her theme and make it more pg-13. But I know that that will come with time and in the mean time I can cheer and celebrate her and her success and pray for her and her safety. God has her and God has you. Much love ❤️
I think people are over exaggerating, the kind of meals that she be cooking because it’s literally a protein, a whole grain and a vegetable. HelloFresh can teach you how to cook all that shit. Now, if you’re speaking on behalf of yourself specifically then I agree it might be tough for you. But a lot of us who have immigrant parents we were taught how to cook at a very young age and it’s not gonna be a struggle for us living alone and cooking.
@artheaux666 is true. This is what I've been saying. The majority of people with immigrant parents, especially girls. We were taught how to cook early on. The meals kya cooks are nothing special, she just cooks
I have literally never heard of her. I started watching this video because it played after my last video that you posted. But more power to her as long as her heart is right. 😂❤
🤷🏽♀️ idk… I think she’s like a nepobaby/ industry plant. Like it’s weird how our first introduction to her is “all y’all are mad cause…” just seems very orchestrated
i fw kya ngl , but like you said its basic meals. as soon as i seen one video , i knew she was gonna have a million followers at least by next year & look .. women .. or ppl in general need to realize , IF YOU HATE SOMETHING DONT INTERACT WITH IT BY ANY MEANS. 😂 like its that simple !
Yessss I been waiting for you to talk about this. She definitely gives pick me and the food isn’t anything special no hate or shade but the men are impressed easily
This is only a problem for women whose world is centered around men. I have a husband, take him. He snores and asks where stuff is when it's right in front of his face 😂 but seriously if it only takes a plate of food to lose a man, that was never your man your man your man.
All i can see is maybe she change up her content soon cause there is alot thirsty buckets in her comments and theere are predators online. Selling sex or being over sexualized gets old after awgile we seee how this plays out with these celebrities. Plusss the Internet boosts up a new chick every 30 days yall 😂😂😂😂 this Internet shit is fickle as hell.😂😂
I am older, I'm 35 but I still like your videos. I haven't seen cooking with Kya until I saw her being covered on youtube. I think she is also growing in views because she looks more relatable. She looks like a regular 20 year old that any guy can approach. She appeals to the average guy and is using the views to get to the guy that she actually wants which would be a DDG not the millions of regular men viewing her. Most of the women I follow that cook have lavish kitchens and luxury aesthetics. These women cook food most of us can't afford. Kia is cooking regular meals and she is a pretty young lady. If anything she is smart for getting her bag at a young age. She is single and appears not to have any kids. I am a mother and to a son. Now I wouldn't want him watching her but I understand men are visual people. Am I worried about her taking my man no, not at all. But if there is a bag to be made let that young lady make it. I wish she didn't have to sexualize herself to do it because black women are oversexualized already but hopefully she becomes very successful.
its high key pick me activities but getcha bag lol I never heard of her but I saw some internet references lol good for her even though it couldn't be me
I don’t feel offended I’m 35+ so for most of us cooking like this is normal and we don’t need instructions from a 20 something year old. If it don’t apply let it fly.
Threats IS EXTREME BAHAHA WTF PEOPLE😂😂😂😂 what they man finna do , eat her food? Ohhhh social media social media 🤦🏽♀️ i be off tiktok fr . For a reasonnn😂
I just find it funny that you said y’all’s men, as if those men belong to the people that can be taken so easily by a person like that. Just please sit down.
The problem is male centered women being mad because "she can take their man" instead of them to work on themselves and improve their lives. They're always focused on the wrong things + most of the men that follow Kya are pookies and rayrays, why do you want a bum? Please level up and stop being mad at women for getting their bag, it gives insecure and not in a cute way.
Man women love to say "Im going steal your man" then say "im just kidding." Immediately after. Nah you meant that sis, don't try to feign humility now....
I dont think Kya literally wants to steal anyone's man. I think she was just rage-baiting for views by saying something that typically gets under some women's skin. The only issue I have with her is that she's built part of her brand off of playing on some women's insecurities and jokingly being a mean-girl/other woman.
@@reffa2858 I’ve never understood saying that as a bragging point when typically, it’s not hard to ‘take a man’ It’s quite aggressive to say actually I’ve recently been around women like this but never enter these games with them, if it means that much to you, have him. It’s not that serious 😂
It's ONLY the women that CAN'T and WON'T cook that's mad at the young lady I applaud the young Sista for getting to her bag and dismantling the Sisterhood and I'm all here for it we as men are simple and visual creatures we tell women what we want and Kya is ruffling some feathers I'm glad I know how to cook clean and maintain a household I can do bad by myself she's holding a mirror to modern women's face and yall can't stand the reflection in the mirrior #Salute to the Young Goddess get yo BAG Young lady 💯
Another thing that should've been added to this video was the disturbing AI edits of her videos. There were many of them but the worst one was an AI edit of a woman punching her face and it was gory and bloody. Instagram should take that down! Horrible.
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If I'm being real, as a 25 yr old woman who has grown up on the interent, IF YOUR MAN CAN BE TAKEN OFF SOME INTERNET FOOD, ima hold your hand so tightly when I tell you THAT'S NOT YOUR MAN, AND HE DOESN'T LIKE YOU. Don't blame "cooking wit Kya" 😭😭😭😭😭😭
No fr. If y’all picking problems w Kya bc your man EASY & wanna go after some girl online who he prolly would’ve never met irl?? Your problem is right there
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Right I disagree with the “pick me” comments bc she is playing into the male gaze but not in the worse way I’ve seen women play into it. What’s truly happening is she’s making content to boost her emotional state from losing her sister and the men using her as a weapon… when did she specifically reply to a female or actual go after someone’s man???The men see her joking about taking them (which to me is a means to get the girls in the kitchen and out the bedroom) and they are going after her. My girl letting yall know the real key to a man’s heart is his stomach, not being the wastebasket that had his children without him committing. The women mad about this when they need to step their cookies up. After generations of being ACTUAL pickmes by laying up and allowing men to impregnate them. Now you in a nasty house and always buying take out for you and your umpteen kids. Don’t even mention them being out of shape. Lemme find out Chioma a lil salty cuz ole girl blew up. Meanwhile, you’re thinking about quitting YT to get a 9-5. Let somebody else have a turn… dang! We know Kya will fizzle out in a bit. Let her have fun and make a lil money, SHEESH!
i would really love for us as black women to stop being so easily moved and manipulated emotionally by gimmicks like this.
this.
Amen
you refuse to get it lol
I swear
Yassssssssssss
always about what men want, what men like, what men want to see, yawn.
Facts who really gaf
@@vegannn7178if yall dont gaf move on, creating all these think pieces on the internet only shows you care 😭
Right that ish gets annoying
Literally 😂💯 shit so old
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If anybody can take your man, he was *never* yours to begin with.
That's what I said as well.
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I swear I just posted this same comment 😩
Hello! Lmao 🤣
Preach !!
my problem isnt with Kya, its how men jump and down and clap their hands for the most random basic shit. Its nothing wrong with what she does at all but the way her videos and all these think pieces have been forced on my screen has been annoying ASF. this whole topic just adds on to the gender wars im over it
This is a good point 🤷🏾♀️
Men like her cause she antagonizes other women lmao. Now they have someone they can use to put down other girls🤷🏾♀️
But it shouldn’t really be a big thing what men care about lol
@@tsuu1517k?
@@tsuu1517 Re state that.. cause men care so much about what women doing.. what type of makeup to wear.. like tf LMAOOO
Honestly the women that are mad are because she triggers something in them from a local girl they know and are projecting. As for her, rule number 1, if you lead with something like "I can steal your man" you are inviting negative energy even if she is just saying it to say it, but words have power.
I agree, but my thing is, no one has ever said Trey Songz was inviting negative energy by calling himself 'Mr. Steal Yo Girl.'
I also don't recall anybody saying that to the dozens of male entertainers who have talked about stealing somebody's girl. Actually, the most popular female rappers have gotten clout off these types of lyrics. If she sees it works, why wouldn't she do it?
@@nbanks9489Trey gets talked about all the time and that was a different time when he was saying that lol no one cared because of how fine he was and the other people get mentioned a lot about what they say wdym
Yep. As a confident black woman I can say people are fearful of confident black women. It’s seeing a woman who’s apparently everything they want to be
@@nbanks9489it’s because she is an girl next door. That’s why they’re shooketh
@@nbanks9489 his behavior is excused because it is not his entire brand. that’s not something he just said in every song in the beginning of his career. and not that people like what he’s saying, but it’s not what they like him for.
through-out a successful artist’s entire discography, that is not all you are hearing from them, majority of the time.
the average person can cook what she’s cooking. the average person can twerk. she’s not doing anything extraordinary, so she’s making saying those things her gimmick. but just saying those things is not something that’s going to appeal to the majority.
Men literally pit cookingwitkya against other women. The moment a woman calls what Kya does the bare minimum (which it literally is)!, men accuse them of being jealous of her. Women have been cooking for thousands of years and the moment one starts to wiggle with her plate, men suddenly care about the intricacies of cooking and female envy? Please.
This!
This 👏🏾
Omg this is soo scary because my sister said this same thing last week. She said there's literally professional woman cooks who do this for a living. None of them are half naked and shaking their behind and men don't bat an eye. The minute they see a black girl doing something while shaking her behind, all the other black girls are jealous when they're called out for it
I’m tired of everything being over sexualized. Theres no care for talent anymore, just who has the best body or can take somebody’s “man”. I haven’t even kept up with this story because I knew it was some bs lol. I also learned that in college as well that a lot of men can’t or don’t cook.
It’s old at this point
@@kaykay1551very tired, even talented people fall into the trap.
@@NiaraRenee yes she doesn’t have to twerk or be sexual. I’d watch because that’s food I’ve made myself
I agree that part is tiring .
@@NiaraRenee realest comment you made this should get pinned. I'm a guy saying this
*My issue is the older women 40+ getting upset. Listen if a man has you competing with a 20 yr, that is not a man for you. I’m 33 & couldn’t imagine talking to anyone under the age of 29.*
25, and sista? I can't date a guy under 27. Idk HOW or WHY hese ppl are sooo pressed about young woman marketing herself.
They’re mad because their tired and unfaithful 40+ year old baby daddies and veteran boyfriends are looking at her too much 😭
@@goldengirl7625 veteran boyfriends they've been waiting on marriage from for 10 years lol whew fix it. I'm 39 and happy for her, there's enough room for us all.
this the one‼️‼️‼️💯💯💯💯💯💯grown ass women making “think pieces” on twitter about this 22 year old young woman. Mind you all this over some dusty man they laid up with and are projectinggggggggg and hatinggggggggg
@@goldengirl7625 That says a lot about the women too since they like those types of guys. Even if you give someone like that a chance that says a lot about the woman also. Actions speak louder than words.
Naked Breakfast??? We need to bring back shame IMMEDIATELY
Definitely needs to come back and fast🫠
Shame yourself and leave others alone. It’s not your life. Don’t mind it.
What’s wrong with naked breakfast (if it’s not being filmed and posted online of course)?
@@dynastyandrews2416 it left when clout chasing entered the chat 😭
What😂😂😂😂😂😂😂naked breakfast has me dead😂😂😂 whats that.....
female rappers be talking about taking people's men 24/7 but this is where they draw the line😂
Right? City Girls made a whole song about it 😂😂😂
exactly. plus there’s men all over the internet fingering and fisting good but no one is upset at them
They're entertainers and famous. They don't want the average man. Lil Uzi is worth a lot of money and is paying some of JT bills. She don't want no man that can't do that for her. CookingwithKya is an average woman catering to average men.
@@Kemet977so?
Girl!💯🫡 thank you for saying it🤣🤣🤣
I’m 27 and honestly I just feel like her content is meant for men & younger women I just keep scrolling. Let her get her bag in peace ✌🏼
Same I turned 30 a few days ago and I saw her content and just scrolled. That’s her thing it’s not my audience but sending her hate ain’t cute.
Anddddddd wheres her man nowhere so lets stop pretending tht a pretty face n good cookin food is sooo fascinating lol like yall she single
Right like I don't get what there is to be mad at 😅
I feel like Kya Hyped will die down by next year right now people are only talking about her she is overly sexual herself for attention once someone is new comes along her 5 mins will go away
Shiiiii 💯
She is just rage bait that is it and that is all, people need to stop falling for it and letting their stupid partners provoke them
In my opinion, if my man can be taken by a girl who can cook, then if I cook and still watches her, then girl, he’s all yours! If a man can be taken that easy then take him. I’m happy she’s getting her bag though!!! Go Kya!!!!!!!! (Thank you for the likes💝)
SOMEHOW You're CHANGING THE SUBJECT From You YOURSELF COOKING For Your MEN TO HER COMING THROUGH THE SCREEN AND STEALING Your MAN? PALEEEEEZE STOP THE CAP
@ there are other comment like this too, so if you’re going to say that to my comment, why not say it to the others? Please be fair. Sir, why are you yelling in a caps? It’s not that serious! 😊✨
@@arminaluv1279 you're interrupting cooking with kya....
@@MojoeHart ah ok!
I hope people realize that they are hating Kya into a long lasting career.
🤣 People don't realise the more you hate the more money they get lmao
Lol nobody on this platform has a lifelong career. Let’s be serious. It’s Social Media.
@@alexgeorge1028 it’s called farming engagement. It’s called rage bathing. It’s actually marketing. You’re being bought and sold. You are the product.
Yes
Idk about that. Hopefully, she can make this work for her, but she needs a long-term marketing plan. Rage-bait works, but it is very short term, and if you always rely on rage bait, you will always have to up the anti for shock value.
If her target audience is women, then she's going to have to learn to be more likable, relatable, and inspirational WITHOUT off-putting her target demographic.
If her target is men, then she will always have to resort to doing something sexual (which she doesn't seem to mind doing) in a shocking way to maintain the momentum and income.
Every month there’s a new viral story. Right now, it’s her and I don’t see anything wrong with capitalizing off of the moment but it’s just that, a moment. What I find interesting is the amount of men pretending as if she’s doing something that’s hard for to come by. As if cooking and being sexy for a man protects you from being dogged out. They associate cooking with the responsibility of a woman but I promise you, if a man went viral for being the sole provider of a woman, upholding the gender expectation of being a provider, and said his money can take their girl, they’d be bleeding all over the internet complaining about gold diggers and simps..
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All that 💯💯💯💯
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Damn u ate that 💯
Perfect said ❤
I don’t get why ppl get jealous when the type of men she is attacking are ones that we shouldn’t even want. The guys are strictly attracted bc of the sexual elements and her willingness to cater to their needs. I thought we were tired of those kinda men.
Amazing point
EXACTLY like gurl you can have him
What man on earth doesn’t want an attractive woman that cater to his needs? Do y’all hear y’all selves smh
@imone466 girl can you read
💯 agree
When i see cooking with kya, i see a jezebel. She is a gorgeous and pretty girl i want to start this off because I’m not a hater for 1. 2. I have a loyal God fearing man that doesnt struggle with looking to other women besides me 3. I can cook also. But she literally talks about stealing someone man in majority of her videos. I could support her if she didnt include taking people man that gives mean girl and 304 vibes. She does not give girls girl. Lets be honest. She can say “let me show you how to cook for your man” instead of trying to take people men… jezebel 304 behavior literally.
😂😂😂😂
100%
Yeah you definitely a hater
Purrrrrr😂😂😂😂period
She knows exactly what she’s doing😂😂 but good for her
The Cooking with Kya outrage is so crazy to me bc I follow 15 men that say they’ll feed me if my man didn’t today 😭😭
No fr!! Women are really out here being their own worst enemies. SO many men do this and they don't get the smoke Kya is getting.
Lmaooooo pls tell me their names
😂😂😂😂😂😂 girl I need this
@@ElsyCake-sv8bu lmaooooo start with CordandtheKitchen and go from there 🫣😂😂😂
Exactly 😂
When I see Cooking with Kya, I see a confident young woman who knows her way around the kitchen-nothing wrong with that! 🤷🏾♀️
Same
I definitely see a pick me who has made pandering to the male gaze and making bitches mad the face of her entire brand.
Being confident doesn’t mean provoking people by saying you can take their men, twerking and sexualising cooking…that to me is the opposite of being confident
I swear!! I didn't understand what the upset was about at alllll
@@lovelygirl7123if you’re threatened by a random girl you don’t know joking about taking your man, then you are a low excuse of a woman for dating such dusty. How about you do better as a woman and find a better quality man so you wont be threatened by the bare minimum lmfao
Me personally, I say good on her for making a hustle on the internet; however I just don’t respect the way she went about it. Like the fact that she’s capitalizing off of the insecurities of other women and the fact that she’s playing into the whole “pick me” role. I think that’s especially dangerous rn since men and women are already so divided and this gives men even more ammo to look down & compare ladies against each other
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Regardless the insecurities of other women is not her responsibility and as a content creator she’s allowed to cultivate an audience or engagement however she sees fit
@@tsuu1517 Nah, because no one claims Nicki, Megan, or Cardi are capitalizing off of other women's insecurities when they talk about taking people's man.
Crazy how they want already rich women to 'get that bag' but when a girl who actually might need it is tryna get it morality comes into the picture
@ true
Regardless of whether this behavior drags down other women of color. But go off for a dollar.
Makes me feel even more confident in my decision to leave men, romantic, relationship, relationships, sexual relationship, relationships, or anything of that nature behind me. It’s all toxic. It’s all transactional. I get the night. Everybody can do something with their lives. We definitely reward terrible behavior. But I’m not about to let my blood pressure be affected by ANYONE EVER.
Girl, you said it. Same. 💜
Get off the internet sis. Healthy relationships still exist
@@hellosunshinek6883 yes and they’re quite difficult to find. Some people find more peace by not being in intimate relationships and that’s ok.
@@alkahinat4558exactly! I find more peace not being intimate with a man. No arguing, lack of sex aftercare, and having my ph balance altered feels more securing
@@hellosunshinek6883 oh my God, the Internet is not ruining relationships. It’s people oh my goodness it’s like people look to blame everything y’all are blaming objects now for people being stupid? This is why the world needs to end. Everybody has completely lost their mind. Everybody’s looking to blame everything non-breathing things instead of the people.. The Internet is not forcing people to do anything. A lot of of ppl are just followers.
My man cooks better than Kya.. my position is safe lol😂
🎉😂😂😂😂😂
That's what I want. A man should take turns doing household chores .
Exactly, mine makes desserts that put her to shame and so do I.
I only hope she pivots in time bc doing anything for the male gaze is a dead end
YUP, look at ice spice
I was about to say this! Doing things for the male gaze in the long run is not beneficial. She needs to slowly rebrand herself.
@ exactly and it didn’t help how she treated Cleotrappa. That was the nail in the coffin.
TikTok is literally about to be banned.. what are these people going to do for longevity?
Lmao bring it over to TH-cam. 😅
Making a steak in a non-stick pan was the most offensive thing I saw
barely getting it out of the paper wrapping
😂😂 I peeped that too
Cast iron baby is what she needs.
LMFAOAOOO byeee
Her hype will die down before 2025. Nextttt 🗣️
I hope she continues to get that bag!! 2025 and beyond XD
@@oliviaw.2842same she hasn’t done anything to anyone. I ain’t never praying on no woman downfall, so I hope she continue to get that bag.
@@oliviaw.2842 She won’t social media moves fast 😂 look at Who tf did i marry lady
@xojoyceeeee nope her success did die down lol haven't heard about her in a minute. She was slowwwwww and at her big age smh. I couldn't believe how naive she was.
@@adrienneroxanne9833 I’m happy lol they make anyone famous
Men don’t stay interested for long I think she should lean more into the female audience.
Clearly not because look how nasty the women are being towards her
I just posted a comment saying this. This can only get her but so far. She could’ve made it much more lucrative if she did it from the women’s gaze. How is she going to pivot and sell merchandise? Men watch for a cute face and rump shaking. The others hate watch. Both demographics aren’t going to pay for a product.
@@KAye633 But she would get a nicer/less nasty response if she doesn't try to be a mean girl and stops making rage-bait comments towards women for views.
Nastiness towards Kya is definitely uncalled for, but at the same time, common sense dictates that she can't say things for shock value and attention while also being shocked that some people are paying her attention.
Fr like gurl we can be friends if you stop playing
Women are worst than men on social media lol are you cool?
Girl.... Just go into business for yourself as a private chef and get a bag.... To do it for someone else's man (drama, STDs, giving the man an inflated ego, and/or worse) just to get "rewarded" with being a full time servant..... Is not a prize to me.
😂😂😂😂
A fact.
STD's? You know nothing about this girl's private life. It's not that deep. She's cuter than you, we get it.
Real ❤
🗣BRING BACK SHAME AND EMBARRASSMENT!!
Well cooking didnt make Clarence marry Queen Naija so how strong is cooking.Lets be honest actual good men are not on the internet trolling women like the male fans of this lady are.None of those men are high value because the high value men are not looking to antagonize women on the internet
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And no good woman is upset sending death threats about her content. Y’all women are unhinged
8:14 I agree. Please learn how to cook it's an essential life skill not just to do for others but for your overall well-being. I hope to learn how to cook more dishes in the future. ❤️
The problem is not Kya. She's pretty, young and making money as she should. It's the men using her as a "see that's what women are supposed to do to have/keep a man". Kya is just playing along with it. If a man can leave his gf/wife because of a meal, he was never hers to begin with 😹. I also know if a man was doing stuff like providing and protecting his women, the same men that are praising Kya for a skill every adult should have would be in a uproar 💀
This ☝🏾
With the way everybody wanted a bite 😉 I thought she was making stuff from scratch like ok ms Alfredo 😸
LMFAOOOO NOT MISS ALFREDO 😭😭😭😭
Whew hater alertttt 😂
@@KAye633 nah ima eat a plate just joking about how basic the recipes are
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It's not being a hater .The AVG person cooks average meals . And so does Kya. Nothing wrong with it @@KAye633
Every day I’m glad I’ve never downloaded that clock app on my phone.
okay!!!
It not that bad. It like youtube but shorter. I found great videos on there.
@@tlunceford77 It’s still not worth it.
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I agree! It’s crazy how far it went, I’ve seen comments of dudes saying they’ll leave their girlfriends for her, people comparing their gf’s to her, then girls getting mad at her bc of their bf lusting over her, when in reality if a woman on social media causes your man to disrespect you or ur relationship, then thay person isn’t for you, no reason to hate Kya at all.
She’s not a pick me she’s smart men are so easy to please she just figured out a way to get paid from it
As much as black women complain about white women getting famous for doing the bare minimum, sisters should be happy this girl is going viral for not doing much. And it’s ridiculous for women to get upset over the “take your man” angle when every other female rapper has been doing that for the past 8 years. She’s likely playing a character but for some reason has people pressed. Also, death threats should never be taken as just playing into something. That’s simply unacceptable.
Hell, even the white girl who made the Mac n cheese was getting attacked for “stealing our culture” and she’s a respected and talented chef. She didn’t play into the male gaze. She just cooked
This is what I'm saying- the ONE time the 'preference' isn't being put on a pedestal and it's someone who looks like them and they hate her? I'm honestly shocked and disappointed. Even we don't want ourselves to have anything nice.
I hate that Kya was such a big deal. It really makes women look very male centered.
A lot of women are unfortunately. A good game is talked but validation is a big deal for a lot people. I just appreciate those who have learned to live without it, or the ones who don’t sell themselves just to get it. Humans are crazy like that!
The women who have men who watch her… they’re mad at the wrong person. They need to take a step back and be mad at their man, not her.
@@dannib.3566 they’re too weak hearted for that so they’d rather blame the woman.
@@alkahinat4558 I agree
I'm not gonna cheer on someone who rage baits 💀 for a bag, and I'm not even in a relationship.
Yess the men love this until it’s their mom, sister, cousin or girlfriend. SMH a mess really 😂
Men are being disingenuous. Some of the same men defending her would NEVER want their girlfriends/wives making the same content she's making.
And let's be real here: The men who are giving Kya a pass are only doing so because her sexuality and labor are in servitude to them. Had Kya done the same twerking in those same outfits while doing make-up or hair tutorials for women instead of cooking for men, they would dog her like they do OF models. Men are NOT mad about Kya's weave, tattoos, twerking, or provocative outfits so long as she's performing labor that is in service to them and not herself or other women...👀🫠🙃
I do understand why people are upset. Kya is encouraging being a home wrecker or wtv but if y’all’s men are falling for her Literally, then you needa leave him😭
Honestly, if your man is so easily impressed by a woman cooking and can take him, he was never your man.
Right
Honestly, I don’t think this was a smart business move at all. She chose her audience they’re not gonna buy no cookware,etc in turn I don’t see brands wanting to work with her unless their audience is also the male gaze. I wouldn’t be surprised if in a year from now she’s saying how she regrets it bc she’s being sexualixed constantly
I’m so sick of hearing about this girl. Take me out the group chattttt.
Sisterhood does exist. The problem is you guys think being a girls girl mean supporting ALL women. It doesn't mean that. It's about not dragging women when the patriarchy already does that.
Right, we don’t have to call women hoes or call them stupid to push them into the right direction and I think that’s what ppl don’t get.
What’s funny for me is that I came across a reel of a collab she did with somebody and dude said the food tastes AWFUL, 😂😂 girl had the nerve to ask “What’s wrong? Is it edible?” MAAM YOURE THE COOK!!!!😂😂😂😂
This comment should be pinned
Black women so nasty and rude to each other
I gotta see
How can it taste awful when it looka so good? 😫
@@KAye633 they said a man was the one that said it was awful…
Temu/SHEIN outfit ✅
Cooking skills ✅
Low budget hair pieces, lashes and basic dancing skills ✅
Catchy intro to each video ✅
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Y’all some nasty haters 😂
@@KAye633very nasty😂
@@KAye633telling the truth isn't hating
@@KAye633fr 😂
Even tho I side with Kya in this topic..you did just lay out the starter package for internet fame. But it applies to almost 85% of women online these days, not just Kya. It was funny af and true tho 😂
Girl, me and my husband have been following this silly story, we dont understand it, just laugh as we make dinner together. He now does the dance she does at the end " cooking with kya, cooking with kya". Lol
I randomly did the “cooking with kya” jingle and dance and my coworker fell out🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Me and my husband do too. It’s a whole laugh. 😂
The man that cook are amazing!
Men are the easiest bag and women’s anger is the next one up. She’s smart, this might not be what a lot of women want for their image, but I’m not mad at her AT ALL. I love food and cooking! And there’s a ton of ways to get creative with it. Then there’s this, which is very profitable.
All I have to say ddg get on my nerves
Mine too. I can’t exactly put my finger on it. And it’s not regarding the Halle situation, because ppl break up all the time. I disliked him before that
@ Yes! He always had an attention seeking demeanor about him. I actually knew of him before Halle and he still was just as bad.
She’s got this cuteness about her that I love! Now she knew what she was doing by trolling her way into going viral. It’s called rage bait for a reason! I love to cook from scratch and definitely throw a little ass for my husband’s entertainment while I’m cooking. Like that saying, “a key to a man’s heart is through his stomach”. Men can be so simple, they really are suckers for what should be a basic life skill. But women definitely caused Kya to go as viral as she did, by being bothered!
I have nothing against Kya,she really beautiful & could cook. But what's up with all these " steal your boyfriend " content? Didn't she know the men she charade ,for will be the first to drop her when a better one comes along? That's what pickmees get for ages. She will regret plotting herself against her own gender & all these men pitting women against eachother saying we're jealous are just pathetic. Like we aren't jealous of her,beauty ain't an achievement & cooking is a basic skill ,most of the women are just worried how we oversexualize ourselves especially as POC's.
If my man can be taken please please please make sure to collect ALL his belongings (because he WON'T be able to come back and anything not taken the first and only time will be sold or thrown away). Also, please make sure he doesn't send me ANYTHING not flowers trying to get back, text trying to get back and definitely not popping up. Make sure you keep him happy and occupied so I don't have to ever experience him or his shenanigans ever again and I'll definitely do my part to stay away as well. I hope she reaches the level of success she aspires to have and more.
Exactly
Right, get him out of here. Go be happy.
40+ Auntie here: I love seeing my good ‘internet nieces’ like you AND Kya doing y’all’s thing. Everyone has their style and audience to support it. 😇
The problem with Kya girl is the taunting. Anytime a woman is attractive it's like she should get away with EVERYTHING. No one has an issue with her looks or beauty. It's the men degrading their girls on her behalf. It's also taunting THE TAUNTING. No one cares about the girl getting her bag. She's not the only pretty girl cooking. It's intentionally using something to have women against you. 😂😂😂all entertainment and men wanting a cooking woman don't provide ANYTHING
The situation is just too freaking dumb to be taken seriously 😂😂😂😂😂😂
I actually tried to say care free calculated clout chaser 5 times fast and 🤣🤣it sounded like I started speaking Spanish
Always here for Chioma 💯
Her jingle is catchy. Food is basic kitchen know how but looks good and some ppl just can’t or don’t cook. Do your thing girlie, she’s young.
Yes, this is elementary cooking. Pancakes and eggs? Macaroni and cheese? Jacket potatoes??? What's next beans on toast??
@@barb-bi good home cooking is a fave for a reason, it’s great, but the way everyone was carrying on, I did think there’d be some fine dining plates being served up 😭
Honestly I love that she is cooking as a young lady . That’s something you should know how to do its apart of taking care of yourself. But I definitely agree with you saying everything being sexual right now . Definitely makes me feel like im a grandma and im very young but im not really into showing off every part of my body . You definitely attract all types of people while doing that and that’s what scares me the most .
lol, ain’t nobody worried about that little girl.
I don't understand why people are mad at her? If you have a low vibrational man who likes disrespectful content or lusts after women that's a you and your man problem! Why are people acting so dunce??
@@RockyR 👏🏾! Those low vibrational, disrespectful and thirsty men are the problem! But people always have to blame the woman, when it’s not her fault the man doesn’t have self control or integrity. That’s a him problem!
We even call the women men stray with homewreckers, hello? HE’S the one who wrecked the home, yeah the other women helped, but it’s mostly on him. Just too much dunce behaviour going on 💆🏾♀️
I like this chick she is getting paid exposing peoples insecurities not on purpose. She is getting engagement from men and women it’s a win for her with out doing anything strange for change 🎉
We also have to look into the demographics of people or women that are hating on her. I feel like everyone has some sort of insecurities but the women hating on her are probably not secure in themselves or their relationships. This is why before you get into a relationship you need to establish some sort of understanding and values with yourself. You need to build that confidence and trust with God and with yourself. Evaluate yourself and understand your triggers and strengths. For anything that may trigger you, uncover it and look for the root of it. Search for healing. Kya is a beautiful girl and she can cook. She is very skilled and talented but also seems to have a great energy and isn’t afraid to be herself. I could see how a lot of women can feel intimidated by that but just because I can understand doesn’t mean that it is right. If you’re intimidated by Kya, who doesn’t even know you or your man, that is your sign that something isn’t good within. And most likely it is jealousy. How can you be jealous about a girl who doesn’t even know you exist? And I see a lot of boyfriends using Kya to get their girlfriends upset and it’s childish. Everyone is just hopping on the bandwagon. The same way love can be contagious so can hate and y’all need to clean whatever it is that is in your hearts that may be toxic. It’s pathetic and sad and you are doing yourself a disservice by coming after a girl that is still young and I’m sure trying to find her way in this world. Being jealous is one thing but takin the time to threaten her or send hate is some sociopath behavior. Just calm down learn to love you. Secure you. Be ok with you and if you’re not satisfied with who you are then learn and grow. If you’re afraid that your boyfriend is going to leave you for Kya, then you’re not ready for a relationship. That is an immature mindset and shows that there is no trust. An in a relationship after God, trust is one of the key elements you need for a healthy relationship.
I also wanted to bring another point that this often happens a lot especially within the black community. You will see aunties be jealous of nieces and even mothers be jealous of their own daughter because of youthfulness or even because of things like body shape or things that are out of the girls control. I’ve seen girls hate other girls because another girl developed faster during puberty. Girls need to do better. And that will only start once you stop making a man and the opinion of men, your whole identity. Not everything is based around a man, sex, being picked etc. There’s more to life than these things. Your identity shouldn’t be centered around the male gaze. If it is then there’s a lot of work that needs to be done and you need to break that mindset because it is toxic. The same way Kya learned how to cook, you can learn to and just be happy for the girl that she is stable and safe. I don’t agree with the whole twerking thing but it’s her choice and it is what it is. Maybe one day she’ll change up her theme and make it more pg-13. But I know that that will come with time and in the mean time I can cheer and celebrate her and her success and pray for her and her safety. God has her and God has you. Much love ❤️
If your man is liking other people's post that was never your man.
The gag is a lot of people can’t even cook the basic meals she does
Really?? Thus is crazy
I think people are over exaggerating, the kind of meals that she be cooking because it’s literally a protein, a whole grain and a vegetable. HelloFresh can teach you how to cook all that shit. Now, if you’re speaking on behalf of yourself specifically then I agree it might be tough for you.
But a lot of us who have immigrant parents we were taught how to cook at a very young age and it’s not gonna be a struggle for us living alone and cooking.
@artheaux666 is true. This is what I've been saying. The majority of people with immigrant parents, especially girls. We were taught how to cook early on. The meals kya cooks are nothing special, she just cooks
I have literally never heard of her. I started watching this video because it played after my last video that you posted. But more power to her as long as her heart is right. 😂❤
Shout out to lovely Ti ! real recognize real and we love it here #teamChioma
Chile, if my man can be taken, then he wasn't mine to begin with. 💅🏽
🤷🏽♀️ idk… I think she’s like a nepobaby/ industry plant. Like it’s weird how our first introduction to her is “all y’all are mad cause…” just seems very orchestrated
This is a common thing that you'll hear some women say in real life. The answer is always... If you can take him, then he was never mine.
Kya making the same things as a lot of other IG chefs… you don’t have to call her food basic… literally everybody making roast, Mac, and lobster
Men are so simple minded. I hope CookingwithKya furthers her career despite this stupid drama 😭😭
I think she’s adorable and she’s smart LOL go get yours girl 😂
I’m saying! As a Caribbean girl Kya cyant bother me cuz we been cooking from birfffff- 😂
"I know it probably wasn't the girls who watch me" CLOCK IT! 🤣
Because I know my viewers don’t crash out over simple stuff 😂
A TikToker called “ We have food at home” is another person that can cook n help u save money 😊
i fw kya ngl , but like you said its basic meals. as soon as i seen one video , i knew she was gonna have a million followers at least by next year & look .. women .. or ppl in general need to realize , IF YOU HATE SOMETHING DONT INTERACT WITH IT BY ANY MEANS. 😂 like its that simple !
Ready for the Male Version! Cooking with Kyle🥰
There alr is.. his name is cooking with mula
The pink sauce lady should have done this
Yessss I been waiting for you to talk about this. She definitely gives pick me and the food isn’t anything special no hate or shade but the men are impressed easily
This is only a problem for women whose world is centered around men. I have a husband, take him. He snores and asks where stuff is when it's right in front of his face 😂 but seriously if it only takes a plate of food to lose a man, that was never your man your man your man.
All i can see is maybe she change up her content soon cause there is alot thirsty buckets in her comments and theere are predators online. Selling sex or being over sexualized gets old after awgile we seee how this plays out with these celebrities. Plusss the Internet boosts up a new chick every 30 days yall 😂😂😂😂 this Internet shit is fickle as hell.😂😂
I think this might be the moral of the story ..
I am older, I'm 35 but I still like your videos. I haven't seen cooking with Kya until I saw her being covered on youtube. I think she is also growing in views because she looks more relatable. She looks like a regular 20 year old that any guy can approach. She appeals to the average guy and is using the views to get to the guy that she actually wants which would be a DDG not the millions of regular men viewing her. Most of the women I follow that cook have lavish kitchens and luxury aesthetics. These women cook food most of us can't afford. Kia is cooking regular meals and she is a pretty young lady. If anything she is smart for getting her bag at a young age. She is single and appears not to have any kids. I am a mother and to a son. Now I wouldn't want him watching her but I understand men are visual people. Am I worried about her taking my man no, not at all. But if there is a bag to be made let that young lady make it. I wish she didn't have to sexualize herself to do it because black women are oversexualized already but hopefully she becomes very successful.
Yesss I was waiting for you to cover this. I think she’s cute, the hate is weird
its high key pick me activities but getcha bag lol I never heard of her but I saw some internet references lol good for her even though it couldn't be me
I’m just happy a black girl is the one going viral and winning
DDG is so disgusting for being in a video with that girl when he has Halle bailey but halle chose wrong so oh well
“Chose wrong” lmao 😂
I love seeing a black woman win $$$$
I don’t feel offended I’m 35+ so for most of us cooking like this is normal and we don’t need instructions from a 20 something year old. If it don’t apply let it fly.
Threats IS EXTREME BAHAHA WTF PEOPLE😂😂😂😂 what they man finna do , eat her food? Ohhhh social media social media 🤦🏽♀️ i be off tiktok fr . For a reasonnn😂
Im not gon lie, she got me back in the kitchen. Ive been slacking 😅
But the young girl that makes 43 million a year off of y’all’s men was looked past?
That part.
I just find it funny that you said y’all’s men, as if those men belong to the people that can be taken so easily by a person like that. Just please sit down.
The problem is male centered women being mad because "she can take their man" instead of them to work on themselves and improve their lives. They're always focused on the wrong things + most of the men that follow Kya are pookies and rayrays, why do you want a bum? Please level up and stop being mad at women for getting their bag, it gives insecure and not in a cute way.
Man women love to say "Im going steal your man" then say "im just kidding." Immediately after. Nah you meant that sis, don't try to feign humility now....
Girl ain’t nobody want your man lol
I agree 💯💯💯🗣️🗣️
I dont think Kya literally wants to steal anyone's man. I think she was just rage-baiting for views by saying something that typically gets under some women's skin. The only issue I have with her is that she's built part of her brand off of playing on some women's insecurities and jokingly being a mean-girl/other woman.
@@reffa2858 I’ve never understood saying that as a bragging point when typically, it’s not hard to ‘take a man’
It’s quite aggressive to say actually
I’ve recently been around women like this but never enter these games with them, if it means that much to you, have him. It’s not that serious 😂
It's ONLY the women that CAN'T and WON'T cook that's mad at the young lady I applaud the young Sista for getting to her bag and dismantling the Sisterhood and I'm all here for it we as men are simple and visual creatures we tell women what we want and Kya is ruffling some feathers I'm glad I know how to cook clean and maintain a household I can do bad by myself she's holding a mirror to modern women's face and yall can't stand the reflection in the mirrior #Salute to the Young Goddess get yo BAG Young lady 💯
Another thing that should've been added to this video was the disturbing AI edits of her videos. There were many of them but the worst one was an AI edit of a woman punching her face and it was gory and bloody. Instagram should take that down! Horrible.