The minute my spouse starts spending thousands without even bothering to ask me... I would be canceling whatever that's in my name in his possession.. he can waste his money if he wants. I would've taken a hammer to the game
@Sammy-Ambriz ty. I game with him, too. And his friends say I am "cool" cos I will log on to his game when there's a long que so that his travel time home from work is his que time.
Sometimes it's hard to leave an abusive relationship. It doesn't surprise me that some of these ladies don't realize that they are in these types of relationships.
Omgosh this guy. Basically stealing from her. Cut him off of the account he is using a card or whatever he's taking from. He isn't worth it.he doesn't deserve her. Got to get out while she can. The in-laws treat her like shi&. Do not give money for the other person’s online business or anything else. Don’t be a doormat to the mil or spouse they are brats. Maybe simply don’t answer the door. I would tell the brother she can’t help him while she is working. Cut them all off, red flags are all over the place. She shouldn’t have kids with him either or she will never get him out of her life.
Ok, so they both work, she makes 20 times what he does, and she’s still worried about not being able to pay the bills? They should both be paying into a household account to pay bills and groceries. Perhaps not 50/50, but a percentage based on what each earns. She needs to take the credit card away from him, make him take out one in his own name. He should also not have access to her money, nor she his. He’d learn quickly just how to budget his wages.
That card would be turned off if needed. Also him telling her to shut up and about making dinner, he could make his own dinner at that point. He already pushed her buttons enough. He is on the brink of collapsing his marriage. Hope she has an account from before marriage that is in her name only and kept separate just in case. Keep a shared account if she wants but the bulk should be in her name only if he is irresponsible. If he told me I was overweight and to wear makeup I wouldnt go out with him. Let him go to his mom’s alone. He has told her to shut up daily, he doesn't deserve her respect.
Are you ducking serious? Her reason for not divorcing is because it’s too much work?! The MC is an idiot! This has to be the worst justification used so far in those story!
I thought it was because she didn’t want to upset her parents. I guess that was her first excuse. I feel like she is in this “sunk cost fallacy” thing where she put so much into her relationship that she is reluctant to give it up despite every reason to.
Oh my God this story was going on and on and on why was she putting up with all the crap from him and his family what was she getting from him that she could not get for herself. Tom and his family was some selfish people.
I would cancel the cable , internet and husband's phone. I would also put all my money in a separate and new account. Cancel the credit card. Put everything in his name. Cancel the lease, electric, car insurance. Then divorce him.
Why doesn't she just close out her credit card, get the money back from the unauthorized purchases, and not let him have the credit card anymore? I don't know why she doesn't just leave him at his parents place when they start insulting her either. I'd have just walked out and left him there
Will these companies EVER have the balls to show WOMEN as truly strong, and capable, WOMEN as role models, WOMEN as real winners? They always portray women as weak, as b*****, or as gold diggers.
How did he get into her work place? Surely a company, regardless of size. would make it hard for random people to wonder about their premises for security reasons. If they don't perhaps she should think about looking for a new job?
I never use my hubby's card without his permission. We both worked our butts off. We help each other and never ever encroach into each others account even though we know each others passwords.
I couldn’t last in these stories. As soon as he would have told me he putting the headphones on to ignore me I would have taken them and broke them and then started breaking all his game consoles controllers and games. Now we both mad! Then cancelled the card and removed all my money cuz who card are you thinking your gonna use! Not mine!😂
Whoa now the mil saying she's overweight? Not that this is the greatest thing but a lot of times there is supposedly up to a 20lb weight gain after marriage due to being more relaxed. Regardless the mil is a witch for saying she's overweight. No offense, the op is trying so hard with the mil and husband, it isn't worth it. Her ‘perfect’ son. I would have already called him out about gaming in front of the mil. Omgosh this guy. I have no issue with someone gaming, but hit the pause button and or don’t talk to your spouse like this. (regardless I love all the voices done) He is throwing her under the bus. It is just a story but I want to stand up for her so much. I don’t know about the fil yet but the mil is a nightmare and he’s a mommas boy. Actually now the dad saying the guy is perfect. No one is perfect.
The WHOLE family is a bunch of trash bags. OP needs to run fast and sue if the abuse she went through by their words and also the financial abuse of the scumbag husband
These authors should pull their heads out of their a$$es and see how really sun shines like. Even writing a fictional story should be somewhat believable.
What's with these videos time expectancy. It'll be like, "OP, youve been married for 3 months...why no 3 kids yet 😩" like jeeze, can't let couple even breathe first 🙄
Honestly, he's a total creep but he does have one thing right: if he is actually doing construction work, it's a totally different category of work than any office job. Yes, both can be genuinely tiring, but construction or other forms of manual labor take a toll on the body that cognitive work doesn't approach.
@@KCohere33 I agree, and I said so. He's still a complete jerk. The construction thing was a very minor piece of everything he was screwing up, and I was only commenting because other, non-jerk people work construction and might feel left out if there were no acknowledgement of the issue. This particular jackass doesn't deserve the help, but others might.
After that first conversation... that's when I go to the bank, contest the transaction, put ALL funds in my name, and file for divorce. FAFO!
U put it better than I have 😊 True true she puts up with this for so long.
It is amusing but frustrating to keep it continued
Right?! This behavior is unacceptable. He literally sounds like a child throwing a tantrum.
YEAAAH!!!! why the fk she kept tolerating the abuse
Using that much money without telling your spouse is a big no no.
Why has she not canceled her credit card and got a different one where he can't get his grubby hands on it? Tell your security to not let Dylan in.
The minute my spouse starts spending thousands without even bothering to ask me... I would be canceling whatever that's in my name in his possession.. he can waste his money if he wants. I would've taken a hammer to the game
I’m a gamer but even I know that household necessities and chores come first then come hobbies
Yup. As a streamer, I try to keep up with tech, but irl comes first. I won't hurt us for my hobby.
Same.
Yup my son drops everything wen I need him
@@speedmeisterkym6120 although I don’t know you you’ve raised a good son
@Sammy-Ambriz ty. I game with him, too. And his friends say I am "cool" cos I will log on to his game when there's a long que so that his travel time home from work is his que time.
What a doormat. How could anyone this hard-working and successful live in such intolerable circumstances?
The women in these stories amaze me. Why do they put up with such crap off these men?
Sometimes it's hard to leave an abusive relationship. It doesn't surprise me that some of these ladies don't realize that they are in these types of relationships.
@@kekebean6596wasn't hard for me. I packed my crap one day and never looked back.
It’s more complicated. Also with todays economy, can’t live on ones own without working multiple full time jobs
I can't lie, the constipated old man voice is hilarious.
Report the charge as fraudulent. Get a new card, change your PIN, and most importantly don’t tell the thief anything.
She should freeze her credit too, so he can’t use her information to open new credit cards/lines of credit without her knowledge.
Holy crap how the he'll can she even put up the first sign of the crap he was pulling I'm out that's insane
Don’t ‘try’ to refuse them. Just say no. Doesn't matter what they say just say no.
Tom can't have childern, because of being a momma's/ manchild and almost jobless.
Change your cards and keep them at your work out of your husband’s hands, and don’t tell him the PIN number, you sound so stressed you need to leave
This woman makes me pain. Its obvious hes just using her and she still cant see it
Omgosh this guy. Basically stealing from her.
Cut him off of the account he is using a card or whatever he's taking from. He isn't worth it.he doesn't deserve her. Got to get out while she can.
The in-laws treat her like shi&.
Do not give money for the other person’s online business or anything else.
Don’t be a doormat to the mil or spouse they are brats. Maybe simply don’t answer the door.
I would tell the brother she can’t help him while she is working.
Cut them all off, red flags are all over the place. She shouldn’t have kids with him either or she will never get him out of her life.
Just divorce him already.
Ok, so they both work, she makes 20 times what he does, and she’s still worried about not being able to pay the bills? They should both be paying into a household account to pay bills and groceries. Perhaps not 50/50, but a percentage based on what each earns. She needs to take the credit card away from him, make him take out one in his own name. He should also not have access to her money, nor she his. He’d learn quickly just how to budget his wages.
I’m so upset that those horrible in laws threw away all that perfectly good fruit 🍎
There is no winning in this family
Does this voice actor work on other channels, too? I love listening to her!
Is this mother-in-law that she's not a doctor
Tom is shooting blanks😯
Why are you trying to have a child with him if you fight like him?
From the way it sounds that would be a great idea for Alice to quit working and just stay at home and let Tom start working and making money.
That card would be turned off if needed. Also him telling her to shut up and about making dinner, he could make his own dinner at that point. He already pushed her buttons enough. He is on the brink of collapsing his marriage. Hope she has an account from before marriage that is in her name only and kept separate just in case. Keep a shared account if she wants but the bulk should be in her name only if he is irresponsible.
If he told me I was overweight and to wear makeup I wouldnt go out with him. Let him go to his mom’s alone. He has told her to shut up daily, he doesn't deserve her respect.
Oh, hey, no bots yet! Sweet!
😂 I know there every where. do my head in
If i was in Ops shoes, i would pretend my business went bankrupt and ask Tom to start paying the bills. Sooner or later Tom will ask for a divorce. 😷
Another season of “Who TF did I marry?” 😂😂😂
Sorry I have to say this, my name is Anna and my nephews name is Patrick 😂
Op must of low key loved the way she was treated 😂 she stayed long enough so she'd have a villain arc with her husband and his family
The best thing for her to do, is sit down and start gaming herself when he is hungry! 😂
Are you ducking serious? Her reason for not divorcing is because it’s too much work?! The MC is an idiot! This has to be the worst justification used so far in those story!
I thought it was because she didn’t want to upset her parents. I guess that was her first excuse. I feel like she is in this “sunk cost fallacy” thing where she put so much into her relationship that she is reluctant to give it up despite every reason to.
Talk about biting the hand that feeds you lol
Oh my God this story was going on and on and on why was she putting up with all the crap from him and his family what was she getting from him that she could not get for herself. Tom and his family was some selfish people.
I would cancel the cable , internet and husband's phone. I would also put all my money in a separate and new account. Cancel the credit card. Put everything in his name. Cancel the lease, electric, car insurance. Then divorce him.
Best story for ages
I think Kevin is in love with Alice
I agree 100%
add more supernatural powers text like magic and psychic powers!!!
Why doesn't she just close out her credit card, get the money back from the unauthorized purchases, and not let him have the credit card anymore? I don't know why she doesn't just leave him at his parents place when they start insulting her either. I'd have just walked out and left him there
This story is why this old Grandma tells her granddaughters to live with someone for 18 months before getting married.
Will these companies EVER have the balls to show WOMEN as truly strong, and capable, WOMEN as role models, WOMEN as real winners? They always portray women as weak, as b*****, or as gold diggers.
How did he get into her work place? Surely a company, regardless of size. would make it hard for random people to wonder about their premises for security reasons. If they don't perhaps she should think about looking for a new job?
Alice is really pissing me off, she is such a doormat
😂 I would've been divorced by the end of first minute
I never use my hubby's card without his permission. We both worked our butts off. We help each other and never ever encroach into each others account even though we know each others passwords.
I couldn’t last in these stories. As soon as he would have told me he putting the headphones on to ignore me I would have taken them and broke them and then started breaking all his game consoles controllers and games. Now we both mad! Then cancelled the card and removed all my money cuz who card are you thinking your gonna use! Not mine!😂
Whoa now the mil saying she's overweight?
Not that this is the greatest thing but a lot of times there is supposedly up to a 20lb weight gain after marriage due to being more relaxed.
Regardless the mil is a witch for saying she's overweight.
No offense, the op is trying so hard with the mil and husband, it isn't worth it. Her ‘perfect’ son. I would have already called him out about gaming in front of the mil.
Omgosh this guy. I have no issue with someone gaming, but hit the pause button and or don’t talk to your spouse like this.
(regardless I love all the voices done)
He is throwing her under the bus. It is just a story but I want to stand up for her so much. I don’t know about the fil yet but the mil is a nightmare and he’s a mommas boy.
Actually now the dad saying the guy is perfect. No one is perfect.
The WHOLE family is a bunch of trash bags. OP needs to run fast and sue if the abuse she went through by their words and also the financial abuse of the scumbag husband
Mama's boys!!! Ugh. I would have divorced him a long time ago!
Hes a mooch. However, everything bought inside the marriage is marital assets right? It would be the same if it was reversed.
These authors should pull their heads out of their a$$es and see how really sun shines like. Even writing a fictional story should be somewhat believable.
What's with these videos time expectancy. It'll be like, "OP, youve been married for 3 months...why no 3 kids yet 😩" like jeeze, can't let couple even breathe first 🙄
These stories are so unnecessarily long. The majority of the conversations are just repeats of previous conversations, talking in circles.
Yeah but some of them play supe
nice and kind 😢
50 minutes in...... I think something might actually happen.
Honestly, he's a total creep but he does have one thing right: if he is actually doing construction work, it's a totally different category of work than any office job. Yes, both can be genuinely tiring, but construction or other forms of manual labor take a toll on the body that cognitive work doesn't approach.
That’s no excuse for the way he is acting. Lots of people do construction work and aren’t lazy, entitled mama’s boys.
@@KCohere33 I agree, and I said so. He's still a complete jerk. The construction thing was a very minor piece of everything he was screwing up, and I was only commenting because other, non-jerk people work construction and might feel left out if there were no acknowledgement of the issue. This particular jackass doesn't deserve the help, but others might.
Almost 2 hours long?!
But what about Kevin? Did Alice and Kevin become a couple?
I certainly hope so.
I absolutely hate the sound of Tom's voice!!!
"Orkshard" 🤔
Oh for good sake girl. Block your account and have done with it!
Long stories are nice but this is too long 😂😂😂
I suppose
All these "stories" have idiots as a common theme.
It's no good,after an hour of tedium I'm switching it off. Such a waste of the actors time (and mine).
Please pick a spelling and stick with it.
Stupid distracting background…good bye.
Please stop using female v a's as me characters
56:24 WHY?! I truly don’t get it.
Wait, I think I get it 😈