Q&A parenting 3 young kids - with a side of marriage bickering - Caroline x
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- We definitely don't parent the same but it seems to work. Kyle and I have been together for so long now that even when we don't agree it's not a battle.
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Kyle has such a good perspective and is so tolerant. He’s able to listen and doesnt interrupt and isn’t bombastic. My, what big hands too 😉
Haha! Rein it in Lois
😂😂😂@@glitterbaby00
The uncalled for hostility from this woman is crazzzzy. She makes everything a competition when it doesn’t need to be. Your husband is also valid. Insufferable woman.
Letting your partner finish his thought or sentence, without eye rolling ir sneering has nothing to do with being oppressed.
Can you just stop interrupting Kyle, please Caroline? You are really starting to undermine him!! He is absolutely entitled to his point of view.
I usually really like your videos, but you are driving me nuts the way you feel so entitled to talk over him.
And he is absolutely not as loud as you.
Check out the Gottman's '4 horsemen'. Biggest predictors of divorce: criticism, defensiveness, contempt, and stonewalling.
Please sort yourself out, you are a lovely couple, but for how long?
100% - get gone Kyle. Life is better on the other side.
You guys are soooo competitive! First off, men can be every bit as nurturing as any woman. Especially with his children!
Kyle has great patience with you should let him talk
Poor Kyle . It’s so clear Caroline thinks her views are more important than his. When in fact Caroline talks nonsense. She will be lucky if he stays with her. I’m sure there are hundreds of women willing to treat this man right. All Caroline does is berate Kyle and then your followers for pointing out the abuse and her nasty behaviour.
I just hope this channel makes a lot of money for her. See real problems with spending. I give him 3 yrs.
Kyle is right. Kids need to be disciplined in the moment. In a couple hours a 2 year old has no interest in what has already happened.
These 2 have never seemed to have compatibility to me. Didn’t expect them to last even this long.
Kyle needs more credit. I think you’re both great parents based off the videos but he needs more credit! You’re do no great dad! 👏🏻
God, yeah, if there's one thing men need more of it's credit 😂
@mariahaldeos6657 Not every man on this earth is an arsehole. Men deserve as much credit as woman and vice versa. It's called 🌟 EQUALITY 🌟
I usually love watching her videos but this was a frustrating watch. She was constantly talking down to Kyle & ignoring his thoughts & feelings on important subjects.
I did not ignore. I don’t agree. There is a difference. You will not ever find an oppressed ‘yes babe’ video on my page like you do with others. It’s ok if I am not for you. Would be a boring world if we were all the same
@Mummysflippinhouse listening & not mocking your husband's thoughts isn't oppressive. It was clear throughout the video how annoyed you were!
@katewarner6113 I didn't see where she was quite annoyed. They can disagree and that's OK. Caroline also teases her hubby and he teases her too. They get each other and that's OK.
I totally agree with you well said 😊❤@Mummysflippinhouse
@@katewarner6113 JesusChrist! Do you not have a sense of humour? She was teasing him..
I love watching you Caroline, you’re so funny and your family is absolutely gorgeous! You being real and showing the less glamorous parts of mother hood and marriage is what makes your page so appealing to me.
I will say though, sometimes it’s good to gain an outside perspective because we are all guilty of not realising how we sound or come across sometimes (lord knows I am!!) but it does seem like sometimes Kyle doesn’t really get to have a say or his opinion is pushed down a bit. That’s nothing to do with me not used to seeing powerful women standing up for themselves or anything like that at all, I think it just comes down to different personalities. It’s nothing to do with men vs women it’s just how you communicate. When you put your life on line there are always going to be times where people disagree or have something to say, but I think most people in the comment section are just saying it to make you aware of how it may come across from a viewers perspective.
I truly love your page though and you seem like such a genuine lovely lady and a fantastic Mummy ❤
Caroline I love you as content creator ! Always entertaining! The way you treat your husband makes me cringe 😬. Would love to see more solo and mom based content if you’re just going to diminish all of Kyle’s thoughts and perspectives 😅
Don’t bicker guys 😅
It must be hard for Kyle, he could be missing home.
It's so frustrating to watch the way she relentlessly argues his point.....multiple times he gives to her point and no matter how many ways he explains his way of thinking or his strengths in parenting or discipline or his reasoning she HAS to snap back with her original critique. ....
They both seem to be wonderful parents -- but it made me cringe a bit the way she just could NOT give an inch.
I will never agree with disciplining the children and leaving them to cry. No. You’re right 👏🏽
I agree Stephanie. He’s a really nice guy and Caroline always has to have the last word!
Say something nice to Kyle. Seems everything you say is ok but anything he says is questioned
Kyle needs more credit for sure. He’s not going to put up with her rudeness forever.
Interesting that Caroline says it is the hardest part of their lives. Recently, I was lamenting that when my boys were young, I was so tired & frazzled that I didn't take time to enjoy it. Now, I look back & realise that although it was hard, it was also the best time of my life.
Sometimes not great behavior is down to age: kids get tired, have bad days, don't sleep well, are hungry... They're just like adults but in smaller bodies with less knowledge in how to express and contain themselves and their emotions. And sometimes their behavior is unacceptable, even when they're pretty young. Both things can be true!
Charlie needs love. I don't understand pee pads, I thought they were on sofa for the dogs. I'm sure pull-ups are available to buy there. These vids are seen by others in his peer group. I had a nephew who needed extra time and it was debilitating to him mentally. This is private and I would not announce this. Sophie is growing so feed the child more protein.
@@user-ch9if6px6rthe pads on the sofa are for my mums 16 yr old dog. He had pads in his bed while he was potty training months ago. This is totally normal
@@user-ch9if6px6rCharlie is completely potty trained at 2.5 that is earlier than most boys, he did not need extra time
I don't think any of the kids is lacking in love, and they all seem to be growing healthily.
Love you girl but damn stop demoralizing him, be nicer to Kyle. You are acting like anything he says or does is not good and everything you do is better.
He needs that chair for his back.
They’re just a normal couple with banter and healthy disagreements!
@@bellamycat123 Verbal abuse is hurtful. I've been there and those words cut deep into our soul. My mom would call it henpecking. Not a good look. I try so hard not to talk over people. Men, women or children.
@@user-ch9if6px6rif you think this is abuse then you need a reality check! That is absolutely insane. You need to control the words you are using
@@user-ch9if6px6r and so you’ve opted to be a keyboard warrior! You obviously do not understand their relationship and their personality! You also see a small snippet of their life!!! You do not know them to make such hurtful accusations.
Caroline has a great sense of humour, she is real and so relatable!! Caroline is also from what I see a great Wife, Mum and Friend!
Both seem like fabulous parents. I do think Caroline needs to be a bit kinder to Kyle! It's fine to disagree with each other and have an opinion but theres a respectful way to do it. The smirking and interupting also made this an awkward watch 😕
I will never apologise for speaking my mind and you shouldnt ask me too Cassie. I am assuming you are a woman. We have enough men in this world telling us to, don’t become one of them
@@Mummysflippinhouse What an odd response. Please don't make this a women vs man thing. My comment was in relation to respect and kindness regardless of gender. Also not asking you to apologise, just that there's kinder ways to debate (especially when posting to the masses)
@@Mummysflippinhouse just some English banter. Me and my husband are the same.
@@Mummysflippinhouseit’s not about disagreeing. As she said. That is normal and healthy. It’s the way you go about it. The mocking. The laughing, interrupting and insults..
@@BemyPedalExactly. It's called respect.
You said people want to know how you get on so well? When do you get along? I have only seen you treat him horrendously and he accept it. My wife LOVES your channel and I sit in from time to time with her and I have never seen you treat him with dignity. You have to one up him and down play any virtue he has at every turn. You can watch the light in his eyes dim more with every video.
Literally love how real you two are online - just being yourselves so valuable to see in an online environment. ALSO side note - your "modified ferber" was so helpful to see and feel seen by needing to make a change with my own child (we needed to sleep more) but wasn't so harsh.
I found the mid-parenting years (ages 6-12) a thing of beauty! You guys have so much fun in store watching your children become who they are. ♥️♥️♥️
Poor Kyle you have been whipped it’s so obvious Caroline runs the show.
Whipped because he is a man? Would you say this to a woman?
@@Mummysflippinhouse hes a simp and unemployed, she dragged them all from usa and ruined his career because of her
Whipped because he's simply a human being that you keep interrupting!
As a mother of a 17 old daughter, Kyle is right! We’re completely on the other side now and she’s my best friend but for a few years 😮💨😮💨
It is said that with children there can be only be one career, the other is working! Give and take. I did get what Kyle was saying….. ❤
I don’t agree with this at all. That completely discredits single parents raising abilities
I really worry that you may end up finding this out...
Caroline, you fell in love with Kyle. He's become more "American?" What's that about? You have such an obvious distate for America and I'm offended. As an American. There's so many other channels to watch. I do not enjoy your anti-Americanism. You moved home to mommy because it's hard having 3 children..uugh
I'm unsubbing. I really hope you figure things out before it all implodes. Peace ✌
Thanks for putting out an honest discussion about raising kids, I enjoyed it. People in the comments so quick to openly judge a marriage they are not in. If you don’t like the content, you don’t have to watch it.
We were married and had kids pretty young. We’re now in our 40’s with kids who are 18, 14 and 12. The years with babies and toddlers is BY FAR the hardest. Physically, emotionally, relationally (spouse/parter, friends, all the things). I knew from the jump that my husband would be an amazing father and due to circumstances, things just had to be a divide and conquer situation. As well as I feel we did it, things still got put to the back burner. I’m as qualified to give marital/parental advice as a porcupine, but I think it’s unbelievably important to communicate to an uncomfortable level and frequently. It was never my strongest quality and I’ve still got plenty of work to do, but the more we hash things out, the better we are. You’re raising great humans. Not babies and kids. I agree with Kyle on this. This stage is so short lived, which doesn’t feel like it when you’re in the trenches, but it is true. You’re preparing humans, while trying to stay connected to your partner and have everyone make it out alive and as well adjusted as possible. 🤷🏼♀️
Knowing a baby is your last is wild. I rocked my last one to sleep every night for 3 years. No regrets. They're all teenagers now and I miss those little ones!! (And my youngest is still a cuddle bug even at 13!)
Opposing views of raising children (on little things like this) is why kids need two parents. You even each other out. My husband and I are the same. It's a good thing!
Love this discussion! You guys remind me so much of my partner and I and I think you work so well together as parents. It gives me hope that we’ll be the same when we get to that stage.
I am LOVING all the realness in this video. Such relatable parenting and partner dynamics as a family of four over here 🙋🏽♀️ you are both lovely and such great parents
Oh please be a bit kinder to Kyle. Granted, I’m not married to him, and you did your “tour of duty” in the US, but he seems to love you and your children very much.
I think sadly you are used to TH-cam or social media families where they lie about their life and put on a show. That’s not this channel. It’s ok if we are not for you. You will never ever see an oppressed woman here.
@@Mummysflippinhouseso being kind to your husband is oppression? Imagine if he told you that he feels oppressed because he has to be kind to you.
Shouldn’t he just love his family and his wife, that’s literally the point. You’re making it sound like he loves her so much so he’s a nice, get a grip
OMG, these comments are insane! Everything about their relationship and conversation is completely normal and healthy! People have some reflection!
Kyle is such a lovely Dad, so involved & present. Same with you Caroline
I don’t see this marriage lasting. The eye rolls, the graying Kyle as if he isn’t good enough. You definitely put him down a lot and make him feel (from what we see) that he isn’t good enough for you as a spouse or parent.
What a load of rubbish, they have a very healthy relationship. They are both very openly sarcastic with each other which is not a form of communication you might understand but it’s fun banter to those of us that do.
@ she puts him down every time she gets! “Rubbish” 😂 it’s BS. How’s that healthy??
@ and you know nothing about me. I made my own opinion on a public video. No one said you needed to respond to MY OPINION. Take your rubbish somewhere else.
This comment is wild
My husband and I are the same and we're happily married, he absolutely adores the ground I walk on (and me him) we've been married 13 years with a handful of arguments! You're basing your opinion on a few short videos.
I welcome anyone to film a 46 minute conversation about parenting with your partner and I have no doubt a bunch of internet strangers will be able to nit pick it to shreds. This is clearly a couple that respects one another. Love this conversation and it’s such a blessing for new parents. Thanks for doing it! ❤
The level of jealousy cause of the crisps and dips. Great videooo, xoxo
Nice seeing a "normal" marriage on you tube. This was a mature discussion where you don't have to agree all the time & it still works as a relationship. X
As a mom, i don't believe there is ONE "right way" that works for every baby. They're all different. Do what works for your baby and you!! There's no shame in trying different methods!
Everyone always thinks what they're doing is harder than the other. We ALL need to respect the others life, especially when one is making the money and the other is holding down the fort with kids! I remember this argument ALL TOO WELL! My job NEVER STOPPED as a SAHM but dad would come home after work and would do ABSOLUTELY NOTHING plus expect me to wait on him hand and foot. Needless to say, i left him 10 years ago. It sucks because it absolutely affected our children in every way but i didn't want my daughters thinking that was normal plus i couldn't allow myself to be treated like crap anymore.
Kyle doesn't seem to be a narcissist so i think yall will be ok❤
Can we have the post video conversation please 🤣🤣🤣
I can see both your points re children and discipline. There comes a point when you have to be the parent who has to confront negative behaviour or children won't learn boundaries.
Yes you can be mindful of their age but that's where you as an adult choose the language and consequences appropriately.
Great discussion as always x
Bless him Kyle was being very honest and open but kept putting his foot in it. I think he needs extra time to process how to communicate to you 💓💓💓💓
Great video- loved hearing both of your perspectives. I just love your content- it is genuine and real. And my goodness- now my mouth is watering for those dips!
Wow wow wow this was actually quite draining to watch! I really think you two need to get some marriage guidance counselling because right now you can be distracted because you have little kids. But there are so many red flags you constantly nitpick Caroline. And I know that, banter is a part of marriage but you can see there’s underlying issues that will get brushed under the carpet, that will manifest not now but over the next 5 to 10 years when your kids are no longer children. Where you will lose respect for each other and it might make you look elsewhere for the things that are lacking in your relationship. It’s like you’re constantly in some kind of battle/competition with each other, especially you, Caroline. We all know this times in a relationship/marriage where one may earn more one may be at home more, one may do the kids And everything associated with it or where one might have the more dominant career. It doesn’t mean that one is better. Or the other is behind or has less status in the marriage. You are both equal no matter what or where you are in life. When you do these Q&A, please stop butting in when Kyle tries to express himself or give his opinion it’s rude and it’s nothing to do with being English/British, validating your husband’s feelings even if they differ from yours surely is the act of a supportive wife. Just like he supports you.
You shouldn’t have watched it then. Social media shouldn’t drain you Doreen. Sometimes for older people when you are brought up that women should be submissive it’s hard to see younger strong women and men who have different opinions but talk about them, because it’s not what you were told is normal. It’s ok we aren’t for you. The world would be a boring place if we were all the same. Sending you love
@@Mummysflippinhouseif she was 30, would her opinion be OK. That's really rude to dismiss her opinion because of her age.
@@emmakelly3111exactly. And not even just her age, but the age C has assumed the commenter is. She’s so unbelievably rude!
@@MummysflippinhouseNo Caroline there isn’t either being submissive as a woman or being rude. The fact that you believe women can be rude to men but not vice versa is insane and is giving extreme feminist 😘 fyi I’m decades younger than you and can see that being rude to any gender is wrong
I’ve married for 32 yrs with 2 adult children u both are great and u have great communication which is key to making a marriage successful of course trust and a give and take. I think you both are the yin to ur yang. U remind me of me. I am outspoken and my husband is very measured. You all have a great marriage. Keep it up! Love ur content from ohio❤❤
I absolutely love these kind of videos! These are my all time fave! ❤️❤️❤️
Damn Kyle bad marathon analogy mate lol😂
love you both ❤
It’s great as you balance each other out & your little ones are so lucky to have fabulous parents ❤
You're both doing the very best for your children. Constantly assessing your strengths and weaknesses. Caring and kind. This is very good parenting in my opinion. All the negative nonsense - directed at Caroline - is truly shameful. As a viewer I admire their candid and open approach. Being so frank and honest can can make you feel vulnerable. Words have power and should be used carefully
Would love to hear more about this Mathew McConaughey marriage pod ! Great job both of you on the video. It’s real and relatable. 👏🏻👏🏻
I find this video interesting, it’s certainly refreshing to see 2 people being so open about this subject! I think whilst in the throes of parenting young children it’s easy to watch the other and mentally criticise but it’s not appropriate to do so at the time, but then time moves so fast it’s not always easy to remember to bring it up later at a more appropriate time, so it’s definitely good to put time aside for conversations like this to better understand why the other reacts a certain way!
I think what I’m seeing is 2 very different personalities that can come across very differently on a video like this. I’d be willing to hedge my bets that Caroline is more extroverted and Kyle more introverted, it seems he needs more time to process his thoughts to communicate them in the way he intends which isn’t necessarily ideal for recording for obvious reasons, where as Caroline seems a little quicker to react which might come across a little bit rude maybe in the video but let’s be honest, only so much can be said without it turning into a several hours long video! Equally I’m sure these conversations happen without the camera on when you have more time to listen to each other and you already know each other’s feelings on these subjects. From the comments it appears some people think this 45 minute video is a thorough insight into your entire relationship, maybe the likes of Eastenders would be better suited to them!
I also don’t agree, most people who watch their videos have probably been subscribers for awhile and see the dynamics and flow, especially when they do these Q&A. Of course this is only a glimpse into their marriage! But sometimes a glimpse can tell a lot.
@@doreenayi3751 yes, sometimes a glimpse can tell a lot, but I don’t agree that anyone has any real insight into the dynamic of their relationship based on some videos they have chosen to record, edit and upload for all to see, I’d be surprised if anyone choosing to record themselves for the internet behaves exactly as they do in real life or aren’t at least slightly exaggerated versions of themselves ( intentionally or not). I do however think it’s very telling of the kind of person someone is when they choose to try and tear someone they do not know down online, in the comment section of a video they have chosen to watch often despite knowing they don’t enjoy that particular persons content.
@@user-to2js3ff3uthe thing is that she preaches authenticity and realness so what else is her audience supposed to think? Either it’s real and honest and that’s how she speaks to him, or she’s putting on a show and lying about the authenticity factor. I don’t really think, no matter how much an influencer preaches authenticity, that it’s possible to live a completely authentic life online- so I’m sure there is more nuance to their marriage in real life. I’m just pointing that out - it’s not like her audience is just making stuff up.
Letting Babies cry teaches them one thing only, they cannot rely on you and therefore they shut down. It definitely teaches them something, to suppress their emotions.
I think there is a fine line between letting them cry a few minutes and leaving them. For sure!
Have you had a baby that wakes up every hour at night crying while working a full time job? Because I don’t want to sleep train either but I am physically dying.
I couldnt let them cry either. I co-slept (then next to me in a bassinet).
The third, same as well, I knew she was my last so I didn’t GAF…I did whatever, I nursed her till she was 3 1/2 😂😂…she’s healthy has a horse! None of my girls slept through the night. The last one would come into our bed () again, didn’t care, I would rather sleep than transfer at 2:30 am… SO, my husband did it! He would transfer her when she would come to our bed at night, took about a week or two… I told him, if you don’t want her in our bed you have to do it because I simply can’t. 😊😊
Let my eldest cry, big mistake did not do anygood
For her. Horrible advice to
Give to anyparent. Rather have them sleepimg with me than messing around beds all night
@jacquelinemichele yes I've had and currently doing it a second time. Letting your baby cry is always horrible. Your child does not understand that you are tired, all they know is that you abandoned them.
I don’t think it’s a problem to have two parents with different parenting styles it provides a balance.
Don’t understand a lot of these comments! I think you two have a great dynamic and love the natural banter between you two x
If it’s not too traumatic, I would love some advice (in any format) on how you handled a reflux baby whilst also having a toddler. I am going through this and I just can’t make it work. My 2 year old is very mummy-focused and I just constantly feel like he is experience rejection because I am having to put a lot of time into a very fussy and uncomfortable baby. Ps I love all your content. Your sense of humour in your videos really brightens my day.
You absolutely can make it work, you will and most importantly YOU ARE making it work. You are doing a wonderful job, everyone around you can see it and you are just not being as kind to yourself as you should! You really are doing a great job. Be good to yourself xx
Or life throws you a huge curve. We were preparing to get pregnant again, then my husband was diagnosed with cancer....he survived treatment but it was an aggressive Lymphoma and he passed away a year and five days after diagnosis. So we never had anymore children. Our son is 30 years old, has been without his Dad since he was 4 years old. Can't imagine raising a baby without my husband. Did not want our son to be an only child, but we had no choice.
Caroline will live a lonely life. Friends, family & (definitely) spouse will not tolerate her selfishness. Me me me. And she won’t even be aware. Because me me me.
what is happening with these comments? He married a strong woman with her own opinions and then had 3 kids with a strong woman with her own opinions. He knows who he married and left his country with. You guys are being ridiculous. Not every woman has a relationship where they cannot speak their mind.
Thank you! This was SO refreshing. This is such a good example of two parents (with their own opinions) figuring out how to raise kids together. And how you can have different perspectives and opinions on how to handle the same situation. And at the end if the day, there is no one right way.
Such good communication between two parents - who are just figuring it out.
Thank you for sharing! 💛
I don’t think she likes men very much 😢
She HATES them.
Leave her alone! No one is perfect and that includes him too. Both sides had to adjust to major changes in the past months, and some of you expect people to turn off their emotions and play the perfect human to please TH-cam viewers. At least they are real, unlike many other creators who portray their fake happiness. Who doesn’t get annoyed with his/her other half ?
Instead of micro analysing other people’s relationships and trying to destroy one’s reputation, go and look at yourselves first before making assumptions.
I agree with Kyle on this with disciplining kids. I have 3 children and im not cpming from a uninformed place.
I urge you to watch my solo parenting blogs and tell me I look uninformed 😂 my children and well loved, well behaved, they say please and thank you because they mirror me and my kind behaviour towards them
I think healthy discussion is good, disagreeing in parenting style pretty normal - I,d probably do the same as Caroline and pick my baby up, after all it’s your last one ;) but the manner in which we express ourselves is also important and it just felt Kyle was being belittled various parts of this video. Stick up for yourself sure but this video came across unkind.
I am British, but I agree with Kyle. Our dips suck I don't like sour cream, so I am screwed really. Give me buffalo all day.
I prefer getting a proper pot of sour cream rather than flavoured dips
Love to see the bickering. 😂 Those are some age old arguments every parenting couple has, and it takes two to tango! Peeps criticizing in the comments need to take a chill pill.
This is a very honest video of two parents! Thank you for sharing!
The sprinting analogy chat was hilarious! X
I was chuckling too, I know exactly what Kyle was trying to say but saying it wrong and I was sweating 😅
Could only watch half this video, who thought it was a good idea to crunch crisps and film a Q&A?
Absolute props to you both! Yes you should have different parenting - not a bad thing at all, this is such a lovely video from you guys, I love it. I am hoping to be pregnant in 2025 and you guys remind me of my fiancé and me. Lots of love to you and your family. I'll be coming back to this video - you guys are such a great couple with your heads screwed on and level heads, great content :)
I'm curious why you feel you need to get Sophie to eat less? I know a lot of kids her age who eat so much more than you would think they need and so many who seem to barely eat a thing. I was a kid who ate a ton.
Because I want her to eat the dinner I have prepared and not just snack. We bring our family together every day at dinner time. We eat all together and almost always a home cooked meal. If she snacks she won’t eat and then conversation is broken during the meal
yeah but you leave dinner so late for kids that age. Of course she'll be hungry.
Both of you seem to be home, so why not an earlier dinner they'll eat without needing to snack if you don't want them to snack.
I've raised 3 kids close in age, very hungry boys so very been there. I was at home. Husband home much later, they ate before him mostly because that's what the kids needed.
Shocked at the comments 😂 you’d think you are the Wicked witch .This is one of the realest videos I’ve seen. My parents have been together for over 30 years and still have different parenting style. My dad and Kyle are very similar and you and my mum . You know what ,it works ,as an adult I still go to my mum for comfort but my dad tells it how it is and is also my protector. Your doing a great job and your children are lovely ❤
I'm with kyle on the toast 😂❤
These comments are wild! You do not know these people or their marriage. oh. my. god .
You and Kyle are me and my husband when it comes to handling tantrums 😂
I read some comments as the video started. Am I watching a different video than everyone else? I was waiting for battle level arguing... it never came. I think people in the comments are confusing passion for aggression. Neither of them were unkind to the other, they both had and defended their own opinions, with their own individual form of communication. Just because it isn't your preferred style, doesn't mean it doesn't work for them. Also, it's not that deep babes.
Agreed 👍
Now this one was a great Q&A! Got to hear both perspectives. Thanks for sharing. You two need a podcast immediately! Team let them damn kids cry it out. LOL 😂
This is such a real and honest view of a marriage. As a single, childless woman it’s refreshing to see a marriage where both husband and wife are equals and are allowed to express their opinions and agree to disagree! I’m afraid one day I’ll marry a man who wants to control my opinion and thoughts, but you and Kyle are equal partners in your parenting and I love that! These other people in the comments clearly have their own marital problems…
Listen to Kyle about the discipline!😉
Children can be children. I agree with age appropriate discipline at appropriate timing
Discipline and punishment are so misunderstood. I don't agree with punishment of a little one especially when it comes to their feelings or expressing themselves.
Discipline has turned into an ugly controversial word in the parenting world and it's simply guidance. Children of all ages need that.
@@Mummysflippinhouse i agree
Yes, He doesn’t want his kids to be brats
She is treating him like shit. Like he is garbage. He has to like everything that she likes. Obviously she would like to come across as a superior being but her inferiority transpires through her cells. 😅 " high class " wannabe who wears marks and spencer. Lame.
In the end she will wonder why he cheated and left her.
It is because of your personality.
Love this Q&A. Parenthood is tough yet amazing. To still have humour & respect for one another is 👌 Love you guys & your honesty. Xx
The brain fog of remembering all the kids ages😂
Night time dryness is a hormonal thing for anyone worrying about it, they'll get it when they get it
Also I read the comments first so was aware that the common view was that Caroline was rude/cutting Kyle. But he also “cuts” her off and disagrees with her. I understand her frustrations that the night waking approach is different (same in our house).
Are we just not used to strong women and softer men dynamics? Seems like they are happy
Also Kyle is an adult with capacity. He communicates his views and opinions
Completely agree!
"Do you want to know how I would have handled that situation?"
IMMEDIATE "No." 🤣
Caroline eating the whole of the first dip in 1 go 😂😂😂She isn't derogatory to Kyle, some of it is fun banter & sometimes they disagree but handle it. As Kyle says, they agree to disagree, which is healthy. They are a well balanced couple.
The arguing is hilarious. Caroline sucks hahaha. She makes everything about her. I have no idea how he stays married to her. She’s exhausting and never lets him have a word in without correcting or putting his thoughts down.
Love you guys so much. Their behaviour is not acceptable is such an Americanism. It killed me when you said that, Caroline’s face was a picture 😂😂
It really is such an American-ism
And I’m an American. Lmao
I’m very similar to Caroline… like they are acting their literal age. Not that it isn’t or is acceptable, it’s just their age. I’m the older, supposedly more wise and patient one so it’s my job to redirect and teach them one way or the other, whilst understanding their perspective. That’s why parenting is so exhausting….
How would a child know their reaction/behavior is or isn’t acceptable..how would they ever know that if they didn’t behave the way they are and I redirect or explain some sort of alternative?
Whew. Parenting is tiring. But awesome.
All these comments about Caroline interrupting and undermining 😂 THEY ARE A MARRIED COUPLE! They aren't strangers having polite conversation. They both interrupt each other..... Have a lot of you never been in a long term relationship or felt comfortable with your partner?????
This comment section is not it. I have loved watching you and Kyle together, it has felt like the realest representation of what it like to parent with a partner that has a different background and therefore different view on how to raise your children together. Not only are women more “nurturing” when it comes to their children, we literally have hormones that drive us to protect them fiercely as they are completely dependent on us for a number of years. Caroline is right, yelling at a two year old who literally can’t comprehend why what they’re doing is “wrong” only escalates a situation and makes everyone feel worse. It is not developmentally appropriate to expect someone so little to listen and behave in such a way that you as an adult deem acceptable. Kyle is right about children needing discipline, but his definition of the word is off. They need guidance and they need to have structure but they don’t need to be punished for feeling their feelings (feelings that are a big deal to THEM). Caroline is the only creator I see that is brave enough to post raw conversations between her and her partner on the internet knowing damn well most people on here are going to shit on her despite not being perfect themselves. I’m raising one two year old right now and it can be so hard and chaotic so I can’t imagine having three but I’m confident these two have more than enough love between them otherwise they wouldn’t have committed to this journey 3 times over. Have some grace ya’ll
Sending you love hun. Thank you 🩷
@ back at ya 💜
Some of the comments are insane. This is a normal video like the rest of their Q&A videos.
I actually think these guys seem like a completely normal marriage, like we are all like this. Well, any woman who isn't meek, I mean. Although there are a few moments where I'm like just leeeeeave it babe leaaaave it. But how many people would be saying that to me or my husband if they were watching us discussing important topics????! Loads!!!
Jesus everyone calm down! I loved this video. Totally realistic. We don’t all parent the same and I actually think the 2 of you communicate very well. I love an assertive woman Caroline. Keep the videos coming ❤
“Should we just move on?”
Thirty hours later….
“No” 😂😂😂
I am so glad I’m childless 😂😂😂😂
I read a few of the comments before watching and have to say I completely disagree. As always a normal wonderful relatable comfortable couple to me! Love your videos!
I absolutely liveeee for you two!!! Love from Chicago 💗
Hm i read the comments before watching expecting way worse. I didnt think the banter was bickering, normal disagreements resolved in real time... And when Kyle said "ok relax" my eyes popped out, if my husband said that to me he would have gotten a warning look, similar to what you were giving Kyle when he was fumbling the metaphor 😅
These comments are so weird. People are seriously overreacting. But men always get more grace than women do so I'm not surprised
I’m sorry I can’t get over the fact that he doesn’t like Indian food 😮
It’s just not as common in the USA, it’s super imbedded in our culture here because of our history. Id say it’s the same as Mexican food is super popular in the USA unlike here. I love Indian food so it’s so annoying we don’t get it for takeaway often
Also hard agree on the no crying thing when sleep training. It’s actually wrong that crying teaches them to control their emotions because infants learn how to do that from their parents. Letting them cry teaches them absolutely nothing about emotional regulation at that age.
I’m from the UK. I thought I hated Indian food when I had only experienced nasty supermarket, takeaway or restaurant Indian food.
Imagine telling my now-husband, who is Indian, that I hate Indian food!😂
Then I tasted his mum’s home cooked food…I could live off it now. My husband learned how to cook Indian food from his mum and sisters and his cooking is absolutely divine!
I think Kyle would change his mind if he had homemade Indian food!
I’m fascinated - my English father /scots-irish heritage mother were very strict on discipline and emotional outbursts were not tolerated beyond babyhood. I was always told it was “how things were done in our family” aka always assumed it was a Brit thing (bc Americans tend to be very lax). Curious if you guys think your differing views on discipline are cultural?
This was like watching a convo between my husband and I! 29:32 we have this same conversation.