He drives their cars, lives in their homes and causes them drama, yet they continue to sleep with him. They can't blame anyone for bad decision making and behavior.
This is actually deplorable they are fighting over a jailbird, cheater and deadbeat dad. Feel bad for all the kids involved to have parents like this 😳
I agree, such trifling people and having kids but it's the girlfriend, she in such denial and so 😡 at the other girl, when it's their boyfriend doing her dirty. She has no self love or self esteem whatsoever
What you mean alot of families is like this we as a people have mental drama we need to correct this Our Queens are killing our foundation. She chase a man who is clearly a waste for a father for her children.
Black People are the ones who are embarrassing. I hope your daughters is dating an White or Hispanic Men for the better. Good Black Men are hard to find, they are Deadbeat Fathers, Abusers, Jailbirds, Felons and Weed Heads.
I agree with you on that. I'm going to stay in my daughter's ear and her mind. I wish my daughter would. I pray that our daughters would not make these mistakes. 7:47
I had a boyfriend who was seeing my friend. When I found out, I confronted my friend. She gave me this sad story and we conspired to have him come over to her house, while I was there. After we confronted him, I had my words and left. I ended my relationship with both of them. I was 18 years old and am so grateful that I was smart enough to do what I did.
That’s why such stupidity should not be televised, these are a poor example representing us. Most of us have no part in such foolery, just work hard, caring for our families and minding our own business.
If anyone ever came to me to say a guy I'm dating is her man. I'm laughing and rejoicing all the way back home cause I just dropped 150+lbs of dead weight in minutes. No reason to fight over any guy 😂
I don’t know what’s worse. The fact that they’re fighting over a no good, deadbeat, jailbird or the fact that they have no shame embarrassing themselves and nationally televising their ignorance. When does it get this bad ladies???? No self-respect, self-esteem or self-worth! This is sad. Plain sad!
The same way y'all think women with glasses, braces, and short nappy hair is corny. Y'all overlook those type of good women for the bad girl video vixen types until they crush y'all hearts and leave you for another man. Now choke on that.
😮And the really messed up part is that they will regret that mindset later on and wish they could turn back that clock. But by then it'll be TOO LATE. BREAK THAT CYCLE OR LIVE WITH A LIFETIME OF REGRET. TELLIN' Y'ALL, LADIES. WAKE UP WHILE YOU STILL CAN😮
@@dharts5497 they can go to school and found another guy, after they level up and became educated women Making money. A men is not a plan, a job, a carreer is a plan.
I’m sitting in my garage watching random clips and I had to shut my garage door half way b/c I was embarrassed that my neighbor also heard this lol. Your Comment is on point! Lol
Yes I wouldn't have done this if I were them!!! This is national TV. They have absolutely no shame. They should be trying to assure the kids have a nice life and relationship since the father is incarcerated!
Anything positive and loving for the children would be great lessons! I only hope that the women can get their morals and values in check first, definitely improve themselves so they don't have to fight for a man. It is so unfortunate that this is still happening but we don't judge, only learn from someone's story.
@@blueRosesforme Over 50% of black men are not fathers. It is a small percentage of these low life men who are fathering all these innocent little children. LADIES, you can STOP this! Quit ruining the black family by accepting these worthless scumbags. Quit being so NEEDY FOR ATTENTION - you will accept anything. Have more SELF RESPECT than that. Don’t bring an innocent child into this world without being married - every child deserves a mom & dad building a stable home.✌🏽😎❤
This woman living with her mother with three kids and she fighting over a man with 13 kids and in jail!! Please make this make sense!! This is sad how can some woman be so desperate!!
@@nmc1859 there is nothing charming about a man with 13 kids that he don’t take care of, and a man that drives other woman’s car to get around , and that’s in and out of jail… where is the charm in that.. lmao
They need to team up and collectively dump their sewer rat boyfriend who is literally the community’s man first, then go to group therapy/counseling so that they can hear each other’s stories , understand each other better and heal. Their kids all siblings to each other and don’t need to see their mothers going to jail for attacking each other. 😢
I'd rather dance all day on a floor filled with Legos than EVER be in a relationship with a no good scrub who cheats on me, knocks up another woman and has a tribe of kids. Ain't no damn wayyyyy 💀💀💀💀💀
This is utterly embarrassing!Come on ladies, love yourself & your kids. Focus on them & on bettering yourselves. He can’t do anything for either one of them, yet they’re feuding & looking CRAZY! 🤦🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️
This is why 17 -19% of the men are making babies with 67% of the women. It's not multiple men fathering multiple children, it's the same dudes fathering children with multiple women. How the plaintiff can casually say "8 or 9" children as if it's much better than 12 is horrendous. These women are literally fighting over a dead beat, jail bird, philanderer.
This sad as heck. Whoever "wins" him completely, just lost. Let one of those women walk away he'll get someone else to fill that spot. Different name, same game.
Exactly the man has 9 or 10 kids, I don’t think they know how many he really has, he’s in jail now and he is a cheater that definitely can not support these kids. I would be ashamed to tell this story in an empty room, yet they are in National television with this nonsense.
@phones24ful, I think they are so caught up into their lives that they cannot see how crazy it sounds to everyone else outside of them. They have an inkling but not to the degree that we do. I really pray for the sake of their kids that they wake up, learn to love themselves and change for the better…otherwise the kids will be at risk of repeating this cycle.
The fact that she claims him, doesn't know how many kids he has and is comfortable thinking he's not cheating rn because he's in jail. He's got a whole boyfriend in there too. He clearly doesn't like to be alone.
How embarrassing! She has to hold him accountable and she seems to be more upset at the other woman. Ma’am leave him while you can, cause what can he offer you? 8-12 kids, whewwww
Absolutely right! Like he said, he’s the cause of all of these issues. And she’s proud to say they are still together… so if she’s still with the problem, ain’t nothing Judge Mathis can give her that will solve the problem.
He doesn’t have a car, he has between 8-12 kids, he cheats, he’s in jail and sounds like he hangs out with his friends all day and you 2 all fighting back and forth over this man🤦🏽♀️ I’m embarrassed for them
And I bet he's in jail watching this episode laugh and cracking up with his other gel buddies... Thinking to b words want me. And who knows maybe the mother of the other 10 or 12 or whatever the number is shit you lose count...are thinking he's there man too. Good Lord it makes me want to scream at the upside down bullshit
I was wondering if she said 8, because she has a few with him. I don't remember her stating if they shared any children together. Either way this is embarrassing. He still has 12 damn kids!
Living at home with 3 kids by three different fathers?😭 staying with a man that has so many kids you can’t count, cheats, gets people pregnant while he’s with you, AND is in jail😭😭 As both of their mothers I would be so disappointed.
Ain’t no need that fight just become sister wives and consolidate y’all bills and move in together so when he gets out of prison he can have his family together
I'm 62 years old and I never fought any woman over a man. As soon as I knew any man I slept with slept with another woman I bowed out knowing that he I'd not care for me period!
After watching this episode I'm revoking my own black card. I'm uninviting myself from any future cookouts, family reunions and baby mama parties. I'm done! Our community needs to do better. This is a shame! 🤦🏾♀️
@@bettynance270 why not? They both sleeping with him. They both know he sleeping with both of them, so be mature about it. We in hyperinflation right now, I whole lot of people going to have to come together.
My goodness, looking at these two and all I can think of is the words of my grandmother “ain’t that much love in the world” … they definitely need to love themselves more because this is quite sad
JM knew exactly what he was doing by letting them both go on and on in detail how they BOTH stalked and attached each other while sharing the same trifling man with 12 kids (her baby makes 13) in hopes that they realized how stupid they look on national television. I'm embarrassed for them. 🤡
Being single is not the worst thing in the world. The saying is you can do bad all by yourself. You can do good all by yourself as well. It's better to be single than to have a piece of a man.
I'm so glad im not stupid like this ANYMORE! Life is too precious and beautiful to be living in toxic foolishness! God has so much more and better for these ladies! Wish them all the best!
This is common in our community. They chose to lay and reproduce with trash, then when they finally realized they've laid with trash, they want to take that baggage to the good men they overlooked. The plaintiff is the biggest loser. Guy got 12 kids, no car, and in jail, but you in court proudly holding him down. Do better.
And the trash should be forced to not be able to have kids. If there wasn’t any trash in the streets, these women wouldn’t have kids. Let’s take out all the trash..
Now I will definitely say they're both being dumb real dumb but the majority of the BC IS FILLED with BM that have been in jail and on more than one occasion so don't act like the BC is filled with good BM because it's not but they definitely both are ignorant extremely ignorant for allowing this man to play both of them he's not fighting for either one of them this is plain pathetic and I'm sure each one of them has more going for themselves then he does SMH 🤦🏽
It hurts to see how much people want to be loved. People will allow others to treat them so badly in the hopes that eventually that person will make them feel loved We're just a bunch of lost souls swimming in a fish bowl hurting one another 💔💔
It is horrible they gotta be from a small town. He’s trifling and disgusting . How on Earth they this grown all these kids and they acting like this!!!!
The normalcy in these types of communities (poverty, lack of education) to just have babies and 'carry on' is just so sad and embarrassing for the community. It reinforced a negative stereotype. I feel frustrated for my brothers and sisters as I know it's not all but the getting pregnant young, not caring for yourself or anyone else, dysfunction and so on is taught and passed down. Generational trauma is also extremely prevalent in the black community. I say all of this as an ally and with understanding and empathy.
I never understood how women can fight over a man that clearly does not care for any of them. The worst part of it all is that those ladies are mothers and are clearly engaging in criminal violent acts that would land them in jail away from your kids. You think this man would step up and take care of yours knowing he had 8-12? Is he really that worth it?!?
This is a shame fighting over a broke dust up jailbird that would be probably at home playing video games all day and not working if he were not in jail. The defendant needs to take care of her kids and stop making them can't afford it stop making them.
I am sure the women didn't ask for any of HIS drama and children! No one deserves treachery and disrespect from a loser okay so I do not blame the women. You don't know what he tells them. Can you tell me how THESE ARE GROWN WOMEN RESPONSIBLE FOR THEIR OWN ACTIONS and have a future with a dead beat?
She tap that dang ring on counter one more time I’m coming through this phone 😅 He don’t want either one of you 🤦🏽♀️ ladies do better! I love judge Mathis! Keep it real!!
This is why self esteem is important. Once you love yourself fully this will not be tolerable. This jailbird just happy he has two "kids" fighting over him knowing he's not worth it. He has discover their lowest point and taking full advantage of them both. Sadly he has kids🤦🏿♀️
I like JM message about violence in the neighborhood. Even though this message will fall on deaf ears, in this case. We were taught to think before speaking, count when angry, sleep on it, etc!
The fact she still keeps calling him her boyfriend. That dude community property. He belongs to everyone.
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That part
Lmao😂😂😂😂😂 he for the streets
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Yeah, he's literally state property.
I need both these women to get some self-esteem ASAP. This is a disgrace.
I agree 👍
Nope they not…..wait till he get out he got the another girl waiting
You can't teach old dogs new tricks.
Exactly! Not even a husband- a bf🤦🏾♀️
They need to ditch this man while he’s in jail, and move on. They both need to get themselves together and get a better outlook on their lives.
He drives their cars, lives in their homes and causes them drama, yet they continue to sleep with him. They can't blame anyone for bad decision making and behavior.
Ridiculous ain't it?
The situation is both their fault. This is so wild to me.
all need to grow up especially with children involved
This is actually deplorable they are fighting over a jailbird, cheater and deadbeat dad. Feel bad for all the kids involved to have parents like this 😳
They are siblings 😢
I agree, such trifling people and having kids but it's the girlfriend, she in such denial and so 😡 at the other girl, when it's their boyfriend doing her dirty.
She has no self love or self esteem whatsoever
What you mean alot of families is like this we as a people have mental drama we need to correct this Our Queens are killing our foundation. She chase a man who is clearly a waste for a father for her children.
@@startinajackson606 it was definitely the denial for me!
Louder
This man in jail, no transportation of his own, 9-13 kids & y'all dislike each other about him? He's trifling & thts evident, move on, the both of u.
The black queen has spoiled the black king 🤣
They just as ratchett..ijs..
He's probably rich drug dealer
Right! They should join forces! Understanding that, he should be uniting people instead of dividing them! 🤣
they chose to lay with him so they trifling too.
THIS is EMBARRASSING!! I feel an immediate need to have ANOTHER sit down with my daughters! 🤦🏽♀️ I wish they would!
Honeyyyy right?!
Please do. Validate your daughter that way NO man can define her.
Black People are the ones who are embarrassing. I hope your daughters is dating an White or Hispanic Men for the better. Good Black Men are hard to find, they are Deadbeat Fathers, Abusers, Jailbirds, Felons and Weed Heads.
🤣😂
I agree with you on that. I'm going to stay in my daughter's ear and her mind. I wish my daughter would. I pray that our daughters would not make these mistakes. 7:47
I had a boyfriend who was seeing my friend. When I found out, I confronted my friend. She gave me this sad story and we conspired to have him come over to her house, while I was there. After we confronted him, I had my words and left. I ended my relationship with both of them. I was 18 years old and am so grateful that I was smart enough to do what I did.
Woww thats crazy. Sorry you had to go through that. You are strong
They both needed to be removed from your life.. LADIES NEVER ALLOW YR GIRLFRIENDS TO GET CLOSE TO YR MAN THEY BECOME RNVIOUS WHEN THEIR NOT HAPPY
@@timar629 That's what I said. I ended my relationship with both of them.
Good for you
Yessssss gurlllll!!!
2 BW on national television arguing, insulting each other and fighting over a Ray Ray is ridiculous
They do this everyday on Love & hip Hop other reality shows so what makes this any different?
very well said so ridiculous and he is in jail go figure
That’s why such stupidity should not be televised, these are a poor example representing us. Most of us have no part in such foolery, just work hard, caring for our families and minding our own business.
THEY'RE MAKING FOOLS OF THEMSELVES😮
If she say boyfriend one more time 🙄 they both just goofy as goofy can be 🤦🏽♀️🥴
If anyone ever came to me to say a guy I'm dating is her man. I'm laughing and rejoicing all the way back home cause I just dropped 150+lbs of dead weight in minutes. No reason to fight over any guy 😂
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Go after 180lbs and above
That’s a petite ass dude 🥴😂😂 But yes, I feel u.
@@shelocsher2396 What size is the average guy? Y'all help me out 😂😂😂
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I don’t know what’s worse. The fact that they’re fighting over a no good, deadbeat, jailbird or the fact that they have no shame embarrassing themselves and nationally televising their ignorance. When does it get this bad ladies???? No self-respect, self-esteem or self-worth! This is sad. Plain sad!
Whatever happened to the virtues of self-esteem and dignity???!!! Why are sooooo many women today so lacking in both???!!!
Right!!! Just a big mess!!
What a. Weak. Woman
These women. Needs. Jesus, ASAP
It worst that they have no shame about it. Shows they are not seeing the issue and don't understand self worth.
I was in their shoes once before. Stuck on pure stupid over a nothing a$$ man!! Thank GOD I learned to love myself!!!!
I’m glad you did beautiful 🫶🏾
Girrrrrl!!!
Congratulations 🎉
Glad you can own up to your mistakes. That's how you know you've grown😊
She keeps putting emphasis on “My Boyfriend” glad Judge Mathis straightened her out…”Our Boyfriend”
😂😂😭😭
Crying shame 🤣
She was saying “MY BOYFRIEND” like it was some type of flex 😂😂😂
Should’ve told her the Y in “your” is silent!!!! 🥴
@@moneka1030 so 😊😊😊😊
That part 😭😭😭
I can’t even finish this. I’m embarrassed for both and I hope they do better😔
Yo!! Me too!!
It is so disappointing and disgusting. So sad to see these women 1. fighting over a man and 2. a man with nothing to offer. So sad.
Literally!!! I can’t even do it.
A piece of ish!!!
The most educated woman in America, the black women 😆😂🤣😅😄😃😀
These are the type of women who think guys going to school and studying are corny.
The same way y'all think women with glasses, braces, and short nappy hair is corny. Y'all overlook those type of good women for the bad girl video vixen types until they crush y'all hearts and leave you for another man. Now choke on that.
Yep until they’ve had a couple of kids and baby daddy has left …..then corny guy becomes appealing
Say what. You are So Correct
😮And the really messed up part is that they will regret that mindset later on and wish they could turn back that clock. But by then it'll be TOO LATE. BREAK THAT CYCLE OR LIVE WITH A LIFETIME OF REGRET. TELLIN' Y'ALL, LADIES. WAKE UP WHILE YOU STILL CAN😮
@@dharts5497 they can go to school and found another guy, after they level up and became educated women Making money.
A men is not a plan, a job, a carreer is a plan.
Yikes. The story just kept getting worse and worse.
Such a sad situation
Omg it was exhausting! And yet I couldn't stop watching 😩
I’m on 3:15 and I already have a damn headache.. smh
@@kiaramb1 🤣😂😂😂
That part.
As a black woman, I'M EMBARRASSED!!🤦🏽♀️
😩😂😂😂
I hear you loud and clear sister!!
No, don't be embarassed. You're not them. Don't take responsibility for their behavior.
I'm not, that's them & their ignorance! Dummies!
@@NotYourTypicalNegro EXACTLY
Mothers behaving like that. Oh Lord, please protect these Kids.
When she said her birthday was April Fool's Day...this story made so much sense 😂😭😭🤣😳😬
😂🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂
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🤣😂🤣😫
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Hahahahaha 😂
I’m second hand embarrassed for all of them. Even the witness in the blonde wig.
Hahahahahaha..that wig!!
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I’m sitting in my garage watching random clips and I had to shut my garage door half way b/c I was embarrassed that my neighbor also heard this lol. Your Comment is on point! Lol
The wig!!!!!!!!
Yes I wouldn't have done this if I were them!!! This is national TV. They have absolutely no shame. They should be trying to assure the kids have a nice life and relationship since the father is incarcerated!
Judge mathis calling them WIFE IN LAWS 😂
It's accurate. They both still messing with him🤦🏾♀️
@@kayshawnsimmons5585and now Judge Mathis in a pickle himself
As a parent, a woman and once a child...
PLEASE LETS TEACH OUR YOUNG ONES ABOUT SELF LOVE...SO THEY DON'T END UP LOOKING FOR LOVE IN EMPTY HEARTS
Anything positive and loving for the children would be great lessons! I only hope that the women can get their morals and values in check first, definitely improve themselves so they don't have to fight for a man. It is so unfortunate that this is still happening but we don't judge, only learn from someone's story.
@@blueRosesforme Over 50% of black men are not fathers. It is a small percentage of these low life men who are fathering all these innocent little children. LADIES, you can STOP this! Quit ruining the black family by accepting these worthless scumbags. Quit being so NEEDY FOR ATTENTION - you will accept anything. Have more SELF RESPECT than that. Don’t bring an innocent child into this world without being married - every child deserves a mom & dad building a stable home.✌🏽😎❤
Smart
Amen!
Yep!! 👌
This woman living with her mother with three kids and she fighting over a man with 13 kids and in jail!! Please make this make sense!! This is sad how can some woman be so desperate!!
He must be charming and handsome
No sense to be made
@@nmc1859 there is nothing charming about a man with 13 kids that he don’t take care of, and a man that drives other woman’s car to get around , and that’s in and out of jail… where is the charm in that.. lmao
@@ImWorthy4Real I agree. These ladies and many others see something though !! 🤷♀️
This is crazy but sometimes women and men get desperate so your rite
8,9,12 kids is an embarrassment in itself, he wouldn't have gotten any of my time let alone fighting over hiim.SMDH
I’m older just trying to better if this is more normal or rare…
If they could take this competitive spirit and apply it to something positive in their life, they’d be winning!!!
yeah but that would be hard
#PotentialWinners
They prefer to keep spreading them legs open.
I wish this comment was 📌 ❤
They need to team up and collectively dump their sewer rat boyfriend who is literally the community’s man first, then go to group therapy/counseling so that they can hear each other’s stories , understand each other better and heal. Their kids all siblings to each other and don’t need to see their mothers going to jail for attacking each other. 😢
Every stereotype possible summed up in this episode✍🏾
Yessuuhh!! Mutual combat. The gf probably fighting over his visitor log at the jail too.
You summed this up so appropriately…dumb, dumber, and dumbest…feel sorry for children born into this drama 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️
NO CAP
@@LukeandLeia15 🤦🏽♀️ikr just sad
Sad when will it end
I would dismiss both claims and send them a therapy referral 💯🤷🏽♀️
Exactly
😂😂😂😂😂
I'd rather dance all day on a floor filled with Legos than EVER be in a relationship with a no good scrub who cheats on me, knocks up another woman and has a tribe of kids. Ain't no damn wayyyyy 💀💀💀💀💀
Exactly
Ouch! 😂
A football team of kids! 😂
Riggt!! I don't understand wat I it 2 chase
Rather count all of the sand on the beach 😂
This man has nothing to offer neither one of them. He's using their cars and staying at their houses. This is crazy.
Sounds like he has his own place but yeah he ain’t shit lol
Right now he is living behind bars smh. These women are crazy🙄
Oh, he has something to offer them. It's about 6-8" long.
Girrrllll, yes he does 🙄SPERM 🤷🏾♀️ as well as the rest of the community 🤷🏾♀️🙄
They're nothing but semen receptacles to him!!!
This is utterly embarrassing!Come on ladies, love yourself & your kids. Focus on them & on bettering yourselves. He can’t do anything for either one of them, yet they’re feuding & looking CRAZY! 🤦🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️
This is why 17 -19% of the men are making babies with 67% of the women. It's not multiple men fathering multiple children, it's the same dudes fathering children with multiple women. How the plaintiff can casually say "8 or 9" children as if it's much better than 12 is horrendous. These women are literally fighting over a dead beat, jail bird, philanderer.
That's a lie ie statistics.
@@khrisi9410 No, he's actually correct. Women are picking the same kind of man to have children with. It's sad but it's true.
It's Absolutely deplorable!
@@khrisi9410, no it’s not!!
They like those type of dudes over the good guys that are about something.
So be it.
This sad as heck. Whoever "wins" him completely, just lost. Let one of those women walk away he'll get someone else to fill that spot. Different name, same game.
The plaintiff said she's still with him... holding him down while he's in jail.....damn fool💯
@@actualfactual1882 They both DESERVE HIM. 🥴🥴🥴
There is an oldies song fool in love
Big facts
@@arethaboddy7490 😂😂😂😂
It never ceases to amaze me the quality of the men these type of women fight about. It’s very sad!
The defendant befriended the plaintiff because she heard the plaintiff was messing around with him and the defendant wanted to know what she look like
Yesss
Yup
Period
facts
Yeah we know better. Defendant tried to play it off like that's not what she was doing.
I pray that I am giving my daughters enough guidance and love for them not to behave this way AND THEN GET ON TV AND DISPLAY THEIR IGNORANCE!
Exactly
Why men does that 13 kids 13 !
The fact these are grown women with children, acting like teenager’s fighting over a boy! The lack of self worth is so sad beyond words.
These women have nothing what so ever to teach those children 🤦🏾♀️😒😑
I would be so embarrassed. They are fighting and arguing over a complete BUM 🤮
Garbage!
I bet he’s happy he’s in jail so neither one of them can ask him to testify 😜🤔🧐
Word.
A whole BUM
It can't be embarrassing because they both think this shit is NORMAL.🤮
The fact that both of them want to display this on television is crazy
Exactly the man has 9 or 10 kids, I don’t think they know how many he really has, he’s in jail now and he is a cheater that definitely can not support these kids. I would be ashamed to tell this story in an empty room, yet they are in National television with this nonsense.
They have no shame
@phones24ful, I think they are so caught up into their lives that they cannot see how crazy it sounds to everyone else outside of them. They have an inkling but not to the degree that we do. I really pray for the sake of their kids that they wake up, learn to love themselves and change for the better…otherwise the kids will be at risk of repeating this cycle.
Embarrassing letting a Little Boy make a fool of them. 🤦🏾♀️
Water seeks its own level of
Y’all acting like these are prize women dealing with a scrub…all 3 of them are trifling stupid people
Little boy with a good stick!obviously
You put her down for having 3 baby fathers but with a man who I’m pretty sure has way more than 3 baby mammas 😂 smh
The fact that she claims him, doesn't know how many kids he has and is comfortable thinking he's not cheating rn because he's in jail. He's got a whole boyfriend in there too. He clearly doesn't like to be alone.
Talking about some “my boyfriend”
JM: Ain’t nothing MY about him! 😂😂😂😂
@Shaya FACTS!!!
JM didn't have to say much about him because he couldn't be whom he is if they weren't allowing it. It was about them.
That part!
How embarrassing! She has to hold him accountable and she seems to be more upset at the other woman. Ma’am leave him while you can, cause what can he offer you? 8-12 kids, whewwww
No they all deserve each other.
8-12 kids and a criminal record w/ jail time
I'm sure there's more women that he's seeing as well 🤦🏽♀️ walk away ladies, walk away. He got them both looking dumb
Annnnnd STDs and baby mama drama 🤷🏽♀️😑
@@kunaiuchia5926 While he's sitting back laughing and thinking he the man.
Wife-In-laws took me out 😩😂😂 JM is so funny. “Our boyfriend” 😂 she love that man 😂😂😂😂
I would’ve dropped the whole case. You ain’t even leave the dude…. WTF you want Judge Mathis to do????
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Right
Word.
Absolutely right! Like he said, he’s the cause of all of these issues. And she’s proud to say they are still together… so if she’s still with the problem, ain’t nothing Judge Mathis can give her that will solve the problem.
Right 🤷🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
“Me and OUR boyfriend” took me tf out 🤣😂😂😂😂😂 JM is funnyyyyy
Talmbout “me and my boyfriend” 🤣😂🤣😂🤣🤣
@@fwb1012 man I'm trying to find that part... Help me out please
@@bajangenetics400 At 11:40😂🤣😂🤣
Man let me tell you it took me to touch the bottom of Jesus’ garment when JM said “OUR BOYFRIEND” 🤣🤣🤣
I lost it when the judge said you wife-n-laws should try and get alone🤣😂🤣🤣🤣🤣😁
Idkw but the defendant's witness wig is hysterical. 😂😂😂
He doesn’t have a car, he has between 8-12 kids, he cheats, he’s in jail and sounds like he hangs out with his friends all day and you 2 all fighting back and forth over this man🤦🏽♀️ I’m embarrassed for them
It’s not even about the man now. It’s a competition between them. They just can’t let the other “win”
Facts!
And I bet he's in jail watching this episode laugh and cracking up with his other gel buddies... Thinking to b words want me. And who knows maybe the mother of the other 10 or 12 or whatever the number is shit you lose count...are thinking he's there man too. Good Lord it makes me want to scream at the upside down bullshit
@@motorcity313 YEAH THIS COMMENT WINS !!!
I was wondering if she said 8, because she has a few with him. I don't remember her stating if they shared any children together. Either way this is embarrassing. He still has 12 damn kids!
Idk if they get paid for allowing him to record them for the show but I would NEVER let this air , I'm embarrassed for the both of them !!
They do, not enough for this
Ridiculous
They only get like 300 dollars
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@@emayan06r u serious 300.00 to embarrass yourself and humiliate your self r u serious omgggg
It's just crazy the amount of stuff he put this woman through and she is still calling him her boyfriend
THAT'S DELUSIONAL AND SAD ON SO MANY LEVELS.
If she says "my boyfriend" one more time 🤦🏿♀️ she so proud to claim this man 😩
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
The most embarrassing case ever! 12 children, jailbird, and they are suing each other.
Exactly. When he get out and IF he get a job he will have no money left over for paying child support 😒
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I love how Judge Mathis holds everyone responsible for their own choices.
Living at home with 3 kids by three different fathers?😭 staying with a man that has so many kids you can’t count, cheats, gets people pregnant while he’s with you, AND is in jail😭😭 As both of their mothers I would be so disappointed.
Right!! He full of garbage!!!
*He HAS to be the ONLY man within a 10 mile radius and they have no form of transportation where they reside. They’re really at WAR for him…WOW.* 😂
Exactly
😥😔😟 SAD
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50 TX MILES 🤣
And he's loving it... Chicken heads
She's in court, boyfriend is in jail 😳
HOW UPSTANDING!
These women are tired!
The "wives in law" took me outtt!!!💀💀💀
😂😂😂😂😂😂
He sounds like a real winner ladies!!!🤩🤩🤩🤭🤭🤭🤣🤣🤣
@@WarGrowlmon18 😂😂😂😂😂
Me too. I couldn't stop laughing for 5 mins🤣😂🤣😅
Ain’t no need that fight just become sister wives and consolidate y’all bills and move in together so when he gets out of prison he can have his family together
@@sharronsimmons2431 facts
How you could continue to claim him as your bf, it’s madness
This is the result of daughters growing up without their daddies. Seeking “love” from any male that even looks at them.
They should be ashamed of themselves smh
And they come on National Tv letting the world know how stupid they are !! Smh
I feel bad for both their kids
The fact that the plaintiff is literally arguing with this girl over a man that’s in jail says a lot. No self-esteem. Sad.
its deeper than that hes In jail, with 9-13 kids, and also had a baby on her smhhh on top of that they aren't married she's just the girlfriend
I'm 62 years old and I never fought any woman over a man. As soon as I knew any man I slept with slept with another woman I bowed out knowing that he I'd not care for me period!
I'm embarrassed for the plaintiff, people just love wasting precious years of their lives for no good reason. Make it make sense 😭!
She keeps saying “my boyfriend”. 🤦🏽♀️
@@lomaxlomax6152@gaellegermain3757 RIGHT! The plaintiff thinks she’s better the defendant! She is just as despicable as her community boyfriend!
This was EMBARRASSING 🤦🏾♀️. They could've kept this one in the archives 🧐
But its the truth . People can learn
Not the archives 😭😭
Right…🤣🤣🤣
Lmao
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After watching this episode I'm revoking my own black card. I'm uninviting myself from any future cookouts, family reunions and baby mama parties. I'm done! Our community needs to do better. This is a shame! 🤦🏾♀️
I'm so embarrassed for these two. GROWN WOMEN fighting over some dude who doesn't care about them; his children; and especially himself! Disgrace!
I wish she would stop tapping her hands on the table.
Exactly!!!!!!
That’s the indicator of a dumb woman. 😂
I hate when they tap the podium like that😖😡
that is aggravating
I was looking for this comment! This bih needs to stop tappin 😩😩😂
These two might as well share this man. Pull all the incomes together and make it work.
80/20 rule
It's up to them 🤷♀️
You ain’t lie
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WTF..
@@bettynance270 why not? They both sleeping with him. They both know he sleeping with both of them, so be mature about it. We in hyperinflation right now, I whole lot of people going to have to come together.
My goodness, looking at these two and all I can think of is the words of my grandmother “ain’t that much love in the world” … they definitely need to love themselves more because this is quite sad
Grandma is wise😊😊
Sounds like my grandmother. A wise woman lol
Did she also say Nothing from Nothing leaves Nothing???
JM knew exactly what he was doing by letting them both go on and on in detail how they BOTH stalked and attached each other while sharing the same trifling man with 12 kids (her baby makes 13) in hopes that they realized how stupid they look on national television. I'm embarrassed for them. 🤡
I have secondhand embarrassment for them. Do better, ladies!
I hope they watch this case and feel nothing but embarrassment
Even more, I hope this inspires them to change.
Being single is not the worst thing in the world. The saying is you can do bad all by yourself. You can do good all by yourself as well. It's better to be single than to have a piece of a man.
Leave men alone altogether they are Lucky he didn't give them HIV/AIDS 😮
I'm so glad im not stupid like this ANYMORE! Life is too precious and beautiful to be living in toxic foolishness! God has so much more and better for these ladies! Wish them all the best!
Amen 🙏 To know better is to do better. I hope they can get it together
I would be so embarrassed if i were them. This whole case is something else
Right I hope one day they watch this and are embarrassed themselves 🤯
They both can do so much better. I hate seeing precious time wasted on someone that's undeserving
This is common in our community. They chose to lay and reproduce with trash, then when they finally realized they've laid with trash, they want to take that baggage to the good men they overlooked. The plaintiff is the biggest loser. Guy got 12 kids, no car, and in jail, but you in court proudly holding him down. Do better.
Don't know what neighborhood you live in but that's but not true in all neighborhoods.
Be quiet they do this in all communities.
@@WhatsyourIQ1 where tf you from?
And the trash should be forced to not be able to have kids. If there wasn’t any trash in the streets, these women wouldn’t have kids. Let’s take out all the trash..
Now I will definitely say they're both being dumb real dumb but the majority of the BC IS FILLED with BM that have been in jail and on more than one occasion so don't act like the BC is filled with good BM because it's not but they definitely both are ignorant extremely ignorant for allowing this man to play both of them he's not fighting for either one of them this is plain pathetic and I'm sure each one of them has more going for themselves then he does SMH 🤦🏽
LETS NOT JUST BLAME POOKIE , THESE GIRLS ARE SELECTING BOYS NOT MEN... I HOLD THEM MORE ACCOUNTABLE TO OPEN YOURSELF TO THEM...💅🥂💯
Exactly!
Wonder how they'd feel of he has a boyfriend too
💯 Correct
It takes two to make babies tho. They choose to keep fighting over these boys and the boys allow it
pookie!!!!!!!!!! lolol
It hurts to see how much people want to be loved. People will allow others to treat them so badly in the hopes that eventually that person will make them feel loved
We're just a bunch of lost souls swimming in a fish bowl hurting one another 💔💔
It is horrible they gotta be from a small town. He’s trifling and disgusting . How on Earth they this grown all these kids and they acting like this!!!!
The normalcy in these types of communities (poverty, lack of education) to just have babies and 'carry on' is just so sad and embarrassing for the community. It reinforced a negative stereotype. I feel frustrated for my brothers and sisters as I know it's not all but the getting pregnant young, not caring for yourself or anyone else, dysfunction and so on is taught and passed down. Generational trauma is also extremely prevalent in the black community. I say all of this as an ally and with understanding and empathy.
Wait what’s embarrassing about having kids
@@sharmainehardy2947 that’s what you got from what was said?!
I had my son at 18 and was nothing like them but my parents where not ghetto or hood now I’m older so grateful they never was 😂😂
Well said , this all started when the Europeans divided us smh they knew how to split us up and fight amongst each other @Shannon Holmes
@@nethericdivine2043 Y'ALL need to let go of those crutches 🙄🙄🥴🥴.
Why does the plaintiff keep calling him "her boyfriend" when the defendant had a baby with him at the same time,
That's community Meat Ma'am🙄💭
Spoiled meat
Right ....COMMUNITY
I never understood how women can fight over a man that clearly does not care for any of them. The worst part of it all is that those ladies are mothers and are clearly engaging in criminal violent acts that would land them in jail away from your kids. You think this man would step up and take care of yours knowing he had 8-12? Is he really that worth it?!?
This is embarrassing as hell fighting over a man with 9 kids… who is in prison 🤦🏻♀️
He sounds like a real winner ladies!!!🤩🤩🤩🤭🤭🤭🤣🤣🤣
Sheesh .. This is maximum ratchet level. When she said he was in jail that was the last straw! I started punching air like Trey on Boyz N the Hood. 🤦😭
Lol, girl my face was tore up like pulled pork. Real live Dizzy Lizzies.
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Maximum Ratchet😅
@@CaJaprettybrowneyes iHollered!!! 😂😂🤣🤣🤣😂
SCREAMING 😂
The fact that they are fighting him is crazy-
This is a shame fighting over a broke dust up jailbird that would be probably at home playing video games all day and not working if he were not in jail. The defendant needs to take care of her kids and stop making them can't afford it stop making them.
The real Villain is??
Videos games doubt it. Sounds to me like that 🍆 stays way too busy for that🥴
@@josephBC3652 Whose in jail?
That's what they like
@@josephBC3652 all adults involved. no victims except the child.
Lmao 😂😂 Everytime judge asked a question about him it was worse
These fools fighting over a man that’s a jail bird with 12 kids😂 Foolishness 😂😂
Self worth is so important.
WHY DOES EVERYONE KEEP SAYING THAT "HE" BROUGHT THE DRAMA TO HER LIFE? THESE ARE GROWN WOMEN RESPONSIBLE FOR THEIR OWN ACTIONS
This is what my hard work and taxes pay for dumb women and men raise dumb kids,,sorry but true
Yep
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I am sure the women didn't ask for any of HIS drama and children! No one deserves treachery and disrespect from a loser okay so I do not blame the women. You don't know what he tells them. Can you tell me how THESE ARE GROWN WOMEN RESPONSIBLE FOR THEIR OWN ACTIONS and have a future with a dead beat?
This situation just gets wilder and wilder. Ridiculous in every way.😣
Plaintiff.. go home!! You’re embarrassing yourself
They both embarrassed themselves. If he weren't incarcerated, they would probably still be fighting over him.
Not a lick of sense between all of them.
In addition to all the madness. He then took the Plaintiff’s car on her birthday and went to be with the Defendant. 🤦🏾♀️
Right
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How sad is that???
The guy is financially broke and emotionally broke with no morals or values. He is mentally disturbed to get his girlfriends pregnant. Loser, LOSER!
The man will never be faithful.. Period!
Women standards and self esteem in the gutter to be fighting over a dumpster ha
A Woman who knows her worth have Value,
If I actually shook my head as much as was necessary this ep I'd have a spinal injury.
😂😂😂😂😂😂
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Whooooo hoooo...🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣
She tap that dang ring on counter one more time I’m coming through this phone 😅 He don’t want either one of you 🤦🏽♀️ ladies do better! I love judge Mathis! Keep it real!!
This is why self esteem is important. Once you love yourself fully this will not be tolerable. This jailbird just happy he has two "kids" fighting over him knowing he's not worth it. He has discover their lowest point and taking full advantage of them both. Sadly he has kids🤦🏿♀️
I like JM message about violence in the neighborhood. Even though this message will fall on deaf ears, in this case. We were taught to think before speaking, count when angry, sleep on it, etc!
The plaintiff needs to talk to her man....not the defendant.
Right
Very low standards and self esteem...beyond embarrassing.
A guy like that was about to produce 10+ kids with multiple women.
Amazing. Just human dust.