Love it. Definitely don't want "Social Work Love." I want someone to celebrate me, not tolerate me. As I would do the same for him. More importantly, I do want someone who has submitted his life to GOD, and it shows. Someone who has dealt with his past hurts and pains so he can love me from a pure place. Look forward to GOD bringing me to my Boaz!
Don’t forget you do the inner work too that’s why it’s so many single black women it’s always what he need to do and not looking in the mirror..I am black woman and black women can be mean and nasty And never take accountability either Praying your spouse found you and you BOTH are healthy individuals Blessings 🙏🏿❤️
I've been positioning, but they all just stare and don't say anything (especially the ones that I have any remote interest in) ....it frustrates me and I feel like I should not have to approach first.
I have the exact problem. Men stare at me almost everyday but I get asked out about once a year by men I'm not interested in. Plus I'm naturally smiley so I don't think I look unapproachable. I don't want to do the asking because I want a man to be man enough to ask me and I think that sets the tone of a possible future relationship
Nous Nous understand i guess i am one of thoese men who might not say a word, in some cases, u have to understand women can be mean in the way they reply to a person they are uninterested in..... and you just never know, and i find mean with lower class alot of time are the ones who doesn't care about rejection so they approach everyone
Yes! Lord knows I'm ready to meet my king. Dated an Engineer in college, never worked out. Fine. But being away from the academic setting, really leave you feeling stranded since you have no idea certain type of men, I'm interested in, hang out. Yes. Please tell me where do high rank men go. I'm live in MN :).
Yo Doc, While we're on the topic of criteria I just want to put my specific relationship goal out there: Be married to a healthy, faithful, lifelong spouse who serves in the Lord's Recovery (It does not have to be a very outward showy service. It could be service through consistently attending prayer meetings, tithing to BfA, persuading others to get the Holy Bible Recovery Version, or adding members to the church.), has a minimum of a Bachelor's degree, and generates enough income to support a whole family for years. Then over time it became more specific, including the following criteria: Pray-read the Recovery Version with me. Read life-studies with me. Receive grace with me. (He has to be open to learning what/who grace actually is.) Attend church with me. ( It doesn't have to be a predictable, religious routine--just once or twice a month.) Unconditionally help me. Keep each other from fornicating. Form a foundational unit for building New Jerusalem with me. I don't care if he's black, white, Hispanic, Samoan, Chinese, Japanese, Mexican, Afghanistanian, or from the North Pole. Just meet the deets. God will provide, and He's still working on me. Helpful video.
Love it. Definitely don't want "Social Work Love." I want someone to celebrate me, not tolerate me. As I would do the same for him. More importantly, I do want someone who has submitted his life to GOD, and it shows. Someone who has dealt with his past hurts and pains so he can love me from a pure place. Look forward to GOD bringing me to my Boaz!
Don’t forget you do the inner work too that’s why it’s so many single black women it’s always what he need to do and not looking in the mirror..I am black woman and black women can be mean and nasty And never take accountability either Praying your spouse found you and you BOTH are healthy individuals Blessings 🙏🏿❤️
Lol when he said were not in Zumba class 😂😂😂it's a great video thanks for the advice
It’s true I’m going to start going to those kinda events
YASSS INDEED!!! Everything I needed to hear for 2019!!!!!! Thank you!
I've been positioning, but they all just stare and don't say anything (especially the ones that I have any remote interest in) ....it frustrates me and I feel like I should not have to approach first.
doesnt hurt to say hey...... some men are shy
I have the exact problem. Men stare at me almost everyday but I get asked out about once a year by men I'm not interested in. Plus I'm naturally smiley so I don't think I look unapproachable. I don't want to do the asking because I want a man to be man enough to ask me and I think that sets the tone of a possible future relationship
Nous Nous understand i guess i am one of thoese men who might not say a word, in some cases, u have to understand women can be mean in the way they reply to a person they are uninterested in..... and you just never know, and i find mean with lower class alot of time are the ones who doesn't care about rejection so they approach everyone
Very informative! Thank you Dr. Tartt 🙏🏽💙🎯
She's gonna look real obvious at the golf range and sporting event!
Yes... I've had my share of good and bad men however I learned what the problem was and NOW I have prepared for battle 💯💯💯✔✔👊👊😍😍😍🤩🤩👊👊👊
Yes! Lord knows I'm ready to meet my king. Dated an Engineer in college, never worked out. Fine. But being away from the academic setting, really leave you feeling stranded since you have no idea certain type of men, I'm interested in, hang out. Yes. Please tell me where do high rank men go. I'm live in MN :).
Really like that especially social work love. That is all I have ever had, its time for real love...I am preparing me.
Best advice I've ever heard. Thank you Dr.
Nice advice this is so appreciated on many levels. I was told my walk speaks confidence. Yet some may view it as arrogance.
Hey Dr Tartt! You hit it out the ball park with this video! Great advice! God Bless ya! :)
Still valid today.
This was so good! Thank You!! #socialworklove lol.
Thank you I will start doing this
Good points in the video doctor keep the info coming maybe you need to write a column on match.com with some of your great tips!
so awesome!
Omg I love this !!!!
Thank you the bate and switch game is over.
WOW!!! GREAT ADVICE....THANKS DOC...U ROCK.....THIS IS JUST WHAT I NEEDED.
Social work love first time hearing this line lol love the advice definitely taking notes tha ks so much
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This might be your best vlog yet. Great job and thank you!
Very great video Alduan Tartt! Thanks.
Yo Doc,
While we're on the topic of criteria I just want to put my specific relationship goal out there: Be married to a healthy, faithful, lifelong spouse who serves in the Lord's Recovery (It does not have to be a very outward showy service. It could be service through consistently attending prayer meetings, tithing to BfA, persuading others to get the Holy Bible Recovery Version, or adding members to the church.), has a minimum of a Bachelor's degree, and generates enough income to support a whole family for years.
Then over time it became more specific, including the following criteria: Pray-read the Recovery Version with me. Read life-studies with me. Receive grace with me. (He has to be open to learning what/who grace actually is.) Attend church with me. ( It doesn't have to be a predictable, religious routine--just once or twice a month.) Unconditionally help me. Keep each other from fornicating. Form a foundational unit for building New Jerusalem with me.
I don't care if he's black, white, Hispanic, Samoan, Chinese, Japanese, Mexican, Afghanistanian, or from the North Pole. Just meet the deets. God will provide, and He's still working on me.
Helpful video.
Very great video Dr! Thanks.
true..Thats true..Taiking care wifey duties!😌certain kind of brand..
wonderful video! thank u
Great advice : )
Wonderful video!
I love your vids gonna try and watch them all LOL!
Thank u,Great advice......I have been down that road with men.
Great Video
This is sooo true!!!! It sure was easier in undergrad :)
Networking 'Great Ideas!
I attract good men I just were not on the same matter! Men can be a better husband as God is loving caring and forgiving perhaps
Very true
social work love!!!🙊
Yes
Social work love lol
I am a wife
how can you attract a great guy and be free? my people were not happy with me through there actions?
National sale net work mixtures!! Ummmmmm...
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