Been frequently stuttering for 25 years now. It kills me so much. It makes me afraid to talk and I never opened my mouth unless it is a necessity. It makes me feel less. It makes me feel I'm not normal. It makes me feel different from normal people to the point that I don't even understand myself. The thought is clear in my mind but I'm struggling to express it verbally. I hate being laughed at when stuttering tries to interrupt me from expressing myself. I feel helpless. I feel hopeless. Sometimes, I question myself why am I like this. I have never opened this to anyone (I know that they know that I stutter) and I've been thinking for therapy but it never came to realization. But in all of this, Lord I will praise you and worship you for everything. No disorder nor impairment can refrain me not to be grateful everyday of my life. To those who stutter out there, change the way you see yourself. You're God's masterpiece.
Bro, when I r weak, still u r confidence and u never regret it, people once, they forgot it...beleive, me...I have seen people ,..who..other part of life
Dude I feel the same thing as you everyone thinks I’m a big introvert but I always want to talk to someone about something but I know I’ll just stutter and it controls me. I don’t understand myself at all. I don’t have any real interests and I just don’t know who I am. But i had to go to court and speak for a while and I prayed and prayed for days for me not to stutter while on the stand and I didn’t stutter a word the whole time I was there. So I know I can get past it. I just got to break through the mental barrier of not caring what someone else will think when they hear me stutter.
I have a hard time speaking sometimes. People at work don’t understand why I’m always excited to come into work. I know being a cashier isn’t the best job in the world but I love it because I get better at speaking everyday. Slowly I’m starting to speak English more fluently. The challenge is what excites me. I am not ashamed. The real shame would be to never try to improve and never have a social life.
God bless his courage and boldness..I too have a speech impediment, I dont stutter but i do have issues with articulation...I desire a career in financial services..and well, a business like that requires you to talk and network..its very hard to do that when the one thing you MUST do is the one thing you feel you CANT do..its a daily struggle that I hope one day to overcome
As someone who has had Dysarthria since I was 5 years old. This video really does resonate with me as most of my life I have been practicing hard to correct my speech. I have made great efforts in my transparency of my words but it still hurts whenever someone comments how I sound like a special needs person.
I have problems talking to people and that's why I do public speaking and videos on my channel to force myself to get better at it, because talking to people isn't something we can get away with not doing. It's nice to see someone else that I can relate with.
i struggled since i was a kid and still have a hard time. it affects my writing and reading comprehension. i have to work extra hard than my colleagues. i am a post-graduate.however, it took extremely hard work. my undergrad professors that i was from another country. i don't stutter just issues with comprehending and my mind is faster than my mouth. to pass the undergrad intro to english literature, i took my test with the international speaking class. it took me forever to write papers. it affects my job, especially facilitating meetings and writing emails.
This is my favorite video ever, it resonate with me. For a long time I have substitute words that had R in them with easier words. Just recently I started talking more, took Rachel's English to help me with my R's, took a online presentation course and other one to improve my speech. Because if I didn't then I wouldn't fulfill my dreams.
@Mohammed Rahim Yes i did, my only advice is keep talking. wow it been 3 years since I posted this and a year later I join a Public speaking club toastmater international which you can find anyway in the world to get over my fear of public speaking and gain confidence.
i have a speech impediment where i can’t pronounce r’s and i recently realized i avoid words with r’s when i speak. but sadly, my name is kerri so i just avoid introducing myself to people basically until they eventually learn my name somehow
Thankfully r’s aren’t my issue since my name is Reed, but d’s b’s are my main issue. I do the same thing as your saying. I sometimes say other words in a sentence so I don’t stutter. Ordering food is a stressful time and I try and find different ways to order the food I want. Stuttering really messes up your social life but I’ve been trying to own the stutter and you won’t stutter as much
@@jackdoesgames07you used to struggle with my Ls but if your tongue and cheek muscles are strong enough try taking your putting it above your teeth and go down and try and make the l sound
Been frequently stuttering for 25 years now. It kills me so much. It makes me afraid to talk and I never opened my mouth unless it is a necessity. It makes me feel less. It makes me feel I'm not normal. It makes me feel different from normal people to the point that I don't even understand myself. The thought is clear in my mind but I'm struggling to express it verbally. I hate being laughed at when stuttering tries to interrupt me from expressing myself. I feel helpless. I feel hopeless. Sometimes, I question myself why am I like this. I have never opened this to anyone (I know that they know that I stutter) and I've been thinking for therapy but it never came to realization.
But in all of this, Lord I will praise you and worship you for everything. No disorder nor impairment can refrain me not to be grateful everyday of my life. To those who stutter out there, change the way you see yourself. You're God's masterpiece.
Bro, when I r weak, still u r confidence and u never regret it, people once, they forgot it...beleive, me...I have seen people ,..who..other part of life
Trust me, same thing here
I can recommend the book: Stuttering & Anxiety Self-Cures: What 1000+ Stutterers Taught Me from Lee G. Lovett
Dude I feel the same thing as you everyone thinks I’m a big introvert but I always want to talk to someone about something but I know I’ll just stutter and it controls me. I don’t understand myself at all. I don’t have any real interests and I just don’t know who I am. But i had to go to court and speak for a while and I prayed and prayed for days for me not to stutter while on the stand and I didn’t stutter a word the whole time I was there. So I know I can get past it. I just got to break through the mental barrier of not caring what someone else will think when they hear me stutter.
Exactly that's a great way to think about it I know Marilyn Monroe had a sutter as well
I have a hard time speaking sometimes. People at work don’t understand why I’m always excited to come into work. I know being a cashier isn’t the best job in the world but I love it because I get better at speaking everyday. Slowly I’m starting to speak English more fluently. The challenge is what excites me. I am not ashamed. The real shame would be to never try to improve and never have a social life.
God bless his courage and boldness..I too have a speech impediment, I dont stutter but i do have issues with articulation...I desire a career in financial services..and well, a business like that requires you to talk and network..its very hard to do that when the one thing you MUST do is the one thing you feel you CANT do..its a daily struggle that I hope one day to overcome
Very cool, love how he went from having this problem to speaking on a stage where many people who dont have this issue would be still scared to do
He probably was the kind of kid who didn't like to repeat but wanted to be original. 💖😍 And he really is. His speech show it.
As someone who has had Dysarthria since I was 5 years old. This video really does resonate with me as most of my life I have been practicing hard to correct my speech. I have made great efforts in my transparency of my words but it still hurts whenever someone comments how I sound like a special needs person.
Same. And Jesus Christ loves you 🙏
I have problems talking to people and that's why I do public speaking and videos on my channel to force myself to get better at it, because talking to people isn't something we can get away with not doing. It's nice to see someone else that I can relate with.
Speak Loudly Speak Proudly, Get out of your comfort zone.
How can I if I have speech impediment
@@DavidWang-xg1sq
have you talked to a speech pathologist?
@@jasmeet17mast No :
i struggled since i was a kid and still have a hard time. it affects my writing and reading comprehension. i have to work extra hard than my colleagues. i am a post-graduate.however, it took extremely hard work. my undergrad professors that i was from another country. i don't stutter just issues with comprehending and my mind is faster than my mouth. to pass the undergrad intro to english literature, i took my test with the international speaking class. it took me forever to write papers. it affects my job, especially facilitating meetings and writing emails.
This is my favorite video ever, it resonate with me. For a long time I have substitute words that had R in them with easier words. Just recently I started talking more, took Rachel's English to help me with my R's, took a online presentation course and other one to improve my speech. Because if I didn't then I wouldn't fulfill my dreams.
I too have the same problem..Did you overcome?
@Mohammed Rahim Yes i did, my only advice is keep talking.
wow it been 3 years since I posted this and a year later I join a Public speaking club toastmater international which you can find anyway in the world to get over my fear of public speaking and gain confidence.
I really appreciate this.
Love from Azerbaijan
Very inspirational
Great speech!
I developed a voice disorder 5 yrs ago. It is one of the worst things to deal with and speaking German with this voice is 5 times as difficult
HAHAHH sally hustles sea shells on the beach i love this. he’s so funny and a great speaker!
i have a speech impediment where i can’t pronounce r’s and i recently realized i avoid words with r’s when i speak. but sadly, my name is kerri so i just avoid introducing myself to people basically until they eventually learn my name somehow
I feel sorry for you..I too have the same issue..(Rhotacism)
I have Sam problem bro. And my name also included r 😭
Thankfully r’s aren’t my issue since my name is Reed, but d’s b’s are my main issue. I do the same thing as your saying. I sometimes say other words in a sentence so I don’t stutter. Ordering food is a stressful time and I try and find different ways to order the food I want. Stuttering really messes up your social life but I’ve been trying to own the stutter and you won’t stutter as much
I started using a whispering type voice to get rid of my speech impediment
R problems same
Great Ted Talk Aslan!
Great guy
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wow,very nice!
Inspiring speech
Legend 👍
You got it bro!!! 👊
nice job Aslan
Loved it
Cluttering - the lesser known sister of stuttering.
I have this problem 😥😭😭😭
Our consequences are same
In the same boat.
Me too
I used to have it as well good luck I'm sure you'll find a way to overcome it if you like
I just feel so alone knowing that I have no one to relate to
Idk how old u are, but Im 17 and cant pronounce L R or Q and stammer and stutter when im really anxious.
19 and struggling with sounds like Th, Sh, and R's. It's definitely a struggle but you really aren't alone
@@jackdoesgames07you used to struggle with my Ls but if your tongue and cheek muscles are strong enough try taking your putting it above your teeth and go down and try and make the l sound
I’m 14 and I can’t pronounce R and L and have a weird accent and it really sucks
@@MuffinDaMoose same but s instead of L for me
Fail, fail, fail- to connect, connect, connect!
What speech disorder does he have?
nicholas ng zhuo xun - I guess some form of dysarthria
Could be MRELD.
Apraxia? I have a son with apraxia and a son with cluttering
Azerbaijanis everywhere 🇦🇿
I'm curious if this man's unique way of speech is because of learning English as his 4th language or if he's hard of hearing or partially deaf.
Good chance it’s none of those reasons
🚀🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟
"Finding YOUR..." **talks about his life** Wow, ok...
Lol
Cluttering?
thinking too fast for your words to come out so they come out as a slur
why did i read his name as ‘asian telemarketer’
I farted
Was it a stinky one