3. The Pathogen and Mental Health- Dr. Childress
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- Learn how the Pathogen of Parental Alienation has created chaos mental health and how you as the target parent are going to help restore mental health and save your children
Dr Childress has this absolutely correct. This process is a nightmare for everyone involved. We must make legislation to make mental health professionals dealing with these cases knowledgable about what is really underlying and how to identify/diagnose it. Children and parents are suffering because of the ignorance and presupposition that the child's report is always the correct one. Like any hostage, they will do whatever they can to survive.
22 million Americans suffering from it.
I didn't have this help in 2012-2014 when I was targeted.I wish I did. I'm so glad it's here now. I just want to say, if you are going through this that you can make it, I didn't think I would survive losing my children. They have returned to me but how deep the scars are. I wish no one had to go through this.
Please reach out to me.
I didn't have this help either back in 2004! My son is 24 and still does as his Dad wishes!
Be careful. I thought the corrupt behavior was behind us . Then out of nowhere a new case gets filed claiming domestic violence. At court the record in the first case are muddy or not available.
I sent a text message 5 months prior stating " I hope your husband doesn't get life in prison "
This has to be put on a website for fathers. Some mother’s need this also, but mostly fathers. I will make this happen. Thank you so much! I am watching all your videos on this subject.
Incredible. This describes everything exactly. Thank you so much. I finally am understanding what has happened to my children.
Dr. Childress is so on point! The children are definitely mirror images of the controller. My heart hurts so bad.
G-d bless you Dr. Childress! You inspire courage and understading in loving parents like me to demand change in an effort to protect our precious children and slay this dragon of ignorance and the destructive adversarial pathology hiding behind this veil of concealment that you so expertly and passionately explain! You have raised my spirits and given the heart-broken parent hope!!!!!!!!! Thank you!
Six months ago, I did not know the phrase parental alienation. The social service was manipulated by my ex, and blame both parents argument for the damage of my children ‘s mental health regardless I was in an abusive relationship, now I know what I am really suffering. I hope taking him to court can help me to protect my children, especially my daughter.
This guy is a genius of simplicity... a bit like Mozart : simple notes arrangement nobody had seen before !!
It is so inspired, it is very close to poetry, a bit like Rumi.
When people like this walk the earth, it makes our passage so worthwhile !!
This is EXACTLY what is happening to one of my children.
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This is so real, I’m trying to keep myself together as I listen to him describe my situation with my son and his dad.
Is the father the targeted parent ?
Nearly a decade since this video was posted and social authorities and courts still don't have a clue!
This talk is brilliant!!
I agree. Very wise words. We often find out too late with some, and in time with others (the more we learn). Yes, do not become distracted by the pathogen, regardless of the loss.
You beautiful BEAUTIFUL man! What wisdom... What a father figure, thank you Sir. I haven't been able to portray so eloquently (MOST DEFINITELY due to, BOTH, I and my baby's mother spinning in this chaos) what you've shared in these video's. I'm vehemently defending my alienating ex, when not lost in hating her for the destruction this is causing.
Always, always attempt to allow space and consider that your partner is not your enemy in this ordeal. Nor are their mothers/fathers. Their suffering and struggle , their pain and their angst, is not their fault.
We're all learning, and hopefully, eventually... we can realise that this learning is to be actively sought out and pursued throughout our entire lives!
Many don't realise this, or can't.
That's ok.... We're all still children. We all need encouragement. We ALSO all need the space to realise this at our own appropriate pace.
Everyone has their reasons and, again, that's ok.
Be fierce, yet stay forever curious!
Love and Light. X
It's 2020 and it still feels like this is an unreachable goal. How do we find therapists who are trained in Dr Childress's Attachment based "Parental Alienation"?
He lists professionals certified in AB-PA on his blog.
Ding ding ding...we have a winner here!
Thank you Dr C. You have this pathological trojan-horse by the short and curlies!
I am so grieved that this has happened to my poor children😢
Great level-headed explanation. Raising awareness is key. We need pins and ribbons like breast cancer awareness. We know this stuff exists, but we trivialize and over simplify this deadly form of child abuse as simply “baby mama drama.”
Wow it's amazing how much truth there is to this video
You almost exactly described what's going on with me and one of my three children
I am hoping that with some kind of understanding, my daughter will realize how much she truly means to me. Cannot understand her anger and now the untrue statements.
Geez, I wish I had heard this empowering video 20 years ago. Too late now, my son is 28. Is it true that most of the people who do this horrible thing are narcissists? That's what I'm gathering from much of the research I've done over the years. Those narcissists are Wary Twicky Wabbits indeed.
+susan cochrane you know what same here on the researching, narcissists? mental health!? I think if any mental health brings out more of their mental side or some people will play on it.. is just bonkers..
Lol! Lots of love to you SC. x
Yes indeed. They might be NPD or certain subtypes of BPD. My ex husband is a malignant narcissist but worse, I live in a home with my two young daughters and my mother who I now realize is likely BPD/with covert narcissistic traits. She’s literally trying to denigrate and annihilate my role in their lives while under the same roof. No wonder trying to parent them has been so freaking exhausting and I have to take so much time in self-care to keep my own emotional regulation in check which is hard because I am literally living with the perpetrator of emotional abuse. which makes me look like I’m checked out, irritable. Nope. I’m trying to save my sanity. I moved out yesterday. I’m getting and I’m getting my kids out. Thank you!
Wow this is so enlightening and so true. My ex is/was exactly like this. Dangerous indeed .
Absolutely brilliant! I love the ventriloquist word picture. I have been researching PA (Aka by me as TCPM - Tortured Child and Parent Manifestation) for over a year now.
Thanks Doctor Childress. Your videos shows an easy and clear comprehension of this pathogen.
Thanks you so much!
Thank you, Dr. Childress! ❤
I awoke to the middle of one of Dr. Childress's videos and within 5 minutes I was fully in tears, crying like a baby because it was like he had been watching the last 4 years of my life, like a movie at a theater and it was the worst feeling of foreboding about the next few years that it gave me a panic attack. My husband has literally been claiming this completely false narrative for 4 years now and he's gone as far as to journal his fictional version of our life that feels like the most cruel and malicious smear campaign I could ever imagine except it's not my imagination...it's really happening and it's breaking me into a million pieces but no one's there to hear me or help me escape this nightmare.
And yes Dr most of us who have been dealing with a toxic person in our lives are completely familiar with the smoke and mirrors of their ways. Before moving out of our home my husband kept using the narrative that I was cheating on him to keep me defending myself instead of seeing the smear and devalue and discard campaign that he was really doing. I googled the manipulations my husband used on me for 2 years and found nothing until I ran across Dr Sam vaknins videos which were so scary spot on it terrifies me. I have spent 2 years trying to counteract the big victim status that my husband had been trying to portray while still hoping that he would come back and want his family whole. As I sit here filling out divorce financial papers, I have finally come to terms with the fact that he does, but not with me. So after not visiting his son once on his own for 2 years, unless I went and got him and brought him to see his son, he suddenly filed to divorce me and the judge temporarily granted every weekend but 1 a month to the man who has never spent the nite alone with his son even when we were fully married and living together. Now my husband and his mother are weaponizing against me all while my husband uses my love for him to his advantage to string me along while trying to gain the upper hand. I'm terrified what this can turn into
Because the judge ate his lies up like Crack and acted like I was the one lying because I didn't have a lawyer at the time of temporary motion hearing. My husband literally told judge that he did not have my sons and my stimulus check and then sent me a picture of it 5 mins layer. His was direct deposited last April. And she still ordered me to sign check and let him send me my half of money that my husband was not entitled to back to me...I'm still waiting for that check.
What's Dr childress's opinion on the theory of a covert borderline?
Excellent Video, I have not seen or communicated to my 4 sons aged 16/14/13/10 in over 16 months. My soon to be ex wife planned a Barring order/restraining order against me and waited until I fell into her trap. She wanted me out of the 17 year marriage and out of the house. She wanted it all the house the kids and me gone. Well she won the battle but not the war. I have been to court over 4 times and the Judge is in favor of the women in all cases. I brought her to court for visitation to see my kids and she agreed, however when the time came to see them they "didn't want to see me" these are my beautiful boys who I love every day since they arrived. Parental Alienation is a crime period. She claimed mental abuse against me and suddenly I was homeless living in my car and alone with no support. The system is so wrong and I feel that mostly men around the world suffer the affects of the Law. Justice is not fair and for me not being able to see or communicate to my children is a Crime against humanity. Bye Colin from County Meath in Ireland.
Life changing content! Thankyou!!!
you are welcome.
you are a Godsend and I love your engagement
I am in tears. This gives us a lot of hope and my bf is going through trying times with his ex. Thank you for giving us hope and direction.
This is excellent stuff, its super encouraging that Dr. Childress is moving forward from just describing the issue to helping out resolving it. My question tho is if this is a pathogen that innocently skipped the understanding and proper action of the mental and legal systems.. or is it by design. 90% of high conflict divorce cases are probably involving narcissist / borderline guy/gal and this is goldmine for the social workers, lawyers, judges, clerks.. children are involved and affected? the more the merrier. From my humble and painful experience its mostly the latter.
Exactly, why "fix" the problem when these organizations can just do the bare minimum as they will also enable the abuser over and over again!
That’s right! Ex Partner then you become the Ex parent. They get so threatened that they change therapists multiple times. It is all so transparent
It's extremely exhausting & enlightening listening to this.....I appreciate the effort taken to clearly explain the role of the "puppet master" in this dynamic.....it's just mind boggling that any individual would invest so much energy & time to ruin a relationship between a parent & a child " their very own child"....it takes relentless & consistent efforts to be successful at alienating a child....one has to eat & sleep with that in their psyche continuously and plot & scheme to achieve this....it's mentally draining to think to do this....it's even more so taxing to experiencing it.....it can literally drive someone crazy....I thank the Creator for giving me the strength I need to endure and face this pathogen boldly & fiercely.....my child will not be just another statistic in Jesus name.....
Omg, this is brilliant! I don't know why the search-bots of youtube have only just shown me this....
I understand... I will do exactly what you said... IMMEDIATELY!! I am brave enough, strong enough & determined to do this...
1st I must thank you for taking the time to carefully explain this in detail & include specific instructions regarding how to follow through. I appreciate the road map it helps to save time!!! Blessings to you!!
YES!!! I hope I am too! How are you now? How has your battle been?
This explains why the attacks have been so vicious lately. The more I speak out about the things that have been done against my relationship with my daughters, the more attacks from the ex's wife. My ex somehow can stay silent and distant, but hs wife is completely obsessed, and now threatening lawsuits for defamation when I quote the messages she used to send my daughters. She knows what she did, she won't stop swearing she had no influence over my children, never said anything bad about me, which the original alienator, the grandma who alienated my ex from his dad, openly admitted in therapy that they talked bad about me all the time but were trying really hard since court started. The damage was already done. And i have been blocked since then, so they have had no ability to come back to reasonable thinking. I will not be silenced.
You are speaking the Truth, Doctor.
I am going to watch them all. I wish with all my heart a solution for this destructive and consuming pathogene. Are there alienated parents here from the Netherlands, I would like to get in touch.
Well done Sir - you lead the battle in this critically important battle to protect our children from toxic and false parenting; their "cold empathy" (Sam Vaknin) only confuses and harms our children. Please fight on.
I pray the blood of Jesus!
My daughter's been in a marriage of nine years and he's a narcissist I had no idea that there was such a thing now they're going through a divorce with a 4-year-old and a 14-year-old it's a nightmare He's turning the children against her and me and it's horrible now I'm learning about parental alienation my heart is broken
Get help now before its to late... therapists, psychologists... do it now. My kids are adults now. Its too late for me
God bless this man.
Wow this evil has a name! I have traced my narc's pathology back to his mother who was a passive/aggressive narc in hiding also. The emotional incest of it is generational to use children as weapons to play out their childhood unhealed wounds with. Cowards the lot of them! And all this because this mother wasn't as popular and pretty as her sister!! This is no small battle or war. Truly knowledge is power. It takes a keen eye to look beyond the mark of this revengeful evil to see our children's frightened love for us...thank you!
Why can't the same thing be done but from the angle of domestic violence? That's what happened to me. She used violence to destroy me and get rid of me and violence on my children too. When I exposed the violence then the alienation began, I haven't seen or spoken to my children in nearly ten years and she still works with children as a pediatric nurse.
Sir great work
So, how do you handle a situation like this? I love my child with all of my heart and simply want the best for them.
You are da man go get emm blessing💜😎🙏😇
Well, still today am I battling and losing against these victim seeking allies in the MH/Court system. We are far from the place where we need to be.
True! It is getting better slowly.
Here is the statement from the APA From 2008 nothing has been updated, and it refers to a position from 1996 - so nothing has changed in 24 years???? WOW
January 1, 2008
Statement on Parental Alienation Syndrome
The American Psychological Association believes that all mental health practitioners as well as law enforcement officials and the courts must take any reports of domestic violence in divorce and child custody cases seriously. An APA 1996 Presidential Task Force on Violence and the Family noted the lack of data to support so-called "parental alienation syndrome", and raised concern about the term's use. However, we have no official position on the purported syndrome.
So my story... I was alienated for zero reason, leading to long term damage to both of my biological children... knowledge IS the only way... I have fought my way back to healing and uniting with my children beautifully... There is still the ex hiding in the shadows, refusing to heal and emotionally manipulating the kids... I believe there ARE NO SIDES... I have always upheld this for them...
I lost my kids almost completely. But I completely lost my step daughter. My first child ❤
beautiful and well done.
so difficult to experience the loss of a child who is still living. We ahve a free course to assist with taming the pain www.consciouscoparentinginstitute.com/tame-the-pain-free-gift/
Yes so true 100%
My daughter was working with a therapist that claimed to be an alienated mother with a narcissist ex but she was just like my ex. After 2 years of working with her the result was estrangement. How can we fix the mental health system when it is infected?
i truely wish i could find videos about it being done from abuser with both parents because i watched everything he did and how he took them one by one but every single video is about divorce situations and mine happened right in front of me
take vienna!!
One of my favorite quotes from the videos of Dr Childress
what happens to the adult child and the alienated parent? I have lived this awful process for the last 15 years, and I am researching how the alienated parent continues on in life.
+sandi bailey that would all depend on the relationship .. if there was no relationship do your own research on dealing with the situation and see what works best for you..Alienated parent or any PERSON continues in life to find happiness.. because every single being wants to be happy.. right?
Being the authentic parent brings along the never-ending anguish and despair of "not knowing" if our child/children are safe from harm.
So what do we do now that the child is an adult who repatead the pattern and is by all force breaking the cycle
Please help me help my grandson. He is abused, has been, and has become a puppet for my son.This is not just between parents. It is between grandparents and the father Alienating my grandson.
Where are the foundations?
These people should be PUBLICALLY exposed!! I am the targeted parent and watching these videos makes me feel hopeless. This guy is talking about changing the system, getting the mental health people to help....that means nothing if the court order prevents you from seeking mental health help as the non-custodial parent! I am a male and look and sound "very masculine" Judges see/hear me and assume I'm a "hardass" and find in favor of this very abusive Mother every time. She has done the parental alienation with FOUR children & TWO Fathers. EXPOSE them!! That is one of the few practical uses of facebook that I see !! EXPOSE them and maybe they will at least not bad-mouth the target parent in public!!
I really don’t understand how this happening or what I do to fix it?
What if it's my aunt ... and I tried to out what they did to me growing up because they are trying to take my kids from me forever..
What to do if a parent won’t agree to any coparenting, therapist or counseling you recommend because the fear that you know them which is not true?
The goal is to take your power back and recover your children learn how to show up differently. There are many ways to recover your children and work around he pathogenic parent
4 alienating parents disliked this video : )
Exposure!!!!!!
Exactly ! My ex does this specific. She literally just makes up things. Complete and total fabrications. And her who family supports her. Her mother is exactly like her. Did the same thing to her
Follow for more videos Dr. C. A. Childress on TH-cam
What is foundations?? He keeps referring to this. It's it a book? A PDF? A video series? Please provide a link
His book he published on Amazon
Allies are ignorant and some call them. Flying Monkey. Ignorance is the enemy. Knowledge is our weapon
truth
How can I contact you
So where is the "foundations" video to be found? Saying it's imperative then not being available isn't helpful 😒
In my case what happened was my mother had a full blown affair with the bestfriend of dad took money to him,,dad had to separate with him,, i was very ill as a child,,what did this devilish woman do?? Paraded me in a small town as i weigh 10kgs,20kgs telling people dad abandoned us i am about to die..there are pictures of us when she weighed 80kgs,light skin..when i was dying of problems and underweight..how will i completely get rid of this woman in my life??in my mind she is no longer welcomed..but now she can't let go it's like she wants to kill me even when i have ran away to another country..
Do i believe we are for defense of Childhxxds/Childhoods? Yes, everylast single one passing Childress.🖤
Does anyone know of any groups, therapists, advocates , lawyers, or or all of the above in Sydney Australia?
PLs let me know if youre an Aussie going through this. Id like to set up a consortium of parents and victims alike, with allys frm the legal and health professions.
I know many lawyers who work with legal aid wont touch this with a 10foot pole, nor will they address Gov agencies upon
their failures, so the more we have, the stronger we will be.
I was actually laughed at in court when I pointed out I wanted my kids to receive mental health treatment and that I demanded contact with my kids... that was 7yrs before the abuser died... its now hit the 11yr marker...
I also had one 'guardian" abuse me in that same court room moments later and she was ejected... then to have her mimicking man hating female partner clearly stipulate they had no interest in addressing the kids needs...let alone reconnecting them with their dad....Mind u the Gov handed them a substantial amount of mone to do the job, they just werent interested...
.... it gets worse... but I'll refrain from sharing too much online atm..
I run a production company. I want to organise afew parents and survivors of PA who've experienced these abuses, be they from gov agencies, or direct family. You have the opportunity to record a testimony and have your voice heard.
THis invite is to anyone and everyone who's expereinced this... whether your a lawyer who knows the game, or a mental health pro who has had efforts thwarted, or a victim or parent.... anyone who wants to share their stories.
Youre ALL invited to discuss and/or share your experiences, and I will collate the material and make a variety of videos and spam the absolute F' outta everyone....
WE need to all work together with legal and professional med channels and bring light to this very dark subject....
If youre in, drop me a line here or email me at by.anastazi@gmail.com
you won my heart te way that you discuss battles
keep doing god's work⚔🥲💫
Right. Ignorance is the enemy.
But maybe this is only the half thruth in some cases.
There are cases in Germany, where the father of the child, grown up in ancient communist East Europe, went to the german office of youth (Deutsches Jugendamt) with the accusation of the mother, that the child is in life danger, and where the german Jugendamt then quickly commited illegal child abduction without knowing the mother and without a law court decision, and which also imprisoned the mother for over a week in a closed psychiatry (Eglfing-Haar near Munich, which was a child extermination camp of the Nazis and until 1995 still under the leadership of the psychiatrists of the Nazis, who still used the "Schutzhaft" from Heydrich, which was forbidden in the Nürnberg Trials against the war criminals in 1946) and which took during these days of illegal imprisonment of the mother away the german right to determine the stay of the child by a german judge without hearing the mother, and who called the parents of the mother of the child living in another country, and told them the (usual) lie, that the mother has tried to kill the child and stays in the closed psychiatry, and instructed them to quickly travel to Germany to adopt the child, because otherwise the child will be given to a german hous of children or to a german foster family, and where the grandparents followed these instructions of the german Jugendamt, travelled to Germany, got the child and went with the child illegal abroad (german § 235 StGB), and who wrote then the mother of the child quickly a letter with a ban on entering their house, and who alienated the child from his mother by refusing the contact between child and mother for over 30 years, involving also the younger sisters of the mother of the child with the instruction to exclude the mother and where the garndafther became wuickly the commission of the major of the village and misused this commission during the whole childhood of the child for refusing the contact between the child and his mother, while the father of the child could visit his child and the child could also visit his father in Germany.
In this case the grandparents of the child also refused to contact the associate of their consulate in Germany, whom the mother called for help after the illegal abduction of her child from the day nursery while she worked for her final exam in developmental psychology and communication at the University, and who sended an employee to her domicile, who arrived, when the mother of the child was muged by a german psychologist and a social psychologist, who were involved iin the illegal abduction of her child and who work for the german Jugendamt for replacing children from foreign single mothers to german childrens home or german foster families, by which the german Jugendamt is financed (= the german custody industry), and who asked them, if they have a law court decision and who knows, that they had no law court decision and that they commited a crime, and who wanted to be heared at the german law court in the hearing of the witnesses of the mother 4 month later, but whom was refused according his words to witness at the german law court by the leader of the Consulate in Switzerland.
These grandpüparents also refused to acknowledge the decision from the district councillor of Zurich Switzerland to annulate the german law court decisions, because a proof ba independent swiss psychologues brought to the light, that all test results in the MMPI, which is always used ba german state dependent psychiatry, were in the normal range and that there is no data for the insinuated psychosis and borderline syndrome, which is usually insinuated iin cases of illegal child abduction to the foreign mother. These grandparents instructed a swiss lawyer to battle against the decision of the councillor of Zurich and won it with batteling their jurisdiction, because the mother of the child had after the hearings at the councillor of Zurich returned to Germany for final examsn at the university.
Mothers who kidnap their illegal abducted children back, are prosecuted by the german Jugendamt and state also abroad in their home countries, braught back to Germany and imprisoned in Germany and presented their children in the media as criminals. See e.g. the cases Marinella Colombo, Dr. Bruni and others.
In this case the mother of the child was then also hindered to finish her studies with final exams by a lot of racism, and maybe because also psychologues from the university of Munich are involved in the wrong evaluation for the law court. She also could not finish her studies by final exams at a swiss university, because the german law court decisions are transferred with the Schengen Treaty too other countries for international battle criminals and there misused by german professors of psychology, who have overtaken all new founded institutes at swiss universities by a board consisting of only german professors who placed only german professors at swiss universities, who misuse their position for qualifying Germans, whyle refusing Swiss final exams and misusing for this refusal of reintegration and qualification the german law court decisions based on process fraud with proven wrong interpretation of test results. According Andra Jacob over 80% of these test for the family law court are wrong and all are not valid, because they provide no information about parent-child-interaction.
Therefore the mother of the child had to remain in Germany, while many german study collegues went since the 2002 to Switzerland for better earning and higher life standard. Some settled even in a neighbour village. This is very ashaming.
Despite this displacement and despite the fact, that since the first hearing at the European Parliament of such victims of illegal child abduction by the german Jugendamt, the grandparents and the eye witness of the swiss consulate still refuse their a witness report about the above mentionned manipulations and process fraud.
Questions:
1) Do you think the main problem in such cases is really only the Narcissitic Borderline Personality of the father of the child?
Or could it be that in such constellations also the grandparents or one grandparent or a younger sibling of the mother (the golden child) have a narcissistic personality disorder?
2) And what about members of the Deutsche Gesellschaft für Psychologie (DGP) founded during nationalsocialism in 1940, which has never overcome racism and never developed a real democratic understanding, and which has also never given up its aggressive imperialism (see the critique from Prof. Klaus Weber in his bokk 2003: Blinde Flecken (blind spots)), protecting members involved in criminal illegal child abduction by the german Jugendamt and process fraud with wrong test results, and terrorizing foreign families, which are even not german citicens, and not only in Germany, but also abroad in foreign countries.
How to battle this ignorance or corruption?
My daughter 'disowned' me, renounced our family name at the supervised visit yesterday. After she calmed from the psychotic episode, she confided she felt "ripped in two" and said she wanted to kill herself.
This was observed AT Albuquerque CYFD on Indian School by Wyndsor Yazzie who has told me that my 10 year old daughter calling my family "fucking white people" was 'their culture,' and that I need to be 'more respectful of their culture.' This threat is real and may kill my child. The governor and AG have been made aware of this situation but have not taken action yet.
Please post a video on false allegations of parental alienation.
We have been in court for 6+ years being wrongfully accused.
The child has been too 3 psychologists. The court disregarded all psychologists notes.
My wife has past a polygraph with no doubts on the allegations made. It’s still a uphill battle.
The opposition has been using your literature and hear say tactics and they’ve been very successful with no actual evidence.
This has been very hard on the child.
We’re in a small town where all of the commissioners and attorneys are buddies.
Their only tool is gaslighting and harassment.
I can’t get into foundation tho?
Think I got it now.
Expose the pathogen by making others aware of what the other parent is doing?
doing this is a delicate art
There has to be a reason why we feel ill. If n when it comes from the outside n can be traced down , healing can happen . I feel better without my f n sis.
What's "foundations"?
www.amazon.com/Attachment-Based-Model-Parental-Alienation-Foundations/dp/0996114505
What if there was a tool capable of exposing this pathogen almost instantly? Would that change the game? Dr Childress, you have an email from me about what this is. I think you might find it intriguing.
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It is domestic violence. It's intent to cause the other parent pain and suffering. Cause i feel like i'm being emotionally abused because my daughter's father knows he is hurting me using our daughter as a weapon. He cares more about hurting me than doing what is best for his daughter. His pathology is affecting his ability to parent. Court is upon us and he's going to get what's coming to him and his little evil plan is going to backfire and i'll be there to help and guide my daughter to mental and emotional freedom and independence and release her from the clutches of co dependency.
wouf ... cant find any psychologist to help me to simply talk ... get compliment on how managing to function on intuition for so long ... thinking they k now yet get a bye & a few condom & made feel guilty for not accepting to remain homeless & this www has to ends. do you help the affected parasited 1 by hidden pathogen.
This is the devil explained point blank n period
i can’t believe you are failing to see the domestic violence aspect because my children were used as a form of domestic violence
THERE ARE NO SIDES.. While I struggle to not want to protect my children from their pathogens, I reluctantly have to agree that there are no sides. Wouldn't we all still want to protect them if they were IN our hands? For those that do get to tuck their babies in at night, don't you want to protect them, too? I know the battles are unending in those homes as well.. you live in FEAR of the pathogen taking your babies.. others of us live in the REALITY of it.. the reality that you are unfortunately also only one step away from. SO IS PA's EXISTENCE/LEGITIMACY REALLY THE ISSUE? I also follow Lundy Bancroft, etc.. whom supports DV etc victims.. and SEEKS TO HELP THOSE TRYING TO PROTECT THEIR CHILDREN. AS ARE WE. We ARE ALL in the same battle here. WE ARE ALL FIGHTING THE PATHOGEN. I am not the only victim of pathological abuse that has had her children ripped away by the abuser. I have been trying to find answers/help (to no avail) from both.. those against and those for (the existece of) PA. I am a DV victim (desperately trying to become a survivor) and I too, want to protect my children from their pathogen. Unfortunately all four of my children live with their two pathogens (two fathers). If I were tucking mine in at night, I THEN TOO may be called an alienator, by one or both of MY PATHOGENS. One I think would forget them, which would have it's own reprecussions on them (the whole 'better to have a toxic parent or none at all?), while the other would form an obsession.. perhaps eventually figuring out that he could use PA AGAINST me, I don't know. But I then (and am already in thought) would be both an 'alienator', AND a targeted parent. WHAT WE REALLY NEED TO DO IS COME TOGETHER (both 'sides' are strong, are honest, are seeking the right thing - OUR CHILDREN TO GROW UP BEING NURTURED!).. against the PATHOGENS THAT ARE ON BOTH SIDES!!
I hope that we can find a way to fix this together. I am desperate to stop it at my generation (now that I finally 'get it'), but am afraid that it is already being/has passed onto my 4 babies. IF WE CAN COME TOGETHER, SURELY THERE WOULD BE ENOUGH OF US THEN TO BRING THE TRUTH TO LIGHT??!! If we don't, well.. do we see where our country and world ALREADY is? Imagine in another generation! We have the knowledge now.. our parent's perhaps didn't.. but now WE ARE ACCOUNTABLE. I can't bare to think of what our children would endure if we ourselves can't come together NOW, stand up, and FIGHT TOGETHER for the generation we birthed. LET US NOT GET DISTRACTED BY THE IDEA OF 'SIDES'.. I PROMISE YOU, I AM ON 'BOTH' AND THERE IS NO SIDE.. not with ALL OF US that are the GOOD PARENTS.. we only have different outcomes from the same experience. DR. CHILDRESS.. LUNDY BANCROFT, etc. etc. ARE ALL ON THE SAME SIDE, WHETHER they even realize it or not! PLEASE!!! WILL YOU GUYS JOIN HANDS? YOU BOTH.. ALL OF YOUR SUPPORTERS AND EDUCATORS.. SURELY IF YOU CAME TOGETHER.. WE as parents WOULD FOLLOW.. Don't worry about who's toes you'd step on.. plow through.. and see that you are both on the SAME 'side!!' We need you experts to do this! I want my babies home.. they deserve to be loved and nurtured! All of us 'good parents' do.. and all of our children deserve that.. PLEASE EXPERTS.. please see that you can come together.. Someone take a step.. and US wise parents will stand behind you! Praying.. God be with us all in this fallen, painful world. May we give the Lord His glory, no matter what the outcome.
(I do hope also this isn't for selling the book and will continue watching. I have nothing after years of financial abuse and being a SAHM.. I can't get gas in my car let alone purchasing extras, though I am entitled to 'half,' lol.. I am just 'lucky' to be able to find a way to view these. I am reposting my comment on Video 1 in hopes of attracting those that 'thumbed down' that video and discontinued watching.) Again.. to all of us broken and hurting.. May we find faith.. but also faith WITH action.
Actors involved in Domestic Violence are getting paid with every restraining order granted . Its like a bounty. Tax payer funded
The only way this ends is if the parents rise together and prevent this from happening.
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Do. Yu have an email?
Hi Susan, yes we do. Here's how you can contact us: consciouscoparentinginstitute.com/contact-us/
I am the evidence
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Fabrication fabrication fabrication not to mention magical thinking. It’s off so pathetic. They are the neediest people on the face of the earth
Talking about a person as a "pathogen" is a very unwise characterization, suggesting that the person should be eradicated.
He didn't call the person a "pathogen", he called the phenomenon of pathogenic parental alienation borne out of a Narcissitic or borderline mind, the pathogen.
Sneaky devil likes to stay hidden & uses the child as a weapon
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Now we find out he's just spent all our time promoting the sale of his own book, and not giving us any answers. We can't dismantle the mental health system any more than we can control the child abusers in court. For pete's sake, I'm so sick of drama! I don't want to listen to anymore of his drama much spend my hard earned money on his book. I'll save my money and pray, spend time with my child and get a better result. God is good. All the time. Faith. Not fear.
His "Foundations" book is $25 on amazon and you're telling me that for the price of a pizza you would rather "save and pray" than knowing the mechanisms of P.A.? Give me a break and good luck sir.
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I am in tears. This gives us a lot of hope and my bf is going through trying times with his ex. Thank you for giving us hope and direction.
I am glad you have the information. This has kept me from a relationship for over 17 years,
My wife is going through this with my bonus son, and he is using my wife's diagnosis of bipolar against her to the point of alleging it is unsafe for her to be around her son even with supervision. She has not seen her son in 4 years. After she delivered my first child stillborn in 2019 he gave excuses as to why she could not talk to her son up to and including that he did not want to talk to her and just outright telling her no that she could not talk to him for 3 month, then blocking her number until we hired an attorney at which point he has only allowed her to talk to her son for 1 hour on the 1st and 3rd Friday of the month and even those calls her ex has her son on speaker phone and listens in and interrupts the calls.
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Exposure!!!!!!
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