Today we're gonna be taking a look at another support court with Judge Vonda case of a mom who doesn't want to pay child support Twitter: / xenoshot Twitch: / xenoshots
I agree but I also want her to be able to pay her sister child support. Even so, $700/mo seems too low under the circumstances. That is what you would expect a parent to pay the other parent for 100% of the child support. $700 is for the kids, this nasty woman should also have to pay her sister a salary for their care.
Not really. She dropped her children at her sister who seems very able to take care of them. That's a good thing for an unfit mother to do! Nor paying for the children, though, that's unacceptable. I guess she has a personality such that we don't want her to have children. Think of the horror if she wants them back to save money! The sister should seek cutody of them if that happens, for the children's sake. But I guess she will think $700 is cheap for not having to bother with two children. I wonder though, if there isn't any father somewhere too!
@@JackmeriusTacktheratrix7 I lived this, I still feel bad for taking my niece back, but I thought it would straighten out my sister. Let me, mind yours.
Very true, but that's not going to bother this woman! At least, that's how I read her. The sister, though, seems to be able to somewhat make up for that. So the children might not be too much damaged by it.
Nope. What WILL happen is her wages will be garnished to cover the back-due and missed payments at some point. No matter where she works, her wages WILL be garnished for owed child support.
i dont understand the logic of 'i can't afford child support' but not using that as a reason why she cant have her kids but instead going with 'i dont want 'em.'
No, she isn't stupid, just very, very odd! She will realize $700 is cheap for not having to bother with two children, and that's what's important for her.
Ever heard of working under the table? Nope, no income, can't pay it and you can't garnish my wages since I'm unemployed. Oh and that means I get payment for the government and cheap housing and they probably pay for her school too.
And where is the father(s)? Each parent has the responsibility of financially supporting these children. Mom’s in school and wants to focus on her career. 😏 I hope auntie focuses on mom’s career too and takes worthless mom back to court regularly.
@@MaxinesTrunkIt’s not her sisters fault that her children’s father is a deadbeat and it’s not her sisters fault that she didn’t put him on child support. She’s clearly a weirdo and so are you.
To be fair, she has to be ordered to pay child support and be in arrears before a warrant would be issued for her arrest. This is to initiate the order for child support to begin with...
when she taking care of someone else kids & not getting paid to take care of them even if they go to the hospital it cost money..... her sister say she dont want kids bitch please if u dont want to have a kid keep ur legs close but u have 2 kids u drop off at ur sister place & not paying her a dime hell with that i call CPS on her that i have the kids she drop off & never return & etc i want money from her ASAP if she dont pay up put her in jail
@@SeptimusScholar Are you for real? The family is already adding the bills up ^^. You will need welfare to track down the fathers, social services/ Medicaid for the kids, Domestic Relations to insure that family member gets paid up, and on and on. There is always a case file when you have situations like this. Getting an exam is a small part of the expenses. She needs to be drug tested... pronto.
What a truly despicable woman. Those two children are definitely safer living with their aunt as their mother would consider them to be a hindrance and who knows what she is capable of ‘
That is possibly the most sadistic smile I've EVER seen anyone give to a sibling. She looked like she was planning a murder. I also doubt she pays any support. That woman deserves to be in prison for abandonment
You do realise she’s an actor? It’s based on real cases, but they are scripted recreations of them. If you look on the “about” section of the show’s TH-cam channel, it states that all episodes of the show “include actors” and that names, characters, businesses, places, events, locales, and incidents - basically all elements of the show except the words that Vonda B says are “either the products of the author’s imagination or used in a fictitious manner.” Edit: to clarify, Vonda B is a real judge.
@@Dan_Ben_Michaelhuh, I just read the description of the TH-cam channel and you are right. Now watching the videos is less enjoyable, oh well, I prefer knowing the true so thank you.
The children are better off without parents who don't want them. The aunt now should file for legal guardianship, get those kids into therapy so they learned how to deal with rejection, and make sure the Mom stays current with the child support and then love them for the rest of their lives.
I agree with you. I hope the sister fights for custody. I have a feeling it wont be a fight. This mother will be happy to give them up. Breaks my heart. The only way these children will have a good life is if they are adopted by the aunt. She seems like she has been giving them what they've needed all along.
From the sounds of their mother, the sister will probably struggle to get any child support, so therapy may be out of her budget. That woman looks and sounds like she's on some drugs.
Legal guardianship, especially when the kids have been given up voluntarily, is not a difficult thing to do. It gives rights to the aunt that she doesn't have now and it isn't adoption because then the mom wouldn't have to pay child support. Therapy is available, covered by insurance and doesn't have to be life long. This is not a lot of attention and is very doable. (Don't know much about this show and the real outcomes, frankly.)
I just went through a similar situation. Someone that I considered a friend arrived to "support" me the morning my son suddenly passed away. This friend told her 16year old daughter to stay "a few days" and help us. Then this friend dodged me and ignored texts and calls for the next 5 months while I housed and supported her child. I had enough when the teenager started stealing money and prescription medication from my purse. I guess this woman has a history of abandoning her children.. People are this.
My heart goes out to those children. The youngest probably doesn't understand what's going on, but I bet the 7 year old has a clue. I am thankful that Mom chose this way out rather than something more sinister.
@@williamz7011ate you sure the show is scripted? In that case I don’t want to watch something to make me sad. Heck, the horrors of real life are enough to keep me sad; I certainly don’t need any fake stories for that. UGH if it’s scripted!
a real scary thought is she may take these kids back to keep from having to give her sister money and God only knows what happened to them if she does that
I feel horrible for this woman's children. Imagine your mother drops you off at her sister's one day and never sees you again because she decided she didn't want to be your mother anymore? She sure as hell doesn't deserve her sister! This sister has taken on the responsibility without much complaining. I wish the sister and those kids well. I don't understand how emotionally bankrupt this woman is.
It's really heartbreaking. I can't imagine what this will do to those kids emotionally nor can I imagine just deciding one day that I no longer want the lives that I brought into this world. I hope the kids are happy with their aunt. They are certainly better off w/o "Mom". I'm kind of curious why the judge didn't ask where "Dad" is.
if my sister did this to me i call CPS right away that she leave her kids with me for 9+ months & never come back or pay me at all... she dont care im not watching someone else kid for free when a hospital bill cost over $1,000+ that i dont have money for after i pay my bills
God bless the sister. I came from a similar situation. My grandmother and step grandfather raised me from age 2 to six. It is largely due to them that I turned out ok. My grandfather loved me like I was his own. I pray this sister loves them like my grandfather loved me
Jimmie Graham, former NFL player, was dropped off at an orphanage when he was 12. Fell asleep in the car, and woke up by his sister screaming as he was taken away. He went on to play for New Orleand and Seattle in the NFL. And of course, when he got to the NFL - his pos "mom" did find him and was suddenly remorseful. Mom did not give up the sister, by the way, just him.
That happened to me, but I was the day home provider, and the parents refused to get the kids, so I became the foster parent and raised the three children. It's very sad how some parents can do that!
Part of the judgment against the "mother" of the abandoned children should include permanent sterilization. That way, she can never do this again. Unbelievable!!!
@@kenosabi Dystopian shit is popping out kids to use for tax-sponsored income then dumping them once you don't need to use them anymore, and my tax money also sponsoring that. Gross. Big yikes on ya.
In 1927, the U.S. Supreme Court decided, by a vote of 8 to 1, to uphold a state's right to forcibly sterilize a person considered unfit to procreate. The case, known as Buck v. Bell, centered on a young woman named Carrie Buck, whom the state of Virginia had deemed to be "feebleminded." This is a slippery slope as it is.
At age 42 my ex decided that she wanted "...to be free to date, party and have fun." When I asked about our two sons who were ages 7 and 14, she responded that, "They have no place in my life now." I offered joint custody but she gave me sole custody. She did not realize that meant she had to pay child support and she defied that and every other part of the divorce agreement...I had to make two trips back (600 miles each way) before the Court would make the child support an involuntary payroll withholding. She remarried to someone 18 years her junior in less than nine months while I was a single father for seven years before I remarried to the RIGHT person both my sons call "Mom." My ex has visited my sons three times in almost 30 years, each time for less than a day and has not spoken to my oldest son since 2005 or my youngest son since 2013. However, of course, to everyone with whom my ex and I were friends, I was evil and abusive despite the fact that she was arrested for assaulting me and our older son. Truly evil women do exist who have zero attachment to their children.
Yeah my brothers ex wife did the same thing. They got divorced around 30 and she was dead by 42 of cirrhosis and pancreatitis. She did a little too much partying. Anyway, this scenario seems to play out a lot in couples that got married and had kids young.
As creepy as this women seems by stating she no longer wants her children, at least she gave them to her sister. There have been far to many cases in the last few years of parents murdering there children because they no longer wanted them, even though there were family members who would have gladly taken them.
That's why i am thinking orphanage and abortion is the best option than sh!t situation like that. Seriuosly, some people really thinking being parents is just a game or somethig.
@@STARKILLER15100 Men need to also choose a reliable woman to bring children into the world with. Or not impregnate someone. Why is it always only on women? It should be both.
I read a story once about a woman who called adoptive services for her own children without her husband's knowledge. It was similar to this. She didn't want them anymore. The husband immediately took the kids to a hotel with him, filed for divorce and sole custody which he got. The mother wanted to live life like it was before she had kids and expected her husband to give away his young girls too.
She has had a mental collapse. She is not CAPABLE of taking care of these children. She needs to pay - and STAY AWAY from them. She needs Psychiatric help.
If I hear one more person say "I don't have enough money...I "only" make 40k/yr"....I'm gonna scream. Me and my Ex raised a kid where COMBINED we made a little less than 40k....If you firmly believe you can't afford life with a kid while making 40 grand a year...maybe keep your legs shut and practice abstinence. Must be nice to have the mindset that you can just chuck responsibility you don't want anymore....try that one with the IRS and see how THAT goes.
I thought the same thing. Me and my ex raised two kids on way less than 40K. And we even managed to send them to fairly expensive summer camp each year. Makes me wonder what mom here is spending her money on. I'd guess meth by the looks of her. :)
@@balthazor44 Meth? Have you seen what that drug does to people? Her looks, nor her behavior cry "meth." The only similarity would be the abandonment of the children, which falls in every drug category.
It depends where you live, if she rents a room it's doable but in California a one bedroom apartment is $2,000 a month, 40k a year doesn't even get approved for an apartment but let's say you did, after taxes that leaves you with very little to live off of after paying rent. You both say you raised kids off of 40k but try doing it today in some places and watch how quick you become homeless. FYI I'm not defending this lady at all just being realistic.
Same thing happened to me. Ended up raising two step grandchildren, six months and three years old. Never regretted it. They call me dad and can’t stand their mother. Not even wolves or wild animals abandon their children but it’s common place in this new society we live in. Shameful
First of all, congratulations on stepping up and raising your kids. I do feel the need to correct you in your analogy asthere are plenty of animals that abandon, kill, or even eat their young. That being said, as humans, we need to have a higher moral compass and put the needs of our children first.
@@user-bo1rj2xu2s Oh believe me, I did. Thankfully my crazy aunt and my psychotic cousins were just a one time show as well when I was there. My cousin Nicky/Nikki(I don’t know), stabbed me in the forehead with a fork
@@_theknighthawk_7018 I think she was too lazy to do it but she is still evil. I'm just thankful her kids are in safe hands otherwise we would be seeing her mugshots for their deaths.
I don't think this mother is stable or deserving of her kids. No idea what she's capable of. She is so disconnected she could end up killing her kids if they were to go back to her. I think it best they stay with the sister. Worlds apart.
She most certainly does not need to have custody of her kids. I hope that she never gets them back to abuse them instead of paying money for their support.
I gotta admit, watching this, makes me reflect on myself and my choices. I'm 21. I don't have kids. And I decided recently I would rather not ever have kids for the very reasons this woman is talking about. I want to focus on myself as a person. Is it selfish? Maybe. But you know what ISN'T "maybe selfish"? Having kids and then deciding you don't want them AFTER the fact, so you dump them on someone else, or you put them into adoption. That is DEFINITELY selfish. At least with the second one, there's a chance that the kid will end up with a parent who actually wants to take care of them, but both options are damaging in their own ways, depending on the age of the child. If you aren't up to the responsibility of having a kid, either just abstain, use protection, or (where it's legal anyways) get an abortion. You don't wait until AFTER the kid is born to say "nah. Not it, chief." Also, I gotta agree with Xeno. Her emotionless nonchalance about this whole thing is STUPID disturbing. I think she has unaddressed psychological problems that would cause her to get to this point.
It's not selfish to not want to have children, its a decision that can be tough. It's selfish to have children and then later decide that you aren't going to care for them in the way that they deserve.
@@rik6696No, that's not what I mean. You're right. It isn't selfish to want to have children. It is selfish to have children, decide later you don't want them. (Edit. I misconstrued what you said. I apologize. XD)
Exactly. And what some people who say being childless is selfish, is it's just as selfish to HAVE kids. Wanting kids just to have them, because you want them, can be consider selfish. Wanting them to help do things for you(raising younger siblings, doing house chores, etc.)is also selfish. My point is, people should stop criticizing others that choose to not have children or vice versa, because no matter what, it's their choice on whether or not they decide to have kids.
You're not selfish for not wanting children. You're responsible for taking precautions to not have them, because you can't give them the best life while focusing on yourself. It's like not being in a relationship when you want to live the single life for a bit. I don't want children because I'm not physically able to care for them and I don't want them to suffer from my poorly genetics. I think that's its own love, making responsible choices to not harm your potential child.
She is dumping her kids now but I bet when 1 of her kids become rich and successful, she is going to run back into their lives and try to share in their successes.
I actually seen this one before. She isn't just extremely irresponsible, she feels entitled and obviously is being extremely selfish putting herself first ahead of her children! Its sad because imagine how they actually feel? When you decide to have children, you better know that from that day forward, your life as you know it will be taking a back seat. Children come first....always! The best thing a parent can do for a child is to provide a loving, structured environment. Happiness in life equals love and this so called mother failed on every level. Disgusting.
Does the mother receive child support from the father? Both parents should be paying support to the aunt. I find it strange that the aunt wasn't asked how long she planned to keep them. Think this is happening more and more. Just most won't come out and straight say they don't want their kids.
When they realize the partying has to stop, they just dump them off. These kind of parents are more and more common, and why society is becoming the way it is.
I saw another clip of this and she stated she didn't know where either of their fathers were. That's the kind of woman who drowns her babies in the tub, thank God she gave them to her sister!!!
Actually, they do. Facial shape. Nose and eyes. Very similar. The hair and the fact that one of the sisters has been run through more than the Holland Tunnel is throwing you off.
I just hope the kids never have to see their Mom say this! It would be quite damaging to them! This sister is an amazing person to take on two kids. She deserves much more than this meagar amount for child support!
Garnish her check, charges or jail. When I saw her I honestly thought it was going to be a case of her not paying child support for her wife. People like this need to be held strictly held accountable.
This young woman takes the younger child's dad to the show in a later episode too. He's just as reluctant to pay. I'm so glad these kids have an aunty that loves them and is looking out for their best interests.
OMG! If a guy tried to use the "I just can't afford it" excuse the courts would say, "so what!" and they would take the payments out of his check before he even sees the check. Also he'd be sitting in jail on a work release program. When I got divorced I was told ( these are the EXACT words), "I don't care if you have to sleep on the beach, you WILL pay child support!"
If a guy straight up said "I don't want kids anymore" the judge would start child support at 50% of gross pay and then start on how he'll be paying health insurance, extracurriculars, car & car insurance...
That’s not how it works, it’s based on a percentage of income and education level and varies from state to state somewhat. And guys straight up DO what you said every damn day and it’s SO hard to get them to pay. They will literally quit a good job and work under the table to avoid paying for their children. When a mother does the same she’s the most evil. 🙄 It’s not a gender thing it’s a POS human thing.
She's thinking "I'm not paying you a dime" with that evil smile. In NY if you don't pay they start by taking away your drivers license. If you still don't pay you go to jail. I don't know where they are.
That women is disgusting. Must be on something she’s so off. Those poor kids. Judge make sure she never gets them back. Bad things could happen to them with this so called mother.
I paid child support for fifteen years so-ordered by the judicial district, happy to say that the court has finally discharged all child support payments I've made for the last decade and a half ago fortunately; did i learn my lesson with matters like this: of course, run, run really fast and never look back and get yourself spaded asap 😂😜🤪🤪🤪. This was definitely all my fault for not listening to people who knew what they really knew what they were all talking about and giving me lots of warnings!!!
All I can say is wow. My heart goes out to those kids especially the oldest one who is definitely going to have issues with rejection as they grow knowing that your mom doesn't love you anymore, that's sad. I am glad the aunt is taking care of them and like someone else said she should file for guardianship of these kids. That look at the end of the video was definitely a sinister I'm going to kill you smile. Creepy as hell. Those kids are better off being raised by their aunt who will always love them.
My son's mother did the same thing after destroying me financially. I was forced to fight for, and win full custody, thank God. But then she left after he turned 3. She decided she needed to go party and moved away. Hasn't come back since, and he's now almost 16. Sociopath. Just like that psycho in the clip. Evil.
My mom repeatedly told me she doesn't want to be a mother and she regrets having kids. The bitterness that has plagued me as an adult is real. It's something I fight everyday and my mother and I have a very strained relationship.
Can you imagine these 2 children when they are old enough to google their mother...and see this... That will flush their self esteem right down the toilet. Too bad mommy dearest didn't decide this when the child was born so it could be raised it's whole life with a loving family and never have had to know or deal with this looser
Fact: Any mom who says she doesn't want her children anymore should have a wish granted. Do NOT force the mom to get custody of children if she doesn't want to.
As a Dad...My Daughter is the best thing that ever happened to me. How does a parent just say they don't want there child? All I want to do is be with my daughter as much as possible...It's difficult at times, at times its frustrating also but you should feel privileged to be able to support and care for your own kids.
This is awful. I agree she seems totally disconnected from reality. She looks psychotic. Those kids, especially the 7 year old will have abandonment trauma for sure. At least she didn't abandon them on the side of the road. They would have been in the foster care system which would probably have been so much worse than a loving aunt. I bet she tells people who don't know her she never had kids. No one woukd be her friend if they found this out
That is a sinister smile and stare. I believe she’s already through the puppy and kitten stage and possibly onto her own species. It would definitely explain her abandonment of the kids.
I love how they describe this witch, she's young and wants to concentrate on her career. She sure doesn't look young and what type of career is she going after? You say you don't want kids before you spread your legs and pop one out, or two in this case. On top of paying child support the "Mom" should be barred from ever seeing the kids again. What a psycho!
This judge is amazing. People like this don't deserve kids . To just say you, don't want them is insane . imagine how the kids are gonna feel when they grown and they see this.....
Wow! What a case! There has to be something wrong with that mom. That smile at the end was just demonic and evil. The sheer apathy she displays for her kids is staggering. I hope those kids get the help they are going to need to process their issues that will no doubt come from this.
This should be classed as child abandonment, and she should be jailed for it.
I agree 100%
I agree but I also want her to be able to pay her sister child support. Even so, $700/mo seems too low under the circumstances. That is what you would expect a parent to pay the other parent for 100% of the child support. $700 is for the kids, this nasty woman should also have to pay her sister a salary for their care.
Should lose parental rights..
Not really. She dropped her children at her sister who seems very able to take care of them.
That's a good thing for an unfit mother to do!
Nor paying for the children, though, that's unacceptable.
I guess she has a personality such that we don't want her to have children.
Think of the horror if she wants them back to save money!
The sister should seek cutody of them if that happens, for the children's sake.
But I guess she will think $700 is cheap for not having to bother with two children.
I wonder though, if there isn't any father somewhere too!
Agreed. She should be in cuffs.
Neglect is abuse. What a burden on a childless sister. Hope the children are ok.
These non-existent children are fine, don't worry. However, this does occur so send your good vibes/prayers to the ones it actually happens to.
They do not exist
@@JackmeriusTacktheratrix7 I lived this, I still feel bad for taking my niece back, but I thought it would straighten out my sister. Let me, mind yours.
Her sister is handling this ALOT more calming than I would!
@@claudettes9697 I hope things are okay
Never underestimate the memory of a child. Her kids are going to remember the rejections.
Very true, but that's not going to bother this woman!
At least, that's how I read her.
The sister, though, seems to be able to somewhat make up for that. So the children might not be too much damaged by it.
Yes, they will remember it. They will blame themselves for it!
Especially if they ever watch this video...
This lady is not going to pay. She will wind up being arrested for nonpayment for sure.
Nope. What WILL happen is her wages will be garnished to cover the back-due and missed payments at some point. No matter where she works, her wages WILL be garnished for owed child support.
i dont understand the logic of 'i can't afford child support' but not using that as a reason why she cant have her kids but instead going with 'i dont want 'em.'
No, she isn't stupid, just very, very odd!
She will realize $700 is cheap for not having to bother with two children, and that's what's important for her.
that is the true face of many women right there trifling dangerous beasts
Ever heard of working under the table? Nope, no income, can't pay it and you can't garnish my wages since I'm unemployed. Oh and that means I get payment for the government and cheap housing and they probably pay for her school too.
If a father refused to pay child support, he would end in jail and called every name under the sun.
And where is the father(s)? Each parent has the responsibility of financially supporting these children. Mom’s in school and wants to focus on her career. 😏 I hope auntie focuses on mom’s career too and takes worthless mom back to court regularly.
I was just thinking that! How easy she got off tbh
@@MaxinesTrunkIt’s not her sisters fault that her children’s father is a deadbeat and it’s not her sisters fault that she didn’t put him on child support. She’s clearly a weirdo and so are you.
She probably don’t even know her baby daddy’s 😂
To be fair, she has to be ordered to pay child support and be in arrears before a warrant would be issued for her arrest. This is to initiate the order for child support to begin with...
Props to the sister for being a total badass for taking responsibility for those kids
when she taking care of someone else kids & not getting paid to take care of them even if they go to the hospital it cost money.....
her sister say she dont want kids bitch please if u dont want to have a kid keep ur legs close but u have 2 kids u drop off at ur sister place & not paying her a dime hell with that i call CPS on her that i have the kids she drop off & never return & etc i want money from her ASAP if she dont pay up put her in jail
Great way to put it!! I hope they garnish the birth person's wages so she can't go into the "it's not fair" nonsense.
Props? There is nothing virtuous about being a doormat. She should have called the police and had her sister arrested for child abandonment.
Props? The sister was in another episode asking for child support again for her own kids she had from a pimp.
@@DM-uz7lf They are actors who act out situations the judge has seen in actual court. So yes, same actor, but playing a different person.
As emotionless and deadpan as she is - I would think they would need to have a full medical checkup.
don't waste taxpayer money
@@SeptimusScholar Are you for real? The family is already adding the bills up ^^. You will need welfare to track down the fathers, social services/ Medicaid for the kids, Domestic Relations to insure that family member gets paid up, and on and on. There is always a case file when you have situations like this. Getting an exam is a small part of the expenses. She needs to be drug tested... pronto.
@@Meanoldwoman2013 no no, I'm saying don't waste money giving this deadweight medicine just for her to turn it into excuses.
What a truly despicable woman.
Those two children are definitely safer living with their aunt as their mother would consider them to be a hindrance and who knows what she is capable of ‘
That is one creeeeeeeeepy woman. Keep those kids away but make her pay.
She should not have unsupervised access.
That is possibly the most sadistic smile I've EVER seen anyone give to a sibling. She looked like she was planning a murder. I also doubt she pays any support. That woman deserves to be in prison for abandonment
You do realise she’s an actor? It’s based on real cases, but they are scripted recreations of them. If you look on the “about” section of the show’s TH-cam channel, it states that all episodes of the show “include actors” and that names, characters, businesses, places, events, locales, and incidents - basically all elements of the show except the words that Vonda B says are “either the products of the author’s imagination or used in a fictitious manner.”
Edit: to clarify, Vonda B is a real judge.
glad i wasnt the only one that thought that.
@@Dan_Ben_Michaelhuh, I just read the description of the TH-cam channel and you are right.
Now watching the videos is less enjoyable, oh well, I prefer knowing the true so thank you.
@@Dan_Ben_Michael Thank you, I was not aware of that.
@@Dan_Ben_Michael If that's the case I wont be wasting anymore of my time watching these
So it’s definitely best not to let her have those poor kids. She seems kookoo enough to unalive them so she can be child free. Truly scary
She's not going to pay and her sister will not report her.
How do you figure that? Her sister dragged her to court.
She got dead eyes. Evil lurks just below the surface.
Oh, it's on the surface.
Something sinister
I wouldn't turn my back on her
They're paid actors, this show is not real court it's scripted based loosely off real cases and real law.
That's exactly what I thought. She's definitely strange 😮
The children are better off without parents who don't want them. The aunt now should file for legal guardianship, get those kids into therapy so they learned how to deal with rejection, and make sure the Mom stays current with the child support and then love them for the rest of their lives.
that's...correct...but also a lot of attention for 1/2 kids. We don't have the manpower to do all of that.
I agree with you. I hope the sister fights for custody. I have a feeling it wont be a fight. This mother will be happy to give them up. Breaks my heart. The only way these children will have a good life is if they are adopted by the aunt. She seems like she has been giving them what they've needed all along.
From the sounds of their mother, the sister will probably struggle to get any child support, so therapy may be out of her budget. That woman looks and sounds like she's on some drugs.
Well, as long as the Mom is working the support is automatically taken out of her paycheck. Fingers crossed for these kids.
Legal guardianship, especially when the kids have been given up voluntarily, is not a difficult thing to do. It gives rights to the aunt that she doesn't have now and it isn't adoption because then the mom wouldn't have to pay child support. Therapy is available, covered by insurance and doesn't have to be life long. This is not a lot of attention and is very doable. (Don't know much about this show and the real outcomes, frankly.)
Her sister should get full custody so she can't take them back or see them
I just went through a similar situation. Someone that I considered a friend arrived to "support" me the morning my son suddenly passed away. This friend told her 16year old daughter to stay "a few days" and help us. Then this friend dodged me and ignored texts and calls for the next 5 months while I housed and supported her child. I had enough when the teenager started stealing money and prescription medication from my purse. I guess this woman has a history of abandoning her children.. People are this.
What happened to the teenager?
So sorry for the loss of your son😢
The aunt needs to petition the court for permanent guardianship.
My heart goes out to those children. The youngest probably doesn't understand what's going on, but I bet the 7 year old has a clue. I am thankful that Mom chose this way out rather than something more sinister.
It's a scripted show. There's no real children involved
@@williamz7011wait really 💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀
@@williamz7011ate you sure the show is scripted? In that case I don’t want to watch something to make me sad. Heck, the horrors of real life are enough to keep me sad; I certainly don’t need any fake stories for that. UGH if it’s scripted!
@williamz7011 actually it's Very real!!
good point
The judge should have doubled child support when she stood up and smiled like that.
a real scary thought is she may take these kids back to keep from having to give her sister money and God only knows what happened to them if she does that
This is the kind of mother who makes her kids 'disappear'...
Or her sister.
I feel horrible for this woman's children. Imagine your mother drops you off at her sister's one day and never sees you again because she decided she didn't want to be your mother anymore? She sure as hell doesn't deserve her sister! This sister has taken on the responsibility without much complaining. I wish the sister and those kids well. I don't understand how emotionally bankrupt this woman is.
It's really heartbreaking. I can't imagine what this will do to those kids emotionally nor can I imagine just deciding one day that I no longer want the lives that I brought into this world. I hope the kids are happy with their aunt. They are certainly better off w/o "Mom". I'm kind of curious why the judge didn't ask where "Dad" is.
if my sister did this to me i call CPS right away that she leave her kids with me for 9+ months & never come back or pay me at all... she dont care im not watching someone else kid for free when a hospital bill cost over $1,000+ that i dont have money for after i pay my bills
God bless the sister. I came from a similar situation. My grandmother and step grandfather raised me from age 2 to six. It is largely due to them that I turned out ok. My grandfather loved me like I was his own. I pray this sister loves them like my grandfather loved me
@@waltermccall7741 I'm with you on that!
Jimmie Graham, former NFL player, was dropped off at an orphanage when he was 12. Fell asleep in the car, and woke up by his sister screaming as he was taken away. He went on to play for New Orleand and Seattle in the NFL. And of course, when he got to the NFL - his pos "mom" did find him and was suddenly remorseful. Mom did not give up the sister, by the way, just him.
i’m happy the sister is raising her sister’s children
That happened to me, but I was the day home provider, and the parents refused to get the kids, so I became the foster parent and raised the three children. It's very sad how some parents can do that!
Part of the judgment against the "mother" of the abandoned children should include permanent sterilization. That way, she can never do this again. Unbelievable!!!
Going down a road where the state is sanctioning sterilization is some dysptopian sht. Gross.
@@kenosabiNot really if it prevents this 🐂💩
@@kenosabi Nah, it's necessary. It worked well in the past.
@@kenosabi Dystopian shit is popping out kids to use for tax-sponsored income then dumping them once you don't need to use them anymore, and my tax money also sponsoring that. Gross. Big yikes on ya.
In 1927, the U.S. Supreme Court decided, by a vote of 8 to 1, to uphold a state's right to forcibly sterilize a person considered unfit to procreate. The case, known as Buck v. Bell, centered on a young woman named Carrie Buck, whom the state of Virginia had deemed to be "feebleminded." This is a slippery slope as it is.
Those two sisters couldn't be more different. The sister is attractive, responsible, and compassionate and the mother is none of these things.
if this was the father he would be going to jail
That smile on the mother’s lips is one of a psychopath
She doesn't deserve kids. When she is old and wants her kids to care for HER they won't be around 😢
This day and age, don’t count on yours taking care of your ass. You can be as good as good but the world thinks different these days.
When some says the devil doesn’t exist, show them this woman.
It's fake. The show is fake. These are actors
@@PrimateProductions I really hope you’re right.
@@PrimateProductionsi fucking hope so
@@turboshazed7370 it definitely is
Oh my God! Those children are so much better off without this sorry excuse for a mother
She should go to jail for neglect and abandonment. Imagine if a man did this and spoke like her.
At age 42 my ex decided that she wanted "...to be free to date, party and have fun." When I asked about our two sons who were ages 7 and 14, she responded that, "They have no place in my life now." I offered joint custody but she gave me sole custody. She did not realize that meant she had to pay child support and she defied that and every other part of the divorce agreement...I had to make two trips back (600 miles each way) before the Court would make the child support an involuntary payroll withholding. She remarried to someone 18 years her junior in less than nine months while I was a single father for seven years before I remarried to the RIGHT person both my sons call "Mom." My ex has visited my sons three times in almost 30 years, each time for less than a day and has not spoken to my oldest son since 2005 or my youngest son since 2013. However, of course, to everyone with whom my ex and I were friends, I was evil and abusive despite the fact that she was arrested for assaulting me and our older son. Truly evil women do exist who have zero attachment to their children.
Dam, that's terrible what your ex did and said regarding the kids.
You're a great dad bud 🍻 your boys have a great role model and a mom now that loves them good luck with everything.
Yeah my brothers ex wife did the same thing. They got divorced around 30 and she was dead by 42 of cirrhosis and pancreatitis. She did a little too much partying.
Anyway, this scenario seems to play out a lot in couples that got married and had kids young.
As creepy as this women seems by stating she no longer wants her children, at least she gave them to her sister. There have been far to many cases in the last few years of parents murdering there children because they no longer wanted them, even though there were family members who would have gladly taken them.
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That's why i am thinking orphanage and abortion is the best option than sh!t situation like that.
Seriuosly, some people really thinking being parents is just a game or somethig.
True, but she’s still a clown. Why have kids and then dump them onto your sister? Ridiculous.
@@Lady-Angelia-Reads-and-Talksi mean, choosing a reliable partner to be a father and ideally a husband is a better option for having kids.
@@STARKILLER15100 Men need to also choose a reliable woman to bring children into the world with. Or not impregnate someone. Why is it always only on women? It should be both.
She doesn't want kids yet she has kids. Hold her accountable!
I read a story once about a woman who called adoptive services for her own children without her husband's knowledge. It was similar to this. She didn't want them anymore. The husband immediately took the kids to a hotel with him, filed for divorce and sole custody which he got.
The mother wanted to live life like it was before she had kids and expected her husband to give away his young girls too.
Jeez. At least they had ONE decent parent.
She is missing a heart and at least half her brain.
You can understand why the custodial sister went to court. Imagine trying to discuss this with your completely uninvested sister.
She has had a mental collapse. She is not CAPABLE of taking care of these children. She needs to pay - and STAY AWAY from them. She needs Psychiatric help.
If I hear one more person say "I don't have enough money...I "only" make 40k/yr"....I'm gonna scream. Me and my Ex raised a kid where COMBINED we made a little less than 40k....If you firmly believe you can't afford life with a kid while making 40 grand a year...maybe keep your legs shut and practice abstinence. Must be nice to have the mindset that you can just chuck responsibility you don't want anymore....try that one with the IRS and see how THAT goes.
I thought the same thing. Me and my ex raised two kids on way less than 40K. And we even managed to send them to fairly expensive summer camp each year. Makes me wonder what mom here is spending her money on. I'd guess meth by the looks of her. :)
@@balthazor44 Meth? Have you seen what that drug does to people? Her looks, nor her behavior cry "meth." The only similarity would be the abandonment of the children, which falls in every drug category.
It depends where you live, if she rents a room it's doable but in California a one bedroom apartment is $2,000 a month, 40k a year doesn't even get approved for an apartment but let's say you did, after taxes that leaves you with very little to live off of after paying rent. You both say you raised kids off of 40k but try doing it today in some places and watch how quick you become homeless. FYI I'm not defending this lady at all just being realistic.
@@Ras_PlantI've known people who don't have the drug addict look, but are serious addicts. Can't judge a book.
@@dmiranda70420she can move to a cheeper area.
Same thing happened to me. Ended up raising two step grandchildren, six months and three years old. Never regretted it. They call me dad and can’t stand their mother. Not even wolves or wild animals abandon their children but it’s common place in this new society we live in. Shameful
First of all, congratulations on stepping up and raising your kids. I do feel the need to correct you in your analogy asthere are plenty of animals that abandon, kill, or even eat their young. That being said, as humans, we need to have a higher moral compass and put the needs of our children first.
@2:00 "I decided I don't wanna have Kids anymore!"
Judge: "EXCUSE ME!!!" 😂😂😂
She couldn't be happier giving up those poor kids. What an awesome aunt ❤ Thank goodness she stepped up.
The smile looks like "You may have won the court case, BUT you will NEVER get the money"!
Exactly
The CSEA will garnish her wages and confiscate her tax return. Then, there is jail time…
They crucified and jail men for failure to pay.Which you should support reasonably.Why is she able to not pay. She needs to spend time in jail 😮
I believe we've just encountered a genuine sociopath.
The evil sister received exactly what she wanted for a little over 20 dollars a day. Win win for her.
My granny was just as sinister. At 6y/o, I visited her with my mum and my granny made me cry every day for 3 months
Damn whats she do?
Verbal abuse, dark and unappealing humour and many other things
Mega, I'm so, so sorry to hear this. I hope you've made the rest of your life as happy as it can be. You deserve it! Blessings.
@@user-bo1rj2xu2s Oh believe me, I did. Thankfully my crazy aunt and my psychotic cousins were just a one time show as well when I was there. My cousin Nicky/Nikki(I don’t know), stabbed me in the forehead with a fork
"Dark and unappealing humor"
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Well, at least she didn't murder the children.
Hard to believe that people are that far removed from the reality they created.
That's was what I was thinking. At least she didn't kill them. And that's depressing to think it got to this.
why do I feel like she didn't kill them because she seems to lazy....
@@_theknighthawk_7018 I think she was too lazy to do it but she is still evil. I'm just thankful her kids are in safe hands otherwise we would be seeing her mugshots for their deaths.
Well considering this show is fake and these are actors it really doesn't matter...
@@PrimateProductions um.....pretty sure this is real?
She is not going to pay her sister unless she arranges to garnish her wages.
I don't think this mother is stable or deserving of her kids. No idea what she's capable of. She is so disconnected she could end up killing her kids if they were to go back to her. I think it best they stay with the sister. Worlds apart.
She most certainly does not need to have custody of her kids. I hope that she never gets them back to abuse them instead of paying money for their support.
This woman is some piece or work. Thank goodness her sister is there for them.
Same logic: "I just... don't want to pay taxes or my mortgage anymore..." let's see how that pans out... LOL
She doesn't deserve the children she could pose as a homicide does not good
I gotta admit, watching this, makes me reflect on myself and my choices.
I'm 21. I don't have kids. And I decided recently I would rather not ever have kids for the very reasons this woman is talking about. I want to focus on myself as a person.
Is it selfish? Maybe. But you know what ISN'T "maybe selfish"? Having kids and then deciding you don't want them AFTER the fact, so you dump them on someone else, or you put them into adoption.
That is DEFINITELY selfish. At least with the second one, there's a chance that the kid will end up with a parent who actually wants to take care of them, but both options are damaging in their own ways, depending on the age of the child.
If you aren't up to the responsibility of having a kid, either just abstain, use protection, or (where it's legal anyways) get an abortion. You don't wait until AFTER the kid is born to say "nah. Not it, chief."
Also, I gotta agree with Xeno. Her emotionless nonchalance about this whole thing is STUPID disturbing. I think she has unaddressed psychological problems that would cause her to get to this point.
It's not selfish to not want to have children, its a decision that can be tough. It's selfish to have children and then later decide that you aren't going to care for them in the way that they deserve.
@@rik6696No, that's not what I mean.
You're right. It isn't selfish to want to have children. It is selfish to have children, decide later you don't want them.
(Edit. I misconstrued what you said. I apologize. XD)
Exactly. And what some people who say being childless is selfish, is it's just as selfish to HAVE kids. Wanting kids just to have them, because you want them, can be consider selfish. Wanting them to help do things for you(raising younger siblings, doing house chores, etc.)is also selfish.
My point is, people should stop criticizing others that choose to not have children or vice versa, because no matter what, it's their choice on whether or not they decide to have kids.
You know this is fake, right? Regardless, self-reflection is always a good thing, no matter what spurs it.
You're not selfish for not wanting children. You're responsible for taking precautions to not have them, because you can't give them the best life while focusing on yourself. It's like not being in a relationship when you want to live the single life for a bit.
I don't want children because I'm not physically able to care for them and I don't want them to suffer from my poorly genetics. I think that's its own love, making responsible choices to not harm your potential child.
What a creepy creature that mom is. Unreal. Props to the sister for stepping up, hopefully the children realize what an angel she is.
The sister is trapped and no one seems to wonder if her goals in life included this.
She is dumping her kids now but I bet when 1 of her kids become rich and successful, she is going to run back into their lives and try to share in their successes.
Think she had to smile cuz the actress tried to stay serious.
But it was too absurd for herself.
Yeah, this isn't real. Doesn't Xenoshot know that?
I actually seen this one before. She isn't just extremely irresponsible, she feels entitled and obviously is being extremely selfish putting herself first ahead of her children! Its sad because imagine how they actually feel? When you decide to have children, you better know that from that day forward, your life as you know it will be taking a back seat. Children come first....always! The best thing a parent can do for a child is to provide a loving, structured environment. Happiness in life equals love and this so called mother failed on every level. Disgusting.
My parents abandoned me at the city dump and I was raised by hobos
@@peopleskarmasquad1042 Smart parents
I have a 7yo. If I'd left for 9 months, it would absolutely wreck her. I can't imagine.
God this breaks my HEART for those kids. Omg. I can’t even imagine.
She doesn't plan to give her sister one dime.
Does the mother receive child support from the father? Both parents should be paying support to the aunt. I find it strange that the aunt wasn't asked how long she planned to keep them. Think this is happening more and more. Just most won't come out and straight say they don't want their kids.
When they realize the partying has to stop, they just dump them off. These kind of parents are more and more common, and why society is becoming the way it is.
I saw another clip of this and she stated she didn't know where either of their fathers were. That's the kind of woman who drowns her babies in the tub, thank God she gave them to her sister!!!
idk why I assumed this wasn’t acted out. Now I’m realizing, yeah, they do NOT look like sisters.
Actually, they do. Facial shape. Nose and eyes. Very similar. The hair and the fact that one of the sisters has been run through more than the Holland Tunnel is throwing you off.
@@donchoq... Maybe but these are all actor portrayals based on real cases. That would be wild... sisters who work as actors playing sisters.
I hope that one day those kids see this video & see just how evil their mother is and how lucky they are to have that sister in their lives.
"No I'm not mad at her"
Obviously she is.
I feel so bad for the kids. They're probably wondering where there mom is and why she hasn't come back to take them home.
I just hope the kids never have to see their Mom say this! It would be quite damaging to them! This sister is an amazing person to take on two kids. She deserves much more than this meagar amount for child support!
The look on the judge's face "Excuse me?"
Garnish her check, charges or jail. When I saw her I honestly thought it was going to be a case of her not paying child support for her wife. People like this need to be held strictly held accountable.
The payments will not be forthcoming. They will end up in court again.
Abandonment is a crime ! She should go to jail!
This young woman takes the younger child's dad to the show in a later episode too. He's just as reluctant to pay. I'm so glad these kids have an aunty that loves them and is looking out for their best interests.
Lights are on but no one is home inside this psychopath.
OMG! If a guy tried to use the "I just can't afford it" excuse the courts would say, "so what!" and they would take the payments out of his check before he even sees the check. Also he'd be sitting in jail on a work release program. When I got divorced I was told ( these are the EXACT words), "I don't care if you have to sleep on the beach, you WILL pay child support!"
$40,000 a year for one person is not low income i don't care who you are
If a guy straight up said "I don't want kids anymore" the judge would start child support at 50% of gross pay and then start on how he'll be paying health insurance, extracurriculars, car & car insurance...
That’s not how it works, it’s based on a percentage of income and education level and varies from state to state somewhat. And guys straight up DO what you said every damn day and it’s SO hard to get them to pay. They will literally quit a good job and work under the table to avoid paying for their children.
When a mother does the same she’s the most evil. 🙄
It’s not a gender thing it’s a POS human thing.
She's thinking "I'm not paying you a dime" with that evil smile. In NY if you don't pay they start by taking away your drivers license. If you still don't pay you go to jail. I don't know where they are.
That women is disgusting. Must be on something she’s so off. Those poor kids. Judge make sure she never gets them back. Bad things could happen to them with this so called mother.
I don’t believe she has any intention to pay child support. She probably feels that her sister will not press the issue.
At least she's honest.
Right! Because a lot of women feel that way, and it can end badly.
I paid child support for fifteen years so-ordered by the judicial district, happy to say that the court has finally discharged all child support payments I've made for the last decade and a half ago fortunately; did i learn my lesson with matters like this: of course, run, run really fast and never look back and get yourself spaded asap 😂😜🤪🤪🤪.
This was definitely all my fault for not listening to people who knew what they really knew what they were all talking about and giving me lots of warnings!!!
All I can say is wow. My heart goes out to those kids especially the oldest one who is definitely going to have issues with rejection as they grow knowing that your mom doesn't love you anymore, that's sad. I am glad the aunt is taking care of them and like someone else said she should file for guardianship of these kids. That look at the end of the video was definitely a sinister I'm going to kill you smile. Creepy as hell. Those kids are better off being raised by their aunt who will always love them.
Those poor kids having to hear their mother say those words. They will ring through their heads forever.
She has no remorse for her actions
My son's mother did the same thing after destroying me financially. I was forced to fight for, and win full custody, thank God. But then she left after he turned 3. She decided she needed to go party and moved away. Hasn't come back since, and he's now almost 16. Sociopath. Just like that psycho in the clip. Evil.
My mom repeatedly told me she doesn't want to be a mother and she regrets having kids. The bitterness that has plagued me as an adult is real. It's something I fight everyday and my mother and I have a very strained relationship.
Can you imagine these 2 children when they are old enough to google their mother...and see this... That will flush their self esteem right down the toilet. Too bad mommy dearest didn't decide this when the child was born so it could be raised it's whole life with a loving family and never have had to know or deal with this looser
Fr it’s gonna effect them later on in life.
Um no...they do not exist. This show is fake and these are actors with a script.
@@PrimateProductions Thank you. This is actually a huge relief to know
Fact: Any mom who says she doesn't want her children anymore should have a wish granted. Do NOT force the mom to get custody of children if she doesn't want to.
She forced custody on her sister
As a Dad...My Daughter is the best thing that ever happened to me. How does a parent just say they don't want there child? All I want to do is be with my daughter as much as possible...It's difficult at times, at times its frustrating also but you should feel privileged to be able to support and care for your own kids.
This is awful. I agree she seems totally disconnected from reality.
She looks psychotic.
Those kids, especially the 7 year old will have abandonment trauma for sure.
At least she didn't abandon them on the side of the road.
They would have been in the foster care system which would probably have been so much worse than a loving aunt.
I bet she tells people who don't know her she never had kids. No one woukd be her friend if they found this out
That is a sinister smile and stare. I believe she’s already through the puppy and kitten stage and possibly onto her own species. It would definitely explain her abandonment of the kids.
I love how they describe this witch, she's young and wants to concentrate on her career. She sure doesn't look young and what type of career is she going after? You say you don't want kids before you spread your legs and pop one out, or two in this case. On top of paying child support the "Mom" should be barred from ever seeing the kids again. What a psycho!
Her disconnect is very strange and disturbing. I can’t picture the mindset
I imagine at those ages the kids are probably asking where their mom is
This judge is amazing. People like this don't deserve kids . To just say you, don't want them is insane . imagine how the kids are gonna feel when they grown and they see this.....
She should never be allowed to have the children back what a poor excuse for a human
Wow! What a case! There has to be something wrong with that mom. That smile at the end was just demonic and evil. The sheer apathy she displays for her kids is staggering. I hope those kids get the help they are going to need to process their issues that will no doubt come from this.
That smile at the end looks like she's going to off the children rather than pay for the child support.
I accidentally skipped back to 8:19, the EXPRESSION OF WTF on the judge's face perfectly describes my reaction to the MOM'S SMILE AT 8:34