Will a Narcissist Change For Their New Supply?

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  • @AA-nx2jz
    @AA-nx2jz ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Exactly!!! They will eventually going to show their true color sooner or later .

  • @janicebullard5774
    @janicebullard5774 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I made it very clear I had no Jealousy in me I believe that Angerd him!

  • @l.5832
    @l.5832 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    I accidentally came face to face with my narc ex-husband and his new supply while I was shopping. My ex was so uncomfortable and I could tell he was actually terrified I would blow his cover with this woman and say something that would expose his real nature. So, I purposely introduced my self and prolonged my chit chat with this woman until my ex was visibly pacing around in circles he was so uncomfortable. I actually found it really amusing. I feel sorry for the woman, however. I hope she dumps him as quickly as all his previous women have since our divorce.

    • @RapturereadyforJesus
      @RapturereadyforJesus ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That is amazing and you did so well at making him squirm.

    • @LoveSource1111
      @LoveSource1111 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      She will dump him.

    • @ReRe_642
      @ReRe_642 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Pray for the woman she will need it.

    • @Shirley-t9b
      @Shirley-t9b 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I won't prey for new supply sod her he was going with upstairs neighbour she was my flying monkey got mine and my daughters money stopped. They both tried to get me jailed.

  • @popmonika
    @popmonika ปีที่แล้ว +82

    They don't treat them better, it's just how they treated you at the beginning of the relationship.
    Eventually the mask falls off.

    • @narcabusecoach
      @narcabusecoach  ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Exactly!

    • @Earthoceanfire435
      @Earthoceanfire435 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      He treated her nicer for years because she enjoyed bashing me! It was hysterical to watch on social media. They fought like cats and dogs. Two narcissists, thank goodness not another innocent victim.

    • @LoveSource1111
      @LoveSource1111 ปีที่แล้ว

      I agree! There mask falls. I caused some serious narc injuries in him.

    • @dianevitale1214
      @dianevitale1214 ปีที่แล้ว

      YES!!!

    • @msuuups21
      @msuuups21 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@Earthoceanfire435how many years ?

  • @dianevitale1214
    @dianevitale1214 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    YES YES YES!!! To think your narc might truly care for his new supply, unlike how he treated you is doing yourself a HUGE disfavor. Danish is right on the mark. TYVM

  • @LoveSource1111
    @LoveSource1111 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I am not his supply anymore. I refuse to see what he is doing with new supply. I think about it but I don't care to look at his Facebook. I hate him

  • @lolaweed7467
    @lolaweed7467 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    YES: Posts her on social media. Gave her his phone number. Told his family about her. Moved her in after 5 months of dating - He gave her everything that would've made me feel secure within the relationship, I begged for the bare minimum for 2 years. I think he began doing all these things because I no longer remained silent with some mutual friends about his emotional abuse towards me

  • @LoveSource1111
    @LoveSource1111 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    My narc ex hated the fact that he had to spend so much money and start all over trying to control someone else. He has crazy rage so he will scare them away. Plus his face is disfigured and young girls are not going to stay with him isolated in the mountains with a cheap boring man with messed up face telling them what to do. He doesn't drink and doesn't like to go out. He will be alone.

    • @bettyvillegas9367
      @bettyvillegas9367 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What happened to his face 🤔 scared to ask. ..

  • @cinnamonrose5599
    @cinnamonrose5599 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Greetings to your beautiful cat & thx so much for sharing your expertise. Your clarity helps us all so much.

  • @vickiemcguire9956
    @vickiemcguire9956 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Good morning Danish thanks again that is so spot on have a blessed day

  • @julia197
    @julia197 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    We were at the dinner table on my sons birthday. He poured his new supply a glass of wine. So strange to see, he did it never for me. Now she has left him after years.

  • @Gwenhwyfar-y5e
    @Gwenhwyfar-y5e 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My ex husband started seeing a co worker 15 years his junior soon after I left him 4 years ago. Our 18 year old daughter went to live with him six months ago but has just come back after she found out my ex husband has been using my daughter as the excuse why he won't commit to the same woman he started seeing 4 years ago convincing her that it was because my daughter wouldn't be ready. He still has the co worker convinced even after my daughter told her the truth and also letting her know hes texting other woman - Really proud of my daughter for calling him out and feel sorry for this woman but also know I went through a similar situation - just hope she loves herself enough to leave one-day ❤

  • @patriciat4493
    @patriciat4493 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    ex narc received a major promotion and decided he needed the proper accessories; the blonde in the next office that was half his age. Love bombing in the extreme, eventually winning her over with gifts and promises of exotic vacations. He told me to my face that he had 'traded up'.
    In short order, the new supply was demanding he make good on his promises which of course he never did and she left him. From what I hear, he's still up to the same games, always refreshing his supply

  • @Earthoceanfire435
    @Earthoceanfire435 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Yes he treated her better but she left him too lol!

    • @Isabela2024-yr
      @Isabela2024-yr ปีที่แล้ว +3

      The guy over here dramatically changed but who knows? He probably have a new supply and I don't care. I wish he'll go as fast as he can. 😂 New supply? Good luck to her. 🤣🤣🤣

    • @twi1__12j
      @twi1__12j ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Isabela2024-yr 😂

  • @Stort23
    @Stort23 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I just found you. New supply I LOVE IT 😂 Funny story, (btw I thought my ex was just an abuser, I had no idea about all of this) when I left I took him name off my Costco card. B4 we were divorced he had a new supply & went shopping for his new gf's bday party. Hundreds of dollars. When he ck'd out they told him he had no account. He called me absolutely furious, I guess he looked really stupid 😂😂😂 I was like just open your own account. Samething happened when I took him off my dental and health insurance after divorce. If I would've known all this I would've had so much joy & played my cards a little different.

  • @carolineonline2112
    @carolineonline2112 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I absolutely LOVE your videos and advice!!! If you are new to these videos you MUST watch and subscribe!!!

  • @starsunny8240
    @starsunny8240 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Why is my narcissistic friend still trying to talk to me in public casually with out acknowledging the no contact policy I took after him discarding me?

  • @77naaz
    @77naaz ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I lied to him and told him I am broke. He was gone 😂

  • @janetrekha7252
    @janetrekha7252 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    An eye opener about narcissism, narcissistic abuse. Im undergoing all these and i have almost come out after him treating his new supply far and beyond. Really don't know when all this is going to stop

    • @popmonika
      @popmonika ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hello I suffered narc/toxic abuse at work and the person after I had enough went over to another work colleague. Same behavior (love bombing etc).
      They also (months later) saw the mask falls off.
      Best advise I can give is to limit contact (no contact if you can) and concentrate on healing.
      People will eventually see through these people - it just takes time.

    • @michelle-vl3me
      @michelle-vl3me ปีที่แล้ว

      it will stop when YOU decide it will stop. it is up to you. narcs are frauds, they pretend to be what they want people to believe they are. the new supply won't be treated any better than you were, it's just a matter of time for her. he doesn't care about her more, he doesn't care about you less, he only cares about getting what he needs from other people. he will never change and he will never truely care about anyone but himself...when you are ready to move and put him out of your life...then it will stop. only you have that power.

  • @narcabusecoach
    @narcabusecoach  ปีที่แล้ว +6

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    beacons.ai/narcabusecoach/

  • @vaibhavi990
    @vaibhavi990 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The way he refers people as 'supply' is epic!

  • @suzymurray9720
    @suzymurray9720 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    How I see it is, the reasons why I walked away from narc they are going to take this onboard & retune or adapt to become a more streamlined narc! Everyday is a learning day #igotout 🎉 3:01

  • @nicholecornes1915
    @nicholecornes1915 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    He will never control me again

  • @jojo_024
    @jojo_024 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank u For covered this topic.🥂🥊

  • @2cool4u24
    @2cool4u24 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I don't understand why they would flaunt the new supply to hurt you. If they are with someone else and happy with them why would they care to hurt the old supply. Boggles my mind.

  • @bettyvillegas9367
    @bettyvillegas9367 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    O I'm a low life good for nothing now. lol!! But 3 yrs later he wants to come back . I guess he's tired of her already lol!! But too late I gotta a new man who lives me and will do anything for me and is faithful to me and I'm so happy! I may have to get a ro now .ugh I'm sick of the narrsisit wish he'd just go away ..

  • @yasminsheikh-pg4qp
    @yasminsheikh-pg4qp ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thankyou for this.....

  • @janicebullard5774
    @janicebullard5774 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Guess what Mr.Danish sir my Ex Narcissistic tried to take his life he left a message and said Life was worth living without me he almost was successful I had given him to God

  • @angelakeely5859
    @angelakeely5859 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    It's all so fake and shallow their behaviour with "new supply", it's a sad pityfull existence 😏

    • @ariv3049
      @ariv3049 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I had fake 9 years with her

  • @yami_mami
    @yami_mami ปีที่แล้ว +1

    He treated her better but had to go out of the way to bring her down fast. He was playing revenge on the cheerleader 📣 by love bombing, dismissing, and discarding.

  • @Dr.ShaziaHanif
    @Dr.ShaziaHanif 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Excellent informative discussion by respected speaker 🎉!

  • @hidelisabautista147
    @hidelisabautista147 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    well said thank u coach

  • @adumak3870
    @adumak3870 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    🎯, Subhanallah! How accurate! Thanks Danish.

  • @daniellapierre9798
    @daniellapierre9798 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very well explained! ❤thanks for helping us learn how those beast function!

  • @Anonymous-gt1eq
    @Anonymous-gt1eq ปีที่แล้ว +8

    My dad is the biggest Narcassist, toxic person....it's just unbelievable how he wants to establish his control and constantly gaslights in the worse way possible.... as u say
    That's a big cat behind u lol...

  • @claresilvester561
    @claresilvester561 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Always brilliant and scarily always so accurate too. These videos help me so much. Btw, can I have your cat lol?

  • @sylviaford3828
    @sylviaford3828 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Interesting. My narcissistic ex-husband (I left the marriage) got back together with his first ex-wife (she had also left him before this reconnection), whom he insisted on remaining in touch with throughout our marriage. There were no children in either marriage. How does this work the second time around with the narcissist and old new supply?

  • @AndreeaCe
    @AndreeaCe 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    What's outrageous is how they make possible to turn real empath look the opposite and them as the empaths. How they manipulate and manufacture data in their advantages, and then still play the victim.

  • @tracylmathis4714
    @tracylmathis4714 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow !! I have a question ❓ How do they feel once they find out you have someone else after them/ relationship/ dating ??

  • @ladyvirgo013
    @ladyvirgo013 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Yup,i saw through his shit & hes dragging the divorce out 14 plus months & its still ongoing, he moved into her house immediately upon leaving the marital home. What an immature idiot. When this divorce is finalized, Game on for her 😂😂

  • @dianaalyssa8726
    @dianaalyssa8726 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    He likes her wallet

    • @77naaz
      @77naaz ปีที่แล้ว

      😂i was so going to write that too!!!

  • @Crackrocksteady
    @Crackrocksteady ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My ex narc cheated on her new supply

  • @KvonD9836
    @KvonD9836 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    You were the new supply once...

  • @nji7772
    @nji7772 ปีที่แล้ว

    Maybe when I let him know I am unable to accept "expensive" gifts, that threw him for a loop?

  • @nji7772
    @nji7772 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    PS I know he still "stalks" my FB. Again, I don't care. Have fun.

  • @Momemtsinmotion
    @Momemtsinmotion ปีที่แล้ว

    What will happen if i send the narc this vedio?

  • @nicholecornes1915
    @nicholecornes1915 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Its all a cycle ! We all know what's underneath that shit

  • @monaj33
    @monaj33 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What a beauty 😺

  • @konangal16
    @konangal16 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Every supply to a trash narc will later smell like double rotten together

  • @ChemmiTal-n4p
    @ChemmiTal-n4p 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I think you should really not care what the ex narc does..

  • @nicholecornes1915
    @nicholecornes1915 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Lol they will be rotated as well 🤣

  • @jojo_024
    @jojo_024 ปีที่แล้ว

    💗