Yes the projecting their own hate onto you they feel that way about themselves I know it's bad the Trevor you down they really hate themselves I know people act this way to me all the time
Same . I don’t understand it tbh. Wishing well for all and always happy for people to reach for the stars and be their best selves. Life is short and precious . Sad for those who feel this way 🇮🇪☘️
I once had friends but was hated and they all walked out from my life because I Changed My Life Around The Only Friend I Have Now Is The Lord Jesus For He Never Left Me I'm Thankful For Him And I Thank The Lord Jesus For He Removed Those Who Never Loved Me .. Amen ❤️ 🙏
OMG. The same thing happened to me. I had these friends since four years old we are now turning 56. They are gone because I decided to lift me and my daughter up and make us a success story. Not bragging. We did good. We put God first. We kept praying together. The blessings are still coming. They are still in housing court. Trying to find ways to feed their families and don’t care anything about an education or having God in their lives.
Everyone is not your friend. Once I tested and observed my so called "friend" of many years, I was shocked at the depth of her envy & sabatoges of my life over the years. It hurt because I wasted so much time with her but the truth matured me. I'm glad God woke me up & told me to watch people's reaction to me more closely & take my inner voice more seriously and believe it. . Thank you God!! ❤
Same thing happened to me. And what is even more shocking is how other people reacted when they realized I wasn’t tolerating any of this any more. I was shocked at how many around me were stuck in the same unawareness.
@@mimi4pdx some are very narcissistic. I have a friend who is so competitive, I told her that a friend got her promotion to a senior position and , she went like this: "it is not that hard to get promoted, I could be in her position if I stayed long enough" ..now if this isn't envy I don't know what it is. If she could have just said " oh congratulations"
@@diannajohnson903 And the Jealousy comes from your God it's written and provokes it. And the contents written in that contradictory mythical mixed up bible make you people do evil wicked sick perverted things.
When I bought my house🏡 that's what I found out the jealousy in my family even my own mother she taught my brothers and sisters to be jealous that is so sad🙏🏽 but to God be the glory⚔🦁 no contact living my best life 💃its there loss I am the blessing to be a blessing🙏🏽
Unfortunately, you're not alone. Many families have a similar dynamic. Something I have learned is that I save a lot of money during Christmas time and birthdays. Hope you're enjoying your home.
YEP, my mother (and father) but definitely my mother was not happy when I bought my house. She wanted nothing more than to see me fail....she still feels that way. lol
1. Observe their actions. 2. Evaluate their response to your success. 3. Notice how they interact with those who can't benefit them. 4. Distinguish between praise and flattery. 5. Monitor consistency. 6. Observe their attitude when criticized. 7. Attentively notice unintention comparisons. 8. Pay attention to their reactions to personal failures. 9. Evaluate how they share personal information. 10. Listen to your inner voice.
My neighbor, a woman who I have known for over 40 yrs., would only call me when she was broke and couldn’t go to the casino. She always complained and talked about the other neighbors. I always felt her friendship was not sincere and that she talked about me too. She called me one day and asked about my blood pressure which had been running high, and she asked about my brother who had been in the hospital for a serious illness. She was always long winded so when I told her I had to get off the phone so I could call my brother, her response was: “don’t call him, let someone else call him.” I told her not to ever tell me not to call my brother. I didn’t holler at her, but my voice was serious. She stopped talking to me, but good bc she is not a real friend. A real friend would never tell a friend not to call a sick relative. Do you think I am right to stay away from her? I won’t let anyone bully me.
Real friendships are built on mutual respect and support, especially in difficult times. If you feel that this relationship was one-sided and not supportive, it's understandable why you would choose to distance yourself. Trust your instincts, and it's important to surround yourself with people who genuinely care for you and your family. Staying true to your boundaries is a healthy approach, and it seems like you're doing what's best for you.
You are right when your working on self ,whom ever make you feel uncomfortable about your own good faith of ,truth I'm gonna leave them alone because there lives actually don't depend on me nor MINE ON THEM so I must stand down at the end of the day ,when GOD call us we cant stop and say to someone's we do love GOD IS CALLING ME IT ALWAYS HAPPENS IN ONES OWN SELF !!! AROUND OR NOT
@Caroletta451 I firmly believe in letting go of grudges. Life is too precious to be weighed down by negativity. My personal philosophy is centered around showing kindness and determination in moving forward. This doesn't mean we should tolerate toxic individuals, but rather that we should strive to show kindness in our daily interactions.
My wounds are fairly new. I am a firm believer in forgiving but I am wise enough not to forget! If you are a relative and tell me how much you love me but then ignore me on your daughter's special day, I will remember this. I have stood by and let these slights go on too long. When people show you who they are, believe them! These people are toxic!
@@caroletta451 I agree🖤! your words resonate deeply. It's incredibly powerful to acknowledge the pain and take a stand against toxic behavior. Your commitment to forgiveness while also setting boundaries and remembering past hurts is a testament to your strength and resilience. Remember that you deserve to be loved and respected consistently, not just in words but in actions. Keep standing up for yourself and your worth - you're an inspiration to others who may be facing similar struggles
Amen!! Jealous people are very motivated to build up lies and create drama and always saying smart words toward you and constantly looking under eye at you. Be careful of family members, associates, and co-workers who are evil and negativity. Love to spread rumors or tell secrets because they're still trying to destroyed you and those who loved you. No matter who they are let them go and don't look back!!!!!
Oh my goodness you are spot on . I'm dealing with this for the last five years I have never seen it before, so much hate and bitterness and lies and jelusery is very sad , let them get on with it bless them xx
I’m in my golden sixty, still learning discernment & self preserving tactics. I tried forgiveness, these people only kept taking more inch & ground from you. I leaned that I hv to change myself, not them. Becos they would never change. Out of their jealousy, they seek every chance to bad mouth you even before you are introduced to new colleagues. They take the cream off from your crop. They add bitterness to your juice. My only way out were to cut them off from my personal social ground unless in odd occasions as in company functions. In such case, I pray to God to give me blind eyes to block the evil but see only goodness from others 😂
I had a so called friend that wouldn't take responsibility for her mistake or apologize to me for causing me a problem. 🙄 I no longer talk to her for my sanity and peace.☮️
I have been working hard on my inner core, the truth of my being. What I have done is to eliminate many people from my life. I do my sincerest to not place judgments because everyone has their own journeys and chosen paths. I strive to perfect myself through honesty and humility. I was born alone. I will leave this earth alone. It's what I do in the middle that counts. Thank you for your teachings.
Really action speak louder than words,envy and jealousy exit everywhere, It's mostly occurred within, family members, close relatives and friends . Dear messenger you are extremely right 💯 .
Hevedaave, eersha, he tar sarvach family in madhe aste, 1ka bhaawaache dusrya bhawaanya, utkash jhalelaa baghwatach nahi, he mihi anubhawalay, on mhanun naate thodya yet nahit,madat karaawich laagte jivanat he sarv honar, he dharunch chaalaayche,mhanach aahe, aaila dusra mulga hoto, on pahilya bhaawaala wait I hoto.
When i bought my first house two years ago...i haven't heard from certain family members and friends since. Lol...they haven't even acknowledge the fact i moved and got my first house. PAY ATTENTION their ACTIONS will show you how they REALLY feel about you!! 💯👏☝️
My husband brother and a so call friend does my husband the same way. As soon as they get something they come straight to our home and show off what they have.
I had that happen four years when I got my house also it took three years to buy it, even my own family members wouldn't even congratulate me, cause I'm mentally disabled I've been done that way most of my life.
Thanks to God which give me a heart that i can treat A King and homeless poor people in same way. All people including mental homeless people can join my table at the restaurant including stray animal. All human are same, only God is superior.
“The only person I would compare myself with was myself yesterday,” by wiser men. I like the encouraging wording, “watch, and, observe.” Thanks for sharing greatness!
I am TRULY ready to embark on this journey I have had my fair share of ups & downs with all sorts of people in my life but one thingthat I have learned to realize is you have to keep your inner circle and surroundings very limited✊🏼❤🙏🏾
This presentation has heightened the need for me to pay more attention to my inner voice. I should stop taking things for granted. Assuming that some people will not harm me. My carefree attitude about some people should stop 🛑. I should pay attention to my intuition and stop assuming that all is well. Having listened to this piece is priceless.
Yes because I have always wanted to see the best in others and it has really warp my mind because now I see the thru and it’s so hurtful recently with my eldest sister who held on a pedestal and valued her opinion was never real I told ha she is a fake a.. sister and she will always be sus I don’t even want my eldest daughter in touch with her and that itself is hurtful because I’m not a person to do that however I’m forced to boundaries now are hellah up and ain’t coming down idc how others view me no man
Thank you kindly. This is all make sense. I had a friend we get along so well, i can tell her everything feel she is genuine. Oneday i overheard her backstabbing me to the other lady.. That is when i started to gently dissolved myself away. God is good indeed. ❤❤
I'm observing people around me, exactly what this video says. These kinds of people are the demons they are masking themself. They are very pretentious that they are good but they are demons. I'm suffering from this kind of people around me, full of lies and manipulatives,they are envious and jealous. I understand a lot towards their actions, because it is definitely different from what they said.
free yourself from them, glorypp. it is sometimes hard to do but your mind and spirit are way more important and peaceful without knowing them and their drama. May God bless and help us.
Evaluate their response to your success. This is so true. I graduated 2023 and on the day of my graduation I sent my grad pic to this person i considered a "friend" and she skipped over the pic and answered every other msg BUT THAT ONE. It made me laugh because I had always suspected that she felt some type of way towards me but didn't want to believe.
I had many jealousy friends and people in my life it was toxic, awe full. God took many of tgem out of my life and others HE showed me red flags and actions i chose to walk away and it was the best thing I’ve done. My standards in the past 8 years got higher and my self respect, self esteem, self value I am in a stage now that this type of person I screen them from afar they don’t near me and if they would come I don’t allow them in my life. God has blessed me so, so much and be sure HE will do the same or better to you. . Be always watchful, observe and if you see something or hear one thing don’t insist or persist because that’s what I did I use to think that’s nothing, just a little thing, wanted friends a mix being emotional as well. I changed completely. I am so proud of myself 😊. Thanks be to God that helped me completely. Wishing you the very best!😊
This has helped me. I have a daughter. I love her but this girl that is all I can say. Her children do not like her. One of them call her toxic. It hurts me to my heart but I have to pull back. No one wants to be around her. No one so yeah I needed this
I have come to believe that some of us are born with bad personalities, just like we may be born with a physical imperfection. That means no matter how you swing it you come out looking bad. Just can't get the hang of pleasing people.
A big indicator and red flag of someone who is jealous is, whenever you are good at something that the jealous person is not, they always have something negative to say to you and always have a problem with that one thing you are good at or whatever they are jealous of you for and about, and they are the only one who always has a problem with you doing something you love that they know that they will never be good at themselves, or whatever they are jealous of you for and about, and intelligence and how much money you have, is something else that jealous people can't stand. It's so annoying and childish when these jealous people come into our because jealousy is a common trait of not only toxic people but in narcissists big time as well. It's their own fault that they are so childish, immature, and jealous, no one else's. Jealous people can't be trusted, ever. When someone shows us who they are good or bad, believe them. Remember, you don't owe anyone any type of explanation for taking care of yourself.
a favorite saying of mine is "actions speak louder than words." I appreciate this video for encouraging us to be aware of other behavior but just as importantly our own.
I was married to a person like this for twenty years. Confronting truth and closely examining by observations were the key to finally getting rid of her. Actions revealed the truth about her. I thank God she is out of my life.
@@olivetree8012 Actually it started at about 13 or 14 Years and I believed, at the time, that it was my vocation to stay married. But the situation became intolerable. Like many women she did not contribute at all towards the household Financially and with normal house duties. But, thanks be to God, I am rid of her forever. I wish I would have learned stoicism much earlier in my life. But I think you said it best, "Better late than never". I Think of how many men I know that remain in love- less marriages in which the women contribute Little or absolutely nothing, Both financially in with normal household duties. And I count myself fortunate. Thanks for the feedback and take care.
I had that happen to me from an Ex-friend + ex-coworker (one-in-the-same person). She could not visibly hide her disgust when i told her that I'd FINALLY got the job that I wanted. I will never forget her expression. Her name is *Jennifer Lynn Michel* 😆😁
@@waskyhenry6306 Yes, it blind-sided me more like. I had only "heard" of people like this I just never thought that I would encounter such a person lol.
❤Thank you for these principles... "actions speaks louder than words" is true and proven. We just need grace from God to be consistently observant, and vigilant.🙏
Jealously, a most destructive emotion. When my mother died my brothers Jealously and hate came out from him regarding me. A truly evil person. The signs were their all my life. This is a superb channel. He now lies his way through life. In truth, HE is a very, very sad person. The lies that have been told about myself. He and my x girlfriend made my life pure hell, they loved it and li. Girlfriend ex and brother got together when my mother past. Due to Stoicism I survived. My mother could put up with losers in life like my brother, I have not been a loser she and him tried to pull me down.
What an insightful video! The distinction between words and actions truly opened my eyes. The lesson on observing behavior over flattery is something I’ll definitely apply in life. Thank you for bringing Stoicism into modern context!
My own older brothers and sisters were jealous of me. I'm the youngest. They hurt me so badly!God fixed it. He turned thrm against each other. The main 2 that was behind everything.
I believe in treating people like you want to be treated. I dont really think about who is jealous or not I just try to surround myself with people that are positive.
Exactly, people see you rocking a hard time with true belief in God has me and their biggest fear is what is happing with you, their envy is your ability to be authentic and still using you God given gifts while you find God's divine lesson for you, you rest in his strength, they believe you are so strong and know they could never walk in your shoes. You tell them there is only one set of footprints in the sand of behind as it is God carrying you, your broken and his light shines.
This Whole video Describes my own husband, Grandchildren, some of my Children and people whom I thought was True Friends that I have Love For! This video amplified what I have Already felt warned about but because the Love I have for all mentioned this video has Opened My Eyes More! Still I care and love leaving Me Being Heart Broken! Thanks
This sounds like a so called "friend" I let my guard down around managed to weasel and manipulate his way into my life. He was always the first one there when things went wrong like some sort of devil. If only I recognized the signs sooner.
My three sisters and I always got along fine. My younger, and my older sisters passed away many years ago, it was just me and my sister a year and a half younger than me. She had a husband that loved her so much, always buying her nice expensive things, my sister was spoiled. I was a single mother of six, never could buy me nice clothes, never could go on vacations. But we always got along, I was happy that she had a good husband, we spent alot of time together until the day she died a couple of years ago. That's because we were both Christians. I sure miss her 😢
❤I am ready to observe the stoic philosophy. Yes. unfulfilled sayings, liars, dishonest, proud, self centered, easy to anger, selfish motives, quite rude, not sincere. So, I must be Positive Thinking, and trying to detach myself from them slowly, no attachment or commitment as soon as possible. Thank you Sir for the lesson I learned.Amen
I'm so thankful for this knowledge , it has helped me to distinguish just what the hell is wrong with the people I have sincerely given my help to and why I am not actually able to achieve meeting my needs in health with their wants their only priority, until they need something from me they let me down on what had been agreed to beforehand and smirk about my losses only to expect the righty from me when they turn up again. Disgusting and blatantly a false friend as I am a prime joke in this town for being kind-hearted . Thank you for the reassurance dear thoughtful and humaine wise ones.
I’ve had this all my life. I have an in-built radar for jealous people. It was imminent when I graduated. There is someone in the wings just now who is playing games and I have no idea why she would be jealous of me. But I now keep my distance.
You’re right! I lost my job few months ago because of my manager! I was one of the top performers, have many years of experience and clients loved me so much. This manager used to show me respect and recognizing me in the morning meetings, but after the meeting is finished, she becomes criticizing and unstable person towards me. She goes to my co-workers and criticizes me and my work. I couldn’t figure out why she was doing that to me. I tried many times to ask her, but she always pretended that she wanted the best for me! She turned the whole team against me and the higher level people in the corporate then they decided to let me go!
I'm sorry to hear about your experience. Sometimes challenges at work don’t reflect our true abilities, and it's important to keep believing in your own value. I hope you find a better and more supportive supportive work environment soon.
When I'm out in public, I feel others energy more than I see details on their faces. I am left with their feelings more so than a visual impression. I tend to stay mostly to myself and have since I was a child.
Had a few so called mates but did not trust them anyway and then I found out their true colours so I dumped them all, I know plenty of people but only bother with about 2… I got rid of the narcissistic people from my life.
Jealous and lies from people close to you are most dangerous. There is always someone who doesn't really appreciate the success of your life. Im so aware of this, but is always 💯 on guard 💂♂️ for these kinds. 😇🙏
At least now I can differentiate between flattering and genuine compliments. So many people have taken advantage of my generosity but hate my achievements.
Everything what you are saying is absolutely true. I have two co-workers who are pretenders that they are nice to you, but when you’re not with them, they talk negatively behind your back. I just pray for them to the Lord, that God will touch their hearts and open their mind to stop judging others.
Thank you for sharing all this. I am excited that i will be paying off my 60 month car loan off this December. Although my car has had major mechanical issues it is still cheaper than trading it in and getting another one. I will talk about my trivals with this car and most people state "get rid of it". I won't because I want no car payment even if it means putting money into this one. Plus i want to pay off other debt. Most people don't want you happy or to succeed. There are some co-workers that want you to succeed and others are misery loves company. A lot of times i dream out loud. I probably should be quieter. Thanks for reading.
It’s inspiring to see your dedication to financial independence, even through the challenges with your car. Stay focused your goals your perseverance will pay off.
I received criticism from a credible source, and though it did not feel good to hear, I accepted it for it to help me focus on my changing some things and ways.
Choose your friends /inner circle wisely!!!! Especially if you are married. If you have a problem with your significant other talk with them directly. Jump in and get it settled before it becomes a big dragon you can not face! Some friends get too comfortable and think they can tell you what to do. Figure it out!! You know the answer you just may not want to address it😉🙏👍
@debbiekling6065 The ones that gave us the Bible, didn't want any one know the truth about God's real name nor our real knowledge of self. So they stripped the Bible of truth and give us what they wanted. A white ruler that deceived the whole world.
I was taught that I could have anything and do anything. Jealousy was never taught or encouraged in my life. I was married to a male who was quite jealous and envious of my life💞💞...
High school was the worst teachers jealous of you... Fake friends jealous of your children. I had a friend jealous because my boyfriend bought me a car. And then we moved and she didn't l I me that either. Some people hate to see Anyone have a happy life.
Thank you for this video! I’ve always considered myself a good judge of character, yet, after listening to this video, I realize how much I’ve been taken advantage of by the people (relatives) closest to me. It also made me realize my faults…I do not handle criticism well at all, probably because I was raised by negative criticism from my parents and older siblings. After listening to this video, I will work hard on trying to accept criticism, but only if it comes from a good place and not with the intention to hurt me.
Sadly my mom and some family members were jealous of my success with me and my husband are beautiful home we bought the cars we drove are marriage etc. It was very hurtful when all I wanted to do was share all of it with them.
Jealous people use sarcasm when talking to you and are delighted to see you upset. Hard to believe that your parents/siblings do not hesitate to get under your skin !!! I think this gives them pleasure.
Jealous people will always find fault in you and accuse you of something you didn't do just to make you feel bad and inferior about yourself
Yes the projecting their own hate onto you they feel that way about themselves I know it's bad the Trevor you down they really hate themselves I know people act this way to me all the time
That is because they are miserable and probably a bit narcissistic.I can almost feel sorry for them.
I’m so glad that I’ve NEVER had a jealous bone in my body.
i am ready
Me too, i never jealous annyone but I have a lot jealous co workers.
I’m grateful that I've always been free from jealousy.
Well everyone gets a little jealous her and there of something’s it if you dwell on it all the time when its a problem
Same .
I don’t understand it tbh.
Wishing well for all and always happy for people to reach for the stars and be their best selves.
Life is short and precious .
Sad for those who feel this way 🇮🇪☘️
I once had friends but was hated and they all walked out from my life because I Changed My Life Around The Only Friend I Have Now Is The Lord Jesus For He Never Left Me I'm Thankful For Him And I Thank The Lord Jesus For He Removed Those Who Never Loved Me .. Amen ❤️ 🙏
OMG. The same thing happened to me. I had these friends since four years old we are now turning 56. They are gone because I decided to lift me and my daughter up and make us a success story. Not bragging. We did good. We put God first. We kept praying together. The blessings are still coming.
They are still in housing court. Trying to find ways to feed their families and don’t care anything about an education or having God in their lives.
Yes I do have people like that around me but I stopped sharing my thoughts with any of these people
I to had friends ,and lost them ,as I changed ,as well @@RobertMatlabeyane
Surround yourself with great friends and leave them behind 😂
❤🎉😢🙏 amen thank you 😊 🙏 🙌 depression go away yes truth.
"ALWAYS OBSERVE CAREFULLY "
Right on & one of my mottos I live by is PAY ATTENTION
@@mariejones2669 👍🏾😄 you sermon it up in a nut shell.i like that 😊
All are true
Everyone is not your friend. Once I tested and observed my so called "friend" of many years, I was shocked at the depth of her envy & sabatoges of my life over the years. It hurt because I wasted so much time with her but the truth matured me. I'm glad God woke me up & told me to watch people's reaction to me more closely & take my inner voice more seriously and believe it. . Thank you God!! ❤
Excellent information!
Same thing happened to me. And what is even more shocking is how other people reacted when they realized I wasn’t tolerating any of this any more. I was shocked at how many around me were stuck in the same unawareness.
I’m going thru the samething. How did you pull away?
@@mimi4pdx some are very narcissistic. I have a friend who is so competitive, I told her that a friend got her promotion to a senior position and , she went like this: "it is not that hard to get promoted, I could be in her position if I stayed long enough" ..now if this isn't envy I don't know what it is. If she could have just said " oh congratulations"
@cocobrown1031 I started being super busy. The longer I kept my distance, the more uninteresting she became to me.
I treat people the way I want to be treated with respect.
Well the problem is jealous folks can still be respectful. It's an heart issue. A insecurity. Nothing to do with respecting others.
@@diannajohnson903 And the Jealousy comes from your God it's written and provokes it. And the contents written in that contradictory mythical mixed up bible make you people do evil wicked sick perverted things.
@diannajohnson903. Yes, most certainly , me too dianna. 🌹🌠🌟 🌛
@@jehanneinglis9672 That's not true you both treat people the way Demigods goddesses and wicked perverted angels want you to.
End ? Why does Stoic say don't believe in words and believe in actions?
When I bought my house🏡 that's what I found out the jealousy in my family even my own mother she taught my brothers and sisters to be jealous that is so sad🙏🏽 but to God be the glory⚔🦁 no contact living my best life 💃its there loss I am the blessing to be a blessing🙏🏽
Unfortunately, you're not alone. Many families have a similar dynamic. Something I have learned is that I save a lot of money during Christmas time and birthdays. Hope you're enjoying your home.
I receive that and can totally relate..also living my greatest life 🙌. I am ready to embark on the journey ❤
Stay strong! Your journey is inspiring, and your resilience shines bright. Keep being a blessing! 🌟
😮😮😮😮soo hurtful
YEP, my mother (and father) but definitely my mother was not happy when I bought my house. She wanted nothing more than to see me fail....she still feels that way. lol
1. Observe their actions.
2. Evaluate their response to your success.
3. Notice how they interact with those who can't benefit them.
4. Distinguish between praise and flattery.
5. Monitor consistency.
6. Observe their attitude when criticized.
7. Attentively notice unintention comparisons.
8. Pay attention to their reactions to personal failures.
9. Evaluate how they share personal information.
10. Listen to your inner voice.
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My neighbor, a woman who I have known for over 40 yrs., would only call me when she was broke and couldn’t go to the casino. She always complained and talked about the other neighbors. I always felt her friendship was not sincere and that she talked about me too. She called me one day and asked about my blood pressure which had been running high, and she asked about my brother who had been in the hospital for a serious illness. She was always long winded so when I told her I had to get off the phone so I could call my brother, her response was: “don’t call him, let someone else call him.” I told her not to ever tell me not to call my brother. I didn’t holler at her, but my voice was serious. She stopped talking to me, but good bc she is not a real friend. A real friend would never tell a friend not to call a sick relative. Do you think I am right to stay away from her? I won’t let anyone bully me.
You right I had a friend that would only call me when she needed or wanted something from me
She's NOT your friend. Never was. She's just a user. Been there, done that. Press on. You won't miss her.
Real friendships are built on mutual respect and support, especially in difficult times. If you feel that this relationship was one-sided and not supportive, it's understandable why you would choose to distance yourself. Trust your instincts, and it's important to surround yourself with people who genuinely care for you and your family. Staying true to your boundaries is a healthy approach, and it seems like you're doing what's best for you.
U WERE DEFINITELY RIGHT ... HOPE YOUR BROTHER IS FEELING BETTER...TAKE CARE
You are right when your working on self ,whom ever make you feel uncomfortable about your own good faith of ,truth I'm gonna leave them alone because there lives actually don't depend on me nor MINE ON THEM so I must stand down at the end of the day ,when GOD call us we cant stop and say to someone's we do love GOD IS CALLING ME IT ALWAYS HAPPENS IN ONES OWN SELF !!! AROUND OR NOT
Reminder to always be kind to each other 🙏 Even if they are not returning the favor.
Nope, not any more! Lived that way for too long. Just ignore and avoid them now.
@Caroletta451 I firmly believe in letting go of grudges. Life is too precious to be weighed down by negativity. My personal philosophy is centered around showing kindness and determination in moving forward. This doesn't mean we should tolerate toxic individuals, but rather that we should strive to show kindness in our daily interactions.
My wounds are fairly new. I am a firm believer in forgiving but I am wise enough not to forget! If you are a relative and tell me how much you love me but then ignore me on your daughter's special day, I will remember this. I have stood by and let these slights go on too long. When people show you who they are, believe them! These people are toxic!
@@caroletta451 I agree🖤! your words resonate deeply. It's incredibly powerful to acknowledge the pain and take a stand against toxic behavior. Your commitment to forgiveness while also setting boundaries and remembering past hurts is a testament to your strength and resilience. Remember that you deserve to be loved and respected consistently, not just in words but in actions. Keep standing up for yourself and your worth - you're an inspiration to others who may be facing similar struggles
@caroletta451 😊☕️ it's not easy while your feelings are raw & hurt
Over the years, I've recognised it in a lot of people, mainly co workers and family members
Me too
I am watching this because i also need to evaluate how i behave towards others. Be who you want to meet, if you want positivity, act this way yourself
thank you
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You are absoutely correct about all this but "KARMA" make her rounds also you sow goodness and reap goodness sow badness you reap badness😅
This. All of this 💯
Yes, get rid of those toxic people! You don't need them in your life!! Been there done that......
Envy is real & sinful, we must cleanse our minds and accept our own life journey. There will always be people worse off and better off than you ❤
You are a good person karolinah
Not just cleanse our minds but our hearts too!
Amen!! Jealous people are very motivated to build up lies and create drama and always saying smart words toward you and constantly looking under eye at you. Be careful of family members, associates, and co-workers who are evil and negativity. Love to spread rumors or tell secrets because they're still trying to destroyed you and those who loved you. No matter who they are let them go and don't look back!!!!!
I have had those experiences in my life. So sad that people can’t be happy for you. SMH 😢
@@tinabrunson1633 so true
Oh my goodness you are spot on . I'm dealing with this for the last five years I have never seen it before, so much hate and bitterness and lies and jelusery is very sad , let them get on with it bless them xx
This is so true xx
I’m in my golden sixty, still learning discernment & self preserving tactics. I tried forgiveness, these people only kept taking more inch & ground from you. I leaned that I hv to change myself, not them. Becos they would never change. Out of their jealousy, they seek every chance to bad mouth you even before you are introduced to new colleagues. They take the cream off from your crop. They add bitterness to your juice. My only way out were to cut them off from my personal social ground unless in odd occasions as in company functions. In such case, I pray to God to give me blind eyes to block the evil but see only goodness from others 😂
I had a so called friend that wouldn't take responsibility for her mistake or apologize to me for causing me a problem. 🙄 I no longer talk to her for my sanity and peace.☮️
That happened to me than she passed away
Who r u
@@seethalakshmi4286she is alysiahite. 😊
I let go of a friend for the same exact thing. I feel so much peace without the negativity. Thank you Jesus.🙏🏽🦋
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I have been working hard on my inner core, the truth of my being. What I have done is to eliminate many people from my life. I do my sincerest to not place judgments because everyone has their own journeys and chosen paths. I strive to perfect myself through honesty and humility. I was born alone. I will leave this earth alone. It's what I do in the middle that counts. Thank you for your teachings.
Really action speak louder than words,envy and jealousy exit everywhere, It's mostly occurred within, family members, close relatives and friends . Dear messenger you are extremely right 💯 .
I'm readrto inbark on this journey
Hevedaave, eersha, he tar sarvach family in madhe aste, 1ka bhaawaache dusrya bhawaanya, utkash jhalelaa baghwatach nahi, he mihi anubhawalay, on mhanun naate thodya yet nahit,madat karaawich laagte jivanat he sarv honar, he dharunch chaalaayche,mhanach aahe, aaila dusra mulga hoto, on pahilya bhaawaala wait I hoto.
When i bought my first house two years ago...i haven't heard from certain family members and friends since.
Lol...they haven't even acknowledge the fact i moved and got my first house. PAY ATTENTION their ACTIONS will show you how they REALLY feel about you!! 💯👏☝️
My husband brother and a so call friend does my husband the same way. As soon as they get something they come straight to our home and show off what they have.
Same!
I had that happen four years when I got my house also it took three years to buy it, even my own family members wouldn't even congratulate me, cause I'm mentally disabled I've been done that way most of my life.
@@crystallowery7127 ; With respect . " Your husband, brother and a " so called " friend etc etera. " 👌👍👍💫
Thanks to God which give me a heart that i can treat A King and homeless poor people in same way. All people including mental homeless people can join my table at the restaurant including stray animal. All human are same, only God is superior.
“The only person I would compare myself with was myself yesterday,” by wiser men. I like the encouraging wording, “watch, and, observe.” Thanks for sharing greatness!
Thanks for sharing!!
I am TRULY ready to embark on this journey I have had my fair share of ups & downs with all sorts of people in my life but one thingthat I have learned to realize is you have to keep your inner circle and surroundings very limited✊🏼❤🙏🏾
Thanks for sharing!!
I think it was my house with jealous
@KingStoi. Just Dre story my lifec101
THIS!!!
Thank you. I currently have limited friends because of this.
Glad I could help
Yea. The truth is nobody is really true, as we all seem to be a mesh of all kinds of complex emotions and can't stay consistent no matter what.
I'd rather have no friends than fake ones!!! Pray for divine connections!!!
This presentation has heightened the need for me to pay more attention to my inner voice. I should stop taking things for granted. Assuming that some people will not harm me. My carefree attitude about some people should stop 🛑. I should pay attention to my intuition and stop assuming that all is well. Having listened to this piece is priceless.
Yes because I have always wanted to see the best in others and it has really warp my mind because now I see the thru and it’s so hurtful recently with my eldest sister who held on a pedestal and valued her opinion was never real I told ha she is a fake a.. sister and she will always be sus I don’t even want my eldest daughter in touch with her and that itself is hurtful because I’m not a person to do that however I’m forced to boundaries now are hellah up and ain’t coming down idc how others view me no man
Thank you kindly. This is all make sense. I had a friend we get along so well, i can tell her everything feel she is genuine. Oneday i overheard her backstabbing me to the other lady.. That is when i started to gently dissolved myself away. God is good indeed. ❤❤
Terrible. Glad what you did but it must still be a loss to you.
The world has been divided into the righteous and the wicked. We are fighting a spiritual war. Everything is in the Bible. God bless you all.
Thank u for this !
Always Observe Carefully
I have someone very close to me a family member that pretends to be happy for you when you get blessed as long as you’re not doing better than she is.
@@tinamitchell7821 🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿 Amen
I'm observing people around me, exactly what this video says. These kinds of people are the demons they are masking themself. They are very pretentious that they are good but they are demons. I'm suffering from this kind of people around me, full of lies and manipulatives,they are envious and jealous. I understand a lot towards their actions, because it is definitely different from what they said.
free yourself from them, glorypp. it is sometimes hard to do but your mind and spirit are way more important and peaceful without knowing them and their drama.
May God bless and help us.
It's important to be vigilant to how people react to your failures and to your success. This will help me to guide my own reaction and emotion.
Thank you for helping me through my life ,God is Good and caring i Love you God
God is who makes people jealous of each other it's written in that contradictory mythical mixed up bible.
Evaluate their response to your success. This is so true. I graduated 2023 and on the day of my graduation I sent my grad pic to this person i considered a "friend" and she skipped over the pic and answered every other msg BUT THAT ONE. It made me laugh because I had always suspected that she felt some type of way towards me but didn't want to believe.
It’s not what they say … it’s what they didn’t say .., jealous indeed ..
Wow 😮😮😮😮
@@empress9857 yup
I had many jealousy friends and people in my life it was toxic, awe full. God took many of tgem out of my life and others HE showed me red flags and actions i chose to walk away and it was the best thing I’ve done. My standards in the past 8 years got higher and my self respect, self esteem, self value I am in a stage now that this type of person I screen them from afar they don’t near me and if they would come I don’t allow them in my life. God has blessed me so, so much and be sure HE will do the same or better to you. . Be always watchful, observe and if you see something or hear one thing don’t insist or persist because that’s what I did I use to think that’s nothing, just a little thing, wanted friends a mix being emotional as well. I changed completely. I am so proud of myself 😊. Thanks be to God that helped me completely. Wishing you the very best!😊
This has helped me. I have a daughter. I love her but this girl that is all I can say. Her children do not like her. One of them call her toxic. It hurts me to my heart but I have to pull back. No one wants to be around her. No one so yeah I needed this
I have come to believe that some of us are born with bad personalities, just like we may be born with a physical imperfection. That means no matter how you swing it you come out looking bad. Just can't get the hang of pleasing people.
A big indicator and red flag of someone who is jealous is, whenever you are good at something that the jealous person is not, they always have something negative to say to you and always have a problem with that one thing you are good at or whatever they are jealous of you for and about, and they are the only one who always has a problem with you doing something you love that they know that they will never be good at themselves, or whatever they are jealous of you for and about, and intelligence and how much money you have, is something else that jealous people can't stand. It's so annoying and childish when these jealous people come into our because jealousy is a common trait of not only toxic people but in narcissists big time as well. It's their own fault that they are so childish, immature, and jealous, no one else's. Jealous people can't be trusted, ever. When someone shows us who they are good or bad, believe them. Remember, you don't owe anyone any type of explanation for taking care of yourself.
a favorite saying of mine is "actions speak louder than words." I appreciate this video for encouraging us to be aware of other behavior but just as importantly our own.
The golden rule. "Do unto others as you would like others to do unto you"
I was married to a person like this for twenty years. Confronting truth and closely examining by observations were the key to finally getting rid of her. Actions revealed the truth about her. I thank God she is out of my life.
I had a man like that in my life once. It's unfortunate when our partners harbor such emotions.
Currently going through it. 17 years of promises and still nothing. Something in me keeps telling me I need to go.
@@rozee1507 Once over the trauma, life gets better and better as a divorced person. Less money but more happiness.
Wow,only after 20 years you saw the real her. Thanks be to God better late then never . Success to you all the best!
@@olivetree8012 Actually it started at about 13 or 14 Years and I believed, at the time, that it was my vocation to stay married. But the situation became intolerable. Like many women she did not contribute at all towards the household Financially and with normal house duties. But, thanks be to God, I am rid of her forever. I wish I would have learned stoicism much earlier in my life. But I think you said it best, "Better late than never". I
Think of how many men I know that remain in love- less marriages in which the women contribute Little or absolutely nothing, Both financially in with normal household duties. And I count myself fortunate. Thanks for the feedback and take care.
AINT NOTHING REAL 0:53 WITHOUT THE GOD TRUTH🙏🏾SOMETHING ALWAYS TELL YOU SOMETHING AINT RIGHT 💯%
Spirit of discernment is very important. Your enemies are often the ones closest to you that you least expect.
Pray for a spirit of discernment!!!
Always observe carefully
I had that happen to me from an Ex-friend + ex-coworker (one-in-the-same person). She could not visibly hide her disgust when i told her that I'd FINALLY got the job that I wanted. I will never forget her expression. Her name is *Jennifer Lynn Michel* 😆😁
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😂😂😂😂😂 cheers 🥂💃🥂💫😝
Wow 😲, you really went in deep. They must have hurt 🤕 you that bad 😞.
@@waskyhenry6306 Yes, it blind-sided me more like. I had only "heard" of people like this I just never thought that I would encounter such a person lol.
I don't know her! Is she in Ireland?
Everything you speak of is very clear true and accurate.
❤Thank you for these principles... "actions speaks louder than words" is true and proven. We just need grace from God to be consistently observant, and vigilant.🙏
This is exactly what I needed to hear.❤
Amen 🙏 I have never been a jealous person. I'm happy for others when things go well in their life
That's a great mindset! Celebrating other' success brings more positivity and peace into your own life.
This was Truly EXCELLENT & True!!
Wishing everyone reading this message a very lucky and joyful day
My gut / Holy Spirit is my first sign, it will quickly make me feel uncomfortable and tense and ready to get out of the gathering ...
Best to let go,stay away and never be around these kind of people.I have done this before.
Jealously, a most destructive emotion. When my mother died my brothers Jealously and hate came out from him regarding me. A truly evil person. The signs were their all my life. This is a superb channel. He now lies his way through life. In truth, HE is a very, very sad person. The lies that have been told about myself. He and my x girlfriend made my life pure hell, they loved it and li. Girlfriend ex and brother got together when my mother past. Due to Stoicism I survived. My mother could put up with losers in life like my brother, I have not been a loser she and him tried to pull me down.
What an insightful video! The distinction between words and actions truly opened my eyes. The lesson on observing behavior over flattery is something I’ll definitely apply in life. Thank you for bringing Stoicism into modern context!
Never jealous of anyone ❤ ❤
Don't deceive yourself
It’s a human trait. Don’t lie
Always Observe Carefully👑
My own older brothers and sisters were jealous of me. I'm the youngest. They hurt me so badly!God fixed it. He turned thrm against each other. The main 2 that was behind everything.
I believe in treating people like you want to be treated. I dont really think about who is jealous or not I just try to surround myself with people that are positive.
Sometimes we see in others what we feel in ourselves. Ask God for help with unmet needs.❤
Exactly, people see you rocking a hard time with true belief in God has me and their biggest fear is what is happing with you, their envy is your ability to be authentic and still using you God given gifts while you find God's divine lesson for you, you rest in his strength, they believe you are so strong and know they could never walk in your shoes. You tell them there is only one set of footprints in the sand of behind as it is God carrying you, your broken and his light shines.
This Whole video Describes my own husband, Grandchildren, some of my Children and people whom I thought was True Friends that I have Love For! This video amplified what I have Already felt warned about but because the Love I have for all mentioned this video has Opened My Eyes More! Still I care and love leaving Me Being Heart Broken!
Thanks
Thanks for sharing!!
This sounds like a so called "friend" I let my guard down around managed to weasel and manipulate his way into my life. He was always the first one there when things went wrong like some sort of devil. If only I recognized the signs sooner.
My three sisters and I always got along fine. My younger, and my older sisters passed away many years ago, it was just me and my sister a year and a half younger than me. She had a husband that loved her so much, always buying her nice expensive things, my sister was spoiled. I was a single mother of six, never could buy me nice clothes, never could go on vacations. But we always got along, I was happy that she had a good husband, we spent alot of time together until the day she died a couple of years ago. That's because we were both Christians. I sure miss her 😢
❤I am ready to observe the stoic philosophy. Yes. unfulfilled sayings, liars, dishonest, proud, self centered, easy to anger, selfish motives, quite rude, not sincere. So, I must be Positive Thinking, and trying to detach myself from them slowly, no attachment or commitment as soon as possible. Thank you Sir for the lesson I learned.Amen
True, true, true!
Be gracious to everyonem
I am ready to embark on this incredible and wonderful stoic journey! Let's Go!
I'm so thankful for this knowledge , it has helped me to distinguish just what the hell is wrong with the people I have sincerely given my help to and why I am not actually able to achieve meeting my needs in health with their wants their only priority, until they need something from me they let me down on what had been agreed to beforehand and smirk about my losses only to expect the righty from me when they turn up again. Disgusting and blatantly a false friend as I am a prime joke in this town for being kind-hearted . Thank you for the reassurance dear thoughtful and humaine wise ones.
I’ve had this all my life. I have an in-built radar for jealous people. It was imminent when I graduated. There is someone in the wings just now who is playing games and I have no idea why she would be jealous of me. But I now keep my distance.
For the wisdom of this world is foolishness with God. For it is written, " He catches the wise in their craftiness". That part Amen 🙏🙌🙌🙌🙌
Thank you for sharing
You’re right!
I lost my job few months ago because of my manager!
I was one of the top performers, have many years of experience and clients loved me so much.
This manager used to show me respect and recognizing me in the morning meetings, but after the meeting is finished, she becomes criticizing and unstable person towards me. She goes to my co-workers and criticizes me and my work.
I couldn’t figure out why she was doing that to me. I tried many times to ask her, but she always pretended that she wanted the best for me!
She turned the whole team against me and the higher level people in the corporate then they decided to let me go!
I'm sorry to hear about your experience. Sometimes challenges at work don’t reflect our true abilities, and it's important to keep believing in your own value. I hope you find a better and more supportive supportive work environment soon.
I CAN FEEL MEAN AND FAKE PEOPLE, I GET THIS BY BIRTH, BY DISLIKE THAT PERSON IF COME CLOSE TO ME, LIKE SOME EVIL COMING OUT OF THEM
When I'm out in public, I feel others energy more than I see details on their faces. I am left with their feelings more so than a visual impression. I tend to stay mostly to myself and have since I was a child.
Always watch people's Actions that will show you who they really Are FACT!! !!❤❤❤❤💯💯💯🙏🙏
Amen!! Facts
Had a few so called mates but did not trust them anyway and then I found out their true colours so I dumped them all, I know plenty of people but only bother with about 2… I got rid of the narcissistic people from my life.
Jealous and lies from people close to you are most dangerous. There is always someone who doesn't really appreciate the success of your life. Im so aware of this, but is always 💯 on guard 💂♂️ for these kinds. 😇🙏
I'm ready to embark on this journey
At least now I can differentiate between flattering and genuine compliments. So many people have taken advantage of my generosity but hate my achievements.
I am ready to embark on the journey 🌺
You got this!
In the Church is where it is Amen🙏🙏🙏
This is so true.
Everything what you are saying is absolutely true. I have two co-workers who are pretenders that they are nice to you, but when you’re not with them, they talk negatively behind your back. I just pray for them to the Lord, that God will touch their hearts and open their mind to stop judging others.
I am becoming and practicing Stoicism
Thank you for sharing all this. I am excited that i will be paying off my 60 month car loan off this December. Although my car has had major mechanical issues it is still cheaper than trading it in and getting another one. I will talk about my trivals with this car and most people state "get rid of it". I won't because I want no car payment even if it means putting money into this one. Plus i want to pay off other debt. Most people don't want you happy or to succeed. There are some co-workers that want you to succeed and others are misery loves company. A lot of times i dream out loud. I probably should be quieter. Thanks for reading.
It’s inspiring to see your dedication to financial independence, even through the challenges with your car. Stay focused your goals your perseverance will pay off.
I am ready to embark on this journey. I will listen to it too the end. Thanks
I received criticism from a credible source, and though it did not feel good to hear, I accepted it for it to help me focus on my changing some things and ways.
Choose your friends /inner circle wisely!!!! Especially if you are married. If you have a problem with your significant other talk with them directly. Jump in and get it settled before it becomes a big dragon you can not face! Some friends get too comfortable and think they can tell you what to do. Figure it out!! You know the answer you just may not want to address it😉🙏👍
I did it! The philosophy of comparison not for jealousy but for self improvement!🎉
When you put your life in Allah(God) hands, you don't have to worry about others. Trust in God, The Beneficent, The Most Merciful. ❤❤❤
U know the Bible has never mentioned Allah , no one not Abraham or anyone, He isn’t mentioned at all
Exactly trust God only
True
@debbiekling6065 The ones that gave us the Bible, didn't want any one know the truth about God's real name nor our real knowledge of self. So they stripped the Bible of truth and give us what they wanted. A white ruler that deceived the whole world.
Jesus is Lord.
Ask Jesus To Save You 🙏
Thanks for some very valuable information
Am ready to embark on the journey!❣️
Family is also some of the most jealous people in your life and for that one has to be twice as cautious and observant
Thanks!
This is practical advice useful in our daily lives
Thank you very much for supporting our channel, wish you a meaningful life, lots of joy.
I was taught that I could have anything and do anything. Jealousy was never taught or encouraged in my life. I was married to a male who was quite jealous and envious of my life💞💞...
High school was the worst teachers jealous of you...
Fake friends jealous of your children. I had a friend jealous because my boyfriend bought me a car. And then we moved and she didn't l I me that either. Some people hate to see Anyone have a happy life.
Very true about high school.
Thank you for this video! I’ve always considered myself a good judge of character, yet, after listening to this video, I realize how much I’ve been taken advantage of by the people (relatives) closest to me. It also made me realize my faults…I do not handle criticism well at all, probably because I was raised by negative criticism from my parents and older siblings. After listening to this video, I will work hard on trying to accept criticism, but only if it comes from a good place and not with the intention to hurt me.
KEEP DOING WHAT YOU'RE DOING IT'S REALLY GREAT 👍
Thank you so much 😀
Very good advise, because I trust without doubt. Always get hurt.
Thanks for the advice ❤
I love the videos they are very helpful. Thanks
I'm ready to embark upon the journey
I am not perfect but I evolve all the time please excuse my sudden outbursts I was receiving my critics rage but I am calm now turning the next page 📚
Ready To Observe Rightly.
Thank i need to see these People for who they are thank you for that lovely ❤
Sadly my mom and some family members were jealous of my success with me and my husband are beautiful home we bought the cars we drove are marriage etc. It was very hurtful when all I wanted to do was share all of it with them.
Sorry to hear that
So sorry to hear that. It's more painful when it's family 😢
Jealous people use sarcasm when talking to you and are delighted to see you upset. Hard to believe that your parents/siblings do not hesitate to get under your skin !!! I think this gives them pleasure.
Good suggestions. I find these people everywhere. God helps me. I have many people who are that way.
Have a nice day!