I think especially hum girls ko emotionally strong hona aur financially independent hona bhaut jaruri hai...marriage Sab kuch nahi hoti ye life ka ek part hoti hai..nice video 👍
Call me a pessimist and anti-love, but by viewing all of your videos, my faith in my belief that " No relationships no lafda" is reinstated. Chase goals, not girls/boys , peace out.
❤🎉 agree , however, as humans we are going to fall for humans some where some time in this journey on earth. Anubhav Ji's videos provides practical ways to tread upon .
Mere husband aise hee hey, controlling, insulting me like a maid, sasural wale all same, hamesha Nicha dikhate hey, baat nahi krte, bacho k liye ruki hu 😢
Seriously...meri life to aur khatam h....meri sadi ko two years complete hone wale h...wo kahi aur job krta h m kahi aur ... mujhe 1 year ka ek bachha bhi h...wo mere sath achhe se behave krta h...sb kuch thik h...but wo apne x k sath abhi bhi relationship me h ...wo ladki ka daily milna mere se har din bahane banana...m bolu to mujhe gharwalo k samne beizzat karna .. I don't know m kya karu....bolne pr bolta h saq krti h...aisi h waisi h...
Jb tk aurat khud earn nhi kregi tb tk mere sath bhi aisa hi h but keep calm and silently work on yourself and be strong mentally as well as economically .
Sir mere sath bhi yhi ho rha h mere husband ISI tarah se maarpeet karte rahte hain hamesha main is rishte se bahar nikalna chahti hun per kaise use samajh mein nahin a raha hai mummy papa ka munh dekhti aur sasur ka to Dil nahin karta is rishte ko khatm Karen lekin husband ke is Dil se Mera dam ghutata hai 1 second thanks sir aapko bahut bahut thanks aap ki vajah se bahut sari ladkiyan dard bhari jindagi se bahar nikal sakti hai ham log motivate hote hain aap ki video se himmat aati hai
Aap ko aj first time suna, kash ki pahle suna hota, 30 saal ki married life k baad pati se alag hone ka faisla kiya h. Life me shaq, abuses, mentally torcher sabhi kuch sahan kiya, aur bahut jyada charitraheen nikla, labourers aur maid tak se uske sex relation thhe. Ab toh range hathon pakda gaya hai. Uske parents tak baat nhi kar rhe. Lekin manie apni puri zindagi barbaad kar di. Bahut hi jyada regret hota h.koshish kar rhi hi apne aap ko sambhalne ki. Bachhon par bhi iska bahut effect hota h.
You are right narciss and negative people never change, they feel they have all power over others and what they do or say is right.no one is perfect so don't under estimate your self and give others to rule your life. Be strong emotionally and do not reply to what ever rubbish the other think or say about you.silence is the medicine for these type of people. Talk only when necessary since the person is from family. You may be talented only for the negative words you are feeling low. Be happy with in.❤️🙏
Same here.....but I have 2 male kid's because of that I m bearing him ......if I get job I will get out of this hell ......even my family knew everything.i don't have parents.....my younger brother and aunties are supporting me but my elder brother not saying anything just always he says adjust with him from past 10 years I m working as a teacher for my marriage 10 years completed but never he worked I m only earning ........ Because of health issue I left the job . .............he started beating me and my kids badly .......day by day it is effective my kids.......I did my B.com,M.com,MBA,and b.ed.12years of teaching experience in CBSE.but also I can't teach my husband......😏😒😔 And he is 10th pass it's a arrange marriage..... they didn't ask dowry because of that my mom married to him but after few days they started asking ......so I earned and gave to him but also his need increased.......oh God please save me from this hell.help me God
Thank you so much for understanding my situation but I should get job at present it is covod period so just waiting for good time.daily he pushing me out of house.my house owner grand maa she is 80 years. gave me 5000 to escape from this toxic relationship even she made calls to elder brother also he is Not giving response to her.but she told to all my aunties and relatives about him.she is women who is crying me and praying for me and my kids....
Sir I m 50 +. Abtak baccho ki khatir rehti thi .bacche bade hoke settle ho Gaye ab mai akeli reh gayi is k sath .hum bat nahi karte .0 relationship .khana banati hu bus aur kuch nahi. Ek gap sa ban gaya hai. Independent hone ka sochti rehti hu . Aapki video dekh k aur protsahan mila. Thanks
Koi Sudhar Jayega.. agar ye soch ke bathe ho toh bohot pachtawa hoga.. in case of over toxic relationship People never change, normal jealousy is a sing of love, but extreme jealously can destroy a relationship. There is no wrong in leaving someone who is toxic. Don't feel bad for them. Toxic people there to humiliate you at any cost, and try to control you with their own way. It is dangerous, so stay away from it. Don't be emotional.
U give very true practical advice ...recently I experienced toxic people which I never understood how negative they were with me ..u are doing a good job.
Maine chor diya ek had tk thik tha lekin baar baar nhi ar jb chora to dhokhebaaz ka tag mila ar av v hu uski najar me khud ke liye stand liya to dhokhebaaz bnn gyi
I also have same points like u.I leave my in laws house 3 years after toxicity of 20 years.It has a great impact on my mental health.But now I hv improved a lot .gaining confiy day by day.So I advice every victim to be plz take steps as early as possible .don't be late
Sir apka video suna,,,sunkar samajh aya ki me insab steps se gujar chuki hu aur ab finally seperate ho rahi hu,,mere husband shuru se hi mujhe abuse karte the aur bht mental torture karate the,,aur unhe samajhate samjhate har tarah se unke according change hone ki koshish karne ke baad bhe vo change nahi hua na unka behaviour change hua aur is sab me 10 years gujar gaye ,,,lekin ab finally me alag ho rahi hu unse,,par man me baar baar ata tha ki kya me sahi kar rahi hu,,par apka video sun ke lag raha he ki I am on the right track,,thx you sir,,for your valuable advice ,,kafi mind relax hua he apki baten sunkar,,,
I m suffering so much we got married 4 months back. And i m not happy with my life but i love tht person so much. I dnt want to hv this issues n want to be happy i hope god wl help me.
In the beginning of our relationship I was serious about him but he was lying to me about everything. He dated many other girls, this was 8 years ago, now we are a married couple, been married for 2 years and have a child, and I am also pregnant and now I know the truth. In the past he shared my pictures everywhere and spoke ill of me about my looks and my personality, it hurt me a lot, in the present situation my relationship is also not going well, there is lack of intimacy resulting in many disagreements. Even he doesn't care about me, he always regrets marrying me, what can I do?
My brother in law is doing mental torture to my sister since years..Even if my sister do all her household works efficiently he doesn't give respect to my sister and tortured her mentally, psychology by not eating by he hand,talking to her and disrespecting her family members.. My sister have 7 year old daughter and she is suffering so much by such environment..please give a suggestion Sir what to do??
Exactly yehi hua mere saath for 28 + years..Sab bardasht kiya bachchon ki wazah se. 3 yrs seperate bhi huye. But jab abhi bachche wapis laye, same wohi old treatment. Meri galti jo mai ab realise krti hun wo ye ki I never raised voice against all these bullshit neither told this to anyone. Fa8th tha ki one day he will realise...Thanks bro. I respect u a lot Anubhav bhai for right guidance🙏. God bless
मेने सबकुछ करके देख लिया है अब मै हार गयीं हु इग्नोर b बहुत किया उससे हालत ओर ज्यादा बिगड गए झगड़े k बाद हमेशा खुद hi बोली हु but वो कभी नहीं बोलता मुझसे 😥
Sar aaj 3 Saal ho chuke Hain , mere husband Ka bada Bhai , uski poori family k sath mujhe preshan kene m lga hua hai lekin mere husband ko koi fark nhi pdta in 3 saalon main Mene hr koshish krke Dekh li jitni bhi Apne btaain , 3saal pehle pehle unka bada Bhai mujhe Ghar se niklwa chuka 6 mhine main Apne maike rhi fir aa gai, tbse usne kasam kha rkkhi h preshan krne ki main Ghar main Kahi bhi baithu mere aas paas khada rehta hai jisse ki preshan ho kr main Apne kmre se baahar na niklu , or Apne husband se hr trah se keh chuki wo sirf silent treatment dete Hain ya mujhse hi ladne lgte Hain , main kya Kroon.. please reply sar
My husband do domestic violence..insecure yes goal kills unequal treatment .. humiliation..no financial help .. everything is there..from last six month.. finally now i came back to my parents..
Mera partner bahut jyada toxic aadmi h .......wo kuch nahi karta ur mere papa mera ghar banwaye mera poora kharcha chalate hai ur fir b wo har waqt muje niche girata h
I am a father of 19 month beby girl my wife always say me to divorce now i canot leave without my daugter what should i do my whole family went dipresson
Mera husbnd same yhi behave krta tha bahut insult or marta tha kisi se bat tk nhi krne deta tha galiya deta tha muje mere mayke tk ni jane deta tha bimar pad jaun toh kbhi doctor tk k pas nhi ley gya bas sb se kr main vopua agyi marpeet k bad mere parents ley aye muje ab case chlrha domestic violence ka ajtk muje lene nhi aya husbnd. He bat me bolta tha k teri galti hsab meri koi glti nhi.. Kbtk sehte hum agye ghar apne
Sir husband ne shadi ke 3month me hi marpeet ki hai bilkul bhi inasan no so bheaviour nhi krta yes ase hi rhta he apne jese btaya mere papa nhi bhai ne shadi ki bhai unki taraf se he koi nhi he mere sath isaliye o fayda utha rha hai
Meri sadi ko 14th year ho chuke hain kafi salon se ye sab jhel rahi hu par ab nahi ho raha hai Mere ghar bale bolten hain ki alag ho jaao hamesha ke liye kya aisa karna thik hoga
My husband behave as a controlled robot of his parents and sister. I am not independent right now but trying to do that. I have a son of 1 year. My husband doesn't care about me. Whatever he is doing for us is simply show of to the society that how caring he is. How to deal with them?
Same here, my inlaws are creating fights. Always speaking bad about me.Fed up can't tell to my parents. Sai baba if you exist please help.punish such people. Please tell what to do. Can't file complaint as parents Always tell to adjust.
My case is the same. Husband doesn't values or appreciate me. He tries to supress me by manipulating. Doesn't want me to do job just do house hold chores and take care of his family. Want to leave him and live happily but can't cz my 2 year daughter needs a father. Please help what should i do.
Same my condition.... I have 2 daughters they love there father... So alag nhi ho pa rhi.... Job karne nhi de rhe mai padhi likhi hu phir bhi meri 40 k ki job chudwa di unhone 😢
Haan love marriage me v hota hai aur mai yhi sb sehen kr rhi hun,hath uthata h aur thode smy baad pair pdke maafi maangta h mai maaf krti rhi aur uski himmt ab bdti ja rhi ,aur jaise jaise himmat bdh rhi waise waise marne ka trika v bdtr , ab brdast krne layk nhi soch rhi is zehrile rishte ko aur is zehrile aadmi ko hi ab lyf se dfa kr dun
@@cocwithlegendrohan09 your life is precious. Don’t waste it on others. If it doesn’t work. Move on. No need to life rest of your life in hell. Value yourself then only others will value you.
@@cocwithlegendrohan09 mai bhi aise hi raste pe fas gyi hu or nikalne ka koi rasta nhi dikh raha. Kosti hu us din ko jab mai mili thi is admi se. Shadi ke one n a half year ho gye hai or na jane kitni baar isne haiwaniyat dikhayi hai mujh par. Kamjor hu physically warna chhorti nhi. 😭😭😭😭bahaut rulaya hai isne mujhe..meri atma roti hai 😭😭Sab waade jhutthe the iske.
@@Homenature-z9u yar ye log aise kyu krte h Mai divorce le chuki ek husband se wo b bht torcher krta tha ki apni sunderta sbko dikhati firti h bht jyada negetive soch wala insan tha
As you mentioned toxic relationship is very difficult to live in, every thing is opposite and to bring down each other where as the purpose of marriage is grow happily and support each other at all the time in every responsibility of life. I personally feel one should know one's responsibility before getting married, other point is have a through check of the person and the family in arrange marriage and know the person well if going for love marriage.discuss the future plans and cross check back ground of the person.blind love and marriage Will lead towards a mess.
@@AnubhavJain sir meri saas nanand jhuth bolkar unhe shikhati rahti hain or hamara rishta khrab kar diya hai bilkul.but mai unke sath rahna chahti hun.par meri saas nanand muje bilkul nhi jeene deti kya krun.mere hi paise use karte hain or muje hi dukhi karte hain.
@@learnwithshubhra221are mere case me mere papa paise dete he mere kharche ke liye usko mere husband le lete he, jab sasural jati hun saas le leti he kuch bahana bana kar.. Humesha puchti rehti he meri saas teri papa ne kitne paise diye, account me kitna he... Taki wo use le sake kuch bahana banakar... Isiliye mere papa ne jo mujhe paisa dena chate he mere bete ke future ke liye fix deposit kardiya he
Sir , mere pati muze marte hai , dusre desh mai rahke gav vale vichar rakhte , voh pure mom s boy hai voh kisko nhi sunte, abhi bacchi hone ka bad bhi koi fayda nhi huva , apana hi chalte hai .. please sir solution batai kay kiya jaye
Jhoot dho type ke hote hai ek apne bechao kelea aur dusra samne wale ko berbad kerne ko.agar aap kisi ko bena metlab ka seval keroge to bechne ke liye jhoot bolega.dusra jhoot kheternak hota hai,jadha jhoot bole to use per visvas kerna gelet hoga.sache pyar mein jhoot nahi chahiye aur dono ko ek dusre pe visvas kerna chahea tebhi rishta aage khush rehega.❤️🙏
Sahi bol rahe ho bhai ji mere sath aisa hua hai ,mai alag bhi ho gyi par aaj bhi wo mujhe kisi na kisi tarh se pareshan kar rahe hai, kahte hai sukun se jine nhi dunga
Namaste Bhaiya ... mai 40 years ki hu aur 5 saal se depression me hu... aap samjh sakte hai ki sasural aur husband ka vyavhar acha nhi.. mayke me bhi aisa koi nhi.. beti sayani hai ghr chor k nhi ja sakti n alag ho sakti hu.... husband hmesha dominate karte hai. rishtedaro k saamne bejjati karte hai. akele ghumne jaana apni life khul k jeena unka kaam hai... mujhse n baat karna .. na paise dena... baccho ko paise ke bal par apne taraf karna aur mujhe har baat pe pagal ghosit karna.. mai bht ghtan me hu.... smjh nhi aata kya karu... 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Abhi apki life adhi bi nhi gyi h Apne liye jeena seekho khus rho or koi kam start kro Ghar se hi apni income nikalo or khud k liye invest kro to life hi alag nazar aaegi apko
Bhaiya ji apke bato se mujhe himmat mili aur mene mere husband ko warning dedi aur koi abusive language nehi sunungi bache ka future kharab hoga... Aur me silent ho gyi,, abhi unhe samajh me ane lagi he Maine kitna kuch saha he aur unki sirf bhala chahe aur hadse jyada pyar kiya he.... Wo samjhe ya na samjhe mujhe har hal me strong rehna he sasuraal balo ki buri bate aur husband ki abusive language nehi sahungi ....abb me khus rahungi apni tabiyat sahi karungi baas...
Sir relation khtm krne se kya hoga ladke ke liye asan hota h unki to dubara shadi ho jate h but humare society aise h divorcee ladki se koi shadi nh krta...esse acha divorce na lekar alag rahna jada sahi h....sir kya yh sahi dicision h plz btaye...
Bilkul sahi hain Lekin meri behan apko financially aur mentally unse free hona hoga aur apne ap ko strong kar na hoga ek baat aur .. mana hamari society dhikkar aur nafrat ke kabil hain jis jagah pe aurto ko samman nahi diya jata aur sare problems ke liye unhe hi guneh gaar man liya jata hain muje bahut gussa ata hain iss tarike ke ghatiya logo par kyu ki mai bhi ek pyari bahen ka bhai hoon lekin apko coin ke dusre side ko hhi dekh na hoga ki duniyaa me gar bure log hain to achhe log bhi hain mana ki kam hain lekin agar ap uss toxic relationship ko khatam kar ke age badh gye to ho sakta hain bhagvan ki krupa se apko koi achha ladka mil jaye. Ek bure experience se puri life ko kharab nahi karte meri bahen god bless you bhagvan hamesa achhe logo ke sath hote hain viswas rakho un par 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Bharat ka law insan budha ho jaega ya mr jaega agar law k share chala to law ko bi ulte trike se chlana pdta h bhai konse school se padhai ki h police sali insan k mrne k bad ati h phle nhi kisi ldki ko mara pita jata h police nhi ati agar whi ladki mar pitai k bad 1 private hospital m jakr doctor ko thode pse dekr jhuti report bnwa le or report kre police ka bap bi ata h sbut k samne kisi ko law na sikhae to acha h
@@jaatkhaap1687 ek baar maamla cort gya toh ladka dusra shaadi v nai kr sakta.. or tension v bna rahega us ladke ko.. Mene khud ek ladki ki support pe case karwaya h ladke pe.. aaj ladka job par v nai ja sak raha or na ghar na dusri shadi . Na hi thik se ji pa raha. Or 3 baar compromise k liye bola v.. but we r not ready.. 6 months ho gya 50k salary tha. 6 months se job pe nai gya.. 3 laakh gya + or v paise gya insab cheezo me uska... arrest warrant nikla h uspar... Wo kahte h na.. Jab ek ladka pe f.i.r. hota h na.. toh uska paisa se 100 logo ka ghar chalne lgta... Bahot hosiyaar samajh raha tha khud ko.. ab toh uska job v jaayega.. or jail v hoga...
Aap bilkul shi bol rhe h toxic relation aise hi h Mai to depression me ho gyi thi r bina glti k bs sasural walo ki wjh se r shi glt na dekhna bs blame krna h sv dwara..r sara kuch k liye husband responsible hota h kuch v kho asar nhi
Aapki advice bohot practical lagi. Thanks. Last wali line ki, apne partner ko pehle apna samjho ye sach me bahut jaruri hai. Koi v rishta so called toxic banne me kafi samay aur reasons involve hote hai. Apna samjhne se kai chijo ko dekhne ka perception badal jata hai. Aur shayad, ajkal kai shabdo ko kuch jyada hi hype de diya gaya hai especially emotions se jure shabdo ko. Problems utni hoti nahi hai par maan lete hai jyada. Ek punch line kahi se suna ya dekha aur turant apne life se jodkar faisla karne lag jate hai, jyadatar log. Anyway, aapke videos bohot to the point hote hai aur sochne ki gehrai dete hai.
Bhai humare case main to ghar wale bolte hai humara beta kabhi galat nahi ho sakta, vo hath uthata hai to galti tumhari hi hogi😂😂 lagta hai maa baap hi toxic hai to kya kare
Mai kya kru sir mai husband chahte h ki ooo jaise jaise bolte h mai jaise vaise kru ...mai bhut dukhi rhati hu jb b kisi tklif me rhati hu oo mera sath nhi dete bolte h nautnki kr rhi ho meri kisi tklif ko nhi smite mai bhut akela mahsus krti hu sb log laj se unke sath rhti hu .... Kya kru kuchh smj nhi aata ek bachi b h 3 sal ki
Anubhav ji aaj ki date me mostly boy aese hi apni apni krte hi.wife ka carrier se koi mtlb nahi hi.sirf cooking krna sewa krna bus yahi soch ke log ladhki se Saadi krte hi.ladhke wale to galat hote hue bhi kuch nahi samjh aata.wife ko paise bhi nahi dete kharche ke liye.
@@jaatkhaap1687 hissa kyun mange khud ke pairo pe khadhe krna chahiye parents ko khud ki property bnao.kyun maange parents se.unhone isliyye Paida Kiya ki unki respect Kare ki hissa maang KR dukhi kre.
@@jaatkhaap1687 hum in sab ke baare me nahi sochte.agar parents gareeb ho to Kya karoge rich person ki baatein bahot alag hi middle class se aur poor walo se rich Ghar ki ladhki mayke bhi AA jati hi rhti hi unko Paisa rhta hi khila bhi lete hi beti ko carrier bhi bna lete hi.marti hi sasural me to sirf poor middle class ki betiya.isliye ab middle class ki betiya rich betiyo se aage hi.jinke pass paise hi unko ferk nahi padhta ek divorce to dusra mil jata hi carrier bhi BN jata hi sab ho jata hi.
Ap sahi hai har kosis krne par bhi agr partner nahi sudhare to alag hona hi sahi hai...... Jiski fitarat hi ho toxic hona vo kabhi nahi sudhar sakta..... Chahe kuch bhi ho jaye
Bht Sahi topic pe bat Kiya h Apne..India especially Bihar Jaise jgeh me husband wife ladd kat k Marr jate h par divorce nhi Lete..chahe unke bacche pagal kyu na ho jae..wife chahti but Uske Ghar wale hone nhi dete aur pati v ye Seh nhi skta ki ek aurat USko chhor k Chale jae..aur bich me zndgi Bhar bacche ghutte rehte hain
Totally agreed bihar mein to divorce dekhne ko mil hi nhi..maR Jenge pitai kha lenge lekin chod k nhi jaenge......chahe Jann kyu na chLi Jae....is ka.main reason hI ladkia financially independent nhi h waha....
Thanks bhaiya aapne bhut acche se samjhaya. Mera relationship bi toxic h mein 19 yrs se maar pit mental torchur bardasht kar rhi hu .Ab mein bi decide kar paungi Thank you bhaiya
Thanks bhai aapki ye video dekhkar jo merr dimaag m chal rha tha apne is toxic relationship k baare m. Kaafi clear hua hai k mera kadam sahi disha me hai🙏
Sir suru se lekar end Tak ke sare symptoms mere sath ho rahe hai apki Puri video jese mere liye hi bani hai per kya karu financial problem hai aur perents bhi death ho chuke hai me kya karu bacho ke liye sehna padta hai
Main maar pitai galiyan SB sahti hoo.. lekin I have two daughters so main koi step ni le pa rhi hu...10 years ho gaye h marriage ko...aur parents alg hone ki bat Sunna v ni Chahte h....smjh ni ata kya kru....main boht disturb rhti hu.....
मेरी रिलेशन भी २० साल से यसै ही चलते आरही है,पिछले 1 साल से तो हमारी एक ही घर मै रहकर भी बातचीत टोटली बन्द है मेरे 1 बेटे है उसकी समाज के लिए घुटघुटकर जिरही हॅु,फिलहाल मैं लण्डन मै रह रही हॅु मेरी उम्र भी 40 साल की हो चुकी हॅु पता नही क्या करूॅ ? पति की पहेली वाईफ और बेटी होकर भी मुझे unmarried कहेके झुट बोल्कर सादी किया था उससे डिबोर्स हो चुकी है ! अभि दुसरी young ladki को पैसा भेजते हॅुए मैने सवुत पकडली तो बोल्ता है मै तुम्से 1,2,3, नही रहॅुगा 😢 ईस situation मै क्या करूॅ? मै तो पूरी डिप्रेसन मा हुॅ 😢😢🙏
Sir...apni family ko kaise samjhaye ki hum kya chahte hai..humari bhi kuch self respect hai...unke liye sab kuch karne ke baad bhi vo humein apna nahi samjhte...aur unki baatein hurt hoti hai.. apne parents ko kaise convience kare ki vo humari saari baatein maane aur humari baaton ko sune..ye bhi ek intresting topic hai .
Hello sir mai aapse baat karna chahti hu personally...mai bahut paresan hu kuch samjh nahi aa raha hai...mere husband yk alcoholic hain..drink karne ke bad mar pit gali ye sab karten hain..kabhi kabhi to kai kai din ghar nahi aaten..mujhe kya karna chahiye
Yadi aap boy ho to kabhi divorce ke chakkar mai mat pad jana zindagi jhand ho jayegi .. Behter he ki partner ko ghar mai he kirayedaar kar do .. 50% property to jayegi he or job pe or ban aayegi Ager Tum sochte ho ki tumhe justice milega then rip your thoughts on Indian judiciary 🙏
My husband loves me but he is very extreme short temper he fights for no reason he hits me his 60 yr mom his married sister he hits my son my very disappointed . I dont know what to do i have 12 yr son so iam adjusting he tells me that he dont have interest on me he want to end the marriage after he cools he become normal iam very scare to leave with him pls reply what should i do. He dont leave me to go also. Pls reply
Sir mere HB sirf apne maa bap or sister ko value dete h sirf . meri koi baat ka mahtv nhi dete h.mai kya kru mere pas job nhi h or mere mayke wle utne schhm nhi h hme rkh ske .mai padhi likhi hu or meri sadi ko 26 months hui h or 13 months ka ek beta v h mai kya kru sach me jivn jine ka mnn nhi krta h kya kru kaha jau kuchh smjh nhi aata h kafi tilk deke sadi kiye the meri maa bap ne
Kuch kuch bate hai jo mere shat ho rha hai kya karu jo bol rhe hai vo bhi kar chuki hu ab kya karu ek baby bhi hai jo ek month se bhi kam ka hai lekin koi khayal rkhne vala nahi hai sab kuch akele karna padta hai
Ar wo 4 saal se lagataar ho rha ho to kya kre chorna behtar h main4 saal se uske sth thi limit ke bahar chla gya issiliye main alg ho gyi usne apni galtiyo ko sudharne ki jgh dhokhebaaz ka tag de diya
I think especially hum girls ko emotionally strong hona aur financially independent hona bhaut jaruri hai...marriage Sab kuch nahi hoti ye life ka ek part hoti hai..nice video 👍
Aishwarya singh ... right
Aap 💯 true he
Emotionally soecially kamana to phir bhi ho jaata ye dil kamjor rehna ..bahut bhugtna padta
Aishwarya jine sahi kaha sab kuch karo bt culture bhi siko n give respect to other n never become egotistic n be calm 🙏👍 pese ko sar par na chadne do
@@bhaveshvyas3306 ye kab kaha unhone bhai🤣🤣
Call me a pessimist and anti-love, but by viewing all of your videos, my faith in my belief that " No relationships no lafda" is reinstated. Chase goals, not girls/boys , peace out.
u are on right track
True
But what do after getting goal???
❤🎉 agree , however, as humans we are going to fall for humans some where some time in this journey on earth.
Anubhav Ji's videos provides practical ways to tread upon .
Jab pyar mohabbat aur sex karne ka man karega tab kya karoge ya karegi ? Jagda hone ke bad bhi log sex karte hai .bcoz they know it's necessary.
Mere husband aise hee hey, controlling, insulting me like a maid, sasural wale all same, hamesha Nicha dikhate hey, baat nahi krte, bacho k liye ruki hu 😢
Counselling and treatment karvao...to acha ho jayega
Same
Same
Mere bhi same h ab wakt h isse logo sane insult orr nicha dikha kr hi hosh me laya ja skta h jb tek inn per jordar war nahi hoga sudhne wale nahi
Best trika h beti ka future me meri tarah din katne ko mile to kaisa ho ga baar baar se swal apne husband se pucho
I think before marriage,,,,, counseling should be mandatory for both male and female. Also believe both should be within their own limits.
Pahleto to mai iss video pe itne sawal aur problem comments dekhke hi hairan hu....sach me Aaj kal shadi naam ke sanstha se hi vishwas uthgaya hai..
Seriously...meri life to aur khatam h....meri sadi ko two years complete hone wale h...wo kahi aur job krta h m kahi aur ... mujhe 1 year ka ek bachha bhi h...wo mere sath achhe se behave krta h...sb kuch thik h...but wo apne x k sath abhi bhi relationship me h ...wo ladki ka daily milna mere se har din bahane banana...m bolu to mujhe gharwalo k samne beizzat karna .. I don't know m kya karu....bolne pr bolta h saq krti h...aisi h waisi h...
Tum tb tk achhi ho jb tk sah rahi ho jb awaz utha dogi tumse bura koi nhi...pta nhi kb tk chalega ye sb
Jb tk aurat khud earn nhi kregi tb tk mere sath bhi aisa hi h but keep calm and silently work on yourself and be strong mentally as well as economically .
Sir mere sath bhi yhi ho rha h mere husband ISI tarah se maarpeet karte rahte hain hamesha main is rishte se bahar nikalna chahti hun per kaise use samajh mein nahin a raha hai mummy papa ka munh dekhti aur sasur ka to Dil nahin karta is rishte ko khatm Karen lekin husband ke is Dil se Mera dam ghutata hai 1 second thanks sir aapko bahut bahut thanks aap ki vajah se bahut sari ladkiyan dard bhari jindagi se bahar nikal sakti hai ham log motivate hote hain aap ki video se himmat aati hai
Same
Same here iam educated but still I get pain daily
Aap ko aj first time suna, kash ki pahle suna hota, 30 saal ki married life k baad pati se alag hone ka faisla kiya h. Life me shaq, abuses, mentally torcher sabhi kuch sahan kiya, aur bahut jyada charitraheen nikla, labourers aur maid tak se uske sex relation thhe. Ab toh range hathon pakda gaya hai. Uske parents tak baat nhi kar rhe. Lekin manie apni puri zindagi barbaad kar di. Bahut hi jyada regret hota h.koshish kar rhi hi apne aap ko sambhalne ki. Bachhon par bhi iska bahut effect hota h.
M bhi ab thk chuki hu..
Same condition 😢😢
God bless you
Negative people never accept. He shouts at me. He is perfectionist and I am not. I am weak. Nowhere to go.
You are right narciss and negative people never change, they feel they have all power over others and what they do or say is right.no one is perfect so don't under estimate your self and give others to rule your life. Be strong emotionally and do not reply to what ever rubbish the other think or say about you.silence is the medicine for these type of people. Talk only when necessary since the person is from family. You may be talented only for the negative words you are feeling low. Be happy with in.❤️🙏
Same with me
Same here.....but I have 2 male kid's because of that I m bearing him ......if I get job I will get out of this hell ......even my family knew everything.i don't have parents.....my younger brother and aunties are supporting me but my elder brother not saying anything just always he says adjust with him from past 10 years I m working as a teacher for my marriage 10 years completed but never he worked I m only earning ........ Because of health issue I left the job . .............he started beating me and my kids badly .......day by day it is effective my kids.......I did my B.com,M.com,MBA,and b.ed.12years of teaching experience in CBSE.but also I can't teach my husband......😏😒😔 And he is 10th pass it's a arrange marriage..... they didn't ask dowry because of that my mom married to him but after few days they started asking ......so I earned and gave to him but also his need increased.......oh God please save me from this hell.help me God
@@pushparanikrish8557
Run. Don't waste your time. Don't regret. You are a teacher. Happiness is more important.
Thank you so much for understanding my situation but I should get job at present it is covod period so just waiting for good time.daily he pushing me out of house.my house owner grand maa she is 80 years. gave me 5000 to escape from this toxic relationship even she made calls to elder brother also he is Not giving response to her.but she told to all my aunties and relatives about him.she is women who is crying me and praying for me and my kids....
Sir I m 50 +. Abtak baccho ki khatir rehti thi .bacche bade hoke settle ho Gaye ab mai akeli reh gayi is k sath .hum bat nahi karte .0 relationship .khana banati hu bus aur kuch nahi. Ek gap sa ban gaya hai. Independent hone ka sochti rehti hu . Aapki video dekh k aur protsahan mila. Thanks
Koi Sudhar Jayega.. agar ye soch ke bathe ho toh bohot pachtawa hoga.. in case of over toxic relationship
People never change, normal jealousy is a sing of love, but extreme jealously can destroy a relationship.
There is no wrong in leaving someone who is toxic. Don't feel bad for them.
Toxic people there to humiliate you at any cost, and try to control you with their own way. It is dangerous, so stay away from it.
Don't be emotional.
Sahi baat
i am in a same situation
aapne koi faisla liya kya alg hogye?
U give very true practical advice ...recently I experienced toxic people which I never understood how negative they were with me ..u are doing a good job.
Maine chor diya ek had tk thik tha lekin baar baar nhi ar jb chora to dhokhebaaz ka tag mila ar av v hu uski najar me khud ke liye stand liya to dhokhebaaz bnn gyi
Counseling before marriage is required nowadays.
Is level ki maturity sabhi me aa jaye to duniya badal jaye...dhanya hain aap sir🙏
Anubhav Ko Pranam!!! In a way you are guiding helpless parents also to help their daughter.....Thank you...
God bless you :)
I also have same points like u.I leave my in laws house 3 years after toxicity of 20 years.It has a great impact on my mental health.But now I hv improved a lot .gaining confiy day by day.So I advice every victim to be plz take steps as early as possible .don't be late
Still tolerating after 22 yrs of marriage not able to take decision
What abt kids if we r not independent
Sushila ji I am tolerating my inlaws toxic behavior. My inlaws are always speaking bad about me .Feel like leaving him.But can't come into action.
20 sal se sah rahi hu
Koi rasta nahin hai
Plz help me too
Sir apka video suna,,,sunkar samajh aya ki me insab steps se gujar chuki hu aur ab finally seperate ho rahi hu,,mere husband shuru se hi mujhe abuse karte the aur bht mental torture karate the,,aur unhe samajhate samjhate har tarah se unke according change hone ki koshish karne ke baad bhe vo change nahi hua na unka behaviour change hua aur is sab me 10 years gujar gaye ,,,lekin ab finally me alag ho rahi hu unse,,par man me baar baar ata tha ki kya me sahi kar rahi hu,,par apka video sun ke lag raha he ki I am on the right track,,thx you sir,,for your valuable advice ,,kafi mind relax hua he apki baten sunkar,,,
Can you talk to me mai b apne husband se talak chahti hu😓😓 bht problem me hu meri insta id poo2660 hai msg kro dear
Aap thik kr rahi hai, mind mein koi second thought mat laye. Aapko future mein apne decision pr proud hi hoga.
Aab aap kaise ho
दिल की गहराइयों से धन्यवाद गुरु जी🙏
God bless you bhai :)
@abhinav Jain
I m suffering so much we got married 4 months back. And i m not happy with my life but i love tht person so much. I dnt want to hv this issues n want to be happy i hope god wl help me.
Jo insaan 50 saal tk nhi samjha usko kon samjha sakta hai
In the beginning of our relationship I was serious about him but he was lying to me about everything. He dated many other girls, this was 8 years ago, now we are a married couple, been married for 2 years and have a child, and I am also pregnant and now I know the truth. In the past he shared my pictures everywhere and spoke ill of me about my looks and my personality, it hurt me a lot, in the present situation my relationship is also not going well, there is lack of intimacy resulting in many disagreements. Even he doesn't care about me, he always regrets marrying me, what can I do?
Silence silence silence silence is louder than words learning more thanks knowledge reach global wise wisdoms gods gifts
My brother in law is doing mental torture to my sister since years..Even if my sister do all her household works efficiently he doesn't give respect to my sister and tortured her mentally, psychology by not eating by he hand,talking to her and disrespecting her family members.. My sister have 7 year old daughter and she is suffering so much by such environment..please give a suggestion Sir what to do??
Exactly yehi hua mere saath for 28 + years..Sab bardasht kiya bachchon ki wazah se. 3 yrs seperate bhi huye. But jab abhi bachche wapis laye, same wohi old treatment. Meri galti jo mai ab realise krti hun wo ye ki I never raised voice against all these bullshit neither told this to anyone. Fa8th tha ki one day he will realise...Thanks bro. I respect u a lot Anubhav bhai for right guidance🙏. God bless
Very nice and truthful advice Thanks sir
Mere husband aise hi hai jaise aap bol rhe ho, jaise lgta hai aap mere hi bare me bol rhe ho, mai kya karu Plz btaiye bhaiya 🙏🙏
मेने सबकुछ करके देख लिया है अब मै हार गयीं हु इग्नोर b बहुत किया उससे हालत ओर ज्यादा बिगड गए झगड़े k बाद हमेशा खुद hi बोली हु but वो कभी नहीं बोलता मुझसे 😥
Meri wife k sath bhi yahi prb hai
Mere. Husband. Bhi. Janvar. Jese. He
Kisi toxic life partner ky saat rhny sae bhtrr hae bnnda aekla rhy ..best option hae...no tension, depression
Sar aaj 3 Saal ho chuke Hain , mere husband Ka bada Bhai , uski poori family k sath mujhe preshan kene m lga hua hai lekin mere husband ko koi fark nhi pdta in 3 saalon main Mene hr koshish krke Dekh li jitni bhi Apne btaain , 3saal pehle pehle unka bada Bhai mujhe Ghar se niklwa chuka 6 mhine main Apne maike rhi fir aa gai, tbse usne kasam kha rkkhi h preshan krne ki main Ghar main Kahi bhi baithu mere aas paas khada rehta hai jisse ki preshan ho kr main Apne kmre se baahar na niklu , or Apne husband se hr trah se keh chuki wo sirf silent treatment dete Hain ya mujhse hi ladne lgte Hain , main kya Kroon.. please reply sar
My husband do domestic violence..insecure yes goal kills unequal treatment .. humiliation..no financial help .. everything is there..from last six month.. finally now i came back to my parents..
Apke parents bahut achhey..mera to maayeke me koi support nhi ..boltey h samaj,,ijjt etc
@@nehaawasthi7680 very sad kha se belong krte ho ap..nd kitna time ho gya marriage ko
Same situation here. I came back to my parents after 1.5 years 😓
@@sanghatidas3616 really sad..abi to dobara se trust krne me v dar lgta h in logo pr..stay strong dear.. jb tak life ha up down rhega
Exactly 😔
Mera partner bahut jyada toxic aadmi h .......wo kuch nahi karta ur mere papa mera ghar banwaye mera poora kharcha chalate hai ur fir b wo har waqt muje niche girata h
Jiski jo basic nature ho wo nahi badlti ..jo insaan apne aap ko bhagwaan samjhta ho ..use samjhana mushkil h ..
Bhai 1dm dil ki baat bol rahe aap aise mere sath karte mere husband
Thank you sir meri same problem hai is video Ko banane k liye thank you. Ye mere liye bahut bahut jyada helpful hai
Aap use semjane ki kosis kro tbhi bhi nhi manta to thode din gr pr jake dekh lo fir bhi nhi manta to aap thode din alg rh kee dekh lo
I am a father of 19 month beby girl my wife always say me to divorce now i canot leave without my daugter what should i do my whole family went dipresson
Mera husbnd same yhi behave krta tha bahut insult or marta tha kisi se bat tk nhi krne deta tha galiya deta tha muje mere mayke tk ni jane deta tha bimar pad jaun toh kbhi doctor tk k pas nhi ley gya bas sb se kr main vopua agyi marpeet k bad mere parents ley aye muje ab case chlrha domestic violence ka ajtk muje lene nhi aya husbnd. He bat me bolta tha k teri galti hsab meri koi glti nhi.. Kbtk sehte hum agye ghar apne
Sir husband ne shadi ke 3month me hi marpeet ki hai bilkul bhi inasan no so bheaviour nhi krta yes ase hi rhta he apne jese btaya mere papa nhi bhai ne shadi ki bhai unki taraf se he koi nhi he mere sath isaliye o fayda utha rha hai
Yes now i want to think about divorce..my baby is 4 month old.and m also worry about his mental health..
Meri sadi ko 14th year ho chuke hain kafi salon se ye sab jhel rahi hu par ab nahi ho raha hai
Mere ghar bale bolten hain ki alag ho jaao hamesha ke liye kya aisa karna thik hoga
Mam 14 sal bad alag hona thik nhi h km se km ek chat or Khana to time pr mil jata h alag hokr muskil ho jaegi or duniya mze Legi bejti kregi
My husband behave as a controlled robot of his parents and sister. I am not independent right now but trying to do that. I have a son of 1 year. My husband doesn't care about me. Whatever he is doing for us is simply show of to the society that how caring he is. How to deal with them?
@@minakshik9865 thank you for your kind opinion
Same here feeling sister I have a son of 2 year
Try to be independent that's the things husband are scared of once you are independent
@@minakshik9865 it's impossible ....aadmi apni habits or ego mar kar bhi nahi chor sakta
Same here, my inlaws are creating fights. Always speaking bad about me.Fed up can't tell to my parents. Sai baba if you exist please help.punish such people.
Please tell what to do. Can't file complaint as parents Always tell to adjust.
My case is the same. Husband doesn't values or appreciate me. He tries to supress me by manipulating. Doesn't want me to do job just do house hold chores and take care of his family. Want to leave him and live happily but can't cz my 2 year daughter needs a father. Please help what should i do.
Same my condition.... I have 2 daughters they love there father... So alag nhi ho pa rhi.... Job karne nhi de rhe mai padhi likhi hu phir bhi meri 40 k ki job chudwa di unhone 😢
even love marriages suffer from toxicity. this marriage seems to last even less than a month
Haan love marriage me v hota hai aur mai yhi sb sehen kr rhi hun,hath uthata h aur thode smy baad pair pdke maafi maangta h mai maaf krti rhi aur uski himmt ab bdti ja rhi ,aur jaise jaise himmat bdh rhi waise waise marne ka trika v bdtr , ab brdast krne layk nhi soch rhi is zehrile rishte ko aur is zehrile aadmi ko hi ab lyf se dfa kr dun
@@cocwithlegendrohan09 your life is precious. Don’t waste it on others. If it doesn’t work. Move on. No need to life rest of your life in hell. Value yourself then only others will value you.
@@cocwithlegendrohan09 kaise karengi aap ye
@@cocwithlegendrohan09 mai bhi aise hi raste pe fas gyi hu or nikalne ka koi rasta nhi dikh raha. Kosti hu us din ko jab mai mili thi is admi se. Shadi ke one n a half year ho gye hai or na jane kitni baar isne haiwaniyat dikhayi hai mujh par. Kamjor hu physically warna chhorti nhi. 😭😭😭😭bahaut rulaya hai isne mujhe..meri atma roti hai 😭😭Sab waade jhutthe the iske.
@@Homenature-z9u yar ye log aise kyu krte h Mai divorce le chuki ek husband se wo b bht torcher krta tha ki apni sunderta sbko dikhati firti h bht jyada negetive soch wala insan tha
Sir aap bhut sahi aur saaf baat karte koi aisa itna clear nahi batata maa baap bhi nahi 🙏
As you mentioned toxic relationship is very difficult to live in, every thing is opposite and to bring down each other where as the purpose of marriage is grow happily and support each other at all the time in every responsibility of life. I personally feel one should know one's responsibility before getting married, other point is have a through check of the person and the family in arrange marriage and know the person well if going for love marriage.discuss the future plans and cross check back ground of the person.blind love and marriage Will lead towards a mess.
Absolutely right
@@AnubhavJain Thank you Sir for your ❤️ and ⭐
@@AnubhavJain sir meri saas nanand jhuth bolkar unhe shikhati rahti hain or hamara rishta khrab kar diya hai bilkul.but mai unke sath rahna chahti hun.par meri saas nanand muje bilkul nhi jeene deti kya krun.mere hi paise use karte hain or muje hi dukhi karte hain.
@@sumitkumari2488 mere hi paise ? What do you mean ?
@@learnwithshubhra221are mere case me mere papa paise dete he mere kharche ke liye usko mere husband le lete he, jab sasural jati hun saas le leti he kuch bahana bana kar.. Humesha puchti rehti he meri saas teri papa ne kitne paise diye, account me kitna he... Taki wo use le sake kuch bahana banakar... Isiliye mere papa ne jo mujhe paisa dena chate he mere bete ke future ke liye fix deposit kardiya he
Sir , mere pati muze marte hai , dusre desh mai rahke gav vale vichar rakhte , voh pure mom s boy hai voh kisko nhi sunte, abhi bacchi hone ka bad bhi koi fayda nhi huva , apana hi chalte hai .. please sir solution batai kay kiya jaye
Sir jhuth bolne wale log to bht jyada khatrnaak hote h aise partner jo mrji alligation lga dete h
Same here
Same situation bahar bhi nhi nikal pa rahi
Jhoot dho type ke hote hai ek apne bechao kelea aur dusra samne wale ko berbad kerne ko.agar aap kisi ko bena metlab ka seval keroge to bechne ke liye jhoot bolega.dusra jhoot kheternak hota hai,jadha jhoot bole to use per visvas kerna gelet hoga.sache pyar mein jhoot nahi chahiye aur dono ko ek dusre pe visvas kerna chahea tebhi rishta aage khush rehega.❤️🙏
Same here ...juthe partner ko jitni jayada ijjat do wo itna hi torchur karta h😭😭😭😭
@@Anjali-rd1we bilkul sahi baat...
Sahi bol rahe ho bhai ji mere sath aisa hua hai ,mai alag bhi ho gyi par aaj bhi wo mujhe kisi na kisi tarh se pareshan kar rahe hai, kahte hai sukun se jine nhi dunga
Namaste Bhaiya ... mai 40 years ki hu aur 5 saal se depression me hu... aap samjh sakte hai ki sasural aur husband ka vyavhar acha nhi.. mayke me bhi aisa koi nhi.. beti sayani hai ghr chor k nhi ja sakti n alag ho sakti hu.... husband hmesha dominate karte hai. rishtedaro k saamne bejjati karte hai. akele ghumne jaana apni life khul k jeena unka kaam hai... mujhse n baat karna .. na paise dena... baccho ko paise ke bal par apne
taraf karna aur mujhe har baat pe pagal ghosit karna.. mai bht ghtan me hu.... smjh nhi aata kya karu... 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Aap tnsn mat lo aap ek bar Guru ji se bat kro wo aap ki help jarur karenge aap tnsn mat lo aap ki jo bhi problem ho guru ji solution kr skte hai
Abhi apki life adhi bi nhi gyi h Apne liye jeena seekho khus rho or koi kam start kro Ghar se hi apni income nikalo or khud k liye invest kro to life hi alag nazar aaegi apko
Bacho ko samjhao or unki harkat dikhao bache hi sudhar skte h ab unko
Talak le lo sab se achha solution
Bhaiya ji apke bato se mujhe himmat mili aur mene mere husband ko warning dedi aur koi abusive language nehi sunungi bache ka future kharab hoga... Aur me silent ho gyi,, abhi unhe samajh me ane lagi he Maine kitna kuch saha he aur unki sirf bhala chahe aur hadse jyada pyar kiya he.... Wo samjhe ya na samjhe mujhe har hal me strong rehna he sasuraal balo ki buri bate aur husband ki abusive language nehi sahungi ....abb me khus rahungi apni tabiyat sahi karungi baas...
Every advice ur giving is very up to the point.God bless u
25 years ho gaye sir toxic relations m ab kya karen
Sir relation khtm krne se kya hoga ladke ke liye asan hota h unki to dubara shadi ho jate h but humare society aise h divorcee ladki se koi shadi nh krta...esse acha divorce na lekar alag rahna jada sahi h....sir kya yh sahi dicision h plz btaye...
Mam shi bola apne kbhi talak na do usi k ghar m rho pr usko pti manna chod do agar ulti harkat kre to illegal action lo
Bilkul sahi hain Lekin meri behan apko financially aur mentally unse free hona hoga aur apne ap ko strong kar na hoga ek baat aur .. mana hamari society dhikkar aur nafrat ke kabil hain jis jagah pe aurto ko samman nahi diya jata aur sare problems ke liye unhe hi guneh gaar man liya jata hain muje bahut gussa ata hain iss tarike ke ghatiya logo par kyu ki mai bhi ek pyari bahen ka bhai hoon lekin apko coin ke dusre side ko hhi dekh na hoga ki duniyaa me gar bure log hain to achhe log bhi hain mana ki kam hain lekin agar ap uss toxic relationship ko khatam kar ke age badh gye to ho sakta hain bhagvan ki krupa se apko koi achha ladka mil jaye. Ek bure experience se puri life ko kharab nahi karte meri bahen god bless you bhagvan hamesa achhe logo ke sath hote hain viswas rakho un par 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Shadi ke 1 year 3 months ke baad aap apne husband ki 50% property ki hissedaar bn jati .. aisa hi kuch h law me..
Bharat ka law insan budha ho jaega ya mr jaega agar law k share chala to law ko bi ulte trike se chlana pdta h bhai konse school se padhai ki h police sali insan k mrne k bad ati h phle nhi kisi ldki ko mara pita jata h police nhi ati agar whi ladki mar pitai k bad 1 private hospital m jakr doctor ko thode pse dekr jhuti report bnwa le or report kre police ka bap bi ata h sbut k samne kisi ko law na sikhae to acha h
@@jaatkhaap1687 ek baar maamla cort gya toh ladka dusra shaadi v nai kr sakta.. or tension v bna rahega us ladke ko..
Mene khud ek ladki ki support pe case karwaya h ladke pe.. aaj ladka job par v nai ja sak raha or na ghar na dusri shadi . Na hi thik se ji pa raha. Or 3 baar compromise k liye bola v.. but we r not ready..
6 months ho gya 50k salary tha. 6 months se job pe nai gya.. 3 laakh gya + or v paise gya insab cheezo me uska... arrest warrant nikla h uspar...
Wo kahte h na..
Jab ek ladka pe f.i.r. hota h na.. toh uska paisa se 100 logo ka ghar chalne lgta...
Bahot hosiyaar samajh raha tha khud ko.. ab toh uska job v jaayega.. or jail v hoga...
Aap bilkul shi bol rhe h toxic relation aise hi h Mai to depression me ho gyi thi r bina glti k bs sasural walo ki wjh se r shi glt na dekhna bs blame krna h sv dwara..r sara kuch k liye husband responsible hota h kuch v kho asar nhi
Sir bache bich me aa jate h agr alag hone ki soche to bacho ki life khrab ho jaygi yhi soch rhe h na koi job h na koi finally secur h to kya kre batao
Thanks bhaiya mujhe aapki baate sunkr jindagi ko jeene ka hosla milta h m aapki video ko dekh kr bhut motivate hoti hu
Main bhi
Aapki advice bohot practical lagi. Thanks. Last wali line ki, apne partner ko pehle apna samjho ye sach me bahut jaruri hai. Koi v rishta so called toxic banne me kafi samay aur reasons involve hote hai. Apna samjhne se kai chijo ko dekhne ka perception badal jata hai. Aur shayad, ajkal kai shabdo ko kuch jyada hi hype de diya gaya hai especially emotions se jure shabdo ko. Problems utni hoti nahi hai par maan lete hai jyada. Ek punch line kahi se suna ya dekha aur turant apne life se jodkar faisla karne lag jate hai, jyadatar log. Anyway, aapke videos bohot to the point hote hai aur sochne ki gehrai dete hai.
Absolutely correct sir ji 🙏🙏
Sir mera pati mujse baat hi nahi karte or na hi mujse koi matlb nahi rakhte h m kya karu please bataye
I'm married and I'm living in a toxic relationship.. I'm tired of it now..
I'm filling like suicide 😞😓😣
Same here.
Don’t do that live for urself
Same here
Same feel
Bahot upyogi hi yeh bate husband wife ke liye
Bhai humare case main to ghar wale bolte hai humara beta kabhi galat nahi ho sakta, vo hath uthata hai to galti tumhari hi hogi😂😂 lagta hai maa baap hi toxic hai to kya kare
Hath uthane ka haq bilkul Mt do kisi ko muh se bole thik
Bilkul sahi
Mere in-laws b aise hi h
Apna beta kbi galat lgta hi ni
Ulta aur bhadkate h
Uske Ghrwale involve hoke or zada toxicity bdhate h
😢😢same dear be strong
Mai kya kru sir mai husband chahte h ki ooo jaise jaise bolte h mai jaise vaise kru ...mai bhut dukhi rhati hu jb b kisi tklif me rhati hu oo mera sath nhi dete bolte h nautnki kr rhi ho meri kisi tklif ko nhi smite mai bhut akela mahsus krti hu sb log laj se unke sath rhti hu .... Kya kru kuchh smj nhi aata ek bachi b h 3 sal ki
आप दिलसे समजाते हो सर Thank you sir🙏
mashaAllah so good to listen all this from a Hindu
Woman can give divorce in islam but not in Hinduism
Anubhav ji aaj ki date me mostly boy aese hi apni apni krte hi.wife ka carrier se koi mtlb nahi hi.sirf cooking krna sewa krna bus yahi soch ke log ladhki se Saadi krte hi.ladhke wale to galat hote hue bhi kuch nahi samjh aata.wife ko paise bhi nahi dete kharche ke liye.
@@jaatkhaap1687 hissa kyun mange khud ke pairo pe khadhe krna chahiye parents ko khud ki property bnao.kyun maange parents se.unhone isliyye Paida Kiya ki unki respect Kare ki hissa maang KR dukhi kre.
@@jaatkhaap1687 hum in sab ke baare me nahi sochte.agar parents gareeb ho to Kya karoge rich person ki baatein bahot alag hi middle class se aur poor walo se rich Ghar ki ladhki mayke bhi AA jati hi rhti hi unko Paisa rhta hi khila bhi lete hi beti ko carrier bhi bna lete hi.marti hi sasural me to sirf poor middle class ki betiya.isliye ab middle class ki betiya rich betiyo se aage hi.jinke pass paise hi unko ferk nahi padhta ek divorce to dusra mil jata hi carrier bhi BN jata hi sab ho jata hi.
Ap sahi hai har kosis krne par bhi agr partner nahi sudhare to alag hona hi sahi hai...... Jiski fitarat hi ho toxic hona vo kabhi nahi sudhar sakta..... Chahe kuch bhi ho jaye
Alag hone k liye phle tayar hona pdta h akele kuch kr bi lege ya nhi
Bht Sahi topic pe bat Kiya h Apne..India especially Bihar Jaise jgeh me husband wife ladd kat k Marr jate h par divorce nhi Lete..chahe unke bacche pagal kyu na ho jae..wife chahti but Uske Ghar wale hone nhi dete aur pati v ye Seh nhi skta ki ek aurat USko chhor k Chale jae..aur bich me zndgi Bhar bacche ghutte rehte hain
Anginat message pad chuka hun logon ke is baat par, jine se man hat jaata hai logon kaa, dheere dheere badlaav laana padega
Totally agreed bihar mein to divorce dekhne ko mil hi nhi..maR Jenge pitai kha lenge lekin chod k nhi jaenge......chahe Jann kyu na chLi Jae....is ka.main reason hI ladkia financially independent nhi h waha....
No body is toxic, understand and counseling
Thanks bhaiya aapne bhut acche se samjhaya. Mera relationship bi toxic h mein 19 yrs se maar pit mental torchur bardasht kar rhi hu .Ab mein bi decide kar paungi
Thank you bhaiya
God bless you :)
Mera to har rishta toxic h Kya kre
Aapko bot Pele he Kisi samjdaar ko involve Karna tha and warning dilwaani thi sehan Kia 19 Saal why but..
Thanks bhai aapki ye video dekhkar jo merr dimaag m chal rha tha apne is toxic relationship k baare m. Kaafi clear hua hai k mera kadam sahi disha me hai🙏
Thnqu thnqu so much bhiya .ye video meri liye bhut helpfull ha ...😊🥀
God bless you :)
Sir suru se lekar end Tak ke sare symptoms mere sath ho rahe hai apki Puri video jese mere liye hi bani hai per kya karu financial problem hai aur perents bhi death ho chuke hai me kya karu bacho ke liye sehna padta hai
toxic relationship me aik baat common hoti he...dono me se aik partner chutiya hota he usko samjhana namumkin hota he
Main maar pitai galiyan SB sahti hoo.. lekin I have two daughters so main koi step ni le pa rhi hu...10 years ho gaye h marriage ko...aur parents alg hone ki bat Sunna v ni Chahte h....smjh ni ata kya kru....main boht disturb rhti hu.....
SIR Thanks for clearing my doubts, at which stage a relation could be called and TOXIC, Many man thanx for such a gread video with full confidence
मेरी रिलेशन भी २० साल से यसै ही चलते आरही है,पिछले 1 साल से तो हमारी एक ही घर मै रहकर भी बातचीत टोटली बन्द है मेरे 1 बेटे है उसकी समाज के लिए घुटघुटकर जिरही हॅु,फिलहाल मैं लण्डन मै रह रही हॅु मेरी उम्र भी 40 साल की हो चुकी हॅु पता नही क्या करूॅ ?
पति की पहेली वाईफ और बेटी होकर भी मुझे unmarried कहेके झुट बोल्कर सादी किया था उससे डिबोर्स हो चुकी है !
अभि दुसरी young ladki को पैसा भेजते हॅुए मैने सवुत पकडली तो बोल्ता है मै तुम्से 1,2,3, नही रहॅुगा 😢 ईस situation मै क्या करूॅ?
मै तो पूरी डिप्रेसन मा हुॅ 😢😢🙏
Thank you Sir for your most valuable advice ! Thank you for sharing it.
Sir me bhi ye sab karke dek chuki khu ab aage kay karu samaj nahi aaraha he sir plz guide me
Sir aaram se bat krne pr chilane lge or Hume hi Galt btaye toh phir kya kre
Hii
Partner baithke kuch bhat hi nahi karana chahta to baat sulzaye kaise?
@@nehajoshi1607 gm
@@nehajoshi1607 same my problem
Same mere sath b sweety mam aisa hota hai
55 ki age me bhi yahi paresani ho tab kya kare plese bataiye
Sir...apni family ko kaise samjhaye ki hum kya chahte hai..humari bhi kuch self respect hai...unke liye sab kuch karne ke baad bhi vo humein apna nahi samjhte...aur unki baatein hurt hoti hai.. apne parents ko kaise convience kare ki vo humari saari baatein maane aur humari baaton ko sune..ye bhi ek intresting topic hai .
How can I take personal acvice about this from you? Please reply ...I need help
Sir how to convince my parents for love marriage actually I haven't courage to tell about him to my parents ..
Mere frnd ne kiya 10saal ka relation tha..shaadi ke two saal main divorce
Sir bhagvan apko hamesha khush rakhe.
Meri love marriage he but aj meri condition itni khrab he physicaly and mentally .. me kya kru plz help me
Very helpful video sir .ur right. 🙏🙏
Hello sir mai aapse baat karna chahti hu personally...mai bahut paresan hu kuch samjh nahi aa raha hai...mere husband yk alcoholic hain..drink karne ke bad mar pit gali ye sab karten hain..kabhi kabhi to kai kai din ghar nahi aaten..mujhe kya karna chahiye
Unko samjhao nhi man rhe to dwai khilao unko NSA chodne Ka injection lgva do
Yadi aap boy ho to kabhi divorce ke chakkar mai mat pad jana zindagi jhand ho jayegi ..
Behter he ki partner ko ghar mai he kirayedaar kar do ..
50% property to jayegi he or job pe or ban aayegi
Ager Tum sochte ho ki tumhe justice milega then rip your thoughts on Indian judiciary 🙏
Very good video anubhav jii bilkul yi sb sitiution mere sath re rahi kafi time s or so thankxxxxxxxxxxxx apko esi advice ke liye.
Sir agar family walo ke samne maan jaye and baad mein kahe ki main nhi manta.Iske alawa legal things ko nhi mane toh kya kare
My husband loves me but he is very extreme short temper he fights for no reason he hits me his 60 yr mom his married sister he hits my son my very disappointed . I dont know what to do i have 12 yr son so iam adjusting he tells me that he dont have interest on me he want to end the marriage after he cools he become normal iam very scare to leave with him pls reply what should i do. He dont leave me to go also. Pls reply
Anubhav sir aap ka ye bat samjane ka tarika bahot jaldi samaj me aa jata he 😌🤩
Sir mere HB sirf apne maa bap or sister ko value dete h sirf . meri koi baat ka mahtv nhi dete h.mai kya kru mere pas job nhi h or mere mayke wle utne schhm nhi h hme rkh ske .mai padhi likhi hu or meri sadi ko 26 months hui h or 13 months ka ek beta v h mai kya kru sach me jivn jine ka mnn nhi krta h kya kru kaha jau kuchh smjh nhi aata h kafi tilk deke sadi kiye the meri maa bap ne
Thank you so much sir 🌹🌹🙏🙏
Sir If we want to discuss our matter so that we can take right step. Where and how we can connect with you
Thank you Sir for your valuable information about the toxic relationship.
Mujhe per dyan nahi dete
आपकी बातो से भोत लोग सही रासता चुन पा रहे हे मे तो रोज सुनती हु मेरी हर टेनसन आपकी बाते सुनकर खतम हो जाती हे थैकयु जी
God bless you :)
Great speech 🙏 covered root cause 👍
Aap bahut Achcha samjhe Aate Hain Aap Ki Baat sunke Himmat milati hai thanks
Kuch kuch bate hai jo mere shat ho rha hai kya karu jo bol rhe hai vo bhi kar chuki hu ab kya karu ek baby bhi hai jo ek month se bhi kam ka hai lekin koi khayal rkhne vala nahi hai sab kuch akele karna padta hai
Filhal ghar walo ka support lo jb bacha thoda bda ho jae to khud ka koi kam dekho
Sir in playlist we should have Life hacks category where we could add this kind of videos.
Slowly I am creating playlists, I recently added one about death of a loved one.
Ar wo 4 saal se lagataar ho rha ho to kya kre chorna behtar h main4 saal se uske sth thi limit ke bahar chla gya issiliye main alg ho gyi usne apni galtiyo ko sudharne ki jgh dhokhebaaz ka tag de diya
Nyc🙏🏻🙏🏻