अहंकार करना भी आवश्यक है ......... जब बातें चरित्र सम्मान और अधिकार पर आ जाए ...... कभी कभी जीवन में ऐसी स्थिति आ जाती है पर आपके वीडियोस मन को बहुत राहत देते हैं .धन्यवाद जी...........
मेरे साथ ऐसा रिश्ता 20 साल तक चला।साथ चलने की असफल कोशिश में मैंने अपने आप को ही खो दिया । सौ प्रतिशत सहने के बाद भी कोई कद्र नहीं हुई ,ऊपर से सौ इल्जाम भी लगाए गए। पैसा, शरीर ,पूरा ध्यान लगाया।अपनी हर इच्छा का गला घोंटा, पर न समझी की हद ने सब बरबाद कर दिया।
बहुत motivational speaker सिर्फ काल्पनिक बाते करके कहानी बनाकर बोलता है जो कि reallife का हिस्सा नहीं होता और आपका हर एक वीडियो real life से जुड़ा रहाता है, थैंक्स you
I had to leave marriage of 3 years bcoz of this personality disorder...in 2-3 meetings you can't analyse the narcissism. Narcissistic are trained in hiding there manipulative behaviour
But if the person is aware about narcissism, then he/ she can see red flags in first few meetings... I feel sorry that you must have been blamed for divorce n you must be facing smear campaigns & harmed reputation.. but finally you have a reason to be happy that you are free & can start your life with a normal person...
@@NS-id7ff yes learning comes from experiences... It's been 4 yrs of separation.... The special quality of narcissistic is they can't even let u go easily.... Stretched divorce cases etc
I lost myself because of this personality disorder . Face chronic dippresion & get all type of abuses like sexual and physical or imotional ..I am in therapy from one year ..and my family members asking for results from therapy . They have no idea I was completely dead inside
Pr aise log shanti chahte hi kahan h. Ye to samne wale ko dabane ke liye poora tamasha krte h. Rishtedaron , friends sab me bus aim h ki bahu ya biwi pr poora control rhe ,dara kr besti kr ke ya jo b Krna pade.
Nice speech 👏👏 I'm a victim of narcissist person...got married and suffered a lot of emotional and physical abuse....not able to maintain a relationship...he never ever listened and understood what he did is wrong...he never ever asks sorry for his guilty act...then got divorce with him within a year... now living peacefully
नाम के अनुसार अनुभव सर आपकी अनुभव शक्ति बहुत ही अच्छी है ।इतने अच्छे से समझना और समझाना जैसे की ये सब आपके साथ हुई हो क्या गजब है आपके अनुभव।थैंक्यू सर
Kyuki log jaan buj kr jina haram krte h Suicide krne tk ko mjbur kr dete h Ek family me rehkr aalg nhi ho paty Problem bahut face krni pdti h Ek family member ki wajh se hum other family members ke samne bure ban jaty h Vo insan itna mjbur kr deta h ki koi rasta nzr nhi aata or depressed kr deta h Dimag pr bahut gehra asar hota h in sbka
Yes sir, i have been through it for 25 years and for a girl its the most horrific thing to experience with everyday being a nightmare. The sad part is..you are not only a victim at home but also a kind of double victimisation occurs facing everyone around you who have no idea what you are going through.Please make more such videos about all the traits of narcissistic person as it is the most misunderstood topic in today's world.Thank you so much for making such vedios.😊
Aap sahi bol rhe ho.. Husbbd ka yhi haal tha mujhe bat bat pr galiya dena, marna peetna, gulamo ki zindgi jeerhi thi kisi se bat na karne dena.. Apni harbat manvana . Majbur hokar hamein alag hona pda mayke agyi hu or case chlrha h ab yhi hal meri choti bhabhi mere sath krrhi h bhai ko sikhati hain or ladayi krati hain ab main kahan jaun kya karu 6sal hogye mmy k pas rhte huey sb thik tha but last year bhai ki shadi k bad se ghar me bari bar jhagda hota h. Kl bhi bahut kalesh hua kahan jaun apna koi ghar nhi h .. Na job hain
Your greatness can't explain in words, you are giving a "SANJEEVANI BOOTI" to every listener to drink this world's poison and be a real hero to fight every problem about this life,you are a real guide who is shownig a respectful way to everyone
मैं आप की बात से इतनी सुधर सकती हुं यकिन ही नहीं होता है मुझे,सर आप इसी तरह के विडियो बनाते रहीए ताकि सारे लोग सही रास्ते पर आ सके thank you so much sir
Narcissists are super sweet in the beginning of the relationship. .but once they take you in their grip, they show their true colours. .esp.after marriage. .thats why its very important to identify the red flags when they become abusive. .n not get attached to them emotionally. .think logically n run miles away from them before they ruin your life. .these ppl are very manipulative and never change. .no contact with them is the best solution to save yourself. .
Most narcissist won't act sweet, because they have superiority complex, they won't try to lure people. Manipulators, maybe psychopaths or any common person. The problem is, we don't spend enough time with people, and hence, the real personality becomes visible later.
Yes you are right bhaiyaa. .psychopaths and sociopaths do such things. .even i have endured a lot of abuse and violence from my husband n in laws. . .n now i hve left them for good. .self love n being mentally strong is extremely important as you always ask us to do. . .thank u so mch fr always inspiring us🙏❤️
Sir I am facing the same problem but can't make emotional distance due to daughters future I know all the things but tolerating He doesn't think for himself that he is a psychic person He insults me every day But I can't break this relationship Each and every sentence said by you fits hundred percent in my life, how do you come to know all about such people I salute you
इस प्रॉब्लम को इतने अच्छे तरीके से समझाने और इससे निबटने का तरीका बताने के लिए बहुत-बहुत धन्यवाद ।इतने काम की बातें और इतने अच्छे ढंग से बताई हैं आपने वाकई इससे बहुत फर्क पड़ता है बंदे में सुधार हो या ना हो लेकिन खुद में कॉन्फिडेंस तो बढ़ता है और मेंटल टेंशन इतनी ज्यादा नहीं होती।
Aapne bhaut sahi kaha narcissist people se emotionally distance maintain kar lena chaye chae woh apke loved one hi kyun naa..this video is really very helpful for me...thank you so much..😔🙏🙏🙏💛
Sir, yeh sari qualities mere ex me thi. Before I was not aware of such qualities, but when I realized it I was tried to keep with safe distance from him & set my own boundaries. After seeing all these, he left me...😊😊 & after that, now I am also set him free for ever... 🤗🤗
This video actually helps a lot of people around the world, those who actually deals with them. Very important & helpful video.. Bhaiya aapka bahut bahut Sukriya... 🙏🙏
There is always a turning point in everyone's life when, we get to realise that, which is good/ which is not good for us. We have to accept the things the way they are... & one thing we must keep in our mind that, keep believing in ourselves...
Sir maine acchi tarah se jhela ha Yeh 2020 ki August ma, aise logon ko change karna bahut muskil hai. Psychiatrist k pass le jane k bare ma bolne se mujhe hi psycho sabit karne ma lag gaye thay, to maine apna boundaries set kar liya tha, 1 hi ghar ma Rehte hai lekin ma koi react nehi karti hu, aur aaj apka ye video dekh rahi Hu, sab kuch sahi sahi bol rahe Ho. Ma khud change ho gayi hu. . .
Toxic relations which are mentally torturing us over the years need to be isolated.and separated to remain psychologically heathy in our life.otherwise we waste our life in fighting with each other but on the other hand we start to think that what people will say if we are separated?..but finally we need to take firm decision by neglecting opinions of others..Remember our life belongs to us only not for others
Apne hi khoon ke Rishtedar.Apne hi sage Sambhandi Dushman Hote Hain.jo Harbar Kisi na kisi tarah se hamari Tarakki Nahi Chahte.Aur Ham Doosare Caste Religion ko Dosh Dete Rahte Hain. This is the biggest mistake which we have been doing over the years
This video will be most beneficial for students category those who are willing to pursue their dream, career and job. And also those who have willing to fulfil their core desires
My friend is a covert narcissist. I have distanced myself from her. Earlier, I used to share my problems with her, I never got the relief, instead my condition always worsened. It was important for my mental peace!
Anubhavji mai apne maa baap ka eklauta beta hu.... But shadi hone k baad mujhe kuch reason se alag rehna pad rha hai... Mai rent k flat m rehta hu.. 11 saal ho gaye... 2 ghar hoker bhi aaj besahara rehta hu... Aaj mere paas job bhi nahi hai... Lekin mai har mushkil ka samna ker raha hu... Aur aaj apke videos dekh k aur himmat badh gayi hai...
We live in an era where innocence and maturity is considered weakness. People take you for granted when you give them too many chances. No matter what You should never compromise with your self respect . I once slapped a guy twice (Eventhough I am not proud of it). He and his family were constantly taking advantages of my family. They once disrespected my father which I couldn't tolerate.Humein aksar apni image ki fikar rehti hai jiski wajha se hum apne liye bhi stand nahi lete. Apne liye stand lene ke baad bhi hume sharm si mehsoos Hoti hai ke humne aisa kyu kiya.. par ek moment aisa ata hai jab aap ko khud se kehna chahiye ki enough is enough. Chaploos aur manipulative logon ke sath rehne se acha hai aap akele jiyein, shanti ke sath.
This is so crisp and clear , no nonsense advice.as I said the reality of life is this, which we all need to face .hope I get strength to handle ,as strong as you are. 🙏🏻
NPD Narcissistic personality disorder व्यक्ति का पता लगाना मुश्किल है क्योंकि उन मे immature,inflated and maturity के मिक्स लक्षण पाए जाते हैं। हमारे भीतर भी कुछ कुछ ऐसे ही लक्षण होते हैं। केवल उन्हे वही व्यक्ति डील कर सकता है जो सच में सात्विक यानी कि mature हो। सात्विक व्यक्ति को NPD का कोई फर्क नहीं पड़ता।❤❤
I am actually thinking of getting separate from my parents as their behaviour suffocating me but at the same they are playing such a mind game that somehow i am getting caught in their emotions and causing loss tp me...but now i will speak with them and act which gives me peace of mind.... thank you sir
Meri first marrige kafi hinshak thi marna aur hamari jimmedari n lena.but ab mai apni 2 betiyo ke sath akele apne ghar rahti hu magar past pichha nahi chhor raha .kya mujhe life me dobar secend chance Dena chahiye ya nahi
Aaj mujhe laga k mujhe kisi apne ne samjhaya h mai depression me ja chuki hu meri mother narcissistic h or sbse buri baat ye h k mothers are known for their unconditional love no one understands my problem they say k tumhe bss aisa lgta h
Even I realised the toxic behavior of my mother led me to be under confident and person with low self esteem and also sensitive. I'll be following Anubhav bhaiya's advice now.
Sir ऐसा एक इंसान मेरे ससुर जी हे जो अपने आगे किसीको कुछ नहीं समझते। रोज छोटी छोटी बातों को लेकर कड़वी बाते सुनाते रहते हैं और गन्दी गालियां भी देते रहते की सामने बाला इंसान डर कर रो रो कर आत्महत्या कर ले। इसलिए जब मुझे कुछ समझ मै नही आया तो बस में उनसे बात करना बंद कर दी और दूर रहने लगी। Thanku for sharing this information मुझे इसकी बहुत जरूरत थी।🙏
Sir jo narcissists k saath humko deal karne mein problem aati hai vo generally hamare parents ya siblings hi hote hai. Kyuki agar koi friend ya bahar ka Insaan ho toh uss se toh deal ho jata hai araam se, hum usko chhod bhi sakte hai, unko bevkoof bhi bna sakte hai, so it's easy. But the main problem is when our own family members get diagnosed with it. So family se deal karne mein bahut zyaada hard banna padta hai, and it really hits very hard when your own family is narcissist
Thnx sir. Mei aapka ey video dekhi mei 24saal sy apne husband ke saath ey sb problem jhel hu. Abhi bhi wahi hal hy apni galti ko manty hi nhi hy. Mei depression mi chali gi. Wo mujhy pagal bolna suru kr diye.. En 24 saal mi bahut trah ki galti kr chuke mei apni aakho sy dekhi pr bolty hy ha karunga. Ab eska kya jawab de. Aaj aapki video mujhy sahi rasta dekhaya.
Abhi kuchh din pehle me kafi preshan thi puri trh se tut chuki thi sara din youtube pr videos dekhti thi ki thoda khush reh pau pr aisa kuchh bhi nhi hua fir jb aapki videos dekhi unhe smjha to mn ko shanti mili or dovara jeene ki aik ummeed fir se jagi he thnku so much bhai
my mother is like this ..unko vo kbhi galat lagti hi nhi hai ..hamari baat nhi hoti aapas me ..mahino ho gye bt kiye hue nahi koi v emotional support milta hai unse ..jinki maa hi aisi ho vo log kya kare is chij ko lekar ?? It's very hard to explain ki kya bitti hai ..baar baar is chij ko leke anxiety , depression mn karta hai ji kyu rahi hu isse better to mar jati to hi behtar hota
Im soo sorry yar...parents aise ho to phir life bhot difficult ho jati hai.. tumhare parents ki vjah se me maafi mangta hu tumse...dekho vo to change nai hone wali...kya pta 10saal baad change ho jaye ya realise krjaye ki kya galat krdiya....bt tum utna wait nai kr skti....apni padai par focus kro aur job lekr nikal jao vha se....financial stability le aayo agar unko aana hoga to vo aajayegi.
Aap pranayam Kiya kijiye.hum akele aaye hi akele jayenge.hum apne aapko change KR sakte hi lekin jinko feel hi n ho ki ek mother hun Mai unko Kya karoge.isliye khush raho carrier me focus Karo khud se pyar Karo.
Hello bhaiya. I come from a very toxic family. Whenever my brother and mother see me perform well in college or look better than them, they start abusing, gossiping and conspiring against me. My father too treats me as an outlet of his frustration and abuses badly even when I am studying . I even warned them of a complaint against their behaviour. Still no change. What should I do bhaiya so depressed , cannot even focus on studies and wasted so many opportunities due to losing my motivation because of this violence.
Ignore them..focus on your study which will make your future life and set you free from these toxic family members. Complete your study. Be financially independent and then marry a good person and then live your life as you want and teach them a lesson too. Till then ignore them and focus on your study. Its theit weakness, their nwgativity, their fault not yours so don't toruture yourself. Dont give remOTE of your life and happiness to them that whenever they want they can hurt you. No! You must be happy because you choose to be happy. because after all its your life. Everyone comes alone in this world and leaves alone.
Please gather confidence n meet someone from women's commission.. don't file a complaint but ask women's commission to counsel your family... they will arrange a private meeting of your family n unko samjhayenge... ek list bana lo k kaise kaise tang karte hain & sabkuch detail mei batana unhe...if possible, record the abusive language secretly to show it as an evidence as they all can gang up against you n will prove you wrong there...
Don't worry,my life was exactly that.U never stop hard working.One day ur life will be full of happiness.But now I m a teacher,a loving husband n cute daughter.But always maintain distance from that.
अहंकार करना भी आवश्यक है .........
जब बातें चरित्र सम्मान और अधिकार पर आ जाए ......
कभी कभी जीवन में ऐसी स्थिति आ जाती है पर आपके वीडियोस मन को बहुत राहत देते हैं .धन्यवाद जी...........
Ahankar aur swabhiman ,ye dono bhaav ek jaise hi mehsoos hote hain,lekin dono mein bahut bada antar hai,ahankaar kbhi nhi Krna chahiye aur swabhiman kbhi nhi chorna chahiye
जिन्दगी में अगर बुरा वकत नही आता तो अपनों में छुपे हुए गैर और गैरों में छुपे हुए अपनों का कभी पता ना लगता✍️✍️✍️👍👍😊😊😊
Correct
Aapne ye Baat Bilkul Thik Kah Rahe Ho
धन्यवाद आफको सर जी बहुत अच्छा लागा आफकी सल्लाह सुझाव के लिये मे नेपाल से
Yes
Ha di ye to h
मेरे साथ ऐसा रिश्ता 20 साल तक चला।साथ चलने की असफल कोशिश में मैंने अपने आप को ही खो दिया ।
सौ प्रतिशत सहने के बाद भी कोई कद्र नहीं हुई ,ऊपर से सौ इल्जाम भी लगाए गए। पैसा, शरीर ,पूरा ध्यान लगाया।अपनी हर इच्छा का गला घोंटा, पर न समझी की हद ने सब बरबाद कर दिया।
Hi plz reply
😢😢
मै तो हर दिशा से हर कोने से बर्वाद हो चुका हूँ।
बहुत motivational speaker सिर्फ काल्पनिक बाते करके कहानी बनाकर बोलता है जो कि reallife का हिस्सा नहीं होता
और आपका हर एक वीडियो real life से जुड़ा रहाता है, थैंक्स you
Yes inka hr video bhut good hota h
I had to leave marriage of 3 years bcoz of this personality disorder...in 2-3 meetings you can't analyse the narcissism. Narcissistic are trained in hiding there manipulative behaviour
But if the person is aware about narcissism, then he/ she can see red flags in first few meetings... I feel sorry that you must have been blamed for divorce n you must be facing smear campaigns & harmed reputation.. but finally you have a reason to be happy that you are free & can start your life with a normal person...
@@NS-id7ff yes learning comes from experiences... It's been 4 yrs of separation.... The special quality of narcissistic is they can't even let u go easily.... Stretched divorce cases etc
Hi
I lost myself because of this personality disorder . Face chronic dippresion & get all type of abuses like sexual and physical or imotional ..I am in therapy from one year ..and my family members asking for results from therapy . They have no idea I was completely dead inside
@@apnizindgi8395 therapy is essential when you leave a narc person
💚रिश्ते अगर सचमुच नासूर बन जाएँ तो शाँति से अलग हो जाने में ही भलाई है -----
Yeh sachhayi hain ranjeet .. Rishte kbhi kbhi ghaav etna dete hain jo kbhi nhi bharta .
Same here😭😭😭😭😭
Also rishton ko jhodna hi samajhdaari hai
@@unsheladcyberninja5066 right
Pr aise log shanti chahte hi kahan h. Ye to samne wale ko dabane ke liye poora tamasha krte h. Rishtedaron , friends sab me bus aim h ki bahu ya biwi pr poora control rhe ,dara kr besti kr ke ya jo b Krna pade.
Nice speech 👏👏
I'm a victim of narcissist person...got married and suffered a lot of emotional and physical abuse....not able to maintain a relationship...he never ever listened and understood what he did is wrong...he never ever asks sorry for his guilty act...then got divorce with him within a year...
now living peacefully
Same here ,lived that kind of husband for 14 years Ieft him 2 years back with my son and planning to divorce him
Mai apni wife se v pareshan hu
@@rubyanand3367hi reply me
Good decision taken in time!
नाम के अनुसार अनुभव सर आपकी अनुभव शक्ति बहुत ही अच्छी है ।इतने अच्छे से समझना और समझाना जैसे की ये सब आपके साथ हुई हो क्या गजब है आपके अनुभव।थैंक्यू सर
Sir..bhut dino se isi topic ka wait kar rha tha .love you 😘
Kyuki log jaan buj kr jina haram krte h
Suicide krne tk ko mjbur kr dete h
Ek family me rehkr aalg nhi ho paty
Problem bahut face krni pdti h
Ek family member ki wajh se hum other family members ke samne bure ban jaty h
Vo insan itna mjbur kr deta h ki koi rasta nzr nhi aata or depressed kr deta h
Dimag pr bahut gehra asar hota h in sbka
👍🏻😔
Sir please apna number bhejiye mujhe baat karni hai🙏🙏
@@suchitragiri320 r u in trouble?
मुझे लगता था ये सब सिर्फ मेरे साथ ही हो रहा है यहां तो सबकी यही कहानी है
Meri bhi yehi kahani hai
Sir aisa laga ye video mere liye hi bana h😭😭 thank u so so much 🙏🌹🙏🌹 apke sare point yaad rakhungi
Yes sir, i have been through it for 25 years and for a girl its the most horrific thing to experience with everyday being a nightmare. The sad part is..you are not only a victim at home but also a kind of double victimisation occurs facing everyone around you who have no idea what you are going through.Please make more such videos about all the traits of narcissistic person as it is the most misunderstood topic in today's world.Thank you so much for making such vedios.😊
Same here, you aren't alone sweta
Same here...please share how you have deal with them so that I can also work on those things.
Narcissistic ke sath empath person hi fas jata hai.set boundaries,hve self respect stay away,become psycopath tbhi aise log hath me ayenge
True
Exactly
Right.... 👍
Sahi baat! On point
Aap sahi bol rhe ho.. Husbbd ka yhi haal tha mujhe bat bat pr galiya dena, marna peetna, gulamo ki zindgi jeerhi thi kisi se bat na karne dena.. Apni harbat manvana . Majbur hokar hamein alag hona pda mayke agyi hu or case chlrha h ab yhi hal meri choti bhabhi mere sath krrhi h bhai ko sikhati hain or ladayi krati hain ab main kahan jaun kya karu 6sal hogye mmy k pas rhte huey sb thik tha but last year bhai ki shadi k bad se ghar me bari bar jhagda hota h. Kl bhi bahut kalesh hua kahan jaun apna koi ghar nhi h .. Na job hain
That is what, I was searching this video from year's and year's Thanks a lot sir. ❤️❤️❤️🙏
God bless you bhai :)
@@AnubhavJain aapne mere husband ke baare mein mjhey samjhaya....uske liye biht boht dhanyavaad brother
@@unsheladcyberninja5066 same condition wwith me.
@@sushmitasingh7763 ye mere liye bhi hey bahot kaam aaya
Your greatness can't explain in words, you are giving a "SANJEEVANI BOOTI" to every listener to drink this world's poison and be a real hero to fight every problem about this life,you are a real guide who is shownig a respectful way to everyone
मैं आप की बात से इतनी सुधर सकती हुं यकिन ही नहीं होता है मुझे,सर आप इसी तरह के विडियो बनाते रहीए ताकि सारे लोग सही रास्ते पर आ सके thank you so much sir
Banata rahunga :)
6:45 to 7:00 Aapne ek great life lesson Diya hai logon ko Jo main khud follow karta hoon aur baaki sabko bhi Karna chahiye
kya kam karte ho aap
Narcissists are super sweet in the beginning of the relationship. .but once they take you in their grip, they show their true colours. .esp.after marriage. .thats why its very important to identify the red flags when they become abusive. .n not get attached to them emotionally. .think logically n run miles away from them before they ruin your life. .these ppl are very manipulative and never change. .no contact with them is the best solution to save yourself. .
Most narcissist won't act sweet, because they have superiority complex, they won't try to lure people. Manipulators, maybe psychopaths or any common person. The problem is, we don't spend enough time with people, and hence, the real personality becomes visible later.
Yes you are right bhaiyaa. .psychopaths and sociopaths do such things. .even i have endured a lot of abuse and violence from my husband n in laws. . .n now i hve left them for good. .self love n being mentally strong is extremely important as you always ask us to do. . .thank u so mch fr always inspiring us🙏❤️
@@sanchm9931 I wish lots of strength and happiness for you. God bless you :)
You are absolutely right
True
Sir I am facing the same problem but can't make emotional distance due to daughters future I know all the things but tolerating
He doesn't think for himself that he is a psychic person
He insults me every day
But I can't break this relationship
Each and every sentence said by you fits hundred percent in my life, how do you come to know all about such people
I salute you
इस प्रॉब्लम को इतने अच्छे तरीके से समझाने और इससे निबटने का तरीका बताने के लिए बहुत-बहुत धन्यवाद ।इतने काम की बातें और इतने अच्छे ढंग से बताई हैं आपने वाकई इससे बहुत फर्क पड़ता है बंदे में सुधार हो या ना हो लेकिन खुद में कॉन्फिडेंस तो बढ़ता है और मेंटल टेंशन इतनी ज्यादा नहीं होती।
Thank you, God bless you :)
थैंक्स डॉट नेट
Yes right
San mai cala gaya hai to Kay kare
Sir mai bahut paresan hu.chhe din tik rahte hai or fir iganor karte hai.hamari gade ki vaje 17 sal ka ladka dipare San cala gaya hai to Kay kare
जूनून होना चाहिए कामयाबी के लिए सोच तो हरकोई लेता है👈👈✍️✍️👍👍
Aapka ghtiya logo se paala nhi pda
@@saurabhnair8529 par apne patti ki ejat karna glt nhi tha , par osne mujhe nhi smjha
@@saurabhnair8529 jarur
sir , aap ki baat bahut hi use full aayi " jo ik Baar dhokha deta hai vo Baar dhokha dega"
Aapne bhaut sahi kaha narcissist people se emotionally distance maintain kar lena chaye chae woh apke loved one hi kyun naa..this video is really very helpful for me...thank you so much..😔🙏🙏🙏💛
Sir, you r absolutely right, such people should b dealt differently and smartly, otherwise they will make our lives hell.
Sir, yeh sari qualities mere ex me thi. Before I was not aware of such qualities, but when I realized it I was tried to keep with safe distance from him & set my own boundaries. After seeing all these, he left me...😊😊 & after that, now I am also set him free for ever... 🤗🤗
This video actually helps a lot of people around the world, those who actually deals with them. Very important & helpful video.. Bhaiya aapka bahut bahut Sukriya... 🙏🙏
Very good dear.
Very good 👍 action and intelligent decision now'Ur Life is safe 👍💐
Same here but i already have tried all these things and finally left him by making me very strong and hard
There is always a turning point in everyone's life when, we get to realise that, which is good/ which is not good for us. We have to accept the things the way they are... & one thing we must keep in our mind that, keep believing in ourselves...
Aapki kahi bat bhut hi knowledgeable hai.Bhaiya aap humare icon ho.🙏
Thank you :)
Kon kon apni lyf m dukhi h, before marriage, after marriage,like kro mujhe
Me abhi 6 years se diworce huaa he aaj
Sir maine acchi tarah se jhela ha Yeh 2020 ki August ma, aise logon ko change karna bahut muskil hai. Psychiatrist k pass le jane k bare ma bolne se mujhe hi psycho sabit karne ma lag gaye thay, to maine apna boundaries set kar liya tha, 1 hi ghar ma Rehte hai lekin ma koi react nehi karti hu, aur aaj apka ye video dekh rahi Hu, sab kuch sahi sahi bol rahe Ho. Ma khud change ho gayi hu. . .
I also same live
Toxic relations which are mentally torturing us over the years need to be isolated.and separated to remain psychologically heathy in our life.otherwise we waste our life in fighting with each other but on the other hand we start to think that what people will say if we are separated?..but finally we need to take firm decision by neglecting opinions of others..Remember our life belongs to us only not for others
Well said
$o tru€ 👍👍
Right 👍
Apne hi khoon ke Rishtedar.Apne hi sage Sambhandi Dushman Hote Hain.jo Harbar Kisi na kisi tarah se hamari Tarakki Nahi Chahte.Aur Ham Doosare Caste Religion ko Dosh Dete Rahte Hain. This is the biggest mistake which we have been doing over the years
@@ravidhanshetti9999 waah sir kya baat boli hai...aapki family k sanskar bhot hi ache hoge!!
My parents are very cunning fellow but im very emotional and kind.so your video is very helpful for me.thanks a lot.
Same here abusing each others daily….and if I complain they just say oh you don’t focus on this…forget it…
Very true sir , your channel and contents are really different as they are as if you do feel the situation first handed . Thanks a lot sir
Bhaiya apke videos dekh kr main bhot positive feel krti hu.thanku so much 🙏
Your explanation is correct. Right talk.
Thank u so much.its vry informative video thaks alot
This video will be most beneficial for students category those who are willing to pursue their dream, career and job. And also those who have willing to fulfil their core desires
My friend is a covert narcissist. I have distanced myself from her. Earlier, I used to share my problems with her, I never got the relief, instead my condition always worsened. It was important for my mental peace!
Better to depart like these types of people.... Then v can opt out way.... If not v not create our own world....thanku sir....
Thank you sir 👍❤️❤️
Aap bhut acha guide krte h
बिल्कुल सही कहा बेटा जी जीते रहो God bless you 🙏🏻 Beta ji
Great and knowledgeable subject.Thanks Sir. It helps me a lot
Best solutions you have given....thank you so much sir 🙏
Thank you so much for clearing all points and solving by doubts...God bless you so much
आपकी बात बिल्कुल सही है कुछ लोग ऐसे होते है जो बहुत परेशान करते है सभी को अपने आदत से।
Sir mujhey is video se bhut positivity mili hain.. Thanks for motivate me
मेरे तो घर में ही है कैसे इग्नोर करूं बस दुखी होकर रह जाती हूं जिसके कारण बीमार रहने लगी हूं
मेरी भी यही कंडीशन है.
Same here
जितनी हो सके बात कम करो , यही इलाज है
Maine bhi 37 years se jhela hai .ab alag hun toh life mein shanti hai .
Thank you thank you es topic k liye
Bhot ache video hai sir.... I really need to know this....👍👍 Thanks a lot
Sir thanks .❤️🙏 बहुत बढ़िया...
Aapka har aek video Aankh khol deti h
Sir ji
Love you
God bless you
Every word u said , is precious 🙏
Great message
Very informative
Very helpful
Anubhavji mai apne maa baap ka eklauta beta hu.... But shadi hone k baad mujhe kuch reason se alag rehna pad rha hai... Mai rent k flat m rehta hu.. 11 saal ho gaye... 2 ghar hoker bhi aaj besahara rehta hu... Aaj mere paas job bhi nahi hai... Lekin mai har mushkil ka samna ker raha hu... Aur aaj apke videos dekh k aur himmat badh gayi hai...
Himmat rakho...parmatma aapke sath he
Thank you so much 🙏🙏for this wonderful video 🙏❤
God bless you
We live in an era where innocence and maturity is considered weakness. People take you for granted when you give them too many chances. No matter what You should never compromise with your self respect . I once slapped a guy twice (Eventhough I am not proud of it). He and his family were constantly taking advantages of my family. They once disrespected my father which I couldn't tolerate.Humein aksar apni image ki fikar rehti hai jiski wajha se hum apne liye bhi stand nahi lete. Apne liye stand lene ke baad bhi hume sharm si mehsoos Hoti hai ke humne aisa kyu kiya.. par ek moment aisa ata hai jab aap ko khud se kehna chahiye ki enough is enough. Chaploos aur manipulative logon ke sath rehne se acha hai aap akele jiyein, shanti ke sath.
Aaj lakho log aise hi ji rhe juthi saan k liye wo khus hai ya nhi isse matlb nhi
Bahut acha laga ki aap ne ladies ki problem samjhi Aur motivate kiya aap ne ladies ko
Anubhav ji !
Thanks for the mind blowing video ❤
भाई आप कितने पाजेटिव हो आपकी सोच बहुत अच्छी है।
बहुत अच्छा लगा।।🙏
Thank you for your guidence🙏
First of all thanku so much sir this time accully really need nd highly family issue for the high- society 👌💯🔥 awesome said each and everything 🙏
Thank you very much 🙏
This is so crisp and clear , no nonsense advice.as I said the reality of life is this, which we all need to face .hope I get strength to handle ,as strong as you are. 🙏🏻
God bless you :)
Superb motivation sir...👌👍👌
NPD Narcissistic personality disorder व्यक्ति का पता लगाना मुश्किल है क्योंकि उन मे immature,inflated and maturity के मिक्स लक्षण पाए जाते हैं। हमारे भीतर भी कुछ कुछ ऐसे ही लक्षण होते हैं।
केवल उन्हे वही व्यक्ति डील कर सकता है जो सच में सात्विक यानी कि mature हो। सात्विक व्यक्ति को NPD का कोई फर्क नहीं पड़ता।❤❤
I am actually thinking of getting separate from my parents as their behaviour suffocating me but at the same they are playing such a mind game that somehow i am getting caught in their emotions and causing loss tp me...but now i will speak with them and act which gives me peace of mind.... thank you sir
Aap bahot ache tarike se samjhate ho Sir ☺️
You are good motivational speaker ☺️☺️
Thanks a lot ....this video is very helpful to me.
No words ..thanks Guru ji 🙏
Most awaited video sir..ur solutions are always practical unlike those gurus who talk only from spiritual perspective
Bhaiya ake saval man me aa rahi hi
Meri first marrige kafi hinshak thi marna aur hamari jimmedari n lena.but ab mai apni 2 betiyo ke sath akele apne ghar rahti hu magar past pichha nahi chhor raha .kya mujhe life me dobar secend chance Dena chahiye ya nahi
Aaj mujhe laga k mujhe kisi apne ne samjhaya h mai depression me ja chuki hu meri mother narcissistic h or sbse buri baat ye h k mothers are known for their unconditional love no one understands my problem they say k tumhe bss aisa lgta h
Even I realised the toxic behavior of my mother led me to be under confident and person with low self esteem and also sensitive. I'll be following Anubhav bhaiya's advice now.
It happens dude... Murkho ko nhi smjh ata..
Thank you so much Bhaiya...this video just came right on time...to save me I believe 🙏🙏🙏
I just came across to your videos very helpful thank you so much
Sir ऐसा एक इंसान मेरे ससुर जी हे जो अपने आगे किसीको कुछ नहीं समझते। रोज छोटी छोटी बातों को लेकर कड़वी बाते सुनाते रहते हैं और गन्दी गालियां भी देते रहते की सामने बाला इंसान डर कर रो रो कर आत्महत्या कर ले। इसलिए जब मुझे कुछ समझ मै नही आया तो बस में उनसे बात करना बंद कर दी और दूर रहने लगी। Thanku for sharing this information मुझे इसकी बहुत जरूरत थी।🙏
Sir please advise everyone to do meditation. Meditation gives inner happiness, helps us deal with life problems, good for our brain,
Good very good ....
Yes absolutely right thinking......
Thank you for making such videos ❤️❤️❤️🙏
Kuch log zanam se hi badnaseeb hote hain 🙁naunko kisi sukh melta hai na wo kisise alag ho pate hain🙏👋
क्या बात कह दी आपने👌🏻
Sir jo narcissists k saath humko deal karne mein problem aati hai vo generally hamare parents ya siblings hi hote hai. Kyuki agar koi friend ya bahar ka Insaan ho toh uss se toh deal ho jata hai araam se, hum usko chhod bhi sakte hai, unko bevkoof bhi bna sakte hai, so it's easy. But the main problem is when our own family members get diagnosed with it. So family se deal karne mein bahut zyaada hard banna padta hai, and it really hits very hard when your own family is narcissist
Right bhai family bahut toxic h m bahut pareshan hun 😢😢😢
Thank u bhai. Aap ki ye motivational videos bahut effective hn. Bahut logon ka dipression door krengi.
Bahut accha samjaya Sir. Thank you Sir.
Wonderful 👏👏👏🙏🙏🙏
Super sir
Really sir 💯 right thank you so much 🙏🇮🇳
Thank you Respected Sadguru.
giving wright advice.
Thnx sir.
Mei aapka ey video dekhi mei 24saal sy apne husband ke saath ey sb problem jhel hu.
Abhi bhi wahi hal hy apni galti ko manty hi nhi hy.
Mei depression mi chali gi.
Wo mujhy pagal bolna suru kr diye..
En 24 saal mi bahut trah ki galti kr chuke mei apni aakho sy dekhi pr bolty hy ha karunga.
Ab eska kya jawab de.
Aaj aapki video mujhy sahi rasta dekhaya.
kya aap pesa kamati ho ya nahi ?
Sir 🙏 mere husband ese hi h khud ko hmesa shi hi smjhte h apne aage kisi ki ni sunte sir unki kisi s bhi ni bnti sbhi dur rhte h 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Meri jindgi ch koi v Unbearable situation aundi he ta main tuhadian videos sunn lendi han bahoot sakoon milda he
Thanks brother every your speech is very important in my life
My husband is like this 😭😭
Mere husband bhi
Mere bhi
I was searching this type of vedio thanks a lot sir,🙏🙏
Video bahut Achcha Laga thank you
Superb. Thanks
Abhi kuchh din pehle me kafi preshan thi puri trh se tut chuki thi sara din youtube pr videos dekhti thi ki thoda khush reh pau pr aisa kuchh bhi nhi hua fir jb aapki videos dekhi unhe smjha to mn ko shanti mili or dovara jeene ki aik ummeed fir se jagi he thnku so much bhai
Very good. Thanku sir.
Kasam se aapne dil ki baat kahedi sir thank you for the motivation video
Yeh sari qualities mere Dad mai hai...unke behaviour ke karan pura family dukhi rahta hai....
हर बार बच्चे ग़लत नहीं होते बड़े भी कम जिद्दी नहीं होते, भले घर बिखर जाये उनको मतलब नहीं
my mother is like this ..unko vo kbhi galat lagti hi nhi hai ..hamari baat nhi hoti aapas me ..mahino ho gye bt kiye hue nahi koi v emotional support milta hai unse ..jinki maa hi aisi ho vo log kya kare is chij ko lekar ?? It's very hard to explain ki kya bitti hai ..baar baar is chij ko leke anxiety , depression mn karta hai ji kyu rahi hu isse better to mar jati to hi behtar hota
Im soo sorry yar...parents aise ho to phir life bhot difficult ho jati hai.. tumhare parents ki vjah se me maafi mangta hu tumse...dekho vo to change nai hone wali...kya pta 10saal baad change ho jaye ya realise krjaye ki kya galat krdiya....bt tum utna wait nai kr skti....apni padai par focus kro aur job lekr nikal jao vha se....financial stability le aayo agar unko aana hoga to vo aajayegi.
Aap pranayam Kiya kijiye.hum akele aaye hi akele jayenge.hum apne aapko change KR sakte hi lekin jinko feel hi n ho ki ek mother hun Mai unko Kya karoge.isliye khush raho carrier me focus Karo khud se pyar Karo.
Ye video so muje sahi sikhne ko mila thanks anubhav bro
Very nice sir ji... Great ye sb mere sath hota hai... Same jo apne kha.. Thanx for giving me such a new way of life... 🙏
Hello bhaiya. I come from a very toxic family. Whenever my brother and mother see me perform well in college or look better than them, they start abusing, gossiping and conspiring against me. My father too treats me as an outlet of his frustration and abuses badly even when I am studying . I even warned them of a complaint against their behaviour. Still no change. What should I do bhaiya so depressed , cannot even focus on studies and wasted so many opportunities due to losing my motivation because of this violence.
बहेन,मेरी संवेदना आपके साथ है| ईश्वर पर विश्वास रखिए| अनुभव जी की बातो पर अवश्य अंमल करो!
Ignore them..focus on your study which will make your future life and set you free from these toxic family members. Complete your study. Be financially independent and then marry a good person and then live your life as you want and teach them a lesson too. Till then ignore them and focus on your study. Its theit weakness, their nwgativity, their fault not yours so don't toruture yourself. Dont give remOTE of your life and happiness to them that whenever they want they can hurt you. No! You must be happy because you choose to be happy. because after all its your life. Everyone comes alone in this world and leaves alone.
Please gather confidence n meet someone from women's commission.. don't file a complaint but ask women's commission to counsel your family... they will arrange a private meeting of your family n unko samjhayenge... ek list bana lo k kaise kaise tang karte hain & sabkuch detail mei batana unhe...if possible, record the abusive language secretly to show it as an evidence as they all can gang up against you n will prove you wrong there...
Don't worry,my life was exactly that.U never stop hard working.One day ur life will be full of happiness.But now I m a teacher,a loving husband n cute daughter.But always maintain distance from that.
Plz take care...