Dating Coach Reacts to LOVE ON SPECTRUM | Dealing With Neediness

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  • @shank3524
    @shank3524 2 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    I fell in love with this show, I was waiting for the second season... They are so honest, no filter and real af!! Total fan haha
    The eHarmony comment to me out 😂😂

  • @TJ-1234
    @TJ-1234 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    "now I don't want you to get too attached to what i'm talking about right now" *me with my face practically in my screen absorbing everything he's saying writing mental notes*

  • @singularity553
    @singularity553 2 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    I love this show so much. Unless you have someone in your family on the spectrum most people have no real understanding about how common everyone is. The families in here are so sweet and supportive plus it humanize those on the spectrum because none are exactly the same but all want to love and be loves.

    • @12toro
      @12toro 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Mot every autistic wants romance and a big lot of us are aromantic

  • @NinWood6
    @NinWood6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    As somebody on the spectrum (Asperger’s syndrome) this show is such a comfort watch. Most of my relationships have been unstable to say the least and seeing fellow auties being successful with dating shows me there could be hope for me. Thank you for making this video ❤

  • @ashleyg.76
    @ashleyg.76 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Thanks for introducing us to this show, Anthony. I was also smiling and saying, "Ah, that's so sweet" before you mentioned smiling at just how sincere this guy was. It seems like a lot of people on "the spectrum" don't have fake personas, and that's really refreshing tbh. It's like they're incapable of lying. Or the reason for doing so just to be nice doesn't even occur.

  • @dionambler4641
    @dionambler4641 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    As someone who is on the spectrum myself, I really loved this show, and thank you Anthony for doing a video on it, and hopefully more to come as I'm learning alot!!

  • @kaylaleakarisma5400
    @kaylaleakarisma5400 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Ronan had my whole heart😭 i really need to finish the first season to see if he actually finds someone he likes

    • @Overseer2579
      @Overseer2579 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      He’s from season 2, lol

  • @lilachodan4941
    @lilachodan4941 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I am so thankful that they made this show. It shows that everybody, people in spectrum wants to love and be loved. Beautiful.

  • @jaredhigley6450
    @jaredhigley6450 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    It’s absolutely taught to us to believe that that is how we achieve happiness. I’ve been trying to just appreciate the relationships I come acrosssed. 32 and have been single for whole whole adult life .. minus about a year altogether. I don’t want anyone to feel like we should own each other.. and honestly I just haven’t felt a good enough connection to anyone. But I’m learning a lot on here, so maybe I’ll find my best friend someday soon! Haha we’ll see.!!

  • @jaredhigley6450
    @jaredhigley6450 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love the honesty of these beautiful people. It’s such an authentic take on people true feelings.. feelings that a lot of us hide

  • @glo.v
    @glo.v 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I watched both seasons of this show. Absolutely heartwarming and grounding. I love how relatable it is even though I'm not on the spectrum.
    I also love that you're reacting to it! Can't wait for part 2!

  • @thatgardeninggirl2864
    @thatgardeninggirl2864 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The purest sweetest souls. I hope they all find THEIR person

  • @robynarnold2802
    @robynarnold2802 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I love this so much!!! Would love to see more reactions to Love on the Spectrum

  • @rysbatcave6627
    @rysbatcave6627 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I freaking love this show. Michael is so good. Please keep going!

  • @lydiajacobsen
    @lydiajacobsen 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is my favorite show. So genuine and sweet.

  • @catherinehughes2022
    @catherinehughes2022 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    this show makes me wonder why people who are not on the spectrum refuse to date people who are on the spectrum. feel like some of these guys would be the sweetest boyfriends in the world!

    • @ananse77
      @ananse77 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What do you mean by that? The vast majority DO date people on the spectrum. Did you not watch the show?

    • @joevictor53
      @joevictor53 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@ananse77did YOU watch the show? The show focused on people on the spectrum dating others on the spectrum.

    • @ananse77
      @ananse77 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@joevictor53 Yeah. I watched both seasons of both the US and Australian versions.

    • @joevictor53
      @joevictor53 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ananse77 So you know that the show doesn't really do what the person asked? Which makes you questioning them even weirder. It doesn't pair up people on the spectrum with people not on it. Kaelynn from the US show said to the producers she prefers to date NTs and they decided not to bring her back because they want to put autistic people with autistic people so NTs can watch the show and go "awwww look at these creatures, they're trying to be like us"

    • @ananse77
      @ananse77 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@joevictor53 Yes, I misread her statement. But why so bitter and cynical? "Poor me" identity politics is so useless and is a ticket to misery. Stay away from that for your own sake.

  • @Jchilla
    @Jchilla 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love this showwww I’m glad they have a new season!

  • @sagittarius_a_starr
    @sagittarius_a_starr 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    8:00 when you describe getting into a network of like-minded people, expanding that network of friends, finding a compatible person amidst that network... as an adult on the spectrum, that sounds EXHAUSTING... to the point of being a practical impossibility. it takes a LOT of energy for me to interact socially, so I do it sparingly, and have very few friends (currently 2, that I don't even see) and frankly don't want much more... Unfortunately, I'd like to be in a relationship with someone compatible more than anything. It's also, unfortunately, been principle in my purpose, and therefore has carried incapacitating importance. I do not enjoy being myself, and it is difficult and tiresome to fake--I understand faking emotions is also frowned upon. For reasons I question, I've been in quite a few relationships, they are short and obviously don't last. i attribute my ability to get into relationships to 3 main things: perhaps of foremost importance is that i happen, by chance, to be attractive enough that others are willing to do a lot of the social work and approach me; secondly, i work very hard at understanding people based on what information they provide me and have practiced long through trial-and-error; and lastly, I move frequently--most of my relationships have started with roommates. Lately, I have been working hard to resign myself to a lifetime of loneliness, and working to avoid discontinuing existence in the interim (successful so far!). Thinking/remembering that my primary opportunities for engagement would take so much socializing... does not inspire hope... it inspires determination to feel no emotion, which is difficult and requires determination, but not nearly as much as developing a network of friends. rats...

  • @jacobj129
    @jacobj129 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I know these videos don't get much views compared to your other ones but I would love to see more of your reactions to this show

  • @PerKiryu
    @PerKiryu 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The point and laugh thumbnail might not have been the best choice lol

  • @nellybarrett7
    @nellybarrett7 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Aw this is so cute my friend was just talking about this show I hope it is good!

  • @laramyholman7190
    @laramyholman7190 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I've been watching this show and I love it

  • @Love11904
    @Love11904 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Rohan Is so pure

  • @anastaciajuarez6900
    @anastaciajuarez6900 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Such a good video! Thanks Anthony

  • @hunterhappersett5872
    @hunterhappersett5872 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Please react to this show again. Do it for me Anthony… I beg you.

    • @AnthonyRecenello
      @AnthonyRecenello  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Haha sorry I can’t!

    • @fringehouse
      @fringehouse 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@AnthonyRecenello you’re havin a laugh right

  • @yassi9734
    @yassi9734 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love love love this show

  • @BlakeHarper99
    @BlakeHarper99 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Why havnt you done more reactions to LOTS?

  • @lilachodan4941
    @lilachodan4941 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This show is amazing! And also I am needy. I need a person to be happy. And as you sad it is bad and it shouldn't be like that. I didn't know what to do. Like I feel I need love, I miss love. And I think it is from my childhood and my teenhood that I'm still in. From like I was treated and raised. And recently I found out I have Asperger's Syndrome

  • @taylormademadness
    @taylormademadness 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I need more reactions to this show!

  • @redjuice02
    @redjuice02 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I found it by googling and followed, but you forgot to add your twitch link to your description even though you said you were going to twice in the video :)

  • @rishaa682
    @rishaa682 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Im dating a guy on the spectrum, it has been … challenging

  • @visnjavicic282
    @visnjavicic282 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great videos Anthony, I’m enjoying your advise and funny jabroni comments .

  • @rebar351
    @rebar351 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Michael is my favorite 🥰 love this show so much

  • @queenie8438
    @queenie8438 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You're amazingggg!!! 💐💯🌟 I learn helpful insights from your channel. Thanks!!! Btw, are you a Gemini?

  • @nellybarrett7
    @nellybarrett7 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I don’t see the twitch in the description what was the twitch?

    • @ericart
      @ericart 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      www.twitch.tv/recenello

  • @lydiajacobsen
    @lydiajacobsen 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Please do more reactions to this show!! Love this

  • @lilachodan4941
    @lilachodan4941 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    But like what is the relationship if not the making someone happy and important and loved

  • @nellybarrett7
    @nellybarrett7 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wait what was his twitch?!

  • @kathypham7907
    @kathypham7907 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Please react to Megan Fox and MGK GQ couple quiz interview!!!

  • @FF-wl1oo
    @FF-wl1oo ปีที่แล้ว

    8:34 Exactly. Crystal meth is always a good investment .

  • @esem3511
    @esem3511 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    can you do a video on megan fox?

  • @captivated388
    @captivated388 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Oxytocin is only found in mammals that mate for life. I don’t think our whole purpose and value is found in being with someone but I do believe we are inherently created to be with someone and find love. However, I think we could be okay if we didn’t.

    • @jclyntoledo
      @jclyntoledo ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You can get oxytocin in a lot of different ways and it's not about how long you've been with a romantic partner. Whenever a mom or father holds their infant/child they feel oxytocin, when you cuddle oxytocin, long hugs oxytocin.

  • @ryandavis4936
    @ryandavis4936 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey bud
    turned out im on the spectrtum which explains a lot honestly
    not as cool as the guy in the vid tho

  • @saraaa526
    @saraaa526 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This wasn’t even close to being long enough.

  • @melissamybubbles6139
    @melissamybubbles6139 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I want more neurodiverse content, please and thank you!

  • @elliebellieboo
    @elliebellieboo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The title is just so, so ableist
    Edit: Okay it’s been 2 years idk what I was on about here I think I was just a bit sad tbh

    • @raindropsonroses3919
      @raindropsonroses3919 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I’m on the spectrum and don’t find this offensive so...unless you also are ,you should take your moral high ground elsewhere

    • @nathalieakre7144
      @nathalieakre7144 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@raindropsonroses3919 yeah I agree like what else should they call it lol it’s nice to see how people that’s also spectrum date

    • @elliebellieboo
      @elliebellieboo 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@raindropsonroses3919 he just called us all needy?

    • @raindropsonroses3919
      @raindropsonroses3919 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@elliebellieboo My perception is that he meant that neediness was being portrayed in the show. Nowhere do I see a generalisation that “all autistic people are needy”. He does something similar with other shows that he watches .

    • @elliebellieboo
      @elliebellieboo 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@raindropsonroses3919 Love on spectrum (dealing with neediness)

  • @tarot_family_climbing_444
    @tarot_family_climbing_444 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I feel like your gay with no kids ..and single