We Found our Dream Home in Sweden (Insanely Cheap)

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  • @TravelBeans
    @TravelBeans  16 วันที่ผ่านมา +16

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    • @STOPCRYBABY
      @STOPCRYBABY 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      Consider yourself lucky. 6 months of darkness 8 months of freezing cold weather. That area has weather just like Alaska and Siberia. And your son as a young boy or teenager could drown in that lake 🤔

    • @AB_538
      @AB_538 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

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    • @mjweinhandl
      @mjweinhandl 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      ​@AB_538 very true, many different licesing boards are starting to consider lawsuits against them

    • @randyholloway920
      @randyholloway920 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Why?

    • @willa0704
      @willa0704 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Never mind Beans, you know that your dream home is out there, just ask Kinging-It! 😉 👌 ❤️

  • @suzzalaska
    @suzzalaska 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +71

    I live in alaska....trust me.....maybe rent for a year first....feel ALL seasons.

  • @AndriyValdensius-wi8gw
    @AndriyValdensius-wi8gw 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +69

    Northern Sweden is dark for 6 months per year. Added to that these houses are in the middle of the wilderness. Very nice summer in good weather, no doubt. Visit in the middle of a bleak November or February to see what it's REALLY like.

    • @A-Nobody
      @A-Nobody 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +18

      Absolutely true. They're being very naive.

    • @jj-if6it
      @jj-if6it 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@A-Nobody yep...

    • @Sozzled39
      @Sozzled39 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      I agree with this. It looks like a very cold existence!

    • @wonderwalluk1568
      @wonderwalluk1568 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      100% agree with your comments, but also very bright for the other 6 months (summer) even down south. When I was there, the birds chirping loud and basically full sunshine at 4am was very disruptive. Everything shut down by 6pm on a Saturday except Bahaus DIY which was seemingly always open. This was 20 years ago though so I am sure things have changed.

    • @lynseydowns8993
      @lynseydowns8993 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      To be fair, they did visit in the cold weather with snow, not the warm summer

  • @wakemiamigreatagain
    @wakemiamigreatagain 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +191

    It just means that your actual dream house is still out there somewhere. You just have to find it. Chin up Beans! All is not lost.

    • @kookietherapy9398
      @kookietherapy9398 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I wouldn't buy anything for at least 18mos. WAIT !!!

    • @wakemiamigreatagain
      @wakemiamigreatagain 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@kookietherapy9398 Why 18 months? Why such a specific time frame? They should continue to look. When they find the right property do the same thing, bid and hope for the best.

    • @CreatorInTrng
      @CreatorInTrng 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      kookietherapy has a worthwhile perspective. That is, it's Spring now; people want to get out, look around, etc. In six months when it starts to get colder there again, you might still find nice places, maybe a bit less and maybe with less competition.

    • @wakemiamigreatagain
      @wakemiamigreatagain 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @@CreatorInTrng 6 months makes sense. 18 months does not.

    • @markparr7224
      @markparr7224 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Zackly, this is just a precursor, and now they have experience.

  • @EBrenry
    @EBrenry 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +60

    On the few occasions that I’ve been in those home-buying scenarios, I have a ritual right before placing the first offer: I stop to do a hard dive on “counting my blessings” and being deeply grateful for my life in that current moment. I sit with that for a while and then say to myself: “I am about to ride an emotional rollercoaster that’s out of my control. Thankfully, if I lose out on the property, it won’t impact my current amazing life. Worst case…. I’m back to ‘square one’, where blessings abound and I still have my savings.” Things have a way of working out.

  • @WagnerGimenes
    @WagnerGimenes 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +91

    Guys, we went through exactly the same heartbreak when we were about to buy our house. On the day of exchange the seller called us asking for more money. That was 30 years ago and we found this house a week or so later. We have been very happy since. Don't worry. As we say in Brazil, nothing happens on the eve. Everything happens the day it's supposed to happen. Keep strong. You have everything you need right now.

    • @aliciathom9633
      @aliciathom9633 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

      What a roller coaster! We have lost houses we loved, but always ended up somewhere better. Your place is out there, and you will find it! Valuable practice in making offer, bidding, and knowing your limits.

  • @sandramillward8759
    @sandramillward8759 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +81

    Bidding wars are the worse. Thanks for the honest raw emotions.

  • @virginiaschott4482
    @virginiaschott4482 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +72

    I'm a Realtor in the USA, what I tell my first time buyers is have patience, what is to be will be, the right house will turn up. Fall in love but not attached until contracts are signed. I wish you much luck and fun in the search.

    • @lindathelondonb9504
      @lindathelondonb9504 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      You sound like my husband (and that's not a compliment I'm afraid). We've put offers on 3 properties in the past 1.5 years and lost all 3. Telling someone it wasn't meant to be isn't helpful. When you visually put your furniture into a house being sold, then not getting it is heartbreaking.

    • @virginiaschott4482
      @virginiaschott4482 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@lindathelondonb9504 Real Estate is a numbers game, especially in a sellers Market. Sorry you have lost out, but bad on you for getting emotionally attached, before your in contract.

    • @jillfoley6834
      @jillfoley6834 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@lindathelondonb9504Another example of why people want to live in the woods in a tent! Tired of the greed and manipulations!

  • @riverbankannie9034
    @riverbankannie9034 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    That area on the map you zoomed in to is about a 10 hour journey from Stockholm. I thought you said 4 hours max would be good. I have driven from Stockholm to Mora, much further south, with young kids - it was a long way and then there were huge mozzies to contend with. Flights not cheap either, just booking today for August to Stockholm. I think you need to visit the area in mid summer and mid winter before you decide.

  • @Dao0253
    @Dao0253 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +46

    Is Noah to grow up with no children around to play with?
    Nice long private drive? Who is plowing you out? Spend a winter in Norway before you commit to such isolation! Seriously. 🇨🇦

    • @HSolar
      @HSolar 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      They wasn't bidding on the one with the long drive.

    • @UntetheredBanshee
      @UntetheredBanshee 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

      @@HSolar Still important to consider as they go forward. I'm worried about no fence around the property with a toddler on a lake!

    • @pamelabennett9057
      @pamelabennett9057 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      I thought the same thing when they were looking at it...

    • @jackie8357
      @jackie8357 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Agreed it's very isolated and they are there when it's nice out - they should experience all the seasons first!

  • @Graygramma
    @Graygramma 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +75

    Don’t be surprised if they pull out. Sometimes it’s a realtors trick to up the price by having another “buyer” on the hook. But importantly, if it doesn’t happen, it’s because something even better await! Stay hopeful.

    • @chalphon4907
      @chalphon4907 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      That is completely illegal in Sweden though, to add fake bidders. Also they have to disclose who the bidders are when making the deal.

  • @Alfahippie
    @Alfahippie 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +19

    I really don’t understand why you would be in freezing cold and dark sweden, when you could be chilling in the sun in portugal?

    • @lovisalindquist6678
      @lovisalindquist6678 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Sweden is great when having kids, free good schools and pre school, healthcare, nature etc

    • @Alfahippie
      @Alfahippie 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@lovisalindquist6678 And gangs and shootings and bombs and stabbings and rapes and murders and all the rest swedes call “dlverslty” . But sure, out in the countryside it’s ok for a little while longer, but still cold and boring.

  • @TheCruisinCrew
    @TheCruisinCrew 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +28

    For me, the house is just one part of the equation. The surrounding community, towns, cities / infrastructure as well as climate etc. would be just as important or even more important to me than the house itself. I would take a step back and ponder all these questions before a wild goose chase of a cheap house with a nice view...

    • @jj-if6it
      @jj-if6it 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      I am astounded that they bid on a house without seeing the nearby town and infrastructure first, and without experiencing it at different times of year

    • @bjrnhjjakobsen2174
      @bjrnhjjakobsen2174 2 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Logistics with kids, depend on creating content, climate, history with mental challenges and mosquitoes would keep me away. Portugal is a better option.

  • @matthewrobinson1225
    @matthewrobinson1225 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Completely understand the feeling, we went through the same thing last year but my advice is to not give up. We thought we lost our dream home only to find our current place 5 minutes away and couldn't imagine living anywhere else now 🇸🇪❤

  • @992001jeffr
    @992001jeffr 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +216

    I started watching van-life videos during the pandemic, and 95 percent of them have purchased or built a home since then.

    • @stum8374
      @stum8374 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      Most bought land because of brexit and people's attitudes and countries not willing and understanding motorhomers.

    • @TsunamiKitten56
      @TsunamiKitten56 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +15

      Because the pandemic caused issues for frequent travelers and many are now wanting a "home base" to return to!

    • @992001jeffr
      @992001jeffr 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@stum8374
      It’s not that people/countries misunderstand van lifers, it’s the few van lifers that abuse it and ruin it for everyone, just like so many other things in this world. Rules/laws are typically developed because of the few who can’t act like decent humans, or feel entitled to things they haven’t earned.

    • @ralphcoombs3600
      @ralphcoombs3600 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

      In the 80's there were loads of people in vans, I expect lots ended up on land or in houses. Constant nomadic is hard.

    • @Drive_Camp_Ride
      @Drive_Camp_Ride 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Van life is pretty much dead now the biggest Hoax in History is over.

  • @NordicLight365
    @NordicLight365 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

    The house you put an offer on, was sold for 925K ( 85K$/70K£) so 33% up from asking price. Very common for houses here to sell for double the asking price. 💙💙💛💛

    • @stephenellis3430
      @stephenellis3430 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      If homes sell for often double the asking price. Why do the agents undervalue the property in the first place. Why not value according to market prices. ?

    • @NordicLight365
      @NordicLight365 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @@stephenellis3430 It's more beneficial for the seller to have a bidding process. These types of isolated properties, far out in the countryside, often start at a very low asking price. This is not the case in our big cities.

    • @ezequitor
      @ezequitor 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@stephenellis3430 It is a very common tactic in Sweden to put a low initial price to attract people and start bidding wars, unfortunately (I live in Sweden)

  • @simplyme6558
    @simplyme6558 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +39

    I have to jump in and say that I’m a firm believer that “everything happens for a reason”, and iI think that something much better is coming your way! Keep the faith. I know your ❤ was set on it but there’s a different path for you and yours. 🙏

  • @susanborgeteien5493
    @susanborgeteien5493 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +65

    Hi guys! So exciting for you. As an American, living in Norway with a cabin in Sweden a couple of things to land you firmly on the ground. Do check with a bank in Sweden how to get an ID number to open bank account. You will need an account to pay your utilities and annual taxes. Also weather and damp is a struggle. Electric can be expensive. Mosquitos! That’s it. It is so nice in the summer months to be outside all day and just enjoying the space and friendly Swedes

    • @SharpLife4
      @SharpLife4 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      What is hydro and what is weather in summer

    • @sst6358
      @sst6358 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Yep l live outside London and The Mosquitos are huge big black things l’ve never seen anything like them AWFUL 😞

    • @SharpLife4
      @SharpLife4 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@doke889some people take out loans. Some spend with what they have saved.

    • @yvonnekneeshaw2784
      @yvonnekneeshaw2784 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Would one need snowblower & other winter requirements??

    • @inthesun3884
      @inthesun3884 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@sst6358 Saw huge ones in Alaska too. I’m not a fan of mosquitoes the size of small 🐝 bees. 😬🙏

  • @Tatia146
    @Tatia146 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Come to Finland! Even cheaper. We have a beautiful cottage for sale @45.000€ hardly any mosquitoes lake in most lake side cottages. The more north you go the smaller the mosquitoes become but have bigger teeth!

  • @ladytyssa1716
    @ladytyssa1716 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    Things to be mindful of (since you aren't used to colder countries). Be aware that country roads with big hills will be very fun driving in the snow. Also, make sure that your driveway isn't too long - snow shoveling is not fun after the first couple of times. If your driveway is long, you will probably need a snow blower, snow plow etc. Make sure your driveway isn't too steep, or you may have to park at the end of the road whenever it snows.

  • @osopolarmovies
    @osopolarmovies 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Interesting! We were born in Sweden and like the nature in the summer. We traveller all around the World until we spent a Christmas in Tenerife. That was 24 years ago. I fell in love and we bought a new built villa the same year. I always wanted to pick bananas in the garden.
    We are now Spanish citizen’s. Good luck!😊

  • @trishhill6666
    @trishhill6666 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    You guys and Noah should do a travel vlog around my country, New Zealand. I love watching your TH-cam. You are so inspiring and real. Would love to meet you one day. Can't wait for your next video xxx

  • @ebbanzai
    @ebbanzai 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    I felt anxious when I saw that long driveway, considering the amount of snow removal necessary. That mushiness underfoot is probably normal for spring. Here in New England (esp in VT, NH, and Maine) it's called mud season, resulting from snow melt.

    • @larka742
      @larka742 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      If that was an proper road the local government has to make sure the snow gets away. Local farmers get some money for their service as long as they live there permanently.
      At the actual property limit they stop.

  • @janenemccann1033
    @janenemccann1033 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Hopefully you will find your forever home soon. We has our forever home for 40 years raised 4 wonderful children there and never thought we would move, but we did and now now we have our new forever home xx

  • @nancyheneghan4760
    @nancyheneghan4760 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I can’t remember how many houses we looked at before we finally got one! 40 yrs and 3 kids later we still have it. Gone through many ages of neighbors and all have been great. Wanted more land but that couldn’t happen but small town living turned out wonderful.

  • @markuserikssen
    @markuserikssen 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    I can't remember the last time I felt so nervous watching a TH-cam video. I can imagine it was a stressful process. As someone who has lived in Sweden before, I'm also dreaming about owning a cottage in Sweden. It's just so beautiful and peaceful there. Good luck on finding your dream house!

  • @carolebarwell8920
    @carolebarwell8920 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

    When we found our first house in UK, we too were very excited like you. We had picked a solicitor, everything was rolling along and we got to the survey. We got a message from the surveyor telling us that he had already surveyed the house for someone else. The owner was selling it to his friend behind our back. We were heartbroken. However, we continued looking and ended up with something better and cheaper. So chins up. It was not meant to be this time but there is a house out there waiting for you.

  • @KarenPFolk-qq7dx
    @KarenPFolk-qq7dx 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    There are tons and tons of places that are even abandoned in the woods farther in. You need to check it out more. It’s not over yet.

  • @Caprifool
    @Caprifool 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    I forgot to mention, the property buying process in Sweden is extremely fast compared to abroad. You can view one day, and sit at the bank signing papers two, three days later. Done! It's really simplified compared to other countries.

  • @CBEEBLE
    @CBEEBLE 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +31

    The bit I would really like to understand is regarding residency, you know that small bureaucratic detail that us Brits now have to contend with given we no longer having the right of free movement in the EU.

    • @janeenright8450
      @janeenright8450 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      Exactly what I was wondering! I thought brits could now only be in the EU for up to 90 days in a given 180-day period.

    • @SimonParkerUK
      @SimonParkerUK 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      @@janeenright8450 6 months a year but no more than 3 months at one time

    • @janeenright8450
      @janeenright8450 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      @@SimonParkerUK so I suppose it wouldn't be a full-time home for them

    • @CBEEBLE
      @CBEEBLE 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @@janeenright8450 I imagine there are ways around it based on income but it will be a lot harder that’s for sure. I read that Sweden has been particularly stringent with its expulsion of Brits.

    • @LookingForAdventure
      @LookingForAdventure 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      I was wondering the same thing about the legalities of residency.

  • @davehulme1233
    @davehulme1233 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

    Could be a sign you were looking at Portugal 🇵🇹 and it would be warmer all the best what ever you do 😊

  • @christix1491
    @christix1491 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    22 years ago when I was looking at houses, I found a house & was excited my bid was accepted. However, during the home inspection, they found mold in the foundation where it met wood. I am allergic to mold, so that was a no go. I kept looking & found my house! It was even better than the first one. I still live in that house. So, have patience, what’s meant to be will turn out. Good luck Beans!

  • @lifeadventureprojects
    @lifeadventureprojects วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hey guys, we enjoy all your videos but this one was a fantastic piece of television! Especially enjoyed Alex talking to the camera on the bench, articulated our own predicament so well. You will find your place, just a matter of time before you figure it out. Can’t wait to see where you end up!

  • @kimberlyobrien4677
    @kimberlyobrien4677 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +41

    I have to tell you, I believe a lot of times those bids are not real that they have. They know what your limit is because the realtors do talk to each other and they will do the bidding wars just to get you to go up to your limit. My husband and I went through that and we did the same thing you did by stopping fairly close to our limit. A couple days later they called us saying the other people pulled out and it did make us believe that it was not a real bidding war. So we told them that we were no longer interested and then we watched the property sit for another little while. Then we went back and offered them their beginning asking price again and they took it. We got the house and we were very happy about it but at the same time we were angry at the feeling of being manipulated or at least they tried to manipulate us. Of course that may just be the way things work in America because that's where we live and the realtors often talk to each other and want to get the biggest commission they can so they will work with each other. So hold out for that dream home. And don't put yourself into a bind and maybe even have a little extra money to put into some renovations. Best of luck and blessings to you both. 29:27

    • @cristin5762
      @cristin5762 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +17

      In Sweden, the realtor is obligated to take note of all bids that are made and who made the bids. When the affair is closed the realtor will give the list of all bidders to both sellers and buyers. This is a way to prevent fake bidding.

    • @UntetheredBanshee
      @UntetheredBanshee 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@cristin5762 But a foreign couple won't know who knows one another. They're def at a disadvantage. I hate this system lol

    • @UntetheredBanshee
      @UntetheredBanshee 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I wasn't paying good enough attention when responded to this, at one point in the video. Alex says that if the bidding war raises the price but the other person backs out, The price rewinds back to the last thing The people bid before the other folks came in to the process. That's actually how they protect from it and it totally makes ton of sense

  • @ilonarosenason2475
    @ilonarosenason2475 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

    If you’re willing to go up that much, meanwhile you could be looking at other properties in that range and you might find something that offers more.

  • @LoremIpsum1970
    @LoremIpsum1970 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    Well done for sticking to your limit 👍You can't afford to get emotionally involved in buying property. It can be a long waiting game, but eventually more properties will become available and you have all the time in the world to dream your future life once you've bought a place, not before.

    • @jj-if6it
      @jj-if6it 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I think they have a lot to learn, especially since they thought they would win the first house they ever bid on!

  • @lindacondray7918
    @lindacondray7918 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    We got outbid on 5 of the houses we’d put bids on in 2008. We “settled” for our LAST choice, the one we dubbed the bad vibes house. After we got into the house and neighborhood, we discovered we were in actually the best location and house, for us, of the 5 in the neighborhood. There will always be another “dream” house. It may just take more time and now you have more experience. Good Luck!

  • @costasworldofmusicmemories5792
    @costasworldofmusicmemories5792 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    You know sometimes it's just meant to be. Somebody upstairs is telling you something. Your dream house is out there. And it will be the right one. It happened to us. Be Patient, Stay Positive and keep looking. Sending much love❤❤ from where we are now (Porto, Portugal) The Love Beans, Harriet, Jim and Yuki

  • @riboid
    @riboid 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    First winter there, you will be yearning for life back in the mild gulf stream.

  • @HoH
    @HoH 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Left my previous comment too soon... I'm sorry it didn't work out but it's quite incredible to see how beautiful and affordable Sweden is. Hopefully you guys will find your dreamhome soon!

  • @jj-if6it
    @jj-if6it 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    You didn't even check out the nearest town before bidding?? Sorry guys I'm just kinda stunned by everything! It seems really quick

  • @pattyr6616
    @pattyr6616 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I’m so proud of you! You stepped out into the unknown. You allowed yourself to feel all the crazy feelings that go along with this process and stuck to your budget. I know you will end up with a wonderful home where you can create all those beautiful memories.

  • @elizabethlarose4368
    @elizabethlarose4368 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +14

    Omgoodness...I've been in this situation about 20 years ago...we bid on 8 homes and lost every last one...And yes it is blasted hard not to become emotionally attached.
    Good luck..❤

  • @isasarmisegetuza8549
    @isasarmisegetuza8549 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Wow, what a journey!!! Thank You for bringing us all along and explaining everything and being open of all that you feel. I also feel that its great that you stopped when you did because I agree with you that if you'd gotten it you'd have been stressed all the time instead of just in love with the new home. You're dream home will come, hang in there!

  • @alisonh528
    @alisonh528 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    We lost out on 5 houses during our home buying process in 2015. I know the market had only gotten more insane since then, but it was so stressful in the moment. The only thing that kept me going was to know that the right thing was meant to happen. Sure enough, our house wound up being perfect for us, in the perfect location, and with a perfect neighborhood and community. I’m glad you also have the same attitude to know what’s meant to be will be!

  • @helenellis1045
    @helenellis1045 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    Love seeing the 2 of you in agreement about what you wanted, pursuing that and knowing when to throw in the towel… the home you’re dreaming of is there- keep looking, keep hopeful and stay positive 😊

  • @KathiStarns
    @KathiStarns 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

    Hey guy's if that bid doesn't fall through. I don't know about outside the US but here it really makes a difference to add a letter with your bid talking about your little family and how wonderful it would be to get said house. Good luck you guys❤

    • @fairyintothewild8443
      @fairyintothewild8443 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Good tip! I actually had the advantage that the realtor didn't have time and the owner showed me the house. And we had a really good click which I believe might have worked to my advantage.
      The highest bid doesn't always win as in Sweden it is always the seller that decides who will get the house.

  • @julietteisanogle9571
    @julietteisanogle9571 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    You are a very fun couple and we really enjoyed watching this video and subscribed to your channel. We pray the very best for you in your travels and searching for your new home.

  • @jobiepatrick6150
    @jobiepatrick6150 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    We are in our 60s and have been through this many times and it seems every time we end up with something we love more than we did the original heartache house. There’s a reason.🙏

  • @bathroomjon1
    @bathroomjon1 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    It doesn’t matter where you make memories, just that you do make memories- great vid guys

  • @wcarlhepker4806
    @wcarlhepker4806 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    At least your house did not catch on fire while you were driving it home! Take good care of each other through the disappointments that life puts in our way! Wishing you the best!!

  • @sophiemarcaurele
    @sophiemarcaurele 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Quite the opposite, you HAVE to keep visualizing all these lovely scenarios with family visiting, you dad playing with the little one under the trees... and make it as vibrant and real in your mind as you can 🤗 you absolutely are allowed to manifest your life. If that house doesn't happen, something even better will happen ❤❤

  • @susantosi695
    @susantosi695 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Very Exciting! Good Luck. Beautiful

  • @torashwells4378
    @torashwells4378 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Check what costs will be when you come to sale it. Capital Gains, Local Tax, State Tax and especially Estate Agency %. Here in the UK we only pay 1% but in Spain where we have just sold it was 5%.

  • @mrssue9137
    @mrssue9137 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    There is always something around the corner which will be a wonderful home for you, also do you really want all those very dark, cold and long days, Try Sicily, much cheaper and brighter and Warm. 😅. Happy hunting guys, it's great getting the adrenalin going, and it gets ours going too. ❤

  • @einzgeisha
    @einzgeisha 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    this brought me a roller coaster of emotions!!!

  • @douglasvieira1990dv
    @douglasvieira1990dv 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Good luck y’all, thanks for bringing us along😊

  • @annekennedy8127
    @annekennedy8127 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Sweden has a very, very long winter, and even though you might be travelling, you still have to heat the house all winter to protect the plumbing... didn't see the 20,000 dollar house that you mentioned in your title.. property around water will have mosquitoes all summer...maybe it was a blessing in disguise...

  • @kathrynhaynes7068
    @kathrynhaynes7068 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I meant to post this comment after your last video but as you said, it really comes down to how a place makes you feel. When I've house-hunted in the past, I knew within seconds of arriving and entering if it was where I wanted to be. And even after thinking through it logically, if those feelings are still there, it's the place to bid on and potentially go on another rollercoaster ride. You definitely learned from this experience and YOUR dream home will present itself. Not only your dream home, but the home you are MEANT to have.❤

  • @kimmcalister3594
    @kimmcalister3594 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Buying a home can be really tough. So proud of you to sticking with your budget. You will find a home, it may take a few tries.

  • @orchidhouse297
    @orchidhouse297 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    So your search goes on. The best advice I was ever given was - don't fall in love with .....- initially a swing band arrangement I have just written, but it applies to all life. You'll not see any faults with whatever, but if you do, you won't care and ignore the faults anyway. That can lead to expensive mistakes. Keep your finances with in reserve. There is nothing more destructive than a dream home you can't afford to do anything with. We made a pact to never go into debt for anything, do without until you have the cash available. It's amazing how paying interest eats into your capital.

    • @angiehier
      @angiehier 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Yes paying cash is the best way to go.
      And my need to be close to medical help at my age, being single doubles that concern.
      And for this couple...to be looking at water fronts with children is very fearful.

  • @inthesun3884
    @inthesun3884 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Keep looking the dream house is out there somewhere. Maybe you should consider being closer to the city with a young family. Praying God grant you the best house made especially for you!

  • @disneydianne1716
    @disneydianne1716 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Sorry it didn’t work out, this time! You will find the right place, don’t give up ❤

  • @emlynwebster1121
    @emlynwebster1121 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I've lived in Norway for 22 years now and we are planning on buying a second property as a holiday home in either Norway or Sweden, if I was you I'd definitely go for it, I can't see me ever living in the uk again

  • @jeannig7565
    @jeannig7565 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Thanks for taking us along on your journey. You did a good job.

  • @alanjust
    @alanjust 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Bad luck this time but you’ll find others for sure! Good luck in your search 😊

  • @butchieblock9118
    @butchieblock9118 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    I suggest looking into the metes and bounds of the 1st property. Just at first glance you don't see countless people traipsing down to the water but you never know because they are technically ALLOWED since it's considered common area!!! 🤔

    • @LoremIpsum1970
      @LoremIpsum1970 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      You live and learn...wait for the winter months and short summer...

    • @butchieblock9118
      @butchieblock9118 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      ​​​@@LoremIpsum1970 absolutely! Still melting snow in May? Imagine the cost of maintaining that long drive onto the 2nd property!

    • @LoremIpsum1970
      @LoremIpsum1970 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@butchieblock9118 I think there would be a long list and none of it cheap... I could imagine easing into life in a town first, not going rural straight away. Not so sure about the bears, I'd be more worried about the ticks!

  • @catherinebennett5711
    @catherinebennett5711 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    We just loved this video, an emotional rollercoaster! 👍

  • @janicerichardson4878
    @janicerichardson4878 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    We have a saying in Scotland What's for you will no go bye you. So the right thing is still out there. Good luck.

  • @becorations1
    @becorations1 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    My heart breaks for you guys, but I’ve also seen you come across some amazing properties so far. So, I know ow the right one will come along and be yours. I can’t get over how much Noah has grown. It feels like only yesterday you told us you were expecting. He’s such a doll! Hugs to the Beans!

  • @johnrowarth9411
    @johnrowarth9411 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    think of needing a doctor. or a hospital . how easy would it be in an emergency. or getting snowed in. think before you leap ok

  • @rayapupwing
    @rayapupwing 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    So sorry for your loss.

  • @krissysacher9264
    @krissysacher9264 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Well done. You two showed so much strength and resilience in handling a very stressful, emotional situation. Thanks for sharing 💕

  • @no_clot_shot1128
    @no_clot_shot1128 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +15

    No it's not cheap. It's the prices in UK that are insanely artificially inflated... That confuses you.

    • @dstanley7333
      @dstanley7333 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Lake access in the UK for 51k I shall wait

    • @LoremIpsum1970
      @LoremIpsum1970 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      It's strange, a lot of places are unaffordable...but I guess that's from the point of view working locally. If you're nomadic, options are wider.

    • @SharpLife4
      @SharpLife4 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Canada condo is 400k

    • @Botoburst
      @Botoburst 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Sweden isn't far behind if these bidding wars keep inflating the prices.

    • @LoremIpsum1970
      @LoremIpsum1970 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@dstanley7333 Don't tell them this is the summer...🤣

  • @judyk.657
    @judyk.657 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    What’s yours will never pass you by. 💐💕. Love you guys. Was there right with you and the feels. Something better is out there for you. 👍🏻💖

  • @jj-if6it
    @jj-if6it 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Good perspective Alex!

  • @sweetfolly9428
    @sweetfolly9428 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    So excited for the three of you ! I hope that something comes through for you soon . What an incredible way to start a new chapter in life.

  • @JamesWilliam70
    @JamesWilliam70 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    How easy is it to be a permanent resident in Sweden for a UK citizen?

    • @davidmatthews3093
      @davidmatthews3093 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      That’s the question they have never answered. I presume that one of them must have an EU passport or otherwise it’s a non starter. As it is they are offering viewers who would like to do the same thing false hope. I expect it’s click bait.

  • @jeffreyskinner6281
    @jeffreyskinner6281 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Alex and Emma, sad to see you missed out on the lakeside home. But you're in the game and there will be other opportunities. Don't be disheartened over losing out... look at the life you have. You three are an amazing family and no matter what that is what is most important. Excited to see you three grow and your continued adventures!

  • @TheMinimaggi
    @TheMinimaggi 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    looks great and outside superb waiting time a bummer ..

  • @biddiemutter3481
    @biddiemutter3481 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    What a roller coaster!

  • @dstanley7333
    @dstanley7333 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    I might have missed something explaining this so apologies if im repeating. But how can you buy in Sweden with the EU laws of the amount of time allowed in country. Is there something different if you buy a property

    • @LoremIpsum1970
      @LoremIpsum1970 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      No, anyone from anywhere can buy property in Sweden. There is no Golden Visa scheme, and ownership doesn't mean you get residency, you still have to apply seperately.

    • @SimonParkerUK
      @SimonParkerUK 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      no they will have to follow same rules. basically 6 months max per year with no more than 3 months at one time

    • @LoremIpsum1970
      @LoremIpsum1970 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@SimonParkerUK They don't have to live there at all, but if they did and then you include the rules it would eat up time travelling elsewhere in Schengen.

    • @PetarChakarov
      @PetarChakarov 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      You need to show residence contract at the police and sufficient means to live. Nothing else

    • @davidmatthews3093
      @davidmatthews3093 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Buying a house is one thing. Living there is something else. Working there is another level whatsoever.

  • @royjackson1814
    @royjackson1814 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    What ever happened to your Portugal dream? Surely it’s much better to have a base in Portugal with so many places to travel too than being stuck out in the middle of Sweden, It’s like the end of the world there. I Enjoyed this video though it was quite exciting! But it’s a sign!!!

    • @zaynevanday142
      @zaynevanday142 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      End of the world ? For you maybe 😂😂😂 grow up

  • @chrystaltuckness5298
    @chrystaltuckness5298 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I am chuckling through watching this. We are currently property hunting and I understand all the feelings!

  • @thomasd4464
    @thomasd4464 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Hey Beans, it is like my mother always used to say if it’s yours it will be yours if not who knows what it is good for. I truly hated it when she said that until I decided in my late 30ies that I wont worry about things anymore that I can not change or influence. It think that change came with the second kiddo. So you know what to do 🤪

  • @ClareDreyer
    @ClareDreyer 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Sorry it didn’t work out. Thanks for taking us along for the journey. Now you can be open to something even better! Good luck!

    • @JOHNMONO
      @JOHNMONO 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      A New Dawn Fades

  • @celinefosterc4242
    @celinefosterc4242 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +124

    Thank you for the content!! All we need is the right advice on how to invest in crypto and we will be set for life, made $28,000 profit from trading last week regardless of how bad it gets on the economy....

    • @celinefosterc4242
      @celinefosterc4242 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I will advise you stop investing on your own and seek for guidance from a professional, I don't invest on my own anymore, always required help and assistance...

    • @celinefosterc4242
      @celinefosterc4242 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      0:02 from my personal Financial advisor

    • @Oliviaolivia15
      @Oliviaolivia15 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      YES!!! that's exactly her name (Mrs Elizabeth Rossiello ) I watched her interview on CNN News and so many people recommended highly about her and am just starting with her from NJ 🇺🇸

    • @Rosemary16666
      @Rosemary16666 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I'm a long term investor, I withdrew my profits of $61,000 during Xmas period last year...

    • @Florence_Rosalie
      @Florence_Rosalie 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      This sounds so good and I would like to be a party to this, I there any way I can speak with her?

  • @GumpoPops
    @GumpoPops 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You guys will find the perfect place, and i can't wait to see it! ✌️

  • @karenlabordus227
    @karenlabordus227 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I’m so sorry. I’m following your journey and sending positive vibes and love your way ❤❤❤❤

  • @kazlee9213
    @kazlee9213 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    Can be very difficult during the long winters with the cold and months of snow, not for me

  • @danviridian
    @danviridian 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Rent there before you buy

  • @vanessadaniels400
    @vanessadaniels400 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Think there are so many of us SO invested in this for you all, means it will happen xxx massive love to you all

  • @BryanAiello
    @BryanAiello 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Amazing story telling! Wish you all the luck in getting a place.

  • @brianwhitfield4800
    @brianwhitfield4800 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    You escaped a bullet. So expensive. Sweden maybe beautiful but really? Very expensive living, long cold dark winters, difficult language etc etc. Mosquitos......

  • @nancyleab
    @nancyleab 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Love you guys. Happy Mother’s Day to you. Good luck in your search for property.

  • @hornz5
    @hornz5 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Wow that was a very thrilling episode! 👏

  • @tomjensen618
    @tomjensen618 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Clickbait?

    • @SharpLife4
      @SharpLife4 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      How so?

    • @davidmatthews3093
      @davidmatthews3093 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@SharpLife4Because they have never explained how they would have the right to live and work in the EU. Clickbait is the only logical conclusion.

  • @davidmatthews3093
    @davidmatthews3093 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    You still haven’t answered the basic question that has been asked many times in the past. Does one of you have an EU passport that will allow you to move to Europe and settle there? As it is your viewers will think that it’s straightforward for British citizens to do that. It’s not.

    • @MelG-ut3hs
      @MelG-ut3hs 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      You can buy property in Sweden but need to apply for residency with all the laws involved. It's not so easy.

  • @sherelynwhite4130
    @sherelynwhite4130 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    OMG...I cried with joy for you, and cheered you on!🥳 And then cried tears of sadness when you lost the bid.😭 And I don't even know you! This is my 1st time watching your channel 🫠

  • @terizumbusch8408
    @terizumbusch8408 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Guys it's amazing, You did an incredible job. What a fun place to get to live. Looking forward to seeing what you do. Looking forward to seeing what you do. Congratulations.❤