The #1 Enemy Holding You Back From Success

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  • @DanLok
    @DanLok  5 ปีที่แล้ว +194

    If you could change ONE thing in your life
    using this advice, what would it be?
    And what would happen as a result?
    Comment down below, and make sure to
    Give the video a thumbs up if you liked it.

    • @legaltalks24
      @legaltalks24 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      the result is nothing but fulfiling our dreams and having a step towards success

    • @prinxeamadsnob
      @prinxeamadsnob 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      From the moment I watch Dan pena the 50 billion dollar man, I'm already done 1 list that Mr pena give in his video, its simple Wrote your daily hang out people and friends you with all 7 days and see which one of the friends list have the same Goal as you...
      That moment *SHOW ME YOUR FRIENDS AND I SHOW YOUR FUTURE*
      Really Really Really effect so much ~

    • @DanLok
      @DanLok  5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @Mary Baker Keep fighting, Mary. I believe in you.

    • @yordyjansen5257
      @yordyjansen5257 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thanks dan you're the best🙏

    • @AutoScan.Doctor
      @AutoScan.Doctor 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I can be as a water and float ovre, some times it is to hard to leave some people are too close . So as bruce lee said.
      Be Like Water 😎👌

  • @tobylansdowne5849
    @tobylansdowne5849 5 ปีที่แล้ว +129

    Block out the people who hate they are only jealous of what you will/ have become

  • @hv6411
    @hv6411 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yasss, agree with you Dan, the closest people to you tend to be toxic and like to hurt you. Stay away from them and love them from a distance. Sadly these people tend to be siblings and parents.

  • @martinmucha8074
    @martinmucha8074 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Dan, it's true. I'm 20 y.o. In 18 y.o i went to job to next town and I was living in a job flat. Everything was better. Even your parents can kill your dreams and other things. It was creazy how happy I was. I was cooking myself, working in job, then working in gym and then working on me and studying. When you have those kind of parents, you have to move on asap. You have to change the enviroment Great video :) I very like you

    • @CosmosWhisper7
      @CosmosWhisper7 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Great! It is only you who can achieve your goals!

  • @lefreesensei4654
    @lefreesensei4654 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very True Sifu!
    If you surround yourself with success “triggers”... (successful people, environment that encourages you to move forward instead of holding you back, etc..) and TAKE ACTION, then success is yours

  • @davidfaiheng
    @davidfaiheng 5 ปีที่แล้ว +81

    May the fish rest in Peace🐟🙏
    Great Lesson. Thank you Sifu. 🙏

  • @jekay2558
    @jekay2558 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I've been through this, having a negative environment is really draining and stressful. I'm so glad I was able to get out of it.

  • @romanvladimirovichpetrikov4947
    @romanvladimirovichpetrikov4947 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you very much, Dan !! Everything is true! I remained in a poor environment and was injured in the result. If I had not thought about saving money and left I would have been in a better situation! Now, as I recover, I will immediately begin to look for a way to leave a bad environment!

  • @SilviaSaludInteligente
    @SilviaSaludInteligente 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Dear Dan, you are so right! 10 months ago I was diagnosed with cancer and I opted not to use any help from conventional medicine, especially chemotherapy. If I had shared this decision with ALL my social environment and family they would start pushing me and stressing me and saying I am totally mad. Thanks God I went my way, mad radical changes in my lifestyle, IN MY ENVIRONMENT, and today, I am healthier than EVER!!!

  • @mockingmediocrity3834
    @mockingmediocrity3834 5 ปีที่แล้ว +216

    Being distant from your family is not a popular opinion
    But you got to do what you got to do to be successful
    Most of us do not have supportive parents not because they
    Don't love you but their attitude sets you up for failure
    The choice is yours...

    • @DanLok
      @DanLok  5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Well said.

    • @amadeurosenbergofficial7990
      @amadeurosenbergofficial7990 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Not only even well said but I have been experienced this buddy. Sometimes success means isolate yourself from people who you know and start building new line of positive and ambitious people

    • @cherrylopez7579
      @cherrylopez7579 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I can relate to this. Sometimes, it's so hard not to have someone, even our family, who understands our goals and supports us. But we have to stay strong and remember that it's our life, our goal, and our future that are at stake. As the saying goes, we only live this life once. We can't afford to tone down our dreams just to make other people around us comfortable.

    • @mockingmediocrity3834
      @mockingmediocrity3834 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@amadeurosenbergofficial7990 totally agree 👌

    • @mockingmediocrity3834
      @mockingmediocrity3834 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@cherrylopez7579 That is true...you only live once and once is enough if you live it right

  • @chaltonmumo2654
    @chaltonmumo2654 5 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    Thanks Dan... Am glad I did this a few months ago. I moved!!!! I don't have any meaningful friends now, but I can feel my goals and my future caressing me. Trust me. It's the best feeling!

    • @YonyGut1MakesMetalCovers
      @YonyGut1MakesMetalCovers 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I moved as well! June 7th (the day of my birthday). I did it so I can be MORE PRODUCTIVE when it comes to editing videos, so I don't have to worry about "oh-oh, it's 5:30 afternoon, my parents may be arraving from work. I hate it, but I have to stop working :/". Now that I live in my apartment, I can edit whenever I want to, and that helps me to be MORE PRODUCTIVE and PRODUCE RESULTS FASTER. One of the best decisions I took in years...

  • @dragonarch0
    @dragonarch0 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Totally agreed, you gotta endure and work extra hard till you are able to move out of toxic environment. I for one is struggling a lot in it but I will manage.

  • @thomassouza1227
    @thomassouza1227 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That is some of the reasons i don't talk about my plans to anyone, i know they will just try to push me down, this part is really hard but, it's true, the people around you will molde who you are.

  • @fongvang2256
    @fongvang2256 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm going through this phase right as we speak. I failed over and over again not knowing why but now I do. Thank you so much Mr. Dan Lol.

  • @PatrickCogen
    @PatrickCogen 5 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    You are the only one who is stopping from persuing your dreams. Great video Dan. Love from a small youtuber :)

  • @ekowitaly
    @ekowitaly 5 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    "Love family from Distance" a serious advice. Thank you Mr. Dan

    • @aceblade3095
      @aceblade3095 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Making money online is awesome. I share my journey in how I make countless thousands online for free. As well how anyone can do it easily too. which then they can escape the 9 to 5 rat race and enjoy life . Also in the process of scaling to infinity!👍💰💪🔥. It's been a epic time.

  • @GB-oj5ky
    @GB-oj5ky 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    100% dan it took me years to realize this but after I realized it I have truly found a way to change my life
    Thank you Dan!!

    • @chadelliottfahlman-htcgrad7866
      @chadelliottfahlman-htcgrad7866 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Trust who you are, Ganesh.

    • @GB-oj5ky
      @GB-oj5ky 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@chadelliottfahlman-htcgrad7866 sure I will,the moment Dan entred my life everything got changed in my life, he is my "father idol" like my sifu Dan lok got "Bruce Lee" Bow before you sifu!!

  • @Craftytionery
    @Craftytionery 5 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    That’s exactly correct.. A lot of negative people surrounds you and crab mentality.
    Thanks for this inspirational videos.

    • @mrrebel4163
      @mrrebel4163 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      dude, i am pretty surprised that as soon i am in sales, and some people that know me, grew jealous of me because of my high commission. at first, i was confused. soon, i begin to understand. it's funny how strangers that i barely met supported me in my sales, but not who i grew up with. lol . I think some people want to see you do good in life, but never better than them.

  • @Aamadmax21
    @Aamadmax21 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Remember you are not a tree, move and when you fall, fall forward as you will see what you are going to hit and you moved in the right direction. Love your work @danlok!! I have learned so much from you!

  • @ankitsingh5977
    @ankitsingh5977 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I am helping millionaires with my skillset and hence i am spending most of my time with right successful people.
    Most of them are your past HTC students and i can clearly see the value & morals you have brought in their daily life and now its the part of their personality.
    You are improving our lives sir!
    Thanks a lot for helping us out.🤗

  • @dheenadev4970
    @dheenadev4970 5 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    I love the way you explain it. For me, Its definitely hard to find people who share the same values as mine.

    • @commonman8984
      @commonman8984 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      We have Internet

    • @dheenadev4970
      @dheenadev4970 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@commonman8984 Yeah, I Agree.

    • @kalya542
      @kalya542 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@dheenadev4970 good luck

    • @amiev4541
      @amiev4541 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I struggle with that too

    • @rohitgulati2500
      @rohitgulati2500 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Here I am...

  • @davyvettorato4291
    @davyvettorato4291 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    So true! Negative people want to pull you down in their own misery and hate to see people succeed. I recently stopped hanging out with an old negative friend. Not negative towards me but on his entire life, everything is bad for him. It has been only a few weeks but I feel better and I'm making progress.

  • @rockyshadow3356
    @rockyshadow3356 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I've created a High Ticket Package By following your advice you give it for absolutely free Dan. Tomorrow I'm going to close my first deal.
    With the money I make I'll be able to move from my parents and change my environment so I can be more productive and provide more value for my clients.
    Thank you sifu

  • @saraalsaaidi
    @saraalsaaidi 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is sooooo true. Since I have moved the negative people out of my life I start living so much better and know I'm realizing my goals

  • @CelesteNgSingapore
    @CelesteNgSingapore 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I totally agree when you mention about having negative family member. My husband is a negative person. I, in fact, spend less time with him or shut him up whenever any negative stuffs are about to be released from his mouth. I went on to earn my millions by spending less time with him. If I were to follow his pace of life or follow what he tells me to do, I will not be what I am today. I am a woman and the main breadwinner. I earn money to bring up my 3 boys; to put aside for my parents and for my retirement and pay for all the household expenditure. My husband is not ambitious, he is the opposite of me. But that does not mean that I don't love him. I do, especially when he does not interfere with my job. To me, he is still a good man. He lets me do what I like although at times he complains (which I will ignore). His negativity is from his upbringing. I guess that is also the reason why he marries me, bec' with me around, he could feel positive energy. But I have to find ways to release his negativity that is transmitted to me. There was a stage in life that I almost cannot take it and was about to call for a divorce myself. I held back by doing meditation and spend more 'me' time with myself and spend less confrontation time with him. It helps to save the marriage.

  • @AutoScan.Doctor
    @AutoScan.Doctor 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Master dan, You are not just brain trainer. You are truly a way guider.
    Words can't thank you enough.

    • @kericwu
      @kericwu 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      He tells us the truth to help us succeed 👍

    • @chizynweze4165
      @chizynweze4165 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Very true. God bless him 🙏

  • @osse1n
    @osse1n 5 ปีที่แล้ว +220

    Biggest competition in life - *You, yourself, EGO, your mind*

    • @osse1n
      @osse1n 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Love ya'll

    • @dheenadev4970
      @dheenadev4970 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That is so true.

    • @manictiger
      @manictiger 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It really is. I'm struggling to pull the income numbers I was just a couple months ago and I know it's mostly me getting in my own way.
      I have to get back what I lost. I had an edge; I was able to shatter all of the "barriers". Now I feel like I'm tripping on every single one.

    • @AbhishekKumar-lt3wj
      @AbhishekKumar-lt3wj 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @k s you are correct I too found him in every personal development videos.

    • @emptyclips4442
      @emptyclips4442 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      You should start your own chanel

  • @sergeantbottler7695
    @sergeantbottler7695 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Fear can also be an enemy. Fear of going out to the present enviroment. Fear of long distance to family. Fear of change. The fear of treating the water.
    Thank u for sharing this Dan. Im a fan of your work.

  • @chloethewritingcoach9644
    @chloethewritingcoach9644 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes! I love this, it reminds me of how you say that you don't believe in self-discipline, you believe in environment. So true! Also I hope your fish are feeling better! ❤

  • @Morninglux
    @Morninglux 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I did your advice along time ago, I learned and grew alot as a person. I left my toxic environment, and blossomed into a Person with Great Mindset. I can tell the difference.

  • @Je.rone_
    @Je.rone_ 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I agree, the environment in which one inhabits can definitely be an enemy to one's success, *I've found many people Underestimate the social and environmental influence.*
    A good book on this subject is *invisible influences*

    • @Lindsweightloss
      @Lindsweightloss 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Black Vito - Moneyology & Philosophy the environment is key, we are what we surround ourselves with!

    • @Je.rone_
      @Je.rone_ 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Lindsweightloss agreed💪

  • @gilcesar2305
    @gilcesar2305 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sooo TRUE!!
    I can totally confirm that!
    I moved to another country with a total different mindset and market place than the one I was used to live ... and guess what - suddenly I am very successful and appreciated..
    going this way also enabled me to know myself better.. developing from a lazy turtle - always trying to stay in his shell (comfort-zone) - to a „celestial emperor twin dragon“ - MY IMAGE of my true self/spirit
    so changing your environment is the most efficient way to change your destiny.
    I love this video!!!
    I think the „haters“ are those who are already wealthy or living rich already because they can’t connect to this - their parents already took the action to create a healthy environment - so of course it would be bad decision for them to change that.
    This tip will really apply to those having the same „poor“ and limited background as Dan Lok had and I had.. but only those with a „real purpose“ and the „Will-Power“ to CHANGE will ultimately succeed their transformation.

  • @kaziasifmahmud2839
    @kaziasifmahmud2839 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    23 years of my life and i finally get the answer of why i am failing to begin journey to the road to success. The 3rd world country of mine and the people, family that surrounds me.
    Shifu master, thanks.

  • @tebomokwena7249
    @tebomokwena7249 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Thank you Mentor😊 Love from Botswana🇧🇼
    I did move from my family's house 2 months back and I am free to do things I want business wise

    • @ThedigitalAfrican
      @ThedigitalAfrican 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Karabo Mokwena im in South Africa, what business you do? probably might be interested, +27710717555 watsap lets engage

    • @biancahpete9080
      @biancahpete9080 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Karabo Mokwena Im also from Botswana..we need to network

    • @biancahpete9080
      @biancahpete9080 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ThedigitalAfrican Im from Botswana but currently In Mafikeng.what business do you do?

    • @tebomokwena7249
      @tebomokwena7249 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      75512791 hit me up

    • @ThedigitalAfrican
      @ThedigitalAfrican 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Dominant in fashion, currently working on foot wear,

  • @anhthubui318
    @anhthubui318 ปีที่แล้ว

    There's a quote I love "create 2 habits: help or do no harm." It's ok if family is not supportive or helps you successful, I can go and find ppl who support me but it's never ok or even awful when family is toxic and causes harm.

  • @georgiarodrigues5356
    @georgiarodrigues5356 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are totally right! When I am away from my family, my life is soo much better. Finances, happiness among other things go perfectly!!!

  • @fariwarwahezy5868
    @fariwarwahezy5868 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi
    I am from Afghanistan U have no idea how hard is life over there I have managed to get out of that environment I am trying to hard to improve my self as much as possible and reach out to my goals and your videos are helping me a lot thank u so much for sharing your wisdom
    I get a lot of positive energy from you and that means a lot to me

  • @tawfekoexpertreviews.trueb7609
    @tawfekoexpertreviews.trueb7609 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You're right, but some people, like me in one of 3rd countries, I really can't move physically. But what I'm doing is that I've already moved my mindset into successful people mindset. That's all what someone like me can do.
    Thanks Dan for advice.

  • @shehaan23
    @shehaan23 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I've been Following your content from over a year back. and it was you and Steph that made me realize I had to change my environment. Took a leap of faith quit my job and left to Chiang Mai from Sri Lanka.
    Best decision I've ever made!!
    My excuse earlier was, its not possible to do on a developing country passport (Cause you need Visas).
    I did it and am still doing it. I've been back for a few months. but am building a lifestyle that will ensure I am able to pick the environment I wanna be in.

  • @jagk784
    @jagk784 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi Dan, I have just sent this video to my friends son, he is very talented, but his learnt beliefs ,
    family & environment are holding him back to becoming successfulI.
    Hope he takes notice of this video and breaks the negative cycle!

  • @saradaabis4475
    @saradaabis4475 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Perfectly true
    I tried once that by making a room and locked my self all time listening to videos like this and taking 0 action
    And suffering from depression and anxiety
    But allah changed it in anunexpected way that forced me to move
    Elhamdullah
    I just read the alchemiat so true
    God has ur back
    Nothing is easy.. Everything is hard at the beginning

  • @JeMsPlaytime
    @JeMsPlaytime 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    When a fish is sick, you don't treat the fish, you treat the water. Those words made me stop in my tracks and think. Thank you Dan

  • @AnymMusic
    @AnymMusic 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dan is the guy who will see a lesson opportunity in everything. I like it.

  • @des1458
    @des1458 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    such as underrated video should have 1 million views. doesn't matter how focused you are your environment will always be stronger

  • @sheikhshafayat6984
    @sheikhshafayat6984 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    The best Dan Lok video ever.
    I'm from a third world country- and I completely agree with you.
    Lots of thanks to you, Dan. I watch your every single video. And my life has been changed a lot from your lessons.

  • @mariuszmezykowski215
    @mariuszmezykowski215 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great, great!! Fully agree. I've moved country, learnt language I couldn't speak before, had no "friends" near me and I've already changed my life for better. There's still long way to be great but I believe I'm on my way. Thanks Dan!

  • @peterzhou3483
    @peterzhou3483 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm convinced. The environment plays a key role. As much as I want to push myself forward, there is a limitation. I don't know what I don't know. I need to get pulled.

  • @shrnlim6269
    @shrnlim6269 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes! I totally agreed to get away or spend less time to those they are not align in your goal! I myself came across this and after sometime I feel I’m improving after distance myself from them.

  • @danielseverin7936
    @danielseverin7936 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Never thaught I could learn so much from Dan in theese videos. It's like having an online mentor.
    Thanks Sifu Dan!

  • @ryanguzzy6599
    @ryanguzzy6599 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My biggest barrier (now very much overcome) used to be self confidence/reliance.
    Although it can be very scary and painful, putting 110% in the belief that you WILL overcome the obstacles no matter how big or small, and being able to make the sacrifices you will have to make is one of the most important things in achieving your goals I’ve come to find.
    Thank you Dan🙏🏻

  • @nicki120159
    @nicki120159 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Agreed 1000 percent, the reality is most people(including myself) miss these “Self-Evident Truths”.
    Way I see my life forward, this video confirms the path I have been on and will continue.
    For me, I don’t like to directly cut people off, rather I share paths I’m going and invite them to join the journey.
    If they choose to join, cool, if they pass, then by their actions leave my life.
    I keep doors open, while most won’t change their ways, some do.
    I figure if J.C. forgives and keeps things open for me, I will follow his example.

  • @thinkbig3743
    @thinkbig3743 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    really amazing advise , you can not succeed in sick environment , i did every thing but in 3rd world it is actually very difficult to succeed , you are really wise man

  • @theBSisreal
    @theBSisreal 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is true I mentioned to family members about the business that I wanted to start and all I heard was negativity. "They have that already" "What if it doesn't work" . I knew then I needed to distance myself from them I don't want to be around people that are going to make me doubt myself.

  • @armansever33
    @armansever33 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    So true.I experienced this with my family mom and dad.They have no vision nor courage.And also no respect to my desicions because they dont respect theirselves.
    But one thing i want to say that you can find oppourtunities even if you are in 3rd grown country. You are so true man thats why i leave my house and moved far away from my family and relatives. Thats my goal and an exam from god.I will pass this test and i ll be more powerful and wealty. Bc money is power, power is our to feel free and comfortable.
    Thanks man, cheers.
    From Turkey.

  • @thecloverartist
    @thecloverartist 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Im moving states tomorrow because plans came together perfectly last second. My family isn't the best role models and sometimes toxic. And something happened that made me realized I need a drastic change to my whole life. The first step is moving to my dream state where there are clients willing to spend the big bucks and a good place to start my business. The second step with this move is to change my habits as I move as well. New environment new me. My family may not understand but that's ok I believe in me. Luckily my fiance is 1000% on board with the changes and steps we are taking. I could sit here and say it's too soon I need more money but your videos have taught me to take life by the horns and just do it!

  • @aravinthbala1349
    @aravinthbala1349 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi bro..I just started watching ur videos for last 3 days..but I have watched more than 20 videos till now..u r absolutely great. I don't like to be anyone's fan..but u broke that..I am ur one of the fans with proud..finally i find a mentor ..thank god..luv u bro..definitely I'll reach u..

  • @wonderv14
    @wonderv14 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    that video describes all my thoughts through the years, what is really lacking me is my environment, and i am working hard to change my environment, with this solved i'm gonna unleash all my potential thanks dan nice video

  • @iniyavans5617
    @iniyavans5617 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yup i believe this. After a long time i realized this and moved out from the room where i have been with my friend. Thank you Dan lok.

  • @KaiserKhan
    @KaiserKhan 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dan I always learn from you , watch your videos to make my mind environment positive.
    Thank you very much.
    Lots of love from Pakistan.

  • @chadelliottfahlman-htcgrad7866
    @chadelliottfahlman-htcgrad7866 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Sifu,
    At the beginning of the month, I was in a desperate situation.
    An Influencer and I had parted ways and the transition was rough. The logical thing was to get a J-O-B (which I was not opposed to).
    But a hypothetical employer's schedule would conflict with Closers In Black. Plus, the time investment and money earned would never get me there. I decided to make my own way.
    My Mom in particular was not happy. She supports entrepreneurship provided you take 0 risk. Basically, I was treated like dog shit.
    There is no logical answer you can give people like that. In my heart, I knew that I had the skill & resourcefulness to make it happen - and I did!
    I'm happy to say that I will accept my award on stage. :-)
    The moral is, folks, don't take advice from people who don't have what you want.

  • @alphahuman9053
    @alphahuman9053 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    100% agreed. Its just about programming the mind. When your mind is totally programmed in the good direction,No one can spoil you.🌻🌻

  • @mansurbilla
    @mansurbilla 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    True, i spent less time with my negative friends, i got what i wanted now i am feel better.

  • @levoyageur6661
    @levoyageur6661 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Years ago I made this kind of decision, today I'm in a better place!
    Much love and respect to you Dan.
    MN, U.S

  • @Masi237
    @Masi237 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hi Dan. Thanks for the video, which means a lot to me at this time. I just made one of the most difficult decision of my life when leaving a company where I used to think that I would work for them for the whole life. It was hard but I am happy that I have left the negative people and toxic environment behind for a new company with new people and new energy. I was wondering if this decision was correct or not but After watching your video I completely believed in myself now.
    Thanks a lot ❤️

  • @breslabahnan8944
    @breslabahnan8944 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I will create distance between me and the people surrounding me because that’s how i can make decision, that will help me physically and mentally.
    Thank you sir , for sharing with us this important lesson. 🙏🌟

  • @happyangelsjuniorschools5326
    @happyangelsjuniorschools5326 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dan,thanks for your wisdom,I believe in relation to our surrounding, there is the element of fear/procrastination.
    There is always a fight within our minds,one says ;Do it now, the other says; wait,what if.
    In the end we get overwhelmed by fear and we surrender an idea however promising!

  • @muniakhan6283
    @muniakhan6283 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Im watching your videos most of the time lately :)

  • @leongcm4351
    @leongcm4351 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I recently received call from one of your graduates of HTC and talked for 30 minutes and one of the things we discussed was when i decided to get away from my home country and start up fresh in another country. If I could make one right decision then i could do another to be successful. Thanks Dan! Though I'm still trying to figure out how i can afford the course.

    • @meetimian3383
      @meetimian3383 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      May be I can help you in it :)

  • @DJASSMASTER710
    @DJASSMASTER710 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    No one in my life is who I want to become (including my family) I’m already doing my best to change my environment, programming, and life and your videos definitely help out, I’m a senior this year and my goal is to be an entrepreneur and a innovator and I’m trying to make it happen as fast as possible

  • @anonymousamerican8831
    @anonymousamerican8831 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I need to get away from my friends & family. They are very negative & have no motivation. They dont see the world the way i do. They dont understand dreams are important & can be obtained.

  • @chopcookeat3720
    @chopcookeat3720 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey dan Thanks a lot for your Videos! I'm 20 years old from Philippines, i watch your videos everyday and these are my best source of Motivation and learned a lot especially that i'm starting my own small business.

  • @rdzy123
    @rdzy123 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    "Whatever it takes"
    I want to change my career. I want to love what i do and do what i love.

  • @KuyaJessTV
    @KuyaJessTV 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey Sifu I strongly agree for what you said.I had conflict with my family before that I am always following the path that they want and at the age of 30 I realized I am not happy.So I move and leave alone and guess what I discover my inner self then I found your channel.You changed my life Thank you Sifu.

  • @ThomasCarvo
    @ThomasCarvo 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I think you end up holding yourself back much more than you may think. Reaching any level of success first starts with you and your mind. If you want it, you believe it is possible, and you will put yourself in positions to reach what it is that you want.

    • @DanLok
      @DanLok  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's right, Thomas.

  • @luceo-non-uro
    @luceo-non-uro 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Damn.. perfectly timed Dan. Recently moved in with some buddies from high school that have dragged me back into a drug filled life - which I absolutely cannot afford right now. The environment I’m in is unacceptable and it’s time to change it - after only 2 months I am aware of this.

  • @chizynweze4165
    @chizynweze4165 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    No more babies. Already have two kids ( a boy & a girl). The more the kids, the less savings for future plans because I always want to give my kids the best which is alot of money.

  • @rajeas
    @rajeas 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes I totally agree to this ,the surrounding is the biggest hindrance ,it makes you doubt yourself especially if you live in a conservative society with fixed mindset.Yes I'm trying my best to get out of it in search of better opportunities to help achieve my goals !

  • @deanbosse7358
    @deanbosse7358 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I went through a divorce Dan that went on for 5 years cost me about 400,000.00. I ran across your videos on TH-cam find them helpful. I have a small feedlot along with a cow heard, I also got a construction buisness I run when I’m not busy on the farm. I work with K State there ag mediation services, I also follow Dave Ramsey’s plan, it’s been tough with cattle prices making much headway on my long journey to get out of debt. It is very hard to budget when your on a farm money goes out about every day money doesn’t come in but just here and there. Watching your videos keeps me inspired when I sometimes just ready to give up. At 51 years old I don’t have so many years left to meet my task. Thankyou for all the videos.

  • @profitestpk
    @profitestpk 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dan, I wish I had a friend like you. Wishing you all the very best and to your business too!

  • @heheh6285
    @heheh6285 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks sifu Dan.
    Since I'm an introvert and have very few people to surround myself with, and not very much often either, I think one thing I can change is to associate more with people who have the same goal as mine so I can get there much sooner.

  • @lhdraw
    @lhdraw 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    So true. Thank you for reminder of how critical environment is. I'm moving out of my current home and moving in to a new office soon!

  • @Lzilkovski6
    @Lzilkovski6 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    100% agree. I cut off some friends that I’ve known for 5 + years that were toxic. And started working valet to practice being wealthy from the rich folks that come in. I’ve never been so motivated on my self improvement. Dan if you see this just remember the name. Also let dan Pena im coming for the throne.

  • @maryneoh246
    @maryneoh246 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Totally agree that I have to change my environment if I want to change my life. As a self employed person, it starts with as simple a step as choosing where I work from and what I am surrounded by when I work.

  • @denzpants9285
    @denzpants9285 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Law of attraction: I generally think i will attract the right people and believe some way somehow i will get it done and get my succes. I try to think and regulate my thoughts in a such a way to attract the right people and recently started my own business so i hope that way to come in contact with more succesfull people and when the student is ready the teacher will appear. So i hope i will find my teacher soon.

  • @hadassahropiha8528
    @hadassahropiha8528 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you sifu for another powerful video.
    What am I going to do I'm handing in my resignation today. Iv always wanted to leave my job because how toxic it can be at work but had stayed because it was more safe. I noticed being more safe isn't worth all the stress, headaches, disappointment, and all the negative emotions that come with it. So I'm taking that step towards a better and more powerful life and success

  • @celebrityplanet5544
    @celebrityplanet5544 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    dan what if that negative person is your parents. i mean lets say i can stay away from them but in the end it would hurt me when they leave this world. and i will regret it. how do we fix that dan ??? plz answer

  • @ShanAliDaudpoto
    @ShanAliDaudpoto 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    My Great Teacher, because of your knowledge that you have taught me I just have changed the mind of my family my friends and many more peoples who believe in job secure.
    My prayers are always with you.
    One day i will meet you My Great Teacher Dan Lok.
    When I become successful through following you teachings and skills.
    Take care My Great Teacher

  • @elizabethohonsi7939
    @elizabethohonsi7939 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dan, you have just hit the nail on the wall. I am inspired...l have taken a step of Faith and l know l am on the right track

  • @raymonddinga6261
    @raymonddinga6261 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is so true .. but for me number one is me my self and my attitude .. second is my environment .. we see in this video too at the last point it is our choice to have a good or bad environment so it means if we want to be in a good surrounding we ourself and attitude must be readily prepared for that environment

  • @Astral-Cosmonaut
    @Astral-Cosmonaut 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I found that turning my notifications off was one of the best things I did recently as I had no distractions and nobody to influence me

  • @englishcoach7772
    @englishcoach7772 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    A wonderful and profound metaphor. Haters can suck a big one. I see you helping thousands of people everyday. With straightforward and quality content. Thank you for every video!

  • @jpjp9111
    @jpjp9111 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's the environment. Good point.
    Even though my girlfriend supports me, what I'll need to do now is to figure out how to leave/end my longest relationship. She's not the ideal business partner and isn't into business at all. She may support me in this but she'll still only hold me back.
    It's not an easy choice but I'm trying to be serious about making money. Following your advice and making the perfect environment is the best thing to become successful. Thank you, Dan.

  • @SaeedHalawani
    @SaeedHalawani 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I didn't succeed yet but I am soooooooo damn happy since I have applied the circles theory on my life, this video confirmed that this is the true way of success and here i am moving forward for success, thank you so much for being a big part in my life DAN

  • @alnie981
    @alnie981 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    So true..Great advise💚.Im starting to have less time with my negative friends ..I've observe they unconsiously brain wash me,that may hindrance to my goal.

  • @Agrinihan
    @Agrinihan 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you chifu. This video is timely for me

  • @mihailkondov4773
    @mihailkondov4773 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dan, I feel like I am that friend from whom someone wants to be away to be successful. I want to improve so badly now. Thank you for lending me some help.

  • @kimi2390
    @kimi2390 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Love how you start off with a story :). You can find a lesson in everything

    • @kimi2390
      @kimi2390 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I want to change my environment by only watching educational videos (like this one), avoiding distractions from social media, and stop hanging around with negative people.

  • @kaio62324
    @kaio62324 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I completely agree Dan. I moved from the south of Italy to Dublin becauseI understood I couldn't grow anymore there, environment was killing my talent.

  • @johelectrix7927
    @johelectrix7927 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I was right over my hunch even though I really change why somebody goes first before I had the idea or I dream the impossible its just the environment thanks Dan!!! I will do it for the sake of holiness and enrichment.

  • @ATInstitute
    @ATInstitute 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you DanLok, you just confirm my quote.... Surround yourself with those that will bring the best out of you... and you didnt limit it to environment, but also Television or watching Videos insteading of reading....
    Just watched one of you videos this morning: 7 Skills you need to Master, which the greatest is the Ability to Manage Your Own Mind(Mindset Skills).
    Thank You..
    Warm Regards from Nigeria (The Giant of Africa)