The Dark Side of Family Vlogging Channels: 8 Passengers
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okayy hey bestiesss! how we feeling today? So this is Part 2 of the family vlogging channel videos and here is
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Her son has no friends and nobody likes him. Then he finally gets compliments and nice things said to him on his Instagram an her first instinct was delete it. This woman is creating so much trauma on to these kids it’s crazy.
My life! #narcissiticdadlife
This is the worst part of it all.
She needs to be locked up, with the key thrown away.
I wanna be his friend now :/
That’s not true.... why are y’all speaking for this family? These videos are sad..
they’re going to throw their kids out when they turn 18, yet they’ve profited off of them for years??? they’re so sick ew
Same energy as people who abandon their dogs when they grow up and are not as cute as they were as puppies. The younger the child, the more views they get you know.
Shari is 18 now I wonder where she’s gonna go
At this point I think these family vlogger kids need their own labor union.
@@carolbaskin1857 i believe shes going to college now
I completely agree with you
food isn't a privilege. It is her job to provide food to her kids, even if they misbehave. she is enforcing the idea that food is only allowed when it is deserved. not only will she give them trauma, but she is also leading them down a path to eating disorders. also, hailey, i discovered you two weeks ago and I'm so happy I did, you're so awesome
Memento mori :)
Omg one time I was talking about this in a comment section and someone fricken argued with me about it. They literally were blaming the child.
When I was younger, me and my dad did not have a good relationship and would sometimes not speak to each other for days but he'd still cook for me. And that was when I was a teen. Imagine being 5 and your mom doesn't care about you being hungry in kindergarten. So messed up
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@@MM-vl2os that poor 5 year old :(
the fact that this was made 2 years ago and she just recently got arrested is crazy.
Thats what i cant believe. Its crazy
Typical, most abused children never get rescued
I wish ppl would do more of these and start coming together early to help victims before it gets worse, thanks to haleigh for exposing these weirdos early on
I was thinking the same thing
Fr, fucking crazy.
i’m 19 and if i forgot to pack a lunch for work my mom would show up with the entire grocery store. how can you punish your 5 year old by not feeding her? that’s sick
yeah like they think that children can't make mistakes and have fun and have to be adults at such a young age. Plus I know for a fact they have no intention of sharing the money the KIDS are making. Literally, they are the reason they are so rich and the mom has the audacity to take away needs like a bed and food/dinner. I hope the kids become happy and successful and the parents go broke.
One of her children was sick at school, the child was then punished by Ruby and Ruby even admits to being verbally abusive to her daughter claiming it was a “tongue lashing” because her daughter didn’t vomit Twice. She said “you are to stay in school, don’t even bother me if your not throwing up at least twice.” I never been that upset with a parent....
@@melissagallagher8311 that some MESSED UP SHIT BRO
@@skillissue816 she didn’t believe her own daughter she questioned the sickness. like even if the daughter wasn’t sick most of the older children say that they don’t have any friends at school & most likely because of the content there parents post. 🥺
Imagine being the girl who likes Chad & having Ruby read your private messages for all of TH-cam.
Like ruby doesn’t even work she could have easily given the lunch to Eve my mum and dad both work and I’m 11 and once I forgot my lunch and it took my mum 2 hrs to get there and back but she still did it .
The fact that her children tell her ON CAMERA that they aren't comfortable being filmed and have no friends because of it and yet she just IGNORES and LAUGHS at them is so gross.
It’s so sad :(
They aren’t even children to her they are dollar signs
Especially like-imagine how hard it is for them to even say something to her. I was so intimidate by my mom, I would rarely speak up against her when I was young, and she’s nothing like this lady 👀😣
It's so upsetting, imagine your entire school knowing why you're in trouble at home or when you get your period.
There's a reason why doctors have you in a safe space when talking about your period or bodily and why teachers take the kids outside and talk to them.
This is just so embarrassing.
id run away omg
What frustrates me is that these kids are literally paying for their house and they can’t get basic respect
Underrated comment
Or basic things like food apparently ｡･ﾟﾟ*(>д
No literally it’s so embarrassing...
What the fuck
The damn audacity
Your profile pic wins
The fact Chad isn't entirely sure why his bed was taken away is a HUGE red flag. Coming from a household where I got punishments I didn't know what for, it messes with your mind so much. AND SEVEN MONTHS?
Also if the whole point of punishment is for the kid to learn better and not do whatever they did wrong how are they supposed to do that if they don’t even know what they did wrong??
This poor kid, I feel for them because my dad would do that to me as well and it screws with you so much
The punishment was probably because he didn’t film it for content.
boo hoo
Probably because it was fun for the parents to humiliate him.
Her not taking her five year old lunch at school. “I hope no one gives her food” children cannot learn if they are hungry. Imagine being in a cafeteria watching other kids eat and knowing your mom isn’t bringing you food because you don’t “deserve” it.
it’s 100% child abuse! I hope they end up okay :(
What I also hate about the situation is that she basically hates on the teacher saying that they must be uncomfortable which is why she’s asking. And it’s like um no? The teacher simple cares for you child’s well being
@@leeminhyung167 why does your child’s teacher care more about your child than you?
@@leeminhyung167 She used the wrong word there; "Uncomfortable" is the wrong word,because that makes the meaning of the sentence different.
The word she should've looked for is *concerned* .Her child's teacher was more *concerned* for their child's well-being than the parent was.
@@vloggerbonakid6178 concerning is a good word.
If she treats her children like this on camera, it's scary to think how she treats them when the camera isn't on. She is a narcissistic monster.
I mean think about it, when Chad mentioned that they took his bed away for 7 months, Ruby said “oh they didn’t know that, we didn’t tell them that”
I feel like the dad is low key abusive to her and the kids
they frequently make offhand comments on “i have to ask for this now because she only says yes when she’s filming” and “she’ll only let us do this when she’s filming”
@@Emily-hu5oe that is so sad. I can't imagine how nasty she must be when the camera is off. They really should not have a following on TH-cam. She doesn't deserve a TH-cam following.
And they all say she is much stricter and meaner off camera, in many videos the kids say they turn on the cameras and start filming when they get in trouble because they know ruby won’t go insane on camera
“Her teacher is uncomfortable with her not having lunch and being hungry”. Why aren’t YOU as a mom uncomfortable with it? And then for her to say her solution is to be hungry and she hopes no one shares food with her
"her teacher is uncomfortable" yeah like ma'am??? 5 year olds are not responsible for their own well-being! hopefully she was provided with a cafeteria lunch ffs kids who are hungry cannot learn or grow to their potential
How does thus comment have 1.2k likes and just one comment lol? Hmmmm
Ikr
@@phangirl2484 I feel like this kind of parent is more suited to like a 16 year old, but she’s five, that’s insane.
Yeah no shit any sane adult would be horrified at a child denied food.
making a five year old pack their own lunch is inappropriate. that's not okay, it's unfair. "hopefully nobody gives her food" oh my 😭
My mom packed my lunch until I was in 8th grade 😂 so it’s ridiculous she makes them when they are so young I can understand making them get there snacks they want but she could make a sandwich or something
I remember that I tried to pack my own lunch when I was in kindergarten and my mom ended up having to help me do it because I didn't know what I was doing. I think it's good if a kid wants some Independence but you have to show them and most likely remind them. It's her job as a parent to make sure that the kid has a lunch it's not her kid's job especially at the age of five to remember five year olds are kind of dumb. And it's not their fault they're five their brains are kind of wired in an ADHD kind of way they're not going to be thinking about all the consequences that could happen
i made my own breakfast & lunch every day at age 7!
@@kittysmith5919 sorry you had to raise yourself. You deserved to be a child.
I’m in high school and my mom still packs my lunch.
Depriving your child of food like breakfast, lunch, or dinner is sick. Take their phone or a toy but not their food.
Right like I get why she took his phone away but for that long no like I get a week or 1 month but not that long
I agree. That’s abuse and it fosters a very unhealthy relationship with eating.
she called dinner a privilege... what the actual fuck
@@napatora oh god
@@napatora i can kinda see it, like it’s a privilege to be able to afford food on your plate three times a day and not be starving but to associate food as a thing that can be taken away for misbehaving like a phone or toy is just downright wrong and abuse.
All kids deserve parents but not all parents deserve kids 💅
Facts! Most people want kids but are definitely not qualified or prepared for it. And then they wonder why their kids hate them when their older.
So true
exactly this is true!
✨PERIOD✨
Boy do I know that to be true. As both a former social worker and former teacher, I can attest: a person shouldn’t reproduce just because they can reproduce.
"Parents" who starve their childeren as punishment are literally the worst type of evil. That's one thing that I would never do if I had kids.
Or judge them if they ate and how much or little
it’s exactly how an ED gets started, I hope these poor kids can get away from these families
Literally the worst!
A child called it
That’s abuse it doesn’t matter what age if you starve someone you are a monster
2 YEARS LATER and the mom finally had been arrested. This is sad this craziness have been going on for YEARS
Arrested for what actually?
@@Amishathakur_ You don't wanna know.
@@GrorfnOnTheLoose550 umm. Can u tell?
@@Amishathakur_she was arrested on 6 counts of child abuse, kinda annoyed me that no one was trying to tell you lol
@@rixannah928 thank you for letting me know :)
She won’t tell us what Chad did but will record and post her children’s bra shopping, puberty talk, shaving, punishments, and that one time she recorded them in short clothes (crop tops and tight, short, low dresses) and said they shouldn’t dress like that but then proceeds to zoom in and record them in those outfits!?
😬😬
Yikes 😬
Literally and the scary part is that there are pedophiles that are watching too just for the child content so u would think the mom would try and protect them but she grabs her handy dandy vlog camera📷😃and doesn't even try to protect the content their children are put in
I can feel the frustration radiating from this comment and let me just say anyone with common sense is equally as infuriated
@Sasha money’s money 🥴🥴🥴🥴🥴🥴 disgusting!!!!
In 10-15 years Ruby is going to be crying to her friends that all of her kids are ungrateful because they no longer speak to her or want her in their lives.
What friends?? 😂😭
@@rebeccaschallenges4451 Her three other sisters who also have TH-cam channels and are about as negligent as she is.
@@thats-too-salty 😭😭😭
Like so many other narcissistic mothers..."after all I've done for them"...🤢
what friendsss exactly???
they are EXTREMELY toxic towards chad. I remember when they started checking his text messages...
On his FLIP PHONE
I can’t even 🤦🏽♀️
Gosh i felt so bad for him 💔
YES OMG AND THEY WERE BEING SO HORRIBLE
I’d understand checking your teens text messages if they were in trouble or acting strange but those parents did it out of venomous toxic behaviour.and it’s appalling to know parents like them have no dignity of privacy.
Disgusting!
Not to mention the other kids
This parenting reminds me of how messed up my mom was.
Me and my 3 siblings all had 1 single color coded cup, one cup for every single drink, and one mug for hot drinks. We were NOT allowed to use other cups.
One night my sister was thirsty so she got up in the middle of the night, went to the kitchen, and her cup was dirty from the previous night, so she grabbed a different cup.
My sister got yelled at the next morning when my mom found the cup by her bed. She got grounded "indefinitely" meaning whenever my mom decided to take her off restrictions, then she would but there was no time frame. (A lot of times I'd be grounded til for example Tuesday, then Tuesday would come and my mom would decide I didn't learn my lesson and needed another week to "think about my actions."
But that's not the wildest part, because while my sister was grounded, she became severely depressed, considering she wasn't allowed to do anything except sit on her bed in her room and stare at the wall. So my sister decided to run away. She ran away, my dad went and got her, and then she was grounded indefinitely AGAIN, AND had to write 10,000 sentences that said something like "I love my home life and my family and vow to never disrespect my family by abandoning them" something so psychologically messed up.
My poor sister was grounded for around 9 months. No computer, no internet, no TV, no playing outside, no video games, no reading for fun, nothing. She was allowed to breathe and that was it. For 9 months.
Bottom line, don't have kids if you wanna be a controlling SOB.
This made me so sad I cried. I can't imagine living like that as a kid. I hope you and your siblings are all adults and doing well now. Bless you.
And how are you and your siblings doing ? And your sister ? Really traumatising stuff. How long ago was this?
@@happyclappy1805 oldest is 33 (I think, ran away at 17), second oldest is 30 (ran away at 17), 3rd is my sister that was grounded is 28 (ran away at 20), and I'm 26 and ran away at 18. We are all THRIVING (the best we can) actually, me and my 28yr old sis are the only ones without kids, but all of us kids are married to great people, we all have decent(ish) jobs, some of us are still in therapy, thank you for asking - we have grown a lot even though we do still suffer from time to time from the past, but we still all have each other, and that's the most special part for me. ❤️
@@urltima that’s amazing that you all even though you parents were awful became good people! And also very sad that you all had to run away
Sorry that’s terrible, I grew up with a narcissistic controlling mother as well, I have 2 beautiful daughters and got to be the mother I never had, our household operated on 100% trust and respect, so you can totally thrive after abuse, you will do great and as time past I actually just feel a lot of pity for my Mom, because of her controlling and abusive nature she missed out on so much, I feel sad for her that she was never able to have the wonderful relationship with me I have with my daughters. I’m no longer angry, I was when I was younger now I’m sad for her mostly she missed out on so much and my relationships are amazing. You pay a high price for being a controlling abuser, you can take comfort in that.
Bottom line: the mother is a total narcissist. Makeup to the nines and constantly posing for the camera while she embarrasses her kids. Ruby will be lucky if her kids ever talk to her once they become adults and move out. My guess is NOT!
That's a better outcome than if the kids adopt narcissistic traits to combat their mothers narcissism. Either way, it's awful for them to be exposed to her toxicity.
@ agreed
For sure she is. No question
Yeah, my sisters brother and I were raised by a narcissistic mother and we all plan on never speaking to her again once the two youngest have moved out. I only live with them because of financial reasons. Other than that I have my own life.
Honestly that's probably what she's looking forward too. She's so vain that she can't wait to have her "own life" again. But when they DONT include her in important moments, where SHE CAN SHINE, as the "mom that raised them" she will be pissed.
She only wants the attention.
"hopefully no one feeds her at school," of course they did. i was a preschool teacher and if a kid didn't have a lunch, i divided up my lunch for them. because that's how you should treat a five year old!!!! they have literally been on the earth for five years they are learning!!
edit: woah. this is the most freaky family, i hope those kids heal after leaving them.
Just a question, what country do you teach in?
My preschool supplied food for its young ones, so I was just wondering.
@@bucketobviously5499 I remember UK preschool (reception and year 1) gave kids lunch and everytime there was a break (recess I think in USA) you were allowed to take a snack like a fruit or vegetable.
@@OJ.17 cool, I went to pre school in New Zealand so I was just wondering if it was only in nz. I remember we were allowed to bring our own lunches but there was always food there.
@bucket obviously /// i live in the US in Illinois and at the schools I went to, the same thing happened. we had hot lunch, which was the school's pre-made lunches, and cold lunch, which was the stuff you brought from home. you had a school account that your parents put money in if you want to get hot lunch (it was like 3 dollars for each lunch i think) and some kids got hot lunch every day while other got it every time there were like chicken nuggets or smth. also they had ice cream on certain days and that was like a dollar
personally for me in my short experience of working kindergarten, we provided lunches when the kids didn't pack one, so I doubt she wasn't given anything. I would have given the kid food outta spite myself at least.
i used to watch them when i was younger and think how cool it was but now growing up and thinking and looking back at that channel i would be so embarrassed because if my family put everything on the internet everyone in my school would know
Same I am so disappointed in them and was so naive. I even defended them uff
i was soooo jealous back then because I genuinely wanted to be their kids. now as i am almost an adult, i realize that they (the children) are exploited and it's overall really toxic.
i didnt even think of the school thing. literally everyone knows everything about you
I literally wanted to be filmed and have a TH-cam channel when I was little. I thought it was awesome. But now that I’m older and hear about family channels, I’m just disgusted and feel horrible for the kids.
@@nunungo9788 lol off topic but I speak Somali and “uff” means eww/that’s disgusting
I am so hoping that when chad turns 18 he just comes out and says the truth/all the awful things and gets TF away from his crazy parents...
I wonder if Shari did since shes over 18 now
@@payelizabethh2131 apparently in college she's cutting communication with her parents
@@payelizabethh2131 she did th-cam.com/video/d8vDhRwBmIE/w-d-xo.html
Chad is now free🤞🏼🤞🏼
"her teacher is uncomfortable with her being hungry" OR she's a good teacher who realizes that children need to eat to be able to function, and she's 5?!?
Exactly
Clingy children aren’t clingy because their parents provided them with the love, attention, and proper care, they’re clingy because they aren’t given those things- ruby is just horrible 😡
Yeah, but the teach could go to the cafeteria and get food
@@urfavleo07 the teacher has at least 20+ children in her class, teachers are underpaid, teachers can't start providing lunch to students who forget their lunch or that are being punished and not provided lunch.
@@frankie8233 that's so true and so sad
Can we just appreciate how respective she is to the children, blurring out their faces. We need more people like this, why isn’t she so much bigger?!?
omg, i was thinking the same thing
Guys her channel is 2 months old, 7 videos out lol
We’ll just have to keep liking and commenting so that changes!
i’m so happy she’s getting bigger tho!
@@catyatzee4143 ik that's why its so impressive. she's come into this with incredible quality right of the bat, that's rare.
she basically expoilts all of her children I can't imagine how these kids are going to feel when they see these years from now
The kids aren’t allowed phones or internet so they don’t know
@@sallyter1409 im sure people at school have phones and internet so im sure they feel some type of way.
In 20 years there's gonna be a big exposé or documentary featuring all these gen alpha kids that have been filmed since birth. I can't imagine how traumatic it would be to grow up with your every day life being commented on by millions of strangers. It's bad enough when this happens to child actors, never mind when the "set" is your family home and the "scenes" are you being humiliated.
@@bangitybangbabang Yesssss they should do that I would watch that
Exactly! There must be some regulation for these
As someone who was neglected as a child, this makes me want to cry. Seeing the unhealthy and unbalanced meal she packed for herself reminds me of when I was a kid, when I didn't know what limits I should set for my diet. Now I have a binge eating disorder. Neglect is a horrible, terrible thing and it pains me so much knowing that that poor girl will grow up traumatized and confused. I hope she finds someone who shows her what it feels like to be cared for one day.
Ruby better not be surprised when all her kids turn 18 and never contact her again
Literally
Love ur pfp btw
Yep. She asked for it
They will be better off.
Her grandchildren will be like "grandma who?"
"My kids are not welcome to live with me after they turn 18"
All of their children: "gladly"
Accept Shari the snitch
Because at 18 they have rights and can say no... Therefore she only wants minors who she can freely exploit. Its sick and sad her smile is like a super villains she like Rita from the power rangers.
@@spazarellapoet8735 yup. at 18 legally she has no more control of her ✨kids✨ they have the actual LEGAL right to be like bitch fuck off. so instead of dealing w that she’s kicking them out since she’s not going to be able to control them anymore
I would never kick my children out because they turned 18 😂 what is the logic
@@Truther1903 that's wild for me to hear because my mom always said we were gonna be out the door the day after our 18th birthday as if it was normal, but my brother is 23 and still living with her so turns out she was full of it (even tho I ended up living w my dad I still moved out at 17- I don't recommend it lol)
So Chad played a joke on Russel like kids do, LIKE SIBLINGS DO, taking away his bed FOR SEVEN MONTHS is way way too extreme. All of these things are unacceptable but that really got me
Right same and like the mom and her other kids would do the same kind of stuff and get chad was the only one punished for it:/
Yet* instead of get
@@amya1803 exactly it’s very unfair 😢
She she did say he could chose to get his bed back when ever he wanted. Also he didn’t do seven months and he chose it I’m not saying I agree but y’all are mad at chad
@@merveillemusangu2562 well like I feel like the parents said that but it wasn’t true like I saw a comment somewhere saying that if he had the couch he probably would of gone back to his bed the next day and also in a vid he double the size of the bean bag so It seems really uncomfortable to have to that
when Russell and Chad were “fighting” they were clearly laughing and having fun. i’m not sure how ruby doesn’t know bc she grew up in a big family that siblings play fight. it’s COMPLETELY normal. also, eating is not a privilege it’s a necessity.
“It’s not healthy for Chad to be on Instagram” but yet he’s being recorded daily, yep makes sense
He's not allowed to have his own success, he can only be successful as a tool for his parents
She’s a controlling narc. What psycho parents. There will be further repercussions that result from the damage the did to them.
Right? What a fricken hypocrite the mother is.
She was just mad he was getting interaction that wasn't about her.
Yes, its also extremely healthy to starve a growing child ruby is sick
Imagine watching your parents exploit you for money and views, and all you get is a flip phone, constant restrictions and punishment :/
It's so sad I'm really scared to see what its gonna do to kids mental health in the upcoming years and mkre
@@canadianboy5578 Exactly! It's really damaging. Their kids' social life was even affected. No privacy. So sad
Don’t forget being kicked out at 18 😕
@@Eve-hb i think they’d prefer to leave as soon as possible, a sad truth
Hahaha I understand what it’s like
“Chad was getting too much of his identity from Instagram” heaven forbid the kid has an identity of his own…. Classic narcissistic parents .
Social media is also a normal thing for kids his age too… taking something as common as Instagram is kinda dumb not to mention she posts his entire life on TH-cam so it doesn’t matter
Honestly, I'm surprised they didn't have a problem with the comments he was getting. He's a literal minor, and he was getting comments that were frankly objectifying and inappropriate, and I wouldn't be happy if my kid was getting those comments.
But that really wasn't the issue, apparently.
"he was getting too much of his identity from instagram" say the parents who broadcast their children's entire lives on youtube
right?! parents vlogging his entire life yet HES getting his identity from Instagram... how ironic of them.
It's pretty clear they want to give him his identity. That's why they are so strict and send him to an ultra religious and controlling school.
Chads going to turns 18, the WILL NEVER see him again, and rightfully so. They deserve to lose him and he deserves to have life where his privacy is respected!
the fact those kids will NEVER speak to their parents after they leave lmao
@@areitikeyks true that’s probably the worst part about this, they probably think this is normal too
@@areitikeyks I’m hopeful they will see that people all over the world online can see how they are treated is not right and I would think it would valid a lot of their feelings.
Though as someone who grew up with a narcissistic parent it took a looong time for me to move past defending them.
They're gonna kick out and push away all 6 children at the age of 18 and act shocked when they don't wanna come visit during the holidays
@@pidanjones2486 yeah, I actually watched the video of Shari turning 18, and Ruby said that she wouldn’t kick out her kids if they are still in high school when they turn 18, but I think she said after the graduate, that’s when they need to leave. But still, when they don’t come for the holidays, she’ll act like she did nothing wrong
They will. There are worse out there. If you are brought up this way you view it as normal.
I can’t believe he got his IG account deleted because he got COMPLIMENTS 😩😩😩
that’s some toxic ass energy… like oh no my son is getting nice things said to him abs the spotlight is off me gotta delete his account….
It’s like she doesn’t want her son getting any attention besides the attention ruby gives him
Okay but hear me out...a lot of it was weird. Like, I'd be creeped out if I got those comments. I'd be creeped out if my teenaged kid was getting those comments. But like, her issue wasn't "My minor son is getting objectifying comments, which is creepy and not something he should have to be exposed to". It was...idek.
@@Parrot5884 exactly it wasn’t for the good reasons. i get his comments where creepy. but she didn’t say oh my son was getting nasty comments and i want to protect him. she did it out of spite cuz he was getting more attention than me. she probably didn’t even give a shit about the comments. it was only cuz he was getting the ✨fame✨ she really is a disgusting human being.
she films everything about her kids. the bad the good the uncomfortable for her OWN PROFIT, without her childrens consent but the moment her son says hey lemme do something for MYSELF, she says no.
i have never left a comment this big on youtube in my life, but this woman angers me so much. i had to
@@katreannakelly6327 Right? Like, she didn't say "He was getting creepy comments"
She was literally like "It gives him attention, so it's gotta go. No social media attention unless I'm the one putting him out there and _my_ face is on it!"
Like, doesn't she think that he might get his identity from their YT channel as well??? If they're vlogging their kids, and removing food as punishment, clearly the kids' wellbeing isn't their priority.
Lol, I make long comments when I'm passionate about shit too. It's nice to vent.
She laughs when they talk about him sleeping with no bed but then tells them not laugh when talking about the Disney thing! Like girl what! You are laughing at abusing ur son!
It's families like hers that make me upset about my Disney job. I have to be kind and be a magical Disney Guest Service Princess... but you can see how miserable her kids are, and they're usually so mean and nasty to the cast members. It's even worse when they complain that it's too loud to film in the lobby. I had a vlogger mom report me to my manager because I told her I do not want to be in her video, I do not want to be recorded, I wouldn't assist her unless she put the camera away... Her family was there for some Christmas event Disney was hosting for media.
@@HanasRoom they are so obsessed with the camera and recording everything but don’t live in the moment and enjoy it.
@@HanasRoom ugh. Its one thing to film memories...but that isn't it..
@@meghanhixon3241 It's really weird seeing all of these things come up about Family Vloggers come out now, I mean it's good, but a lot of the photos or video clips used are right after some interaction with CM that wasn't very "family friendly".
@@HanasRoom what’s CM?
collect your “here after ruby was arrested” ticket here
A few hours ago, there were only 25 claimed tickets
Now there are 75
it’s sad that she thinks the way she punishes her children is funny. taking away a bed, no dinner?? that’s not a punishment that’s abuse.
I agree, the worse punishment I ever got was my door taken off and my phone taken away for talking to guys on kik and Ifunny.. lol this is another level
Exactly, no dinner? I’ve been punished by like no phone for a month and stuff of that nature but no food????!??
@@mileena2637 same!! she shouldn’t have children if she doesn’t know how to actually punish them.
For prolonged periods of time, yeah.
@@CloroxBleachRose you got your bed taken for asking for a new phone??
she’s literally 5 years old . i’m 15 and my mom still packs my lunch . that’s absolute bullshit
Or tell us do we have food and if the 5 years old packs lunch for herself the mom is going to complain about it if your going to complain then pack lunch for her stop acting like a big baby
Im 19 and my mom still makes me food if she notices I have eaten. That child is literally 5
Seriously. Im 15 too and if I go to someone's house for like, the afternoon she'll make sure I bring a snack lmao. Food is literally the most important thing besides water
my mom packs my sister lunch if my mom misses one food item in the lunch she goes insane and start crying then we go to the school and drop it off I don’t understand how that lady is just okay with her daughter not eating
@Zachary does gacha Good for you Zachary! Keep at it!
Has anyone ever noticed... it’s always the super religious, high school sweet hearts, who have 16 kids, and have this “amazing perfect life” that end up having a house of horrors instead of a home
@Ashlee Harvey sweetie nobody said that. You feeling called out?
@Ashlee Harvey actually pagans and witches have some things called, respect, freewill and they don't try to force others to live a life they don't want. So yeah I would say they do live better life.
@Ashlee Harvey it’s not appropriate for someone who can’t read to call another person a fool.
yeah, because it's impossible to still be the same person you were in high school, and still be with the same person. there is so so much more to experience in life than just one person. how boring it must be
@@HanHanMC lmao. Well I wouldn’t say that. I just meant all the things together. This “perfect” charade. They always end up being nuttier than JIFFs Crunchy PB
A five year old can’t pack a lunch, they can help you pack a lunch but they don’t understand what a nutrient rich lunch is and they NEED to eat they are growing. Ugh it makes me so mad I’m glad those teachers were looking out for her daughter and I know they feed her
People will argue that raising kids in a “military” way will toughen them up and give them thick skin. As an actual military brat. No, it did not toughen me up. It gave me mental health issues and the unhealthy ability to mask. Now I have the deathly fear of disappointing people and aim to please to the point where it’s unhealthy. Just treat your kids like humans who are growing and maturing. A 5 year old isn’t going to understand right from wrong or the concept of going hungry. Jesus.
The way I think teaching is you should be strict, but do not take away their social life. Tell them straight their mistakes and be strict, buy do not overdue because if you scold too much it will bring too much fear and it will also mean less at the same time. But to tell them their mistakes straight you have to make sure they also know mistakes are ok.
Military way alone doesn't fill in the emotional and character growth so you need something more.
I want my children to think he is when I fail, I tell myself...
"I have failed, I am a failure and what I have done is disappointing. How am I going to fix it? How am I good to be better? What is the most effective and efficient way to fix the issue."
Then I do it.
@@CommentRodent literally this. Like treat them as an independent individual whom you love. That entirely covers being strict, encouraging, teaching, informing, correcting, and caring. Like some adults are just so power hungry they turn parenting into ONLY managing
@@breathoffreshair7795 It does get more complicated.
You must know your child really well to know what to take away from them and what not to.
When you have to disipline your child, make them fear you greatly, but- BUT... Do not make them fear you without lesson and love.
Fear is the fire in their flower fields.
And the love and lessons you give them is the sun.
The thing they did wrong are weeds killing the flowers.
Burn their garden to kill the weeds and regrow it with your sun, but frequent fires can damage and slow the regrowth of the flowers, so keep restraint and encourage complete growth before you must destroy it again.
Be wary, do not burn the whole field, for flowers need to be left to start growth again, but when flowers are left, weeds will always be left within those flowers to continue to contaminate their flower field.
My step dad tried the military approach when he came into my life in middle school. He's military. It made me depressed and anxious and caused a lot of problems because I was already suffering from ptsd from being raped from 8-10 and never seeing therapy. I tried to kill myself by 13 and then I was constantly having emotional breakdowns until I moved out a month after turning 18 and almost completely cut off contact aside from holidays. Also I feel exactly how you do about being a disappoinment to the point where if I'm not over achieving in every aspect of my life I feel like a complete failure but I also don't give myself credit when I do accomplish amazing tasks.
@@shoelacy7101 That's why parenting so hard. I give credit to my parents. Be too strict, you make them suffer. Be too soft, you lose authority.
Life sucks and I wish you well.
I'm just a bad person trying my best to be good.
I've been depressed alot due to feeling like a failure, and I try my hardest.
Everytime someone insults me or tries to attack me in a way, I feel nothing because it is nothing compared to the challenges I'm facing that I can't even run from.
I could probably go through what you went through and survive, but giving myself too much credit like I'd come out someone sane since I'm already pretty insane myself from only my mind and school tormenting me.
I hope you are doing well today and I wish you the best.
The fact those kids are getting bullied should have been enough for Ruby to stop
She’s bullying them too
no thats just depressing. Although I have very strict parents, that just crosses ALL the lines
Also saying your kids aren’t welcome back home after 18 is so toxic…. I had an amazing job and lost it due to covid and couldn’t pay my rent. My parents invited me back home when I was 25. Spending time with them every day now that they’re older is something I cherish being able to do.
They wont even see them when they turn 18 their gonna run away and never look back to them
The fact that once they don’t legally have to have them stay, they kick them out says a lot that they don’t care about their children. 18 is still a child (although not legally) name one 18 year old that can take care of themselves 100% and has their life together. Makes my blood boil!! Mom screams narcissist
A child is for life. Even as an adult, we need our parent's as a soft place to fall.
I’m almost 40 and my parents would still let me come home anytime if I needed to. My mom actually begs me too every once in a while lol.
@@mandaleemilly6367 You're lucky. I'm invisible to my parent's.
“They don’t allow their children room for mistakes.” No wiser words have been spoken especially by a young woman also of whom isn’t a mother (no offense meant). That speaks volumes about you’re character and good vibes. It’s also so very true. It’s damaging to those children.
“The privilege to eat dinner” just screams emotional abuse
It’s also neglect because she’s supposed to provide for her kids
Yes
Dinner isn't even a privilege lmao
It's a necessity. Is Ruby THAT stupid?
This reminds me of parents who tell their children they should be grateful that they're feeding them, etc. Even though that's the duty of being a parent in the first place.
@@ItBeThatWaySometimes same my mom did it for two years. Didn’t pay attention in church? No lunch or dinner . I told my dad he threatened divorce if she didn’t cut it out .
He’s been sleeping on a bean bag chair for 7 months for playing a prank on his younger brother.... someone needs to call cps this is insane man
yeah, like hes a teen, that could seriously fuck his spinal cord up, his growth up, not to mention his HEAD up, among other things
@@IDontKnow-pf6en that’s just insane to me these people are fucking crazy
The fact that she threatens to take away their food is another reason for why these kids need to be taken away
7 months. SEVEN MONTHS
11:37 this part really send me off
Psycho, they dont even have happiness from interaction with their brother
The fact you put ur child in a camp and take away their bed just bc they talk back ti their teacher you should be talking to your child not giving them intense punishments
I love how the Verizon guy was quick with his answer… “yep” lmao and he’s right. No kid has a flip phone.. then you go through it at the table and read his private messages OUT LOUD to everyone. It’s bad enough they read them but to the whole family. And they’re also invading the girls privacy who he’s texting.
rubys ways of parenting literally makes me so mad like it's not even parenting at this point she just controls them like puppets
She’s literally making money off her kids which is absolutely disgusting she uses them for clickbate
Calling dinner a privilege 💀 I can't cope that lady is scary
@@bangitybangbabang with ruby as your mother it must be..
sick ppl do sick things
At first I wasn’t sure if this was child neglect, but I’m sure it is now
Ruby is a typical narcissist mom: the kids are just props for her ego. She doesn't care about them.
She likes the idea of having kids and how u said doesn’t really care.
💯
I can’t stand her!
she uses them for money/views
I’ve always thought this…. PLS the way her kid could literally be dying and she would talk about how SHE felt about it onggg
One of the things that scares me the most is that once the children turn 18 the parents will have no intention of sharing with them the money they deserve and that THEY (the kids) made.
Absolutely.. the only reason people watch is for the kids. No one wants to watch the abusive parents
Unfortunately it's the sacrifice they'll have to make for freedom
I wonder if any of the kids can take them to court and sue for any profits made off of their pain and suffering? Probably not
There should be a mandatory trust like they do for child actors.
@@bsteph5019 when they're older and all the other youtube family children are older, who knows if they could sue maybe even youtube in a class action and get some laws made. We may have to rely on these kids growing up and actually having the motivation to fight back after everything they've been through...we will just have to see. H3H3 sued someone and won a landmark case, setting precedent for anyone else who is sued for the same thing. It was a huge deal. We can only hope.
The whole food thing was terrible. I'm 15, so obviously I can cook some things myself but my mom mainly cooks dinner and sometimes we get into fights, and sometimes I missed dinner because I was mad or upset and again because I'm stubborn I hate asking for food when I'm hungry but my mom's usually in the kitchen late anyways I'll come out of my room at 2 am starving cause I didn't eat anything and no matter the argument, how small or big she'll usually be like "You hungry? You want leftovers or do you want me to make you something?"
It doesn't matter how much we fight, we love eachother and any good parent would feed their kid no matter what. Whether their solely responsible or not because that's what a loving parent would do.
No matter how much we fight, I know at the end of the day my mother loves me and if I needed anything she would be there in a heart beat.
At the age of 5 my mother was so extra too, she would pack my lunch box to the brim for no reason and give me cute little notes that say stuff like "I love you! Have a great bud. Xoxo" and I'm not ashamed to admit it, I loved those cute little letters.
Honestly I have a great relationship with my mother, so this just breaks my heart.
I can't image just sitting around my peers as they eat lunch and you're just starving because your mother refused to drive over to you and get you something to eat because she thinks it's your responsibility as a 5 year old.
Truly terrible.
init my mams a nightmare but she always gets food down my neck hahaha
“Mom can you not film it”
Ruby: tee hee no ❤️
✨no✨
Ruby: ummm chile anyways so
@@Theonlyririhere lmao
She probably thinking *did y’all hear something*
@@nkt.11
*I dont think I heard somethin yall.*
She said food is a privilege?
No, sweetie it's a necessity.
What happens when they start starving, sweetheart?
What happens when your income starts failing, dear?
What will you do? Hm? These children are your career, don’t fucking abuse them!
(Children shouldn’t even be your career in the first place.)
she said food is a privilege? hunny when your child dies you gonna be all sad and be like "omg how did she die 😭😭"
like hunny shut yo mouth
Food is most definitely a necessity, especially in the 5 and up/under age range. This is why so many babies loose the lives.
Someone needs to break in there house and give the kids a better home
And you what? And the cherry on top
The parent's get arrested
@@Ann-xo4go not 7 passengers! 😂
Her teacher isn’t uncomfortable.
It’s illegal in my state to not feed a child lunch.
If they don’t bring lunch or have money on their lunch card, they either go into the negative on their lunch card or get a cheese sandwich and milk.
They can’t NOT have lunch.
What state are u in?
Yeah that’s what I was thinking, both my parents worked and I remember I ran out of money on my lunch card a few times and the cafeteria employees gave me a cheese sandwich. You can’t just opt out of feeding children...
I think it depends on the school too. My public school always let me go into the negative but at private school they wouldn’t let me get anything if I owed money
Same in Florida
i throw up when they gave me that cheese sandwich
The ones I’m most worried for is Chad and Julie. Julie has shown serious signs of high anxiety and depression in the past to the point where she had a twitch.
We need CPS in here…
"It is not healthy for a child to be on Instagram. But being on TH-cam 24/7, that's the healthiest"
He’s all over her Instagram and her family’s Instagram it makes no sense
@@alexj4556 she doesn’t want him to have his own success, she wants all the control
The hypocrisy is astounding.
He was getting positive feedback, and if she isn't there to filter all those comments out, he might start second-guessing her terrible parenting.
I was thinking the same thing. That makes no sense.
They're just horrible parents. Taking a kid's bed, not letting them eat, having crazy punishments for small little things is absolutely ridiculous
its straight up abuse
yeah like, punishment for horseplay? make them sit down with a book for a while don't take away basic needs oh my god
@@phangirl2484 Exactly. You're literally ASKING to go to jail and get your children taken away from you.
I hate that whole “when you’re 18 you have to move out” crap. My kids can live with me as long as they need to. I brought them into this world and I will not throw them to the wolves. No matter how good you did at raising them they won’t do good on their own until they are ready. That’s just life. And this “mom” is a narcissist.
That's true, I'm 27 and lived 10 years away by myself, and now I feel like I really need my mom and I wanna be close to her, I can't even imagine being kicked out because "you're old enough"
Absolutely agree!! I'm a mother of 8 and we've always said they can stay with us until they are ready. The world is a scary place and it's not always easy to start out. I moved out at 16 but life was different then.
I hope these kids really grow and escape this trauma!
My eldest is 19, still at home and no plans to move out any time soon
I moved out at 20 and never went back. It's called being self sufficient.
@@ACE.321 I use to think that too, but then I realized that being "self sufficient" was actually a sign of trauma, and there's nothing wrong on being "self sufficient" around people who love and cherish you. Maybe your family never made you feel very welcome and thats why you think that way, but I still have my job, my money, pay the bills and give my mom a lot of thing she dream of having, so I would say that I am more then just "self sufficient".
With the recent arrest with Ruby and the child abuse being far worse then I could ever imagine just proves how fucked up family channels truly are
I am SO here for this series, it’s honestly really interesting
same
same! it's super interesting
especially from someone who puts so much research and effort into her videos while making it look effortless
Sakomoto!
It seriously is. And I love the way she edits her videos
I could get being mad with a child if they're like 14 and didn't pack a lunch but she's five. She's a child. She is growing.
Honestly it doesn’t really matter in my opinion it’s her CHILD does she not realize that she’s their mother. If you know that your child is hungry and you have the means to help then just get them a lunch.
Literally. And the fact that she was ABLE to get her a lunch, but didn’t? If I ever forgot something I needed for school at home, I was always embarrassed because I knew both of my parents were at work and couldn’t help unless I was sick or in danger lmao.
One time a fucking fish tank spilled all over me in 1st grade and my nana was told to come get me, but she tried to instead get me to stay at school in fish water clothes... it wasn’t even my fault that it spilled on me. The best she did was bring me new clothes, but I never even got to go home to shower until school officially ended. It was humiliating, even for a 1st grader.
I can’t even imagine how much worse it would be though to not have food?? That’s actual abuse.
@@HenkaG yeah, get her a peanut butter jelly sandwich or something.
You straight up say “I could get mad with a CHILD if they’re like 14” you just said 14 is still a child- which it is. Doesn’t matter what age, it’s their responsibility to care for them
Tbh i would come to give they a lunch at any age bcs they forget and im sure they not gonna doing it on purpose bcs they gonna feel bad for their mom
they seem like the type of people who don’t believe depression is real.
Probably, if they don't believe in simple everyday mistakes...
ik race has nothin to do w this but yo have u ever witnessed how a child of color is treated when they try to even speak out ab being mentally ill it’s rlly sad (i’m back btw plz don’t take this offensive anyb n i’m not saying it’s only poc but from what i’ve witnessed they usually act like it’s nonexistent for poc to have )
@@donniebloxez8091 yeah true its really Sad 😥
"Just be happy 😁👍"
They actually don't.
Maybe it happened after this video but I can’t stop thinking about when ruby filmed herself hiding in her bathroom for an hour when her daughter needed to go to the ER because she just needed to “be calm” and “prepare herself” like ma’am take your kid to the hospital omfg
“My kids cannot come live with me, when they turn 18.”
Lady, if I had a mom like you, I’d be out that house so fast, and not look back 🤷🏻♀️
My son is almost 21 now, he moved out when he was almost 19 (so, 2 years ago)...I miss having him at home so much, and he's only 35 mins away! If he wanted/needed to move back home for any reason, he knows he's welcome to - even if he calls me in the middle of the night. Shoot, I've got enough room for two of his friends if he wants to bring them 😂.
@@tinamarie2121 And that's what makes you better than some parents
@@purpleanne723 I soo appreciate that. ❣️ To be honest, I learned it from my paternal grandparents. They had three sons, my dad being the youngest, and the house they had built when the boys were teenagers was a good sized house with a full kitchen in the basement with 2 bedrooms (2 walk in closets EACH) and a large bathroom. There was access to the basement level patio via sliding glass doors (later changed to French doors for safety reasons). The upstairs, the main level, also had two large bedrooms with 2 large walk in closets each. My grandparents later converted one of theirs to an en suite bathroom.
ANYWAY. The house is frigging huge. They've allowed any of us to come and stay with them ANY time we need to get back on our feet. Seriously the most generous couple of people you could ever hope to meet. My grandmother passed away in 2019 and that was the hardest day of my life. I still reach for my phone to call and ask her a question about a recipe or to tell her something I've read, or better yet, just to brag about her great-grandson. (Losing her hit him hard. He hasnt been the same since. I know grandparents aren't supposed to have favorites, but he and my cousin Jessie were her babies. She wouldn't evened me put him in daycare until he was over a year old! She insisted that he stay with her! I plan to pull the same card when/if John ever has kids 🤣 Mamaw taught me well. "No, they are sleeping so well....just let them sleep! Y'all go out to dinner or something and I'll watch the baby tonight and that way you won't have to get up so early in the morning!"
Seriously though and honestly if I was one of her children I couldn't wait till I turn 18 so I could just get away from her. Go get a stable job and maybe try to save my siblings from her since she's literally horrible.
Well getting out the house is what she wants lol
When the dad is talking about how he is sending Chad away to this camp and he says “Chad needs to develop some basic maturity skills” *he is outing himself as a bad parent and he doesn’t even know it.* Children act that way when you raise them without love and respect.
Kind of shows the shortcomings on their part since they have to send Chad to a camp instead of teaching him the “maturity skills” themselves (in a genuine way without abuse ofc). Like Hailey mentioned, they expect their kids to act like adults but they literally don’t know Bc they’re kids.
Yep, and those wilderness programs are literally centers for abuse. They kidnap the children and strip them of all their rights. It usually causes more damage
I’m 19 and my dad still makes sure I have food for lunch, it’s called caring
My Mom will ask if I have groceries and I'm old enough to be someone's mother. That's just what most parents do, they actually care about their children. Not Ruby, she takes away beds, posts embarrassing videos of her children when they ask her to stop, and withholds food, She's a stellar parent- Mother of the freaking year.
@@divatesteddivaapproved it seriously so concerning how she treats her children. especially the bed thing like he played a prank on his brother like a normal sibling would 😀
I’m 23 and my dad still offers me money for food even though he knows I don’t need his money..
I’m fourteen and I thought my mom was a little hands off with food because she usually doesn’t prepare anything except dinner on work days but at least she makes sure I and my brother eat enough and that the fridge is stocked with stuff we’ll eat, this is honestly so monstrous
@@divatesteddivaapproved I know right! 10/10 mom! Definitely wouldn't go to jail for child abuse. 😁
That mom was arrested for child abuse, crazy that it took this long
Also where she says “My kids are not welcome to live with me after they turn 18” really breaks my heart because my parents are the complete opposite. I was 18 when I graduated high school and a few months later I moved from South Carolina to Texas to go to college. Due to financial issues, I could no longer stay in Texas. My parents dropped everything, drove halfway across the country, and came and got me and brought me home. They welcomed me with open arms and are the pure definition of grace. I couldn’t imagine what would have happened if they had turned me away like Ruby says she would with her kids. I’m 19 years old, and while I’m still an adult, I’m still learning how to support myself and get to where I want to be. Just because you’re a legal adult when you turn 18, doesn’t mean you’re completely ready to do everything on your own. Sometimes we just need to lean on our parents, so who will those children be able to lean on if their own parents won’t extend a helping hand?? I didn’t mean to write a book but Ruby’s whole thing just makes me sick to my stomach.
Yess! I would have literally died if my parents kicked me out at 18. Apart from the fact that where i’m from (Puerto Rico) you’re not an adult until 21. Also, I’m almost 26 and I still don’t know what i’m doing half of the time. Lol. Imagine at 18!?! I can’t 🤦🏼
I thought I was the only one that was angry when she said that. I never want my kids to leave!
Imagine thinking that your kids will know how to look after themselves like adults, whilst they have no experience being an adult because they've never been one before.
My parents are the same way when I was 22 I had just gotten married and unfortunately has a housing crisis I texted my mom and dad and was so upset they drove 6 hours the next day with a moving truck packed up our stuff and moved us back to their place we were there 5 months before getting our current home but I never felt unwanted or a burden she actually didn’t want me to go I love my parents
More than half of all people in their 20s in America live with their parents. It’s not easy to make it on your own anymore and it’s becoming more common to stay at home longer like it is in many other countries. She’s setting these kids up for failure.. in more than one way.
The mother DEFINITELY regrets having kids. She clearly resents them. Her lil story of how she was in high school tells a lot idk...apart of me believes she was one of those girls who just wanted to live their lives free and in love but then she got pregnant very young. She probably adored them at first but then as time went on she became abusive.
Like..once they’ve gotten older and “less cute” or “presentable” for the camera (because youtube loves families with newborns and toddlers) she no longer cares for them.
Once they’re 18 they’re not allowed to live with her...? Ik this is fairly normal for a lot of families but..idk
At 18 you’re meant to start college but like... how is an 18 year old able to work, earn enough to afford their own place and be financially stable AND still attend college. I think it’s just super weird. I hope these poor kids get help
My issues with them being kicked out at 18 is that these kids are LITERALLY paying for everything in the parents lives
I mean.... Moving out AT 18 ISNT normal in my experience....UNLESS the parents are abusive and resentful. When i turned 18 my mom pawned me off on my dad despite abuse he was doing. But most people these days stay with their parents until their 20s-30s because of the economy.
@@cocob0l0 my cousins are in their 30s and can’t even do that I can’t imagine an 18 year old ://
could also explain why she has FIVE FUCKIN KIDS
I remember she also said the youngest girl was too small for her age. The doctor literally said she needed to eat more because she wasn't growing enough. And Ruby went "oh she needs to remember to eat more" or whatever, like it's a child's responsibility to make sure they are getting enough food. She's leading these children to disordered eating.
yeah! And I saw a clip of her and her child at the doctors (!!) weighing her daughter, she was like “oooh 100 pounds you better not have that candy!”
And withholding food as a form of punishment is a GREAT way to ensure that your kids will have a disordered relationship with food!
Agreed. She's a MOM,not a BABYSITTER,for crying out loud!
I am taking a life cycle class for my nutrition degree and we were doing mock growth charts. I wonder what percentile she was in. I agree, I am now 21 and a warped way of looking at food and bad diet choices due to my childhood nutrition and am ashamed of my body. I hope it doesn't end up like that for her.
I believe she made her repeat a grade as well like wtf
i really appreciate the effort you put in to blur the children's faces. i know it must've taken a long time, and i'm glad someone respects their privacy.
The only reason why her “parenting” is working is cause her children are scared of her
Yep
It’s basically putting them through labor
exactly
Yeah that’s not true
@@luffyt1795 it is, have you been watching the video??
I believe she despises Chad for rebelling against her. Poor guy, after all he went through and that sicko momster he got, he's still pretty decent and level-headed.
@a kr literally how in what way is he lucky for having her as a mom
@a kr hope you're doing okay
I feel so sorry for him
fr I feel so bad for him. He seems like the sweetest human being. All the kids do but especially him. And poor guy has a little less then a year til he's 18 and probably kicked out
Honestly, its because their Mormon. Not all Mormons are bad, but there are some really really bad ones. As soon as i read the dating rules i knew it was Mormonism because my mom was Mormon, until the Church stopped wanting her back because of a divorce. They even tried to tell her i wasnt accepted back to church because i was gay, but she said there was no way she would stop accepting me.
Theyre abusive. They are literally isolating their kids, no friends, no social life, nothing.
I am GLAD that this woman recorded her every step and made it available to the public! When these kids grow old enough all of the recordings will be proofs of their abuse and they can seek justice!
DAMN THATS SMART-
justice can hopefully be served now
You were right! She got arrested and they are using all her videos, even deleted videos, against her!
okay as a person who teaches 5 year olds i gotta say any teacher who is emotionally invested in the well-being of their students would 100% have provided that girl lunch out of their own pocket if they could and then immediately started a paper trail for a CPS report
Absolutely, that teacher deserves a raise because they clearly care about the kids
Agree. I teach preschool and have reported families for things like this. Children deserve better!
@Jessica Patnode My sister didnt pack her lunch at six but my was still responsible for grabbing it along with her bookbag. Whenever she forgot it my mom would be frustrated for having to drive back but she never expressed that to my sister, and would still drive back every-time because she was a picky eater and my mom does like children (especially her own) being hungry. Ruby is ridiculous
I've given my students the lunch I pack for myself withoud even questioning it. It's something you do if you're a human I think :)
@Jessica Patnode do they provide them money to buy food?
“The teacher is ✨uncomfortable✨with my child being hungry”
Well no shit. We are trained that hunger is a real issue and we are just flabbergasted that there are parents who don’t make sure their children are cared for. I’m sure if she forgot to take her lunch to work, she would find another lunch because we are humans and make mistakes. In situations like this, teachers are also trained to contact protective services if it is reoccurring because this IS considered as neglect.
UPDATE: 9/1….wanted to add that the mother has been charged with suspected child abuse and neglect. For the reasons that we have all been discussing here. So sad.
Go girl!! Teachers are the true superheroes!
Thank god for teachers.
I'm a student and I'm uncomfortable when anyone is hungry. It's disgusting how she can just let her child starve, it's a horrible feeling and she has a developing body and brain. SHE. NEEDS. FOOD.
@@hunnqy3102 exactly. SHE IS A CHILD FOR GOD SAKE!!
YES. I also saw another clip where she threatened to not let one of the younger boys eat dinner for doing something wrong... Like when you punish a kid, you should take away privileges, not rights!!! Food is a necessity
“ Every child deserves a parent but not every parent deserves a child.”- Thanks to the person who corrected it in the comment.
*every child deserves a parent but not every parent deserves a child*
@@shermydagoat yeah not needs-
Exactly
It’s
I lost it when she said "listen, we should have been in that crash" 💀💀💀
what makes me even more upset is that child and minor-age actors and artists have contracts and laws that say more or less that they will receive the money that they earned during their childhood career. youtube has NO regulations on that so these children who are literally making the money for their parents to buy a house, clothes, the food that the mom won’t give them if they misbehave, etc. will receive NONE of it when they are 18, which is complete and utter bullsh*t.
Exactly.
And that’s why I’m glad I denied my moms idea for a family vlog channel even tho it would have been pretty wholesome I’m sure that’s how they are start off.
Wait actually.? I never knew that..
This same Thought crossed my mind there should be some sort of requirement that if they’re going to regularly film their children for a profit that they should be required to get a work permit for them . Depending on the child’s age there is a formula that used for the permit to determine When they could be filmed , how many hours per day and per week. What is allows to be shown on film, etc. as well as protect their educational rights. and Ensures They receive Any portion of profits that they are entitled to... among other things
How do you punish a FIVE year old for forgetting her lunch? You’re the mom...YOU provide the food.
I lived with my best friend as an adult for time and I once brought her lunch because she forgot it and couldn’t get out of her shift. Normal people are forgetful and normal people help out the people they care about. Wild that this woman doesn’t even care about her kids
The ONLY acceptable “punishment” necessary for this is probably just a little stern talk about the importance of bringing your lunch to school. THATS IT.
I just think it’s crazy you make a FIVE year old even pack her own lunch
Breaks my heart!! 🥺 Poor baby!
@@dianaw4072 right?! I just don’t understand like yes responsibilities and chores blah blah yes but at 5?! It’s a little crazy and shouldn’t be so expected.
“I exploited you for 18 years and made millions off of you, NOW get out!”
" but make sure you pop out some grandkids for me to exploit for views ASAP!"
@@keirajones5062 NOT THE GRANDKIDS 😭
THIS! every year passes and more of these family vloggers are rolling in cash. Where are the kids share??? I hope to see someday one of these kids sue their parents for unpaid dues. Maybe then will someone step in and protect these working kids. they all gone need it for psycho therapy
Holy shit if you put it that way 🤭😳😦
Why do white Americans parents kick their kids out once they turn 18? No wonder they place them in aged care homes. In my culture the children live with their parents until they get married.
I went to a teen wilderness program at 15 and it was extremely toxic. We were dirty,hungry,exhausted and punished for the stupidest things. If we were caught sharing food when someone was on a "limited food punishment where you'd only get to rice and water,sharing ANYTHING including sanitary products,extra sweaters or blankets,eye rolling(so if knew of us was cold,wet,out of sanitary products ect we couldn't share). Also, another big one was whispering to one another during periods of "vows of silence"(when we couldn't speak for days or sometimes weeks if they felt the group was becoming "corrupt"). They were incredibly sexists,racists,hemophobic & just all around inexperienced and rude staff. There was even a relationship that started between one of the girls and a councellor, she was 15 and he was 25 and guess what? Absolutely nothing happened.
This was all in BC Canada but I'm sure the wilderness programs aren't much different jn the states. All in all it was horrible and even though I did learn some survival skills I became more depressed,my ptsd became so much more prevalent,I got more resentful snd I made some contacts who were there for worse things and ended up getting in more trouble when I got back. I'm very much against those programs ESPECIALLY for anyone under the age of 18. I was way to young to be somewhere like that and it was ages 13-22 which is a huge gap as well as co Ed. It was just...trouble.
Anyway, I apologize for the lengthy post but this family kinda triggered something. My bad ya'll♥✌
Ruby: "We were accused of abuse because we took his bed. So we sent him to a place where he didn't get a bed."
SO YOU TRADED ONE ABUSIVE PLACE FOR ANOTHER, GREAT JOB SUPER MOM
Majority of “reformatory schools” force the child to lose their identity and how they do this is they make them sit in a white room they can’t lay down sleep eat or drink anything for three days I can just hope his wasn’t like that
If you want to know about the place they sent him to it basically works like this, the parents sign over legal ownership of the child and depending on when the workers would “legally kidnap” the child and bring them to the camp.
@@nicoleskorupsky1007 that's so horrible and traumatic. These poor children 😢
he deserves it lil purv
@@Teabag697 If only, she's probably gonna be protected in solitary or some bs like that and gonna get out in a few years because the system loves abusing children
i can’t wait till chad turns 18 and moves out i just know he’s gonna expose them
Right? Could you imagine not having any friends and when you post a picture and get compliments your narcissist mom makes you delete your account? He must be feeling so alone I wish I could help him
I really just hope he's okay. I hope he can navigate freedom in a healthy way and form positive and lasting relationships. I'm just super concerned for his mental health 😕
When Chad turns 18, I hope he takes them with him
It's not that big of a deal yall acting like he is being beaten up with a baseball bat everyday pretty sure most of the time she's joking
@@claudymusic1558 mental abuse is just as bad a physical abuse and can lead to self harm as well. Have some compassion.
Edited: hard to harm
“Hopefully no one gives her food”
You should genuinely being ashamed of yourself! YES YOUR CHILD IS BEING NEGLECTED.
That just pisses me off. When I was taking care of the nieces and nephews, one had to go to a private school because I had to work. Parents had to rotate who would bring lunch for the entire class each day. Some of the adults were excempt because the children were there on scholarships. Others brought a case of bottle water so each child could have a cookie with a bottle of water for lunch which was the only meal some of these children got all day.
I got criticism because I went all out with lunchables, fruit, vegetables, cartons of juice or milk and stuff. "oh the children are 5 and they do not need to eat" or "they can just go hungry until dinner". That just made me angry so I provided more food because these children I'm the fancy private school were starving. These parents are giving children food issues. I grew up with a mother who gave me food issues and that's just abuse to me.
Thats literal abuse, and it's probably gonna give them an horrible relationship with food. They are gonna think they have to "win" their meals, thats giving your child an ed
@@eliomust_die so true. I developed bulemia from my stepmothers treatment of us in relation to food. I’m 41 and have struggled with it my whole life. Parents treatment has detrimental effects
My son has gastroparesis. It's a rare condition where his stomach & intestine muscles are paralyzed. He can't eat right now & as a mother it kills me. Depriving anyone of food is torture my mind. My son has 2 procedures scheduled to Hopefully help him get better. He also 27 so not a baby but always my baby boy.
Coming back to this after the news broke, she is definitely one of those people that don´t deserve to be parents
i SCREAMED at the car accident clip!! she really stopped on the side of the road to film an accident they weren't even involved in LOL
She literally said that “that should of been us kids” like she is asking for them to get in a crash-
@@drakemakesthebestmusic EXACTLY! I thought the same thing. What a sick woman she is.
@@drakemakesthebestmusic Yup so they can have more content & money
we SHOULD have been in that crash 😤
She was so dramatic too like shush. “we should’ve been on that crash” + the shitty acting I can’t 😭😭
Shari recently moved into her dorm at BYU and Ruby sat in their truck saying she was upset, not because she was going to miss her DAUGHTER and having her presence in the house, the memories they created, the laughter, the love, etc., she said she was going to miss essentially the control she had over her. She was upset because she could no longer monitor her daughter and control her life and decisions.
I remember my dad being weirdly upset and detached when I finally went off to college, despite 18 years of very strict grade monitoring which I always assumed was for my own good to go to college. Once I was gone, it was like he lost interest because he couldn't control my every move anymore. It was a really strange feeling. I couldn't imagine if it was my MOM doing that to me. For some reason, that hurts so much worse. Sending so much love to each of those kids. Love that their monster mother never gave them.
SHE TOOK AWAY HIS BED FOR PLAYING A PRACTICAL JOKE?! IF MY PARENTS DID THAT EVERYTIME I PULLED A PRANK ON MY BROTHERS I WOULD BE SLEEPING ON ROCKS-
Stop screaming
My thoughts exactly!!! Ive played pranks on my little brother so many times and we laugh about it now 🤷🏽♀️
@@Lina_al_j same
I once had a substitute teacher who had her son sleep on the floor for a whole week. It was bc she and her husband spent a lot of money on a new mattress for him and he complained to some relatives that he didn't like it. I think it was supposed to make the kid thankful for his bed. Seven months for a harmless prank is excessive. Sounds like he's being scapegoated.
This aged like fine wine.
This is how my mom use to be. Had to sleep on the bathroom floor if I did something bad, month after I turned 18 Got kicked out. Those kids are going to go crazy in their 20s
thats sad...hope u are doing fine
I know this is off topic but you’re so pretty 🥺 & I hope you’re doing good now
Yup my father was the same way. It's taken me 5 years to get used to having a normal-ish life. 2-3 years of rebellion, 2 ish years of focused recovery.
I'm doing great now! Thanks everyone appreciate the kind words 😊! It did take a few years to re adjust but couldn't be more happy now
When Chad turns 18 he could literally support himself if he made videos by himself. I bet so many of us would watch him, and he would get more subscribers than 8passangers.
yes i bet he would feel bad leaving the younger siblings tho :(
@@mandyrain1437 yeah I know :(( hopefully he can go out on his own, but still have a good relationship with his family, so he doesn't have to leave them.
So true. I’m his age and I would definitely watch his videos. He’s actually got personality unlike the rest of them
You don’t even need to be 18 to be on youtube and make a fuckton of money
@@CatBarefield Yeah, but his parents are controlling. I just meant when he is forced to move out (because they make their kids move out at 18) he could totally be able to make a lot of money doing his own content that hopefully doesn't include his parent lmao.
“So often, children are punished for being human. Children are not allowed to have grumpy moods, bad days, disrespectful tones, or bad attitudes, yet we adults have them all the time! We think if we don't nip it in the bud, it will escalate and we will lose control. Let go of that unfounded fear and give your child permission to be human. We all have days like that. None of us are perfect, and *we must stop holding our children to a higher standard of perfection than we can attain ourselves.* All of the punishments you could throw at them will not stamp out their humanity, for to err is human, and we all do it sometimes.” Rebecca Eanes
omg I couldn't agree more^^^^
Well said 💯
Love this quote, thanks for sharing!
I love this!!! Wow
I'm going to use this quote