Jake, you being kicked out when you were 18 years old was a blessing in disguise. When your so-called parents treated as though you did NOT need them, they only returned to want your money since they found out how successful you, your wife, and your son are.
I would not let them near or call after tossing me out like garbage. They are not worried nor regretful and concerned about him. As far as parenting classes go, it's too little too late. I will not allow them to know my son/daughter. He/she doesn't need that cold toxic calloused in their lives. Once they threw me out, they forfeited anything they thought they had with me. The only thing they have left is "What was, what could have been, but is not"
Jake’s so-called parents are total scumbags. They never loved him and only showed up when they needed something. Of they weren’t in financial distress, they’d never visit him or even talk to him.
They are selfish parents, they were not there for him throughout his hard times yet they had guts to show up at his happy moments asking for financial help under the pretex of makin up for thier mistakes. And yes definitelty he had to set boundaries
In another story, foster dad throws OP out with some money ($ 100 ?) and a suitcase full of his stuff at the stroke of midnight. Then after many years FD comes begging for a place to stay for a while. OP hands him the same suitcase and a $ 100 bill and says "ADIOS" before slamming the door shut
The OP did a good job. His parents threw them out at 18 and never cared about him for the next 10 years and now because they need money. They came looking him up insane. What I would like to know is why 10 years later they could still reach him by phone. As soon as that happened and there was no contact from them in about a year I would change my phone number. They shouldn’t be able to reach you after 10 years. I wondered about this another story some of them it’s been 15 years and they could still be reached by the phone that’s crazy, especially if it’s somebody never wanted to talk to you again.
They don't need to go to parenting classes for a full ass grown independant working man father and husband ! They need to go to classes to teach them about how to learn to manage their own financial crisis & not leech or free load off their own son ! What they did him on his 18th b day by kicking their son out was out of order & un called for ! The odasity of them both !if anything they should feel remosalful & take responsibility for their shitty actions towards their son & own up to their poor sitting behaviours if anything !
They are money grabbing. Do not pay them anything. No they don’t want to see there grandchildren. But just the money.💰. How long will that be? I wonder.💭☕️
It's sad when I read these stories of crappy parents and how they treat their children you just throw them out they're not prepared they don't know where they're going to go and you tell them you are 18 now get out some has been as young as 13 it's really crappy yeah I keep them at a distance also and when they come back these crappy parents they always either have lost their home and they need a place to stay they have no money that's going to financial difficulties or they're sick and they think these children that they mistreated so horribly should take care of them!! I think Opie and his wife are doing the same thing don't give up anything let's see what they're going to do let him try to pull their self up and keep them at a distance until you see just where they're coming from because basically all I see is that they're still selfish about wanting to come back after 10 years and now you want to be a part of their life!! I say that Opie is doing the right thing him and his wife keeping his mother and father at a distance!!
They got some nerve to show up after ten *FUCKING* years just to ask for money! (scuse my language. just furious). They're the ones who kicked him out with nothing, now this!!! 💢💢💢 I would not want them in my life.
Wow such great parents. They are taking parenting classes when their kid already has his own kid. So when will all that knowledge from parenting classes be put to use and for whom ?
Yeah the definition of terrible parents 🙄 the prime example of now I need help so we're so sorry, b s got back to your toxicity den nobody's caring about you not after what you've done to your own child. Karma a B you got seriously served bye-bye toxic rubbish
Story 1: Seems to be something OP should have discussed with his wife BEFORE deciding to resume contact. Also, why not have an interview with them before introducing the parents to the wife, and then the child? Why have the meeting during a birthday party?
Jake, you being kicked out when you were 18 years old was a blessing in disguise. When your so-called parents treated as though you did NOT need them, they only returned to want your money since they found out how successful you, your wife, and your son are.
Hope you showed them the door! You dont owe them 1 red cent!!
I wouldn’t EVER give them a second chance! They threw YOU out. Shows they DGAFF about you.
*_"PARENTING CLASSES???"_* Their son is a *_GROWN MAN_* 🤣🤣🤣!!!!!
I would not let them near or call after tossing me out like garbage. They are not worried nor regretful and concerned about him. As far as parenting classes go, it's too little too late. I will not allow them to know my son/daughter. He/she doesn't need that cold toxic calloused in their lives. Once they threw me out, they forfeited anything they thought they had with me. The only thing they have left is "What was, what could have been, but is not"
This is really sad...... They could care less if it was their grandchild's birthday..... They wanted to reconnect all right.... To get money!!!
Don’t you mean ‘could NOT’ care less? Could care less is far more positive.
@@justmepercy720 Yeah,to quote Weird Al: "That means you DO care,at least a little"
Tremendous story dudes and happy Flag day!!!
Jake’s so-called parents are total scumbags. They never loved him and only showed up when they needed something. Of they weren’t in financial distress, they’d never visit him or even talk to him.
They are selfish parents, they were not there for him throughout his hard times yet they had guts to show up at his happy moments asking for financial help under the pretex of makin up for thier mistakes.
And yes definitelty he had to set boundaries
Ahhhhhhh
The parents are GINORMOUS AND HUMUNGOUS twunt waffles!
Family is something that has to go both ways. OP's "parents" aren't parents.
In another story, foster dad throws OP out with some money ($ 100 ?) and a suitcase full of his stuff at the stroke of midnight. Then after many years FD comes begging for a place to stay for a while. OP hands him the same suitcase and a $ 100 bill and says "ADIOS" before slamming the door shut
GET THE HELL OUT OF MY HOUSE
To have a healthy relationship you need boundaries. So yes, I agree with his decision to have them.
The nerve of them!!! Parents or not they wouldn’t get one dime from me and I’d make them leave my home. They have no shame after putting him out!!!
WHAT SORRY PARENTS/GRANDPARENTS!!
HE MADE THE RIGHT CHOICES
His parents want money this is the only reason people come back in your life after a decade
Yes he made the right call
thank goodness, the word 'palpable' was not used.
The OP did a good job. His parents threw them out at 18 and never cared about him for the next 10 years and now because they need money. They came looking him up insane. What I would like to know is why 10 years later they could still reach him by phone. As soon as that happened and there was no contact from them in about a year I would change my phone number. They shouldn’t be able to reach you after 10 years. I wondered about this another story some of them it’s been 15 years and they could still be reached by the phone that’s crazy, especially if it’s somebody never wanted to talk to you again.
Exactly
Those “parents “ are scummy vultures who deserve nothing
They don't need to go to parenting classes for a full ass grown independant working man father and husband ! They need to go to classes to teach them about how to learn to manage their own financial crisis & not leech or free load off their own son ! What they did him on his 18th b day by kicking their son out was out of order & un called for ! The odasity of them both !if anything they should feel remosalful & take responsibility for their shitty actions towards their son & own up to their poor sitting behaviours if anything !
A leopard very rarely changes it’s spots but it is possible through mutual respect and understanding any thing is possible.
They are money grabbing. Do not pay them anything. No they don’t want to see there grandchildren. But just the money.💰. How long will that be? I wonder.💭☕️
It's sad when I read these stories of crappy parents and how they treat their children you just throw them out they're not prepared they don't know where they're going to go and you tell them you are 18 now get out some has been as young as 13 it's really crappy yeah I keep them at a distance also and when they come back these crappy parents they always either have lost their home and they need a place to stay they have no money that's going to financial difficulties or they're sick and they think these children that they mistreated so horribly should take care of them!! I think Opie and his wife are doing the same thing don't give up anything let's see what they're going to do let him try to pull their self up and keep them at a distance until you see just where they're coming from because basically all I see is that they're still selfish about wanting to come back after 10 years and now you want to be a part of their life!! I say that Opie is doing the right thing him and his wife keeping his mother and father at a distance!!
I’m sorry but people don’t change bad habits never change
Mom: Thank you, Jake! You won’t regret this.
Me if I was Jake: I already am.
boundries …? haha… a restraining order is a better boundry for parents that abandon kids at 18
My experience has been that parents of adult children need boundaries whether the parents pulled some stunt or not.
Hope you told them to get lost
I knew the parents wanted money. They dumped OP, until they wanted something from him.
That doorbell sound... Headphones RIP
They got some nerve to show up after ten *FUCKING* years just to ask for money! (scuse my language. just furious). They're the ones who kicked him out with nothing, now this!!! 💢💢💢 I would not want them in my life.
Wow such great parents. They are taking parenting classes when their kid already has his own kid. So when will all that knowledge from parenting classes be put to use and for whom ?
Yeah the definition of terrible parents 🙄 the prime example of now I need help so we're so sorry, b s got back to your toxicity den nobody's caring about you not after what you've done to your own child. Karma a B you got seriously served bye-bye toxic rubbish
Story 1: Seems to be something OP should have discussed with his wife BEFORE deciding to resume contact. Also, why not have an interview with them before introducing the parents to the wife, and then the child? Why have the meeting during a birthday party?
Oh no o😮 wouldn't bother I'd stay nc with these selfish toxicity. They choose the situation no forgiveness
They won’t your money from you.🇬🇧💰💰💰💰💰💰💰💰 but please do not give them any. If they were nicer you could do if want to. Then it’s up to you.
Where the parents putting in the effort
Parenting classes? A little late don’t you think?
0:51 Can this tornado twist ?
Jake from State farm?
Sucked!
Jake is wrong..but it's what you people do.
AI sucks
Posture uncertain? Well dadsy muyht IS USED TO BEING ON ALL FOURS!