I agree 100%. I’ve been there. Once she cheats, she’ll never take you seriously. Been there. It’ll never be the same. I’ve tried it multiple times and still had the same outcome.
Never take a cheating woman back no matter how much u love her rather deal with aftermath of the pain alone and move on and let her regret her loss of u because u will never feel the same nor look at her the same way , also its will create a toxic environment for both urselves becomes now u will be hypervigilant & get triggered whenever she answers her phone , goes somewhere , doesnt answer the phone when she away from you . She in turn will feel suffocated & in prison for past a " mistake" when she now has " changed " cause u playing FBI & CIA agent on her every move . Also it is very emasculating cause when u having sex with her u will always be thinking about how she was performing with the other dude/dudes . Not being able to walk away after she cheated shows u are without boundaries & emotional self sufficiency , she will never really respect you & will percieve you as weak man without options .
Yho! That’s really deep! We struggle as men to truly forgive. We will hold onto this pain for years and years and play it back in our heads. Thank you for sharing 🙏🏽
Your sacasm when you said "the are guys who are incredible mature" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. I'm also "immature" bro, the moment I found out she cheated I left. Yes there were chest pains but I never looked back. I didn't even bother asking why or when. I just took my L and moved on with my pains. Never ever take back a cheating girlfriend regardless of how much you love her or how long you have been with her
I’m sorry you had to go through that pain. Well done on making the decision to leave. Keep your peace. I’m super immature and petty. I would leave too!
NAILED IT... with MARRIAGE AND KIDS INVOLVED he must get over it and work things out... Divorce is so painful nkosyam 💔💔💔 otherwise relationships go ahead LEAVE HER🗣️🗣️🗣️
I've heard so many stories where men forgave the lady for infidelity but resented themselves afterwards and became abusive, insulting the lady nd all sorts. If u as a lady cheats on ur man nd he finds out and forgives u, break up with him bcoz ull suffer, in case of divorce jst ensure the kids have a relationship with their father.
1. Cheating is unacceptable, so 3:48 it's never justifiable. 2. If it's out there in the open its no longer cheating , will you ever trust her enough and let go of the incident. 3.Ask yourself if yóu are willing to share and draw up a schedule as to when each of you can access "our woman" then why leave? 3. Are you blameless or a victim of a partnerr with no moral compass? 4. Are you attentive, physically, emotionally, and mentally? 5. Do you work hard to make her loved, cared for and listened to and her néeds treated with the care they DESERVE? 5. It's not always about money or lunch. It's not always aboút sex bút how you make her feel when she is around you. Again I say I don't promote or condone cheating but are you completely blameless? Did you make any effort to meet her needs even after she has repeatedly told you what she needs (of course within reason?) I'm not talking about people who have no moral compass or no willingness to make the relationship work unless kunemali nomgroovo.
No. Don’t leave her if the relationship is redeemable. 😂 the same encouragement you give women to stay with their cheating partner, give the same every to men. If we’re in a long distance relationship and my partner deprives me of physical intimacy, what must I do? 🤷🏽♀️ he doesn’t want to come see me, he doesn’t put any effort for me to see him, he parties with his friends instead of spending time with me, ALL WORDS NO ACTION nje - but I love him. What must happen?
@@Luk012NWTo each their own, but I beg to differ when it comes to men. I believe men can cheat and still love you. This has been proven with hubbies/ bf cheating on their gals but never leaving them. Men usually cheat for only seggs. If u leave a guy fr cheating ull jump from one man to the next bcoz trust need most of them do.
@@Luk012NW To each their own, but with men I beg to differ. A man can cheat and still love you, hence u see married men/bf cheat but still go back to their gals. If u leave a man fr cheating ull move from one man to the the next bcoz most of them do.
Afternoon fam... I'm about to watch but on the surface I can't believe this is even a question, I definitely wouldn't forgive and wouldn't blame anyone else for not forgiving me but lets watch
@@pensonmlotshwa Oh no! We are very problematic too. Phela you could find that whatever problem we had, I managed it so badly, pushed you away, now I'm cheating. So nathi nje sidinga usiko sometimes 🤣🤣🤣 BUT women hardly "monkey bar" like men do. I can cheat on you, lose you because I checked out a year ago vele (FACTS), lose the other guy because he was just a 6 pack anyway then be single. Men???? At least 1 of those women gotta be kept. Nginamanga?
@@MissCombs1511 I believe men and women cheat at the same rate… Women have more opportunities to cheat (as guys are always asking her out)… but in terms of numbers of cheating… it’s the same rate.
@@pensonmlotshwa numbers, yeah of course. How and why is different. Like you said, you found a consenting wet hole. Me, I found someone with time. Both those things can even be in the same relationship. So rate can be equal.
If you don't respect yourself enough to leave, how is she going to respect you enough to not cheat again?
That’s deep!
to save everyone the time, YES !
@@nicosekano5942 HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!
I agree 100%. I’ve been there. Once she cheats, she’ll never take you seriously. Been there. It’ll never be the same. I’ve tried it multiple times and still had the same outcome.
Never play that forgiving of cheating again!
I’m sorry you had to go through that…
Thank you for sharing 🙏🏽
how did u take back a v@g!na that is drpping w€t with the sp€rm of anorher man !!!!??? 👀
Never take a cheating woman back no matter how much u love her rather deal with aftermath of the pain alone and move on and let her regret her loss of u because u will never feel the same nor look at her the same way , also its will create a toxic environment for both urselves becomes now u will be hypervigilant & get triggered whenever she answers her phone , goes somewhere , doesnt answer the phone when she away from you . She in turn will feel suffocated & in prison for past a " mistake" when she now has " changed " cause u playing FBI & CIA agent on her every move . Also it is very emasculating cause when u having sex with her u will always be thinking about how she was performing with the other dude/dudes . Not being able to walk away after she cheated shows u are without boundaries & emotional self sufficiency , she will never really respect you & will percieve you as weak man without options .
Yho! That’s really deep!
We struggle as men to truly forgive. We will hold onto this pain for years and years and play it back in our heads.
Thank you for sharing 🙏🏽
Your sacasm when you said "the are guys who are incredible mature" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. I'm also "immature" bro, the moment I found out she cheated I left. Yes there were chest pains but I never looked back. I didn't even bother asking why or when. I just took my L and moved on with my pains. Never ever take back a cheating girlfriend regardless of how much you love her or how long you have been with her
I’m sorry you had to go through that pain.
Well done on making the decision to leave. Keep your peace.
I’m super immature and petty.
I would leave too!
NAILED IT... with MARRIAGE AND KIDS INVOLVED he must get over it and work things out... Divorce is so painful nkosyam 💔💔💔 otherwise relationships go ahead LEAVE HER🗣️🗣️🗣️
Hmmmm… I don’t know if I agree.
You want to be with a broken husband for the sake of the kids?
I've heard so many stories where men forgave the lady for infidelity but resented themselves afterwards and became abusive, insulting the lady nd all sorts. If u as a lady cheats on ur man nd he finds out and forgives u, break up with him bcoz ull suffer, in case of divorce jst ensure the kids have a relationship with their father.
Simple answer. Yes.
But I like how you unpack everything.
Thank you 🙏🏽
1. Cheating is unacceptable, so 3:48 it's never justifiable.
2. If it's out there in the open its no longer cheating , will you ever trust her enough and let go of the incident.
3.Ask yourself if yóu are willing to share and draw up a schedule as to when each of you can access "our woman" then why leave?
3. Are you blameless or a victim of a partnerr with no moral compass?
4. Are you attentive, physically, emotionally, and mentally?
5. Do you work hard to make her loved, cared for and listened to and her néeds treated with the care they DESERVE?
5. It's not always about money or lunch.
It's not always aboút sex bút how you make her feel when she is around you.
Again I say I don't promote or condone cheating but are you completely blameless?
Did you make any effort to meet her needs even after she has repeatedly told you what she needs (of course within reason?)
I'm not talking about people who have no moral compass or no willingness to make the relationship work unless kunemali nomgroovo.
No. Don’t leave her if the relationship is redeemable. 😂 the same encouragement you give women to stay with their cheating partner, give the same every to men. If we’re in a long distance relationship and my partner deprives me of physical intimacy, what must I do? 🤷🏽♀️ he doesn’t want to come see me, he doesn’t put any effort for me to see him, he parties with his friends instead of spending time with me, ALL WORDS NO ACTION nje - but I love him. What must happen?
You ALWAYS should leave a woman who has cheated on you😂...ALWAYS
And a man too!
@@Luk012NWTo each their own, but I beg to differ when it comes to men. I believe men can cheat and still love you. This has been proven with hubbies/ bf cheating on their gals but never leaving them. Men usually cheat for only seggs. If u leave a guy fr cheating ull jump from one man to the next bcoz trust need most of them do.
@@Luk012NW To each their own, but with men I beg to differ. A man can cheat and still love you, hence u see married men/bf cheat but still go back to their gals. If u leave a man fr cheating ull move from one man to the the next bcoz most of them do.
Always???? 😅
@@pensonmlotshwa always grootman. A man should have dignity and respect for himself
True.......love ur video's Pen....
Thank you so much 🙏🏽
Bofebe ke bofebe! Leave that rubbish if they cheat on you. Man or Woman!
😂😂😂 with men it's different, a man can cheat and still love you but to each their own. 🙌
YHO!!!! 😅
@@mamofrancoI agree.
Afternoon fam... I'm about to watch but on the surface I can't believe this is even a question, I definitely wouldn't forgive and wouldn't blame anyone else for not forgiving me but lets watch
I love the honesty 🙏🏽
Thanks for the vid Penson you making valid points
Thank you for watching 🙏🏽
Just to keep things simple… yes leave her
Yes
Nect question
Lol
If I cheat on you, it's YOUR fault. I don't care if you stay or go. 🤷🏽♀️
OH DAMN!!!!! 😅
Men are always the problem??
Hehehe there we go 0 accountability yet again. Did i put a gun to your head to cheat?
@@pensonmlotshwa Oh no! We are very problematic too. Phela you could find that whatever problem we had, I managed it so badly, pushed you away, now I'm cheating. So nathi nje sidinga usiko sometimes 🤣🤣🤣
BUT women hardly "monkey bar" like men do. I can cheat on you, lose you because I checked out a year ago vele (FACTS), lose the other guy because he was just a 6 pack anyway then be single. Men???? At least 1 of those women gotta be kept. Nginamanga?
@@MissCombs1511 I believe men and women cheat at the same rate…
Women have more opportunities to cheat (as guys are always asking her out)… but in terms of numbers of cheating… it’s the same rate.
@@pensonmlotshwa numbers, yeah of course. How and why is different. Like you said, you found a consenting wet hole. Me, I found someone with time. Both those things can even be in the same relationship. So rate can be equal.