Why Everyone’s Opinion Of You Is Bullsh*t - Alex Hormozi
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Chris and Alex Hormozi discuss how Alex views death. How does Alex Hormozi use death to motivate him? How does Alex Hormozi deal with anxiety? What does Alex Hormozi do to help him take action immediately?
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Hello you legends. Watch the full episode with Alex here - th-cam.com/video/M4PzOjM5BJQ/w-d-xo.htmlsi=cblgJnZieZClLT7g
Thank you
Totally resonated with this. Live you’re own life. It is the only thing you ever truly have.
I think a lot of people missed the point of this conversation. Of course others opinions do matter, if they are congruent with how you feel about them and how you feel about your life. But so many people never do the things they want only based on others’ opinions. Take the pearl of wisdom from this conversation, you know what it is.
“Which dog wins the fight?”
“The one I feed.”
I've noticed lately how often people use the word "traumas" to describe life's difficulties. No wonder we've become so fragile.
Lol trauma has no correlation with fragility
@@positivefraud3012 Yeah but assigning every difficulty as trauma has
@@positivefraud3012 even if its true that trauma sets you back (while it is in most cases), the moment you choose to justify your failures with trauma(frequently), you're f*cked.
I just set the audio to this as my alarm ringer. This is the kick in the pants I need. I'm also going to write invoices to everyone who lives rent free in my head at my billing rate per hour to see what I'm wasting my time on.
lame
I actually thought this was awesome & hilarious!!😂😂😂😂😂
People who say they HAVE TO do something don't really have to do it, they're just stressing out about the consequences.
You don't even HAVE TO continue breathing, you're just worried about dying.
That’s not a great example, as breathing straddles the line.
You can certainly consciously decide to not breath… but you will not die as a result. As soon as you fall unconscious (if you can even achieve that) your involuntary breathing with begin again.
Breathing straddles the line between voluntary and involuntary. The line between conscious action and unconscious action.
Love this one 🙏
Nahh not everyone’s opinion of you is BS, especially if they truly care about you. Sometimes you’re really on some BS lol. It’s important to be able to separate constructive criticism vs unproductive criticism.💯
This is just the modified "screw the haters" kinda thing and I think everyone's seeing it. You do lol
Naaaaaaaw ....Only you know....they might be judging something that will take YOU exactly where YOU need to be.
Yeah but end of day “constructive criticism” is still “criticism” end of day. It gets under your skin after a while.
And on top of that. You should only be taking “constructive criticism” from someone 100% better than you at a certain field. “Constructive criticism” from a shit friend on how to be a good friend should be avoided.
@@GlacierSoundlet it go man, we cant stop people from expressing their views and how they percieve things. Nowadays whenever i feel that a comment is wrong i just close the comments 😂
Humans are herd animals, we outsource our decision-making by looking at what others do.
This prevents us from making errors (he is eating an Apple and looks happy, maybe I will try an Apple). This behavior occurs in a conscious and subconscious planes (why does having sex with your sister seem so repulsive?)
When you do something new or unusual, the group will instantly reject it because it interrupts and challenges their group consciousness.
True heroes go into the unknown and bring back something new and beneficial for the group.
True heroes are brave enough, and are to be admired.
If others are RESPONSIBLE for how YOU FEEL & THINK you’re giving all your power and energy away & essentially saying their opinion of you is more important then your opinion of you .
Fuck, that hit deep!
The most important thing to me in this video is the more you begin to think a certain way the more it becomes the default mode. If you’re not creative, and you try to be creative and you practice and you just do things that are creative you become better at it. If you’re not a runner and your muscles aren’t used to running, but you run a little every day you become better at it the same thing with your brain. The more you tune out what others are saying the more it becomes the default.
I love these strategies for dismissing the haters and just doing you, but I’m also that guy who hates his job, only I have a family. As a 38 year old father of two, quitting my job is much more difficult. Not to mention, Idk wtf to do for a living if it isn’t what I’m doing now. I truly feel trapped in work prison, and it’s crushing my soul into increasingly smaller bits every day 😔
Go for a holiday! Nap at the beach, get a tan or something.
@@akincistrength1963 lol thanks
Years ago with nothing to loose I took a different path. I’m immensely grateful at 61 years old looking back on the incredible direction my life has taken. When we develop our lives along inspirational lines we believe in and take the road less traveled we can be thoroughly alive. Ups and down are just that Life! But see what else happens on this path and you will become amazed and grateful beyond dreams
Nature loves courage. You make the commitment and nature will respond to that commitment by removing impossible obstacles. Dream the impossible dream and the world will not grind you under, it will lift you up. This is how magic is done. By hurling yourself into the abyss and discovering its a feather bed.”
- Terence McKenna
thanks man to two of you its really inspiring me to take action now I just need to be brave and do what I know I need too do
did ANYONE notice how at 4:00 he talks about doing what u want but then in his other videos they always talk about how women who have chosen to be childless are sad and will regret it....
By this same logic all your goals and dreams are also pointless.
When the opinions start to roll in, i smile and say to myself," oh really... so i must be seriously on this person's mind, why can't they keep there crazy opinion to themselves because i don't give a crap😂".
You do need feedback to determine how well you are interacting with others.
7:37 - The bigger the dragon is that you have to slay, the more evidence you have that you can slay the next dragon. If there's ever been a good point for why getting over the one first hard one is so hard, is that it will then give you the reinforcement that you can do whatever you need to do next.
8:02 - Whenever I feel anxious or insecure or angry or sad, Im like "What conversation do I need to have that Im not having?" & usually after thinking for not that long, I realize "this is the conversation ive been putting off".
9:52 - "What were the things I am avoiding, that im using (insert vice/crutch/pleasure chase) to get away from?"
Guy making his living off of internet popularity says "everyone's opinion of you is bullshit."
Beautiful interview
just crazy man i love this show,
Alex says he has never crippling insecurity but then he also refuses to address it. It's so weird.
Love the thumbnail, it’s Art ❤
As a Christian, I don’t believe this life is all there is. I don’t live for today.
I'm an atheist, but I love that you nailed the Christian doctrine. So many Christians miss the message.
While your guys were speaking made me think Roger Bannister, first guy to beat the four min mile and the thousands of ppl did bc he had shown it’s possible. Thanks for the life hack
Good conversation.
Guy forgot to add "Unless I agree with it"
The reason we do things based on other peoples opinions is because we live in an attention society, we based a lot of things now off the attention we try to get from it from other people. It’s all about status
I believe it's a sulky weak way to operate. We SHOULD care. Uncaring never works. You have to separate the good from the bad by first listening and being aware. This just gave a hall pass to every one looking to blame everybody else for their own inability to take on more responsibility.
Wow , I love the thumbnail
The "ear muscle of personal growth". Interesting.
Unrealistic, and this is why half he people fail is because of trying to live by advice like this.
What about those with kids for example.
Anything is possible but you got to find a way which works for your situation.
Quitting your job and moving in with parents? No mate, not everyone was born into your situation.
Most people's opinions of other people are based on a gut feeling about 3 seconds after they see them, which is obviously going to be total nonsense 99.9% of the time.
Erm.... well, I think not generalizing would be a good thing.
LMAOO THE THUMBNAIL
"People think of me as this alpha" is the equivalent of a woman telling you she's classy. If you have to say it... It's like people who talk about their IQ.
Everybody can see you for what you are. If it's a sheep in wolves' clothing, we spotted it.
Just came to see why they had Andrew Tate on the thumbnail...
6:07 10:23 11:26
Is the thumbnail supposed to be a Microsoft Paint police sketch of Andrew Tate?
Damn, you beat me to it. I just made a similar remark, prior to reading the comments (it does look dead on him)...
Agree with some of this… but other point seem a bit childish.
Like assuming that “the majority of people” are living lives that are unsuccessful.
Lulz… you have to have a Low standard of judgement for other people to assume, and then announce this judgement.
Maybe they’re not what others would want, but maybe most people live a life they can often enjoy.
Not too mention the fact that never, in history except NOW, have been so needy as to think they are cool because they can push themselves to endeavor into a lifestyle that may be different from their rearing.
Who says that at 3:47? Sean who?
I dont know, dudes. I think crypto and all these ICOs are just a bubble. Well, crypto is good for transfers and so on, but I dont engage in trading and staking either. Its too risky. My friend recently lost $5000 there. I invest crypto in real business
The way you guys talk about the most simple things using big, unnecessarily complex words IS the insecurity.
You mean speaking English? Why is the default using slang nobody understands outside of the country?
Disagree. you're imposing your own insecurity about vocabulary on others.
It's an attempt at accuracy not to impress people.
@@FinenDinefor real. Question: do you find that most people are content with just the bare minimum of understanding about a lot of things that when you try to get even slightly more granular trying to understand it or even find a more accurate word to describe something they look at you like you're the weird one for being specific about the words we use to describe things?
What big words did they use? Are you a 1st grader? Lmfao
@@Necksteppa77I had the exact same thought. "licensing"? "alchemy"? I'm trying to think of a semi-obscure word they used.
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buff jesus is back
How do you know OG Jesus wasn’t buff? All that walking and carpentry work. Lol!
I don't think that "zooming out until you can't see the earth" is a useful image for most scenarios. I get the zooming out part, but i think the important focus is learning discernment in the moment about how much to zoom in our out. And there's no short cut for that. You need to know your own capacities and priorities well, which are constantly in flux, and also see that a lot of stuff in this world is fucked and so things arent going to go how there's "supposed" to go a lot of the time. And it goes on and on like that, relentlessly. Lol. I'm speaking from the perspective of a midlife crisis, obviously.
I say that's a bullshit statement and rather dangerous when not fully articulated. Especially when the only compass we've ever had is eachother. At very least another's opinion of you is a guide post. Our sanity hinges on the feedback of others and in finding those we call friends and serving one another. Jesus, please think about who your throwing off the bus
he is a fake natty that’s enough
Unoriginal 😂