I Lost $1,000,000 in an Online Love Scam

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  • @theworshipsinger
    @theworshipsinger ปีที่แล้ว +81

    This lady is absolutely a lunatic. I’m sorry. The guy is telling her. It’s a scam and now she’s saying you have to prove to me that you’re a scam. The lady will not believe what’s in front of her eyes. I cannot feel sorry for someone like that I just can’t. I’m sorry.

    • @marknewton6984
      @marknewton6984 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Low Intelligence

    • @renaehagen7990
      @renaehagen7990 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Is no street smarts. Book smarts and street smarts 2 different things.

    • @Geekizchic
      @Geekizchic 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I do not feel sorry for her at all! I do not even give money to my relatives much less a stranger whose face I have never seen!

    • @ageingfast
      @ageingfast 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      When you make an online friend who wants money and more money ... Then more money...
      You say sorry I don't have any. Watch your new friend drop you immediately.

    • @rosej5029
      @rosej5029 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@renaehagen7990 Even the BOOK would say DONT give $1000000 to a stranger or after a first mistake of $100,000s PAUSE and investigate further! We all make mistakes at first but to continue is voluntary victim

  • @timelessmusicfamilymusic9175
    @timelessmusicfamilymusic9175 5 ปีที่แล้ว +641

    You know something isn't right when they ask for money.

    • @donnawoodford6641
      @donnawoodford6641 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Timelessmusic Familymusic It's so easy to justify and deny. ⚖️

    • @yeoj1925
      @yeoj1925 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      red flag

    • @bobs5596
      @bobs5596 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      he said he was batman but he was really blackman.

    • @lunatigannie8860
      @lunatigannie8860 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      They r so clever tho

    • @adjusted-bunny
      @adjusted-bunny 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Timelessmusic Familymusic Can I ask you for money?

  • @Malibustacy1982
    @Malibustacy1982 3 ปีที่แล้ว +337

    I feel like an intelligent person would put a stop to the nonsense the minute you have to start selling your own property to fund someone else's life. That is insane!!

    • @simoneb4177
      @simoneb4177 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      ...the minute they ask for a dime! Bye bye. This is difficult for me to understand why women do this. I can understand being conned in person, but sending money to someone I've never met would never happen! If they don't want to/ can't meet in person, HUGE red flag. Asking for any money, HUGE red flag.

    • @jovitavillalpando2827
      @jovitavillalpando2827 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Satan comes to kill,rob and destroy

    • @dianajames4717
      @dianajames4717 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      i so so so so agree Malibu so so so agree its utter insanity.

    • @shonii119
      @shonii119 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I like the way she describes herself as so intelligent, and then falls for the oldest trick in the book, to a kid young enough to be her son I think she's a twit.

    • @Jeff_1349
      @Jeff_1349 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It's ok. They can get $ recovered from High Gizmo 🤣🤣🤣

  • @jojob285
    @jojob285 ปีที่แล้ว +134

    How do you manage to lose 1M to a scammer?..this is ridiculously mindblowing.

    • @triggatrey7414
      @triggatrey7414 ปีที่แล้ว

      *stupid

    • @davisholman8149
      @davisholman8149 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Men are not interested in ‘just a friend’. So obvious she has not done much dating…🤷🏼‍♀

    • @MisplacedTexan
      @MisplacedTexan 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      She called him “family” - she’s fooling herself. Come on. Family that you’ve never met, never FaceTimed with, never visited…. She’s ridiculous. She’s trying to justify being romance scammed and taking money from family, friends, and her children (spending money that could have been spent on college for grandkids, etc.) I cannot fathom being this foolish.

  • @BeccasaurousRex270
    @BeccasaurousRex270 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    I think she was on ScamFish. She’s trying to be innocent, but the dude promised her she’d be super rich. It was greed.

    • @AStanton1966
      @AStanton1966 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      There's an old adage: you can't cheat an honest man!

    • @marknewton6984
      @marknewton6984 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Lust . Hers.😮

    • @johnnyyuma4194
      @johnnyyuma4194 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@marknewton6984 always lust and greed.

  • @bellelopez3261
    @bellelopez3261 4 ปีที่แล้ว +126

    The moment they ask you for a single cent is already a red flag.

    • @davisholman8149
      @davisholman8149 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I would be gone the first time they profess LOVE♥when you have never laid eyes on each other…..SO CREEPY.😵‍💫

  • @gwenmoore1073
    @gwenmoore1073 ปีที่แล้ว +140

    These people that are scammed wouldn't give their home or sell property for their friends, family or neighbors, but they will do it for a stranger on the computer. Make it make sense.

    • @jovitavillalpando9127
      @jovitavillalpando9127 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      It makes sense because they are looking someone handsome to make them happy in bed the money is like a lure so they can come to them faster

    • @Geekizchic
      @Geekizchic 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I thought the exact same thing!

    • @Fooddrugadminstration
      @Fooddrugadminstration 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You America Australia and probably Berlin could commit robberies and theft but in African, you will be locked up for years or flocked for hours

    • @Fooddrugadminstration
      @Fooddrugadminstration 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Flocked for 55 minutes or locked up for 11 months

  • @MarcyRayeHooley-ig5mo
    @MarcyRayeHooley-ig5mo ปีที่แล้ว +30

    "I Didn't have a million to give"???
    Ya obviously did.
    The fact that this woman was in charge in part of national security, I sure don't trust this country!

  • @kathyescobedo461
    @kathyescobedo461 ปีที่แล้ว +106

    The intelligence officer wasn’t very intelligent🤷🏼‍♀️

    • @JustMe-TNVR
      @JustMe-TNVR 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      They never are! Government employees 🤣🤣🤣

    • @daystar73
      @daystar73 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Dum dum

    • @josephteeple773
      @josephteeple773 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      She was a map reader in Intelligence.

    • @SusanHolbert
      @SusanHolbert 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I agree. I know intelligence officers, and I don't think they would ever be duped.

  • @gennigfox8368
    @gennigfox8368 4 ปีที่แล้ว +305

    A lot of times when people fall in love "online" they aren't falling in love with the person on the other end. They are falling in love with this creation they've developed in their minds.

    • @B.H.56
      @B.H.56 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      or with a photo.

    • @nonnaninella
      @nonnaninella 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I Know, I fell in love with a picture and texts from the scammer. he was a dream...I learned

    • @jolenecarney7514
      @jolenecarney7514 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I bet it makes the pain of finding out it is a figment that your conscience built and was never real, very traumatizing

    • @casserinetoussaint9719
      @casserinetoussaint9719 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Genni G Fox: Nicely put.

    • @Happy2beher
      @Happy2beher 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      That can happen with someone in person as well.

  • @soulfulkisses8046
    @soulfulkisses8046 5 ปีที่แล้ว +605

    This is what happens when you're book smart and not street smart... Teach your kids a mixture of both...

    • @emotionalabuserecovery828
      @emotionalabuserecovery828 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Yesssss!!!!!!!

    • @valeria-militiamessalina5672
      @valeria-militiamessalina5672 5 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Well, some people lead a very sheltered life, in childhood and later, have a good upbringing and simply don’t realize the true depth of evil that is out there. She was too inexperienced to understand, coupled with a wish not to be alone not hard to imagine the circumstances.

    • @ChloeLukich
      @ChloeLukich 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Exactlyyyy. I’ve met SO many incredibly (book) smart and kind and made the Most Stupid life choices. 🤯

    • @damselinadress2069
      @damselinadress2069 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Amen!!!

    • @goddessdanielle4105
      @goddessdanielle4105 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Soulful Kisses80 On point 👏👏👏👏

  • @bevanbuckwheatshea5520
    @bevanbuckwheatshea5520 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    An Intelligence officer? What exactly does this job entail????

  • @robinpigeon2070
    @robinpigeon2070 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    Amazing what passes for military intelligence officers these days

    • @ducksarefat
      @ducksarefat 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Right?!

    • @Lesrevesdhiver
      @Lesrevesdhiver 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      military intelligence - that is an oxymoron.

    • @rogerbec5766
      @rogerbec5766 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You'd be surprised what not so smart government people are. They wouldn't survived one minute in the private sector.

  • @robinpigeon2070
    @robinpigeon2070 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    She ripped off her parents for this? Disgusting

    • @KathleenMcNe
      @KathleenMcNe 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I agree. It's appalling that she expected her elderly parents to help finance her incomprehensibly stupid romance.

  • @gro-wn8dq
    @gro-wn8dq ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Her father should have asked her how you could be so stupid to believe his lies for 2 years.

  • @scoobie8amg
    @scoobie8amg 5 ปีที่แล้ว +803

    Instead of making fun of people like this be grateful they are willing to warn others.

    • @CiciTheGoddess
      @CiciTheGoddess 5 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Marian Hanson Confidence Coach she is warning people to use common sense and not to fall for scammers’ tricks

    • @simon5005
      @simon5005 5 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      By now it should be COMMON SENSE not to hook up with people online, so I don't feel sorry for idiots.

    • @liveyourbestlife143
      @liveyourbestlife143 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I agree. There are a lot more people who go through this that are to embarrassed to talk about.

    • @Dobiegal
      @Dobiegal 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Someone this stupid deserves to lose the money.

    • @aarbar6615
      @aarbar6615 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @Marian Hanson Confidence Coach you need to hire a common sense coach or at very least look up the meaning of the word warn

  • @numberonecobfan
    @numberonecobfan 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +787

    The level of bravery this took was INSANE. These people all had their life in danger, but you still decided to go through with the recvery of their assets by busting the swindlerss. True respect *Stalwart-redeem*
    If the law enforcement was half as dedicated and ingenious (and honest) as you guys are, the USA would be a much safer country.
    Amazing work!

    • @misstoya01
      @misstoya01 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He is truly exceptional, and his tools are so impressive that I occasionally wonder if he’s even human, haha. The bottom line is that *Stalwart-redeem* is the ultimate expert in recvering from scaams.

    • @lgillam06
      @lgillam06 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This is actually what happened to me some weeks ago after falling for a binary option scam but I was able to report to the right person *Stalwart-redeem*

    • @51612405
      @51612405 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I need this recvery expert for my romance scaams case also

    • @lgillam06
      @lgillam06 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He mostly interacts on Tele grams using the user

    • @lgillam06
      @lgillam06 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      *@stalwartredeem* THAT IS HIS USER NAME

  • @inquirer1016
    @inquirer1016 4 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Amazing. She's told by the scammer that it's a fraud and she doesn't believe the guy after losing a million. Wonder what the qualifications are for an "Intelligence Officer."

    • @susannewton970
      @susannewton970 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Obviously not intelligence !!! .

    • @fifthdimension1984
      @fifthdimension1984 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      It must have been some other "qualifications" not suitable to mention in this forum.

    • @liviamasutti2139
      @liviamasutti2139 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      😂😂😂

  • @catlover922730
    @catlover922730 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    Sadly this intelligence officer did not exhibit much intelligence. The minute he did not pay back a penny should have been a huge red flag. I am constantly astounded how so many of these women fall for this, especially when they have never even met the person. I rarely give money to people I know let alone someone I never met.

    • @bosiesmom
      @bosiesmom ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Ha ha the irony is let's say she saw this Joseph begging in the streets, she probably wouldn't give him a dollar, but when he's online halfway across the globe pretending to be some British businessman she gives him $1million plus easily!

    • @kekkic
      @kekkic ปีที่แล้ว +6

      She was not an intelligence officer by the way. I know her. she was a bank manager and then she worked at a school as treasurer. Don't know where the "intelligence officer" came from.

    • @Doniameche
      @Doniameche 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@kekkicclearly

    • @AnneCaulder
      @AnneCaulder 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@kekkicShe says she was an imagery analyst in the Air Force, which was most likely 40 years ago. They took that and ran with it. She definitely looks
      like a bank manager.

  • @vuokkorusso2841
    @vuokkorusso2841 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Keep in mind these scammers do not ask for your photos. They do not care what you look like and the still call you " my beautiful love"....lol

  • @876me7
    @876me7 5 ปีที่แล้ว +434

    A FB friend from overseas asked my mom for money. She immediately blocked him lol. My mom is no fool! 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @DarkroomMedia007
      @DarkroomMedia007 5 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      I blocked by half brother immediately also, he asked for help with rent money after 30 years not knowing who in the world I was, pretending to get to know me. It only took him one month ask for money and I blocked him in my phone and on Facebook! Even when you turn people down, they will always come back at a later time only to keep in contact with you to ask for money. I'd rather block a person and be done with it. Your mom was really smart!

    • @blackberrylady6025
      @blackberrylady6025 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Nope, ur mom is a wise owl...thank u Jesus 🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆🏅🏅🌹🌹🌷🌷🌹🖐🏽🖐🏽🖐🏽🖐🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

    • @britbyname3620
      @britbyname3620 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      876ME Surely , its basic common sense. ??

    • @GOD-127
      @GOD-127 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@DarkroomMedia007
      You are very smart and amazing person
      I am proud of you

    • @evangelinegilbero8211
      @evangelinegilbero8211 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I had met a lot from fb.all of them are working in an oil rig.lol..and widower..from uk..but actually they are nigerian..i guess thier race is curse...

  • @B.H.56
    @B.H.56 3 ปีที่แล้ว +108

    I'm the nicest, most generous person, but also very suspicious. The minute a guy asks for money, it's over.

    • @yasminmoledina37
      @yasminmoledina37 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Bravo!!! We really more people like you to wipe these disgusting monsters from the Internet forever.

    • @sandrabrislin4526
      @sandrabrislin4526 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I don’t need a man to support

    • @natedog01able
      @natedog01able 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I am married to a beautiful philippno woman once in a while maybe 2 times per year I might ask to barrow money from my wife for gas or lunch with a friend. I always pay her back. So it's ok if I ask my wife because iam married

  • @fjhaydn6047
    @fjhaydn6047 5 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    If the scammer is repentant then he has a great way to prove it: GIVE THE MONEY BACK

    • @knowbodiesfull5768
      @knowbodiesfull5768 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      You'd sooner find a fat-free ice cream sundae than a "repentant scammer."

    • @marknewton6984
      @marknewton6984 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Never.😮

  • @geneziogenezio3299
    @geneziogenezio3299 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I can bet she wouldn't give 1/100th of that money to a good dear family member if he or she asked for help...but then give all that money to a complete stranger without ever having made eye contact with him...This woman Need an Excellent Psychiatrist.

    • @hydrangeas_lover
      @hydrangeas_lover 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The difference is this person is showering her with love and compliments. They seem like they care. They feel desired bc they are usually speaking with a younger and extremely handsome men. It's crazy.

  • @nixdapogs
    @nixdapogs ปีที่แล้ว +7

    She was being scammed and all the while she thought she was being smart and doing her due diligence on her “boyfriend”. Good thing she’s now probably retired coz no company would hire her as an “intelligence” expert.

  • @carolinen1356
    @carolinen1356 5 ปีที่แล้ว +143

    My scammer was a "surgeon from england" i asked for a photo of him with a cup of coffee. He got so mad lol. Never spoke to me again. I would NEVER send a cent.

    • @chrisokoth6276
      @chrisokoth6276 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Hahaha true

    • @misstynax3
      @misstynax3 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Sameeee

    • @vickimarlene4905
      @vickimarlene4905 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Caroline N I had so so many try and scam me. One pretended to be in the military. I asked to see him online. When he sent the video I asked him to wave and say hi. He didn’t. And I saw he was smoking. He said he didn’t smoke. Gotcha. Lol. He was so mad I didn’t fall for it.

    • @gracelynjack2769
      @gracelynjack2769 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      But sometimes they send fake pictures

    • @mildredkido9512
      @mildredkido9512 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Mine was claiming to be some actor and when I asked for a pic holding up a fork. He blocked me 😂😂

  • @StefaneJaspering
    @StefaneJaspering 5 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    Let’s make this really simple... DONT EVER GIVE ANYONE MONEY ONLINE. EVER!!! If they need money RUN. Block them.

    • @evelinholmes6401
      @evelinholmes6401 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Punky J Had a boyfriend ones that asked me for $ 10 not paying back asked again for $ 10 . My mind immitedly said know.
      Game over. That was 53 years ago. Hope I will keep it up .

    • @sebastianmusamali811
      @sebastianmusamali811 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah

  • @deanna3069
    @deanna3069 4 ปีที่แล้ว +86

    Nigeria and Western Union...RED FLAG‼

  • @DelaniaAndTheDogs
    @DelaniaAndTheDogs 4 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    “Confession” is another part of the scam. This criminal felt zero remorse.

    • @janetbrown6409
      @janetbrown6409 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Correct.

    • @jjkatz
      @jjkatz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Exactly what I was thinking. Will still try to keep getting money.

    • @thefuzzfactor2989
      @thefuzzfactor2989 ปีที่แล้ว

      Mayne he really did feel remorse.....

    • @jovitavillalpando9127
      @jovitavillalpando9127 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      He wanted for her to marry him so he could migrate to the UK legally and he would of left as soon as he got the papers

    • @jovitavillalpando9127
      @jovitavillalpando9127 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@thefuzzfactor2989no he wanted a passport to the UK

  • @MegaAli213
    @MegaAli213 3 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    Thank God she wasn't in charge of our nation's security, we'd all be either dead...or financially broke, 🤦🤷‍♂️

    • @dianekeegan5250
      @dianekeegan5250 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @marknewton6984
      @marknewton6984 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I am already broke.😮

    • @natedog01able
      @natedog01able 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      We are already broke in this country... The military has no more money. The education system pays low wages. My sister went to college to become a teacher. I make more than her driving a truck...

    • @KTSNotaryServices
      @KTSNotaryServices 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The country is already broke on several levels.❤😂

  • @xosoxo391
    @xosoxo391 5 ปีที่แล้ว +124

    Thank you for posting this. I literally meet a catfish online, we talked for a week and he was already asking me for money. I’m so happy, I listened to my gut. I blocked him and I reported him. If someone if saying they love you after a few days, hours even - you got yourself a scammer. How can you love someone that you don’t even know?

    • @irmaadams7780
      @irmaadams7780 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Glad you reported him. Smart girl!

    • @PatrickMcAsey
      @PatrickMcAsey 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Good for you. I suggest that you also know you've met a scammer when they start asking for money. It's always small amounts first, of course, just to try you out and win your confidence. But nobody who loves you would ask you for money.

    • @rocioaguilera3555
      @rocioaguilera3555 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      What I do is to ask them for double the amount they asked me for. They run away as fast as they can and I report them. I have a lot of fun doing it.

    • @stevekane8358
      @stevekane8358 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      If you fall for these scams, you deserve to lose everything. Stupid people are just dying to give away their money to con artists. I am in the wrong trade. Send me all your money, my mother just died and she needs a funeral. About 500,000 dollars should cover it all. I luv u a long, long time. HONEST TO GOD!!!

  • @PInk77W1
    @PInk77W1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +258

    The instance someone online asks u for money, run.
    It would’ve been so much cheaper for her to fly to London and knock on his door

    • @donnawoodford6641
      @donnawoodford6641 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Him Bike Use the money to hire a PI???

    • @PInk77W1
      @PInk77W1 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Donna Woodford so much better than her idea. Sad so sad

    • @ceruleanc505
      @ceruleanc505 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Or just start asking questions, they delete profiles, threads, et. al.

    • @stevostevo5032
      @stevostevo5032 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      He was not living in London either. Everything the scammer, Joseph, said was a lie. They are always using different kinds of locations as a prop.

    • @PInk77W1
      @PInk77W1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      stevo Stevo you proved my point.
      She spends $1200. On a flight to London and saves $1,000,000.
      I’m so smart it hurts.
      By the way. My name is Joseph. LoL.

  • @starcatcher3691
    @starcatcher3691 5 ปีที่แล้ว +318

    When it comes to matters of the heart people often lose their common senses

    • @soneelita
      @soneelita 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Losing common sense and common dollars.

    • @nitinkataria6030
      @nitinkataria6030 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Mostly lonely women.....

    • @DM-1111
      @DM-1111 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Nitin Kataria lonely men fall for it too, watch the documentaries about the ones with Russian online girlfriends

    • @nitinkataria6030
      @nitinkataria6030 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@DM-1111 I am also a lonely man. Lonely men who are weak and strayed in many ways which are chaotic may fall. The lonely men have defined civilization. The lonely men are the only group of the human race who actually care about the world and it's future. As thinkers and philosophers I mean. Internet is a gift. Same is true about smart devices, PC, Mac and iPad/Tabs. How you use it is based upon your PERSONALITY which gets shaped by one's outlook, character and control. Hidden desires you see. Wild wild west or Central Asia.

    • @erfantavoosi100
      @erfantavoosi100 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      True

  • @nancyboyer9141
    @nancyboyer9141 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    The minute anyone start asking me for money, it’s a red flag 🚩 for me and I instantly block them. I refuse to be a victim.

  • @trommelbiel
    @trommelbiel 4 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    I am a Nigerian and what I hate most is not their online scam but the fact that most of these scammers are also in the church, praying, singing and pretending to be servants of God. They will receive the biggest condemnation from God.

    • @mountmeron267
      @mountmeron267 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Their religion is a cult brought to them by western missionaries who teach them empty beliefs.

    • @AliciaHines-j3n
      @AliciaHines-j3n ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Wolves in sheep clothing

    • @Malibustacy1982
      @Malibustacy1982 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's what I tell the ones I am approached by after I've wasted their time. I call them on their lies and deceit. More often then not they justify their actions by blaming the government and white people!! They target white people specifically because they hold a grudge for things none of the Americans today are responsible for.

  • @SirenaSpades
    @SirenaSpades 5 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    Immediately block anyone asking for money, the moment they ask!!!!

  • @afree6339
    @afree6339 5 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    The biggest lesson in this is don’t go looking for relationships online when you’re vulnerable; period. The other stuff is obvious.

    • @bwilliams4266
      @bwilliams4266 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I was a victim of this but thank God I met someone, Mike a private investigator/hacker who helped me hack this person and I knew I've been sending money to someone that does not exist. If you need any help you should contact him, he would help he is totally reliable and affordable. Text/Whatsapp +15182175945 or on Instagram @mikeswilfred

    • @jaynestag95
      @jaynestag95 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Or drunk

  • @mirafawn1019
    @mirafawn1019 5 ปีที่แล้ว +489

    You didn't *lose* a Million, you gave it away to a scammer. So sad 🤦‍♀️

    • @normande1176
      @normande1176 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      when u start to borrow money from your family .... That's really fucktop

    • @donnawoodford6641
      @donnawoodford6641 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      If he asks for money before the first two years, my response will likely be, "Sorry, can't do that!" He would have to ask from his friends and/or family. His response should let me know if he's a scammer...if he deflects shame onto me,
      I'm gone. No woman wants to become a bag lady living on the streets. This man from Nigeria should have offered to right the wrong and pay her back. He is a coward to ask, "Will you forgive me?" and to take advantage of her on so many levels.

    • @annaamalia7189
      @annaamalia7189 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@donnawoodford6641
      This is just another spiel. They confessing all the time.

    • @misstynax3
      @misstynax3 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Exactlyyyy

    • @justsue8730
      @justsue8730 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Correct not loose, gave away

  • @rosalynbaughn6645
    @rosalynbaughn6645 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I keep hearing victims and their friends say that a scammer couldn't keep up a scam for 2 yrs, etc. That is faulty thinking. This scammer made $500,000+ each of 2 yrs duping just one victim. He likely had other relationships going at the same time. Pretty good income. Why would he NOT continue indefinitely!?!

  • @lisabolo26
    @lisabolo26 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Her condescension belies her insecurity and lack of empathy.

  • @peggygreeby5065
    @peggygreeby5065 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1022

    If you're looking for friendship, get a dog.

    • @leggs4113
      @leggs4113 5 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Peggy Greeby right much more loyal.

    • @keepitsimpleydb6151
      @keepitsimpleydb6151 5 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      Starting to see that. A dog loves unconditionally.

    • @KOLAkola
      @KOLAkola 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Peggy Greeby funny My current situation

    • @keepitsimpleydb6151
      @keepitsimpleydb6151 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@KOLAkola please do what is best for you.....in this day in age. We live in a different kind of world....

    • @donnawoodford6641
      @donnawoodford6641 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Though not as loyal as a dog, a cat is easier maintenance and yet provides a bit of companionship. I'll stick with my plants that I water and care for... anything that won't willfully steal time or money I need to sustain me.

  • @secretsquirrel7374
    @secretsquirrel7374 4 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    I was chatting online to a nice man in Brazil and after 2 weeks he demanded that I send him money for a plane ticket so he could come to the UK.
    I immediately blocked him. I can't understand why people send money to scammers.

  • @nadia562010
    @nadia562010 5 ปีที่แล้ว +215

    This happened to my mother. Made me so angry that someone would do this to her. Humans are disgusting!

    • @moniqueh7948
      @moniqueh7948 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      how much did she lose? Not one million I hope!

    • @nadia562010
      @nadia562010 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@moniqueh7948 no probably a couple grand but still...

    • @lizh4933
      @lizh4933 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Odd isn't it? You will hand over thousands of dollars and not even do a background check.

    • @donnawoodford6641
      @donnawoodford6641 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      A couple of grand is a lot of money to some folks. It would be to me and most people I know, especially those with children to feed. Change needs to take place in society to insist on people earning an honest living without scumming off of decent others who work long hard, and live lives of integrity. Payback will come accordingly.🖤⚰️☠️💀⚖️

    • @francoisr4036
      @francoisr4036 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @nadia562010 *we humans* are disgusting. Never forget that, otherwisw, you will never get rid of your own evilness.. Greetings.

  • @georginasmith441
    @georginasmith441 3 ปีที่แล้ว +111

    "he became part of my family " - I would not give my family a million dollars

  • @sonadubna8448
    @sonadubna8448 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    shelters are FULL of abandoned wonderful dogs and cats!!

  • @fly4561
    @fly4561 5 ปีที่แล้ว +169

    focus your hate on the scammer and not this woman who was scammed. I'm sure she beats herself up enough and don't need you to do the same.

    • @halimak625
      @halimak625 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Erm no ones hating... people on this thread are pointing out her stupidity, erm im guessing shes never heard of worthwhile charities.. yet gave a million to a guy thinking she would have a life with him..SELFCENTERED

    • @russellhamner4898
      @russellhamner4898 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      No hate, but you have to respect their ability to find and exploit weak people with means. They will finesse these marks out of every penny and then get them to basically become scammers themselves, lying to family and friends to get more money to send to them. The scams come in all different forms - lottery scams, 419 advance fee fraud, grant scams, romance scams, etc. The only thing in common is that it's Nigerians behind it all. They didn't stick a gun in anyone's back to make it happen, and the foolish victims would've thrown their money away regardless - and I'd rather a poor Nigerian have it than a televangelist like Robert Tilton or Joel Osteen.

    • @truthseeker906
      @truthseeker906 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      It's because of people like her that scammers exist.

    • @yolandecloete2186
      @yolandecloete2186 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      But a million dollars??? No man... She's way too gullible.. In the name of friendship.. STUPID

    • @justsue8730
      @justsue8730 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Shows you who is really the superior race here, don't you think? Just modern day explotation of wealth.

  • @chibuzookoye8019
    @chibuzookoye8019 4 ปีที่แล้ว +299

    I'm a Nigerian & I'm really embarrassed by the activities of these fraudsters. Though I understand the negative perception about Nigerians, it's important to note that there are millions of hardworking & honest people in Nigeria. Despite the bad governance, many Nigerians rise above that everyday by either working their socks off in their jobs or doing legitimate business & they'll never consider defrauding anyone even when it gets tough.

    • @carolsause6871
      @carolsause6871 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I have been scammed by Nigerians and Ghanians, I was naive, I am a trustworthy person, it's hurts, because you think he is the best man, who made me feel special. He kept asking me for money, I told a friend about him asking me for money, my friend said I was being scammed, don't ever send money or iTunes and Amazon cards to anyone you don't know personally.

    • @carolsause6871
      @carolsause6871 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      I'm glad to know that there are hard working Nigerians, the scammers make it bad for the good ones to become friends with people from America

    • @laxyhahaha4229
      @laxyhahaha4229 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@carolsause6871 gosh me too! even if I'm only 17... he still tried to push it from me, but I never send him the money tho, lol! he got the wrong person, what's a 17yo girl have anyway? pls be more careful

    • @ericchurch4279
      @ericchurch4279 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@carolsause6871 hello

    • @ericchurch4279
      @ericchurch4279 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@carolsause6871 hello

  • @fetsumm-wassie3970
    @fetsumm-wassie3970 3 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    I'm watching this in 2021 and the scary part is this woman was an intelligence officer who got duped by online scammer. You'd think her first instinct is to find out who she's dealing with. I can just picture her being manipulated by a professional Russian or Chinese intelligence officer just as easily. They need to go back and check all her stuff.

    • @brucedorisjulia7672
      @brucedorisjulia7672 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      It hurts and brings tears to my eyes when I read comments from victims who have been scammed by scammers online. I know how it feels and hurts to lose the money you've worked for the half of your life. Sometime in January I was scammed by a man who convinced me into believing that he loves me. And I lost a total of $150k, and when I requested a video call with him, he asked me to make another $20,000 deposit before I could see him on video call. This is very pathetic so I contacted my sister and told her everything that was happening to me, to my surprise my sister told me that the man was a scam. I felt very sad losing my money. I did some due diligence on this man but guess what I ended up getting scammed. Who would have believed this. When I saw a comment from Allison Bambara, who managed to recover all his lost funds through the help of Mr. James Steven Brain, an expert in recovering lost funds. Well, I did it 50/50, which means I can't lose my money to scammers anymore. So I gave Mr. James Steven Brain a try and to my surprise he successfully helped me get back everything i had lost. This is to create awareness, not everyone can be as lucky as me. I say this because I was able to get my funds back. Thanks to Mr. James Steven Brain recovery team, they are private investigators and fund recovery experts... Feel free to contact him via email for assistance. ( jamesstevenbrain@gmail.com ) I thought someone might find this information useful.

    • @arbencelaj2439
      @arbencelaj2439 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      only stupid people get scamed..many have tried to scam me ..demanding money I ask them to give me some money ..especially whe a person tells you he is a business man and can't afford a camera phone .to talk to you on cam

    • @linathe7876
      @linathe7876 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@arbencelaj2439 so true. 👌

    • @arbencelaj2439
      @arbencelaj2439 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      you can't be that stupid to give away that much money

    • @arbencelaj2439
      @arbencelaj2439 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      if it was me i would ask the scammer to give me his address and i take a plane and drop it off myself and see their reaction..that's all you need to do

  • @lucyterrier7905
    @lucyterrier7905 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Not too confident we have people like this working for our government. She's not very bright. Why would she look to the internet for friendship? She believes someone is " family" even though she never met him .

    • @kekkic
      @kekkic 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      She didn't work for the government, she was manager of a bank. Then she went to work for the school district. She was in the military when young.

    • @aussiemouth747
      @aussiemouth747 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@kekkicEven more frightening!🙄

  • @christinehall6441
    @christinehall6441 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    These females see it happen to others and still fall for it.

  • @luarena
    @luarena 5 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Emotional vulnerability makes people do really stupid things

  • @tiwiking5146
    @tiwiking5146 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    My dad said, if a man asking for money is not good man...turn away from him.

  • @darcylowe5292
    @darcylowe5292 5 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    I can understand her feeling she needed someone to talk to after the death of her husband but I cannot believe that she could be so naive to send that amount of money to someone she had never met. Most of these scammers are widowers with one child, work on oil rigs and fall in love with you after a few messages, don't be so trusting as these people are truly evil only out for your money. I would never ever under any circumstance send money to anyone that I met online, please you women out there use your brain and think with your head not your heart!

  • @kathrynshields8221
    @kathrynshields8221 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    INTELLIGENCE OFFICER??
    AND COMPANY CEO??
    SHE WAS.SCAMMED BIG TIME.......

  • @Corazanaoro
    @Corazanaoro 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    To give a million to a stranger, has to be mental illness or maybe witchcraft. I gave 500$ to my husband when married once, arguing all the way to the bank

    • @brucedorisjulia7672
      @brucedorisjulia7672 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      It hurts and brings tears to my eyes when I read comments from victims who have been scammed by scammers online. I know how it feels and hurts to lose the money you've worked for the half of your life. Sometime in January I was scammed by a man who convinced me into believing that he loves me. And I lost a total of $150k, and when I requested a video call with him, he asked me to make another $20,000 deposit before I could see him on video call. This is very pathetic so I contacted my sister and told her everything that was happening to me, to my surprise my sister told me that the man was a scam. I felt very sad losing my money. I did some due diligence on this man but guess what I ended up getting scammed. Who would have believed this. When I saw a comment from Allison Bambara, who managed to recover all his lost funds through the help of Mr. James Steven Brain, an expert in recovering lost funds. Well, I did it 50/50, which means I can't lose my money to scammers anymore. So I gave Mr. James Steven Brain a try and to my surprise he successfully helped me get back everything i had lost. This is to create awareness, not everyone can be as lucky as me. I say this because I was able to get my funds back. Thanks to Mr. James Steven Brain recovery team, they are private investigators and fund recovery experts... Feel free to contact him via email for assistance. ( jamesstevenbrain@gmail.com ) I thought someone might find this information useful.

    • @ashl8804
      @ashl8804 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      🤣🤣

    • @nkirukaokpala9209
      @nkirukaokpala9209 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Good morning mummy

    • @nkirukaokpala9209
      @nkirukaokpala9209 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I miss you too 🥰🥰🥰🥰

    • @nkirukaokpala9209
      @nkirukaokpala9209 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      How in Americans beautiful

  • @ifonlyunu994
    @ifonlyunu994 5 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    she is a widow. this is so disheartening.

    • @raptureready5004
      @raptureready5004 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Con artists love them as a target.

    • @c490cuK
      @c490cuK 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So fking what she is dullable and he scammed her my phone that is funny.

    • @fozzydare7987
      @fozzydare7987 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      More vulnerable when grieving + funds available through an inheritance

    • @windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823
      @windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Why? If you can't tell a Nigerian accent when you hear one and you're stupid, too? Well, who's that on?
      I mean, really, adopt a dog. Way less trouble than having to take care of any adult man.

  • @Anthony-spencer1034
    @Anthony-spencer1034 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +95

    Your out-of-the-box thinking and unique perspective turned an otherwise mediocre presentation into a fantastic one
    *Global TraceAssets* . You did a good job in getting the refund and keeping us from wasting time and by taking the wrong path. Your attention to detail really sets you apart from the crowd. Great work: Jack, Your great work has resulted in tangible, beneficial results to me. You're a force to be reckoned

  • @tashamorriss8997
    @tashamorriss8997 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Notice that all these scammed people make excuses - in the beginning it was 'fun' - giving away all your hard earned $$ to a stranger is 'fun' ; they said they loved me - but I've never met them ; my lover works on an oil rig but has no money - ppl who work on oil rigs are not poor ; my lover was like family to me - but again, I've never met them, etc, etc. Ppl like this woman love drama in their life & they love complaining that their stupid behaviour is everyone elses' fault. What a sad, pathetic way to live. She scammed her own family out of money!

  • @jacobreeves1469
    @jacobreeves1469 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +115

    This man really hit the ground running and hasn't stopped yet. He gives us more understanding of him without interviews and negative antics he just shows us who he is through the Recovery. True living legend. We salute you. Incredible recovery. The execution, creativity, and goodness that came from it were inspiring on a number of levels. Cheers *GlobalTraceAssets* on the internet & looking forward to seeing what you do next!

  • @DebbiePotter-xh7kv
    @DebbiePotter-xh7kv ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Oh yes always out of character. I just can’t with these online romance scams. Unbelievable. Scary part is she is an intelligent officer.

  • @The_torero
    @The_torero 5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    How ironic...an INTELLIGENCE officer gives 1 million away to a complete stranger.

    • @fifthdimension1984
      @fifthdimension1984 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She had other attributes that helped her keep her job. Logic was not one of them.

  • @seunarinemaharaj8474
    @seunarinemaharaj8474 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Trust no one in this world where money and property is involve

  • @naxmiraz
    @naxmiraz 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Bravo to this *Charge backtools* -I'm so glad you're out there fighting these scumbags. We must do everything in our power to protect the victims and the general public from these despicable scammers. You're a true hero, my brother

  • @sowaseedoftheword4560
    @sowaseedoftheword4560 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    People need to understand that scammers, fraudsters, manipulators, etc are all willing to play their games slow and steady. Because the end always justify the means they will even spend years to meet their goals. And YES, Debbie, the “confession” was part of the game! 😭

  • @lelandfranklin3487
    @lelandfranklin3487 5 ปีที่แล้ว +107

    This shows the heart can override even the smartest person. Hope she finds happiness in the future....

    • @oliverwilliam6931
      @oliverwilliam6931 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She ain't smart

    • @nextari
      @nextari 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      where is the smartest person in the video?

  • @helenlogan4390
    @helenlogan4390 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I’ll never understand how u can tell someone u love them or have a relationship when u’ve never met each other let alone send them money

    • @MrBrandonStar
      @MrBrandonStar 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      idk like seriously

    • @misstynax3
      @misstynax3 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Rightttg?!!!🙄

    • @Puumala2012
      @Puumala2012 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      It’s so easy to judge people stupid.

  • @13abcde
    @13abcde ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I can't imagine giving up one million to someone without even meeting them. I don't know, maybe I'm capable of such a thing.

  • @Michael-K-Evans
    @Michael-K-Evans 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +109

    *Team Global TraceAssets* !!, I should thank you earnestly really! So many from extraordinary unforgiving regular conditions that persevere and you supporting and giving them something that they madly need just to make due. I offer thanks toward God for extraordinary people like you that are making the qualifications that truly have the greatest effect! God favor you Global TraceAssets!! Love from Greenville NC

  • @TheMandyhuppert
    @TheMandyhuppert 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    "I didn't have a million to give". Clearly you did because you gave it to him. Intelligence is not this woman's strong suit.

  • @Nbdycares2
    @Nbdycares2 5 ปีที่แล้ว +273

    So wait a second....she was just looking for a friend but was making scrapbooks thinking it would be family history?

    • @OrchestralOrg
      @OrchestralOrg 5 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      *she is self-deceived, intentionally.*

    • @ScribblebytesWorldwide
      @ScribblebytesWorldwide 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      She's emotionally dead from the neck down. She needs to watch my vlog Night Game.

    • @normande1176
      @normande1176 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      AHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAH .... you heard her '' he was like family '' Im dying

    • @evet8101
      @evet8101 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@normande1176 ez

    • @nadeawilliams7749
      @nadeawilliams7749 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Not giving $$$ for any reason!! Let his family help him!!#!

  • @kimisom9839
    @kimisom9839 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Happened to my best friend. Stay away from online friends out of town that you can't verify.

  • @RolandaBoutiqueLondon
    @RolandaBoutiqueLondon 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    She said he was intelligent and well spoken.
    A fool cannot take one million from you.
    Mrs.intelligent officer

  • @zzzbbbooo
    @zzzbbbooo 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I can't imagine having $1m let alone LOSING it!

  • @Michelle-qi5zf
    @Michelle-qi5zf 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    She never should have been an intelligence officer! Our tax dollars went to her and then sent to the scammer. She owes US the money!

  • @glorisgonzalez.detodounpoc2934
    @glorisgonzalez.detodounpoc2934 5 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Sad starving of love and loneliness make some people yo be so blind.

  • @buffysmith4278
    @buffysmith4278 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    As soon as they ask for money You run and never look back.

  • @fionagregory9147
    @fionagregory9147 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    If you love yourself you will never be lonely at all, ever. I know I am not.

  • @seunelesaodo9144
    @seunelesaodo9144 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Nigeria 🇳🇬
    These guys have damaged the image of the good ones😢

  • @theresearcher481
    @theresearcher481 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    I admire her courage to talk about it and she smiled. God bless her. She has a heart worth more than a million dollars......

  • @theworshipsinger
    @theworshipsinger ปีที่แล้ว +75

    She didn’t lose $1 million. She GAVE AWAY $1 million.

    • @marknewton6984
      @marknewton6984 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Look at her.😅

    • @fereyal
      @fereyal 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @xana5649 Her ignorance and yours are glaringly blinding!!

  • @kikikauffmann
    @kikikauffmann 5 ปีที่แล้ว +156

    He TOLD HER this is a scam. She was so in denial she said: “you’re lying you’re gonna have to prove to me this is a scam” 🤣😖 nah that’s too much

    • @smartanajones4u
      @smartanajones4u 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      😂😂😂🤣🤣😂😂🤣 that took me by surprise to! I had to rewind the video a few times to make sure I heard her correctly...

    • @halimak625
      @halimak625 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😆😅😄😃😂😁😀

    • @russellhamner4898
      @russellhamner4898 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      It was just scam Pt. 2 - he would've said he wanted to change his ways, move to the US and be with her and start a new life, he just needed a few thousand to make the trip. She would've sent it too, but then he'd have a problem, like he got sick and had to go to the hospital but they wouldn't treat him without payment. She would've sent it. Then another unforeseen problem requiring money would arise, and she'd pay for it. These scam victims are hooked on being scammed. The Nigerian 419 scam is the granddaddy of all of this, and even though it's totally obvious, there ARE people who will fall for it and they will pay and pay until they lose it all, and say the money was STOLEN from them. If people take pity on the victim and give him or her a few bucks for their mortgage payment, they'll send it to the scammer because they believe it's about to pay off any minute now.

    • @c490cuK
      @c490cuK 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      How do you know all this are you a scammer too.

    • @sgillman16
      @sgillman16 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@c490cuK it's called basic intelligence. I take it you don't have that

  • @annamariehewitt3173
    @annamariehewitt3173 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    All Logical Thinking flies out the window...These lonely Widows looking for kindness and Loving words from a Stranger...will do anything to keep
    The Fantasy alive...

  • @altheamurphy427
    @altheamurphy427 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    An intelligence officer??????? She wasn’t so intelligent after all!

  • @amalHope3
    @amalHope3 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    She is very naive for an intelligence officer

  • @Joyceee54
    @Joyceee54 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Number 1way to avoid getting scammed ... Don't go on those dating websites!
    There's a song that goes...
    "Looking for love in all the wrong places..."

  • @keepitsimpleydb6151
    @keepitsimpleydb6151 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Don't give one penny to anyone. I don't care about the stories they tell. This society is different than it use to be. People are trying to live for free.

  • @lynnehorizon5532
    @lynnehorizon5532 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I’m having trouble looking at this woman.

  • @misslen575
    @misslen575 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This is why you need to talk to people about your relationships. My grandmother's sister told us she was talking to someone online and my parents warned her if the man started to ask for money for whatever reason, then he was a scammer. A week later she came and said yeah he did ask for money. So scary how they target the vulnerable and lonely like that

  • @patriciagray531
    @patriciagray531 5 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Never give an online stranger your $$$$$. Keep it you're going to need it.

    • @samsamibrahim3558
      @samsamibrahim3558 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The black women smart or what or we don,t have money I only see what women get scan

  • @judysanchez6329
    @judysanchez6329 5 ปีที่แล้ว +90

    I don't have college degree, But God gave me common sense specially with my money do two I work hard for it.

    • @aminamannea6142
      @aminamannea6142 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Oh I wish you knew how calculating these people are. I thought I was smart I mean both street and book smart last year scammers made me pay ticket to Nairobi (Kenya) 3 time for a real estate and gold deal (I am a real estate agent in Dubai) finally in November they managed to take all my money from me including that of my investor for gold and left me in the hotel high and dry with no money and no return ticket to Dubai. What was supposed to be a 3 days trip I ended up staying in Kenya for 3 weeks. Now I'm back to Dubai starting all over again just when I thought things are getting back on track, guess what? Boom Corona virus. This renewed my anger again as I have to worry about paying my rent if work don't start soon enough.

    • @serenatyller802
      @serenatyller802 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This things really happen a lot but I never give them a chance too like I taught I was smart when I lost couple thousands of dollars to someone in Kenya too with your story. I taught I lost it all until a friend introduced me to some recovery expert who helped me
      In recovering my lost funds from these people and putting them
      In the hands of Interpol,thanks to Spencersboltrecovery@gmail.com

    • @CourtneyCheese
      @CourtneyCheese 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lmfao that scammers are in the comment section trying to scam 🤣🤣😂😂😂 U just can't beat the internet 😩🥥

  • @tonym50195
    @tonym50195 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    How can she be so gullible? Foolish.

  • @susannewton970
    @susannewton970 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    She was an intelligence officer !! Heaven help the rest of us then .

  • @Jwalways
    @Jwalways 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Can you imagine, he was smarter than you.

  • @tapsars7911
    @tapsars7911 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Brothers are forever protective over their sisters . This is a universal truth . Even this lady's brothers asked her to be careful but unfortunately she did not listen .........

  • @sohu86x
    @sohu86x ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I wonder if she would do this for her children, cousins, etc.

  • @chrysichrysi7889
    @chrysichrysi7889 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    A fool and her money are soon parted.

  • @tashamorriss8997
    @tashamorriss8997 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    My parents raised us to be kind & helpful towards anyone, but also to be suspicious. I would never give anyone money except my parents. If a guy asked me for money I would not see him. I've had friends & lovers that never asked me for money. Genuine friends or lovers do not ask you for any money. And no I do not feel sorry for stupid people, they should use their common sense; all have claimed they were suspicious very soon. Listen and trust your instincts!

  • @AtomicB-zq2cw
    @AtomicB-zq2cw 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Just because a person is an “intelligence officer” does not mean they are “intelligent”. There is no intelligence based excuse for giving away all your money to someone you’ve never even met.

  • @robinpigeon2070
    @robinpigeon2070 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Why would a man who is a successful entrepreneur need $60 for give his friend?

  • @samuelagboma4395
    @samuelagboma4395 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I don't get it. Are u guys so desperate to get into a relationship, especially a distant relationship that you always fall prey.