It feels wrong because it is. I love you and Domi and I just feel like you guys need to put the kids in their own beds and rooms and make them know that their beds are for them. You set boundaries with your kids not your husband. You all have a marital bed not a family bed. Put them kids to bed and y’all get to work on each other!!! ❤❤❤
I couldn't agree more. This could be a recipe for disaster. You and your hubby team up on getting the babies to sleep in their own bed. You both deserve to cuddle together in peace.
100% agree! Domi doesn’t even seem happy about it 😩 I love you guys but this seems a bit extreme bc you all can’t put your foot down when it comes to the children. Some couple sleep separately for different reason but it works in favor for BOTH parties, not just one. Love y’all !
She knows what she’s doing, just like I stated in her most recent video. His mom didn’t want him to settle down with her for a reason. She knows Domi worships the ground she walks on, & this is why you shouldn’t date people who are in need of help. The kids first baby daddy wasn’t shxt so she had to find a replacement. It’s very selfish of her to lock that man down the way she did, knowing she would eventually get tired of him bc she hasn’t lived her life to the fullest, but she also needs to understand that Domi made sacrifices for her as well. She knew Domi was a provider & knew to give him the things his mom never gave him. I just wish stuff like this never happened to good men like that.
Most definitely. This man is so present with his family, even to the point of being active in the lives of and helping raise two children that aren't his biologically. No situation is perfect, but I feel like he's being penalized for being a loving, hands-on father and husband. I know compromise is important, but as an older woman, I want to encourage you to tread carefully. Boundaries are important, but the kids are the ones who need to learn them and Domi didn't make them by himself. He shouldn't be totally responsible for making things change to the point where you can sleep together again comfortably. Just be aware of the strain this puts on your relationship and be careful. What you need matters, too. Please hear my heart when I say this. It's with all the love and wisdom I can share from my almost 50 years. He has his part to play, too. The bed is such a sacred place. Be vigilant.
take time out and talk to your kids..u cant let your kids take over..i have 6 small kids and a husband ,my kids dont rule my house or my bed..i love my kids they are always welcome in our room anytime.praying everything goes well for you..tfs
Can just say I love a concept of bedroom talks with Rah it’s so needed and real life with motherhood and marriage etc I thought it’s just something to think about!❤❤❤
Awwww Rah ,just use your room for when you get overwhelmed and need your personal space ,and you and Domi can both use that new space for couples time away from the kids,but it'll get better,try showing the babies that their room is their fun and relax space ,but remember the babies are growing fast and before you know it they will all be Big and doing their own thing and you might miss them cuddling lol ,but enjoy your space it's good to have time to yourself, LOVE YOU GUYS🙏🏽💜💜💜💜💜💜💜🙏🏽
Thank you, thank you, thank you for your vulnerability and honesty. What people are failing to realize is she loves being with Domi but I understand that sometimes it’s uncomfortable. Boundaries mean that you respect yourself and your partner. I sometimes sleep in a separate bed when I’m experiencing back or neck pain. My partner still knows I love them. I love y’all for doing what works for y’all.
MOMMY NEEDS "ME TIME" and it's okay.... Queen I remember you moving out, and being at your mom's.... take you "personal time" when needed... your HUSBAND supports you and GOD, YOU GOT THIS MAMA🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏
Omg now I want my own bed. I go thru the same stuff uncomfortable, and over stimulated. My toddler be all over me and I haven’t got good rest since giving birth… but Rah since you feel bad leaving them start off in the main bed, and when the kids take over get up and go to your bed. Boom you won’t feel bad at all at that point! 😅🫶🏽
The description had me in my little feelings for a minute...😢 IM GOOD NOW, WATCHING THE VIDEO❤I remember when y'all used to do, "The first comment shout outs"😊😊😊 I still remember my name being called... Love y'all NELSON FAMILY 😚❤️😚
Nooooooo😢 please use this space and put the babies in their own room, get some twins bed and a toddler bed. You and him both need YALL space back. You need your husband and I’m sure he needs you. Wishing you the best!!❤❤❤❤
I want to add also let them only sleep in THEIR bed. Domi don’t let them sleep in your bed when your there or not. That’s confusing them by letting them think it’s ok to sleep in the bed still. Get them completely out of your bed period. I use to lock my door when my kids tried to sneak into my room. If it’s dark in the house they’re not going in any other part of the house so this forces them to go back into their beds.
As a mother is 3 daughters who loves to cuddle with both parents I understand the feeling of being crowded. The situation seems wrong because deep down it is. Don’t allow the kids to separate y’all from sleeping together that’s when the enemy begins to play in your marriage. Both parents will have to work together (DOMI) let those kids sleep in their own beds. It will be tough at the beginning but this will allow you and Rah to feel like y’all are working together. The kids know who’s the weaker parent and they feed from it. Domi and Rah y’all both have to work with the toddlers TOGETHER! My husband has his man cave and my girls have their own rooms. They all know when it’s time to leave me alone just to get some ME TIME. I love my family and I know y’all do too but it’s gonna take both of yall working together. Also never let the kids see y’all disagree on this situation. I hope this helps..I’ve been married for 17 years and I’m only 36.😊
Speaking for myself I would never do this with me and my husband. Yes OLDER couples do it, but I’ve always been told it allows the enemy to come in between the two. I would simply stand my ground when it comes to the kids sleeping in their own beds. We always had our kids in their own beds. As infants and very small toddlers they woke up at night, we would get them put them to sleep and always put them back in their own beds. Absolutely no sleeping with mommy and daddy. Y’all will figure it out. ❤
Domi and I still sleep together every night 🥰 without them tho lol there’s no room for them to get in bed with us in the new bed so they’re forced to either stay in their own bed or sleep alone in our bigger bed!
I agree! As a mom and being over stimulated. I'm happy she is pouring into herself. So she can be the best version of her. For her husband and kids. We as moms do a lot. Proud of you RAH.
I 1000% get the weird feeling. My husband and always slept together and still do. There was a period of time where I was finishing up on my degree and I felt like our sleep schedule was opposite we had a guest bedroom and I would go and sleep in there to ensure I was getting adequate rest and so was he. It’s not forever it’s just for the moment. And you and Domi set the rules of y’all sleeping apart. No one wrote the book on what that’s supposed to look like. Just because it doesn’t look like a blessing doesn’t mean it’s not a blessing. Y’all already look well connected and this could just make y’all connection even stronger. Y’all got this. This could be that stepping stone to getting the babies where they are independently sleeping. Before you know it you and Domi will be back consistently sleeping with one another and this will be another chapter in y’all book to tell the kids about once they get older! ❤
Look, I totally understand this whole set up Rah and I love it! The lil humans done took over! Domi, you and Rah suppose to be on the same team😅.... it's okay to tell Niqo and Hannah No and redirect them back to their rooms. Being consistent is the only way they are going to get it. They will not love you any less. 🩷💙
the thrill is cute sneaking into each others rooms. But….. y’all idk something about this feels off. Just teach them let them cry it out royal included so you two can have your peace and time together. This is like taping up the broken dishwasher then washing a load off dishes… water everywhere. This isn’t balance to me. It’s so cute to think of falling asleep together but now that’s speaking more to the relationship not the boundaries with the kids. Again idk just been watching since Mike and Sani were babies. I care about y’all. Find the biggest room and that’s y’all’s and the kids need to get to their own beds and royal too in my opinion but he’s so small I’d be co sleeping with his cute self too. It’s really beautiful your family but watch the tape that you put on things instead of the hard discipline it takes. That’s when the relationship is affected. It’s the boundaries and making those tough calls with the kids Domi. Rah can’t be the bad guy. Ok that’s all God bless ❤
I don’t think it’s good idea because it gives room to the enemy to play with your mind or marriage. I really hope you change your mind and work on putting the kids in they room. Love y’all and praying for you guys ❤️
As mo. We deal with so much i dealt with the same thing we had to move and stay with my mother in law it was 10 of us, and I was pregnant in one room. I'm over Stimulated often. We live our husbands, but they'll never understand because the kids always want mommy. All day. So the bedtime moments the dads love we are over it.
I support you I did it in my marriage as well and it made us miss eachothet more then finally the kids started sleeping in there own rooms ...... I don't like u being apart it don't seem right though
Clickbait done right 👏tell me the first 2min its what's really going on don't drag it to the last two min of the video im more liking to keep watching the channel instead of being done with the channel kudos to you lol
With the way Robin loves her kids, I don't think that's the reason she moved out of her matrimonial bedroom! Robin is not a type of a mother who can fail to set boundaries on her kids despite Dominique failing. There is more to what we are hearing!
There’s literally nothing more. I’m with my family from sun up to sun down. I’m constantly over stimulated and touched out.. I haven’t got a good night of sleep in years. I’m at my breaking point and my bed is my outlet 🤗 as many times as we’ve said what the reasoning is, yall trying to come up with something more is hilarious lol
I'm 60, married first time at 38 and my hubby smoked. I needed my own room because it bothered me. Second time I i.married, he snored and I couldn't sleep. I loved having my own room, it made me a calmer more peaceful Wife.
I guess it would be different if he wasn’t confused and if both of y’all didn’t feel uneasy about it, that would’ve made the transition feel better. Honestly, I’ve seen the confusion of when it came to domi saying he wants more kids and you saying no and y’all are using the youngest kids as part of the “reason” as to y’all transitioning but I think there’s a lot of uncertainty, no clarity when it comes to what is happening with the kids, having more kids or if this is it, boundaries, etc. with domi unsure of this being it for y’all having kids I think he’s trying to treasure the younger kids since he’s hearing you constantly say “this is it no more kids”, so he’s trying to savior having younger kids which I think that’s why he’s not setting “boundaries” when it comes to them being in the bed which makes since. I don’t think he did it or is doing it to make you (rah) feel uncomfortable, I think he’s doing it out of uncertainty of having another kid and cherishing his younger kids. Since you view it as him not setting boundaries it makes you feel that he’s not listening to you being uncomfortable, and he’s giving off the energy of not setting boundaries when it comes to the kids. Also a person can set as many boundaries as possible but if they aren’t being heard does it matter if boundaries are set? He’s told you he didn’t want to be in separate rooms throughout this entire process. You have your girls room and he’s trying to change his room to be more masculine but your saying “this is still my room” but when your were changing your girl cave around he didn’t say “this is still my room” and if he did he still let you have whatever you want in there. It makes him feel like he can’t have his room very masculine or things are one sided. Hes having trouble setting boundaries with both you and the kids. If the kids see both of y’all don’t respect y’all boundaries then they start doing it. There’s just a lot of uncertainty in the situation. Also if y’all want to have a main room for y’all and just have separate rooms for eachother that is very different from not having a main room (which it sounds like you want rah) and only having separate rooms, then that changes the conversation of we need a house so we both can feel comfortable having a girl cave, you have your main cave but we sleep in the same main bedroom every night. This is my honest opinion and it’s not out of disrespect, but that’s what it feels like is happening.
He’s not confused about anything. I think with the lack of context you guys are confused lol we are very aware and intentional of what we put on social media 😉 he’s trolling about having more kids. Trust me we’ve already had this conversation plenty of times. The lack of boundaries with the kids are just that…
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It feels wrong because it is. I love you and Domi and I just feel like you guys need to put the kids in their own beds and rooms and make them know that their beds are for them. You set boundaries with your kids not your husband. You all have a marital bed not a family bed. Put them kids to bed and y’all get to work on each other!!! ❤❤❤
I agree
I couldn't agree more. This could be a recipe for disaster. You and your hubby team up on getting the babies to sleep in their own bed. You both deserve to cuddle together in peace.
100% agree! Domi doesn’t even seem happy about it 😩 I love you guys but this seems a bit extreme bc you all can’t put your foot down when it comes to the children. Some couple sleep separately for different reason but it works in favor for BOTH parties, not just one. Love y’all !
She knows what she’s doing, just like I stated in her most recent video. His mom didn’t want him to settle down with her for a reason. She knows Domi worships the ground she walks on, & this is why you shouldn’t date people who are in need of help. The kids first baby daddy wasn’t shxt so she had to find a replacement. It’s very selfish of her to lock that man down the way she did, knowing she would eventually get tired of him bc she hasn’t lived her life to the fullest, but she also needs to understand that Domi made sacrifices for her as well. She knew Domi was a provider & knew to give him the things his mom never gave him. I just wish stuff like this never happened to good men like that.
@@audiotv4667 ima reply to you in a video because this narrative must be stopped immediately.
Domi will forever be the husband, some of us wish to receive... Speaking into existence 🙌🙏🙌
Most definitely. This man is so present with his family, even to the point of being active in the lives of and helping raise two children that aren't his biologically. No situation is perfect, but I feel like he's being penalized for being a loving, hands-on father and husband. I know compromise is important, but as an older woman, I want to encourage you to tread carefully. Boundaries are important, but the kids are the ones who need to learn them and Domi didn't make them by himself. He shouldn't be totally responsible for making things change to the point where you can sleep together again comfortably. Just be aware of the strain this puts on your relationship and be careful. What you need matters, too. Please hear my heart when I say this. It's with all the love and wisdom I can share from my almost 50 years. He has his part to play, too. The bed is such a sacred place. Be vigilant.
take time out and talk to your kids..u cant let your kids take over..i have 6 small kids and a husband ,my kids dont rule my house or my bed..i love my kids they are always welcome in our room anytime.praying everything goes well for you..tfs
Can just say I love a concept of bedroom talks with Rah it’s so needed and real life with motherhood and marriage etc I thought it’s just something to think about!❤❤❤
Awwww Rah ,just use your room for when you get overwhelmed and need your personal space ,and you and Domi can both use that new space for couples time away from the kids,but it'll get better,try showing the babies that their room is their fun and relax space ,but remember the babies are growing fast and before you know it they will all be Big and doing their own thing and you might miss them cuddling lol ,but enjoy your space it's good to have time to yourself, LOVE YOU GUYS🙏🏽💜💜💜💜💜💜💜🙏🏽
Thank you, thank you, thank you for your vulnerability and honesty. What people are failing to realize is she loves being with Domi but I understand that sometimes it’s uncomfortable. Boundaries mean that you respect yourself and your partner. I sometimes sleep in a separate bed when I’m experiencing back or neck pain. My partner still knows I love them. I love y’all for doing what works for y’all.
Thank you so much for understanding 😊
MOMMY NEEDS "ME TIME" and it's okay.... Queen I remember you moving out, and being at your mom's.... take you "personal time" when needed... your HUSBAND supports you and GOD, YOU GOT THIS MAMA🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏
Omg now I want my own bed. I go thru the same stuff uncomfortable, and over stimulated. My toddler be all over me and I haven’t got good rest since giving birth… but Rah since you feel bad leaving them start off in the main bed, and when the kids take over get up and go to your bed. Boom you won’t feel bad at all at that point! 😅🫶🏽
Awwwe things will be just fine Rah!!!!
Is okay momma! He can come in there whenever u want ❤
Proud you’re setting boundaries. I’m currently planning to move out our bedroom for the same reason..
I need the playlist for sure 😭❤️
I think the honesty is beautiful and y’all will figure it out together❤😊
Rahh yes this was a good idea. You have to take care of you first. I love your room & your bed set. 💕😍
Hey lady good job, you gotta do what you need to to teach the children the boundaries Domi needs to learn. 😊
Hi Rah! I love your new bed! You did a good job putting the bed together! Great video!
Thank you very much, Rah! I love how your room is so,so neat and very well organized! Rah is so smart & talented at everything that she does!
The description had me in my little feelings for a minute...😢 IM GOOD NOW, WATCHING THE VIDEO❤I remember when y'all used to do, "The first comment shout outs"😊😊😊 I still remember my name being called... Love y'all NELSON FAMILY 😚❤️😚
I think this is a good thing ❤ someone moving towards what they need
I love you guys as well! Good job rah
Love this for you wife 🤞🏼💙
Yes Rah❤❤❤ thank you for this upload
Y’all will be fine. I know a few married couples who have separate rooms. These couples are some of the happiest couples I know 🤣🤣🤣
Nooooooo😢 please use this space and put the babies in their own room, get some twins bed and a toddler bed. You and him both need YALL space back. You need your husband and I’m sure he needs you. Wishing you the best!!❤❤❤❤
I want to add also let them only sleep in THEIR bed. Domi don’t let them sleep in your bed when your there or not. That’s confusing them by letting them think it’s ok to sleep in the bed still. Get them completely out of your bed period. I use to lock my door when my kids tried to sneak into my room. If it’s dark in the house they’re not going in any other part of the house so this forces them to go back into their beds.
The company you got the Bed from I get my scented Candles from smell so good ❤
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Yes for the good rest! 😂❤
Sliding doors would be nice there so the door doesn’t hit your bed
As a mother is 3 daughters who loves to cuddle with both parents I understand the feeling of being crowded. The situation seems wrong because deep down it is. Don’t allow the kids to separate y’all from sleeping together that’s when the enemy begins to play in your marriage. Both parents will have to work together (DOMI) let those kids sleep in their own beds. It will be tough at the beginning but this will allow you and Rah to feel like y’all are working together. The kids know who’s the weaker parent and they feed from it. Domi and Rah y’all both have to work with the toddlers TOGETHER! My husband has his man cave and my girls have their own rooms. They all know when it’s time to leave me alone just to get some ME TIME. I love my family and I know y’all do too but it’s gonna take both of yall working together. Also never let the kids see y’all disagree on this situation. I hope this helps..I’ve been married for 17 years and I’m only 36.😊
Thank you 🙏🏽
@@RahNel25 You’re more than welcome! I’m rooting for you and Domi y’all can do this!
Try to get a projector and a fire stick and cast it on the wall if the room has the capability.
I don’t have a wall big enough! Gotta get a little tv 😩
u2 are so beautiful. Love all your channels.
I actually feel like that’s a awesome idea!! ✋🏼😄keep the relationship interesting allow yaLL to miSS eaCh oVA❤️
Get a piece of ply wood to set on the rails so the mattress would feel better and you won't break anything
I love you rahhhhh ❤❤❤❤
Domi, being a husband 😊 YET hating on the side line 😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂 per usual!
My Grandparents had separate rooms as well
I love ❤️ your TH-cam videos
First !!!! Hey rah !! ❤
Speaking for myself I would never do this with me and my husband. Yes OLDER couples do it, but I’ve always been told it allows the enemy to come in between the two. I would simply stand my ground when it comes to the kids sleeping in their own beds. We always had our kids in their own beds. As infants and very small toddlers they woke up at night, we would get them put them to sleep and always put them back in their own beds. Absolutely no sleeping with mommy and daddy. Y’all will figure it out. ❤
Domi and I still sleep together every night 🥰 without them tho lol there’s no room for them to get in bed with us in the new bed so they’re forced to either stay in their own bed or sleep alone in our bigger bed!
@@RahNel25 Awesome, so it’s working out for the good already!
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Come through upload!!
Can you give more information on where you get bed and everything please cause I am looking for me a bed without paying so much thank you ❤️
And what size sheets you use for a full bed
I agree! As a mom and being over stimulated. I'm happy she is pouring into herself. So she can be the best version of her. For her husband and kids. We as moms do a lot. Proud of you RAH.
DOMI put on some smell goods ... cuz he said, "Oh yeah, it's a PRIVATE PARTY"😂😂😂
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I 1000% get the weird feeling. My husband and always slept together and still do. There was a period of time where I was finishing up on my degree and I felt like our sleep schedule was opposite we had a guest bedroom and I would go and sleep in there to ensure I was getting adequate rest and so was he. It’s not forever it’s just for the moment. And you and Domi set the rules of y’all sleeping apart. No one wrote the book on what that’s supposed to look like. Just because it doesn’t look like a blessing doesn’t mean it’s not a blessing. Y’all already look well connected and this could just make y’all connection even stronger. Y’all got this. This could be that stepping stone to getting the babies where they are independently sleeping. Before you know it you and Domi will be back consistently sleeping with one another and this will be another chapter in y’all book to tell the kids about once they get older! ❤
I can’t sleep w/ anyone or cuddle lol I overall like my own bed. Don’t get me wrong I can cuddle b4 bed time I just can’t sleep cuddling 🥲
Look, I totally understand this whole set up Rah and I love it! The lil humans done took over! Domi, you and Rah suppose to be on the same team😅.... it's okay to tell Niqo and Hannah No and redirect them back to their rooms. Being consistent is the only way they are going to get it. They will not love you any less. 🩷💙
Actually when the kids fall asleep your husband can come in that room and the kids sleep in yallZ bed!👊🏼👍🏼🤷🏽♀️
Not you scared thinking y’all separated up I was about to
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the thrill is cute sneaking into each others rooms. But….. y’all idk something about this feels off. Just teach them let them cry it out royal included so you two can have your peace and time together. This is like taping up the broken dishwasher then washing a load off dishes… water everywhere. This isn’t balance to me. It’s so cute to think of falling asleep together but now that’s speaking more to the relationship not the boundaries with the kids. Again idk just been watching since Mike and Sani were babies. I care about y’all. Find the biggest room and that’s y’all’s and the kids need to get to their own beds and royal too in my opinion but he’s so small I’d be co sleeping with his cute self too. It’s really beautiful your family but watch the tape that you put on things instead of the hard discipline it takes. That’s when the relationship is affected. It’s the boundaries and making those tough calls with the kids Domi. Rah can’t be the bad guy. Ok that’s all God bless ❤
Yeah you wrong for this, poor dom puts up with so much crap
I don’t think it’s good idea because it gives room to the enemy to play with your mind or marriage. I really hope you change your mind and work on putting the kids in they room. Love y’all and praying for you guys ❤️
We still sleep together every night 🥰
As mo. We deal with so much i dealt with the same thing we had to move and stay with my mother in law it was 10 of us, and I was pregnant in one room. I'm over Stimulated often. We live our husbands, but they'll never understand because the kids always want mommy. All day. So the bedtime moments the dads love we are over it.
I support you I did it in my marriage as well and it made us miss eachothet more then finally the kids started sleeping in there own rooms ...... I don't like u being apart it don't seem right though
I truly understand🙌🙌🤍🤍💯💯
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Clickbait done right 👏tell me the first 2min its what's really going on don't drag it to the last two min of the video im more liking to keep watching the channel instead of being done with the channel kudos to you lol
With the way Robin loves her kids, I don't think that's the reason she moved out of her matrimonial bedroom! Robin is not a type of a mother who can fail to set boundaries on her kids despite Dominique failing. There is more to what we are hearing!
There’s literally nothing more. I’m with my family from sun up to sun down. I’m constantly over stimulated and touched out.. I haven’t got a good night of sleep in years. I’m at my breaking point and my bed is my outlet 🤗 as many times as we’ve said what the reasoning is, yall trying to come up with something more is hilarious lol
Rah is the MFn G.O.A.T for @7:08
I'm 60, married first time at 38 and my hubby smoked. I needed my own room because it bothered me. Second time I i.married, he snored and I couldn't sleep. I loved having my own room, it made me a calmer more peaceful Wife.
I guess it would be different if he wasn’t confused and if both of y’all didn’t feel uneasy about it, that would’ve made the transition feel better. Honestly, I’ve seen the confusion of when it came to domi saying he wants more kids and you saying no and y’all are using the youngest kids as part of the “reason” as to y’all transitioning but I think there’s a lot of uncertainty, no clarity when it comes to what is happening with the kids, having more kids or if this is it, boundaries, etc. with domi unsure of this being it for y’all having kids I think he’s trying to treasure the younger kids since he’s hearing you constantly say “this is it no more kids”, so he’s trying to savior having younger kids which I think that’s why he’s not setting “boundaries” when it comes to them being in the bed which makes since. I don’t think he did it or is doing it to make you (rah) feel uncomfortable, I think he’s doing it out of uncertainty of having another kid and cherishing his younger kids. Since you view it as him not setting boundaries it makes you feel that he’s not listening to you being uncomfortable, and he’s giving off the energy of not setting boundaries when it comes to the kids. Also a person can set as many boundaries as possible but if they aren’t being heard does it matter if boundaries are set? He’s told you he didn’t want to be in separate rooms throughout this entire process. You have your girls room and he’s trying to change his room to be more masculine but your saying “this is still my room” but when your were changing your girl cave around he didn’t say “this is still my room” and if he did he still let you have whatever you want in there. It makes him feel like he can’t have his room very masculine or things are one sided. Hes having trouble setting boundaries with both you and the kids. If the kids see both of y’all don’t respect y’all boundaries then they start doing it. There’s just a lot of uncertainty in the situation. Also if y’all want to have a main room for y’all and just have separate rooms for eachother that is very different from not having a main room (which it sounds like you want rah) and only having separate rooms, then that changes the conversation of we need a house so we both can feel comfortable having a girl cave, you have your main cave but we sleep in the same main bedroom every night. This is my honest opinion and it’s not out of disrespect, but that’s what it feels like is happening.
He’s not confused about anything. I think with the lack of context you guys are confused lol we are very aware and intentional of what we put on social media 😉 he’s trolling about having more kids. Trust me we’ve already had this conversation plenty of times. The lack of boundaries with the kids are just that…
Rah you need some time to your self domi is not going nowhere
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