Arlo McKinley - The Hurtin's Done | OurVinyl Sessions

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    Hailing from Cincinnati, Ohio, singer-songwriter ‪@ArloMcKinley‬ mixes grit and soul in this stripped performance of his song “The Hurtin’s Done” from his 2020 debut solo album “Die Midwestern”. This session was filmed and recorded live at Cal E. Kidd’s in Nashville, Tennessee.
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    Gifted singer-songwriter Arlo McKinley released his debut solo record at age 40 on John Prine’s Oh Boy records - after he almost gave up on music altogether. McKinley’s album, Die Midwestern, is deeply rooted in street soul, country, punk, and gospel and draws on personal stories, set against the backdrop of his hometown of Cincinnati Ohio. McKinley recorded ten remarkable songs - some dating back fifteen years - all penned with a weight, honesty and gritty-hope that comes from living in the rustbelt city where his songs were born. He pursued a solo career from 2014, with his own band The Lonesome Sound and achieved some success including a nomination for Album of the Year, Songwriter of the Year and Best Americana Act from the Cincinnati Music Awards, but his career stalled and he almost gave up altogether, “I don’t know why the world works the way it does but I’m beyond grateful to be in this situation.” McKinley stated, adding, “ I’m a little wiser in my ways and a 20 something me would’ve found a way to destroy the one dream that has stuck with me my entire life. Being a working musician.” Arlo McKinley is the last artist John and his son Jody signed together to their label Oh Boy records.
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    Lyrics:
    Everyone’s talking but no one is saying a thing
    It was all that I knew how to do to help comfort the pain
    With my drunken solutions
    At least for a moment they’re gone
    Pretending that everything’s fine
    Knowing damn well it’s wrong
    Still I don’t want no one to tell me what’s right
    I’ll make up my own mind
    My own mind tonight
    The ghosts that still haunt me
    I’ll fight one by one
    Till the hurtin is done
    I hide from anxiety
    I never stay hidden for long
    Learned to self-medicate
    And how to wait until the panic is gone
    So I hide behind smiles
    And whatever else gets me through
    I’m not knowing what’s waiting for me
    Or what I ought to do
    Still I don’t want no one to tell me what’s right
    I’ll make up my own mind
    My own mind tonight
    The ghosts that still haunt me
    I’ll fight one by one
    Till the hurtin is done
    No we don’t want no one
    To tell us what’s right
    We’ll make up our own minds
    Our own minds tonight
    The ghosts that still haunt us
    We’ll fight one by one
    Till the hurtin is done
    Till the hurtin is done
    (written by Arlo McKinley)
    Performers:
    Guitar and Vocals: Arlo McKinley
    Pedal Steel: Chad Light
    Credits:
    Co-Directors: Tom Beal & Michael Moen
    Executive Producer: Amber Christian
    Editor: Tom Beal
    Camera 1: Tom Beal
    Camera 2: Craig Hill
    Camera 3: Michael Moen
    Tracking Engineer: Kate Haldrup
    Mixing Engineer: Dylan Alldredge
    Mastering Engineer: Kevin Dailey
    B-roll: Allen Ralph
    Photographer: Molly Mantlow

ความคิดเห็น • 700

  • @kevinknight8889
    @kevinknight8889 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Childers.Strings Lost Dog and Arlo..these are the boyz that are REAL COUNTRY...BOUT TIME...DAMN I GAVE UP..

    • @GringoDiabloG59
      @GringoDiabloG59 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Don't forget Colter Wall bro

  • @mattbeers4394
    @mattbeers4394 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    This man is so underrated

  • @alleycat1977
    @alleycat1977 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Last song you sent me before you died
    I miss you brother
    Gdamn I miss you

  • @wiseriverhealing
    @wiseriverhealing 3 ปีที่แล้ว +296

    Holy shit I’m so glad to be clean today. I ugly cried though this whole thing. Don’t stay sick and suffering. If I can do it so can you. 🙏

    • @elihammett
      @elihammett 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      You are strong and worthy Shannon

    • @michaelc.3647
      @michaelc.3647 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Good luck in your recovery. You are not alone!

    • @fd3144
      @fd3144 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I'm suffering in silence tonight laying on this couch. Those little white pills have had me for 10 or more years. It's been 24 hrs since my last ones. And I can bearly have the will to get up. I don't know how much longer I can take this. But I'm sick of planning my days on the number of pills I have. I really hope this is the last time I quit. But can't picture my life with out that bottle of pills.

    • @michaelc.3647
      @michaelc.3647 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@fd3144 hey, man. stop white knuckling it and contact someone. Even if its just me as a stranger on the internet. talk it out and work through it with someone.

    • @jw393
      @jw393 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@fd3144 what are you trying to get off?? Been clean from speed for 12yrs... Oxy for just short of a year but I can't get away from the Xanax and it's literally cost me everything

  • @randyjohnson9420
    @randyjohnson9420 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    This man sings with his soul and his soul touches the heart love it 2:10 am. 1-10-23 wife’s doing chemo

    • @OurVinyl
      @OurVinyl  ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Sending love you and your wife's way- glad that you came across this and felt moved by Arlo's work❤

    • @jonkingsley3100
      @jonkingsley3100 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hey man, came to check in in on you. Hope all is well.

    • @randyjohnson9420
      @randyjohnson9420 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Start another round today, it’s all good cause God’s got us and she’s doing great, thanks guys

    • @ifitrocks
      @ifitrocks ปีที่แล้ว

      Great song but ur 1 in 10 million boo hoo songs. Do something different

    • @rawrj
      @rawrj ปีที่แล้ว

      Hoping for all the best man, nothing I love more than the story of a survivor!

  • @higherstatez
    @higherstatez 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    18 years of hard booze and cocaine I took my 30 days yeaterday still alot of work to do but if anyone's reading this and is hurting reach out to anyone you have left and ask for help or go to some meetings there's people out there who understand you and who will help selflessly ❤

    • @OurVinyl
      @OurVinyl  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Well done and your note is certainly inspiring keep at it and best of luck - Michael

    • @timothygorman6972
      @timothygorman6972 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Never alone

    • @kendalwheat9633
      @kendalwheat9633 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      really? I could use some help. without too much judgement. Thank you for your comment

    • @JeremiahDurham5353
      @JeremiahDurham5353 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      God bless you for being there for us

    • @AndezValentino
      @AndezValentino 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Love and light to you folks! Hug em high!

  • @Ninapatine
    @Ninapatine 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Im 7 yrs clean now. This song describes exactly what active addiction is like. I was medicating all the trauma, and anxiety. I chose to heal the wrong way. Thank God Im clean

    • @OurVinyl
      @OurVinyl  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Congratulations on your sobriety 🧡

  • @lisab9657
    @lisab9657 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    The ghosts that still haunt me, I'll fight one by one til the hurtin'' is done

    • @christopherpitt6317
      @christopherpitt6317 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ain't that the truth

    • @lisab9657
      @lisab9657 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@christopherpitt6317 That's all you can do!

  • @halseybk
    @halseybk 2 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Kudos to the guy on the pedal steel. This vibe isn't the same without out.

    • @damienwilson6610
      @damienwilson6610 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      For real

    • @jc2343
      @jc2343 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      fuckin eh!

  • @danielmcmillan1040
    @danielmcmillan1040 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Being sober is gracefully abundant blessings

  • @jennylistens6135
    @jennylistens6135 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Currently swirling the crown. Til the hurting is done at least for tonight, I'll make up my own mind.

    • @codemannix
      @codemannix 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      As a driving instructor and parent, please be safe hon, and dont let a bottle full of oblivion overshadow this beautiful life we get one chance to live ... Happy trails!

    • @jennylistens6135
      @jennylistens6135 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@codemannix Thank you for your kind response

  • @jessetovar7137
    @jessetovar7137 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Came here to feel the hurt

  • @roughanmacnamara
    @roughanmacnamara 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Such a special artist. Few have such an authentic voice.

  • @codemannix
    @codemannix 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    If you struggle with depression and have a tough time telling others, don't be afraid to reach out and ask us how we been. Trust me, your loved ones need to hear your voice and know you're good, shit... Even I would love to know. How are you?

    • @wyattheitkamp55
      @wyattheitkamp55 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      if i’m being honest, i really ain’t doing good right now. A girl who i’m in love with who i’ve known my whole life had to move away. Her parents are divorced and she was having issues with her mom’s boyfriend so she moved to her dad’s which is really far away. It happened four months ago and I feel like I haven’t been able to to be happy ever since. I’m sorry for telling my life story lol but I really needed to talk to someone about it. I really appreciated that you wanted to know how a random person like me was doing

    • @mmraider8124
      @mmraider8124 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@wyattheitkamp55 You will be okay. If she's the one then nature will take its course.

    • @kriscardwell4918
      @kriscardwell4918 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Anxiety and depression is ruling my life just now,, hard to shake off,, so I Bury my head and try to dream of better days when I can see my kids again,, all i pray for is for them to look up to me one day 💚💚💚💚

    • @kmcr1863
      @kmcr1863 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lost cause seems.

    • @maryjanejonez762
      @maryjanejonez762 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I am somewhere between hell and doing fine. I get up everyday, and just make my way.
      Glad to hear from you Cody! How are u?? I hope the sun is shining for u today!
      Thank u for ur presence 😊!!

  • @chucksmith8046
    @chucksmith8046 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Anyone that writes a song like that has to have hurt pretty damn bad and been in a deep place. I know I'm there now. My girlfriend of 18years died, 10 days later my best friend died then 2 weeks later my mom died 💔 😢 all unexpected. It sucks bad. I'll pray for you Arlo I feel your pain. Thanks for the song🎵

    • @melgibsonafter10beers
      @melgibsonafter10beers 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      For what words from a random stranger on the internet are worth, I'm so sorry. Nobody deserves to go through such horrific loss and pain like that. I hope you can eventually fight your way through that horrible pain. Keep fighting partner

    • @alexis1004d
      @alexis1004d 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Go further man!! It sounds like you are a very strong man. Go trough the days and live happy like they being watching you. I have not doubts

    • @scottmagill3044
      @scottmagill3044 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@melgibsonafter10beers q

    • @dwaneblackwell8731
      @dwaneblackwell8731 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Chuck Smith wow brother hate to hear of such losses my heart and soul goes out to ya. I've lost both parents a brother who was my best friend and lost best friends and now a girlfriend but not all close together as you have but I feel for ya my friend. May all their memories and laughs that you shared with them give you the strength and peace you need to get thru each day. My thoughts and prayers to you and family. God Bless & God speed.✌💪

    • @jakelandry5645
      @jakelandry5645 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Been there once. My brother, 6 months later one best friend, 8 months later my other. The world was a real lonely place for a hot minute

  • @GHELM-wp5yj
    @GHELM-wp5yj 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    I getn on you tube and look for videos such as this, makes me believe music isn't dead yet . You just have to look for it.

    • @OurVinyl
      @OurVinyl  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thanks for watching! Hope you'll subscribe to our channel. Think we might be able to help you find more of what you're looking for...

    • @joshrhyne2460
      @joshrhyne2460 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It finds YOU.......

  • @mthomas2558
    @mthomas2558 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Saddest song I’ve ever heard. Hauntingly beautiful. Says the things I couldn’t say. Woke up from a bad dream to a life I didn’t plan. Few things seem right most are wrong, but this song is a good one. Waltz in the kitchen with a beer in my hand

    • @vickiaaron7183
      @vickiaaron7183 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Bless you brother and I second everything you said

    • @tacticalteager7920
      @tacticalteager7920 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I agree. Simply cuz i could have wrote it myself. Perfectly describes how i'm an overthinker who deals with anxiety and this song triggered a break down for me.

    • @christopherpitt6317
      @christopherpitt6317 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The saddest one i just heard is called leaving up to me

  • @cmichael7162
    @cmichael7162 3 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    I know I’m not the only man that shead some tears listenin to this 🙏🏼 keep on keepin on man, the music will set you free

    • @willkateley9938
      @willkateley9938 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      His music is as beautiful as life itself ❣️ God bless ❤️

    • @devonsvensson6485
      @devonsvensson6485 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ur not the only one.. still ain't sober. Just so hard since the army.

    • @dennysautorepair946
      @dennysautorepair946 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nope you are not…

    • @hellbentholland1008
      @hellbentholland1008 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It wasn't/isn't a choice. Didn't wanna say or do shit. I lit a cigarette and a world of trouble in the mind pushed the clutch in with a bullfrog in my throat after getting this album, Arlo said with no negotiating, tears are comin. I shifted into 5th and put it on cruise and got in the right lane while I tried to remember the last time I'd cried or the last time I'd heard such a masterpiece. This song and this version right here makes me want to take a dirt nap but be glad I've got up everyday just the same and that's difficult

    • @keithsr.
      @keithsr. ปีที่แล้ว

      Correct

  • @brendaleewebber522
    @brendaleewebber522 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    When I am hurting i lash out its my way of coping with the lie's& the pain.💔. Anxiety is a true disease and some just don't understand!!!!!!!!!!!!NO ONE !!

  • @krzymoon
    @krzymoon 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Hope this song touches the ones that need this... please hang in there..come back to the fold of the ones that love and cherish you..this song is totally on mark!

  • @babybluz32
    @babybluz32 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Love that Steele guitar.

  • @ericviner3604
    @ericviner3604 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    just done chemo. then stem cell. i heard this song. could feel it leave my body. love it

  • @britfraley9861
    @britfraley9861 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    making OHIO proud Arlo! Love it.

  • @trenteggar1595
    @trenteggar1595 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I think this is the greatest song ever made..

  • @daltonilbery9646
    @daltonilbery9646 3 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    Arlo is one of the best artists to come out within the last decade. Incredible songwriter and singer. One of the best live shows I’ve ever seen. Can’t wait to see more off of Die Midwestern!

  • @luckymonkey1614
    @luckymonkey1614 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    As a man I was taught to keep my feelings inside but this song let's it out can't help myself

  • @logantownsend3710
    @logantownsend3710 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Die Midwestern is one of the saddest, but also one of the best albums of all time

  • @donnaosborne1259
    @donnaosborne1259 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    My brother lost his life to drugs fri and we are in so much pain this song he loved and it fits him perfect he lived with his demons for years and was finally getting his life back together but the ole devil got to him

    • @OurVinyl
      @OurVinyl  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So sorry for your loss, Donna.

    • @gunnergaming6425
      @gunnergaming6425 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      i just heard this song tonight for first time, ive listened to it maybe 20 times now , cried some , laughed some, this is a beautiful song prolly best ive ever heard, i felt this on a personal level deeper than any other song, sure your brother did too, we all just trying to make it til the hurtins done, may your bro rest in peace man.

  • @steveseeger3130
    @steveseeger3130 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    After years of self meditation (pills, cocaine,and alcohol) , memories still haunt... This song is So so powerful , actually cried and thanked Christ for loving me and helping me through it. Every day is a battle. Thank you Arlo for sharing your songs

  • @gunnergaming6425
    @gunnergaming6425 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Arlo I can’t get over this song man , i related with this song more than any other song in 34 years man I’ve listened to it 10x now at least . This is a “Tuesdays gone” competitor no joke. This takes the cake man thank you for pouring it like this . This song will forever be heard at least 4x a week til the Hurtin is done 🙏

  • @DanielGarcia-me5xv
    @DanielGarcia-me5xv 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Wow, just wow

  • @alittlelifewithalotoflove6427
    @alittlelifewithalotoflove6427 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This song makes me think of my son struggling with depression, anxiety and alcoholism and it makes me cry. I have tried so many times to help. I have nothing left. I'm so broken...for myself... for him. The pain is so overwhelming that now I hide with a smile and cry when I'm alone. I pray, one day, he will find his way back. I can't help him. I so want to...but there's nothing left inside me to give without completely breaking. Sadly, I wait for the phone call one day...any parents going through what I am knows what that statement means and are probably hiding their broken pieces like I do. I understand what he is going through. I myself struggled with addiction for many years and it took YEARS to overcome them. I think those of us who have struggled and then raised a child who is struggling, it hurts deeper because we know the real pain they are experiencing and how deep that hurt is...I would never wish that on anyone.
    What can we as parents do? We reach out, we are told things, made promises, we get our hopes up, we want to trust you that things will change now and then all over again we are broken into pieces...and then you become "the ghosts that still haunts us, we fight one by one, till the hurtin is done, till the hurtin is done"...

  • @briangateley4909
    @briangateley4909 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Make up my own Mind
    Ghost will always be there
    Chose to Fly
    Much respect Arlo McKinley

  • @adamkoepke1366
    @adamkoepke1366 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I’ve been suffering from horrible anxiety for years. So much so now that I have a hard time leaving the house. Words in this song gave me so much comfort and hope that things can get better. Thank you for this!

  • @heavensdesending
    @heavensdesending 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Damn this hits hard. I live this. Every day, I still boot up, slap a smile on my face and keep other laughing. I can't stand to see others hurting but I cant stop myself. Blessings to my therapist s and my docs for listening.

    • @teresacamp3365
      @teresacamp3365 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      The crap is real but this song and the comments shows we are not alone ! Love the boot up !

    • @ppdayz888
      @ppdayz888 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      BE~U~TO~FULL 🙌🤟✌️

    • @michiganmikeupnorth
      @michiganmikeupnorth 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      It isn't easy.

    • @wiseriverhealing
      @wiseriverhealing 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I did the therapy, doctors, and religion thing, too. I don't dismiss it at all because I have duel diagnosis, but the thing that really made a difference was talking to other addicts in recovery. NA literature says the therapeutic value of one addict helping another is without parallel. It's so true. Love you honey. It can be better!

    • @ppdayz888
      @ppdayz888 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@wiseriverhealing TY 4 U 🙏 this rings the bells 👌 went back to rooms bout 5 DayZ ago & met up with someone I swore was dead & the peeps there (along with the godsend of my therapist) stopped a BAD mainia 👍 Blessings Beyond Blessings 🙌

  • @deborahtarpley4959
    @deborahtarpley4959 3 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    You're song makes me want to keep trying God bless you

    • @tylermitchell5525
      @tylermitchell5525 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Felt that

    • @shawnessysmith7244
      @shawnessysmith7244 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@tylermitchell5525 👂

    • @darcyizzard3356
      @darcyizzard3356 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Saw the D thought did i write that already wow my thoughts exactly this morning even sober

    • @seaangelable
      @seaangelable 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Deborah Tarpley That's Awesome 💯🤘

    • @possumtit7394
      @possumtit7394 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Keep trying its worth it i promise

  • @matthewkelley4477
    @matthewkelley4477 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Gets ya right where it counts ....ugh...I love real fuckin country

  • @justinkessler8902
    @justinkessler8902 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Play that steel boy, damn

  • @christripp1268
    @christripp1268 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The only thing from Ohio I've ever liked..changed my option of the hole state...good music 🎵🎶

  • @deborahtarpley4959
    @deborahtarpley4959 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Still listening to this song should be a number one hit

    • @OurVinyl
      @OurVinyl  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for keeping it on repeat!

  • @jamesbarr9758
    @jamesbarr9758 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Man I fucked up on May 14th. I overdosed on some pills (accidentally) I snorted a little too much oxy and it stopped my heart. Long story short, I woke up a week later in the MICU on life support. Your song has made this grown man cry dude. Thank you sir, for your words.

    • @ArloMcKinley
      @ArloMcKinley 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Hang in there my friend. We are all doing our best to be our best. You are not alone in this

    • @heatherbynum2771
      @heatherbynum2771 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You got this, man. Keep strong. Everyone fucks up sometimes. 💜

    • @tonyamartin9413
      @tonyamartin9413 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Wow well said something similar to that just happened to me last month I'm 31 days here today sobar and alive god is good glad you still here my friend no don't give up cuz your journey does not end here yesterday is gone tomorrow's not here so let's just live for today and not worry about tomorrow...

    • @teresacamp3365
      @teresacamp3365 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Prayers for you sure hope you have the love help and support you need . Remember we never walk alone !

    • @williamogden7145
      @williamogden7145 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I hope you're well today, friend. My best friend overdosed a few years ago when I was living 3,000 miles away on the west coast. Cheers to you for sharing.

  • @dressedblacklikecash3752
    @dressedblacklikecash3752 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    My man! Outlaw Hymns! The boys on the block are still walking the streets to these lullabies

    • @OurVinyl
      @OurVinyl  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you for watching, Justin!

  • @debralogston4943
    @debralogston4943 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I cried more to this when I was using. Now I still relate, its a battle anyone who says it ain't. Has not suffered thru the why's of using anything. See he knows how to wait till the panic is gone. Hard to love an addict. God bless us all

  • @michiganmikeupnorth
    @michiganmikeupnorth 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I can't figure out how to like this 1M times. 😀

    • @OurVinyl
      @OurVinyl  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      We're just flattered you're trying. Thanks, man!

  • @lavery1118
    @lavery1118 3 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    Who the hell down voted this masterpiece?

    • @TheFeltmeister
      @TheFeltmeister 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me lol

    • @lovemissmuffylilyandrue
      @lovemissmuffylilyandrue 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Probably some little freak that has Justin Bieber and Miley Cyrus posters plastered all over their bedroom walls. You know, that type.

    • @estimatedoutlaw1183
      @estimatedoutlaw1183 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      people that like bro country

    • @ArloMcKinley
      @ArloMcKinley 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Love y’all ❤️❤️❤️

    • @terrymiller8612
      @terrymiller8612 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Idiots apparently

  • @voborny
    @voborny 3 ปีที่แล้ว +103

    Someone in the comments said this is "hauntingly beautiful" and I think that perfectly describes it. No matter what you've been through, you can still choose to keep fightin'

    • @theresasquirestheresa
      @theresasquirestheresa 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ONLY way to go!
      No flight HERE! All fight...

    • @michaelwalls5050
      @michaelwalls5050 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You rock my brother you remind me of my Uncle John anytime you need a backup man just look down I'm short sure here I am peace love and happiness

    • @michaelwalls5050
      @michaelwalls5050 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@theresasquirestheresa you go girl

    • @theresasquirestheresa
      @theresasquirestheresa 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@michaelwalls5050
      U rock my brother! The comment u made shows me ALL the good that u see in others is a reflection of the greatness in U.....

    • @michaelwalls5050
      @michaelwalls5050 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@theresasquirestheresa well i am pretty bad ass lol🤞🤛

  • @davidcobb1832
    @davidcobb1832 3 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    Just heard this song for the 1st time...how does a song just fit you so perfectly like this one does

    • @OurVinyl
      @OurVinyl  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      We're glad you discovered it with us. Thanks for watching!

    • @randyjero4664
      @randyjero4664 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You stole my thought

    • @johnrichardson9291
      @johnrichardson9291 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I couldn't agree more

    • @dandreher5679
      @dandreher5679 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Facts !!!

    • @darrylammons4446
      @darrylammons4446 ปีที่แล้ว

      Because you loved that Girl So Darn much!!!

  • @maniyan_wanagi
    @maniyan_wanagi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Awww, Jesus, Arlo...... I'm leakin' here. Brother, thank you - for being you, for talkin' truth.

    • @OurVinyl
      @OurVinyl  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      This is a safe space, man! Thanks for watching.

  • @shelbywilkerson235
    @shelbywilkerson235 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Wow! This song is for me after I suddenly lost my husband! Ive found still 9 yrs later the hurting is not done! Love this song Im more rock n roll and some country and this is one of those!

  • @jayallen7368
    @jayallen7368 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    20 yrs sober and clean . I struggle still everyday with depression and lately all i want to do is give up go back to self medicating

  • @dth1462
    @dth1462 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Lost my best friend (my Dad) on 6/28/21....that steel guitar and His voice / lyrics just rip my guts out and bring down the tears Everytime!! Its helpful in the healing so I've heard....i dont ever think this will heal!!
    Thanks for the hauntingly Beautiful song Arlo!!

  • @SINNERSPADE13
    @SINNERSPADE13 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    reached my soul brother thanks for the break of thoughts lost in the song ..........

  • @michiganmikeupnorth
    @michiganmikeupnorth 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    The struggle is real. Thanks for the tune Arlo.

  • @scottgagnon9451
    @scottgagnon9451 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Song smacks me in the face, what I'm dealing with now. Played it for my wife, she said was this written for you. Listen to that song and all his others everyday. Keeping me on the right road.

    • @OurVinyl
      @OurVinyl  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      We keep hearing again and again that Arlo has written so many people's story with this one. The power of music, man! Thanks for watching

  • @christyismoroccabeamer80s
    @christyismoroccabeamer80s 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    If we're honest, I think we can all relate. It's the truth...and he sings it so beautifully....absolutely perfection 💙

    • @OurVinyl
      @OurVinyl  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you watching, Christy!

    • @christyismoroccabeamer80s
      @christyismoroccabeamer80s 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@OurVinyl - Absolutely!! Thank you!:)

    • @jessicadean6845
      @jessicadean6845 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      th-cam.com/video/4fJk4GWCBHw/w-d-xo.html

    • @jeffholmquist182
      @jeffholmquist182 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Indeed one can only control themselves but definitely be raising all little and vibrations of everything with a 📳 and lighting what it is!!

    • @christyismoroccabeamer80s
      @christyismoroccabeamer80s 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jeffholmquist182 - not sure I understand your comment?

  • @huntershoemaker5743
    @huntershoemaker5743 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'm a good ole country boy from WV love it defiently hits the heart

  • @everythingrandom2237
    @everythingrandom2237 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Oh Arlo..
    Every lyric is like someone two stepping on my heart. I dig it though..I'm a musical masochist.

  • @deborahtarpley4959
    @deborahtarpley4959 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This song come at a time couldn't been more healing for me I almost lost my oldest son a month ago today they already had him on the helicopter he finally came around this is taking me down just know you're so gifted my son was to I'm so ready to give up but you're music brings me back for strength God bless you pray for my son

  • @jimbob7685
    @jimbob7685 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    We need to get his music to go viral

  • @tonyad1912
    @tonyad1912 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Oh my! So this really hits home.. I lost my brother to suicide 6 years ago.. he wasn't able to fight his hurtin.. wow! I just cried the 10 times I listened to this song back to back! LOVE this song! 💙

    • @jw393
      @jw393 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm so sorry for your loss

    • @ArloMcKinley
      @ArloMcKinley 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      🙏🙏🙏

    • @rockynone4515
      @rockynone4515 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sorry for your loss. I tried to leave this world a few months back it's hard for some. He's with you every day and now pain free 💗 stay strong

    • @tonyad1912
      @tonyad1912 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@rockynone4515 just know you have people in your corner! I will be a listening ear if you need one! Always remember you ARE worth it and you ARE loved! 🤗 Hugs to you!

    • @rockynone4515
      @rockynone4515 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@tonyad1912 Thank you for that. ❤️

  • @jayallen7368
    @jayallen7368 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    i use to self medicate but i made it 12 yrs now sober and clean . Everyday is still a struggle dealing with my aniexty and depression but if i can keep fight anyone can.

    • @OurVinyl
      @OurVinyl  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Keep it up! We're rooting for ya.

  • @elihammett
    @elihammett 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I can't figure out how to triple like this song.

  • @rachelbozarth6590
    @rachelbozarth6590 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This song hit my soul.

  • @schoolbonds986
    @schoolbonds986 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Caught Arlo recently as an opener for Lucero. I wish I could say I didn't drink so goddamn much that I could remember half the songs they played, but I'll be damn if Mr. McKinley didn't make an impression.

  • @jasonhughes3445
    @jasonhughes3445 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I lost my only son to cancer at 18 months. I received divorce papers after a 25 year marriage 2 years ago. I have been rescued twice from suicide attempts. I met a women after loosing every single little item in life. She gave me a the opportunity to father an unborn child with no father in sight. 8 months later I can feel it coming again.
    So I stand out side in the cold and the rain trying to make this shit hole of an apartment seem like a home. And listen to this song over and over and over again.
    Thank you for your honesty In the songs you play.

    • @fieldamoeba4047
      @fieldamoeba4047 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Jesus man. I hope every thing is ok. Music like this can save a life.

    • @watchingyourvideo8029
      @watchingyourvideo8029 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hope you’re good bud

  • @rhondawilliams13
    @rhondawilliams13 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    What a song! There is no one who stirs the soul like Arlo.

    • @markdruck
      @markdruck 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      You must not have heard of Zach Bryan then... He's the best out right now!

    • @rhondawilliams13
      @rhondawilliams13 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@markdruck I love Zach...you are comparing Apples and Oranges. There are lots of talented musicians...I am allowed to say who I think stirs MY soul and you are too. It is wonderful to have so many choices.

  • @greenbandit3132
    @greenbandit3132 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Him and Tyler Childers should duet together seriously 😁😁

    • @OurVinyl
      @OurVinyl  3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      As long as we can record & film it!

    • @greenbandit3132
      @greenbandit3132 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@OurVinyl sounds like a plan to me

    • @randomgeneratedusernam
      @randomgeneratedusernam 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That or Amigo the Devil 😝

    • @juliemeador7155
      @juliemeador7155 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      💯

    • @adamgregor105
      @adamgregor105 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      They are both playing at Healing Appalachia September 24 in Lewisburg WV.

  • @larryhatfield7372
    @larryhatfield7372 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I think this is the best steal guitar player I've ever heard

  • @estimatedoutlaw1183
    @estimatedoutlaw1183 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Arlo made me cry.

  • @SilversteinRescue
    @SilversteinRescue 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    "I hide from anxiety
    I never stay hidden for long
    I learned to self-medicate
    Then how to wait until the panic is gone
    So I hide behind smiles
    And whatever else gets me through
    I'm not knowing what's waiting for me
    Or what I ought to do"
    Damn. serious chills at that part. I'm on day 4 so the hurting is not quite done for me atm but I've been there and know what it feels like. Im so tired of numbing myself and running from anxiety and feelings. I need to heal so badly.

  • @scotthenry22
    @scotthenry22 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Pretending to be happy I'll make up my own mind tonight the ghost that still haunt me learning still I'm a mess but it's mine to decide till the hurting done mabey tonight as the tears stream down everyone's talking but Noone is saying a 🤔 this one gets me floating thank you for this one

  • @brendaleewebber522
    @brendaleewebber522 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm fine.No more hurting!!!!!!! It's my life .......Hits home and to my dearest Larry Wayne bubba you're no longer hurting rip my friend

  • @pineygoddard6081
    @pineygoddard6081 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    No more numbing the pain!!!! I am so much more than you think and way more worth it than you will ever know Praying one day you heal and stop crushing ppls spirits you can lie to everyone else but not to me anymore God knows it and sees it all and hes always watching and waiting for you JESUS heals

  • @matthewparsley795
    @matthewparsley795 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    A very great song. It's Easy to Hear Real in the hurtin is done

  • @climbtosafety4730
    @climbtosafety4730 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    That pedal steel! 🔥🔥🔥🔥

    • @OurVinyl
      @OurVinyl  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      SO good

  • @mikeschneider6520
    @mikeschneider6520 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Great song

  • @liberallife3077
    @liberallife3077 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I listened to this song and a few others each morning after doing ayahuasca in Baja, Mexico.. I can't tell you how much more things make sense. I can tell you that years of anxiety was released through the process and tears. Intention is everything.

  • @JoshuaOLake
    @JoshuaOLake 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Every damn time!😢 my dark little heart just shatters

  • @jamesrandall3396
    @jamesrandall3396 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Dude is gold. Local boy too. Gotta love that

  • @jeffholmquist182
    @jeffholmquist182 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    One has to love themselves indeed before anything else has a chance

  • @terrymiller8612
    @terrymiller8612 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    In the realm of some of the greats ever.

  • @mikkelandersen7788
    @mikkelandersen7788 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Dear Arlo. I just want to say thx for the music.👍 You, Layne and John Moreland has save my life. All the best from Denmark.

    • @newsnowbc1934
      @newsnowbc1934 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      You have good taste in two for sure, who is Layne and which song should I try first?

    • @datonbush4456
      @datonbush4456 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@newsnowbc1934 I'm guessing layne Staley? From Alice in chains

    • @KYbred270
      @KYbred270 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Layne also saved my life...so in his honor, my 4 year old son is named Layne. 🤘

    • @michiganmikeupnorth
      @michiganmikeupnorth 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Amazing artists.

    • @lindsayheywood7195
      @lindsayheywood7195 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nice to see Layne getting a mention here.

  • @nickwest932
    @nickwest932 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    First time hearing of this artist. Thanks for the music OurVinyl Sessions!

    • @OurVinyl
      @OurVinyl  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That's what it's all about! Thanks for the comment, Nick.

  • @americanmasonryllc2035
    @americanmasonryllc2035 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I heard this song the night I hit rock bottom. It hasn’t been long, but I’m learning to love myself again. I’m learning to love the people that have stayed in spite of it all. I came back today, 6 months clean and sober, to find the song so much more beautiful then it was back then.

    • @OurVinyl
      @OurVinyl  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      The comforting power of music 🧡 Thanks for watching and re-listening.

    • @damienwilson6610
      @damienwilson6610 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hope your still clean brother.

  • @johnsonj177
    @johnsonj177 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Man this song resonates, between tours overseas and struggling with suicidal thoughts and addiction back home this is my life….

  • @girthybrowns4489
    @girthybrowns4489 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This guy is the best therapist. Can’t stop listening.

  • @JoshWood1000
    @JoshWood1000 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love again N again N again N again

  • @vrychry
    @vrychry 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I just stumbled across this, and cried all the way through. I feel this to my core... Beautiful! Thank you for the music. I'm now a fan for sure.

  • @tiffanykristen4787
    @tiffanykristen4787 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I am struggling really bad right now. My husband of 8 years just up amd left with my kid unexpectedly and took my kid. I have no idea where they are at or even if they are okay. I picked up old habits and can't seem to cut it. I'm broken inside! This is beautiful!

  • @rickyhenry4958
    @rickyhenry4958 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This song hits deep

  • @Haymaker72
    @Haymaker72 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Glad I found this man awhile back. He sings to a part of you most can't reach.

  • @gunnergaming6425
    @gunnergaming6425 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Dude this is the most beautiful song I’ve ever heard man i related to this so much thank you

  • @MeganandShaneMusic
    @MeganandShaneMusic 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Simply AMAZING! Die Midwestern is hands down the best album of the last decade.

    • @OurVinyl
      @OurVinyl  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Such a great album. We've got more session performances of songs from that album to come!

    • @MeganandShaneMusic
      @MeganandShaneMusic 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@OurVinyl We can't wait. Hopefully we'll be able to do a session ourselves someday soon! Thanks for all that you do.

    • @ArloMcKinley
      @ArloMcKinley 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Thank you 🙏

    • @MRFUCR
      @MRFUCR 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ArloMcKinley Dude, thanx for the music , you say all the things I'm afraid to say , Dont ever change , we luv you Arlo

  • @jasondavis48108
    @jasondavis48108 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Arlo McKinley is an amazing song writer., and this song is one of his best. I've listened to it several dozen times today and I can't imagine gettin tired of it.

    • @OurVinyl
      @OurVinyl  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      We're glad you're loving this version, Jason!

  • @kodybradley6414
    @kodybradley6414 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I've always been been very infused with music that makes me feel what I'm feeling...
    Yours sir just took the number one spot

  • @bradleywatkins1247
    @bradleywatkins1247 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This Hits home it's crazy makes me remember what I had that still it's me everyday.

  • @christyzuni3307
    @christyzuni3307 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Omg.. My heart just sank...😭... I lost my brother to drinking just over a month ago... I had no idea what was wrong... I wish I could get those few days back... I'm lost... He always had my back always no matter if I fucked up or not... I miss you My Brother Mr. Mark Montoya

  • @tomh3877
    @tomh3877 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    A man who lived, a man who's cried, a mans who's music will never die

  • @kamikazedaprofit53
    @kamikazedaprofit53 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Arlo you awesome. I love your music it gives me back a piece of me I’d lost some time ago!!

  • @NeverBSame
    @NeverBSame 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Love this song....my ghost 👻 I'm still fighting but the hurting and heartbreak 💔 is almost over. Beautiful song brings my demons out so I can now laugh at them! Lessons we all learn embrace they made us whom we are! ❤💜🧡💛💚

    • @Melissa95387
      @Melissa95387 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hope ur ok 🥺❤️