6 SIGNS of ANXIOUS ATTACHMENT - how many do you have?
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 18 ก.พ. 2023
- Anxious attachment and the 6 signs of it - do you have symptoms of anxiety or anxious attachment or codependency then let's talk about it... what anxious attachment style do you have ?? MY BOOKS (in stores now)
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Childhood neglect and anxious attachement signs, I have them all. Struggling with myself at 40 but my psychologist is here to lend me her shoulder so that one day I can stand on my own and start to walk freely. Send you kisses from France. Merci Kati.
Me to a T!! I freak out when someone I love leaves me on read or doesn’t respond. Wonder if they hate me/if I’ve done something wrong that’s gonna make them leave.
Exactly same here. I too think that others hate me or I did something wrong if they don't reply back in few hours only.
I'm a recovering anxious type. I have had all 6 in the past. I have two that still linger. Seeing this validates for me that I'm getting better. As always, I appreciate your content.
Well, I just learned something new about myself today...
Yup one more 'diagnosis' added to my pile of disorders.🙂
Sounds like you have been reading my journal ❤
The intense independence is interesting here, too. I wonder if this overlaps with the avoidant style.
I believe avoidant attachment is a subform of anxious attachment. Hope it helps.
@@clara3322 it the same coin just different sides
@@amazingevolutions4415 ok. What is the overarching term then, that fits both? Insecure attachment?
@@clara3322 they both want to be close but fear intimacy. They both have not had their needs meant in childhood so anxious thinks they won’t get them met and avoidant thinks they can only rely on meeting their own needs and are bothered by the needs of the avoidant. I think they both also want independence. I’d say I am a mix of the both that’s why I can emphasise with the avoidant but I believe they see me more as anxious as I ask more questions, want to sort out issues and find resolution. Where they would rather ignore, deflect and make out everything is ok. It can be frustrating for both parties, tiring and draining. Not to mentioned disheartening as majority of the time there is a beautiful connection there and not just a sexual, sometimes not even that sexual.
@@amazingevolutions4415 Thanks! It’s useful to know, but it’s also sad.
Selfdiagnosis right there
Not me, but I couldn't help but think of Spinel from the Steven Universe series. :p
I am so so sorry for being off topic but i just found you through a clip on TheFitnessMashall's channel and the stark difference between that clip and your content is hilarious. Love your content so far though!
Thanks Kati. There is ALWAYS something wrong with us!
So you have tips to help us overcome, right???? 😅 😅 😅
WHAT DO I DO ABOUT IT 🥺
I can now recognize that I’ve out on a a few romantic relationships because I was afraid of emotional intimacy and commitment to them. I don’t know what to do when I’m so scared whenever someone expresses how they feel about me.
Bro/Sis, go to therapy! Please get the help u need.
Giraffe, panda, elephant, baby elephant and butterfly. It took me six attempts to find all the animals. I'm sorry I was distracted. But this was very interesting
got 5/6.. did i win? or do i need 6/6? :D
6 out of 6 for me. Thank you for sharing this.
Where did you get that shirt it’s amazing I gotta have it
Great, another thing I have to deal with
I felt so called out! But I’m glad I’m able to identify it now. May I ask for any advise to help me improve in this?
You are right
You've helped so much thank you
5/6
Anxious are often not the problem except for when being in securely controlling avoidant are often avoidant of the problem mainly cause they are the problem or the dont know how to fix it or dont want to. whereas anxious are often worried they are the problem but in most cases the only problem is that they worry to much regardless of the reassurance and the disorganized attachments or fearful are simply the ones that are both avoidant when it's that they are the problem and don't want to fix it and they are constantly worried not about the problem but about losing the control they hold over the problem.
4 out of 6
This sounds more like Avoidant instead of Anxious
I am sure I have this. Is there help? Self talk doesn't work sometimes. Just left a relationship with a covert narcissist. Where in my area?
Not me hitting every sign😂.
I wonder if that's why I already have people leaving before they have actually physically left. And put my wall up.
Bingo! I got all 6, what do I win?
🤣😂🤦♂️😭
I have all of those except toxic independence.
oh i got all these - i have to use DBT manual but the first page a due-zzZ-Zz - great video
Used to have all 6, but now I got 0😃 I'm free I did it woho!
I have all the signs
Holy f'n balls. All this time I thought I was fearful avoidant... But you just ticked ALL of my boxes as though you freaking KNOWWW me better than I've EVER let ANYONE get to know me!! 😅 Ha! It's funny cuz it's true!! 😂😭💔
This is me.
How do I change this???
Therapy.
That’s me 😅
What is toxically independent?
I'm going to say all the others are "I'm sick of being hurt in every relationship i enter". When did independence hurt antibody else?
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Wow I have them all, what's the treatment?
I have 4 of these. 😭
I scored 100% on this
What do I get 😭
I have them all 🤪😍🤩😍
holy shit.thats me to a t😢
me with disorganized attachment style 🤡
Same lol
Disorganized attachment ?? A combination of both anxious and avoidant ???
If so, then yeah that's Me.
@@suzanne4396 exactly that!!!
@@queenofgoldenhearts Thank you. I appreciate your input.
oh wow....I have issues. ..ugh
What if I'm only half of these?
i have anxious attachment 😒😩
Isn’t extreme independence am avoidant trait? Anxious folks seem more emotionally dependent on their people.
I have all the symptoms of this except the fear of abandonment so I'm a bit confused. What does that mean? I could literally careless if ppl wanted to leave me and half the time after a while I prefer it.
Symptoms of disorders can sometimes overlap. It could possibly be that yours fits another diagnosis. It's best to talk to a therapist or psychiatrist about it overall rather than diagnosing off an informative "might be" video
@@adamharrington723 yea that makes sense lol and I plan on getting help I'm just building the courage first 🤦♀️ thanks for your advice.
I just want to be left the fuck alone in peace
Can you do disorganized attachment next?
This is everyone by the time they are 25... wtf!
I turned 15 last week lmao this scary
@@JohnJohnLemon happy belated birthday!
People ask me for help all the time at work. In my experience as an adult barely anyone wants to do anything for themselves.
I never ask because I 'want to do it for myself' and honestly that level of independence makes life so much more difficult. Working something out for myself takes 10 times as long as just quickly asking someone.
@@AbhiBass96 thank you!!
6/6…uhhh
No need to learn signs, This is the connection of two no body knows about their love or not love.
Type shi
Well shit......😐
Uhh… ummmmm….uhh…. Well shat
A PPL Pleasing Toxicly Independent Woman?
Where to even begin with all that. FML
The worst part is when you believe yourself to be a more honorable Character than most too.
Psychobabble nonsense