why I choose to live a “boring” life (self-improvement hack)

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  • a “boring life” is a self improvement cheat code. A peaceful life is the best life, a boring life actually isn't actually boring it's fulfilling.. i'll let the video speak for itself, but i wouldn't want it any other way, especially in my 20s, as a young man its important to lock in and focus and have a "boring life" when you're in the process of building a better one. Let’s lock in.
    To my purpose driven brothers, this channel is for you. My name is Malique, I was born in Miami, and I'm 22 years old. None of that matters though, what matters is that we become 1% better each day and that we stay on our purpose. As I look around in the world many men drift like Napoleon Hill suggests, they drift away from their goals, dreams, and God given purpose. This channel is to help us men become non drifters, in other words help us become purposeful, disciplined, and truly masculine men. Expect multiple uploads a week to help you self improve.
    Connect with me on social media IG @maliquedlewis
    Email me forpurposedrivenmen@gmail.com for one on one consultations
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    I'm rooting for you brother, let's be great.

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  • @PurposeDrivenMen
    @PurposeDrivenMen  16 วันที่ผ่านมา +26

    a “boring life” is a self improvement cheat code. A peaceful life is the best life, a boring life actually isn't actually boring it's fulfilling.. i'll let the video speak for itself, but i wouldn't want it any other way, especially in my 20s, as a young man its important to lock in and focus and have a "boring life" when you're in the process of building a better one. Let’s lock in.

    • @NtandoyakheGaba
      @NtandoyakheGaba 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Eyo bro you're such an inspiration.. you really are God's messenger guiding the youth into light and the frank talk really rare these days.. keep bringing out the best In us the young'ns you guiding kings dawg

  • @MenAreNeeded
    @MenAreNeeded 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +18

    Facts! There is power in the journey! Society tells us we have to always live a fast paced life. Once you slow down, you realize the peace in being still! The silence is when you really Tap Into GOD‼️

  • @Svv_0le
    @Svv_0le 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    I’m claiming my overflow 🏆locked in 🔐📝

  • @Bassynater2500
    @Bassynater2500 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    It was a crazy life, as a musician it was all about looking hype, doing the most as much as you could. Letting people see you and admire your skill and your style but once I stepped back and spent time on myself I realized it wasn’t the lifestyle I wanted. Now I teach children and adults music for a living and it’s the most rewarding feeling.
    I used to always have to hang with people, another party, another show, another session but when I made it about 3-5 things mainly in my life, I really felt peace. I used to feel so anxious, depressed, nervous, insecure but I’ve never felt so proud and accomplished and finally feeling like I love myself in these past few years. It’s lonely, it’s basically my partner and me and a few select friends but we are on our grind and have that success mindset.

    • @PurposeDrivenMen
      @PurposeDrivenMen  15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      On the grind brothers! Thats what matters, proud of you 2 🔥🔥📈

  • @thegoldenchi1d663
    @thegoldenchi1d663 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Sacrifice the staying in bed in the a.m. , to go to the gym, Sacrifice the junk food, to be healthy, Sacrifice the partying and expensive shopping, to afford a car a home, or start a business..see where it gets you in 3 months, might change ya whole life 💯

    • @PurposeDrivenMen
      @PurposeDrivenMen  15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Might change ya whole life!! Facts 🫡💯💯💯

  • @Xyn04
    @Xyn04 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Were a rare breed for sure!!💪🔥

  • @cheese-st1tl
    @cheese-st1tl 8 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Minute 5:00 🤣the switch from drama to club..

  • @liteoreo
    @liteoreo 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Why does it have to be considered boring it’s just handling your responsibilities and taking care of yourself. Love this video . I still enjoy life happily married and trying to be the best husband and father I possibly can be for my family. My wife and I just started walking 3x a week and eating healthier meals .

    • @DeezyDesoto96
      @DeezyDesoto96 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      That’s how the masses look at it “ yall boring cuz yall don’t go out clubbing every night”

    • @DeezyDesoto96
      @DeezyDesoto96 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Fun time all the time is all most ppl want. When you go talking about being responsible and stuff it’s foreign language

    • @PurposeDrivenMen
      @PurposeDrivenMen  15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Facts! And congrats brother! Keep going 📈

  • @mizukagematt1186
    @mizukagematt1186 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Boring is protecting you 💯

  • @kingzelu5489
    @kingzelu5489 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Bro been watching for like a month now and man I just wanna say Thank you for being consistent it’s an accountability thing!
    Been growing with u from like 37k keep doing you mane💯

    • @PurposeDrivenMen
      @PurposeDrivenMen  15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Thank you for supporting from 37K bro! I appreciate that 🫡🙏🏽

  • @aKolkaa
    @aKolkaa 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I love the choice of the music here. I listened to your videos with “meditation, smooth, relaxing” soundtrack in it, and now it’s like a new level.

    • @PurposeDrivenMen
      @PurposeDrivenMen  15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Faster pace beat because I was talking so fast 😆 I’m glad you like it! 🙏🏽

  • @iisxxc9140
    @iisxxc9140 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Amen brother! Been watching you for a few weeks now, god has put your channel in my life. Love from Melbourne Australia

    • @PurposeDrivenMen
      @PurposeDrivenMen  15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Love from NY to australia brother! 🔥 thank you for your support 🙏🏽

  • @Javien
    @Javien 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    The consistency is undeniable!

  • @Armageddon580
    @Armageddon580 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    This “boring life” is actually what one needs to grow. God calls us to be set apart. People want excitement always. They need to change the way they think.

    • @PurposeDrivenMen
      @PurposeDrivenMen  15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Exactly fam! Speaking facts 🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @muratcanbaylan8173
    @muratcanbaylan8173 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    On a walk listening to you brother

  • @XTheSpartanX7
    @XTheSpartanX7 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    One of my favorite channels right now

    • @PurposeDrivenMen
      @PurposeDrivenMen  15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I got the best supporters in the world, appreciate you bro

  • @joshuataylor-gates-b6l
    @joshuataylor-gates-b6l 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Blessed I found your channel I follow and have watched 1000’s of vids on mindset/growth and I definitely resonate with your words!
    You remind me of Jim Rohn when you say “stay inside” 😂
    One love bro ❤️

  • @user-pw2vy2xh6d
    @user-pw2vy2xh6d 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Amen to this

  • @wizardofthewest6761
    @wizardofthewest6761 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I listen to your videos everyday. Got me motivated. Appreciate the insight

    • @PurposeDrivenMen
      @PurposeDrivenMen  15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      You got this fam I’m glad I could help 🙏🏽

  • @KieranTDavis
    @KieranTDavis 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Definitely another banger!! Im feelin the new background music

    • @PurposeDrivenMen
      @PurposeDrivenMen  15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Appreciate you bro 💪🏽🔥🔥🫡

  • @DeezyDesoto96
    @DeezyDesoto96 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Big Sean said it best - “ i done sacrificed my own time I done sacrificed my own grind, i don’t sacrificed the club life, i done sacrificed my love life” And another one when he said “ i done gave away free time knowing time ain’t free, bump it i sacrificed it “

    • @PurposeDrivenMen
      @PurposeDrivenMen  15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      FACTS! 🔥🔥🔥 one of my fav songs from him

  • @AustinFL
    @AustinFL 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I’ve been feeling like I’m living a “boring” life recently. But I have not had a problem with it. I’m locked in, focused on educating myself, digging deep, finally bringing my true potential to the surface and becoming the person I aspire to be. I’ve wasted so much time and potential by hanging out with the wrong people, people who aren’t in that growth mindset. I needed to see this video. Thank you for all you do, brother. We all making major moves this year. 🙏🏻

    • @PurposeDrivenMen
      @PurposeDrivenMen  15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Major moves brother! And sometimes elevation requires separation! 💪🏽

  • @user-ki2tg3qf4j
    @user-ki2tg3qf4j 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Thanks Malique for your videos, I really appreciate it. God bless you

    • @PurposeDrivenMen
      @PurposeDrivenMen  15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      God bless you too brother 🙏🏽

  • @JordanHolloway-u7h
    @JordanHolloway-u7h 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I’m 26 and your vids been helping so much man. God bless you brother.

    • @PurposeDrivenMen
      @PurposeDrivenMen  16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      God bless you too brother 💪🏽

  • @mouctardiallo9062
    @mouctardiallo9062 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Thanks for dropping these wisdoms Man

  • @shotsbybentlyy9807
    @shotsbybentlyy9807 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    That video was everything to those who know.

  • @KnockturnalGaming247
    @KnockturnalGaming247 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Man I'm 28. My bro you are definitely a blessing to men. Much love keep grinding

  • @MikelJeanBaptiste45
    @MikelJeanBaptiste45 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    This Is Facts Bro Bro We Are Purpose Driven Men Self Improvement!!!

  • @strawhatnunu
    @strawhatnunu 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    dawg you just be getting straight to the point ☝🏿

  • @ethanhauge8209
    @ethanhauge8209 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Btw, I really like the background music! It's a nice touch imo

  • @KelGoated
    @KelGoated 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Ayee u growing like crazy🔥

  • @fred2405.
    @fred2405. 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Big 50k💯💪

    • @PurposeDrivenMen
      @PurposeDrivenMen  15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Appreciate yall! Thank you 💪🏽🎉

  • @ethanhauge8209
    @ethanhauge8209 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Love my boring life. Me, my future wife, our dog, cat, and families. I still see the boys every now and then, and luckily we're all the same way where it doesn't matter if it's been a week or a year, nothing but good vibes. Stay blessed everyone

    • @PurposeDrivenMen
      @PurposeDrivenMen  15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Stay blessed as well brother! Love my boring life too 💯🔥

  • @ethanhauge8209
    @ethanhauge8209 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    You reminded me that I made a Vanguard account a few months ago and haven't invested into it in awhile. Some of my next paycheck is definitely going towards that

  • @BananaDashboard
    @BananaDashboard 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Pls make a video about how to free yourself from judgment 🙏💯

    • @PurposeDrivenMen
      @PurposeDrivenMen  15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Definitely 🙏🏽 for now watch this one th-cam.com/video/r70hAoIkfb0/w-d-xo.htmlsi=7cxUbn-u-ugiwsrI

  • @Ironaddicts137
    @Ironaddicts137 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Locked in an growing 🔒

    • @PurposeDrivenMen
      @PurposeDrivenMen  15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      You know it 💪🏽🔥🔥

  • @donovanngelale5450
    @donovanngelale5450 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    💯💯💯

  • @Lesean_wilson
    @Lesean_wilson 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Same brother, same.

  • @BananaDashboard
    @BananaDashboard 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Shout-out to the 50k mark💯📈

  • @GrimReaper369.
    @GrimReaper369. 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Great video brother! God bless you. The background music was too loud, and don’t really compliment the mood of the video, just a lil feedback

  • @chrissilewis366
    @chrissilewis366 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    🙏🏽

  • @LiftedNoise
    @LiftedNoise 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    🍻

  • @ze-fear7023
    @ze-fear7023 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    you got me thinking about creating discord account, just to join your group

    • @ze-fear7023
      @ze-fear7023 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      50k 🎉🎉 channel is growing crazy!!

    • @PurposeDrivenMen
      @PurposeDrivenMen  15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Appreciate you brother 🙏🏽

  • @arjungogana7196
    @arjungogana7196 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    nah we need the piano music

  • @professorfinnih
    @professorfinnih 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I miss the original soundtrack already!

    • @PurposeDrivenMen
      @PurposeDrivenMen  15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      It’s in there! 17 minute mark 🔥🔥

  • @ohboiherewego6831
    @ohboiherewego6831 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    What does your diet look like?

  • @derek3459
    @derek3459 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Please put the peaceful instrumentals back I like it more, you don’t have too tho that’s just my opinion

  • @nevillelewis9206
    @nevillelewis9206 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Step out in faith.

  • @Liqo315
    @Liqo315 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    I rather live a boring life than a toxic life🧘🏿‍♂️💫👁

    • @PurposeDrivenMen
      @PurposeDrivenMen  15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Facts!! Peace over problems 💯

  • @whytho_o
    @whytho_o 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    What mic do you use in ur videos?

  • @oogieboogie3337
    @oogieboogie3337 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    You sound so much like Steph is Cold

    • @PurposeDrivenMen
      @PurposeDrivenMen  14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Got a lot of respect for Steph, shout out to him bro. Also, we just come from similar environments 💯👌🏽

  • @cementdrip3968
    @cementdrip3968 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    bro looks so zesty on the right of the thumbnail

  • @John-Dough_NineFoe
    @John-Dough_NineFoe 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Are you by chance a saggitarius

  • @rmz2820
    @rmz2820 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    The background music is not it brother

    • @PurposeDrivenMen
      @PurposeDrivenMen  15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Appreciate the input bro 🙏🏽

    • @rmz2820
      @rmz2820 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@PurposeDrivenMen don’t get me wrong love your content though keep doing what your doing!!

  • @DaKidd335
    @DaKidd335 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Not a fan of the music in the background bro

    • @PurposeDrivenMen
      @PurposeDrivenMen  15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Appreciate the input bro

    • @DaKidd335
      @DaKidd335 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@PurposeDrivenMen no prob bro keep up the great content !

  • @bigpancho22
    @bigpancho22 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Man who you telling ma dukes swear up and down to get out and live life but , it dont interest me it never have i don't smoke/drink either so why be outside where that's happening

  • @ptkettlehatsandthegang
    @ptkettlehatsandthegang 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    14:42 Look I bet this comment won't get pinned or like but if replied I'll do 10 push ups which won't happen I hope.

    • @DeezyDesoto96
      @DeezyDesoto96 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Tighten up brother

    • @Bassynater2500
      @Bassynater2500 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Hit the floor ten more brother, rock that stuff 💪

    • @PurposeDrivenMen
      @PurposeDrivenMen  15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      You got this bro 🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @EkataConfidence
    @EkataConfidence 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I love your humility mentor ❤ 🫂🙌

    • @PurposeDrivenMen
      @PurposeDrivenMen  15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Appreciate you fam! Let’s keep being great, we got this ❤️🫡

  • @imjustzangi
    @imjustzangi 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    50k woah ain’t nobody deserve that more than you malique 🤍

    • @PurposeDrivenMen
      @PurposeDrivenMen  15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I appreciate you bro! Since day 1 🤍